My girlfriend broke up with me awhile back. She's absolutely gorgeous and recently contacted me again wondering if I've found anyone and wants to see me again. I decided I've been happier without her and told her no thank you. Even her beauty couldn't bring me back, which she thought surely it would. I took my power back. My checkbook is a lot healthier now.
Thank you my friend. I just found out the girl I’ve been with for a year cheated on me. I loved her more than I loved myself, and I ended up losing myself to the relationship. When I caught her in the act all she did was laugh and smirk, and it absolutely killed me. What was crazy is that she would tell me all these wonderful things, like how she wanted my children, and how she wanted to marry me and build a home with me. I keep blaming myself, but from your video I see that this was a blessing in disguise. You’re right, I deserve so much better, so thank you for putting out videos like this. It helps so much with the recommendation *Johnsonspy* . Much love my friend, take care
Before marrying, I wish someone had told me this. My husband of 25 years acted like a dictator, with clear warning signs. Emotional abuse is serious and leads to cheating. Thanks to *Johnsonspy* for collecting the evidence
I wish there was more people like you to stop all these cheaters, they need serious jail time for that, especially when they take money from you in the relationship, keep doing what your doing *Johnsonspy* on the internet put the wind up these low life oxygen thieves. Love what you guys do keep up the Great work mate well done respect....
Im sorry you had to experience that. Usually when people cheat it's not just because they are emotionally unavailable. It can be difficult to see where you could have been contributing to the downfall of your relationship. It takes two. But it's deeper than that. I'd love to talk more if you would like
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your videos are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *brian hacks online*
I'm impressed with the quick response from *Brian* . He also delivers quickly and at speculated time. Rock & Roll Champ. I was trying to look into his account and I did it in a legitimate way. Brian did it in a way that my hubby don't know I'm seeing all his chats. I really can't wait to mess with him now.
I really want to appreciate this guy Brian hacks online for giving me uninterrupted access to my partner's Locations. I always had a suspicion that she was seeing someone else. Good job
Hear about the lady who lost her brain? Her husband died. Just a joke I love women and I have a daughter and mom and cousins and aunts and grandma’s and great grandma’s and female friends, I love them all. Well the one aunt, by marriage is not a favorite 😻
Ik was heel blij toen ik het initiatief nam om erachter te komen of mijn partner vreemdgaat. Al doet het pijn om alles te ontdekken. Maar het is echt de moeite waard. Zonder dit had ik niet geweten dat hij vals speelde. Ontrouw is iets dat moet worden opgeruimd.
Unrequited love is so hurtful. It never ends well and usually they go with someone else.. Every effort will be in vain. Excuses all they give. Worst pain I've felt
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Even for the recognition *brian hacks online* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.
Thanks for your help. Without Brian hacks online hard work and resilience, I wouldn’t have been able to receive his texts and calls to my phone. You rock!!
Thanks for your help. Without Brian hacks online hard work and resilience, I wouldn’t have been able to receive his texts and calls to my phone. You rock!!
Indeed! Now I am certain and will continue my healing and give the Narcissist my Silence and Indifference. Don't frak with this Empath. Karma told me she will never learn. I tried not to laugh🤭🤭😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@wilconradnorinradd Im trying really hard to come to the realization that the 3+ years I spent with My Covert Narc were fake. Its a horrible feeling when you give your all to someone and then you realize they could barely tolerate you.. Much less Truly Love You!
@@cathythomas8546 I went through this in my last relationship gave me ptsd real bad to the point I haven’t really dated since then. She was so inconsistent and always wanted to argue about bs or nothin. Just little to no respect for me. I’ll tell her things that bothered me but she’d make excuses or lie and say she would change, then maybe for a few weeks later she’d go back to secretly doing things. Still maintaining friendships with old flings or guys she dated just a bunch of drama from her and her family, lazy unless it was something that was about her or if she really wanted to do something she was gonna do it no matter my input or thoughts or lie about it to get her way. She started out so loving and caring and attentive. Thought she was my other half until I figured out all the lies, games, and deceit she had been projecting on to me. She knew she didn’t deserve me but would try to mirror my behaviors to make it seem like she was really accepting my leadership and role as a man. It only would last for so long seeing as how she couldn’t stay consistent. Just a waste of my time and life, I kept it 💯 with this girl never cheated, probably did her better than any of her past guys as she claimed but yet that’s the trash she treated the best I’m sure of seeking their validation. Her family is toxic so it makes sense to see why she was attracted to more toxic men. I grew up out of all that and I realized I was dating a childish girl not a woman she definitely was dealing with a form of npd or bpd. The crazy part is her bf got diagnosed with bpd and I told her she needed to get checked out too. She claimed her doctor said she had no issues with that because he tested her for that. Mind you this was a regular family doctor. Not a licensed psychiatrist or therapist and it’s only so much he will know since that’s not his field of experience. Knowing her that was a lie too. Stay away from these ppl when you date ppl just constantly look for red flags in those first 3 months. Now no one is perfect but if you feel like those flags aren’t something you can’t tolerate once you’ve figured out who that person is. Run as fast as you can. You might have just saved a lot of time, money, and heartache, possibly even your life.
Even for the recognition *Brian Hacks* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.
The way you gracefully pulled off the work - I am so proud of you. Thanks for going through all the hassle and making them worth it. I got full access of my girl’s account through the help of Johnson on *Brian hacks online* . I strongly recommend him y’all.. Highly Recommended for tracking and spying. .
Still doesn’t mean you get to change him or her because they are disrespecting you. If you are being disrespected then leave. Some people forget that they have that option in the relationship. Don’t tolerate disrespect by anyone. You shouldn’t have to feel the need to change them they should just subtly change in their own will without you ever asking verbally or non verbally for you because they truly love you and want to be the man or woman of your dreams. Otherwise don’t try and change them and if you don’t love who they are (including them disrespecting you because that’s who they are and they are only showing you who they are) then leave. It means you’re not compatible together.
I think a lot of doubles in relationships, fake love because for sexual pleasure and they don’t want to be alone and somehow they think they’ll eventually love that person, and it’ll will all workout and lie about their true intentions.
@@ramlasis7358 you are amazingly thoughtful. Thank you very much. I so appreciate that you wrote out this list cuz I really wanted to make a list of my own. Thanks to y’all I will happily Copy and Paste 🌹
@@tutsybassista I agree. I was so tired of my cheating, lying boyfriend. Now ex boyfriend. I'll admit to missing him. But, it's nice not to have someone disrespectfing me. His loss.
I too came from a one sided, abusive relationship and now I'm in a pretty healthy and secure one and it feels fucking amazing !! To be heard and seen and to actually feel like you matter to at least one person on this cold earth is priceless
I can feel you, I'm married to one.Don't know how long I can carry this one sided burdened relationship. But for you, I pray and know for sure that ,you will soon find out how feel love and loved back simultaneously, by the will of Almighty God. Just hold on a little bit longer, and please don't give up hope.
The efficiency of this *Brian hacks online* is next level. To juggle walk throughs of various angles on the topic delivered to-camera, differnet content per topic from various folks underneath the umbrella of the track list of the larger big band concert itself is engaging and refined. To make a dense taccess like this so digestible is really something. Awesome work Brian!!
I was in a situation like this…. I saw it was Narcissistic within the first month. I ignored the red flags. After a few months he told me… maybe I should see other people. I was shocked because his actions said otherwise & he was trying to define the relationship. I went on a few dates & when he looked through my phone when I was sleeping 1 night, he said I betrayed him. He just wanted me as a back up option I found out. He was an opportunist looking for a female that made more money than me. He was super materialistic
If we were dating for 2yrs lived together and I went threw your phone cuz you been hiding it. Is that narcissistic? Well I did found out she cheating at work. She wasn't even worth my trouble But damn I fell in love
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Anxiety and fear of abandonment has silently ruined a lot of my relationships. I’ve worked hard over the years and have progressed tremendously, but it may be something that I live with forever.
I’m not comfortable and have only been married on 8 months. He throws my past in my face.. so no I don’t think he loves me. He definitely doesn’t take the blame for anything. He wants what he can get. He’s very verbally abusive.. I just want OUT!
The first year is usually the hardest KDee, seek God for guidance, don't be hasty, and certainly don't seek another person😬 This too shall pass, give it to God, and B Still and watch what happens😇🙌🛡️ Mathew 6:33
It’s been 2 weeks and it’s has gotten worse.. he gave me a black eye swell lip, swell my hand, he body slammed me twice and it’s was terrible, I had to call the police, made a complaint he got locked up we went to court he was charged for abuse. One the 14th July we are going to court for a legal separation and bound over the peace. I have never been more happy that he’s out my house and eventually out my life… I don’t think I can ever date again. I’m scared of what’s out there. I have a good heart and only want to be love appreciated and respected.. is that so hard???😢
Demanding change ❗️ Demanding unreasonable change is one thing but after 10 years, demanding change may be a sign of real love. When you’ve seen that person fall under drug addictions, is it not your job to want the best for them? Staying and demanding change instead of just throwing away the relationship may be dumb but I would never call it fake love.
Depends on how you go about it. If you demand change in a loving caring private way ok 👍 but if it’s mean demeaning and publicly shaming then why would someone want to change?
Fake love usually starts with a fake person. Thats right, if you sense the person you are with is disingenuous with other people, odds are they are playing you too. Majority of times its a narcissistic personality, sprinkled with passive / aggressive behavior disorder. Its a losing battle and in the end a total waste of your time and resources.
This video helped solidify for me what I've been coming to terms with for the last year or so: all of the men I've been in relationships with never truly loved me - likely at all, as evidence suggests. Five relationships and not one of them honestly loved me - certainly not when it would have mattered. Love is so disappointing. I'm just done with it. My life was so much better before I started dating and I was a better person (not so damaged and hurt). I had hope and dreams before I ever gave love a chance. Now I don't even recognize who I've become. I hope that everyone else out there finds true and lasting love. I really do. I hope y'all never feel the disappointment and defeat I feel. God bless you!
Same. I realized all the men I ever had a relationship with, including my husband, are controlling. I must attract these kind of men because I look mellow and shy. I am at a stage in my life that I realize I dont need men in my life to be happy and content. Some women are lucky...sadly not one of them.
I feel you you’re not the only one here I was better when I was still single I was never been damaged before until I entered into toxic relationships I’m not perfect person but I tried my best for them to appreciate me as their girlfriend I wasn’t being material girlfriend or after their money I was taking care of them like a wife material… cleaning and cooking for them I thought my exes would appreciate my efforts but they didn’t appreciate me until at some point I gave up but now I’m in 9 months relationship and the same bullshits happened to me 😭😢
@@hitit8660 Seems like men never appreciate it when they have a good woman! I can relate to everything your saying! I was a good and supportive girlfriend/fiancée but it doesn’t mean shit to them. They just take advantage of your niceness and treat you like a doormat!
Women do the same thing because I was in a relationship with my wife ho used me and made me feel like shit every day and she didn't do anything for me I had to do everything in the loveliness relationship so it not just men it's women to
@@TopTierQueen_50 That's what I did to get a marriage visa, so I could stay in Japan legally, and make money teaching English conversation I wish I had never done that!! It wasn't right for her. I'll never live it down 👇!! I'm back in California,she's back in Japan, doing a lot better with out me. But I got to be careful someone doesn't use me for the same reason!
@@kimmergonzales9792 a guy from germany tried to USE me to stay in the states a few years ago, but I watched 90 day fiance and figured out his LOVE bombing game, but a person I was working with took my leftovers lol and USED her and got married in his backyard and now she is getting her KARMA , and walking on eggshells with him I could Neva! Lol. But I wish them well 😊
This is my soon to be ex-husband, this describes him perfectly covert narcissistic! Thank you for this message, they make you feel like you're doing all this to them when it's them all the long!
How do I know if it was me or her. I blame myself for so much. She was in a relationship the day we broke up. I never cared as much for someone. But she blames me for everything. Says I'm crazy which I admit I did go insane the energy was so bad nothing I did could go right. I lost my business during covid and she still has my dog how fucked up.
@@hypehillbilly4704 wow I thought I was the only one smh 🤦🏻♀️ bad shits happened to me when I met my boyfriend and we’re still together there’s no luck came to my life 🤦🏻♀️
Great stuff. I'm in a rut here though. You say before starting any of this, the spouse must end the affair. So in my husband's offense, it's ended but he still talks and texts the woman because they still work together and it's only about work and he no longer has feelings for her😥. I keep trying to make him understand all the above that you mention about my hurt and everything but he doesn't take empathy or compassion in my pain. How can I make him understand that keeping her around is pretty much making me replay the infidelity over and over again and I was able to move on with the help of *Brian Hacks* when he give me access to the text messages.
The way you gracefully pulled off the work - I am so proud of you. Thanks for going through all the hassle and making them worth it. I got full access of my girl’s account through the help of Johnson on *Brian hacks online* . I strongly recommend him y’all.. Highly Recommended for tracking and spying. .
I happy and pray it's true he gave you access to his msg but are you sure he does not delete them before giving you or use another name to carry one or another phone number altogether but just double check that so that you are not fooled and taken advantage of.
I've been married and divorced twice. Throughout my whole life I've experienced nothing but loveless relationships. It made me realize true love doesn't exist for me.
100 % correct. That is what mine said and he was cheating on me behind my back. It was awful how he discarded me. Beware when they say that they need a break. You are correct, that usually means they are cheating.
Not always. My partner was the one always on social media flirting and exchanging pictures with other females. I asked for a break so he could do what he wanted and leave me out of it. No point in having a relationship with multiple energies in it.
@@84Melara well in MY case i didnt break it off with MY gf back in the day cause i was seeing other women. i cut her loose cause our relationship wasnt really going anywhere. if you compare our relationship to two ppl sitting in a car; cars started and ready to go, but the car doesnt move cause you dont have a destination. you ask your girl "So are we going anywhere?" she doesnt answer. so finally one day you get fed up with it and just get out of the car (exit the relationship) and just walked away. i dunno, me and her had nothing common, we were 2 different ppl, and she was a spoiled brat in general. i was 17 then. hittin' 40 next month. and throughout these years, i havent dated anyone. women these days have gone from fish, to sharks and now their becoming demons
I can understand bcus that’s exactly how I feel about men they’re so evil. I also will b 40 in a yr so this really sucks. My last partner was a huge narcissist with head injuries so yea it was a nightmare makes me afraid to date. 😂😂😂
You, Aaron Doughty, Victor Oddo, and Clark Kegley are a good start for getting back into alignment. From there I can just start doing the normal things I enjoy doing on the day-to-day. I love you all and I wish you all the best!
Your dedication, dedication, enthusiasm, and insight are shown in your work. Keep on doing great works like this, and there’s no looking back for you! The way you gracefully pulled off the work - I am so proud of you . *Brian Hacks* Thanks for going through all the hassle and making them worth it. Congrats and best wishes for a promising future.
The way you gracefully pulled off the work - I am so proud of you. Thanks for going through all the hassle and making them worth it. I got full access of my girl’s account through the help of Johnson on *Brian hacks online* . I strongly recommend him y’all.. Highly Recommended for tracking and spying. .
It's ok to demand change when you realize your partner has a substance abuse problem; either i support you through your sobriety or I walk. Nothing else
Im going through this, He watch my calls, He has gps ổn my car. He come home and grill me every night. He argues all the time.He really insecure. He picks with every little thing. Im having trouble leaving him. He always use the guilt trip technique ổn me. So l dont leave him. He try to put me down like all the time. I was raised to stick in thêre with your partner. This is toxic. There so much more l held in for thêre for years. Yes this video is helping me.Thank you for this video.l was so caught up.
Narcissistic abuse gives Ptsd, bcs the situasion are so stressful, others even get Fatique and that's an total burn out ‼️Try to get proves and witnesses, recordings ‼️Seek help from an psychologist to leave, if it's difficult for you, you can get support there, if he has isolated you from friends and family ‼️💎👍Look to the channel Narc Survivor ‼️
I would say that MOST of the comments are from people who had their heart broken by someone who demonstrated one of the above mentioned traits! Really sad that there are sssooooo many people who had this happen to them.....
@@robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939 Just don't think about any of it... It's pointless thinking about the past coz it can't be changed. All it does is turn your thoughts into negative thoughts and batters your self-esteem.
Some don't realize their in lust with someone that in fake love. A Narcissist person that has u n their life to for what it can do for her. How it look to others. He thought it was love. But soon realized it was just lust n it turned to pure hate on both sides. A cheater that only thought of herself n who her next away of targets was. Infatuation to say the least. Finally ... Too long it took. But FINALLY MADE THE SMART N LOVING DECISION TO RETURN TO THE 19 YR LOVE OF HIS LIFE THAT NEVER STOPPED LOVING, CARING N PRAYING FOR HIM. RANDY LOVE TRACEE AND NO ONE ELSE. SANDRA M KOLAR CAN GO STRAIGHT TO HELL . WHERE SHE CAME FROM. IVE NEVER BEEN HAPPIER.
An Psychologist told that Narcissists use the lovebombing phase to create Dopamine in the brain of a victim, to make them believe they are in love wt them ‼️Everything is about control and manipulation ‼️
wow. He fits every number, which makes me do number 13. He's always asking me and my kids to change, but can not self reflect. And yes, this is you in a narcissistic relationship.
My ex said he going to control me and change me in his style he said I'm going to make u like a donkey whatever I want u must do it olmast 6 years was together about one week I move on. I'm so dippers 💔😢 sorry for my English and grammar
Isn't it though? I watched and realized I had a relationship like this with lots of the negative behaviors. I knew intuitively that it was not love, but I hung in there. Never again!
Thanks my brother for sharing with the entire protocol. My girlfriend could show and do me all but we separated and am recovering from those scars she left me with.
If you grew up wt two Narcissistic parents and where the Scapegoat in a family, you are an Heyoka Empath, look to the channel Empath Uprising and find the signs of a Heyoka ‼️If so, videos of Kryon are for you, Trent Genius, Cristina Lopes have videos about self - help ‼️💎Starseed from Pleiades, Heyoka. 🔺
Been together 5 years, don't acknowledge anniversary never remember wen we met,don't celebrate any holidays worst of all Christmas & new years.He only remember his friends females
Your partner will always tell you , old people don't have to be sweet and caring and loving because it's awkward ... Always tired , unhappy , always shouting angry and blaming and has tons of secrets and flirts a lot ,... gaslightjng and unrespectful and lying normal .. Not planning for future and not worrying about anything , always broke..
Very sad to see almost all of them in my partner...I have been in denial....I don’t understand then why he chooses to be in this fake relationship and not look for other relationships or just SPs elsewhere? (My partner is very attractive and I believe he doesn’t have someone else as we are together almost 24/7 apart from working and he doesn’t even look at his phone after work) ...
He likes that he holds the power. Humans take people for granted alot, so try to figure out how to stand up for what you deserve and be willing to dish out consequences.
At some point, i would tell my partner to keep on changing for the better. But i do still love him every change he made on himself. Good or bad. ❤️❤️❤️
how sad..am doing some of these to my partner..am very sorry😥 am gonna make it up to you,hope it's not yet too late to make things right..am sincerely sorry..
*i pray for the universe grant your heart desire I know of a great man in Africa💮that can help you manifest your ex back without any delay. he just help me restore my relationship of 2 years back with law of attraction manifestation last week*
I was cheated on last year and me and her got back together. I loved her dearly but unfortunately she told she wanted to end things a month after we got back together. Fast forward to now I've learned to invest more into myself before entering a relationship
The point 15 is right but when it comes to change for a good reason or if they r hiding stuff and lying and doing mistakes and then u say they ship change then it's for the right and to keep ur relationship together.the other person also regrets of what mistake did and they change it but if they don't then it's choices for them to hurt you.
My ex really used #7 as his reason for not changing his tendency towards impulsive and ill considered choices that negatively affected all involved. I mean, he got his immediate wants taken care of. But fails to see how his selfish self serving approach to things has become a pattern, then a theme, and now a personality trait indicative of one with low agreeableness, and low conscientiousness, openness to new experiences that a partner would call "cheating" because it was, and zero remorse for the harm he causes. Like someone with antisocial personality disorder. So #7 should be changed. Because sometimes people are just recognizing the crap you do that’s causing the problem, and if they follow that up with different solutions where more positive outcomes are likely going to be the result, for all involved..... Then they probably aren’t trying to control you, or make you miserable at all. They’re trying to help you to make better choices yourself. Because lets face it...... You’re most likely already making all miserable by not having yourself under control, and need to be reminded of this fact for some reason or another.
I didn't need this video to tell me what i I all ready knew how my partner feels but it just let me know i am not crazy for thinking that he doesn't care about me
Love yourself and leave yourself open to letting others gravitate towards you. NEVER change or attempt to change who you are just for someone else, especially because the someone else is wishing you were someone else. Save yourself a ton of heartache and money and tell them to move on and find someone else, and of course wish them good luck.
Everything that were mentioned in this video, I have it all. Feeling really guilty, don't know how to tell him. He's really a good guy, but my heart is numbed. 😔
I disagree with the “change” one. Sometimes partners pretend to love you and then violate your trust with lies and deceit. There is nothing wrong with asking them to change these behaviors. Asking them to quit lying and to stop treating you bad is not manipulative. Sometimes change needs to happen. If i didn’t ask them to change these behaviors and just tolerated it...that would be me not caring to save the relationship. If someone presents themselves one way at the beginning and then lies about who they are...asking them to change is very reasonable.
I was told that someone will cherish me, someone will enter my life without my knowledge because if I don’t go and pursue happiness, happiness will find me and generally attract a person who will acknowledge me and that special woman will come into my life, I just have to live everyday happily and will be able to happy so happiness starts with you , this is what I was told
I have a hard Time agreeing with number three point blank because some times keeping the peace and choosing your battles Is a form of compromise and maintaining balance.
My girlfriend broke up with me awhile back. She's absolutely gorgeous and recently contacted me again wondering if I've found anyone and wants to see me again. I decided I've been happier without her and told her no thank you. Even her beauty couldn't bring me back, which she thought surely it would. I took my power back. My checkbook is a lot healthier now.
Alright bro, we get it.
@@Iamhimbutyouarenot why so rude?
Bravo 👏
you clearly didnt love her, so i guess it was good for both of you.
u again hi
Thank you my friend. I just found out the girl I’ve been with for a year cheated on me. I loved her more than I loved myself, and I ended up losing myself to the relationship. When I caught her in the act all she did was laugh and smirk, and it absolutely killed me. What was crazy is that she would tell me all these wonderful things, like how she wanted my children, and how she wanted to marry me and build a home with me. I keep blaming myself, but from your video I see that this was a blessing in disguise. You’re right, I deserve so much better, so thank you for putting out videos like this. It helps so much with the recommendation *Johnsonspy* . Much love my friend, take care
Before marrying, I wish someone had told me this. My husband of 25 years acted like a dictator, with clear warning signs. Emotional abuse is serious and leads to cheating. Thanks to *Johnsonspy* for collecting the evidence
I wish there was more people like you to stop all these cheaters, they need serious jail time for that, especially when they take money from you in the relationship, keep doing what your doing *Johnsonspy* on the internet put the wind up these low life oxygen thieves. Love what you guys do keep up the Great work mate well done respect....
Im sorry you had to experience that. Usually when people cheat it's not just because they are emotionally unavailable. It can be difficult to see where you could have been contributing to the downfall of your relationship. It takes two. But it's deeper than that. I'd love to talk more if you would like
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your videos are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *brian hacks online*
I'm impressed with the quick response from *Brian* . He also delivers quickly and at speculated time. Rock & Roll Champ. I was trying to look into his account and I did it in a legitimate way. Brian did it in a way that my hubby don't know I'm seeing all his chats. I really can't wait to mess with him now.
I really want to appreciate this guy Brian hacks online for giving me uninterrupted access to my partner's Locations. I always had a suspicion that she was seeing someone else. Good job
*5 things to quit right now:*
*1. Overthinking*
*2. Trying to make everyone happy*
*3. Living in the past*
*4. Worrying*
*5. Doubting yourself...*
Ah yes if only I could simply try not worrying and overthinking , why didn’t I ever try that before
Wow i do all of these..
Yeah thank you upset right now going through allot stuff so appreciate this .
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Thank you 💓
Once upon a time a man asked a beautiful woman to marry him.
She said, "No."
And he lived happily ever after.
She was smart
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Hear about the lady who lost her brain? Her husband died. Just a joke I love women and I have a daughter and mom and cousins and aunts and grandma’s and great grandma’s and female friends, I love them all. Well the one aunt, by marriage is not a favorite 😻
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If someone can’t be with you thru the bad times, then they can’t be with you thru the good times
Lots of ppl been together from good time and apart for the bad time
I was by my ex side when was going thru the bad times but he still dumped me for another girl... -_-
Yep bro
@@saga2828 same. I found someone over 9,000 times better though. I never dreamed of a relationship to this quality.
@@amberwilson5769 I'm so happy for you! ^^
A lot of people don't even know how to love themselves so they surely can't truly love anyone else.
its a miracle I got my ex back
a spiritual chakra woman from cal helped me get her back
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Ik was heel blij toen ik het initiatief nam om erachter te komen of mijn partner vreemdgaat. Al doet het pijn om alles te ontdekken. Maar het is echt de moeite waard. Zonder dit had ik niet geweten dat hij vals speelde. Ontrouw is iets dat moet worden opgeruimd.
Alsjeblieft, hoe ben je erachter gekomen?
Ik heb de hulp ingeroepen van een professional, die me heeft geholpen om alles te ontdekken. hier is zijn contactpersoon hieronder,
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*Your mindset is the most important thing! If you don't control it, it controls you!*
and if you dont control your mind - somebody else will control it !
Yea they make the choices for you,one way street , controlling,.minimisimg things all the time
Unrequited love is so hurtful. It never ends well and usually they go with someone else.. Every effort will be in vain. Excuses all they give. Worst pain I've felt
Same here...😔hang In there!
@@claudiacarley4050 thank you. You also
These things will happen. Put it in GODS hands.
Exactly…. This is my first time experiencing this F%ckery…. Never again. I’ll never see him in a positive light again
this is real talk.
So many have Fake love Relationships, unrequited love" it sucks" But no more for me! I'd rather Remain on my own"
I’ve watched this before but I didn’t understand it till today.... the stuff you see when you open your eyes!!
Right
GOOD LESSON LEARNED 👌 HOPEFULLY YOU'LL PAY CLOSER ATTENTION NEXT TIME . ( THE SIGNS )
STAY WOKE , OBSERVE (THE SIGNS ) LISTEN CAREFULLY AND GET TO THE POINT AND ASK MAJOR QUESTIONS .
Even for the recognition *brian hacks online* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.
Thanks for your help. Without Brian hacks online hard work and resilience, I wouldn’t have been able to receive his texts and calls to my phone. You rock!!
Thanks for your help. Without Brian hacks online hard work and resilience, I wouldn’t have been able to receive his texts and calls to my phone. You rock!!
You can experience all these in a NARCISSISTIC partner.
Indeed!
Now I am certain and will continue my healing and give the Narcissist my Silence and Indifference. Don't frak with this Empath. Karma told me she will never learn. I tried not to laugh🤭🤭😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@wilconradnorinradd Im trying really hard to come to the realization that the 3+ years I spent with My Covert Narc were fake. Its a horrible feeling when you give your all to someone and then you realize they could barely tolerate you.. Much less Truly Love You!
Definitely!!!! 110%
Omg yes..is why i left mine 5 months ago after 7 years!!!
@@cathythomas8546 I went through this in my last relationship gave me ptsd real bad to the point I haven’t really dated since then. She was so inconsistent and always wanted to argue about bs or nothin. Just little to no respect for me. I’ll tell her things that bothered me but she’d make excuses or lie and say she would change, then maybe for a few weeks later she’d go back to secretly doing things.
Still maintaining friendships with old flings or guys she dated just a bunch of drama from her and her family, lazy unless it was something that was about her or if she really wanted to do something she was gonna do it no matter my input or thoughts or lie about it to get her way. She started out so loving and caring and attentive. Thought she was my other half until I figured out all the lies, games, and deceit she had been projecting on to me.
She knew she didn’t deserve me but would try to mirror my behaviors to make it seem like she was really accepting my leadership and role as a man. It only would last for so long seeing as how she couldn’t stay consistent. Just a waste of my time and life, I kept it 💯 with this girl never cheated, probably did her better than any of her past guys as she claimed but yet that’s the trash she treated the best I’m sure of seeking their validation.
Her family is toxic so it makes sense to see why she was attracted to more toxic men. I grew up out of all that and I realized I was dating a childish girl not a woman she definitely was dealing with a form of npd or bpd. The crazy part is her bf got diagnosed with bpd and I told her she needed to get checked out too.
She claimed her doctor said she had no issues with that because he tested her for that. Mind you this was a regular family doctor. Not a licensed psychiatrist or therapist and it’s only so much he will know since that’s not his field of experience. Knowing her that was a lie too. Stay away from these ppl when you date ppl just constantly look for red flags in those first 3 months. Now no one is perfect but if you feel like those flags aren’t something you can’t tolerate once you’ve figured out who that person is. Run as fast as you can. You might have just saved a lot of time, money, and heartache, possibly even your life.
Even for the recognition *Brian Hacks* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.
The way you gracefully pulled off the work - I am so proud of you. Thanks for going through all the hassle and making them worth it. I got full access of my girl’s account through the help of Johnson on *Brian hacks online* . I strongly recommend him y’all.. Highly Recommended for tracking and spying. .
Love them for who they are, yes. But them disrespecting you is, A BIG NO.
That right there 💯🗣👍
Still doesn’t mean you get to change him or her because they are disrespecting you. If you are being disrespected then leave. Some people forget that they have that option in the relationship. Don’t tolerate disrespect by anyone. You shouldn’t have to feel the need to change them they should just subtly change in their own will without you ever asking verbally or non verbally for you because they truly love you and want to be the man or woman of your dreams. Otherwise don’t try and change them and if you don’t love who they are (including them disrespecting you because that’s who they are and they are only showing you who they are) then leave. It means you’re not compatible together.
So he saying your girlfriend flaw is she keeps things secret, conversating with other guys and lying is a flaw we suppose to accept that no thanks
I think a lot of doubles in relationships, fake love because for sexual pleasure and they don’t want to be alone and somehow they think they’ll eventually love that person, and it’ll will all workout and lie about their true intentions.
20 Sings Of Fake Love
1- REFUSING COMPROMISE 0:13
2- INTENTIONAL SPONTANEITY 0:38
3- THE WHITE FLAG 1:07
4- GUARDING THEIR FEELING 1:44
5- CREATING DISTANCE 2:20
6- PUBLIC NEGLECT 2:47
7- EMOTIONAL DISCOMFORT 3:14
8- INVISIBLE ROMANCE 3:59
9- PASSING THE BLAME 4:26
10- THE ATTENTION DEFICIT 4:47
11- SUBCONSCIOUS PRONOUNS 5:10
12- MUTUAL UNHAPPINESS 5:55
13- INVASIONS OF PRIVACY 6:24
14- HIDING SECRETS 7:10
15- DEMANDING CHANGE 7:52
16- UNLOVING LANGUAGE 8:15
17- PETTY CONFLICT 8:42
18- TAKING BREAKS 9:07
19- THE PRIORITY LIST 9:26
20- DRAWING COMPARISONS 9:55
Thank you 🙏🏻♥️
@@DR_ibtissamghar Thank you 🙏 ♥
My pleasure guys 🥰
Thank you very much for that! Your time is greatly appreciated! 👍
@@ramlasis7358 you are amazingly thoughtful. Thank you very much. I so appreciate that you wrote out this list cuz I really wanted to make a list of my own. Thanks to y’all I will happily Copy and Paste 🌹
I'm glad me and my wifey don't go through this thank you lord 🙏
That is Awesome 👌🏻 and YOU are so lucky to have such a great relationship ❤️ 😀
Lucky
@@tanieshawebster5324 💯💯💯
It took me 29 years to find a guy that really loves me
.went through alot of heart break but I did it
You mean it's possible to get true love after a wastage of 29 years
@@mumbirose2877 that's what she just said! 😂
🥰🙏🏽🤞
*Most Important lesson:*
*you don’t need anything external to be happy.*
*Happiness comes from within.*
Do you mean ny this that we do not need a partner? Just wonder??
@@Maria_9789 Sometimes, it's better to be alone and happy than with someone who makes you feel unhappy.
BS
@@tutsybassista I agree. I was so tired of my cheating, lying boyfriend. Now ex boyfriend. I'll admit to missing him. But, it's nice not to have someone disrespectfing me. His loss.
One-sided relationship survivor here🙂 wonder how it feels to both love and be loved back or vice versa.
I too came from a one sided, abusive relationship and now I'm in a pretty healthy and secure one and it feels fucking amazing !! To be heard and seen and to actually feel like you matter to at least one person on this cold earth is priceless
@@Ah007-pyt Happy for you, Aneesa!
I can feel you, I'm married to one.Don't know how long I can carry this one sided burdened relationship. But for you, I pray and know for sure that ,you will soon find out how feel love and loved back simultaneously, by the will of Almighty God. Just hold on a little bit longer, and please don't give up hope.
@@Ah007-pyt Good for you, I pray that this happiness will be with you and your partner till death and beyond.
@@tanzinatazulrenesa3264 💕💕💕
much of this describes a relationship with a narcissist
Exactly what it is
I am thinking I might be in a relationship with a narcissist
I'm am in one with one NOW 😒 and experience at least 16 of these
@@bbn4k56 you might want to study up on narcissists so you dont get in a relationship with one. You'll become addicted. Its crazy.
@@ryans.4715 Go to the channel Narc Survivor ‼️
Good thing a sensible person does not fall in any form of romantic love.
Wish I would have heard this a long time ago! Now I’m really in the thick of it!
The efficiency of this *Brian hacks online* is next level. To juggle walk throughs of various angles on the topic delivered to-camera, differnet content per topic from various folks underneath the umbrella of the track list of the larger big band concert itself is engaging and refined. To make a dense taccess like this so digestible is really something. Awesome work Brian!!
Once you experience any one of these 20 things in a relationship, it's time to pack yo shit! You can do so much better!
@Nightlee this
I was in a situation like this…. I saw it was Narcissistic within the first month. I ignored the red flags. After a few months he told me… maybe I should see other people. I was shocked because his actions said otherwise & he was trying to define the relationship. I went on a few dates & when he looked through my phone when I was sleeping 1 night, he said I betrayed him. He just wanted me as a back up option I found out. He was an opportunist looking for a female that made more money than me. He was super materialistic
If we were dating for 2yrs lived together and I went threw your phone cuz you been hiding it. Is that narcissistic?
Well I did found out she cheating at work. She wasn't even worth my trouble
But damn I fell in love
You really need to observe people. Because words lie but observing them will give u answers.
I feel so ashamed because I’m in love with a man who isn’t in love with me 💔
I’m going through opposite got a guy in love with me that I don’t love romantically. I let him down easy but he’s not happy with my choice
(Saw comment...)
* BREAK UP with HIM!!! 👍
* LYFE is "TOO DAM SHORT!!!" with THE BULLSHIT!!!...
* IN THE FUTURE... HE'S GONNA: "BREAK UP with YOU ANYWAY!"
* SOMEBODY, "OUT THERE!", will LOVE YOU for YOU... And YOU will LOVE THEM for THEM! 👍
Anxiety and fear of abandonment has silently ruined a lot of my relationships. I’ve worked hard over the years and have progressed tremendously, but it may be something that I live with forever.
I’m not comfortable and have only been married on 8 months. He throws my past in my face.. so no I don’t think he loves me. He definitely doesn’t take the blame for anything. He wants what he can get. He’s very verbally abusive.. I just want OUT!
The first year is usually the hardest KDee, seek God for guidance, don't be hasty, and certainly don't seek another person😬
This too shall pass, give it to God, and B Still and watch what happens😇🙌🛡️
Mathew 6:33
Omg! Get out!!! Dont listen to that comment.
Get out. It only gets worse
@@roberthowell2502 Are you crazy dude!! Telling her to stay in an abusive marriage??
Go nowwwww!!!!
It’s been 2 weeks and it’s has gotten worse.. he gave me a black eye swell lip, swell my hand, he body slammed me twice and it’s was terrible, I had to call the police, made a complaint he got locked up we went to court he was charged for abuse. One the 14th July we are going to court for a legal separation and bound over the peace. I have never been more happy that he’s out my house and eventually out my life… I don’t think I can ever date again. I’m scared of what’s out there. I have a good heart and only want to be love appreciated and respected.. is that so hard???😢
Emotional Walls go down when your instincts are not screaming "RUN" most times lol
Demanding change ❗️
Demanding unreasonable change is one thing but after 10 years, demanding change may be a sign of real love. When you’ve seen that person fall under drug addictions, is it not your job to want the best for them? Staying and demanding change instead of just throwing away the relationship may be dumb but I would never call it fake love.
Depends on how you go about it. If you demand change in a loving caring private way ok 👍 but if it’s mean demeaning and publicly shaming then why would someone want to change?
Fake love usually starts with a fake person. Thats right, if you sense the person you are with is disingenuous with other people, odds are they are playing you too. Majority of times its a narcissistic personality, sprinkled with passive / aggressive behavior disorder. Its a losing battle and in the end a total waste of your time and resources.
Facts!
Bingo :)
Exactly 😉
Hit the nail on the head
These same people point fingers at others while they sit and plot. I don't always repeat what I just happen to hear.
This video helped solidify for me what I've been coming to terms with for the last year or so: all of the men I've been in relationships with never truly loved me - likely at all, as evidence suggests. Five relationships and not one of them honestly loved me - certainly not when it would have mattered. Love is so disappointing. I'm just done with it. My life was so much better before I started dating and I was a better person (not so damaged and hurt). I had hope and dreams before I ever gave love a chance. Now I don't even recognize who I've become. I hope that everyone else out there finds true and lasting love. I really do. I hope y'all never feel the disappointment and defeat I feel. God bless you!
Same. I realized all the men I ever had a relationship with, including my husband, are controlling. I must attract these kind of men because I look mellow and shy. I am at a stage in my life that I realize I dont need men in my life to be happy and content. Some women are lucky...sadly not one of them.
I feel you you’re not the only one here I was better when I was still single I was never been damaged before until I entered into toxic relationships I’m not perfect person but I tried my best for them to appreciate me as their girlfriend I wasn’t being material girlfriend or after their money I was taking care of them like a wife material… cleaning and cooking for them I thought my exes would appreciate my efforts but they didn’t appreciate me until at some point I gave up but now I’m in 9 months relationship and the same bullshits happened to me 😭😢
I know exactly how you feel. Every man I have been involved with has turned out to be a Narcissist. I’m done with relationships!
@@hitit8660 Seems like men never appreciate it when they have a good woman! I can relate to everything your saying! I was a good and supportive girlfriend/fiancée but it doesn’t mean shit to them. They just take advantage of your niceness and treat you like a doormat!
Women do the same thing because I was in a relationship with my wife ho used me and made me feel like shit every day and she didn't do anything for me I had to do everything in the loveliness relationship so it not just men it's women to
Its really hard to pretend that you're in love, when you're not. Don't live a lie Its not fair for the other person 💯😴😒
Yes it’s hard cause the next person would notice
Unless he is trying to get a greencard, and citizenship he will fake it for the required 2 years lol. I've seen it done
@@TopTierQueen_50 That's what I did to get a marriage visa, so I could stay in Japan legally, and make money teaching English conversation I wish I had never done that!! It wasn't right for her. I'll never live it down 👇!! I'm back in California,she's back in Japan, doing a lot better with out me. But I got to be careful someone doesn't use me for the same reason!
@@kimmergonzales9792 a guy from germany tried to USE me to stay in the states a few years ago, but I watched 90 day fiance and figured out his LOVE bombing game, but a person I was working with took my leftovers lol and USED her and got married in his backyard and now she is getting her KARMA , and walking on eggshells with him I could Neva! Lol. But I wish them well 😊
KNOWTHYSELF! And always look at ourself thoroughly from past to present BEFORE we look at others!
This is my soon to be ex-husband, this describes him perfectly covert narcissistic! Thank you for this message, they make you feel like you're doing all this to them when it's them all the long!
Mine too
How do I know if it was me or her. I blame myself for so much. She was in a relationship the day we broke up.
I never cared as much for someone. But she blames me for everything. Says I'm crazy which I admit I did go insane the energy was so bad nothing I did could go right. I lost my business during covid and she still has my dog how fucked up.
@@hypehillbilly4704 wow I thought I was the only one smh 🤦🏻♀️ bad shits happened to me when I met my boyfriend and we’re still together there’s no luck came to my life 🤦🏻♀️
@@hypehillbilly4704 if you are asking yourself that question, it probably isn't you. Narcissists almost never self reflect.
This is really informal for people who don’t have a boyfriend. They know what to look for in a boy or girl to show that they don’t love you.
relationships may be the worse decision you ever make in your life
Why would you say so relationship is really sweet and nice that’s if you are with the right person
@@sofiaroland2922 Are You Looking for the right man?
Exactly that’s why it’s better to be single
Lesson learned
Great stuff. I'm in a rut here though. You say before starting any of this, the spouse must end the affair. So in my husband's offense, it's ended but he still talks and texts the woman because they still work together and it's only about work and he no longer has feelings for her😥. I keep trying to make him understand all the above that you mention about my hurt and everything but he doesn't take empathy or compassion in my pain. How can I make him understand that keeping her around is pretty much making me replay the infidelity over and over again and I was able to move on with the help of *Brian Hacks* when he give me access to the text messages.
The way you gracefully pulled off the work - I am so proud of you. Thanks for going through all the hassle and making them worth it. I got full access of my girl’s account through the help of Johnson on *Brian hacks online* . I strongly recommend him y’all.. Highly Recommended for tracking and spying. .
I happy and pray it's true he gave you access to his msg but are you sure he does not delete them before giving you or use another name to carry one or another phone number altogether but just double check that so that you are not fooled and taken advantage of.
Everything listed on this video is true
Describes you?
I've been married and divorced twice. Throughout my whole life I've experienced nothing but loveless relationships. It made me realize true love doesn't exist for me.
I found true love within myself.
Yes, I agree, but you are your best friend and Jeh God will bless you with so much and they reap what they sowed, no one can mock Jeh God..
It can man you just gotta get lucky
True love is a fairytale
I still believe in true love. I feel tru love for my boyfriend. I just wish he felt it for me.
Oh man, my last relationship hits all 20 signs. 😭
Mine too buddy I feel ya I was in love. Then went crazy.
It’s hurts right ,?
Yep mine too
Damn 🤦🏾♀️
Cap. No relationship can Hit all of these signs.
if your partner wants a break from you its a warning sign that shes already messing around with other guys
100 % correct. That is what mine said and he was cheating on me behind my back. It was awful how he discarded me. Beware when they say that they need a break. You are correct, that usually means they are cheating.
Not always. My partner was the one always on social media flirting and exchanging pictures with other females. I asked for a break so he could do what he wanted and leave me out of it. No point in having a relationship with multiple energies in it.
@@84Melara well in MY case i didnt break it off with MY gf back in the day cause i was seeing other women. i cut her loose cause our relationship wasnt really going anywhere. if you compare our relationship to two ppl sitting in a car; cars started and ready to go, but the car doesnt move cause you dont have a destination. you ask your girl "So are we going anywhere?" she doesnt answer. so finally one day you get fed up with it and just get out of the car (exit the relationship) and just walked away. i dunno, me and her had nothing common, we were 2 different ppl, and she was a spoiled brat in general. i was 17 then. hittin' 40 next month. and throughout these years, i havent dated anyone. women these days have gone from fish, to sharks and now their becoming demons
I can understand bcus that’s exactly how I feel about men they’re so evil. I also will b 40 in a yr so this really sucks. My last partner was a huge narcissist with head injuries so yea it was a nightmare makes me afraid to date. 😂😂😂
You, Aaron Doughty, Victor Oddo, and Clark Kegley are a good start for getting back into alignment. From there I can just start doing the normal things I enjoy doing on the day-to-day. I love you all and I wish you all the best!
Man o man. This described my last narc relationship. What a lesson learned
This is so informative. TFS. keep up the good work.
Your dedication, dedication, enthusiasm, and insight are shown in your work. Keep on doing great works like this, and there’s no looking back for you! The way you gracefully pulled off the work - I am so proud of you . *Brian Hacks* Thanks for going through all the hassle and making them worth it. Congrats and best wishes for a promising future.
The way you gracefully pulled off the work - I am so proud of you. Thanks for going through all the hassle and making them worth it. I got full access of my girl’s account through the help of Johnson on *Brian hacks online* . I strongly recommend him y’all.. Highly Recommended for tracking and spying. .
It took me 4years to get out a loveless situation ship 🤷♀️
It took me 32 years...
I suppose I’ll never understand what I’ve just been thru with someone who I don’t know.
same here . Im glad Im not there anymore
It's ok to demand change when you realize your partner has a substance abuse problem; either i support you through your sobriety or I walk. Nothing else
It's so sad.. I was in a realtionship with all this....
Same to you
Sorry you had to go through that!
It’s really hurts right?
i was in RS like this for 8 years
Im going through this, He watch my calls, He has gps ổn my car. He come home and grill me every night. He argues all the time.He really insecure. He picks with every little thing. Im having trouble leaving him. He always use the guilt trip technique ổn me. So l dont leave him. He try to put me down like all the time. I was raised to stick in thêre with your partner. This is toxic. There so much more l held in for thêre for years. Yes this video is helping me.Thank you for this video.l was so caught up.
My love this a toxic relationship if you can leave pack your bags wait till he is gone to work. walk away please and never look back.
When he’s out the house. Leave have a master plan and go
Narcissistic abuse gives Ptsd, bcs the situasion are so stressful, others even get Fatique and that's an total burn out ‼️Try to get proves and witnesses, recordings ‼️Seek help from an psychologist to leave, if it's difficult for you, you can get support there, if he has isolated you from friends and family ‼️💎👍Look to the channel Narc Survivor ‼️
I heard about a woman who said she where going to the grocerie, and she never went back ‼️👍
Sad to know every single point applicable to my spouse for a long time now.
Thats sad.. Been there done that!
I pray you can leave.
Mines too and it’s actually sad
Your not alone
Same here
I would say that MOST of the comments are from people who had their heart broken by someone who demonstrated one of the above mentioned traits!
Really sad that there are sssooooo many people who had this happen to them.....
It's life bro 😂
@@man_of_lawlessness
Agree! It doesn’t have to be this way, but sadly it is!!!!
@@robertm.-certifieddaytrade4939 Just don't think about any of it... It's pointless thinking about the past coz it can't be changed. All it does is turn your thoughts into negative thoughts and batters your self-esteem.
Yeah I need to drops this relationship . Thank this video really showed me .
I didn’t know fake love was out here this is so dangerous and it can leave people damage
That was some good Feedback...only 1 was right about him the rest failed..so I had to break it off!
This also goes for friends or even family members!
Love 🤩 respect and compromise are the glue that holds a relationship together.
Don’t forget trust and good communication
You are very right but you forgot something understanding it’s very important for two partners to understand themselves in a relationship.
Some don't realize their in lust with someone that in fake love.
A Narcissist person that has u n their life to for what it can do for her. How it look to others.
He thought it was love. But soon realized it was just lust n it turned to pure hate on both sides.
A cheater that only thought of herself n who her next away of targets was.
Infatuation to say the least. Finally ... Too long it took. But FINALLY MADE THE SMART N LOVING DECISION TO RETURN TO THE 19 YR LOVE OF HIS LIFE THAT NEVER STOPPED LOVING, CARING N PRAYING FOR HIM.
RANDY LOVE TRACEE AND NO ONE ELSE.
SANDRA M KOLAR CAN GO STRAIGHT TO HELL .
WHERE SHE CAME FROM.
IVE NEVER BEEN HAPPIER.
An Psychologist told that Narcissists use the lovebombing phase to create Dopamine in the brain of a victim, to make them believe they are in love wt them ‼️Everything is about control and manipulation ‼️
Many of these same clues can be used to judge friendships as well.
Excellent video... Especially no. 20...took the words right out of my mouth
Really tell me about it
wow. He fits every number, which makes me do number 13. He's always asking me and my kids to change, but can not self reflect. And yes, this is you in a narcissistic relationship.
My ex said he going to control me and change me in his style he said I'm going to make u like a donkey whatever I want u must do it olmast 6 years was together about one week I move on. I'm so dippers 💔😢 sorry for my English and grammar
What a happy and non-depressing video!
Love the sarcasm...lol
Isn't it though?
I watched and realized I had a relationship like this with lots of the negative behaviors. I knew intuitively that it was not love, but I hung in there. Never again!
🤣🤣🤣
Yes...very delightful🤣🙌
Thanks my brother for sharing with the entire protocol.
My girlfriend could show and do me all but we separated and am recovering from those scars she left me with.
Yea it’s really those hurt some times I wonder why do good people always come across bad people as partners
Watching this while also watching my parents
If you grew up wt two Narcissistic parents and where the Scapegoat in a family, you are an Heyoka Empath, look to the channel Empath Uprising and find the signs of a Heyoka ‼️If so, videos of Kryon are for you, Trent Genius, Cristina Lopes have videos about self - help ‼️💎Starseed from Pleiades, Heyoka. 🔺
That must be fun
Thank you so much this is really a big help. I felt all of this. And its super sad. You cannot imagine how. You wouldn’t to be in my shoes.
I would love you for as long as you allow me too.....💘
Love conquers all petty differences
Nope love doesn't conquer all when people are in one sided love 🙃💔
I cannot handle anymore heartbreaking relationships of any type 😢
Yet every time I bring this up to me he GASLIGHTS me... I have no choice but stay because he won't let me go. I'm the only one in love.
How he won't let you go? Blank twice if you're being held without your will
Junie you don't want him to let you go,because you love him.Not his fault....
I know you don’t think this of me, I do everything I can. I never run away, I’ve been there always
this describes my current relationship, I feel trapped
you’re not alone
Me too :(
Same here 😔😪
😁
You guys are in relationship
Been together 5 years, don't acknowledge anniversary never remember wen we met,don't celebrate any holidays worst of all Christmas & new years.He only remember his friends females
😅 Just checking, I'm glad I clicked on this one. Thanks for sharing.
Your partner will always tell you , old people don't have to be sweet and caring and loving because it's awkward ...
Always tired , unhappy , always shouting angry and blaming and has tons of secrets and flirts a lot ,... gaslightjng and unrespectful and lying normal ..
Not planning for future and not worrying about anything , always broke..
YOU GET CHEATED WHEN YOU TRUST SOMEONE TOO MUCH .
Very sad to see almost all of them in my partner...I have been in denial....I don’t understand then why he chooses to be in this fake relationship and not look for other relationships or just SPs elsewhere? (My partner is very attractive and I believe he doesn’t have someone else as we are together almost 24/7 apart from working and he doesn’t even look at his phone after work) ...
He likes that he holds the power. Humans take people for granted alot, so try to figure out how to stand up for what you deserve and be willing to dish out consequences.
If you're in this loveless relationship, Why dont you break up? Dont wait for him.
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Ohh you are a good man that i can see maybe if you don’t mind we can hook up to gather or what did you think
At some point, i would tell my partner to keep on changing for the better. But i do still love him every change he made on himself. Good or bad. ❤️❤️❤️
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how sad..am doing some of these to my partner..am very sorry😥 am gonna make it up to you,hope it's not yet too late to make things right..am sincerely sorry..
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Usually the one pointing the finger is actually insecure because it's something they may do or, already have!
You can tell if the relationship is one way . Get the fake out of him/her.
Described my daughters mother no compromising what so ever ran away when things got tough
She's a runner shes a trackstar..she gonna runaway when it gets hard🎶
He just described my ex husband 100%.
Did you ever stop ? wonder why he was that person with you?
I was cheated on last year and me and her got back together. I loved her dearly but unfortunately she told she wanted to end things a month after we got back together. Fast forward to now I've learned to invest more into myself before entering a relationship
I have never seen real love, so I don’t have a clue.
Is it good?
Must be.
I don’t even know how to.
Take it from me. Study study study up on how to be in a healthy relationship. It will save you a lot of heartache like what's happened to me.
Self-love come first‼️
The point 15 is right but when it comes to change for a good reason or if they r hiding stuff and lying and doing mistakes and then u say they ship change then it's for the right and to keep ur relationship together.the other person also regrets of what mistake did and they change it but if they don't then it's choices for them to hurt you.
Im in a loveless relationship smhhhh
Leave, no one can be happy wt that‼️Find another persons, one you can be happy wt, life is to short for bad relationships‼️🌱🌺
To be honest, judging from the comments, it appears a HIGH PERCENTAGE of people are in the same boat!!
Right fake love. Taking a break is basically saying the person don't love you. And peace.
I appreciate that video @topthink that spoke volumes
My ex really used #7 as his reason for not changing his tendency towards impulsive and ill considered choices that negatively affected all involved. I mean, he got his immediate wants taken care of. But fails to see how his selfish self serving approach to things has become a pattern, then a theme, and now a personality trait indicative of one with low agreeableness, and low conscientiousness, openness to new experiences that a partner would call "cheating" because it was, and zero remorse for the harm he causes.
Like someone with antisocial personality disorder.
So #7 should be changed. Because sometimes people are just recognizing the crap you do that’s causing the problem, and if they follow that up with different solutions where more positive outcomes are likely going to be the result, for all involved.....
Then they probably aren’t trying to control you, or make you miserable at all. They’re trying to help you to make better choices yourself. Because lets face it......
You’re most likely already making all miserable by not having yourself under control, and need to be reminded of this fact for some reason or another.
I didn't need this video to tell me what i I all ready knew how my partner feels but it just let me know i am not crazy for thinking that he doesn't care about me
What a magic I couldn't believe I and my husband fall in love all thanks to the man of his world l agdice you having relationship issues
Text me I should explain how it works
Love yourself and leave yourself open to letting others gravitate towards you. NEVER change or attempt to change who you are just for someone else, especially because the someone else is wishing you were someone else. Save yourself a ton of heartache and money and tell them to move on and find someone else, and of course wish them good luck.
Everything that were mentioned in this video, I have it all. Feeling really guilty, don't know how to tell him. He's really a good guy, but my heart is numbed. 😔
If you don’t want to keep on hurt that innocent guy I think it’s best to tell him now
I hope you did. If you’re not in love with them be honest and break up. It’s cruel to pretend to say you love someone when you don’t.
I disagree with the “change” one. Sometimes partners pretend to love you and then violate your trust with lies and deceit. There is nothing wrong with asking them to change these behaviors. Asking them to quit lying and to stop treating you bad is not manipulative. Sometimes change needs to happen. If i didn’t ask them to change these behaviors and just tolerated it...that would be me not caring to save the relationship. If someone presents themselves one way at the beginning and then lies about who they are...asking them to change is very reasonable.
100%!
True
but why would someone pursue a relationship with someone whose been faking love and lying to you?
I was told that someone will cherish me, someone will enter my life without my knowledge because if I don’t go and pursue happiness, happiness will find me and generally attract a person who will acknowledge me and that special woman will come into my life, I just have to live everyday happily and will be able to happy so happiness starts with you , this is what I was told
I have a hard Time agreeing with number three point blank because some times keeping the peace and choosing your battles Is a form of compromise and maintaining balance.