176: Lacey Bagley | Bisexual, Married, Polyamorous and Thriving

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  • Опубліковано 13 вер 2024
  • Dr. Lacey Bagley is a queer Mormon and the owner of Celebrate Therapy. She has been married for 14 years to her husband Evan and together they have 2 young children. She’s polyamorous and is navigating, with happiness, this chapter of her life.
    What does the intersection of Mormonism and sexuality look like for Lacey? After devoting your whole life to religion, how can you reconcile its doctrine and policies against people like you? What advice do you have for others?
    In this episode, Lacey takes us through a very candid discussion of the difficult and beautiful parts of her story.
    It’s honest. It’s hopeful. It’s a necessary discussion.
    #LatterGayStories #Bisexual #Polyamory #Mormonism #MarriedAndMingling #CelebrateTherapy #BYU

КОМЕНТАРІ • 20

  • @oralie.bordeaux
    @oralie.bordeaux Рік тому +12

    This is one of the most profound interviews I've ever watched. Ever

  • @Britbec
    @Britbec Рік тому +8

    Had a very similar experience as a closeted queer person in the church. The “we welcome everyone” trope simply does not check out and it’s devastating. Thank you Lacey and Kyle for a wonderful and needed conversation.

  • @Maryfs1
    @Maryfs1 Рік тому +10

    To add to the metaphors, mormonism creates outer darkness for queer people, then leaves them there.

  • @anthonydiaz2185
    @anthonydiaz2185 9 місяців тому +1

    I have personally benefited so much from Celebrate Therapy, as a queer person in a mixed orientation marriage. Getting to know more about Lacey's story has been so validating, comforting and empowering. She is truly an amazing person. ❤

  • @whitneysanchez6950
    @whitneysanchez6950 Рік тому +5

    Lacey is an incredible person and advocate in the state of Utah 💙💚💛💜🩵

  • @HollyChasebygolly
    @HollyChasebygolly Рік тому +3

    Such a thoughtful and moving story. Thank you Lacey for being so vulnerable and sharing your very personal story to all of us. Thank you especially for the difficult work you do in helping others and creating safe spaces.

  • @jlslora4003
    @jlslora4003 Рік тому +4

    I loved your story! Thank you for sharing, Lacey and being so vulnerable.

    • @richardprice5978
      @richardprice5978 Рік тому

      under polygamy marriage she's not sining its a beautiful loophole in the mainstream lds/ect faith and anyone said otherwise isn't being honest about it as iv reading 📖ect and was practiced in the 1800's and the government and mainstream lds needs to issue licenses ( 5 maximum ) for marriage LGBTQ 🏳‍🌈👍and stop the discretion against bi's
      it's only males sexual activity homosexual activity thats a sin in lds but im not USA 🇺🇸 legally caring you do u, im straight but love 💕Polly bi-female's and im better for it

  • @createconsiderconnect3356
    @createconsiderconnect3356 Рік тому +4

    I’m from Oklahoma! I live in north Edmond close to Guthrie. I hope you had a welcoming experience during your time here!! Thank you for sharing your very in-depth story with everyone on this podcast. I’m not Mormon, nor have I every been, but I absolutely love this podcast & the work it does in our society working towards change.

  • @amygreen758
    @amygreen758 Рік тому +7

    So many of the founders and leaders were in poly situations, yet any modern member is condemned for doing it safer, legally, and with consent. The Mormon church is F'd up.

  • @atphoenix2020
    @atphoenix2020 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your story. You matter. You are more than enough. I love you. What a beautiful soul❤

  • @matthewallen513
    @matthewallen513 Рік тому +3

    I absolutely loved this episode. Thank you both. I hope their is a future episode to see both of their stories. I am so happy to see a bisexual marriage that is happy and healthy.

  • @jenniferanderson4201
    @jenniferanderson4201 Рік тому +5

    Lacey for president ❤🥳🌈 (Kyle for VP obvs!)

  • @blimeyhermione07
    @blimeyhermione07 Рік тому +1

    Coming to this interview after learning Lacey was excommunicated through Instagram. She is an intelligent and thoughtful person. Sending all my love and hugs.

  • @katbos4995
    @katbos4995 Рік тому +1

    Omg, 13:00 old memory: I got a visit from the bishop mid-1990s, when someone “told on me,” that we held hands in a circle during family prayer. We were NOT to do that, it was imitating the temple prayer.
    I’m so glad I’m out of the church. They try to control everything.

  • @jodiosborne5056
    @jodiosborne5056 Рік тому +1

    Beautiful woman with the most amazing, soothing voice❤💯

  • @marys.currie9026
    @marys.currie9026 Рік тому +1

    Heartbreaking story. Thank you for sharing. Much love ❤️🖤🤍💛💚🧡🤎💙💜

  • @townsendv58
    @townsendv58 Рік тому +2

    A wonderful person. Thank you for sharing your story.