Bullied Man Confronts Alleged Childhood Bully 35 Years Later
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- Опубліковано 19 бер 2018
- A bullied man confronts alleged childhood bully 35 years later in front of the school board
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When Greg Barrett (a KISD graduate from 1983, formerly known as Greg Gay) spoke at a recent school board meeting, no one expected would happen next. Mr. Barrett describes the horrendous school bullying he endured as a teen - proclaiming that the very man sitting on the school board is the person who bullied him some 35 years ago. Mr. Barrett believes he was attacked because his last name was "Gay".
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You bullied the guy, beat him and busted his lip and he almost committed suicide and you're laughing?
ricky suave that’s what I’m sayin🤦🏽♂️.
Some bullies will always be that way. They're stuck in a state of immaturity forever.
if someone brought that up to me 30 sum years later an is still crying about it yeah i would luagh too
@@SlavesWereGood I mean if you did something that severe. You shouldn't be laughing, Just shows how much of a genital jockey you are!
@@dogemasterofmemesthethird6805 you know ofcourse the guy should have said sorry there but how could you when they guy is literally almost crying about the incident 30 years later infront of you its pathetic to even call himself a man.
And he laughs? Really? So he never grew up then.
He laughs at how ridiculous this is.
Thats gay
@@ericblack2252 You're probably a bully at school.
Eric Black Eric Black you sound weak, insecure, uneducated, and just plain miserable. You lack a moral compass, and you’re lucky your time as a bully didn’t include you meeting someone like my self, or someone worse, who has a strong Distain for people like you.
Yeah, how could anyone consider a suicide after being beaten up and pissed at? Only cOwArDs, I guess.
He put a gun in his mouth as a lonesome child and he laughs.
What a disgusting man!!!
Lol. I laughed too. 35 years for head in a urinal 😂😂😂😂 what a loser! 34 years ago I’d have stood up for him… front of the line. Now? Goodness what a loser. Well he’s been crying in his pillow 35 years and then he ran for the board here and got beaten by a person the alleged bully backed. The bully had to resign bc of this and other allegation but got a nice 750,000 payout so, good on em.
@@datacipher you’re pathetic and a cornball
wahh I got bullied 35 yrs ago
@@flixs1353 Don't think you realize how long the effects of bullying last
The fact that they would laugh at how much they messed up this dude, just shows you sometimes you can't reason with beasts. These bullies aren't humans they're just monkeys without the basic level of humanity
The fact that he laughed at that makes you realize how messed up he is.
Well well well...
Just shows what an entitled person he is
Yeah an actual sociopath
@@kevonedon6872 Dark secrets are extremely destructive
Typical right winger
Imagine having the audacity to laugh at someone after they just told you that you were one of the main reasons they nearly took their own life.
No kidding; how horrible.
Seriously
I agree but I think it was nervous laughter.
Nepthu it was he can’t prove it laughter. Then when he said he had witnesses, his face changed. How he handled this was what cost him the resignation. Who gets the last laugh
*"IMaGiNe"*
LAUGHING = STILL A BULLY!!!!
Vote AGAINST him next election.
He resigned Jan. 1, 2019. Follow up videos are out there
@@amybrum86 was he criticized for laughing?
Adrian Juarez laughing at a man who almost killed himself because of his actions.
@@MVSTNGGT because of an incident 30 years ago lollololololololol
W S hey, just explaining why people are mad at the guy, I couldn't care less about what happened to him
“These kids will grow up someday. They won’t always be like this.” And yet this video literally disproved that.
That Principle was such a cold hearted horrible person. He OBVIOUSLY didn’t care at all this young man had been ASSAULTED by HORRIBLE KIDS. Who obviously grew up to be a HORRIBLE and over paid person!
They don't change for the good, they just turn into bigger a**holes and deny everything.
And Now they can't be Punished?
That's wrong!
Some of them go to medical school, and never change their attitude.
I know right, life is just so cruel.
Most bullies are just plain, nasty people. Never trust them.
Sadistics individuals, probably even sociopaths!
It's the popular cool kids
@@Real_Michael_Jordan It's also the ugly unpopular kids. The only difference is the ugly unpopular kids have no social power and therefore you don't notice them! They are still certainly still there plotting and ploying their plans for domination.
@@Real_Michael_Jordandon’t forget rich
They’re mostly cowards, as well as being sociopaths, if anyone fights back against them they play the victim.
Yep a victim never forgets the bully’s name ever
My bully's name was John Jacob Jingle Heimer-schmidt
U right i remenber PETER LIDECKER
@Tachanka Main Winona Ryder was bullied in school, although they never knew her name. I read somewhere sometime after becoming a famous actress one of her bullies asked for her autograph. Apparently the bully didn't really realize it was her. Winona told her she was 'that kid you beat up in 7th grade' and told her to go fuck herself. I fuckin love that story.
@@MsDudette21 is this real?
@@Kenji17171 ya, look it up! :D
This bully has no soul whatsoever, still doesn’t feel sympathy for his victim 35 years later
That is obviously nervous laughing. That bully knows he is in trouble
An apparent sociopath.
Alex Gann why do you think he's in politics?
bro lol
heck why should he it’s 35 years later
I also graduated in 1983. At our 20 year reunion, I met up with a friend was was extremely bullied and we had a great time together at the reunion....until someone told her that her bully just showed up. She totally paniced and broke into tears. They were joking. My heart broke for her. 20 years had passed but her wounds were still fresh. May this dear man have closure!
i was bullied. i'm 71 and if i ran into one of the bullies i would be just as triggered.
the story you told about your friend , makes me sad to know she paniced when some asshole told her her bully showed up & then just say I'm joking , but I do have a question , did her bully come to her & apologize for the way she treated her
@@bigwillietheb bullies never apologize. they enjoyed hurting others and still do.
@@margaretjohnson6259 well I do remember at my 20 year high school reunion back in 2012 one of my bullies came up to me & said I'm sorry for what he did & I did forgive him
@@bigwillietheb it's rare and i'm glad you had that experience!
How can a human being still laugh after he told them he tried to commit suicide?
That sorry excuse of a school board member is not a human, but a *DEMON*. God may or may not have mercy on his corrupted soul.
if he was sane he would never bully someone in the first place. When people show you who they are the first time around, believe them.
he may not have laughed if the gentleman said, I went home and got a 45 and I have waited.
It's a defense mechanism to laugh when you are confronted with something to feel guilty about in a public social environment. He unconsciously laughed and looked around the room for emotional support. His heart was racing with fear of exposure for sure. The laugh wasn't a dominant laugh at the victim but rather a submissive laugh to garner support from someone.
bullshit. it was a smarmy laugh@@williamlevy6964
He didn’t even apologize. Ego was hurt because it tarnished his image.
The bully also took the guy to court for defamation after this. Just couldn't admit he did anything wrong.
This is a typical pattern with Narcissists.
Yeah I would’ve said sorry and probably given him some money or something If I was that guy
@Freedom Ofspeech slow clap
@Freedom Ofspeech who the bully? he had a chance too just didnt care too, he was busy laughing cuz he couldnt believe it came back to bite him in the ass
And 35 years later, the bully still laughs about it. Nothing's changed.
@†ANGÉ|†could be. But he resigned not out of guilt, he did because he got the spotlight. Why did'nt he apologyze to his victim of 35+ years? There you go.
Once a bully always a bully
Cruel
Person ,F him
Some people are truly sick man
@Freedom Ofspeech People don't laugh like that when they're embarrassed and ashamed of their actions. The dude has clearly never thought about it or cared about what he did. I bullied a kid in middle school (not to this extent) and I still occasionally look back at what I did in pure shame.
Greg looks like a good, hard working man. May God bless him!
Amém 🙌🙏
My heart goes out to this man as I was a victim to bullying too. I’ve been told to “just get over it” or “just forget about it,” but all it did was free the perpetrators from accountability of their actions and force me to bottle things inside and remain silent. I hope he is okay.
I want you to remember something. Maybe you should even write this down: I don’t forgive, and I don’t forget
They are conditioning you to obey so that you don't resist the government when you are older.
I believe him. And Lance's smug, smirking face is evidence that not only did he do it, he DID NOT grow up and grow out of being a bully!
Where is the school at and is that person still in a administrative position
I don’t think that was smug laughing I think it was nervous laughing.he knew his career was over
@@spwan10 No, he actually resigned after being publicly shamed.
Funny that adding a stupid common sense comment on top of person feelings gets 600+ likes yet a comment that's straight to the point gets nothing.
Society will never learn and fools will always follow each other in numbers. It's just sad.
he still thought it was really funny. after all these years. even after the guy says he almost killed himself over it. bastard.
35 years passed. The bully probably forgot, but the victim doesn’t.
Maybe hes laughing because he remembered every moment
69919121M maybe he deserves some fuckin payback
Facts
Not when he came so close to commiting suicide
Oh, you can rest assured he remembers now
I was a bullied kid in school. Later in life I learned different martial arts and learned to stand up for myself. Grew above the line of fear. However, one thing I've learned about bullies after years of being bullied:
>They are primarily cowards.
>They pick up on the weak and vulnerable only, to show their pseudo strength. And that is because they are sh** scared of those stronger or tougher than them.
> A truly courageous and tough person will never bully a weaker person as a gesture of class and self respect, which the bullies have none.
LOL "they are primarily cowards" nope, they are strong and confident. You were and are the coward, that's why you're being bullied in the first place 😆
@@boiimcfacto2364 confident people don't go around telling everyone how confident they are 🤣and when someone is really confident, they don't feel the need to weaken the people around them to make themselves appear bigger. You're goofy af
@@boiimcfacto2364found the true coward and it’s you. If that’s the way you look at things then you’re even weaker than I think you are.
Imagine thinking that calling another person names and putting your hands on them makes you “confident and strong”. Bullies are also dumb too, they have little to no brain cells.
@@toabettertomorrow7949 Right?...his comment makes me wanna slam my head into a wall lmfao. It's so stupid
Greg deserves the biggest hug and the most support. It was horrible what he went through and the school system has no excuse for allowing that behavior to happen..
Apparently Lance is still a bully who didn’t learn anything in life.
Assholes are like that. It’s a sad fact of life.
Probably just became superintendent to be a prick towards others even more
how is he still a bully?
@@SlavesWereGood haha. that's a huge thing of evidence that you trump supporters are indeed very ignorant. (Sorry for bring politics in here)
@@SlavesWereGood is that you Lance?
35 years later you publicly humiliated him, and probably cost him his career. Thats revenge served cold, bravo. 😂
Bullies always end up on school boards his career is fine sadly
@@GTBANNA damn 😂
@Mick Dundee So his whole family should be harassed for his misdeeds in his foolish youth?
@Mick Dundee btw I'm no way defending bullying. But the man's family shouldn't be harassed.
@Mick Dundee eh sure
As someone who came up being bullied, both at school and home, I can’t tell you how this Carrie’s over into adulthood. I feel for this man. I also feel sorry for the one who did the bullying because it seems he still had no remorse for what he had done and unless something changes he will eventually answer to God. 😢
Feel SORRY for the bully? Just feel contempt.
God isn't real keep being sad about your bully from 30 years ago though. Maybe your imaginary sky daddy will help you now? (Apparently not since you're crying about it on youtube) Keep praying though maybe one day..... 😂
Amen! 🙏🏼✝️
God has been the motivation for more bullying and cruelty than any other single factor. Who among us hasn't fallen under attack from a religiously motivated bully?
I was bullied at school , at home & at church pretty sad when your bullied at church , by my sisters my cousins , the pastors daughter , my mom & my grandfather & if I lashed out at them I was the one who was in the wrong or as they would say I was acting ugly & that is why I refuse to go back to that church
I was a high school bully. I called the person at age 23 one night and apologized and he accepted my apology.
Did you end up dating him?
Good job! God bless you for your courageous act of kindness!
Good for you I’m the same! Very rare!!! You don’t even understand what you are doing at the time!!
Teachers who take part in the bullying are the worst.
Nah the best
Maybe dude made the whole thing up and you fell for it. You people will believe anything you’re told.
@@christopherpooler5398 lmao why don’t u believe him? The guy literally laughed and resigned lmao.
I don’t consider them teachers of anything but cruelty.
I worked in a school for 5 years I can tell you that most teachers were former bullies and still are..
I believe people can change, but his laughter proved he is still a bully.
Fix the problem like real man
Everyone can change but some people just refuse to.
more like a psychopath.
that why he is a judge lol
@@maxd2624 sometimes psychopaths can get really far in life. People won't know who they truly are until its too late.
For him to remember every single detail till this age is saddening and shows how much that stuck with him 😣💔
Victims of bullies always remember. I remember every single incident of me being bullied in elementary school, middle and high school as if I could play it back on a vhs tape, Netflix etc. it’s a shockingly painful memory to reminisce that I sometimes can’t help to playback
It’s like the memories have its own alarm that it sets and randomly goes off when it won’t
Nowadays the memories are embarrassing more than they are painful but the scars are still there.
Even though I’ve gotten far in life and am at a more peaceful place it makes me wonder where I would be if I had support. My dad wasn’t around, my mom was snuggled up under my abusive step dad, my siblings were more extroverted than me and to make matters worse I was the weird gay kid
But I lock back now with where I am today with a smile but also shock because there were times I thought about taking sleeping pills to end it all or walking in front of a vehicle but man the world I’ve seen since then makes me smile
But I still want to lay hands on my bullies idc 😂 I’m strong now. 😂
@@BootyWarrior80892 aww🤧sighs..
Your last sentence got me smiling😄😄
Take care always✨✨
@@BootyWarrior80892Exactly. The hurt never really goes away.
I remember every single detail
Bullies don't grow out of it. I have been bullied as an adult. They don't get physical but saying falsehoods and ostracizing is a form of bullying.
I still come back to this year later. Kudos to this station showing this in its entirety. This man deserved all of the justice.
The fact the people up there laughed, proves they never changed.
My classmates haven't changed either. Poor guy ❤️
@@AmericanFYEChief mine neither, some people just never change. At least not in a positive way
I would’ve laughed my ass off and told the bully to GTFO of Government
Laughing is also a mechanism used when people feel uncomfortable, it’s an easy way to react and break the silence.
It was nervous laughter
Look at him. 35 years later and he is still a bully. Laughing? The guy is a joke.
@Johnny Appleseed Not everyone would do the same thing like you would. And for the record, he is NOT weak.
@Johnny Appleseed "We" care. The sheep might not know but they out number the wolf. But "we" know, just because pappa wolf beats you at home doesnt mean you can beat others just to feel good about yourself.
@Johnny Appleseed You sound like a bully yourself.
@Johnny Appleseed Well if you’re living your life then good for you but then at least try to be emphatic about people’s issues, even if you can’t understand why they did what they did. You’re just lucky that you didn’t face what he did. I’d rather not talk about how better I am because I am definitely not in his shoes so how to know the psychological effect it had on him? If you’re not a bully like you said then you definitely showed zero empathy on other people and that is still a sign of a bully.
@@GeorgiaAndrea appleseed is a troll or a a piece of shit. Not even worth discussing with him
This is outrageous! I can’t believe that the man who was the bully is sitting up listening to what this poor man has been living with all his life without so much as an admission or at the very least, an apology. Just as bad, it appears he is the leader of this group still connected to the school system! To the gentleman who brought this incident to life, I commend your courage to stay calm, state the facts, and expose this bully to the public.
The bully laughs because he sees it as a funny memory. He wasn’t thinking about the effect it had on his victim, but the joy he felt in overpowering his victim. There is still a part of him that feels this way after all these years. Otherwise, he wouldn’t have responded that way. That is a dangerous trait for someone in authority to have. He quit out of embarrassment, but he was a risk to the larger community and that is why he had to leave.
That's not bullying, that straight up assault.
I agree but that's not assault believe me I've had some worst stuff done to me
@@aishamohamed8183 yes it is
Lol yeah that’s assault
When the whole school(inc. teachers) laughs at you it is bullying. I understand your point though.
@@Annah-mm4nz even one kid teasing you in an unwanted fashion repeatedly is bullying. Extreme bullying is what was described, it was also assault. I was bullied in middle school, not so much in high school, as I had a lot more in common with the people at my high school.
This person literally told the bully that he attempted suicide because of him and the guy just laughs??
@Dildo Shwaggins that's more like it. 👌
And he would of got life in prison. That’s real smart. I was bullied when I moved to the US when I was 7. Bullied everyday at school, I turned out fine. I snapped one day and beat the shit out of one of the bullies that was way bigger than me but my adrenaline kicked in so hard, I made him cry. I was never bullied again after that, ended up being friends with some of them. Not everything has to end in someone being killed. Either retaliate by violence and not by shooting yourself or someone or just live with it and one day it’ll pass. These school shooters are such pussies b/c they may kill bullies but also innocent children get killed too, and people support that?
The Old Khanye goes to show you bullies ain’t nothing but cowards
There needs to be more effective ways in dealing with individuals of sociopathic and psychopathic tendencies. The current expected manner of treatment, both in the community and the clinic is proving to be counterproductive in actually minimizing the societal damage caused by such individuals. This would include measures to both prevent and treat these brain disorders, particularly one’s which would stress the level of prevention. The sufferers of the disease are not those with it, but those around them, and that simply is an untold amount of consequential damage in almost all domains of operation. Especially as observed in rare cases involving corruptions of power such as is most likely this one.
@Natalie exactly!
Such a sick sick man. All the best to the gent who told about his painful past. It hurt to hear about such cruelness...but it somehow soothes my heart to know that I'm not the only one who went home from school to kill themselves because nobody in school cared! A long long time I thought I was 'the problem'. I've seen the vid, I've read your comments and I see...the problem is the bully, not the one targeted.
bullshit the things you ar told back then you would be shocked
I feel for this man. I grew up with a weird name, and got incessantly bullied every day. Same deal with school staff: No help, and often times suspended ME for standing up to the bullies and fighting them off. I also very nearly pulled the trigger like this man did. This was 32 years ago. Nobody ever reached out to apologize. Nobody cared. That's how grade school was in the '80s.
The bullies of high school become the bullies of the workplace, the roads, the home, etc. This is a sickness.
Exactly
Most bullies become police officers
haha guess what happened to the bullies in my HS? They nearly all "grew up" and went to prison for drugs or some other stupid shit. I'm sure others can relate.
@@cbrvench2483 Same here. One got arrested for armed robbery, another started selling heroin, another killed himself, two more got murdered, they all met terrible fates.
James R and that’s how murder happens
The laughing guy is still a bully. I bet if the same thing happened to his child he wouldn't be laughing.
A man like that won’t get a child because he’ll never attract a woman.
Emily Kapallen If only that were true, there are plenty of abusive husbands and terrible people who have spouses. Heck, a woman can be just as bad. If Ted Bundy could get a new wife in prison I am sure anyone can.
I wish it would have tbh
What is the most possible is that his children pick up his genes and become next generation bullies.
AAA Logic You don’t know that( some people just bully for the sake of being a piece of garbage), and yeah people should forgive. But, it is very obvious he isn’t remorseful, just because a person gets hurt doesn’t mean they can have a free pass to hurt others. I have been hurt , but I don’t use my trauma to be a crappy person. Hurting others after knowing what you’ve been makes it worse. Yeah, he should let it go, but that doesn’t excuse the judge’s behavior either. He made no effort to right his wrongs, he didn’t even apologize ( he freaking laughed)... That’s the problem.
I was bullied by another girl when I was in high school. I am 62 now and it still haunts me.
How did your parents react?
I recommend you watch the series "Avatar the Last Airbender". It is a children's cartoon but the Author is very spiritually wise and the cartoon teaches you how to heal. Especially the episode named "The Guru". It has helped me heal and if you are humble enough to learn from a literal child's cartoon you will be rewarded richly.
Proof bullying never ends. Because it’s NOT limited to just a schoolyard setting.
The superintendent's name is Lance Hidnt, after the video he got all of backlash for the chuckle and there were alot of other people backing up Gary's claim. Due to the heat people started checking his doctoral thesis in his university and it turns out it had alot of plagerism. Because of that little bit of info he decided to fold while he had it good so he retired with a nice 750,000 dollar bonus and now people are asking his university whether or not his degree was revoked and are demanding that the district rescind the money bonus. Looks like in the end he's under heat, happy ending.
He definately deserves the scrutiny. To think that monster was dealing with kids. What a pos
@Josh Card That is absolutely the most idiotic thought anyone could have typed. That is not how MEN handle business let alone send a message.
Sounds like he got off pretty easy
ya don't solve violence with violence, that's just my 10 cents
@@mayday4599 bruh, school shooter much? That's the rational 99% of them kids have when they walk in and unload on their classmates with daddies 9mm. Same goes for @Josh Card. You aren't any better than that bully thinking as such.
“These kids will grow up someday.” 35 years later they’re still trying to grow up.
This man complaining about bullying 35 years ago. What a cowardly man.
@@oldironsides4107 the bully is on the school board, and laughs off the guy he bullied. The bullied guy is making a point about the school system being useless to victims
Old Ironsides Simply put, Greg Barrett only brought it up because it was still a problem, and the people whose job it was to fix the problem weren’t doing it.
@@oldironsides4107 Bro I’m in my twenties and only been out of high school for five years and I was bullied in high school a whole bunch. Some of my childhood bullies actually reached out to me and apologized for their behavior towards me. They all grew up and matured faster than Lance who is probably in his 40s or 50s
Chill out all, ironside is just being a troll.
I'm so sorry for this man and I totally get it, because I was bullied in elementary school and no one did anything about it.
So many children are bullied. You are amazing for directly confronting your bully. Good for you!
UPDATE: Lance Hindt, the superintendent resigned from his job.
i have never been happier to say something in my life
Bilal Aziz ...by resigning. It’s THAT simple.
Mr. Van Driessen lol I messed up what I was trying to say
What about the other people who laughed though?
Good!!
Editio he walked away with $750,000 too
The 1 lie you are always told in school is that bullying will not be tolerated
Tyler Mcay
Yeah in shitty ass ghetto public schools.
Charter and private schools don't take that shit. I went to a private school even though my parents worked at gas stations because they charged less for broke people.
My private school expelled kids right away. No second chances. You start a fight, you get expelled.
Pat L Exactly, I went to a Singapore local school for Primary, I wasn't being bullied myself, but I saw people's heads getting covered with blood and kids who did that wouldn't get expelled! Same for the people who smoked, did drugs or anything! My next school was a private American school where if you be extra nice, you get to be a peer supporter if you're extra nice to people which is a very good role that can exponentially raise your chances of universities thinking you have a good character. Literally no one even swears there until you get to know em.
Pat L I go to a private school and school if you get in a fight u get Iss for a week
Comank
Same goes for public school, the pendulum has swing too far.
Yeah that's a huge lie. Stupid fuckers still don't know how to handle bullying, the school system is just so flawed it's unreal.
Why can't ppl just leave others alone?
That’s ironic. A school bully ends up getting the say in how schools should run and how the system should work.
This is shameful
same bullies become police officers
some bullys become judges......
That's nice, it means he is now a better person
That`s sadly how our world works. Bullies get praised and they end up in positions of power while the bullied end up populating prisons and mental wards.
@@sergiobustillo3873 a better person would've apologized to the person they bullied
guilty or not, how you gonna laugh at someone who just said they were bullied into near suicide
420 ASMR tbh I wouldnt take him serious too if a guy came back after 30 years and be all like "when we were kids you bullied me"
Geo Rockmann you are just like Lance
Geo Rockmann Did you just ignore the suicide part?
Sansirow Did you ignore the 35 years part?
Sansirow And before you try to twist my words, no it's Not ok what this guy did. But if manchild greg over here couldnt move on after 35 years from something now as insignificant as bullying from when he was a kid then he clearly has some issues
Him laughing obviously shows that he’s still the same bully today, my heart goes to Greg
I’m so sorry for this man and I am praying for him. I hope he is doing well in his life right now.
My god, he laughed and did not apologise. What a horrible man.
Ikr
tauresa ttauresa he laughed because he is shocked the man remembered. He knows what he did and he chose to look like a dumbass and laugh because it’s true.
tauresa ttauresa and will be reelected of course
why should he be fired because of something he did in highschool
I would've done the same thing.
What a horrible person, laughing and shaking his head to the man he nearly drove to suicide as a child.
@New Vorld Sounds but you still shouldn’t laugh-
this is just sad. it not only shows how parasitic bullies are...like bullying others to gain confidence ,while the victim just suffers and gets broken. it also shows such people can very successful in life at the expense of destroying others lifes. and also he became a freaking judge! imagine how corrupted judiciaries are with such judges.
Lmao😭
He's a psychopath.
I was bullied pretty similarly for years upon years. I suffer with depression still as an adult, and contemplated taking my life at 14-16 because of it. Bullies are disgusting, parents need to teach their children better, or not have kids if they can't raise them properly.
Greg, if you read this, I want to thank you. You gave me the inspiration to share my story to my former schools and make sure it won’t be like that for future students!
How absolutely awful that people have to suffer at the hands of bullies. Someone needs to wipe the smirk off that guys face.
Literally nobody found it funny, everyone took it seriously and didn't even smirk. Then there's Lance, with a smile from ear to ear.
You do know there is something call nervous smiling/laughing, being busted is embarrassing, and it often makes people laugh nervously. even small scale with your kids.
@@_Everyone__ I think it was more an attempt to discredit. Like "lol you hear this wack job?"
@Joe Camel I call it crazy. I would have laughed too. They both were in high school 40 years ago. Both were kids. Has nothing to do with who they are now. If he didn't get help or have the family support to get through it. After 40 years he never will. It is pathetic at this point.
@@herekittykitty9324 yea lol can you believe this moron for not forgetting his head being shoved into a urinal? now that's what i call WEAK! i do this stuff to everyone i meet and everyone forgets it, totally lame /s
@@kevbri11 Agreed, it was 40 years ago. Grow up.
School bullying isn't just kids being kids. It's junior sociopathy. If they don't have that behavior corrected as children, they adopt that lifestyle as adults. I'm sickened that this victim drew laughs instead sympathy or apology.
Hence, why he is/was a judge now.
“Junior sociopathy,” as you’re putting it, would be better described as conduct disorder.
brontox095 it probably is to an extent, bullying often stems from a problem that the bully themselves experiences.
@@brontox098 “junior sociopathy” ppl who do almost anything to get attention from others in the way they want it. In this case the guy bullied him to get attention from others. Sociopath is slightly different from a psychopath tho, a sociopath has emotions while a psychopath doesn’t.
There is little difference between sociopath and psychopath, and differing clinical definitions depending on who you ask. They are poorly clinically defined. Unfortunately you cannot "correct" psychopathy out of someone... only manipulative behaviors. They are still psychopaths and will act without remorse, which is the true problem. It does typically show itself in childhood and it definitely should be corrected - psychopath or not. But if corrected in psychopaths they will always revert, because correction and enforcement/punishment doesn't affect them in the same way it affects non-psychopaths, with whom they cannot relate.
How brave is this man. I wish I had the chance to confront my bullies. It has been 20odd years since i left highschool and I still have issues now and sometimes wake up kicking and screaming.
This is sick, and it's sad. I definitely understand where this man is coming from. This was me once. I was bullied. The fact that he's laughing speaks volumes about his character as a person. One of these days it won't be funny. 😞
They all laugh on the board up there, how sick. Schools are absolutely screwed.
Schools are fucking horrid I've been SEVERLY bullied by my old elementary school the school was a bunch of assholes
@Djxjxhxh Hzjsjsjssb what, you wanted him to walk to a bunch of bullies and punch them? Then what? He leaves the school or stay in the school and try his best to run away from the bullies? That’s why teachers and adults are in the school for, they are much bigger, stronger and intelligent. And they would most likely help you and protect you, and if they don’t call the cops or better tell your parents to get you out of that school.
Schools are fucked, prison is fucked, politics is fucked pretty much everything is fucked
Boof schools are a business, which is why they don’t give a shit about kids
thats why alot of guys in texas join the military
“They will grow up someday.”
Well, the principal lied....
Determinism is Freedom 🤙
The principal was a liar but most importantly a piece of shit
@@edkhil Agreed
Damn he lied about predicting the future.
Just imagine if he bring a gun in the school that day....
Principal, not anymore
So sorry for your very hard childhood. So glad you survived. Thank you for speaking out! Nothing to smirk or laugh at
This is from 5 years or so ago, but l just watched it and broke my heart to hear a grown man still feeling the pain. I feel pity for the bully; he is probably a miserable human being.
Crazy that this is just “bullying” because it happened in a school but if it happened to adults in public it would be assault.
Good point
It IS assault. But school authorities cover it up so law is not involved.
That would have to be undoubtedly added to a criminal record, even as a teenager. This isn’t just another dumb joke about his name this is straight up evil
@Richard Schiffman yeah but either some parents don’t have time or have very little general knowledge or little knowledge about specific topics that are also important. Which is only natural of course, but that’s my point, no one person could replace all teachers a kid would have at a school.
They might not be perfectly effective all the time or serve the best education experience but the sheer knowledge a child is exposed at a school is important for any child growing up in today’s world.
Now that doesn’t mean that we can’t change it of course. Maybe the school system needs a complete rework from the ground up, absolutely. I just don’t think that home schooling is a valid alternative
@Richard Schiffman Did you read my whole comment? I wasn’t making an argument for public schools, I was making an argument for schools in general, private or public, and that it’s impossible to be subsidized by home schooling
And I also said that public schools probably need a rework as well
Instead of apologizing, he laughs; that tells you what kind of guy you have on your board.
He looks bigger than Lance -stupid name, and should have dragged him into the toilet
Lance laughs and is still hiding behind those witnesses. Probably not the only person he did this to, so doesn't remember as well as the kids that were on the receiving end of his witness gang.
Hindt is, and always was, a coward.
When ever I see these tribunal curved desk school boards I see evil incarnate so that would be standard some one like that guy would be sitting at one
It was 35 years ago
The fact that he threw up his hands and walked away shows how much it still hurt him and he got emotional so he had to walk off, I know that feeling all too well.
In middle school I had a girl who was the popular one spit popcorn in my face after I asked her to apologize!!! She has children now and I hope her children don’t get bullied. This seriously needs to stop. I’m 46 now and I can’t imagine what this man felt to confront his bully after 35 years. No child deserves this!
Jokes aside, this says a lot about our society.
Alexander Chippel you mean to tell me we live in a society?
Big Weed Man lmfao
Im tha joker baby
Big Weed Man we live in a void
Society
Just so you all know, this was the beginning of the end of the superintendent's career: he resigned inside of two months after this video not only went viral, but led to even more allagations of bullying coming out of the woodwork, and even an accusation that he plagiarized his doctoral dissertation.
He resigned with a $750,000 separation payment. And the district had to pay another $350,000 penalty from the State because of his resignation. Another justice served!
one more idiot gone i guess
WOW! A bully AND a CHEAT!
@@sharpasacueball My Dad said that: "Sometimes you can wait your entire life for justice to be served, and it still does not happen." However, there is a possibility that when the perp gets into his last NDE, he suffers the pain he caused his victim. It happens.
Sanjosemike (no longer in CA)
Thank you Nick Hentschel for posting that here. This guy (lance) never grew up and is still cruel today. Good job to his accuser bringing this to light.
Shows what type of character can make it to the top in our society
Greg Barrett .. what a guy .
Thank you for biding your time .
You got that bully Lance back in a glorious way .
If you hadn’t how many other victims wouldn’t have come forward !
I really hope Greg has found some healing .
That chuckle at the end by the bully said it all. He never changed.
Shut up kid
i really don't think the people in the comments section get what happened at all. you all seem to think he was laughing at the thought of what he did. he was laughing to indicate that the charges against him weren't credible. how do you not get that? do you REALLY think someone in his position would seriously sit there and go "hahaha that thing i did was hilarious!"?
@@fangzea - so... you were a bully in high school?
@@unfuzzy That's not what OP is trying to say. Bullies did what they did because they wanted to. The whole "bullies only bully because of problems they have at home" is a lie that is only assignable to outliers. fangzea is saying that they do not forget and do not regret what they did. He then proceeds to accuse you of hanging with a crowd of bullies, as that is the only way you could not see this. how do YOU not get that?
@@goldenpersonwhoexists8834 - no, fangzea was trying to say "that dude was laughing because he's a bully and he enjoyed the memory of what he did and you're a moron for thinking otherwise". and then he proceeded to accuse me of being a bully AT THE SAME TIME AS HE'S CLAIMING I DON'T UNDERSTAND THE MIND OF A BULLY. think about that for a second.
Imagine laughing after being told you almost made a boy commit suicide.
How Sad, A Innocent Youth Being Tortured By A Monster
My cyberbully would tell me to die when I was only a kid, and I developed depression because of this and what happened in school at the same time. I suffered from bullying at school and had no friends, so I went online to find somebody to talk to. It didn't work and people hated me no matter what.
When I disappeared from the Internet, my cyberbully would send messages asking if I was still alive but in a clear joking tone.
These kinds of people have no empathy.
So messed up :(
@@t.castro4493 People can be really twisted, I hope the best for you.
@@thezheani1434 They can, that's why there should be more efforts to stop bullying. And it seems like people in general are becoming harsher and ruder.
Thanks for the well wishes, I hope you will be okay too 😁
Tells you all you need to know about the man, that 35 years later, he still laughs about it and shows no remorse. At that kind of person is sitting on a school board..!
Went through the same thing in school. Zero is ever done. Not then, not now. Disgusting.
When someone laughs after their a person heartbroken story just proves how wicked and heartless they are.
Exactly
Heartbreak Dugatti seriously? If that ever happened to you, I doubt you’d forget it.
It's not sad, it's really funny i laughed so hard
people laugh for different reasons. I think it was also nervous laughter as well. He wasn't expecting that
"defense mechanism"
The fact that he laughed made me sick to my stomach. Words cant describe how horrid that man is.
I think he was fired
Big facts Joe,he's horrible,he's a bully.
@@hunterofthebigfootwithinte5609 Yes Sir he was fired,I wonder how he would feel if someone shoved his head in a urinal.
Luke Angel In all fairness, this guy is a pussy. I don’t understand the word “bullying” coming from a kid who grew up in Staten Island in the 80’s. If this happened where I was from, someone would have a broken jaw, and it would not be me. People in our society have to learn to stick up for themselves, and not let heartless people ruin them. If your last name is Gay so fucking what. Wear it on your back proud and don’t take shit from anyone, cuz that’s your blood. People really have to grow some balls in this society.
Pussy.
This video makes me cry and yet be happy for him to confront his bully. Great job men❤
This is why schools should be held accountable for bullying. They do nothing to the bully but protect them. As soon as you defend yourself then its a problem.
He laughed. After his victim told him that he almost took his own life. I hate humanity.
It not humanity fault, it just few pieces of shits...
^^
@@mrghostmanghost5595 no humanity as a whole is pretty bad. It’s more of there are a few good people in a sea of bad
@@elohim447 What do you consider yourself then, the bad or good?
@@ramirorodriguez5501 I would consider myself pretty nuetral. I haven’t done anything that would make me good or bad person but for a solid answer tbh I would have to say bad. I haven’t done many significantly good things same with bad but I feel those are more significant
And he’s the only one who’s laughing. He never changed. Pathetic.
Pahtetic or not... He's the one up there and the bullied one's down there.
It doesn't even matter.
@@viewtiful1doubleokamihand253 You must be fun at parties, huh?
@DeemMeStyx personally I prefer justice to “fun” and mob rule but “you saw in movies that evil must be defeated and people are evil so now you have to cancel someone”
@@tyratyra5549 Like you won’t believe. No, literally - you won’t believe it. All the fun in question is the one I’m personally having, naturally :)
@@dajjukunrama5695 So what? You're going to do the same to me now for saying something sarcastic to some joker who is sticking up for not just a bully, but an INFLUENTIAL bully.
instead of saying sorry , he is still laughing, which shows that he is still the same BULLY.
That man was so brave. I admire him so much. What an amazing human to confront someone in power this way.
“The axe forgets; the tree remembers.” - African Proverb.
The trees I cut forget and are used as firewood, my axe remembers every time because it strikes good.
@@_Romans10.9_ did we ask?
@@milesowens3273 yes "we did" but idk about you
@@_Romans10.9_ It’s good to be honest about who you really are as a person so that we can sort out the good from the bad. Sounds like you like to be the bully or”the axe” in most situations. It’s good that you recognize that. It’s good that we all recognize that
@@ancienttechnique5830 hahaha, some people are just retatrts, i was obviously joking around. Nothing deep behind it, you just want to find more to words than what they really are. So foolish.
35 years later, the bully still hasn't change. What a sad, little, pathetic man, he is.
Say no to bullying.
OMG!! IM FIRST TO REPLY TO A FAMOUS PERSON!!! OMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMGOMG
THIS IS SO GOOD WOW!!!
Edit: why are you guys so mean😢😢😭😭😭😦😦😦😔😔😔😦😭😭😢😢😢😦😦😭
Just Why!!!
Oh wait; I kno why!
Bcuz u guys r so Jellis!!!!!!
Haha
@@rohantime5938 bruh...
@@rohantime5938 hes not famous shutup
chill out jeez, it's just an excited little kid.
It goes to show you ppl usually don’t change
I’m glad you spoke up at this meeting and was recorded Sir 👍🏼
This man (Lance) could have redeemed himself by acknowledging his actions and giving his victim a heartfelt apology. Of course we see how he did respond, and it was despicable. The victim absolutely did the right thing by confronting and exposing Lance in this public forum. God bless him! ❤
It’s not unbelievable Lance. You’ve caused someone to nearly take their own life because they had nobody left
@Clifford it is lmao, can't cope 😭 🤣
Maybe they had someone on their rigjt
Shut up. Nobody cares. Lo ser
@@guitardaddy6 you seem to care yo
You commented XD
Edit: your the Lo ser
When you don’t realise he’s joking 🙃
This is just terrifying; the fact he can still sit up there like that and laugh it off shows he has no humanity.
And the fact he resigned in 2019 but was paid off $700,000 shows they are all the same and in it together.
@@MrJ-ro1yr 100%
this disgusts me
He could have fixed the problem, but decided to continue denying that he ever was the problem. It sickens me that someone like this ended up being the leader of a school district, and that people continued supporting him after this came out.
@@ThunderFist1978 Yeah its honestly sickening
I've been out of high school for 17 years. I'm still plotting my revenge. Here's looking at you, Mike, Jose, Yolando, and Justin.
I can't imagine the pain he had going through 😢. I am so sorry for him
That wasn’t bullying, that was straight up assault/battery. The school should have done more, disgusting and shocking.
Oh they would have done something, but only if he had stood up for himself and hit them back. The excuse would have been that violence is never the answer and that he should have turned the other cheek. School systems and their "zero tolerance" for bullying are a joke.
as you can see the system is run by bullies
Different time then
@@mapleslap5781 completely agree with you, school system is a joke. when I was at school I was bullied considerably for nearly 15 years all the way until I left at age 16. I can still remember one incident which still haunts me to this day when one of my bullies wrapped a skipping rope around my neck and strangled me with it. I had scarring around my neck for a few years and the school did nothing when reported.
yea and if the guy gone crazy, a school shooter would have been made
These kids will grow up ,, doesn't look like this guy did, he's still laughing about it
@@poa2.0surface77 Even if you assume he didn't do it and that the whole story is fake, or it was someone else, it's still makes you a horrible person to laugh at something like that.
Still pretty funny tho😂😂
@@nathdonplays2782 nope.
@@butte5359 ...Wow what a strawman
The guy you responded to made no argument about laughing
And the guy in the video could have easily laughed at the dude’s performance now, not the context of the story
@@Neo2266. - Neither the man's performance nor the incident he described was funny. Laughter was completely inappropriate. And his laughter makes it look quite likely that Lance did do what he was accused of. Some people never mature.
And all that bully had to say was “next speaker” unbelievably disgraceful. Proof that some bullies stay bullies forever.
The bully was actually hoping and praying that he wasn't about to be exposed. I'm so glad he was, and the looks Lance got when it was all said and done spoke volumes!!!
Dude says he never bullied him, but you can see clearly he reacts to Greg’s story well before he mentions his involvement. He knows what he did.
Yea and him laughing at a bully story Is a huge red flag even if he didn’t do it like you don’t laugh at someone getting bullied
@@prettiestbaddie4194 absolutely
@@prettiestbaddie4194 He's laughing because he's nervous because he knows exactly where it's going. It's a defense mechanism.
@@zarblitz Protecting bullies, ey, mate? Sounds like you know a thing or two about that.
@@ArchangelMichael- Read again, he wasnt protecting the bully lol.
And just like a bully, he laughs it off. He shouldn't be on the school board.
Or maybe he didn't do it?
@@medf7512 No, he did it. You can tell by his reaction.
@@attaat how so? He just seemed surprised like it was an absurd accusation
@UCdEqGMRu4k4mT2rS60r9zBQ he resigned you absolute idiot. do some research before you call the devils advocate.
It is time someone shows this creep what bullying means.
This is proof that many bullies never change
He proved that he never mentally matured past the middle school bully mindset. He also proved that he's biased
You can tell Lance has no remorse by his response. He is not a kid anymore, he should have apologized.
If he didn’t get fired, it’s at least good to know that millions of people despise him now.
I laughed too, not because he was bullied, but because I imagined it to be so sudden and unexpected for everyone present
The most disturbing part is that this man run a school district and I'm sitting here thinking there are probly a few bullied suicide victims that could be saved but he only cares about exploiting money, that laugh and face he made just spell corrupt official to me.
@Seishin Lance resigned shortly afterwards. He may honestly have forgotten what he did to Greg. But a victim never forgets, & Lance should have shown more sensitivity instead of being dismissive.
@@SamWesting thank god he resigned but it wasnt just dismissive, he outright mocked him again, this should be a very serious matter to a child which is several times worse considering he is a leading head of hundreds of children lives. there are alot of corrupt ppl and practices within the education system that ppl ignore everyday. to you it might look like another guy that "forget" to me i see someone corrupt and incapable in a job that could effect everyones children in a negative impact.