Any girl whose best friend is "that girl" will know how painful it can be. To walk out of your door feeling good because you styled your hair differently or because you're wearing a new outfit. Only to meet your friend who looks out of this world and suddenly that confidence is lost. Then to be out with her and watching every single guy look at her and smile at her and talk to her. While you wait at the side. To regretfully mistake a guy talking to her, talking to you and to feel your self esteem shatter as you hear "no not you. That was meant for the hot girl" and to watch her giggle and smile unaware of that small but incredibly significant moment of your life that has broken down. To feel like you live in the shadow of "that girl" that you are invisible and will never be appreciated. To fall asleep every night thinking "whats wrong with me? What is she doing that I'm not?" Ive realised now that I dont need to measure my confidence by male attention as said in this video. I have confidence in myself. As long as I look in the mirror before I walk out of the door and think "wow I look great" that's all that matters.
Samantha Murray wow beautifully said! I find the easiest way to accept your flaws is to remind yourself everyday "I am enough." as simple as that sentence is , it has helped me tremendously
I had a good friend that left me to become "That Girl" she doesn't talk to me anymore because she is now apparently too good to hang out with her old friends :(
KaiTheIaniteFollower yeah my best friend done the same once she got into a relationship, it sucks but I realised I don't need her and honestly, im doing better now
+Samantha Murray yes, I know how that feels. It's not like I don't get jealous. She even stole all my friends without meaning to. But I got over the fact and just accepted that life isn't fair, and what keeps me going I that one day, one person will find me more beautiful than her, than anyone. And I know I'm your typical ugly Asian, fat with small eyes. Not something I can help, but hey, my blobs look great!
This literally me cry because ever since I was in second grade I remember always being the girl that was quiet and not good at anything like all the other girls. I always remember being chosen last, and never being pretty compared to the other girls. Sadly it's still like this, and sometimes I wonder if I'm uglier than what I see myself
I can relate to you, honestly. I still do. But you know what's important? The way you think about yourself. Your appearance shouldn't matter to anyone else. It should matter to you. If you want to dress a certain way, go ahead and do it. Make yourself appear the way you want to appear. Not the way you think someone else would want you to appear. Make yourself happy by showing yourself who you really are. Try to tell yourself everyday in the mirror, " I am beautiful." It'll be hard at first, but it will work. It will help with the way you look at yourself. I don't know you, and I don't know how you look, but you ARE beautiful. Don't let anyone or anything bring you down. Try to bring yourself up instead.
+Kayla Selenator There's this rumour going around that everyone sees themselves 10x prettier than they actually are, but in reality, we all see ourselves 1.5x worse than what really really look like, so keep that in mind and try to stay strong until you find someone who loves you the way you are
+Kayla Selenator oh honey...you are making me cry. You are more than what people and the world make you feel. I used to feel that way and sometimes I still do. I am still the same person who does not fit in anywhere and it gets hard and really lonely at times, but it is getting better. I learned that accepting myself for who I am and loving myself goes a long way. Most people will tell you that you will find someone or a place in the world...I say accept yourself for who you are. We cannot all be the same, what makes you even more unhappy is to try to be who you are not. Do not run from it, embrace it. We are all flawed and you just have to take deep breath everyday and let what you are meant to be, come to you. Don't chase it. Don't search for it. Just relax and it will come.
You know...you might think you aren't pretty. But you are. You are beautiful for sure. Can't you see it? Look yourself in the mirror and that girl is the one i am. That girl is me and i'm happy. Keep being and trying to be happy. Because YOU are beautiful.
I'm the girl who's not thin 'enough'. I'm the girl who's waist isn't small enough. I'm the girl who's not funny and interesting enough. I'm the girl no one looks at. I'm the girl who can't make friends. I'm the girl constantly worried about living my entire life alone I'm the girl that worries about the flaws in every single thing she does. I'm the girl that tries to hide herself, because she's afraid that she'll come off as annoying or arrogant.
Ariana Lewis na Lewis one day there's going to be someone you'll be enough for. someone who can only look at you and doesn't understand what he (or she) did to deserve someone like you. one day you won't hide anymore and you won't think about your flaws because you realize that everyone has them and they make you perfect and exactly who you are. one day you won't worry about being alone because you see that you only need a few people in your life. and those will be your best friends and you could have never asked for better friends. so just wait and don't worry everything is hoing to fall in place soon enough
I'm the girl who is never alone. I have boys all over me. Many people who want to be friends. Surrounded by love. Yet I sill feel alone. All eyes are on me. Which makes me insecure. I'm that girl who will never understand what others see in me.
Before you can see someones heart, you see their face and body, you judge them, we all judge others, and if that person is somewhat attractive to you, you want to get to know them, that's when you figure out their personality, beliefs, intentions etc. so called "heart"
Courtney Humphreys Same. I'm constantly told "your sister is so pretty and beautiful." Just the other day my "friend" went up to me and said I was the uglier version of my sister.
My best friend is "that girl"....I have to walk next to her everyday acting like it doesn't bother me....I have to listen to her boast about guys and her "cooler friends" and I've always felt almost worthless but this video empowered me, it's made me think that I wasn't letting myself be the best I can be and appreciating who I am and how I was made! I don't have to be "that girl" because I am me.
Lillie Bench I had a best friend who was "that girl" for my first year in college. She knew everybody, everybody knew her, and when I showed up by myself, people would ask me where she was. It got to the point where my own insecurity and jealousy made me stop being friends with her. And the sad thing is, I think I really did need to figure thing out by myself, figure out how to be content within myself, before I could handle being next to someone like her.
Kendra Beewings I've been friends with this girl for over 6 years and watched her grow more popular and more attractive whereas I feel crap...I feel like I'm just acting jealous a lot of the time and it's ends up costing our friendship :/ I've recently fell out with her and even though I don't feel too confident when I'm out with her, I mis spending time and having a laugh with her
Lillie Bench I totally get that. I loved my friend. And I'm still totally bummed that we didn't stay close. But I was able to grow a lot more away from her than I did with her. Sometimes you have to take yourself away from a trigger so that you can learn how to react to it.
Kendra Beewings but she's also helped me grown as a person over the years and it's so hard to let go of a friendship you've had for so long.....at times we can be so close and like sisters but there's time where she pushes me away and get involved with random guys and go out with groups of people to drink, do drugs and I feel like she has a better time with those sort of people and that I'm almost forcing her to hang out with me!! I don't want to let go of a friendship purely because I'm jealous but idk how I feel, whether it's her or me
Don't worry about "That girl" she's just minding her own business! What you need to worry about is finding a man to validate your existence! It doesn't matter how hot, or not you are, so long as there's a man in your life who thinks you're beautiful! 👫
I am not THAT girl, I am THIS girl. The girl who doesn't need no man or rudeness, the girl who is pretty on her own and doesn't need no ones opinion. A girl who is confident and offers hand to others, and I am sure you are THIS girl :)
The amount of times I've cried in a bathroom, avoided people seeing my tears, spent time in a bathroom drying and clearing up my red eyes, asked why i was different, or asked what's wrong with me is not able to be counted.
+Sabrina x same. they always leave me out and they do it as a joke but I'm just too sad to think of it that way now and they leave me out in everything and my best friend left me for this other girl and hurt me so badly. I just don't know what to do anymore. my ex best friend used to be the perfect girl who everyone likes, who can talk to boys easily, who can do makeup perfectly but she left me. please help me somebody
You don’t need •to be the tiniest •to be the healthiest •to be the curviest •to be the girliest •to be the most rich •to be the most popular •to be the best in your job •to be the best in your school •to be the most talkative •to be the most attractive •to have the best hair •to have the best skin •to have the best teeth •to have the best house •to have de best car •to have the best family •to have the best mental health Or anything like these To be the best you You just have to be and love yourself;if you love yourself, than people will love you too❤️
Well image does send a message to the people around you. Basic hygiene is important. If people see that you love yourself enough to take care of yourself, eat healthy, brush your teeth, you know?
Pastel Xz me too and people always say that but that makes me myself so I love that I talk too much,and I am happy that I am talking instead of being quiet
***** It's unhealthy and makes the whole country look bad. Im not trying to be a dictator in what people look like. I am just saying that if you think it really is beautiful to have flaws like that, you have shit standards.
werewolfstrike7 why do you have to be so negative though? its so unnecessary like there's enough negativity around the world why can't you be one of the few that doesn't look at everything in a bad way?
Same exact situation! Both my friends are that self centered, talkative, pretty, girls. When they start to walk away, everyone follows behind them. Me? I'm always a loner. I lack something that they have that I don't. If I try to leave, no one follows me. Less likes for instagram. My seat partner didn't even know that I went to the same school it was their first time seeing me. I'm I not that "appealing"? I try standing out. But they only talk about things they know about while I don't. World is not fair. The stronger wins and the weak dies away. Please help me....
Just know that you are going to become something great, and that those people that have asked "who are you?" Will know who you are. You may feel alone, depressed, like you don't belong, I have had those same feelings, and let me tell you, it gets better. All you need to do is be you.
iMRS. kittcat I know exactly how you feel, I'm like that kind of girl. In my group of friends, they're all smart and pretty, but I'm always the one that's left out. They always get someone to talk to, but I'm always forgotten unless I speak up. But don't worry, you just have to let these thoughts go, don't try to be like them, you are who you are. People will soon remember who you are.
iMRS. kittcat I hate that you feel that you are weaker than other people. In my opinion, it takes strength to stand out and know how to be alone, and we have to know how to and be okay with being alone if we're ever going to be truly effective at being with others. :)
Think about having a twin sister that's thinner than you, has beautiful long, thick hair, and flawless chocolate skin. Extroverted and everyone she meets...they love her. Yuh, she's THAT girl. Just imagine the comparisons. Ugh, it's annoying.
Don't worry, maybe you have better qualities inside which makes you a better person! You may be smarter, wiser, or have any good qualities she doesn't have, especially if you are introverted!
Kentia Strickland I know how you feel, i'm living in the shadow of my sister. She's the beautiful, popular, smart and skinny girl everyone likes.. And then there is me, i'm just nothing...The girl who never gets a bf because she's too ugly..I really hate it..
The point is that White woman get more attention then Black women, even though Black women usually have more curves and other things. Unfortunately White men are more attracted to White Women, and black men are more attracted to White women.
I'm that girl who avoids social activity because of the risk of being made fun of I'm that girl who pretends she's okay so no one worries I'm that girl who wishes her skin color was lighter I'm that girl who can cry herself to sleep I'm that girl who wishes she wasn't Indian I'm that girl who wishes she could explain what she feeling and someone actually understand
I'm that girl that only has 2 friends and can't speak very well. Not to mention getting picked last in P.E. and never finding a partner since those 2 friends are younger then me. I wish I could just make some friends that aren't digital (I have a few friends on social media).
girl may i just know your any fb or insta name cause i just wanna added wit u same pintch cause im also a ignore one but i just try to enjoy my own company cause everyone is busy on their own so be my friend
im that girl, that girl who hates her body that girl who has a book of insecurities that girl who can't take a compliment, but gives them out effortlessly that girl who can't see what she's worth that girl that has what she wants but feels she doesn't deserve it that girl who people can laugh at that girl who others look at to feel better about themselves *I want to stop being that girl* I want to be that girl that girl who doenst think twice about self doubt that girl who looks in the mirror and immediately smiles that girl who can accept what she has that girl who can truly understand and accept that people love her that girl that turns the other cheek that girl who looks at herself and can say "your beautiful" almost effortlessly it'll take time, but some day I will be that girl not the girl who is conceted to a terrifying point not that girl who rely on makeup to his herself not that girl who uses male attention as a shield but that girl. that girl is different for everybody so really. everybody is that girl
Boi, we are legit the same person! I can’t stand myself and I hate girls like this in the video, but..... I have a man in my life who loves me and I am NOT that girl...but I am like the girl talking...
Girl i read this and i almost started crying because this relates to me so much every single sentence is true in my situation. Its not easy but we have to go through it together
since i see everyone else doing this.... i'm that girl who can't figure out myself. i'm that girl who disappoints her parents constantly. i'm that girl who needs help, bad. i'm that lonely girl who can barely make friends. i'm that girl that tries to be someone i'm not to make sure that no one will hate me at the end of the day. i'm that girl who apologizes for everything, and says excuse me nicely....but i'm also that girl who gets mad over one stupid thing, and becomes this demon in a way. i'm that girl who talks to my head, i'm that girl always daydreaming and just wanting something more than a brain as a coping mechanism. i'm that girl who is not popular, and who never wears makeup. i'm that crybaby girl who's bawling her eyes out 24/7. i'm that girl with a too fast metabolism who can't gain weight. i'm that weak, lazy, worthless girl. and i'm that girl who just doesn't care anymore.
Im curious. Are there any women watching this who recognize that they are one of these girls? I know a girl who fits the first two descriptions perfectly, but if I showed her this video then I don't think she would say she is one of those girls. She literally broke up with her boyfriend and the next couple of days after, she had 2 boys trying to go out with her. Is there anyone who is aware that they are one of these girls? I'm interested.
Layla Tsueen I think it's because most of the time, we consider a girl to be that kind of girl but indeed, she has complex, she doesn't believe in herself etc. For exemple, I had to reject a lot of guy, if I go to a bar, boy will offer me drink... but every day, in my mirror, I just hate myself because I think I'm fat/not beautiful etc., when I see a girl in the street I'll be like "dam' she is so beautiful/cute/funny... I want to be like her"... Most of the time, I think that we are "that" girl for an other girl...
Everyone is insecure about things. Even "That Girl." And even though to others she may seem like the most perfect and flawless person, they probably go through the many troubles just like you. Everyone is insecure and I don't think you say that "will a girl know she's that girl"
Layla Tsueen I'm a mixture of both girls. My lack of self-confidence never allowed me to fully be the first girl. I always assumed that everyone who was nice to me and told me I was beautiful was just trying to make me look stupid when I believed them.
Yes. I am aware I'm one of these girls because I've been told that since I could remember. I don't feel sorry for self described insecure wall flowers because so many of them have stabbed me in the back out of petty jealousy. It's hard to have real relationships with people because they either just want to get in your pants or you find out they talk about you behind your back out of jealousy. Insecure women like the one in this video irritate me for this reason. I don't feel sorry for them at all.
This is so relatable to me. I’ve always felt like I was the only girl in the world to feel like this, like I was surrounded by tons of “that girl” and I was the exception. This video is gold. Gonna rewatch it every time I’ll forget how special and good I am.
I am a sophomore in high school and while all my friends are losing their virginitys, I'm here with still having not had my first kiss. I feel like I'm too mature for all of the high school boys at my school but sometimes I just feel like I'm making excuses for the fact that guys just dont like me because I'm me :/
+mgphotography58 Don't feel like you have to lose your virginity or have some random person's tongue shoved down your throat to gain a sense of validation. People make the excuse of "it's natural" or they are now "officially an adult". An adult has responsibilities and knows how to act upon them. You are more of an adult than they are. I can somewhat relate to how you feel though and its so awkward and uncomfortable and you just don't know what to do and you wonder what the big deal is and why nothing even remotely similar has ever happened to you and you start to wonder whats wrong with you and everything descends into chaos until you realise....something. Idk what it is but I realised something. I realised that not everybody is destined to live that life. To do everything at the expected time. Some of the greatest people are the people who did things different. I hope you feel better. Your time will come so don't force it. Don't worry.
Don't care. It's hard not to, but try. Deny it. Keep developing and become better and better. Don't stop and listen what the stupid people has to say about who you are. Eventually, someone will see you and not you on the outside. You don't need a guy anyway, just so you know.
I'm the girl who spends most of her time listening I'm the girl who rarely gets invited to hang out with other girls I'm the girl who doesn't have best friend I'm the girl who doesn't have squad or bestie like those teen films I'm the girl who gets chosen last I'm the girl who never has any guy confesses undying love, or even the smallest crush I'm the girl who is laughed at for eating more than most people I'm that girl.
But in all, you are one of the people on this planet who are needed as are all of us for you are Irreplaceable and beautiful, not matter how tall, short, skinny, or fat you are. Just know that all of us are flawed. Those flaws can be taken within and made into strength. Sometimes it's not you who doesn't have a friend, its your friend missing out on the one thing they need and that person can be you. You are loved, cared for and strong. Be who you want to be, because at the end of the day you are one of a kind. 😃❤
+Kezia Hutabarat Queen, lets just have a moment. If you listen, then that means you care. If you never get invited, invite yourself. Find out when they're hanging out and simply ~arrive~ If you don't have a best friend, she/he will come in time. Some people don't get close to people until times unexpected, and maybe with someone who you've known awhile. If you don't have a "squad," that's good because then that means you not basic or cliquey If you get chosen last, it's probably because the teams want to have a challenge, and the one you're on will win easily If you never have a guy confess love, that's okay, because wondering who has a crush on you adds mystery. If you get laughed at for eating, laugh with them Be the girl you are, not what you want to be.
I'm the girl who is friendly I'm the girl who is shy, but with right people, I'm the girl who is crazy I'm the girl who is weird sometimes I'm the girl who is sarcastic and ironic I'm the girl who dont knows, what Make up is for I'm the girl who hates the colour pink I'm the girl who loves Hollywood Undead, Skillet, Fall out boy, Thousand foot krutch and Cult to follow I'm the girl who does Karate I'm the girl who loves Creepypastas even if she knows, that it scares her sometimes I'm me and I'm proud of it. Thank you Buzzfeed for giving me the confidence to say (or in this case write) that.
Elma Abidovic your intentions are to give love and kindness to other people to make them feel better about themselves because you know that they deserve it since everyone deserves it and you see the good in other people. Your criticisms are not supposed to be about putting yourself down. They are about trying to see the bad in you and change them into good. But sometimes you don’t need to. What you might see as flaws other people might see as beauty. What you see as not fitting in other people might see as being unique. And what you see as a painting full of flaws others will see as a masterpiece because that is what you are. You are an artist and when you create something you can see all the little details and flaws that you make but other people can’t. Because they aren’t flaws they are stories and memories that make you who you are and how you got this far in life. When you give out compliments you are making other people happy and brightening their day with or without you knowing it and it just shows that you have a lot of love to share which will allow you to make friendships easier and surround yourself in positive people and friends you can rely on. They will help you overcome some insecurities you have and you’ll reciprocate
I'm the girl who finds perfection in everyone, but not herself I'm the girl who hides her feelings in the internet I'm the girl who is alone, not lonely I'm the girl who avoids looking at mirrors I'm the girl who has no friends I'm the girl who avoids selfies and cameras I'm the girl who gives advice, but never listens to it I'm the girl who has trouble with the simple things I'm the girl who is as pale as the clouds I'm the girl who forgets her depression only through the internet I'm the girl that people look down upon I'm the girl who is far from popular I'm the girl who goes to GameStop, not sephora I'm the girl who people identify as a nerd, a loser, a nobody I'm the girl who tries to laugh it off I'm the girl who spends an unhealthy amount of time doing nothing I'm the girl who people call skinny, but I'm not that girl. I'm not the girl who has friends I'm not the popular girl who has no imperfections I'm me.
Frisk Dreemur Lol omg I feel like such a silly person but I read your comment and I was thinking how sad it was and then I saw your username and just started fangirling 😁( I think I need help)
u the girl who is amazing u are the girl who is healthy u are the girl that u are so lucky to have a family u are the girl that is so beutifu u have so much amazing trates my dear, u just need to see them😊 every one is beutiful and unique in their own way including u so u are incredible never doubt that😄
I wish I was that girl with a big happy family That girl with a dad That girl that's so beautiful That girl who doesn't need makeup That girl who's not alone That girl with REAL friends
***** oh no women who feel the need to empower other women intimiadates you?because we dont need a man's help for that?becauase we are perfectly capable of doing things on our own?take that sexist opinion of yours and shove it up your ass please:)
I'm the girl who loves art but can barely afford paint I'm the girl who sits alone but hates being lonely I'm the girl who hides her emotions but is full of them I'm the girl who hates mirrors but spends most of her time obsessing over it I'm the girl who says I'm just fine but really means help I'm the girl who seems careless but cares too much I'm the girl who seems intelligent but really knows nothing I'm the girl that notices perfections in everyone else but only flaws in myself I'm the girl who cries when no one else is looking so that they only see happiness so they can't feel this to....
I feel like this was needed to be seen. For me. I can relate so much to this because it’s literally the same with me and my big sister. She’s THAT GIRL. Knows how to flirt, gets every guy she wants, does her hair and makeup perfectly, has the fittest body, eats clean, has the best conversation and so on. I could list so much more! When comparing my sister and me, I look like an ogar. Never had a boyfriend, never flirted with a guy and only gets stressed by it, always have crusty and smudged makeup, curly hair always awfully messy, can literally not survive 1 hour without food and always in my bed. I really hope that one day I can convince myself too, that I don’t need to be THAT GIRL. I need to be myself and accept me as I am. Its going to take a while, but thats okay. This amount of time is spend for a good and I can get to know me better.
I'm the girl who chooses to not need a guy. I'm the girl who competes against the guys in competitions. I'm the girl who walks with confidence while crying internally. I'm the girl who gives advice, but doesn't take it for themselves. I'm the girl who likes to be a part of a band I'm the girl who can hang out with a guy and not think at all romantically about them. I'm the girl who says they're a nerd and doesn't try to hide it.
i relate to this so much. The girl who is just there. the girl, who no one really knows. the one no one votes for in a class election. that girl when giving a speech, everyone doesnt care.
I relate to it as well. The girl who's invisible despite being tall. The girl that no one knows because they never let her speak. The girl who feels like such a disgusting excuse of a person. The girl who has decided to rise to the challenge and change. And everything will be alright.
i am that girl that the story's not about i am that girl that has barley any friends i am that girl that tries to be like everyone else but really is not i am the girl that fakes a smile i am not the cool girl...but.. i am the girl that tries to get lead roles in the play i am the girl that can find the good in any problem (even if i forget it sometimes) i am the girl that is there for anyone who is in pain no matter what it is i am the girl thats your shoulder to cry on no matter who you are, you are amazing, there is no such thing as a bad person, no matter what you look like, what your personality is, you matter, maybe you are the background charter but think...what makes you, you? it could be what you do, what you do for people, who you are, everyone is important, you make you own story...
I'm the girl who is quiet but friendly. I'm the girl who will help you with your work and ask you about your life. I'm the girl that smiles at everyone and holds the door open for you. I'm the girl who would rather be reading a novel than going to a party on a Friday night. I'm the girl who has friends and is sociable but loooooves alone time. I'm the girl who likes to watch and play football and gets ridiculed for it. I'm the girl who is herself no matter what. And I love myself for it!
See these are the traits that makes you and I love that about you. Don't listen to people who says that you should change, never change because that's what makes you beautiful
No one is “THAT GIRL” because life isn’t all a fairytale,even the people that u think are “THAT GIRL” isn’t really “THAT GIRL” because even “THAT GIRL” has secret hidden insecurities or problems,no ones perfect we all have problems sometimes ❤️💜💙
I'm not that girl I'm the girl that never wears makeup The girl that feels imperfect all the time That girl that is depressed but hides it so well that no one knows That girl that people only use to get answers to questions That girl whose crush always likes my best friend And the list can continue endlessly pointing out all of my flaws
I'm the girl who is an outcast I'm the girl that hide her feelings to help others I'm the girl who loves nightcore, rock, etc I'm the girl who always wants to be alone or a select few I'm the girl that barely anyone likes I'm the girl who a lot of people trade in I'm the girl that goes up to you to ask if you're ok, but no one asks me I'm the girl who loves games I'm the girl who stays her in room all day I'm the girl who can't hurt someone I'm the girl who hates makeup I'm the girl who people say my life is perfect..when its far from perfect I'm the girl who tries so hard to feel happy I'm the girl who tries to escape reality I'm the girl who people try to correct when I'm right I'm the girl who is crazy, but quiet But, I somehow love it..
I can almost relate to this, but in ways I am that girl. I'm consistantly bugged by boys, having them like me and tell me that. But I'm never able to find a relationship where I'm loved for me and not my 'looks' that don't exist. It hurts to know that no one loves you for you But I'm that girl that girl who hates her body, who curses herself for not being thin enough. I'm that girl who nearly went anorexic because my thighs were too big, despite everyone telling me I was perfect that girl who hates herself, her life. I'm that girl who has depression, who can never be happy for long. There are days where someone can cheer me up, but it always come crashing down on me that girl with anxiety, who spends her nights awake and afraid, afraid of things that don't matter. that girl who is terrified of the real world, who can't say anything to anyone without wanting to curl into a ball and disappear. that girl who took self defense out of fear of being raped or harassed by reasons she doesn't believe. _But maybe I can be someone else_ Maybe I can be that girl That girl who loves herself because she is perfect. that girl who is happy because she can be and people love her that girl that can sleep, knowing that everything is okay that girl who can speak up for what she wants because nothing is stopping her from doing so that girl who can walk down the streets knowing that anyone who tests her will lose. Maybe I can be that girl. Or maybe I am already her
Priaxio I can perfectly relate to that, it's almost scary... and especially the relationship thing is so true for me as well because I get compliments from guys on how I look but when they find out I want something more they're gone. Your text was really inspirational!
I love Daysha. She is so inspiring and beautiful and should live her life the way she wants and loves it. She is beautiful and amazing and fabulous. I just love of how sassy she is and loving.
my bestfriend is That Girl, she's so, so beautiful, guys like her, people talk about her, she dress, move, act in the "Right Way" and everyday, when i walk with her, at school, in the corridor, i just feel...not enough, not beautiful enough, not smart enough, not interesting enough and then, at home, everyday, I cry
I'm the guy who is always single I'm the guy who flees any kind of feelings I'm the guy who is always making jokes I'm the guy who tries to be happy all the time I'm the guy who is not that special, not that interesting.
I'm the girl who is confident I'm the girl who is happy in her own skin I'm the girl who is introverted I'm the girl who loves reading I'm the girl who loves Witcher, OITNB and Game of Thrones I'm the girl who loves Fall Out Boy and G-Eazy I'm the girl who is young and stupid I'm the girl who is a massive tomboy instead of being cute and girly I'm the girl who gives advices but never listens to them I'm the girl who loves memes because they are a great escape from sadness But i love it. I love myself.
I'm that girl who is always there for you I'm the girl you can rely on I'm the girl who will do anything for the people I love But I wish I was that girl Who was loved by everyone I wish I was that girl who had real friends who loved me for me I wish I was that girl who didn't get replaced the moment someone better came along I wish I was that girl who could proudly say I love myself I wish I was that girl who was the first one in your contact list not the last resort I wish I was the girl who everyone liked to be around I wish I was the girl people fought for not the one who fights for someone I wish I was that girl who had everyone have her back The girl who had someone's shoulder to lean on and not be the shoulder herself for once I wish I was the girl who made others wish they were like me I wish I was That Girl 😢😢😢😢
I relate to litterly every thing you said on a deep level and I know what that feels like and I'm so sorry you feel that way if you ever need anyone I'm here okay ❤
"Sit Still, Look Pretty" by Daya shares the same message. It's a really bold song. Whoever feels that they're not worth it because they don't consider themselves pretty, please listen to that song and tell me how it felt. ❣️ You are beautiful!
I'm that girl who can't be strong. I'm that girl who needs attention to thrive. I'm that girl who gets no attention. I'm that girl that no one has a crush on. I'm that girl who never gets complimented or called attractive. I'm that girl who is lonelier than words can tell. I'm that girl who looks in the mirror and hates everything she sees. I'm that girl who fears she will die cold and alone. I'm that girl who just wants to be loved.
silverxstar hey, listen. You're an absolute wonder of a human being. And there is someone out there who finds perfection in all your imperfections. Trust me.❤️
I love DC Comics I love my PS4 I love anime I love my 'weird' music taste I love Kpop I love Jpop I love my favourite fictional characters I love stuffing my face with food I love being weird I love being me, even if nobody else accepts it.
I feel like I'm "that girl" but I'm not chasing boys or relying on them. Guys used to confess to me quite often in school and even now guys walk up to me to try and talk to me or get my attention and to be honest, it makes me horribly uncomfortable and i wish people wouldn't notice me that often. I don't even know how to react to a compliment from a boy. I just wish people would understand that I'm not interested. If you wanna trade places, then please be my guest. I'd love to be left alone rather than being forced to break hearts.
***** well, it might be rough having to reject people, but believe me its harder not being "that girl" cause then you constantly reject yourself. every damn day :/
I don't think whether or not someone is asking you out should effect your self worth. I love myself either way but would prefer to be left alone. Being asked out takes me out of my bubble and forces face to face social interaction, and my response, usually ends up hurting the person's feelings. Everyone sees things different. I don't think people should be classified as "THAT GIRL" or "NOT THAT GIRL" cause that's just putting someone into a general cookie cutter shape rather than having people see themselves as individuals stuck in similar circumstances.
I'm the girl who seems to be the smartest one in the class. I'm that girl who has boys confessing their love you her. I'm that girl who is skinny and can't gain a pound. I'm the girl who has so many creative idea it'll burst out of my head. I'm the girl who cries herself to sleep at night. I'm the girl trying to study for five tests and trying to do all my homework at 4am. I'm the girl who has the same boys confessing their love joke about how awful I am. I'm the girl who's underweight and can't gain a pound to save my life. I'm the girl sitting alone in her room all day because I know I'm not good enough for the world. I'm that girl who types her feeling away because it's the only way I can. And I am the girl who is terrified to press send. But I will. Because I am that girl
Royal Queen no idea how much i relate to this. top of my grade in class rank, falling out of one relationship and instantly finding another, and yet i'm exhausted and sad and tired.
Royal Queen i truly relate to you. I am 68 pounds all because of a high metabolism and my parents think it’s my fault. That or they blame each other and yell until midnight while i stress out about keeping perfect grades. Know you are not alone, i hope this comment wasn’t too late
Ill tell ya a funny story. Wherever I go, I keep getting compliments on my appearance. Everyone's always telling me how pretty I am.But the thing is.... I don't believe them. I hate hate hate my face. I've never had a boyfriend becauese I'm too shy to have a social life. I have serious self confidence issues, I avoid mirrors and whenever I accidentally catch my reflexion in something I want to cry. For a while I've been debating whether or not people have just been lying to me to make me feel better, and started saving up for plastic surgery (jaw shaving, maybe a nose job too). But since my parents found out they've been telling me I'm crazy and that I have to see a shrink. I know it sounds like I'm fishing for complements, but I'm not. Everything I've said is 100% true. Does anyone else feel like this?
+Scuro1000 You're not alone. If you want to be "accepted in society", be yourself! If everyone calls you pretty, then obviously you are! They aren't saying that to make you feel better, because how would they know you feel bad about yourself? Don't get plastic surgery. Be who you are. Every morning wake up and look in the mirror. Say something you like about yourself.
I'm that black girl, who knows that she is beautiful for who she is, with her dark skin and big lips, I am, that confident black girl, who knows how to let her inner beauty shine💟
Any girl whose best friend is "that girl" will know how painful it can be. To walk out of your door feeling good because you styled your hair differently or because you're wearing a new outfit. Only to meet your friend who looks out of this world and suddenly that confidence is lost. Then to be out with her and watching every single guy look at her and smile at her and talk to her. While you wait at the side. To regretfully mistake a guy talking to her, talking to you and to feel your self esteem shatter as you hear "no not you. That was meant for the hot girl" and to watch her giggle and smile unaware of that small but incredibly significant moment of your life that has broken down. To feel like you live in the shadow of "that girl" that you are invisible and will never be appreciated. To fall asleep every night thinking "whats wrong with me? What is she doing that I'm not?"
Ive realised now that I dont need to measure my confidence by male attention as said in this video. I have confidence in myself. As long as I look in the mirror before I walk out of the door and think "wow I look great" that's all that matters.
Samantha Murray wow beautifully said! I find the easiest way to accept your flaws is to remind yourself everyday "I am enough." as simple as that sentence is , it has helped me tremendously
Reminds me of a story from "And the Mountains Echoed" by Khaled Hosseini.
I had a good friend that left me to become "That Girl" she doesn't talk to me anymore because she is now apparently too good to hang out with her old friends :(
KaiTheIaniteFollower yeah my best friend done the same once she got into a relationship, it sucks but I realised I don't need her and honestly, im doing better now
+Samantha Murray yes, I know how that feels. It's not like I don't get jealous. She even stole all my friends without meaning to. But I got over the fact and just accepted that life isn't fair, and what keeps me going I that one day, one person will find me more beautiful than her, than anyone. And I know I'm your typical ugly Asian, fat with small eyes. Not something I can help, but hey, my blobs look great!
This literally me cry because ever since I was in second grade I remember always being the girl that was quiet and not good at anything like all the other girls. I always remember being chosen last, and never being pretty compared to the other girls. Sadly it's still like this, and sometimes I wonder if I'm uglier than what I see myself
I can relate to you, honestly. I still do. But you know what's important? The way you think about yourself. Your appearance shouldn't matter to anyone else. It should matter to you. If you want to dress a certain way, go ahead and do it. Make yourself appear the way you want to appear. Not the way you think someone else would want you to appear. Make yourself happy by showing yourself who you really are. Try to tell yourself everyday in the mirror, " I am beautiful." It'll be hard at first, but it will work. It will help with the way you look at yourself. I don't know you, and I don't know how you look, but you ARE beautiful. Don't let anyone or anything bring you down. Try to bring yourself up instead.
+Kayla Selenator There's this rumour going around that everyone sees themselves 10x prettier than they actually are, but in reality, we all see ourselves 1.5x worse than what really really look like, so keep that in mind and try to stay strong until you find someone who loves you the way you are
+Kayla Selenator oh honey...you are making me cry. You are more than what people and the world make you feel. I used to feel that way and sometimes I still do. I am still the same person who does not fit in anywhere and it gets hard and really lonely at times, but it is getting better. I learned that accepting myself for who I am and loving myself goes a long way. Most people will tell you that you will find someone or a place in the world...I say accept yourself for who you are. We cannot all be the same, what makes you even more unhappy is to try to be who you are not. Do not run from it, embrace it. We are all flawed and you just have to take deep breath everyday and let what you are meant to be, come to you. Don't chase it. Don't search for it. Just relax and it will come.
You know...you might think you aren't pretty. But you are. You are beautiful for sure. Can't you see it? Look yourself in the mirror and that girl is the one i am. That girl is me and i'm happy. Keep being and trying to be happy. Because YOU are beautiful.
I agree I was like that too
I'm the girl who's not thin 'enough'.
I'm the girl who's waist isn't small enough.
I'm the girl who's not funny and interesting enough.
I'm the girl no one looks at.
I'm the girl who can't make friends.
I'm the girl constantly worried about living my entire life alone
I'm the girl that worries about the flaws in every single thing she does.
I'm the girl that tries to hide herself, because she's afraid that she'll come off as annoying or arrogant.
Ariana Lewis na Lewis one day there's going to be someone you'll be enough for. someone who can only look at you and doesn't understand what he (or she) did to deserve someone like you. one day you won't hide anymore and you won't think about your flaws because you realize that everyone has them and they make you perfect and exactly who you are. one day you won't worry about being alone because you see that you only need a few people in your life. and those will be your best friends and you could have never asked for better friends. so just wait and don't worry everything is hoing to fall in place soon enough
I'm the girl who is never alone.
I have boys all over me.
Many people who want to be friends.
Surrounded by love.
Yet I sill feel alone.
All eyes are on me.
Which makes me insecure.
I'm that girl who will never understand what others see in me.
If you want to have a friend then here I am.. not judging you for who you are...💖
Omg😭😭 if ya need help you can always talk to me💕
Caldwell Connolly you are that girl who is confident enough to voice her insecurities and that, my beautiful friend, is true beauty. ❤️❤️
But I think she is really pretty! Who said that she's not beautiful? People need a beautiful heart not a beautiful face.
Right
She is speaking for everybody actually.
💓💓💓
Shreya kumari The sad truth is, it’s easier for people who are part of the “accepted beauty” culture than people who aren’t.
Before you can see someones heart, you see their face and body, you judge them, we all judge others, and if that person is somewhat attractive to you, you want to get to know them, that's when you figure out their personality, beliefs, intentions etc. so called "heart"
Honestly teared up a little bit.
Me tu
Same
Same X million
Same
Mila Acquanita same
Literally my sister is that girl, it kinda sucks to constantly be compared to her.
Courtney Humphreys Same. I'm constantly told "your sister is so pretty and beautiful." Just the other day my "friend" went up to me and said I was the uglier version of my sister.
xAnnaa having a twin means your constantly compared to each other and it's taking a mental toll on both of us
Courtney Humphreys same
yup..same
Courtney Humphreys same
My best friend is "that girl"....I have to walk next to her everyday acting like it doesn't bother me....I have to listen to her boast about guys and her "cooler friends" and I've always felt almost worthless but this video empowered me, it's made me think that I wasn't letting myself be the best I can be and appreciating who I am and how I was made! I don't have to be "that girl" because I am me.
Lillie Bench I had a best friend who was "that girl" for my first year in college. She knew everybody, everybody knew her, and when I showed up by myself, people would ask me where she was. It got to the point where my own insecurity and jealousy made me stop being friends with her. And the sad thing is, I think I really did need to figure thing out by myself, figure out how to be content within myself, before I could handle being next to someone like her.
Kendra Beewings I've been friends with this girl for over 6 years and watched her grow more popular and more attractive whereas I feel crap...I feel like I'm just acting jealous a lot of the time and it's ends up costing our friendship :/ I've recently fell out with her and even though I don't feel too confident when I'm out with her, I mis spending time and having a laugh with her
Lillie Bench I totally get that. I loved my friend. And I'm still totally bummed that we didn't stay close. But I was able to grow a lot more away from her than I did with her. Sometimes you have to take yourself away from a trigger so that you can learn how to react to it.
Kendra Beewings but she's also helped me grown as a person over the years and it's so hard to let go of a friendship you've had for so long.....at times we can be so close and like sisters but there's time where she pushes me away and get involved with random guys and go out with groups of people to drink, do drugs and I feel like she has a better time with those sort of people and that I'm almost forcing her to hang out with me!! I don't want to let go of a friendship purely because I'm jealous but idk how I feel, whether it's her or me
Lillie Bench even though this is true for the most part, girls can get any guy they want
0:12 am I the only one who heard him yell NOODLE and then she goes oOH
LMAO
I HEARD IT TOO LMAO
I hear it now lol
Lol 😂😂😂
im THAT GIRL even tho that's a man
I'm the girl who's in tears right now.
ArielOnline same😢
I feel you..
ArielOnline 😢
me too :(
I feel emotional too. That was so ,me..
I can relate to all this, seriously. It was like this girl was just an actress and playing me.
Nandini Dhawan same here
Nandini Dhawan ikr
Nandini Dhawan I'm not that girl and i feel worthless
Nandini Dhawan same Here, I relate to this so much it’s scary lmao
Same here sadly I hate myself so much and how I can never fit in with the other girls
*We live in a world where pretty matters its heartbraking*
Normanisqueen *heartbreaking 😅
That's true
Ikr
At least it's just social standards, unlike in Korea where it's better than an education
Bruh your comment is literally incoherent; I think you meant
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“We live in a world where pretty matters: It’s heartbreaking”
_this is what every girl needs to hear_
Yeah
Me too
Yes it is
I agree
Yeah
I can relate to this 100%. I used to worry about "That girl" until I saw how much more I meant. Great job! *claps claps claps*
Don't worry about "That girl" she's just minding her own business! What you need to worry about is finding a man to validate your existence! It doesn't matter how hot, or not you are, so long as there's a man in your life who thinks you're beautiful! 👫
John Smith are you for real
John Smith and no, that's not a complement
John Smith I hope you said with sarcasm :/
***** looool game of Thrones reference! Love it :D
I'm THAT girl who stays inside 24/7 and asks why I have no friends... /:
same lol!
Iris Shin you have netflix
Iris Shin well...that's your fault
nervantes exactly.
Iris Shin omfg lol
I am not THAT girl, I am THIS girl.
The girl who doesn't need no man or rudeness, the girl who is pretty on her own and doesn't need no ones opinion. A girl who is confident and offers hand to others, and I am sure you are THIS girl :)
paѕтel grυnge Someone's sensitive.
Ina Catfish you are lol.
Nice name tho
paѕтel grυnge I'm laughing out loud? This doesn't even make sense. And thanks, it's very hard for me to think of a name that doesn't sound ridiculous.
Ina Catfish i ate catfish before... very nasty :/
paѕтel grυnge Really? I generally dislike eating fish.
The amount of times I've cried in a bathroom, avoided people seeing my tears, spent time in a bathroom drying and clearing up my red eyes, asked why i was different, or asked what's wrong with me is not able to be counted.
AceLovesDIYs Christopher me too
mee too but everything will be alright ❤❤❤
i relate too much with you. this gives me the feels
Mee too
Me too
I'm the girl you never notice in the halls and has her nose in her book pretending that she's occupied so no one will think she's lonely.
Ur not the only one...... High five
"Pretending to be occupied" omg so relatable
+S&M same
that's me. my friends always exclude me out of their conversations as well
+Sabrina x same. they always leave me out and they do it as a joke but I'm just too sad to think of it that way now and they leave me out in everything and my best friend left me for this other girl and hurt me so badly. I just don't know what to do anymore. my ex best friend used to be the perfect girl who everyone likes, who can talk to boys easily, who can do makeup perfectly but she left me. please help me somebody
You don’t need
•to be the tiniest
•to be the healthiest
•to be the curviest
•to be the girliest
•to be the most rich
•to be the most popular
•to be the best in your job
•to be the best in your school
•to be the most talkative
•to be the most attractive
•to have the best hair
•to have the best skin
•to have the best teeth
•to have the best house
•to have de best car
•to have the best family
•to have the best mental health
Or anything like these
To be the best you
You just have to be and love yourself;if you love yourself, than people will love you too❤️
I totally agree with you :) Thanks for writting it
Thanks, this made my day 😄
Tbh Nobody maybe she/he meant like the skinniest?
Well image does send a message to the people around you. Basic hygiene is important. If people see that you love yourself enough to take care of yourself, eat healthy, brush your teeth, you know?
Pastel Xz me too and people always say that but that makes me myself so I love that I talk too much,and I am happy that I am talking instead of being quiet
who else wants to give a hug to the lady in the video ?
Throws away expensive makeup
Me : yes good statement but honey makeup is expensive
It was probably fake makeup
Took it back again, maybe
potato .potato my bank account is crying
Ikr
lololol
I sincerely think that flaws are what make someone beautiful, more "human", more "real". :-)
Yaaassss
Yes me too...
then i guess that means i better bash in my teeth and jack up my nose if i want to be beautiful :D
***** It's unhealthy and makes the whole country look bad. Im not trying to be a dictator in what people look like. I am just saying that if you think it really is beautiful to have flaws like that, you have shit standards.
werewolfstrike7 why do you have to be so negative though? its so unnecessary like there's enough negativity around the world why can't you be one of the few that doesn't look at everything in a bad way?
I'm not that girl.
but im this girl.
and this girl is on FIRRRRRReeEEEEEE
ghenna padilla 😂
YAAHHSS QUEEN!👊🔥
Beautiful
I will say that to my bully's
YAS
That‘s Deep.
Hi 1d fam
Heyyooo famm vas happenin
No, it's that girl.
Thats what she said
At the end of the day I want to be that girl who loves herself
Same
Anyone else think the girl in this video I REALLY pretty, especially her hair... I love it!!!!!😍😍 to me confidence is true beauty!❤️❤️
Miss Nicole Arie
I love her voice
Miss Nicole Arie crap I accidentally clicked dislike. Pressing like was the fastest thing I’ve ever done lol👍🏻
You’re absolutely right
4/10
Miss Nicole Arie *Yes yes she is inside and out*
Same exact situation! Both my friends are that self centered, talkative, pretty, girls. When they start to walk away, everyone follows behind them. Me? I'm always a loner. I lack something that they have that I don't. If I try to leave, no one follows me. Less likes for instagram. My seat partner didn't even know that I went to the same school it was their first time seeing me. I'm I not that "appealing"? I try standing out. But they only talk about things they know about while I don't. World is not fair. The stronger wins and the weak dies away. Please help me....
Just know that you are going to become something great, and that those people that have asked "who are you?" Will know who you are. You may feel alone, depressed, like you don't belong, I have had those same feelings, and let me tell you, it gets better. All you need to do is be you.
KaiTheIaniteFollower Thanks! I'll try to be more confident in myself! Your comment made me cheer up ;D
iMRS. kittcat I know exactly how you feel, I'm like that kind of girl. In my group of friends, they're all smart and pretty, but I'm always the one that's left out. They always get someone to talk to, but I'm always forgotten unless I speak up. But don't worry, you just have to let these thoughts go, don't try to be like them, you are who you are. People will soon remember who you are.
iMRS. kittcat I hate that you feel that you are weaker than other people. In my opinion, it takes strength to stand out and know how to be alone, and we have to know how to and be okay with being alone if we're ever going to be truly effective at being with others. :)
I don't even know you but I feel the exact same way. You're not alone (:
My life in like 2 minutes
Mine too.
God, mine too
And mine :^(((
same me
for real
1:50 be whatever girl you want to be but please wear socks with shoes girl
I love you
I was thinking the same thing 🤣
Yesss I was looking for someone to say thisss
Yes!!
But what if it was a really hot day when this was filmed?
Think about having a twin sister that's thinner than you, has beautiful long, thick hair, and flawless chocolate skin. Extroverted and everyone she meets...they love her.
Yuh, she's THAT girl.
Just imagine the comparisons. Ugh, it's annoying.
Don't worry, maybe you have better qualities inside which makes you a better person! You may be smarter, wiser, or have any good qualities she doesn't have, especially if you are introverted!
Kentia Strickland literally my life. (yes, im a twin also.)
Bacon Yum you get mah struggle.
Kentia Strickland I know how you feel. Everyone compares me to my twin and everyone thinks she is the better one.
Kentia Strickland I know how you feel, i'm living in the shadow of my sister. She's the beautiful, popular, smart and skinny girl everyone likes.. And then there is me, i'm just nothing...The girl who never gets a bf because she's too ugly..I really hate it..
I'm a guy but I can relate to everything in this.
Jack Montoya Duh, of couse you do cuz your not "that girl" ur not even any girl lmao
Huh ru crazy
I only watch this i don't have anything to do
I Relate dude
Jack Montoya i am not that guy
Lol
but she is like perfect..... her body is goals and id kill for that beautiful hair! What kinda guys would ignore her?????
I agree daysha is amazing
Angie Vargas She is just so cute :-)
Meka Malice Omg I know right XD
that's what _I'm_ tryna find out
The point is that White woman get more attention then Black women, even though Black women usually have more curves and other things. Unfortunately White men are more attracted to White Women, and black men are more attracted to White women.
"We all know who runs the world"
Me: Beyonce
PERIODDD POOOOOH
_China_
Yesss🤩🤩🤩
I'm that girl who avoids social activity because of the risk of being made fun of
I'm that girl who pretends she's okay so no one worries
I'm that girl who wishes her skin color was lighter
I'm that girl who can cry herself to sleep
I'm that girl who wishes she wasn't Indian
I'm that girl who wishes she could explain what she feeling and someone actually understand
Gummy Bear I can relate. I am a fellow Indian girl. You're not alone. Remember that.
Gummy Bear I'm Indian too. I'm that girl who's tired of being laughed at too
Gummy Bear theres some people in this world that want to be a darker skin color like you. And that's me.
Indian is beautiful. Every skin color is beautiful. You are beautiful
Same here I hate when I'm in photos
Lol I'm not even able to talk to people. It's so frightening and hard
Too true
***** Hey XD I'm good and you? Today I broke a barrier and talked to someone xP almost died tho
***** Yeah, but as a choice xP I actually went up to someone I didn't know and talked to them, I would've never done that before XD
I wanna be friends
friendship
I love it when Daysha is in the videos ❤️ she's SOOO beautiful and just really unique
ikr she's gorg💜💜💜
yuuuus
IKR
Rightttttt
yaassss
I'm that girl that only has 2 friends and can't speak very well. Not to mention getting picked last in P.E. and never finding a partner since those 2 friends are younger then me. I wish I could just make some friends that aren't digital (I have a few friends on social media).
Ju ju I can be your friend 😁
Be yourself (I know its a cliche but i worked for me), Join clubs and try to talk to as many ppl as you can.
Perfectly describes me now and when I was younger
Just bear the pain you're litterally me .....
girl may i just know your any fb or insta name cause i just wanna added wit u same pintch cause im also a ignore one but i just try to enjoy my own company cause everyone is busy on their own so be my friend
im that girl,
that girl who hates her body
that girl who has a book of insecurities
that girl who can't take a compliment, but gives them out effortlessly
that girl who can't see what she's worth
that girl that has what she wants but feels she doesn't deserve it
that girl who people can laugh at
that girl who others look at to feel better about themselves
*I want to stop being that girl*
I want to be that girl
that girl who doenst think twice about self doubt
that girl who looks in the mirror and immediately smiles
that girl who can accept what she has
that girl who can truly understand and accept that people love her
that girl that turns the other cheek
that girl who looks at herself and can say "your beautiful" almost effortlessly
it'll take time, but some day I will be that girl
not the girl who is conceted to a terrifying point
not that girl who rely on makeup to his herself
not that girl who uses male attention as a shield
but that girl.
that girl is different for everybody
so really. everybody is that girl
Meredith *your beautiful babe*
Boi, we are legit the same person! I can’t stand myself and I hate girls like this in the video, but..... I have a man in my life who loves me and I am NOT that girl...but I am like the girl talking...
Meredith thats wapa beautiful
Girl i read this and i almost started crying because this relates to me so much every single sentence is true in my situation. Its not easy but we have to go through it together
Meredith
Same😢
since i see everyone else doing this....
i'm that girl who can't figure out myself.
i'm that girl who disappoints her parents constantly.
i'm that girl who needs help, bad.
i'm that lonely girl who can barely make friends.
i'm that girl that tries to be someone i'm not to make sure that no one will hate me at the end of the day.
i'm that girl who apologizes for everything, and says excuse me nicely....but i'm also that girl who gets mad over one stupid thing, and becomes this demon in a way.
i'm that girl who talks to my head, i'm that girl always daydreaming and just wanting something more than a brain as a coping mechanism.
i'm that girl who is not popular, and who never wears makeup.
i'm that crybaby girl who's bawling her eyes out 24/7.
i'm that girl with a too fast metabolism who can't gain weight.
i'm that weak, lazy, worthless girl.
and i'm that girl who just doesn't care anymore.
You are NOT WORTHLESS. I have been through it to, but at the time I was only eight or nine.
swiggaswoody that's me but I am just a lump of fat that moves
swiggaswoody I thought I was the only one 😞
I agree with always apologizing for everything and always saying excuse me, but gets mad very fast over a little thing.
swiggaswoody it's better to be skinny than fat☹️
Im curious. Are there any women watching this who recognize that they are one of these girls? I know a girl who fits the first two descriptions perfectly, but if I showed her this video then I don't think she would say she is one of those girls.
She literally broke up with her boyfriend and the next couple of days after, she had 2 boys trying to go out with her.
Is there anyone who is aware that they are one of these girls? I'm interested.
Layla Tsueen I think it's because most of the time, we consider a girl to be that kind of girl but indeed, she has complex, she doesn't believe in herself etc. For exemple, I had to reject a lot of guy, if I go to a bar, boy will offer me drink... but every day, in my mirror, I just hate myself because I think I'm fat/not beautiful etc., when I see a girl in the street I'll be like "dam' she is so beautiful/cute/funny... I want to be like her"...
Most of the time, I think that we are "that" girl for an other girl...
Melle Tchuuii ohh, I understand :) thank you
Everyone is insecure about things.
Even "That Girl."
And even though to others she may seem like the most perfect and flawless person, they probably go through the many troubles just like you.
Everyone is insecure and I don't think you say that "will a girl know she's that girl"
Layla Tsueen I'm a mixture of both girls. My lack of self-confidence never allowed me to fully be the first girl. I always assumed that everyone who was nice to me and told me I was beautiful was just trying to make me look stupid when I believed them.
Yes. I am aware I'm one of these girls because I've been told that since I could remember. I don't feel sorry for self described insecure wall flowers because so many of them have stabbed me in the back out of petty jealousy. It's hard to have real relationships with people because they either just want to get in your pants or you find out they talk about you behind your back out of jealousy. Insecure women like the one in this video irritate me for this reason. I don't feel sorry for them at all.
You there...
You are beautiful, strong, smart, brave,
And most importantly,
You are worth it.❤
that made my night thank you
That makes my day thank u so are u u are brave and beautiful as well and don't let anyone interfere u
Aww. I'm not that girl either. I get a tiny bit jealous that other girls can attract guys easily. One time I liked someone but he liked my bff. :(
How old are you, 12?!
sherlocked cumbercookie That's a good question "Sherlocked Cumbercookie"
Moni Monkeemen There is always someone who will look better than us. You want the guy who thinks you are the world. If he doesn't...PASS :)
sherlocked cumbercookie If you didn't realize phil crick was implying that you're name sounds like a 8 year old made it.
Moni Monkeemen even though this is true for the most part, girls can get any guy they want
SAME.
I agree.
same gurl same
Im not that girl... but im THIS girl
And this girl is better than that girl
The little dreamer :)
Adina Milea same
Bruuh Itz Adina yasss u go girl!
Bruuh Itz Adina No! Thai girl isn't better. All girls are amazing
Nah you're beautiful and so is THAT girl. You're equals.
This is so relatable to me. I’ve always felt like I was the only girl in the world to feel like this, like I was surrounded by tons of “that girl” and I was the exception.
This video is gold. Gonna rewatch it every time I’ll forget how special and good I am.
I am a sophomore in high school and while all my friends are losing their virginitys, I'm here with still having not had my first kiss. I feel like I'm too mature for all of the high school boys at my school but sometimes I just feel like I'm making excuses for the fact that guys just dont like me because I'm me :/
+mgphotography58 I've got the same problem. Anyways, maybe you'll find the right one :)
+mgphotography58 Don't feel like you have to lose your virginity or have some random person's tongue shoved down your throat to gain a sense of validation. People make the excuse of "it's natural" or they are now "officially an adult". An adult has responsibilities and knows how to act upon them. You are more of an adult than they are.
I can somewhat relate to how you feel though and its so awkward and uncomfortable and you just don't know what to do and you wonder what the big deal is and why nothing even remotely similar has ever happened to you and you start to wonder whats wrong with you and everything descends into chaos until you realise....something. Idk what it is but I realised something. I realised that not everybody is destined to live that life. To do everything at the expected time. Some of the greatest people are the people who did things different.
I hope you feel better. Your time will come so don't force it. Don't worry.
it's better than being pregnant lol
Don't care. It's hard not to, but try. Deny it. Keep developing and become better and better. Don't stop and listen what the stupid people has to say about who you are. Eventually, someone will see you and not you on the outside.
You don't need a guy anyway, just so you know.
+mgphotography58 i feel the exact same way
I'm the girl who spends most of her time listening
I'm the girl who rarely gets invited to hang out with other girls
I'm the girl who doesn't have best friend
I'm the girl who doesn't have squad or bestie like those teen films
I'm the girl who gets chosen last
I'm the girl who never has any guy confesses undying love, or even the smallest crush
I'm the girl who is laughed at for eating more than most people
I'm that girl.
But in all, you are one of the people on this planet who are needed as are all of us for you are Irreplaceable and beautiful, not matter how tall, short, skinny, or fat you are. Just know that all of us are flawed. Those flaws can be taken within and made into strength. Sometimes it's not you who doesn't have a friend, its your friend missing out on the one thing they need and that person can be you. You are loved, cared for and strong. Be who you want to be, because at the end of the day you are one of a kind. 😃❤
+Samantha thank you for your kind words :)
+Kezia Hutabarat You're very welcome
+Kezia Hutabarat Queen, lets just have a moment.
If you listen, then that means you care.
If you never get invited, invite yourself. Find out when they're hanging out and simply ~arrive~
If you don't have a best friend, she/he will come in time. Some people don't get close to people until times unexpected, and maybe with someone who you've known awhile.
If you don't have a "squad," that's good because then that means you not basic or cliquey
If you get chosen last, it's probably because the teams want to have a challenge, and the one you're on will win easily
If you never have a guy confess love, that's okay, because wondering who has a crush on you adds mystery.
If you get laughed at for eating, laugh with them
Be the girl you are, not what you want to be.
+BooBooChicken Games thank you, that's very sweet of you :)
I'm the girl who is friendly
I'm the girl who is shy, but with right people, I'm the girl who is crazy
I'm the girl who is weird sometimes
I'm the girl who is sarcastic and ironic
I'm the girl who dont knows, what Make up is for
I'm the girl who hates the colour pink
I'm the girl who loves Hollywood Undead, Skillet, Fall out boy, Thousand foot krutch and Cult to follow
I'm the girl who does Karate
I'm the girl who loves Creepypastas even if she knows, that it scares her sometimes
I'm me and I'm proud of it.
Thank you Buzzfeed for giving me the confidence to say (or in this case write) that.
I'm the girl who will not be bothered to read this
Your badass, I like it. I also do all of these things
I am EXACTLY you, except I like the color pink, we could be twins! ❤️ Buzzfeed also gave me some confidence. :3
Rayeesa Shah That's soooo cool👍
Omg same
"Someone will always be prettier. Someone will always be smarter. *But they will never be you*
I needed that
my intentions are always to make others happy and make them feel special but I can't even make myself feel good. I feel like a disappointment
Elma Abidovic me too, and it sucks.
Elma Abidovic your intentions are to give love and kindness to other people to make them feel better about themselves because you know that they deserve it since everyone deserves it and you see the good in other people. Your criticisms are not supposed to be about putting yourself down. They are about trying to see the bad in you and change them into good. But sometimes you don’t need to. What you might see as flaws other people might see as beauty. What you see as not fitting in other people might see as being unique. And what you see as a painting full of flaws others will see as a masterpiece because that is what you are. You are an artist and when you create something you can see all the little details and flaws that you make but other people can’t. Because they aren’t flaws they are stories and memories that make you who you are and how you got this far in life. When you give out compliments you are making other people happy and brightening their day with or without you knowing it and it just shows that you have a lot of love to share which will allow you to make friendships easier and surround yourself in positive people and friends you can rely on. They will help you overcome some insecurities you have and you’ll reciprocate
I'm the girl who finds perfection in everyone, but not herself
I'm the girl who hides her feelings in the internet
I'm the girl who is alone, not lonely
I'm the girl who avoids looking at mirrors
I'm the girl who has no friends
I'm the girl who avoids selfies and cameras
I'm the girl who gives advice, but never listens to it
I'm the girl who has trouble with the simple things
I'm the girl who is as pale as the clouds
I'm the girl who forgets her depression only through the internet
I'm the girl that people look down upon
I'm the girl who is far from popular
I'm the girl who goes to GameStop, not sephora
I'm the girl who people identify as a nerd, a loser, a nobody
I'm the girl who tries to laugh it off
I'm the girl who spends an unhealthy amount of time doing nothing
I'm the girl who people call skinny, but I'm not that girl.
I'm not the girl who has friends
I'm not the popular girl who has no imperfections
I'm me.
Frisk Dreemur
Lol omg I feel like such a silly person but I read your comment and I was thinking how sad it was and then I saw your username and just started fangirling 😁( I think I need help)
hahah I understand lol I am complete fandom trash :P
You are you and you are you because God or whatever you believe in knew you and ONLY you could handle it. You are destined to be you.
This is my life in like 90% lol
u the girl
who is amazing
u are the girl who is healthy
u are the girl that u are so lucky to have a family
u are the girl that is so beutifu
u have so much amazing trates my dear, u just need to see them😊 every one is beutiful and unique in their own way
including u
so u are incredible
never doubt that😄
I cried because I relate so much haha
Dezarae Bartlett girls can get almost any guy they want
smh Tell that to my past crushes.
Dezarae Bartlett I cried too :"(
I cried too. This video is so empowering
Dezarae Bartlett Don't cry
CRAFT
I wish I was that girl with a big happy family
That girl with a dad
That girl that's so beautiful
That girl who doesn't need makeup
That girl who's not alone
That girl with REAL friends
Daisha is so beautiful, I love her.
Daysha 😊
+Melody Gan oops! sorry!
yes! more videos like this and NOT damn videos about people taste testing lube.
***** "I am feel uncomfortable when we are not about me?"
***** ........
Larissa Frederickson OMG HAHA YES
I love both videos.
***** oh no women who feel the need to empower other women intimiadates you?because we dont need a man's help for that?becauase we are perfectly capable of doing things on our own?take that sexist opinion of yours and shove it up your ass please:)
I'm the girl who loves art but can barely afford paint
I'm the girl who sits alone but hates being lonely
I'm the girl who hides her emotions but is full of them
I'm the girl who hates mirrors but spends most of her time obsessing over it
I'm the girl who says I'm just fine but really means help
I'm the girl who seems careless but cares too much
I'm the girl who seems intelligent but really knows nothing
I'm the girl that notices perfections in everyone else but only flaws in myself
I'm the girl who cries when no one else is looking so that they only see happiness so they can't feel this to....
same
Same here..
Everything u said was basically me
!000 thumbs up for this!
I feel exactly the same !
I feel like this was needed to be seen. For me. I can relate so much to this because it’s literally the same with me and my big sister. She’s THAT GIRL. Knows how to flirt, gets every guy she wants, does her hair and makeup perfectly, has the fittest body, eats clean, has the best conversation and so on. I could list so much more! When comparing my sister and me, I look like an ogar. Never had a boyfriend, never flirted with a guy and only gets stressed by it, always have crusty and smudged makeup, curly hair always awfully messy, can literally not survive 1 hour without food and always in my bed. I really hope that one day I can convince myself too, that I don’t need to be THAT GIRL. I need to be myself and accept me as I am. Its going to take a while, but thats okay. This amount of time is spend for a good and I can get to know me better.
I'm the girl who chooses to not need a guy.
I'm the girl who competes against the guys in competitions.
I'm the girl who walks with confidence while crying internally.
I'm the girl who gives advice, but doesn't take it for themselves.
I'm the girl who likes to be a part of a band
I'm the girl who can hang out with a guy and not think at all romantically about them.
I'm the girl who says they're a nerd and doesn't try to hide it.
I can relate, man.
Dude, same. I have a lot of guy friends. I am really tomboy and I have everything in common with you
Same. But this is inspiring tbh
+Lourdes Enciso me too. Most of my best friends are guys. Besides 1-2
This is exactly me!!
i relate to this so much. The girl who is just there. the girl, who no one really knows. the one no one votes for in a class election. that girl when giving a speech, everyone doesnt care.
fiona f.s Same here. Wish the very best for u😊
I relate to it as well. The girl who's invisible despite being tall. The girl that no one knows because they never let her speak. The girl who feels like such a disgusting excuse of a person. The girl who has decided to rise to the challenge and change. And everything will be alright.
i am that girl that the story's not about
i am that girl that has barley any friends
i am that girl that tries to be like everyone else but really is not
i am the girl that fakes a smile
i am not the cool girl...but..
i am the girl that tries to get lead roles in the play
i am the girl that can find the good in any problem (even if i forget it sometimes)
i am the girl that is there for anyone who is in pain no matter what it is
i am the girl thats your shoulder to cry on
no matter who you are, you are amazing, there is no such thing as a bad person, no matter what you look like, what your personality is, you matter, maybe you are the background charter but think...what makes you, you? it could be what you do, what you do for people, who you are, everyone is important, you make you own story...
Daisy Grace no one cares grow up
that was actually so good.i think you have a talent i couldn`t have expressed it any better.
Daisy Grace you go girl!! You're amazing!
Daisy Grace .... you made me cry ....
Daisy Grace i love your words ... it makes me feel better
*that girl* is my best friend and i never saw that until now.
which that girl, the one she was talking about at the beginning or how she wants to be that girl, Im gonna guess the first one but im stupid, so...
I'm the girl who is quiet but friendly.
I'm the girl who will help you with your work and ask you about your life.
I'm the girl that smiles at everyone and holds the door open for you.
I'm the girl who would rather be reading a novel than going to a party on a Friday night.
I'm the girl who has friends and is sociable but loooooves alone time.
I'm the girl who likes to watch and play football and gets ridiculed for it.
I'm the girl who is herself no matter what. And I love myself for it!
See these are the traits that makes you and I love that about you. Don't listen to people who says that you should change, never change because that's what makes you beautiful
+David Portllo Davila thank you so much, lots of love :-)
+David Portllo Davila :) your brilliant do you know that?! X
+Griffin Deal hmmm, will keep that in mind cheers xx
we need more girls like you IMO
That guy coming up soon?
Have an idea of what it should say I'm not Eugene I'm not Eugene and not Eugene I'm not Eugene
Deez nutz
HA GOT EEMM!!
NSirjan Chapagain You're not Eugene but you are THE guy :D
As soon as I saw the title I immediately thought Wicked.
It's a great song. Heartbreaking really.
Avery Bombastic SAME!!! I was just looking through the comments to see if anyone else thought that...
Avery Bombastic Its the main reason why I clicked on it because the play is my absolute favorite even still the video was great
Me too :')
Avery Bombastic same.
I watched this 3 times in a row with the tears flowing each time. This is so powerful, and very encouraging. 😢💞
I'm that girl who hides behind jokes and confidence
I'm THAT girl who lies in bed watching youtube all day, whilst stuffing my face with junk. #ProudToBeTHATGirl(;
+CookieGaming Glad I'm not the only one!
Me too and I love being THAT girl.
Lol
I just sobbed alone in my room while relating to this. You totally summed up my life and I never knew how to put it into words. Thank you.
Guess whos the most beatiful in the world?
Me and you ❤️
You're Arianator?
Thank you Sister
It would actually be “You and I”***
s c o n e in this context it's actually me and you
Izzy Rowland no
I'm proud as hell of that girl that made this video.
No seriously, what's her name please she's one of my new favorites on BuzzFeed.
I believe her name is Daysha❤️
"I'm not like the other girls."
- Every girl
-Clara Clement im like the other girls.......A GIRL!
that phrase is probably one of the most misogynistic things a girl could say :/
김치김치 exactly, oh my god, you're comment gives me life lmfao.
+Ra'mana Veekajii this is hilarious
I'm like every other girl you'll ever meet, but it's taken a long time to come to grips with that
I'm that girl who finds science more entertaining than parties
***** I`m that guy that thinks you`re dumb
Yah me too, I'm more into than parties female anatomy
***** Marry me
Same! Join the crew c:
Im that girl that doesnt give a shit about all you guys comments and im also that girl who has a dick
No one is “THAT GIRL” because life isn’t all a fairytale,even the people that u think are “THAT GIRL” isn’t really “THAT GIRL” because even “THAT GIRL” has secret hidden insecurities or problems,no ones perfect we all have problems sometimes ❤️💜💙
Thank God someone finally said it
Finally jesus
Also men have different taste in women. No one is "that girl" in everyone's eyes
Ik I’m hecka late but thanks for saying this ❤️😂
Veve haha I forgot I commented this but your welcome 😂💓✨
this is one of the things I love about buzzfeed. These inspirational videos are what get me through tough times in my life
I'm not that girl
I'm the girl that never wears makeup
The girl that feels imperfect all the time
That girl that is depressed but hides it so well that no one knows
That girl that people only use to get answers to questions
That girl whose crush always likes my best friend
And the list can continue endlessly pointing out all of my flaws
I'm the girl who is an outcast
I'm the girl that hide her feelings to help others
I'm the girl who loves nightcore, rock, etc
I'm the girl who always wants to be alone or a select few
I'm the girl that barely anyone likes
I'm the girl who a lot of people trade in
I'm the girl that goes up to you to ask if you're ok, but no one asks me
I'm the girl who loves games
I'm the girl who stays her in room all day
I'm the girl who can't hurt someone
I'm the girl who hates makeup
I'm the girl who people say my life is perfect..when its far from perfect
I'm the girl who tries so hard to feel happy
I'm the girl who tries to escape reality
I'm the girl who people try to correct when I'm right
I'm the girl who is crazy, but quiet
But, I somehow love it..
nah, im good :)
Same.
same with me. ;)
Same here. Just know we are not alone
Thank you.
I’m happy I’m not “ that girl” because I want someone to love of me for my personality not just for what I look like
I can almost relate to this, but in ways I am that girl.
I'm consistantly bugged by boys, having them like me and tell me that.
But I'm never able to find a relationship where I'm loved for me and not my 'looks' that don't exist. It hurts to know that no one loves you for you
But I'm that girl
that girl who hates her body, who curses herself for not being thin enough. I'm that girl who nearly went anorexic because my thighs were too big, despite everyone telling me I was perfect
that girl who hates herself, her life. I'm that girl who has depression, who can never be happy for long. There are days where someone can cheer me up, but it always come crashing down on me
that girl with anxiety, who spends her nights awake and afraid, afraid of things that don't matter.
that girl who is terrified of the real world, who can't say anything to anyone without wanting to curl into a ball and disappear.
that girl who took self defense out of fear of being raped or harassed by reasons she doesn't believe.
_But maybe I can be someone else_
Maybe I can be that girl
That girl who loves herself because she is perfect.
that girl who is happy because she can be and people love her
that girl that can sleep, knowing that everything is okay
that girl who can speak up for what she wants because nothing is stopping her from doing so
that girl who can walk down the streets knowing that anyone who tests her will lose.
Maybe I can be that girl. Or maybe I am already her
Priaxio of course you can be that girl xxx work hard and don’t give up 😊 then you can achieve anything
I doubt that any guys would even give you a second glance.
Priaxio I can perfectly relate to that, it's almost scary... and especially the relationship thing is so true for me as well because I get compliments from guys on how I look but when they find out I want something more they're gone. Your text was really inspirational!
im a male, but i can relate.
I just want to say shut up. You are pretty and get all the attention.
I love Daysha. She is so inspiring and beautiful and should live her life the way she wants and loves it. She is beautiful and amazing and fabulous. I just love of how sassy she is and loving.
that makes two of us, I LOVE HER TOO!
YAS!
THREE
my bestfriend is That Girl, she's so, so beautiful, guys like her, people talk about her, she dress, move, act in the "Right Way" and everyday, when i walk with her, at school, in the corridor, i just feel...not enough, not beautiful enough, not smart enough, not interesting enough and then, at home, everyday, I cry
They laugh at me because I'm different, I laugh at them because they're all the same. (:
love yourself.
I'm the guy who is always single
I'm the guy who flees any kind of feelings
I'm the guy who is always making jokes
I'm the guy who tries to be happy all the time
I'm the guy who is not that special, not that interesting.
its okay. at least your not like most of the guys out here.
your a rare one.
keep it that way babe 😉
Stay strong, I feel you man
*gives you a hug*
Stay strong
I have your name!
I want to show you that girl isn't alone
I'm the girl who is confident
I'm the girl who is happy in her own skin
I'm the girl who is introverted
I'm the girl who loves reading
I'm the girl who loves Witcher, OITNB and Game of Thrones
I'm the girl who loves Fall Out Boy and G-Eazy
I'm the girl who is young and stupid
I'm the girl who is a massive tomboy instead of being cute and girly
I'm the girl who gives advices but never listens to them
I'm the girl who loves memes because they are a great escape from sadness
But i love it.
I love myself.
Hello new best friend
Me
ME
I'm that girl who is always there for you
I'm the girl you can rely on
I'm the girl who will do anything for the people I love
But I wish I was that girl
Who was loved by everyone
I wish I was that girl who had real friends who loved me for me
I wish I was that girl who didn't get replaced the moment someone better came along
I wish I was that girl who could proudly say I love myself
I wish I was that girl who was the first one in your contact list not the last resort
I wish I was the girl who everyone liked to be around
I wish I was the girl people fought for not the one who fights for someone
I wish I was that girl who had everyone have her back
The girl who had someone's shoulder to lean on and not be the shoulder herself for once
I wish I was the girl who made others wish they were like me
I wish I was That Girl
😢😢😢😢
🖤
💜
Late but I love you even if I don't know you.
I relate to litterly every thing you said on a deep level and I know what that feels like and I'm so sorry you feel that way if you ever need anyone I'm here okay ❤
Thank you everyone for such incredibly kind comments! Thank you so much! 🙏🏻🤗
I relate to this to much.
I am not that girl that has a perfect smile
:(
Phanic! At My Chemical Rømance okay i know im super late but you are definetly THAT emo girl
Yeah but you have a amazing taste in music ;)
What does a "perfect" smile look like?
I play this game called 'Stardoll', I play it because I customize my doll to look like what I wished I looked like.
I LOVED STARDOLL
haha. I love stardoll
Yup. I have like 3 superstar accounts and you can make it seem like you're this perfect person when in reality we're not.
i play sims 2 for hours for the same reason. all my characters are blue eyed, brown haired girls with fair skin.
+Archi pelago Funny. I'm a blue eyed, brown haired girl with fair skin and I think I look like a witch.
"Sit Still, Look Pretty" by Daya shares the same message. It's a really bold song.
Whoever feels that they're not worth it because they don't consider themselves pretty, please listen to that song and tell me how it felt. ❣️ You are beautiful!
I listened to it but I can't "Sit still look pretty" if I'm not pretty.
When I'm feeling down, I always come back to watch this video. Such a bless~♡
I'm that girl who can't be strong.
I'm that girl who needs attention to thrive.
I'm that girl who gets no attention.
I'm that girl that no one has a crush on.
I'm that girl who never gets complimented or called attractive.
I'm that girl who is lonelier than words can tell.
I'm that girl who looks in the mirror and hates everything she sees.
I'm that girl who fears she will die cold and alone.
I'm that girl who just wants to be loved.
silverxstar hey, listen. You're an absolute wonder of a human being. And there is someone out there who finds perfection in all your imperfections. Trust me.❤️
silverxstar literally me every single day 😭😭
Don't be that girl
Craft!
DAN AND PHIL :D
Hydra Novablaze attack on titan *~* eren and Armin *-*
Nadine Neumann-Rystow yep >u
Hydra Novablaze *~*
I thought I could escape you guys here, I was wrong
Aw man
U hit the spot
That's the thing i have depression
Now when i know i'm not alone...
Thanks
I love DC Comics
I love my PS4
I love anime
I love my 'weird' music taste
I love Kpop
I love Jpop
I love my favourite fictional characters
I love stuffing my face with food
I love being weird
I love being me, even if nobody else accepts it.
That's perfect
+Leigh Riddick I agree. I think everyone should love themselves for who they are.
+Leigh Riddick You sound amazing! ~(OuO)~
BE MY FRIEND
+Leigh Riddick You sound amazing, I'm the same!
I love Daysha so much she's honestly such an inspirational woman and deserves to be that girl who she wants to be
I feel like I'm "that girl" but I'm not chasing boys or relying on them. Guys used to confess to me quite often in school and even now guys walk up to me to try and talk to me or get my attention and to be honest, it makes me horribly uncomfortable and i wish people wouldn't notice me that often. I don't even know how to react to a compliment from a boy. I just wish people would understand that I'm not interested. If you wanna trade places, then please be my guest. I'd love to be left alone rather than being forced to break hearts.
***** I HATE rejecting people. I'd rather be rejected than reject, it sucks :-/
Same, especially when they're a close friend. :c
Yeah it is so much worse and then they start ignoring you after that :(
***** well, it might be rough having to reject people, but believe me its harder not being "that girl" cause then you constantly reject yourself. every damn day :/
I don't think whether or not someone is asking you out should effect your self worth. I love myself either way but would prefer to be left alone. Being asked out takes me out of my bubble and forces face to face social interaction, and my response, usually ends up hurting the person's feelings. Everyone sees things different. I don't think people should be classified as "THAT GIRL" or "NOT THAT GIRL" cause that's just putting someone into a general cookie cutter shape rather than having people see themselves as individuals stuck in similar circumstances.
And who doesn't want to be "that girl?" 💙
My strength is my beauty.
I'm the girl who seems to be the smartest one in the class. I'm that girl who has boys confessing their love you her. I'm that girl who is skinny and can't gain a pound. I'm the girl who has so many creative idea it'll burst out of my head. I'm the girl who cries herself to sleep at night. I'm the girl trying to study for five tests and trying to do all my homework at 4am. I'm the girl who has the same boys confessing their love joke about how awful I am. I'm the girl who's underweight and can't gain a pound to save my life. I'm the girl sitting alone in her room all day because I know I'm not good enough for the world. I'm that girl who types her feeling away because it's the only way I can. And I am the girl who is terrified to press send. But I will. Because I am that girl
Royal Queen no idea how much i relate to this. top of my grade in class rank, falling out of one relationship and instantly finding another, and yet i'm exhausted and sad and tired.
do care about you, grades, boys/girls, love & everything else is secondary. you are important
*do care about you.
Royal Queen i truly relate to you. I am 68 pounds all because of a high metabolism and my parents think it’s my fault. That or they blame each other and yell until midnight while i stress out about keeping perfect grades. Know you are not alone, i hope this comment wasn’t too late
Royal Queen girl I am underweight too and can't gain a pound I know the struggle
Ill tell ya a funny story. Wherever I go, I keep getting compliments on my appearance. Everyone's always telling me how pretty I am.But the thing is.... I don't believe them. I hate hate hate my face. I've never had a boyfriend becauese I'm too shy to have a social life. I have serious self confidence issues, I avoid mirrors and whenever I accidentally catch my reflexion in something I want to cry. For a while I've been debating whether or not people have just been lying to me to make me feel better, and started saving up for plastic surgery (jaw shaving, maybe a nose job too). But since my parents found out they've been telling me I'm crazy and that I have to see a shrink. I know it sounds like I'm fishing for complements, but I'm not. Everything I've said is 100% true. Does anyone else feel like this?
I feel the same way. Many of the people I know don't really know who I am.
+Scuro1000 yes i do
I feel like that but no one ever calls me pretty or beautiful soooooooo
Me
+Scuro1000 You're not alone. If you want to be "accepted in society", be yourself! If everyone calls you pretty, then obviously you are! They aren't saying that to make you feel better, because how would they know you feel bad about yourself? Don't get plastic surgery. Be who you are. Every morning wake up and look in the mirror. Say something you like about yourself.
I'm that black girl, who knows that she is beautiful for who she is, with her dark skin and big lips, I am, that confident black girl, who knows how to let her inner beauty shine💟
Rihanna's Daughter. Very good and i know that you are so beautiful i wish i have your confidence
I feel those words deep in my heart....