Both my Baby Daddies are Deadbeat| I'm carrying the financial burden for all my Kids

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  • Опубліковано 15 січ 2025

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  • @Mthokozisi_Smith
    @Mthokozisi_Smith 22 години тому +21

    Hi sis simz
    I really enjoy this unmarried mommy diaries ❤ please don't leave it unattended because I see it blossoming to what Mr TT MBA did with amatyma🎉
    My story is pretty long but to summarise it my biological father was there for 4-5 years of my life and left and never looked back, mind you I am his second born. I live in the same street with his mother and uncle but he still has the nerve to visit his mother and uncle and forget about me.
    I have never had a conversation with my mother about my father because I don't see the need too, my mother and step father have done an amazing job in raising me to be the man that I am today, I am turning 22yrs and I have had to heal myself and forgive my biological father for being absent. I hope this helps another single mom out there.
    Thank you for the opportunity ❤❤

    • @Unmarriedmomsdiaries
      @Unmarriedmomsdiaries  22 години тому +3

      Oh wow, this is so powerful. Hearing this from a child's perspective

  • @aluwanibrenda
    @aluwanibrenda День тому +6

    and what hurts me most is the sorry i feel for my child coz he needs his dad. a present dad would be way better than money.

  • @Nompumelelo-qy1lb
    @Nompumelelo-qy1lb 22 години тому +3

    Yoh for me its hard because the first baby daddy is there for his kids now the second baby daddy left me immediately I told him that I am pregnant and that time am unemployed now am so scared of facing this journey, am just happy that my parents are supporting me ❤❤. I trust God that immediately when I give birth I could just get a job.

    • @Unmarriedmomsdiaries
      @Unmarriedmomsdiaries  22 години тому +2

      I'm glad u have your parent.... ur 2nd baby daddy is terrible

  • @aluwanibrenda
    @aluwanibrenda День тому +3

    it gets heavy, financial burden too much but somehow we soldier on..we stil manage to dance through the rain

  • @Reabona1
    @Reabona1 Годину тому

    Yoh....Simz e kare o ka thula.
    1st baby daddy is the atm he will give money but will not be present.
    2nd baby daddy doesnt meet me half way financially but is present for both kids bcoz he was in my life for such a long time.
    But the part that hurts is 2nd baby daddy found me doing my thing and lied and acted to cause me to act to own my detriment bcoz of his lies.My kids are 11 years apart.
    Now I am single and celibate and will remain that way for good.

  • @JustDiane.
    @JustDiane. 20 годин тому +1

    It’s so sad when you the only active one. I’m even tired😢

  • @MahasheS
    @MahasheS Годину тому

    I had one job, one job, to secure a good man as a dad for my daughters, great dad that I dad 😭😭😭 and I failed my darlings, I failed 10 nil

    • @Unmarriedmomsdiaries
      @Unmarriedmomsdiaries  Годину тому

      Eish, mntase

    • @Reabona1
      @Reabona1 Годину тому

      Askies....but you know sometimes these people will act for years.

  • @feliciahude9860
    @feliciahude9860 21 годину тому +3

    Completely off topic***
    I find your hands to be so cutely chubby😂😂❤

  • @bukelwamlanjana4666
    @bukelwamlanjana4666 22 години тому +2

    what is the song playing in your intro?

  • @snowym7188
    @snowym7188 22 години тому +3

    And then you get the baby daddies who have multiple children and then are only active for some kids and neglect others … you watch him be a great dad for one and be a deadbeat another or others even take in step kids and neglect their other kids … yiMess

  • @ZizipoMayongo
    @ZizipoMayongo 18 годин тому +1

    Its sad my other baby daddy for the little one is present and my son one is a deadbeat and I feel sorry fory son like today he couldn't open schools he promised to give us money for transport I am trying yoh i am so tired shame I have trying so hard

  • @nthubekhi9068
    @nthubekhi9068 День тому +2

    I can understand why you and your ex husband are at each other. Give it time you both will come around the anger will subside. However your ex husband needs to come to the party ASAP financially🤞🏿..