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@@hamza8791 He is not doing this entirely for the audience. Some of it is for his livelyhood. He's not going to spoil his series and risk losing a viewer, even if you need the answer for something in your life now.
Congratulations to @Ali Dawa for being the industry first in finally releasing the marriage documentary. With a limited budget and time he has been able to produce a genuine and authentic account of his prior life in order to steer young Muslims to the halal direction. I'm very curious to see the next episode
@@jmzy93 it's not necessary to confess that you did adultery if you fear it will break the family like divorce. As long as you repented sincerely, you better keep it as a secret
BRO!!!! IVE BEEN NEARLY MARRIED MULTIPLE TIMES, UPS, DOWNS FELL IN LOVE BEEN TURNED DOWN, BEEN MARRIED AND DIVORCED ALL WHILST WAITING FOR THIS DOCUMENTARY!!!!!!!!!!! 7 YEARS!!!!!! THAT'S THE WHOLE TIME I'VE BEEN A MUSLIM!! La ilaha il Allah wa ashadu ana Muhammaden rasool'Allah. 😢
I find it quite weird that a grown man, already married with kids. Is looking for his ex.. to say "sorry". There is not point in doing that. It really rubbed me the wrong way.
It's not just to say "sorry" it's haq al-nas if you have wronged someone and dont fix your affairs now in this world then you'll have to amswer back and pay up for it in the next one which is far more severe
@@khayyamal9207 i have never seen this. People mostly move on and make tawbah and dua that Allah سبحانه وتعالى forgives them. There is no need to reopen someones wound. This gave me the feeling that Ali still has feelings towards his ex. Which is super weird.
If she didn't agree to this, he would probably never do it. So please try to avoid negative assumptions until you have actual information about it is happening behind close doors 🙏
NO WAY IT IS FINALLY HERE GUYS, WALLAH ALI HAS TESTED OUR SABR. 😂 May Allah reward you for finally posting this and Insha’Allah we all benefit. If you are reading this - please pray for me and all students going through exam period and to pass 🤲😭
Wallahi seeing how you sincerely opened up and apologised made me tear up. That action of seeking forgiveness did not decrease you as a man but made you more honourable. May Allah swt reward you.
It's deep, it's very personal, it's not what I was expecting but it's a real eye opener. Great work so far. Appreciate your honesty, I know it's not easy to open up like this for the whole world to see.
Isn't it haram to be contacting somebody who isn't halal for you especially whilst you have a wife and chidlren now. You've repented to Allah and you have now apologised to her what more do you want? If everybody started doing what you're doing Ali nobody in life will ever move on and it'll create a society where truly people are not over their exes. Imagine what your wife went through when listening to this? I come from a good place brother as a woman myself I genuinely can not understand your constant need to look for her it's wrong she is haram for you, you have no relations with her or her mother. This isn't Islam, but I appreciate you are trying to save people from the same mistakes may Allah forgive us all for our sins and appreciate your efforts إن شاء الله
@@umm2656 with all due respect you said a whole lot of nothing. In Islam relationships are haram the majority of scholars say when ending a relationship it is even acceptable to 'ghost' an individual with no explanation because that's the right thing to do for the sake of Allah. I understand the brothers point but I believe if everybody started contacting their ex then we are as Muslims creating a society of greater sin and hurt for future spouses, he has apologised once even though this wasn't required as his relationship was HARAM. Regardless he chose to do it, he now needs to MOVE on and stop contacting her as he is misguiding people to do the same. Everyone would love it if they got the apology they needed, but why are we seeking closure or apologies from the creation that hurt us? Instead we should be praying to Allah for peace and forgiveness and إن شاء الله he will appreciate our efforts for leaving something haram for the sake of him. Yes he is sat with 'others' in the room but again islam forbids this especially when there is no reason to be doing so. You have the money back to the shop that's great but do not compare a haram relationship to that haram relationships include ZINA, when you are married with children you should never look back at your past. May Allah guide us and forgive us.
@ahmad hanbal honestly it's sad to see so many comments supporting what he has done when in fact this could misguide the ummah and instead create a society of unhappy relationships because everybody is chasing their ex under the guise of 'forgiveness' our maker is the forgiver repent to him, he's already apologised once that's enough.
Thank you for this comment. It is absurd how obsessed he is with his ex. She clearly moved on from something 13 years ago but he hasn't. After meeting with her family the first time, that really should have been enough. He also could have done all this privately and just told us he got his closure. Instead, he made this into an Indian drama series just for content.
what is the point of this? haram and any evil done before Islam is forgiven by Allah swt mentioned in the Quran countless times. If Allah the almighty has forgiven you isn't that good enough for you? Why do reverts think that they are doing some good for the ummah by going into minute detail about what they did in the past ? Maybe if you killed someone than we could maybe understand why you feel like this. Keep your sins concealed and Allah swt will conceal your sins on the day of judgement!
@@SA-lg5sg ikr! This is actually tempting people to get in touch with the ex's under the guise of forgiveness when actually it's not necessary nor is it halal to do so
Meeting with the ex when you are married? Doesnt matter if you have the permission of your wife. You had a 5 year relationship with the ex. What is this nonsense? Very weird video from ali
Whilst everyone is busy making jokes, I just want to say that it takes a lot of courage to make this Ali and we really do appreciate it! It’s very insightful and it can help those who are on the similar path to what u faced and help them before it’s too late! Thanks again ❤
Wallah!!! I am sorry for ever joking about the documentary taking so long. The behind the scenes are just so so personal and emotional. It did take a lot of courage to do this, subhanallah.
Do not approach girls you’ve damaged. It may mess with their heads and bring up the trauma and give mixed messages. Convey the apology through a mutual friend if you really feel the need to but don’t open up the door to shaytan.
I really liked the fact that the interviewer was a smart woman who asks fair questions or shares her wholesome thoughts. I like how she pointed out that ''you may want redemption but why make her go through these after such a long time to pursue what you'd feel comfortable with'' It seems like the girl Ali used to date will appreciate it but still it doesn't work like that for everyone. And it may even cause more problems in that person's life.
My great grandfather used to tell me about a long awaited series in his times and always said I'll be the one to see it. Wow its like the legends said we grandchildren are here now. Cant wait for my own grandchildren to see the next episode
@@outofthebox9699 Ali Dawah has been talking about the marriage documentary since almost 5 or 6 years. (Maybe even 7) He kept saying it's almost done and it took this long.
@@outofthebox9699 Ali Dawah followers have been waiting for this marriage documentary for yeaarrrrs He was saying that this will help people learn about marriage, all of the young single boys have been waiting for years, some of which have gotten married, got kids and are still waiting 😆
Dont know why people are making fun right over in comments. Everything take place in Allah's timing. This documentary made me shiver. Never been in a haram relationship but It is still relatable in many aspects. This doc. literally taught me many things. TBH I dont find right words to express myself. There are unimaginably many dimensions here. From How society influences and pressurise us. To How Islam being a solution to all this pressures and influences. Brother Ali, you are really strong to make this much effort to receive the forgiveness from the person you hurt. We human beings are weak. We commit sin intentionally and unintentionally. Best of those are who seek forgiveness sincerely. Barakallah
Honestly, as a female, I don’t think it is a good idea for you to find your ex, message her or meet up with her after so many years. You have apologised her and her family in the past. Khalas, ask Allah for forgiveness and get over it. You are now married so move on with your life. If I were to put myself in her shoes, I wouldn’t want to be reminded about my past or even speak with my ex ever again.
Same here Alhamdulillah, me n my husband were both patiently waiting for this when we were single and now we're married and got kids and we finally got to watch this together Alhamdulillah #fullcircle
Brother Ali, I’m a non Muslim that follows you and I have to say that this episode was spectacular. It was well put together and I can tell you put your heart and soul into it. Bless you and your crew for all of the hard work.
Your intentions behind this looks very confusing. Why couldn’t you approach her privately, and not broadcast it online? Ontop of that actually going to her house after 15 years, it’s not right in any way. Surely it’s something you would leave in the past and not dig back up. And you could’ve told your followers your message without going to these lengths and hurting other people’s feelings. This just doesn’t sit right with me at all, I’d honestly advice you to take it down and not even upload the rest, allahu mustaan
Finally!!! Someone has their head screwed on, I see this brother poncing off Muslims. He’s still after wanting to be something, power trip. Allah fix he’s heart, he has potential.
@@Sameer-db5vq one thing I didn't understand. He said he was in relationship with her of 5 years and also he said he was not physical with her .what does it mean ? Imean what was he had regret than ? Or he was mean that he was not Extreme level of final phsyical but below of it yes... Is he had the type of relationship in those 5 years? Pls pls clear me this
Brother Ali. Am so proud of you that you have shared your past to us. Remember that we all have a past and we are never perfect. Nobody can judge anyone. Because we all going to be judged one day. We have to fix ourself to fix hurt. You absolutely did the right way. Allah is the one who gave you hidayat and you found the noor of Allah support. It takes a pure proper man to sincerly applogise and you did it the most moderate way as possible. This technique will help many young men and men who are seeking a wife to be more mindfulness and to have humanity. Just watch brother Allah will bless you more burakat in your life after all your Episode ate shown. It's take a true man to apologise. Total respect to you brother Ali.
no. we "all" don't have a past. if by "past" you mean haram relationship, then speak for yourself. there are many Muslims who never did and will never do such haram things and wouldn't even think about touching the opposite gender in a haram way.. plus Ali wasn't a Muslim in that time so his "past" is irrelevant anyway. so edit your comment
@@akiogood4712 100% its unheard of in my family to have relationships before marriage or freely mix. Its just how it is meant to be in islam. We should definitely encourage the youth and muslims not to engage in committing zina in the first place than before its too late. Always fear allah and live like you can die at any time. Unfortunately western society has influenced muslims so much than these relationships outside marriage have become so trendy and all over social media astagfiruallah hence no one can get married as their souls have become damaged.
@@Adam-kh9rb yes but even in the west, there are so many Muslims who would never do zina. and mashaAllah about your family. may Allah subhanahu wata'ala bless your family and you
@@akiogood4712 i dont think by "past" she just meant haram relationships , I think she meant generelly we all have a past and may have done things we are not proud of. After all we are human beings, we make mistakes and we seek forgiveness from allah swt.
@@rayyan5056 well than words should be chosen more precisely, in order not to confuse. when the context is zina or haram relationship, it's important to be precise if that's not what you mean.
I gotta be honest and tell the truth. I thought that this is gonna be something "entertaining" to watch, but I really ended up wanting to see more, not because I've "enjoyed" it! I've found myself pausing many times and thinking a lot about many of the things you were saying. I definitely see a powerful message here. I really appreciate you opening up during the dialogues. It was truly beautiful, meaningful and sincere. I hope that the rest of the documentary is going to be the same because it'd make all the waiting really worth it. Jazaka Allah khairan brother Ali, and all the brothers and sisters who helped you in this!
to be honest i can’t imagine how your wife must feel seeing this series. my brother i understand your intentions but i don’t think it’s good to broadcast your sins regardless. your children when they grow up shouldn‘t see this. they might lose respect for you and not listen to your teachings bc they may think „he wasn’t better than that anyway“ also try to be more careful about halal and haram. you speaking directly to a woman is wrong. using music at the start of the series is wrong. if you‘ve repented, ask forgiveness and do it privately. don’t broadcast. listen it would‘ve been better if you made up an imaginary scenario of people you know.
additionally, what you could be speaking on instead is that how this has affected you as a muslim as in how you’ve suffered from the guilt. how it might have affected the relationship between you and your spouse. also, if someone doesn’t want to be found. leave them alone. some people genuinely try to forget their haram past and start a new life. and for such people, being found is the greatest horror you can cause to us.
This isn’t the correct way to go about with this. Young adults and teenagers makes up a large sum of your audience who follow you (whether you like this or not). They will now go out of their way to “apologise” to their ex partners. When feelings are involved, apology becomes secondary; (with this apology initiative) they’re likely to go back to their exes. This “documentary” will cause more damage than good. Furthermore, why are you addressing your sins in detail for anyone to know? You may wish to re-evaluate this “documentary” of yours akhi. Hyping up this documentary then using extortionate advertising makes an average viewer question your purpose with this video. May Allah forgive all our sins and guide us to the right path. Ameen.
I think it can be dangerous for the one that’s been hurt. You don’t know how long it may have taken her to just live again. I understand why you did it, but it could really bring all the trauma back up for her. Never do this to a Muslim girl. If you want to apologise, then do it via a mutual friend never ruin a girls future just because you feel bad about ruining her past. I hope food comes for it and Allah guides her to Islam and heals her heart aameen.
"Never do this to a Muslim girl"? Never do this to any girl period! I'm saying this, as a hijabi muslimah. A lot of Muslim guys, dehumanise non Muslim women unfortunately. Muhummed SAW, treated every woman with respect. That's why everyone ended up reverting to Islam in the end. Even if the non Muslim women never revert to Islam, being a decent human being is still better than being a trash bag.
I went from a teen to now a full grown man who’s about to get married Inn Shaa Allah. May we all benefit from this marriage documentary. And May ALLAH(SWT) accept your efforts brother Ali and bless you. Ameen
Way too much drama in this then needed. Wallahi I watched 10 minutes reaction to a text message and we wasn’t even told what it. No matter what she said it can’t be that deep bro. You married wit kids now.
Can i just say....brother Ali (may allah always protect him and keep him steadfast ameen.) Has been talking about this documentary longer than I have been muslim 🤣🤣🤣
I am bit scared for myself honestly. In these times many don't correct each other. So many positive comments and a few giving naseeha. I was waiting for a documentary about how to find a partner in the best way, the challenges that come with it and so on. Not a brother messaging an ex, wanting to meet her after years, telling her he will blurre her face and saying un appropriate things about what he felt for her before.
Is this a england thing or what?am i missing something?a bit strange. i really dont understand why you went from dawah content to revealing your past with your ex. Are you having withdrawl symptoms? we dont ow you a explanation, only Allah does. I understand it comes from a good place from you but you just shouldnt have. Youve made the poor girl nuts by contacting her all over again, meanwhile she be asking you way to many what do you want!? So many youngsters been there,done that, the went on with their lives. I understand it comes from a good place from you cuz you finally see you been young and foolish but hey, that train has passed already wáy to many times, its time to move on. Only Allah is able to guide the misguided heart, no matter how many times one tells them.
If any men are watching this and considering reaching out to their exes in the same manner as Ali - please don't. This is coming from a woman who has had exes who have hurt me and this would literally put me back into that trauma and disrupt my life. I'm sure many women would feel the same. Please think twice. Big respect to Ali for taking accountability in a public way though, I imagine it could not have been easy for him.
@@Zazezoothat is a fair point. An apology isn't necessarily the issue here, it's the manner in which he is pursuing the apology. He could have sent a heartfelt message and left it at that. However, you do have a point that this is from my perspective and other women may feel differently. Jazakallahu khair
@@aishaplayton8120 Yh, I agree, I misread what you meant and assumed you meant the apology itself. The manner in which he’s done it is a bit OTT. If I was his wife I would feel as if he is not over his ex…
I completely agree. This would set off a few alarm bells for me as a wife too. But InshaAllah he and his wife have had robust conversations about this and it doesn’t cause any disruptions in their marriage.
This explains why he makes so many videos about women and is very critical of them. I believe there is still a part of him that needs to be healed. And this also applies to the men who are constantly rejected. You dont need to be that "type of men" to attract women. Your soul mate is written for who you are not for what you can be.
This has been simmering in my mind for a while now. I'm 100% convinced that most misogynists in our community were rejected or scorned by women, now they're taking out their hatred on all the opposite-sex under the guise of criticizing feminism.
As salam u alaikum the funniest thing about this comment is that I’ve been more critical of men than I have ever been towards woman, but for some very odd reason they never ever ever see those videos lol. And actually my trauma caused me to sympathise more with woman which you’ll see in episode 2 & 3. No Muslim man has ever called me male hater for advising them. But the moment I do 1 video against sisters all hell breaks loose.
@@emaanserghini1919 Exactly these muslim men are just a bunch of hurt men who were rejected because they didn't have money or got female attention. Just like feminists are women with constant negative experience or heard stories, be it verbal, psychological or sexual. These ideologies confirm their experiences and traumas, making it seem that only they are right. But the truth is they just weren't treated right. Our ummah needs healing. And we need to try to understand eachother where they are coming from instead of bashing them. This only confirms their trauma.
@@AliDawah salam Ali, the sister is not a therapist so she can't diagnose you or know whats in your heart, but take her message as a feedback and look deep within your heart to see if there's anything you can improve or heal from. And if like you said there isn't then ignore the comment because people will always have something to say and you were bound to be criticised for this documentary so don't let it hurt you. Alhamdulillah if you've healed and learned to sympathise more with women I for one am very proud of you and really commend you for owning your pain and working on it. May Allah heal us all no one is perfect and I think people should focus on healing their own heart instead of judging others on UA-cam and worrying about someone else's heart.
Your 7-year-old had a baby and then that literal baby had a baby and then that literally impossible baby had a baby? You had your children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren in the span of 7 years. LMAO
Great content, thanks for sharing. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, really love her so much, I can't stop thinking about her. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life but to no avail, I’m frustrated because i literally can't envision my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Your feelings are understandable, It's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation when my wife of 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go. I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.
@@haiqah4856 aight bro,go to your friend and tell them they are commting sins to their faces, since most likely they aitn even on the faith or they are unreligious muslims, gpo to them and tell them of their shortcomings. Im telling you this, you wont come far by doing that. What your ssaying is obejctively true but she is most likely not a muslim herself, what should he do, can only muslims be shown in his videos? And the purpose of this video is even to higliht his days in jahiliya and teach young people not to focus on this matters. So as long as this video benefits the people i see no problem
as a woman a guy who hurts a women deeply, that has lied, manipulated you, was toxic to you and never apologizes to you and even if he does years later the memories feel like it was yesterday! 4 years ago before the pandemic this guy on a marriage app hurt me very deeply that i will never forget! he's someone i just cant forgive and i feel that he needs a punishment on the here after for what he has done to me.
I just want to know what your wife thinks about this documentary? Was she Oky about u finding your ex? Would u have continued if she didn’t want you to
When I first heard about this I'm pretty sure I was waiting eagerly to get married and making dua... Still am 😂 May Allah grant me and all of us pious spouses and children who establish their salaah and are the coolness of our eyes. Ameen!!!!
La ilaha illa anta Subhanaka inni kuntu minazzalimeen Salallahualihe wasallam Ameen 1.Jami` at-Tirmidhi 3505 Ibrahim bin Muhammad bin Sa`d narrated from his father, from Sa`d that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: “The supplication of Dhun-Nun (Prophet Yunus) when he supplicated, while in the belly of the whale was: ‘There is none worthy of worship except You, Glory to You, Indeed, I have been of the transgressors. (Lā ilāha illā anta subḥānaka innī kuntu minaẓ-ẓālimīn)’ So indeed, no Muslim man supplicates with it for anything, ever, except Allah responds to him.” لاَ إِلَهَ إِلاَّ أَنْتَ سُبْحَانَكَ إِنِّي كُنْتُ مِنَ الظَّالِمِينَ :Arabic Sahih. 2.Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Every one of you will have his supplications answered, as long as he is not impatient and he says: I have supplicated but I was not answered.” Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6340, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2735 Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ يُسْتَجَابُ لِأَحَدِكُمْ مَا لَمْ يَعْجَلْ يَقُولُ دَعَوْتُ فَلَمْ يُسْتَجَبْ لِي 6340 صحيح البخاري كتاب الدعوات باب يستجاب للعبد ما لم يعجل 2735 صحيح مسلم كتاب الذكر والدعاء والتوبة والاستغفار باب بيان أنه يستجاب للداعي ما لم يعجل فيقول دعوت فلم يستجب لي
I don’t understand whats the purpose of this „documentary“. If you want seek closure or forgiveness dont to it publicly. You can make tawba thats between you and Allah swt. Cleary you doing this out of guilt and to get closure yourself.
I don't think that trying to contact her and meet her after all these years is wise, what if she is in a committed relationship and she moved on imagine the harm and discomfort you could cause to her and her partner about something happened many years ago, The first time you went and apologised was enaugh already, you did your part of seeking forgiveness from someone you heart and whether they forgive you or not is up to them, contacting them again and again about it will only stir an unnecessary drama.
Ali, brother, you have to understand that the ends do not justify the means, no matter how good your intentions are. There are a lot of haram things in this video, you should have avoided them. I get that you want to help the ummah, but remember that guidance is from Allah and He doesn’t need us falling into sins. If He wills to guide more people He will do so. The guidance of the people He wills to guide is not based on our efforts. Don’t think the ummah will be misguided unless you include the haram things in videos. Help others without also misguiding them & Allah will reward you if He wills. May Allah guide us all.
@Buzzzy-bee i can't speak the person who commented but for me its more like alot of these timelines don't seem to add up. He hasn't seen this woman in like 10 years. But he randomly decides to reach out to give her closure? Who says she hasn't already moved on? Like the whole first episode is mad tbh
Wallah I'm not trying to be condescending... I'm asking an honest question: have any of the 'ulemaa permitted showing 'awrah for the sake of these types of documentaries? I'm legit wondering how to justify this as well as imitation of musical instruments. Jazaakumullahu Khayran for all the help in replying in clarifying.
I speak Kiswahili (East African), and I'm happy to see how many Arabic words I can understand... I also noticed some words in some Indian videos that are similar to Kiswahili both in sound and meaning. This shows how we are all connected in some way. As always, I'm happy to learn from the world's Muslims. God bless you all 🙏🏾
@@jullietmburu9672 Indian is a cousin of Africans that is why most of them have dark skin and most like they might have languages/dialects that are similar to the ones in Africa and we Indian Ocean and have most Indians and Africans have similar cultures and traditions but just an opinion though💡🇸🇴🇰🇪🇺🇸
@@mufasahm8238 me watching ads on his videos helps contribute 🤷♂️. I guess weekly would be nice. I'm assuming he's already filmed em all so yh he just needs go release em. Hopefully they're not realised yearly.
Sorry one last thing, painful past relationships may have caused someone to self harm etc. Allah forbid if aomeone gets influenced by this documentary in the wrong way and try to reconnect with their ex. Could lead to all sorts of psychological or physical harm. All that time they took to heal will have to restart. Just something to reflect on. Please forgive my input. Pleaae accept this as a sincee sister.
When this documentary was announced, I was in a similar situation. Haram relationships and all. I've done alot of things I regret now that I am happily married and have a child. But what's funny is, I've been married for four years now. My child is 1.5 years old and I had almost given up hope that we'd ever see this documentary. But here it is, 7 years later after I got married and had a kid. I'm thankful to Ali for sticking to it and not giving up on it. May Allah reward you ten fold. Can't wait for the next episode!! hope it releases in this decade though :D
My great grandmother use to tell me tails about a prophecy, the marriage documentary of Ali Dawah. She alwayes looked very emotional when sharing it with me with and told me how I might be from the chosen generation that will witness this great event in human history. Grandma, you were right.
Ali thank you so much for making this documentary. Your purpose of wanting to help young people realize that intentional or unintentional actions have consequences, and your hope of helping prevent them from going through what you have is admirable. I’m not Muslim but my husband is and I have been learning about Islam for the past 3 years. I’ve studied religions since I was a teenager and I believe the religion of Islam and it’s culture is the most profoundly beautiful and worshipful religion I have learned about and witnessed. I have been following you for your gifted and patient public dialogues. But when I saw this documentary it shocked me. We are of different religions and life experiences but have carried the exact same burden for many years. Wanting to apologize to a former love for hurting them. Carrying that guilt and planning for YEARS on how to find a way to go back and apologize to them. Your interviewer was fantastic and brought up many important points. Some of those points were ones that I had used in my past to decide to stop planning my apology and move forward. If I ever ran into him I would definitely try to talk to him but I’m not carrying that with me anymore, I made peace with it. I am so hopeful for you and your chance to give your apologies. I pray she will be open and willing to hear you. Congratulations on getting this out there and I can’t wait for the next episode!
Subhanallah! Subhanallah!! Subhanallah!!! The emotions in this episode especially towards the end...Subhanallah. I'm glad this documentary is finally out. May Allah reward every single person that's making it possible.
That was a bit more unfiltered than i expected, takes a lot of courage man i don't know how you managed to put yourself out there like this in such a raw way. All the best! Waiting for EP02!
Ali im do proud of you.. you helped me come to Islam . You helped me take my shahada by the well of Allah of coarse. You have done so well. So excited for you brother
Subhan’Allah.. no one else find the whole nature of this first episode wrong and weird. keeping contact with an an exe’s parents, reaching out to her after years? Talking to a non maharam woman who he has a past with… not caring if he opens old wounds for her because he is not satisfied with how things were left? Imagine if she’s married and he brought fitnah by doing this, or even if she isn’t married why bring up old feelings and regrets. Most people want to forget and move on. This is narcissistic and for himself before anyone else. Also why did he choose a female to be the interviewer? You guys keep trying to normalize unnecessary mixing between non-maharam men and women. How is any of this okay or even halal. May Allah rectify the state of our ummah. Please anyone who is in a similar situation do not follow his lead in his actions it can be very damaging and is opening a door to fitnah. Allah will heal that person and yourself if you seek his help and repent to him. The most you can for that person you harm is either make things halal or make Dua for them in secret and let them be. May Allah grant us knowledge of benefit and the ability to act upon it ameen.
I 100% agree!! This was sickly selfish and narcissistic of him. Wow, I am shocked. Haram too! Why was he dming non mahrams??? If you don’t have a halal way of finding someone or something, then don’t.
He still is very narcissistic he lacks accountability and empathy and it’s such a slap to his wife and little daughter !!! He needs therapy and counseling his channel is nothing short of a drama channel
A female interviewer makes a man feel fuzzy, a male interviewer will ask the difficult questions hence get him out of his comfort zone and make him think deeply of his choices. Fuzzy leads to more fitnah. Surprised none of his duat friends hammered him or held him back .
Have u gone mad? What's wrong with talking to opposite gender? Do you only work with same genders bro??? This is nonsense. Brother Ali was speaking in respectful language and here you are accusing him of nonsense. He's trying to teach us about the dangers of "dating" yes. But there is halal form of dating. But right now he's highlighting on his previous mistakes while he was dating and not yet Muslim. He's teaching us lessons. He's not telling us to repeat his mistakes. Typing this is tiring. Bye.
This not only is so interesting to watch , but it also talks about so many issues in the modern society that no one else really talks about in detail . JAZAKALLAHU KHAIR !
Bro I saw myself in this documentary so much. I didn‘t know our path in life was so similar. Like literally, the things in our youth and adolescence that shaped us is the same. I feel like someone‘s telling my story. May Allah keep you steadfast. You did a wonderful job with the documentary and I‘m looking forward to the upcoming episodes
Wow, this marriage documentary is truly an eye-opener for those who want to end their relationship in a halal way. It's refreshing to see content that addresses the importance of following Islamic principles when it comes to marriage. Kudos to Ali for his efforts in making this video as close to halal as possible. I can't wait for the next episode and I'm sure many others are anxiously waiting too. Keep up the great work, bro! May Allah bless you for your efforts.🤩😇
On a serious note, this is amazing. Takes so much courage to come out and be so vulnerable in front of millions of us. You're truly are an inspiration br.Ali. So well presented and I can't wait for the rest. May Allah reward you iA!
Ngl going back again and again to redeem urself isn’t doing anyone any favours espec the girl! Should’ve left it after speaking to her dad, becos like u said it’s 15 years! Ofc she’s still going to have emotions since ur going back into her life n bringing it all back up and acting like everything’s normal saying should I make tea n stuff, it’s honestly not ideal nor nice even tho ur doing it out of a good place. I’d say seek forgiveness and leave it to Allah for anyone in a similar position. If anything this video shows there’s no good in going back, besides there’s no such thing as redemption. It’s happened, it’s been over a decade, keep it stepping
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After years lol
Sir, how much do you trust Sunnah? Do you recommend them to your family and younger siblings?
Ali tell us what she said because we want to learn from this we are struggeling and maybe you can help us with this info
Brother posted it 1000 years after
@@hamza8791 He is not doing this entirely for the audience. Some of it is for his livelyhood. He's not going to spoil his series and risk losing a viewer, even if you need the answer for something in your life now.
Congratulations to @Ali Dawa for being the industry first in finally releasing the marriage documentary. With a limited budget and time he has been able to produce a genuine and authentic account of his prior life in order to steer young Muslims to the halal direction. I'm very curious to see the next episode
Salam akhi hijab, Have you not seen it already?
Limited time????????????😂😂😂
brother what " limited time ?" h e took like 3 years
@@jmzy93 it's not necessary to confess that you did adultery if you fear it will break the family like divorce. As long as you repented sincerely, you better keep it as a secret
@@S78977 so what if a non hijabi is shown on camera?are you offended?
These wahhabis🤢
Episode 2 will be released in 2050 in sha allah
Most underrated comment here😅😅🤣
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إنْ شَاءَ ٱللَّٰهُ
dont make dua for it to take longer 😂😂😂
BRO!!!! IVE BEEN NEARLY MARRIED MULTIPLE TIMES, UPS, DOWNS FELL IN LOVE BEEN TURNED DOWN, BEEN MARRIED AND DIVORCED ALL WHILST WAITING FOR THIS DOCUMENTARY!!!!!!!!!!! 7 YEARS!!!!!! THAT'S THE WHOLE TIME I'VE BEEN A MUSLIM!! La ilaha il Allah wa ashadu ana Muhammaden rasool'Allah. 😢
lol what
Mashallah
Is this Ali dawah real life story pls tell me anybody
Same
When are you going to make your marriage documentary bro? Lol
I find it quite weird that a grown man, already married with kids. Is looking for his ex.. to say "sorry". There is not point in doing that. It really rubbed me the wrong way.
It's not just to say "sorry" it's haq al-nas if you have wronged someone and dont fix your affairs now in this world then you'll have to amswer back and pay up for it in the next one which is far more severe
@@khayyamal9207 i have never seen this. People mostly move on and make tawbah and dua that Allah سبحانه وتعالى forgives them. There is no need to reopen someones wound. This gave me the feeling that Ali still has feelings towards his ex. Which is super weird.
Everybody is different
@@Lastnameabdi that is true, but still. No point in doing this at all.
@@sabrin9409this gave you the feeling but who cares about your feeling
Failing to understand what's halal about meeting your ex? More so what's your wife going be thinking.
I'm thinking the same I need answers subhanallah
To ask for forgiveness I think
If she didn't agree to this, he would probably never do it. So please try to avoid negative assumptions until you have actual information about it is happening behind close doors 🙏
Well i also had that question, then i thought, is it haram to meet people?
@@ddiisskkss3793 yeah but isnt this girl from before he became Muslim. Allah would have forgiven him for what he did
NO WAY IT IS FINALLY HERE GUYS, WALLAH ALI HAS TESTED OUR SABR. 😂 May Allah reward you for finally posting this and Insha’Allah we all benefit. If you are reading this - please pray for me and all students going through exam period and to pass 🤲😭
Bro I didn't even start studying and I have only one month 😭
Me too😢😂
@@nawaaladnan i have 8 days 😢
@@Muslim_Identity9 how's your preparation??
mine is in a few days, so stressed out 😣😣😣
Wallahi seeing how you sincerely opened up and apologised made me tear up.
That action of seeking forgiveness did not decrease you as a man but made you more honourable. May Allah swt reward you.
Yeah that got me
It's deep, it's very personal, it's not what I was expecting but it's a real eye opener. Great work so far. Appreciate your honesty, I know it's not easy to open up like this for the whole world to see.
people don’t understand how heavy it is to apologize especially if you hurt someone
I can't believe the marriage documentary has released in my lifetime 🤭 I thought this day would never come 😂
That’s because he has hit 1 million subscribers
Im new, what are u talking about loll?
@@Hannah-sg4sr was there a condition about him releasing the documentary after hitting a million subs? 😂
@@thehabiba2697 pretty much so
Soooo long I have been waiting finally
Isn't it haram to be contacting somebody who isn't halal for you especially whilst you have a wife and chidlren now. You've repented to Allah and you have now apologised to her what more do you want? If everybody started doing what you're doing Ali nobody in life will ever move on and it'll create a society where truly people are not over their exes. Imagine what your wife went through when listening to this? I come from a good place brother as a woman myself I genuinely can not understand your constant need to look for her it's wrong she is haram for you, you have no relations with her or her mother. This isn't Islam, but I appreciate you are trying to save people from the same mistakes may Allah forgive us all for our sins and appreciate your efforts إن شاء الله
@@umm2656 with all due respect you said a whole lot of nothing. In Islam relationships are haram the majority of scholars say when ending a relationship it is even acceptable to 'ghost' an individual with no explanation because that's the right thing to do for the sake of Allah. I understand the brothers point but I believe if everybody started contacting their ex then we are as Muslims creating a society of greater sin and hurt for future spouses, he has apologised once even though this wasn't required as his relationship was HARAM. Regardless he chose to do it, he now needs to MOVE on and stop contacting her as he is misguiding people to do the same. Everyone would love it if they got the apology they needed, but why are we seeking closure or apologies from the creation that hurt us? Instead we should be praying to Allah for peace and forgiveness and إن شاء الله he will appreciate our efforts for leaving something haram for the sake of him. Yes he is sat with 'others' in the room but again islam forbids this especially when there is no reason to be doing so. You have the money back to the shop that's great but do not compare a haram relationship to that haram relationships include ZINA, when you are married with children you should never look back at your past. May Allah guide us and forgive us.
@ahmad hanbal honestly it's sad to see so many comments supporting what he has done when in fact this could misguide the ummah and instead create a society of unhappy relationships because everybody is chasing their ex under the guise of 'forgiveness' our maker is the forgiver repent to him, he's already apologised once that's enough.
Thank you for this comment. It is absurd how obsessed he is with his ex. She clearly moved on from something 13 years ago but he hasn't. After meeting with her family the first time, that really should have been enough. He also could have done all this privately and just told us he got his closure. Instead, he made this into an Indian drama series just for content.
what is the point of this? haram and any evil done before Islam is forgiven by Allah swt mentioned in the Quran countless times. If Allah the almighty has forgiven you isn't that good enough for you? Why do reverts think that they are doing some good for the ummah by going into minute detail about what they did in the past ? Maybe if you killed someone than we could maybe understand why you feel like this. Keep your sins concealed and Allah swt will conceal your sins on the day of judgement!
@@SA-lg5sg ikr! This is actually tempting people to get in touch with the ex's under the guise of forgiveness when actually it's not necessary nor is it halal to do so
Meeting with the ex when you are married? Doesnt matter if you have the permission of your wife. You had a 5 year relationship with the ex. What is this nonsense?
Very weird video from ali
Whilst everyone is busy making jokes, I just want to say that it takes a lot of courage to make this Ali and we really do appreciate it! It’s very insightful and it can help those who are on the similar path to what u faced and help them before it’s too late! Thanks again ❤
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I hope so in shaa Allah, Allah reward ali and all those involved in its production ameen
Soooo true, i was thinking about the same thing. This comment should be pinned.
Wallah!!!
I am sorry for ever joking about the documentary taking so long. The behind the scenes are just so so personal and emotional. It did take a lot of courage to do this, subhanallah.
Bro that cliffhanger was so good, it puts Netflix to shame😂😂 Ali definitely knows how to hook his audience
now its gonna be caught up in my head until next episode 🙃
Next episode gonna drop in 2050
@@mohamad4257 oh no.. i will go insane
I was about to leave my jamat (namaz) to see her msg....
But, when i came back from prayer.... I was shocked that he left on a cliffhanger 😢
It was dragged out way too much, like Indian serials 😂😂😂
Do not approach girls you’ve damaged. It may mess with their heads and bring up the trauma and give mixed messages. Convey the apology through a mutual friend if you really feel the need to but don’t open up the door to shaytan.
Jazak/i Allah khair
He's also encouraging a woman to marry a Hindu ( forbidden) because they're same culture?. This guy's a charlatan
I really liked the fact that the interviewer was a smart woman who asks fair questions or shares her wholesome thoughts. I like how she pointed out that ''you may want redemption but why make her go through these after such a long time to pursue what you'd feel comfortable with''
It seems like the girl Ali used to date will appreciate it but still it doesn't work like that for everyone. And it may even cause more problems in that person's life.
Yeah definitely❤. Truly appreciate the interviewer
I think that's his wife
@@bakersfieldroofing4479 thought the same thing, but not sure
To me, she sounded like the sister that frequently comes on Bitter Truth Show lol
what's the interviewer's name?
Is this real? Someone pinch me.
🤏 here you go
It's real
*pinches
Is the music ok?
SubhanAllah… so many failed marriages due to the delay of this documentary 😅
Cat da shaaaat
My great grandfather used to tell me about a long awaited series in his times and always said I'll be the one to see it. Wow its like the legends said we grandchildren are here now. Cant wait for my own grandchildren to see the next episode
My great great great great great grandad was 5 when this was announced. He's been dead for 500ish years. I feel lucky to be alive to watch this.
FR like I was reading ab this in his diary 😔 wish he was here to witness it
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These comments 😂😂😂😂
Son of God does not mean that God has a child in Christianity!
*what a mistake in the Qur'an!*
Son of God is a title referring to the Word of God!
After a thousand years💀
Finally the marriage documentary is here💀💀 bro made us wait 3948392727 years with 293838 trailers
Im new, what are u talking about loll?
@@outofthebox9699 Ali Dawah has been talking about the marriage documentary since almost 5 or 6 years. (Maybe even 7) He kept saying it's almost done and it took this long.
@@outofthebox9699 Ali Dawah followers have been waiting for this marriage documentary for yeaarrrrs
He was saying that this will help people learn about marriage, all of the young single boys have been waiting for years, some of which have gotten married, got kids and are still waiting 😆
People died waiting for it. But at least it's a great product, Allah ybarek fi akhuna.
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Dont know why people are making fun right over in comments. Everything take place in Allah's timing. This documentary made me shiver. Never been in a haram relationship but It is still relatable in many aspects. This doc. literally taught me many things. TBH I dont find right words to express myself. There are unimaginably many dimensions here. From How society influences and pressurise us. To How Islam being a solution to all this pressures and influences. Brother Ali, you are really strong to make this much effort to receive the forgiveness from the person you hurt. We human beings are weak. We commit sin intentionally and unintentionally. Best of those are who seek forgiveness sincerely. Barakallah
Honestly, as a female, I don’t think it is a good idea for you to find your ex, message her or meet up with her after so many years. You have apologised her and her family in the past. Khalas, ask Allah for forgiveness and get over it. You are now married so move on with your life. If I were to put myself in her shoes, I wouldn’t want to be reminded about my past or even speak with my ex ever again.
Crazy that a married man still visite his ex. 3ajeeb subhanAllah
This is going to be good❤
SQ trust me i can't still believe it that the documentary is out; surreal. i was probably 11 or 12 when he announced and now im 17
SQ gotta do a reaction vid on this 😂. Or like a vid review.
@@omerghorizai6352you're too old for him now
wait a minute is this a reference?
I’m now watching it with my wife and 2 kids alhamdulillah 🤩😂
MashaAllah 😅😊
Allahuma barik ❤
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Same here Alhamdulillah, me n my husband were both patiently waiting for this when we were single and now we're married and got kids and we finally got to watch this together Alhamdulillah #fullcircle
Mashallah
Brother Ali, I’m a non Muslim that follows you and I have to say that this episode was spectacular. It was well put together and I can tell you put your heart and soul into it. Bless you and your crew for all of the hard work.
Same!
ali can you tell me what the song at the start is called its a nice song the one with the roses bun the lyrics i just like that tune
هداك الله للإسلام
❤❤❤ this so the one!!! Thx for your work habibi
Your intentions behind this looks very confusing. Why couldn’t you approach her privately, and not broadcast it online? Ontop of that actually going to her house after 15 years, it’s not right in any way. Surely it’s something you would leave in the past and not dig back up. And you could’ve told your followers your message without going to these lengths and hurting other people’s feelings. This just doesn’t sit right with me at all, I’d honestly advice you to take it down and not even upload the rest, allahu mustaan
Finally!!! Someone has their head screwed on, I see this brother poncing off Muslims. He’s still after wanting to be something, power trip. Allah fix he’s heart, he has potential.
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U Announced it when I was finding my rishta now I'm married with three kids😂😂 but moreover congratulations for everyone who waited for this🎉😂
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Is this Ali dawah real life story pls tell me anybody
@@hadiatassadaq7379 yes bro
@@Sameer-db5vq one thing I didn't understand.
He said he was in relationship with her of 5 years and also he said he was not physical with her .what does it mean ?
Imean what was he had regret than ?
Or he was mean that he was not Extreme level of final phsyical but below of it yes... Is he had the type of relationship in those 5 years? Pls pls clear me this
@@hadiatassadaq7379 he meant that he wasn't physical with the girl like touching and all but he loved her
Brother Ali. Am so proud of you that you have shared your past to us. Remember that we all have a past and we are never perfect. Nobody can judge anyone. Because we all going to be judged one day. We have to fix ourself to fix hurt. You absolutely did the right way. Allah is the one who gave you hidayat and you found the noor of Allah support. It takes a pure proper man to sincerly applogise and you did it the most moderate way as possible. This technique will help many young men and men who are seeking a wife to be more mindfulness and to have humanity. Just watch brother Allah will bless you more burakat in your life after all your Episode ate shown. It's take a true man to apologise. Total respect to you brother Ali.
no. we "all" don't have a past. if by "past" you mean haram relationship, then speak for yourself. there are many Muslims who never did and will never do such haram things and wouldn't even think about touching the opposite gender in a haram way.. plus Ali wasn't a Muslim in that time so his "past" is irrelevant anyway. so edit your comment
@@akiogood4712 100% its unheard of in my family to have relationships before marriage or freely mix. Its just how it is meant to be in islam.
We should definitely encourage the youth and muslims not to engage in committing zina in the first place than before its too late. Always fear allah and live like you can die at any time.
Unfortunately western society has influenced muslims so much than these relationships outside marriage have become so trendy and all over social media astagfiruallah hence no one can get married as their souls have become damaged.
@@Adam-kh9rb yes but even in the west, there are so many Muslims who would never do zina. and mashaAllah about your family. may Allah subhanahu wata'ala bless your family and you
@@akiogood4712 i dont think by "past" she just meant haram relationships , I think she meant generelly we all have a past and may have done things we are not proud of. After all we are human beings, we make mistakes and we seek forgiveness from allah swt.
@@rayyan5056 well than words should be chosen more precisely, in order not to confuse. when the context is zina or haram relationship, it's important to be precise if that's not what you mean.
I gotta be honest and tell the truth. I thought that this is gonna be something "entertaining" to watch, but I really ended up wanting to see more, not because I've "enjoyed" it!
I've found myself pausing many times and thinking a lot about many of the things you were saying. I definitely see a powerful message here. I really appreciate you opening up during the dialogues. It was truly beautiful, meaningful and sincere. I hope that the rest of the documentary is going to be the same because it'd make all the waiting really worth it. Jazaka Allah khairan brother Ali, and all the brothers and sisters who helped you in this!
to be honest i can’t imagine how your wife must feel seeing this series. my brother i understand your intentions but i don’t think it’s good to broadcast your sins regardless. your children when they grow up shouldn‘t see this. they might lose respect for you and not listen to your teachings bc they may think „he wasn’t better than that anyway“
also try to be more careful about halal and haram. you speaking directly to a woman is wrong. using music at the start of the series is wrong.
if you‘ve repented, ask forgiveness and do it privately. don’t broadcast.
listen it would‘ve been better if you made up an imaginary scenario of people you know.
additionally, what you could be speaking on instead is that how this has affected you as a muslim as in how you’ve suffered from the guilt. how it might have affected the relationship between you and your spouse. also, if someone doesn’t want to be found. leave them alone. some people genuinely try to forget their haram past and start a new life. and for such people, being found is the greatest horror you can cause to us.
This isn’t the correct way to go about with this. Young adults and teenagers makes up a large sum of your audience who follow you (whether you like this or not). They will now go out of their way to “apologise” to their ex partners. When feelings are involved, apology becomes secondary; (with this apology initiative) they’re likely to go back to their exes. This “documentary” will cause more damage than good. Furthermore, why are you addressing your sins in detail for anyone to know? You may wish to re-evaluate this “documentary” of yours akhi. Hyping up this documentary then using extortionate advertising makes an average viewer question your purpose with this video. May Allah forgive all our sins and guide us to the right path. Ameen.
You hit the nail on the head with this comment. BarakAllahu feek
Whilst he’s on road with a Mercedes yet don’t got a job… Scholars for dollars but these man ain’t even scholars. Lol.
Ameen.
agreed!
Ak your right but you being too nice…these phones need to be told harsher
*Everybody got married off before the documentary.*
Meanwhile, I was 12 when he first announced it and now it came out just in time. 😂😂
Same😭
Big facts,(I was 10)
Same I was 11 bruh.
You made us wait YEARS and then you had the audacity to make us wait ages till the documentary actually starts 😭😭
master clickbaiter
what do you mean waited years? waited years for what? forgive me for being confused, but could you clarify what your talking about?
@@saidbenrahma9129 Ali has been saying the marriage documentary is coming out for years now. However it has finally come out
The master baiter
@@IDYPLAYZ JazaakAllah khairun
I think it can be dangerous for the one that’s been hurt. You don’t know how long it may have taken her to just live again. I understand why you did it, but it could really bring all the trauma back up for her. Never do this to a Muslim girl. If you want to apologise, then do it via a mutual friend never ruin a girls future just because you feel bad about ruining her past. I hope food comes for it and Allah guides her to Islam and heals her heart aameen.
^good
"Never do this to a Muslim girl"? Never do this to any girl period!
I'm saying this, as a hijabi muslimah.
A lot of Muslim guys, dehumanise non Muslim women unfortunately.
Muhummed SAW, treated every woman with respect.
That's why everyone ended up reverting to Islam in the end.
Even if the non Muslim women never revert to Islam, being a decent human being is still better than being a trash bag.
@@misbahailia3345 I mean never go to a Muslim girls home to apologise or go to her directly. It's a different situation. Leave sins in the past.
This is what the ummmah needed in this tough times lol.
Is that serious ? 😂
I went from a teen to now a full grown man who’s about to get married Inn Shaa Allah. May we all benefit from this marriage documentary. And May ALLAH(SWT) accept your efforts brother Ali and bless you. Ameen
Mashallah
Just don't contact your ex for 'forgiveness' focus on your future wife not on a haram relationship from the past.
Way too much drama in this then needed. Wallahi I watched 10 minutes reaction to a text message and we wasn’t even told what it. No matter what she said it can’t be that deep bro. You married wit kids now.
This is a monumental moment in UA-cam history.
Can i just say....brother Ali (may allah always protect him and keep him steadfast ameen.)
Has been talking about this documentary longer than I have been muslim 🤣🤣🤣
Das crazy 😂
I am bit scared for myself honestly. In these times many don't correct each other. So many positive comments and a few giving naseeha. I was waiting for a documentary about how to find a partner in the best way, the challenges that come with it and so on. Not a brother messaging an ex, wanting to meet her after years, telling her he will blurre her face and saying un appropriate things about what he felt for her before.
Inappropriate things?? Bruhh don't be spreading false info
Youn can pray for a non-muslim right? when they are alive? Pray for Allah's guidance upon them.
Yes you can
WE'VE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS OUR WHOLE LIVES 😭😭😭
i see u everywhere in the rp community
I was young and immature when the documentary was announced and now I’m a grown man almost married myself.
I remember you. I think trolling on AFTV videos many years ago lol
Im new, what are u talking about loll?
Wait when did he originally announce this documentary?
Is this a england thing or what?am i missing something?a bit strange. i really dont understand why you went from dawah content to revealing your past with your ex. Are you having withdrawl symptoms? we dont ow you a explanation, only Allah does. I understand it comes from a good place from you but you just shouldnt have. Youve made the poor girl nuts by contacting her all over again, meanwhile she be asking you way to many what do you want!?
So many youngsters been there,done that, the went on with their lives.
I understand it comes from a good place from you cuz you finally see you been young and foolish but hey, that train has passed already wáy to many times, its time to move on. Only Allah is able to guide the misguided heart, no matter how many times one tells them.
Bro delete this for yourself I'm just saying.. I appreciate you akhi but this documentary I think you should delete it
Why even bother about stuff that was 13 years ago? You weren‘t even a muslim back then. I don‘t get the whole drama… what‘s point of all this?
If any men are watching this and considering reaching out to their exes in the same manner as Ali - please don't. This is coming from a woman who has had exes who have hurt me and this would literally put me back into that trauma and disrupt my life. I'm sure many women would feel the same. Please think twice. Big respect to Ali for taking accountability in a public way though, I imagine it could not have been easy for him.
Everyone is different though. This is how you feel.
I like apologies and to hear what they are sorry for. It gives closure. That’s just me.
@@Zazezoothat is a fair point. An apology isn't necessarily the issue here, it's the manner in which he is pursuing the apology. He could have sent a heartfelt message and left it at that. However, you do have a point that this is from my perspective and other women may feel differently. Jazakallahu khair
Well said
@@aishaplayton8120 Yh, I agree, I misread what you meant and assumed you meant the apology itself. The manner in which he’s done it is a bit OTT. If I was his wife I would feel as if he is not over his ex…
I completely agree. This would set off a few alarm bells for me as a wife too. But InshaAllah he and his wife have had robust conversations about this and it doesn’t cause any disruptions in their marriage.
This explains why he makes so many videos about women and is very critical of them. I believe there is still a part of him that needs to be healed. And this also applies to the men who are constantly rejected. You dont need to be that "type of men" to attract women. Your soul mate is written for who you are not for what you can be.
This has been simmering in my mind for a while now. I'm 100% convinced that most misogynists in our community were rejected or scorned by women, now they're taking out their hatred on all the opposite-sex under the guise of criticizing feminism.
As salam u alaikum the funniest thing about this comment is that I’ve been more critical of men than I have ever been towards woman, but for some very odd reason they never ever ever see those videos lol. And actually my trauma caused me to sympathise more with woman which you’ll see in episode 2 & 3.
No Muslim man has ever called me male hater for advising them. But the moment I do 1 video against sisters all hell breaks loose.
@@emaanserghini1919 Exactly these muslim men are just a bunch of hurt men who were rejected because they didn't have money or got female attention. Just like feminists are women with constant negative experience or heard stories, be it verbal, psychological or sexual. These ideologies confirm their experiences and traumas, making it seem that only they are right. But the truth is they just weren't treated right.
Our ummah needs healing. And we need to try to understand eachother where they are coming from instead of bashing them. This only confirms their trauma.
@@yousra1390 You say that as though you aren't a f'em'i'n'ist who was rejected by wmn.
@@AliDawah salam Ali, the sister is not a therapist so she can't diagnose you or know whats in your heart, but take her message as a feedback and look deep within your heart to see if there's anything you can improve or heal from. And if like you said there isn't then ignore the comment because people will always have something to say and you were bound to be criticised for this documentary so don't let it hurt you. Alhamdulillah if you've healed and learned to sympathise more with women I for one am very proud of you and really commend you for owning your pain and working on it. May Allah heal us all no one is perfect and I think people should focus on healing their own heart instead of judging others on UA-cam and worrying about someone else's heart.
Mashallah, I got married when he announced this 7 years ago, my kids kids have kids now. We are all watching this together.
Make that make sense
Your 7-year-old had a baby and then that literal baby had a baby and then that literally impossible baby had a baby? You had your children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren in the span of 7 years. LMAO
😂😂😂😂😂
Wow British people are evolution-wise the fittest. Of its the case. Brother subboor (@darwinian delusions) would have said that.
😂
Let the poor girl be, you look desperate. Dont use her to clean your mind. Work the hard way.
I’m confused. You could’ve gone through her mum to find her no??
Great content, thanks for sharing. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, really love her so much, I can't stop thinking about her. I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life but to no avail, I’m frustrated because i literally can't envision my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
Your feelings are understandable, It's always difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation when my wife of 12 years left me, i couldn't just let her go. I did all I could to get her back, I had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back.
@@ddirtdid Wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach him/her?
@@Margart526 her name is MONICA ERLENE MORA, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as a caster and healer
@@ddirtdid Thank you for this valuable information, I just looked her up online. impressive.
@@Margart526 What are these bots invading youtube man, pretending to have conversations. It's pathetic.
I can't help but feel there's more important things in life, first world problems.
The fact you have a non hijabi on display with no care shows your lack of respect. Fear Allah
bro, go an fix your deen up man, focus on yourself before you look at others, who do you think you are?
@@haiqah4856 aight bro,go to your friend and tell them they are commting sins to their faces, since most likely they aitn even on the faith or they are unreligious muslims, gpo to them and tell them of their shortcomings. Im telling you this, you wont come far by doing that. What your ssaying is obejctively true but she is most likely not a muslim herself, what should he do, can only muslims be shown in his videos? And the purpose of this video is even to higliht his days in jahiliya and teach young people not to focus on this matters. So as long as this video benefits the people i see no problem
as a woman a guy who hurts a women deeply, that has lied, manipulated you, was toxic to you and never apologizes to you and even if he does years later the memories feel like it was yesterday! 4 years ago before the pandemic this guy on a marriage app hurt me very deeply that i will never forget! he's someone i just cant forgive and i feel that he needs a punishment on the here after for what he has done to me.
Its easy to hate all men now but keep trying. I hope u find a good man to marry
I just want to know what your wife thinks about this documentary? Was she Oky about u finding your ex? Would u have continued if she didn’t want you to
'by finding her.' 'but you found her twice already' 'no i didn't i went there and she just happened to be there' im laughing so hard😂😂🤣🤣
Episode 2 will be released next Ramadan insha'a Allah stay tuned and don't get married 😂
nooooo
This is An Unexpected Upload, We should thank Ali Brothers And Sisters 👏
When I first heard about this I'm pretty sure I was waiting eagerly to get married and making dua... Still am 😂
May Allah grant me and all of us pious spouses and children who establish their salaah and are the coolness of our eyes. Ameen!!!!
Allahumma ameen 🤲🏼
Ameen 😢❤
La ilaha illa anta Subhanaka inni kuntu minazzalimeen Salallahualihe wasallam
Ameen
1.Jami` at-Tirmidhi 3505
Ibrahim bin Muhammad bin Sa`d narrated from his father, from Sa`d that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said:
“The supplication of Dhun-Nun (Prophet Yunus) when he supplicated, while in the belly of the whale was: ‘There is none worthy of worship except You, Glory to You, Indeed, I have been of the transgressors. (Lā ilāha illā anta subḥānaka innī kuntu minaẓ-ẓālimīn)’ So indeed, no Muslim man supplicates with it for anything, ever, except Allah responds to him.”
لاَ إِلَهَ إِلاَّ أَنْتَ سُبْحَانَكَ إِنِّي كُنْتُ مِنَ الظَّالِمِينَ :Arabic
Sahih.
2.Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Every one of you will have his supplications answered, as long as he is not impatient and he says: I have supplicated but I was not answered.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6340, Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2735
Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim
عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ يُسْتَجَابُ لِأَحَدِكُمْ مَا لَمْ يَعْجَلْ يَقُولُ دَعَوْتُ فَلَمْ يُسْتَجَبْ لِي
6340 صحيح البخاري كتاب الدعوات باب يستجاب للعبد ما لم يعجل
2735 صحيح مسلم كتاب الذكر والدعاء والتوبة والاستغفار باب بيان أنه يستجاب للداعي ما لم يعجل فيقول دعوت فلم يستجب لي
Youre killing us, when is the next episode coming out 🤦🏼♀️
How you still chatting to non mahrams when u have a wife especially
and a child
@@merdin9104 nahhhhhh what
I don’t understand whats the purpose of this „documentary“. If you want seek closure or forgiveness dont to it publicly. You can make tawba thats between you and Allah swt. Cleary you doing this out of guilt and to get closure yourself.
CMON Ali its been 12 days.... :(((
Assalamu alikum. Brother Ali i really don't see the point of this video and what am i suppose to get from this?
If someone repents from a sin then they should not talk about it. The fact that you had a girlfriend should remain between you and your creator.
WAIT IS IT ACTUALLY HERE?!
I thought I would get married before the documentary gets uploaded 😂😂... jazakallah Khairan ❤❤
😂
I have waited 2 years for the documentary and it surely didn't dissapointed me it was amazing !! good work Ali !!
One word for this documentary... Dayooth
I don't think that trying to contact her and meet her after all these years is wise, what if she is in a committed relationship and she moved on imagine the harm and discomfort you could cause to her and her partner about something happened many years ago, The first time you went and apologised was enaugh already, you did your part of seeking forgiveness from someone you heart and whether they forgive you or not is up to them, contacting them again and again about it will only stir an unnecessary drama.
Ali, brother, you have to understand that the ends do not justify the means, no matter how good your intentions are. There are a lot of haram things in this video, you should have avoided them.
I get that you want to help the ummah, but remember that guidance is from Allah and He doesn’t need us falling into sins. If He wills to guide more people He will do so. The guidance of the people He wills to guide is not based on our efforts. Don’t think the ummah will be misguided unless you include the haram things in videos. Help others without also misguiding them & Allah will reward you if He wills. May Allah guide us all.
To be honest this is a very strange documentary
Yeah it kinda feels weird
Why?
@Buzzzy-bee i can't speak the person who commented but for me its more like alot of these timelines don't seem to add up.
He hasn't seen this woman in like 10 years.
But he randomly decides to reach out to give her closure? Who says she hasn't already moved on?
Like the whole first episode is mad tbh
Wallah I'm not trying to be condescending... I'm asking an honest question: have any of the 'ulemaa permitted showing 'awrah for the sake of these types of documentaries? I'm legit wondering how to justify this as well as imitation of musical instruments.
Jazaakumullahu Khayran for all the help in replying in clarifying.
I have the same questions I'm so confused I can't even watch this without feeling constant guilt.
this is the problem? not him running round after his ex girlfriend whilst being married...
I thought this was a marriage documentary. Was expecting a Nikkah ceremony but this turned out to be something else.
I speak Kiswahili (East African), and I'm happy to see how many Arabic words I can understand...
I also noticed some words in some Indian videos that are similar to Kiswahili both in sound and meaning.
This shows how we are all connected in some way. As always, I'm happy to learn from the world's Muslims.
God bless you all 🙏🏾
Kiswahili is half Arabic and I know a little bit as I grow up in Kenya 😊
@@sadyadey782 wow.. I'm Kenyan, actually. You lived at the Coast or?
@@jullietmburu9672 I used to live in eastern and northern part of Kenya as a refugee but now I’m based in the USA 🇺🇸
@@jullietmburu9672 Indian is a cousin of Africans that is why most of them have dark skin and most like they might have languages/dialects that are similar to the ones in Africa and we Indian Ocean and have most Indians and Africans have similar cultures and traditions but just an opinion though💡🇸🇴🇰🇪🇺🇸
Please don't make us wait too long for part 2. I want the episodes out weekly. Daily would be nice as well.
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Daily? Are you funding him to make this content lol?
@@mufasahm8238 me watching ads on his videos helps contribute 🤷♂️. I guess weekly would be nice. I'm assuming he's already filmed em all so yh he just needs go release em. Hopefully they're not realised yearly.
Would you like tea, coffee? Anything else with that? Demanding much?
I assumed all episodes had been filmed which is why I didn't want to wait long for them.
I’m new to Ali’s channel and I’m seeing how nuts everyone is about this video😂 7 years, seriously.
Allahu Mubarak I’m actually so happy for Ali for being this open with us may Allah reward and forgive him for all his sins allahuma ameen
Sorry one last thing, painful past relationships may have caused someone to self harm etc. Allah forbid if aomeone gets influenced by this documentary in the wrong way and try to reconnect with their ex. Could lead to all sorts of psychological or physical harm. All that time they took to heal will have to restart. Just something to reflect on. Please forgive my input. Pleaae accept this as a sincee sister.
Ameen my loving sister. Allah bless you for your kind words and understanding ❤
When this documentary was announced, I was in a similar situation. Haram relationships and all. I've done alot of things I regret now that I am happily married and have a child. But what's funny is, I've been married for four years now. My child is 1.5 years old and I had almost given up hope that we'd ever see this documentary. But here it is, 7 years later after I got married and had a kid. I'm thankful to Ali for sticking to it and not giving up on it. May Allah reward you ten fold. Can't wait for the next episode!! hope it releases in this decade though :D
All jokes aside, this is so professionally made Mashallah
Can someone please pray for me, because I got bad results and now I wil do my exams again. May Allah swt help us all achieve our goals ♥
I didn't get what did he do and what he was apologizing for, can anyone explain please?
My great grandmother use to tell me tails about a prophecy, the marriage documentary of Ali Dawah. She alwayes looked very emotional when sharing it with me with and told me how I might be from the chosen generation that will witness this great event in human history. Grandma, you were right.
Delete this comment
Lying on prophecy for few likes is not good
please 😂😂
Music, drama, you call this Islam ? You’re meant to hide your sins not expose them.
Ali thank you so much for making this documentary. Your purpose of wanting to help young people realize that intentional or unintentional actions have consequences, and your hope of helping prevent them from going through what you have is admirable. I’m not Muslim but my husband is and I have been learning about Islam for the past 3 years. I’ve studied religions since I was a teenager and I believe the religion of Islam and it’s culture is the most profoundly beautiful and worshipful religion I have learned about and witnessed. I have been following you for your gifted and patient public dialogues. But when I saw this documentary it shocked me. We are of different religions and life experiences but have carried the exact same burden for many years. Wanting to apologize to a former love for hurting them. Carrying that guilt and planning for YEARS on how to find a way to go back and apologize to them. Your interviewer was fantastic and brought up many important points. Some of those points were ones that I had used in my past to decide to stop planning my apology and move forward. If I ever ran into him I would definitely try to talk to him but I’m not carrying that with me anymore, I made peace with it. I am so hopeful for you and your chance to give your apologies. I pray she will be open and willing to hear you. Congratulations on getting this out there and I can’t wait for the next episode!
Subhanallah! Subhanallah!! Subhanallah!!!
The emotions in this episode especially towards the end...Subhanallah.
I'm glad this documentary is finally out. May Allah reward every single person that's making it possible.
That was a bit more unfiltered than i expected, takes a lot of courage man i don't know how you managed to put yourself out there like this in such a raw way. All the best! Waiting for EP02!
Wait do you mean he all of this that he did was literally literally live not acting ?
@@SULIMANGXRyes it’s real
Wow finally, need to get the popcorn ready LOL
we waited that long for this? 😂😂😂 no thanks married with 3 kids Alhamdulillah
Ali im do proud of you.. you helped me come to Islam . You helped me take my shahada by the well of Allah of coarse. You have done so well. So excited for you brother
Finished sixth form, my undergraduate and master degrees and working full time since the initial announcement and the first episode. Finally it’s here
Subhan’Allah.. no one else find the whole nature of this first episode wrong and weird.
keeping contact with an an exe’s parents, reaching out to her after years? Talking to a non maharam woman who he has a past with… not caring if he opens old wounds for her because he is not satisfied with how things were left? Imagine if she’s married and he brought fitnah by doing this, or even if she isn’t married why bring up old feelings and regrets. Most people want to forget and move on. This is narcissistic and for himself before anyone else. Also why did he choose a female to be the interviewer? You guys keep trying to normalize unnecessary mixing between non-maharam men and women.
How is any of this okay or even halal. May Allah rectify the state of our ummah. Please anyone who is in a similar situation do not follow his lead in his actions it can be very damaging and is opening a door to fitnah.
Allah will heal that person and yourself if you seek his help and repent to him.
The most you can for that person you harm is either make things halal or make Dua for them in secret and let them be. May Allah grant us knowledge of benefit and the ability to act upon it ameen.
I 100% agree!! This was sickly selfish and narcissistic of him. Wow, I am shocked. Haram too! Why was he dming non mahrams??? If you don’t have a halal way of finding someone or something, then don’t.
You are that one comment I was looking for! Exactly 💯 💯 💯 💯
He still is very narcissistic he lacks accountability and empathy and it’s such a slap to his wife and little daughter !!! He needs therapy and counseling his channel is nothing short of a drama channel
A female interviewer makes a man feel fuzzy, a male interviewer will ask the difficult questions hence get him out of his comfort zone and make him think deeply of his choices. Fuzzy leads to more fitnah. Surprised none of his duat friends hammered him or held him back .
Have u gone mad? What's wrong with talking to opposite gender? Do you only work with same genders bro??? This is nonsense. Brother Ali was speaking in respectful language and here you are accusing him of nonsense.
He's trying to teach us about the dangers of "dating" yes. But there is halal form of dating. But right now he's highlighting on his previous mistakes while he was dating and not yet Muslim. He's teaching us lessons. He's not telling us to repeat his mistakes.
Typing this is tiring. Bye.
9:40 "Don't worry man, the worst she can say is no!" Her: "Is this some sort of joke?"
This not only is so interesting to watch , but it also talks about so many issues in the modern society that no one else really talks about in detail . JAZAKALLAHU KHAIR !
Bro I saw myself in this documentary so much. I didn‘t know our path in life was so similar. Like literally, the things in our youth and adolescence that shaped us is the same. I feel like someone‘s telling my story. May Allah keep you steadfast. You did a wonderful job with the documentary and I‘m looking forward to the upcoming episodes
Samee
Wow, this marriage documentary is truly an eye-opener for those who want to end their relationship in a halal way. It's refreshing to see content that addresses the importance of following Islamic principles when it comes to marriage. Kudos to Ali for his efforts in making this video as close to halal as possible. I can't wait for the next episode and I'm sure many others are anxiously waiting too. Keep up the great work, bro! May Allah bless you for your efforts.🤩😇
I'm 38 and still single . Never been married , never had a bf . Al hamdolillah 😊😊
Well its about time you did get married,
@Auran Williams
It means auntie in french
@@CallMeTata-io2hfit means bye bye in baby language
If that's what you want then may Allah SWT make it easy for you and keep you on the right path and protect you and the rest of us from all major sins.
@@razamughal9095 its in Allahs time. Dont worry about her
On a serious note, this is amazing. Takes so much courage to come out and be so vulnerable in front of millions of us. You're truly are an inspiration br.Ali. So well presented and I can't wait for the rest. May Allah reward you iA!
Ngl going back again and again to redeem urself isn’t doing anyone any favours espec the girl! Should’ve left it after speaking to her dad, becos like u said it’s 15 years! Ofc she’s still going to have emotions since ur going back into her life n bringing it all back up and acting like everything’s normal saying should I make tea n stuff, it’s honestly not ideal nor nice even tho ur doing it out of a good place. I’d say seek forgiveness and leave it to Allah for anyone in a similar position. If anything this video shows there’s no good in going back, besides there’s no such thing as redemption. It’s happened, it’s been over a decade, keep it stepping
nahh dude, wee need ep 2 asap lol, this is very gooddddd opening episdoe lolll 9.5/10
May Allah bless our brothers and sisters of ummah with Jannah ❤
Aameen summa Aameen ❤