8 Reasons You're Unmotivated, Not Lazy - Here's the Why

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  3 роки тому +643

    Did you relate to any of these reasons? :)
    Disclaimer: This video is for educational purposes and is based on personal opinions. This video is not a substitute for professional advice, but for general guidance. We advise you to always listen to your intuition and always do what is right for you.

  • @randomguythatexists2244
    @randomguythatexists2244 3 роки тому +1985

    I love that the characters are drawn like a plant, it portrays growth.

  • @WildSoftie
    @WildSoftie 3 роки тому +390

    Who else just had/ or having a moment that now you literally wanna do nothing and just die slowly?
    Like seriously life feels like I'm a fish getting forced to live on land and slowly dieing

  • @charliebutsilly
    @charliebutsilly 3 роки тому +793

    The tiny little dream in the thumbnail is actually really adorable-

    • @chawkins0913
      @chawkins0913 3 роки тому +2

      Hi

    • @laarnierosepayumo567
      @laarnierosepayumo567 3 роки тому +34

      Also the Philza/Urahara hat in the last parts X)

    • @almabartoli9302
      @almabartoli9302 3 роки тому +29

      and the l'manberg flag at the toppp

    • @chairleg1873
      @chairleg1873 3 роки тому +39

      This certain artist always puts little Dream SMP Easter eggs it's great

    • @Arrijoyyy
      @Arrijoyyy 3 роки тому +11

      There's a bunch of Dream SMP references throughout the video besides that! :D

  • @ma-yi9ye
    @ma-yi9ye 3 роки тому +1444

    0:42 you are working for the wrong reasons
    1:13 you don’t think you have control over ur life
    1:50 you think you should have accomplished more by now
    2:35 you set unrealistic goals
    3:09 you only focus on the possibility of failure without thinking of the rewards
    3:38 your personal life is out of balance
    4:11 you spend too much time on social media
    4:41 you don’t believe in urself

  • @solseclipse
    @solseclipse 3 роки тому +1320

    Me when it's the middle of the night: motivated and energized
    Me during the day: BUT MOOOOOMMMM I DON'T FEEL LIKE IT-

  • @coria6231
    @coria6231 3 роки тому +329

    My cycle since this semester began is:
    Waking up and feeling tired, unmotivated and lazy.
    Then taking the boring classes (8am-4pm) but there are 2 break hours.
    After classes, if I feel good, do homework or take notes for previous lectures. But when I feel unmotivated (most time) just procrastinate a lot with cellphone or simply I go to sleep.
    The day is about to end and didn't do my tasks, then I feel guilty, sad, stressed.
    College is kinda hard when it's completely online...

    • @kairaparadise7479
      @kairaparadise7479 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/r-tKFd_Hr2k/v-deo.html

    • @ailanyt.7368
      @ailanyt.7368 3 роки тому +22

      I hate online school I don't learn as well in online school. I had pretty good grades in normal school 😢...

    • @EzOddz
      @EzOddz 11 місяців тому

      In the opposite I prefer online I can actually have a life away from school I hate offline

  • @read_to_me_a_book_with_samira
    @read_to_me_a_book_with_samira 3 роки тому +1445

    Unmotivation may be sort of depression

  • @yoda5368
    @yoda5368 3 роки тому +484

    I am unmotivated to the simple things in life

  • @Anna-nw1ge
    @Anna-nw1ge 3 роки тому +270

    It's the worst feeling when you have to get a job done .. but u keep stressing about it and actually delay in doing the actual job ..

    • @rosaramahi1651
      @rosaramahi1651 3 роки тому +9

      My whole life 😳

    • @nourata.5893
      @nourata.5893 3 роки тому +5

      I always feel that way ...

    • @Personal_Info8
      @Personal_Info8 3 роки тому +7

      That’s exactly what I do.
      I start to stress about my homework then I start sorting it out, I continue to stress about it and say I’ll do it the next day which ends up rushed.

    • @kairaparadise7479
      @kairaparadise7479 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/r-tKFd_Hr2k/v-deo.html

    • @TitaniumTronic
      @TitaniumTronic 3 роки тому +5

      Then you realize that the task actually only take a few minutes

  • @user-bw9jo2iz5s
    @user-bw9jo2iz5s 3 роки тому +675

    Me during day: I'll do it tommorow
    Me during night: can i go to sleep later

  • @HIXHAM
    @HIXHAM 3 роки тому +270

    REMEMBER that the best way to get something done is to begin. Good luck y’all 🙏🏾❤️

    • @ntonioproductions1591
      @ntonioproductions1591 3 роки тому +14

      Begin, continue and finish. Beginning is just the easiest one but the rest is hard especially for people with ADHD

    • @cloud-zd7zm
      @cloud-zd7zm 3 роки тому

      u right, i should at least try to start my paperwork. thank u

    • @Meboy-uv5td
      @Meboy-uv5td 3 роки тому +2

      @@ntonioproductions1591 for people with ADHD sure, but for me, ive found that hes right, If I start doing something, it gets infinitely easier to continue, but starting takes herculean effort for me

    • @kairaparadise7479
      @kairaparadise7479 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/r-tKFd_Hr2k/v-deo.html

    • @alainaarnold5530
      @alainaarnold5530 3 роки тому

      I needed that reminder, thank you!

  • @RainDownpours
    @RainDownpours 3 роки тому +121

    This came up at the point in time where I'm lagging behind in school and just getting lazier in general. I used to be able to do more work but now just the thought of it bothers me.

  • @billyhenerson2871
    @billyhenerson2871 3 роки тому +166

    People tell me I'm lazy, when I'm reality I just don't care to do well in life.

    • @thepizzafoogle5481
      @thepizzafoogle5481 3 роки тому +32

      I have the same view, more specifically about school. Why the hell am I wasting 6 hours a day of my life learning about useless information?

    • @zenzonerzz4789
      @zenzonerzz4789 3 роки тому +18

      @@thepizzafoogle5481 school isn't much about the proccess but it's more about the end-goal. Which to most is a degree, which is needed for certain jobs like lawyers, doctors, psychologists, etc. Like, are you ever gonna need the pythagorean thereom? No, probably not, but it's part of a bigger picture that's pretty essential for certain jobs. This does not mean you absolutely need a degree tho, there are more jobs that don't require a degree than there are that do however finding one that pays good is gonna be harder. But keep in mind, even a degree doesn't guarantee a job.

    • @thepizzafoogle5481
      @thepizzafoogle5481 3 роки тому +10

      @@zenzonerzz4789 Yeah, degrees are important, but sadly a lot of them arent very helpful, and nowadays you cant get one without going in debt for the rest of your life.

    • @zenzonerzz4789
      @zenzonerzz4789 3 роки тому +6

      @@thepizzafoogle5481 that last part is sadly true in some countries(the biggest example being america). Luckily i live in central europe and colleges and university are much cheaper here. Still very expensive, but not enough to put you in a life-time of debt. Imo college and university should be free or at the very least affordable for everyone.

    • @thepizzafoogle5481
      @thepizzafoogle5481 3 роки тому +2

      @@zenzonerzz4789 Yes i totally agree. I heard that a lot of colleges dont use the money for good purposes, and the people who run it keep most of it for themselves.

  • @tomappuhamy
    @tomappuhamy 3 роки тому +303

    You are watching this
    1) Lying on your bed
    2) At home cz of Covid-19
    3) Reading through the comments and finding comfort
    4) Thinking how you can completely relate to strangers more than your friends and family

  • @Potato-yx7ym
    @Potato-yx7ym 3 роки тому +154

    YO THIS ARTIST HAS TO BE AN MCYT FAN YOU CAN SEE DREAM AND A LMANBURG FLAG IN THE THUMBNAIL-

    • @Zeph_Ry0
      @Zeph_Ry0 3 роки тому +9

      Check the animator's channel and you'll understand XD

    • @laughandblueb2201
      @laughandblueb2201 3 роки тому +5

      Yeah they even did some mcyt animatics, they mostly do TBHK tho
      But they're really amazing

    • @RedBlueberryAnimates
      @RedBlueberryAnimates 3 роки тому +8

      0:30 friend in the corner and Philza heart cup

    • @RedBlueberryAnimates
      @RedBlueberryAnimates 3 роки тому +6

      0:47 Disc Saga poster

    • @RedBlueberryAnimates
      @RedBlueberryAnimates 3 роки тому +6

      3:18 haha looks like gogy’s goggles

  • @sabrethesablecorgi
    @sabrethesablecorgi 3 роки тому +100

    I've been feeling unmotivated lately with schoolwork. As much as I don't want my grade to continue falling, I feel so distracted with other things and never work on/ turn in my homework. It's nice to know that others are dealing with this as well.
    To whoever is reading this, you've got this and your amazing 💕

    • @asukanini8465
      @asukanini8465 3 роки тому +5

      Ah me too I have a huge exam coming soon , in like two months 🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲😰😨

    • @sabrethesablecorgi
      @sabrethesablecorgi 3 роки тому +5

      @@asukanini8465 Study little chunks at a time and be gentle with yourself ;)

    • @lightspeed9762
      @lightspeed9762 3 роки тому

      @@asukanini8465 Matura?

    • @asukanini8465
      @asukanini8465 3 роки тому +2

      @@sabrethesablecorgi thank you for ur good advice :)

    • @asukanini8465
      @asukanini8465 3 роки тому

      @@lightspeed9762 nope iam from India 10th grade board exams , like the marks I score in this kinda determines my future job after years lol

  • @ICEcoldJT
    @ICEcoldJT 3 роки тому +155

    “Whenever you feel like giving up, always remember why you started in the first place.” 🙏🏽

  • @a5alzahra
    @a5alzahra 3 роки тому +194

    This hit at the right time. I just feel so tired and drained and demotivated. Thanks for your videos they are really informative and amazing

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +15

      You are so welcome! You got this! - Cindy

    • @a5alzahra
      @a5alzahra 3 роки тому +3

      @@Psych2go thank you so much! ❤️❤️
      Really helped. Hope you are well and have an amazing day!

    • @kairaparadise7479
      @kairaparadise7479 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/r-tKFd_Hr2k/v-deo.html

  • @luvrgirlzee
    @luvrgirlzee 3 роки тому +31

    When I’m unmotivated I literally can’t do what I need to do which is why I’m a procrastinator. I also get that burst of energy and that’s when I get all my work done.

  • @sampsasimula9649
    @sampsasimula9649 3 роки тому +262

    Interesting, this actually might help everyone to improve

    • @nakshatramusic21
      @nakshatramusic21 3 роки тому +1

      Hi time traveller

    • @jamildacalos6381
      @jamildacalos6381 3 роки тому +1

      How

    • @samuelhere41
      @samuelhere41 3 роки тому

      Well yeah but I cant change my ways

    • @rosiiejoycie
      @rosiiejoycie 3 роки тому

      It will 😃

    • @ryanford9555
      @ryanford9555 3 роки тому

      @@nakshatramusic21 your right🤣
      How did he post the comment a day ago when the video was posted 9 hours ago😂

  • @1constance
    @1constance 3 роки тому +42

    I’ve felt this way for a while now. I thought it was laziness but all the things I used to love just seem uninteresting to me now. I’ve tried to step up by making myself do stuff but it’s just not working. It doesn’t even help that I’m not happy where I am now. I’m still not independent so I can’t just leave. I wish I could tho...... it’s really hard these days....
    What’s weird is I feel happier and excited at night but once it’s daytime it’s back to square 1...

  • @nakshatramusic21
    @nakshatramusic21 3 роки тому +513

    To everyone who's reading this: you're cool and adorable stay safe
    Edit: people are calling me "attention seeker" when my only intention is to spread this positive message... 😞
    Edit 2: tysm for the positive replies!

  • @cometkuma
    @cometkuma 2 роки тому +14

    I don't vent in public often.. but this has been one of my hugest problems.
    I relate to so many of these problems and on top of all that, I have ADHD and clinical depression.
    I've gotten (and still get) so angry at myself when I can't make myself do something I used to do and love or to do something new and scary, including bettering my mental health. Almost anything that requires a lot of work either loses my interest or I get overwhelmed and discouraged no matter how I look at it
    It feels so horrible being trapped in your own mind like that.

  • @jollyroger1357
    @jollyroger1357 3 роки тому +24

    I want to be a guitarist but now haven't touched my guitar in 6 months as my parents force me to study study study....
    I see where this goes

    • @lightspeed9762
      @lightspeed9762 3 роки тому +2

      Do what YOU feel YOU TRULY WANT.
      Don't look at others, even parents.

    • @lightspeed9762
      @lightspeed9762 3 роки тому

      @Reddit tea Exactly, hence he has limited time.

  • @possibleproblem479
    @possibleproblem479 3 роки тому +1

    literally just searched this yesterday in hopes of finding something to help me. all ive been doing for the past year and a half is sitting on my ass doing nothing with my life. im 17 years old without a permit, a car, havent been to school in 2 weeks, havent had an hourly job, and i struggle to even keep my room clean or care about general hygene.
    i always struggled with this since i was a kid and its been something thats really held me back. but its been getting much worse over the years. it really started showing itself by the time i was 12 where i would go to extreme lengths to procrastinate on doing things my parents asked me to do; chores seemed like daunting day enders that were insurpassable in my head.
    not the normal relatable 12 year old behavior though, it was really severe and i had no control over it.
    it always seemed like everything was so much easier for everyone else but required special attention and extensive help for me all throughout school to every aspect of my life. things like remembering to bring my coat home or even forgetting my back pack sometimes.
    i see importance in nothing and ive always been unmotivated to do anything like make friends, find hobbys, find something im good at, etc...
    now im wondering if somethings just fucked up in the head and i need a perscrption and a heavy evaluation or something. but ive been to numerous different psychiatrists and none of them have been able to help me

  • @gilnarrahmoun7194
    @gilnarrahmoun7194 3 роки тому +15

    I spend whole day on social media, like just now, i was going to study and i got distracted
    Social media just makes me more depressed and insecure with myself

  • @MossSwords
    @MossSwords 3 роки тому +2

    Sometimes when I stand up and felt ready to do a homework, I always feel unmotivated, and lie/sit back down.

  • @starry.delusions997
    @starry.delusions997 3 роки тому +86

    Everyone: *comments about the video*
    Me: I SEE DREAM SMP THINGSSSSSSS

  • @AnimalMother60
    @AnimalMother60 3 роки тому +1

    One of my favorite pieces of advice comes from a large company.
    Just Do It
    - Nike
    When I find myself feeling unmotivated, I tell myself just to start and not worry if I finish. Once I start, I just keep going and end up finishing or exceeding my plans.

  • @hel2727
    @hel2727 3 роки тому +100

    lmao I've literally been sitting on the same spot for hours now watching useless youtube videos instead of finally writing my essay.. I can't fucking do this shit
    I tell myself I must be like high-functional because I've been eating and sleeping well, exercising everyday, but I still can't force myself to do homework and socialize

    • @Isokatmydydecsf
      @Isokatmydydecsf 3 роки тому +3

      Bro, I was _exactly_ like that.
      And I'm sure we're not the only one lmao

    • @W_V4lley
      @W_V4lley 3 роки тому

      hmm me as well.

    • @pixie4599
      @pixie4599 3 роки тому

      Not alone!

    • @VexterSyvallen
      @VexterSyvallen 3 роки тому +1

      Holy heck I’m exactly in that situation,guess I ain’t alone

    • @kairaparadise7479
      @kairaparadise7479 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/r-tKFd_Hr2k/v-deo.html

  • @maxine9263
    @maxine9263 3 роки тому +35

    next video idea : signs people feel uncomfortable around you
    *i honestly need this*

    • @ayah2297
      @ayah2297 3 роки тому +5

      HONESTLY THO I NEED THAT

    • @alaa3053
      @alaa3053 3 роки тому +4

      that’s actually a great idea

    • @more1494
      @more1494 3 роки тому +3

      Good idea, i think i need that

    • @remington0011
      @remington0011 3 роки тому +2

      That would be a good one.

  • @thelonelykloud7435
    @thelonelykloud7435 3 роки тому +11

    Literally where i'm at currently in life. Its like you guys have a camera propped up in my room then observe me for a week and puta video out to help the world.
    respect

  • @Valentino016
    @Valentino016 3 роки тому +26

    I feel like I'm just being told what to do all the time

  • @nicoleonfeels
    @nicoleonfeels 3 роки тому +33

    Sometimes your soul just needs a lil break - doesn’t make you lazy. Do what you need to get back to 💯

  • @valerie1954
    @valerie1954 3 роки тому +16

    Psych2go is reading my mind. I was just upset a minute ago because I feel so unmotivated and I lost hope to everything that I feel frustrated because I don't know what's wrong with me, which caused me to feel "lazy" and it just worsens because I get yelled a lot and it's just really frustrating when no one really understands.

    • @iamdissapointed6810
      @iamdissapointed6810 3 роки тому +2

      Same

    • @iamdissapointed6810
      @iamdissapointed6810 3 роки тому +2

      Wait but i actually think im really lazy.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +2

      Thanks for sharing. We hope this video helps you feel more validated. How many reasons did you relate to?

    • @valerie1954
      @valerie1954 3 роки тому +1

      @@Psych2go
      I related with only 2 reasons haha. Thank you so much for creating this channel and helping a lot of people. I cut off toxic friendships because this channel helped me realize that it's okay and it helped me identify what friendship is the best to let go. I'm still trying to get over my best friends. We all really appreciate the whole team of Psych2go. You inspired me to help others too with their mental health, and I can't thank you enough. Stay safe!

  • @shanthi4855
    @shanthi4855 3 роки тому +3

    For me it always feels like I'm never doing enough, that I'M not good enough. It feels overwelming when I have no idea what I really want. The best way to explain it is, it feels like I'm walking through a dark tunnel but I can't see the end of it. No matter how much I move forward it always feels like I'm stuck in this tunnel forever.

  • @natethegreat9977
    @natethegreat9977 3 роки тому +37

    "You use too much social media"
    Me whos watching this when I'm supposed to be doing hw: (._.)

  • @datboi6954
    @datboi6954 3 роки тому +27

    1. You're working for the wrong reasons 0:42
    2. You think you don't have control over your life 1:12
    3. You think you should have accomplished more by now 1:51
    4. You set unrealistic goals 2:32
    5. You only focus on the possibility of failure without thinking of the rewards 3:08
    6. Your personal life is out of balance 3:37
    7. You're spending too much time on social media 4:11
    8. You don't believe in yourself 4:41
    I hope I could help! (:

  • @beng1603
    @beng1603 Рік тому +3

    I've recently been feeling unmotivated, waking up feeling tired and not up for facing the day and being hard on myself for knowing what I should be doing but not having the effort to do it. While many of the reasons mentioned in this video can reflect on that, I believe now that the main reason is my brain getting accustomed to activities that releases high levels of dopamine (the desire hormone). Which is why I started a new mood journal, listing all the activities I complete each day that release low levels of dopamine. Whether it be simply getting dressed, making the bed or just brushing my teeth. Anything I can do before doing any of the high dopamine activities makes me feel more satisfied and like I've actually earned the desirable activities at the end of the day!

  • @tomappuhamy
    @tomappuhamy 3 роки тому +31

    To the 1% who read this I wish you nothing but the best and hope you will find the happiness you're looking for soon.
    Stay strong cupcake ♥️

  • @yovannyflores4820
    @yovannyflores4820 3 роки тому +3

    One thing that unmotivate's people is that to make progress you have to go trough repetition on that certain thing, people want quick results. Make yourself productive daily, notice your surrounding and how they're effecting you.
    Edit- Loved the sketches in the video and consistent upload, keep it up👏👏🐧✨✨.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks for commenting! You're absolutely right about it.

  • @skyairplines
    @skyairplines 3 роки тому +8

    Honestly it's been a year since I've lost motivation in absolutely everything and I thought that it was getting better but lately I dont even have motivation to talk to others and I don't know what the freak to do to fix this.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +3

      One goal = one step at a time

  • @soukeangsam6004
    @soukeangsam6004 3 роки тому +7

    At my age (21), I feel like I should have accomplished more especially when most of my peers are outstanding. It's really difficult to not compare yourself to them. It feels like you have been left behind as they are going further and further from you. Though some of my friends might not be that great in the academic field, at least they know how to earn money. But then you are neither good at both. So at times, it can't be helped as I feel so useless and such a failure.

  • @eonshiii4604
    @eonshiii4604 3 роки тому +8

    I really hope my family members watch these type of videos and try to think in a different perspective on why I'm being what I am now... ://

  • @HIXHAM
    @HIXHAM 3 роки тому +61

    “Put all excuses aside and remember this: YOU are capable.”
    -Zig Ziglar

    • @adotheginger
      @adotheginger 3 роки тому +2

      Not the place for this mate ✌️

  • @moonlitscorpion6830
    @moonlitscorpion6830 3 роки тому +11

    I know this isn’t professional advice but I’d just like to comment
    I really really really really REALLY needed to hear this. Please keep the great content up.

  • @advancetotabletop5328
    @advancetotabletop5328 Рік тому +1

    1. I find FEAR a great motivator! Was diagnosed as diabetic and that finally got me to lose weight, etc. etc. So make sure everything important can be related to FEAR. :D

  • @veta_art
    @veta_art 3 роки тому +3

    I felt unmotivated for months. I couldn't do anything and what's worse, I didn't want anything. I felt so tired all the time, and my parents transfered me to another school. It helped! Now I enjoy studying and can do more things, that I actually want to do.))
    Sorry if I made mistakes)

  • @tenkei707
    @tenkei707 Рік тому

    all of them combined. i've been living a very unhealthy life for the last 6 months. i feel lost. i feel like whatever i'm doing won't change anything. overwhelmed, tired and empty. i grew tired of life each passing day and having no one i trust enough to share it makes it worse.
    real sorry for bursting out, venting over here, i just feel like i'm invisible. and thanks for the video, now i acknowledge the reasons why i'm extremely lacking in motivation

  • @gc-qh7rr
    @gc-qh7rr 3 роки тому +4

    I love this channel because it gives me a way to express my feelings. I don’t talk about this to my parents or brothers or friends, thanks to my social anxiety, which I have realized I have because of this channel. So thank you for giving me a way to express myself, and help me come to terms with my mental health :)

  • @Stary-explorer
    @Stary-explorer 3 роки тому +2

    0:36 Friend on the wall and Charlie slime Sickle cup
    0:51 Poster from the Disc saga
    4:59 Philaz’s hat

  • @HackiePuffs
    @HackiePuffs 3 роки тому +6

    I recently got out of a burnout of having no motivation that lasted for like 2 months. It feels great to feel like myself again although a part of me is scared I’ll slip back into it.

    • @elizabethkuffour6558
      @elizabethkuffour6558 11 місяців тому

      What did you do to get out of it?

    • @HackiePuffs
      @HackiePuffs 11 місяців тому

      @@elizabethkuffour6558I don’t really remember this was a long time ago 😅 although I think I just started doing more of the things I love again and it made me feel better

  • @PlantVibes
    @PlantVibes 3 роки тому

    I can appreciate the idea is pointed out that social media is only snapshots of peoples best moments. That is truly important to remember especially when you’re feeling like you can’t do anything right.

  • @Jordan-qx8lr
    @Jordan-qx8lr 3 роки тому +3

    My Saturday and Sunday schedule:
    1. Watch tv for 30 minutes
    2. Take a walk in the garage
    3. Come back in and get food
    4. Binge watch UA-cam for 30 minutes
    5. Repeat

  • @minchai2943
    @minchai2943 3 роки тому +1

    Almost every thing you said are the thing that have unmotivated me. After this video I feel so much better

  • @iPLAYtheSTATION
    @iPLAYtheSTATION 3 роки тому +5

    It's like you always deliver the right video at the right time for me. I relate to this video *too* much.

  • @actuallyzohakuten
    @actuallyzohakuten 3 роки тому +2

    I love watching your channel, for a variety of reasons.
    -It makes me feel more confident about my sexuality and gender identity
    -It helps me realize that I'm not all flaws and mistakes
    -It gives me something to think about while trying to sleep, blocking out anxiety.
    This specific video really helped me. Last month, my dog was put down and I've been thinking I'm coping with it well. However, I feel unmotivated, tired, and overall disappointed in myself. I have not talked to my parents about this, and refuse to do so (they'll send me to a Christian counselor, and last time she made things worst). I've realized that it's okay to take a break, and instead of doing things to make others satisfied I should focus on *my* mental health (for now). Instead of working on a time-consuming art piece made for my friends, I can sit down and doodle my comforts that calm me down.
    Thank you!

  • @error_phobianotfound
    @error_phobianotfound 3 роки тому +6

    This came at the perfect time. I was literally telling my friends this morning how I couldn't concentrate and was unmotivated. Now I can confirm this, thank you :)

  • @Kindred_Lamb
    @Kindred_Lamb 3 роки тому

    I literally just looked up "why is it hard to be motivated since I've been losing it lately then this new video comes up, right on time wow

  • @mediocregamer2484
    @mediocregamer2484 3 роки тому +9

    "What do you do when things go wrong"
    I just kinda fall over and deflate

  • @stressed.coquette
    @stressed.coquette 3 роки тому +2

    I really struggle to find the motivation to do my school work. My mind keeps stressing out about it, and I end up falling behind on assignments. I'm way more interested in music and I want to learn how to play several instruments and sing. I don't think my parents understand how much I love music, so they expect me to perform well in academics, like my sister. But at the same time, I can't really blame them because they're very busy people, and they probably just forgot about it

  • @more1494
    @more1494 3 роки тому +3

    1:12 i dont crontrol my life, my life controles me
    I didn't choose my life, my life chose me

  • @poojakarkala9263
    @poojakarkala9263 3 роки тому

    Idk y I loved her voice. It feels very warm

  • @curfora5370
    @curfora5370 3 роки тому +4

    Mcyt references
    thumbnail: little dream and bee
    0:30 friend poster
    0:53 disc poster
    5:04 phil's hat

  • @FatimDoki
    @FatimDoki 3 роки тому +1

    Being 26 and i already lost passion on what i love to do several years ago. Getting blamed for other people faults and when the path was chosen by parent. Im no longer have goals and idk where im heading to.

  • @alexactually1802
    @alexactually1802 3 роки тому +3

    this animation is so cute, I love how the little movments all go in sync and this style is really cute! luv ur channel psych2go! :)

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you so much!! Glad you enjoyed it. :D

  • @ysabellaajamsnskanal
    @ysabellaajamsnskanal 3 роки тому +1

    you probably won’t see this but i’d like to point out
    how much i love these videos.
    not just because they’re educational, but because they’re
    SO CALMING and THE ART
    the teeny tiny references to certain things, the adorable art style, and the colour scheme that isn’t a pain to look at.
    And to go with that, the voice overs are so calm and happy and just lovely to match the art :D

  • @comfy6275
    @comfy6275 3 роки тому +11

    1. 0:42 You're working for the wrong reasons
    2. 1:13 You think you don't have control over your life
    3. 1:50 You think you should have accomplished more by now
    4. 2:35 You set unrealistic goals
    5. 3:09 You only focus on the possibility of failure without thinking of the rewards
    6.3:38 Your personal life is out of balance
    7. 4:11 You're spending too much time on social media
    8. 4:41 You don't believe in yourself
    Hope that helps and have an amazing day ❤️

  • @feroowaleed569
    @feroowaleed569 3 роки тому +2

    I started watching this channel about a year ago and I’m very happy that I did so! Thank you so much for your comforting and educational videos, they always make me feel safe and happy!

  • @Isokatmydydecsf
    @Isokatmydydecsf 3 роки тому +3

    Well, this hit right in the feels.
    Thank you so much Psych2go, I was always like that for reasons I can't remember or explains, but I feel like this actually is really helping me.
    Thank you for sharing this with me, and everyone else.

  • @inuala9453
    @inuala9453 Рік тому +1

    Thanks very much, PsychToGo. Your videos are always a blessing to watch, especially when depression episodes like to kick in my life. Been struggling with depression for about 12 years now (started with 16, now I‘m 28). I was always put down as being lazy, even though I was overwealmed with everything. Right now, I‘m struggling to figure out what I TRULY want in life - If anything I did over the years was actually worth it…
    I‘m lost and still trying to find my way. But I hope for others that they can find their way in life. For anyone who reads this: You are worth it, I believe in you that you can achieve your goals and find happiness in life. I‘m proud of you for everything you have accomplished so far.

  • @arcturusvioleta7998
    @arcturusvioleta7998 3 роки тому +35

    “Do what you want not what others pressure you to do” Me: So does that mean I can quit school!? 🤩

    • @naji_moarmy6808
      @naji_moarmy6808 3 роки тому +5

      I'm currently what you call "rebel".I'm not doing any homeworks from the first month till now {guess it's as huge as a mountain by now.} and not attending any classes.My family said "are you not attending any classes?" Honestly I'm tired trying to live up to their expectations and now I'm having burnout since last year till now 🗿

    • @iamdissapointed6810
      @iamdissapointed6810 3 роки тому +4

      @@naji_moarmy6808 same i do pretty well at school but right now im doing really bad, right now i should be finishing my homework but im procrastinating. I just cant get myself to do anything i feel like if i have a productive perfect day the next day will be shitty or something bad will happen i have no idea why i feel like this its like a weird fear or something.

    • @rhyss5618
      @rhyss5618 2 роки тому

      wish i could.

    • @Sweetpotatoes-aregood
      @Sweetpotatoes-aregood Місяць тому

      How are you? I'm in that situation too but don't know how to get out of it.. I just feel tired.. and sad all the time I feel like I have no future and I be alone.. someday ​@@naji_moarmy6808

  • @GooseyQ
    @GooseyQ 3 роки тому

    Relate to all of it. 😭 I try to keep busy to distract myself from getting in my feelings. What sucks is not knowing if you’re genuinely getting motivated or just doing something with the fear of being in your feelings.

  • @justsomeguywithamaskon926
    @justsomeguywithamaskon926 3 роки тому +252

    Reason why you're feeling unmotivated.
    1. Quarantine
    2. Quarantine
    3. Quarantine

  • @paniniprincess5211
    @paniniprincess5211 3 роки тому

    Yup the unrealistic goals are too true. Don't think you're gonna get famous in one day, because it takes time and patience and lots of hard work. You'll get there whoever you are! 💗

  • @humblearts-3115
    @humblearts-3115 3 роки тому +3

    I really needed to hear this. I relate to all of these to a certain level. I'll definitely take measures to improve my life style, and therefore, my motivation. Thank you for the comprehensive and concise videos!

  • @badcreations9527
    @badcreations9527 3 роки тому

    I swear you guys must be a secret agency. You guys always post exactly what someone needs when they need it

  • @malia9521
    @malia9521 3 роки тому +28

    Hey, just wanted to tell everybody who is going through a hard time: it gets better! Stay positive (but the corona test negative please :)

  • @katsukibakugou4107
    @katsukibakugou4107 2 роки тому +2

    I've been been unmotivated to study for around 10 years... Anything involves school I find it stressful. Other than school ,everything is fine idk why 👁️💧👄💧👁️ but this channel does help me alot in many ways💗

  • @isaak1748
    @isaak1748 3 роки тому +5

    Thanks to my ADHD it is so difficult to be productive. It's a horrible feeling :((

  • @Anonymous-jq6yy
    @Anonymous-jq6yy 3 роки тому +1

    I can relate to each one-
    My online friends help cheer me and motivate me

  • @nihaarikaa2659
    @nihaarikaa2659 3 роки тому +5

    Everytime I thought I was lazy ....I related to all the reasons and I realised now that I am just un-motivated 😂😂

  • @janaahmed3415
    @janaahmed3415 3 роки тому +1

    I feel unmotivated all the time but this is the first video where i don’t relate to any of them. Im not tired, but i still dont do what i have to do. Sometimes i do it last minute but other times i dont do it at all

  • @tadpollie
    @tadpollie 3 роки тому +3

    0:30
    Friend :D
    4:59
    Philza hat!
    0:45
    Disc saga :)

  • @pauli_joy
    @pauli_joy 3 роки тому

    This was posted so timely because this is exactly what I feel rn

  • @charliebutsilly
    @charliebutsilly 3 роки тому +7

    5:08 Awww the philza hat reference-

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +3

      Happy to see you noticed it! :)

    • @charliebutsilly
      @charliebutsilly 3 роки тому

      @@Psych2go the little references you guys add in your thumbnails and videos is so wholesome!

  • @caseymatthess5539
    @caseymatthess5539 3 роки тому +2

    At 0:37 there is a friend drawing on the wall as well as Philzas hearts on a mug!!!

  • @shekinah4651
    @shekinah4651 3 роки тому +3

    This animation style is too cute :)

  • @syderzking
    @syderzking 3 роки тому +1

    This helped me slow down and reevaluate my way of approaching my schoolwork, I’m so glad this was in my recommended. Thank you!

  • @johnmivule-novabow8143
    @johnmivule-novabow8143 3 роки тому +3

    This is very relatable, I wanna do a lot of things but Idk how to begin

  • @mysticdougs4884
    @mysticdougs4884 Рік тому

    WOW this video really opened my eyes, I have recently felt super unmotivated. I didn't do as well as I wanted at 6th form and I'm having to do another year. This was because I still am unsure of what career I should pursue. I have been pretty depressed since I lost my part time Job in 2022 and my parents have pressured me to get another job since. All of the points on this video have related to me entirely. I have been constantly comparing myself to others in my age group (18) who seem to have there life sorted out. I have had a lot of setbacks since leaving secondary school, I want to make a comeback thank you Psych2Go for sharing this educational content. To anybody who's going through these struggles you are not alone, sometimes God holds you back so that you can avoid anything that doesn't serve you. Good luck guys, we've got this!! 🙏💪🙌

  • @crispbisc9350
    @crispbisc9350 3 роки тому +4

    Guys I’m literally watching this video instead of doing my work

  • @chwaftka9775
    @chwaftka9775 3 роки тому

    Thanks for explaining why I have 0 motivation to work in high school but a lot of motivation to get myself enrolled in a college university.

  • @dayswithavni
    @dayswithavni 3 роки тому +3

    I have exam in 12hrs and i really can't focus on the studies and still haven't done anything 😔✌️
    Edit- just watched the whole video and i relate to every point ✨

    • @coria6231
      @coria6231 3 роки тому

      Bro felt that. Good luck

    • @angelika_joanna
      @angelika_joanna 3 роки тому

      Hey, good luck! You can do it ❤️

  • @umaraniumarani2127
    @umaraniumarani2127 3 роки тому +1

    This is my favorite among all ur videos...
    Now I know I am not lazy.... thank u so much for this video. . It just click on the right time for me..

  • @more1494
    @more1494 3 роки тому +13

    I welcome everyone who needs motivation a warm welcome

    • @jamiru_nahi3065
      @jamiru_nahi3065 3 роки тому +1

      hi time traveller

    • @more1494
      @more1494 3 роки тому +1

      @@jamiru_nahi3065 hi

    • @jamiru_nahi3065
      @jamiru_nahi3065 3 роки тому +1

      @@more1494 how did you do time travel?

    • @more1494
      @more1494 3 роки тому +1

      @@jamiru_nahi3065 go to playlist, and there will be like updated today
      And go to last and there will be like unfamiliar video
      Example :step1) go to playlist and search for playlist named "intelligence" and go to that playlist
      Step 2) search the video called "signs you are intelligent"

    • @more1494
      @more1494 3 роки тому +1

      @@jamiru_nahi3065 did you do it, if you didn't understand tell me

  • @HueNguyen-fg2hs
    @HueNguyen-fg2hs 3 роки тому +1

    It’s so sad that I relates to all of these reasons. I love it when it helps me realize my situation. Gonna go ahead and chase my dreams❤️

  • @arpitkumar4525
    @arpitkumar4525 3 роки тому +5

    I can dance and move around and get errands done but I need to buy new shoes and I am feeling so lazy to do that. Making a decision (selecting what to buy) is hard for me, that's why 😂

    • @error_phobianotfound
      @error_phobianotfound 3 роки тому +1

      Maybe I can help! You first need to figure out what shoes you need. Sneakers are a go to option if you can't choose which one you want. Then you can choose a colour you want, like black or maybe blue. You can choose your favorite colour! Then, you should probably set a budget to whatever you can afford. And there you go!! I hope this helps you :)

    • @arpitkumar4525
      @arpitkumar4525 3 роки тому +1

      @@error_phobianotfound Thanks 😀

  • @julk1732
    @julk1732 3 роки тому

    I have this bad feeling, that this is way to relatable...also great to not feel so terrible about not having motivation...somehow...