Clear Signs That Relationship is Dangerous!

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  • @timotahowhitehawk3756
    @timotahowhitehawk3756 3 роки тому +762

    7 Signs that God doesn't want you with someone... from this narration:
    1. Your Relationship is not built on genuine Love. If not based on genuine love, then all will disappear. God only approves Genuine Unconditional Love.
    2. Your Relationship effects your Relationship with God Negatively. She takes you away from God, closer you get to this person, then the farther away from God you feel.
    3. God's Peace will be absent... The Peace of God will be upon your Relationship when it is a God approved Relationship. Peace of God is the most accurate sign God Approves.
    4. You will constantly long for something better. God will put a longing in you for something better that He has intended and is possible for you when you follow God. Deep down you know you deserve better, when you see a Godly couple ~ God wants you to long for that which is Best.
    5. The person you are with does NOT Value God. They are not interested in Godly thing; a Capital NO, do not consider being with those who are Wicked or are in Darkness.
    6. The person is more important to you than God. Do have have any idols ahead of God. Proof of Love you will sacrifice for the one you love. God has to be #1 in your life. Choose God! If you choose the person over God then they have become an Idol to you, an God will never bless the union.
    7. The Relationship has become Toxic. Any Toxic relationship is NOT from God. So if this person is toxic to you, then they are most likely from the devil...No harm is to come to us...

    • @The_alpha_king
      @The_alpha_king 3 роки тому +53

      Man...u r lovely person...I was searching for this in the cmmnt section...thanx frnd

    • @sweetsroyale8100
      @sweetsroyale8100 3 роки тому +5

      @@daquiriprice5100 😣👍

    • @timotahowhitehawk3756
      @timotahowhitehawk3756 3 роки тому +5

      @@daquiriprice5100 Very true!

    • @incognitame141
      @incognitame141 3 роки тому +11

      @@daquiriprice5100 You have to get in tune with your higher self, go within for your answers, meditate, spend some time alone, listen to that inner voice. It's not always about doing the right things but simply just discipline & everything else that I mentioned. Once u master your mind & emotions then the domino effect begins. Speaking from experience

    • @jacquelinemashugane6143
      @jacquelinemashugane6143 3 роки тому +4

      Thank you very much for the word of encouragement and it is a blessing indeed. It is true when you say that if it is not from God it will pass away. It is not easy but i trust Lord and i pray for my Partner we are not yet married and we are praying for the grace. The Lord gave me Ezekiel 14 :3 the other day and i had to repent and ask for God to forgive me. Now i am no loger feeling that strong feeling i used to feel for him and i belive God for his will
      Thank you Pastor may the Lord bless you.

  • @modiciamartin5659
    @modiciamartin5659 3 роки тому +2251

    When God is first in your life, everything will be alright.

  • @kristimcgrath7470
    @kristimcgrath7470 2 роки тому +515

    When I finally realized I was being used and let go of a Man who was toxic to me, God finally gave me a Godly Man, immediately. 🙏

  • @savannaht_93
    @savannaht_93 2 роки тому +164

    This is definitely god speaking! I woke up this morning thinking about my ex and our toxic relationship that’s been on and off for 6/7 years now and immediately I ran across this video! God makes no mistakes and when he speaks, we need to listen! Put god first in all that you do! All praise be to Christ!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @anindyrc
    @anindyrc 2 роки тому +110

    Intuition never lies. It's the mouth of divine!

  • @adriennetownsend5797
    @adriennetownsend5797 3 роки тому +231

    Toxic relationships are not from God. Lord I thank you for directing my path.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @nella116
      @nella116 2 роки тому +1

      Definitely from the Devil

  • @irishrock3293
    @irishrock3293 3 роки тому +1272

    Last year I broke up a 4 year relationship which I thought was a right fit. I put her first, sex before marriage, drinking smoking. I did all those things to impress her and others. Sad thing is she really didn't want join me and praising God at church. It was like she wanted me but not the religious part of me. I was very depressed after that but I needed to make a change and I did. I have found my path and just trying to stay loyal to my wellbeing. Bless you for the message brother.

    • @conartist267
      @conartist267 3 роки тому +62

      Gee, well done. That takes a big man with lots of integrity.

    • @pattieyehovah4626
      @pattieyehovah4626 3 роки тому +48

      Very powerful and glad the HOLY SPIRIT led you

    • @KingJesus41
      @KingJesus41 3 роки тому +65

      There are so many that are worldly, that say they are believers but really are not. They are too consumed with the things of the world, pray only when needed... it's difficult dating in today's time.

    • @Ronniestl74
      @Ronniestl74 3 роки тому +28

      That seems odd.who smokes to keep a person? I can see the sex before marriage, maybe even social drinking, but smoking? 🧢🧢

    • @mixedemotions6471
      @mixedemotions6471 3 роки тому +53

      What really hurts is when someone rejects your love for God. And you say the hard truths with love. But, in the end, you know it’s never going to work out because they don’t love God. It is better to walk away as early as possible than staying in a relationship that will cost you more than you bargained for.

  • @godlivernambi8548
    @godlivernambi8548 3 роки тому +441

    If your relationship leads you to sin and makes you feel unworthy of God, it's not worth it and deep down you know it, trust your gut (holy spirit) 🙏

    • @keithlatham4520
      @keithlatham4520 3 роки тому +13

      Trust your heart and ask, pray to God,....Lord let not my heart be deceived, speak in every good possible way to let me know, Amen 🙏

    • @treasamorrison4826
      @treasamorrison4826 3 роки тому +8

      @@keithlatham4520 that's a wonderful prayer. God will revile all the lies an deceit someone dos to you. . Mine has my phone an car hacked. Location and calls. No privacy.. Not to mention I was so faithful to this man then come to find out what he was doing behind my back an still look you in the face an say ( it's not mine or isn't me) . Lie's Everytime the man speaks. I will never understand why someone has to be like that..

    • @stevewoodson4635
      @stevewoodson4635 3 роки тому

      Saint Petersburg nightmare

    • @sweetsroyale8100
      @sweetsroyale8100 3 роки тому

      @@treasamorrison4826 😔😪

    • @lightmyfire1450
      @lightmyfire1450 3 роки тому +1

      Exactly you got that one right

  • @rogerwoodard7559
    @rogerwoodard7559 3 роки тому +292

    As a Christian, I was involved with unknowingly, a narcissist. I saw my relationship with my God, starting to deteriorating. I knew then I had to remove myself from her, which I did. I then began to get close to God, my spirit is uplifted. Thank God for opening my eyes.

    • @balvinabennett7979
      @balvinabennett7979 2 роки тому +4

      I was invited to a Christian Church, and met people, that really had and believed in the Spirit of Jesús Christ, Therefore I love Christmas.

    • @lalarequestprayer.phil4and26
      @lalarequestprayer.phil4and26 2 роки тому +2

      God bless you

    • @saintcecelia3945
      @saintcecelia3945 2 роки тому +3

      Glad you are in a better place in life and to God be the glory!!🙏💢

    • @ST-gc9ih
      @ST-gc9ih 2 роки тому +6

      A narcicist will ALWAYS work hard to draw you away from Christ, because they do not allow anyone to compete with your affections for them.
      Narcicism 101.

    • @goldenageflash5924
      @goldenageflash5924 2 роки тому +2

      Truly a blessing you recognized God was warning you to become aware you were enduring emotional abuse.
      When a good God fearing man like you first meets a woman we are attracted to, we men invest our time, (dates, affection, getting woke up in the middle of the night to listen to her drama, etc) we expect her to reciprocate in kind. In the meantime unbeknownst to you, she is developing contempt for you for no rational reason.
      I'm happy you removed your self from that hell

  • @maleanewborn9073
    @maleanewborn9073 2 роки тому +272

    I believe no matter how bad a relationship is, what the devil meant for evil, the Lord will turn into something good. For those who keep His word and Love Him.

    • @cindyyoung619
      @cindyyoung619 2 роки тому +8

      Amen, I believe that God will give us the desires of our heart. I have a relationship right now that I am claiming things will come back together

    • @forever_his
      @forever_his 2 роки тому +7

      Yes!! I believe what you say!! When we belong to Our LORD, He is working ALL things for Good in our lives! I trust Him for that!!

    • @princerogers4583
      @princerogers4583 2 роки тому +3

      Thank you brother you are so so on point my name is Rogers

    • @kweenbeekay
      @kweenbeekay 2 роки тому +12

      I believe that to be true, but I also believe some situations were meant to be only temporary and serve the purpose of learning life lessons only.

    • @adelante3938
      @adelante3938 2 роки тому +2

      🙌🏻

  • @healed2011
    @healed2011 3 роки тому +769

    Lord, I only want Your will to be done in every area of my life. Please protect me from the wrong people entering my life, whether for friendship or romantic relationship. Only allow those who are sent by You into my life. Amen!!!🙏🙌🏾❤️

    • @makeitmakesense4836
      @makeitmakesense4836 3 роки тому +7

      Hallelujah AMEN

    • @LadyEliza7
      @LadyEliza7 3 роки тому +18

      I stand in agreement with this prayer 🙌🏽

    • @staceypalmer5863
      @staceypalmer5863 3 роки тому +12

      Yes Lord... send who you will... Let it be your will in the mighty name of Jesus!

    • @makeitmakesense4836
      @makeitmakesense4836 3 роки тому +5

      @@staceypalmer5863 Yessssss heavenly father!

    • @TS-fj2lo
      @TS-fj2lo 3 роки тому +3

      Amen

  • @mosmiboje5234
    @mosmiboje5234 2 роки тому +63

    When you put God first. Right person will come in right time ❤️

  • @islandeschettini3549
    @islandeschettini3549 3 роки тому +844

    Sometimes we just need to pray because satan doesn’t like us to be happy

    • @dwaynejohnson2605
      @dwaynejohnson2605 3 роки тому +5

      Hello, I was in the comment section when i came across yours and I was thrilled to say Hello to you

    • @everettwilliams3759
      @everettwilliams3759 3 роки тому +2

      @islande schettini that's very true

    • @karabohappiness2124
      @karabohappiness2124 3 роки тому +4

      For real

    • @shontelstone8875
      @shontelstone8875 3 роки тому +6

      All the time without ceasing my brother we should pray.

    • @MaiRaven3
      @MaiRaven3 3 роки тому +6

      Pray always.🙏🏻❣️✨

  • @MrMwolf69
    @MrMwolf69 3 роки тому +784

    "God Is my vaccine,my reason,my life,my faith,and my destiny."

  • @sneportia2405
    @sneportia2405 2 роки тому +47

    I choose God before anything and I need him more ever in my life🤗🙏🙌

  • @CalmDreamsStudio
    @CalmDreamsStudio 3 роки тому +58

    7 CLEAR SIGNS
    1. Your relationship isn't built on genuine love. (Love your neighbor as yourself)
    2. The relationship affects your relationship with God negatively.
    3. God's peace will be absent.
    4. You would consistently long for something better.
    5. The person doesn't value God.
    6. The person is more important to you than God. (proof of love is sacrifice)
    7. The relationship has become toxic.

    • @catalinamecham5318
      @catalinamecham5318 2 роки тому +5

      I will add something to the list, you feel constantly anxious! And your instinct tells you that person is no good for you!!

    • @Frankie_Big_Tits
      @Frankie_Big_Tits 2 роки тому +1

      @@catalinamecham5318 that is the same as #3 you lose your peace of mind.. no peace = anxiety

    • @shielahbirungi9067
      @shielahbirungi9067 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you

    • @0725winnie
      @0725winnie 2 роки тому

      This are very important point to take note of in any relationship

    • @marygilbert6689
      @marygilbert6689 2 роки тому

      @@Frankie_Big_Tits by

  • @melodiecolquhoune9319
    @melodiecolquhoune9319 3 роки тому +183

    I was in a toxic relationship I couldn't take it anymore it's best to put god first in everything and pray 🙏

  • @cassandracoles7428
    @cassandracoles7428 3 роки тому +136

    This explains so much why my past relationships didn’t work out. Now that I’m single, I can see it now. Thank you Lord for clarity.

  • @janeylyons8459
    @janeylyons8459 2 роки тому +46

    GOD is always first in my LIFE.... I LOVE HIM....

  • @beautifullyblessedandnatur7457
    @beautifullyblessedandnatur7457 2 роки тому +88

    God just gave me a huge sign for all the red flags that I have been ignoring. Thank you for your message Lord😇🙏

  • @mariogirard1221
    @mariogirard1221 3 роки тому +29

    i used to be rich and everybody loved me and wanted to be near me,now impoor and sick,all left me not one left,just shows you how many good freinds i had,not one is with me,only JESUS...

  • @unconditionalu2892
    @unconditionalu2892 3 роки тому +265

    This has to apply to everyone in my life!!!!
    Jesus is first in everything.

    • @rolomatik1083
      @rolomatik1083 3 роки тому +2

      You need the havenly Father the only true God the one in the first comannd my friend

    • @shawntatillis6374
      @shawntatillis6374 3 роки тому +1

      On god you know Wat 2 say🙏🙏🙏

    • @annabellaboyer643
      @annabellaboyer643 3 роки тому +2

      Thanks Unconditional U?For your coment. Amen.

    • @reginaldchatman7723
      @reginaldchatman7723 3 роки тому

      God also gave to the poor But you don't see anyone subscribing to that

    • @rolomatik1083
      @rolomatik1083 3 роки тому +1

      I by my self can't do nothing but by the power of the Havenly One as a hear I jugg I don't know when the Hour is not even the angels know to whom Jesus put his face on the ground and prayed how can you worship a man who can not do nothing by his wille how can you imagine that God is human or can enter in human body I can't understand you people when did he say I am God I am interested

  • @riaanvh4173
    @riaanvh4173 3 роки тому +67

    I was in a relationship with a Jezebel spirit, I thank God I am no longer filled with anxiety and mistrust! I am free again

  • @divataqila
    @divataqila 2 роки тому +26

    I finally opened my eyes. I was so blinded for years. It does hurt but when you finally have been set free of negativity, it's a weight lifted off your shoulders.. I have done so much thinking about this topic and this just popped up today.. I love, I accept love, I want everyone to love. Be Peace and Be love, the answers will come!!!

    • @terrysmith1419
      @terrysmith1419 2 роки тому +2

      I'm divorced for years now praise God. I wa s so miserable. As soon a as the court said, you are hereby divorced my smile came suddenly after so many years as nd I felt light as a feather.AMEN again In Jesus holy name

  • @kuyawanharakatvlogs6424
    @kuyawanharakatvlogs6424 2 роки тому +22

    Thank God for always keeping me safe,away from any harm and always in a good shape! I love you my Lord! In Jesus Christ name! Amen 🙏

  • @natashachiware4882
    @natashachiware4882 3 роки тому +143

    Lord please reverse the curse that the enemies has put on my life. I want the curse to be taken off my life for ever and not to come back. I want the curse off my life and let me receive miracles only, in the name of Jesus amen 🙏 🙌

    • @tashaequeen8935
      @tashaequeen8935 3 роки тому +8

      Yes in the name of the Lord I felt this..💙💜🙌👆🙏

    • @philipudayakumarantony6128
      @philipudayakumarantony6128 3 роки тому +4

      Jesus took all your curse,sin and death that entered you and replaced with His Grace,mercy and eternal life so belive in Jesus that He died for all your negatives and confess He is the Lord

    • @mariemorino8796
      @mariemorino8796 3 роки тому +1

      Amen

    • @marinettedelacruz2798
      @marinettedelacruz2798 3 роки тому +1

      Amen

    • @lornaallen8179
      @lornaallen8179 3 роки тому +1

      U soon get you're calling, just listen an obey the true inner voice, the one that speak righteousness

  • @bidishachowdhury1299
    @bidishachowdhury1299 3 роки тому +268

    I trust God.
    I love God.
    I trust God.
    I want to be with God.

  • @BTBell-vl6bj
    @BTBell-vl6bj 3 роки тому +337

    God works in mysterious ways 😇

    • @cheryljakeer13
      @cheryljakeer13 3 роки тому +3

      AMEN

    • @marshahead1057
      @marshahead1057 3 роки тому +3

      That is true.

    • @andrewhunt1328
      @andrewhunt1328 3 роки тому +2

      Very true and proving God and Jesus wants me with someone I'm standing for after Him and Jesus of course. I made my mistakes and am leaning into God and Jesus in Their loving arms.

    • @deanthomas4309
      @deanthomas4309 3 роки тому +1

      Amen

    • @andreeailie9053
      @andreeailie9053 3 роки тому +2

      So true 😀

  • @lisastoltz1094
    @lisastoltz1094 2 роки тому +85

    My past marriage fit everyone of these signs from beginning to end! I'm glad and feel blessed I found the strength to walk away, but it took me to be diagnosed with breast cancer to do so! I've rebuilt my relationship with the Lord and I'm so much happier❣️🙏

    • @jessicad6131
      @jessicad6131 2 роки тому +4

      My current marriage fits all of these also except for loving him above God. Jesus is my all in all. I came to the Lord in this marriage. Everyday is like a slow death. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @zainababdulai5066
      @zainababdulai5066 2 роки тому +1

      Sorry for that ...Jesus Christ is the only Solution.

    • @Mikexception
      @Mikexception 2 роки тому +1

      Lord leads us through life. And we must follow the path which he shows us . In some cases it is painfull - sometime He takes from us supporting comforts to make us to do His will. l. We need to recognize.
      I was in in comfort position with so called happy family At one moment I felt I am at top of the world, I am going to be Boss. Wooow . Almost that day I sudenly fallen ill for almost 7 years - within I was constantly working and suffered pain , later had to change job for easier and less pay , my mother this time passed my family shown me the other their side.
      Still couldn' read it well. After years God brought me back to health (not doctors) I started again the same - got back comfort job in far east but already aware of wife and children. All happy again? After my absence I saw bad inclinations of characters. Resigned from comfort job and sure - family turned back on me as before. Started to loose sightseeing which was the base of my new job. Pretended that I see. My beautifill car crushed above repair, couldn' buy such again My family was chasing me.
      At last I understood. Put papers to divorce. Gave up house from my parents to family as they wanted , took loan for another car and turned to Lord for help After year lasting divorce trial it was done. Unexpectedly I was offered position aboard. Back in country I undergo surgery for both eyes, earned in next 6 years for living place and furniture and music gear and started new life alone in my own harmony with people by serving no one else but to God .

  • @TVi-jm8ns
    @TVi-jm8ns 2 роки тому +14

    I'd like to add my experience to this video in hopes of helping another believer. A while back I was reunited with a friend and God was highlighting her lies. I was a new Christian and I really wanted to believe she wasn't lying but, possibly just not able to recall the story she had told me prior. I so badly wanted to give her a pass. I've been rather naive most of my life usually finding out the hard way. Long story short, I learned a huge life lesson. God ended up removing that person from my life and since then, I've been able to learn more about Jesus and be less frustrated with this individual in my life. God is good and I've since then been able to discern the people I meet, “ PRAISE GOD”. If the Lord removes someone from your life, let them go! May God bless you all.

  • @LadyEliza7
    @LadyEliza7 3 роки тому +170

    I am so glad I listened because it was right on time and spoke to my situation. I knew in my heart things didn’t feel right. He is not the person for me and this just confirmed it. I want everybody that is not for my good be removed out of my life as I come boldly to the throne with grace and mercy. Lord, please lead my steps and impart wisdom that I need to live a peaceful and prosperous life
    in You. Thank You Lord in advance. 🙏🏽👑

  • @wisdomknowledgelover6293
    @wisdomknowledgelover6293 3 роки тому +50

    Thank you..I married and divorced my Ex twice...We considered remarrying again...Even though a Believer, he had a consistent pattern of hurting me..Our relationship would exhibit all the signs you mentioned...I finally went no contact..even though I care and miss him..I must hang on and trust God...

    • @freedomgyal4380
      @freedomgyal4380 2 роки тому

      Same situation. 10 years into my marriage in Feb. currently working together (finally) to divorce. He is conflicted bc he knows he will love his source & supply. But God said enough!! Stay strong! There are plenty ppl to love & miss once you give them a try (in the future, after the healing, & when ur ready & God says yes). I’m healing right now. Struggling! But God!

    • @anthonynelson1593
      @anthonynelson1593 2 роки тому

      Did you seek godly Christian counseling ?

  • @963ag
    @963ag 3 роки тому +178

    It has taken me 57 years to fully realize all this... But, better late than never. I now know that all I need and want is God. All things work together for good... May His will be done. I feel sad for many younger women who feel that they are somehow incomplete with being in a relationship- good or bad, Christian or not.

    • @Mags765
      @Mags765 3 роки тому +2

      🙌🏽

    • @supernova11491
      @supernova11491 3 роки тому +5

      Humans need companionship.

    • @catherinekeller4230
      @catherinekeller4230 3 роки тому +7

      Yes Annette....they will go through their own painful hardships to learn to stand TALL in their OWN POWER...without needing anyone!😁

    • @sweetsroyale8100
      @sweetsroyale8100 3 роки тому +3

      @@catherinekeller4230 ☺👍

    • @aselyne5631
      @aselyne5631 3 роки тому +2

      God himself says it's not good for man to be alone,and that woman will long for her husband despite the heartaches let's not lie to ourselves

  • @Jamiirrux
    @Jamiirrux 2 роки тому +23

    I’m thoroughly blessed by this teaching! Sometimes we don’t know our worth and settle for anything! God’s gift is always perfect with no flaws! Holy Spirit open the eyes of our hearts to see what you’re showing us! Open the ears of hearts that we will hear what Spirit is telling us about the toxic relationship! Help us not to be blinded by this fake love that the enemy perpetuates before us! There’s no love like the Lord gives!

  • @ritaw.4861
    @ritaw.4861 2 роки тому +19

    This message was an eye opener. I pray that God will direct my steps and help me find the solution I need to continue to glorify Him.

  • @shannettewatson7869
    @shannettewatson7869 3 роки тому +125

    Lord remove anything that is ungodly, not of you, and not of righteousness. Lord let us do your will that you have ordained for your children. The wages of sin is death. What we reap will sow and what we sow we shall reap. Anything that is not ordained by God or not according to God's will is the act of devil/enemy. We should not get caught up by the sins, ungodly and not of God of the world. When we do so we are heading for destruction. Which we don't know what we are getting into. 🙏❤❤❤💛

  • @sofiaruby603
    @sofiaruby603 3 роки тому +420

    Your gut NEVER lies !

  • @slowmotion9116
    @slowmotion9116 3 роки тому +84

    I am certainly with the wrong person.
    I knew this already after awhile, but now I'm 100% convinced.

    • @chulehirbo7397
      @chulehirbo7397 3 роки тому +3

      Me too

    • @palanasam
      @palanasam 3 роки тому +1

      We have a form a relationship with God and he will lead us in the right relationship the right person.

    • @mel8469
      @mel8469 3 роки тому

      Yes

    • @itsdebbie8737
      @itsdebbie8737 3 роки тому +1

      Me three

  • @Generosaisaac4493
    @Generosaisaac4493 3 роки тому +48

    I hv been in a toxic relationship for 8 yrs, left it recently , somehow im grateful for that relationship cause it has made me realise who i really am , it has awakened my spirituality in a massive way, the negativity has brought a whole lot of positivity in me, its hard to explain but now i understand that some ppl come into your life to teach you somethings n prepare you for better things.

    • @jewelsgo
      @jewelsgo 2 роки тому +2

      I felt all these things and thought many times about ending this toxic relationship and today i finally took that step. Its my first moment of clarity and confirmation whereas before i was constantly confused and let alot of things go by that now i am quite aware of and will never tolerate again from anyone

  • @smrutiprangyabehera6175
    @smrutiprangyabehera6175 2 роки тому +23

    I am not a Christian but I am liking and praying from all my heart 💗💓.. Praise to The God 🙏

    • @angelomwami5170
      @angelomwami5170 2 роки тому +3

      What's missing to be a Christian as you like?just commit to the Lord and wait for him.
      Bless you for that first biggest step you already took.

    • @mrsamzambrano5740
      @mrsamzambrano5740 Рік тому +1

      God loves you and I hope you will give your heart to Him He is waiting.

    • @april1945
      @april1945 Рік тому

      I pray you will fully get committed to following our Lord Jesus it sounds like maybe u believe in God but aren't yet fully devoted so u don't call yourself a Christian because of this? Am i right? Please help us understand you better. May the Lord Jesus Christ bless you and keep you ❤️ may the lord's face shine upon you.

  • @GJR1003
    @GJR1003 3 роки тому +91

    Thank you for this amazing message 🙏♥️.
    I am 62 female, and I pray for my Lord to bring me a true Christian man who loves God as I do, who will love me as much as I love him,who will pray with me 🙏🙏❤️.
    So many false out there, my heart ❤️ is growing very tired. I never go as far as to meet anyone, because signs appear. God please lead me and guide me all the days of my life 🙏🙏♥️ I ask that I may be a blessing to others that you give me words to speak and words to write that I can touch hearts for you 🙏🙏♥️

    • @aliceparesi8388
      @aliceparesi8388 3 роки тому +8

      I am 63 and I pray for that so much. Lord, let it be Your will when You think it best. Lord You order my steps and give me direction and help when I pray to You, asking for a truly Godly man who puts YOU above all. I put it in Your powerful Hands Father. Thy Will be done. In Jesus Mighty Name I pray. Amen! I hope this for everyone, blessings and Thanks be to God Almighty! ❤🔥❤🔥💯💯

    • @aliceparesi8388
      @aliceparesi8388 3 роки тому +2

      You words certainly have touched my heart ❤!God bless Your heart G R ❤💯🙏

    • @lavenderlove1212
      @lavenderlove1212 3 роки тому +5

      AMEN! I am 59 turning 60 end of this year...never married or had children. 🙏🏻✨❤

    • @donald2029
      @donald2029 3 роки тому +2

      Amen, I'm feeling the same🙏

    • @threecats1605
      @threecats1605 3 роки тому +9

      I am 70 looking for my last love of my life, my husband died two years ago, & I don’t want to be on this road alone, it’s lonely. I pray God leads me to make the right decision on who’s right one for me. 🙏

  • @rubyhobock3851
    @rubyhobock3851 3 роки тому +57

    God always comes first in my heart I will never stop loving God

  • @jovitavillalpando9127
    @jovitavillalpando9127 3 роки тому +53

    God spoke to me when I was going to marry my husband he said “”if you marry him you will loose everything”” and I thought was that God and I went ahead and married him!! Well a yr later I lost everything even my kids my children left me !i cried for about 2 yrs bitter tears

  • @teresadavis9638
    @teresadavis9638 2 роки тому +18

    I feel my relationship with my husband is wrong I am mentally abused by him this message hit home thank you Lord for the message

  • @carlneel-kamara1513
    @carlneel-kamara1513 2 роки тому +19

    This is great. I see myself right in the middle. All I need now is HIS mercy to fix my life back again

    • @timothyg.bouras4344
      @timothyg.bouras4344 2 роки тому

      I am in the same situation right now!! It's been going on too long!! God bless you Sir!!

  • @1221Grace
    @1221Grace 3 роки тому +138

    GOD, SHOULD ALWAYS BE FIRST IN ANY RELATIONSHIP, SO THE RELATIONSHIP WILL BE BLESS!!💗💗🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @nicholasambu7572
      @nicholasambu7572 3 роки тому +3

      Thank you 😊 💓

    • @vashnaanerada8194
      @vashnaanerada8194 2 роки тому

      What dose being blessed by god mean

    • @1221Grace
      @1221Grace 2 роки тому +1

      BEING BLESS BY GOD IS THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRITS.. AND HIS GIFT TO US IS OUR LIFE IT IS THE GREATEST GIFT OF ALL.. MR. PATRICK.. JUST HONOR GOD, IN EVERY WAY IN YOUR LIFE.. YOU WILL SEE MIRACLES 💙💙

    • @vashnaanerada8194
      @vashnaanerada8194 2 роки тому

      @@1221Grace I dont know what a God is let alone a spirit.and thanks for replying back

  • @abstracthope2727
    @abstracthope2727 3 роки тому +73

    I was able to relate to each and every point said in this video. My God how was I a fool to ignore his signs. I’m gladly proclaiming that God has finally delivered me from moving astray from him. Praise Jesus ❤️ I hope this reaches many people who are suffering silently in their toxic relationships.

  • @benjymorgan8528
    @benjymorgan8528 2 роки тому +20

    I was in a marriage that seemed to be God directed, however with time the baggage started to show and our relationship became toxic. We finally spilt I had had enough! Now I have met some that pushes us to God!

  • @cherylwestbrook5526
    @cherylwestbrook5526 2 роки тому +8

    I remember specifically, the day that I turned away from what I knew what God wanted for me and chose to be with someone. Needless to say, it fell apart. Thankfully, God is a forgiving God and always welcomes us back in His arms. Not only did I get back on the right track, I chose a different path, one in which I truly believe that God is directing my steps. I have asked Him to direct my steps and I have no doubt that He will guide me towards His will for my life. God bless and Happy New Year!

  • @sharlettemoncrieffe1160
    @sharlettemoncrieffe1160 3 роки тому +52

    True words. Why would anyone even give this thumbs down . It's all facts wether we want to admit or not ...🙏🙏🙏

  • @tamareatoliver6865
    @tamareatoliver6865 3 роки тому +38

    I'm standing with Jesus, please 🙏 give me another chance

    • @marianneobery8341
      @marianneobery8341 3 роки тому

      Dear God Your will be done… you know the longings of my heart please bring the right mate into my life… thank you

  • @aliyahug3549
    @aliyahug3549 3 роки тому +8

    I don't know how I found this channel but I believe God wanted me to see it and I'm leaving this relationship... Praise God...!!!!

  • @virgiliopulido7058
    @virgiliopulido7058 2 роки тому +19

    I am a skeptic; yet I must admit that the man that gives this sermon is a sincere genius,has
    common sense,and is so right in his central idea.

  • @evelynojeiduma5475
    @evelynojeiduma5475 2 роки тому +24

    Thank You Lord for giving me a perfect understanding of this message. Thank You Almighty Father for always coming through for me. 🙏🙏

  • @Deborah7-l4u
    @Deborah7-l4u 3 роки тому +64

    Amen, so true, this message applies to any kinds of relationships , friends, relatives, etc,..... Beware of the wolves in Jesus Mighty Name 🙌🙌🙌🔥🔥🔥

  • @barbaragilmore1728
    @barbaragilmore1728 3 роки тому +37

    This was truly an EYE OPENER..beautifully said it's strange l have been asking for a sign from God about my relationship and now l got CONFIRMATION..AMEN🙏💯❤

  • @jbell0507
    @jbell0507 3 роки тому +70

    Amen hallelujah lord bless me with a wonderful woman that support me and help me focus on u more in Jesus Christ name amen

    • @bellaamos130
      @bellaamos130 3 роки тому

      Amen 🙏

    • @sarahbeath
      @sarahbeath 3 роки тому

      Amen

    • @christianalexander579
      @christianalexander579 3 роки тому +1

      Date who you want stop letting people decide for you

    • @Iamjay335
      @Iamjay335 3 роки тому

      Amazing prayer similar to one i does always.hv a person who can help you come closer to God or help you spiritual maturity is important than anything else.

    • @mynsong1972
      @mynsong1972 3 роки тому

      Absolutely

  • @martymartinez5073
    @martymartinez5073 2 роки тому +10

    She has been with me through thick & thin...She cares for me and tries to guide me in the Right Direction..🙏🏾🙏🏾😌😌😌❤️❤️❤️

  • @MsMama59
    @MsMama59 3 роки тому +9

    Thank you so much for posting this. I've been praying for Father God to show me His will for me, in all areas of my life; especially w/my ex boyfriend. He's been a part of my life for nearly 30 yrs. Everything in this video answered it perfectly. Talk about Divine Intervention & Timing!!! I thank Father God & Jesus for this answered prayer! Sometimes we have to be silent & trust that He will deliver the message in His time... we just have to listen. May Father God bless all who helped in the making of this video!

  • @dorothy2566
    @dorothy2566 3 роки тому +27

    This motivational speech is true ,There's always a reason or excuse when it comes to the word commitment and love 💘 but I know my God will never forsake me for another.

  • @adaezeezemegbu8459
    @adaezeezemegbu8459 3 роки тому +8

    May God help me to remain strong in Faith and the strength to walk away from any relationship that is not of Him. Amen

  • @makeupboss3568
    @makeupboss3568 3 роки тому +28

    As a child growing up I always wanted a marriage and relationship like my parents. I was raised a Conservative Christian, and when I finally found the guy that I chose to marry , I knew it was right . We’ve had our ups and downs, trials and tribulations, and we managed to stay together. Morals are very important to me , and because of my faith / how I believe… I know that God intended us to be together. We had a lot of fun dating , we don’t as much at the moment, since I sacrifice and work , since he can’t ( he’s been out of work for several years, due to a car accident… ) we have a beautiful daughter, she’s kind of grinding the gears of manipulation and making life harder, of course. Right now I think my daughter needs God , she’s just so “ out of control “ , and needs her head back on straight, ( plus losing the crowd of bad kids she hangs out with ). Never fear , my sister ( my youngest sister… ) will be sending me a book on how to raise a good , Christian teenager. I thank God for my family. They have been a source of moral support a lot in the past years ..

  • @natishawhittaker6071
    @natishawhittaker6071 2 роки тому +12

    Thank you for these reminders. I have been struggling with the decision of leaving my toxic marriage. I truly believe every single word you share in this video. And as a child of God I believe I should let God lead and direct my path.

    • @elishazayani3597
      @elishazayani3597 2 роки тому +2

      Hi Natisha,
      I am with u on this.

    • @Sheryl-gp6tk
      @Sheryl-gp6tk 2 роки тому

      I am in the same situation. I was blinded by toxic love and married a narcissist and a cheater. With what’s happening in the world right now, I am afraid of losing a roof over my head if I choose to divorce now. 😢 I’m praying for God to direct my path. Praying for all of you here too. God bless 🙏🏻

  • @fal3157
    @fal3157 2 роки тому +5

    Thank you for this video. I met someone last yr and i realized God did not want me to be with that person. I trust him and i found this girl i like in my church and she's alot into God and i pray that i will be with her for the rest of my life.🥺❤ I trust God. I put him first always. He's never late and i thank him for getting me out that relationship i was in before.

  • @royalone4833
    @royalone4833 3 роки тому +9

    I rather get closer to God!🙏🏽 He truly is All I need!!💕💕🕊️

  • @TLColferable
    @TLColferable 3 роки тому +67

    I am not personally a Christian, although I do believe in spirituality & I have to say this video is such an amazing nugget of truth and wisdom for anyone learning about healthy relationships. Thank you for sharing this

    • @wellnesslifetips2856
      @wellnesslifetips2856 3 роки тому +9

      Yes, I know you are not a Christian at present. But, I declare a word of salvation in your life today: By this time next year, in the counting of this season, you will see the great enlightenment of God revealed in the son Jesus Christ , then shall you believe in him and be overwhelmed by the joy of being his true follower, Amen..
      Sealing it in the spirit! This prophesy shall be brought into establishment by the power of the holy ghost, and can never be altered nor will it be made futile by any circumstances or demons, in Jesus name, amen!

    • @riproar11
      @riproar11 3 роки тому +2

      Sitting on the fence means you don't believe. What do you have to lose by stepping off the fence? Whatever it is that you think you're giving up isn't at all great.

    • @chriscooks5437
      @chriscooks5437 2 роки тому +1

      @@wellnesslifetips2856 Thank you for this powerful example on how to encourage unbelievers!

    • @fionamcintosh4814
      @fionamcintosh4814 2 роки тому

      @@wellnesslifetips2856Amen 🙏🏿

    • @jaziahmoments2995
      @jaziahmoments2995 2 роки тому

      Not many people know this but Christianity was created by man not God he created spirituality and it was turned into Christianity by man to obtain control over the church turning gods children away from him

  • @delroythomas6122
    @delroythomas6122 3 роки тому +55

    This message is like God speaking to us personally bless.

  • @pauladrianesoriano4374
    @pauladrianesoriano4374 2 роки тому +27

    By confessing with your mouth and believing in your heart that Jesus Christ is your Lord and Savior, and you shall have eternal life.

  • @shawronthomas4957
    @shawronthomas4957 2 роки тому +5

    God is a healer and I recognize that I need healing from my current relationship time heals and so does God Amen thanks for the words of encouragement needed to hear this God Bless

  • @vernacyrette1331
    @vernacyrette1331 3 роки тому +13

    I'm single, and serve the Lord and I'm happier than I've ever been!

  • @vivianroberts3582
    @vivianroberts3582 3 роки тому +20

    Lord please remove all toxic relationship from my daughter, nieces and nephews lead them in the right direction to select the right life partners in Jesus name Amen

  • @adrianmakuku6238
    @adrianmakuku6238 3 роки тому +13

    I was in a 15 year relationship. It went from hate, to falling in Love, to physical abuse, then emotional abuse, then it just became toxic. All the while I tried to be the perfect girl, loyal, respectful and honest but all this did nothing. Had a child 7 years ago & this year, only this year (laughing @myself), I decided I couldn't do it anymore. I had all these signs in front of me & just kept going. Am single but most importantly I have peace of mind. I've never glowed this much, never smiled as much, never been as much chatty & happy. I get hurt sometimes but my hurt is now based on what was I thinking? all those wasted years (smh). I've moved on & to be honest even if I am a Christian may God forgive me I don want to see, hear or speak to him for as long as live. I look after my son & ask for nothing in return except to be left alone.

    • @leoniehendrickson2530
      @leoniehendrickson2530 3 роки тому +2

      Absolutely..... those persons is to run far away from. I have been there it is a very dangerous path. These people are narscisist

    • @leoniehendrickson2530
      @leoniehendrickson2530 3 роки тому +2

      That is exacting what I have been through lost my very health

    • @liasky68
      @liasky68 3 роки тому

      I’ve been in one for the past 25 years, he is a cheater and a narcissist. The only good thing here is that now I’ve learned to love myself and put God first in my life. I still ask God is this where I need to be or is it time for me to move on? Help us Lord!

  • @kingrich1464
    @kingrich1464 2 роки тому +3

    I trust I agree I believe and I receive I decree and I declare by fire and by force in the mighty name of Jesus thank u and amen

  • @wandabrock3542
    @wandabrock3542 2 роки тому +3

    You can't go wrong when you put God first . I put my trust in God and I know everything else will be ok 👌amen

  • @adamandrew8681
    @adamandrew8681 3 роки тому +53

    I’ve totally went through all those signs but I never knew God was trying to let me know he doesn’t want me in that kind of relationship I can feel the signs while watching this video because I always put that person at first trying all the possible best to make her happy and make the relationship works out but later fails. Now I truly believe God loves me the most I’m grateful 🙏🏽🕊

    • @bronnita3018
      @bronnita3018 3 роки тому +1

      Amen..your mate is out there just don't allow ppl to change you..i had to learn that also

    • @Lovesall_pugmixes
      @Lovesall_pugmixes 2 роки тому

      Me too

  • @arvillaware1584
    @arvillaware1584 3 роки тому +25

    This message is one of the best for all groups ❤ most of us are not fully aware of a relationship should be recognized, as one that God sanctions. We cannot correctly choose. That is why we most let God select for us.
    Always, Bishop Ware

  • @trishkucherera1739
    @trishkucherera1739 3 роки тому +6

    True, am proud of my self 53 years old being single and 2 kinds waiting for God to gave me the right man from God.

  • @bamawildflower7112
    @bamawildflower7112 2 роки тому +12

    Commit your plans to God 🙏🏿
    Thank you for this timely message
    1:59 AM 4/11/22

  • @claudettereynolds4258
    @claudettereynolds4258 2 роки тому +16

    You have nailed it I could relate to this but I'm out of that relationship and I'm putting my trust more in Jesus. Love your videos

  • @Jaidy_style
    @Jaidy_style 3 роки тому +45

    I have had several relationships but none seems to be good for me. I always get attracted to the wrong person even if I pray that God should always allow only the right person admire me. As it is now, I don’t even know how I will get married cos no relationship has worked out. I feel worried and ask myself if this is the way God is preparing me to meet the right person. Thank you for this, it has made me believe it’s better late than wrong. I will continue to wait on God for the right one, am not giving up.

    • @tashaequeen8935
      @tashaequeen8935 3 роки тому +7

      I can relate to what your saying. Every guy I have dated turned out to be just another bad frog and I ask the Lord what is going on..I ask myself will I ever find true and unconditional love..but I guess it's not are time yet something has to give..we deserve it..it just doesn't make sense to keep getting are hearts broken..smh and I'm 42 yrs old..

    • @emjay7674
      @emjay7674 3 роки тому +1

      I and u have been on the same page.. May God help us

    • @tashaequeen8935
      @tashaequeen8935 3 роки тому +3

      I feel ya It sucks! Sometimes I feel like I'm cursed..smh

    • @Osoyukiki
      @Osoyukiki 3 роки тому +3

      The story of my life too. If im meant to b alone...then i was meant to travel alone in this journey of life, and just meet ppl along the way.

    • @Osoyukiki
      @Osoyukiki 3 роки тому +4

      @@tashaequeen8935 C that's my story too...and no offense to you...but that's what im afraid of....growing alone

  • @sherlynsheppard5373
    @sherlynsheppard5373 3 роки тому +13

    I thought we were right for each other being Christians, end up being a toxic connection thank you I needed to hear that this morning

  • @latriciar4305
    @latriciar4305 3 роки тому +18

    This video is a positive and reinforcement of signs I didn’t recognize in my own life. Thank God and I definitely thank you. I have been caught up in a demonic entanglement that had me so wrapped up, emotionally connected, and feeling paused. It is more a blessing to realize my wrong and get out of it while I can. God gave me the strength to move on, let go, and stop 🛑 thinking of this person. Thank you Jesus, I’m being guarded from this day and after. He was using me and offer to help me to camouflage his real intent, which was to bring me into him and keep me down. Ladies beware of these kinds of men. He was built strong and very handsome. I was deceived, but I repented and I’m on guard to always staying connected to the Lord. I had to ask God fir forgiveness.

  • @ThePrincepvm
    @ThePrincepvm 2 роки тому +5

    Number 4 woke me up Number 5 sent my body into praise and I thank God I came across this may be the sign I prayed for hallelujah

  • @dorinacota7420
    @dorinacota7420 3 роки тому +9

    God bless you, you have helped me understand many things about my relationship, now I know how to act in order to be pleasing to our Lord. glory to Jesus, Jesus first, then the others! Amen!🙏🙏🙏

  • @conartist267
    @conartist267 3 роки тому +21

    Yes, I certainly put my last girl above God. I tried to make it work but it was headed toward less time for God and less longing for Him in my life. Now that it’s over, it’s as plain to see that I was in love with her beauty and that she was a Christian. Even if they are Christians, it still doesn’t mean it’s right. I must listen careful to where God’s peace rests… and with Cathy it never was. I also must have the courage to be honest with myself next time and test the situation. Love can be blind but it can also be purposely ignorant. I pray I learn one day!

    • @2008LadyLaura
      @2008LadyLaura 3 роки тому +2

      Don't rush things and let God's will guide you. Be humble n do what's right.

    • @conartist267
      @conartist267 3 роки тому

      @@2008LadyLaura WOW! I was just praying that exact prayer at the very second I received your message. God bless!

  • @salomeayuba4065
    @salomeayuba4065 3 роки тому +9

    I am so delighted to watch and listen to this massage truly without God in our heart we cannot do thinks on our own but with the help of God every bit of our step goes perfect.

  • @mutungiedmund2355
    @mutungiedmund2355 3 роки тому +4

    Thank u God for removing Toxic people in my life 🙏

  • @kirabosarah7973
    @kirabosarah7973 2 роки тому +1

    This is very true. Thank you Sir. Waiting Upon the Lord God for a perfect and right relationship that will Honour and Glorify Him. AMEN

  • @patriciaharrison993
    @patriciaharrison993 2 роки тому +2

    I need to here this I've ask a man for 2 years to go to church with me sometimes for two years never went was holding me back from God now I'm more closer to God since I haven't been around him hopefully God will answer my prayers with a God fearing husband a leader a provider who love God more then life it self

  • @naomilopez7802
    @naomilopez7802 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you God for Protecting and keeping us safe from others that will
    Bring us harm!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️

  • @leoniehendrickson2530
    @leoniehendrickson2530 3 роки тому +4

    I been through all this throughout my whole relationship and didn't know what it was I taught it was normal. Until when I opened my mouth and said yes to marriage I had no peace at all like something was hurting me my emotional was running wild and final a voice said don't married that person. I final get the urge to say no I am not. From then that man tried to make my life a living hell. All I can say is that I thank the Lord so much for delivering me. I am very thankful that I was been obedient to that voice.

  • @frankcrawford416
    @frankcrawford416 3 роки тому +11

    An idol is when we have faith in someone else or something else or someone else's opinion of us instead of faith in him. God will show us these idols in our life in doo time so that we always depend that he did it all for us. Instead of relying on what you do or don't do rely on what he did for you. He paid for all our sins.

  • @bem6344
    @bem6344 2 роки тому +1

    I’m so sick of toxic people coming in my life when all I want to do is the right thing by others. Just wish I could meet someone who is real and has no motives. Not perfect, but someone who is actually is sent from God. 🙏

  • @marianyulo1769
    @marianyulo1769 2 роки тому +1

    This is so true I’ve met people that have only know me threw pictures only not even met me in person . They have told me I love you I’m thinking really u don’t even know me your In love with a face needless to say . I’m still alone I will stay alone . And keep praising God I’m good with the lord . I’m good with being alone . I know who truly loves me and that’s God . Amen

  • @miss.cscorner4814
    @miss.cscorner4814 3 роки тому +6

    I wish this video would have been out when I was a teenager. I thank God for the Holy Spirit!!! You can always trust God... Blessings💞✌💞

  • @manuelsalazar861
    @manuelsalazar861 3 роки тому +87

    I really needed to hear this thank the most high God for his holy word Amen 🙏

  • @stephanies6899
    @stephanies6899 3 роки тому +45

    Could of used this a week ago but better late than never I guess, thank you really need to start listening to my gut and realize you can't help everyone especially when their actions don't match their words

    • @MysteryBetweenUs
      @MysteryBetweenUs 3 роки тому +2

      I was there two months ago.

    • @JudahMarley
      @JudahMarley 3 роки тому +2

      Truth!!! Focus on God first...

    • @makeupboss3568
      @makeupboss3568 3 роки тому +3

      There’s always “better late than never “ , it’s helpful to have God in your life, your eyes on him , and everything usually falls into place . There’s someone for everyone, although I have realized in the 27 years that I have been married, you can’t always please people. I find it more with my teenage daughter, that’s a whole different story, though . But in my opinion, God knows what is good for you.

    • @nomsasilenge5298
      @nomsasilenge5298 3 роки тому

      And the relationship is toxic, and abusive

  • @MirroredGeneration
    @MirroredGeneration 2 роки тому

    This showed up today. Just for me..o my goodness. GOD IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING... GOD THANK YOU. SO MUCH HAS BECAME CLEAR NOW. AMEN.

  • @egboemmahelen4501
    @egboemmahelen4501 2 роки тому +7

    I feel connected to this thank you lord for always being there for me