My Celibacy Story of 3 years (part 1)

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  • @HINDZSIGHT
    @HINDZSIGHT  3 роки тому +190

    this is a 3 part series , links to part 2 & 3 in description + I added book links in description. Love Ya'll

    • @JoseDior_
      @JoseDior_ 3 роки тому +2

      loved this video. thank you brother

    • @eliashelali
      @eliashelali 3 роки тому +1

      Give thanks for sharing your journey. Stay blessed

    • @hannahlewi1234567
      @hannahlewi1234567 3 роки тому

      0

    • @mrwilsonian7348
      @mrwilsonian7348 3 роки тому

      Love you back

    • @savkstevens
      @savkstevens 3 роки тому +1

      @hindz This may sound like a weird question but do you drink coffee? When thinking about celibacy, alcohol, food, energy, and vibration I’ve been looking into the affects of caffeine on our energy as well
      Thanks for this video so glad I can across your page brother 🙏🏾

  • @taylorwatson7321
    @taylorwatson7321 3 роки тому +1023

    After you get pass the “urge” it’s honestly not that bad You start to realize how society throws sex into everything like that’s all people think about.

    • @erickt8732
      @erickt8732 3 роки тому +17

      Sex, Take away you energy. And BLOCKs you EVOLUTION!!!

    • @IS33U
      @IS33U 3 роки тому +9

      For me , the urge is still there ...it’s like a program running in the background (3 years now). When I hear the conversation/games , I realize I’m doing it for the rights reasons... But sometimes that itch needs a scratch- I just can’t get w/the bull going on with dating these days.

    • @GlamGarb80
      @GlamGarb80 3 роки тому +24

      As a woman, I’d just like to know if the urge will ever stop hitting me so hard when I’m ovulating. Omg it’s terrible! I’ve been celibate since May 2017 and it’s been pretty easy for me because I never liked sex anyway, but when I’m ovulating I be thinking about it all day everyday 😂😂😂😂

    • @tinicoleofficial
      @tinicoleofficial 3 роки тому +2

      Facts!

    • @divinezo6212
      @divinezo6212 3 роки тому +2

      Factsss

  • @moonkoral1009
    @moonkoral1009 3 роки тому +838

    I just haven’t had sex yet lol. But I never realized men could have this type of self control. Growing up, men were illustrated as dogs... this is a nice change of pace

    • @Klissaura
      @Klissaura 3 роки тому +11

      so true

    • @JusDion
      @JusDion 3 роки тому +69

      Whats a man if not a male with self control?....everyone with a dick is not a man.

    • @Ala-zl3oh
      @Ala-zl3oh 3 роки тому +50

      Trust me love , theres a handful of men out there that’s doing the damn thing to better themselves within. It’s sad the norm is to call men dogs and trash etc but that is what we see 25/8 cause real gets overlooked....

    • @lurkwave
      @lurkwave 3 роки тому +23

      Its funny because Woman tend to paint men in this light yet Woman are equally as likely to be promiscuous. I am on my journey of not necessarily celibacy, but might as well be because I choose not to be in a relationship.

    • @foreveryactionthereisacons1683
      @foreveryactionthereisacons1683 3 роки тому +2

      @@JusDion 💯👏👏👏

  • @trinarogers5436
    @trinarogers5436 4 роки тому +283

    Avoid drinking and putting yourself in weak areas that may cause you to fail

  • @trinarogers5436
    @trinarogers5436 4 роки тому +320

    I feel like when you don't focus on how long you been going without sex and you focus more on what is important in your life. You don't even realize you going with out I say after a month but not at the beginning.

    • @HINDZSIGHT
      @HINDZSIGHT  4 роки тому +12

      this is true

    • @seeyanuhhs.7372
      @seeyanuhhs.7372 3 роки тому

      verrrry true.

    • @snoozyq9576
      @snoozyq9576 3 роки тому +1

      Yea I realised it had been 9 months recently and went wow I didn't even notice it'd been that long because I've been doing so well!!

    • @vickymoshi6038
      @vickymoshi6038 7 місяців тому

      Me 3 years and counting...

  • @ChrisAlta
    @ChrisAlta 4 роки тому +410

    **Our tools become obstacles when we don't know how to use them.**
    BARS!!!!!

  • @magimarionbeale679
    @magimarionbeale679 4 роки тому +579

    When you are celibate ,you become extremely attractive ,it's not an intention ,it just comes with the package

    • @punchn9001
      @punchn9001 3 роки тому +22

      You ain’t even lying 😂

    • @blackpillaudrius3015
      @blackpillaudrius3015 3 роки тому +10

      I dont think so '' if your not willing to transcend sexual energy throgh work out your value will go down depend on the foods you consume which is scary '' I given up porn and i still fap but not as much as I used too but I know its wrong but it keeps me balanced because I was on semen retention I couldnt handle the social pressure

    • @AmaLoveGoddessTV
      @AmaLoveGoddessTV 3 роки тому +23

      Because you're unattainable

    • @blackpillaudrius3015
      @blackpillaudrius3015 3 роки тому +12

      @Fast Internet retaining was part of christ plan for man kind '' because when you dont your easily manipulated by chicks and also that shows your eyes and skin ''

    • @blackpillaudrius3015
      @blackpillaudrius3015 3 роки тому +17

      @Fast Internet yes but damn you do know porn messed up many males minds including their sexual standards when you watch that shit '' you start to find fat chicks attractive for some stupid reason but in the world it the feelings you've got you dont receive back '' you give but you dont receive back same in return '' I notice that in my life

  • @rayvenrhea1555
    @rayvenrhea1555 3 роки тому +98

    I’m 19 years old and I’m celibate when I tell that to most boys they run, watching this video gives me endurance knowing that there are men who are also celibate..

    • @GlamGarb80
      @GlamGarb80 3 роки тому +12

      Yeah don’t let them fool you. Men will wait for you and a lot of them respect celibacy.

    • @xiomanaxoxoxo3212
      @xiomanaxoxoxo3212 3 роки тому +4

      I wish I was a virgin until I was 30 . I held out until 21 but there are so many regretful sex partners I wish I could erase them .

    • @unculturedbeats5147
      @unculturedbeats5147 3 роки тому +3

      19 and on the same journey Godspeed haha

    • @unaestheticarri6487
      @unaestheticarri6487 3 роки тому +3

      Same girl! It feels good to know I’m not the only 19 year old going celibate. I seen this toxic TikTok by a guy saying if she becomes celibate it’s a red flag Bc how much sex was she having to make her want to stop. And honestly I was in a relationship majority of the time I was doing it and after both ended I felt that it was so sacred to just give to anybody especially when I felt that the people that I once sexually connected with never deserved me. so you got this girl and Ignore these dudes bc they just give themselves and there intentions away every time they run at the term celibate 😭🤣

    • @halycon4923
      @halycon4923 3 роки тому

      Hey, it's a positive thing because those boys likely only wanted the sexual part of the relationship over anything else. That way you're only accepting people in your life that understand you and vibe with you. It's important to hold up our own values not just because it's an important part of self but it also takes away all that is not welcome in your life, sets boundaries.
      Goodluck on your journey, may you thrive in your path ✧

  • @tjuana111
    @tjuana111 4 роки тому +497

    Sex opens door to negativity...when you link with a person and engage into sexual acts both spirits attach each other...that’s how soul ties are created.... Alcohol comes from the Arabic word “al-kuhl” which means “BODY EATING SPIRIT” so imagine lol
    God bless you brother! Great video

    • @HINDZSIGHT
      @HINDZSIGHT  4 роки тому +38

      Miss Mocca wow didn’t know that about the Arabic word..thank u!!🙏🏾🤎

    • @tjuana111
      @tjuana111 4 роки тому +2

      HINDZ your welcome😉

    • @rondeniro
      @rondeniro 3 роки тому +3

      Thanks for sharing that about alcohol. Learned something new 🧠

    • @tjuana111
      @tjuana111 3 роки тому +23

      @Morpheus lol I obviously didn’t create the word
      Just passing the message lol shouldn’t bother u

    • @tjuana111
      @tjuana111 3 роки тому +27

      @Morpheus lol obviously it bothered you
      Well my dear friend if someone is wise or not it’s really none of your business unless you are a hater lol
      You obviously got some issues within yourself that you need to work on.
      Let ppl shine focus on your light ;)

  • @alexis25
    @alexis25 3 роки тому +129

    I’ve been celibate since November 2017. Chopped all of my hair off shortly after I made the decision. And everything toxic began to fall off my life (friends, damaging thought-patterns, unhealthy relationship, etc). It was almost like a rebirth, inner healing began.
    Best decision I’ve ever made outside of following Christ. 🙏🏾

    • @brionnaedwards8967
      @brionnaedwards8967 3 роки тому +4

      Just wanted to encourage you in your decision to follow the Lord! I think that's awesome and I'm really happy for you, sister in Christ!

    • @alexis25
      @alexis25 3 роки тому

      @@brionnaedwards8967 Thank you so much 💕

    • @ashley_brown6106
      @ashley_brown6106 3 роки тому

      All glory be to God🙏😇

    • @GrayMattr
      @GrayMattr 2 роки тому

      👏🏼

    • @yahisenough2137
      @yahisenough2137 2 роки тому

      Amen sister. YAHISENOUGH

  • @raquelita3833
    @raquelita3833 3 роки тому +248

    4 years of clarity awareness and purity! I don’t even want to satisfy myself because I don’t want to waste my sexual energy...it’s like I’m storing it up for something lol

    • @erickt8732
      @erickt8732 3 роки тому +8

      Smart!! Keep going!!

    • @browallia8964
      @browallia8964 3 роки тому

      good for you congrats! how many months since not satisfying yourself?

    • @ruggsparch2787
      @ruggsparch2787 3 роки тому +6

      Does being celibate really change or make you better? Or are you deluded by it? Serious question.

    • @brysontheghostgaming9218
      @brysontheghostgaming9218 3 роки тому +15

      You’re a female. You don’t store up sexual energy every month it gets depleted when you hit your cycle. For the last time you can’t build up energy over time as a man can because you don’t have seminal fluid. But what you do have is time to pick a better partner and clear your mind of sexual thoughts and acsend the self

    • @brysontheghostgaming9218
      @brysontheghostgaming9218 3 роки тому +10

      @@ruggsparch2787 yes especially if you’re a man. Everyman should be celibate and retain his seed until he meets a good woman. Also it’s said to have a healthy child a man should not ejaculate for 3 months before impregnating his wife.

  • @kaylah714
    @kaylah714 3 роки тому +252

    I’m a 26 virgin, all glory be to God. I’m glad to see people breaking away from what seems to be the “it” thing to do.

    • @campanita6711
      @campanita6711 3 роки тому +17

      You’re so lucky 🍀 I could never be a virgin even if I wanted to. It was stolen from me since I was 4 :/ it’s still inspiring to see people be disciplined though ❤️

    • @kaylah714
      @kaylah714 3 роки тому +14

      @@campanita6711 sorry to hear that.😔

    • @campanita6711
      @campanita6711 3 роки тому +12

      @@kaylah714 it’s okay, *therapy helps and also videos like this that shows me people are still true to themselves ❤️

    • @stephieroberts3
      @stephieroberts3 3 роки тому +18

      Im 23 and I'm not a virgin. You've done the right thing.

    • @jollygoodgordon5580
      @jollygoodgordon5580 3 роки тому +3

      Same and I’m a male

  • @alex-eo4so
    @alex-eo4so 3 роки тому +109

    Wow. About 5 years ago I decided to go cold turkey with marijuana, alcohol, and partying. Fast forward a year I decided to go celibate(3 years celibate) A year after that I quit smoking cigarettes cold turkey. That whole time period 100% strengthened me as person and I am so proud of the Will Power that I hold and have manifested.

    • @natascha.anastasia
      @natascha.anastasia 3 роки тому +1

      Wow👏🏻 Step by step I’m working on this too. Love the inspiration 💜

    • @alex-eo4so
      @alex-eo4so 3 роки тому

      @@natascha.anastasia Sending much love to your journey of self.🙏🏽❤️

  • @lalalaism1
    @lalalaism1 3 роки тому +47

    There needs to be a celibacy dating app 😫 I’ve been celibate most of my life. Never really had that strong body desire to make me attracted to a stranger. It takes several months of knowing someone to even feel a little attracted to them. I just want companionship. Sex brings in a lot of complication that is not necessary for love and friendship.

  • @meditativedestinations3117
    @meditativedestinations3117 3 роки тому +217

    Life put me on a course of celibacy. Initially, I had NO intentions on being celibate. My heart was severely broken my someone I loved deeply. I went through a melt down where I didn't even want or desired to be touched by anyone else... Honestly, not even desiring my own self satisfaction. There truly is something uniquely interesting about this journey. Just being totally honest here... First thing I noticed was the purity of my natural private scent. Afterwards, I grew into this stance of NOT wanting to share myself with anyone deemed less than capable of a true and worthy commitment. Now that Im a year in, I ENJOY this original me that's morphing!!! This me, I'd long forgotten... Immature and unexplored, but AMAZINGLY and surprisingly empowering. I think I'm going to look into this celibacy thing some more. I'm NOW intentional about being this way😍.

    • @keepingthefaith1368
      @keepingthefaith1368 3 роки тому +7

      You’re so right about the natural scent! That’s the first thing I noticed as well.

    • @revolutiontimez
      @revolutiontimez 3 роки тому +1

      @@keepingthefaith1368 natural scent in what aspect?

    • @DoulaAlanahK
      @DoulaAlanahK 3 роки тому +2

      WOW!! Your story is mines right now & thanks for sharing! 💜

    • @HouseOfLabelle
      @HouseOfLabelle 3 роки тому +2

      This is what im going through right now

    • @godizself1
      @godizself1 3 роки тому +4

      Every woman has her own scent down there. When you are sexually active you can initially smell the change in your armpits (real talk) and down there. Even if you are truly cognizant of your own body cleanliness routine. Of course your nutrition, vitamins and water is significant in the taste and scent of the noni. Anything that enters you, shifts pheromones and your natural chemistry. Here's the formula:. (1) taste & smell your own noni before sex, after sex. (2) Take 3 months hiatus from any sexual activity. (3) Drink alkaline water. (4) Use unscented liquid soap on the noni. (5) massage after shower shea or Mango butter daily on the noni for suppleness and returning to natural tightness. (6) Weekly checks on the smell and change in scent. You'll even notice no scent noni after a vigorous workout.
      All of this change and you don't even have to be plant based. Imagine what a fruit and plant based noni would manifest. Tell me how it works for you.
      Men's testicles have a scent, some not so well. Small his balls before a fresh shower. That scent is mixing with yours. There you go.

  • @Wintersno
    @Wintersno 4 роки тому +216

    I'm 23 and two years into my journey --- on my birthday it'll be three years! Thank you for sharing your journey

    • @HINDZSIGHT
      @HINDZSIGHT  3 роки тому +9

      oo blessings to the journey 🙏🏾

    • @Wintersno
      @Wintersno 3 роки тому +1

      @@HINDZSIGHT many blessings! thank you!

    • @laurentkevin4689
      @laurentkevin4689 3 роки тому +1

      @@Wintersno My celebacy for life never kiss women

    • @JusDion
      @JusDion 3 роки тому

      So you're still dating?

  • @tinacooper1782
    @tinacooper1782 5 років тому +335

    Mom's watching and Mom's better than ok with this subject, proud beyond words:-)

    • @Jellyclaws221
      @Jellyclaws221 4 роки тому +10

      Are you his mom?

    • @hollatchagirl100
      @hollatchagirl100 4 роки тому +13

      He and my son could definitely pass for brothers! Smarter than average, and energy is important! I just finished a book on celibacy... can’t wait to see how it does. Not money wise but in knowing who’s interested🙂

    • @lexip8021
      @lexip8021 3 роки тому +1

      @@hollatchagirl100 Hi, is your book available online? I would love to read it!

    • @hollatchagirl100
      @hollatchagirl100 3 роки тому +3

      @@lexip8021 Oh how I appreciate you! My cousin is helping me get it published soon. She has a book out on Amazon with her son. I will come back here and let you know. Thank you so much for inquiring!🙂🙂

    • @n.mourad2848
      @n.mourad2848 3 роки тому +1

      @@hollatchagirl100 keep us posted please. Here my email even if you would like to keep me posted that way
      !!! > (nmouradsl@gmail.com) < !!!
      All the power to you! Wish you nothing but wisdom, growth, and success on this path of yours ! 🙏🙏

  • @cosmicbrownie333
    @cosmicbrownie333 3 роки тому +43

    I’ve been celibate for a loooong time and let me tell ya! Sexual energy can very easily be transmuted into creative power. So many people get their energy taken away without realizing it by not being mindful of the power of root/sacral energy. Kundalini awakening becomes so much easier once celibate (an alkaline diet helps too). Makes dating so much easier too! A repellent for losers & time wasters.

  • @tiaratyson
    @tiaratyson 3 роки тому +189

    I honestly have been feeling convicted to start celibacy after experiencing a huge breakup and recently feeling exhausted from having such meaningless sexual interactions with men for the sake of their gain or satisfaction. This video is exactly what I needed and I’m so happy I stumbled upon it. I recently learned I am Demi sexual in the sense that I need emotional and intellectual connection before I can engage in sex so this further affirms the fact that I need to practice celibacy. It’s right up my alley. Thank you.

    • @diosa.loba333
      @diosa.loba333 3 роки тому +3

      May you have a magical celibacy journey ✨ I've been celibate 11 years and honestly learned and feel it is the key to life.

    • @taketherisk4310
      @taketherisk4310 3 роки тому +2

      Do it !!! Its the best decision I've ever made. It's going to have its obstacles but what you get out the experience is worth it.

    • @snoozyq9576
      @snoozyq9576 3 роки тому +1

      Honestly I've barely noticed it! Don't miss it like I thought I would because I'm focusing on other things! ☺️

    • @honeylove7075
      @honeylove7075 2 роки тому

      You got this 💜

    • @hannahkendziora1809
      @hannahkendziora1809 2 роки тому

      thank you for this I didnt know there were was a word for that demi sexual, I am as well !!!!

  • @stelsewhere3748
    @stelsewhere3748 3 роки тому +62

    "Our tools become obstacles when we don't know how to use them" that hit me. I felt that.

  • @eternalbutterfly8888
    @eternalbutterfly8888 3 роки тому +54

    I went through literally the same. From chaos to bliss. Celibacy, sobriety, raw diet, spiritual advancement, and expanding consciousness. 🖤💜🖤

    • @lrrich8023
      @lrrich8023 Рік тому

      The raw diet part. How much of a difference in energy or thought clarity did you notice?

  • @BlackMarkGoldridge
    @BlackMarkGoldridge Рік тому +9

    I remember declining sex from a girl I was seeing one time and told her that I'd like to know her a little better before we let the relationship reach that point. After mentioning that to my friends, they looked at me funny. I tried explaining to them that sex is a very important thing for me, and as long as our energies aren't compatible, then nothing will ever happen. I wasn't celibate around that time, but this has made me realize that this is a path I should've started a very long time ago. I must say I'm looking forward to starting the journey because I really do need to see a sense of growth in my life. I need to see some change. This has been one of those things that I've been pestering myself to start doing.

  • @morgantg1
    @morgantg1 3 роки тому +37

    i've been celibate for over a year and feel deeply peaceful & grateful for this opportunity to heal my womb, my energy, and reclaim my body with true love and devotion for myself.

  • @Divine_ness022
    @Divine_ness022 3 роки тому +19

    This video came to me at the right time. I’m ready to start my celibacy lifestyle. Weed, alcohol, sex, food....I realized I used all of that as a distraction, I was distracting myself from who I actually am.

  • @erickt8732
    @erickt8732 3 роки тому +115

    I bean celibacy for 8 years and is amazing, more wisdom.

    • @charchar7897
      @charchar7897 3 роки тому +7

      For sure. Celibacy heightens your spiritual awareness. It's hard to go back the other way.

    • @browallia8964
      @browallia8964 3 роки тому +6

      i have been 3 years now in celibacy, more wisdom more energy, in my opinion real celibacy is without partner and without self satisfaction.i think its almost impossible for someone to not get into self pleasure in so many years.

    • @erickt8732
      @erickt8732 3 роки тому +3

      Pussy is not important any more. Just focus on myself

    • @freebernard3473
      @freebernard3473 3 роки тому +7

      8 years hell nah

    • @perrinwillis4194
      @perrinwillis4194 3 роки тому +2

      Hahaha y'all wylin! I think this is only for those who can't control themselves. You simply need only be conscious of your feelings and actions to be more spiritually focused. This shit is bogus.
      Most of you fools are still jerkin it to foul porn lol Good luck out there!

  • @EvaWright
    @EvaWright 3 роки тому +63

    I have heard so many men in this day say "they can't be celibate" but the truth is most of them simply won't try because of too many choices. Personally, on my journey, I have been celibate since 2013. No reason other than feeling a need for purity and calmness in my life. Studying tantra helped make my decision and I know it was the right one.

    • @ad0906013
      @ad0906013 3 роки тому +1

      Does celibacy mean not indulging in sex or even masturbation?

    • @laaa210
      @laaa210 3 роки тому

      @@ad0906013 yes

    • @riccodacci
      @riccodacci 3 роки тому +2

      I think it’s because of how much it becomes a habit to men their day consist of attaining sex money and materials cycle the thought process from a young boy to and adult male and you realize the young boy never grew up💯

  • @MRLCHM
    @MRLCHM 3 роки тому +42

    this is the coolest thing i have ever experienced on here. when i decided to consciously begin my journey of celibacy last year, i also completely stopped drinking, smoking weed, recreational drug use (mainly shrooms and things of the sort). and then i just did not want to eat meat, dairy and highly processed food and eventually began fasting too. it seems that conscious choice led to me making better decisions for my physical self. and i slipped up once, all at once after 9 months (in december) just to see if i really did not want sex, alcohol, meat and weed anymore and it somehow helped me know, absolutely know, with conviction that celibacy is somehow an anchor for me that influences other decisions I make. i'm just so moved by the similarities in how it all began for both of us :) i can see myself where you are now (in this video) in a few years to come and i cannot wait.
    much love and gratitude from south africa.

  • @toothfairy9420
    @toothfairy9420 3 роки тому +23

    As an Asexual woman I never thought about how much energy sexual people put into sex and sexual thoughts. Ive never had sexual thoughts about another person so its really interesting to hear about this!

    • @brushstroke3733
      @brushstroke3733 Рік тому

      Have you ever had sexual thoughts about an inanimate object, like a bedpost?

    • @broderickgk
      @broderickgk Рік тому

      Dang there's really people like this? How is that possible? Have you been castrated, chemically, physically?

  • @ubaok24
    @ubaok24 3 роки тому +72

    I'm almost 6 years in my celibacy journey. I'm still working on cutting out processed foods

    • @elbert3987
      @elbert3987 3 роки тому +1

      6years 😳 did you get any benefits?

    • @ubaok24
      @ubaok24 3 роки тому +23

      @@elbert3987 my mind is clearer. I don't look at women in a lustful manner.

    • @Shedlyhikey
      @Shedlyhikey 3 роки тому +1

      @@ubaok24 congrats

    • @valchung296
      @valchung296 3 роки тому

      That's amazing!

    • @onthatilebentley5942
      @onthatilebentley5942 3 роки тому

      GOALS!!!

  • @khall6265
    @khall6265 2 роки тому +9

    I'm Crying. Sorry. I literally got on my knees and "Said a Little prayer for Me" before I typed this. This is the 1st time I've spoke out loud regarding being celibate and I'm extremely sensitive even saying the word out loud to myself. My husband of almost 30 years had a heart attack and died in front of me and after more than 5 years I'm just now saying both out loud and I'm the only one in the room. I have focused on anything and everything except getting thru it and The Real Housewives are not doing it for me any more.. I feel like its time that I say the word but its scary even saying the word celibate and it's hard talking about sex and the death of my husband in the same breathe. I am saying this now to connect with someone else going thru the same. My heart is still broken and I can't hold back tears even typing this. My children are grown and living their own lives and maybe this will help me move forward with living again, I don't know yet and I might not for a while or longer... The dots are just not knowing the right words to say, if there even is a right word. My heart goes out to anyone that has gone thru a life changing tragedy of the kind. Losing someone you love so much just knocks the wind out of you and I feel like I had to learn to breath again, if that makes sense. I think I'm calling this little paragraph "Said a Little prayer for Me" because I've said so many little ones to help me thru it. I have to trust in God that he will help me thru this too. I saw that most of the views in here were over a year ago, maybe my journey is still to be celibate and thats okay too, I hope this message gets to at least one person going thru this and when I say a little prayer for me I'll say one for you too.

  • @yearofthegarden
    @yearofthegarden 3 роки тому +107

    I went four years without sex, avoiding women to focus on my business and mental health. I did end up feeling reclusive, and getting back into a relationship was nervracking. The girl I got back with was a bad choice and I regret giving her my energy as she turned out really toxic and used me.
    As soon as we broke up I was over her and happy to be back with myself, so self driven and motivated.
    It's unfortunate that society is so sex driven, it's hard to be with a woman and deny them sex, I've lose two relationships that way, but I've gained much self respect. Though I miss intimate touch and am back to women because at age 34, I want to start a family. Hopefully I am guided through the proper way

  • @matejmestrovic55
    @matejmestrovic55 3 роки тому +106

    Brother has a tree in his room. You know what's up... Stay clean Brothers

  • @CorbalianVoss
    @CorbalianVoss 2 роки тому +7

    Celibate and alcohol and drug free for four years now! Life is so so so good and I agree, it’s unbelievable how drink and sex are literally thrown into every aspect of society

  • @akinyaoriyomi
    @akinyaoriyomi 3 роки тому +17

    I’ve been celibate for about 3 months but I’ve been self pleasing and even that is coming to the point were I don’t even get anything from that so after watching this video I’m going to begin my real journey...

  • @muwosim7753
    @muwosim7753 3 роки тому +17

    I’m embarking on my 1 year abstinent journey 🦋 sending you love & light

  • @kimiko_111
    @kimiko_111 3 роки тому +18

    21 Months into my journey and I don’t miss it at all...I wish I had did this years ago but then again I was a different person back then to who I am now. Everything happens in the right time🙏🏽

  • @veggietherrien
    @veggietherrien 3 роки тому +8

    My relationship with my partner started after he had been celibate for 9 months and i had been for 6 months. Not celibate by choice as much as a byproduct of preserving ourselves from situations/people that didn't add to us. Best relationship ever.

  • @mantsolefa7608
    @mantsolefa7608 3 роки тому +12

    Almost 3 months on my celibacy journey. I am feeling so good. 😊😊😊👌👌

  • @michellemaina4806
    @michellemaina4806 3 роки тому +19

    “Our tools become obstacles when we don’t know how to use them”
    This just changed my whole perspective

  • @baileymorgan635
    @baileymorgan635 3 роки тому +8

    I am about a year abstinent now and it makes me realize how careless i was prior. Soul ties r no joke. Still trying to break from one. One day at a time and prayers

  • @Chloe2000mm
    @Chloe2000mm 3 роки тому +8

    I'm going into my fifth year of being celibate. In the past, I have only engaged in long term relationships, but there was always some major flaws with the dynamic, in spite of how good it looked to people from the outside. I've had my heart broken and I've done the same to one or two others, It's not so much that I am afraid I will be on the losing end if I embark on another one. It's more that I devoted so much of my mental and emotional energy for years and now I want to direct it towards other things. Even then, while the relationships were happening, I knew deep down inside that I should have been applying that time and energy toward my own creative endeavors, but I was afraid to and so I developed long term distractions. Now that I am intentionally single and plan to remain so indefinitely, I am able to focus on my own creative goals and intellectual interests. It's been very rewarding and I can only imagine it will get better as time goes on. Thank you for sharing your story. I suspect there are more of us than most people would believe.

  • @girasolmagico6430
    @girasolmagico6430 3 роки тому +11

    I just feel so much more hopeful towards men after watching this. I have been wanting to take a journey with celibacy and become more in tune with my own sexual energy. Feeling the pressures/influence from society around sex is so real, but to see a man TRULY understand this and put so much thoughtful intention behind controlling his sexual energy....wow. I'm just glad you exist lol and grateful that you are sharing this journey with us.
    Congrats to you!

  • @Allergic2broke
    @Allergic2broke 4 роки тому +53

    I'm on day 30 of my celibacy journey. I just ordered the book on eBay n after shipping and tax total was 11.11 👀

    • @HINDZSIGHT
      @HINDZSIGHT  4 роки тому +6

      alignment lol blessings to the journey brotha

  • @mielalucia7662
    @mielalucia7662 2 роки тому +5

    I'm growing through this process now, the feelings you describe - the attunement to energy, the reconnection to feelings from childhood - reintegration of self - is so real. Nice to know I'm not alone in this intentionally isolating journey. Bless

  • @Iamolivialondon
    @Iamolivialondon 4 роки тому +72

    yes! i feel back to my purity now. its like Dr Sue Morter talks about in the energy codes. Our energy gets dispersed when focused upon shit thats not of our core frequency. i think the sex and weed can be re-introduced later once we're consciously aware of how and why we're doing it. It has be to very intentional

    • @HINDZSIGHT
      @HINDZSIGHT  4 роки тому +7

      mmhmm yeah intention is key for sure

    • @shannonkuch4942
      @shannonkuch4942 3 роки тому +2

      It seems like a dangerous thing to reintroduce though ;p

    • @Iamolivialondon
      @Iamolivialondon 3 роки тому +3

      @@shannonkuch4942 naa hunny. It's only dangerous if you expect / perceive it to be something dangerous. So many people have unique experiences with weed... some people it saves lives medically... others it helps to achieve a centered level of consciousness and others it just bugs them out for some reason... its all personal. At the same time, it not something everyone needs to do, we all got the freedom of choice!

    • @shannonkuch4942
      @shannonkuch4942 3 роки тому +1

      @@Iamolivialondon Yeah it’s you’re life. I’m not stopping you. You do you.

    • @Iamolivialondon
      @Iamolivialondon 3 роки тому

      @@shannonkuch4942 LOOOL facts

  • @Dedicateddad4ever
    @Dedicateddad4ever 2 роки тому +5

    I’ve been celibate for eighteen years this February 2022. Best thing I ever did for myself, my family and others around me. Thanks you for your video. Keep on doing what your doing.

  • @Itsanangell
    @Itsanangell 3 роки тому +23

    3 years and two months celibate and counting. Self control is great and I automatically know if a man is truly meant for me or not. I can tell if they're here for the journey or the season.

  • @kyliecoston5581
    @kyliecoston5581 3 роки тому +13

    After watching this video, every time I have a lustful thought, I close my eyes, step into my mind and enter into a room where there’s a canvas & envision myself painting... what a rush of energy when I do this!🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @TheBurdenBearersHub
    @TheBurdenBearersHub 3 роки тому +20

    Today makes it 30days on Celibacy..
    I've been able to focus more on achieving my goals.

    • @vickymoshi6038
      @vickymoshi6038 7 місяців тому

      30 days😂..
      Keep going..
      Me 3 years......

  • @melissamelchor2753
    @melissamelchor2753 3 роки тому +5

    INSPIRED! I decided I’m starting my celibacy journey today. Let’s get it

  • @freequincee
    @freequincee 3 роки тому +8

    Oh my, last night I was watching your videos where you had 95k, this morning you’re at 106k! You’re touching so many souls with these beautiful messages. God bless you 💛

  • @kunalmahagade1046
    @kunalmahagade1046 4 місяці тому +1

    Thanks, buddy, for everything
    I am gone start my celibate journey

  • @leyybby
    @leyybby 3 роки тому +14

    I so agree, sex is a mental physical and emotional act. So beautiful to share your story. Blessings to you on your journey back to self!

  • @AkwaIbomDoll
    @AkwaIbomDoll 3 роки тому +8

    I’m 6 and a half months in and my life has changed so much already! my days are so intentional and productive and I’ve gotten so much done in such little time. The clarity that celibacy gives you is unmatched imo 👏🏽

  • @Onthegrindmedia1
    @Onthegrindmedia1 3 роки тому +15

    This man is Glowing, good job brother kudos.

  • @SjonnyBB
    @SjonnyBB 4 роки тому +32

    Aye man, love your vibes and energy. I’m 18 and starting my journey too and I feel like every man should start this journey of self as well. +1sub

    • @HINDZSIGHT
      @HINDZSIGHT  4 роки тому +7

      ur way ahead of the game , good for you..blessings to the journey

    • @yash-wk2wm
      @yash-wk2wm 2 роки тому

      How you doing mate ?

  • @leighn.8670
    @leighn.8670 3 роки тому +5

    Been practicing this for a year and a half. In raising my consciousness and healing myself, I have developed a better understanding of sacred sexuality.

  • @queen_of_3kings720
    @queen_of_3kings720 3 роки тому +2

    Thank for for answering the biggest question I have on masturbation and celibacy, One Love!

  • @Comebellamarella
    @Comebellamarella 3 роки тому +11

    “Just me & ma smoothie” so cute lol

  • @narcisabuda9089
    @narcisabuda9089 3 роки тому +5

    This shift is striking. Your manerism, the way you talk, everything is different from 2021. What a transformation! Thank you for sharing your journey!

  • @aixacoats4628
    @aixacoats4628 4 роки тому +7

    I was exhausted from a relationship with negative man and fake friends.3yrs celibate for ME. Clear, calm energy. ThankYou for sharing 💛😘

  • @esmieadele8865
    @esmieadele8865 3 роки тому +14

    i turned to sex when i was extremely sick and in and out of surgeries... my relationships were killing my soul and at 20 years old im waking up to a sober and for at least some time, celibate life. Sickness is sobering and forces a deep self knowing! Thank you for sharing your journey🙏

  • @ninasmallz
    @ninasmallz 4 роки тому +13

    Sounds like you’ve tapped into a lot awesome Buddhist methods that help you connect with self. I’m still a novice but the information is deep. “If you master your mind your life will fall into place” Lao Tzu. ❤️

  • @Jojoyou628
    @Jojoyou628 3 роки тому +2

    Celibate 3 years now. It changed my life completely.

  • @veetrilla
    @veetrilla 4 роки тому +16

    This is soul food thanks for sharing your experience with the world 🦋✨

  • @AkiyahJibade
    @AkiyahJibade 3 роки тому +20

    We needed this. The world needed this information coming from a person of your background. Thank you for the information and continue to thrive

  • @yahnix7262
    @yahnix7262 3 роки тому +8

    That's great!!!! This sounds like my journey into celibacy from relationship to learning to love myself. It's been 4years since I been celibate. It has woke me into a new spiritual being and opened my mind to so many things. Before that I stopped drinking over 5 years ago and it's been one of the best journeys. Thanks for your story

  • @svirgo1224
    @svirgo1224 3 роки тому +8

    I love this. I went into celibacy without realizing it really. Than I saw I gradually let alcohol go. I am 3 years celibate today, kinda cool. Sn, I do want to add I am making better decisions with my life including relationships.

  • @francescaselvaggio1337
    @francescaselvaggio1337 3 роки тому +4

    Wow I love this especially coming from a man, we need more of this. Sex is sacred and so are people.

  • @zebraadams3445
    @zebraadams3445 4 роки тому +4

    It has been tremendously refreshing hearing about this topic being expressed from a male’s perspective. I applaud you on your celibacy journey and how it has been a catalyst for a domino effect of positive change to occur in your life. You are truly an inspiration to all men and women in our generation ☺️ I’ve actually been practicing celibacy for the past 3 and a half years and I can truly say that it has been the best decision that I could ever make for “MYSELF”. My journey started off with me just trying to connect more to my spiritually but I had no idea what else God had in store for me in regards to my path because of it lol I’ve been able to learn a lot about myself and instead of running from my battles I’ve been able to face them head on and have been blessed with more discernment now in regards to people, places, things and situations that should be brought into my life and rid of out of my life. It truly has been an amazing experience and journey ❤️

  • @lifeinthetreehouse
    @lifeinthetreehouse 3 роки тому +6

    I'm so glad and happy you made this video, after trying to cultivate relationships they always fell through and I realized I just crave connection not the other stuff. So this just opened my eyes to something that feels so peaceful and correct for my soul. Thankyou so much 💚💚💚

  • @dinerosuave
    @dinerosuave 3 роки тому +7

    I don’t remember how long I have been into it but god knows it’s bebe awhile and I can say wisdom and creativity comes with it and it’s amazing , I get flashes of images it’s hard to explain but I’m sure who ever understands knows ,what’s understood doesn’t need to be explained

  • @deneidrarainey2699
    @deneidrarainey2699 3 роки тому +4

    I have learned so much about myself as a Spiritual being having a human experience over the past three years of abstaining from sex. It’s a journey that I’m taking my time on. I’ve been able to purge people, food and activities that don’t serve my higher self. Becoming a vegan was very transformative. I feel like a caterpillar going through its metamorphosis to a butterfly. Thanks, Hindz, for sharing your journey. 💗💓

  • @WobblyGroulx
    @WobblyGroulx 3 роки тому +2

    My sense of self has been such an ambiguous confusing internal issue lately. I’m comin’ up on 25 and I feel like I’ve lost so much of what makes me, me, over the last few years. Happy to hear you sharing, man, I don’t really have people in my life that I know how to share this with, so i appreciate hearing some of my inner dialogue being experienced. Really trying to cut so much crap out of my life, and I’m working towards being so much more connected internally and externally. Much love, Hindz.

  • @anamacklis2355
    @anamacklis2355 3 роки тому +3

    I spent 6 years on celibacy and it was amazing!

  • @arissumin1420
    @arissumin1420 Рік тому +2

    I come back to this every once in a while just to remind myself

  • @ash-el2sy
    @ash-el2sy 3 роки тому +3

    just started reading Taoist Secrets of Love and synchronistically found your channel (UA-cam spyin probably). I am so grateful! Thank you for your journey and sharing your experience. I have decided to start this celibacy journey and allow all the toxicity to drop away, to live in bliss and share Love. You are an encouragement to humanity, thank you.
    Peace.

  • @shanellvioletslecarr2689
    @shanellvioletslecarr2689 3 роки тому +3

    After experiencing celibacy for over 2 years now, It is refreshing learning the thought processes and growth, behind this series, from a male perception. Celibacy is not widely embraced by men however the potential to benefit should be by those( both women and men). I want to experience the book and Im happy to see inspiration from a man in celibacy finally
    -Shanell Cali

  • @ImageofTanen
    @ImageofTanen 5 років тому +10

    Thanks for sharing supreme! Definitely reflective of the journey I've been on. Lust being such a stronghold on my life, celibacy has been a tool I've recently been utilizing to fully return to center. Much love!

    • @HINDZSIGHT
      @HINDZSIGHT  5 років тому

      SpiriTrek love brother. All the blessings to you & your journey. Thank you for tuning and and connecting. I give thanks 🌱

  • @olivialivv5566
    @olivialivv5566 7 місяців тому +2

    Wow listening to this in 2024❤ youu inspire me

  • @RealMikail777
    @RealMikail777 3 роки тому +7

    Found this perfect timing. Peace be with you brother

  • @lhp2657
    @lhp2657 3 роки тому +5

    Listening to you has me so Immersed, so many things I relate to in this. Sometimes it’s very hard to connect with men on a friendship level, because their minds do go straight to sex. And with that being said it can be very isolating. I just became celibate a month ago, and was celibate for 8 months a year ago. I’m really grateful I’m going to be looking within, and attracting friendships with people who respect my decision.

  • @ad6449
    @ad6449 5 років тому +31

    Deep brother. Much gratitude for this sharing of how the commitment to celibacy was a commitment to self and Self and the deep changes that came along with this. This distinction between abstinence and celibacy is really important actually as it moves us from unconsciousness to consciousness. This is the first step in harnesses our free will/agency and energy towards something larger than ourselves. Be blessed brother. We are here with you witnessing your journey and applying the wisdom to our lives.

    • @HINDZSIGHT
      @HINDZSIGHT  5 років тому

      A D love brother and a beautiful way of words here. Thank you for this reply

  • @mistica9833
    @mistica9833 4 роки тому +5

    Thank you very much for this video! I've been thinking about celibacy for sometime, to grow within, and this was very helpful. Im almost a month celibate, 2 weeks off weed, next steps alcohol, and cigarettes. I want to vibrate on a much more clean devine energy, and one day find a partner, but my focus is myself and my children my goal is 1 year maybe more depending on how I feel!!! Thank you for this!!! 🙏🥰

  • @BurstShotzX
    @BurstShotzX 3 роки тому +76

    I wish I didn't lost my virginity, I did it for the wrong intentions and I was 26 at the time. So respect to people who walk this path after, even if they did have sex. There is something about being pure that you can't get back after sex.

    • @noshadownolight
      @noshadownolight 3 роки тому +12

      This happened so you could become your true self, don’t be so hard on yourself brother❤️

    • @AmaLoveGoddessTV
      @AmaLoveGoddessTV 3 роки тому +29

      Sex doesn't make you impure.

    • @noshadownolight
      @noshadownolight 3 роки тому +14

      @@AmaLoveGoddessTV you completely missed his point

    • @browallia8964
      @browallia8964 3 роки тому +2

      in my opinion to be pure(sexual) means no sex and no masturbation. kinda hard to do for a healthy person.

    • @ruggsparch2787
      @ruggsparch2787 3 роки тому +2

      I haven’t had sex but really want to especially when o see hot girls in London! Unfortunately I’m Indian and girls don’t like short indian guys. Next life I wanna reincarnate as a white or black guy 😭

  • @AncientlightInsights
    @AncientlightInsights 3 роки тому +3

    I got to make a video on my 2 year Celibacy! This is a great topic to help others understand why we do it, and the incredible benefits from it! Glad to see more people into Celibacy which leads towards the True Higher Self!

  • @MeghanRidgell
    @MeghanRidgell 3 роки тому +9

    Wow- thank you, thank you, THANK you for being you and doing this. This is a beautiful and NEEDED story. Look at all these men and even women who are inspired by your story! I love to see it. Keep using this and other platforms to shra love and knowledge with the world. I will be doing my story on celibacy soon on my channel because it is SO needed to talk about. You are truly amazing. Thank you again!!

  • @Iamolivialondon
    @Iamolivialondon 4 роки тому +7

    bruuhhhh your speaking my life right now... i cant even hold down chinese right now and iLOVE chinese... i'm loving the smoothies and lemon water with ACV

  • @OdysseyTransformations
    @OdysseyTransformations 3 роки тому +7

    Immense gratitude for sharing this part of your journey with us.
    This was everything I needed to tune into at this moment 🙏🏽

  • @lornaelizabeth6290
    @lornaelizabeth6290 3 роки тому +2

    In my younger years sex was a weapon to seduce and to control from both men and myself, an addiction to feel validated!
    I am now nearly 40 and my 30s have been very different. Sex now is about love and sharing something sacred. Needless to say it’s been a rarity, an act i havent indulged in. I was celibate for three years.. before I met and indulged a little with someone I thought was a sacred connection, sadly not on their part.... it’s now been another two years of celibacy. I am happy and content.... it’s amazing what we turn to for validation, sex food drugs etc!
    Here’s to shedding... growing and wholeness ❤️
    Great content x

  • @TheGracefulGlowup
    @TheGracefulGlowup 3 роки тому +5

    When you said “moving the
    Energy from lower chakras to higher chakras” That reminds me of the energy codes. Have you read that before? I wonder if that’s what you’re referring to.

  • @leannalovins
    @leannalovins 3 роки тому +2

    New to your channel - I love the message and vibes you’re sharing with everyone publicly. This pandemic has taught me to be more in tune with my body & mind, and those things were telling me enough. I started running, became sober, started eating vegetarian. It takes only one positive change to make the ripple effect. And what you said about feeling that child within you again is so true it made me cry. That really resonated with me since becoming healthy and I didn’t realize that’s what I was feeling.

  • @Iamolivialondon
    @Iamolivialondon 4 роки тому +29

    i'm at this point now.... i'm not feeling creative or confident and i've naturally noticed i don't want to have sex or smoke ganja anymore

    • @lurkwave
      @lurkwave 3 роки тому +2

      Ganja is a big one. I used to consume every day and lost myself. Recently I consumed a small bowl of weed and appreciated it so much more.... And i wont be touching it again for months

  • @lewiswih
    @lewiswih 2 роки тому +1

    For some reason, your videos resonate with me more than anyone else's. Dr.'s talks, lectures, gurus, entertainment -- whatever it is that I watch -- this is the best of the best. There's just something about it, man. I love it. Thank you, HIndz.

  • @Tshegomlp
    @Tshegomlp 3 роки тому +39

    Why would this be in my recommendations right now?? God's such a Comedian 😅🤞🏾

    • @the_zuri_nutritionist
      @the_zuri_nutritionist 3 роки тому

      Dude... Tell me about it!!! I'm like what? How???!!! Shame aneva ke be celibate nna!!! 😂😂😂

    • @slimmythahippy
      @slimmythahippy 3 роки тому +1

      Ayo 😂😂😂. No kizzy

    • @Tshegomlp
      @Tshegomlp 3 роки тому

      @@the_zuri_nutritionist 😂😂 mara what if it'll help you and then save you from a lot of unnecessary experiences?

    • @carlynmccary7557
      @carlynmccary7557 3 роки тому +1

      he is!! i literally just got through praying about this and it popped up in my recommended 😅

    • @GoodLifeLena
      @GoodLifeLena 3 роки тому

      GIRL!

  • @ozzie8800
    @ozzie8800 3 роки тому +2

    So inspiring to see so many people in the comments on the same journey. I feel life has been guiding me to be celibate I’m only 5 months after breaking 1.5 years because I felt like a loser not having sex in my 20s (can’t explain social/ peer pressure). Even 5 months in I would self pleasure here and there usually when I was high. Now this video has encouraged me to do it properly and focus on my higher self. Thank you everyone x

  • @larita2160
    @larita2160 4 роки тому +4

    Honored to say I've been celibate for 4 months and no marijuana for 4 months. I haven't let the alcohol go but I feel stronger mentally.

    • @HINDZSIGHT
      @HINDZSIGHT  4 роки тому

      gradual process, congrats on the progress! that's beautiful and great to hear

  • @anaamphora6841
    @anaamphora6841 3 роки тому +3

    I'm in this for over two years now, mostly because of my last relationship that pushed me to this journey of self discovery 🌺, but never really decided to do it fully and for a certain amount of time. I'm so glad you mentioned how important it is to maintain celibacy even in our thoughts towards someone, because through this period I could notice my mind and energy going towards sexuality very fast with many men I encountered, even without my intention of doing so, like an urge to be close and in love. And I think it's mainly because I never really set an intention for total celibacy, but now I am. So gratefull for this info, much blessings to you! 🙏🏼✨

  • @whyDUSTY
    @whyDUSTY 3 роки тому +1

    You're talking from my heart there. Had a very similar experience. I was in a relationship and heard about semen retention and I ressonated with it. Then after the relationship, I also quit weed and tabacco and very soon started to care more about my diet, about what I eat. And I was eating a looot of sweets back then. Now I don't eat sweets anymore and living vegetarian. Quitting weed, tabaco and not having sex or masturbating really transformed my energy. I also relate to the "I got rid of all the toxic friends" expression, because as you said, I got very sensitive to vibrations and energy. So I didn't feel like hanging around with them anymore.
    Thank you for this video, I will watch the other parts aswell. This is so helpful 💚

  • @hafiz7611
    @hafiz7611 3 роки тому +3

    Your voice is so clear and succinct and resonant! Production quality is through the roof for what your subscriber count is too! Keep up the amazing work homie, greatness is coming!!! 🔥