It's much better to have someone in the same city to handle someone's affairs. Any halfway decent attorney would tell the client to have a trustee or executor that lives in the same city or as close as possible.
Nothing in this world could have kept me away from my mother before her death. I was living in Las Vegas when my father called and told me my mom took a turn for the worse. Within minutes I had a flight booked to Chicago and spent her last 3 days on this earth next to her. I even slept beside her every night. Held her hand as I fell asleep. My family and I witnessed her take her last breath and there’s no other place I would’ve rather been. I love you, mom 💙
He did go 2 weeks b4 the mother died..what did u want him to do sit in hospice for weeks waiting for her to pass while he still needs to earn a living.. don't be REDICULOUS
My father recently passed away and pictures of him before his stroke versus when he entered hospice are hugely different. Makes me think he didnt see her much after she was sick. Praying he gets closure.
@@jenniehughes6927 Yes, my mom lived with us. She called my name and was unconscious before we could run across the house. Never regained consciousness and died the next day. RIP to your brother.
My mom passed April 2010. I took care of her for 2yrs alone. When she passed away my 3 siblings came out of the wood work with their hands out. I didn't take anything that was my mom's bc I had all the memories and it wasn't worth fighting over her stuff. Just sad how greedy people get when someone dies 💔😒😭
The ones that don't contribute always do that. But whatever they get won't last long, it never does for greedy ppl so it's right that you let them have it.
I took care of my mom, and my brother ended up getting everything. Go figure. He never done a thing for her except the last month or so he stepped in and started doing her yard.
But yet she STILL tried to give him some and he was ungrateful!!! That’s what kills me. That’s what made her snap. Then he wants to see everything and wants to accuse her of switching his mother’s body. And he did all of that for $500. I would never speak to him again
He acted like he did a huge thing by taking his family on a car trip to see his mother one time! Cancer is evil. My dad passed from cancer and he didn't look anywhere close to what he used to look like and the appearance part happened in the last week or two. He was in so much pain. He had bone cancer and cancer all over inside. Watching him suffer and not being able to take his pain away was awful. He was on high doses of pain meds, but he still had incredible pain. He very rarely complained. I would have to ask him about his pain level.
I think the Plaintiff is acting out of guilt for not doing what he should have done for his "mama" that his cousin, clearly, did for her. Judge Milian nailed it when she said, "everyone else does not have to pay for your problems!" I'm glad there was an equitable solution, though.
I TOOK CARE OF MY FATHER AFTER MY MOTHER DIED FOR 7 YEARS. MY SISTER WHO IS MARRIED NEVER EVER CAME TO VISIT MY FATHER AT ALL, BEFORE I HAD TO PUT HIM INTO A NURSING HOME. ON THE DAY OF HIS FUNERAL I GAVE MY SISTER AND MY BROTHER IN LAW HOLY HELL RIGHT IN FRONT OF EVERYBODY! AND I HAS NO REGRETS ABOUT THIS, WHATSOEVER! ONLY ME AND 2 OF MY VERY GOOD FRIENDS WENT TO VISIT HIM IN THE NURSING HOME. I EVEN CALLED MY SISTER TO TELL HER THE NAME OF THE NURSING HOME OUR FATHER WAS IN. SHE NEVER EVER WENT TO VISIT HIM IN THE NURSING HOME AT ALL
This is the exact reason why I told no one what my Mommy left me. Not even the funeral home. People who didn't care before miraculously start to care after someone's death.
“It’s not my Mama.” 😔. It could be that the cancer really ravaged her appearance. One of my relatives who died of cancer did not look anything like the person in the casket.
condolances, and ya eve n so the judge didnt know hr n wouldnt know the differnce plus ya good poin, also open casketes i feel its kinda cruel 2 peer at the deceased not to mention to hard
My grandma had passed about a year ago and people grieve in their own way. Sometimes, a child must swallow their pride and stay away to respect their parent, which could result in being quite assertive during the division of assets, as they want to make sure that the parent's wishes were honoured. What he asked for is well within his rights, as he did not deny the aunt's needs, but wanted to understand the outcome given he knew she was stiffing him. (Where I live, that would be the aunt's job already). So given that, I can't say this guy is foolish, as he did not ask for what wasn't his
@@SuperBRIANWILSON Your parents don't owe you anything. it's THEIR money & items and they can give it to anyone they want, hell, they can give it to the homeless person sleeping under their back porch...it's their money
I totally agree. Why do people assume that when their parents pass they are ENTITLED to their parent's belongings and money. You are never entitled to other people's possessions. You parents can give their shit to ANYONE THEY WANT. SMH
Thank God when my mom died my siblings and I couldn't care less about money or what she left we all cried held on to one another and just wished we had her back.
My siblings and I were the same way when our mom died. We held on to each other. No one wanted to go through her things. We finally did but there was certainly no fighting over it.
This man is just out for the money. I don't hear grief in his voice only greed. His dear mother knew she didn't have much. She probably left what little funds she had to the person who would best carry out her wishes. People who have never had squat seem think insurance money will allow them to make it rain. By the time the hospital, funeral home, and cemetery get paid, you are left with little or nothing. Then the rest of the funds are considered part of a person's estate. That's when the bill collectors come with their hands stretched out. You may not know much about the law, but when you die, your heirs will learn real quick. Leave a will people or some last rites instructions. The government will always get theirs .....dead or alive.
@@diva70smusic hmm this time clicking reply puts the name anyway um maybe hes tight on money it happens i seen the sadnessn fusteration in his face we didnt see his face but both were highly stressed n agressive on the phone i mean we didnt see them visibly on the phone i know it was hem 2 but ya im surprsied she let it play that long but it was all there as it is the funeral homes etc get way to much money as it is and he was the mothers direct c hild and in another state so harder to get there and had a family to take care of im not sidding with either though really both shoulda worked together better to handle it maturly
My dad wrote a last will 5 years before he passed & had me as a beneficiary on his life insurance policy. I'm glad he took care of business before his passing.
I had a brother like that too. He said and did horrible things to her when she was alive and when she passed, he was telling everyone that he was in charge. She died from Altzheimer's and I am convinced he helped progress the disease along. The idiot forgot that my dad was still alive.and he was definitely in charge. My dad was in charge and that was that.
I used to be a faithful Judge Judy fan. I’ve been watching Peoples Court for the last few weeks and enjoy it so much more! She actually lets the litigants speak! So much better. New #1 fan!
8:27-9:03 man that really got to me. You can hear it in her voice she is telling the truth. Son just seems like he wanted a cut just cause it was his parent. Let's see how this plays out
The plaintive got less than what The cousin offered when she called saying she wanted to give him money. She offered a thousand, but if I heard correctly, after all that fuss he made, in mother's pension was only $515? Thats what he gets! He made HIMSELF look like an idiot. Geeeeezzz...
@@lala_Israel my husband is a barber his friend has a bald spot in the back top center of his head and he does a reverse fade on him and it amazes me how the spot disappears.
@@evacook4693 Only the $515.70 that came into her checking account ONLY after her death, on 31 October. That is and was, the LAST time. It is not something he can put his fat, avaricious, greedy, rapacious and covetous fat greedy hands on her money, for the rest of his sorry life. Now, if he were a minor, then, he would get it, until he hit his majority. Was it ONLY me who neither saw or heard, not a SINGLE sound of grief or sorrow ? Hs first words as a baby were probably, NOT 'mommy', but it WAS "ME...ME...ME".
Judge Milian is beautiful inside and out. She even pushed the professionalism to help them see through the labyrinth of paperwork they had and explained the legal terms they didn’t understand. Awesome woman!
I have a strict policy and that is when someone dies in my family I am not arguing and fighting over any materialistic things especially property and money! My grandmother died a few years ago I asked my aunt for 2 items I had bought my grandmother years ago and my aunt readily agreed. They were just two simple figurines and they meant so much to my grandmother and to me. My aunt gave me those two items and I treasure them! Any money, her house, etc . I've not enquired or asked for anything and never will!
Word!!! It’s there money if they wanna set it on fire it’s their prerogative. I hate it that people are a part of our life and their existence comes down to a few dollars once they pass on ☹️
I experienced 1st hand. My dad passed in 2016, I'm the only child & his estranged brother went haywire when he found out I was the beneficiary. He was harassing me to the point where I told him not to contact me anymore.
@@sophisticatedmm3632 Your uncle was a fool. There is no way he jumps ahead of you or any spouses. Sorry you had to deal with that in your time of grief. People need to be ashamed of themselves.
My cousin died of cancer and I’m guessing because of the medication and radiation with the embalming it didn’t look like her at all. Everyone thought it wasn’t her. It was her but it was really a sad last image
My mom, granny, and older brother have passed away. Its amazing how family that didn't care before all of a sudden start asking well did they have have life insurance, a will, whos paying for the service. Its best for anyone with kids, pets, home, life insurance, a checking account make a living will. Google your state and check requirements for hand written will, print and get it notarized. Tell 2 people you have a will if anything happens to you. It solves a lot of issues in the aftermath of dealing with losing someone.
I hope he knows that when a person is very sick for a long time, they always looks different in their casket. My aunt was a light skinned, freckle faced woman. When she died from terminal cancer, she was as dark as night, and she had swelled up twice her size.
My father and I went to see my mother at the funeral home the day after she passed. I couldn't even look at her because despite knowing it was her, I couldn't recognize her face and my brain was seconds away from shattering.
I just lost my grandma, an all this arguing over some money is fucking petty, when people understand family is more important then money, then they will understand what’s important in life
Yep. I lost both pretty closely. One in Sep 2019 (grandpa) and his wife Oct 2020. So many family disputes between her children and some of my younger cousins that felt entitled to things. It's really saddening. I just stayed out of it all bc ik they wouldn't approve of that behavior. Didn't get anything and don't want anything but for them to rest peacefully together.
Eazy Macc sorry for your loss. I just lost my mom on Jan 29 and I don't get it. I can't even type this without tearing up yet I saw zero emotion from that shitty son. He tried to fake some early on but he disgusts me. His MOM is gone and all he cares about is money!
I’m sorry for your loss babe. Unfortunately all we can do is be decent human beings who let the people we love know we love them everyday. We can’t change the cold hearted people who let this world turn them to exactly what we fight against.
I lost my mom as a young teen. My mother looked completely different in the casket. As a teen i visited my mother in hospice. The medication(s) that cancer patients are on will change ones appearance. My mother was also cremated after the viewing. Hes in the stages of grief specifically the denial stage. Hes money hungry.
Honestly watching my father die at 18 years old was extremely traumatizing but I wouldn’t want him to take his last breath without his daughter by his side. I put his last moments before my mental health. I let him be surrounded by those who loved him and who he loved. It’s so important. You should be there. You will regret not being there.
That lady was right. Mental health is just as important as physical health. Please do right by your loved ones and bring flowers to your loved ones while they are here See a therapist often. Drink water and take care of yourselves.
This is so tragic, I lost my mom to breast cancer and I’m so glad her will was very specific, a trustee is not a beneficiary they are not the same thing, god rest his mama’s soul she would be rolling over in her grave if she knew all of this.
When my wife passed 3 years ago, after she was embalmed, dressed and made up, and since she was laying flat on her back, she really looked different. Yes, I knew it was her, but there was enough of a shock that I warned my kids so that they were aware. My 14 year old said the same thing later that day. She said "She doesn't look like mom." Death and the funeral process can make someone look significantly different when everything is done. So his claim that the body wasn't his mom is silly.
Trustees are not entitled to your money personally. Maybe for an out of pocket expense. Beneficiaries are entitled to the money. Any outstanding bills the deceased are supposed to be paid for.
In my state, executors can be paid u to 10% of the estate for their work, which can be extensive if there’s a lot of property that needs to be liquidated or debts that need to be cleared up.
@@michaelwest2141 yes. There is also precedent in law here (uk) where trustees can be reimbursed for reasonable out of pocket expenses. But executors of course operate under a Will and trustees under a trust (which can be mentioned within the Will). A named executor under a Will can deal with a probate. In this case where there is no Will, there would have needed to be an application to the probate registry to be appointed administrator and only certain persons would be eligible.
@@t.c.5456 I was just stating a feature of trust law in general. Not what the judge said. I did get that the litigant said she was a beneficiary. We were just commenting on law in different jurisdictions in relation to payments to trustees.
It’s funny the children never comes around, but when the parents die they all want to show their faces and play the good child. I have seen this a lot especially in nursing home. They 20 minutes away but never visit the moment something happens they want to sue 😂
Yep! I had a lady code my first day at work. She had a trach, was on a vent, had a catheter, feecal catheter and much more. When she passed her daughter came in and was like when did my mom get a hole in her neck! 🤔🤦🏾♀️😑 I’m like ma’am how the hell didn’t u know your mom had a trach?!?!?!? Like where the eff u been?!?!?
“For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.” 1 Timothy 6:10 NIV
The Judge took on a lot more than she had to in this case, sorting out absolutely everything including paying more money , calming everyone down with truth , and a resolution , all done with kindness . Perhaps these family members can now resolve the relationship problems between them .
I doubt it The son lives far away, and the cousin has no need to resolve anything more with him above and beyond this case. When someone showed you who they are, believe him. No use opening oneself up to further abuse. He will have to deal with the fact that his mother chose to cut him out of her life, and his own guilt at having neglected her for so many years.
It was very kind of Judge Milian to work this out for the family. I think family members get confused by legal terms and it can lead to arguments. I think the kindest act someone can do is to leave a will of their wishes. Unfortunately, that can't always be the case.
This poor guy really brought this case to court with pics of his mom in a casket and wants judge to take a look at them??? Like judge will know. I’m praying for this guy... he’s got some issues. 😔 I thought she was sending him $1,000 anyway? Isn’t he now getting less??
She was probably being nice to him by giving him some money that she isn't required to do. Then he turns it ugly. Now he's going to get about half that of $1000. I don't know if he'll get $1000 she offered at first now or not, but if someone brought me to court like that and screamed/ranted at me over the phone after I had to go though nursing care, funeral home and anything else for someone, I don't know if I would give them any money afterwards beyond what I obligated to pay.
The fact that she skipped over her only child and made someone else a beneficiary says a lot about the kind of son that he was. You dont want to visit your sick mother, but now that she's dead, you're there fighting over her money. He's luck he's even getting that pensiom
Family always comes out of the woodwork when somebody dies.What a nice cousin.If her son was such a good son he would have been there when his mum was sick and his mum wouldn't have put everything over to the cousin to sort.Sounds like the cousin done everything and all he wants is her money.
okay this isn't even about the case, i just have to say this.... DUDE HOW TF ARE U STILL GETTING A "FADE" HAIRCUT WHEN ALL UR HAIR ALREADY FADED OFF OF YOUR OWN SKULL YEARS AGO LMFAOOOOOOO
I have never understood why relatives EVER feel entitled to anything when a loved one passes. It's their money and they have the right to spend it, donate it or give it all to their pet dog and no one has a right to say they deserve anything. I would rather my family spend their money and live life while they can. I don't care if I don't see one cent as long as they enjoy themselves.
same thing happened with my brother . I took care of both of my parents all my life . they both asked me . If i ever get sick don't put me in a nursing home . I took care of them myself until they passed . the next thing i know he wants copies of the wills . well my parents left everything to me and the wills where done 20 years ago . So i became the target of insults . go figure
She didn't start the fight; he did. And the fight was over money that he wasn't entitled to in the first place. Not once did he say that he wanted to reimburse the cousin for any out of pocket outlay she may have incurred. He didn't even thank her for taking such good care of HIS mother.
My Mom passed this year we were together for over 20 years. She was 9 days of being 91,I was right there I held her hand when she passed. She told me what she wanted and I have been doing it slowly my younger brother is okay with it. We share our Mom, she was creamated . When I found out she had dementia I told her every day we were together for ever. I am still working on giving everyone what Mom wanted me to do. Everyone understands why.😢 We lived together I was the only one that took care of my Mom. Miss her every day ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. my Mom was never an obligation or something else. It was a privilege and a onaer to be there. I got the greatest gift to be able to hold her hand when she passed at home. Thank You Mom❤️
I live in Ohio my dad lived in Indiana. When my dad got sick I was there every other weekends sometimes every weekend. I own a daycare I was willing to shut down to be there. Nothing not nothing stopped me from visiting my dad up until his death 😢. It’s sad that people get crazy even though they weren’t there to help or take care of them.. sad 😢
SIR, I buried my husband with him for 30 years. He didn't not look like himself, illness & medicines thru hospice and also the funeral home can change your looks...
I don't understand people, when my Mama passed, I wasn't thinking about money. I was wondering about how I was gonna live without her there. Some people worrying about the wrong things.
My little cousin passed away from a car accident. They had an open casket. I promise ya'll the person in the casket wasn't my cousin. I wish i wouldn't have gone to the funeral. Now my last image of her is one I can't get out of my mind.
Coming from a healthcare worker you’d be surprised at the huge change in physical appearance that can take place in just two weeks. You have to take into consideration that those people are actively dying, It’s for comfort care in their final days. During that time loved ones are no longer interested in eating, drinking, they’re always asleep etc. I do believe that, that was his mom it’s just hard to accept when you have a certain image of someone in your head and now your coming to see them for final goodbyes and they no longer look like the person you remember. There are 12 steps of grief and the first is denial! Praying he finds comfort as far as that goes.
I stayed with mother in the hospital everyday when she got sick.i spent the night on the let out couch until she passed. She had a daughter that never stayed there with her and she had another son besides me he never stayed and acted like they loved her please. I know how the cousin feels.
I work in annuities and it is amazing what money will do to people. It can bring out the absolute worst in a person. My suggestion, name your beneficiaries on any account or plan and keep them up to date! Nothing worse than telling a grieving widow that her husband left his huge annuity to his first wife and not to her.
Sir, alot of ppl look very different when they die. My cousin died last year and at the funeral I said that doesn't look like her at all. Started crying bc of how diff she looked. Later my sister and mother gave me an explanation as to why she looks so different which do make sense.
Why would the deceased have wanted an open coffin anyway? She had had several ailments including cancer , remember me for the LIFE I had in me not the way I looked when I died. Write your funeral want's down (have someone do it) simply not in legalese. There will be no service for me or platitudes either. I expect my family to have a party for me. My neighbour's husband died and she paid a huge amount (from her own money) when I talked with her she said (I would have felt guilty If I didn't). Wow this episode really alerted me. Thanks for allowing me to rattle on.
Ungrateful son that did nothing for his mother...didn't even believe it was his mother in the coffin, now wants more than $1K. He's lucky he got anything!
This dude is bugging they not gonna replace ya moms body with someone else 😂 he sounds like he hasn't seen his mom in years. Idk if he's ever been to a funeral b4 but if the person doesn't know how to do makeup on a POC and they don't preserve the body correctly most likely then not its not gonna look like your family member when the casket is open.
That is selfish not to go see your sick parent because it might upset you. Yes, it's difficult to see them sick and not looking like themselves but it's not about you. It's about them. You need to give them an ounce of hope that they can recover.
The son is avoiding dealing with the grief. Anger is an easier emotion to deal with then grief; anger can be projected at something/one while grief has to be dealt with internally. That may be why he made up this crazy story about it not being his mother in the casket. Plus he may be dealing with the guilt of not taking care of /visiting his mother.
Many times when people pass their body sends all their blood to their head to try and save the brain. That usually results in severe facial swelling and the person not looking like themselves at the funeral. It happened to my grandmother. It’s hard to say goodbye when your loved one looks so different.
The beneficiary refers to whoever receives the property that is part of a trust, while the trustee is whoever controls that property and distributes it according to the trust deed. The trustee is NOT a beneficiary.
I have never been so annoyed by people sitting in the back as I was for those two chuckling fools listening to this guy have a mental break down while telling his story. My heart goes out to everyone in this, this guy obviously needs some serious counseling and the lady deserves some major kudos for being so patient and kind.
Weddings and Funerals bring out the absolute worst in family
The love of money is the root of all evil.
Sad but true! 😔
This is so sad. My sisters and I didn’t act like this when my mom passed. Probably because our mom was more important than her money. It’s a shame.
People come out of the woodwork with their hands out, it is so sad.
You got that right. That's why I try to avoid both. But if they need support, I'll always be there..
You kinda of already get the picture when his own mother would skip over him to name his cousin trustee.
Huge red flag for me.
Ikr!
It could mean he’s not responsible or available to make decisions. That doesn’t mean she didn’t love him or like him like the cousin says.
It's much better to have someone in the same city to handle someone's affairs. Any halfway decent attorney would tell the client to have a trustee or executor that lives in the same city or as close as possible.
@@amylouwho8991 exactly especially because of jurisdiction issues if something goes wrong and someone wants to sue the trustee.
People always have something to say about money, but don't help pay for anything.
Exactly!!!!
Always!!
Indeed.......
Greedy for money
Exactly. ALWAYS
Nothing in this world could have kept me away from my mother before her death. I was living in Las Vegas when my father called and told me my mom took a turn for the worse. Within minutes I had a flight booked to Chicago and spent her last 3 days on this earth next to her. I even slept beside her every night. Held her hand as I fell asleep. My family and I witnessed her take her last breath and there’s no other place I would’ve rather been.
I love you, mom 💙
It is a beautiful thing that you were able to be with her in the end. The beginning and ending of a parent/child relationship is sacred thing
@@slix96 my mother saw me take my first breath and I saw her take her last. I’m so grateful she passed on peacefully. Lung cancer put her through hell
@@alexab.c.809 omg 🥺🥺😭 I hope everyone has found their peace 🙏🏽
@@alexab.c.809 That was beautifully stated...May God bless u with peace and to cherish the memories u had with her.
My condolences.
If you emotionally can’t go visit your dying mother then don’t emotionally come wanting her money after death .... nonsense
Absolutely
Well said! Some people... Lord have Mercy!!
Perfectly said !!
Those kind always do.
He did go 2 weeks b4 the mother died..what did u want him to do sit in hospice for weeks waiting for her to pass while he still needs to earn a living.. don't be REDICULOUS
My father recently passed away and pictures of him before his stroke versus when he entered hospice are hugely different. Makes me think he didnt see her much after she was sick. Praying he gets closure.
So sorry for your loss. I lost my mom and my heart breaks everyday.
@@Talula-Darling the hope I go quick like my brothers did ....from stroke . Didn't linger.
Yes was thinking the saaaaame thing. He probably visit her often 😒 the nerve of some ppl
@@jenniehughes6927 Yes, my mom lived with us. She called my name and was unconscious before we could run across the house. Never regained consciousness and died the next day. RIP to your brother.
I said the same thing.
I heard ABSOLUTELY no grief or sorrow in his greedy voice, ABSOLUTELY none.
You're right, but I heard it in hers during that phone call. It made me cry.
@@carmenmcintyre2229 Yes, me to. I heard deep sorrow & pain, in her voice. I begin to cry cause her sorrow was real.
Lol i did when he lost the case because he can't get the money 🤣
Weirdo thought she swapped Bodies? Wierdo!
The ad for this video is called Head Shavers! @coincidence?
My mom passed April 2010. I took care of her for 2yrs alone. When she passed away my 3 siblings came out of the wood work with their hands out. I didn't take anything that was my mom's bc I had all the memories and it wasn't worth fighting over her stuff. Just sad how greedy people get when someone dies 💔😒😭
The ones that don't contribute always do that. But whatever they get won't last long, it never does for greedy ppl so it's right that you let them have it.
You are so right, the same thing happens to me when my mom pass my two sisters took all her stuff. I have her memory and they can't take that.
I took care of my mom, and my brother ended up getting everything. Go figure. He never done a thing for her except the last month or so he stepped in and started doing her yard.
@@ToniaAlex13 Toni, you are right. The money won't last long because it is ill gotten gain.
💔
Funerals always bring out people’s true colors!
Sad ...... but true🥺😢😔
Family death is always a fight and hurtful.
True story!
Except for the person lying in the coffin. Their true color is gray.
Oh yes me and my siblings no longer speak to each other
She took care of HIS mother. I see why the mom gave the money to her
But yet she STILL tried to give him some and he was ungrateful!!! That’s what kills me. That’s what made her snap. Then he wants to see everything and wants to accuse her of switching his mother’s body. And he did all of that for $500. I would never speak to him again
@@shelfraawoods1785now he has no cousin or mother. Just a dumb ahh
Bless that lady for stepping up to take care of his mom like if he really cared he would of took off work.
He acted like he did a huge thing by taking his family on a car trip to see his mother one time! Cancer is evil. My dad passed from cancer and he didn't look anywhere close to what he used to look like and the appearance part happened in the last week or two. He was in so much pain. He had bone cancer and cancer all over inside. Watching him suffer and not being able to take his pain away was awful. He was on high doses of pain meds, but he still had incredible pain. He very rarely complained. I would have to ask him about his pain level.
He didn’t even care for his mother. He just wanted money.
His greed went after the cousin for $500, after all she did for HIS mother. People can be so despicable.
she was even about to give him $1000, he lost $500 taking her to court.
I agree - it boiled down to greed.
His concern was how much was spent on his mom's funeral, do you people pay attention to what's being said or only what you want to hear
His claim was $5000
@@startinajackson606 he was concerned because he wanted the money. He only brought it up for selfish reasons.
I think the Plaintiff is acting out of guilt for not doing what he should have done for his "mama" that his cousin, clearly, did for her. Judge Milian nailed it when she said, "everyone else does not have to pay for your problems!" I'm glad there was an equitable solution, though.
@ Nicole - So true and very well said. My pops (R.I.P.) used to always say "give me my roses while i'm here, not after I die".
@@cwilliams7908 exactly!
I TOOK CARE OF MY FATHER AFTER MY MOTHER DIED FOR 7 YEARS. MY SISTER WHO IS MARRIED NEVER EVER CAME TO VISIT MY FATHER AT ALL, BEFORE I HAD TO PUT HIM INTO A NURSING HOME. ON THE DAY OF HIS FUNERAL I GAVE MY SISTER AND MY BROTHER IN LAW HOLY HELL RIGHT IN FRONT OF EVERYBODY! AND I HAS NO REGRETS ABOUT THIS, WHATSOEVER! ONLY ME AND 2 OF MY VERY GOOD FRIENDS WENT TO VISIT HIM IN THE NURSING HOME. I EVEN CALLED MY SISTER TO TELL HER THE NAME OF THE NURSING HOME OUR FATHER WAS IN. SHE NEVER EVER WENT TO VISIT HIM IN THE NURSING HOME AT ALL
@@leslieswiman7297 - That's jus sad. U did exactly wat I would have. Kudos to u for stepping up and doin rite by ur dad
This is the exact reason why I told no one what my Mommy left me. Not even the funeral home. People who didn't care before miraculously start to care after someone's death.
Unbelievable
Exactly, bless you
REAL, THE FAKE JAKES ALWAYS POP OUT👉 A.D.
Exactly. So glad that you are smart like that. I would have done the same. Much love to you. 💯💕
You are so incredibly correct, I never understood the fact siblings and family argue over inheritance they had never worked for.
That man fade is fadED😩
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It’s all funny until cancer takes your hair Renee Star. Stay humble.
“It’s not my Mama.” 😔. It could be that the cancer really ravaged her appearance. One of my relatives who died of cancer did not look anything like the person in the casket.
Wow
Sorry about your relative ...
Yes exactly. I was a hospice nurse. People are unrecognizable.
More proof that he spent minimal time with his dying mother smh
condolances, and ya eve n so the judge didnt know hr n wouldnt know the differnce plus ya good poin, also open casketes i feel its kinda cruel 2 peer at the deceased not to mention to hard
He's about as believable as his hairline. His mama knew it.
this the comment i came looking for 😂 how this man got a line up but no hair 😭
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This dude needs to stop. It doesn't even sound like he was that involved with his mama talkin about her wtf. He sounds like a damn fool lol 😂😂😂
He doesn’t he still can get some money. He’s not a fool what so ever. It’s his mama!
My grandma had passed about a year ago and people grieve in their own way. Sometimes, a child must swallow their pride and stay away to respect their parent, which could result in being quite assertive during the division of assets, as they want to make sure that the parent's wishes were honoured.
What he asked for is well within his rights, as he did not deny the aunt's needs, but wanted to understand the outcome given he knew she was stiffing him. (Where I live, that would be the aunt's job already).
So given that, I can't say this guy is foolish, as he did not ask for what wasn't his
She obvious cared if he was STILL the beneficiary of her pension , his cousin big mad she gonna have to give that up
@@SuperBRIANWILSON Your parents don't owe you anything. it's THEIR money & items and they can give it to anyone they want, hell, they can give it to the homeless person sleeping under their back porch...it's their money
I totally agree. Why do people assume that when their parents pass they are ENTITLED to their parent's belongings and money. You are never entitled to other people's possessions. You parents can give their shit to ANYONE THEY WANT. SMH
Thank God when my mom died my siblings and I couldn't care less about money or what she left we all cried held on to one another and just wished we had her back.
My siblings and I were the same way when our mom died. We held on to each other. No one wanted to go through her things. We finally did but there was certainly no fighting over it.
Same.
You are a solid family.
You are so fortunate. ❤
This man is just out for the money. I don't hear grief in his voice only greed. His dear mother knew she didn't have much. She probably left what little funds she had to the person who would best carry out her wishes. People who have never had squat seem think insurance money will allow them to make it rain. By the time the hospital, funeral home, and cemetery get paid, you are left with little or nothing. Then the rest of the funds are considered part of a person's estate. That's when the bill collectors come with their hands stretched out. You may not know much about the law, but when you die, your heirs will learn real quick. Leave a will people or some last rites instructions. The government will always get theirs .....dead or alive.
I agree with u all the way he's out for money
@@theresaking4774 Not one tear shed when he was cursing out his cousin.
@@diva70smusic hmm this time clicking reply puts the name anyway um maybe hes tight on money it happens i seen the sadnessn fusteration in his face we didnt see his face but both were highly stressed n agressive on the phone i mean we didnt see them visibly on the phone i know it was hem 2 but ya im surprsied she let it play that long but it was all there as it is the funeral homes etc get way to much money as it is and he was the mothers direct c hild and in another state so harder to get there and had a family to take care of im not sidding with either though really both shoulda worked together better to handle it maturly
My dad wrote a last will 5 years before he passed & had me as a beneficiary on his life insurance policy. I'm glad he took care of business before his passing.
@@sophisticatedmm3632Sorry for your loss. Smart and thoughtful man your father. May he rest in peace🙏🏽.
He is like my brother. Thinks he is entitled. My brother was horrible to my mother for years, abusive.
Same with my dad sister my grandmother didn't leave her anything she had a fit
My son sisters are the same.. not abusive but money mad...
8th case so happy this case is fair.
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I had a brother like that too. He said and did horrible things to her when she was alive and when she passed, he was telling everyone that he was in charge. She died from Altzheimer's and I am convinced he helped progress the disease along. The idiot forgot that my dad was still alive.and he was definitely in charge. My dad was in charge and that was that.
You're mother allowed this?
I used to be a faithful Judge Judy fan. I’ve been watching Peoples Court for the last few weeks and enjoy it so much more! She actually lets the litigants speak! So much better. New #1 fan!
8:27-9:03 man that really got to me. You can hear it in her voice she is telling the truth. Son just seems like he wanted a cut just cause it was his parent. Let's see how this plays out
I felt every word. She was really not with the BS.
Thank you for putting the time
The plaintive got less than what The cousin offered when she called saying she wanted to give him money. She offered a thousand, but if I heard correctly, after all that fuss he made, in mother's pension was only $515? Thats what he gets! He made HIMSELF look like an idiot. Geeeeezzz...
Yup you can feel the truth the hurt the pain etc all in that moment. ♥
Especially since she didn’t know he was recording. That recording made him look like a monster. This poor woman
That hair. It's holding on to dear life.
I was looking at it like his barber ain't shit for continuing to line those baby hairs up
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@@lala_Israel my husband is a barber his friend has a bald spot in the back top center of his head and he does a reverse fade on him and it amazes me how the spot disappears.
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You won't say it to his face.
He's just upset because his mom didn't leave him anything!
She left him her pension!
@@evacook4693 if it is a nycers pension...
Then it's just what she paid into the pension when she was alive + 5%
@Tucker Norris And OBVIOUSLY his late mother ABSOLUTELY knew exactly how he would react.
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@@evacook4693 Only the $515.70 that came into her checking account ONLY after her death, on 31 October. That is and was, the LAST time. It is not something he can put his fat, avaricious, greedy, rapacious and covetous fat greedy hands on her money, for the rest of his sorry life. Now, if he were a minor, then, he would get it, until he hit his majority. Was it ONLY me who neither saw or heard, not a SINGLE sound of grief or sorrow ? Hs first words as a baby were probably, NOT 'mommy', but it WAS "ME...ME...ME".
He should sue his barbershop next for malpractice
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Judge Milian is beautiful inside and out. She even pushed the professionalism to help them see through the labyrinth of paperwork they had and explained the legal terms they didn’t understand. Awesome woman!
I have a strict policy and that is when someone dies in my family I am not arguing and fighting over any materialistic things especially property and money! My grandmother died a few years ago I asked my aunt for 2 items I had bought my grandmother years ago and my aunt readily agreed. They were just two simple figurines and they meant so much to my grandmother and to me. My aunt gave me those two items and I treasure them! Any money, her house, etc . I've not enquired or asked for anything and never will!
That is wonderful..What a good person you are, if only more people had a heart as pure as yours. Blessings
Yep, I say the same thing to.
@@mburzotta1871 thank you. 💜
Word!!! It’s there money if they wanna set it on fire it’s their prerogative. I hate it that people are a part of our life and their existence comes down to a few dollars once they pass on ☹️
I completely agree.
Money is prominent root of conflict with families when dealing with death smh 🤦🏿♀️
I experienced 1st hand. My dad passed in 2016, I'm the only child & his estranged brother went haywire when he found out I was the beneficiary. He was harassing me to the point where I told him not to contact me anymore.
@@sophisticatedmm3632 Your uncle was a fool. There is no way he jumps ahead of you or any spouses. Sorry you had to deal with that in your time of grief. People need to be ashamed of themselves.
He was really going crazy over $500. But I don't think it's really about the money. he hasn't had the proper mourning.
I liked how Judge Milian handled this case. She struck a fine balance between empathy & justice. Great job.
My cousin died of cancer and I’m guessing because of the medication and radiation with the embalming it didn’t look like her at all. Everyone thought it wasn’t her. It was her but it was really a sad last image
My mom, granny, and older brother have passed away. Its amazing how family that didn't care before all of a sudden start asking well did they have have life insurance, a will, whos paying for the service. Its best for anyone with kids, pets, home, life insurance, a checking account make a living will. Google your state and check requirements for hand written will, print and get it notarized. Tell 2 people you have a will if anything happens to you. It solves a lot of issues in the aftermath of dealing with losing someone.
This is really sad. I know what it’s like to be a caregiver and to be taken for granted. God bless her.
The Family is never there when the loved one is sick or dying but they're always there to collect their Money.
cancer sometimes destroys who you knew visually .... Sir, your grief won’t let you believe what you saw was your mom😔
Totally agree.
And guilt😥
Happened to my cousin. She was 49 but looked 100 years old and skinny.
So sad. Seems like he was all about the money for closure. Didn’t give a damn about his mother.
Over $515.00 he look stupid and don’t know he’s going to have to pay taxes on that money and it’s not even worth getting it! I’m laughing at this
The funny part is she was about to give him $1000 our of the bank account, this hissy fit he through lost him about $500
Its a pension payment...
I hope he knows that when a person is very sick for a long time, they always looks different in their casket. My aunt was a light skinned, freckle faced woman. When she died from terminal cancer, she was as dark as night, and she had swelled up twice her size.
Damn. My aunt was just greyish
Very true. He know that. He just wants an issue.
My father and I went to see my mother at the funeral home the day after she passed. I couldn't even look at her because despite knowing it was her, I couldn't recognize her face and my brain was seconds away from shattering.
My mom was thin throughout her life and at her funeral she was heavy and dark.
ungrateful man, someone who took care of his mother, he is sorry as they come
I just lost my grandma, an all this arguing over some money is fucking petty, when people understand family is more important then money, then they will understand what’s important in life
Sad but it either bring the best out or the worst out of you
Yep. I lost both pretty closely. One in Sep 2019 (grandpa) and his wife Oct 2020. So many family disputes between her children and some of my younger cousins that felt entitled to things. It's really saddening. I just stayed out of it all bc ik they wouldn't approve of that behavior. Didn't get anything and don't want anything but for them to rest peacefully together.
Eazy Macc sorry for your loss. I just lost my mom on Jan 29 and I don't get it. I can't even type this without tearing up yet I saw zero emotion from that shitty son. He tried to fake some early on but he disgusts me. His MOM is gone and all he cares about is money!
I’m sorry for your loss babe. Unfortunately all we can do is be decent human beings who let the people we love know we love them everyday. We can’t change the cold hearted people who let this world turn them to exactly what we fight against.
Only lowlifes would Care and fight for the money bc they are to lady to work for their own money.
I lost my mom as a young teen. My mother looked completely different in the casket. As a teen i visited my mother in hospice. The medication(s) that cancer patients are on will change ones appearance. My mother was also cremated after the viewing. Hes in the stages of grief specifically the denial stage.
Hes money hungry.
Honestly watching my father die at 18 years old was extremely traumatizing but I wouldn’t want him to take his last breath without his daughter by his side. I put his last moments before my mental health. I let him be surrounded by those who loved him and who he loved. It’s so important. You should be there. You will regret not being there.
That lady was right. Mental health is just as important as physical health.
Please do right by your loved ones and bring flowers to your loved ones while they are here
See a therapist often.
Drink water and take care of yourselves.
This is so tragic, I lost my mom to breast cancer and I’m so glad her will was very specific, a trustee is not a beneficiary they are not the same thing, god rest his mama’s soul she would be rolling over in her grave if she knew all of this.
When my wife passed 3 years ago, after she was embalmed, dressed and made up, and since she was laying flat on her back, she really looked different. Yes, I knew it was her, but there was enough of a shock that I warned my kids so that they were aware. My 14 year old said the same thing later that day. She said "She doesn't look like mom."
Death and the funeral process can make someone look significantly different when everything is done. So his claim that the body wasn't his mom is silly.
So sorry for your loss to you and your children Jeffery
My condolences to you and your family. May the Lord strengthen and keep you all.
Exactly.. Same with my husband cousins.. looked completely different... I'm so sorry for the lose of your wife.. God be with you...
Trustees are not entitled to your money personally. Maybe for an out of pocket expense. Beneficiaries are entitled to the money. Any outstanding bills the deceased are supposed to be paid for.
In my state, executors can be paid u to 10% of the estate for their work, which can be extensive if there’s a lot of property that needs to be liquidated or debts that need to be cleared up.
@@michaelwest2141 yes. There is also precedent in law here (uk) where trustees can be reimbursed for reasonable out of pocket expenses. But executors of course operate under a Will and trustees under a trust (which can be mentioned within the Will). A named executor under a Will can deal with a probate. In this case where there is no Will, there would have needed to be an application to the probate registry to be appointed administrator and only certain persons would be eligible.
You dont listen. The judge stated she was also a beneficiary
@@t.c.5456 I was just stating a feature of trust law in general. Not what the judge said. I did get that the litigant said she was a beneficiary. We were just commenting on law in different jurisdictions in relation to payments to trustees.
It’s funny the children never comes around, but when the parents die they all want to show their faces and play the good child. I have seen this a lot especially in nursing home. They 20 minutes away but never visit the moment something happens they want to sue 😂
Not me. Before my mom died I made sure I visited and spent as much time with her as possible. I was extremely close to her.
At my job we call it the "guilty child syndrome"
Yep! I had a lady code my first day at work. She had a trach, was on a vent, had a catheter, feecal catheter and much more. When she passed her daughter came in and was like when did my mom get a hole in her neck! 🤔🤦🏾♀️😑 I’m like ma’am how the hell didn’t u know your mom had a trach?!?!?!? Like where the eff u been?!?!?
He was money hungry and didn’t seem to care for his mother. I would be on the first thing smoking had I got bad news bout my mother.
You go girl on that recording. I get it!!! How wonderful you were there for her.
Shaun is only out for the money
Right dirty bumb smh
“For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.”
1 Timothy 6:10 NIV
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The Judge took on a lot more than she had to in this case, sorting out absolutely everything including paying more money , calming everyone down with truth , and a resolution , all done with kindness . Perhaps these family members can now resolve the relationship problems between them .
I doubt it The son lives far away, and the cousin has no need to resolve anything more with him above and beyond this case. When someone showed you who they are, believe him. No use opening oneself up to further abuse. He will have to deal with the fact that his mother chose to cut him out of her life, and his own guilt at having neglected her for so many years.
Considering how he treated his cousin, it’s in her best interest to never speak to him again
So Shaun just wants the pension money.🤔
I'm trying to think how the cousin got that monthly pension after her death. I was told that money had to be returned
Those family genes are strong. The resemblance is uncanny.
It was very kind of Judge Milian to work this out for the family. I think family members get confused by legal terms and it can lead to arguments. I think the kindest act someone can do is to leave a will of their wishes. Unfortunately, that can't always be the case.
This poor guy really brought this case to court with pics of his mom in a casket and wants judge to take a look at them??? Like judge will know. I’m praying for this guy... he’s got some issues. 😔 I thought she was sending him $1,000 anyway? Isn’t he now getting less??
She was probably being nice to him by giving him some money that she isn't required to do. Then he turns it ugly. Now he's going to get about half that of $1000. I don't know if he'll get $1000 she offered at first now or not, but if someone brought me to court like that and screamed/ranted at me over the phone after I had to go though nursing care, funeral home and anything else for someone, I don't know if I would give them any money afterwards beyond what I obligated to pay.
I wouldn’t give him a dime.
I feel bad. This situation sucks. When the mother doesn’t like their own child.
So true ... Mom left him on as beneficiary for her pension, tho' ... A mother's love is fierce; no matter what their "human" feelings ❤️
It seems he ignored her except when she was dying. He wanted money.
That's what she said. It doesnt nean it was true
I said the same thing. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree, so the mother must have really disliked herself more.
Because Miss Dawn said so?! You just believe everything people say to you?
The fact that she skipped over her only child and made someone else a beneficiary says a lot about the kind of son that he was. You dont want to visit your sick mother, but now that she's dead, you're there fighting over her money. He's luck he's even getting that pensiom
Family always comes out of the woodwork when somebody dies.What a nice cousin.If her son was such a good son he would have been there when his mum was sick and his mum wouldn't have put everything over to the cousin to sort.Sounds like the cousin done everything and all he wants is her money.
I love this fuking show! I could watch this 24/7
Me too
Me three
And Judge Judy and Mathis... only the. Three
okay this isn't even about the case, i just have to say this....
DUDE HOW TF ARE U STILL GETTING A "FADE" HAIRCUT WHEN ALL UR HAIR ALREADY FADED OFF OF YOUR OWN SKULL YEARS AGO LMFAOOOOOOO
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This man got a boneless fade 😂
The Plaintiff's guilt at neglecting his mother is the cause of this whole thing.
and they neglected her when she was gone, too, arguing over money
This lowlife has no guilt only greed.
@@MrMaddox57he is not her
He later sued the defendant again for some frozen casseroles from the church potluck that his mom had left in her freezer.
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I have never understood why relatives EVER feel entitled to anything when a loved one passes. It's their money and they have the right to spend it, donate it or give it all to their pet dog and no one has a right to say they deserve anything. I would rather my family spend their money and live life while they can. I don't care if I don't see one cent as long as they enjoy themselves.
Whew chileee 😖 the drama.... he's delusional. Get a grief counselor, beloved.
This is so sad. The mother would be so hurt if she could see and hear how her son has and is behaving, especially about the money aspects.
Ppl look so different when they die especially after they go thru illness & cancer.
same thing happened with my brother . I took care of both of my parents all my life . they both asked me . If i ever get sick don't put me in a nursing home . I took care of them myself until they passed . the next thing i know he wants copies of the wills . well my parents left everything to me and the wills where done 20 years ago . So i became the target of insults . go figure
Same thing happened to me too.
Sorry for your loss. And how you were devalued for being a loving child.
When my papa passed, everyone came up and fought over his house… I have memories that I’ll cherish for years to come, that’s all that mattered to me.
Sickens me that these people are fighting over her money 💰 😔why didn’t they fight as to who looks after her and support her in her hours of need
You didn't hear the call? They did fight over about that.
The son didn't give a DAMN.
She didn't start the fight; he did. And the fight was over money that he wasn't entitled to in the first place. Not once did he say that he wanted to reimburse the cousin for any out of pocket outlay she may have incurred. He didn't even thank her for taking such good care of HIS mother.
Arguing over a few thousands ..So sad !!
Hundred lmao 515 to be exact smh
Sooo this man was nowhere around when his Mom was sick and declining, but feels so entitled to her finances. His Mom knew what she was doing. Sad.
My Mom passed this year we were together for over 20 years. She was 9 days of being 91,I was right there I held her hand when she passed. She told me what she wanted and I have been doing it slowly my younger brother is okay with it. We share our Mom, she was creamated . When I found out she had dementia I told her every day we were together for ever. I am still working on giving everyone what Mom wanted me to do. Everyone understands why.😢 We lived together I was the only one that took care of my Mom. Miss her every day ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. my Mom was never an obligation or something else. It was a privilege and a onaer to be there. I got the greatest gift to be able to hold her hand when she passed at home. Thank You Mom❤️
Wow the defendant could go toe to toe with any DRUNKEN SAILOR HER PROFANITY GAME IS OFF THE CHAIN!!!!
I live in Ohio my dad lived in Indiana. When my dad got sick I was there every other weekends sometimes every weekend. I own a daycare I was willing to shut down to be there. Nothing not nothing stopped me from visiting my dad up until his death 😢. It’s sad that people get crazy even though they weren’t there to help or take care of them.. sad 😢
SIR, I buried my husband with him for 30 years. He didn't not look like himself, illness & medicines thru hospice and also the funeral home can change your looks...
I used to work for Bronx-Lebanon Hospital for 14 years.
I don't understand people, when my Mama passed, I wasn't thinking about money. I was wondering about how I was gonna live without her there. Some people worrying about the wrong things.
I went through this with my sister when our father passed. It's heart wrenching and in the end it makes you stronger.
My little cousin passed away from a car accident. They had an open casket. I promise ya'll the person in the casket wasn't my cousin. I wish i wouldn't have gone to the funeral. Now my last image of her is one I can't get out of my mind.
I Am Sorry For Your Loss 😢
Sorry, my condolences.
I’m sorry to hear that. 😔.
That’s exactly how I feel about both of my sisters passing. It’s so hard.
So I shouldn't go to my moms funeral when it happens I guess 😕
Coming from a healthcare worker you’d be surprised at the huge change in physical appearance that can take place in just two weeks. You have to take into consideration that those people are actively dying, It’s for comfort care in their final days. During that time loved ones are no longer interested in eating, drinking, they’re always asleep etc. I do believe that, that was his mom it’s just hard to accept when you have a certain image of someone in your head and now your coming to see them for final goodbyes and they no longer look like the person you remember. There are 12 steps of grief and the first is denial! Praying he finds comfort as far as that goes.
Sean seems like he just worried about the money
I stayed with mother in the hospital everyday when she got sick.i spent the night on the let out couch until she passed. She had a daughter that never stayed there with her and she had another son besides me he never stayed and acted like they loved her please. I know how the cousin feels.
I work in annuities and it is amazing what money will do to people. It can bring out the absolute worst in a person. My suggestion, name your beneficiaries on any account or plan and keep them up to date! Nothing worse than telling a grieving widow that her husband left his huge annuity to his first wife and not to her.
Sir, alot of ppl look very different when they die. My cousin died last year and at the funeral I said that doesn't look like her at all. Started crying bc of how diff she looked. Later my sister and mother gave me an explanation as to why she looks so different which do make sense.
Why would the deceased have wanted an open coffin anyway? She had had several ailments including cancer , remember me for the LIFE I had in me not the way I looked when I died. Write your funeral want's down (have someone do it) simply not in legalese. There will be no service for me or platitudes either. I expect my family to have a party for me. My neighbour's husband died and she paid a huge amount (from her own money) when I talked with her she said (I would have felt guilty If I didn't). Wow this episode really alerted me. Thanks for allowing me to rattle on.
Ungrateful son that did nothing for his mother...didn't even believe it was his mother in the coffin, now wants more than $1K. He's lucky he got anything!
This dude is bugging they not gonna replace ya moms body with someone else 😂 he sounds like he hasn't seen his mom in years. Idk if he's ever been to a funeral b4 but if the person doesn't know how to do makeup on a POC and they don't preserve the body correctly most likely then not its not gonna look like your family member when the casket is open.
Also he has to think that her health was deteriorating, so she probably didn't look the same.
The “I know I’m an ungrateful liar” face @9:40
Mom's fortune wouldn't pay my rent.
Ignorance is a hell of a drug
That is selfish not to go see your sick parent because it might upset you. Yes, it's difficult to see them sick and not looking like themselves but it's not about you. It's about them. You need to give them an ounce of hope that they can recover.
Sir, you are bald 🗣 Let it go.
Pulease let it go lol
Huh?
If Doug retires, you got the gig, sir 😂
The son is avoiding dealing with the grief. Anger is an easier emotion to deal with then grief; anger can be projected at something/one while grief has to be dealt with internally. That may be why he made up this crazy story about it not being his mother in the casket. Plus he may be dealing with the guilt of not taking care of /visiting his mother.
Many times when people pass their body sends all their blood to their head to try and save the brain. That usually results in severe facial swelling and the person not looking like themselves at the funeral. It happened to my grandmother. It’s hard to say goodbye when your loved one looks so different.
The beneficiary refers to whoever receives the property that is part of a trust, while the trustee is whoever controls that property and distributes it according to the trust deed. The trustee is NOT a beneficiary.
Lady in the blue behind Harvey is just so stinking adorable
You mean purple?
Yes lol
@@mcclx4183 no, blue lol
@@jessicaaaaaaaaaaa95 Ask Harvey, he knows.
Then do probably threaten to leave her and that's probably why she took that money so she can take care of him
That two faced side smirk is enough for me! He is only worried about the $$$$
I have never been so annoyed by people sitting in the back as I was for those two chuckling fools listening to this guy have a mental break down while telling his story. My heart goes out to everyone in this, this guy obviously needs some serious counseling and the lady deserves some major kudos for being so patient and kind.
Yes. 🙄 Those idiots made me mad with all of that sniggling.
This should have been done without an audience.
Once a pensioners dies, the money stops. He's just money hungry and should be ashamed not visiting his mom beforehand.