Troubled Woman Caught Engaging in 'Self-Service' Activity | Christina Revels-Glick Case Analysis
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She had so few connections that no one even noticed she was gone.
I knew someone who died alone in her apartment of pneumonia and she was found after only three days. To be dead and decomposing for a month and only found by your landlady...it hurts my heart to hear of such a tragic story.
Kind of symbolic of modern-day isolation.
This case breaks my heart.
Yes. It is so sad.
Very sad.
I saw the original video but knew very little about her. I just thought it was may be a one time thing and that she didn’t reallly think she was hurting anyone. The police treated her terribly, making jokes etc which I thought was out of line. Now realizing she needed help a long time prior to this beach incident. There was still a chance for help and I wish she’d gotten it.
It isn't sad or tragic unless you want it to be. It's nothing new since the dawn of the human species. It is just how it is. It's up to you how you process it. Every human dies alone. Every human lives alone too, meaing we can never really truly know one another. I'm not trying to be negative. Just real. Death is as real as it gets. No more arguing, negotiating or excuses. Also alone is NOT lonely. That's up to each mind to decide for itself up until your consciousness fades and each of us are gone, but the body's autonomic nervous system is still ticking. Who exactly, do you think you will be facing death with? It's just our self, and our certain death. It's simple. Humans are mortals. No batteries required. No other human required. I've seen it in the sick, my parents who died long ago, and witnessing those who died in the field during my tenure in law enforcement and search and rescue volunteer. And I will experience it soon too, because I have a certain post viral syndrome no one wants to talk about anymore, that rhymes with schmlong schmovid. The person just isn't there in the final moments, however long or short those final moments are. It isn't tragic unless you make it so. It's just the end of life. BTW hospice people are the best. Amazing. Use them. ;)
Honestly, her fate terrifies me.
I am a very introverted person, both because of my personality and because I was so badly bullied and abused as a child that I isolated to protect myself. As a result, I am socially stunted and it's very hard for me to interact with others because I'm always on guard.
Nobody invites me out for parties or asks if I want to get coffee. Nobody asks if I'm doing okay. There's some days when nobody says "hello" to me. When I do interact, I'm the one who initiates contact, who asks people how they are and how their lives are going. Nobody ever asks me those things.
I'm terrified that I'm going to die suddenly and nobody is going to notice or even care.
Same here. I live alone and don't have any close friends. No family either...
There are people that do care and would want to help you, but you have to make that first step by reaching out, even though it will be difficult, the results will be worth it. I wish you well.
@@cementshoes1425 She says in her comment she does that.
just remember: if many of the 'others' you are exposed to are a**holes, then you are behaving very normally. if you are around normal people then the issue might be yours.
This used to be the primary reason ppl got married lol
Funny because it's partly true.
R.i.p. young lady, you didn't deserve to be humiliated like that on social media.
I agree!
Would you feel the same if this had been a man and he had been “self servicing” in the public and a family has seen it?
I imagine you wouldn’t.
but if it was a MAN.... then that would be a different story, right? lol She was a freak and pervert
You would not say the same if it waa a man doing that in public. You'd want him locked up in the interest of public safety.
@LittleBlueOwl318 she took her own life. I don't know why you can't understand this. That's the part that is sad. I'm sure her family would prefer her to be alive in prison.
How can someone be dead in an apartment completely undiscovered for a whole month?!? Sad cuz she had no one in her life who cared for her 💔
The smell alone had to raise suspicions to neighbors
There was a person on our local news last year who had been discovered after being dead for almost 5 years, so sad.
that's not a coincidence. This is clearly somebody who pushed away her entire support system because she was consistently hopeless. Probably borderline or something like that.
@@ccrgrl 😲
@@everydaybodybuilding2282agreed. Her behavior is indicative of BPD.
What I find disturbing is the fact that her interaction with the police was videotaped (body cam) and then put on social media for the world to ridicule her. That’s very disturbing.
if you don’t wanna be ridiculed, then don’t do ridiculous things like masturbate in public.
The entire country is disturbing.
Flip the tables and see what happens with your sympathy. Smh.
Face should've been blurred at least
my thought as well, what she did was immoral but not deeply criminal, why post that in the internet?
Remember Christopher Porco? Killed his dad, John with an axe. The poor man walked all over, tried to fill the dishwasher, even got the paper from outside, all with severe axe wounds to his head.
I was totally thinking of that case! So strange.
@@RachaelHume-ok5cw and the mom stands by him 🤷♀️
Oh yeah!
He even got dressed for work and had gone into the bathroom and shaved! With half his face/head missing!
I think he even made his lunch
What a sad ending for this troubled woman. No family or friends to even notice her absence.
I’m sure she refused help. It’s not like she was stable
Her substance abuse caused her family to distance themselves from her a long time ago
it's strange because she wasn't a bad-looking woman either, no doubt she had mental issues though.
@@adotintheshark4848 And she had great knockers
@@jwill5892bro, don’t say out loud what everyone is thinking 😂😂😂
The number of people in the comment section joking about her ending her life is disturbing.
Right? Psychopaths.
A lot of trolls and dummies follow this channel, unfortunately.
Unfortunately, this is the disturbing and pathetic world we live in.
A number of trolls and other problematic people often show up in these videos, depending on the subject.
It is unsettling, to say the least. I often handle bad situations and stress with humor and sarcasm, but even I can't joke about a young woman shuffling herself off of this mortal coil. It's sad; there's nothing remotely humorous about it. This coming from the guy that cracked jokes when the doctors diagnosed him with a malignant brain tumor!
When I sat down with the radiation oncologists to talk about treating the tumor with Gamma radiation, I actually asked if they could really turn it up to give me super powers, like the Hulk! (The doctors' names were, I sh*t you not, Dr. Parker and Dr. Banner - Marvel fans should appreciate that). But, again, there's nothing funny about the end of Christna's story!
I don't think it right to talk about this woman like a dog! She passed away and you should have respect for the dead. She was not a perfect person. She was obviously lonely, isolated and broken. Its clear she didn't have a lot of guidance in her life. I hope she found rest and peace finally. 💔
Not a perfect person? THAT was a wild and highly inappropriate behavior near anyone much less children with their family.
@@TheLoveweaver : Nobody's disputing that, ma'am! Of course WE wouldn't do that but we don't know how she was raised; some kids are left to themselves so much they become amoral. She was clearly making bad decisions but her entire life was like that.
@@blackitikatt533
I agree with you, and her face should've been blocked out in the police body cam 🙏
@@themechanic7625 Why? She was an adult and deliberately created the incident.
I wonder if Doctor Grande ever gets an argument with his wife and he says "this is just a theory, my opinion!"😂😂😂
Or "I'm only speculating..."
“on a situation like ours…”
I wonder what all of you guys would be saying if it was a grown man who was doing s*** stuff in public
I’d like to think this is the case 😂😂
@@malasi888 wtf does your comment have to do with anything any of us was saying. We’re talking about Dr Grande and not talking about this woman at all lmao
She was only discovered because her rent was due. Imagine if she'd had it on autopay. It speaks volumes that no one cared enough to look for her. May it be a cautionary tale.
She is a bad person obviously
Look up Joyce carol Vincent
@@mahinkhan3708 Like a lot of people are saying take the "wo" off woman and perform those same acts in public and see how good of a person they claim (s)he is then.
@@agrojestasleezypmartini9538correct
Definitely a cautionary tale. Like, 😳.
That's someone's daughter and someone's mother gone. As terrible as she was for having accountability, it's pretty tragic.
It's always "someone's daughter" but never someone's son.
I remember when this case happened. Truly a lot of lost, troubled souls in this world. I know it's easy to jump to harsh criticism and judgment of people like her but choose compassion. RIP Christina.
Couldn't agree more. This is a blessed comment.
YOURE A BOT 😂
@@internzikoit’s a robot dude 😅
@@kateapple1 Is compassion such a rare thing in the world that if someone makes a post about it then they must not be for real? Well I assure you I am entirely real and not a "bot".
Reminds me of the lady recently putting her knickers on thr supermarket in Spain.
The fact that people are still joking about her circumstances shows how digusting we are as a society. No empathy, no sympathy, no humanity.
Why? She was a hedonist. Didn't care about anything but her next get up.
@@redditors_are_fggits9607 Okay and God still created her. You say redditors are fggits but even the fedora wearing redditors can at least muster up some empathy, you have none.
@@johnhawthorn5393 how many times have you been punched ? I'm sure you lost track 🤯
I wonder what people would say if the genders were reversed.
Same people who Paz Israel to slaughter unarmed families in their homes. USA is sick.
Even though I feel bad for her I do think it was appropriate to arrest her, I’m pretty sure there would be no pitty for a man being arrested for public masturbation.
It’s just a shame the body cam footage came out the internet is such a toxic place
Her behavior was disgusting and I don't think she cared
@@nancydupuis8083I used to live in a let’s say interesting suburb. A man who masturbated in public would just get warned.
@@cleogrove9334it has hasppend to creepyen many times i do t see the f
Difference
"... there would be no pity for a man" - you're right - it's promoted! FOLSOM STREET FAIR
It’s sad. Lots of people get depressed but some don’t have family to support them
Or they have family who don't.....
Sounds to me like she was intentionally running from her family. They may have had no clue where she was because she didn't want them interfering in her "fun life".
You're such a hypocrite. EVERYONE in the comments is a hypocrite. If a man was j**** himself off in public, would anyone feel sympathy???
@@HunkumSpunkum.. which is worse. Than having no family at all.
Why don't you support them if you care so much?
Rest In Peace to this woman. Lord Jesus Christ. She didn’t deserve this. She was a human being.
❤AMEN ❤
I couldn't agree more. How sad.
Animals deserve peace and love too. Yes she was a sentient being.
Indeed, and she certainly didn't deserve Dr Grande exposing her to the level of detail that he did. He's no gentleman that's for sure.
@@outoforbit00 yeah. That's really peculiar. She certainly didn't deserve to have someone dance on her grave.
I don’t call doing a sex act in front of minor children in a public place “a small thing.” How many men have been arrested and forced to register for online chatting a 50 year old undercover police officer pretending to be a sixteen year old. This is about 100X worse than that, she needed to be registered as someone who was not safe to be alone with kids.
Correct!
Can you explain why the Folsom Street Fair is legal? It's in front of children. No one will answer.
@@BabyShark-kd9jlI don’t think it’s in front of children. I’m pretty sure you need to be a legal aged adult to enter the street fair. It’s also tightly controlled by security.
@@VictorNieves-o3o yes the real perverts can do no wrong and awoman with natural urges gets harrased
@@paulx3827 First off, both are natural urges, and you didn’t address what I said at all. The Folsom fair is a private 18+ event with security, it’s not public and you can’t just walk into it. This woman deliberately exposed herself to a family. They’re not remotely the same thing.
I don’t know Dr Grande. 8 months isn’t that long to get over a cringe moment. I’m still trying to get over my teenage years 😂
Facts. 36 years old and sometimes in the middles of the night I cringe at something that happened in middle or high school. Sometimes it can feel like it was just yesterday.
Exactly. I had a really rough moment about 6 years ago that I still talk to a therapist about. Eight months can feel like a couple of weeks depending on how old you are, too. Not to mention, we all process "trauma" differently.
I'd be curious to know when the body cams were released online in comparison to her death. I remember this video going viral
@@keke4x You bring up an excellent point. I did a little research, and the arrest was July 1, 2021, but the first time it was published for public viewing was August 27, 2021. Basically, two months later, and The Smoking Gun was who released it.
8 months is the perfect amount of time for an alcoholic and drug fueled downward spiral, IMO. She was probably trying to get over it but daily alcohol abuse can keep you in that spot.
Yeah, this is no joke. Isolation is not a joke. What leads people to be like that is also not a joke.
Why did she divorce her Husband
@@jeromeisaacs4428he joked which is no joke
@@jeremyrogers4839 Who do you think she left her sex toy collection to?...
Sorry to burst your bubble but you are not the joke police.
How disgusting to ridicule someone that had mental health issues and was clearly very lonely.
I’m surprised people are so certain her self-service episode was the reason she brought an end to her life all those months later. She deliberately sought out a family with kids, on an otherwise completely empty beach, to plonk herself down next to and "go to town" on herself with a sex toy. Her intention was to shock, embarrass and traumatise a young family, which she achieved. Would someone like that _REALLY_ give the incident a second thought? I think not.
She had to give it a second thought. She was facing several charges that required her to have to go to court. If she were to be found guilty of the indecent exposure charge that could potentially get her a sex offender designation. With all of her ongoing life problems, having to grapple with that possibility was probably too much. The stress of contemplating that for months on top of everything else is likely why she killed herself.
Traumatized? That's a joke. And there's o reason this video needed to be publicized.
Really Karen? Is that what you think? You sound jaxinated.
@@ryanjacobson2508 Glad to know that you’re ok with sex acts being performed in front of your children.
@@ryanjacobson2508Arrests are public info, as they should be.
My heart goes out to this woman, who suffered in ways none of us will understand. May she rest in peace ❤
If this was a man would you feel the same way?
@@chrisvandusen5957 Yeah!!!!!
@@evonne315 🙄
@@chrisvandusen5957 no they wouldn’t, they would call him a paedophile and would want him hung from the highest tree. I laughed when the Dr. suggested maybe she should’ve received a warning and told not to come back to the beach. Do you think they would do that with a male?
@@chrisvandusen5957Probably not. Happens every five minutes in the US.
Clearly she was a troubled woman who needed help. It's incredibly sad that she came to such an horrific end. I hope her two children are doing alright.
It was a touchingly sad story
she was a damn junkie and party girl smh boo hoo
Uhhh, probably not
The ones who say others are troubled, are likely to be troubled themselves, is what I've learned personally when people project comments.
But let it be a guy doing that, I bet your reaction would be different
I'm gonna take exception here. If a man were to 'self service' in public, seemingly in deliberate full view of a family no less, people would be saying lock him up and throw away the key. Grossly indecent behaviour should not get a pass just because the perpetrator happens to be female.
Let's be real, a man would have to expose himself or do a a very notorious motion, while a woman or anyone with a v*gina could do this without a motion or exposing themslves. It's drastically different. Whoever called the cops of her was able to recall the color of the toy, they were deliberately spying and following her.
Exactly, quite hypocritical.
But she was arrested...
@@moniqueloomis9772 I was referring specifically to Dr Grande’s minimising her behaviour due to her various struggles, which are noteworthy of course, but also largely self inflicted in my view. In any event, none of that can excuse this kind of disgraceful behaviour.
So I say again, she shouldn’t get a pass just because she’s going through a rough time while female.
Females always get an easy ride. Males are continually discriminated against in matters of law...
“Unstable, alone and forgotten”. How incredibly sad.
They do this intentionally to people.
@@MarkSven888Explain
That’s what OF is for-gives a confidence boost
Neighbors heard a loud fight and never saw or heard her again. They just went on about their lives while she decomposed for 30 days. Thanx neighbor.
to be fair it's quite normal in the current day to never see or hear your neighbours
It's bizarre that neighbors didn't smell the decomposition.
@@BabyShark-kd9jlyes, but as neighbors maybe they knew that was not uncommon.
I always try to be nice to my neighbors for this very same reason.
@@btimbyindy so true they were probably use to noises coming from her apartment but still no one smelt her decomposing body.
Really? "Being arrested for such a small offense seems unnecessary,"??? You kidding me? She exposed herself and performed a sex act in public. What if kids saw her? Disgusting! The arrest was completely necessary.
Best believe if it was a guy he'd have the book thrown at him. Even if only a couple adults saw him. It's not the crime of the century by any means but should be placed on the registry if only temporarily.
Mental illness can be incredibly isolating.
Because people choose...CHOOSE to not understand or support. There's no excuse.
@@TomTheOwl68You should show us the way then.
Not for the DNC.
I can see how a gunshot wound of that nature, passing through the palate and on through the frontal lobe, would not be immediately fatal, especially if from a small pistol caliber.
She likely would've been blinded instantly, bleeding profusely into her own mouth and out of her forehead, and utterly stunned and terrified.
My God... How truly horrible. 😢
Also, unconscious.
Why did you think and write this horror?
That's likely what happened, as truly awful as it is.
@@AmonAnon-vw3hr , not necessarily. Consciousness is in the cerebral cortex, but her conscious memory might have been disabled. I hope for her sake it was.
@@kcbh24, to hopefully give a second thought to anyone considering doing the same. It is not a guaranteed instant and painless way to go.
Sometimes fear and adrenaline cause people to flinch at the last possible millisecond. Sometimes bullets go rogue and do unexpected things once they start bouncing off of hard tissue and bone. Maybe the bullet exits an eardrum.
There was a documentary film titled "The Bridge" that was about jumpers off the Golden Gate Bridge. The filmmakers set up static cameras around the GG Bridge for like a period of one month or so- I can't remember exactly.
They recorded actual jumpers, around 12 or so, in that period of time. All but one of them flailed their arms violently as though trying to reverse their decision and fly to safety after realizing the reality of what they had committed to.
One amazing young man, who miraculously survived his jump off the bridge, said that he took a running jump at the railing, planted his hand on the railing to get him up and over it, and the instant he was over the other side and his hand left the railing, he said "I knew immediately that I didn't actually want to do it, but it was too late.".
How did the neighbors hear a supposed altercation in Christina’s apartment, but not the gun shot?
Uhhh....maybe they werent home?
Small caliber round?
Or the smell after that.
@@RollingThunder808She supposedly was "living in squalor." Maybe the place always smelled terrible
@RollingThunder808 I once lived in a flat, and the man in the flat below mine died and went undiscovered for a while. There was no smell outside his flat until it was opened up. After that, it was truly the worst smell I've ever experienced, but beforehand you'd never have known.
As a teen, adults would say- drugs will take you where you don’t want to go. I didn’t understand then. How incredibly sad.
... They'll make you want what you don't want
You probably didn't understand because this type of advice just sucks standing by itself. Parents seriously have to stop demonizing drugs and start to explain to their children how exactly they can harm you. This panic strategy only works if they manage to generate an unhealthy irrational fear of drugs so they don't even use them. Fear imo generally is a bad motivator because of how quickly it can affect different aspects in your life. I remember me realizing at about 15 years old that the demonization of drugs is massively overblown and I essentially had to come to my own conclusions. Surprise, surprise, I as a 15 year old couldn't fully comprehend the risks even after reading them on the Internet.
But that's unfortunately the world we live in, Police officers come to our schools to "teach" about drugs but can't even win a debate about drugs against stoned 15 year olds. How are these people supposed to help when they don't even know what they are teaching?
@@mymaster1402or you’ll get what you want but not want what you get…
Working as a clothing challenged dancer. The nicest way to say stripper I ever heard.
@@JenaEmeraldHe always uses that stupid term.
It does happen that people die at home and aren't found for a very long time. Some guy in Long Island died watching tv and wasn't found for a year. "when workers were summoned to his house last week after a report that freezing temperatures had caused the home's pipes to burst, they found Ricardo's mummified body still sitting on the couch, the TV still on."
Oh my god that’s awful! Dang
binge watching gone wrong
same with that woman in england who wasntt found for 3 yearss, TV still on. Rent was on auto pay.
Who was paying his electric and cable bill? With the TV still on.
@@timmartin7664 Autopay. Social Security check direct deposited into checking, utility bills autopaid out of that. Saved a lot of money on gas, hot water, air conditioning, etc...
Are we still humiliating this poor woman who paid the ultimate price?
"Christina loved spending time at thw beach, but the foundation of her life was built on sand." This man is a poet.
❤
Oddly enough, people cannot consciously choose anything about themselves
@@troy3456789 what an odd statement
@@troy3456789You cannot choose certain things but you can change behavior. Many people do this by going to therapy or taking medication.
If the genders were reversed and Christina was Chris, imagine it was a man j**rking off in public, would you guys feel sorry for him??
I’m not convinced that the incident wasn’t weighing heavy on her mind still. Eight months is a long time, but an episode like that can impact you for years or even a lifetime. The embarrassment and shame is profound. The incident may not have been the main reason behind the decision to end her life, but I believe it greatly influenced it. The fallout of that moment shattered her sense of self and place in this world. Even if the internet moved on from her story, she was the one who went to sleep at night ruminating on all the ways she fucked up and how she can’t undo any of it.
She was still waiting for it to go to court when she died :(
I completely agree with you. I'm surprised that Dr. Grande doesn't think that the embarrassment would last. The internet never forgets and if it's something very juicy like a large breast ed sexually prime age white woman doing something disturbing like that, it gets extra attention and I'm sure all of her neighbors and prospective employers could easily Google who she was. I wonder what her credit card debt was at the time of her death
@@decimated550 he thinks the embarrassment couldn’t last because she cared very little about being embarrassed on the day of the indcident if you watch the portion of the video where he details her location on the beach in proximity to the family, she was ridiculously close to them
Assuming that she was stripper as rumored, then I doubt what happened would really be that embarrassing to her
@@decimated550 I think what he meant was that her personality type/behaviour was such that she was probably on to the next drama etc. But one way or another she obviously had real issues.
Why do some people do their embarrassingly personal activities publicly in the first place anyway 🙄🤦♂️🤦♀️🤦♂️🤦♀️
Exhibitionists
If you've ever been on a dating site reading bio's
Just about every woman lists public sx encounters as a turn on / interest.
She's dead bro, this humiliated her, and she probably was a decent person. She dies broken, sad, and alone, please let her rest in peace.
Decent? She jacked off in front of families with kids, even brought a adult toy to rub herself with in full view of kids. She stole a car, stole property, didn't pay her rent, destroyed other peoples property, served time in prison, repeated arrests, and her family described her as wild and out of control and wanted nothing to do with her. Where's the "decent person"? Or is it because she's a attractive woman, and therefore your bias is kicking in? Had all of the above been attributed to a male, you'd be saying to lock him up, and call him a bum, a drunk, and possibly a predator. Female privilege is real....
Most men die, broken, sad and alone
Stealing a car, abusing alcohol and substances, touching herself in public. Yeah she must be an outstanding citizen.
@@mcd.03so, what your hate coming from?
@@DirtyLifeLovenot hate. Facts
4:20 The angle of the bullet described wouldn't be an instant shutdown. Plenty of people actually survive similar brain injury. The evidence of her suffering before lights out is rough.
She most probably didn’t suffer at all. Your body goes into a serious shock and pumps you full of adrenaline, you can’t feel any pain or anything until you pass out from blood loss
@@frankthetank8050 She probably pulled the trigger. Hears a "pop" and the "Tiiiiiiiiiii" of the shoot. Went to the bathroom to check and then collapses on the hallway.
@@frankthetank8050well I highly doubt it was a pleasant experience.
Anyway, the details about the bathroom are the worse for me, the fact that she was up and moving around and was in front of a mirror. How horrific, I won’t be able to forget this for a while
@@frankthetank8050nah, she definitely did. my friend shot himself in the head with a .38 special and woke up in the shower with a hole in his head (put the gun to his temple). she most likely lost consciousness for a brief second, got up and tried to do something, looked in the mirror (blood was found in there) before stumbling around then loosing consciousness for good.
@@frankthetank8050 you know this from experience?....yeah, you don't know
I think Christina would be heartened by the sympathy, empathy and genuine feelings of sadness for her. In reality, we are none of us truly alone, there are always people out there who feel as we do, we just have to find them - if we are able.
The police have to arrest people who expose themselves and engage in obscene acts in public. If it had been a man, there would be no question that he would be arrested.
While I feel sorry her life was a mess, this type of behavior on a public beach just feet from witnesses cannot be ignored.
A Toronto Blue Jay catcher was arrested for masturbating in public when he was in Dunedin for spring training.
Reese McGuire.
But I think she had her swimsuit over top so it might have just looked like she was scratching herself. I scratched my butt cheek in public once so I'm not going to judge her.
@@spivackl I replied to your comment talking about a baseball player that was caught and the monitor deleted it.
Nothing graphic or obscene.
@@BillAngler She did admit to what she did on the beach.
While it's a very sad story, she had a son, had at least an ex-husband, and family who probably tried to help her throughout her life, but at some point addicts get cut off from those who love them and there's not much than can be done until the _addict_ wants to get help. In this case, time ran out.
She might not have needed help for addiction but only for other things like perhaps mental health problems.
She had two kids.
A whole lot of assumption there, don't you think?
Idk man, when it comes to addicts it's usually mental issues that make you gravitate to drugs to numb the pain but of course it just exacerbates it. Only until your life gets really messed up or you go to jail to detox
@@Kai...999 Many of the drugs can actually treat the problem but it can become an issue if the person just keeps increasing and increasing the dose or if the person runs out of the drugs and then goes through withdrawal.For example, SSRIs are drugs and they can help some people with mental health issues and so can propranolol. Opioids which are considered a terrible thing actually treat some people's mental health issues and help make them better.
I respect the police and all, but this was totally unjustified. going after a woman for doing something innapropriate, not affecting anyone else, while cities are being run by real criminals. and then uploading online for the whole world to see??
Man... i laughed at that original police video, I had no idea she ended her life. Im sure the online humiliation played a pretty major role.
This isn’t funny. Pray for her. It’s sad.
She did end her own life, sadly. But it happened before the video of her arrest or the details were ever widely known by the public. So that part had nothing to do with it. According to her family she was troubled with alcohol and drugs.
Definitely and now there’s this video
@@user-mh5xq3ik9u prayers have no use.
"pretty major role"
Understatement of the century right there. She would absolutely still be alive if it were not for people harassing the crap out of her. She got caught doing this, and it got out very quickly. People saying that no one knew about it are just lying. News travels fast. She couldn't take the embarrassment and she killed herself. People trying to explain otherwise are not that bright at all or do not have the absolute story correctly.
How anybody can make light of this situation is beyond me. May that poor lady rest in peace.
I’m a trucker on the highway almost everyday. I’ve seen women having active with themselves while driving next to me. Many time encouraging me to watch
People are so weird. I'll bet you've seen alot
Yeah right
BS
This charge she got is no laughing matter. I know of a woman who was doing that in her car at night in an empty parking lot. A cop walked up to her car and saw what she was doing, arrested her and now she's on a registered sex offender's list for life.
And yet, Epstein’s client are walking free.
Good. Protect the kids from these perverts.
@@importantvideos4529you are overheating - calm down
Parents, protect your kids- don't let them hang out in empty parking lots at night.
Gosh, can’t people have private time.😂
What a sad story. It was right to arrest her for the beach incident, as no man could ever get away with that behavior, but I’ll definitely say a prayer for this one’s soul. 😢
She chose to do that in front of a family and make eye contact with them while she did it. I feel bad for any children who had to witness it. She should be treated just like a man would be.
There is a very good documentary film called "Dreams of a Life" about a woman called Joyce Vincent who lay dead in her north London home for over two years before her body was found. Joyce had been successful and was gregarious by nature, but she estranged herself from her friends and family who went looking for her, but only had her previous address. There's a lot of mystery about what actually happened, but I don't think foul play has ever been suspected.
I watched that documentary! It’s so sad.
She worked at the same place as my aunt, my aunt didn't remember her.
Who was it that said that 'most people lead lives of quiet desperation?' I cannot imagine the chaotic and relentless state of her mind.
The British.
Thoreau
@@joziewales1965 Ah...yes...thank you.
Who was it that said "life's a b**ch and then ya die'?
@@skepticusmaximus184 George Carlin - but then he did not use the b word. He said that life is tough and then you die.
Which is not incorrect, because for most of the humans on this planet, life is tougher than we North Americans or Europeans can imagine.
This is what happens when you can’t take responsibility for your actions.
Oh my gosh! I was not expecting to hear that she was dead! I watched this video out of curiosity because I had vaguely recalled seeing a video done previously by Dr G on this person, and was wondering why he was doing another one. I’m speechless…RIP young lady 🙏
Ever wonder why Dr. Grande's channel is such a success? I mean, 1.5 million subscribers - all with just a small room, a desk and a Go Pro video camera? That's an achievement! Here's why: because in vignettes like this he is telling the truth about America.
No, it's because it's sensationalism and speculation. And THAT'S the truth about America.
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I thought it was because of his snappy wardrobe
@@discospiders& his dry sense of humor! 🤷♀️
About the world! I'm sure the only reason he doesn't do cases from non-english speaking countries is because the research would be double as hard with the language barrier
6:10 😂😂 Dr. Grande, you never cease to amaze me.
I dated such a woman many years ago. One night she called me to say goodbye and that she was walking into the night surf and not returning. I had no idea where she was. It turned out to be attention seeking . I called the police regardless and managed to convince her to go to hospital involving her brother too who I did not know. Even to continue this story ( which I won't) disturbs me today. Point being....when a woman behaves like your case study one can only hope that smart police get involved . An amoeba in uniform should be able to pick up that her behavior required psychiatric evaluation. Such a sad sad sad situation. 😢😢😢
😢😢😢must have free mental evaluation services.
Yup, I knew someone like that. She was eventually diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. But not before she had burnt so many bridges.
@@Patricksstealthvanlife thanks for displaying some decent compassion.
I remember reading about this case back when it happened, I was depressed for days after. What a sad life, definitely untreated psychiatric disorder.
Not their job to heal her.
Obviously this woman made a mistake but I don't agree with all that came her way. Sometimes the time doesn't fit the crime and the worst thing in this case is the fact that it was shown all over the internet. So not only do you have to pay as far as the law goes but you have to pay as far as public opinion goes. And much much more. In many ways ruining your life due to it being on the internet forever. In the old days you served your time and it was finished with. You moved on the best you could. Not every person that gets arrested has to deal with this. Only the cases that will please the public, as disgusting as it is. I have been arrested for worse things and never shown up on here. That only proves my point. We like to sensationalize things and put people that make mistakes in the public eye, dead center. Even good people make mistakes. It doesn't mean they deserve to have their life destroyed for it. I am sorry, but it's disgusting what we have become.
the only person to blame is herself. that incident on the beach was just 1 incident of many "mistakes".
@@emmapeel8163I'm not saying she shouldn't be held accountable. What I'm saying here is that many people commit much worse crimes than diddling themselves and are not broadcasted all over the internet. She got horny and she did something stupid. Big deal. I have gotten into fights and was charged with assault ffs. A much worse crime and I am not plastered all over the internet. I think the fact that she is attractive and it is of a sexual nature just may be a reason she happens to be paraded all over the place. So you missed the point entirely. Accountability, yes. Ruining someone's life via the internet versus the old days of just simply paying for your crime so u are squared and then doing the best you can to rectify it, those days are long gone. Now you make a mistake and the internet absolutely destroys you for it, making work etc almost impossible. Which is a good reason to return to crime. People have to feed themselves. Making it impossible to do this only makes things worse. The fact that the cops can release these videos without repercussion is astounding. Comical for everyone, yes. But releasing them to the public is an absolute joke. Like everyone needs to see this. Accountability has been achieved by serving jail time and paying fines. Taking it to the next level, deplorable. Open your eyes.
Amen! Shame on Humanity and Law Enforcement for the inappropriate reckless lack of empathy instead of attempting getting help for her. This is imo an epidemic that just continues to proliferate and ignore human beings suffering and struggling with mental illness and drug addiction.
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If that were a man who did that on the beach, they'd most certainly be registered. I do agree the public shaming may not have been necessary, however, I also agree with Dr. G, in that this specific incident probably had very little or nothing to do with her death.
@@emmapeel8163So, in your eyes, she deserved to be humiliated all over the internet, nationwide, worldwide?
Not in my eyes...
Stories like these make me thankful for my family. Not everyone is blessed to have a supportive circle around them. Check on your neighbors y'all. Especially the ones that live alone. You don't have to be best friends, but a smile and a wave or offering some food goes a long way.
I don't think it's terribly surprising that she was alive for a bit after the gunshot wound. The entry wound was on her chin and the exit wound in the forehead. That means the bullet probably destroyed her face but didn't actually go through the middle of the brain. Some people survive self inflicted gunshot wounds because they damage their face severely but leave their brain mostly intact.
The prefrontal cortex is not as necessary for basic survival. That's the bit people used to drill holes into to fix behavioural issues. She lobotomized herself.
So many people saying she needed help and didn’t need to be humiliated, that this shouldn’t have been posted. Yet no one would be saying this if a man was j@cking off in front of your kids. The same should apply here.
Humiliating her when we first heard of her arrest is expected but mocking and joking about her end of life is just sick.
@@Alex-sr3ezkeep that same energy for men. Bet you don't look at it the same way.
The fact she felt entitled to do this, I think is Symptomatic of a dangerous blurring of sexual boundaries. It gives the impression there is an idea of doing no wrong. Just simply empowered. Might have to discuss this maybe being dangerously more common that first thought.
@@DEadJACK4090 absolutely I keep that same energy for men.
I agree. Bunch of hypocrites…
Due to the sensitive nature of this event, a thumbnail of her portrait would have been lovely, instead of a thumbnail of her in one of lowest points in her life.
I agree but to be fair, that's the same thumbnail as the original video I saw of it on UA-cam... it's the recognizable image sadly.
Sure. That is never extended to men in the same circumstance.
Alcohol and drug abuse leads to trouble and tragedy.
I hope her sons are okay.
They didn’t even check on her
I found myself bewildered and chuckling at first. Man, to die alone with no friends or family to discover you and nobody to lean on is one of my worst fears.
Welcome to a life involving drugs.
Amen; sad story
Elvis also loved a life of drug abuse and also died alone.
Appreciate the compassionate perspective Dr. Grande.
I can definitely see the embarrassment building over those 8 months. But the substance abuse is probably what lead to her death. It is incredibly sad that no one checked on her over those weeks.
She needed help, not humiliation 😢
She literally exposed herself to children! She needed more than just humiliation. Sad what ended up happening to her, but what she did was still unacceptable.
She's disgusting
@@Timefortracy Agreed. She absolutely did deserve to be arrested and put on a sex offender registry. Such behavior has to be stamped out. Examples have to be made.
Would you say the same thing if a man did what she did at the beach in front of children?
@@lilyw.719 Medieval mindset.
I really don't think exhibitionism is rare in women. It's just that prosecutions for that behavior is rare for women. Everyone usually just looks the other way because society has different standards.
It wasn’t necessary to arrest her you said. What if a man had been doing similar things on a public beach?
Yes, what if? Who would be the victim in such an incident?
Let's face it, a man would be treated like a filthy, disgusting pervert ... and rightfully so. This woman SHOULD have been treated the same. Male or female, you cannot sit down on a beach and masturbate in broad daylight in front of children. She had difficult problems, I get it - but let the judge take that into consideration for sentencing.
Exactly. Nobody would be crying of his death but because she was a woman, she gets special treatment after being a degenerate in front of kids… 🙄🤦🏻♀️
But that didn’t happen in this case. Christina was arrested, not a man.
A man had his balls out during the opening ceremony of the Olympics. Celebraties have their nips and behinds on full display at awards shows. Where is the line drawn?
I am so grateful I was born with a stable personality. Some people have a very hard life.
Would you say the same thing if it was a man doing that? I doubt it.
Thank God for your blessings.
If you get humiliated online, your stability will go for a toss as well. You are not holier ("better") than her.
@@JamieLedweather A man doing what? It was wrong, and in public, but she was not openly trying to show people. She got caught. A man getting caught doing the same thing is not any more disturbing, its just a wrong thing to do. They all know it, they risk it. It still has NOTHING of value to say what you say when discussing if she had mental issues. Its not just the doing what she did, but the act of taking her own life shows she is actually a person who was in distress, whether in the exact moment or not. A man in distress is not any less of a thing, whether doing something wrong or not, as you seem to be implying.
@@jf8138 they are both absolutely disgusting. So is the double standard between men and women. I'm a woman, and if I did this I would expect to be treated as a man like I should be, not feel bad for me because I had a "hard life"
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What she did was gross. But i genuinely believe it wasnt "disturbed" gross or malicious gross. Just gross. But she 100% did not deserve to be humiliated globally to this point of true despair.
These videos are always good and we aren’t speculating.
I am always speculating about people whose English makes them look weird.
@@Flamsterette I diagnose you with Covid 24
@@Big_Theft_Auto Weirdo.
Who is “we”?
@@Flamsterette Out of the world’s approximately 7.8 billion inhabitants, 1.35 billion speak English. The majority aren’t native English speakers, however. About 360 million people speak English as their first language. So now that you know that, please stfu!
She was very troubled (sick) and was reaching out in her way for help. It saddens me that our world has become so cold and incompassionate that we condemn a sick helpless women instead of trying to understand her problem and pain in order to help her overcome her suffering.
I hope you all sleep well tonight and every night.
If she sat so close, that the complainant could identify the color of the sex toy, then that was deliberate or careless.
Either way, I agree with the arrest. When I first heard the story, I thought she had sought out a fairly isolated place, and then someone stumbled upon her.
Nobody wants to see that, especially if they have kids.
Well a lot of people
Want to see that , let’s not be hypocritical her as humans
@@tristan583 no, nobody wants to see that on a family or nature outing.
People who want to watch women playing with themselves, have the Internet or escort services.
Let’s not be obtuse.
@@tristan583Weird!
I believe whoever called the police to have malicious intent, they were probably spying on her
I’d like to see it.
This is a sad story. She really needed help.
It's heartbreaking. Idk why they release the bodycam footage to the public.
@@perturbedxtirade7428 would you feel that way if it had been a man pleasuring himself in front of a child?
@perturbedxtirade7428 if I were the police I would have just given her a short lecture and warning. No need to cuff her and parade her in public.
Then she could have gotten it. She is the reason she’s gone.
@@AnAdorableWombat1 shhhh, wombats cant speak
Christina was clearly in a struggle to be normal and thinks that living a cautious lifestyle is very boring, so she pushes the boundaries in every which way she can.
Life is so incredibly precious. In all of eternity, we get just a few years on this earth. Life is but a vapor, so don’t waste it. Theres hope as long as you’re still breathing. Each of us was meant for so much more life than what we currently know.
Very well said
Says the atheist. We reincarnate and have been doing so for a long time.
@@blainwilson7937 that's not irrefutable.
@@kurliigurlii
Guess you’ll find out
@@blainwilson7937How would you demonstrate “we incarnate, and have been doing so for a long time”?
Most of us will die alone. I just worry about the pets.
Even the most popular people in my high school are complaining now how they are alone and hate everyone…
Dogs and cats will just eat you.
They won't go hungry.....🤔
Even if someone dies at the same time and dies with you - you are ALONE unless you have Jesus.
@@BabyShark-kd9jl was he really a carpenter?
So much empathy and understanding in the comments, if the genders were reversed she (or he) would be called a disgusting predator.
The sad thing is, most people commenting will ignore this comment, lol.
Very true!
My thoughts precisely.
Dr. Grande -
If this were a Man and not a Woman, would you still come to the same conclusion?
I understand that Women and Men are different in many ways but I, personally, do not see any difference when it comes to ‘Sexual Deviance’. No mater the Perpetrator the “Release” or “Excitement” they seek is the same.
Its only in the last maybe 30yrs have people, in part due to access of Information via the Internet, have people come to realize that in the case of Homicide has it been proven that a Woman can be just as Dangerous and Deadly as a Man. Just as many Men did were not born with the Protection Gene, many Women werent born with the Nuture Gene.
'It is possible that she wanted to be watched, but this behavior is rare in women.'
No such thing has been proven. Women who are S E Xual offenders do exist, but the data shows that the vast majority are male.
Prison stats from 2019:
Male inmates with history of SA etc 16%
Female 3.3 %
@@minimal3734 "Rare"? lol - OnlyFans says otherwise. And UA-cam... And Instagram... And any other medium or platform that allows people to upload pics and vids. ALL flooded with women finding creative ways to show off all their holes... It's crazy and kind of sick. But yea, let's just pretend like it's rare.
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- Thank you for being unbiased. Yes, it's funny how the comments are showering her with empathy, even calling her a "Sweet woman" when we just learned that in addition to touching/playing with herself in front of kids, she also spent time in prison, was being sued for stealing property + destroying property + not paying rent + had numerous arrests for public drunkeness and abused drugs + was described by family as wild, and out of control.... "sweet lady". It's amazing what someone can get away with and still be viewed favorably and with empathy simply for having a certain sex organ and being mildly attractive.
@@ApacheMagic The data means nothing when at every level of the "justice" system treats women with kid gIoves. The data has bias buiIt into it.
3:10 This is why you shut your mouth around the cops.
If she’d just played dumb and refused to answer their questions, she might be alive today. Without her detailed confession, they had nothing but hearsay.
They’re not your friends.
It's in somewhat poor taste to perpetuate the public humiliation which clearly played a significant role in her suicide.
You're talking about a psychologist that prefaces all his videos with "I'm not diagnosing anyone just speculating what is happening in a situation like this" he clearly doesn't care.
It was SECONDS!
"This went on for a few seconds until the female looked to her right and stopped what she was doing. There is no other action from the female as the video ends'
@@chroma7247 There are many cases Grande has discussed on his channel which I believe are of genuine public interest for educational reasons; I just don't think is one of them. I have always considered the pile-on this woman endured to be extremely disproportionate to her misdeed, and in fact reveals more about the neuroses of the collective than it does her.
That's the internet for you..unlike the subject, it lives forever.
If it were a man caught doing this, there would be none given.
I hope her children are in a loving and secure home setting. This woman couldn't provide that.
I remember this story at the time, I think that she thought it was illegal for men to do it, but legal for women. I think that's how the conversation went, when first questioned by the Police.
Thinking someone should just be let go for doing that in public in front of a family is actually insane
Agree if only for the fact if it was a man, this wouldn't even be on the radar for people and he wouldn't get out of it without getting on a list.
You got that right
I worked at a wastewater treatment plant that was on a beach area just outside of the city limits. The area was popular as a beach combing area and bird watching site. Myself and my coworkers had multiple incidents where people were self pleasuring themselves and also many cases of couples having sexual relations while parked in cars . One incident happened where a couple decided to perform their “activities“ upon the large rocks that were placed there for erosion control purposes. Imagine two people doing the horizontal bop on top of boulders that are 8 feet above ground level and in full view of hundreds of yards of beach area. And this is an area known as a favorite spot for photographers who are looking for migratory birds. Think of expensive telephoto camera lenses! Good times!
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Those people least tried to go somewhere secluded to 'enjoy' au natural.
@Dr. Todd Grande, I'm surprised at your comment about the police being heavy-handed on her, I wonder if the gender were reverse and a male had pleasured himself in front of a family where there were kids, if you would feel or think the same. That was indicent exposure. It's disgusting but worse of all it is traumatic for the unwilling participant. If such lude act is not addressed by the law, these people will escalate this behavior because they think they can get away with it. Theirs been 3 separate occasions throughout my life where I've had random strangers expose themselves, and I wish those memories could be wiped out of my brain. I was a young adult when it happened, and it had that effect on me, I can't imagine a child having to experience it.
Such a crazy and sad situation, the fact that this was made public all over the internet ultimately caused this woman to take her life. Mental illness is the real pandemic today.
She was psychotic and adding drugs worsened her condition. Possibly schizophrenia or bipolar disorder. the hyper sexual behavior, impulsivity, substance abuse, poor family relations and inability to pay bills, or work steadily all points to something like that.
We don’t have enough information to make a diagnosis. It could be a personality disorder.
We don’t have enough information to be sure. It could also be a personality disorder, we can’t say.
She was not in her right mind.
The family was offended and disgusted, as would be most people who witnessed this behavior. So the police arrested her.
Eleanor Rigby.
If it was a man doing it then you would of been ok with the arrest though right? You cannot do this in public whether your a man or a woman, it’s wrong period.
That one was pretty depressing.
Definitely a person who needed psychiatric treatment but probably not on a voluntary basis. And as it was, a danger to herself. A sad life and a sad end.
There was a man in Finland who was found 8 years after his death in his apartment. Maintenance crew had some task in his place and when no one answered the doorbell, they went in with master key.
"there were piles of mail and neswspapers blocking the way".
He was mummified so no smell.
Clearly depression was eating this woman alive.
This poor woman was mentally ill (Bipolar) and polysubstance abuse was only part of it. To have interrupted this process would have required a strong relative or friend who would take charge and force her in some way into abstinence and psychiatric medication. Dr. Grande, as much as I admire his analyses, is thinking in terms of personality problems when Major Mood Disorder should also be considered.
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I dont know the laws in her state , country , but what happened to her seemed very harsh. I know that if it happened in the u.k it would not have ended with arrest and certainly no suicide by gun. I feel for her , she needed help and i think it was hard for her to feel anything , i think she was overwhelmed with shame and guilt both of these in severe form can be hard to live with .
@@wendyhart134 😂😂😂 gangs shit
@@mpeugeot 🫴🫴😂😂😂
Na unless you're going to have that grace for a man. This isn't excusable.
What’s crazy here is the double standard. If this happened to a man he’d be a labeled a sick “predator” and his fate would’ve been another mundane day and a non issue. Bc it happened to an attractive women, however, it makes headline news and people are shocked and highly emotional about it.
To be clear it’s absolutely a tragedy. Not because it’s a woman but because whenever this happens to anyone it’s a tragedy.
With your name,you stink of in. Celdom.
Why did they have to perp walk her in front of everyone? You never know if you’re aggravating an already bad situation. I’m still haunted by embarrassing situations decades after they happened. Not everyday but if something or someone reminds me, I feel like I’m right back there.
Totally agree
@ebenoit72 @cops4robbers663
You two need to stop diddling yourself in front of kids smh.
I worked with a guy who was one of the supervisors at the job. He shot himself in the head in the parking lot of a nearby tavern. He remained conscious long enough to open the trunk of his car and throw the gun inside. He closed the trunk and passed out. He had emergency surgery and he lived. He even functioned well enough on his own. But he definitely was not the same guy afterward.
People can be hounded and bullied on the internet for much less than "taking a solo flight" in clear view of a family on the beach so when I first heard of her passing, I immediately wondered if she had been mocked and humiliated to the point that she felt she couldn't take it any longer. I don't know but I do know that many people have told downright horror stories about what is done to them when they get on the wrong side of a bunch of commenters online. I guess we'll never know.
The harassment doesn't always stay online it can spill over out into the real world and become extremely dangerous for a targeted person.
There are some extremely sick, demented and bloodthirsty individuals that can also operate in loosely affiliated social networks thriving and getting joy out of driving targeted people to self deletion.
Anyone from your basic street criminal to law enforcement, pillars of communities can all get onboard and dogpile a blacklisted targeted person..all for pleasure, revenge and or to silence a target.
Proxy mob/gangstalking is not a conspiracy theory.
They say the incident is completely unrelated
I saw the video where they hauled her off. I felt very sorry for her, she was probably blitzed on some substance. She needed to get some healthy influences in her life.
Once you get involved with the kind of ppl who sell substances or pim* you out, you're in the hands of 👿. He'll screw your life up and say you tried to ruin him.
Although I was really irked and judgmental about Christina's actions, (I'm using her name because it was forgotten by so many) this explanation by Dr. Grande made me feel terribly sad. What a life! RIP - God remembers you.
A well-considered and compassionate analysis of this tragedy.
If I'd have done this as a male, I would have been in prison. Life is a little easier for some.
'It is possible that she wanted to be watched, but this behavior is rare in women.' Dr. Grande. Although they are equal before the law, men and women are different. This must be taken into account when assessing any case. People today no longer seem to be able to think in a differentiated way.
@@minimal3734 So stereotypes must be considered when assessing any case.
@@minimal3734right when men rape kids they are rightly viewed as pediphiles, yet when women do it the boys are supposed to enjoy it and it’s “not as bad for them.” No she’s a sex offender and was masturbating in front of a family. The gender shouldn’t come into play, yet everyone is all excited about this so they are ok with it. Disgusting.
@@minimal3734 Only Fans is flooded with this behavior.
@sargentd3125 isn't that sort of the point of onlyfans? Respect the hustle or get a new one yourself 😏