Day in a life of a loner with no social life (I tried to be social today) (vol.3)
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- Опубліковано 16 гру 2024
- Hii this is my third video of me vlogging my experience as a loner. Today I tried to get out of my comfort zone and talk a little bit more. That obviously didn’t work since I barely sense no on talked to me and I got rejected LMAOO. But tysm for watching and I hope you guys enjoy🖤🖤❤️
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0:38 This interaction is exactly what people with social anxiety think is gonna happen when they try to talk to someone.
Fr 😭😭 This always happens to me
That was a very rude no also :/
Just shows how real the anxiety is and that it actually does happen.
real
yeah, i have social anxiety eh
Because that is what happens. Mostly just get ignored
no one deserves to be treated like this. the way she said “no” made me sad, that’s how you know those people are bad. i would be your friend, even if i were treated like this with you
update: were friends now :]
How is it rude to refuse ig she did sound kinda mean cause she laughed otherwise it’s not mean she just didn’t want them 2 sit by them
lol it sounds SO fake and staged
@@kittenwonyi don’t think it’s staged, but i mean u do u
@@uri-rani the voices just seem very staged, it’s just overall unnecessary to film this…
“No” is insane 😭😭
That’s just mean
it's probably because you have a camera on you recording
you 50% true@@General-GreyW
It has to be staged cuz what 😭
@@GNW-4 its most likelu not staged. People are js actually like this, its sad.
0:38 ok that “no” was rude asf. I’m also a loner in high school with social anxiety and I know how it feels to be alone with no friends. Even I got rejected a whole bunch of times. Getting rejected hurts, but I’m proud of you for getting out of your comfort zone and trying to make new friends! I would be your friend any day of the week! Keep up the good work!
Edit: I am talking about the tone of voice when she said no. She said it in a rude tone.
No ain’t rude but it’s just the way she said it💀
I think they're friends now... She asked again the next day and she actually said yes. In volume 5, she actually spent the lunch with her.
It’s not really rude, it depends on the tone. The person can decide who sits with them.
Womp Womp
Womp womp you loser 🤪🤪
things will get better. right now, i’m SO proud of you for even trying to initiate conversations. even if you got rejected, building up the courage to ask can be extremely difficult!! that girl had some big ego, and i’m sure any normal person would be glad to have you sit with them. 💝
0:38 is something straight out of a teen comedy, bro how can someone be that comically rude
Probably a big ego. I mean, if they didn't want to, at least they could be more respectful (instead of "no", it could be "no need, thank you!") about it. Asking someone for people with social anxiety is the same as fighting the final boss.
I would’ve just said something like “sorry I can’t I’m gonna sit with my friends” cause there was no reason to be that rude fr
@@Bentley-fu1xwsame.
Also nice profile picture
@@JuicyBurger29 thanks
@@lukemichael8496 nobody gives that big of a shit to do so🤣🤣
alright, i'm gonna try and give some advice. i also had no friends for a long time. i was completely friendless up til sophomore year in highschool, had no friends at all during middle school and only one bestie in elementary school. so i know something about loneliness.
1. be confident. find other lonely people, or people who just seem nice, and approach them. this is the nerve wracking part for me, but usually, i don't even remember the people i got rejected by within a few days.
2. be kind to yourself. people / teens being rude is nothing new. they'll think you're weird for doing any little thing. know that you're doing just fine, you're not too weird or a loser or whatever. honestly, the most boring, negative, energy draining people are the ones who think that you're weird for just trying to make friends. you're brave as hell for even trying, while they're stuck with the same group that they'll probably never see again anyway after graduation.
3. learn to not care! this is pretty important, i think. because yeah, it'll be embarrassing af, but it won't be like that forever. people think i'm weird because i'm a picky eater, of all things. people avoid me bc i wear all black. so just try to reassure yourself, bc there's nothing wrong with your personality or what you look like or anything. sometimes people are just rude, or they don't wanna be friends, which is whatever. we live with about 7 billion other people right now, there's definitely some kind friends waiting for you at your school.
why should you listen to me? you've already made some sympathetic friends online, here. the only difference between your high school and youtube is that youtube is more populated. if you can do it online, here, you can do it at your high school.
erm, actually, its 8 billion. ☝🤓
@@pIanty lol. 8 billion, then.
I just talk to other ppl who have no friends so i make friends
Confidence blah blah blah be happy and funny blah blah
honestly straight up being told “no” bites, but it’s not embarassing. there’s nothing embarrassing about trying to step out of your comfort zone and improving yourself.
showing your interests like wearing merch from media you like could help you connect with people with similar interests, even if it may be kinda embarassing at first. you can do it!!
Y si esa persona actuó así por nervios y no quería ser grosera?
No soy esa persona pero creo que también por falta de información no hay que sacar conclusiones tan generales
Saying no to a question doesn't make you a douchebag
Fr, fzzx is speaking facts. You’re basically saying the only two reasons they would’ve said no is they were either having a bad day or just a dope? It’s ok to deny someone, especially if someone you don’t know randomly decides to ask to sit together
@@SquigglyMiggly14 ong
deadass looking back you’re all correct. That’s on me since I wasn’t really thinking bout that at the time.
0:24 I used to keep my bag closer because it’s the only thing i felt closest in the class
thats sad bro
@ it was but you know what you can’t let your past define you, now I don’t even carry a bag I get every single stationary from different friends at college.
Same, I used to put my backpack on the table to fill the empty space.
Dude that one person was rude for no reason and it literally broke my heart when you got rejected. But on a real note, just because you had that one negative experience doesn’t mean you should base your life on that negative experience. I know I had to get out of my comfort zone to talk to people and yes I’ve been rejected many times before. But I still kept pushing because I knew there were people out there like me who shared common interests. What I’m trying to say is that it takes time to make friends and that you should try to talk to people who share common interests. Maybe you see other lonely people in the halls that could use someone to talk to. You never know what they’re going through at the moment. Remember you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. Stay safe my friends and sending positive vibes ❤❤❤
He literally said "no". IF "no" us rude to you please actually get outta your comfort zone.
@@Somerandomturkiefr bro all these people so sensitive
You can say no, but maybe don’t giggle after and make fun of a person who asked.
@Somerandomturkie I thought I was being too harsh with my comment that was similar to your criticism, but I suppose alot of the people here get easily offended and sensitive (I say this as a sensitive and emotional person myself, as I was confused on why the majority in the comments were coming up with their own conclusions)
BRO THAT “NO” WAS RUDE ASF
As a loner myself, I promise it’ll get better 🙏
I have only 1 friend at my school, but it’s been keeping me going, your doing great!
ikr? If you reject someone you don’t even know, at least be polite. It matters!
maybe the person sitting down was shy, and didn't want to be recorded online. we never know tho and yea i feel bad for the creator
It’s hard to make friends. When my bestie isn’t around I’m just alone. I try to go with another friend during lunch but it felt like I was ignored so I just left the group to another friend. 😭
@@lovffle oh im sorry. i felt the same for most of my life. rn im tryna come out of my shell but yea its pretty hard
it wasnt rude at all. it might be embarrassing and hurt alot, but she has a right to say no
“no” just means they weren’t the right person for you, but i am sure things will get better for you whether it’s sooner or later and either way is fine ❤ my last year of middle school to sophomore year highschool were just like this, it’s comforting knowing other people have had or are going through the same experiences as i did. i wish the best of luck for you in the future!!! 🎉🎉🎉
Bro the exact story happens to me, especially from 8th grade when I always afraid of challenging people but my liken cafeteria seat around them cause me to make a close friend, which named Kyle. In a comfortable environment in the cafeteria. Due to his personality being the same to me I still connect with him today!
although you got rejected, it’s a good thing! that person obviously wouldn’t like you for YOU. you should still be proud you even tried! please keep trying to make friends you WILL find someone for you! 💞🙏
I'm 34. I was the girl in HS who was friends with everyone, which gave me leverage when I saw someone bullying. I used that to put bullies in their place, and I tried to befriend those I saw sitting alone. Not everyone I tried to help wanted my friendship, and that's okay. I felt good just offering it. Many people loved me for it, though. I became this person from being the most bullied kid in my middle school, then moving to a new district, so the kids didn't already have a history of ostracizing me. When I started making all of these new friends, and saw others being bullied- I just stood up for what was right. Things just kinda fell into place like that. I don't know if this video is real or played out, but the "no" rejection broke my heart. I would have loved for someone to ask me that. I know it's hard to be trusting of others, and it's hard to open up, but you could change a lot of things for yourself and for others by doing so. ❤️
I'm sorry :( As a former loner, I know how terrible it can feel. Just please remember that failure is normal, and keep trying to put yourself out there. I promise it gets better
WTFFF YOU SEEM LIKE SUCH A COOL PERSON - PPL ARE SO RIDICULOUS LIKE THAT ACTUALLY MAKES ME MAD… anyways, from sm1 with social anxiety, you’re SUPER brave for going up to sm1 to even ask to sit w/ them. Love your style, love your music taste,, hopefully the ppl at your school actually treat you the way you deserve to be treated bc like tf..?! Keep being you! ❤
Such a cool person? Someone who says nothing the whole day??
SHUT UP SHES TRYIBG HER BEST ASSHOLE!
@@Durtle. Yeah,, you don't need words to be cool. And if you think you do then maybe you just aren't 🤷
@@boxxyinnit that was a horrible line but listen I was just like this kid, I wouldn’t talk and was alone but I learned that no one will feel bad for you, you can’t just sit around and wait for someone to say hi your gonna have to do it yourself and that’s how I changed, but don’t get setback because one person said no
Also for the record, no, you would not sit with him if you were at this school, I just don’t believe it, your only saying it because your in his UA-cam video but if you didn’t you would probably not even notice him
@@Durtle. sure, maybe that's true. but guess what, he's still cool. cool in my definition is whatever i decide i want it to be. i'm sorry for your experiences as a kid but guess what, this is just a youtube video's comment section. nothing we say here really matters all that much. thanks for sharing your opinion and all but mine stays the same. I think he's cool, words or not
Continue trying to talk to people even if you get rejected sometimes because you'll find someone at some point. Maybe that person just liked solitude and wanted to stay alone. My bestie used to be like that before we became friends. You'll find a friend at some point Don't worry.
"No" well u know whats the worst thing they can say? u got rejected this time and even though you felt embarrassed you made a move today unlike any other day and tried and thats amazing! it didnt went as you want now but that doesnt mean that u will always get rejected. I hope you keep on trying till u find the good ppl u deserve
TIP- i used to be a loner, put yourself out in CLASSES! Make jokes, try to find interests with other people. Make sure you seem presentable too. Good posture, no mopey face, and just get through it! Wishing you the best!! ⭐️
i agree hard on this, I used to kind of think being socially active in class was something only reserved to the popular people, but this year I realized that it was just a pointless barrier, and i've been a lot more social and I like classes a lot more now.
And the craziest part about this experience is that no one who hasn't been through it can understand. Being alone and silent all day every day for years is something where you really can't just imagine what it's like, you just have to actually know. Crazily enough, I made it out of this, I have friends now and it's really great, but my years of being a 'loner' really affected who I am today and I can still feel it following me around even though I've had friends for over a year now. But I definitely didn't put as much effort into putting myself out there as you did here! Keep doing that and try to trust the process. And remember that you are not defined by the people around you.
0:39 Broke my heart :(
Player: Can I sit with you😀😀
NPC: Naoo! 😆
@@Austination316Lmao
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@@Austination316lol
@@xhimibeqiri4405thanks
I would be your friend! Hope your life gets better
you dont even know them, wrong choice of words pal
@@The_serenaderI agree with both statements, like you don’t know her but you never know what type of person she is
@@The_serenaderbruh are u trying to say she’s a bad person? We can’t Judge a book by her cover
No you wouldn’t
@@That_weird0_katie not saying she is a bad person, I’m saying she could be, so you never know
NO? I’m really sorry. Please keep trying, and don’t let this one person dictate how you see people. There are nice people in your school believe me. I was completely alone for a year of my schooling, it was the worst year of my life and I would never wish it upon anyone else. I know that embarrassing feeling. Hope your doing ok 💗
pls dont ever let people like these get to you🙏🙏 The fact that they said no shows that they just weren't meant to be part of your life. Never stop socializing and you'll eventually find real, good friends. I know it will seem embarrassing at first, but you'll slowly build up the confidence to socialize even more. I used to be insanely insecure and awkward.. to the point where I stayed away from almost everyone I saw😭But after learning to love and accept myself, and a few failed socializing attempts, I became more confident and now i have some close friends. Keep being yourself and giving less of a shit of what others think of you, and you'll definitely attract the right people!!! I hope this helps
the “no” is the reason I have social anxiety and was a loner in high school. Rejection is one of my biggest fears
its a thing you shouldnt care about my friend, if they reject you in a good way its fine, if they do it in a bad way, there could be many reasons. Theyre just having a bad day or they are assholes. Hope u wont experience anymore those things tho
@@gabry5433 thank you so much. I’m trying to get over it by combating the fear with forcing myself to socialize. So it’s getting better ☺️
Respect for that person for being honest and not doing something that would make them uncomfortable
True. I feel bad for the poster because they got rejected, but why are the comments so negative assuming that person who rejected them is a horrible scum just because they didn’t want to sit next to someone? And they were getting partly filmed, which can be seen as impolite on the posters end. There are definitely better ways to comfort and support the person who made this video. Do hope the best for them though, I’ve been through some similar stuff and it’s tough.
@@staeriixThey're hypocrites, assuming someone rude is probabely the reason why people assume things about them that they don't wanna be friends with them
@@staeriixIKR. youre recording his FUCKING FEET. OFC HES GONNA SAY NO!!!
You didn't embarrass yourself, you tried ! For tomorrow, try to ask to at least 10 different persons, rejection is a win, acception is a win too : in either case you won because you tried ! Continue like this, I'm sure you will do it ! ♡
If I went to your school I'd feel so ashamed to say "No" like that, girl you are amazing! The confidence is something not even I have to do, so I am going through the same things.
They way they said “No” is crazy, I’m kind of a mix between introvert and extrovert, I get nervous around random people but whenever I make a friend I get really comfortable around them and talk a lot, but I would still let someone sit with me even if I didn’t know them.
This brings me back to high school, I had plenty of friends in my previous school but we moved states in my last two years. Everyone had their clique and I spent my days in the toilet or in the library, the idea of being alone was so foreign to me, I had always been the glue of a close knit group or the nice person taking people in during projects of if they were new, it was really tough and probably had me at the worst points of my life so far. People always left an awkward one seat empty next to me and I was always counting down minutes to home time. But don’t worry, one day you will find your way. Uni is amazing for me, everyone is practically solo studying and being alone isn’t too bad. Uni forces high schoolers out of their clique so that gave me a chance to make friends. I think vlogging is a wonderful idea to maybe allow others to relate and understand that on a large scale we aren’t alone. To whoever is reading this, keep your head up!
I always have struggled making friends so I often wait for them to come to me. The way she said no was heart breaking and my biggest fear. I’ve made friends now and I always observed them quietly to see how they treat others to try and see who are the least likely to act like that. I hope you have better interactions and don’t give up!
seeing other shy people try to go a little more out there is always an inspiration for other awkwards. Just keep trying and hopefully you’ll get there, keep it up :)
I hope u find ur people who will love u no matter what x
Oh my god dude despite being homeschooled and having 0 human interactions I can tell you, you to me have to be the coolest most confident person I have ever seen going up to ask someone to sit with you is a perfect start just because they said no doesn't mean you should stop trying untill you find the right people I hope I get to see the video where your happy with your new good friends. As someone who knows that they could never have any real in person friendships I'm very excited to see you meet and find the right people that will brighten your life please continue to communicate to others and step out of your comfort zone I know that it may feel embarrassing or uncomfortable now but trust me you'll wish you had done it sooner when you realize that it's worth it. I know how it feels to be embarrassed or socially awkward but I can tell from this video that your not that your a confident cool fun talented person that I would most certainly be friends with if I had the chance to be. Flaunt your personality and dont be afraid to be yourself because who you are is someone awesome. Everyone here on the Internet are here for you and rooting for you.
Remember frendo rejection is protection. I would rather be alone than to be with someone who is mean. Every no from a human is a yes from the universe encouraging you to keep trying and never give up. Don’t let your spark fizzle out. And if it has just bring it back! -love random person on the internet
i used to be like this too! but i actually managed to open up to people and i finally found friends that i genuinely like being with! keep trying and don’t give up, you can do this!
be yourself girl! don’t care about what other people think about you! I have 2 bullies but I don’t care! I just do what they do to me. so stand up for yourself! you’ll find the right person for you. ❤
edit: if you don’t feel better, here’s some more. im supposed to be doing my hw rn but my new goal is to make you feel better. you deserve to be treated better and cared for! tell your teacher about them! if they say your a tattletale, go up to them and say that they are stupid to think that you are just a toy to break apart. love yourself and keep loving.❤
even though you got rejected, still amazing you put yourself out there even it was just a little. overcoming social anxiety and things like that are super difficult and i truly believe you'll overcome this and make some friends by the end of the year as long as you keep trying : )
It’s good you’re making an effort to put yourself out there! As someone with social anxiety, I know how hard it is. You seem like a great and kind person! Keep loving yourself ❤
This is literally my high school life, I felt like an outcast, nobody wanted to sit with me, social anxiety and all that. This literally is so relatable.
honestly, i feel you on the "I'd rather stay a loner."
You should never have to *try* to make friends with people. Real friendships will find you first. You can make a thousand friends but have no meaningful relationships. That's why I just stopped, I stopped trying to project myself out socially and make friends with everyone in the world. I'll find my people.
DUDE- LISTEN- I USED TO KINDA BE LIKE YOU- *YOU CAN DO THIS I PROMISE*
Here are some conversation starters you can try ( and also, remember, if you try to talk to someone and it doesn’t go well and you’re embarrassed, it doesn’t matter!, at least you tried, and it’s just an awkward interaction if many you’ll have in your life, you can always learn, and they’ll probably forget you :) ):
“How has your day been doing?”
“How long have you been in this school for?”
“What do you like to do when you’re bored?”
“What re you going to do when you get home?”
“What’s something you’d like to try but haven’t done yet?”
“What’s your favorite/ least favorite class?”
Etc etc, I know it’s hard, but even though you didn’t talk to anyone today, I’m very proud of you for trying :), keep going, you did your best today, you’ll find people like you at one moment ( I can assure you I used to have no friends and now I have like 10+ )
don't do any of these as an opener besides the first one.
keep it casual, just a quick "hey how ya doin" is perfect
@@fractal6929 totally this, many people don't like others being too intrusive at the first talk, even if it's just small talk
yESSS
Don’t give up my dear girl, don’t be first to the people and tell from their own body language, and personality to see if they are interested in you.
Yo that sounded rehearsed lol “no!”
Respect for that person for being honest and not doing something that would make them uncomfortable
That was so BRUTALLY HONEST 😭
You already have a lot of support from your friends online and I doubt this will even be seen but if it does, don’t worry, if someone at your school can be brutally honest like that instead of bullying you that means people there know not to bully, this is a green flag for social interactions and sure it my be hard and embarrassing but it’S WAYYY better than being alone.
Subbed!! Most relatable thing I’ve seen my whole life. I’m currently in 11th grade and I don’t say a word all day, don’t have a single friend.
Here’s my story: I went to a catholic elementary school and my parents made me go to different high school then everyone else from my previous school was going to. So in 9th grade I made an effort to try and make new friends but people were literally so mean and rude, I got made fun of, rejected, all that!! So I gave up, and now for the rest of highschool I will remain a loser who has no friends
bro i feel u, but dont give up, trust me, you can only keep trying. They'll make fun of u anyways, so why not try. If u try there's nothing to lose. (this is coming from a loner too btw)
you just putting yourself there, even incrementally, and uploading these videos already sets you up for success :) i was severely mute and socially inept for a huge chunk of my childhood and i even dressed in all black and wore those same vans like you did LOL (still do :p) but it gets so much better even with just a little bit of effort . now im always leading group activities or speaking at events etc etc . just always remember you can always enjoy solitude and still be a social person , and to not force yourself into anything you know isnt for you . i wish you the best ! you seem like a sweet person and thatll be obvious to anybody who meets you :)
great comment
You are honestly amazing, i have social anxiety and i could never try to put myself out there more, i was just lucky that i was approached by good people
peak music taste, also the best friendships ive had came from having something in common, being a part of something together, or experiencing the same thing together
Omg this is my favorite song. Also dont let one person rejecting you get to your head, honestly their loss. Just keep putting yourself out there, and you'll find your people. Love your vids, God be with you ❤️
what's the song?
@@theinfamouspanda8883Younger than You by Whirr. Listen to the whole album cause it's peak
younger than you whirr
I wish I had someone making vlogs like this when I was in high school bc I thought I was the only one and if some random person came up to me and asked if they could sit with me I'd at least give them one day😭You are courageous and she missed out. Keep it up 🫂
Most people wouldn't even have the courage to film any of this. Good job. Please don't get discouraged and ask someone everyday. As a side, I'm really glad there's a revival of these more simple videos on YT again
This used to be me. Kids in high school can be so mean and so brutal, to the point where trying to strike up a conversation with one can be straight up terrifying. I respect your courage though. There’s no need to feel embarrassed about trying to put yourself out there. I’m 29 now and trust me, things do get better. Just keep your chin up and push through school and things will get better.
And just a little something I wanted to add - back when I was in high school, if a random kid went up to me and asked me if they could sit with me it definitely would have made my day. I think that girl was just very rude.
im going to follow you because I can relate as well and have really low social skills. you make me feel less alone in doing this. thank you and cheers to us both in becoming better and hopefully making more friends. you're not alone
i have a feeling you're gonna be one of my comfort youtubers to watch
0:45 You’re not embarrassing! That person who said “No!” was the embarrassing one! (If you don’t want someone to sit with you, you can tell them, but you should do so politely. Being rude is the embarrassing part.)
No she maybe doesnt like her
I'm like the poster of this video but let me say this: no one is obligated to accept your offer. There is nothing wrong with someone declining and if you think otherwise you're a narcissist.
Maybe because she didn’t like being filmed
Someone rejecting you is not always malicious or out to embarrass you. Plus she was being partly recorded, could be seen as impolite.
@@caradejjo Yes, but you should say it politely.
As an actual loner till now (working), I can tell you:-
1. School friends don't matter much until they do (if they do, but you usually meet them after leaving school). Otherwise, most of us find our crowd after school, when we're more comfortable with our skin and have a stable personality and have self-confidence.
2. When you find your crowd, they're way better than the ones people talk about in their stories. Because this way, you find people who actually fit you, not people who just happened to be in a place you probably don't enjoy with you.
3. All the best to you. Go for it if you want to make friends at school but if you don't get any at school, it's fine. I got all of mine not from school and we're way closer and always have fun and go wild every week as compared to my school mates.
Instead, you must do these:-
1. Have a great life.
2. Be yourself.
3. Have fun.
4. Go for activities you like, ie: sports, clubs, hobbies, even if you do it alone.
5. Curate or romanticise your school life like you're a character you like, ie: the main character, the awesome side character, the wholesome unknown character always helping animals, the cool and mysterious background character, etc.
6. Be kind to yourself, and most people, especially those deserving.
7. Have good hygiene, if you haven't already (due to lack of education, depression, anxiety, etc)
8. Smile to others and yourself and no one (like the sky or just in front of you or to a memory). It can trick your brain into thinking you're happy and releasing good brain chemicals to fix your mood.
If you do it all, pretty sure someone will come to you and say hi❤ I know because I've tried it many times. On days I walk with a dark cloud hanging over me, people avoid me like I smell. But even knowing all this, I still am known as the quietest person in the office of hundreds. Because at the end of the day, I enjoy my solitude and my own crowd outside of work. And if you want to, I can be your friend, but you have to let me know here 😂
I cannot even wrap my head around how somebody can reject you like that, please know she is not a good person. It's so good that you're putting yourself out there more; and even just showing up everyday is progress, people will start to notice. Trust me! Just keep your head held high and keep at it, You got this!
They said no. They could have started laughing and mocking them. "No" was light work considering they were pointing a fucking camera at their feet.
the phone filming only the floor literally represents how loners wanna hide from everyone and r too scared to look at other people cause they feel like they are being judged. I am a loner too and I wish you the best! I hope that better days will come and we will all have a gr8 social life with tons of friends!
I'm 25F. Im also lonely as hell. All my friends moved away. Its just me now. I just stumble too much in coversations and say awkward stuff sometimes 😢
Its hard for us loners out here....
man as someone who just turned 20, this is giving me really bad flashbacks to when I was still in highschool. Its a really hard time for a lot of people just try to get through as best as you can 💙
Unc 🙏🏻💀
I can’t relate, but…
There is this girl in my class. She has no friends, she stays alone all the time and eats alone as well.
Or, she USED to.
Until I came to her. On my first day of school, I sat with her, and even though she was weird, I didn’t mind her. She wants to be my best friend, but I had to deny since I already have one. But nevertheless, I always try my best to stay with her throughout the day. She is rude to most people, except me(for some reason?). She actually has a good personality, even if she acts weird and really cold most of the time.
As someone who is in exposure therapy for social anxiety I 100% understand you, If I knew you irl I would definitely be your friend!
you remind me of myself. it's hard to be alone, but it's also great. someone with social anxiety getting rejected like that is what makes it all worse. i always get embarrassed and ashamed, but i try to convince myself that nobody else cares. they don't bother to think about 'the loner', because you don't make an impression. i know that's a terrible way to think but that's how i work. the fact that you asked is as brave as it gets, so keep it up. im glad i discovered this channel, and i will be keeping up with the new posts :)
aww man. if anyone came up to me id say yes, especially you :D. prob cuz no one does, but eh. hope it gets better. i love this 'series' of vids at school, somthing i can actually relate to! becuz everyone is always talk about friends and school no one ever talk about the loners, or i dont see many. i now do online schooling, maybe you can do that? but some poeple have been there since kindergarden so i still get left out haha....anyways, i would totally be your friend!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰 i love you (not in a creepy way haha)
This perfectly captures all of the effects of a bad decision you’ve made at some point
Real
What decision?
She has to face the consequences 😎
Can’t even sit with anyone at school 😂
@@ItzNotJohnWayneur not slick bud
I’m so srry that happened, I don’t understand why ppl don’t wanna be ur friend. U seem so nice and cool but u have us!
I hate seeing people online that I would totally hang out with and then watch them just be rejected by someone or multiple people and it just pains me man
The fact that you're recording these video's means you've already found an outlet, which is great. It's okay to be lonely, you can either embrace it or try actively to make friends. That's all up to you!
This was me for the entirety of my highschool life, i graduate in 2025 and legit the only thing i talk to is my cat when im alone in my room
I cant belive that person just straight up said "no" lit so rude dude, this type of ppl makes us scared about making friends 😶 anyways she was a rude person
But im happy u took the courage to talk to somone even if that person turned out to be rude, its fine dw, u will find a good person soon ❤ we got you!
Finally, a relatable school vlog
One step at a time!!! Took a lot for me to even ask people for a pencil and such. You stepped out of your comfort zone and tried something different and that is admirable. I hope things get better!!!🎉🎉
I had to pause after that rejection... I'm so sorry that happened to you. It makes socialising so much more difficult when being faced by situations like this, but remember they are the mean person, not you.
I used to have a hard time in high school too. it's tough to be locked up in a building all day with people your age who scare you whilst you're going through awkward and self-conscious years. when I got into university, I suddenly loosened up and could talk well with random people, I suppose because I wasn't not constantly around that set group of people and could actually leave whenever I wanted to. It will get better, and life will change. High school is a very very short period of your life !!
Even if the person said no, u still were social and I’m proud of u for that. U got this and u are not alone ❤️
im kinda like you but i only speak when someone insults me to defend myself, which is like everyday.
Why do they insult you 😡😡
If i was around, i would put them in their place😊
@@Austination316you’re like 9 tfym
@@Austination316 because they are black
@jerry.marrero dont be comparing ages in this youtube shorts platform, in my opinion i think nobody except below the age of 16 watches shorts bro! Like me! But I'm also on reels
"No!"?!
That's so rude. Not even a "No thanks."
Anyways, you're not alone with this. I can relate to you. I hope you're alright. 💜
I mean, maybe they didn’t want to be recorded? coming up to someone like that can be seen as a bit impolite. but I do hope this person the best.
@@staeriixthey weren’t even recording them though? And they could have asked the recorder to not record them if they were planning to
@@jennah5990 even if it wasn’t their face, they were still pointing the camera straight at their direction. maybe they were just creeped out? I do think there was a better way to approach them. (not trying to hate on the poster though). sorry if I’m taking this too seriously or something, I don’t get why the comments are painting this person as some horrible person over one “no”.
@@staeriix i feel like they wouldn't have even noticed that they were being recorded bc the phone probably looked normal. people are saying that the person who said 'no' is mean is because of the tone and such, but over this singular interaction, i agree, we don't know enough about them or their day to outright write them off as someone evil or something.
Hey, I love how you’re doing this and making an effort to talk and communicate with people. Societal reform is based on the specific characteristics of someone, meaning that a majority of society’s idealistic values are based on personal associations that are not often considerate of other parties’ preferences. Especially among people your age. They’re more attentive and prone to alluring emotions exhibited, not in a generalized view of your character, but in only aspects they like and accept. This is how I think, and because of this, demotivates me into taking action and talking to people (despite how badly I want to). Yap yap, I love and hope you keep doing this. This takes a LOT of courage, coming from someone who often talks to themselves as a venting method. ❤take care, man, pursue what you want get it 🔥🔥
You did your best putting yourself out there. I’m so sorry to see the way you were treated. When high school finishes people are a lot different.
I WOULD BE YOUR FRIEND NO MATTER WHAT!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
ME TO WERE TO YOU LIVE ???👽👽👽
ME TOO
same me too
@@Msmilly_l i live on saturn
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Bro was too confident with that "No" 💀😖
I’m almost into the 3rd month of school and I’m already so done lmao. I transferred to a new school and I’ve literally tried everything I could to make friends, I tried my hardest to be social and everything, I tried to talk to people, when it was still early in school I tried to hype myself up to talk to one of my classmates, we talked for a while but it didn’t really go anywhere, I also tried hanging out with her but that didn’t really go anywhere either :’)
My friend who also transferred to a different school which is like an hour away from mine, she made friends so easily so now I’m just like “Oh” and I really can’t tell if I’m just the problem or if people just don’t like me. I hate how I’ve done literally all I can to make at least one friend, but nobody has really tried to like talk to ME, I don’t know if I just don’t seem approachable, I just wish somebody would come up to me, doesn’t matter which class, during lunch, freaking biology, before or afterschool, I just wish somebody came up to me and just seemed like they would actually want to be my friend or at least have a conversation with me. I’m also an only child so I don’t really have anyone to talk to at home either, at least my age, I also suck freaking ass at making friends online, maybe worse than irl so that’s fun, I’ve already spent like and year and a half without friends before so what’s a few more? I wouldn’t know if it gets better but damn school is a torture system for some ppl, like I get that I have the privilege to like learn important stuff and I’m grateful for that, but I mean like damn wtf, why do I have to be the loner of my school, even kids quieter than me have at least one friend.
but yeah sorry for the rant, its just this might actually be the first time in my entire life seeing something that I can actually relate to, but yeah I hope everything goes well for you and and someday a really awesome comes up to you and starts a conversation and you guys get to be friends for as long as you want.
might delete later, sorry for the rant again
DW things will get better some way, somehow. Good luck!
The person who said no is just being rude and annoying. Keep putting yourself out there you got this ❤️❤️❤️
Just so you know life is much more than high school. The things that seem important to you and everyone else will change a lot after you graduate. Just putting in effort to make a change in your life is one of the best things you can do for yourself. Ik socializing with new people as teenager or adult can be really embarrassing, or stressful, or just leave you feeling bad about yourself, but it’s worth it cuz it’s never too late to be where you wanna be in life. Keeping trying, it’ll work out 💪
Also at 0:45 she’s the embarrassing one for acting rude as hell lol
Awwww people r so mean these days bro ☹️ I would've said yes lol, I hope ur doing well tho!!
I am thank uu :)
@@Kkrgsswatch Tyler jones he makes videos on. How 2 overcome social anxiety well you might have something else idk can’t tell but he makes videos about being open
hope lyfe gets bettr 4u
sometimes i wonder if normal people see me alone and wonder if im just weird or if they can tell im js always sad and dey feel bad 0:57
95,000 people watching the journey is insane 😭
hope you're ok ❤
The fact half the people think that the girl saying “No” was rude is…kinda crazy. What if a kid you didn’t like asked to sit with you and you said no? Would that be rude then? Even if that girl didn’t necessarily not like the creator, is saying “No” to something you don’t want to do rude now? What happened to having boundaries? Saying “No” is the same thing as saying any other type of rejection.
Isn't just straight up saying "No" considered rude though? I think she could've rejected more politely.
@@ssbruvwhat she could have made it more politely yes but people are getting mad at that person because she said no and I personally don’t see how saying “no” is rude unless you find them suspicious or 2 blind sighted or just happy no one says “you said yes but are you really sure¿” actually some people do that ask that maybe more then some actually idk hopefully you get the idea
its more of the way that the girl said it, she practically yelled it in a very sassy way.
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@@Planket101 I agree the way she said it could have been nicer but, the people in the comments are talking about how she said “No” and not how she sounded saying it.
the no is insane, Idk how to make friends and this is what I think of when I ask wanna be friends. id love to goto ur school so I’d have a friend who acutally can be with me and experience what I’m going through.
I lived my high school days exactly like this, and now 6 years later I have a wife, good friends, and hobbies to share with people. High school is the worst, if truly does get better once college or real life starts.
I’d literally be so happy if someone wanted to sit with me bc im also lonely at school 😓😓
Sorry that you have no one and got rejected to sit with that girl/guy, some ppl
You gotta keep trying, some people are just outright mean but yk they don't deserve you anyways
Honestly, you will love college. Loner central. I use to have a lot of friends in high school, then once I got to college they all disappeared. I learned to be alone and make peace with it. I miss having friends, but learning to be with yourself is essential for growth.
i don’t know who you are or how you have got here but i recognise how difficult this can be and feel and i, along with everyone watching, am very proud of you for pushing yourself to try and talk to people. teenagers are awful people, they might not give you the chance you deserve like the person you spoke to in this, but keep trying, there are plenty of good people out there and as you get older people become kinder and things get better. you did good today. keep trying to push yourself and don’t let other people put you down
imagine havin no homies😢 sorry bro thats sad af hope u find friends soon
does this only happen to girls or is it to boys too…? am i just different and a shy idiot?