That little girl in the first concern really looks like a cute anime character I swear, I hope ppl educate themselves and stop judging other humans just bcz they have a little difference, not only in Korea but everywhere, I've seen so much ppl staring and telling weird comments to others when they see them being different... I hope she will grow up into a nice and confident woman
the 3rd concern is so frustrating... but that girl who sent that concern is so bubbly and optimistic I wonder how she manages all of that stress without mentally breaking down
Elize Do she is just acting! I'm sure she is experiencing many dark nights! I'm really afraid for her she should show her emotions otherwise she will break down really bad...
Don't think she's acting, self preservation instinct is a surprisingly powerful thing that, combined with the necessities of everyday life, can "shield" yourself from a lot of stuff, depending on the people obviously. It's true that in these cases you probably internalize and put in a corner more than anything but it makes you functional. It probably ends more in subconscious side effects down the line than straight up breakdowns.
They should be proud of their daughter in the first concern.. She's not like ordinary girls, she's pretty and special.. They should be confident and use it as a speciality rather than feeling guilty about it.. She is honestly so pretty :D
Zamzam Abdi but they could express their concern in a confident way.. There are many who came on the show to tell people not to stare at them(when they are of diff race, culture etc) and they were confident about themselves... In this case the parents don't have confidence
That mother in 3rd how could she not understand it's a concern? The daughter already told she works 6-12 hours a day and she is student. She has to do houseworks too. When will she study, when will she have time to play and when will she rest? That Mom said she turned that way cause she lost her time to have fun when she was young and now she is doing it to her daughter too. That girl looks like normal life has become luxury for her. She is really strong if it was me I don't think I would have lasted that long. She is amazing.
The girl in the last concern is so cute, I just hope her mum learns to share the emotions she felt from her husbands death with her daughter. Hopefully that can help her find closure.
The baby is so beautiful 😍 And I wish Koreans learn a lot when it comes to accept differences, I have seen other similar concerns before and it breaks my heart for that baby
Yasmin V the recent one about the ginger head girl, the other one with albinism, the little girl with blue eyes, the guy who looked "indonesian" when he was full Korean as he claimed, the other guy with an afro hair and caramel skin who they thought was "African" or "pakistani". A lot of them concerns I watched
That last concern really hurt me. My cousin's father also died and as a result my cousin's mother went out partying more and more. My cousin got a severe attachment disorder because of it
The last concern was heartbreaking. And I don't know why, I just can't feel sorry for the mom, yet she still played the victim, and had everyone feel sympathy for her. The daughter grew up to be such an inspiration tho.
Same, i thought she was so selfish. I can't imagine such kind of mothers. It makes me so sad that such a daughter has never experienced the "mother's love" which is the most amazing love of all.
Seohyeon is so pretty I swear. She is different and it makes her more beautiful. Her father must feel a lot of guilt too but please cheer up its not your fault. Seohyeon will do so well in future.. Fighting💪✌️✌️
1st concern: the daughter deserves to be love. She is neomu yeppeo! 2nd concern: I hope both son and father can get along well and play pool together. The father is nice enough to reduce playing pool for 5 hours a week. So cool! 3rd concern: ugh so stressful. How can the daughter be as cheerful as she was. She is so mature for her age. She can even hold her tears till the end. Stay strong!
I cried for all three concern. Some people do go through certain things that ideally they should not go through. This is one of the reason I am thankful for the show, it gives them an opportunity to say things to the public or family member's that the concerned person is not able to say alone.
Oml the first concern is heartbreaking, she is just an innocent little girl who is beautiful and so special I hope when she gets older she treasures herself a lot and is proud and confident xx
what's wrong with peoples??? she's the most beautiful child i have ever seen, i think she will be fine women in future and she can be successful model too. her future is bright like her bangs,and i hope people will stop criticizing her now on.
That baby girl is a special baby ❤️❤️❤️ loved by God 💕💕💕🙏🙏🙏 IJN. The white part of her hair is 'birth-mark'. She is super created by God Almighty. Nothing is wrong with her. People are jealous of the beauty of the baby. Let the mother stop crying.
The 3rd concern... her mom is really selfish.. does she think that she's the only one hurting because of this loss? Also, does she think that the hurt excuses her for all of this? I was so sad for the daughter and her grandma and I applaud the daughter for being so mentally strong, ugh, I'm angry. I have loving parents that I can't even see often and everytime there's a family concern similar to that I'm just so freaking upset :/
The first concern I was heartbroken. The girl was so pretty I even cried. I'm so jealous because she have a beautiful hair I want to dye a hair like her😭😭💓💓💓
I never stare in a person ever I learnt that since young ..never stare in sick or special need person or weird people ...think if you were them would you like to be stare at ?
The kid with albinism is so precious.. if i'm the mother.. i wud also color my hair white to be a cute 'mother & daughter couple'.. so she won't wonder why she'd different..
Aaaaw this little girl in the first concern looks so cute and so beautiful 😍😍😍 I don't understand why people keep staring at her.. yes she's a little bit different so what? Just accept her the way she is, she didn't choose to be like that... she's so beautiful 😍💕
Everyone is unique and special - If we were all the same, this world would be pretty boring. Seohyeon is SO BEAUTIFUL! I love that her older sister wants to take Taekwondo, so she can beat up the kids who tease her little sister.
Albinism is not a disease it's a disorder or condition! The little girl is the cutest thing ever! I can understand ignorance but not when people make mean comments to a very pretty and adorable little girl just because of her hair smh!
that mom in third concern is so suspicious to me lol i believe that she doesn't drink but i don't know, something is off i don't think she said everything she does when she goes out or whatever, or she's just bat shit crazy
김승현씨 짱! 하나도 부끄러워 할 일 아니랍니다. 너무 예쁜 서현이 화이팅. 부모님이 떳떳해야 아이도 떠떳해요. 미국보다 우리나라가 더 선진국이예요. 의식이 바뀔 수 있도록 저희가 노력해야해요. 서윤이 언니 짱!!! 서현이 아버지.. 전혀 미안해 하지마세요. 서현이 예쁘게 잘 커서 이해 할 수 있어요.
I can't say that I could relate to the last concern, but I kinda feel her with the part that her father passed away when she was very young and also at the part that she doesn't get to hang out with her mom that much. But, my situation was not really as bad as her since my mom hangs out with me once in a while and comes home everyday. I really hope they fix their relationship.
I can really feel the girl's pain in the 3rd concern. My mother rarely ever comes home right after work. She always spends another 4 hours out somewhere and then I can't reach her at all. She turns her phone off and just ignores everyone. My mom never really asks me if I'm okay, how my day has been, if I ate already etc. I miss that. That's also one of the reasons why I was diagnosed with severe insomnia. The stress was too much for me and I was also worried about my mom 24/7. I even have to take some kind of sleeping pills to calm me down before going to bed. When I'm having sleeping problems, I could be awake until 4am and she wouldn't care. She's so tired from being outside for the whole evening that she just passes out in her room. She also eats outside most of the time, once she comes back she's not hungry anymore and I have to somehow make my own food. My mom doesn't buy groceries that often so it's hard for me to find something in the house... Even if I am sick, my mother would just put work before me. For example, I was lying in bed with a stomach flu once, I threw up very, very often, but yet she still left me alone at home and just told me that it'll get better without even considering taking me to the doctors for one split second. She just doesn't care. It upsets me to see that others have to live with something like that as well...
Oh my God I'm really heartbroken to read your concern....I hope you always find strength and be healthy....I believe that a rainbow will appears after a storm so hang in there!!! Sorry if my english not really good but I just want to cheer you up....화이팅하세어!!!!!!!!
The little cute girl in the first concern is so adorable and I even can't understand why is it a concern. People should become more sentimental to these situations. Girl in the third concern is a role model for me. I'm having the same problem. Actually it's even worse than this. She is handling well. I'm not strong enough like her.
I'm crying for the last one because I can relate to her and I have a similar case like her with my mom, I feel bad I hope they're going well after this and I hope that too with me and my mom :''''
People pay a lot to get their hair dyed, even kpop star get white or silver hair and all, so I don't understand how people can still be so "look at this, look at this" about her, she's a human like anyone else, sometimes I don't get people that act like that. I'm a girl and I had to shave my head for a while, it took me the longest time to go out without a hat or beanie. It's not only Korea but mostly everywhere, when they see something it's like they forget that YES WE SEE YOU STARING! And staring is rude, and hurtful to some people. Most of the time I stare back, or tell them "What? Have you never seen a human being before?". Garanteed embarrassment for them.
3rd concern : Why is no one asking why she had a daughter to start with? Why? Sorry but she is not a mother, she's is just a women that carried a baby for 9 month, then left the baby to the care of someone else.
A disorder that makes me pull my hair out.. Had some bald patches and wanted to try ways to stop it, and have all my hair grow back the same length. It's fine though, I had all type of haircuts along the years and it can be cute on some girls :)
This people r all cruel...i can relate with 4yr little baby girl...when i was in 5th grade..suddenly my hair become white..i was also told grandma by many people. I used to be hurt many time n used to cry lot in bed. Bt now i am adult and having white has become a trand...so baby girl dnt worry much. You r already a princess and so cute...jst be happy and proud...fighting 😍😍😘😘😘
For the first concern, the parents shouldn't feel embarrassed or guilty for their daughter, she may be young but if she feels the uneasiness of her parents she will lose all her self confidence, I know its hard for some parents that have special kids to be able to go over the stare of the others, working in a hospital I see a lot of parents like this that feel bad for their child and don't know how to act but then the kids generally grow with a lack in self confidence. I think they should try to get in touch with a specialist to help them and their daughter, so that she can understand she's not weird or abnormal, just has a little difference that makes her even more unique than the others, after all, apart from her whiteness in some areas of her body, she's just like any other girl. As for people outside, sometimes I'm just amazed of the ignorance of some human beings, not only in south Korea (which is sad since it's a developed country, ppl should learn more about politeness) but everywhere around the world, people tend to look/stare even say uncalled for comments to people that are different, in the hospital I talked to a lot of kids/teens/adults that face different type of comments even tho they're different bcz of a disease and its really sad, it's not like we're in prehistory where ppl thought someone different = evil, with the internet anyone can see/understand each other differences. Like ? What about using your free time and internet and brain cells to educate yourself ? It's really sad, humanity has still a lot to learn, but I hope this little girl can see how cute she is and her parents learn how to love her the right way and make her feel loved like any other child should feel.
I feel so sorry for the little girl in the first concern. I didn't seem to see why they were calling her a grandma. The first thing that popped in my head was Anna from Frozen.
Honestly that little girl's hair is beautiful! People would pay to get it dyed like that! It's not even like she has patchy white strands, it's so nicely contained that it looks deliberate and stylish. But then i think Korean culture tends to be quite straightforward. If they're thinking it, they're probably saying it, boundaries don't seem to be as much of a thing as they would be elsewhere. I mean people just reach out and pet children and it took me quite a while to get used to seeing that. They don't have much ethnic diversity either, so they're really not used to seeing anyone different from themselves. Couple that with a lack of filter and you have people pointing and staring at beautiful little children. I think Korea is slowly getting more and more globalised though, so hopefully the situation will start to ease up in a few years. I'll be cheering them on!
Awww the baby girl is so pretty. Don't hate on Koreans. They are not bad people, they are changing but you can't expect a homogenous, thousands of year old country to change in a few years. You can't compare them to the U.S, that's unfair. I hope the girl's mom will stop feeling scared of what people think and show her daughter that there is nothing to be ashamed of. Her looks make her stand out and she could use it to her advantage in the future, maybe in the modeling world.
Who are you to call me a koreaboo? Just because I try to stop people from stereotyping Koreans doesn't make me a koreaboo. You are ridiculous. Your comment just shows how close minded you are. You try to push your country's values on another country and it is bad. I hope you wake up. And FIY, my brother used to live in Korea, we talked a lot about it, so what if next time you don't try to guess what I am and what I know about the country.
They definitely can't all be bad, but from all the stories on this show it seems like majority of the people are just plain rude and ignorant and that absolutely has nothing to do with any other country, because as a grown up human being with common sense you should know it's rude and wrong to point at a person just coz they look different and I can't seem to understand how being rude and ignorant can be part of anyone's culture especially considering the fact that the have one of the fastest internet and high technology, they could simply look things up and enlighten themselves but they choose not to so at this point I feel they don't just care and just simply choose to remain ignorant and rude and that's just wrong.
Until now i never commented, although i have watched so many episodes of this show, and many shocked me. But i can't believe this is such a backwards thinking society, so judgemental of looks, but negligent of character and inner decency and beauty. The little girl is truly pretty, and healthy, i can't believe, that someone would so blatantly speak about a child.
Why is no one talking about the last concern???that irresponsible mom was so brazen talking as if nothing happened.i dont understand people who are selfish and give birth.if you want to have fun and dont have a sense of responsibility,dont get married or at least dont make a kid suffer!
First concern breaks my heart. She is a child and please people of Korea don't be like that to people without their fault. I India, we don't even give a damn how another person looks. We are literate enough to understand the reason of skin color. It's not a concern for us to poke others look
Tell her that there's a lot of people who are born with white bangs like me 😍😍😍😍 i'm like her 😍😍😍 YOU HAVE an unnie live like you are the most beautiful creature in the word love your bangs 😍😍😍😍😍 FIGHTING 💪💪💪💪💪💪👭
see, even the hosts knows how and what knetizens are like and can be when it comes to physical and mental and that some are very ignorant and such. "It's society that must change."
i swear the world is so fucked up!! it's literally a 4 year old child!! they shouldn't do this to ANYONE! , the sad thing is it's not only happening in korea but also in some african countries ....... just because they are albinos doesn't give the right to anyone to make fun of them , ok i understand staring but not in a bad way! you can find it interesting or new but not weird!!
For the first concern I guess the family is making a mistake. Getting stressed about what people do and say will only make the girl grow up with a weak self esteem. Instead they should teach her how to love and appreciate her differences and to understand her condition well in order to be able to defend herself when people stare or talk rubbish. She's so unique and so pretty I'm not saying this because I feel bad for her but she is really pretty. People dye their hair like that and call it a style.
Bona really be speaking facts right now. I was born in South Korea, but was adopted straight away because of some problems. As I grew older, I decided to discover my home culture. How disgusted I was. These things make me disgusted to be korean sometimes. Everyone is pretty and handsome in their own right.
The first concern seems to be a problem quite deeply rooted in the South Korean society. People point out what people look like and their faults. I don't think there's a problem with talking with a friend about him/her being overweight for example, that's out of concern. Although with that said, one should be careful with how words are used, they are some of our most powerful weapons.
In the first concern , the family should just bring her out in public without caring what other people think, in the sense, I know it would be upsetting but they will get through it. Once they do it’ll be better for the baby even when she grows up, she’ll learn to ignore people’s talks and stares instead of being hurt and upset. People who look at her and talk about her publicly belong to the stupid population so they don’t matter anyway.
I want be a brother to that little girl if anybody say anything i will beat them she is very very pretty how people say harsh words i can't believe why people said harsh words to that cute little girl
Mother want to move to another country because of her daughter,to avoid the criticism,I suggest my country, Philippines,,no one will criticize to her.coz all people there have open minded..
okay if a child with such a beautiful hair is abused by staring just cuz she looks different i wonder how do they act towards people with facial deformities I'm really just scared to know, hope koreans be kinder to unique people -_-
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That little girl in the first concern really looks like a cute anime character I swear, I hope ppl educate themselves and stop judging other humans just bcz they have a little difference, not only in Korea but everywhere, I've seen so much ppl staring and telling weird comments to others when they see them being different... I hope she will grow up into a nice and confident woman
the 3rd concern is so frustrating... but that girl who sent that concern is so bubbly and optimistic I wonder how she manages all of that stress without mentally breaking down
Elize Do she is just acting! I'm sure she is experiencing many dark nights! I'm really afraid for her she should show her emotions otherwise she will break down really bad...
Don't think she's acting, self preservation instinct is a surprisingly powerful thing that, combined with the necessities of everyday life, can "shield" yourself from a lot of stuff, depending on the people obviously.
It's true that in these cases you probably internalize and put in a corner more than anything but it makes you functional. It probably ends more in subconscious side effects down the line than straight up breakdowns.
True that and I can understand her.
Her grandma raising her well
They should be proud of their daughter in the first concern.. She's not like ordinary girls, she's pretty and special.. They should be confident and use it as a speciality rather than feeling guilty about it.. She is honestly so pretty :D
Zamzam Abdi but they could express their concern in a confident way.. There are many who came on the show to tell people not to stare at them(when they are of diff race, culture etc) and they were confident about themselves... In this case the parents don't have confidence
The last concern was heartbreaking. The poor daughter didn't have anyone but her busy grandma growing up even though her mother was alive smh.
That mother in 3rd how could she not understand it's a concern? The daughter already told she works 6-12 hours a day and she is student. She has to do houseworks too. When will she study, when will she have time to play and when will she rest? That Mom said she turned that way cause she lost her time to have fun when she was young and now she is doing it to her daughter too. That girl looks like normal life has become luxury for her. She is really strong if it was me I don't think I would have lasted that long. She is amazing.
wjsn looks so beautiful I AM SLAYED
The first concern broke my heart wtf leave people and their differences alone!
Appropriate name, Lovely Melanin.
The girl in the last concern is so cute, I just hope her mum learns to share the emotions she felt from her husbands death with her daughter. Hopefully that can help her find closure.
The baby is so beautiful 😍 And I wish Koreans learn a lot when it comes to accept differences, I have seen other similar concerns before and it breaks my heart for that baby
Yasmin V the recent one about the ginger head girl, the other one with albinism, the little girl with blue eyes, the guy who looked "indonesian" when he was full Korean as he claimed, the other guy with an afro hair and caramel skin who they thought was "African" or "pakistani". A lot of them concerns I watched
Mademoiselle De La foret YAAAS I’ve see all of them so sad people are still ignorant
That last concern really hurt me. My cousin's father also died and as a result my cousin's mother went out partying more and more. My cousin got a severe attachment disorder because of it
So good see wjsnembers in a tv show
Cheng xiao ❤❤
Cheng Xiao my queen😍
The last concern was heartbreaking. And I don't know why, I just can't feel sorry for the mom, yet she still played the victim, and had everyone feel sympathy for her. The daughter grew up to be such an inspiration tho.
Same, i thought she was so selfish. I can't imagine such kind of mothers. It makes me so sad that such a daughter has never experienced the "mother's love" which is the most amazing love of all.
And then 2020 come covid-19, the clubs closing, hope the mother stop the habit
I know the son was concerned but I found the dad to be adorable . He was so happy and excited while playing pool in was so cute
I am very glad third concern won i hope they can overcome this situation it's hard for both mother and daughter
Seohyeon is so pretty I swear. She is different and it makes her more beautiful. Her father must feel a lot of guilt too but please cheer up its not your fault. Seohyeon will do so well in future.. Fighting💪✌️✌️
1st concern: the daughter deserves to be love. She is neomu yeppeo!
2nd concern: I hope both son and father can get along well and play pool together. The father is nice enough to reduce playing pool for 5 hours a week. So cool!
3rd concern: ugh so stressful. How can the daughter be as cheerful as she was. She is so mature for her age. She can even hold her tears till the end. Stay strong!
I cried for all three concern. Some people do go through certain things that ideally they should not go through. This is one of the reason I am thankful for the show, it gives them an opportunity to say things to the public or family member's that the concerned person is not able to say alone.
The little girl is adorable. I want to hug her.
That small girl made me wanna dye my bangs!
Mavine i‘m sure you look gorgeous!!
L T M 。 Awww :3,thats so sweet of you! Thanks angel
Oml the first concern is heartbreaking, she is just an innocent little girl who is beautiful and so special I hope when she gets older she treasures herself a lot and is proud and confident xx
The Lil Child is so beautiful and her hair looks cute, Here in The USA people pays to get their hair to look like that
how did the daughter turn out so great? she is so responsible and kind and optimistic, i wish i was like her... i really dont want her mother tho 😂
The girl in the first concern was so adorable and pretty. So pretty!
And here I am thinking about frozen.
They are like frozen sisters.
The queen and the Princess.
Concern 1 = 3:02
Concern 2 = 27:16
Concern 3 = 54:26
what's wrong with peoples???
she's the most beautiful child i have ever seen, i think she will be fine women in future and she can be successful model too.
her future is bright like her bangs,and i hope people will stop criticizing her now on.
That girl is going to be BEAUTIFUL when she grows up😍
That baby girl is a special baby ❤️❤️❤️ loved by God 💕💕💕🙏🙏🙏 IJN. The white part of her hair is 'birth-mark'. She is super created by God Almighty. Nothing is wrong with her. People are jealous of the beauty of the baby. Let the mother stop crying.
세상에 저런 엄마가 있다니 정말 화가 난다.
Cheng Xiao ❤❤❤
Ahh she is so beautiful and cute omg
She is adorable and cute
The 3rd concern... her mom is really selfish.. does she think that she's the only one hurting because of this loss? Also, does she think that the hurt excuses her for all of this? I was so sad for the daughter and her grandma and I applaud the daughter for being so mentally strong, ugh, I'm angry. I have loving parents that I can't even see often and everytime there's a family concern similar to that I'm just so freaking upset :/
The first concern I was heartbroken. The girl was so pretty I even cried. I'm so jealous because she have a beautiful hair I want to dye a hair like her😭😭💓💓💓
I never stare in a person ever I learnt that since young ..never stare in sick or special need person or weird people ...think if you were them would you like to be stare at ?
the dad in the second case totally looks like kang haneul 😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️ specially when he smile
The kid with albinism is so precious.. if i'm the mother.. i wud also color my hair white to be a cute 'mother & daughter couple'.. so she won't wonder why she'd different..
Aaaaw this little girl in the first concern looks so cute and so beautiful 😍😍😍 I don't understand why people keep staring at her.. yes she's a little bit different so what? Just accept her the way she is, she didn't choose to be like that... she's so beautiful 😍💕
Everyone is unique and special - If we were all the same, this world would be pretty boring. Seohyeon is SO BEAUTIFUL! I love that her older sister wants to take Taekwondo, so she can beat up the kids who tease her little sister.
Albinism is not a disease it's a disorder or condition! The little girl is the cutest thing ever! I can understand ignorance but not when people make mean comments to a very pretty and adorable little girl just because of her hair smh!
this show makes me want to be a better person every single day :)
that mom in third concern is so suspicious to me lol i believe that she doesn't drink but i don't know, something is off i don't think she said everything she does when she goes out or whatever, or she's just bat shit crazy
김승현씨 짱! 하나도 부끄러워 할 일 아니랍니다. 너무 예쁜 서현이 화이팅. 부모님이 떳떳해야 아이도 떠떳해요. 미국보다 우리나라가 더 선진국이예요. 의식이 바뀔 수 있도록 저희가 노력해야해요. 서윤이 언니 짱!!! 서현이 아버지.. 전혀 미안해 하지마세요. 서현이 예쁘게 잘 커서 이해 할 수 있어요.
Aw she’s a real life Elsa! Hopefully her and her family will be able to feel more confident in the future.
I can't say that I could relate to the last concern, but I kinda feel her with the part that her father passed away when she was very young and also at the part that she doesn't get to hang out with her mom that much. But, my situation was not really as bad as her since my mom hangs out with me once in a while and comes home everyday. I really hope they fix their relationship.
The parting mom is just sad example of how some humans can treat their own kids. Wow simply wow
I can really feel the girl's pain in the 3rd concern. My mother rarely ever comes home right after work. She always spends another 4 hours out somewhere and then I can't reach her at all. She turns her phone off and just ignores everyone. My mom never really asks me if I'm okay, how my day has been, if I ate already etc. I miss that. That's also one of the reasons why I was diagnosed with severe insomnia. The stress was too much for me and I was also worried about my mom 24/7. I even have to take some kind of sleeping pills to calm me down before going to bed. When I'm having sleeping problems, I could be awake until 4am and she wouldn't care. She's so tired from being outside for the whole evening that she just passes out in her room. She also eats outside most of the time, once she comes back she's not hungry anymore and I have to somehow make my own food. My mom doesn't buy groceries that often so it's hard for me to find something in the house... Even if I am sick, my mother would just put work before me. For example, I was lying in bed with a stomach flu once, I threw up very, very often, but yet she still left me alone at home and just told me that it'll get better without even considering taking me to the doctors for one split second. She just doesn't care. It upsets me to see that others have to live with something like that as well...
Oh my God I'm really heartbroken to read your concern....I hope you always find strength and be healthy....I believe that a rainbow will appears after a storm so hang in there!!! Sorry if my english not really good but I just want to cheer you up....화이팅하세어!!!!!!!!
nooooo im cryingggggggg the girl is so prettyyyyyy
첫번째는 아이가 엄청 예뻐라~~ 사람들이 그렇게 너무해서 재 머음이 아프고 아주 속상하다 ㅜㅜ 이런 사람들이 바뀌면서 좋겠다 ㅜㅜ
The little cute girl in the first concern is so adorable and I even can't understand why is it a concern. People should become more sentimental to these situations.
Girl in the third concern is a role model for me. I'm having the same problem. Actually it's even worse than this. She is handling well. I'm not strong enough like her.
I seriously cried so hard for the first concern
The baby is so cute
The little girl was so cute 😭😭
I'm crying for the last one because I can relate to her and I have a similar case like her with my mom, I feel bad I hope they're going well after this and I hope that too with me and my mom :''''
People pay a lot to get their hair dyed, even kpop star get white or silver hair and all, so I don't understand how people can still be so "look at this, look at this" about her, she's a human like anyone else, sometimes I don't get people that act like that. I'm a girl and I had to shave my head for a while, it took me the longest time to go out without a hat or beanie. It's not only Korea but mostly everywhere, when they see something it's like they forget that YES WE SEE YOU STARING! And staring is rude, and hurtful to some people. Most of the time I stare back, or tell them "What? Have you never seen a human being before?". Garanteed embarrassment for them.
3rd concern : Why is no one asking why she had a daughter to start with? Why? Sorry but she is not a mother, she's is just a women that carried a baby for 9 month, then left the baby to the care of someone else.
I'm curious :why would you had to shave your head?
A disorder that makes me pull my hair out.. Had some bald patches and wanted to try ways to stop it, and have all my hair grow back the same length. It's fine though, I had all type of haircuts along the years and it can be cute on some girls :)
You have no idea how fast I clicked
I was expecting the third mom to say, "I don't drink...that's for amateurs. Nowadays I do lines."
FInally you've uploaded the episode! Im looking forward to this week's concerns
This people r all cruel...i can relate with 4yr little baby girl...when i was in 5th grade..suddenly my hair become white..i was also told grandma by many people. I used to be hurt many time n used to cry lot in bed. Bt now i am adult and having white has become a trand...so baby girl dnt worry much. You r already a princess and so cute...jst be happy and proud...fighting 😍😍😘😘😘
The mom that have fun all the time really in trouble.
She’s we call here in Oklahoma a "Peopler Watcher"
For the first concern, the parents shouldn't feel embarrassed or guilty for their daughter, she may be young but if she feels the uneasiness of her parents she will lose all her self confidence, I know its hard for some parents that have special kids to be able to go over the stare of the others, working in a hospital I see a lot of parents like this that feel bad for their child and don't know how to act but then the kids generally grow with a lack in self confidence. I think they should try to get in touch with a specialist to help them and their daughter, so that she can understand she's not weird or abnormal, just has a little difference that makes her even more unique than the others, after all, apart from her whiteness in some areas of her body, she's just like any other girl.
As for people outside, sometimes I'm just amazed of the ignorance of some human beings, not only in south Korea (which is sad since it's a developed country, ppl should learn more about politeness) but everywhere around the world, people tend to look/stare even say uncalled for comments to people that are different, in the hospital I talked to a lot of kids/teens/adults that face different type of comments even tho they're different bcz of a disease and its really sad, it's not like we're in prehistory where ppl thought someone different = evil, with the internet anyone can see/understand each other differences. Like ? What about using your free time and internet and brain cells to educate yourself ?
It's really sad, humanity has still a lot to learn, but I hope this little girl can see how cute she is and her parents learn how to love her the right way and make her feel loved like any other child should feel.
I feel so sorry for the little girl in the first concern. I didn't seem to see why they were calling her a grandma. The first thing that popped in my head was Anna from Frozen.
Honestly that little girl's hair is beautiful! People would pay to get it dyed like that! It's not even like she has patchy white strands, it's so nicely contained that it looks deliberate and stylish. But then i think Korean culture tends to be quite straightforward. If they're thinking it, they're probably saying it, boundaries don't seem to be as much of a thing as they would be elsewhere. I mean people just reach out and pet children and it took me quite a while to get used to seeing that. They don't have much ethnic diversity either, so they're really not used to seeing anyone different from themselves. Couple that with a lack of filter and you have people pointing and staring at beautiful little children.
I think Korea is slowly getting more and more globalised though, so hopefully the situation will start to ease up in a few years. I'll be cheering them on!
Awww the baby girl is so pretty. Don't hate on Koreans. They are not bad people, they are changing but you can't expect a homogenous, thousands of year old country to change in a few years. You can't compare them to the U.S, that's unfair.
I hope the girl's mom will stop feeling scared of what people think and show her daughter that there is nothing to be ashamed of. Her looks make her stand out and she could use it to her advantage in the future, maybe in the modeling world.
Who are you to call me a koreaboo? Just because I try to stop people from stereotyping Koreans doesn't make me a koreaboo. You are ridiculous. Your comment just shows how close minded you are. You try to push your country's values on another country and it is bad. I hope you wake up. And FIY, my brother used to live in Korea, we talked a lot about it, so what if next time you don't try to guess what I am and what I know about the country.
Nicole C what does not being korean even have to do with anything? Lol this person isnt even defending koreans, learn some manners
They definitely can't all be bad, but from all the stories on this show it seems like majority of the people are just plain rude and ignorant and that absolutely has nothing to do with any other country, because as a grown up human being with common sense you should know it's rude and wrong to point at a person just coz they look different and I can't seem to understand how being rude and ignorant can be part of anyone's culture especially considering the fact that the have one of the fastest internet and high technology, they could simply look things up and enlighten themselves but they choose not to so at this point I feel they don't just care and just simply choose to remain ignorant and rude and that's just wrong.
Yeojin she so strong fighting!!!
Until now i never commented, although i have watched so many episodes of this show, and many shocked me. But i can't believe this is such a backwards thinking society, so judgemental of looks, but negligent of character and inner decency and beauty. The little girl is truly pretty, and healthy, i can't believe, that someone would so blatantly speak about a child.
The Father from teh 2nd concern looked like that meme when he was laughing...at least to me.
Why is no one talking about the last concern???that irresponsible mom was so brazen talking as if nothing happened.i dont understand people who are selfish and give birth.if you want to have fun and dont have a sense of responsibility,dont get married or at least dont make a kid suffer!
In every society there is problemd like that it is not just the korean society .
First concern breaks my heart. She is a child and please people of Korea don't be like that to people without their fault. I India, we don't even give a damn how another person looks. We are literate enough to understand the reason of skin color. It's not a concern for us to poke others look
Bona pls don't cry my bby😭😭
OMG Seohyeon is so cute awwww how could people do that to her
I was hitting my pillow so hard when hearing the third concern.
pretty little girl, prettier than most girls :p
That's a big concern of asians in general staring.needs to be changed those behavior by the way Pleasure seeing some foreigners in the public 😊
you cant say its only asians
Tell her that there's a lot of people who are born with white bangs like me 😍😍😍😍 i'm like her 😍😍😍 YOU HAVE an unnie live like you are the most beautiful creature in the word love your bangs 😍😍😍😍😍 FIGHTING 💪💪💪💪💪💪👭
Yay 3rd place 😍😜👍🏼
see, even the hosts knows how and what knetizens are like and can be when it comes to physical and mental and that some are very ignorant and such. "It's society that must change."
Wooooow! That gal is sooooooooo beautiful oh my😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍❤❤❤❤💓
I wonder how the 3rd concern mom doing while covid-19 outbreak 2020-2022
i swear the world is so fucked up!! it's literally a 4 year old child!! they shouldn't do this to ANYONE! , the sad thing is it's not only happening in korea but also in some african countries ....... just because they are albinos doesn't give the right to anyone to make fun of them , ok i understand staring but not in a bad way! you can find it interesting or new but not weird!!
right :/ no one should be ashamed or made fun of for being different in any way plus i didn't really like how the host said it was an illness ........
For the first concern I guess the family is making a mistake. Getting stressed about what people do and say will only make the girl grow up with a weak self esteem. Instead they should teach her how to love and appreciate her differences and to understand her condition well in order to be able to defend herself when people stare or talk rubbish. She's so unique and so pretty I'm not saying this because I feel bad for her but she is really pretty. People dye their hair like that and call it a style.
42:06 damn that was cool
Thanks😊
These videos are pretty hard to find, please do something.
Bona really be speaking facts right now. I was born in South Korea, but was adopted straight away because of some problems. As I grew older, I decided to discover my home culture. How disgusted I was. These things make me disgusted to be korean sometimes. Everyone is pretty and handsome in their own right.
The girl in the first concern is so cute! Why would anyone say that she looks like a grandma?????(TT)
Same...I know this is not related to this show but may I ask when or where can I find the full ep of 2D1N?
zani274 IGOT7 kshowonline or kshow123
최창민 진짜 인기 많았지..
56:56 I feel weird when I hear this word😅 Cuz in my language it means really different
bring blackpink to hello counselor!
The first concern seems to be a problem quite deeply rooted in the South Korean society. People point out what people look like and their faults. I don't think there's a problem with talking with a friend about him/her being overweight for example, that's out of concern. Although with that said, one should be careful with how words are used, they are some of our most powerful weapons.
In the first concern , the family should just bring her out in public without caring what other people think, in the sense, I know it would be upsetting but they will get through it. Once they do it’ll be better for the baby even when she grows up, she’ll learn to ignore people’s talks and stares instead of being hurt and upset. People who look at her and talk about her publicly belong to the stupid population so they don’t matter anyway.
pretty sure its vitiligo and not albinism.
I think she has both. I don't think vitiligo affects the hair.
rueexxi vitiligo does affect your hair too if it’s in those spots
I want be a brother to that little girl if anybody say anything i will beat them she is very very pretty how people say harsh words i can't believe why people said harsh words to that cute little girl
Mother want to move to another country because of her daughter,to avoid the criticism,I suggest my country, Philippines,,no one will criticize to her.coz all people there have open minded..
okay if a child with such a beautiful hair is abused by staring just cuz she looks different i wonder how do they act towards people with facial deformities I'm really just scared to know, hope koreans be kinder to unique people -_-