Promise Makunyane Is A Step Mother Of 2 Minimum, My Husband This/That Review

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  • @rose-maynyamombe1407
    @rose-maynyamombe1407 Рік тому +156

    I have a mother, she has only 2 biological kids but she raised 5 of us as her own, mind you the other 3 are from different mothers. When I got older I asked her why she took us in, she said I said I love my husband and his family, I married into the family and his kids are his family! Yho... She took care of us so beautifully... I love her to bits!

  • @didiel1176
    @didiel1176 Рік тому +265

    At this point men are not playing us... We're playing ourselves 😂😂😂

    • @theblueclinicbydrthabile
      @theblueclinicbydrthabile Рік тому +8

      Say that again 🤣🤣

    • @Vv-fl2rm
      @Vv-fl2rm Рік тому +11

      That’s how it was even with your mothers and grandmothers and great grand mothers 😂😂😂 what made you think you will be different 😂😂😂😂

    • @Yassmiinn.
      @Yassmiinn. Рік тому +14

      @@Vv-fl2rm why are your comments so aggressive? Who hurt you?

    • @Vv-fl2rm
      @Vv-fl2rm Рік тому +13

      @@Yassmiinn.how is a realistic statement of “ fact” aggressive? Or a sign of “hurt” 😂😂😂 that’s yols problem, yol like to shy away from things as they are and live in a fantasy world where men are concerned, hence the bekezela mbokodos 😂 ✊🏾 They on the other hand ( men) live in reality and put themselves first always. Something yol should learn

    • @cindyndlangamandla
      @cindyndlangamandla Рік тому

      I agree

  • @moe_ramz
    @moe_ramz Рік тому +109

    Lightning must strike me if I ever defend my husband for cheating yoh!!😂😂

    • @NomNom22398
      @NomNom22398 Рік тому +8

      usazomhlaza, he is not done.

    • @majolicamashinini3934
      @majolicamashinini3934 Рік тому

      😅😅😅😅

    • @busibokaba2816
      @busibokaba2816 Рік тому +12

      I no longer judge people who "defends" their husbands. We as woman we are jealous of each other and men are just aware of that. BASADI KE BALOYI!!

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 Рік тому +7

      ​@busibokaba2816 that's also the thing. At time women purposefully target other peoples husband's just to prove some what point to the wife because they know the wife

    • @Phindihlophe
      @Phindihlophe Рік тому

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @thebaddie391
    @thebaddie391 Рік тому +16

    Let me say i am confused somehow. Owamie you are hypocritical kodwa. Firstly when you said this woman reminds you of you when you were still married,that one I believe that because when you were going on about my husband this and that, i was like that sounds like you when you were married to big guy, when you were like big guy this and that... ok... and now yesterday you were bashing the lady from the channel that doesn't grow because she is talking about you and yet this woman does the same by confronting you because you talked about her and yet here you are having an issue. So basically only you are allowed to talk about other people and they can't talk about you because you call them out and when they call you out, wena futhi you have an issue. I can't be the only one seeing the hypocrisy in this. Also how dare you tell her what to do in her marriage... kame nje Owamie... you are too big for your boots whether she chooses to love or hate the second child thats up to her, nawe you always exempt men for cheating on their wives and blame the women when you should be blaming the married men. You are a hypocrite Owamie.

  • @TT_TheBarber_
    @TT_TheBarber_ Рік тому +56

    She kept on saying "she decided to date my husband" instead of "my husband decided to date her". Her choice of words keeps her in her delusion

    • @Yassmiinn.
      @Yassmiinn. Рік тому +11

      I'm sure that's what her husband said to her and now she's running with it shame 😂 men and never taking the blame "she came on to me, she wouldn't leave me alone" 😂

    • @bigbrownbabe
      @bigbrownbabe Рік тому +3

      That's because she knows her husband is on the market 😂

    • @kaybee918
      @kaybee918 Рік тому +3

      😂😂😂😂 ai the way I don't take that lady crus she's a mental case that one

    • @busisiwemichelle5391
      @busisiwemichelle5391 3 місяці тому

      Yeah there is no woman who can date a man who doesnt want

  • @kaonelekgetho
    @kaonelekgetho Рік тому +71

    “We fight people that we should be learning from” 😂😂😂easy said

  • @angelk3912
    @angelk3912 Рік тому +70

    I’ve been saying that you’ll never see really“Happy” people trying to prove their happiness on social media. Something is not make sure in that woman’s life…. Is can’t be 🙆🏽‍♀️

  • @Yassmiinn.
    @Yassmiinn. Рік тому +16

    Nah Iʼd rather die single than keep welcoming random children to my home. Yoh men arenʼt the prize please!

  • @jusblack_thabi
    @jusblack_thabi Рік тому +20

    I am not sure if this is possible, I think bloggers should avoid talking about each other and weighing in on each other’s business.
    It gets ugly and corrupts audiences, ya’ll share audiences.
    I know you are trying remain impartial and do commentary on the show, you are not doing well, it has an air of condemnation borderline judgemental about this, however I do get you two have history.
    Yekelani ukukhuluma about each other. All of you are on these platforms to make money. She sells the idea of “our perfect marriage”, you sell gossip. Thengisani and make money as creators, try not step on each other’s toes, it’s not cute.
    Our fight is with poverty and not with each other.
    Try not turn into what that other UA-camr was to you.
    That’s my 2c

  • @disekomotsepe
    @disekomotsepe Рік тому +25

    Promise must remember that those children are not only her husband's children. But also siblings for her children. She need to love then, because in the future siblings need each other

  • @Mowizzy1
    @Mowizzy1 Рік тому +32

    The husband is definitely the prize in their situation. That's never a good place for a woman to be in. These men be trifling for real😂😂😂😂

  • @faithtobias9110
    @faithtobias9110 Рік тому +90

    Hi Owami, I love your outlook on marriage for you. However we all different and marriage is rather different when children are involved. i don't even know who Promise is but i have been a consistent nijja since the beginning of time, I enjoy your entertainment news but your advice on marriage always comes from only your experience which excludes other factors that are in other peoples marriages. I respect your outlook though for only you and i love that you always mention "'in my opinion''

    • @tarlealebopo5969
      @tarlealebopo5969 Рік тому +36

      But when it comes to kids you dont need any kind of experience its standard! if your husband decides to have a child outside your marriage and you decide to forgive him you have no right to pick and choose who he must support my husband this my husband that is just pure nonsense

    • @sphelilestella7980
      @sphelilestella7980 Рік тому +18

      i dont think you understood owamie, she more on the side of lerato accepting the other child

    • @shopandunboxwithme8791
      @shopandunboxwithme8791 Рік тому +3

      True. Owamie must heal

    • @ilovenikk_2650
      @ilovenikk_2650 Рік тому +9

      @shopntonton that line is getting old hle

  • @Mvula_90
    @Mvula_90 Рік тому +15

    Once upon a time another celebrity was a “ my husband this my husband that “ until her husband scandals and affairs with uni students humbled her, she no longer says my husband this or that now her post is about her and her child. Ladies learn from other women, men will humble you lols

  • @petuniataunyane2319
    @petuniataunyane2319 Рік тому +27

    I think some woman are so obsessed with men , they will do anything to keep them regardless of bad situations…. Self love is important of our mental wellness ladies

    • @Ladyle4ever
      @Ladyle4ever 4 місяці тому

      I think the same too. Some women are obsessed with men. They can't even live without men.

  • @abulelegxala8691
    @abulelegxala8691 Рік тому +33

    “Eat woolies grapes”😂😂😂😂😂but you right kids should not suffer because of our choices , they really should not…

  • @mrs_bey_brkovic1777
    @mrs_bey_brkovic1777 Рік тому +63

    I swear, Owamie is the smartest in these youtube streets, opinionated without disrespecting anyone! Love it

    • @Cuttestthingever
      @Cuttestthingever Рік тому +14

      I started watching her channel since I was 17 I remember I was in matric 😅she is so smart …I am thinking of opening my own channel as well because of her 😅
      I love her so so much❤

    • @GeminiJune0608
      @GeminiJune0608 Рік тому

      True

    • @95luyanda
      @95luyanda 11 місяців тому +1

      Without disrespecting ?

    • @aishaluminsa6505
      @aishaluminsa6505 11 місяців тому

      Opinionated and disrespectful and a'm here for it

  • @g07t3522
    @g07t3522 Рік тому +9

    I wouldn’t be an ambassador for marriage success if my husband was out here acting a fool.

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Рік тому +43

    Felt some type of way watching the episode when she insisted on calling her friend who is divorcing, Mrs (husband’s last name).
    And of course what she was saying regarding the baby mammas and hubby portrayed as faultless as compared to the women I thought 💭 🤔 🤦🏽‍♀️.

    • @vhungohoradzivhoni2272
      @vhungohoradzivhoni2272 Рік тому +6

      You and me both😬 when she said to the friend “to me you’ll always be Mrs so and so”, that’s not okay hle

    • @shamisomarabwa202
      @shamisomarabwa202 Рік тому +3

      I'm happily married and I hate being addressed as Mrs... My first name still works just fine 😅

  • @kgopotsoellis8960
    @kgopotsoellis8960 Рік тому +25

    Promise should have kept all this to herself...the lesser we know the better yazi

    • @dineomoeketsi408
      @dineomoeketsi408 Рік тому +4

      But the baby mama is the one who took it to social media telling other tiktokers their business. So she literally had no choice but to address this.

    • @vuyokazinocuze7603
      @vuyokazinocuze7603 Рік тому

      Don’t lie promise has a video on UA-cam where she spoke about this like 3 years ago no one came for her

    • @dineomoeketsi408
      @dineomoeketsi408 Рік тому

      @@vuyokazinocuze7603 ok miss know it all, then what do you call the info that that magogo said she had on Promise at tiktok threatening to expose her? Promise even had to threaten her with a lawsuit for her to leave her alone.

    • @phumzilemahlangu3991
      @phumzilemahlangu3991 Рік тому

      Lol I said the same thing

  • @Ownnarrativepodcast
    @Ownnarrativepodcast Рік тому +25

    ❤❤ thanks for the video.. "haka motorokisi means join the club not go away"😅..

    • @TheeMsutu
      @TheeMsutu Рік тому +6

      😂👐To me it sounds like go away especially the "haka" 😭😭

    • @valerieval-veeshiviri203
      @valerieval-veeshiviri203 Рік тому +1

      I love how you're the only one who understands the statement 😂

    • @dineomoeketsi408
      @dineomoeketsi408 Рік тому +4

      Yess Promise and that Baby mama needs to stop being childish and being a bully and join this train😂😂😂😂

    • @Yassmiinn.
      @Yassmiinn. Рік тому

      Been wondering for YEARS what haka matorokisi means 😂

    • @busibokaba2816
      @busibokaba2816 Рік тому +2

      Thank you for being such a lady Mrs law and never mind haters ❤️❤️❤️

  • @elsiequbu3943
    @elsiequbu3943 Рік тому +22

    Yoo Sune- gugu makes me love marriage but Promise just make me feel like am stupid

  • @amosjournal649
    @amosjournal649 Рік тому +12

    No no Queen Ninja i think you ddnt hear her properly....she actually said she has been taking care of the husbands first child so she doesnt mind doing the same with the second one hence the "haka matorokisi".

  • @xoliemashaba6890
    @xoliemashaba6890 Рік тому +11

    Very soon she will be divorcing this one!! u cannot talk that rubbish about other people when you are happy at your house. She is definitely hiding something!

  • @vulrym
    @vulrym Рік тому +25

    Precious doesn’t love herself, she seeks Bali from others and she has made being a wife her precious identity even if it means being married to a cheater. I didn’t like how she was asking her friend to give her marriage another try even knowing the situation, I felt she was being very unfair to her friend knowing very well her pain

  • @glaciousndhlovu2675
    @glaciousndhlovu2675 Рік тому +15

    Yey i came running, saw your tik tok video at 2am and i haven't slept since 😂😂😂😂. . . .
    Im embarrassed 😅😂

  • @thebaddie391
    @thebaddie391 Рік тому +23

    Promise is Owamie and Owamie is Promise, you also led people to believe that your marriage was perfect meanwhile you were lying. We only heard Big Guy's stories when you had broken up.

    • @nokomoabelo8091
      @nokomoabelo8091 Рік тому +17

      I love owami but I feel like she was also a “my husband this my husband that “kinda woman and I feel like if she was not divorced she would probably be a BIG part or be featuring in this thing ya Promise. These talks seem very emotional,

    • @thebaddie391
      @thebaddie391 Рік тому +10

      @@nokomoabelo8091 VELE and when she started talking about them buying woolies food i knew ukuthi jealousy has her by the boobs. Owamie looked down on unmarried women when she was still with big guy. Double standards much.

    • @shopandunboxwithme8791
      @shopandunboxwithme8791 Рік тому +5

      This is so true yoo, she used to lie and even lie about why she was no longer wearing her ring

    • @triciakekana
      @triciakekana Рік тому +1

      ​@@nokomoabelo8091but she was independently independent and making her own money even b4 she came to start a UA-cam channel. Promise yena is a trophy wife

  • @HerDangLife
    @HerDangLife Рік тому +46

    Here's an unsolicited opinion on why I think she has grandiose cluster B personality disorder
    1. Lack of accountability.
    2. moving too fast in the relationship
    3. Never apologising
    4. Her threatening Queen Lee with Lawsuit over the truth (gaslighting)
    5. Having to invite people around her to "brag" and teach and be Beyonce it give thirst for supply, it give recruiting fly monkeys to help fight her battles. That reality show has divorcee and process of divorce women (again thirst for supply)
    6. Her exhibiting lack of sense of self like there's nothing to learn or draw from her except she's a wife and mother
    7. People who become victim of such personal disorder are those closest to her which I am assuming it's mostly her nannies as she changes them regularly
    5. Subliminally throwing shade like Owamie said at the beginning of the video

    • @khanyisacitwa4932
      @khanyisacitwa4932 Рік тому +3

      👊🏽👌👌👌

    • @belo_m586
      @belo_m586 Рік тому +1

      Yey, neke tshaba go post di DSM V criteria of that PD because neketshaba lawsuit.

  • @Lunga28
    @Lunga28 Рік тому +57

    I was honestly waiting for the review for someone potraying to be in a happy relationship i was shocked by everything the first episode had ,people in happy relationships dont try as hard to appear like they are happy shame shes going through the most and the sad part is she wont leave or even see her husband's mistakes its always going to be the other woman .

    • @Lungelo911
      @Lungelo911 Рік тому

      Hi love where is this show aired? Is it on mainstream TV or online?

    • @Lunga28
      @Lunga28 Рік тому

      @@Lungelo911 here on UA-cam it's called my husband this my husband that

    • @Chidzy.M
      @Chidzy.M Рік тому +1

      @@Lungelo911 UA-cam... promise makunyane's UA-cam channel

    • @molatelogift3689
      @molatelogift3689 Рік тому

      5, 😊

    • @naomimonaisa4795
      @naomimonaisa4795 Рік тому +4

      It's called keeping up appearances

  • @mirandasibiiya8851
    @mirandasibiiya8851 Рік тому +6

    Owamie is a hypocrite, where was this energy with Mihlali situation? “ we hate people we should be learning from” so clearly Mary Jane should be learning from Mihlali. Aiii mntase awnaqiniso , you made the video just to bash and shame Promise. Clearly it’s bigger than us, cause the way you just started ranting about you were blocked or you blocked unnecessary information. Leave medulla oblongata, cerebrum is clearly not at work hence the video. For a person who’s been there , you should have shown more compassion.

    • @vuyokazinocuze7603
      @vuyokazinocuze7603 Рік тому +1

      Yhoo but Mary Jane was not the one fighting Mihlali and siding with the husband you are comparing two different scenarios

  • @madams___speaker
    @madams___speaker Рік тому +15

    Owamie NETSHIVHAZWAULU 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

    • @ntokotoPM
      @ntokotoPM Рік тому +2

      Madam Speaker Perseverance I love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @madams___speaker
      @madams___speaker Рік тому +1

      @@ntokotoPM hey sisi ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @sweetrose362
    @sweetrose362 Рік тому +25

    But truth be told before your divorce Owami around 2018/19 you were just like that with bigguy😂you were singing the same song "my husband guys" but haike its Owami😂😂

    • @Ongezwa_Ntsepe
      @Ongezwa_Ntsepe Рік тому +4

      She said so herself 😂

    • @sweetrose362
      @sweetrose362 Рік тому +7

      ​@@Ongezwa_Ntsepeshe must allow others to make their mistakes too so they can learn as well akere yena she learnt from it, though the energy she is giving here says something else😂🙌

    • @dineomoeketsi408
      @dineomoeketsi408 Рік тому +11

      Flip flopper this one. You'd expect her to be more understanding instead of trying to bully Promise this much. She is not even trying to understand Promises side of the story. All I hear are attacks attacks but anyway I've already subscribed to Promise, I find her reality show very entertaining.

    • @sweetrose362
      @sweetrose362 Рік тому +3

      @@dineomoeketsi408 true, this whole video she is only trying to prove a point that she blocked her bla bla hai marn...

    • @judyatoro9387
      @judyatoro9387 Рік тому

      😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

  • @leratoseopela2754
    @leratoseopela2754 Рік тому +19

    One of the girls in that show asked her how she took her man if they'd already broken up and she avoided the question 😂😂😂

    • @sibongilenkosi-vi8jh
      @sibongilenkosi-vi8jh Рік тому +7

      She was even defensive honestly I am so hurt on her behalf 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @viriacssa2003
    @viriacssa2003 Рік тому +10

    The same way she chooses to accept the cheating, is the same way Ninja youll divorce every man who marries you if they cheat, we're built differently. It's not a must to love every child, its her choice and her right. It's about her preferences just like you. She can't learn anything good Ninja from any mistress, both the husband and the mistress have the spirit of jezebel, they're both whores. The woman is a whore Ninja. Again I disagree Ninja, not evey man cheat, its hard to believe, but its wrong for us to keep on saying every man cheats. Let her deal with her pain the way you also deal with it, venting out, just like now Ninja you're angry and venting out. When youre angry try to pray first for days and afterwards make a video, it will sound better and help educate people. When youre angry Ninja you're not your best, i love the positive you, work more with what God gave you, a spirit of Joy and youll help many. Try prayer, I love you❤

    • @Dee20201
      @Dee20201 Рік тому +4

      My sentiment exactly, coz now Ninja come across as bitter.

    • @thebaddie391
      @thebaddie391 Рік тому +5

      ​@@Dee20201 very bitter. Owamie is always bashing misstresses ans now all of a sudden Promise must learn from the misstress. Owamie has double standards its embarassing shame.

    • @donmazibuko2042
      @donmazibuko2042 Рік тому

      Well said

    • @bigbrownbabe
      @bigbrownbabe Рік тому

      Faithfulness is a vow made to be married . Please don't make it sound like it's something small someone can overlook. If the husband/wife cheats they BREAK the marriage. And is a VALID reason to divorce, staying after cheating should not be a seen as a bump in the road , you decide to ignore. Staying with a consistent cheater gives marriage a bad name and speaks volumes of your low self esteem.
      Clearly there is one person in this marriage and other partner is a whore. No marriage can stand on one leg , it will only work if both are Faithful. You encouraging women to tolerate cheating , but that's not how marriage ls work , but rather how it does not work. Start holding a cheaters accountable , you'll see more people remaining Faithful

    • @thebaddie391
      @thebaddie391 Рік тому

      @@bigbrownbabe while what you are saying might not be wrong, you need to understand that God does say you can divorce someone on grounds of cheating but He still will prefer if people didn't divorce and God is totally against divorce. So if someome chooses to forgive their husband, its their God given right and forgiveness is pleasing to God and He still would want people to forgive each other than divorce and it goes on to say should y'all divorce you can't have relations with anyone or else it's still viewed as adultery. So these divorcees who jump from one bed to another are no better. Let people forgive their cheating husbands if they want to,

  • @busibokaba2816
    @busibokaba2816 Рік тому +21

    Aowa bathong, owami you are telling us things that you are not sure about. And you are empowered and feel that you will not be played because you make money. Today you just made your vlog out of spite.🤞🤞People cannot live their lives just to impress you...

    • @bontlelethetsa
      @bontlelethetsa Рік тому +2

      But every UA-camr has a platform for their own opinions although she can be a bit emotional sometimes

    • @busibokaba2816
      @busibokaba2816 Рік тому

      @@bontlelethetsa a kena flopo le opinion e tsamayang le evidence meiskat.

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Рік тому +25

    Wait, let me put the kettle on! Only discovered her last night as I watched Mandy’s channel the millennial mom.

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Рік тому +16

    19:23 Hayi ninja! Please don’t involve our parents! We are adults and make our own choices! Please that’s disrespectful to blame people’s (who are full grown adults) behaviours on their parents/guardians (whoever raised them).

    • @bigbrownbabe
      @bigbrownbabe Рік тому

      True 👍. People make choices regardless of how they were raised.

  • @ntwenhlee
    @ntwenhlee Рік тому +26

    Its so sad...cause people are just miserable and hating on married people.. I pray we all heal from past relationships and not wish bad on working marriages...

    • @mrsx2596
      @mrsx2596 Рік тому +25

      Who is hating on married people 🤔🤔 I’m very married n I didn’t pick up anyone hating on me the only thing I heard was Owami giving a needed and great advise regarding married ppl, did you listen to this video because it looks like you didn’t 🤔

    • @vuyokazinocuze7603
      @vuyokazinocuze7603 Рік тому +4

      Hai wena no one is hating 🤣

    • @bigbrownbabe
      @bigbrownbabe Рік тому +11

      It sounds like you have a cheater a home 😂

    • @nontoncube8450
      @nontoncube8450 Рік тому

      ​@@bigbrownbabe😂😂😂😂

    • @kaysongo6785
      @kaysongo6785 Рік тому

      ​@@bigbrownbabe😂😂😂😅

  • @thebaddie391
    @thebaddie391 Рік тому +12

    Owamie unomoma shame. Cleanse your heart.

    • @Redbottoms1
      @Redbottoms1 Рік тому

      Mona wantoni?

    • @thebaddie391
      @thebaddie391 Рік тому +1

      @@Redbottoms1 lalelivideo so you don't ask unnecessary questions

  • @lifewithqueenSolo
    @lifewithqueenSolo Рік тому +10

    What kind of blind, stupid love is this one??? Making all kinds of excuses for the man & hating on the women he cheats with. I feel sorry for her because this man is still going to put her through the worst.

  • @AmandaN123
    @AmandaN123 Рік тому +60

    I agree with Owami on this one. Blame your man child not the other woman. I hate it when the wife labels the other woman a whore. Being spiteful to a child whom you knew about is evil. That husband has figured her out, she's a coward.

    • @sibongilemngomezulu3454
      @sibongilemngomezulu3454 Рік тому +5

      True to that,that's what I always tell my partner that I have no business dealing with a stranger that you decided to bring into our relationship will directly deal with the person am in a relationship with

  • @meltamafuma4793
    @meltamafuma4793 Рік тому +22

    I have learnt from you Owamie that men love themselves

  • @elenkiematsimela8797
    @elenkiematsimela8797 Рік тому +5

    The hypocrisy here lol😅😅😅. People must be allowed to live their lives the best way to know how....if someone decides to keep their cheating partner, thats on them.

    • @bigbrownbabe
      @bigbrownbabe Рік тому

      That's what Owaime said but 8t doesn't come your own conditions

  • @senamile_ngcobo
    @senamile_ngcobo Рік тому +14

    Ninja your opinion about the second child is incorrect here. Haka matorokisi means a train must pull its coaches and not leave them behind. Loosely translated to the child will be taken care of just like the first one. So it is misleading to say that the second child will not be taken care off whereas she didn't say that in the video

  • @angiegona4238
    @angiegona4238 Рік тому +17

    Some men Queen Ninja marry you because they trying to make up for fact that they got caught cheating🥴😭

  • @keepitfrankwithfentse
    @keepitfrankwithfentse Рік тому +2

    Aowa...some of these men are making moemishes out of women. Ladies...learn to put yourselves first!!! I am married but my husband is CLEAR on what my dealbreakers are. A child conceived whilst we are married would be it for me and I don't make idle threats..we even covered this topic in pre-marital counselling so we know we are on the same page. My father (God Rest His Soul) was so protective of me that any man who came into my life knew to walk into my life correctly.

  • @eudeciamainganya5012
    @eudeciamainganya5012 Рік тому +4

    And word on the street is that promise was not the initial wife, she bricked the first wife that was left for her when she was pregnant with their third child(the initial wife)...ALLEGEDLY!!!

  • @mollytlhaku8882
    @mollytlhaku8882 Рік тому +8

    ND that's the thing Promise o nyatsa batho...she thinks she is more intelligent than other people. So she not learning from other people so ends up being defensive

    • @lebogangmothobi245
      @lebogangmothobi245 Рік тому +1

      Yoooooooo... That's what I dislike about her... Lenyatso.

    • @dineomoeketsi408
      @dineomoeketsi408 Рік тому +2

      It's a defence mechanism she has had to build up coz divorced women kept coming for her on tiktok. Even the so called baby mamas and sidechicks ganged up on her with divorced tiktokers to try and embarrass her. So this story is way too deep if you are only catching up on youtube. Owamie will never tell you everything. She will only tell her side of the story.

    • @KbMercy605
      @KbMercy605 Рік тому +1

      She lacks self-introspection whereas she claims to be attending mental health sessions … Promise has anger issues

  • @mandisandlovu20
    @mandisandlovu20 Рік тому +10

    she was trained to tolerate that cause yhooo where she comes from they dont devorce . actualy iI know her personally from Tafelkop. let her close her mouth cause she was trained tat cheating is nothing. even if she finds the husband sex tape she will still blame the woman.

  • @LIVE___
    @LIVE___ Рік тому +26

    Heal Owamie, you chose to divorce your husband, it’s fine, no one is judging you. She chose to stay with hers, let her be.
    Enjoy your divorce in peace without painting marriage as a bad thing, it’s like you’re always waiting to hear something bad about people’s marriages so you can say “I told you marriage is bad”…The negativity!😮

    • @vuyokazinocuze7603
      @vuyokazinocuze7603 Рік тому +10

      How did she paint marriage as bad ? I think Owamie is healed the person who needs a reality check is the one with a cheating husband and makes marriage look like is her happy place while there is chaos. Just because Owamie is divorced it doesn’t mean she shouldn’t comment on toxic and unhealthy marriages 🫢

    • @leesomz8876
      @leesomz8876 Рік тому +9

      I am not married..have never been married..but I 100% agree with Owamie…you just don’t forgive a cheating man..let alone a man who makes people pregnant while you are in the picture..the fact that there are children involved means the husband doesn’t use any form of protection when he’s cheating..so ma’am what about diseases?….y’all are really not scared of diseases hey..and it’s sad

    • @bigbrownbabe
      @bigbrownbabe Рік тому +6

      The point Owaime made went over your head . I would disagree with her if she said marriage is bad . Nothing wrong with marriage , it's the person you choose to marry who is bad.
      It's simple .

    • @triciakekana
      @triciakekana Рік тому +2

      A cheating person needs to go. Non negotiable please. Leave Owamie alone she's healed

    • @nolubynature9513
      @nolubynature9513 Рік тому

      This is why men will stay cheating on good women because of such enabling mentalities...marriage is not bad, but a marriage where you are being played is 😂...no man would stick around for that crap, but it seems women would like to think it's okay smh!

  • @violetmakhafola
    @violetmakhafola Рік тому +8

    This woman got married to this man just to prove a point to the woman who he cheated with how stupid is she to even think was right to talk about it ...am sure this man is loaded

  • @NomNom22398
    @NomNom22398 Рік тому +22

    The way you see things is proper, Promise is in her delulu era and it’s sad cause she is grown, the husband probably supports both kids.

  • @maitemmonwa4142
    @maitemmonwa4142 Рік тому +29

    I think Owami needs to give her opinion not based on her emotions. Girl you need to heal and not take everything that has to do with marriage to heart. If she pretends to be happy while she's miserable what does that have to do with anyone? Promise chose to handle things the way she saw best fit. I don't get why you are so bothered sis.

    • @vuyokazinocuze7603
      @vuyokazinocuze7603 Рік тому +13

      But is Owamie not a blogger who comments on everything? Did she not talk about Seemah and Cyan ? She comments on everything moss !

    • @bigbrownbabe
      @bigbrownbabe Рік тому +5

      Owaime makes video about people who are fake in case you've not seen her other videos

    • @masindipertuniafulufhelo2284
      @masindipertuniafulufhelo2284 Рік тому +1

      Ebo weeh😮 Munwe promise khoyu

    • @nolubynature9513
      @nolubynature9513 Рік тому +1

      Okay but when are we going to hold men accountable for their choices to cheat in marriage?😂

    • @GeminiJune0608
      @GeminiJune0608 Рік тому +2

      Haybo put emotions aside. She's telling the truth. Whn it comes to cheating, why must we take the man's side🤷‍♀️...men will embarrass you sana!

  • @tandokazincatsha9997
    @tandokazincatsha9997 Рік тому +5

    Promise- what was the reason my sister? Why bring so much drama to your family!😂 Don’t bring your family shenanigans to the internet 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @themphasanes
    @themphasanes Рік тому +5

    We really should normalise sorting out our men’s first before player 2.

  • @tibuCooks
    @tibuCooks Рік тому +6

    I was disappointed, I didn't know about the baby mama's and I actually thought it was one of those healthy relationships where the wife just adores the husband and the event was to give positive advice, not that baby mama talk. I really dislike struggle love shem.

  • @nthabelengkubeka5073
    @nthabelengkubeka5073 Рік тому +8

    Funny how many married women don’t support each other. I’m judging them. Anyhu great initiative

  • @Yassmiinn.
    @Yassmiinn. Рік тому +36

    “The blogger they blog about honey
    The best in the game”
    Yes Queen! ❤️ 👑

  • @aliceneba
    @aliceneba Рік тому +23

    men are very calculative when it comes to women and marriage

    • @ntokotoPM
      @ntokotoPM Рік тому +3

      I'm taking notes from men

    • @Mowizzy1
      @Mowizzy1 Рік тому

      ​@ntokotomn2316 Taking notes from men is the best thing a woman can ever do for herself. It's a dog eat dog world and men are the biggest doggies😂😂😂😂

  • @boitumelobogoshi3824
    @boitumelobogoshi3824 Рік тому +4

    Aowa owamie about her friend she said “you must look at me in my eyes when we 🥂or you will have 7yrs of a bad sex”she didn’t say that abt her friend hle

  • @OumieMogari
    @OumieMogari 9 місяців тому +1

    Owa,but,what is the logic behind talking and discussing someone(Promise) in their absence,when they cannot be granted opportunity to respond or defend herself,Queen-Ninja hleee??

  • @Buggz
    @Buggz Рік тому +2

    Just because you love your husband it doesn’t mean that you automatically love his kids nje abruptly? Accepting the kids yes, but the phrase you are “supposed to love” like it’s forced. If mothers inlaw can hate makotis but still love their sons, why are wives told they are supposed to love their husbands kids ?
    I say it’s best if you say “accept your husbands kids and treat them good, also try get to know them so you can be able to love them”

  • @leratoseopela2754
    @leratoseopela2754 Рік тому +2

    Owami you spoke like the President ❤❤❤

  • @LocalEdits_v8j
    @LocalEdits_v8j 11 місяців тому +2

    Your husbands kids are not your husband, they are their own person, they are your partners history in human form, you should be accepting of them if they came before you but poetry of you’ll love his kids if you love him, life has shown me is not always unrealistic & an unfair expectation to the person who did not choose to have them, sometimes the love grows sometimes it does not, & that is the reality of it.

    • @sweetpotato6728
      @sweetpotato6728 8 місяців тому +2

      This is so honest. I think people just like humbling women by making them feel responsible for a man's actions. It's good to be a positive adult in the stepkids' life, but you don't owe them anything. It's an unfair expectation on anyone to want them spread themselves thin for kids whose mothers are still alive.

    • @JaniceCampbell-ss6yo
      @JaniceCampbell-ss6yo 3 місяці тому

      My husband outside kids should ger maintenance and he should spend time with them outside our home. Their mother chose to have them on the outside, and that where they'll exist. When mine and hers grow up, they can form a relationship if they choose to.

  • @veronicalizekamemani8673
    @veronicalizekamemani8673 Рік тому +2

    Accept Owamie not love. Not even a court can force any parent to love the child but accept and support

  • @ponegomaipushe
    @ponegomaipushe Рік тому +13

    Yhoo this video is all over the place yhoo. Actually let me stop here because you are basically saying things that promise said so there is no tea here. Let us school you too, “haka matorokisi” means join the line. So she is accepting the second child too. Yhoo rest owami rest!!!!!!

    • @dare2be520
      @dare2be520 Рік тому +6

      She’s emotional about a situation that does not involve her

    • @NomsaMayo
      @NomsaMayo Рік тому

      Huu...la bora hleng

  • @lifedocumentaries6940
    @lifedocumentaries6940 Рік тому +4

    I knew that something was wrong. Basadi

  • @nondumisomhlongo
    @nondumisomhlongo Рік тому +7

    Promise will come for you😂

  • @kms708
    @kms708 Рік тому +4

    When she said haka matorokisi she meant the second baby will be taken care of as well. As this is not the first time she will be taking care of her husband's son

    • @keamogetswevalentine
      @keamogetswevalentine Рік тому +3

      That is my understanding too.

    • @nokomoabelo8091
      @nokomoabelo8091 Рік тому +2

      I mean that was my understanding aswell. And that is actually what she meant but you know when you want to see something wrong, you will see it even when it’s not there.

  • @misstidimalo
    @misstidimalo Рік тому +7

    Ninja please correct the link in the description box so we subscribe. It says link broken at this moment

  • @m_motso
    @m_motso Рік тому +6

    She sounds bitter and she should be directing the bitterness towards the husband not the other woman

  • @margaretlesoleso
    @margaretlesoleso 8 місяців тому +1

    First owammie bashing men with mistresses, now another woman is talking about her husband, she's still bashing the lady! 😱😱. Entlek, Oprah's lite, u batlang?. I'm confused🤸🤸‍♂️🤸‍♀️🤸🤸‍♂️🤸‍♀️

  • @I_am_Gee_
    @I_am_Gee_ Рік тому +4

    I’m a comfortably married woman and I agree totally with you Owami. Mrs M is okay for praising her husband but she belittle other women. I love how you address she must take notes.

    • @thebaddie391
      @thebaddie391 Рік тому +3

      Owamie did the same when she was married. Owamie has become what she used to bash when she was married and nje i will not even be surprised when the story comes out ukuthi she is dating someone who has someone because she is too much of a hypocrite

    • @bigbrownbabe
      @bigbrownbabe Рік тому

      ​@@thebaddie391she did address the woman her husband has an affair with on UA-cam . However I don't think she will date someone's man. It would ruin her brand

  • @pearlmahlati1366
    @pearlmahlati1366 Рік тому +8

    She made it seem like the girl wanted to “destroy” her relationship

    • @Yassmiinn.
      @Yassmiinn. Рік тому +4

      And no one can destroy your relationship without your/your partner's permission.

  • @dineomoeketsi408
    @dineomoeketsi408 Рік тому +19

    Promise disses you divorced women coz you imposed your opinions on her content niche. You used to gang up on her on tiktok, making shady videos responding to her content in a negative way. Implying that she is a fool for fighting for her marriage. She decided to represent the married woman on social media and yall divorced women started coming for her calling her "my husbabd this my husband" that because she chose to fight for her marriage. No one imposed their opinions on you on social media when you were married, evem doing videos calling yourself a good wife. At the end of the day the internet is big enough for different opinions. Some women fight for their marriages and will not dump their husband and destroy their childrens lives because the husband cheated and they also deserve to share their perspective on life. So its crazy to me that ya'll want them to shut up, so we only have the voices of divorced women and thots & sidechicks on the internet. Let them share their struggles we want to see married women as well. Just because it makes no sense to you it does not mean that they should shut up. Leave Promise to fight for her marriage without you forcing her to leave. Let her be. That baby mama should also stop bullying Promise, why must Promise be kind to her when she is clearly bullying her. Until she learns how to accept the situation and live in peace Promise is not obligated to take care of her child. Once you have kids you compromise for your kids even if you dont like the wife.

    • @mahlogonolophokanoka7183
      @mahlogonolophokanoka7183 Рік тому +5

      I'm with you on this one.

    • @dineomoeketsi408
      @dineomoeketsi408 Рік тому +3

      @@mahlogonolophokanoka7183 They need to let Promise be and create her own content in peace. If it ends in tears then that's for her to deal with instead convincing her to just drop everything and divorce her husband and quit on her family. Not every married woman wants to do that.

  • @tumisomoagi6383
    @tumisomoagi6383 Рік тому +17

    You are schooling us Owamie , men love themselves 😍❤️🥰❣️

    • @rabelanirabs6099
      @rabelanirabs6099 Рік тому

      "men love themselves" that's it! That is the whole explanation of everything that has men within it by itself, #period

  • @senzelokuhlenkabini6004
    @senzelokuhlenkabini6004 Рік тому +9

    Men will marry you for your teachers pension, not because they love you more 🤞🤣. Akere when you "suddenly die" he will get 50% of that R1 million rands.

    • @musie_mt867
      @musie_mt867 Рік тому +1

      And the children will also benefit 😂

    • @senzelokuhlenkabini6004
      @senzelokuhlenkabini6004 Рік тому +4

      @@musie_mt867 Yep, and then try to get their money as well, if the kids refuse he will then see them as an enemy. That's why so many kids become homeless after their mothers die.

  • @NomsaMayo
    @NomsaMayo Рік тому +4

    Can you please give us a Tour of your apartment/ or just the office..

  • @thebaddie391
    @thebaddie391 Рік тому +2

    Owamie you have no right telling Promise anything

  • @mokgadimasoga9527
    @mokgadimasoga9527 Рік тому +4

    Eish Ninja please go and look what haka matorokisi means

  • @kwandaokuhle3639
    @kwandaokuhle3639 Рік тому +13

    When is Owamie Entertainment coming back, it’s been far too long😢

    • @Ongezwa_Ntsepe
      @Ongezwa_Ntsepe Рік тому +3

      And there are videos I want to re watch😢

  • @busibokaba2816
    @busibokaba2816 Рік тому +31

    I'm just not understanding this whole thing now, I believe that if exchange words and block each other it means that we don't care about each other. You talking about her it speaks volumes. And you are totally elaborating her own story with your own words and emotions. The gal who made her and her husband break up she was her friend. And you also went through your struggles without being judged.... Let us be real please...

    • @dare2be520
      @dare2be520 Рік тому +10

      Owamie can be a hypocrite sometimes haii

    • @tarlealebopo5969
      @tarlealebopo5969 Рік тому +8

      Owamie is spitting facts! Promise made a choice to forgive her febing husband (who's actually the one who owed her loyalty) so Promise doesn't not get to decide for her husband to not support his own child!

    • @busibokaba2816
      @busibokaba2816 Рік тому +1

      @@tarlealebopo5969 I think FACTS goes hand in hand with evidence.

    • @shopandunboxwithme8791
      @shopandunboxwithme8791 Рік тому +2

      Owamie forgets she used to speak about Big Guy's side chick

    • @tarlealebopo5969
      @tarlealebopo5969 Рік тому

      @@busibokaba2816 so Promise saying it herself is not proof enough?😂😂🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @juicyPeacefulNews
    @juicyPeacefulNews Рік тому +3

    I know u got the courage to leave your marriage ,but who was judging you when you were taking your husband and forcing him to break up with the lady at the road??? Yes we love you buh for some1 who bekezelad before like you ,you should not judge promise.Chao

    • @mirandasibiiya8851
      @mirandasibiiya8851 Рік тому +3

      She’s still bitter ey

    • @juicyPeacefulNews
      @juicyPeacefulNews Рік тому

      @@mirandasibiiya8851 imagine,she of all people should understand n be patient with Promise

  • @Gabby.2490
    @Gabby.2490 Рік тому +5

    The coughing part ninja 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @thebaddie391
    @thebaddie391 Рік тому +2

    Within her rights when she wasn't married... double standards Owamie.

  • @Keekeembhele
    @Keekeembhele 11 місяців тому +1

    Ey watched an episode of hers and hai sana it’s giving delulu is the solulu. She takes zero accountability and blames side chicks for men’s behaviour 😂😂 I’d say typical wife but not all wives are so naive. She gives that energy of mothers who will tell their daughters to bekezela in a toxic marriage

  • @thandeka_meriey
    @thandeka_meriey Рік тому +2

    Promise said that her husband told her that he's not sure whether the baby is his or not, so how can promise accept a baby that her husband is denying? Go and rewatch the episode

  • @Nicoenicky20
    @Nicoenicky20 Рік тому +8

    I had a baby with my then boyfriend when he was no longer with his 1st babymama, well he was lying they were together the whole time and I didn’t know. In the beginning she didn’t want to hear anything understandably so. As time went on she had to accept the situation for what it was because she chose to stay with him. Now we are all in good terms and the kids have a good relationship. She has to accept all of them or let that man go

    • @nothandodube7573
      @nothandodube7573 Рік тому

      No she doesn't. People don't have to accept other women's kids. They don't.

  • @fatimaakin7140
    @fatimaakin7140 Рік тому +5

    “People who are raised right don’t date married woman??? Wasn’t your mother a second wife to your father? What are
    You trying to tell us about your mother my ninja?? Don’t throw stones when you live in a glass house. And no I’m not a sidechick. Happily married this side

    • @tezulumagagula
      @tezulumagagula Рік тому +3

      That means the man wanted ipolygamy hence they got married and not just jolad. Also the 90s and now were a different time. We are now modern.. the 90s were pushed by culture.. culturally we were still all about polygamy..not everyone but most people especially in rural areas. Right now.. at this point in time, we don't want to mimic our mothers

    • @fatimaakin7140
      @fatimaakin7140 Рік тому +3

      Yes they obviously had to date before getting married. All I’m saying is let’s be practical when discussing other people’s lives

    • @sithembokuhlentuli4790
      @sithembokuhlentuli4790 Рік тому +1

      The 90s are similar to the current times musa ukuba nehaba making the 90s the 1800s.

    • @tezulumagagula
      @tezulumagagula Рік тому

      @@sithembokuhlentuli4790if you actually believe that, you and I have nothing intelligent to talk about

    • @jabulilekhoza7617
      @jabulilekhoza7617 Рік тому

      My mom was a third wife, my parents never dated and my mom married a virgin. So you can’t compare the two generations. The rules are different now. People back then married as virgins they didn’t sleep with married men first.

  • @gugulethundlovu9150
    @gugulethundlovu9150 Рік тому +13

    "There's something your husband loved about her...find out and mimic it" 😏😏 what a drag!

  • @chantellebooysen8351
    @chantellebooysen8351 Рік тому +1

    I love what you say on part 1 about love your husband kids and support them. Mara your part 2 is nonsense. Why should promise go to the side chick and ask advice. Guys promise husband is a change man no longer cheating, why are we still talking about his past

  • @mollytlhaku8882
    @mollytlhaku8882 Рік тому +3

    mara Promise o wa Lena o naive. I heard her blaming the other woman that she's after her from 2016😮😮😮 aaa...with the man that voluntarily slept with that woman that hated her. She needs help

  • @kaymab011
    @kaymab011 Рік тому +5

    Owamie are you trying to start a UA-cam fight with promise makunyane now?

  • @Nkelemash-ch8kf
    @Nkelemash-ch8kf Рік тому +1

    I see the husband making the third and the fourth child since she decided to stay in this marriage 😢

  • @gugubiyela2027
    @gugubiyela2027 Рік тому +1

    I still don’t understand why she’s putting blaming that woman yoh bathong someone please call Ayanda Ncwane to pray for her ngoba hai these a lot going on🤞🏾father god

  • @kaonetsatsi4121
    @kaonetsatsi4121 Рік тому +3

    Hey Ninja... but if you say that she should find out from the side, what her husband likes, then it means that the husband is cheating because of what the wife lacks. I dont believe that is correct. Man will cheat if they want to, it has nothing to do with the other person.
    Otherwise, loved your commentatory.

  • @violetmakhafola
    @violetmakhafola Рік тому +2

    That woman queenlee she knew all this and now Mrs change the story which stil make her look stupid

  • @rainne5049
    @rainne5049 Рік тому +2

    And she wasn’t in the picture when he had the kid. Be ele the girl’s boyfriend and her(promise) EX. She went back to him.

  • @pamellayantolo3797
    @pamellayantolo3797 Рік тому +2

    I didn't know Promise after this I'm going to watch 😂😂😂😂.

  • @kganyakoma3121
    @kganyakoma3121 24 дні тому

    "Find out what it is and mimick it"😭!

  • @lebogangphatlane1709
    @lebogangphatlane1709 Рік тому +1

    Why you so invested in her life when u blocked her, such a nerve. Yhu sis omdala