“Letting go” does not mean forgetting them and denying that they existed. “Letting go” is to accept that they were a part of our lives before and helped us grow through experience. Be grateful for their appearance in our lives, than them for the experience they brought you. Send them love and support like you would to yourself. I love my ex and he loves me. I am thankful for our times together. It didn’t work out but we still learned so much from each other, that is our soul contract. Lead with love.
Wow. I’m still at the stage of recovery and gotta say it must have taken quite some time for you to write this and I hope someday and really soon I can feel this too, to finally let it go and feel free again
I’ve been broken up with this girl for almost a year now and Til now I’ve cut her off completely (social media and everything else) so that I could create a safe space for me and move forward. But now I can’t shake the want to have her in my life even as friends. I get conflicted by this thought because it goes against everything I’ve done to get to this point of recovery, but I can’t also can’t stop thinking that it was because of bad timing that it didn’t work out for us. I try to bury the thoughts and honestly it just doesn’t work out. Any advice..
@@MYDonutHol3 honestly, there is no advice. The only thing you can keep doing is keep working on yourself, on being the best version of you for YOU. It seems like you’ve been doing that, so keep at it. Thoughts are powerful, but understand that sometimes things leave our lives to make space for better situations. It’s ok to feel the way you’re feeling, that’s what makes you human. Let yourself feel, don’t let that feeling control your life though. I’m going through a breakup right now, and after a month apart I realize all the things I did wrong, and this is forcing me to grow and be better (40% for me 60% for her- prob a bad way to see it but I’ve been changing). I wish I could share my growth with her, but you can’t force anyone to be with you. All in all, she will forever be a part of you and be grateful for the memories you have, and for the lessons you have learned through the journey and its end. Good luck man, wish you the best!
But if it is work out and he doesn't take stand agaist his family not. Give a try at least and still you don't know he loves you and not but you love is so pure for then it is very very difficult to let. Go i think 😶
This was so inspiring and a true change of perspective. Thank you for commenting this, I look forward to making this my new view on the break up I just went through.
" Just because it didn't work out the way we thought it would, doesn't mean that it never played out it's purpose. " That one hit hard. It takes a strong person to come to that realization and acceptance. Hindz, I thank you 🙏🏼❤️
HINDZ Always brother, been trying to watch your vids at least 2-3 times a day, you've helped me relearn myself and work on my healing process. Without I was literally in such a depressed state. So thank you 🙏🏼
It's actually eye opening to see that men feel the same energy we woman feel after a breakup. I always felt replaceable to my exes. It always felt like everyone who split apart of me just moved on with no problem whatsoever so I never actually ever thought that some men would feel a separation as much as I do as a woman. That was eye opening for me. Thank you for this experience.
Yeah but I also think men with his level of EQ are super rare. A lot of men might feel strongly, but they don't recognize and contemplate and understand those emotions at the depth that he is. This shit is rareee among men.
I don't think @Kas ia is saying that she thought men didn't relate BECAUSE they're men. But because men often hide these expressions or simply don't know how to analyze and communicate about them.
I just recently had this epiphany. Every significant relationship in our life was a reflection of a certain aspect of ourselves. When we have a hard time releasing them it's truly an aspect of ourselves that we are having a hard time releasing. This is why forgiveness begins with you.
“Last love of mine” taught me how to love myself. After break up I understood that no one is responsible to make me happy, we are already whole and complete. Even when i’m alone, i still can feel love within me. This is such a beautiful realization. I don’t need someone to feel love. I am okay alone. But if i meet reflextion of myself someday i am still open. Live is beautiful❤️
Acknowledging the love makes a break up easier because you don't have to deny any part of yourself. You don't have to feel bad for loving somebody who doesn't match you're worth. There is no shame in loving even if they are not compatible.
I just found your videos and I’m obsessed. Your content is up my alley. Thank you for making such amazing content to help heal souls in this world. What you do is what I want to do. You’re so awesome and I’m so thankful I stumbled across your channel. Thank you for being an inspiration.
I couldnt agree more. So authentic , genuine, powerful, relatable. I feel like hes in my living room. Like we besties yet only saw him on a screen for the first time a few days ago
2 years after you recorded this I am hearing it exactly the day I needed to hear it! Thank you Thank you Thank you. It makes so much sense.... Namaste 💛
i come back to this video constantly. it always moves me. he says exactly how i feel. it has helped me cope with the worst break up i have ever gone through. i am so grateful for this human being. peace and love to all🧡
Woah, I am in tears.. this was the most liberating piece of advice I feel I’ve ever received on letting go, and moving on. It literally freed so much pain in my heart, loosened my grip and helped me embrace the gratitude I have for that person. Wowwwwww so powerful, thank you for your continual vulnerability and obedience to your call- you are a light and have truly helped me see through what was becoming a dark cave!
Although I still feel the absence of my past love, I have come to understand that moving forward was the right decision. I have now discovered love in a new person and I wish for my previous partner to find joy as well.
I’m ugly crying from this video. Today marks 1 month since the break up. This video taught me that I shouldn’t deny anything from my past relationship, because the love I have for them was real, and their love for me was real, but they didn’t love me enough to push through, and that’s okay. I’m sure they did care about me. This gives me so much peace, I feel heard and understood. Thank you:(
@@evi9929 I get what you mean but I don't think he meant it that way. It was more about the last/latest person he was in love with and not his last love ever
When I ended my last relationship those were the exact words I used, "to deny you is to deny myself. " I realized he is a piece of my soul but now it was time to make peace with my other pieces. "
This just showed up in my recommendations and I did not expect it to make me cry. For so long I've felt like I have to let go, let go, let go. Let go of past relationships, let go of old friendships, let go of the places I lived, let go of the people who aren't in this world anymore. It's the first time i heard someone that says that we don't or shouldn't have to let go. These people, or even places, shaped our present, past, and future. We can love and honor them for that because it's not who they WERE it's who they ARE. It's who we are
Listening to this 3 years later indicates that I am still there in the phase of letting go. I didn't understand the whole part of letting go because the latch I had on my last relationship left a huge scar but I realized when Hindz said "they will always be part of your life even if you try to rip it off" it depends the power you give that person and I understand now that yes that person was part of my next step to my evolution but they don't define it completely and that was the hardest thing to acknowledge and reciprocate
I’m going through a recent breakup, I was projecting my insecurities and fears on our relationship and he got sick of that. He tried hard though. I’m going to therapy and I’ve been trying to become a better person. He doesn’t want anything else with me and I thought we’d have a future together...it’s heartbreaking, feels like I won’t ever get over him. This video was suggested to me in the right time. I’m gonna save this one to re-watch it as many times as necessary. Thank you!!! 😣❤️
In a recent break up too and it’s tough , very tough! However I stumble upon this guys channel and meditation. So far life is gonna be okay. Even though at first I didn’t believe it , but I really do now. Which makes me really happy and grateful.
How long was that ago? reading your comment made me think about my own breakup where she used to do the same things yet I was trying to help her up, she was unconsciously dragging me mentally, spiritually down.. I really appreciate your honesty and going to therapy is definitely the first right steps towards self love/-elevation
@@salemsmpl wow that’s what he been through with me...he broke up with me in the end of December but since then we saw each other a couple of times and only 2 weeks ago he decided it was really better to part ways and stop interacting 😣
@@andreiasillva95 did he respected you? have you guys ended it on good terms? I can see how of a good hearted person he is, I would say, if you do the work and elevated/ healed yourself, there's a big chance you guys going back together. Wish you the best tho, keep on self reflecting, improving and be raw honest to yourself
@@salemsmpl yes, sometimes his tone wasn’t the best but he apologised every time. I don’t know...I’ve insisted for 2 months, and still today I did and he says that he doesn’t want it and that he shouldn’t be even replying. I’m always afraid he’ll just move on very quickly if I step away, and if I just stop talking 😭
I hear you bro, came to the exact same conclusion. They have and will be part of of our energies past and future. To accept all of our experiences is to accept ourselves. Trust, forgiveness and gratitude, the 3 keys to healing all ❤❤❤
this made me cry, you are so right. no matter how much he hurt me, he shaped me into the person I am today. im stronger and happier than ever, even if it's without him. he'll always be in my heart, but never back in my life.
Mate, that's exactly what I needed! Keep punishing myself because I can't let go when actually I should just accept it and go on in my life with as much love as I can! I don't know how to thank you! Just thank you
My last love has this type of affect on me. I surrendered my love for her. She will always be the one I would chose again and again. This love shaped me and opened me up in way I never imagined. I will always love her because she is a part of me and I had to stop fighting this fact.
That overwhelming feeling seeing your last love is insane. I literally felt sick to my stomach and we didn’t even interact. I felt weird that I reacted so poorly (I literally ran out of there) this video has helped me come to peace with my reaction and how it was normal to feel that way with someone you use to actively love. THANK YOU HINDZ! You are amazing! I’m so glad UA-cam algorithms brought me to you! 💛
Bro, that was a good video. I’ve felt exactly what you were talking about. It feels good to know people can explain that feeling and reflect on it as well as filtering out any negative thoughts. Keep it up
It’s hard to think that we don’t actually let go of people that were once in our lives, we have to work our feelings of understanding what it even means to let go, and how to forgive them, and shift the energy we have with and about them. It’s hard stuff.
This was important for me to watch. I'm trying to heal from the disconnect with my abusive family, and this eases some of the guilt and confusion I'm feeling.
You have no idea how much I needed to hear this. Thank you for being vulnerable and open. It's not easy, but your take on as having heart of unconditional love, acceptance, and forgiveness is just a breeze of fresh air in the dark place breakups can put us into. Sending blessings 🙏 ❤️✨️
It’s crazy to see in the comments how many other people struggle with this. I’ve always said I didn’t regret any of my past relationships but it’s hard to feel this way shortly after a breakup. This video offers a beautiful perspective to remind us of what we know deep down. Thank you so much for sharing! 🙏
I ugly cried so hard while watching this Lol. Coming back to comment 5 hours later because the let go was real and your words truly helped 🙏💖 thank you!!!
Wow I just stumbled on this. I have been in a horrible space and heartbroken for a long time due to betrayal in a very long relationship. I felt like I wasted some of my better years on this person. Feeling worthless and not respected. Struggling how to let go. I needed to hear this. I need to listen to this every morning to remind myself of this. Reframe my thinking. Thank you!
BROOOOOOOO!!🤯🤯🤯 I’m over here like talking to you while you’re talking. Lol talking to you in spirit - “to deny them is to deny OURSELVES”.. 🎤 I’m drinking tea for/with you right now. The universe brought your grounding energy into my field today and for that I am grateful!!!🙏🏼
You said that you “really didn’t want to share this”, but I’m so glad that you did. I could feel the pain in this video because I’ve been going through something similar. Carrying that with me for the past few years. This message changed me. Thank you 🙏
We do not let go, we simply surrender, dang, that one hit different, for real, week 1 and I still want go out, drive to her house and tell her how much I love her and need her 😔
I'm going through this very thing. I'm feeling my DM so hard but I need to move on from him because he's not ready for me. If its meant to be, he'll have to come back differently. Great message.
Thank you for sharing. I think I am the person that needs to come back differently for my partner. They also have some work to do but I think me advancing on my personal and spiritual journey was the barrier to the success of our relationship. We mutually agreed to end our relationship but I can't help but hold onto the idea that we will come back to each other in the future as a couple. For now we are working on being friends.
Thankyou for making this. I've been dwelling on my last relationship and trying to figure out how to feel better about it, and this helped so much. And 'last love of mine' is so lovely a phrase, I'm going to use that instead of 'ex' from now on.
I just ended my relationship with my father last night snd this is what I needed. He was a very negative presence who only filled me with anger and abandonment. I know that it’s one of the best decisions I’ve made in terms of my healing and mental health, but there’s the inner child part of me who is reluctant to let go, and like you said you don’t let go, you surrender. Thank you for this beautiful video
I cried so much through this. It really resonated with me. Thank you so much articulating that paradigm shift for us. Every time I watch one of your videos, I change.
Wow, this transformed my thinking around exes/past friendships. In society we are always expected to just let someone go who once meant the WORLD to us, this video hindz, is Gold. as the saying goes… “we ( experience ) people”. They are now a piece of us, we are now a piece of them. Love will always flow, that is “letting go” accept the past and move forward. 🦋🦋🦋🦋
A little over a 1000 days since you posted this and I’m hearing it for the first time today. I suppose it came to me when I needed to hear it. Thank you friend
Thank you for sharing your heart...I don't understand how these keep popping up in the most timely of ways...you probably won't even see this as it's 2 years old...but Spririt is guiding me in the most precious of ways, and you my friend are somehow being used as a mouthpiece, a vessel of hope that is restoring my faith when I need it most...so thank you
I am truly grateful for having found your content. Especially this video has helped me understand why I cannot cut out my last love out of my heart and why accepting the fact that I could love someone so deeply can mean that I can love deeply again and that my love was not "wasted". Thank you from the bottom of my heart brother.
thank you for speaking the truth and reminding us of ourselves, your words are powerful. i was finally able to cry all the frustration and anger that was making me sick, blind. lots of love. thank you
I completely agree!! I have 3 children w 2 different men. So you find out there is no letting go way before you’re ready to know that. They are wonderful fathers and I’m extremely lucky to have them both. Had to tear a lot of pride away to be able to type that sentence and truly mean it bc there were really bad times in both relationships. But I choose to only look at them as fathers. They are both Kings at that. I don’t need to worry about how they feel about me or what happened between us. Like you said there is just an energy there now and it’s a much easier energy with my older children’s father but my last love and I will figure things out too. Think we are finally at a place where we can at least show real respect. Not faking politeness anymore. I have finally moved into being very grateful for him. Taught me a lot of patients that I need to learn
I love seeing all the versions of you. Thank you so much for sharing this, and sharing your vulnerability. I hope you never delete your old videos. I've been having the hardest time and being able to go through your videos like a dictionary of wellness is an incredible experience. Thank you so much for your gifts to the world. 😌 You inspire me to be present with myself, and continue to grow and share mine. Thank you thank you thank you love. ❤🙏
I am currently going through something like this, accepting to let go after everything we been through. I were wondering and telling myself "how can i let go of someone i loved so whole hardly" but now i know i can still love whole hardly and let go if it does serve me in a loving and positive way. I thank you and have love for you for being here to explain it in a way much more better to understand💙
all these toxic social media pages, tiktoks ect makes us hate our exes even more and feed our anger towards them, claiming we should 'move on' ungracefully and make them regret what they've lost... what we do not realize is that these posts are made by people who are not healed themselves.. it truly takes so much strenght to forgive and move on gracefully.. thats why it is not the standard in society. Thank you for this video, sending much love
2 Jears later now I’m watching this video and I’m at the exact same place. Thank you for this! For sharing the feels, for holding space, for these words. For everything Brother. So much! SO grateful! The realization at this point is unbelievable. Thank you. Much love!
In this moment I am sending you every ounce of grateful energy that I have. My last love and I share a lot of history, a lot of memories, and a lot of hurt. I've accepted how things have to be, yet I still struggle from them to time with forgiving and letting go. I've completely blocked him out of my life because it hurts too much to not have him in it in the way that he used to be in it. This video, your vulnerable share, feels so much more in alignment with what I see as a more compassionate way to hold what he and I had, rather than to deny it as I've been trying to do. It's almost as if he was sharing this with me himself. Thank you 🙏🏼
I really needed to hear this thank you so much for putting your self ina vulnerable position and being transparent with us.. now I can finally truly understand and accept what damage was dealt to me and how it helped me grow into the person I am today and get to the next stage in my life.. sending love and positive vibrations to anyone Experiencing heart break. Love and peace everybody ❤️
When you were talking and then took some pauses do breath and sigh, it just felt so real. That's exactly how I act when I'm thinking about the person a miss. Thank you for sharing this, it really spoken to me. I'm having a hard time accepting that things are over but it does get a little better with every passing week. Peace.
I just finally blocked a pathological liar who I had connected with but I hope I never see them again. I do feel physically sick. We're not meant to connect so deep to someone to just leave them behind.
your AMAZING. Don’t stop doing your thing. u helped me find myself after 17 years of torture in life since I was born and I can now find my peace today I tried your advice and it works but I was thinking about how to bypass my ex in my thoughts without feeling that heavy negative weight and how it’s so hard to let go and then got home went on my tv and looked your you for more positivity and saw this first thing on my new suggestions on home thank you god 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I needed this. I can relate now more than ever and lost someone I used to be with. I realized that I can't unlove people I've loved. Being a pisces doesn't make it easier.
As a cancer i couldn’t agree more, i hope you continue to heal though 🦋❤️🩹🧿 there’s so much beauty waiting for you.Trust yourself & the universe☀️🧚🏻♀️
This is why I am waiting until marriage. Don't want any soul ties. They take a piece of us I just want that one person that can have the whole me everyday of my life. Loved this, thank you for sharing 💕
Man I love how you talk you say exactly what I’m thinking in a energetic way it don’t feel warp force or hindered and I’m loving watching your videos . I too hope to one day not to provoke my way of thinking but to energetically express how I feel and not let control me
This really helped me. I can’t unlove this man. He’s a part of me, so I can’t fight him off and I don’t have to. This has given me peace that I have needed all week
This made me cry. This is something I want to be able to show my future children, and grandchildren one day.. I know they will need it. Thank you Hindz ❤️
I was watching this video and everything was okay, till it got to the end and out of nowhere I just busted out in tears! 😭💔 One love to all you beautiful souls♥
I wish I had a friend like you in my life right now. I really would benefit from talking through my own issues with a friend who has your emotional and spiritual perspective.
“Letting go” does not mean forgetting them and denying that they existed. “Letting go” is to accept that they were a part of our lives before and helped us grow through experience. Be grateful for their appearance in our lives, than them for the experience they brought you. Send them love and support like you would to yourself. I love my ex and he loves me. I am thankful for our times together. It didn’t work out but we still learned so much from each other, that is our soul contract. Lead with love.
Wow. I’m still at the stage of recovery and gotta say it must have taken quite some time for you to write this and I hope someday and really soon I can feel this too, to finally let it go and feel free again
I’ve been broken up with this girl for almost a year now and Til now I’ve cut her off completely (social media and everything else) so that I could create a safe space for me and move forward. But now I can’t shake the want to have her in my life even as friends. I get conflicted by this thought because it goes against everything I’ve done to get to this point of recovery, but I can’t also can’t stop thinking that it was because of bad timing that it didn’t work out for us. I try to bury the thoughts and honestly it just doesn’t work out. Any advice..
@@MYDonutHol3 honestly, there is no advice. The only thing you can keep doing is keep working on yourself, on being the best version of you for YOU. It seems like you’ve been doing that, so keep at it. Thoughts are powerful, but understand that sometimes things leave our lives to make space for better situations. It’s ok to feel the way you’re feeling, that’s what makes you human. Let yourself feel, don’t let that feeling control your life though. I’m going through a breakup right now, and after a month apart I realize all the things I did wrong, and this is forcing me to grow and be better (40% for me 60% for her- prob a bad way to see it but I’ve been changing). I wish I could share my growth with her, but you can’t force anyone to be with you. All in all, she will forever be a part of you and be grateful for the memories you have, and for the lessons you have learned through the journey and its end. Good luck man, wish you the best!
But if it is work out and he doesn't take stand agaist his family not. Give a try at least and still you don't know he loves you and not but you love is so pure for then it is very very difficult to let. Go i think 😶
This was so inspiring and a true change of perspective. Thank you for commenting this, I look forward to making this my new view on the break up I just went through.
" Just because it didn't work out the way we thought it would, doesn't mean that it never played out it's purpose. " That one hit hard. It takes a strong person to come to that realization and acceptance. Hindz, I thank you 🙏🏼❤️
Thank u fam ✊🏾♥️
HINDZ Always brother, been trying to watch your vids at least 2-3 times a day, you've helped me relearn myself and work on my healing process. Without I was literally in such a depressed state. So thank you 🙏🏼
❤️❤️❤️
This is pure poetry. To deny them is to deny a part of ourselves. Lead with love!
“Put a person out your mind, but keep them in your heart” Ram Dass
“It was in love I was created and in love is how I hope I die” Paolo Nutini
Hey yes
❤beautiful
It's actually eye opening to see that men feel the same energy we woman feel after a breakup. I always felt replaceable to my exes. It always felt like everyone who split apart of me just moved on with no problem whatsoever so I never actually ever thought that some men would feel a separation as much as I do as a woman. That was eye opening for me. Thank you for this experience.
we definitely do. extremely strongly at that
Lol genders dont have nothing to do with it, people do, ive seen both woman and men that dont care
Yeah but I also think men with his level of EQ are super rare. A lot of men might feel strongly, but they don't recognize and contemplate and understand those emotions at the depth that he is. This shit is rareee among men.
Some people don't and some do, men and women regardless of gender. This is a human matter, don't think its exclusive to one type of person
I don't think @Kas ia is saying that she thought men didn't relate BECAUSE they're men. But because men often hide these expressions or simply don't know how to analyze and communicate about them.
“Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetting. Forgiving means to understand.” 🤯
I just recently had this epiphany. Every significant relationship in our life was a reflection of a certain aspect of ourselves. When we have a hard time releasing them it's truly an aspect of ourselves that we are having a hard time releasing. This is why forgiveness begins with you.
“Last love of mine” taught me how to love myself. After break up I understood that no one is responsible to make me happy, we are already whole and complete. Even when i’m alone, i still can feel love within me. This is such a beautiful realization. I don’t need someone to feel love. I am okay alone. But if i meet reflextion of myself someday i am still open. Live is beautiful❤️
This is so beautiful:’) I wish you the best
Really sweet. I read grief and loss is just love with nowhere to go, and I feel much lighter just accepting all the love I still have.
Thank you❤️
Wow
Such a beautiful sentiment. Thanks for sharing it!
this is so beautiful and meaningful to me rn. thank you!
That’s beautiful
Acknowledging the love makes a break up easier because you don't have to deny any part of yourself. You don't have to feel bad for loving somebody who doesn't match you're worth. There is no shame in loving even if they are not compatible.
That hit hard, thanks for that perspective 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@@Abaviolinist Most welcome
Thank you
Wow, this comment is everything. Thank you for creating peace within me through your words.
“Just because it didn’t work out the way we thought it would doesn’t mean it didn’t serve it’s purpose.” Amen..
I just found your videos and I’m obsessed. Your content is up my alley. Thank you for making such amazing content to help heal souls in this world. What you do is what I want to do. You’re so awesome and I’m so thankful I stumbled across your channel. Thank you for being an inspiration.
I couldnt agree more. So authentic , genuine, powerful, relatable. I feel like hes in my living room. Like we besties yet only saw him on a screen for the first time a few days ago
This is exactly how I feel.
Pure
I can agree!
hey im glad you found someone you relate to.. i find it hard but hes so authentic just like me and so relatable
2 years after you recorded this
I am hearing it exactly the day I needed to hear it! Thank you Thank you Thank you. It makes so much sense....
Namaste 💛
Same here!
same! much love to you guys 🧡
Same energy
me too!!! i feel hopeful
Same...
it’s so crazy how this video popped up when i really needed it.. the universe’s energy is real and never lies
“No matter what, we always wear a piece of them. They’re pieced into our soul somehow.” I felt that ❤️
i come back to this video constantly. it always moves me. he says exactly how i feel. it has helped me cope with the worst break up i have ever gone through. i am so grateful for this human being. peace and love to all🧡
Thank you for your vulnerability. It's really refreshing. "It's so easy to laugh, it so easy to hate...it takes guts to be gentle and kind.."
the smiths 🤍
Woah, I am in tears.. this was the most liberating piece of advice I feel I’ve ever received on letting go, and moving on. It literally freed so much pain in my heart, loosened my grip and helped me embrace the gratitude I have for that person. Wowwwwww so powerful, thank you for your continual vulnerability and obedience to your call- you are a light and have truly helped me see through what was becoming a dark cave!
Although I still feel the absence of my past love, I have come to understand that moving forward was the right decision. I have now discovered love in a new person and I wish for my previous partner to find joy as well.
so true about reverting to the "came into this by myself & dont need anyone" but its very toxic, asocial & pushes people to be sociopathic. thank you,
I’m ugly crying from this video. Today marks 1 month since the break up. This video taught me that I shouldn’t deny anything from my past relationship, because the love I have for them was real, and their love for me was real, but they didn’t love me enough to push through, and that’s okay. I’m sure they did care about me. This gives me so much peace, I feel heard and understood. Thank you:(
Going through the exact same thing. My heart goes out to you. I hope healing has been kind to you in the year since this video ❤
Oof i like that “last love of mine” gonna use that now too ✌🏽
yes!! 🙌🏾♥️
That’s a bad phrase because it implies and give out to the universe you’ll never find love again because that was your “last”
@@evi9929 I get what you mean but I don't think he meant it that way. It was more about the last/latest person he was in love with and not his last love ever
Me too
Same
When I ended my last relationship those were the exact words I used, "to deny you is to deny myself. " I realized he is a piece of my soul but now it was time to make peace with my other pieces. "
Literally have me yelling Beautiful out loud on my walk because of how powerful your words are
You indeed are a pisces.
Beautiful the way you’re expressing yourself with such vulnerability
what if he was a squid or a shark ?
This just showed up in my recommendations and I did not expect it to make me cry. For so long I've felt like I have to let go, let go, let go. Let go of past relationships, let go of old friendships, let go of the places I lived, let go of the people who aren't in this world anymore. It's the first time i heard someone that says that we don't or shouldn't have to let go. These people, or even places, shaped our present, past, and future. We can love and honor them for that because it's not who they WERE it's who they ARE. It's who we are
Listening to this 3 years later indicates that I am still there in the phase of letting go. I didn't understand the whole part of letting go because the latch I had on my last relationship left a huge scar but I realized when Hindz said "they will always be part of your life even if you try to rip it off" it depends the power you give that person and I understand now that yes that person was part of my next step to my evolution but they don't define it completely and that was the hardest thing to acknowledge and reciprocate
I’m going through a recent breakup, I was projecting my insecurities and fears on our relationship and he got sick of that. He tried hard though. I’m going to therapy and I’ve been trying to become a better person. He doesn’t want anything else with me and I thought we’d have a future together...it’s heartbreaking, feels like I won’t ever get over him.
This video was suggested to me in the right time. I’m gonna save this one to re-watch it as many times as necessary.
Thank you!!! 😣❤️
In a recent break up too and it’s tough , very tough! However I stumble upon this guys channel and meditation. So far life is gonna be okay. Even though at first I didn’t believe it , but I really do now. Which makes me really happy and grateful.
How long was that ago? reading your comment made me think about my own breakup where she used to do the same things yet I was trying to help her up, she was unconsciously dragging me mentally, spiritually down.. I really appreciate your honesty and going to therapy is definitely the first right steps towards self love/-elevation
@@salemsmpl wow that’s what he been through with me...he broke up with me in the end of December but since then we saw each other a couple of times and only 2 weeks ago he decided it was really better to part ways and stop interacting 😣
@@andreiasillva95 did he respected you? have you guys ended it on good terms? I can see how of a good hearted person he is, I would say, if you do the work and elevated/ healed yourself, there's a big chance you guys going back together. Wish you the best tho, keep on self reflecting, improving and be raw honest to yourself
@@salemsmpl yes, sometimes his tone wasn’t the best but he apologised every time. I don’t know...I’ve insisted for 2 months, and still today I did and he says that he doesn’t want it and that he shouldn’t be even replying. I’m always afraid he’ll just move on very quickly if I step away, and if I just stop talking 😭
This is literally the realest thing I have seen
I hear you bro, came to the exact same conclusion. They have and will be part of of our energies past and future. To accept all of our experiences is to accept ourselves. Trust, forgiveness and gratitude, the 3 keys to healing all ❤❤❤
I’ll love him regardless of what he says because I’m so so thankful for figuring out so much 🌺
this made me cry, you are so right. no matter how much he hurt me, he shaped me into the person I am today. im stronger and happier than ever, even if it's without him. he'll always be in my heart, but never back in my life.
Literally brang tears to my eyes... I felt this on another level. I appreciate you and this message #italisvital #ini
Love! Thank you. Appreciate you tuning in
I’ve said this once and I’ll say it again, Hindz is an absolute blessing, these videos are timeless, thankyou so much
Mate, that's exactly what I needed! Keep punishing myself because I can't let go when actually I should just accept it and go on in my life with as much love as I can! I don't know how to thank you! Just thank you
Once again you have put placed the nail in the coffin. I respectfully appreciate your transparency and this one truly resonated with me.
I physically sobbed as I felt my soul cry the millions of last loves in current and past lives.
It's crazy that the youtube algorithm would recommend this when I'm going through this.
stay strong and try to keep your spirit high. It takes time to heal
Same here got my heart broken tonight 😞 but ended up letting him go and thanking him for everything regardless....
3 years after you made this video, I’m hearing this and I can feel each and every word. The calm in your voice, gives hope.
My last love has this type of affect on me. I surrendered my love for her. She will always be the one I would chose again and again. This love shaped me and opened me up in way I never imagined. I will always love her because she is a part of me and I had to stop fighting this fact.
I think that's beautiful
That overwhelming feeling seeing your last love is insane. I literally felt sick to my stomach and we didn’t even interact. I felt weird that I reacted so poorly (I literally ran out of there) this video has helped me come to peace with my reaction and how it was normal to feel that way with someone you use to actively love. THANK YOU HINDZ! You are amazing! I’m so glad UA-cam algorithms brought me to you! 💛
I am with you on poor reactions and later accepting it,
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Bro, that was a good video. I’ve felt exactly what you were talking about. It feels good to know people can explain that feeling and reflect on it as well as filtering out any negative thoughts. Keep it up
Rapheal Martin blessings bro 🙏🏾
It’s hard to think that we don’t actually let go of people that were once in our lives, we have to work our feelings of understanding what it even means to let go, and how to forgive them, and shift the energy we have with and about them. It’s hard stuff.
This was important for me to watch. I'm trying to heal from the disconnect with my abusive family, and this eases some of the guilt and confusion I'm feeling.
I cried watching this after ending a relationship, you understand me HINDZ. i love you man, please don't stop
Please please pleaase make a video as an update to how you feel know 2 years later about your “last love” 🥺
Yes, please!
I would really like this too
I’ve been searching for a video that would tell me exactly what I needed to hear. This is it. I’m so glad I found this video.
You have no idea how much I needed to hear this. Thank you for being vulnerable and open. It's not easy, but your take on as having heart of unconditional love, acceptance, and forgiveness is just a breeze of fresh air in the dark place breakups can put us into. Sending blessings 🙏 ❤️✨️
It’s crazy to see in the comments how many other people struggle with this. I’ve always said I didn’t regret any of my past relationships but it’s hard to feel this way shortly after a breakup. This video offers a beautiful perspective to remind us of what we know deep down. Thank you so much for sharing! 🙏
I still have dreams of my last lover even though I’m moving on...
give thanks for the experience. Love brother 🙏🏾🌱
HINDZ Thanks for making these videos. Please continue
Lots is coming brother I promise 🙏🏾
It’s normal it’s just your brain thinking and calculating. It happens to everyone
I ugly cried so hard while watching this Lol. Coming back to comment 5 hours later because the let go was real and your words truly helped 🙏💖 thank you!!!
Wow I just stumbled on this. I have been in a horrible space and heartbroken for a long time due to betrayal in a very long relationship. I felt like I wasted some of my better years on this person. Feeling worthless and not respected. Struggling how to let go. I needed to hear this. I need to listen to this every morning to remind myself of this. Reframe my thinking. Thank you!
BROOOOOOOO!!🤯🤯🤯 I’m over here like talking to you while you’re talking. Lol talking to you in spirit - “to deny them is to deny OURSELVES”.. 🎤 I’m drinking tea for/with you right now. The universe brought your grounding energy into my field today and for that I am grateful!!!🙏🏼
You said that you “really didn’t want to share this”, but I’m so glad that you did. I could feel the pain in this video because I’ve been going through something similar. Carrying that with me for the past few years. This message changed me. Thank you 🙏
We do not let go, we simply surrender, dang, that one hit different, for real, week 1 and I still want go out, drive to her house and tell her how much I love her and need her 😔
it gets better :)
Same here man, its strange that probably you'll never see her again, never share your day, never do a dinner... Hard times, stay strong 😔
I'm going through this very thing. I'm feeling my DM so hard but I need to move on from him because he's not ready for me. If its meant to be, he'll have to come back differently. Great message.
Thank you for sharing. I think I am the person that needs to come back differently for my partner. They also have some work to do but I think me advancing on my personal and spiritual journey was the barrier to the success of our relationship. We mutually agreed to end our relationship but I can't help but hold onto the idea that we will come back to each other in the future as a couple. For now we are working on being friends.
Thankyou for making this. I've been dwelling on my last relationship and trying to figure out how to feel better about it, and this helped so much. And 'last love of mine' is so lovely a phrase, I'm going to use that instead of 'ex' from now on.
I just ended my relationship with my father last night snd this is what I needed. He was a very negative presence who only filled me with anger and abandonment. I know that it’s one of the best decisions I’ve made in terms of my healing and mental health, but there’s the inner child part of me who is reluctant to let go, and like you said you don’t let go, you surrender. Thank you for this beautiful video
I cried so much through this. It really resonated with me. Thank you so much articulating that paradigm shift for us. Every time I watch one of your videos, I change.
This is amazing and actually even though this is 4 yrs old..its hitting me now and real in my moment right now.
I cried listening to you talking about letting go. Thank you for clearing up a block I was unable to see. Much love 💕
Wow, this transformed my thinking around exes/past friendships. In society we are always expected to just let someone go who once meant the WORLD to us, this video hindz, is Gold.
as the saying goes… “we ( experience ) people”. They are now a piece of us, we are now a piece of them.
Love will always flow, that is “letting go” accept the past and move forward. 🦋🦋🦋🦋
You are 100 on this! I always wondered how people could forget someone they loved so dearly and shared so many moments with
A little over a 1000 days since you posted this and I’m hearing it for the first time today. I suppose it came to me when I needed to hear it. Thank you friend
Thank you for sharing your heart...I don't understand how these keep popping up in the most timely of ways...you probably won't even see this as it's 2 years old...but Spririt is guiding me in the most precious of ways, and you my friend are somehow being used as a mouthpiece, a vessel of hope that is restoring my faith when I need it most...so thank you
Yo goddamn. This is RIDICULOUSLY great. A message from a true angel. You are pure inspiration dear
I am truly grateful for having found your content. Especially this video has helped me understand why I cannot cut out my last love out of my heart and why accepting the fact that I could love someone so deeply can mean that I can love deeply again and that my love was not "wasted".
Thank you from the bottom of my heart brother.
thank you for speaking the truth and reminding us of ourselves, your words are powerful. i was finally able to cry all the frustration and anger that was making me sick, blind. lots of love. thank you
I completely agree!! I have 3 children w 2 different men. So you find out there is no letting go way before you’re ready to know that. They are wonderful fathers and I’m extremely lucky to have them both. Had to tear a lot of pride away to be able to type that sentence and truly mean it bc there were really bad times in both relationships. But I choose to only look at them as fathers. They are both Kings at that. I don’t need to worry about how they feel about me or what happened between us. Like you said there is just an energy there now and it’s a much easier energy with my older children’s father but my last love and I will figure things out too. Think we are finally at a place where we can at least show real respect. Not faking politeness anymore. I have finally moved into being very grateful for him. Taught me a lot of patients that I need to learn
Thank for sharin this someone who has difficult with lettin go as a person. This is everything to me!
2 years later and I’m seeing this video !! I’m beyond grateful for you, this energy and this message !! thank you 💙! I needed this !
I love seeing all the versions of you. Thank you so much for sharing this, and sharing your vulnerability. I hope you never delete your old videos. I've been having the hardest time and being able to go through your videos like a dictionary of wellness is an incredible experience. Thank you so much for your gifts to the world. 😌 You inspire me to be present with myself, and continue to grow and share mine. Thank you thank you thank you love. ❤🙏
They are not old, they are timeless
I am currently going through something like this, accepting to let go after everything we been through. I were wondering and telling myself "how can i let go of someone i loved so whole hardly" but now i know i can still love whole hardly and let go if it does serve me in a loving and positive way. I thank you and have love for you for being here to explain it in a way much more better to understand💙
all these toxic social media pages, tiktoks ect makes us hate our exes even more and feed our anger towards them,
claiming we should 'move on' ungracefully and make them regret what they've lost... what we do not realize is that these posts are made by people who are not healed themselves.. it truly takes so much strenght to forgive and move on gracefully.. thats why it is not the standard in society. Thank you for this video, sending much love
2 Jears later now I’m watching this video and I’m at the exact same place. Thank you for this! For sharing the feels, for holding space, for these words. For everything Brother. So much! SO grateful! The realization at this point is unbelievable. Thank you. Much love!
In this moment I am sending you every ounce of grateful energy that I have. My last love and I share a lot of history, a lot of memories, and a lot of hurt. I've accepted how things have to be, yet I still struggle from them to time with forgiving and letting go. I've completely blocked him out of my life because it hurts too much to not have him in it in the way that he used to be in it.
This video, your vulnerable share, feels so much more in alignment with what I see as a more compassionate way to hold what he and I had, rather than to deny it as I've been trying to do.
It's almost as if he was sharing this with me himself.
Thank you 🙏🏼
I really needed to hear this thank you so much for putting your self ina vulnerable position and being transparent with us.. now I can finally truly understand and accept what damage was dealt to me and how it helped me grow into the person I am today and get to the next stage in my life.. sending love and positive vibrations to anyone Experiencing heart break. Love and peace everybody ❤️
When you were talking and then took some pauses do breath and sigh, it just felt so real. That's exactly how I act when I'm thinking about the person a miss. Thank you for sharing this, it really spoken to me. I'm having a hard time accepting that things are over but it does get a little better with every passing week. Peace.
2 years later, I needed to hear this
Thank you for this, years later of much healing my last love crossed my mind. I wish him nothing but the best.
Had a rush of emotion listening to this as I am letting go of a past friendship..
This makes so much sense and actually helps. It was not a waste of time because I learned a lot and enjoyed myself for the time being ♥️
I just finally blocked a pathological liar who I had connected with but I hope I never see them again. I do feel physically sick. We're not meant to connect so deep to someone to just leave them behind.
your AMAZING. Don’t stop doing your thing. u helped me find myself after 17 years of torture in life since I was born and I can now find my peace today I tried your advice and it works but I was thinking about how to bypass my ex in my thoughts without feeling that heavy negative weight and how it’s so hard to let go and then got home went on my tv and looked your you for more positivity and saw this first thing on my new suggestions on home thank you god 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Tears of joy. Thank you so much for this. All I can say while my healing tears flow. 💕
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I needed this. I can relate now more than ever and lost someone I used to be with. I realized that I can't unlove people I've loved.
Being a pisces doesn't make it easier.
As a cancer i couldn’t agree more, i hope you continue to heal though 🦋❤️🩹🧿 there’s so much beauty waiting for you.Trust yourself & the universe☀️🧚🏻♀️
This is why I am waiting until marriage. Don't want any soul ties.
They take a piece of us I just want that one person that can have the whole me everyday of my life.
Loved this, thank you for sharing 💕
Man I love how you talk you say exactly what I’m thinking in a energetic way it don’t feel warp force or hindered and I’m loving watching your videos . I too hope to one day not to provoke my way of thinking but to energetically express how I feel and not let control me
Wow, I felt this offering. This is me. This is Day 1 after a breakup😢
It has been a month for me, I promise you it will get better. Take care.
@@Charul9 Thank you family 🤞🏾
I know how it feels baby, it’ll get better.
yes my friend your rite you don't let go you use that energy (Good or bad) in a positive fashion to help impact you and others God bless you my friend
This really helped me. I can’t unlove this man. He’s a part of me, so I can’t fight him off and I don’t have to. This has given me peace that I have needed all week
Four years late seeing this but it was right on time. Wow! Thank you for this 👏🏾👏🏾 Bless up
I loved this, thank you, forgiving means to understand, beautiful 🎁
This made me cry. This is something I want to be able to show my future children, and grandchildren one day..
I know they will need it. Thank you Hindz ❤️
I was watching this video and everything was okay, till it got to the end and out of nowhere I just busted out in tears! 😭💔
One love to all you beautiful souls♥
This saved me months of therapy. Thank you so much for this video 🙏🏾
You can always attach those pieces to God. And keep it going theres better things in life than people
THE REAL WORLD IS WITHIN YOU
I wish I had a friend like you in my life right now. I really would benefit from talking through my own issues with a friend who has your emotional and spiritual perspective.
Needed to hear this. Thank you
Blessings ♥️🙏🏾
I'm going through a break up rn and fr dude this has offered me much comfort and wisdom. Thank you