Yes Karine!🎯 Reminds me of the quote, “I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times.”-Bruce Lee
For ANYONE dealing with imposter syndrome, the best advice I can give is that FEAR is an indicator that you should do it. I’ve never regretted taking a risk but I’ve regretted not taking one, many times ✨
I remember feeling incompetent when I went to college for chemistry. I always felt like I was not getting it and other honors students made me feel like I didn’t know what I was talking about. It was not until my final year that I felt confident in myself. I had to repeat a class in quantum dynamics, with half the same classmates from the previous class, 😅 and got an A+ on the exam. Mainly because the professor talked over our heads and I understood but just couldn’t ‘explain’ it. The teacher actually had to be counseled for how he was teaching. 😂
Sometimes it’s not you, it’s the way the teacher is teaching. I’m glad you didn’t give up though. That’s rhetorical power of sticking through it and repetition even with that class 👏🏼👏🏼🩷
The world is obsessed with Black Women in America. I'm always my authentic self, that rubs alot of people the wrong way. That's their problem. When you are you, it goes away.
You called me out! 😂❤. Real Estate, Tech Sales, Web Design..always switching up never feeling "this is it" I wondered why my broker kept asking me "Do you feel like an agent?" I'm like no "I'm just going through the motion", even though I just left a closing. I let my license expire. Looking back it was a stupid decision. I be making my own self stuck in life.
lol I love it ❤ Listen recognition is the key. Know that you can recognize you, I guarantee almost 1000% that there’s going to be a beautiful shift in your state of mind.
@@karinealourdementalgems Yes, I totally agree! That shift is what I need. I be asking God to strip me of anything holding me back. Demonic energy, thoughts that create delusion surrounding how I perceive myself. I people please, I want people to like me, I sit on the sidlines knowing I can be of service to someone but afriad to disappoint so I don't do it or give up before I get skin in the game & that's weak energy frfr. I know it but I want to switch from "Knowing" to "embodying my purpose". I was a lead agent at my firm, Operations manager at a small business yet I have nothing to show for it now because I gave up. Looking stupid now applying for data entry jobs because that's the "comfortable" route to avoid dealing with people. I've tried hypnosis but this video opened my eyes to imposter syndrome.
Me 😅 I’ve changed my major 4-5 times and dropped out in 2020. I’m 24 and finally going back this summer to get my BBA in Management. I went from Biology to psychology to neuroscience minor, to this. I’m sticking with this. Not letting the imposter syndrome win.
You got this! I have imposter syndrome with jobs but I’ve been able to stick out college. Idk why jobs make me feel incompetent and stupid. But either way I wish you success in school!
I love the sentiment about imposter syndrome being a part of being an artist. It makes sense! You aren't trained and then performing the same tasks forever. You are always creating and doing anew. The things you do are subjective. Everyone has ideas about artists, no-one has any words about accountants.
'Fearless. Be brave be humble. Walk into your fears and grow. I am not the type to get killed if people come to crush me! ' Baekhyun. This has been my motto for a long time.
Brilliant video. I recommend you read Mastery by Robert Green. He talks about this and how people how mastered their craft overcome imposter syndrome. Its a tough one and sometimes I have to catch myself when go into the perfectist or "I'm not good enough" moments.
I have friends who have great dreams, but won’t face the reality of their financial situation. We’ve all been there, but not graduating because you need 14 credits or less, took out too many student loans, assuming that everyone has your dreams simply because they promised fervently to help you. Of course you know what happens next.
This happened to me when I went to college. I went to PWI. I was belittled more than once by my peers and was made to feel like I didn’t belong. Ultimately I dropped out because I didn’t like the school. I regret not going to an HBCU. I would have had a sense of belonging and probably excelled.
Love your content Karine!❤ This video hit home. Definitely have battled and still battle with imposter syndrome when it comes to my faith journey with God. Being fixated on how it should look like was not the way to go 😂 slowly learning to let go and let God. Also, remembering it's a walk and not a run.
Currently dealing with imposter syndrome and keep making mistakes at new job I currently took action and started documenting things. This video resonated with me so much! It a constant mental battle!!
Omg I need this and thank you for your video. I need to read Mrs. Obama’s books as well. I’ve admired her for so long. My anxiety and imposter syndrome cripple me and I’m ready to work on getting better because actually I’m good at a few things and I’m smart and I’m about to be 35 so maybe I need to go ahead and start doing something with my life other than people pleasing and making myself smaller and quieter. I sure do love your channel and thank you so much, miss. I want to start being happy and maybe advocate for myself because who else will. My thoughts, feelings, and experiences are just as valid as anyone else. I want to stop freezing.
I suffer with it heavy. I'm multitalented, I make clothes mostly, and I am so proud of myself when I create something, but instantly, I start to doubt myself, and I get extremely depressed. I hate it, and I'm trying to get over it 😒
This video was from 2 days ago. I'm just seeing it, and it's definitely right on time for me. It was meant for me to see it in this moment because it's confirmation that I'm now on the right track for doing what I love and knowing how to navigate my feelings. Thank you❤
I really need this & I’m proud of myself because, the person I was a year ago would fit the description of this syndrome very well! Today I’m doing a lot better…it’s still hard but I’m able to identify what I’m doing!
It’s really hard for me to take Viola Davis seriously when she talks about overcoming her internalised colorism just for her to go and adopt a mixed race child… there are thousands of black babies looking for a good home, guess she felt they weren’t worth her lifestyle because they didn’t “earn it”.
You just put tye whole colorism s*it on a CHILD…Jeesus Christ, EVERY BABY needa a loving home, no matter the colour etc. Mixed race babies deserve a loving home too. The comparison you just made…it SUCKS. And you’re NOBODY to decide for another person what baby/child THEY should adopt. Why don’t YOU adopt a black baby if you care that much about them? Ofc, you only expect everyone but you to ‘do the right thing’
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Yes Karine!🎯 Reminds me of the quote, “I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times.”-Bruce Lee
That's powerful ❤
For ANYONE dealing with imposter syndrome, the best advice I can give is that FEAR is an indicator that you should do it. I’ve never regretted taking a risk but I’ve regretted not taking one, many times ✨
I remember feeling incompetent when I went to college for chemistry. I always felt like I was not getting it and other honors students made me feel like I didn’t know what I was talking about. It was not until my final year that I felt confident in myself. I had to repeat a class in quantum dynamics, with half the same classmates from the previous class, 😅 and got an A+ on the exam. Mainly because the professor talked over our heads and I understood but just couldn’t ‘explain’ it. The teacher actually had to be counseled for how he was teaching. 😂
Sometimes it’s not you, it’s the way the teacher is teaching. I’m glad you didn’t give up though. That’s rhetorical power of sticking through it and repetition even with that class 👏🏼👏🏼🩷
The world is obsessed with Black Women in America.
I'm always my authentic self, that rubs alot of people the wrong way.
That's their problem.
When you are you, it goes away.
Never stop being you ❤❤❤
You called me out! 😂❤. Real Estate, Tech Sales, Web Design..always switching up never feeling "this is it"
I wondered why my broker kept asking me "Do you feel like an agent?" I'm like no "I'm just going through the motion", even though I just left a closing. I let my license expire. Looking back it was a stupid decision. I be making my own self stuck in life.
lol I love it ❤ Listen recognition is the key. Know that you can recognize you, I guarantee almost 1000% that there’s going to be a beautiful shift in your state of mind.
@@karinealourdementalgems Yes, I totally agree! That shift is what I need. I be asking God to strip me of anything holding me back. Demonic energy, thoughts that create delusion surrounding how I perceive myself. I people please, I want people to like me, I sit on the sidlines knowing I can be of service to someone but afriad to disappoint so I don't do it or give up before I get skin in the game & that's weak energy frfr. I know it but I want to switch from "Knowing" to "embodying my purpose". I was a lead agent at my firm, Operations manager at a small business yet I have nothing to show for it now because I gave up. Looking stupid now applying for data entry jobs because that's the "comfortable" route to avoid dealing with people. I've tried hypnosis but this video opened my eyes to imposter syndrome.
Me 😅 I’ve changed my major 4-5 times and dropped out in 2020. I’m 24 and finally going back this summer to get my BBA in Management. I went from Biology to psychology to neuroscience minor, to this. I’m sticking with this. Not letting the imposter syndrome win.
You got this! I have imposter syndrome with jobs but I’ve been able to stick out college. Idk why jobs make me feel incompetent and stupid. But either way I wish you success in school!
You’re so graceful, I can’t wait for you to have a beautiful family. You deserve it ❤ une fille de classe 💅🏾
Loved this breakdown! Looking to switch careers and IS definitely popped up in my mind. I will overcome with faith and work.
Michelle Obama is one of the best human beings to ever exist! She inspires more and more every time I listen to her.
I love the sentiment about imposter syndrome being a part of being an artist. It makes sense! You aren't trained and then performing the same tasks forever. You are always creating and doing anew. The things you do are subjective. Everyone has ideas about artists, no-one has any words about accountants.
♥️Michelle! 💙The two of you in one video is just the best! ♥️
🙌🏾🙌🏼🙌🏾 Have a fab evening, everyone! 🥂
Needed this video 😢
I’m glad this was able to help! Sending you virtual hugs ❤❤
'Fearless. Be brave be humble. Walk into your fears and grow. I am not the type to get killed if people come to crush me! ' Baekhyun. This has been my motto for a long time.
Best ever channel
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A gain so much wisdom watching your videos❤
Karine, I could listen to your soothing voice talk about ANYTHING!!! Love all your videos!!!
Karine, you look extra gorgeous in this video!!! ❤
This video came just in time because I struggle with imposter syndrome from time to time 🙏🏽
Thanks Karine. Watching now.
Hope you like it! 🩷🩷
Karine you look absolutely gorgeous
Brilliant video. I recommend you read Mastery by Robert Green. He talks about this and how people how mastered their craft overcome imposter syndrome.
Its a tough one and sometimes I have to catch myself when go into the perfectist or "I'm not good enough" moments.
I have friends who have great dreams, but won’t face the reality of their financial situation. We’ve all been there, but not graduating because you need 14 credits or less, took out too many student loans, assuming that everyone has your dreams simply because they promised fervently to help you. Of course you know what happens next.
I was literally googling this an hour ago before this post. I still have the tab open 😮
The Lord had a message for you today 🥺 I hope you enjoy 🩷
Amen and Thank you 🙏@@karinealourdementalgems
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Thank you bestie ❤
Thanks for making this video
Random, but I’ve been watching you for many years and you look great lately, radiant even! Whatever you’re doing, keep doing it - it’s working ❤️
This message was right on time! ❤
This happened to me when I went to college. I went to PWI. I was belittled more than once by my peers and was made to feel like I didn’t belong. Ultimately I dropped out because I didn’t like the school. I regret not going to an HBCU. I would have had a sense of belonging and probably excelled.
This video was SO NEEDED Kourine! Oh my gosh! Thanks!
Yaaay thank you for the video ❤️🫂
You are so welcome! 🩷🩷
Ooh! Can't wait to watch! 🤍🌸
You are beautiful and the hair is gorgeous
Love your content Karine!❤ This video hit home. Definitely have battled and still battle with imposter syndrome when it comes to my faith journey with God. Being fixated on how it should look like was not the way to go 😂 slowly learning to let go and let God. Also, remembering it's a walk and not a run.
I agree on the motivational speakers….. all they say is “do it now & stop making excuses”
Currently dealing with imposter syndrome and keep making mistakes at new job I currently took action and started documenting things. This video resonated with me so much! It a constant mental battle!!
Omg I need this and thank you for your video. I need to read Mrs. Obama’s books as well. I’ve admired her for so long. My anxiety and imposter syndrome cripple me and I’m ready to work on getting better because actually I’m good at a few things and I’m smart and I’m about to be 35 so maybe I need to go ahead and start doing something with my life other than people pleasing and making myself smaller and quieter. I sure do love your channel and thank you so much, miss. I want to start being happy and maybe advocate for myself because who else will. My thoughts, feelings, and experiences are just as valid as anyone else. I want to stop freezing.
THIS!!!!!! Thank you for this video! Btw you are gorgeous!🥰
YAAASSSS!!💯
MICHELLE OBAMA DROPPED GEMS!!
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Great video Karine
Thank you🫂💕
this has been one of my biggest struggles. i’ve been slowly but surely healing it. great video 🩷💕
Beautiful young lady!
I have mastered NURSING. That I know for sure.
How I miss the Obama's as President & First Lady ❤
❤ this! What happened with your discord?
I suffer with it heavy. I'm multitalented, I make clothes mostly, and I am so proud of myself when I create something, but instantly, I start to doubt myself, and I get extremely depressed. I hate it, and I'm trying to get over it 😒
Karine we need the hair tutorial
This video was from 2 days ago. I'm just seeing it, and it's definitely right on time for me. It was meant for me to see it in this moment because it's confirmation that I'm now on the right track for doing what I love and knowing how to navigate my feelings. Thank you❤
Off topic but you are looking more and more gorgeous with every video Karine ♥ And I got the message for sure
I really need this & I’m proud of myself because, the person I was a year ago would fit the description of this syndrome very well! Today I’m doing a lot better…it’s still hard but I’m able to identify what I’m doing!
I’m starting my first job, I’m glad this video popped up
Sis you always have the best topics! You are on fire lately ! I love this channel so much and I’m so glad you started it ❤
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Good morning ❤, thank you so much for the video 🤗
I never went to high school but I am a college student…
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I LOVE you, Karine!♥️♥️
This was right in time!
Thank you
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It’s really hard for me to take Viola Davis seriously when she talks about overcoming her internalised colorism just for her to go and adopt a mixed race child… there are thousands of black babies looking for a good home, guess she felt they weren’t worth her lifestyle because they didn’t “earn it”.
man what the hell is wrong with you, she never said that shit
That comment is extremely stupid. You seem very ignorant. Bless your resentful soul
You just put tye whole colorism s*it on a CHILD…Jeesus Christ, EVERY BABY needa a loving home, no matter the colour etc. Mixed race babies deserve a loving home too. The comparison you just made…it SUCKS. And you’re NOBODY to decide for another person what baby/child THEY should adopt. Why don’t YOU adopt a black baby if you care that much about them? Ofc, you only expect everyone but you to ‘do the right thing’
Viola dont care…. And we dont either
@@deenadreamI don’t remember saying she did and I don’t remember asking you if you did either… rest fangirl, it’s not cute.