I love that this video randomly pulled up on my feed. Some day I might be a father of a girl. Quite insightful. I lean towards personal choice with regards to pulling, piercings, circumcision, tattoos and all kinds of body modifications that predominantly affect the person to whom they are done to as opposed to their partners or parents.
I appreciate the fact that my Mum sought my consent over this issue. I clearly told her no and she understood that it was my decision to make. Parents let the kids decide
I looove bump love Angie may the Lord continue giving you peace. Ur such a vibe banange am sure you can now do a word cup advert kubanga u got the energy giirrrrlll. Racheal mukama akukolele byonna byogala our dear principle and continue to shine in hosting and mcing thing. Rosette I call you bump love flower mwanagwe I tell beautiful girls to work and I use u as a referral . Manuella ur love for God challenges me ela this year am puposing to lean, speak, seek,love,feel the Lord for guidance. Nabachwa owengonge I have ur energy but not ur confidence of which I got to realise it was shut down in process of being brought up naye this year there things am letting go,learn and embrace Happy new year my number one ever beautiful intelligent hosts
Manuela same here. We were told at my primary school to do it it was painful. We formed groups of five to help each other we were btn ages 7-10 matron made sure she checked eachone to see progress the herbs were burning but with time it stopped paining what blows my mind is if a little girl didn't do it she would be threatened that they would pour down chicken feed then the chicken would poke her and enlongate them. So basically it was compulsory and we were told not to mention a thing to boys coz some girls talked alot. Women shouldn't be forced especially by boyfriends who aren't taking them no where even husbands love some one the way they are imagine if the woman said u better have a big .... It's unfair. But if u are a child it's very easy to be forced so ur parent can be asked for consent. Otherwise just doing it to young girls makes even baganda new generation a bond there culture saying it doesn't respect them milleni. ...born kids want self respect and dignity not force like olden days where one was forced to marry at 13. Let's embrace change
I am glad to listen to smart educated women. I have heard women who put down women that don't have. Thanks for this topic. I have actually asked my male friends about it and they also think that women do it for their own satisfaction. Therefore, I decided never to do it to please anyone. I love me so much
Cultures are not written in stone. If the culture is not beneficial they should consider changing it. This does not mean that you have to be cultureless. Use the best from various cultures to produce one that will make you a better person.
From Zambia! I've always wanted more information on this. The culture is the same in Zambia and I've always refused to do it. Except we are told, our husbands will cheat if we don't do this.
Cultures are not written in stone. If the culture is not beneficial they should consider changing it. This does not mean that you have to be cultureless. Use the best from various cultures to produce one that will make you a better person.
Am from Zambia too and I feel the gals shud be given an opportunity to make a decision on their own. There is no scientific research that proves that labia minora pulling helps in child birth. My research has proved that it just deprive ladies of sexual arousal
So this video played spontaneously as I do my house chores. Kemi is absolutely right, she seems well traveled and has interacted with different cultures. Culture is your identity and key to a successful society partly why Jews and Indians excel they are embedded and proud of their culture and don't copy to be like an English. Girls should give their own concent meaning it should be delayed until shortly before marriage. Having gone to boarding school, the caretaker did the first session for us, and the follow up sessions were done by us. I did it wrong and it's something I don't need today. Coconut oil has antimicrobial properties maybe kemi's mum's generation used it to prevent infections. Please ladies raise kids that understand and respect their cultures. It's totally wrong having your children speak and write English yet they can't do same for their native language. Understanding your culture is so key in successful living.
I am from Zimbabwe and its compulsory but the way the men cheat and leave a woman long enough for someone who doesnt have is shocking and when you ask the guys not all of them like them
Cynthia in Zim it's the Kalanga tribe from west of the country that do this , judging by your name in mashonaland it's not done , but its a tradition of cause, let's not follow the colonialists tell us we are primitive, they've kept their traditions alive whilst ours are branded evil , my fellow blacks lets wise up
Cultures are not written in stone. If the culture is not beneficial they should consider changing it. This does not mean that you have to be cultureless. Create a culture that makes you a better person.
Men must be held to similar standards. African women do enough. Two people make a family or a couple. Both must work together for happiness. Women have been chosen as the portal of life. The other must support our queens The other must step up.
I will personally couple this labia elongation knowledge for my daughters with sex education, because based on my experience,I was confused as to why I had to do it. I did my own research and found that ,it is for BOTH partners to be pleased sexually. I don't think the practice should be banned I just think it should be modernised, no more of trying to make girls feel guilty for not pulling and no FORCE.
Thanks for your comment, people in Africa are so biased over which life,tradition to follow, clearly we can see our traditions are being thrown out of the window, for later on 20/40 years some westerner will come back and say they've come up with it , suppressing our traditions ,Everything started off in Africa, life as we know of it began in Africa
@@alfredmula9838 Women do not have much sexual nerve endings in the labia compared to the Clitoris and the G-Spot. Labia does not make you orgasm. Large labia does not help a woman sexually, That is so stupid 😆 You seem to be very ignorant on what does and does not give women sexual pleasure.
@@clairemcfadyen1036 thanks.Labias makes women reach orgasm quickly infact within 2 minutes with a man who understands how to work labias with his manhood. The mushroom head of a man and female labias are the two most partners in bring every woman to climax. The bigger the labia the more blood flow to the area and the more accessible the manhood head to it.This results is explosive sensual pleasure around the female genital. Therefore,without enough labias a woman remains unsatisfied for lack of orgasm from her partner. Hence big labias help women achieve orgasm and climaxing quickly.
@@alfredmula9838 No , no no. " The mushroom head of a man and female labias are the two most partners in bring every woman to climax " you say..... You are wrong. Very wrong. The female labia is Nothing compared to the female G-Spot and Clitoris. Labias do not make women orgasm quickly 🤣😆 What do you mean " Work labias with his manhood " 😭 I'm dead 🤣 You don't need big labia to have an orgasm! I would imagine that it's harder for a woman to orgasm with those abnormally large labia. African men need to find the G-Spot ( The ACTUAL Sexual pleasure zones in a woman's body) and spend more time on the Clitoris ( the other main sexual pleasure spot ) and make their women have a proper orgasm instead of this crazy and backwards practice.
Ancestors where wise coz girls got married at an early age let's say 15yrs ,but now its a knew world age matters a lot coz we get married at 20plus so I suggest kids decide for themselves ,and elongation can be helped out by our men in bedroom why risk a child at that age
I learned about pulling from a house maid. I told my mum about what the maid had told me about and to be honest she was not surprised, I should ask her if she 'worked' with this older maid to give me this information. It was painful but it never made me uncomfortable. Partly because as you mentioned I was told it was meant to help me with child birth, so it felt like the natural thing to do. Now that I am a mother, if my daughter was born into that culture, at an older age I would give her the information and let her decides what she wants to do with it.
The only problem I have is that this topic was too short but hey! What a great one! Why am I only seing it now 😳. Will speak for myself. I was ashamed when my Aunty broke it down for me, I wouldn’t prefer my Mum to discuss that with me either and I will report other girls when I find them practicing the pulling and one day a good friend of mine offered to do it for me without me putting any effort. Well, it is easy doing it before becoming a teenager cz when you grow older those labias are stubborn whew! And please, do not over do it, the cookie becomes watery if they are too long. Thank you bump love 🥰. Proudly 🇲🇼
My question is , what benefit does it give to pull? and why not leave it to the husband to be to pull if he wants them after marrying the lady. Maybe they can only elongate at certain age not when one is fully grown up.
I'm all about culture and keeping them alive... but I also know that not everything cultural is good or right. So pulling isn't right.. and should be stopped.
I think another session should be with men giving their version of their experience with this with women who have done it and those who havent.Key thingbis to demystify its so called "cultural value" Is it really worth it, really? Personally dont think so!!!
Our many African cultures are beauty. may we preserve what is worth, what helps our generations go the right way. I feel belittled and ashamed when I think about this topic!!!! will anyone blame the girls when thy start being sexually active at an early age? Many girls started masturbating because of this pulling thing. lets preserve what is worth passing on to our generations and also pure
This was very enlightening, as I've never heard of pulling. I think that maintaining cultural norms are fine only when it does not cause harm to others. With that being said, pulling sounds like a painful process and should be reconsidered. Also, are there legitimate benifits of pulling? Could it just be something that was thought to be beneficial but really isn't? If it isn't, it may simply be a misguided practice. Thank you ladies for sharing. I do think that "variety is the spice of life" but sometimes variety can cost us too much. Blessings.
Cultures are not written in stone. If the culture is not beneficial they should consider changing it. This does not mean that you have to be cultureless. Use the best from various cultures to produce one that will make you a better person.
Am glad mum listened am respected my no. The amazing thing is that however much it's about pleasing men in bed, it's not a guarantee for a good marriage. Parents please don't lead your girls blindly. They are precious and can choose to do without it. We need a husband not a man. With all due respect.
I have natural long labia and for the longest time I used to think it isn’t normal.In Kenya we don’t do labia elongation.Interesting how I keep learning different cultural practices
Eeeeeeeeh I pulled mine when was still young (in Uganda) but telling my girl to do it, will not happen. I don't want to be locked up nobusumuluzo babusule munyanja especially in this country UK. This is termed as child abuse.
I made that choice and refused. They wanted to pay this Zambian lady to do me. Im Zimbabwean by the way. When i was 18 my moms friend checked me and called me a baby imagine just because i was not elongated
Cultures are not written in stone. If the culture is not beneficial they should consider changing it. This does not mean that you have to be cultureless. Use the best from various cultures to produce one that will make you a better person.
So interesting, complete contrast from North American culture where it’s considered shameful to have long labia and the majority of men insist that small and hidden inner labia are more desirable.
I only found out about pulling at 21 when I dated a man from a different tribe, then I found out it's also done in my tribe but because I was never interested in cultural practises such as girls initiation, I never went through it. Pulling is not a thing in SA, even seeing a pulled FLOWER is rare & weird.
Cultures are not written in stone. If the culture is not beneficial they should consider changing it. This does not mean that you have to be cultureless. Use the best from various cultures to produce one that will make you a better person.
@@AfroEthernet they really should, I think the girls should be the ones to decide, not their parents. One cultural practice I hate to the core is female genital mutilation, it has no benefit at all. There's one I recently learnt about, it's called the trokosi system, we still have a lot of work to do.
This "pulling thing" should be done with sex education...because it is confusing to a young girl.It can result into teenage pregnancy because a girl can think,now that I Have pulled am good to go.It is also painful and takes long to achieve the needed length.It is all about men's satisfaction ,what do men do for women's satisfaction? Are they taught anything? Thanks for the show
Labia pulling is goed voor boys pleasure . I'm from congo kinshasa but i think dat this tradition from uganda and rwanda is the best . I love women from east africa . See you .
I have never discussed this with my mothers. However, at 11yrs old the senior woman teacher and matron made us do it. I mainly did it cos everyone else was doing it. Some students were more experienced so they would help out those of us who didn't know what to do. I tried to let someone else do it, but it was so uncomfortable, and i decided to do it myself. To make it easier they even put a herb, which would be so painful. Eventually, I gave up the whole process.
As a medical studednt this pulling doesn't make sense to me attttt alllllll😂😂😂 and for me that topic is totally OFF THE TABLE! And thank God my mum is not into it also
SoCalBarbie, you are an impressively racist, intolerant, and ignorant creature. There are generally 4 types of Female Genital Mutilation. Male Genital Mutilation generally falls somewhere between those classifications as Type 3 and Type 4. During fetal deveopment the Genital Tubercle (part that will determine if they become either female/male/intersex) is made of the exact same tissues, nerves, and structures. It is wrong to strap ANYONE down and forcefully damage and permanantly alter their genitals against their will. If you're an adult and want to mutilate yourself, have at it! Yeah i know, Don't feed the trolls...
I was forced to start doing that at around 10yrs in primary boarding school by the matron. It was so painful trying to pee afterwards. I told my mum about it and she was so furious, talked to the matron and she immediately stopped. Its sexualing young girls at a very innocent age. Only consenting adults 18+ who understand or believe the value of this should be doing it.
@@dianadats5058You're Comparing oranges with apples but to answer your qn anyways, I'm not a muganda and I don't come from a culture where pulling is a thing. Children are beaten at school for discipline's sake normally. Pulling is for preparing girls to please men in bed!!! Girls as young as 10! If you don't see anything wrong with that I can't help you.
@@jdm3762 you see,ur not omuganda so y are u over attached about our culture.if i tell u to kneel for elders u will say 4rm my tribe dey don't kneel.dont u see dat ur destroying our culture.wait if they say about ur culture then c consern but this is not about ur cultura coz u know nothing about it and y it was done so
Even discipling child is part of preparing her to have discipline from her marriage and in the sociaty madam but Minister said it's painfull asif beating is sweat.anyway ur not omuganda and evenif i explain u will never understand but sorry I don't know ur tribe.i would have asked you something from ur tribe.
When they did it to u at 10yrs,did you start sex???i told u,it was done around those ages be4 pubic hair grows.if u grew hair,did u allow anyone to see ur private parts???our accestors were sharp so they knew don't think ur brighter than them.they knew wat they were doing
You were too young,,, congrats to your mom, she was so understanding. Let it not be mandatory,,, to me it sounds weird. Where will this young girls take their feelings since when you are walking they rub and someone is aroused 😱😱😱
Banange batuleke,coz some ov us did it naye no difference,if someone has issues ov walking out on u dey will do so even when u have the longest labiaz,we used to do those things thinking it helps us with bugumu naye the vagina is gifted naturally,this whole issue needs to b discussed with the girls first,tell them the true reason behind it and let them decide.
Besides me hating that we ladies had to do that just to satisfy the men, which I didn’t like. I always told my Mom that ok let’s see if I have very long Labias , and I’m wearing a bikini or something cute how would I look like with two skin things wiggling out of my bikini in public or just with myself!🤔😁. Or that I had to do something that painful to make a man happy y not he also does something to his part to me happy. Or is Circumsizsing it besides the health reasons men get cut. I’m a African woman but some things we have to do in the name of culture or customs i don’t do hey 🤣😂
I don’t believe in forcing someone to pull or talking for them why they haven’t done so. That’s cultural and not everyone is interested. Society shouldn’t determine how you handle your private parts . Let’s get into reality please.
Cultures are not written in stone. If the culture is not beneficial they should consider changing it. This does not mean that you have to be cultureless. Use the best from various cultures to produce one that will make you a better person.
I was 13 when I was checked and told to do it. I tried it once and said immediately no. Its extremely traumatising to have a strange woman touching me in that way
I would think labial stretching would make it more uncomfarble for women: larger labia,harder to keep clean :hygiene and for sex:intercourse ; the large labia would get in the way .Also the one labia would make tight close feel uncomfortable:pinch
To me its not cultural it is also useful to us ladies to cover that hole and every woman have those things wether your white or black ,God was not mistaken to put those things there we just increasing in size but its already there
They do it to these young gal its because it better before they get their mps, that is our culture and customs please don't change it because u work on a talk show
Cultures are not written in stone. If the culture is not beneficial they should consider changing it. This does not mean that you have to be cultureless. Use the best from various cultures to produce one that will make you a better person.
OMG! This is crazy! So this 'pulling' was about pleasing a man? I didn't know. Well, I've never been interested in the topic but since it's become a big issue I think we need to oppose some of these traditions. And who tells these people that every man wants a pulled woman??? Wonders!!!!
Cultures are not written in stone. If the culture is not beneficial they should consider changing it. This does not mean that you have to be cultureless. Use the best from various cultures to produce one that will make you a better person.
Yea, the culture is not bad if you want to go with the flow, the Ugandan men like ladies that way why not give them what they like so you don't look like an outcast. Western women use clitoris pump to elongate theirs, they copied from (Uganda) Africans. Be proud of what you know and do. It's not anything bad... It's for something unique. Ugandan women are unique and that's worth being proud of. Thanks for opening up on this. Watching from Kumba, Cameroon.
WTF, It should be ok as long as the parents allow?? For Heavens sake, why can't they wait until kids turn 18 or 21 them they can decide for themselves?? Gosh some cultures. Thank God it's not my culture
To the Lady in White. Culture was set up by human beings, Culture can be improved by human beings. Genital mutilation is cultural, Do you want to keep it or let go of it ?
Hello. I am an immigration lawyer. I am doing research on labia pulling. I have many clients who have told me about this. If you have been through this or know someone who has, reach out.
The practice is also done in zimbabwe but your auntiesare the ones that teach you. We are told it is tomake sex more pleasurable for your husband. I myself didn't do it, was not comfortable with it and i never did it
I am originally from America and have Zimbabwean parents. My mother has been trying to get me to do this. I'm not really comfortable with it, but my question is will a man really leave you just because you dont pull?
@@Vivi-ex4jb no he won't unless he is an idiot. The truth is that it is for BOTH partners to be pleased sexually,not so that a man doesn't leave you. At the end of the day,it is your body and you have a choice.
@@hellaugandan1941 thank you. I spoke about it with my boyfriend who is Zimbabwean and he said he doesn't really care about that because he said doing that doesn't assure that a man will stay just like you said. It's just my mama made it sound so forceful like I HAVE TO do it!
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Was being done right under your nose
Na u don hv an idea?
I love that this video randomly pulled up on my feed. Some day I might be a father of a girl. Quite insightful. I lean towards personal choice with regards to pulling, piercings, circumcision, tattoos and all kinds of body modifications that predominantly affect the person to whom they are done to as opposed to their partners or parents.
Learning of this "pulling" today. Interesting topic. My take is it should not be mandatory and no girl should be bullied because they didnt do it.
I appreciate the fact that my Mum sought my consent over this issue. I clearly told her no and she understood that it was my decision to make. Parents let the kids decide
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Angie may the Lord continue giving you peace.
Ur such a vibe banange am sure you can now do a word cup advert kubanga u got the energy giirrrrlll.
Racheal mukama akukolele byonna byogala our dear principle and continue to shine in hosting and mcing thing.
Rosette I call you bump love flower mwanagwe I tell beautiful girls to work and I use u as a referral .
Manuella ur love for God challenges me ela this year am puposing to lean, speak, seek,love,feel the Lord for guidance.
Nabachwa owengonge I have ur energy but not ur confidence of which I got to realise it was shut down in process of being brought up naye this year there things am letting go,learn and embrace
Happy new year my number one ever beautiful intelligent hosts
The ladie in white...you're reasoning is amazing
This was such a good episode.
How I wish we could sometimes see the behind the scenes
This video has really helped me , thank you for this wonderful video
Manuela same here. We were told at my primary school to do it it was painful. We formed groups of five to help each other we were btn ages 7-10 matron made sure she checked eachone to see progress the herbs were burning but with time it stopped paining what blows my mind is if a little girl didn't do it she would be threatened that they would pour down chicken feed then the chicken would poke her and enlongate them. So basically it was compulsory and we were told not to mention a thing to boys coz some girls talked alot. Women shouldn't be forced especially by boyfriends who aren't taking them no where even husbands love some one the way they are imagine if the woman said u better have a big ....
It's unfair. But if u are a child it's very easy to be forced so ur parent can be asked for consent. Otherwise just doing it to young girls makes even baganda new generation a bond there culture saying it doesn't respect them milleni. ...born kids want self respect and dignity not force like olden days where one was forced to marry at 13. Let's embrace change
I am glad to listen to smart educated women. I have heard women who put down women that don't have. Thanks for this topic. I have actually asked my male friends about it and they also think that women do it for their own satisfaction. Therefore, I decided never to do it to please anyone. I love me so much
Yes here they come ! One of those liberating to lesbianism women
Angie your the best ....I like your sense of maturity
Thank you for the conversations
You ladies are soo beautiful, happy africa
Great conversation and the world needs to hear. The 👠 are also gorgeous
I am so glad that the region of Uganda that I am from does not indulge in this mess . Great discussion.
This was so insightful. Love the fact that such topics can be discussed.
Cultures are not written in stone. If the culture is not beneficial they should consider changing it. This does not mean that you have to be cultureless. Use the best from various cultures to produce one that will make you a better person.
You girls look so amazing! So natural skinned.
I like Angie for being real and speaking her mind
I am from Zambia, it's so delightful to see how similar our cultures are. wow
What products or medicine is used to pull labia. Does Vaseline work too?
@@thandicandy5452 Not too sure, I know of some powder made from a plant thats put in Vaseline.
@@thandicandy5452 yeah it works but olive oil is better and honey too
Zambian are mostly Bantu so a lot of things are similar
I am from COngo ( Lubumbashi precisely), we practice the pulling because my grandmother was from Zambia and it got transmitted to other generations.
From Zambia! I've always wanted more information on this. The culture is the same in Zambia and I've always refused to do it. Except we are told, our husbands will cheat if we don't do this.
Exactly! and what products do they even use to pull?
They use traditional herbs usually
@@thandicandy5452 mm some herbs, not sure what they are.
Cultures are not written in stone. If the culture is not beneficial they should consider changing it. This does not mean that you have to be cultureless. Use the best from various cultures to produce one that will make you a better person.
Am from Zambia too and I feel the gals shud be given an opportunity to make a decision on their own. There is no scientific research that proves that labia minora pulling helps in child birth. My research has proved that it just deprive ladies of sexual arousal
So this video played spontaneously as I do my house chores. Kemi is absolutely right, she seems well traveled and has interacted with different cultures. Culture is your identity and key to a successful society partly why Jews and Indians excel they are embedded and proud of their culture and don't copy to be like an English. Girls should give their own concent meaning it should be delayed until shortly before marriage. Having gone to boarding school, the caretaker did the first session for us, and the follow up sessions were done by us. I did it wrong and it's something I don't need today. Coconut oil has antimicrobial properties maybe kemi's mum's generation used it to prevent infections. Please ladies raise kids that understand and respect their cultures. It's totally wrong having your children speak and write English yet they can't do same for their native language. Understanding your culture is so key in successful living.
Ok I like this talk am still debating over this since in my country its highly considered.... Makamaka wen u are getting married ... Kitchen party...
Rwanda ladies who pull are precious
Thank you Bump love, i love love love you ladies. Thank you for always enlightening us.
I am from Zimbabwe and its compulsory but the way the men cheat and leave a woman long enough for someone who doesnt have is shocking and when you ask the guys not all of them like them
They just land on random women not knowing whether it's long or short
Cynthia in Zim it's the Kalanga tribe from west of the country that do this , judging by your name in mashonaland it's not done , but its a tradition of cause, let's not follow the colonialists tell us we are primitive, they've kept their traditions alive whilst ours are branded evil , my fellow blacks lets wise up
@@Mthethwa594 but its not all the guys that like it but almost every shona woman i know will tell you to do it0
I simply find you ladies amazing Besides your topics and how you confidently deliberate on them! Well done👍
Its not compulsory in Zim. Maybe ndezve madzinza. I never pulled and know so many that arent pulled. Never stopped me from having a good sex life.
I'm late to hear this good story but am happy for this ladies from Ugandian ladies keep it up 🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲🇿🇲💪
Cultures are not written in stone. If the culture is not beneficial they should consider changing it. This does not mean that you have to be cultureless. Create a culture that makes you a better person.
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Men must be held to similar standards. African women do enough. Two people make a family or a couple. Both must work together for happiness. Women have been chosen as the portal of life. The other must support our queens The other must step up.
I will personally couple this labia elongation knowledge for my daughters with sex education, because based on my experience,I was confused as to why I had to do it. I did my own research and found that ,it is for BOTH partners to be pleased sexually. I don't think the practice should be banned I just think it should be modernised, no more of trying to make girls feel guilty for not pulling and no FORCE.
Thanks for your comment, people in Africa are so biased over which life,tradition to follow, clearly we can see our traditions are being thrown out of the window, for later on 20/40 years some westerner will come back and say they've come up with it , suppressing our traditions ,Everything started off in Africa, life as we know of it began in Africa
VERY IGNORANT ABOUT YOUR CULTURE IT IS FOR THE BENEFIT OF WOMEN AND NOT MEN.
@@alfredmula9838 Women do not have much sexual nerve endings in the labia compared to the Clitoris and the G-Spot. Labia does not make you orgasm. Large labia does not help a woman sexually, That is so stupid 😆 You seem to be very ignorant on what does and does not give women sexual pleasure.
@@clairemcfadyen1036 thanks.Labias makes women reach orgasm quickly infact within 2 minutes with a man who understands how to work labias with his manhood.
The mushroom head of a man and female labias are the two most partners in bring every woman to climax.
The bigger the labia the more blood flow to the area and the more accessible the manhood head to it.This results is explosive sensual pleasure around the female genital.
Therefore,without enough labias a woman remains unsatisfied for lack of orgasm from her partner.
Hence big labias help women achieve orgasm and climaxing quickly.
@@alfredmula9838 No , no no.
" The mushroom head of a man and female labias are the two most partners in bring every woman to climax " you say.....
You are wrong. Very wrong.
The female labia is Nothing compared to the female G-Spot and Clitoris.
Labias do not make women orgasm quickly 🤣😆
What do you mean " Work labias with his manhood " 😭 I'm dead 🤣
You don't need big labia to have an orgasm! I would imagine that it's harder for a woman to orgasm with those abnormally large labia. African men need to find the G-Spot ( The ACTUAL Sexual pleasure zones in a woman's body) and spend more time on the Clitoris ( the other main sexual pleasure spot ) and make their women have a proper orgasm instead of this crazy and backwards practice.
Manuella is a good story teller oba she does it how and Angie my American Ugandan
Ancestors where wise coz girls got married at an early age let's say 15yrs ,but now its a knew world age matters a lot coz we get married at 20plus so I suggest kids decide for themselves ,and elongation can be helped out by our men in bedroom why risk a child at that age
it was wise for 15 year old girls to marry and start having babies? omg. how very 17th century of you.
I learned about pulling from a house maid. I told my mum about what the maid had told me about and to be honest she was not surprised, I should ask her if she 'worked' with this older maid to give me this information. It was painful but it never made me uncomfortable. Partly because as you mentioned I was told it was meant to help me with child birth, so it felt like the natural thing to do. Now that I am a mother, if my daughter was born into that culture, at an older age I would give her the information and let her decides what she wants to do with it.
so u mean dat u cant give birth if u neva did that
Thats what she was told when she was young but right now, she knows better
Thank u bump love for open minded.
@charlesnkwanga3949 that was the myth we were sold
A big NO1!!!! especially making it mandatory for even people in other cultures.
I have friends from northern Uganda who were in a boarding school in Kampala and they weren't excused
Too bad
The only problem I have is that this topic was too short but hey! What a great one! Why am I only seing it now 😳. Will speak for myself. I was ashamed when my Aunty broke it down for me, I wouldn’t prefer my Mum to discuss that with me either and I will report other girls when I find them practicing the pulling and one day a good friend of mine offered to do it for me without me putting any effort. Well, it is easy doing it before becoming a teenager cz when you grow older those labias are stubborn whew! And please, do not over do it, the cookie becomes watery if they are too long. Thank you bump love 🥰. Proudly 🇲🇼
I LOOVE this topic and I am glad there are men out there who don't fancy "pulled ropes"
It true if someone knows not the meaning of something talks what ever he will to.
My question is , what benefit does it give to pull? and why not leave it to the husband to be to pull if he wants them after marrying the lady. Maybe they can only elongate at certain age not when one is fully grown up.
The skin hardens as one grow older so the younger the easier it gets
I'm all about culture and keeping them alive... but I also know that not everything cultural is good or right. So pulling isn't right.. and should be stopped.
I think another session should be with men giving their version of their experience with this with women who have done it and those who havent.Key thingbis to demystify its so called "cultural value" Is it really worth it, really? Personally dont think so!!!
I agree
Why have I been sleeping on this channel? I love me some homegrown content thank you ladies
I love Angie..... I just love her whole vibe😍
Our many African cultures are beauty. may we preserve what is worth, what helps our generations go the right way. I feel belittled and ashamed when I think about this topic!!!! will anyone blame the girls when thy start being sexually active at an early age? Many girls started masturbating because of this pulling thing. lets preserve what is worth passing on to our generations and also pure
This was very enlightening, as I've never heard of pulling. I think that maintaining cultural norms are fine only when it does not cause harm to others. With that being said, pulling sounds like a painful process and should be reconsidered. Also, are there legitimate benifits of pulling? Could it just be something that was thought to be beneficial but really isn't? If it isn't, it may simply be a misguided practice. Thank you ladies for sharing. I do think that "variety is the spice of life" but sometimes variety can cost us too much. Blessings.
Cultures are not written in stone. If the culture is not beneficial they should consider changing it. This does not mean that you have to be cultureless. Use the best from various cultures to produce one that will make you a better person.
Well thought out
It is helpful my dear, sexually it is very productive
Am glad mum listened am respected my no. The amazing thing is that however much it's about pleasing men in bed, it's not a guarantee for a good marriage. Parents please don't lead your girls blindly. They are precious and can choose to do without it. We need a husband not a man. With all due respect.
Well said
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I have natural long labia and for the longest time I used to think it isn’t normal.In Kenya we don’t do labia elongation.Interesting how I keep learning different cultural practices
kwanza us kikuyus dont do it
Eeeeeeeeh I pulled mine when was still young (in Uganda) but telling my girl to do it, will not happen. I don't want to be locked up nobusumuluzo babusule munyanja especially in this country UK. This is termed as child abuse.
Hahahahaa
So you find sex better
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I don't think it is okay to pressure kids into pulling, when you are 18 you can make that choice yourself. Culture doesn't justify things like that
It's way painful while older.
I made that choice and refused. They wanted to pay this Zambian lady to do me. Im Zimbabwean by the way. When i was 18 my moms friend checked me and called me a baby imagine just because i was not elongated
Exactly. Couldn't agree more
I love the Emmanuela girl haha the wrong labia😂😂😂
Cultures are not written in stone. If the culture is not beneficial they should consider changing it. This does not mean that you have to be cultureless. Use the best from various cultures to produce one that will make you a better person.
So interesting, complete contrast from North American culture where it’s considered shameful to have long labia and the majority of men insist that small and hidden inner labia are more desirable.
Manuela is like me, I pulled the wrong parts too. 😂 Until I realized...
Agie is mature, thru way she articulates issues...culture is culture
I only found out about pulling at 21 when I dated a man from a different tribe, then I found out it's also done in my tribe but because I was never interested in cultural practises such as girls initiation, I never went through it. Pulling is not a thing in SA, even seeing a pulled FLOWER is rare & weird.
Cultures are not written in stone. If the culture is not beneficial they should consider changing it. This does not mean that you have to be cultureless. Use the best from various cultures to produce one that will make you a better person.
@@AfroEthernet they really should, I think the girls should be the ones to decide, not their parents.
One cultural practice I hate to the core is female genital mutilation, it has no benefit at all. There's one I recently learnt about, it's called the trokosi system, we still have a lot of work to do.
This "pulling thing" should be done with sex education...because it is confusing to a young girl.It can result into teenage pregnancy because a girl can think,now that I Have pulled am good to go.It is also painful and takes long to achieve the needed length.It is all about men's satisfaction ,what do men do for women's satisfaction? Are they taught anything? Thanks for the show
No wonder most of the young people in these regions get in marriage/ have babies not in the name of marriage early 🏃🏃
Labia pulling is goed voor boys pleasure . I'm from congo kinshasa but i think dat this tradition from uganda and rwanda is the best . I love women from east africa . See you .
I have never discussed this with my mothers. However, at 11yrs old the senior woman teacher and matron made us do it. I mainly did it cos everyone else was doing it. Some students were more experienced so they would help out those of us who didn't know what to do. I tried to let someone else do it, but it was so uncomfortable, and i decided to do it myself. To make it easier they even put a herb, which would be so painful. Eventually, I gave up the whole process.
As a medical studednt this pulling doesn't make sense to me attttt alllllll😂😂😂 and for me that topic is totally OFF THE TABLE! And thank God my mum is not into it also
This decision should be made by oneself at a mature age with full knowledge of what one is getting themselves into
I agree with you
You can pull when you are even 20 years and that thing if you don't maintain pulling it goes back so better when you are above i8
I'm a genital mutilation victim.
What kind of herbs and oils were they using along with the stretching
YOU ARE A MAN! STOP LYING!
Probably a white man too! Circumcision is NOT MGM STOP!
SoCalBarbie, you are an impressively racist, intolerant, and ignorant creature. There are generally 4 types of Female Genital Mutilation. Male Genital Mutilation generally falls somewhere between those classifications as Type 3 and Type 4. During fetal deveopment the Genital Tubercle (part that will determine if they become either female/male/intersex) is made of the exact same tissues, nerves, and structures.
It is wrong to strap ANYONE down and forcefully damage and permanantly alter their genitals against their will. If you're an adult and want to mutilate yourself, have at it!
Yeah i know, Don't feed the trolls...
I don't know why I'm watching this episode now 😅😅😅
Besides what they are talking about,African women are beautiful 😍
Naye bump love more often episodes plizzz
I was forced to start doing that at around 10yrs in primary boarding school by the matron. It was so painful trying to pee afterwards. I told my mum about it and she was so furious, talked to the matron and she immediately stopped.
Its sexualing young girls at a very innocent age. Only consenting adults 18+ who understand or believe the value of this should be doing it.
We're u not beated at school?? wasn't it painfully???
@@dianadats5058You're Comparing oranges with apples but to answer your qn anyways, I'm not a muganda and I don't come from a culture where pulling is a thing.
Children are beaten at school for discipline's sake normally. Pulling is for preparing girls to please men in bed!!!
Girls as young as 10! If you don't see anything wrong with that I can't help you.
@@jdm3762 you see,ur not omuganda so y are u over attached about our culture.if i tell u to kneel for elders u will say 4rm my tribe dey don't kneel.dont u see dat ur destroying our culture.wait if they say about ur culture then c consern but this is not about ur cultura coz u know nothing about it and y it was done so
Even discipling child is part of preparing her to have discipline from her marriage and in the sociaty madam but Minister said it's painfull asif beating is sweat.anyway ur not omuganda and evenif i explain u will never understand but sorry I don't know ur tribe.i would have asked you something from ur tribe.
When they did it to u at 10yrs,did you start sex???i told u,it was done around those ages be4 pubic hair grows.if u grew hair,did u allow anyone to see ur private parts???our accestors were sharp so they knew don't think ur brighter than them.they knew wat they were doing
My wife and I have been practicing this for two years now we have her lips out two four inches now we are hoping for six inches eventually
What do you use for pulling?
What herbs do u use for pulling?
If my daughter comes and asks me about this, I will tell her, „biki ebyo? I have never heard about it!“
It was painful on ma side but pays off in the end if u know u know
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Where u@?
They should start maybe at 18. That's my opinion
Can open ur self or show ur privacy with pubic hair?? It was done be4 u have sexual intercouls or be4 having pubic hair
You were too young,,, congrats to your mom, she was so understanding.
Let it not be mandatory,,, to me it sounds weird. Where will this young girls take their feelings since when you are walking they rub and someone is aroused 😱😱😱
I love you pumla..we gat the same thinking
Banange batuleke,coz some ov us did it naye no difference,if someone has issues ov walking out on u dey will do so even when u have the longest labiaz,we used to do those things thinking it helps us with bugumu naye the vagina is gifted naturally,this whole issue needs to b discussed with the girls first,tell them the true reason behind it and let them decide.
Ur man is da one who doesn't know hw to do it in bed
@@dianadats5058 Are u sure???
@@namatakajuliet1311 am telling you baby.if u found da one who knows wat to do,u will not regret y u have them
@@dianadats5058 plizzzzz have several seats......gal bye🙄
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Periodt...
I am Kenyan and I am in shock 😳😳😳
You and me both😮
Besides me hating that we ladies had to do that just to satisfy the men, which I didn’t like. I always told my Mom that ok let’s see if I have very long Labias , and I’m wearing a bikini or something cute how would I look like with two skin things wiggling out of my bikini in public or just with myself!🤔😁. Or that I had to do something that painful to make a man happy y not he also does something to his part to me happy. Or is Circumsizsing it besides the health reasons men get cut. I’m a African woman but some things we have to do in the name of culture or customs i don’t do hey 🤣😂
I don’t believe in forcing someone to pull or talking for them why they haven’t done so. That’s cultural and not everyone is interested. Society shouldn’t determine how you handle your private parts . Let’s get into reality please.
Woww am first here ears wide open
Cultures are not written in stone. If the culture is not beneficial they should consider changing it. This does not mean that you have to be cultureless. Use the best from various cultures to produce one that will make you a better person.
Say nothing but my gal is doing it...thats her culture and what makes her unique okaay
Hhayi Bo!!!!!!!!! that long?
Omg ! I am kenyan i have never heard of this scary!..
so what about men, what do they do for the woman?
Pls that’s messed up!...
It’s messed up but very common here
I was 13 when I was checked and told to do it. I tried it once and said immediately no. Its extremely traumatising to have a strange woman touching me in that way
I would think labial stretching would make it more uncomfarble for women: larger labia,harder to keep clean :hygiene and for sex:intercourse ; the large labia would get in the way .Also the one labia would make tight close feel uncomfortable:pinch
Pulling in buganda is of two meanings for satisfying baganda men, second it helps your woman hood warm
To me its not cultural it is also useful to us ladies to cover that hole and every woman have those things wether your white or black ,God was not mistaken to put those things there we just increasing in size but its already there
pulling of the labia:might be very uncomfortable for some people :the process and having those elongated labia
According to my level of psychology she's denying but she did it, that first lady to talk after the host .
Consent of the parent is crucial if done below 18 years . But free choice would be the best option why not wait until the girl is 18 and she decides🐣
Naye Manuela....hahahahahahaha, you are not easy
They do it to these young gal its because it better before they get their mps, that is our culture and customs please don't change it because u work on a talk show
Manuela is soooo funny😅😅😅oh my
Cultures are not written in stone. If the culture is not beneficial they should consider changing it. This does not mean that you have to be cultureless. Use the best from various cultures to produce one that will make you a better person.
OMG! This is crazy! So this 'pulling' was about pleasing a man? I didn't know. Well, I've never been interested in the topic but since it's become a big issue I think we need to oppose some of these traditions. And who tells these people that every man wants a pulled woman??? Wonders!!!!
Cultures are not written in stone. If the culture is not beneficial they should consider changing it. This does not mean that you have to be cultureless. Use the best from various cultures to produce one that will make you a better person.
Yea, the culture is not bad if you want to go with the flow, the Ugandan men like ladies that way why not give them what they like so you don't look like an outcast. Western women use clitoris pump to elongate theirs, they copied from (Uganda) Africans. Be proud of what you know and do. It's not anything bad... It's for something unique. Ugandan women are unique and that's worth being proud of. Thanks for opening up on this. Watching from Kumba, Cameroon.
Thanks you so much,l was also trying to do it at my old age just B's a friend has them but l failed to get any results
It shouldn't be compulsory, infant it's like kunaaza baana byogero....temuli makulu nnyyyooo
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I swear Manuela😂😂😂😂I hear nothing to display
I love yu for keeping yur natural black colour sooo beautiful pies😍😍😍😍
It's chocolate brown
WTF, It should be ok as long as the parents allow?? For Heavens sake, why can't they wait until kids turn 18 or 21 them they can decide for themselves?? Gosh some cultures. Thank God it's not my culture
To the Lady in White.
Culture was set up by human beings,
Culture can be improved by human beings.
Genital mutilation is cultural,
Do you want to keep it or let go of it ?
Hello. I am an immigration lawyer. I am doing research on labia pulling. I have many clients who have told me about this. If you have been through this or know someone who has, reach out.
So that what happens??
Is it research for law school, a case...what exactly??
@@albertaatieno I’m an attorney and law professor. I’m writing an article about it.
I guess you better not get the information because you will definitely end up doing it to yourself unless you are extremely careful madam, hahaha!!!!
wow - nice
I have a friend of my mine and the husband wanted to know if there away to remove them
It should be optional, but as a man who has experience both kinds of women, one who has pulled is always better. That's just for me though 😅
The practice is also done in zimbabwe but your auntiesare the ones that teach you. We are told it is tomake sex more pleasurable for your husband. I myself didn't do it, was not comfortable with it and i never did it
Me too I never did it
I am originally from America and have Zimbabwean parents. My mother has been trying to get me to do this. I'm not really comfortable with it, but my question is will a man really leave you just because you dont pull?
@@Vivi-ex4jb no he won't unless he is an idiot. The truth is that it is for BOTH partners to be pleased sexually,not so that a man doesn't leave you. At the end of the day,it is your body and you have a choice.
@@hellaugandan1941 thank you. I spoke about it with my boyfriend who is Zimbabwean and he said he doesn't really care about that because he said doing that doesn't assure that a man will stay just like you said. It's just my mama made it sound so forceful like I HAVE TO do it!