People who are jealous of you,, think about you in their sleep, and they also want your autograph! you’re a star to them a celebrity,, They also try to imitate everything you do.
They try to one-up you. They work behind the scenes to turn people away from you out of ‘concern’. When they’re around, you seem to have constant bad luck. I’ve recently cleaned house and it’s so liberating!
Jealous people call you nasty names and then copy everything about you. The way you dress and decorate your house. If you buy it, they run out and buy the same exact item.
Yessss- I had a friend who literally gave Single Black Female vibes. She copied EVERYTHING SHE STOLE MY WHOLE PERSONALITY...CRAZY PART SHE TALKED BEHIND BY BACK...FUNNY HOW SHE HATED ME BUT WANTED TO BE ME...MAKE IT MAKE SENSE
Also One of the many other things they do that isn't talked about is hiding and stealing important documentation such as credit cards, birth certificates, photo I.D. etc and this is done to discourage you, make you angry and to close doors of opportunity in your life when you find a new job for example, they even steal or take your clothes and personal belongings to make you angry, and take great pleasure and get a 2 second dirty high when your down or when they feel like they've broken something in you because it gives them a false sense of power over you, friends can be jealous of you but the dissapointing thing is, is that its the people that you liver under the same roof with (Family Members) they literally hate you that much and are jealous of your happiness because your a mirror reflection of how much of a failure they are in their lives, If your living under the same roof with family members and you have no choice but to deal with them my advice would be to put padlocks on your wardrobes put all valuables and electrical devices stored in your wardrobes (purchase padlocks or chains if your wardrobe does not have a lock and keep all personal documents and clothing locked, every time you leave the house, Ignore them pay them no mind and don't feed your soul into their negativity, ignore them when they talk about you and male up rumours to other family members
@@KL-zg7lu hun thats what happend to me i had a flat i met a girlfriend she saw what i got. The next few weeks she got her boyfriend to break in...i was insured i heard her boyfriend had cancer and died..KARMA I DON'T CARE
1) They are eagerly waiting for your failure in life. 2) They look for your mistakes everywhere. 3) They mostly do not attack directly, instead they spread rumors about you. 4) They cant stop thinking about you, still they ignore you as much as they can.
@@judycrisenbery2982 my own older brother is like this. He guilt trips me as this so called bad kid when he's an adult man trying to hook up with minors. What does a kid's actions years ago have to do with you in the present? Due accused me of ruining his life. Bro if I wasn't born you'd till be the pathetic nobody you are today. These people are so smart at coming up with excuses and blame, if they put half of that energy into themselves they'd be somewhere in life.
On # s 2, 3, 4;.the last 3 . how one s treated at the death of a loved one , by.all these # 2,3,4,,and the.last three , at a place nobody would ever Expect to be so treated so .
I used to have this boy in my class. Nate and I were classmates when I was in 12th grade and he would constantly pester me and do stuff to push my buttons. He always wanted a reaction out of me, and he wouldn’t leave me alone. Nate would ask me personal questions and he always was in my business. Every time I made a mistake or did something wrong, Nate would get mad and complain and act like it was the end of the world. He would often find flaws in me to complain and exaggerate about. He tried to push me to open up to him, probably cause he wanted to know personal things about me. It was not until I watched this video that I realized that Nate treated me this way because he’s jealous of me
Thank goodness I have no friends. I cut them off when I became a parent. Not only were they jealous but they envied my baby too. I have no friends and it means loneliness and drama free and peaceful
Just wondering.. what made you believe them to be jealous of you? I have a cousin who I suspect of being jealous of me but not sure. She might just be very controlling. I'm trying to figure her out.
@@quityerlying it's definitely possible. Kids can't relate to adults and vice versa in the same way. I have two kids but can't wait to see friends of my own age. A different kind of fun.
This kind of people can affect anyone deeply. As human beings we may compare ourselves with others but we can transform jealousy in admiration and be happy for others and share their happiness. But when you find this kind of people they will do anything to affect you and damage your life and happiness. Better to stay away from this kind of people. Hope all we find good people and healthy mindsets around of us.
EXACTLY...what you said on all counts. This has been I have been through. When I pick up the envy or jealousy vibe from someone...they are booted out of my life on all counts. Look at what envious and jealous people have done to my life and still are planning to have done to it. They are flat-out trying to destroy me.
I worked in an office once with a girl who was hostile and jealous. We had a FedEx delivery guy. He hadn’t made a delivery for about six months and when he did come in, he noticed that I had lost a lot of weight and mentioned it. The girl said, “Oh! She’s just lucky.” I can’t stand someone who is nasty and jealous but they have not put in the same effort as you.
This is why I have a hand full of friends and minimize time spent with anyone in family who possesses these toxic traits.❌🚩Speaking from a lot of experience through the years… The less people you let into your life… the less negativity, drama, sabotage, pointless and unnecessary anxiety one has to deal with. These types prefer you to be on a hamster wheel proving yourself to them and in a chronic state of self abandonment so they can feel a sense of superiority keeping you in subordination… when deep down inside they are so threatened, jealous and envious of you. Just keep in mind that many are simply energetic vampires that end up draining you of your pure love, light and good intentions. This helps put it all in prospective.
JEALOUS and ENVIOUS has different connotations. JEALOUS means is you worry someone to take what you have.( esp. in relationship) ENVIOUS means wanting what someone else has.
They try and copy you too.When that happens they fail and look stupid in the process. Especially when their a old person trying to be you,it's inbalancing.
Envy is part of human nature, however the problem is when people is totally dominated by this feeling. Good people can feel jealously but always give a fair treat to others. Because they know the person they envy are no doing anything wrong to them. Don´t feel bad about feeling envy , feel bad about being unfair, disrespectul and hateful when others are not doing anything wrong to you. When you feel envy accept what are you feeling and work in yourself instead of attack others. Also If you can´t stand someone for no strong or real reason think carefully maybe you are envious. Be always honest with yourself sometimes you are the one with the problem. And if you are envied don´t ignore the disrespect this is a terrible political correct advice, always put boundaries. Otherwise people get to use to disrespect you.
My neighbour is exactly this, I’ve been on the receiving end of her behaviour it started with door slamming and stamping up and down the stairs especially late at night and early morning, lying gossip spreading turning others neighbours against us and then there’s the throwing rubbish in our gardens and putting smelly shoes on our shared wall, she has even turn’t her children against us for no reason, she really has a mental problem, her partner told me in conversation that she was quite bitter…… I now know that was a understatement
Damn I guess my female friends were right. This is just crazy to me. It’s very difficult for me to fathom why anyone would get jealous especially when they don’t know what someone goes through behind closed door. All they do is potentially make whatever issue is going on worse almost makes you question you would ever have friends of the same sex sex
It's crazy but I'm in a relationship where even though I'm in the house, not going anywhere but my girl always think I'm doing something but have no idea what but it's all in their mind even accusing that you're doing something but have no proof or anyone coming to accusing them but steady feel like you're doing something when the whole time they're the ones messing around, get out while you got a chance to and don't look back because they won't
I work with a woman who is always staring at me making me feel uncomfortable she never speaks to me she will sit instead of working just to stare at me and wont even turn away even if l look back at her. I know she is jeaslous of me she talks about ppl behind their back and her friends stare at me too.
I am severely hearing impaired. Rather than explain this to a high ranking person, she humiliated me and told them that I liked to yell at people. She also copied me when I bought things. She would go out and buy herself the very same thing. If she had to buy me a gift, she would buy herself an identical one.
Take it as a compliment, because they wouldn't be hating if you were ordinary/average. They run their mouth slandering you behind your back but never to your face. Total strangers have done this to me whom I never even knew the name of until they were trying to slander me(I was a basketball star in high school and played in college and I had a couple big jelly h8ters whom tried so hard to bring me down but I only smiled and thought they're making me more famous and have more fans because of their slander so thanks!) take it as a compliment, they wouldn't bother if you weren't hot stuff 😅
I know some people who are jealous of me and I have had friends who have been jealous of me in the past and I was friends with someone who was jealous of me for 3 years. He was evil, scheming and conniving little prick and he was also a hypocrite aswell
@6:15 they associate you with everything they dislike about themselves? Did you mean that cause you are opposite of everything they hate about themselves?
I understand the reason behind not reacting when they say bad comments to us, but that also tells them that they can get away with talking to us like that.
I lost more than one friend because the so called friend was and still is jealous of myself. I have above average looks. I’m wearing facialncream right now, taking care of my skin. I would rather have someone jealous of me than myself being jealous of someone else.
I'm. SO glad to be seeing this video! Thank you so much for understanding how I, and other people,sometimes feel about things. Hopefully it was as helpful to others as it was to me.
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I dealt with that too for many years. I loved my work but suffered daily dealing with these evil tactics from jealous people. I used to think it what a bummer it must be to be them. It wasn’t much fun to being on the receiving end either. Thank God I’m retired.
My former boss was so jealous of my happiness and my life that she made my work environment overwhelmingly toxic. I finally quit a job I loved bc i could no longer deal with her and her constant unwarranted criticism and meanness. After i quit i wrote her a letter thanking her for what she had done to me bc since quitting i was happier, healthier and very happily retired enjoying travel etc. Sometimes letting your hater know how wonderful your life is without them in it can be the best revenge.❤
They’re jealous because you are very pretty!!! But don’t let them women get to you! Don’t let them see you break. I can tell you this because I’m going through the same thing.
A jealous person wants something you have they don't want you you to have it. Talks behind your back and tells you we where just talking about you. They feel that they can not cunpeat with you they are insecure and misserable at what you have and want to be like you if you have a friend from a long time that has these traits say good bye end the friendship.
should i tell my sister I'm upset i feel like she choose unflattering photos of me to put in our moms scrapbook gift for her 70th birthday which was also passed around to everyone at her surprise party it was kind of humiliating i gave her a number of super good photos of myself and my daughter and she put at best a mediocre photo of me in there (my daughters photos were great) of my sections and one was just atrocious i looked horrible in it and it was at a super low point in my life too i felt humiliated .. i just felt alot of my section in the scrap was completely fumbled
It boils down to insecurity. You have something they want or need, OR something that they're struggling to achieve comes easily to you. Not your problem, but it BECOMES so, when they ACT on their anger...feeling as if you personally have stolen THEIR validation. 😡
I had to do this today. Cut off someone I considered my best friend for over seven years. More and more over the past few years, she'd passively aggressively throw out little biting digs, jabs and insults here and there that were meant to be hurtful. Last weekend, we were talking over some cocktails when she let it slip that she had been divulging some very private details to some of our mutual friends. I was beyond hurt that she was out there freely talking about these personal things behind my back after she lead me to believe that she could be trusted. After a few days of rigorous contemplation - I made the decision to text her, letting it all out. The reason I chose to do it over text is because I tend to get very flustered when having to have conversations of this magnitude in person - and I wanted to be perfectly clear but also firm. The last line of my text to her said, "It wasn’t easy coming to terms with the reality of who deserves to have a seat at my table - and who will never sit at it again, but it is what it is. Please know that I do wish you only the best."
Oh my gosh. I went out to eat with a old friend. If I bought or did something nice then everything she did was better. She's no longer my friend from decades.
My two older bro love to call and check on me but i ended up feeling down after i hung up the phn with them. Just a hint ..both don't have much or any friends.
So I still don’t know how they cover the character assassination. It took me 10 years to figure out I was married to a man who destroyed me. All of my friends that he knew about and my family are all gone. It turns out he hates women and he was jealous because I used to be a good and loving mother. Mother’s Day and his birthday are the same week. Of course we celebrated together; he acts like I am being humored because I really am insignificant
There’s this girl that’s sweet to everyone but gives me weird looks and clenches their fists when I’m around trying to make me look bad and expects me to give attention all the time. I’m the only person who she secretly is hostile with and I’m questioning if I did something wrong but I ain’t saying anything
Tried to work . BUT THEY ALL SHOWED UP AT EVERY JOB TO GET ME FIRED AND EVERY WHERE I GO LIKE.. HERE WHERE THEY TRACK PHONES AND DEVICES AND EVERY MOVE COMPTON CA
Ladies. If you are beautiful on the outside or inside or both, you will be absolutely hated by insecure women. Haters are your biggest fans. Now gentlemen, if you are fun, funny, outgoing and or handsome and jacked. You will be absolutely hated by insecure men. Haters are your biggest fans. You will be stared at with seething hatred for you being special and standing out. Now Ladies and gentlemen finally, if you have alot of jealous childish haters who seem to relish in there seething hatred towards you. You are absolutely on the right path and are set apart from normal everyday boring people. Why fit in when you were created to stand out? If you wanna get under a jealous persons skin, smile smile smile at there hate and don't let it effect you in the least. After all, there level of hate mirrors your success !!!!!!!!
I understand when people of more or less of the same age are jealous and envious of each other. But i will never understand when old pensioners are jealous of much more young people than them.
People who are jealous of you,, think about you in their sleep, and they also want your autograph! you’re a star to them a celebrity,, They also try to imitate everything you do.
😂😂😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯💯
That's interesting. My aunt acted like that.
Oooookay?
This is 100% correct! It's an obsessive behavior that's truly based in admiration but externally expressed negatively.
Why is that so creepy in a way?
When I detect jealousy in "friends" or connections I walk away and disconnect. They are very dangerous and I don't take that lightly..
Same here. Its very important to walk away promptly.
Yeah supposed friends get jealous or are smart azzes
As you should
I will start doing the same, but instantly they will act nice and become close again. The cycle repeats. What to do?
@@shamanthkishore811walk away and stay away. Their nice-ness is a bait to lure you back in. Don't fall for it
They try to one-up you. They work behind the scenes to turn people away from you out of ‘concern’. When they’re around, you seem to have constant bad luck. I’ve recently cleaned house and it’s so liberating!
Jealous people call you nasty names and then copy everything about you. The way you dress and decorate your house. If you buy it, they run out and buy the same exact item.
Or break in your house and steal.
Yessss- I had a friend who literally gave Single Black Female vibes. She copied EVERYTHING SHE STOLE MY WHOLE PERSONALITY...CRAZY PART SHE TALKED BEHIND BY BACK...FUNNY HOW SHE HATED ME BUT WANTED TO BE ME...MAKE IT MAKE SENSE
Omg! So true. And so annoying
Also One of the many other things they do that isn't talked about is hiding and stealing important documentation such as credit cards, birth certificates, photo I.D. etc and this is done to discourage you, make you angry and to close doors of opportunity in your life when you find a new job for example, they even steal or take your clothes and personal belongings to make you angry, and take great pleasure and get a 2 second dirty high when your down or when they feel like they've broken something in you because it gives them a false sense of power over you, friends can be jealous of you but the dissapointing thing is, is that its the people that you liver under the same roof with (Family Members) they literally hate you that much and are jealous of your happiness because your a mirror reflection of how much of a failure they are in their lives, If your living under the same roof with family members and you have no choice but to deal with them my advice would be to put padlocks on your wardrobes put all valuables and electrical devices stored in your wardrobes (purchase padlocks or chains if your wardrobe does not have a lock and keep all personal documents and clothing locked, every time you leave the house, Ignore them pay them no mind and don't feed your soul into their negativity, ignore them when they talk about you and male up rumours to other family members
@@KL-zg7lu hun thats what happend to me i had a flat i met a girlfriend she saw what i got. The next few weeks she got her boyfriend to break in...i was insured i heard her boyfriend had cancer and died..KARMA I DON'T CARE
You can see jealousy but never can negotiate with it Turn the tables and walk away from these types !
Very important lesson there
Amen. It truly hurts.
Harder when its your parents 😅and ur A minor
1) They are eagerly waiting for your failure in life.
2) They look for your mistakes everywhere.
3) They mostly do not attack directly, instead they spread rumors about you.
4) They cant stop thinking about you, still they ignore you as much as they can.
My classmate Nate looked for my mistakes everywhere. He would constantly make a big deal about every little mistake I made
My husband's nephew's girlfriend is like this.....she lied on me to other people & they believed her
Yes my own sister is like this
@@raghavans4281 My own sister is like this too. As is my mother. I’m so sorry; I truly feel for you. Please know that I care and believe in you ❤
@@judycrisenbery2982 my own older brother is like this. He guilt trips me as this so called bad kid when he's an adult man trying to hook up with minors. What does a kid's actions years ago have to do with you in the present? Due accused me of ruining his life. Bro if I wasn't born you'd till be the pathetic nobody you are today. These people are so smart at coming up with excuses and blame, if they put half of that energy into themselves they'd be somewhere in life.
2:33 poisoning your dreams
3:20 hidden hostility
4:00 deliberate sabotage
4:46 the humiliation game
5:35 obsessive fixation
6:34 the mediocrity effect
7:19 Digging for dirt
8:25 toxic double standards
9:22 reaction baiting
10:03 stealing your thunder
I knew someone line that a few years ago..
On # s 2, 3, 4;.the last 3 . how one s treated at the death of a loved one , by.all these # 2,3,4,,and the.last three , at a place nobody would ever
Expect to be so treated so .
I knew someone like that years ago. You know you're doing something right!
Wow. U really know this topic well😂
I used to have this boy in my class. Nate and I were classmates when I was in 12th grade and he would constantly pester me and do stuff to push my buttons. He always wanted a reaction out of me, and he wouldn’t leave me alone. Nate would ask me personal questions and he always was in my business. Every time I made a mistake or did something wrong, Nate would get mad and complain and act like it was the end of the world. He would often find flaws in me to complain and exaggerate about. He tried to push me to open up to him, probably cause he wanted to know personal things about me. It was not until I watched this video that I realized that Nate treated me this way because he’s jealous of me
F Nate
Hes a bully duh😅
I've got no time for jealous or boastful people anymore.
Good for you ❤
@NM-mc4rj yes. 41.
A jealous person is a dangerous person.
This is so true! I had a friend like this and I have stopped talking her. She was so fake.
I'm dealing with this now. The love is so fake, but the hate is so real 💯
@@HotBoiiKai I know the feeling and hope you break away from people like that.
are you female as well? can opposite sex or spouse can be jealous?
You got nothing to lose when you lose fake friends-Joan Jett
@@anonymousbird-4duhhhhhhh 😅
Thank goodness I have no friends. I cut them off when I became a parent. Not only were they jealous but they envied my baby too. I have no friends and it means loneliness and drama free and peaceful
Just wondering.. what made you believe them to be jealous of you? I have a cousin who I suspect of being jealous of me but not sure. She might just be very controlling. I'm trying to figure her out.
Excatly hun
How can you be lonely with a child?
@@quityerlying it's definitely possible. Kids can't relate to adults and vice versa in the same way. I have two kids but can't wait to see friends of my own age. A different kind of fun.
For real, more people need to have bravery and courage like you do. I hope find a good, true friend
Love yourself and get busy.
Amen
This kind of people can affect anyone deeply.
As human beings we may compare ourselves with others but we can transform jealousy in admiration and be happy for others and share their happiness.
But when you find this kind of people they will do anything to affect you and damage your life and happiness.
Better to stay away from this kind of people.
Hope all we find good people and healthy mindsets around of us.
EXACTLY...what you said on all counts. This has been I have been through. When I pick up the envy or jealousy vibe from someone...they are booted out of my life on all counts. Look at what envious and jealous people have done to my life and still are planning to have done to it. They are flat-out trying to destroy me.
another important one: they try to accuse u of jealousy/envy.
Agree! Even now that I look at this video i feel guilty thinking maybe I'm the problem 🤦♂️
This 💯💯💯the projection game is serious. You have to wonder if you're so preoccupied with me how do you have time for you??
I worked in an office once with a girl who was hostile and jealous. We had a FedEx delivery guy. He hadn’t made a delivery for about six months and when he did come in, he noticed that I had lost a lot of weight and mentioned it. The girl said, “Oh! She’s just lucky.” I can’t stand someone who is nasty and jealous but they have not put in the same effort as you.
Sadly, I'm around someone like this almost every day.
Omg same here.
@@HotBoiiKai it's sad. Self hate is real.
Escape. There are much good people out there.
Same tho but idgaf
Yup, same
Video starts at 2:30. Your welcome 😊
x2 speed for the people with ruined attention spans 🥲
Love this tip!
I HOPE your pillows are cold tonight.❤️
forgot about this. thx.
@@obxurityi like any pillow otherwise i have to put my head on hands or my arms or something soft.
This is why I have a hand full of friends and minimize time spent with anyone in family who possesses these toxic traits.❌🚩Speaking from a lot of experience through the years… The less people you let into your life… the less negativity, drama, sabotage, pointless and unnecessary anxiety one has to deal with. These types prefer you to be on a hamster wheel proving yourself to them and in a chronic state of self abandonment so they can feel a sense of superiority keeping you in subordination… when deep down inside they are so threatened, jealous and envious of you. Just keep in mind that many are simply energetic vampires that end up draining you of your pure love, light and good intentions. This helps put it all in prospective.
❤ nailed it
I've been jealous of people, and a lot of people, like my entire family and friend group growing up, was jealous of me growing up.
When i know someone is jelouse...I RUN
JEALOUS and ENVIOUS has different connotations.
JEALOUS means is you worry someone to take what you have.( esp. in relationship)
ENVIOUS means wanting what someone else has.
Jealousy people also want what someone else has as if it was theirs in the first place.
@@kalaln323Interesting theory You've got there.
And, I have some experience with that very phenomenon. Confusing as all Hell.
@@kalaln323 Exactly and they are both very similar so are often used interchangeably.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Yep
When they both combine, it becomes destructive.
They try and copy you too.When that happens they fail and look stupid in the process. Especially when their a old person trying to be you,it's inbalancing.
I've known lots of ppl like that ones you're talking about.
Thank you I've had my fair share of such people and I don't want them in my life
Envy is part of human nature, however the problem is when people is totally dominated by this feeling. Good people can feel jealously but always give a fair treat to others. Because they know the person they envy are no doing anything wrong to them. Don´t feel bad about feeling envy , feel bad about being unfair, disrespectul and hateful when others are not doing anything wrong to you. When you feel envy accept what are you feeling and work in yourself instead of attack others. Also If you can´t stand someone for no strong or real reason think carefully maybe you are envious. Be always honest with yourself sometimes you are the one with the problem. And if you are envied don´t ignore the disrespect this is a terrible political correct advice, always put boundaries. Otherwise people get to use to disrespect you.
My neighbour is exactly this, I’ve been on the receiving end of her behaviour it started with door slamming and stamping up and down the stairs especially late at night and early morning, lying gossip spreading turning others neighbours against us and then there’s the throwing rubbish in our gardens and putting smelly shoes on our shared wall, she has even turn’t her children against us for no reason, she really has a mental problem, her partner told me in conversation that she was quite bitter…… I now know that was a understatement
Damn I guess my female friends were right. This is just crazy to me. It’s very difficult for me to fathom why anyone would get jealous especially when they don’t know what someone goes through behind closed door. All they do is potentially make whatever issue is going on worse almost makes you question you would ever have friends of the same sex sex
That's the reason I distant myself 4rm alot of people,i can't take it anymore...
It's crazy but I'm in a relationship where even though I'm in the house, not going anywhere but my girl always think I'm doing something but have no idea what but it's all in their mind even accusing that you're doing something but have no proof or anyone coming to accusing them but steady feel like you're doing something when the whole time they're the ones messing around, get out while you got a chance to and don't look back because they won't
Pretty much describes most people I've ever worked with/for. I'm a happy single, never married , talented SOB lol
I work with a woman who is always staring at me making me feel uncomfortable she never speaks to me she will sit instead of working just to stare at me and wont even turn away even if l look back at her. I know she is jeaslous of me she talks about ppl behind their back and her friends stare at me too.
Tell her politely that it's making you uncomfortable.or buy her some chocolates.
That's a little concerning. I would report that/get more eyes to observe that behavior. That is unacceptable. That's can be considered intimidation.
I am severely hearing impaired. Rather than explain this to a high ranking person, she humiliated me and told them that I liked to yell at people. She also copied me when I bought things. She would go out and buy herself the very same thing. If she had to buy me a gift, she would buy herself an identical one.
A lot of times, people doesn’t know their jealous, they just know they don’t like you, and their not for you.
I'm happy I'm so important for someone to be jealous of me
Take it as a compliment, because they wouldn't be hating if you were ordinary/average. They run their mouth slandering you behind your back but never to your face. Total strangers have done this to me whom I never even knew the name of until they were trying to slander me(I was a basketball star in high school and played in college and I had a couple big jelly h8ters whom tried so hard to bring me down but I only smiled and thought they're making me more famous and have more fans because of their slander so thanks!) take it as a compliment, they wouldn't bother if you weren't hot stuff 😅
I cannot believe all what this people have been doing to me
I know some people who are jealous of me and I have had friends who have been jealous of me in the past and I was friends with someone who was jealous of me for 3 years. He was evil, scheming and conniving little prick and he was also a hypocrite aswell
@6:15 they associate you with everything they dislike about themselves? Did you mean that cause you are opposite of everything they hate about themselves?
Jealous friends and individuals who Envy basic poor average individuals like myself my Epiphany is that you don't give a damn about feeding their ego.
Thank you for this.
I understand the reason behind not reacting when they say bad comments to us, but that also tells them that they can get away with talking to us like that.
Greetings from Venezuela, South America.
I lost more than one friend because the so called friend was and still is jealous of myself. I have above average looks. I’m wearing facialncream right now, taking care of my skin. I would rather have someone jealous of me than myself being jealous of someone else.
Why are you jealous of your friend though?
@@thomasanderson468 I’m not, he’s jealous of me. Didn’t you understand what I typed.
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I'm. SO glad to be seeing this video! Thank you so much for understanding how I, and other people,sometimes feel about things. Hopefully it was as helpful to others as it was to me.
My colleague is extremely jealous on me,she always imitate me and try to grab my reputation,I just ignore her for peace of mind
This is SUPER accurate.
Thank you for really interesting video and useful content! 🙏🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟 Special thanks for voice acting! Your voice is absolutely pleasant 🥰 totally comfortable 😌 and super appetizing 🤤
Good luck! 🙋🌹
Totally spot on - that's my ex-boss! Well, but he had the upper hand so eventually I was forced to move on. 😌
We only live once. I dont get why we cant get along in peace.
Because Mental Illness is a epidemic.
1. People will also do this by encouraging you into doing nonsense.
Hello that is so right doing great so excellent doing so wonderful bless you 👏 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Why and Who?Jealousy creates distance and division!
"Jealousy is for the, weak" - Otto/ Kevin Kline in 'A Fish Called Wanda'
Great movie 😆
They criticise you a lot.
I'm daily suffering with jealous colleges. 😢
I dealt with that too for many years. I loved my work but suffered daily dealing with these evil tactics from jealous people. I used to think it what a bummer it must be to be them. It wasn’t much fun to being on the receiving end either. Thank God I’m retired.
Colleges?
You mean colleagues.
People who say things like, "Hello My Dear Friend."
I hope people are jealous of me..makes me feel like a royal lmao
Hello there, thank you very much for your advise about people, so I need to carefully other wise I will have a hard times
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My own adult sister is jealous of me. I've been nothing but good to her. I don't understand?
Every one is jealous of me, my presence causes people hatred and discontent because I am the light and they are darkness
LOL, describes a lot of my relatives.
My former boss was so jealous of my happiness and my life that she made my work environment overwhelmingly toxic. I finally quit a job I loved bc i could no longer deal with her and her constant unwarranted criticism and meanness. After i quit i wrote her a letter thanking her for what she had done to me bc since quitting i was happier, healthier and very happily retired enjoying travel etc. Sometimes letting your hater know how wonderful your life is without them in it can be the best revenge.❤
They looked like good freind
Dealt with this my whole life I only have a few TRUE friends !!
They’re jealous because you are very pretty!!! But don’t let them women get to you! Don’t let them see you break. I can tell you this because I’m going through the same thing.
@@faithwise4005 not very pretty but lol you Ain't either 😂
A jealous person wants something you have they don't want you you to have it. Talks behind your back and tells you we where just talking about you. They feel that they can not cunpeat with you they are insecure and misserable at what you have and want to be like you if you have a friend from a long time that has these traits say good bye end the friendship.
should i tell my sister I'm upset i feel like she choose unflattering photos of me to put in our moms scrapbook gift for her 70th birthday which was also passed around to everyone at her surprise party it was kind of humiliating i gave her a number of super good photos of myself and my daughter and she put at best a mediocre photo of me in there (my daughters photos were great) of my sections and one was just atrocious i looked horrible in it and it was at a super low point in my life too i felt humiliated .. i just felt alot of my section in the scrap was completely fumbled
Sounds a lot like a narcissist to me.
NPDs struggle the most with Envy/jealousy, control issues, and delusions of superiority.
It boils down to insecurity. You have something they want or need, OR something that they're struggling to achieve comes easily to you. Not your problem, but it BECOMES so, when they ACT on their anger...feeling as if you personally have stolen THEIR validation. 😡
TRUE ..Thank you
Im not a jealous person but people around me treat me that way lmao thats how youvknow whats fake n true
how do you leave a jealous person which you have known for so long? or atleast how to make them feel ashamed of themselves
I had to do this today. Cut off someone I considered my best friend for over seven years. More and more over the past few years, she'd passively aggressively throw out little biting digs, jabs and insults here and there that were meant to be hurtful. Last weekend, we were talking over some cocktails when she let it slip that she had been divulging some very private details to some of our mutual friends. I was beyond hurt that she was out there freely talking about these personal things behind my back after she lead me to believe that she could be trusted. After a few days of rigorous contemplation - I made the decision to text her, letting it all out. The reason I chose to do it over text is because I tend to get very flustered when having to have conversations of this magnitude in person - and I wanted to be perfectly clear but also firm.
The last line of my text to her said, "It wasn’t easy coming to terms with the reality of who deserves to have a seat at my table - and who will never sit at it again, but it is what it is. Please know that I do wish you only the best."
Ya i need to know that too
I've never felt jealousy or hatred for anyone in my life what does that mean?
Oh my gosh. I went out to eat with a old friend. If I bought or did something nice then everything she did was better. She's no longer my friend from decades.
My two older bro love to call and check on me but i ended up feeling down after i hung up the phn with them. Just a hint ..both don't have much or any friends.
Revelation 22
Please Ask them what you say your boss's feancee? We call them by first names( friendly)
Thanaro Bhabhi/ Honewali Bhabhiji./ Sister in law or sister.
scottie pippen needs to watch this
Thank you for the awesome class!
So I still don’t know how they cover the character assassination. It took me 10 years to figure out I was married to a man who destroyed me. All of my friends that he knew about and my family are all gone. It turns out he hates women and he was jealous because I used to be a good and loving mother. Mother’s Day and his birthday are the same week. Of course we celebrated together; he acts like I am being humored because I really am insignificant
lol I told people that I would have a warehouse and they stated “oh okay” not 4 years later they want benefits
Dude you are describing my parents.
Actual video starts at 2:34. Thank me later
Interesting video
There’s this girl that’s sweet to everyone but gives me weird looks and clenches their fists when I’m around trying to make me look bad and expects me to give attention all the time. I’m the only person who she secretly is hostile with and I’m questioning if I did something wrong but I ain’t saying anything
Thank you so much
Tried to work .
BUT THEY ALL SHOWED UP AT EVERY JOB TO GET ME FIRED AND EVERY WHERE I GO
LIKE..
HERE WHERE THEY TRACK PHONES AND DEVICES AND EVERY MOVE
COMPTON CA
Amazing..
It's confirmed.My step-sister is jealous of me.
Ladies. If you are beautiful on the outside or inside or both, you will be absolutely hated by insecure women. Haters are your biggest fans. Now gentlemen, if you are fun, funny, outgoing and or handsome and jacked. You will be absolutely hated by insecure men. Haters are your biggest fans. You will be stared at with seething hatred for you being special and standing out. Now Ladies and gentlemen finally, if you have alot of jealous childish haters who seem to relish in there seething hatred towards you. You are absolutely on the right path and are set apart from normal everyday boring people. Why fit in when you were created to stand out? If you wanna get under a jealous persons skin, smile smile smile at there hate and don't let it effect you in the least. After all, there level of hate mirrors your success !!!!!!!!
My brother in-law spend all family dinner being hostile towards my husband. Attack after attack. Y husband handle it like a boss. I was just quite🥴
Thank you❤
When known jellus people show up at your home you don't answer the door and say hi or hello you say YA WHAT THE HELL DO YOU WANT.
Haters Make Me Greater
This would make a great bumper sticker ❤
You have e a superpower!!! I am trying to be this way!😊😊
Don't get jealous my bb. trust me 🙏🏻
This is my aunt!! 100%
I work with a person that tried to reaction bait me over a seat at a table. It was weird. 😮
I understand when people of more or less of the same age are jealous and envious of each other. But i will never understand when old pensioners are jealous of much more young people than them.
Very good advice!‼️
They will give wrong advice knowing it will harm .