1:10:07 "A homemaker could do chores all day and it isn't so noticeable" The uncle just said the truth that not many people realise. I didn't realise that until recently. Please be thankful to your family and friends for every little thing they do.
I feel so bad for the girl in the last concern..... she has noone close to her to comfort her or rely on when shes down. Shes a child...... at a time when she should be enjoying her childhood, being loved and cared for..... she’s facing so much . Shes a very strong girl.
The first woman is so beautiful and her story so heartbreaking. I hope she finds peace in her life and a husband who actually adores her the way she should be
Pretty Much what you have to learn from this story is that you should take your time to get to know your significant other and that there is a huge difference between love and infatuation. Love takes time to grow. All in all be patient. 🙂
the first concern is just....unbelievable.. How can people like that exist. I was shocked to the extreme when i heard that he was asking to sleep when his wife had a miscarriage...
And the fact that she got the least votes out of all the concerns when her concern doesn’t really have a solution that she could do herself. In the first concern, the wife could divorce him and live with her parents or just work around it. Second concern the mum can kick that webtoon artist out if he doesn’t change or get a job like promised. But this 15 (probably 14/13 year old) can’t do anything. She probably can’t even get a job. Her dad overlooks the abuse she gets from her older brother. Her sister is a minor too and she can’t do anything in that toxic environment. She’s forced to do everything because no one else will and because she’s a girl and an older sister. Her mum just recently passed away too so I can only imagine how hard it must be for her. I was in the younger sister’s position a few years ago and I watched my sister go through all that. She couldn’t even tell my dad that she started her period (for the first time ever; I ended up telling him) and she always struggled with getting pads and stuff because of all this stigma around periods. Like why do they have to be ashamed of something they can’t control? I absolutely can’t stand the older brother and I can tell he’s not gonna change his ways and will probably turn out to be an abusive piece of shit.
Honestly it's so frustrating to watch. It happens a lot, and especially in HC. I get so mad, like you're unhappy. It isn't healthy for the relationship, for their children or even for their health. They all come into the show after a few years after getting married. I do wish that some of then do get a divorce only then they can get out of this hell hole but if the men do change after going on the show then that's different but if they didn't try at all to change or at least a bit then that's a no no and divorce should be an option. Men know that women like that wouldn't divorce them straight away or easily hence why most don't care. I really want HC to do a special episode where they do a feedback or have a talk with former concerns regarding serious concerns and to know what happened to rhem after appearing in the show. Because yeah they come on the show but like what really happens behind closed door. For all I know they could be more harsh to their partner especially with the married couple where the husband verbally abused his wife and says she's his possession. Idk if I'm making sense of things lol
they met once at a night club, f*d and she got pregnant, so they didn't know each other at all and stuck together for the sake of family. happens a lot unfortunately.
I cried my eyes out with the last concern !!! It’s sad how it’s common these days where family members won’t die for each other. Really sending that girl alll love and positivity
The dad in the first problem will regret so much if he doesn't realize soon and start spending time with his kids. When he's old and his sons don't respond to his calls or feel comfortable talking to him about their lives, it'll all hit him but it'll be too late. Hope he gets his act together before the kids grow up and start holding grudges against him.
Parents have this illusion that because they fed you and you lived in theirhouse u have to alwys take care of them.. when they grow up and their children do not want tohear from them anymore.. they ask why
The husband in the first concern is definitely the reason why marriage scares me and I have trust issues, like she was at my age when she met him. ' OMG I can't imagine x))))
RAYAN ExolMonbebeMelody I'm pretty sure they married because of the first baby. She said they met and then 1 year later they were married and they had a baby, she also said it was not planned, so I'm positive this is the reason. It's very normal for a couple to have big differences and hardships when they marry before they want to, and because they are made to. You shouldn't worry about marriage with a person you love, if you know them well, are together for some time and consider it seriously for some time before doing it as well. When the time comes it won't be scary, I'm sure.
92sieghart the first concern is the reason that even if I get pregnant I won't marry the man unless I'm sure he wants to marry me for me and not for the kid. Having a whole family is great and all but only when there real love, respect and commitment.
That 1st concern....Sometimes even if you love someone, you gotta live for yourself and go against your feelings, especially if those are for someone who throw a remote in your face or worse ask you to sleep somewhere else when you just lost your and HIS child.
The last concern aggravated me a lot as well. "You have to do chores because you're a girl." Then does this give men the privilege to not do chores and be lazy? Smh. I got so frustrated and annoyed, they're too biased towards men. I feel bad for her, I don't know how I'd be able to live in a household like that, especially after her mother passed away. Just, gosh this was frustrating. The brother was just there as well. They complain that she doesnt do chores well, but they don't do them well either! Plus, if they didnt like the way she did the chores, then they should've just done them themselves. I'm glad her sister is a bit understanding even if she keeps quiet (but I think it's mostly due to her being young.). Hitting/Violence shouldn't be okay either, Idg why the father was okay with the brother hitting his sister.
Sadly, South-Korea is still a country where men are seen as more important and as the breadwinner of the family. Especially by elder generations, but there has been a shift in younger generations so it's getting better. But it's off course ridiculous that she's being taken for granted and treated like this. I'm glad I don't have a family like that because I would've already run away from home.
I relate to the last girl so much 😔 my dad’s always like “You’re a girl!! Do the dishes and clean up!!” I don’t eat as much so most of the dishes are from the family members but he says “Go do your dishes!!”
Hoping it changes for you too. Try to maybe talk to them about it or talk to a guidance teacher and try to get him to understand your plight. As any rate if nothing changes remember how it feels and if you ever have your own kids be fair and treat each equally. Hoping it get better for you
The first concert is so frustrating. I feel so bad for the wife that I'm actually crying. I hope that she will be able to have a life for herself soon and be happy.
My heart aches so much for the first concern. She's has gone through a lot and it breaks my heart. I really hope her husband can help her more and be more loving and caring.
The first concern really gets me man. It's so sad she and her sons have to go through all of this, and it's cruel and selfish of the father on soooo many levels. His sons will hate him when they are older if he keeps on acting this way. They'll see the way he treats their mother and feel the lack of love he should feel for them, and start to resent him. The saddest thing is that, as I understand it, it's really hard in Korea for a divorced woman to get the ex-husband to pay for his children's upbringing if he doesn't feel like that (to be fair, that's sadly shockingly hard in many countries, including my own), and from what I've heard the government aid for single moms over there is a joke. So that sadly might be a big reason why she still hasn't ditched his sorry ass, even though it'd probably be better for both her as well as her children in terms of emotional and psychological well-being. I really hope she'll find a solution and that her situation changes for the better.
She said she had a miscarriage before the last son was born and while the miscarriage her husband was dozing off, that was how her husband was then why did she get pregnant again? Didnt she know he did that the last time? WHY ARE THEY RUINING SOME KIDS LIVES???? I meannn she said i cant get divorced bcoz of my children but i swear this is not us children want from our parents, i would rather my parents to get divorced that see them fight all the time
All the concerns this weak were heartbreaking and frustrating honestly. The girl in the last concern is so strong for being able to compose herself whilst talking about her mother, and i know thats hard to do. The whole family is clearly suffering and just need to sit together and figure out the solution. Hello counselor is a weekly 'try not to cry/punch someone in the face challenge'.
I can relate to the girl in the third concern so much. Im the eldest out of 3 children, and I’m only one that does all the chores. My parents just expect me to do it. My brother is a year younger than me, and my parents make me clean his room. Whenever I object to cleaning they take my phone and laptop for 2 weeks minimum. It’s so sexist and unfair. When I complain that I’m the only one that cleans they’d say “your sister is too young to clean” and when I ask about my brother they say “he’s a boy and he will have a wife to clean for him”. I’m like a modern day Cinderella and I’m not even exaggerating. I’m currently doing my GCSE’s which is a really big exam and they don’t let me go to the library. Because my parents are working, I’m practically their babysitter. I haven’t gone out with my friends in 6 months and I feel really trapped. At this point I feel like I’m not a human being. In fact, my friends have made an inside joke that I’m a ‘slave’ because I AM A FUCKING SLAVE. I am an A* student and I never get into any trouble but they are never satisfied with me. My brother is always getting into trouble at school, not turning up, shouting at my parents yet they are satisfied with him. They constantly buy him whatever he asks for. I’m here with an iPhone six (I’m not complaining I am extremely grateful) that is constantly lagging and barely works. HE HAS AN IPHONE X yo. I’ve asked them to buy me a new phone but apparently ‘I don’t need it. They treat me like I am gum on the bottom of their shoe. Ive gotten so suicidal to the point where I pray to die in my sleep or get run over. I was going to overdose until my little sister ran into my room to hug me which made me burst out crying. In two years when I turn 18 I’m leaving this fucking hell hole. I don’t see the point in living at this point 😔
Jennism cheer up 🤗💪💪be strong . Nothing last forever and it will be ok in the end and if it's not ok then it's not the end.( btw my situation is worse than yours so cheer up🤗)
I wish you a lot of luck and be strong, whatever you are going through find the benefit in it, because all that is going in your life is an opportunity. Sometimes the satisfaction is a hard thing to reach but once you do, you will realize that the human being you actually are is the point of your life. I relate to her too, I am the forth out of seven kids, so sometimes it gets hard to do all the jobs, especially the outside jobs because we lived in the country side and at my teen ages all my siblings went to school in different cities but it helped me a lot I learned 2 languages and wrote one novel and two poetry books. (at the age of 17) I used to practice speaking while washing dishes and I used to come up with poetry while hanging out the laundry, or think what to write while working on the field. I was mad many times and all that, I used to cry a lot, but I saw many benefits in it. And at least it meant a lot to my parents, my dad used to say that I am the best kid out of seven, and now that he is gone makes me happy that he was happy and satisfied with me. And to all people with any concerns I want to tell you to not just witness your own pain but to use that to make you the great human. It is hard to feel like you are forced to anything especially in teen ages but once you become older, you will see how little the pain was, and that all that made you stronger than your siblings. Doing house work seems ridicules to complain in older age but for young kids it is actually very hard psychically more than physically. Himne!
First concern: I... I want to throw my shoes at him. I want to hug the woman and fetch the divorce papers myself because this man is honestly useless, I do not care if I am being harsh but I throw away trash, I can't recycle such nonsense. I am very angry at him.
Im always happy of seeing that some familys got better after coming here. Even if they totally solve the problem, since this is reality, they at least open the counsel and make it easy to the people recognise they need help. :) P.s: yeonja is life, she is bae. How good it feels when she is straigh forward XD And the last concern was the last drop of estress over this ep. Wtfh! I just remember when i was younger and my mom dindt stop complaining about my work at home so i just let her come and tell me first before doing it so she could see im doing it and i give her the right to yell and complaint for not having a job done. I pity that girl, i know your pain girl. 7-7
43:11 I'm I the only one who literally couldn't stop laughing about Yoojung's hilarious reaction? lmao since that moment you could tell that she was completely done with that guy XD
1:08:12 Why do all male high school students have that bowl cut? That's what some foreigners are trying to figure out! I know people in Korea tend to follow trends and stuff but that hairstyle is so, so common :O
Second concern: This isn't right at all. What he needs is to be taught a lesson and learn that life is no joke bc it isn't easy. I'm only 16 and I'm looking for a jobs so that I can save up money to buy materialistic thing like an iPhone. I just want to prove that I can work hard to get what I want. He should be responsible, mahn, come on.
Third concern: I relate to this except the part of physically fighting my older brothers and not having my mom. I understand that things are difficult for him but he should be considerate. My parents are always like this, they yell at me and treat me way different from my brothers. Things have been very hard for me. I have major exams at the end of the year and I always have to study, my personal life is falling apart, I haven't eaten for about a month due to stress, I barely sleep. My parents don't see my pain. I get that they work all the time and they are busy but what about me? They don't even listen to me, whenever I want to express myself, religion is always mentioned and I can't fight against the word of God. I can't do anything, I couldn't even pick my own subjects that I needed for the career that I want to pursue. They look down on me and have this image of me and I am the complete opposite. I hate the fact that I have to lie to them so that they don't hurt me verbally. It hurts, it hurts so bad that I'm crying while typing this. I love them so much but why can't they see how much their words hurt me, why don't they listen to me? I understand what it's like being misunderstood, that has been my whole life. I know I'm only 16 but my older brother is 20 and he's been going through the same thing too for his whole life. It hurts but I love them soooooo much.
Is there anyone else in your family you can tell all this to? Someone who will just help you, and not run to your parents? It's sad to say, but in situations like this, nothing will change until you move out on your own. Right now things seem 10x worse than they are because of your hormones, so please stay strong! When you're older you'll look back on these times as hard, but good lessons in emotional independence.
am so frustrated that they had to tell the last girl to call her bully brother "oppa" for him to be nice to her. And the first woman also was told to call her husband "honey" after all concerns she said.
The brother/son from the last concern is on a terrible path. I can totally picture him turning into a woman-hating 4chan ilbe loser. The fact that he comes from a family of misogynists, lost his mom in his formative years, and beats his little sister says it all.
Wow that first guy ugh 😕 doesn't help that I just literally came after watching minhwan and Yulhee with their son I just can't help but compare That lady should divorce him and find someone who would treat her better 😡😡 Its not like being married to that guy is doing any good for her or her kids 😑
- The couple from the first concern will probably get a divorce, maybe not now, but later (sorry trying to be realistic). If the wife keeps on coping with everything she'll explode one day too because every person has a limit. That's why the husband has to change. He'll regret it for life once he loses them. He has two beautiful children and a caring wife there is no reason for him to be acting like this. I hope they figure out the situation immediately because the children are getting affected negatively. - As for the second concern.. Ufffff... The guy needs to come back to his right mind. You're not 16, you're 37, so act like it bruh. It's true when the Arabic proverb says "when you're 40 you're at the prime of your youth" but that doesn't mean you can act like an immature teenager. People like him are what make me think 7 years of studying and suffering to become a medic is completely fine because after that period I'll have a stable job that I've worked hard for and I love. Once the mom is gone he'll regret it forever. - The third concern is very close to home. As my dad and mom are divorced, I live with my mom and let me tell you I am thankful. If my dad got our custody, me and my sister would probably be in the girl's shoes. She does all the chores because she's a "girl" and she's the "oldest". It's heartbreaking that instead of teaching them how to cope with their mom's loss he is hurting them. I hope the dad stops discriminating between the children for many reasons. If he doesn't, the eldest daughter will be scarred forever (more than she already is) while the other two won't learn how to be responsible and will forever rely on others. I'll be rooting for all three and hoping that the problems can be solved.
the dad in the first concern annoyed the hell out of me damn. especially when the mom said that he asked to sleep while she was having a miscarriage. honestly i can understand her pain even tho im still young cuz apparently my dad didnt even show up when my mom was giving birth to me. its honestly upsetting seeing moms and wives being treated like shit by their husbands and tbh i regret not being a better kid
In the First concern yongchul was talking about a friend who got divorced idk but I'm guessing he's either talking about Sangmin or seo janghoon . Idk maybe I'm wrong
It not aired in youtube because Controversy, in ep 366 the first concern where the father too much affectionate with his 19 years old daughter that cause sexual harrasment
Who you hurt is always whom loves you. That is why NORMALLY people always feel sad after they make others feel sad. Just don’t understand why they are acting like that...I get so jealous when I saw that mom who paid everything for the son. I never dare to ask my parents to buy me anything that I will not use...it is supposed to be hard to earn money right?
I just saw second concern and i saw what he drew........NO CAN'T BE WEB COMIC ARTIST.... he have to face the reality. web comic artist is not as easy as he thinking... it doesn't matter which tool he use...he does not have any possibilty... HE DOESN'T HAVE TALENT, HE DOESN'T HAVE SKILL, HE DOESN'T EVEN TRY HARD. i working as a 2D artist and i have many friends who working as a web comic artist. he just underestimating our field. what a jerk...
The husband in the first concern is simply far too immature to be a father. He's completely disinterested and see his wife and children as a burden. If he could walk away from the marriage, he absolutely would..........and he wouldn't regret it either.
the guy in the second concern.... his pride is gonna get him nowhere. 'im too good for a part time job' ' im too professional to be taught' ffs it makes me angry im not even gonna comment on the last one. i just cant
Ironically everyone who is mad about the gender biased in the third concern is biased themselves. We don't have enough information to judge atm. We don't know who is telling the truth, how many hours or what kind of work the father is going through. What the father said about girl doing chores is uncalled for, but the rest of the siblings has cram school but she probably didn't. We should hardly say anything about the third concern except there is too much lack of info and its tragic when the mother passed away.
I hate 2nd concern, at the age 16 my parents stop giving money to me, i work hard for my life, i even gave money for my sister, and it's been 3 years i paid all cost of my family. I did it becoz i lovee my family. Sorry my poor english
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Dear Kim Yongchul I love you and I find you funny just ignore the haters
kwang soo I agree he’s my fav male comedian
Same he’s super funny!!!
He's funny without hurting others as well.
The woman in the first concern is so beautiful and kind... I hope she'll be happy because she deserves it 💜
Btw, Seola looks so pretty!! 😍
1:10:07 "A homemaker could do chores all day and it isn't so noticeable"
The uncle just said the truth that not many people realise. I didn't realise that until recently. Please be thankful to your family and friends for every little thing they do.
The child in the first concern is so goddamn adorable. I hope he always is cheerful & honest as he is now without letting pain get to him.
I feel so bad for the girl in the last concern..... she has noone close to her to comfort her or rely on when shes down. Shes a child...... at a time when she should be enjoying her childhood, being loved and cared for..... she’s facing so much .
Shes a very strong girl.
The first woman is so beautiful and her story so heartbreaking. I hope she finds peace in her life and a husband who actually adores her the way she should be
Pretty Much what you have to learn from this story is that you should take your time to get to know your significant other and that there is a huge difference between love and infatuation. Love takes time to grow. All in all be patient. 🙂
the first concern is just....unbelievable.. How can people like that exist. I was shocked to the extreme when i heard that he was asking to sleep when his wife had a miscarriage...
The last concern pissed me off so much and the fact that the brother was sat there looking so smug just made it worse
And the fact that she got the least votes out of all the concerns when her concern doesn’t really have a solution that she could do herself. In the first concern, the wife could divorce him and live with her parents or just work around it. Second concern the mum can kick that webtoon artist out if he doesn’t change or get a job like promised. But this 15 (probably 14/13 year old) can’t do anything. She probably can’t even get a job.
Her dad overlooks the abuse she gets from her older brother. Her sister is a minor too and she can’t do anything in that toxic environment. She’s forced to do everything because no one else will and because she’s a girl and an older sister. Her mum just recently passed away too so I can only imagine how hard it must be for her. I was in the younger sister’s position a few years ago and I watched my sister go through all that. She couldn’t even tell my dad that she started her period (for the first time ever; I ended up telling him) and she always struggled with getting pads and stuff because of all this stigma around periods. Like why do they have to be ashamed of something they can’t control?
I absolutely can’t stand the older brother and I can tell he’s not gonna change his ways and will probably turn out to be an abusive piece of shit.
the first concern was so frustrating. why do nice women always marry the worst guys existing on the planet ? she needs to leave him
Honestly it's so frustrating to watch. It happens a lot, and especially in HC. I get so mad, like you're unhappy. It isn't healthy for the relationship, for their children or even for their health. They all come into the show after a few years after getting married. I do wish that some of then do get a divorce only then they can get out of this hell hole but if the men do change after going on the show then that's different but if they didn't try at all to change or at least a bit then that's a no no and divorce should be an option. Men know that women like that wouldn't divorce them straight away or easily hence why most don't care. I really want HC to do a special episode where they do a feedback or have a talk with former concerns regarding serious concerns and to know what happened to rhem after appearing in the show. Because yeah they come on the show but like what really happens behind closed door. For all I know they could be more harsh to their partner especially with the married couple where the husband verbally abused his wife and says she's his possession.
Idk if I'm making sense of things lol
My father and my mother smh
they met once at a night club, f*d and she got pregnant, so they didn't know each other at all and stuck together for the sake of family. happens a lot unfortunately.
he's fat n ugly too. but the wife is cute n beautiful
maybe thats the reason. bitch usually find good man, but poor girl always attracts human trash. how ironic.
I cried my eyes out with the last concern !!! It’s sad how it’s common these days where family members won’t die for each other. Really sending that girl alll love and positivity
The dad in the first problem will regret so much if he doesn't realize soon and start spending time with his kids. When he's old and his sons don't respond to his calls or feel comfortable talking to him about their lives, it'll all hit him but it'll be too late. Hope he gets his act together before the kids grow up and start holding grudges against him.
thats what happened with me an my dad so I can really tell that if he doesnt change the problem will be massive
Kef Michaela I'm sorry you went through all of that, it happened with my older brother for me. Sending positive vibes your way 💜
Parents have this illusion that because they fed you and you lived in theirhouse u have to alwys take care of them.. when they grow up and their children do not want tohear from them anymore.. they ask why
So True, he'll regret It for sure 😭 If he dont change
He won't regret a thing. He's clearly a Sociopath. Not being hyperbolic. He won't care, or regret, because he's literally incapable of those things.
The husband in the first concern is definitely the reason why marriage scares me and I have trust issues, like she was at my age when she met him. ' OMG I can't imagine x))))
RAYAN ExolMonbebeMelody I'm pretty sure they married because of the first baby. She said they met and then 1 year later they were married and they had a baby, she also said it was not planned, so I'm positive this is the reason.
It's very normal for a couple to have big differences and hardships when they marry before they want to, and because they are made to. You shouldn't worry about marriage with a person you love, if you know them well, are together for some time and consider it seriously for some time before doing it as well. When the time comes it won't be scary, I'm sure.
The first concern should be the reason to be scared of fuckin around with everyone and not using contraceptive
92sieghart the first concern is the reason that even if I get pregnant I won't marry the man unless I'm sure he wants to marry me for me and not for the kid. Having a whole family is great and all but only when there real love, respect and commitment.
Thank you KBS for posting SHINee 5 member that mean alot 😩🖤 they always will be 5..
That 1st concern....Sometimes even if you love someone, you gotta live for yourself and go against your feelings, especially if those are for someone who throw a remote in your face or worse ask you to sleep somewhere else when you just lost your and HIS child.
The last concern aggravated me a lot as well. "You have to do chores because you're a girl." Then does this give men the privilege to not do chores and be lazy? Smh. I got so frustrated and annoyed, they're too biased towards men. I feel bad for her, I don't know how I'd be able to live in a household like that, especially after her mother passed away. Just, gosh this was frustrating. The brother was just there as well. They complain that she doesnt do chores well, but they don't do them well either! Plus, if they didnt like the way she did the chores, then they should've just done them themselves. I'm glad her sister is a bit understanding even if she keeps quiet (but I think it's mostly due to her being young.). Hitting/Violence shouldn't be okay either, Idg why the father was okay with the brother hitting his sister.
I KNOW RIGHT?!?? And the it got the least votes???
Sadly, South-Korea is still a country where men are seen as more important and as the breadwinner of the family. Especially by elder generations, but there has been a shift in younger generations so it's getting better. But it's off course ridiculous that she's being taken for granted and treated like this. I'm glad I don't have a family like that because I would've already run away from home.
@@Eva_vg at leas japan isint that bashfull on women so yea south korea you bullying prick bastard learn from them
Girl how tf can you still love him after all that? I feel so sorry for her
I relate to the last girl so much 😔 my dad’s always like “You’re a girl!! Do the dishes and clean up!!” I don’t eat as much so most of the dishes are from the family members but he says “Go do your dishes!!”
Amethyst Gold poor girl. how old are you?:)
Ista almost 15. 😢
Seher park lucky
Hoping it changes for you too. Try to maybe talk to them about it or talk to a guidance teacher and try to get him to understand your plight. As any rate if nothing changes remember how it feels and if you ever have your own kids be fair and treat each equally. Hoping it get better for you
kooolkidninjamaster thank you
The first concert is so frustrating. I feel so bad for the wife that I'm actually crying. I hope that she will be able to have a life for herself soon and be happy.
kim youngchul really has a heart of gold .. i love him
Really Love Yoojung... ❤🤗💐🌸🌺🌹
My heart aches so much for the first concern. She's has gone through a lot and it breaks my heart. I really hope her husband can help her more and be more loving and caring.
The first concern really gets me man. It's so sad she and her sons have to go through all of this, and it's cruel and selfish of the father on soooo many levels. His sons will hate him when they are older if he keeps on acting this way. They'll see the way he treats their mother and feel the lack of love he should feel for them, and start to resent him.
The saddest thing is that, as I understand it, it's really hard in Korea for a divorced woman to get the ex-husband to pay for his children's upbringing if he doesn't feel like that (to be fair, that's sadly shockingly hard in many countries, including my own), and from what I've heard the government aid for single moms over there is a joke. So that sadly might be a big reason why she still hasn't ditched his sorry ass, even though it'd probably be better for both her as well as her children in terms of emotional and psychological well-being. I really hope she'll find a solution and that her situation changes for the better.
She said she had a miscarriage before the last son was born and while the miscarriage her husband was dozing off, that was how her husband was then why did she get pregnant again? Didnt she know he did that the last time? WHY ARE THEY RUINING SOME KIDS LIVES???? I meannn she said i cant get divorced bcoz of my children but i swear this is not us children want from our parents, i would rather my parents to get divorced that see them fight all the time
Rest in Peace dear Park Ji Sun and your mother ♥️
Yoojung is so cute❤️
Please invite Got7 ❤️
legit came just for queen seola☺️💕
Rest in peace Park Jiseon❤️
It was nice seeing Jisun again. RIP
All the concerns this weak were heartbreaking and frustrating honestly. The girl in the last concern is so strong for being able to compose herself whilst talking about her mother, and i know thats hard to do. The whole family is clearly suffering and just need to sit together and figure out the solution. Hello counselor is a weekly 'try not to cry/punch someone in the face challenge'.
The last concern , her brother really disgusted me . If he doesnt see her do well with cleaning then he should do it instead .
The guy from the first concern is a spoiled brat!
hmmm watching this again in 2020.......R.I.P Jisun unni :(
I can relate to the girl in the third concern so much. Im the eldest out of 3 children, and I’m only one that does all the chores. My parents just expect me to do it. My brother is a year younger than me, and my parents make me clean his room. Whenever I object to cleaning they take my phone and laptop for 2 weeks minimum. It’s so sexist and unfair. When I complain that I’m the only one that cleans they’d say “your sister is too young to clean” and when I ask about my brother they say “he’s a boy and he will have a wife to clean for him”. I’m like a modern day Cinderella and I’m not even exaggerating. I’m currently doing my GCSE’s which is a really big exam and they don’t let me go to the library. Because my parents are working, I’m practically their babysitter. I haven’t gone out with my friends in 6 months and I feel really trapped. At this point I feel like I’m not a human being. In fact, my friends have made an inside joke that I’m a ‘slave’ because I AM A FUCKING SLAVE. I am an A* student and I never get into any trouble but they are never satisfied with me. My brother is always getting into trouble at school, not turning up, shouting at my parents yet they are satisfied with him. They constantly buy him whatever he asks for. I’m here with an iPhone six (I’m not complaining I am extremely grateful) that is constantly lagging and barely works. HE HAS AN IPHONE X yo. I’ve asked them to buy me a new phone but apparently ‘I don’t need it. They treat me like I am gum on the bottom of their shoe. Ive gotten so suicidal to the point where I pray to die in my sleep or get run over. I was going to overdose until my little sister ran into my room to hug me which made me burst out crying. In two years when I turn 18 I’m leaving this fucking hell hole. I don’t see the point in living at this point 😔
Jennism cheer up 🤗💪💪be strong . Nothing last forever and it will be ok in the end and if it's not ok then it's not the end.( btw my situation is worse than yours so cheer up🤗)
Elizabeth Yumnam123 You’re so sweet ☺️ tysm
I wish you a lot of luck and be strong, whatever you are going through find the benefit in it, because all that is going in your life is an opportunity. Sometimes the satisfaction is a hard thing to reach but once you do, you will realize that the human being you actually are is the point of your life. I relate to her too, I am the forth out of seven kids, so sometimes it gets hard to do all the jobs, especially the outside jobs because we lived in the country side and at my teen ages all my siblings went to school in different cities but it helped me a lot I learned 2 languages and wrote one novel and two poetry books. (at the age of 17) I used to practice speaking while washing dishes and I used to come up with poetry while hanging out the laundry, or think what to write while working on the field. I was mad many times and all that, I used to cry a lot, but I saw many benefits in it. And at least it meant a lot to my parents, my dad used to say that I am the best kid out of seven, and now that he is gone makes me happy that he was happy and satisfied with me. And to all people with any concerns I want to tell you to not just witness your own pain but to use that to make you the great human. It is hard to feel like you are forced to anything especially in teen ages but once you become older, you will see how little the pain was, and that all that made you stronger than your siblings. Doing house work seems ridicules to complain in older age but for young kids it is actually very hard psychically more than physically. Himne!
Jennism I’m so sorry :( I really hope you get out of there as soon as possible and live your life as you want! I know you can do it!
im so sorry for what you've had to go through ❤️❤️ i hope you're doing well
First concern: I... I want to throw my shoes at him. I want to hug the woman and fetch the divorce papers myself because this man is honestly useless, I do not care if I am being harsh but I throw away trash, I can't recycle such nonsense. I am very angry at him.
Omg that last concern got me boiling inside like if I was her I would just stop doing everything and just clean what I use and what I need .
Im always happy of seeing that some familys got better after coming here. Even if they totally solve the problem, since this is reality, they at least open the counsel and make it easy to the people recognise they need help. :)
P.s: yeonja is life, she is bae. How good it feels when she is straigh forward XD
And the last concern was the last drop of estress over this ep. Wtfh! I just remember when i was younger and my mom dindt stop complaining about my work at home so i just let her come and tell me first before doing it so she could see im doing it and i give her the right to yell and complaint for not having a job done. I pity that girl, i know your pain girl. 7-7
43:11 I'm I the only one who literally couldn't stop laughing about Yoojung's hilarious reaction?
lmao since that moment you could tell that she was completely done with that guy XD
Oh nami is so funny of course she passed. I love her ❤️💕
1:47 I'm a fellow SM Stan 😊 Lee soo man oppa is so amazing
21:55 seola and her sincere opinion is just right i feel the same way hm
God like I can relate so much like started with exo but now I freaking stan all the sm groups...so relatable
waaaiit.. starting at around 36:25 is the korean word for "part-time Job" related to the German "Arbeit"?? anyone?
qwayne yes linguisticsyall.tumblr.com/post/49095683530/korean-has-the-german-loanword-arbeit-%EC%95%84%EB%A5%B4%EB%B0%94%EC%9D%B4%ED%8A%B8
Isa thats interesting thank u so much :)
qwayne I think it’s in many languages
I always think about that and I was almost sure there was some connection, but I was always bored to search to find out. Thank you people!
I always wondered about this too haha
Seola 💗💗
i love this show too much
Kim Youngchul oppa!!
I waited soo long
1:08:12 Why do all male high school students have that bowl cut? That's what some foreigners are trying to figure out! I know people in Korea tend to follow trends and stuff but that hairstyle is so, so common :O
KIM YOUNGCHUL!!! FEFTHN IM A HUGE FAN IM DIZZY!! HYPERVENTILATING XGNN OMG OMG OMG
Second concern: This isn't right at all. What he needs is to be taught a lesson and learn that life is no joke bc it isn't easy. I'm only 16 and I'm looking for a jobs so that I can save up money to buy materialistic thing like an iPhone. I just want to prove that I can work hard to get what I want. He should be responsible, mahn, come on.
Third concern: I relate to this except the part of physically fighting my older brothers and not having my mom. I understand that things are difficult for him but he should be considerate. My parents are always like this, they yell at me and treat me way different from my brothers. Things have been very hard for me. I have major exams at the end of the year and I always have to study, my personal life is falling apart, I haven't eaten for about a month due to stress, I barely sleep. My parents don't see my pain. I get that they work all the time and they are busy but what about me? They don't even listen to me, whenever I want to express myself, religion is always mentioned and I can't fight against the word of God. I can't do anything, I couldn't even pick my own subjects that I needed for the career that I want to pursue. They look down on me and have this image of me and I am the complete opposite. I hate the fact that I have to lie to them so that they don't hurt me verbally. It hurts, it hurts so bad that I'm crying while typing this. I love them so much but why can't they see how much their words hurt me, why don't they listen to me? I understand what it's like being misunderstood, that has been my whole life. I know I'm only 16 but my older brother is 20 and he's been going through the same thing too for his whole life. It hurts but I love them soooooo much.
Is there anyone else in your family you can tell all this to? Someone who will just help you, and not run to your parents? It's sad to say, but in situations like this, nothing will change until you move out on your own. Right now things seem 10x worse than they are because of your hormones, so please stay strong! When you're older you'll look back on these times as hard, but good lessons in emotional independence.
am so frustrated that they had to tell the last girl to call her bully brother "oppa" for him to be nice to her. And the first woman also was told to call her husband "honey" after all concerns she said.
Seola looks so pretty ❤️
How come that I’m always pretty early when I expect it the least
In the first concern when the woman said she had a miscarriage my heart broke and I broke out in tears I feel so bad for her
The brother/son from the last concern is on a terrible path. I can totally picture him turning into a woman-hating 4chan ilbe loser. The fact that he comes from a family of misogynists, lost his mom in his formative years, and beats his little sister says it all.
Where is the 4th MC ? I really miss him
Wow that first guy ugh 😕 doesn't help that I just literally came after watching minhwan and Yulhee with their son I just can't help but compare
That lady should divorce him and find someone who would treat her better 😡😡
Its not like being married to that guy is doing any good for her or her kids 😑
Alcohol is such a big problem in Korea
- The couple from the first concern will probably get a divorce, maybe not now, but later (sorry trying to be realistic). If the wife keeps on coping with everything she'll explode one day too because every person has a limit. That's why the husband has to change. He'll regret it for life once he loses them. He has two beautiful children and a caring wife there is no reason for him to be acting like this. I hope they figure out the situation immediately because the children are getting affected negatively.
- As for the second concern.. Ufffff... The guy needs to come back to his right mind. You're not 16, you're 37, so act like it bruh. It's true when the Arabic proverb says "when you're 40 you're at the prime of your youth" but that doesn't mean you can act like an immature teenager. People like him are what make me think 7 years of studying and suffering to become a medic is completely fine because after that period I'll have a stable job that I've worked hard for and I love. Once the mom is gone he'll regret it forever.
- The third concern is very close to home. As my dad and mom are divorced, I live with my mom and let me tell you I am thankful. If my dad got our custody, me and my sister would probably be in the girl's shoes. She does all the chores because she's a "girl" and she's the "oldest". It's heartbreaking that instead of teaching them how to cope with their mom's loss he is hurting them. I hope the dad stops discriminating between the children for many reasons. If he doesn't, the eldest daughter will be scarred forever (more than she already is) while the other two won't learn how to be responsible and will forever rely on others.
I'll be rooting for all three and hoping that the problems can be solved.
the dad in the first concern annoyed the hell out of me damn. especially when the mom said that he asked to sleep while she was having a miscarriage. honestly i can understand her pain even tho im still young cuz apparently my dad didnt even show up when my mom was giving birth to me. its honestly upsetting seeing moms and wives being treated like shit by their husbands and tbh i regret not being a better kid
In the First concern yongchul was talking about a friend who got divorced idk but I'm guessing he's either talking about Sangmin or seo janghoon . Idk maybe I'm wrong
Seola is so pretty
Okay wow that girl skipped Super Junior .... when she mentioned all the SM boy groups -.-"
Where is Chan-woo ???
t's already 1 year. do hello counselor visit them (first concern) ?
Where is episode 366 there are oh my Girl
9:53 she looks so much like seulgi
Can someone tell me why is Chanwoo missing in the last few episodes..?? :c
12:05
Taejoon's the best😂😂👏👏💕
let be honest here after watching this episode and at the ending who sang along with dreamcatcher song You and I lol
I'm sorry, but where is the video for episode 366... 😢
It not aired in youtube because Controversy, in ep 366 the first concern where the father too much affectionate with his 19 years old daughter that cause sexual harrasment
@@ericsetiady4928 oh I see~ thank you for enlightening me
Where’s ep 366 ??
Why kbs block the full show on my country
That league of legends commercial is very tempting lol
I do not believe that man changes
Who you hurt is always whom loves you. That is why NORMALLY people always feel sad after they make others feel sad. Just don’t understand why they are acting like that...I get so jealous when I saw that mom who paid everything for the son. I never dare to ask my parents to buy me anything that I will not use...it is supposed to be hard to earn money right?
11 ads? Okaaaay then
What happen to the other hello counselor guy? Why his not in it.
LizaRay Bruh hes sick so hes taking some time off
Seolaaaaaa
SeolA knows how to kill us 😌
EXOOOOOO!!! SHOUT OUT TO MA BABIES😘😘💕💕
Where is exo in this episode
The brother in the last concern was too full of himself!! How dare they look down on her when that small kid did soo much for them.. ungrateful men
love it
I just saw second concern and i saw what he drew........NO CAN'T BE WEB COMIC ARTIST....
he have to face the reality. web comic artist is not as easy as he thinking...
it doesn't matter which tool he use...he does not have any possibilty...
HE DOESN'T HAVE TALENT, HE DOESN'T HAVE SKILL, HE DOESN'T EVEN TRY HARD.
i working as a 2D artist and i have many friends who working as a web comic artist. he just underestimating our field.
what a jerk...
Where is chanu???
Indifinite hiatus
Omg the husband in the first concern is horrible *pretends to be shocked*
Hhhhhhiiiiii sarangehae
third concern, when you grown up just leave your selfish father. cut ties with him.
The husband in the first concern is simply far too immature to be a father. He's completely disinterested and see his wife and children as a burden. If he could walk away from the marriage, he absolutely would..........and he wouldn't regret it either.
1:20:20
kbs world :)
the guy in the second concern.... his pride is gonna get him nowhere.
'im too good for a part time job'
' im too professional to be taught' ffs it makes me angry
im not even gonna comment on the last one. i just cant
Ironically everyone who is mad about the gender biased in the third concern is biased themselves. We don't have enough information to judge atm. We don't know who is telling the truth, how many hours or what kind of work the father is going through. What the father said about girl doing chores is uncalled for, but the rest of the siblings has cram school but she probably didn't. We should hardly say anything about the third concern except there is too much lack of info and its tragic when the mother passed away.
gyeongsong should just rebel and stop! they'll realise how she was working when they see the difference! let'em clean after their own mess!
I hate 2nd concern, at the age 16 my parents stop giving money to me, i work hard for my life, i even gave money for my sister, and it's been 3 years i paid all cost of my family. I did it becoz i lovee my family. Sorry my poor english
고 박지선씨가 출연하는건 재방송금지해줬으면 감사하겠음!!!!!
i don't get this show . like i can just be like dad can you come with me on this show so i can complain about u ,, it just doesn't make anysense
1st cmmet