Me too I am an introvert and I usually don't speak to much so after getting into a relation i don't know what to talk or how to lead a conversation and he always complaints about it .
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@@sofieh2314 Ok. From my perspective I'd say these tips are good and helpful, but most importantly you should be positive and have some plan if you are shy or little bit scared(some lines for keeping conversation going), and just enjoy conversation and you should be good🙂
Tysm!! now i can finally make conversation with a guy who sits next to me (I think he's really cute and he was wearing merch of a band I like so that's why I'm interested) WISH ME LUCK ON MONDAY
1. compliment him 2. talk ab his interests 3. share stories w him 4. open up & lower your walls 5. don’t talk ab past relationships 6. show that ur interested 7. ask open ended questions 8. find things in common 9. talk in a group setting first 10. talk ab nonsense 11. play question games 12. go in w a plan 13. have a positive attitude 14. let him talk ab himself 15. take mental notes of your surroundings
I really appreciated this video! I got up the courage to talk to my crush but after I asked him questions, it ended in an awkward silence.....I...didn't know what to do😅
I'm assuming you asked open ended questions since you watch the video. Haha. If he doesn't ask you any questions back, try to prolong the conversation with a comment to what he said earlier or talk about yourself along with more stories. If he shows interested in an topic go deeper with it. Hope this helps. :D
actually idk why but when I talk to my crush on message I always feel stressed out so I always ask my friend to tell me what to say I feel so powerless
As a guy I can say I really like girls that just tell me about themselves a lot. The pressure in a conversation is usually on the guy, because they are the once supposed to approach and take the lead (doesn't have to be this way though). So when I have a conversation with a girl I really like it when she just tells me about random things she did that day or that she generally likes. It might bore some guys, but it's so much better than just answering every one of my questions with yes or no. Also real big turn off in conversations in general is someone that never asks any questions back and only answers them. I personally will then just assume they aren't interested and walk away from the conversation.
Simply ask him what his interest are. When you find something that you guys both have in common, that's when you talk about yourself too and share your experience. :)
So my school has this one night camp we go to every year this year i was at a table with this boy and we because amazing friends i said i liked scary stuff and he invited me to a scary movie and recently he asked if i wanted to sit next to me on the buss ride to the camp i obviously said yess I don’t know what to say but this helped your videos have helped me so much plz keep creating
I’m really really shy but one thing that has helped me I thinking....”either it goes really well and we start talking and if I fail miserably....once I’m 30 no one will remember...”
I just need some help. My situation is that me and this guy really like each other, we’re not in the position to date yet but It will happen eventually. I’ve NEVER had any romantic relationship. We text every night and I only see him once a week, and when I do I feel like I don’t know what to talk about, we just stand there awkwardly, I feel like I’m super boring and he’s like really bored of me and wants to go hang with his friends. I want to hang out with him like I do my friends but I don’t know what to say or do.
I have a guy friend but the convo is always so stiff and it always so dies quickly (we text but in person the atmosphere is kinda tense-comfortable-ish?? like we wanna talk to each other but we just don’t know how to start or keep it alive 😅) I’m also overall not always talkative in conversations so I also don’t really know how to do this either ;w; (even with people I know, I mostly just listen and occasionally join)
So there is this guy i met on the academy i teach at, he works as a receptionist he recently started working actually , i met him last friday i didnt know there was a new worker since i missed a day before , and im not so good at starting conversations randomly so i just said hello to him, but he instead wanted to talk to me and keep a conversation, i was impressed how talkative and friendly he was, he is good at carrying a conversation and not make it boring so i also started talking and stuff and i felt super comfortable , he was really cool i might keep an eye for this dude cuz he fine af too 😂 anyway, im excited to see him again next Thursday and hopefully i wont be awkward lol
I get shy and awkward and I struggle looking at boy's face and talk, unless we're really close. And I blush even tho I don't have a crush on any boy when I talk to them 😭😭😭😭😭
I’ve know this guy for a while now, we went out for a little while but we split up due to personal reasons on his end. We’ve started getting closer again and our mutual friend (his best friend) told me he still likes me. I’ll admit that makes me happy as I still like him too. But for the last few days we’ve been trying to have conversations and they’ve just been running dry. For example we don’t talk for longer than about 30-40 minutes as we don’t really find something good to talk about. Take last night, we had a nice little conversation about gaming and asking how each other is doing. Then eventually he read my message and just didn’t say anything back. I’ll admit he’s not the best at communication, he’s like it with everybody but i just wish we could have better conversations. As I don’t want to try another relationship with him unless we can actually communicate like we did before. I’m not sure how to do it though. As in general I’m an anxious and awkward person. Sorry if that isn’t clear enough, I’m trying to explain it the best way I can. I really do care about him and I know he cares about me too, I don’t want what we have to he ruined. I’m just stuck right now as it’s been over a month since we split but we’ve been in contact almost every day, but the majority of our conversations are through a group setting. We have a group chat with our closest friends and we contact each other daily. We video call a lot and he talks to be a lot and he tries. But I’m just not sure where things are going, I do want to try again but I’m just stuck when it comes to conversation. I’m sorry for this long message, but thank you 🌸
Hi Vahnya! From experience, there's only a finite number of things people can talk about for both parties to be interested. If you think you guys have talked about it all and gone through everything with each other, then that's okay. You don't need to talk to each other every day to feel connected. Sometimes it's better to do it once in awhile or every other day just to catch up on the latest news or gossip. Sometimes the less you guys talk, the more they'll miss you. Also, sometimes if you give each other space, you'll cherish and value the time with each other more when you guys reconnect. Oh lastly, you can all hangout together and create more experiences so you have more to talk about later in the future. Hope this helps. :)
Girl, you don't have to always do the effort. Sometimes you just have to wait. If he's really into you, he eventually will try to start the move as well. Vice versa, not one way.
The guy and me literally just say “hi” to each other and nothing else.Hes going to be my schoolmate next year and I don’t even know much about him this is bad
I am interested in a guy...thats makes me really nervous. I talk perfectly fine on text but in person cant get a single word out. I dont know how to be confident, and i neber know what to say after how are you!!
Ok so I’m a sophomore girl In high school and I don’t really like dating but I’m finally open to it. There’s a guy that I met in my last class of the day. He transferred out and one day he ran to walk with me to ask how I was still doing. Since then I most of the time have to text him first which I’ve only done a few times. Sometimes I say I gtg because I feel like I’m bothering him and he he says that I’m never a bother and when I say I’m gonna leave he gets upset and says we didn’t even talk that long even if it was a two hour conversation. At school he’s always the one to approach. After school he’ll come over and talk to me after my friends leave me alone. He still has friends around but he says he likes talking to me even when it’s awkward. And his friends are always looking at me. Do you think he likes me?
I can speak on the behalf of all boys. Conversation with us is simple and straightforward. You need not to put much efforts in it. Talking with girls in the other hand is very complex
Lemme it isn’t actually, girls rlly like when guys give them attention and talk with them it makes them feel special and some times playing flirty jokes on each other is fun too! Well for guys they should not ignore the girls like one day u were talkin to her and then other day not even replying , that actually turn off the interests and some might even don’t care while some endure it and guys shouldn’t say the same compliments to the other girls too it will only hurt the girl who is interested in him. I hope this was helpful 🙂
hey, i like this guy in my class but i don’t know how to talk to him in real life in school and i don’t really know him too well but i wanna get to know him so how would i come up to him and have a normal conversation with him? what would i say? what can i compliment him on isnce we have uniforms in our school? hElP?
I'm going on a date with my crush in a few hours, we're both shy so atleast now I know what to say to prevent the awkward silent moments.. This was very helpful 😊 thank you🤗
I just meet him over the internet and I catch feelings too easily and I don't think he even thinks I'm like a friend... He is kinda nice but he can get dry sometimes witch makes me sooooo uncomfortable. Also we only talk on a group chat and don't want to seem too desperate 😩
I dont know if i should let got or not, because he shows some signs that he likes me, but then agian, there are more signs that show that he doesn't, i really cant decide 😔
there's this guy who likes me, and i like him too, he started calling me and i don't have the confidence to start a conversation, my shy-ass is panicking, i dunno wut to do so i always end up pressing the end button.
Thanks, I'll try to do this, I'm so anxious to even do simple things, I wanna ask him to sit next to me in a field trip we're going to, I think that sitting next to him will make us know each other better. But I just get so anxious and over think everything. I'll try tho.
I'm trying to figure out if the guy I like is nervous or just a bad listener... He blushes around me, makes a ton of effort to be around me, tries to impress me, etc. But then, when we're in a conversation, he looks like he's thinking of what to say next rather than listening to what I'm saying 🤔
Hey, could you guide me on a really initial stage (not general ''hi'' ''hello'' types) of engaging an ongoing conversation what would you suggest to start off with..
I like somebody but I don't know if he likes me back. So we make a lot of eye contact in class and his friends are talking about me. But whenever I try to start a conversation we're not talking very much he just says one sentence and that's it:( so I am verryyy confused nowwww what should I do?
So I go to teakwondo and I’m a red belt there’s this boy that I’ve liked since white belt and I assist with other classes with him we make like kinda flirty and some friendly faces at each other (note this is my first ever crush) I try to initiate conversation and he does too I can’t tell if he likes me I try to talk to him but I get interrupted or I open my mouth and no sound comes out and I feel like when he try’s to talk to me he feels I ignore him Please help me Note: I’m 13 and he’s 14
You probably won’t see this but I just need advice see I like this guy and I think he likes me too. The thing is we can be on the phone and talk about anything and then act like strangers in school I wanna talk to him not only on the phone but face to face. He’s really horrible at texting and I know that has a girl ur not suppose to care to much but I won’t him to start being active. But I’m pretty sure he doesn’t like me just because it’s like he can go a week without texting me and act like everything is okay.
ok so i always call my crush (aka my best friend aka my EX) and we always have nothing to talk about.. so thxxxx edit: ok so #4 i kind of accidentally did that yesterday and now he knows to much 🤷♀️ whoops
Thx I need to keep watching this over and over and we have this thing at my school called the Walk where we go walk around the bus loop for 30 mins to socialize and get exercise so I’m planning on asking him in the morning if I can talk to him on the walk
There’s this guy and I watch all these videos to help talk to him but I’m not sure how to start the conversation, any tips on how to start a conversation?
Hi... I have a crush on this guy for 5-6 months already, and I think he likes me back. Couple of days ago his best friend told me when i was passing by " hey my friend likes you". What should i do? What do i talk about with him when talking to him for the first time?
We are very good at texts but when we meet in real life....Its hella awkward....I just dont know what to say or what to talk to him....please help me and we are very good freinds...and I have told him that I like him but he said that hr dont have feelings for me.. But I understood him..and right now I just want to continue our friendship...and want us to be the best friends forever...
I wonder if you still answer these? :) Well I think this guy in my art class is cute and sometimes I think abt complimenting his art to maybe start a conversation but he always has his AirPods in. But every once in a while I will catch him looking at me. So I came looking for advice 🤞🏽
The guy I really really really liked for years (my good friend) I text. He usually answers but he never once started a conversation with me over text. And once I have a conversation started, he doesn't keep up with it and just leaves it basically. When we talk in person I can tell he genuinely likes talking to me, but over text is just a mess. I don't know what to do. I haven't been able to see him in long time and my only way to contact him is over text. Please help or give advice. ❤
Alright, let's see if this guy *REALLY* replies back: Here are names so you don't get confused: (not real names, obviously) Crush: Octopus Crush's Best Friend: Grape Ok, here's a bit of backstory: We both met in school last year and we both started off as really good friends. We had a friend group and everything. Then we kind of drifted apart a few months later. I started growing feelings for him at the end of 2019. But then, we began getting closer at the start of 2020 and every day we would call and play video games with each other. Eventually, I asked Grape if Octopus liked me (Grape was also one of my closest friends at this point in time). Grape responded that he might. I kept on begging him to tell me but he wouldn't (TwT). Then time flew by, we still called and played together online, and we had social real-life interactions here and there, but nothing really changed. Early May, I wrote a cringy letter addressed to Octopus. Time flew by again, we still kept in touch, played games and stuff. It was great! Then one day, I did something. As I was leaving for school, I took the letter to school with me. I showed it to my friends and they were like, "OMG! You should give it to him!" My brother was also going through the same thing, where he wanted to confess to his crush as well. Anyway, I finally got the courage to ask one of my friends to give it to him (I'm such a coward ;w;). We texted on Instagram with the following texts: Me: Okee sooo, Yes I wrote dat letter, you probably won't care and you probably will reject me but I just wanted to tell you how I felt- literally everything about that was unnecessary but I just like you. I might as well just confess here because that letter was very cringe- I actually really like you. You a very nice person and someone I can laugh with and that's what I really like about you. You're just very caring and very talented.. I just really like you and idk what to SAY ANYMORE BECAUSE IM GOING INSANE EHEH- Anyway, so yeah. Okee imma go cry in a corner now and beat myself up knowing that you probably won't like me TwT bye bye ;w; Him: ok, nah your aight tbh, ok? dont beat your self up Me: arghh idk anymore ;w; did you read the letter? vErY cRiNgE i tELL yOu T^T Him: yea i read it Me: okee- if you just wanna be friends you can just tell me, i'd be fine with it ;w; Him: ok Me: aRe yOu gOiNg tO gIvE mE a dIrEcT rEsPoNsE oR aRe yOu jUsT goNnA sTaNd tHeRe? ;w; Him: idk Me: okee then TvT Me: ugh, i don't wanna say dis but i actually really want a direct answer. i don't wanna force anything out of you but do you actually like me? i know its a pretty direct question but just listen to your heart it'll tell you yes or no. if you don't like me, it's cool, we can still be friends ;w; Him: oh ok ummmmm lets be friends but i like how you said it straight up to my face and that is what i like in sread of being scard ok so lets just be friends Me: okee dats fine hehe >:3 Him: awwww now i feel gult now Me: Nu nu its okeee Him: dam Me: Its ur decision dont feel guilty- TwT Him: ok Everyone is thinking that he actually DOES have a crush on me but he isn't showing it. I showed my friends our texts and they said, "He didn't really reject you, he only said for you two to be friends" and that got me thinking if he actually likes me. So yeah that's it, what do I do? ;w;
I have this crush and I THINK/HOPE that he shares the feeling, but there is also this popular girl crushing on him too I think. Whenever I try to talk to him I never know where to look and what to say. We are only in grade six so I don’t want to overdo it, but I’m afraid that he has a crush on that popular girl. Whenever we have free time he always offers to play with me but sometimes I tell him I’ll just finish a game with another guy and he always looks kind of upset. Also he finds excuses to talk to me but I don’t know if he likes me or if he just wants to be a good friend. I really appreciate it if you read this all the way through because I don’t know who to tell this to and I’ve never told my friends.
Hey, please help?:) I rlly like this guy, and I don’t go to school w him, but I see him at church almost every week. And he might like me too. We might talk soon and idk how to make the conversation interesting. We also text sometimes and sometimes the conversation gets dry. How do I make conversations over text more interesting? And how do I do the same in person????
omg help help help so i’m going to class now and there’s this guy oml i wanna start a conversation with him so bad but i think he’s like a year or 2 above me sooo i’m like so scared and intimidated. and tbh i don’t rlly know if i like him bc i never rlly got the chance to meet him. but he just seems so cool like okay, if i don’t like him maybe we could just be friends lollll. so today we walked in class kinda of together- i say kinda bc i came in first and when i put my phone in the thing i realized he was there to behind me- when i went to open the computer lock i couldn’t do it and he was there so he tried and he couldn’t get it so he called the teacher and she got it and i feel like i could’ve made conversation with him there or make a joke or something or look him in the eyes a bit to kind of break that tension but i didn’t so ugh. i felt like i could’ve asked him “hey do yk how to open this” instead of just standing there also in class when it’s time to go ppl always rush out and he rushes out too and i usually just chill back and wait for the crowd to go right? so i remember the first day i saw him in my class i literally was right in front of him when i grabbed my phone to walk out and he was behind me like wtffff. ik it’s not much but stilll and i think he either went in front of me or vice versa one or two more times. however, today when we left he rushed out and i felt a bit upset like ik ik i don’t even know him why would i expect him to wait for me lmfaoo welp. if u can give me any tips of how to start the convo it would be very much appreciated. also we can’t rlly talk ab hw or classes bc we finish all the work in class and have the same class the whole day since it’s school in the summer. something i was thinking ab was i don’t rlly know that school like that well due to covid and online learning and i could tell he has been here for a while so maybe i could ask him for directions around but ugh it’s so weird what if he thinks out of all the people in the class why did i go ask him yk??? help lmfaoo edit: nvm
I love ur all videos and I will start to message but he doesn't message me How to make him to message me can you tell soulation for this and How to make him to get interest in me please reply to this comment plz 🤗🤗
I went to his house on vacations and i talk to him like i never did it was awesome but now we are at school and is awkward i invites him Last week to the movies we didint talk a LOT. i wanna talk to him tomorrow i dont know what to say :'(
So my guy best friend is a bit older than me but we talked for days when he suddenly stopped wanting to talk to me, what do I do? I always ask him if he wants to call and it’s usually a yes, but today I asked twice and it was a straight “No” with no other message. I tried calling him but he would not answer. I don’t know what I did wrong, could you maybe tell me where I might or might have not gone wrong?
I have a crush on my ex and before Time I broke up with him bcuz I wanted to focus on my future now I am still missing him but we still chat together and when ever you talks with me I blushed every time😚😚
hold up my guy friend that i wanna get close to is really secretive and i don’t know how to start a conversation without talking about myself because he just won’t talk. i feel so selfish what do i do?
I wish talking to someone was easy, I get a lot of social anxiety
Slowly do it. Practice. :)
Your not the only one ☝️
I’m going to McDonalds and the cinema tomorrow WITH MY CRUSH and I have social anxiety too. I’m so nervous!! Aggghhhhh
Same
Same 😞
Im actually a very confident person but when i’m around him my words jumble up and slur together. 😭 🤦♀️
If a girl Said hi to me id fall in a coma
@@bokohd just become a sigma male you don't need any woman women needs you
When I'm texting I'm fine but when we call its like super awkward aaaa I don't know what to talk about 😂💀😭
Focus haha
You know what... i m you😂
Same here
Me too I am an introvert and I usually don't speak to much so after getting into a relation i don't know what to talk or how to lead a conversation and he always complaints about it .
@@unicornangel157 same here🥲
This guy likes me, and he makes me so nervous ughhh. I wish I was confident
You got this! :D
Gwen Moxham at least he likes you
Emilyxox yeah, it’s all good now we started dating a month ago and it’s going great! :))
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Gwen Moxham how’s it going :)?!
I'm male but I'm watched evry "How to talk to girls video" so now I'm watching this 😂
Hahaha Smartttt. ;)
So these kind of topics are good for talking to a guy? I’d like to here a male’s perspective
@@sofieh2314 Ok. From my perspective I'd say these tips are good and helpful, but most importantly you should be positive and have some plan if you are shy or little bit scared(some lines for keeping conversation going), and just enjoy conversation and you should be good🙂
makes sense now you’ll know if a girl watches his vids makes u know u two have something in common
Im watching this to test his theory im a guy i wanna see if its true ;)
I just need confidence
You got this Ellie! :D
I said "hi" he said "hello" than I said "I'm not good at conversations bye" 😂😂... Everytime... But in mind I talked so much with him🤣🤣
Same here
nahhh fr
Tysm!! now i can finally make conversation with a guy who sits next to me (I think he's really cute and he was wearing merch of a band I like so that's why I'm interested)
WISH ME LUCK ON MONDAY
Wishing you luck on Monday!! :D
Which band lol?
How did it go???
y'all together now or what?
what does tysm mean?
1. compliment him
2. talk ab his interests
3. share stories w him
4. open up & lower your walls
5. don’t talk ab past relationships
6. show that ur interested
7. ask open ended questions
8. find things in common
9. talk in a group setting first
10. talk ab nonsense
11. play question games
12. go in w a plan
13. have a positive attitude
14. let him talk ab himself
15. take mental notes of your surroundings
:D
I really appreciated this video! I got up the courage to talk to my crush but after I asked him questions, it ended in an awkward silence.....I...didn't know what to do😅
I'm assuming you asked open ended questions since you watch the video. Haha. If he doesn't ask you any questions back, try to prolong the conversation with a comment to what he said earlier or talk about yourself along with more stories. If he shows interested in an topic go deeper with it. Hope this helps. :D
Oh my- thank you so much, I really just am such a shy person I can’t even say hi to my crush lmao. Thank you so much again, this time ima be prepared
Yay!! :D Hope it's a success!! :D
True Medallion yes it was- THANK YOU SO MUCH I CANT EXPRESS HOW MUCH IT MEANS TO ME 😊
actually idk why but when I talk to my crush on message I always feel stressed out so I always ask my friend to tell me what to say I feel so powerless
You got this! :D
Guys like to talk with girls no matter who u r
Actually i like to talk with girls two.
So go and get it girls.
Btw am a guy not gay
You need confidence level of Jin
How to know him better if you haven't met yet but feel connected as you've been talking and texting each other long distance??
Perhaps doing a video chat. That way it's more personal than talking on the phone or texting with a device.
Hi kunika
As a guy I can say I really like girls that just tell me about themselves a lot. The pressure in a conversation is usually on the guy, because they are the once supposed to approach and take the lead (doesn't have to be this way though). So when I have a conversation with a girl I really like it when she just tells me about random things she did that day or that she generally likes. It might bore some guys, but it's so much better than just answering every one of my questions with yes or no.
Also real big turn off in conversations in general is someone that never asks any questions back and only answers them. I personally will then just assume they aren't interested and walk away from the conversation.
I'm shy and not talkative and he's gets bored. Idk what to do.
@@jhica5718 kiss him and tell him that you are a little bit awkward . That exactly my girlfriend did now she's my wife
@@kaafirgupta8397 ❤❤❤
How do u start a conversation on his interests and how do u talk about your self without seaming self centred ??
Simply ask him what his interest are. When you find something that you guys both have in common, that's when you talk about yourself too and share your experience. :)
So my school has this one night camp we go to every year this year i was at a table with this boy and we because amazing friends i said i liked scary stuff and he invited me to a scary movie and recently he asked if i wanted to sit next to me on the buss ride to the camp i obviously said yess I don’t know what to say but this helped your videos have helped me so much plz keep creating
Thank you so much! :D
I’m really really shy but one thing that has helped me I thinking....”either it goes really well and we start talking and if I fail miserably....once I’m 30 no one will remember...”
True. :)
The thing is..
I have no classes with him and at lunch we only look at each other but we don’t talk bc it would weird out our friends 😂
XD
I want to keep conversations online ‘cause I’m mostly bored
;)
The fact that he actually replied to everyone 🥺❤️
I know... Still replying to this day. haha
you actually replied to every comment😍 u got a new subscriber now
I just need some help. My situation is that me and this guy really like each other, we’re not in the position to date yet but It will happen eventually. I’ve NEVER had any romantic relationship. We text every night and I only see him once a week, and when I do I feel like I don’t know what to talk about, we just stand there awkwardly, I feel like I’m super boring and he’s like really bored of me and wants to go hang with his friends. I want to hang out with him like I do my friends but I don’t know what to say or do.
I have a guy friend but the convo is always so stiff and it always so dies quickly (we text but in person the atmosphere is kinda tense-comfortable-ish?? like we wanna talk to each other but we just don’t know how to start or keep it alive 😅)
I’m also overall not always talkative in conversations so I also don’t really know how to do this either ;w; (even with people I know, I mostly just listen and occasionally join)
When I talk to a boy for some reason i canot look at them straight on the eye or make eye contact while iam talking to them
You got this! One day you will! :D
I know that he likes me but we are just to awkward around each other
I need a fill in the blank worksheet to start my conversation tbh xDD
Same lol
Are you a limelight? I'm a wh don't we fan as well!
Thanks to the video I had a great time with him at our "date" to a carnival I had a good conversation with him 😁💕
Yay! I'm happy for you! :D
That's so cute! 😝
So there is this guy i met on the academy i teach at, he works as a receptionist he recently started working actually , i met him last friday i didnt know there was a new worker since i missed a day before , and im not so good at starting conversations randomly so i just said hello to him, but he instead wanted to talk to me and keep a conversation, i was impressed how talkative and friendly he was, he is good at carrying a conversation and not make it boring so i also started talking and stuff and i felt super comfortable , he was really cool i might keep an eye for this dude cuz he fine af too 😂 anyway, im excited to see him again next Thursday and hopefully i wont be awkward lol
I get shy and awkward and I struggle looking at boy's face and talk, unless we're really close. And I blush even tho I don't have a crush on any boy when I talk to them 😭😭😭😭😭
Omg samee
@@phiaasupremacy phew I'm not alone
Sameeee! They almost think I like them because my face goes red, no it’s just because I’m shy and I’m not confident
i will try thiss!!! i'm really a shy person but this is the best advice ❤
Thanks! :D
i tried #9 but he didn't come... oh well
It's 50/50 :/
I’ve know this guy for a while now, we went out for a little while but we split up due to personal reasons on his end. We’ve started getting closer again and our mutual friend (his best friend) told me he still likes me. I’ll admit that makes me happy as I still like him too. But for the last few days we’ve been trying to have conversations and they’ve just been running dry. For example we don’t talk for longer than about 30-40 minutes as we don’t really find something good to talk about. Take last night, we had a nice little conversation about gaming and asking how each other is doing. Then eventually he read my message and just didn’t say anything back. I’ll admit he’s not the best at communication, he’s like it with everybody but i just wish we could have better conversations. As I don’t want to try another relationship with him unless we can actually communicate like we did before. I’m not sure how to do it though. As in general I’m an anxious and awkward person.
Sorry if that isn’t clear enough, I’m trying to explain it the best way I can. I really do care about him and I know he cares about me too, I don’t want what we have to he ruined. I’m just stuck right now as it’s been over a month since we split but we’ve been in contact almost every day, but the majority of our conversations are through a group setting. We have a group chat with our closest friends and we contact each other daily. We video call a lot and he talks to be a lot and he tries. But I’m just not sure where things are going, I do want to try again but I’m just stuck when it comes to conversation.
I’m sorry for this long message, but thank you 🌸
Hi Vahnya! From experience, there's only a finite number of things people can talk about for both parties to be interested. If you think you guys have talked about it all and gone through everything with each other, then that's okay. You don't need to talk to each other every day to feel connected. Sometimes it's better to do it once in awhile or every other day just to catch up on the latest news or gossip. Sometimes the less you guys talk, the more they'll miss you. Also, sometimes if you give each other space, you'll cherish and value the time with each other more when you guys reconnect. Oh lastly, you can all hangout together and create more experiences so you have more to talk about later in the future. Hope this helps. :)
Girl, you don't have to always do the effort. Sometimes you just have to wait. If he's really into you, he eventually will try to start the move as well. Vice versa, not one way.
The guy and me literally just say “hi” to each other and nothing else.Hes going to be my schoolmate next year and I don’t even know much about him this is bad
Start talking. :)
Bro we don’t even say hi we only talk like twice a year so you’re lucky af
Heihva Gjørdu Bruh don’t you realize I’m gonna be an outcast next year
so geek idc you’re still luckier than me so good luck w him
Heihva Gjørdu btw he’s not my crush I just need friends which are guys
I am in a rlly awkward relationship and we don't know what to do to make it less awkward, do u guys have any advice??? Plz and thank u
Hang out more and talk more. Once you start doing that more, the awkwardness will slowly fade away.
@@TrueMedallion ToT it's a LDR
I don't know how to keep the conversation going🥺 at some point it's like just oh,yeah,ok,great and good. I'm in desperate need of help🥺😭
Ask questions that's related to previous statements. Also, share your own experiences too. That would be a great start. :)
@@TrueMedallion thank you so much for your reply. I'll sure try this ☺️
I am interested in a guy...thats makes me really nervous. I talk perfectly fine on text but in person cant get a single word out. I dont know how to be confident, and i neber know what to say after how are you!!
I hate being socially awkward so much
Ok so I’m a sophomore girl In high school and I don’t really like dating but I’m finally open to it. There’s a guy that I met in my last class of the day. He transferred out and one day he ran to walk with me to ask how I was still doing. Since then I most of the time have to text him first which I’ve only done a few times. Sometimes I say I gtg because I feel like I’m bothering him and he he says that I’m never a bother and when I say I’m gonna leave he gets upset and says we didn’t even talk that long even if it was a two hour conversation. At school he’s always the one to approach. After school he’ll come over and talk to me after my friends leave me alone. He still has friends around but he says he likes talking to me even when it’s awkward. And his friends are always looking at me. Do you think he likes me?
Those are some really strong signs. I believe he does. ;)
Bruh!
I can speak on the behalf of all boys. Conversation with us is simple and straightforward. You need not to put much efforts in it.
Talking with girls in the other hand is very complex
Lemme it isn’t actually, girls rlly like when guys give them attention and talk with them it makes them feel special and some times playing flirty jokes on each other is fun too!
Well for guys they should not ignore the girls like one day u were talkin to her and then other day not even replying , that actually turn off the interests and some might even don’t care while some endure it and guys shouldn’t say the same compliments to the other girls too it will only hurt the girl who is interested in him. I hope this was helpful 🙂
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hey, i like this guy in my class but i don’t know how to talk to him in real life in school and i don’t really know him too well but i wanna get to know him so how would i come up to him and have a normal conversation with him? what would i say? what can i compliment him on isnce we have uniforms in our school? hElP?
Talk about homework! That's an easy and lowkey approach.
“Don’t talk about past relationships”. Me: well aha they don’t exist 😂
Haha ;)
I'm going on a date with my crush in a few hours, we're both shy so atleast now I know what to say to prevent the awkward silent moments.. This was very helpful 😊 thank you🤗
Good Luck, Carly! :D
@@TrueMedallion how was your date
I had a chance to talk to my crush so this is why I searched this up but u can't try again tomorrow
I just meet him over the internet and I catch feelings too easily and I don't think he even thinks I'm like a friend... He is kinda nice but he can get dry sometimes witch makes me sooooo uncomfortable. Also we only talk on a group chat and don't want to seem too desperate 😩
Hey True Medallion you have a great voice!😊
Thank you! :D
So,May I know your interests?😊
I dont know if i should let got or not, because he shows some signs that he likes me, but then agian, there are more signs that show that he doesn't, i really cant decide 😔
Can you make a video on what to do when a conversation becomes or seems to feel one-sided?
Don’t ask yes or no questions. That trick really works. But I’ll pin that idea down. :)
there's this guy who likes me, and i like him too, he started calling me and i don't have the confidence to start a conversation, my shy-ass is panicking, i dunno wut to do so i always end up pressing the end button.
XD
Thanks, I'll try to do this, I'm so anxious to even do simple things, I wanna ask him to sit next to me in a field trip we're going to, I think that sitting next to him will make us know each other better. But I just get so anxious and over think everything.
I'll try tho.
You got this! :D
@@TrueMedallion thanks :3
What if he seems interested, but also says he’s damaged… how do I help him feel better, and not come off desperate
I'm trying to figure out if the guy I like is nervous or just a bad listener... He blushes around me, makes a ton of effort to be around me, tries to impress me, etc. But then, when we're in a conversation, he looks like he's thinking of what to say next rather than listening to what I'm saying 🤔
Hey, could you guide me on a really initial stage (not general ''hi'' ''hello'' types) of engaging an ongoing conversation what would you suggest to start off with..
How do you keep the conversation going while face timing with your bf for the first time!?
Talk about what’s going on in your life... gossip ...
I like somebody but I don't know if he likes me back. So we make a lot of eye contact in class and his friends are talking about me. But whenever I try to start a conversation we're not talking very much he just says one sentence and that's it:( so I am verryyy confused nowwww what should I do?
If only I’d seen this back in November
:(
So I go to teakwondo and I’m a red belt there’s this boy that I’ve liked since white belt and I assist with other classes with him we make like kinda flirty and some friendly faces at each other (note this is my first ever crush) I try to initiate conversation and he does too I can’t tell if he likes me I try to talk to him but I get interrupted or I open my mouth and no sound comes out and I feel like when he try’s to talk to me he feels I ignore him
Please help me
Note: I’m 13 and he’s 14
I just get my friend to talk to them for me
😆
Please don't make that mistake 🤧
Damn. I'm going sort of out with him on Friday and I'm extremely nervous and I don't know if I can do it now.
You got this! :D
Sooo.... Ummmm how did it go?
@@doughdog7I think they are still on the date ;)
Okay when I heard all this I was honestly like "Tf I'm a pro conversationalist" XD I was worried for no reason
haha niceee ;)
How I can i talk to a teen boy over text
;)
You probably won’t see this but I just need advice see I like this guy and I think he likes me too. The thing is we can be on the phone and talk about anything and then act like strangers in school I wanna talk to him not only on the phone but face to face. He’s really horrible at texting and I know that has a girl ur not suppose to care to much but I won’t him to start being active. But I’m pretty sure he doesn’t like me just because it’s like he can go a week without texting me and act like everything is okay.
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Out of topic but you have the same photo as a friend of mine on Instagram !!!!
ok so i always call my crush (aka my best friend aka my EX) and we always have nothing to talk about.. so thxxxx
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ok so #4 i kind of accidentally did that yesterday and now he knows to much 🤷♀️ whoops
Haha XD
Idk how to start a conversation and talk to him😭😖
You got this!
Thx I need to keep watching this over and over and we have this thing at my school called the Walk where we go walk around the bus loop for 30 mins to socialize and get exercise so I’m planning on asking him in the morning if I can talk to him on the walk
But it will b hard 💔😖
How do I feel less awkward and shy with a guy I just recently met?
It's normal to feel that way. Once you get to know him more, that'll just fade away. :)
Most helpful video😘
Thanks! :D
Hi ekta
What does it mean if a guy randomly opens up about his mental health even if any other's of his friends don't know?
There’s this guy and I watch all these videos to help talk to him but I’m not sure how to start the conversation, any tips on how to start a conversation?
I made a video on that... haha
Hi... I have a crush on this guy for 5-6 months already, and I think he likes me back. Couple of days ago his best friend told me when i was passing by " hey my friend likes you". What should i do? What do i talk about with him when talking to him for the first time?
Just be playful initially and try to break the ice with a tease. Go up and just casually say "heyyyy, soo you like me, aye?" ;)
We are very good at texts but when we meet in real life....Its hella awkward....I just dont know what to say or what to talk to him....please help me and we are very good freinds...and I have told him that I like him but he said that hr dont have feelings for me.. But I understood him..and right now I just want to continue our friendship...and want us to be the best friends forever...
I wonder if you still answer these? :)
Well I think this guy in my art class is cute and sometimes I think abt complimenting his art to maybe start a conversation but he always has his AirPods in. But every once in a while I will catch him looking at me. So I came looking for advice 🤞🏽
Do it even with his AirPods on. :D If he wants to talk he'll eventually take them off. :D
The guy I really really really liked for years (my good friend) I text. He usually answers but he never once started a conversation with me over text. And once I have a conversation started, he doesn't keep up with it and just leaves it basically. When we talk in person I can tell he genuinely likes talking to me, but over text is just a mess. I don't know what to do. I haven't been able to see him in long time and my only way to contact him is over text. Please help or give advice. ❤
I think he just doesn't like texting I'm bad at texting so I always avoid texting too much. try face time
Thanks a lot :)
No problem
omg i used to be a pro according to these tips now i’m soft😭
There there. It’s okay.
same omg
I really like this guy but I don’t know how to start a conversation with him. So this helped me.
You go this!
Thank you.🙂
you just made my day- TvT
Aww :)
Me: He’s just a boy...☺️
My friend: He’s not just a boy he’s
A Guy!😱
A Dude!😱
A Man!😱
A Male!😱
Me: well that changes everything 😶
Well she is 1 year older than me she is not in sports or any thing but she just sticks out to me what should I do
I might see my crush in the summer but I have no idea what to say bc it will be our first time plus I am really like awkward
Alright, let's see if this guy *REALLY* replies back:
Here are names so you don't get confused: (not real names, obviously)
Crush: Octopus
Crush's Best Friend: Grape
Ok, here's a bit of backstory:
We both met in school last year and we both started off as really good friends. We had a friend group and everything. Then we kind of drifted apart a few months later. I started growing feelings for him at the end of 2019. But then, we began getting closer at the start of 2020 and every day we would call and play video games with each other.
Eventually, I asked Grape if Octopus liked me (Grape was also one of my closest friends at this point in time). Grape responded that he might. I kept on begging him to tell me but he wouldn't (TwT). Then time flew by, we still called and played together online, and we had social real-life interactions here and there, but nothing really changed. Early May, I wrote a cringy letter addressed to Octopus. Time flew by again, we still kept in touch, played games and stuff. It was great! Then one day, I did something. As I was leaving for school, I took the letter to school with me. I showed it to my friends and they were like, "OMG! You should give it to him!" My brother was also going through the same thing, where he wanted to confess to his crush as well. Anyway, I finally got the courage to ask one of my friends to give it to him (I'm such a coward ;w;). We texted on Instagram with the following texts:
Me: Okee sooo, Yes I wrote dat letter, you probably won't care and you probably will reject me but I just wanted to tell you how I felt- literally everything about that was unnecessary but I just like you. I might as well just confess here because that letter was very cringe- I actually really like you. You a very nice person and someone I can laugh with and that's what I really like about you. You're just very caring and very talented.. I just really like you and idk what to SAY ANYMORE BECAUSE IM GOING INSANE EHEH- Anyway, so yeah. Okee imma go cry in a corner now and beat myself up knowing that you probably won't like me TwT bye bye ;w;
Him: ok, nah your aight tbh, ok? dont beat your self up
Me: arghh idk anymore ;w;
did you read the letter?
vErY cRiNgE i tELL yOu T^T
Him: yea i read it
Me: okee-
if you just wanna be friends you can just tell me, i'd be fine with it ;w;
Him: ok
Me: aRe yOu gOiNg tO gIvE mE a dIrEcT rEsPoNsE oR aRe yOu jUsT goNnA sTaNd tHeRe? ;w;
Him: idk
Me: okee then TvT
Me: ugh, i don't wanna say dis but i actually really want a direct answer. i don't wanna force anything out of you but do you actually like me? i know its a pretty direct question but just listen to your heart it'll tell you yes or no. if you don't like me, it's cool, we can still be friends ;w;
Him: oh ok
ummmmm
lets be friends but i like how you said it straight up to my face and that is what i like in sread of being scard
ok
so lets just be friends
Me: okee dats fine hehe >:3
Him: awwww
now i feel gult now
Me: Nu nu its okeee
Him: dam
Me: Its ur decision dont feel guilty- TwT
Him: ok
Everyone is thinking that he actually DOES have a crush on me but he isn't showing it. I showed my friends our texts and they said, "He didn't really reject you, he only said for you two to be friends" and that got me thinking if he actually likes me. So yeah that's it, what do I do? ;w;
I think you did what you had to..now just go with the flow ~~
Im socially awkward and i cant tell stories and i need a lot more confidence
Practice. Taking to everyone you meet.
🤧I saw your other videos too and got a little idea about how to talk to him
Yay! :D
It actually seems a little wierd coz after a small talk we just 🤐
:0
Hi, thank you so much this really helped
Thanks! :D
I have this crush and I THINK/HOPE that he shares the feeling, but there is also this popular girl crushing on him too I think. Whenever I try to talk to him I never know where to look and what to say. We are only in grade six so I don’t want to overdo it, but I’m afraid that he has a crush on that popular girl. Whenever we have free time he always offers to play with me but sometimes I tell him I’ll just finish a game with another guy and he always looks kind of upset. Also he finds excuses to talk to me but I don’t know if he likes me or if he just wants to be a good friend. I really appreciate it if you read this all the way through because I don’t know who to tell this to and I’ve never told my friends.
Why not spend more time with him and hang out with him more. :)
True Medallion thanks for your suggestion, I’ll try it :)
I watched your video and I think it going help me out a lot but how do i keep a conversation going so is not awkward silence?
Hey, please help?:) I rlly like this guy, and I don’t go to school w him, but I see him at church almost every week. And he might like me too. We might talk soon and idk how to make the conversation interesting. We also text sometimes and sometimes the conversation gets dry. How do I make conversations over text more interesting? And how do I do the same in person????
i can start a conversation it’s just we have so many friends it’s hard to talk to him alone. what do i do?
It’s hard to make conversation when me and my crush are both shy and socially awkward what should I do 😭
I have a hard time sometimes keeping a Conversation with my guy best friend so this should help
:D
I have social anxiety and I have a crush on the guys so it just scares me have any advice
omg help help help so i’m going to class now and there’s this guy oml i wanna start a conversation with him so bad but i think he’s like a year or 2 above me sooo i’m like so scared and intimidated. and tbh i don’t rlly know if i like him bc i never rlly got the chance to meet him. but he just seems so cool like okay, if i don’t like him maybe we could just be friends lollll. so today we walked in class kinda of together- i say kinda bc i came in first and when i put my phone in the thing i realized he was there to behind me- when i went to open the computer lock i couldn’t do it and he was there so he tried and he couldn’t get it so he called the teacher and she got it and i feel like i could’ve made conversation with him there or make a joke or something or look him in the eyes a bit to kind of break that tension but i didn’t so ugh. i felt like i could’ve asked him “hey do yk how to open this” instead of just standing there also in class when it’s time to go ppl always rush out and he rushes out too and i usually just chill back and wait for the crowd to go right? so i remember the first day i saw him in my class i literally was right in front of him when i grabbed my phone to walk out and he was behind me like wtffff. ik it’s not much but stilll and i think he either went in front of me or vice versa one or two more times. however, today when we left he rushed out and i felt a bit upset like ik ik i don’t even know him why would i expect him to wait for me lmfaoo welp. if u can give me any tips of how to start the convo it would be very much appreciated. also we can’t rlly talk ab hw or classes bc we finish all the work in class and have the same class the whole day since it’s school in the summer. something i was thinking ab was i don’t rlly know that school like that well due to covid and online learning and i could tell he has been here for a while so maybe i could ask him for directions around but ugh it’s so weird what if he thinks out of all the people in the class why did i go ask him yk??? help lmfaoo
edit: nvm
What do you mean "nvm"?
I love ur all videos and I will start to message but he doesn't message me How to make him to message me can you tell soulation for this and How to make him to get interest in me please reply to this comment plz 🤗🤗
I will be waiting for ur comment below
I have videos on getting notice too. Check those out. It might help. :) Go to my playlist.
Ths ws helpful though but wht if any embarrassing moment of yours comes in front of your own boyfriend how to deal with it ..?
Share whenever you feel comfortable... He's your boyfriend and he should accept you for you.
I went to his house on vacations and i talk to him like i never did it was awesome but now we are at school and is awkward i invites him Last week to the movies we didint talk a LOT. i wanna talk to him tomorrow i dont know what to say :'(
Awwww do the same like on your vacation. :)
So my guy best friend is a bit older than me but we talked for days when he suddenly stopped wanting to talk to me, what do I do? I always ask him if he wants to call and it’s usually a yes, but today I asked twice and it was a straight “No” with no other message. I tried calling him but he would not answer. I don’t know what I did wrong, could you maybe tell me where I might or might have not gone wrong?
I subscribed ❤️
Thanks! :D
I have a crush on my ex and before Time I broke up with him bcuz I wanted to focus on my future now I am still missing him but we still chat together and when ever you talks with me I blushed every time😚😚
Hi I really like your videos dude
Thanks! :)
You're very helpful :)
Thanks! :D
hold up my guy friend that i wanna get close to is really secretive and i don’t know how to start a conversation without talking about myself because he just won’t talk. i feel so selfish what do i do?