Nando GAMING my eyeliner is just at the bottom a little bit. It looks like I have more on that I do because I have mascara on my bottom lashes. But idk what you mean by boxy.
the bullying that probably hurts the most is when you have a best best friend, but after a while their attitude totally changes and they start hating you. don't know from experience but ive never seen my sister that sad after it happened.
Ɩąųཞɛŋ ƈཞơʂʂąŋ Just ignore her. The relationship is unhealthy between you two so just tell her you don't want to be friends with her anymore. If she still bugs you slap her or something.
The Official Billy Mays well, we aren't friends anymore. In fact she's my enemy and she tries to bully me whenever she sees me by recording me and saying mean things to me. It's so childish honestly, especially since we're in high school now. So I don't know how to just tell her off cause I'm honestly over it. We had a fight over the summer which is why she keeps bugging me.
Those who bully do it because the only way they can feel good about themselves is if they knock others down. Forget about doing something nice to feel good. Nah, they weren't capable of doing that. They had to make fun of others instead. Sad how parents fail at teaching their kids respect.
@ashley johnson actually bullies are normally people who get bullied or are affected by other things in life, such as fked up parents who hit their children drunk or while on drugs, or parents who do not take care of their kids, or a whole bunch of messed up family problems. Bullies are people too you know. Although what you say about bullies feeling good is true, think about what makes them want to hurt others to feel good. It means that they are not feeling good and they should be helped with their problems or the vicious cycle of bullying will continue as they do not know how to express themselves or deal with the mental anguish. Please don't judge everyone who bullies even though there are some who truly delight in what they do. Most actually regret their actions when they fully understand what they have done/ are doing.
@Theertern: I see where you are coming from, but it's hard for me to feel sorry for bullies seeing as they made grade school hell for me as a kid. I used to fake sick just to avoid being bullied. I'm one of those people who cares about everyone, except for those who hurt me. Once they hurt me in some way they lose all sympathy from me. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just being honest.
ashley johnson I too understand you, having been bullied, and I do appreciate the honesty. But because I've been both, on the receiving end and the giving end I understand both views and the hurt caused by both. Because there is a common misconception that people who bully others are doing it cos their all the devil's offspring. I'm not trying to defend their actions though, but just trying to say, if someone attempts to bully you or you know someone who bullies or gets bullies just spread the message that they too are most likely hurt people except that they did not have anyone to make them feel better or help them with their problems and do your best to help them.
I hate it when people say "Just ignore them." When you can't. It's almost impossible. Wether you care or not you know what they think, and it can get to a person. act on it or respond (not with violence or hateful comments back) but by telling someone you trust to reassure you that they are there and that you are PERFECT. You can't just ignore it. You may not give a damn but you still hear it and for a moment it stings with confidence you can keep your head high.
I got bullied because of my "style" and what I'd say back would be.. "At least I don't blend in like you." I'd say that because I over heard the bullies say that they were so popular and cool. Well, my friend and I tried to find them, and we couldn't. So all I just said was: "They blend in so much 'cause they're not popular. We don't blend in 'cause we're unique."
This made me cry I was bullied severely from fifth grade until I dropped out of high school in 10th grade and I remember people calling me a cow and mooing at me because I've always been chubbier than everyone else and I was bullied by a group of five boys and their 2 twin boys in the group who were relentless. that they would make me eat wood chips they would throw up on me throw rocks at me I would come home covered in bruises and I remember just hating myself and I still really struggle with that. Im 18 years old now and I have to say that I'm starting to like my body more more each day. Don't listen to people who were mean. Your perfect the way you see and yo u will find someone who sees that.
Im so glad u overcome that situation, people doesnt realize that body image is a delicate issues for young girls, i was also called cow when child, struggle with eating disorders ald lost half of my hair. Its sad people only start caring when its to late, but theres a point when you start embracing your body shape and be proud of who you are
by the way that is so awful i'm so sorry that happened to you!! kids are so mean and you're an amazing person, you don't deserve that...it makes me sick to see kids being so fucking cruel
I know I'm gonna get a lot of hate. And your circumstances may be so that my views don't apply, but why did you let yourself become obese? I mean, what they did is disgusting, sickening to say the least. But why didn't you try and do something? Given what they did to you they would have been sent to juvenile detention.
Why should she change her body? How do you know she was obese and she chose that way? For all we know she could've had an eating disorder where she couldn't control it
Yes really! But that's you're opinion, I respect that! Try to see the best in people and notice what they achieved in one point to the next, even when it's someone you dislike. Seeing what's good and putting away the bad is the best thing to do and maybe one day someone will notice you're achievements! 😊❤
When I was thirteen I remember sitting next to the boy I liked. We were talking and then out of nowhere he looked at my legs and said "you need to shave, see, like her" and pointed to my best friend. I remember feeling so ashamed of my own body hair, why was I made to feel like something so natural was so wrong? My response to that boy now would be "Why are you so scared of girls natural bodies? stop freaking out. It's just hair".
SFH mjr omni That's really stupid. It's not her fault. Most girls when they're 13 don't shave yet because they don't need it, or if they do, they don't need it. If beards aren't gross, then why is leg hair considered gross?
People are acting like the bullies we're talking about from our childhood here. I'm eighteen now and sometimes I still don't shave if I don't want to, and sometimes I do. But I don't blame you for thinking what you do, it's what you've been conditioned to think. But really think about it, why is it gross for women to not shave their legs and armpits, but fine for men? body hair isn't gross. It's natural, for everyone not just men. So now that I've enlightened you, if you still think it's a problem and that it's gross and continue to insult women for their own personal choices about their own personal bodies that has absolutely nothing to do with you, then I do blame you and your ignorance.
SFH mjr omni lol, you must be tired. Is the body's production of hair not natural like all those other things you included? Women didn't start removing hair on their legs and underarms till the early 1900's meaning for all the thousands of years beforehand, it wasn't an issue. Get a grip, it's only 'gross' to you because it is now a cultural norm and what you're used to. Different doesn't mean bad. Now, I'm not saying I don't shave and that other women shouldn't, but it's stupid to say body hair is not natural.
As a 21 year old now I can tell you that, bullying aside, the way my parents handled it affected me more. Because they told me' there's always a reason you get bullied' or even accusing me of being the one who prompted the bullying. Because of them I have major depression, I had anxiety in high school among other behavioral issues. All because the bullying was not handled well.
Moo Potato It's just the way they were brought up- Grenada was not easy. My uncle had it okay with his 7 sibling a mom and a dad but my aunt got moved around. Her mother abandoned all 7 of her siblings and she learned that life was cruel. She loved me a lot but her and the rest of family are stuck in their Caribbean ways of teaching. Which is to be as blunt as humanly possible.
+CookiesTriedToEatMe Well I hope this video helped. Some people will be bullies whether you provoked it or not, which 9 times out of 10 that seldom is the case. Most people who are bullies are insecure and have a troubled home life so they choose to compensate for it by making someone else's life miserable. That old saying "misery loves company" still applies today. Don't be discouraged sweetheart. Stand up for yourself. Be a force to be reckoned with. Eventually they will get the picture. Also, just keep your cool when they try to laugh at you and seem "unbothered". Don't cry or get upset because that will only prove to them that they have power over you. Hope this helps.
+CookiesTriedToEatMe I'm gonna give you a virtual and mental hug. (づ￣ ³￣)づ I had an existential crisis in 3rd grade and a while after that. I lost my "best friend" because I was supposedly doing it for attention. I got depressed and when I told my mom and dad, they said to listen to music to get rid of the thoughts of depression. Don't know how I made it through. Probably lots of repressed emotions!
My biggest bullies were teachers who criticized me for having a meltdown in class. My response would be "Autism is real and that "tantrum" you criticized me for having, was a meltdown."
Hey Army❤️❤️❤️anyway I'm here to support you if you need. Your so strong and brave and beautiful to get though it. I'm sure you are gorgeous inside and out 😘
Well when I was younger kids were worried about boobs size. I guess kids/teenager just develop faster then before so when someone take a little more time to develop, it's seen as weird.
I was one of those kids that was known as a hidden victim. like i got bullied because of my anger issues which lead the teachers to punish me and not the people who were the 'victims' who were actually the bullies. it got the the point that it felt like some of the teachers were actually bullying me too.
Midna Airhart Omg I don't really have anger issues but I do get pissed off all the time and I always get told off by the teachers for "being to violent"
claiming that a person being mean is "just jealous" is probably the most inaccurate this you can do. but saying that they bring others down because they have bad things happening to their own lives, that's likely the case.
I don't think they are coming from a dark place I just think it's because they are just mean people and then there are the ignorant people who make you feel insecure without even knowing it
when I was in primary school all of the kids would laugh and point at my lips because I have big lips. Now everyone is injecting their lips with silicone and going through so much pain just to get bigger lips.
I don't exactly get directly bullied, but I'm shy, and I end up getting left out and not talking to anyone. At one point, it was so bad in one specific class. Basically, there were only about 11 of us in this class and I was known as one of the smarter ones of them even though I don't apply myself like the students who get recognition for being smart. We were in groups designing and building an underwater rover, and every time I tried to help, I'd be shrugged aside and I ended up not doing any work, constantly sitting off on a bench, only being spoken to by one of the students before she started getting homeschooled and I was very much alone. This went on for a whole semester, even with the guidance counselor talking to me about it one day. I used to get teased for running slow in elementary school, but now it's just more like rejection than anything else. And I'm about to go into high school, too, and I'm scared of how much worse it could get
I was the same way in high school. Even though people spoke to me, I wouldn't really say much and now that I've graduated I kinda regret being that way. Just have confidence, be yourself, and try to get out of your comfort zone once in a while. (Joining clubs helped me a lot) Have fun and good luck in high school!
In all my middle school years and most of my high school years I was shy. I don't make a lot of friends and when I do, they would usually abandon me and leave me out of most things cause they were getting more popular and made more friends. Group projects were the worst as they would ignore my ideas and talk with others. But if they do listen to me they would rely on my for everything and I don't like talking much.
I am quite at school, and don't talk in class all day like the other kids. Since I am quite they people will say stuff like "Do you know how to talk?" or say anything they want to because they thought that I couldn't say anything back. I hated group projects too. One that I remember is when we had to write a song or poem or something and I tried to tell them my ideas, but they wouldn't let me talk. Then they started yelling at me for not coming up with anything. I just wanted to work on my own! And I hate getting into drama and stuff but my friends will act WAY over dramatic about little things. They will say "This year everyone has to love us or we will die." - actual words from my friend. I just go along with them though 😶
I was bullied for not being able to speak the same language as them, so they laughed at me and used insults I COULD understand, I never played outside with kids anymore, I gained more weight and became shy just because of those bitches, the scars are still fresh today.
+Noddygirl Petro English, but in the town I live, it's not a famous language. I was always confused of what they say since I didn't know the language. With a hint of Tagalog.
In my sophomore year of college (yes COLLEGE) I guy called me a fat ass bitch and compared me to the Woman/Venus of Willendorf. If I had the chance I would tell him "Yes! I'm a priceless artifact that is a symbol of beauty and the ideal woman."
I feel like this topic is not discussed enough. Bullying. It's like living in a hellhole if your a victim of bullying. Unfortunately, I am a victim and it's honestly the worst feeling. I have been bullied for almost all my life. I won't mention names, but there's a girl in my English class who hates my guts. And I didn't do anything to her! One day, she saw me trip over my book-bag and she laughed at me. Then she called me a "b*tch-loser", pushed me into the lockers, and left. I really don't understand why people are so mean and cruel. Bullying is disgusting and needs to be stopped immediately.
+Amanda As sad as it sounds, put children and teenager don't have a fully developed brain. I once heared someone say that children are basically sociopaths and come to agree with the point. As a fellow victim of bullying I can only advise you to get a good group of friends (maybe outside of school). It get's better and whenever I see a adult who was bullied as a child, they become strong people. There are always gonne be idiots who will try and hurt you (it is just easier to hurt someone to feel better, than to accept your own faults)... don't take it too much to heart. I found out that the best way to upset them is to smile and walk away.
Amanda No problem, I wished someone told me this things when I was a young teenager. Now with 20, I can finally look back and see the positiv outcome: I learned to deal with the hardmanships in life, while my peers did not. It is an advantage ;)
What's fucked up about humanity is that, they want you to be perfect and criticize you over every small detail. However, humanity had never shown me what perfection is, instead show how arrogant it can be.
Humans express their preferences and opinions vocally, and pressure others to follow suit. Keeping people relate-able and similiar serves a purpose in society; it inspires teamwork and trust. Not being able to handle the opinions of others is just a product of the "victims" social insecurities.
I get made fun of because I'm skinny. People call me anorexic when they have no Idea how much I eat. I eat so much. I love food! And I tell them that. Then they ask, "So you have been anorexic before." or "So then you are bulimic?" and it annoys the crap out of me! I just have a really fast metabolism! Calm the F down!
I was bullied alot, and my gym teacher was the worst bully out of all of them. In fact, she still bullies me to this day cause I'm still in middle school. I remember that on the bus a girl threw my jacket out the window that my mom spent all her money on of that week. Then she said "raise your hand if you hate her!!" And pointed to me. Everybody raised there hand. My response now is to just say nothing and forget about the pain....
Stay strong! My gym teacher also bullies me a bit and I think because of him the other students think it's okay to do the same. He and gym classes are the reasons I hate school...
I've been bullied my entire life. I'm moving school after the summer holidays and oh my god I'm scared. Everyone tells me I'm fat. Even my friends, we'll be giving each other piggyback rides and I dot get a shot cos I weigh '70 tons' I don't. I've just always been bigger than everyone else.
Louis Prescott I'm girl, this not the same thing but, all my friend are skinny and have small shoe sizes then there's me..I'm a different shape than them I'm BIGGER and taller and stronger I feel kind of left out in a way.
I've had really bad eczema since I was a baby, it's a skin condition where your skin gets red and itchy and irritated, and I remember in second grade a boy came up to me and asked me, "what's wrong with your arms?" And I told him that it was eczema, but of course, being a second grader, he immediately ran away screaming about how he was going to catch my skin disease, and told the whole grade that I was contagious. I still get remarks or taunts about the "hickeys" on my arms and legs. Yeah, great memories.
You Have Eczema too? I do too I've got a big patch on my leg it makes me self conscious I used to have it on my right hand but it disappeared plus I was bullied for my Eczema..
Same I have it and it gets so irritating that I have to itch but when I do I create spots, so now I have some scars over my body and one time I was wearing socks and this girl said what's on your legs, so I said oh I have eczema and she said "thank god I thought I was going to get chicken pocks" , ever since she said that to me I try to cover up my body as much as I can.
I've had eczema since I was a little girl and it has gotten worse when I had my own children. It was always on my hands and feet, which people notice right away. It does get easier to shrug off the looks and questions. Just say you have dry skin. People without it don't understand what it's like and never will. The people who matter won't comment and will love you the way you are. My husbands says he doesn't even see the spots or scars unless he pays attention specifically to see if I'm ok.
I had a severe case of eczema because of which my complexion is a little dark. I'v had people in school call me names for being dark and ugly and it has affected me so much. I guess this is the reason for my low self confidence. All this bullying does affect the person. A lot.
Kate Mitchell My friend *had* eczema, so her Nanny brought some stuff from Mexico and it removed her eczema, plus it got rid of her warts in a few days.
I hate when people assume girls with smaller breasts are jealous of girls with big ones. Why is it so hard to believe that I love my body and having smaller boobs? Not hating on big boobs but just saying. :)
lilangelique99 same. im also really short. cloths that might actually fit me can't sometimes because i have a small cleavage, literally nothing. But im happy with my self.
lilangelique99 All of my friends have bigger chests than me and equally sized breasts but i don't, i have a small chest and one is bigger than the other. So obviously they pick on me for it and whenever a guy flirts with me they say "I didn't know guys like girls with small chests". So what i did is i found a better friend group who respect me for who i am. And honestly i fucking love my body.
lilangelique99 No one ever assumed that with me. Most knew I didn't care. I did know a few girls that had developed big breasts early that were bullied for it. Mostly guys bullied them. Everyone called those girls whores for having huge breasts. I never understood bullying a girl for their breast size. I never understood bullying someone for being promiscuous.
I was bullied because of my chub, and because of my voice being "not girly" enough. One boy in particular was getting on my nerves, so much, that in 7th grade I lost it and beat him up. Since then, he stopped bullying me, and the other girls. :) ~
I really relate to the girl who got picked on for her body hair. I'm more hairy than the average girl to say the least. It's my biggest insecurity. I remember the day I became insecure. I was around 10 or 11 and I was at the swimming pool with my step sisters. There was a girl we didn't know who pointed out my "boy feet" because I had hair on my toes. Then another girl said I was to hairy to be a "real girl". It just has continued from there and still happens today. Mostly guys point to my arms and say "You're hairier than me! Are you sure you're a girl?"
i can relate to this so much! My family used to make fun of me too, so eventually I started shaving my arms and legs, bit now they make fun of me for shaving. You just can't win.
superskittles, I know how you feel I've had boys pointing at my hairy legs, whispering right next to me and pointing out that I have a thick mustache for a girl, and ever since I have been very insecure about it, but I have just sort of gotten used to it, and learnt to ignore it.
I'm Italian and it is in our genetics to have lots of hair, so when I was younger I was bullied for having a moustache. I look back at my childhood pictures now and I can barely see it, I guess when I had it, it seemed so much worse to me because kids kept on pointing it out.
i have never been bullied but i bullied my self about not have a flat stomach or not being as tall as all my friends but i have learned to appreciate being short and my body
I had kind of an odd personality growing up (still do, I just got better at controlling it), so I got bullied a lot by the "normal" kids who called me a freak or ignored me, which I didn't understand. I see them years later and I barely recognize them under the bleach-blonde hair, push-up bras and heels. I realize how insecure they are and have probably always been, so to them I'd say "Sorry I intimidated you so much."
All of my friends and my family always call me too skinny. My best friend's family talk about me behind their back and always joke around by saying that there's a tapeworm living in my stomach, and that's how I stay so skinny. Someone asked if I had cancer behind my back. People think I'm anorexic and my brother mentioned it around my parents and now they force me to eat, and when they don't they get mad at me. I am 15 years old, 90 Ibs, and 5''4. What I have to say to them now is, I have the body of a model; Skinny, tall, and long limbs. Since when is there anything wrong with being skinny?
+TaseTheRainbowxXAJ I'm 12 years old and 50 lbs. People say "just eat food" but its really hard because I get full really easily. All my "friends" spread rumors saying that i took pills and thats why I'm so skinny. But I understand how it feels when people call you anorexic or a twig. And your right there is absolutely nothing wrong with being skinny.
Jennifer Vanek Glad to see there's someone in the same situation! I'm always called a Twig or a Toothpick nowadays. And in this generation, apparenly being "chunky" is a good thing now, and skinny people are always being bashed on. A lot of people think skinny people are fake. And it's funny because at school, I literally bring a soda, and buy candy in the vending machine every day. I'm a pig. So what. People have no right to call be anorexic when they SEE me shoving my face in chocolate, lol.
People would and still will make fun of my voice because l "sound like a man" and thought I was "sick" I get my hoarse voice from my dad, and that makes me different from all the other kids.
+Ally Parker Your voice sounds beautiful because it's unique to you. Like if its a guy saying that kind of stuff you can simply respond with "why is your voice so high". That way he (if its a guy would question himself). As for Girls, they're probably just jealous because you have something they desire. Sooner or later people will realize that you're beautiful just the way you are and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
I am currently 21 and STILL getting bullied. I know yalls pains but you are all beautiful. You guys are the best. Keep doing you. To all being bullied block them out, you are EPIC you keep doing you.
I've been teased about me being very short compared to others "midget,short stacks.." me being a red head or as they called it "gingers have no souls", me bring called a dork and failure in life, or a lesbian. Well people who say such stuff, yes I am short and yes I am red headed and so what if I wear glasses? But I am not a midget or a troll, I do have a soul, I am not a dork or a failure in life, and I am not a lesbian. I am me, and you can deal with it.
1. nothing wrong with being a short woman. try being a short man ;) 2. even if you were dorky or nerdy. that's actually cool 3. lesbian? i don't even know why that still is an insult... 4. no soul? debatable, because i at least don't believe in a soul soooooo you are just like anybody else in that regard and trust me redheads are one of the most sought after women, when boys finally become men =) PS: even if you believe in soul and heaven blabliblub. if that god created redheads without a soul compared to anybody else than he is a massive wanker. and because allegedly he isn't redheads have souls too =)
I was bullied throughout my entire childhood. I grew up chubbier than most children, and I had a few comments said to me in elementary school about my weight and how 'ugly' I am. Once I hit middle school, (12-15 years old) thats when the bullying really got bad. I was severely overweight and in a new school. The other kids in my class decided to pick on me the day I got there. One day one of the boys in my class actually walked up to me, and for no reason (still to this day I don't know why), he punched me in the stomach three times (the teacher had seen but he was let off with only a warning). I was severely depressed for a while, but now, at 21 years old, I lost 85 lbs, I'm healthy and I have a boyfriend who treats me like I'm the most beautiful woman on this planet! Don't let bullies get to you, they're just people who don't have enough positivity in their lives and they aren't worth your time or tears
I get bullied for having a "baby" face and being really skinny. They call me "anorexic" and the worst part is is that they're suppose to be my friends and I went to them because my other so called friends bullied me too :(
Im so sorry to hear that!!!! You do not deserve!! You are beautiful just the way you are!! Remember that when bullies do this is usually because they're scared of being put down by someone so they do it to others before it happens to them that way others wont do that!! Dont ever think what they are saying defines you because it doesnt!! What defines you is the way you are to people!! Please dont ever let yourself think that you arent good enough because of what they say, you are so much more than that! You nice, lovable, kind, smart, beautiful inside and out and you are loved!!! If you want you can dm me on twitter @ines28lp Stay strong xo💗💗
Selenator Kate Maybe your problem is that you don't talk it out. I know it's not your fault but if you let them then it kind of is. Stand up for yourself! I'm sure that if they are your friends they will understand. If not, you should change again...
I personally think baby face is a compliment. Don't listen to these people.just find important things in your life to care about and kick these people out of your life.
I know how it feels. Girls talk behind our backs. Well you know what you should probably say? You guys are the ones who will have no friends in 20 years and you guys will have an ass full of guilt and karma because no one wants to be around someone mean like you guys
When I was 8 my neighbor said that I was "fat" and my whole life I've never been able to get over that. I still have body image issues, but this video helped me a lot. Thank you buzzfeed💛
Whenever people insult me I say thank you and they're always left speechless so I just laugh and walk away and those people have never insulted me again
got bullied for being dark skin and having no butt by other black people they called me white girl because of they way i speak and the music i listen to. i was always so sad as a kid because others were just so mean to me for being me.
I've heard this before from other dark skinned young women, especially those from more well-to-do, educated families; they get called "white girl" and things like that. It's actually pretty ridiculous when you think about it because it's like on the one hand we say that what we really want is to embrace and celebrate diversity, but then on the other hand what we really want is for people to fit certain stereotypes and these preconceived notions of what a "black woman" should be. I'm sorry you had to go through that, but hey, they didn't break you did they? ;)
Steven René August DeCesare you're absolutely correct! no they didn't break me!! i actually embrace those things now!! it made me so much stronger. i guess it was a test i had to go through to appreciate what i have. =)
i am skinny and people think that it is ok to point it out all the time and make cruel comments about it.I have one friend who is a little bit overweight and she tells me all the time that i have only bones but if someone says something about her eventhough it is not as cruel as what she is saying to me shes making it a big deal!And you now what?I cant change!I eat normally and i just cant gain weight!I cant handle it hearing all the time that i have to change is awful espessialy when i am trying to show that i dont care,because i do!
If you're skinny then your skinny. There's nothing wrong with that because you're already beautiful. And if your friend wants you to change, then they're not your real friend
I know right! Sometimes people make comments on my body saying how skinny I am and thinks it perfectly fine, but when somebody makes a comment on somebody who's fat , they freak out and think it's wrong to say that!
Bullying is bad. But what's worse is when a very, VERY genuine and naive person who just innocently points out something they noticed, and it just kind of bothers you. But you can't say anything, because, you know, it's not like they were trying to insult you.
I was bullied because I was in general "weird".For example I was wearing bright coloured skirts and shirts instead of plain jeans and tees or I was listening to "weird " music(70's-90's). Boys used to mock each other with saying that they like me . All of this made me stronger and right now I am studying tourism and planning to go to language school in German . if it wouldn!t for my childhood bullies ,I would never though of going to high school in different city (which helped me a lot. ) So I say thank you,you made who I am now
i get bullied and not saying what for but i would just act like i can't hear them and i would talk to someone else and laugh then they feel embarrassed so SLAYYYYYYYYYYYY GIRLLLLLL
I was teased and bullied a lot, but I don't ever think about it... this video made my cry, but in a good way. I've been so self conscious for a long time and now I've opened my eyes, these women are so strong, and I am so happy for them.
I wouldnt really care if some one called me fat anymore i think, because if i wanted to change it i could but its when people make fun of my height thats hurts, im self conscious about it enough and there is absolutely nothing i can do about it
Yeah same. Being a short male is especially bad too, because society is obsessed with height particularly in males. I haven't stopped growing, but I'm only 5'3" so I get made fun of a lot.
Ultitronic Dont worry about it, honestly i know a lot a females that prefer shorter guys including myself, i went out with a guy that was 6ft 7in (im only 4ft 10in) so when i held his had he looked like my dad ahaha
Ultitronic I'm 5'4", and my bf is barely taller than me, and I mean barely, and I love it!! kissing is easier than with a 6 foot tall guy, hugs are better, dancing way better (no dead arm from reaching up so far) and spooning!! cuddles are way better with a guy my own height. Any girl hung up on your height isn't worth dating anyways.
When I was in elementary school I I was bullied and just one of the hurtful words was FAT!! And this is my response. Listen I might be fat but at least I don't make God wish he had a reset button.
Same here! I'm kinda chubby so I just be nice to everyone in class, and this other girl she weighs about the same as me and everyone hates her. It matters about personality, not looks or body shapes!
I am too im just nice to everyone but if somelse see's me they kinda make fun of me but not all the time because I dont talk to kids I dont know, but they make fun of me sometimes because im tall and they think I should be skinny I just say im curvy
"nice" doesn't matter in my school :( it matters about looks and your grades and because people pick on me which I am not fat I am shy and tall big boobs that I hate and skinny but everyone picks on me because there is no one else I used to be friends with everyone now I have 3 friends I had 27 I hate my school because everyone hates me so I fought back now I am known as 'the one' which is because I am the only ONE that gets picked on and gets into a fight everyday
Hello. I just wanted to say your all beautiful and don't listen to the bullies they are just jealous! Love yourself and you'll find someone to love it also!
It's not like you can change the way you look That's why when people bully me for something as simple as me having freckles I'm like "i was born with freckles, it's not like I can just take than off" It's just like when people are bullied for their skin colour. The last time I checked, no one can't snap my fingers and become a different race.
I was very dark as a child (I still am), but people would always asked if I was adopted because my parents are much lighter than me. I was very sad because I thought it was true. They would always assume ask that first followed by "is she mixed?". It doesn't bother me now, but I still get asked about my race. I tan very easily even with sunscreen on I always get dark. Now people ask if I'm Mexican/Hispanic, Indian, and now people have been asking if I'm Asian.
Ikr. there is one girl in my school and my friends sayd that if she was adopted because her parents were "white" but I dint say nothing cuz that was rude.
+gleslier Leslie Rodriguez You should tell your friend he is wrong. If she is your friend it would not matter but for the poor girl it matters if people correct it.
It's amazing how these women came out of that beautiful, powerful, and strong. Not one of them had been a bully themselves. Lets just say bullies never win in the end.
I get bullied for my liking. People say they hate me, when I didn't do anything. They talk behind my back. They do anything to make me unhappy. My response is this. If your gonna go hate someone for no reason, you might as well go back to kindergarten. To anyone being bullied, keep your head high. Just because people don't like something unique about you doesn't mean you can lower you confidence. Be proud of yourself. You are gorgeous. You are loved. Don't let the haters get to you.
I get called anorexic because of my thin figure and because I don't gain weight that often. I personally don't find myself that super thin. And being called that takes a hit on my confidence.
You're not alone. Girls I know always joked I was bulimic because I eat all the time & no one should be as skinny as I am if I eat that much. They don't know I have an extremely high metabolism. It hurts to hear them constantly joking about a serious disorder that most people have. A little thing I remember that might help you is God does not make mistakes not now, not ever. *now you may not believe in God but he always helped me through tough times*
Thanks :) Yeah I eat a lot but often I don't eat big portions at a time. I prefer small portions at first then if I still feel like I have enough room for more. Being a tiny person, eating a lot at once can make me sick :3 I personally don,t know how I manage to stay thin :P High teenage metobolism and dance I guess plays a role.
Sara Germain I was also teased (the term bullied seems extreme) about being too skinny even as an adult. I weighed less than 100 pounds all during high school. No, I didn't and don't have an eating disorder. I just didn't gain weight. Now that I'm older I have gained some pounds. Sometimes you just have to let nature take it course and love yourself. Those who are saying those things are probably killing themselves to lose weight. :)
I dont understand why you are so sensitive.not gaining wait that often is a plus.you should be happy.why should that affect your confidence it should instead do the opposite.
I know at least 1 or 2 people will read this I want to say a few things. I don't care about your age, gender, weight, sexuality, race. Everyone should have a happy life. Everyone is human and they shouldn't be treated like something else. Everybody Is special in there own way. Dont change yourself for someone. No matter how hard u want that person to accept u. If ur dealing with bullying right now in ur life , just remember you are strong u are powerful and u deserve to live with happiness each and every day. Those people who let u down have faced hard times in there life or they were weak at one point and they try to get power from u. It isn't fair for someone to get treated like crap for nothing. Society is dumb tbh 😒. You shouldn't pick someone with great looks cause someday they will change. You shouldn't pick someone with great skin someday it'll wrinkle. You shouldn't pick someone with lots of friends someday they will become lonely. You SHOULD pick someone with a big heart and a great personally that will always be there no matter what. DO ME A FAVOR ok? If u see someone sad comfort them even if ur a stranger. Smile at someone new, give a little complement, make someone laugh, hug someone. The littlest things are what truly count. It'll make u happy and plus how would u feel if someone did that to u ? I believe in you and someday u'll find someone that gets u whether its a partner or best friend they'll help u through tough times you'll grow up to be a great person. AND ALWAYS be forgiving to ur enemies they say "kill them with love".GOODBYE ❤ ❤
It just makes me happy to see how these woman grew up and have those memories of being bullied but it never affected them greatly though they probably did try to change to fit in it just shows that what happned in the past makes you stronger now and I never really was able to understand what people mean when they say people bully others because they have "problems" in there life and I see it more as they compare themselves to you and find the better qualities that you have and and pull you down with them in there pain of not fitting in
Strangers still come up to me everyday and comment about my extremely pale skin.. "Wow you're pale, are you going to faint?" "Have you ever heard of the beach" "You need to get a tan." One older guy even came up to me said he liked my makeup and quickly took it back because he thought I was a mime.... The fact that strangers feel the need to come up to me and comment about my skin has only made me hate myself more.. I've never been so unhappy with myself.
Before I post I want to say I am in fact a WOMAN despite the fact that my channel name is "Norman". Norman was the name of my first cat when I was little, so yeah. Anyway... I have naturally curly hair ('Im black) and it was really long. I was always called Wanda Weave in school, even though my name isn't Wanda. Because of that, when I was in seventh grade, I put a pair of scissors into my sweater and asked to go to the restroom. When I got there, I started to chop off hair. When I finished, my hair was choppy and a mess. After I realized what I did, I broke down. Eventually my teacher found me on the bathroom floor, bawling my eyes out. They called my mom and I had to explain what happened while fighting back tears again. To this day, I still keep my hair short but I still let it stay natural. Looking back, I would've told those bullies that my hair is beautiful and acts like a soft cushion to protect me from falls, something their thin, straight hair can't do. Of course I regret the choice, but its over and done. Don't bully because you never know how far someone will go to prove you wrong.
In grade 5 some boy came up to me at the drink fountain and said 'you're fat' (which I know now I wasnt). When I told people he said that, they didnt disagree but just said he's mean or ignore it and I thought I had to change myself. My mum didn't think me losing so much weight was an issue because she struggled with her weight so she saw it as positive and I didnt realise what I was doing was bad for me, I just thought I was becoming more healthy and it really wasnt. I struggled with anorexia for about 3 years after that and I cannot even look at my yr 7 class photos it makes me want to cry. Be careful what you say to people.
***** Actually I would argue that society is run by extremely competent people who force their ideology on the rest of us to create a hierarchy. Also, suicide is not a selfish thing. Seeing it that way blames the victim rather than the disease.
obfuscate insanity The logic in not blaming someone who committed suicide rests in the fact that their outlook on life left them without a choice. When someone has that frame of mind, to kill themselves, their psyche is centered around the idea of escape. Their thoughts are not reality. Often times the only escape route for these individuals is death. They are not making a logical choice and looking at all of the unrealistic outcomes (ig, their family suffering) because they are so far gone in their psyche of escape. Therefore, the choice to commit suicide is not actually a "choice". Furthermore, to be selfish is picking the wellbeing of yourself over others. It is putting yourself first. Logically there is not choice made so therefore selfishness cannot exist. I hope you followed that. xD
On this video, everyone's trying to comfort the people in the female version. But in the comments of the male version of this video, there are a lot that say "oh you guys are pussies" and "that's not real bullying". Really makes you think, huh?
506TAG I just went and looked at the male version, and I don't see any comments about them being pussies. All I see are comments that are like "Oh, he was bullied? I had no idea!"
Basically some of these were the same in terms of body parts were made fun of. No one should bully anyone, male or female. Both girl and boy bullies need to be shut down. Sometimes words are the things that hurt the most because they get in your head and stay there for a loooong ass time. I think both the men and women in these videos are perfectly validated.
This girl in my class just HAD to be rude. I am a very skinny person, and I guess I just don't have much of a butt. Anyways, in the hallways she came up to me and said "Oh my gosh, Becky look at her butt, it's soooooo small." I kinda just walked away. When I came home my mom had gone to the store, so I just cried wondering why o had to be skinny and not have a butt.
I get bullied of my looks if my bullies watching this here is my respond "Iam beautiful just the way iam you can not change my looks iam perfect just the way iam"
I was bullied for being bigger than all the other kids. My mum always said to take no notice and obviously didn't understand that it's hard to take no notice of my lunchbox being stolen and put in the bin and me having no food. Yes I did lose weight, from the bullies taking all my food and me not having any friends to support me or help me out. I was always shy and on my own until I finally found a friend who saw how much I was suffering. She told the teacher of all the things happening and she told my parents. They then asked for the bullies to be separated from me and I never saw them again. Now I'm in high school and I have better friends and there are approximately 350 people in my grade, it's pretty hard to get bullied often as the school being soo big. I just wanted to share my story because I am glad it's over now.
My childhood bullies bullied me into kissing dog shit. they stole my tamogatchi and smashed it to pieces. they crushed me into the wall on the buss to the point of tears (and i was tough so it was pretty hard) "playing corners". they blamed me for things that really hurt, like making the relay team lose. and excluded me (i hung out with them becuase they were the only people i wasnt too shy to speak with. this was in grade 4 and 5. however my recomendation, is to forgive people. people change, and brooding over what people did or said to you as a kid and judging them off that is not going to help you or them. now, 7 years later, the people who bullied me are now the kindest people i know, and have been through tough times themeselves. They are great friends, some of my only friends, and i cant imagine life now without them. i have learned from them. i have learned how to assert myself better, how to recognize when im being manipulated and to try and block out others negetivity.
my advice, if you are going through tough times with bullies, i recommend you watch a movie with people in similar situations, or listen to music that is meaningful to you. or find something that will let it all out. or find something that makes you forget about all they say or do. But make sure its a HEALTHY way to cope. I may not be the best at giving advice, because though i was deeply hurt, i was able to block it out and cope much easier than i see many others do. i have breakdowns when my feelings are hurt, though they are mainly when i'm in solitary, and usually have nothing to do with bullies anymore. I recommend finding someone you trust, and are comfortable around and is willing to hear about your problems, for me it is my mom. and for her i think it is me. but i find it very helpful, when she brings out my feelings, and i end up crying and letting out why and how and what i am feeling towards a problem(s). i think that perhaps she is like a therapist, though i have never been to one, i would imagine that that is how they should be. so find someone who is willing to be there for you and sympathize, and help you out, and give you advice when you need them.
i am bullied from 1st grade to today(7th) and i dont know how long is it gonna be like that😭 i am bullied by my full school and i dont know what to do they are ruininning and ruined my childhood😣😢😭 i only want to have normal childhood and to have 3 real friends😟😢😭
Many are small minded and can't accept vareity. Those who dislike dark skin also dislike me, for being too pale. You are unique and happier times will come. Find your strenghts and cultivate them.
as a 17 year old girl that had experiences with being picked on when i was younger i wish i could go back in time and tell the bullies that it doesnt matter what they think of me, its what i think of me. even though im small and "weird" im okay with that. thank you for making me stronger today.
This one time this child said I had crooked teeth
So I was like I can get braces
What u gonna do about your face!
+pugz b oh I have braces now
This happened like 3 years ago xD
DO THEY NEED SOME ICE FOR THAT BURN???!!!
OOOOO THE COMEBACK!
That comeback
Now that's a snap/ clap back was official! 🔥That's a burn victim for the ICU!
Tbh the adopted comment pisses me off because people use it as an insult. I'm adopted and there is nothing wrong with it.
***** yea lol that's a good idea.
I was friends with an adopted girl and like you said nothing wrong with it
+Mason jones Awww thank you, that's so sweet of you to say.
Jaalah Dech
are u trying to be boxy with so much eyeliner?
Nando GAMING my eyeliner is just at the bottom a little bit. It looks like I have more on that I do because I have mascara on my bottom lashes. But idk what you mean by boxy.
the bullying that probably hurts the most is when you have a best best friend, but after a while their attitude totally changes and they start hating you. don't know from experience but ive never seen my sister that sad after it happened.
Happens with girls a lot. They're fickle.
CogniVision and guys. they blame the girls for being weaker than them.
The Official Billy Mays currently happening to me right now.. I don't know how to tell her off
Ɩąųཞɛŋ ƈཞơʂʂąŋ Just ignore her. The relationship is unhealthy between you two so just tell her you don't want to be friends with her anymore. If she still bugs you slap her or something.
The Official Billy Mays well, we aren't friends anymore. In fact she's my enemy and she tries to bully me whenever she sees me by recording me and saying mean things to me. It's so childish honestly, especially since we're in high school now. So I don't know how to just tell her off cause I'm honestly over it. We had a fight over the summer which is why she keeps bugging me.
My teeth used to stick out really badly, my response "Do ya want me to bite ya"
+molly foley Same!
😂
No, I don't. I really don't.
XD yas
molly foley or you could say I bet you can't bite me tiger
I was bullied because of my stutter. My answer now would be: "What I say is worth repeating."
+madame.charly I love that sass! Good job.
Molly Smith
Hahaha Thank you so much :D
haha good one :)
I love it so much
Beth dm
Thank you :)
Got bullied because I'm dark skinned. My response is; "Don't be mad because your skin wasn't kissed by the sun."
+NotSoTypical We are sun smothered girl, like the sun totally made out with us xxx
Omg i luv you
omg i love you
+NotSoTypical ( ͡O ͜ʖ ͡O)
+NotSoTypical thank you i want somone to understand the way i feel and you definitly do
Those who bully do it because the only way they can feel good about themselves is if they knock others down. Forget about doing something nice to feel good. Nah, they weren't capable of doing that. They had to make fun of others instead. Sad how parents fail at teaching their kids respect.
I meant crys not crystal and btw I'm ins 7 th grade and yes he is in the same grade as me
@ashley johnson actually bullies are normally people who get bullied or are affected by other things in life, such as fked up parents who hit their children drunk or while on drugs, or parents who do not take care of their kids, or a whole bunch of messed up family problems. Bullies are people too you know. Although what you say about bullies feeling good is true, think about what makes them want to hurt others to feel good. It means that they are not feeling good and they should be helped with their problems or the vicious cycle of bullying will continue as they do not know how to express themselves or deal with the mental anguish. Please don't judge everyone who bullies even though there are some who truly delight in what they do. Most actually regret their actions when they fully understand what they have done/ are doing.
@Theertern: I see where you are coming from, but it's hard for me to feel sorry for bullies seeing as they made grade school hell for me as a kid. I used to fake sick just to avoid being bullied. I'm one of those people who cares about everyone, except for those who hurt me. Once they hurt me in some way they lose all sympathy from me. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just being honest.
ashley johnson I too understand you, having been bullied, and I do appreciate the honesty. But because I've been both, on the receiving end and the giving end I understand both views and the hurt caused by both. Because there is a common misconception that people who bully others are doing it cos their all the devil's offspring. I'm not trying to defend their actions though, but just trying to say, if someone attempts to bully you or you know someone who bullies or gets bullies just spread the message that they too are most likely hurt people except that they did not have anyone to make them feel better or help them with their problems and do your best to help them.
***** their family can b stable but they can have lots of other problems and insecurities
I hate it when people say "Just ignore them." When you can't. It's almost impossible. Wether you care or not you know what they think, and it can get to a person. act on it or respond (not with violence or hateful comments back) but by telling someone you trust to reassure you that they are there and that you are PERFECT. You can't just ignore it. You may not give a damn but you still hear it and for a moment it stings with confidence you can keep your head high.
Ikr
Agreed.
I know it's hard just try to pretend that that person isn't there
Yeah
The Duck Aw . . . I'm so sorry. You know, I wish I was Pisces.
I got bullied because of my "style" and what I'd say back would be.. "At least I don't blend in like you."
I'd say that because I over heard the bullies say that they were so popular and cool. Well, my friend and I tried to find them, and we couldn't. So all I just said was: "They blend in so much 'cause they're not popular. We don't blend in 'cause we're unique."
Me too sometimes they call me "80'S"
thats why we have something called school uniform
OK for starters you have great taste. Why? You may ask... YOU LIKE BTS AND V!
JEON JUNGKOOK! ~Jimin on the roof.
v awwwwwwwww nice xD i just noticed that your name is v but the profile pic is junkook is that how you spell it?
This made me cry I was bullied severely from fifth grade until I dropped out of high school in 10th grade and I remember people calling me a cow and mooing at me because I've always been chubbier than everyone else and I was bullied by a group of five boys and their 2 twin boys in the group who were relentless. that they would make me eat wood chips they would throw up on me throw rocks at me I would come home covered in bruises and I remember just hating myself and I still really struggle with that. Im 18 years old now and I have to say that I'm starting to like my body more more each day. Don't listen to people who were mean. Your perfect the way you see and yo u will find someone who sees that.
Im so glad u overcome that situation, people doesnt realize that body image is a delicate issues for young girls, i was also called cow when child, struggle with eating disorders ald lost half of my hair. Its sad people only start caring when its to late, but theres a point when you start embracing your body shape and be proud of who you are
by the way that is so awful i'm so sorry that happened to you!! kids are so mean and you're an amazing person, you don't deserve that...it makes me sick to see kids being so fucking cruel
FTWGamer :) HAHAHHA, yahiko's you may say ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
I know I'm gonna get a lot of hate. And your circumstances may be so that my views don't apply, but why did you let yourself become obese? I mean, what they did is disgusting, sickening to say the least. But why didn't you try and do something? Given what they did to you they would have been sent to juvenile detention.
Why should she change her body? How do you know she was obese and she chose that way? For all we know she could've had an eating disorder where she couldn't control it
I learned that, "If people are trying to bring you down, it only means you are above them."
I love that saying so much, it really says a lot :)
Those bullies should see them now, there all gorgeous! 😍😘
Not really...
The Duck they're***
Thank you thank you, my friend! 😘
Yes really! But that's you're opinion, I respect that! Try to see the best in people and notice what they achieved in one point to the next, even when it's someone you dislike. Seeing what's good and putting away the bad is the best thing to do and maybe one day someone will notice you're achievements! 😊❤
Artificial Flavouring your* your* :(
you're means you are
so what you wrote is not grammatically correct
not trying to be mean tho
When I was thirteen I remember sitting next to the boy I liked. We were talking and then out of nowhere he looked at my legs and said "you need to shave, see, like her" and pointed to my best friend. I remember feeling so ashamed of my own body hair, why was I made to feel like something so natural was so wrong? My response to that boy now would be "Why are you so scared of girls natural bodies? stop freaking out. It's just hair".
SFH mjr omni That's really stupid. It's not her fault. Most girls when they're 13 don't shave yet because they don't need it, or if they do, they don't need it. If beards aren't gross, then why is leg hair considered gross?
***** "If beards aren't gross, then why is leg hair considered gross" - it's called having a preference
People are acting like the bullies we're talking about from our childhood here. I'm eighteen now and sometimes I still don't shave if I don't want to, and sometimes I do. But I don't blame you for thinking what you do, it's what you've been conditioned to think.
But really think about it, why is it gross for women to not shave their legs and armpits, but fine for men? body hair isn't gross. It's natural, for everyone not just men. So now that I've enlightened you, if you still think it's a problem and that it's gross and continue to insult women for their own personal choices about their own personal bodies that has absolutely nothing to do with you, then I do blame you and your ignorance.
Wondorstruck Thank you, thats what I was thinking.
SFH mjr omni lol, you must be tired. Is the body's production of hair not natural like all those other things you included? Women didn't start removing hair on their legs and underarms till the early 1900's meaning for all the thousands of years beforehand, it wasn't an issue. Get a grip, it's only 'gross' to you because it is now a cultural norm and what you're used to. Different doesn't mean bad. Now, I'm not saying I don't shave and that other women shouldn't, but it's stupid to say body hair is not natural.
I'm not fat. It's just my body couldn't hold all my love for everyone, so I had to upgrade ♡♡♡
Alexis Paugh Smart ;)
awwwwww
Aww.
Alexis Paugh You're beautiful. Don't ever think otherwise. :)
nahhhh, you are probably just fat. stop telling yourself that lie and hit the gym.
How could Quinta NOT be anyone's cup of tea? I call bullshit lol.
Diamond agreed. she's fantASStic.
Hell yeah! Quinta is DA SHEEEEET
Which one's quinta ?
Do you know what's the name of that Indian girl.I always thought that she was a normal Indian kid.it's funny & amazing how nature works.
fobudomh The one in the red top that said her body was dope af.
once this girl said my eyebrows were big and bushy
i responded with "my eyebrows are fuller than your bank account"
Ahh burrrnnnn 🔥 🔥 🔥
As a 21 year old now I can tell you that, bullying aside, the way my parents handled it affected me more. Because they told me' there's always a reason you get bullied' or even accusing me of being the one who prompted the bullying. Because of them I have major depression, I had anxiety in high school among other behavioral issues. All because the bullying was not handled well.
Wow, your parents sound kinda douchey there.
Moo Potato It's just the way they were brought up- Grenada was not easy. My uncle had it okay with his 7 sibling a mom and a dad but my aunt got moved around. Her mother abandoned all 7 of her siblings and she learned that life was cruel. She loved me a lot but her and the rest of family are stuck in their Caribbean ways of teaching. Which is to be as blunt as humanly possible.
Oh, that makes more sense.
+CookiesTriedToEatMe Well I hope this video helped. Some people will be bullies whether you provoked it or not, which 9 times out of 10 that seldom is the case. Most people who are bullies are insecure and have a troubled home life so they choose to compensate for it by making someone else's life miserable. That old saying "misery loves company" still applies today. Don't be discouraged sweetheart. Stand up for yourself. Be a force to be reckoned with. Eventually they will get the picture. Also, just keep your cool when they try to laugh at you and seem "unbothered". Don't cry or get upset because that will only prove to them that they have power over you. Hope this helps.
+CookiesTriedToEatMe I'm gonna give you a virtual and mental hug.
(づ￣ ³￣)づ I had an existential crisis in 3rd grade and a while after that. I lost my "best friend" because I was supposedly doing it for attention. I got depressed and when I told my mom and dad, they said to listen to music to get rid of the thoughts of depression. Don't know how I made it through. Probably lots of repressed emotions!
My biggest bullies were teachers who criticized me for having a meltdown in class.
My response would be "Autism is real and that "tantrum" you criticized me for having, was a meltdown."
A better Response would be "Einstein was Autistic".
The Chinese Senator umm.. you do realise that he's not the only one who has Autism and most importantly he did not wanted to have it..
+Emmanuil Haniotis No one wants to be on the Autism spectrum. No one wants to be different, especially when they're younger.
+MooniGaming This is what vaccines do to children.
Die Das
No they don't.
I got bullied about my weight and looks and all that crap, to the point I got suicidal. But hey, now I'm better and I KNOW I am better than them.
***** Thanks
Hey Army❤️❤️❤️anyway I'm here to support you if you need. Your so strong and brave and beautiful to get though it. I'm sure you are gorgeous inside and out 😘
Kids worried about butt sizes?????! Lol what
ikr !!!
***** You other brothers can't deny.
Well when I was younger kids were worried about boobs size. I guess kids/teenager just develop faster then before so when someone take a little more time to develop, it's seen as weird.
Are you kidding me? Kids are so mean to each other about the stupidest shit.
michaela blom When you're scrutinized on a daily basis about it... then yeah.
I got bullied for being black and having dark skin. My response is my skin may be dark but my soul is bright
Destinee Amen girl!
Same 😭👏
yes!!!! I love my chocolate skin!
"My skin absorbs the sun rays and my hair defies gravity! You can't tell me I'm not magical!!"
Your avatar is cute.
The half-Indian half-white chick is pretty.
Ikr.
Ikr she is gorgeous
Tennuhhsee PSN 2 bad she acts pretty stupid in some of the other videos
um all of them are absolutely gorgeous
Tennuhhsee PSN and she has amazing skin color! people pay for endless hours of tanning beds to look like her!!!
I was one of those kids that was known as a hidden victim. like i got bullied because of my anger issues which lead the teachers to punish me and not the people who were the 'victims' who were actually the bullies. it got the the point that it felt like some of the teachers were actually bullying me too.
That happens to me sometimes with my younger cousin. My mam always sides with her to avoid a fuss and it gets old really fast. Stay strong.
Ik how it feels... I was a victim of bulliying, but I just don't understand...Why?
Midna Airhart Omg I don't really have anger issues but I do get pissed off all the time and I always get told off by the teachers for "being to violent"
Exactly they call me a pmsing hoe in math class and I ran out crying
claiming that a person being mean is "just jealous" is probably the most inaccurate this you can do. but saying that they bring others down because they have bad things happening to their own lives, that's likely the case.
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I don't think they are coming from a dark place I just think it's because they are just mean people and then there are the ignorant people who make you feel insecure without even knowing it
they are just jealous of all the people that don't know them XD
@@lindsaychildofgod7928
True!!
Some bullies ENJOYS bullying and they do it bc they can!!
when I was in primary school all of the kids would laugh and point at my lips because I have big lips. Now everyone is injecting their lips with silicone and going through so much pain just to get bigger lips.
Haha who's laughing now bullies. ❤️😂❤️
same, I was told that I got my lips done in high school, I nearly died. but I just took it as a compliment.😏
If I were in your place I would say "I take that as a compliment "
u on top of ur game girl
I know how you feel
I don't exactly get directly bullied, but I'm shy, and I end up getting left out and not talking to anyone. At one point, it was so bad in one specific class. Basically, there were only about 11 of us in this class and I was known as one of the smarter ones of them even though I don't apply myself like the students who get recognition for being smart. We were in groups designing and building an underwater rover, and every time I tried to help, I'd be shrugged aside and I ended up not doing any work, constantly sitting off on a bench, only being spoken to by one of the students before she started getting homeschooled and I was very much alone. This went on for a whole semester, even with the guidance counselor talking to me about it one day. I used to get teased for running slow in elementary school, but now it's just more like rejection than anything else. And I'm about to go into high school, too, and I'm scared of how much worse it could get
I was the same way in high school. Even though people spoke to me, I wouldn't really say much and now that I've graduated I kinda regret being that way. Just have confidence, be yourself, and try to get out of your comfort zone once in a while. (Joining clubs helped me a lot) Have fun and good luck in high school!
+kaarie Gillis thank you!
In all my middle school years and most of my high school years I was shy. I don't make a lot of friends and when I do, they would usually abandon me and leave me out of most things cause they were getting more popular and made more friends. Group projects were the worst as they would ignore my ideas and talk with others. But if they do listen to me they would rely on my for everything and I don't like talking much.
You are literally me
I am quite at school, and don't talk in class all day like the other kids. Since I am quite they people will say stuff like "Do you know how to talk?" or say anything they want to because they thought that I couldn't say anything back. I hated group projects too. One that I remember is when we had to write a song or poem or something and I tried to tell them my ideas, but they wouldn't let me talk. Then they started yelling at me for not coming up with anything. I just wanted to work on my own! And I hate getting into drama and stuff but my friends will act WAY over dramatic about little things. They will say "This year everyone has to love us or we will die." - actual words from my friend. I just go along with them though 😶
I was bullied for not being able to speak the same language as them, so they laughed at me and used insults I COULD understand, I never played outside with kids anymore, I gained more weight and became shy just because of those bitches, the scars are still fresh today.
what language did you speak
+Noddygirl Petro English, but in the town I live, it's not a famous language. I was always confused of what they say since I didn't know the language. With a hint of Tagalog.
In my sophomore year of college (yes COLLEGE) I guy called me a fat ass bitch and compared me to the Woman/Venus of Willendorf. If I had the chance I would tell him "Yes! I'm a priceless artifact that is a symbol of beauty and the ideal woman."
This is great. I wish you could tell him.
KatieFerretsReborns I find it funny that he knows the Venus of Willendorf but not that it was their beauty ideal.
KatieFerretsReborns sorry being fat isnt the ideal women
I feel like this topic is not discussed enough. Bullying. It's like living in a hellhole if your a victim of bullying. Unfortunately, I am a victim and it's honestly the worst feeling. I have been bullied for almost all my life. I won't mention names, but there's a girl in my English class who hates my guts. And I didn't do anything to her! One day, she saw me trip over my book-bag and she laughed at me. Then she called me a "b*tch-loser", pushed me into the lockers, and left. I really don't understand why people are so mean and cruel. Bullying is disgusting and needs to be stopped immediately.
Next time knock her out
hahaha i'll try next time ;)
+Amanda As sad as it sounds, put children and teenager don't have a fully developed brain. I once heared someone say that children are basically sociopaths and come to agree with the point.
As a fellow victim of bullying I can only advise you to get a good group of friends (maybe outside of school). It get's better and whenever I see a adult who was bullied as a child, they become strong people. There are always gonne be idiots who will try and hurt you (it is just easier to hurt someone to feel better, than to accept your own faults)... don't take it too much to heart.
I found out that the best way to upset them is to smile and walk away.
Kisaki Sakura Thank you so much for your comment. It really helped. :) bless your heart
Amanda No problem, I wished someone told me this things when I was a young teenager. Now with 20, I can finally look back and see the positiv outcome: I learned to deal with the hardmanships in life, while my peers did not. It is an advantage ;)
What's fucked up about humanity is that, they want you to be perfect and criticize you over every small detail. However, humanity had never shown me what perfection is, instead show how arrogant it can be.
i'm sorry are you not human? you can go live with the rats then
***** I'm not human, you can pick on me. I'll go be with the rats and invite them to your room.
Silly human asking other humans if they're human.
ALIEN DISGUISED AS A NINJA LMAO DAT USER NAME GOT ME WEAK made my day. Thanks.
Humans express their preferences and opinions vocally, and pressure others to follow suit. Keeping people relate-able and similiar serves a purpose in society; it inspires teamwork and trust. Not being able to handle the opinions of others is just a product of the "victims" social insecurities.
I get made fun of because I'm skinny. People call me anorexic when they have no Idea how much I eat. I eat so much. I love food! And I tell them that. Then they ask, "So you have been anorexic before." or "So then you are bulimic?" and it annoys the crap out of me! I just have a really fast metabolism! Calm the F down!
#highmetabolismproblems
i want to have fast metabolism so muchh
Ikr❤ and they grab your wrists and are like its so small ,its like no go away😒,
Harper's life ~ True
I relate sooo much to this!
I was bullied alot, and my gym teacher was the worst bully out of all of them. In fact, she still bullies me to this day cause I'm still in middle school. I remember that on the bus a girl threw my jacket out the window that my mom spent all her money on of that week. Then she said "raise your hand if you hate her!!" And pointed to me. Everybody raised there hand. My response now is to just say nothing and forget about the pain....
+HuskyLove210 That's awful! what's wrong with people nowadays?
Stay strong! My gym teacher also bullies me a bit and I think because of him the other students think it's okay to do the same. He and gym classes are the reasons I hate school...
noo....
that was made up right?
that is impossible tho....
gleslier Leslie Rodriguez nope.
K..
worst kind of bullying happens when it's caused by your close friends,who are supposed to be making you feel better..but fail to do so..
I love quintas top :D
Same here :D
She's the queen of fashion!
Same! It's so pretty
That color looks so nice on her :D
anyone know where it's from ? D;
I've been bullied my entire life. I'm moving school after the summer holidays and oh my god I'm scared. Everyone tells me I'm fat. Even my friends, we'll be giving each other piggyback rides and I dot get a shot cos I weigh '70 tons' I don't. I've just always been bigger than everyone else.
keep strong 😊your not fat ! There just stupid labels!
Those aren't friends.
what's 70 tons???
Tatiana Sarkis A lot of weight
Louis Prescott I'm girl, this not the same thing but, all my friend are skinny and have small shoe sizes then there's me..I'm a different shape than them I'm BIGGER and taller and stronger I feel kind of left out in a way.
I've had really bad eczema since I was a baby, it's a skin condition where your skin gets red and itchy and irritated, and I remember in second grade a boy came up to me and asked me, "what's wrong with your arms?" And I told him that it was eczema, but of course, being a second grader, he immediately ran away screaming about how he was going to catch my skin disease, and told the whole grade that I was contagious. I still get remarks or taunts about the "hickeys" on my arms and legs. Yeah, great memories.
You Have Eczema too? I do too I've got a big patch on my leg it makes me self conscious I used to have it on my right hand but it disappeared plus I was bullied for my Eczema..
Same I have it and it gets so irritating that I have to itch but when I do I create spots, so now I have some scars over my body and one time I was wearing socks and this girl said what's on your legs, so I said oh I have eczema and she said "thank god I thought I was going to get chicken pocks" , ever since she said that to me I try to cover up my body as much as I can.
I've had eczema since I was a little girl and it has gotten worse when I had my own children. It was always on my hands and feet, which people notice right away.
It does get easier to shrug off the looks and questions. Just say you have dry skin. People without it don't understand what it's like and never will. The people who matter won't comment and will love you the way you are. My husbands says he doesn't even see the spots or scars unless he pays attention specifically to see if I'm ok.
I had a severe case of eczema because of which my complexion is a little dark. I'v had people in school call me names for being dark and ugly and it has affected me so much. I guess this is the reason for my low self confidence. All this bullying does affect the person. A lot.
Kate Mitchell My friend *had* eczema, so her Nanny brought some stuff from Mexico and it removed her eczema, plus it got rid of her warts in a few days.
I hate when people assume girls with smaller breasts are jealous of girls with big ones. Why is it so hard to believe that I love my body and having smaller boobs? Not hating on big boobs but just saying. :)
lilangelique99 same. im also really short. cloths that might actually fit me can't sometimes because i have a small cleavage, literally nothing. But im happy with my self.
lilangelique99 All of my friends have bigger chests than me and equally sized breasts but i don't, i have a small chest and one is bigger than the other. So obviously they pick on me for it and whenever a guy flirts with me they say "I didn't know guys like girls with small chests". So what i did is i found a better friend group who respect me for who i am. And honestly i fucking love my body.
lilangelique99 No one ever assumed that with me. Most knew I didn't care. I did know a few girls that had developed big breasts early that were bullied for it. Mostly guys bullied them. Everyone called those girls whores for having huge breasts. I never understood bullying a girl for their breast size. I never understood bullying someone for being promiscuous.
All boobs are beautiful!
Jewel Brava but you sound adorable so it's ok lol
I was bullied because of my chub, and because of my voice being "not girly" enough. One boy in particular was getting on my nerves, so much, that in 7th grade I lost it and beat him up. Since then, he stopped bullying me, and the other girls. :) ~
+agatbox uhhh no?
??? Like,also no? But keep guessing, youll get there eventually.
I really relate to the girl who got picked on for her body hair. I'm more hairy than the average girl to say the least. It's my biggest insecurity. I remember the day I became insecure. I was around 10 or 11 and I was at the swimming pool with my step sisters. There was a girl we didn't know who pointed out my "boy feet" because I had hair on my toes. Then another girl said I was to hairy to be a "real girl". It just has continued from there and still happens today. Mostly guys point to my arms and say "You're hairier than me! Are you sure you're a girl?"
i can relate to this so much! My family used to make fun of me too, so eventually I started shaving my arms and legs, bit now they make fun of me for shaving. You just can't win.
superskittles, I know how you feel I've had boys pointing at my hairy legs, whispering right next to me and pointing out that I have a thick mustache for a girl, and ever since I have been very insecure about it, but I have just sort of gotten used to it, and learnt to ignore it.
i can relate. Im scared to ask if I can shave though, my parents will probably laugh at me
Yeah, I have large ears. Yeah, I have pointy ears. Does that mean that I'm ugly? Nah. I look like a cute pixie, and you're just jealous.
XD Your comment and your profiel pics is perfect "BITCH i'm fab ,you just jelly ~"
Me too xD
***** That Danny profile pic works perfect
***** fairy
All these chicks are hot those bullies are probably blind...
MrMastermizer Yeah they were probably jealous :o
And self centered
+MrMastermizer It doesn't matter if you are 'hot' or not, bullying is bullying and is never okay.
MrMastermizer I never said you said it was okay, just giving my opinion. :>
+MrMastermizer they where gay I guess
I'm Italian and it is in our genetics to have lots of hair, so when I was younger I was bullied for having a moustache. I look back at my childhood pictures now and I can barely see it, I guess when I had it, it seemed so much worse to me because kids kept on pointing it out.
i have never been bullied but i bullied my self about not have a flat stomach or not being as tall as all my friends but i have learned to appreciate being short and my body
I had kind of an odd personality growing up (still do, I just got better at controlling it), so I got bullied a lot by the "normal" kids who called me a freak or ignored me, which I didn't understand. I see them years later and I barely recognize them under the bleach-blonde hair, push-up bras and heels. I realize how insecure they are and have probably always been, so to them I'd say "Sorry I intimidated you so much."
All of my friends and my family always call me too skinny. My best friend's family talk about me behind their back and always joke around by saying that there's a tapeworm living in my stomach, and that's how I stay so skinny. Someone asked if I had cancer behind my back. People think I'm anorexic and my brother mentioned it around my parents and now they force me to eat, and when they don't they get mad at me. I am 15 years old, 90 Ibs, and 5''4.
What I have to say to them now is, I have the body of a model; Skinny, tall, and long limbs. Since when is there anything wrong with being skinny?
+TaseTheRainbowxXAJ I'm 12 years old and 50 lbs. People say "just eat food" but its really hard because I get full really easily. All my "friends" spread rumors saying that i took pills and thats why I'm so skinny. But I understand how it feels when people call you anorexic or a twig. And your right there is absolutely nothing wrong with being skinny.
TaseTheRainbowxXAJ don't worry, I'm 18 and 95 pounds, small weight runs in my family, sometimes it's genes
Janice Tan Thank you. :)
Jennifer Vanek Glad to see there's someone in the same situation! I'm always called a Twig or a Toothpick nowadays. And in this generation, apparenly being "chunky" is a good thing now, and skinny people are always being bashed on. A lot of people think skinny people are fake. And it's funny because at school, I literally bring a soda, and buy candy in the vending machine every day. I'm a pig. So what. People have no right to call be anorexic when they SEE me shoving my face in chocolate, lol.
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People would and still will make fun of my voice because l "sound like a man" and thought I was "sick" I get my hoarse voice from my dad, and that makes me different from all the other kids.
I wish I would have a lower voice! My voice sounds just awkward and already four people felt the need to tell me so...
+Ally Parker Your voice sounds beautiful because it's unique to you. Like if its a guy saying that kind of stuff you can simply respond with "why is your voice so high". That way he (if its a guy would question himself). As for Girls, they're probably just jealous because you have something they desire. Sooner or later people will realize that you're beautiful just the way you are and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
That's just what makes you unique. And you'll find people who like unique people.
There is nothing wrong with being alto
I have a voice like that as well, but I use it to my advantage. Whenever I yell, I can really make people shut up when it's needed.
I am currently 21 and STILL getting bullied. I know yalls pains but you are all beautiful. You guys are the best. Keep doing you. To all being bullied block them out, you are EPIC you keep doing you.
I've been teased about me being very short compared to others "midget,short stacks.." me being a red head or as they called it "gingers have no souls", me bring called a dork and failure in life, or a lesbian. Well people who say such stuff, yes I am short and yes I am red headed and so what if I wear glasses? But I am not a midget or a troll, I do have a soul, I am not a dork or a failure in life, and I am not a lesbian. I am me, and you can deal with it.
Kinda want to be short, to be honest.
I can feel you. People would comment my height and the glasses I wear but except the hair I'm not a red head but I do wish to be
1. nothing wrong with being a short woman. try being a short man ;)
2. even if you were dorky or nerdy. that's actually cool
3. lesbian? i don't even know why that still is an insult...
4. no soul? debatable, because i at least don't believe in a soul soooooo you are just like anybody else in that regard and trust me redheads are one of the most sought after women, when boys finally become men =)
PS: even if you believe in soul and heaven blabliblub. if that god created redheads without a soul compared to anybody else than he is a massive wanker. and because allegedly he isn't redheads have souls too =)
Holly Martin Trust me, you will learn to love your red hair if you haven't already! I have red hair, and I love it. Only 2% of the world are like us.
But your profile picture is My little Pony
I was bullied throughout my entire childhood. I grew up chubbier than most children, and I had a few comments said to me in elementary school about my weight and how 'ugly' I am. Once I hit middle school, (12-15 years old) thats when the bullying really got bad. I was severely overweight and in a new school. The other kids in my class decided to pick on me the day I got there. One day one of the boys in my class actually walked up to me, and for no reason (still to this day I don't know why), he punched me in the stomach three times (the teacher had seen but he was let off with only a warning). I was severely depressed for a while, but now, at 21 years old, I lost 85 lbs, I'm healthy and I have a boyfriend who treats me like I'm the most beautiful woman on this planet!
Don't let bullies get to you, they're just people who don't have enough positivity in their lives and they aren't worth your time or tears
Your gourgous:)
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I get bullied for having a "baby" face and being really skinny. They call me "anorexic" and the worst part is is that they're suppose to be my friends and I went to them because my other so called friends bullied me too :(
Im so sorry to hear that!!!! You do not deserve!! You are beautiful just the way you are!! Remember that when bullies do this is usually because they're scared of being put down by someone so they do it to others before it happens to them that way others wont do that!! Dont ever think what they are saying defines you because it doesnt!! What defines you is the way you are to people!! Please dont ever let yourself think that you arent good enough because of what they say, you are so much more than that! You nice, lovable, kind, smart, beautiful inside and out and you are loved!!!
If you want you can dm me on twitter @ines28lp
Stay strong xo💗💗
Selenator Kate Maybe your problem is that you don't talk it out. I know it's not your fault but if you let them then it kind of is. Stand up for yourself! I'm sure that if they are your friends they will understand. If not, you should change again...
Selenator Kate Embrace your baby face, because when they are looking 40, you will still look 25! I'm sure you are perfect just the way you are.
I personally think baby face is a compliment.
Don't listen to these people.just find important things in your life to care about and kick these people out of your life.
I know how it feels. Girls talk behind our backs. Well you know what you should probably say? You guys are the ones who will have no friends in 20 years and you guys will have an ass full of guilt and karma because no one wants to be around someone mean like you guys
When I was 8 my neighbor said that I was "fat" and my whole life I've never been able to get over that. I still have body image issues, but this video helped me a lot. Thank you buzzfeed💛
+agatbox damn good one
Whenever people insult me I say thank you and they're always left speechless so I just laugh and walk away and those people have never insulted me again
Sometimes I just say 'wait, did you hear that?' and they say 'hear what' and I say 'the sound of my heart breaking'
got bullied for being dark skin and having no butt by other black people they called me white girl because of they way i speak and the music i listen to. i was always so sad as a kid because others were just so mean to me for being me.
I've heard this before from other dark skinned young women, especially those from more well-to-do, educated families; they get called "white girl" and things like that. It's actually pretty ridiculous when you think about it because it's like on the one hand we say that what we really want is to embrace and celebrate diversity, but then on the other hand what we really want is for people to fit certain stereotypes and these preconceived notions of what a "black woman" should be. I'm sorry you had to go through that, but hey, they didn't break you did they? ;)
Steven René August DeCesare you're absolutely correct! no they didn't break me!! i actually embrace those things now!! it made me so much stronger. i guess it was a test i had to go through to appreciate what i have. =)
That's absolutely what I went through
Cinnimhon Buz it was hell.
I still go through that. They're just ignorant. Our skin color does not represent our personalities and who we are.
i love this video! these women get closure of sort and they realize that the bullies made them stronger.
Bully: *says something rude* Me: Look at my face and guess how many shits I give
i am skinny and people think that it is ok to point it out all the time and make cruel comments about it.I have one friend who is a little bit overweight and she tells me all the time that i have only bones but if someone says something about her eventhough it is not as cruel as what she is saying to me shes making it a big deal!And you now what?I cant change!I eat normally and i just cant gain weight!I cant handle it hearing all the time that i have to change is awful espessialy when i am trying to show that i dont care,because i do!
If you're skinny then your skinny. There's nothing wrong with that because you're already beautiful. And if your friend wants you to change, then they're not your real friend
I feel you.
+Marina Rajaram Same here girl! You're not the only one.
I know right! Sometimes people make comments on my body saying how skinny I am and thinks it perfectly fine, but when somebody makes a comment on somebody who's fat , they freak out and think it's wrong to say that!
I feel you too!!! All my friends claim how skinny I am and how I should get more fat. I know they don't really mean to hurt me, but it does.
Bullying is bad. But what's worse is when a very, VERY genuine and naive person who just innocently points out something they noticed, and it just kind of bothers you. But you can't say anything, because, you know, it's not like they were trying to insult you.
oof yeah
I was bullied because I was in general "weird".For example I was wearing bright coloured skirts and shirts instead of plain jeans and tees or I was listening to "weird " music(70's-90's). Boys used to mock each other with saying that they like me . All of this made me stronger and right now I am studying tourism and planning to go to language school in German . if it wouldn!t for my childhood bullies ,I would never though of going to high school in different city (which helped me a lot. ) So I say thank you,you made who I am now
People who bully deep down are cowards
Yes
i get bullied and not saying what for but i would just act like i can't hear them and i would talk to someone else and laugh then they feel embarrassed so SLAYYYYYYYYYYYY GIRLLLLLL
I got asked if I was pregnant...
In fourth grade.
My bully is a wanna-be and doesn't really have friends. That's what she deserves.
Alickks AquaFox That happened to me too! IN KINDERGARTEN!!
omg ;-;
Alickks AquaFox well karma is a bitch
I was teased and bullied a lot, but I don't ever think about it... this video made my cry, but in a good way. I've been so self conscious for a long time and now I've opened my eyes, these women are so strong, and I am so happy for them.
I wouldnt really care if some one called me fat anymore i think, because if i wanted to change it i could but its when people make fun of my height thats hurts, im self conscious about it enough and there is absolutely nothing i can do about it
Agreed
Yeah same. Being a short male is especially bad too, because society is obsessed with height particularly in males. I haven't stopped growing, but I'm only 5'3" so I get made fun of a lot.
+ultitronic they most likely make fun of you because you are ten, so 5 foot 3 seems about right.
Ultitronic Dont worry about it, honestly i know a lot a females that prefer shorter guys including myself, i went out with a guy that was 6ft 7in (im only 4ft 10in) so when i held his had he looked like my dad ahaha
Ultitronic I'm 5'4", and my bf is barely taller than me, and I mean barely, and I love it!! kissing is easier than with a 6 foot tall guy, hugs are better, dancing way better (no dead arm from reaching up so far) and spooning!! cuddles are way better with a guy my own height. Any girl hung up on your height isn't worth dating anyways.
When I was in elementary school I I was bullied and just one of the hurtful words was FAT!! And this is my response.
Listen I might be fat but at least I don't make God wish he had a reset button.
LOL
I really hope Quinta reads this because she is adorable. And not adorable like a little puppy, but adorable like damnnn girllll
I was bullied in my first two years of primary school.
I was 5-6.
The things they did and said still haunt me to this present day.
i use to get bullied because of my skin color, and sometimes i still cry.
Your skin tone is just another thing that makes up how perfect you are.
Remember, some people are blind to beauty
same
To be honest I don't really get bullied. I'm just nice to everyone and they return it even if they are not my friends.!
Same here! I'm kinda chubby so I just be nice to everyone in class, and this other girl she weighs about the same as me and everyone hates her. It matters about personality, not looks or body shapes!
Blaze it Nightcore Same! Im also a litte chubby.
I am too im just nice to everyone but if somelse see's me they kinda make fun of me but not all the time because I dont talk to kids I dont know, but they make fun of me sometimes because im tall and they think I should be skinny I just say im curvy
"nice" doesn't matter in my school :( it matters about looks and your grades and because people pick on me which I am not fat I am shy and tall big boobs that I hate and skinny but everyone picks on me because there is no one else I used to be friends with everyone now I have 3 friends I had 27 I hate my school because everyone hates me so I fought back now I am known as 'the one' which is because I am the only ONE that gets picked on and gets into a fight everyday
Hello. I just wanted to say your all beautiful and don't listen to the bullies they are just jealous! Love yourself and you'll find someone to love it also!
MrsMelonMasher YOU are beautiful :D
I cried whilst watching this.It made me think about all the terrible names I have been called and how I'm a much stronger person now!
Lol they're all so pretty and beautiful and I'm just like haha suck on this bullies.
ur pretty and beautiful 2 babe
Natasha Chugh thnx babe :)
I'll tell that to the next person who calls me ugly
I love percy jackson!!!
It's not like you can change the way you look
That's why when people bully me for something as simple as me having freckles I'm like "i was born with freckles, it's not like I can just take than off"
It's just like when people are bullied for their skin colour. The last time I checked, no one can't snap my fingers and become a different race.
I was very dark as a child (I still am), but people would always asked if I was adopted because my parents are much lighter than me. I was very sad because I thought it was true. They would always assume ask that first followed by "is she mixed?". It doesn't bother me now, but I still get asked about my race. I tan very easily even with sunscreen on I always get dark. Now people ask if I'm Mexican/Hispanic, Indian, and now people have been asking if I'm Asian.
Ikr.
there is one girl in my school and my friends sayd that if she was adopted because her parents were "white" but I dint say nothing cuz that was rude.
+gleslier Leslie Rodriguez You should tell your friend he is wrong. If she is your friend it would not matter but for the poor girl it matters if people correct it.
It's amazing how these women came out of that beautiful, powerful, and strong. Not one of them had been a bully themselves. Lets just say bullies never win in the end.
Omg the girl who was bullied by multiple guy is so relatable to me. Dam ,,
How could anyone think any of those girls are "ugly"??
I feel really awkward watching this, I feel really bad, and yet I can't relate.
Same
that's probably a good thing
don't feel bad you're lucky :(
Carly Jo I wish I were you
Sweetart Ninja don't worry if you're getting bullied, you'll get through it
I get bullied for my liking. People say they hate me, when I didn't do anything. They talk behind my back. They do anything to make me unhappy. My response is this.
If your gonna go hate someone for no reason, you might as well go back to kindergarten. To anyone being bullied, keep your head high. Just because people don't like something unique about you doesn't mean you can lower you confidence. Be proud of yourself. You are gorgeous. You are loved. Don't let the haters get to you.
I get called anorexic because of my thin figure and because I don't gain weight that often. I personally don't find myself that super thin. And being called that takes a hit on my confidence.
You're not alone. Girls I know always joked I was bulimic because I eat all the time & no one should be as skinny as I am if I eat that much. They don't know I have an extremely high metabolism. It hurts to hear them constantly joking about a serious disorder that most people have. A little thing I remember that might help you is God does not make mistakes not now, not ever.
*now you may not believe in God but he always helped me through tough times*
Thanks :) Yeah I eat a lot but often I don't eat big portions at a time. I prefer small portions at first then if I still feel like I have enough room for more. Being a tiny person, eating a lot at once can make me sick :3
I personally don,t know how I manage to stay thin :P High teenage metobolism and dance I guess plays a role.
Sara Germain I was also teased (the term bullied seems extreme) about being too skinny even as an adult. I weighed less than 100 pounds all during high school. No, I didn't and don't have an eating disorder. I just didn't gain weight. Now that I'm older I have gained some pounds. Sometimes you just have to let nature take it course and love yourself. Those who are saying those things are probably killing themselves to lose weight. :)
I dont understand why you are so sensitive.not gaining wait that often is a plus.you should be happy.why should that affect your confidence it should instead do the opposite.
Sara Germainn Sorry. Get called that alot. Doesnt take a hit on my confidence. Cant help. Sorry.
I know at least 1 or 2 people will read this I want to say a few things. I don't care about your age, gender, weight, sexuality, race. Everyone should have a happy life. Everyone is human and they shouldn't be treated like something else. Everybody Is special in there own way. Dont change yourself for someone. No matter how hard u want that person to accept u. If ur dealing with bullying right now in ur life , just remember you are strong u are powerful and u deserve to live with happiness each and every day. Those people who let u down have faced hard times in there life or they were weak at one point and they try to get power from u. It isn't fair for someone to get treated like crap for nothing. Society is dumb tbh 😒. You shouldn't pick someone with great looks cause someday they will change. You shouldn't pick someone with great skin someday it'll wrinkle. You shouldn't pick someone with lots of friends someday they will become lonely. You SHOULD pick someone with a big heart and a great personally that will always be there no matter what. DO ME A FAVOR ok? If u see someone sad comfort them even if ur a stranger. Smile at someone new, give a little complement, make someone laugh, hug someone. The littlest things are what truly count. It'll make u happy and plus how would u feel if someone did that to u ? I believe in you and someday u'll find someone that gets u whether its a partner or best friend they'll help u through tough times you'll grow up to be a great person. AND ALWAYS be forgiving to ur enemies they say "kill them with love".GOODBYE ❤ ❤
I'm screenshotting this for the future
N I love u Karien no homo XD
PREACH 🙌👏
Karien Barsoum If society was like you, it would be a better place :)
believe it or not these words came from a 12 year old :)
Max Maggio believe it or not these words came from a 12 year old :)
Just got bullied, this video made me feel better 😊😁
It just makes me happy to see how these woman grew up and have those memories of being bullied but it never affected them greatly though they probably did try to change to fit in it just shows that what happned in the past makes you stronger now and I never really was able to understand what people mean when they say people bully others because they have "problems" in there life and I see it more as they compare themselves to you and find the better qualities that you have and and pull you down with them in there pain of not fitting in
people tease me about my big breasts and my thick moustache :^)
People tell me I'm fat just cuz I have bigger breasts than them lol
Own it, girl!
marjan k But that a good thing
Bertie C Maybe you are. It’s uncommon for a girl to be both thin and have big breasts.
Betty Umm...😂 It is very common especially in models lolololol.
Strangers still come up to me everyday and comment about my extremely pale skin..
"Wow you're pale, are you going to faint?"
"Have you ever heard of the beach"
"You need to get a tan."
One older guy even came up to me said he liked my makeup and quickly took it back because he thought I was a mime.... The fact that strangers feel the need to come up to me and comment about my skin has only made me hate myself more.. I've never been so unhappy with myself.
here in asia we love pale skin so stop hating your self just think of how beautiful you are here in asia.
is your profile picture you? i feel like having pale skin like that would be cool asf
My profile picture is a painting I did, but I'm whiter than her.
Salad Dressing Well amazing picture! I was convinced that was you!
Thank you very much :)
Before I post I want to say I am in fact a WOMAN despite the fact that my channel name is "Norman". Norman was the name of my first cat when I was little, so yeah. Anyway...
I have naturally curly hair ('Im black) and it was really long. I was always called Wanda Weave in school, even though my name isn't Wanda. Because of that, when I was in seventh grade, I put a pair of scissors into my sweater and asked to go to the restroom. When I got there, I started to chop off hair. When I finished, my hair was choppy and a mess. After I realized what I did, I broke down. Eventually my teacher found me on the bathroom floor, bawling my eyes out. They called my mom and I had to explain what happened while fighting back tears again. To this day, I still keep my hair short but I still let it stay natural.
Looking back, I would've told those bullies that my hair is beautiful and acts like a soft cushion to protect me from falls, something their thin, straight hair can't do. Of course I regret the choice, but its over and done.
Don't bully because you never know how far someone will go to prove you wrong.
In grade 5 some boy came up to me at the drink fountain and said 'you're fat' (which I know now I wasnt). When I told people he said that, they didnt disagree but just said he's mean or ignore it and I thought I had to change myself. My mum didn't think me losing so much weight was an issue because she struggled with her weight so she saw it as positive and I didnt realise what I was doing was bad for me, I just thought I was becoming more healthy and it really wasnt. I struggled with anorexia for about 3 years after that and I cannot even look at my yr 7 class photos it makes me want to cry. Be careful what you say to people.
Quinta you're perfect ily 💖
I fucking hate society
Me too
Sad thing is, were apart of it.
***** Actually I would argue that society is run by extremely competent people who force their ideology on the rest of us to create a hierarchy. Also, suicide is not a selfish thing. Seeing it that way blames the victim rather than the disease.
obfuscate insanity The logic in not blaming someone who committed suicide rests in the fact that their outlook on life left them without a choice. When someone has that frame of mind, to kill themselves, their psyche is centered around the idea of escape. Their thoughts are not reality. Often times the only escape route for these individuals is death. They are not making a logical choice and looking at all of the unrealistic outcomes (ig, their family suffering) because they are so far gone in their psyche of escape. Therefore, the choice to commit suicide is not actually a "choice". Furthermore, to be selfish is picking the wellbeing of yourself over others. It is putting yourself first. Logically there is not choice made so therefore selfishness cannot exist. I hope you followed that. xD
***** I do agree with you. Religion is not realistic and should not be included in our society's overall practices.
On this video, everyone's trying to comfort the people in the female version. But in the comments of the male version of this video, there are a lot that say "oh you guys are pussies" and "that's not real bullying". Really makes you think, huh?
506TAG I just went and looked at the male version, and I don't see any comments about them being pussies. All I see are comments that are like "Oh, he was bullied? I had no idea!"
I thought that too. Its like when people say racism towards white people doesnt really exist
koka558 Just keep scrolling, trust me, they are there, and they are ignorant AF.
Basically some of these were the same in terms of body parts were made fun of.
No one should bully anyone, male or female. Both girl and boy bullies need to be shut down. Sometimes words are the things that hurt the most because they get in your head and stay there for a loooong ass time.
I think both the men and women in these videos are perfectly validated.
I've seen little to none comments like these on the men's videos.
if someone bullied u, just remember they took time out of their day to think about u. :)
This girl in my class just HAD to be rude. I am a very skinny person, and I guess I just don't have much of a butt. Anyways, in the hallways she came up to me and said "Oh my gosh, Becky look at her butt, it's soooooo small." I kinda just walked away. When I came home my mom had gone to the store, so I just cried wondering why o had to be skinny and not have a butt.
Butts are gross sacks that exert waste, be glad you "don't have one" Butt size does NOT matter, it's okay :)
EmilyKate M yeah, I got over it really quickly.
Good :)
aw, at least you are skinny and not fat like me. 😧
Golden Freddy You don't want to be skinny like me. You'd get made fun of an people will see you as vulnerable.
Soooooo sad I just watched the guy one too 😖
That's true! To all the people who bullied me, THANK YOU!! for making me stronger ♥
RapandRocker Keep smiling! Stay proud :)
smile more :)
Sorry to burst ya bubble, but don't be envious.
I was never bullied
The person I friken sit next to hurts me in class but when I tel the teacher the person lies
Tell the principal or get a friend to stand up for you, what I did was stand up for my friend who got bullied in 3rd grade......
I get bullied of my looks if my bullies watching this here is my respond
"Iam beautiful just the way iam you can not change my looks iam perfect just the way iam"
I was bullied for being bigger than all the other kids. My mum always said to take no notice and obviously didn't understand that it's hard to take no notice of my lunchbox being stolen and put in the bin and me having no food. Yes I did lose weight, from the bullies taking all my food and me not having any friends to support me or help me out. I was always shy and on my own until I finally found a friend who saw how much I was suffering. She told the teacher of all the things happening and she told my parents. They then asked for the bullies to be separated from me and I never saw them again. Now I'm in high school and I have better friends and there are approximately 350 people in my grade, it's pretty hard to get bullied often as the school being soo big.
I just wanted to share my story because I am glad it's over now.
My childhood bullies bullied me into kissing dog shit. they stole my tamogatchi and smashed it to pieces. they crushed me into the wall on the buss to the point of tears (and i was tough so it was pretty hard) "playing corners". they blamed me for things that really hurt, like making the relay team lose. and excluded me (i hung out with them becuase they were the only people i wasnt too shy to speak with.
this was in grade 4 and 5.
however my recomendation, is to forgive people. people change, and brooding over what people did or said to you as a kid and judging them off that is not going to help you or them.
now, 7 years later, the people who bullied me are now the kindest people i know, and have been through tough times themeselves. They are great friends, some of my only friends, and i cant imagine life now without them. i have learned from them. i have learned how to assert myself better, how to recognize when im being manipulated and to try and block out others negetivity.
my advice,
if you are going through tough times with bullies, i recommend you watch a movie with people in similar situations, or listen to music that is meaningful to you. or find something that will let it all out. or find something that makes you forget about all they say or do. But make sure its a HEALTHY way to cope.
I may not be the best at giving advice, because though i was deeply hurt, i was able to block it out and cope much easier than i see many others do. i have breakdowns when my feelings are hurt, though they are mainly when i'm in solitary, and usually have nothing to do with bullies anymore. I recommend finding someone you trust, and are comfortable around and is willing to hear about your problems, for me it is my mom. and for her i think it is me. but i find it very helpful, when she brings out my feelings, and i end up crying and letting out why and how and what i am feeling towards a problem(s). i think that perhaps she is like a therapist, though i have never been to one, i would imagine that that is how they should be. so find someone who is willing to be there for you and sympathize, and help you out, and give you advice when you need them.
i am bullied from 1st grade to today(7th) and i dont know how long is it gonna be like that😭 i am bullied by my full school and i dont know what to do they are ruininning and ruined my childhood😣😢😭 i only want to have normal childhood and to have 3 real friends😟😢😭
Many are small minded and can't accept vareity. Those who dislike dark skin also dislike me, for being too pale. You are unique and happier times will come. Find your strenghts and cultivate them.
i got bullied for having self harm scars
as a 17 year old girl that had experiences with being picked on when i was younger i wish i could go back in time and tell the bullies that it doesnt matter what they think of me, its what i think of me. even though im small and "weird" im okay with that. thank you for making me stronger today.