Death, Dying, and Being Dead

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  • Опубліковано 10 чер 2024
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    My entire life it has felt like one day I will wake up and be 50. “Life is short” has been a saying repeated from all angles. From my perspective - the perspective of a 24-year-old who intellectually knows he is young but feels old - to call life short has only recently began to ring true.
    When people look back on 10 years ago and utter the words “time flies” it is often due to an apparent recognition of who you previously were and what you were doing. To be able to relate to that person separated by a 10-year-span must be sickening. However, in your early 20s, you only just begin to understand that nausea.
    Being 24 years old, 10 years ago does feel like 10 years ago because at 14-years-old I had not even grown into my body yet. A lot happened in those 10 years. By 34 I am sure to be different in many ways, but the basic buildings of my character and physicality - despite some added lines on the face, improved maturity, aches from the back, and maybe some receding hairline as well - will be a lot more recognisable to the 24-year-old me, than the 24-year-old me was to the 14-year-old me.
    Therefore, in order to truly relate to the idea of life being short, I will need a few more years added on. But I know it’s coming and there is nothing I can do to stop it. And before I know it - and just as I have been anticipating - I’ll be 50.
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    MUSIC USED:
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    2. Music: The Sea Beneath Our Feet - Puddle of Infinity • The Sea Beneath Our Fe...
    3. Music: Procession by Puddle of Infinity • Procession - Puddle of...
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    5. Music: Open Sea Morning by Puddle of Infinity • Open Sea Morning - Pud...
    6. Music: Grass - Silent Partner • Grass - Silent Partner...
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    CHAPTERS:
    1. Introduction (0:00)
    2. Death: Defining Death (4:26)
    3. Death: Memento Mori (9:56)
    4. Death: Near-Death Experience (14:21)
    5. Focusing on Dying (20:24)
    6. Dying: An Old Age Death (21:34)
    7. Dying: When The Old Die Young (25:06)
    8. Dying: Mortality and Christopher Hitchens (29:45)
    9. Dying: In Denying Death, You Deny Life (35:13)
    10. Being Dead: A Death In The Family (37:37)
    11. Being Dead: A Grief Observed (39:01)
    12. Being Dead: Crazy With Grief (43:14)
    13. Being Dead: The Issue of Self-Pity (46:21)
    14. Being Dead: Why Do We Have To Go? (48:12)
    15. Death, Dying, and Being Dead (49:43)
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    All criticism and comments are welcome. Thanks for watching.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 14

  • @TheSelador
    @TheSelador  Місяць тому +2

    Follow me on Substack: selador.substack.com/

  • @yggdrasil2
    @yggdrasil2 28 днів тому +4

    This is the type of video I needed right now. I'm 25.

  • @flipchick1014
    @flipchick1014 Місяць тому +5

    “So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.” 2 Corinthians 4:16-18

  • @patrickbyrne9631
    @patrickbyrne9631 9 днів тому +2

    How the fuck do you not have more subscribers? This is genuinely one of the best channels I’ve watched in a while. I really hope you can find a following and continue making these videos because I love them.

  • @joseybryant7577
    @joseybryant7577 Місяць тому +5

    I find as I've aged, every day seems to condense into one long day. Where it isn't material possessions or myself that makes me feel old. But other people I've known.

  • @muchomabbq7785
    @muchomabbq7785 28 днів тому +3

    You are truly excellent, truly.
    If you can manage, please do keep writing these pieces.

  • @jacksonvega7751
    @jacksonvega7751 Місяць тому +3

    Visually Glorious
    How would you describe such a style?

  • @benmakin9156
    @benmakin9156 Місяць тому +6

    Read the script on the Substack and found it a really interesting piece clicked on the video and the editing is on another level really increased the overall experience one of my favourite videos on UA-cam such an underrated channel

    • @TheSelador
      @TheSelador  Місяць тому +3

      Thank you for the kind words :)

  • @ziademad4707
    @ziademad4707 Місяць тому +3

    Really insightful

  • @guljurt1547
    @guljurt1547 Місяць тому +5

    I think a lot of people are thinking of themselves as young into old age. Thirty year olds get bothered if a child “naively” say that they are old. But if we manage to grow up -not to waste childhood but to be grown up (whatever that may entail) when you are at least 18 (if a number needs to be set), then you are old but you have, if not prematurely hindered, a lot of time left. You are then old but life is not short.

  • @deinVater9983
    @deinVater9983 Місяць тому +2

    Where's the thumbnail from

  • @robbertbreach
    @robbertbreach Місяць тому

    spooky man

  • @okeyokey578
    @okeyokey578 21 день тому +1

    meminī morī