Legal Strategies To Deny Maintenance To Wife

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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
  • I talk about the two main strategies which can be used by husbands to deny paying maintenance to their wives.
    I also talk about some common misconceptions about maintenance law in India.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 808

  • @मयंकपठानियाँ
    @मयंकपठानियाँ 3 роки тому +730

    Husband is responsible to maintain wife
    Hmmm
    So feminists don't think this is sexist and patriarch?

    • @iconicrocket9547
      @iconicrocket9547 3 роки тому +231

      feminists just love to pick and choose the best combo of privilege

    • @alokdadb734
      @alokdadb734 3 роки тому +5

      feminism is sexism because feminism in the name is favor to females si yes feminism is sexism

    • @SiSi-ju1xk
      @SiSi-ju1xk 2 роки тому +40

      Only A wife who can't maintain herself because she worked at home for husband
      And maintenance applies to men also.. if wife is earning and not him..

    • @tisko7188
      @tisko7188 2 роки тому +86

      @@SiSi-ju1xk actually you are wrong. Even if the wife is working and earn less than husband husband is still bound to pay alimony.

    • @Cosplayinghuman
      @Cosplayinghuman 2 роки тому +31

      @@tisko7188 in recent Mumbai case, the guy was broke and the woman had to pay alimony to the guy

  • @subhadeepdutta2686
    @subhadeepdutta2686 3 роки тому +821

    After hearing all this my wish of marrying someone died..I thank god for keeping me single..Thanks to Amish for enlightening us.. Laws are so much against men..

    • @satyammalik6770
      @satyammalik6770 3 роки тому +63

      Yeah marital laws really screw us up big time. Really dread marrying an Indian now who's gonna know all these biased laws by heart.

    • @phoneicad1887
      @phoneicad1887 3 роки тому +53

      @@satyammalik6770 it's because you all support radical left who backs up radical feminism you people don't even raise the question

    • @satyammalik6770
      @satyammalik6770 3 роки тому +51

      @@phoneicad1887 I never support the left. I'm hardcore right. Be wise to not make assumptions about strangers online.

    • @phoneicad1887
      @phoneicad1887 3 роки тому +38

      @@satyammalik6770 dude I m frustrated that many dumb youngsters support radical left men too not realising these radical left backs up radical feminism and destroying our society culture everything.

    • @satyammalik6770
      @satyammalik6770 3 роки тому +7

      @pepe According to Common laws followed in a vast number of countries, Couple living together for a long period of time are treated as married. What the definition of long is depends on country to country. Moreover, it isn't exactly normal to find a girl and live with her 30-40 years without marrying her. 2 years into living in, and everyone is gonna pressure you to pop the question

  • @ananthumangalan8350
    @ananthumangalan8350 4 роки тому +723

    Only advocate in youtube who is aware about men ❤️

    • @chatur80
      @chatur80 3 роки тому +44

      not aware actually CONCERNED for Men's rights which is rare in current biased judicial setup

    • @krishna_o15
      @krishna_o15 3 роки тому +14

      all are aware its just that majority of the advocates earn by filing false cases and earn using the settlement money they get from cases like rape , 498a , divorce etc.

    • @shivajimaharaj5153
      @shivajimaharaj5153 3 роки тому

      @@krishna_o15 rape is non compoundable so settlement is very difficult 498a due to new judgements is possible

    • @krishna_o15
      @krishna_o15 3 роки тому

      @@shivajimaharaj5153 why not settle with money and then go for quashing under CrPC 482

    • @shivajimaharaj5153
      @shivajimaharaj5153 3 роки тому +1

      @@krishna_o15 look quashing is not possible on the basis of settlement u need medical evidences such as medical report, presence of sperms etc so if the medical report and all that is by your side you can easily quash the fir under 482 crpc then u don't have to give money to the woman. What happens in 99% cases is men and woman have sex after that woman files a complaint so it is taken as rape otherwise without sex filing a rape case would not be of much importance it can be easily quashed

  • @shubhmishra66
    @shubhmishra66 3 роки тому +60

    Not one women in the comments section commenting for men's rights ...but look at feminist videos... You will see thousands of male supporters...

    • @adityaprakash3555
      @adityaprakash3555 3 роки тому +27

      Those are eventually the present day simps and are the future alimony payers 😂😂

    • @alokdadb734
      @alokdadb734 3 роки тому

      chhakke hote hai aise mard

    • @dishwas_her1160
      @dishwas_her1160 2 роки тому +12

      @@adityaprakash3555 truu, not smart man in this day and age would even think of getting into this

    • @Bubblesjdj
      @Bubblesjdj 2 місяці тому

      That's why feminist have problem with patriarchy, we(feminist) have been shouting for years to abolish patriarchy, but men don't wanna.... So suffer now🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @escobarpablo1607
    @escobarpablo1607 3 роки тому +172

    Women - we are equal and need equal pay.
    Also woman
    We need maintenance.

    • @potatochips7023
      @potatochips7023 Рік тому +16

      Not all women, my aunt left her husband's house and never demanded anything. On the other hand, one of my maternal uncle's ex wife left in 2005 and he is paying her maintenance since then. Even when he did nothing wrong, she filed false cases against him. So the thing is it's not about women but about humans their morals. If I ever have to leave my husbands house I won't file any false case against him just like my aunt. But the matrimonial laws are absolutely biased against men. That I agree. And it's sooo sad that because of these false cases people don't believe the stories of women who actually suffered domestic violence. I hope the laws change for betterment of both men and women.

    • @indra7018
      @indra7018 Рік тому

      So it's best to kill the ex wife

    • @sagarpandey456
      @sagarpandey456 Рік тому +5

      ​@@potatochips7023where are girls like u😭😭😭 so envy to ur future husband😭😭

    • @rosegold2617
      @rosegold2617 Рік тому +1

      Not all women. There are women who have self respect and would not like to take unjust money from another person. As a women I really feel bad for men who go through cases like this. So for me, I have decided to work and earn my money. Incase things to don't go well in my marriage, I can move out and earn my bread and take of my child.

    • @84mayank
      @84mayank 11 місяців тому +11

      @@potatochips7023 there must be 1 in 1000 womens, who are not exploiting this biased low.. and you are projecting that 1 (in 1000 ) case

  • @Innocentabhi12
    @Innocentabhi12 3 роки тому +227

    Rules are biased in India . Where a man is guilty untill proven inncocent and vice versa for a women . Sad state of affairs

    • @kavishwarmokal124
      @kavishwarmokal124 3 роки тому

      Sorry state of affairs ... 😜😜

    • @kavishwarmokal124
      @kavishwarmokal124 3 роки тому +12

      @Rahul it's over chaplusee of feminism innocent men are suffering.
      There are 56 laws for supporting , protecting women but not a single for the men ... this is the mockery of the justice system of India.

    • @RB-vy6ei
      @RB-vy6ei 2 роки тому

      There is no guilty until proven innocent for men in India. Due to feminism, a man is Guilty!

    • @deepak74827
      @deepak74827 Рік тому +4

      And the main problem is that even the wife is proven guilty there is no punishment in these type of cases, all the judges are spineless and they all sucks

    • @AdityaKashyap-mg5cw
      @AdityaKashyap-mg5cw 2 місяці тому

      @@kavishwarmokal124 65 now

  • @allenrockstar2933
    @allenrockstar2933 4 роки тому +287

    This is 100 % responsibility with zero % authority for husbands. Authority over his life. welcome to indian gynocentric social order.

    • @pervert_kun
      @pervert_kun 3 роки тому +9

      Happens in foreign too

    • @vrutantshah7218
      @vrutantshah7218 3 роки тому +10

      @@pervert_kun But they have PRENUP there.

    • @karanparmar4754
      @karanparmar4754 3 роки тому +2

      Happens all over the world...

    • @somu87i
      @somu87i Рік тому +1

      Need to be stopped
      Women are educated and let them go job

    • @Alone1am
      @Alone1am Рік тому

      Women need to go fuk themself. But hey you pay maintenance to the wife as long as shes alive right? Okay got it. Its better to spend money and end the problem rather than pay money to keep a problem.

  • @captainjack_sparrow2391
    @captainjack_sparrow2391 3 роки тому +51

    i am not gonna marry. never ever. Thank you so much man for explaining things to us in so easy way.

  • @Yourmommy0212
    @Yourmommy0212 3 роки тому +116

    Moral of the story: Consult Amish before Marriage

  • @12345ngb
    @12345ngb 3 роки тому +236

    Hence in the developed nations, if you ask a guy "When are you getting married?" The married guy replies, "Are you nuts? Do you know what is the cost of divorce?"

    • @naturelover7979
      @naturelover7979 3 роки тому +33

      Laws favour women everywhere, unfortunately.

    • @hey_you1641
      @hey_you1641 3 роки тому +40

      Marriage is grand, but divorce is 100grand. Be careful

    • @oraclehub9600
      @oraclehub9600 3 роки тому +1

      No in foreign countries anyone can get money

    • @sonatestd2085
      @sonatestd2085 Рік тому +5

      ​@@oraclehub9600not really it's usually the wife.

    • @kd-1-9942
      @kd-1-9942 20 днів тому

      @@oraclehub9600Foreign countries are also same. British law countries are more biased against men. Specially US, UK, Canada and Australia. UK is the worst. You can find divorce videos of men living in these countries.

  • @samb23692
    @samb23692 3 роки тому +73

    We need a lot of reforms in the Indian laws which are so heavily designed against men. Relationship, flings, affairs, marriage are some of the biggest risk a man can take in India.

  • @nattyguy4792
    @nattyguy4792 4 роки тому +107

    My wife eloped with her paramour and not living matrimonial
    Admitted earning Rs 12000
    Left behind her kids.
    Hope no maintainence will be awarded to her

  • @mikejm039
    @mikejm039 3 роки тому +71

    I don't think I am gonna marry, after watching this, Nowdays already girl's are taking advantage of other guys, can't let this happen, better to be single and enjoy life and have a good time while roaming the world, Alone or with Some Friends. 🙏❤️

    • @mudit7808
      @mudit7808 3 роки тому +14

      Same brother.. i believe all of us men should just befriend each other and celebrate life yar.. why to make it too complicated with all this.. srsly yar

    • @sharanvenu007
      @sharanvenu007 2 роки тому

      Yeah I heard foreign girls are better ( not from west)

    • @kavalvig501
      @kavalvig501 Рік тому

      Sir.i am senior citizen w/o any income have no pŕoperties no bank balance i want to get seperated fron wife to live happy life she is denying divorce pl. Advise me

  • @SuvrathHegde
    @SuvrathHegde 3 роки тому +167

    In a nutshell, do not marry.

  • @ipman8469
    @ipman8469 3 роки тому +75

    I don't even have a girlfriend, yet this video appeared in my recommendations. 😂

    • @Adityatalks..W
      @Adityatalks..W 3 роки тому +17

      Bad news coming your way brother😂😂... Ladki ka chakkar bahut kharab hota hai babu bhaiya 😂😂

    • @samyakchhajed
      @samyakchhajed 2 роки тому +1

      Same but mere toh recommendation me bhi nahi aaya tha😂

    • @RedLoveShow
      @RedLoveShow 2 роки тому +2

      Better be safe than sorry.

    • @countryroadrider1669
      @countryroadrider1669 11 місяців тому +2

      😂you are lucky😂😂you know it before hand😂😂

    • @nayansarkar7179
      @nayansarkar7179 19 днів тому

      That means God is blessing you

  • @aravindbachu5502
    @aravindbachu5502 3 роки тому +59

    Majority of women leave their jobs after marriage for this very reason. They are already insured by marriage - one-third of your monthly income for life and half your assets, without any liablilites + child custody + child support will be granted to her any day. It's a sovereign guarantee - if this isn't the best financial scheme in the world, i don't know what else is.
    All the above can be availed, with just one day of "marriage" - and they still keep whining that women are oppressed, my foot.

    • @somu87i
      @somu87i Рік тому +9

      Men commission need to be formed and stop alimony to women

    • @aravindbachu5502
      @aravindbachu5502 Рік тому +7

      @@somu87i Most probably that will never happen in a democratic setup. When a freebie becomes a law in a democracy , over time the benefactors begin to treat it as their right and not a gift.
      No woman would be willing to let go of such benefits even at the cost of their self-respect. There are 4 billion women and all treat alimony as their right.
      Except for an autocracy or dictatorship, there's no way it might get revoked.

    • @somu87i
      @somu87i Рік тому +4

      @@aravindbachu5502 alimony should get stopped and let them go job in this educated world

    • @Aryan-cr5gr
      @Aryan-cr5gr Рік тому +5

      @@aravindbachu5502 we should at last get a dictatorship... Or change our religion... Maybe this was as last hindus were to be lived on this planet... We are punished to be a hindu men... God please help us... We need help

    • @Daredevil007-v7m
      @Daredevil007-v7m Рік тому +6

      Married men who are victims should spread awareness about this legal terrorism and extortion.if the future generation is not getting married and population is declining,then the govt will learn their lesson

  • @aseemsharma719
    @aseemsharma719 3 роки тому +67

    What if husband has evidence of leaving wife by her own wish, of course she will give reason by putting false allegation, so judge will wait for allegation to be proved or blindly allow maintenance?

    • @akshitgupta7425
      @akshitgupta7425 3 роки тому +11

      Interim maintenance will be awarded and the suit will go on. The only way to deny maintenance to wife is that she has deserted the husband or has been in an adulterous relationship outside the marriage. These are good reasons to prevent her from claiming maintenance under S125 CrPC. However, maintenance and alimony may still be claimed by the wife under the Hindu Marriage Act, 1956 or under HAMA or under the DV Act.The desertion has to be proved by the husband and it should be i think for a minimum period of 2 years immediately preceding the presentation of petition/ application by the wife.

  • @SD-ef4qp
    @SD-ef4qp 3 роки тому +104

    Thanks sir. Im fighting a maintenance case right now. This really helps. I was under lot of mental stress and went into depression. Some how managed to get out of it. For all men reading this please please sign a prenup before getting married. No matter how much you are in love.🙏

    • @main_stream_media_is_a_joke
      @main_stream_media_is_a_joke 3 роки тому +10

      Does the prenup hold any value in court?

    • @main_stream_media_is_a_joke
      @main_stream_media_is_a_joke 3 роки тому +10

      @@SD-ef4qp I am now divorced and thankfully everything went smooth, but I was curious about the current status on prenups.

    • @SD-ef4qp
      @SD-ef4qp 3 роки тому +14

      @@main_stream_media_is_a_joke - Good that everything went smoothly. 👍
      Prenups don't hold in Indian court but we can always sign on the dowry, Jewelry, List of items given to wife etc. This will help in case wife files false allegations during disputes. Going through the pain now myself. In case you are thinking of getting married again please do this. Amish sir has uploaded another video on this. check it out

    • @main_stream_media_is_a_joke
      @main_stream_media_is_a_joke 3 роки тому +23

      @@SD-ef4qp One marriage was enough to convince me that it's not for me.
      Too many compromises and walking on eggshells ALL THE TIME......no sir.
      The red pill videos knocked a lot of sense into me after my divorce and I see marriage for what it is now.
      Hope your pain is short lived and you get to the other side fast.

    • @SD-ef4qp
      @SD-ef4qp 3 роки тому +3

      @@main_stream_media_is_a_joke - Thanks sir.
      All the best for your future. Stay safe 👍

  • @YoYo-db2ge
    @YoYo-db2ge 3 роки тому +48

    So, if the woman is committing adultery then what to do?
    Secondly, there is a trend where the girl marries but then wants divorce after 2-3 months of marriage(honeymoon effect wears off), they threaten or go away while making demands.Even after asking for many days, if she wants to marry or not during the courting period , because nobody wants to go out there, suffer in courts just because someones else did not tell them that they did not want to.

  • @syedhisham2594
    @syedhisham2594 2 роки тому +31

    moral of the lesson.... always pick a wife who earns more than you..... so you can claim the maintenance.... 😂

    • @yaswantjaiswal9925
      @yaswantjaiswal9925 Рік тому +11

      Mens don't get maintenance even if you become house husband

    • @rnilu86
      @rnilu86 Рік тому +12

      But the problem is that woman will not marry me. Se will marry someone who is earning way more than her. :(

    • @Dee14444
      @Dee14444 11 місяців тому +1

      The lazy man has arrived 😅

    • @uvw7450
      @uvw7450 9 місяців тому +1

      people like you are the problem @@Dee14444 if a man picks a wife earning more than him, you call him lazy but wouldn't do the same for the woman

    • @ayanpandeydpsn-std9005
      @ayanpandeydpsn-std9005 18 днів тому

      ​@@yaswantjaiswal9925 Lol you can actually get.

  • @nishantpaul7796
    @nishantpaul7796 3 роки тому +44

    Sir what will happen if the wife was doing job before the problem started, but as soon as the case starts the wife deliberately leaves her job and plays victim card just to claim maintenance. What to do in that case?

    • @advocatesharma5670
      @advocatesharma5670 3 роки тому +29

      You can submit same before the court and show her malafide intentions

    • @kavishwarmokal124
      @kavishwarmokal124 3 роки тому +36

      If anyone having such s wife then she will be definitely going to torture husband throughout the life, so rather than facing harassment kill the wife and go to jail .. at least your mental health will not get affected; some time later you might get out of jail on bail or due to reduced imprisonment on good behaviour.

    • @advocatesharma5670
      @advocatesharma5670 3 роки тому +12

      @@kavishwarmokal124 this is the perfect example why education is necessary

    • @MrVicky765
      @MrVicky765 3 роки тому +8

      @@kavishwarmokal124 Who hurt you bro?

    • @shauru771
      @shauru771 3 роки тому +3

      @@kavishwarmokal124 are you nuts.

  • @SiddharthMandhata
    @SiddharthMandhata 3 роки тому +20

    I just love the way you think and present your point... such clarity and absence of bias. You have my utmost respect and appreciation. We need more people like you in the society.

  • @saurabharora8962
    @saurabharora8962 4 роки тому +35

    Sir the point you mentioned “wife can get maintenance if she is not able to maintain herself” what if she is well educated and able to maintain herself however not doing the job intentionally or left the job intentionally to get the maintenance. Does courts look into these scenarios and denied maintenance to wife.

    • @AmishLegal
      @AmishLegal  4 роки тому +22

      Yes. But if there are young children then court often opines that she cannot earn right now since she has to also take care of the children

    • @thecontrarycontrarian4230
      @thecontrarycontrarian4230 3 роки тому +20

      Horrible laws that are meant to harass men to death

    • @kavishwarmokal124
      @kavishwarmokal124 3 роки тому +12

      @@thecontrarycontrarian4230 yes , absolutely!
      I get shock while thinking who the hell stupid drafted the laws which have descreminatory nature against the one (male) spacies, giving undue favour to the other (female) spacies of the nature.

    • @nupursharma6869
      @nupursharma6869 3 роки тому +4

      @@AmishLegal sir my wife divirce me and i am not earning will she offer me maintenance if she is rich or has any job.
      Please answer sir

    • @hiteshadhikari
      @hiteshadhikari 3 роки тому

      @@nupursharma6869 bhai teri aur ni le legi wohi badi baat h, i dont think any woman in Indian history has paid maintenance

  • @heyjitendra
    @heyjitendra 2 роки тому +10

    A woman become the world richest woman.
    How? By hardworking?
    nah Divorce

  • @zedd9885
    @zedd9885 2 роки тому +10

    I have proof that my wife left of her own accord in the form of messages from her and her family members etc. She is Medical doctor and voluntarily quit her job to claim maintenance. The case in court and I'm paying interim maitainence even though I lost my job in Covid.

    • @smulestar
      @smulestar Рік тому +2

      Bro I hope you got justice

  • @pm30949
    @pm30949 Рік тому +7

    He is absolutely right. I found my wife having illict conversations with someone, had a stroke becise of the trauma, went for intense medical tratement. Yet had to do an out of court settelment by paying 30L. She had ahigher net worth than mine. All lawyers told me that thr courts just dont listen to a man's argument and woudnt have cared much had i lost my life becuse of the stroke. The women should be taken care of no matter what she was upto.

    • @ABHINAV6562752
      @ABHINAV6562752 Рік тому +1

      Main shaadi karu ya nahi ... sabse bada sawaal... ek hi option akela rehta hun sanyasi ban jaunga last mein

    • @pm30949
      @pm30949 Рік тому +2

      Brother, this is one side of marriage, not everyone goes through such ordeal. There is a good side to marriage also, companionship, someone to share your feeling etc. There is nothing like a perfect marriage and it will require a significant investment from your side. Enter into a relationship only if you are sure, don't just jump into it.

    • @satvikmishra7045
      @satvikmishra7045 10 місяців тому +2

      hey man, feel for you really. indian law is so fucked up.

  • @vivekagrawal4232
    @vivekagrawal4232 7 місяців тому +8

    I paid 0 maintenance, got her arrested...all of this after she filed dowry, maintenance and other criminal cases on me & my family members.
    Divorce complete, maintenance case withdrawn, dowry case over 2 days ago 😊 and yes i also got visitation rights without any maintenance burden for my child too.

    • @O-G-zd4gb
      @O-G-zd4gb 7 місяців тому

      Please provide your lawyer's contact🙏🙏

    • @vivekagrawal4232
      @vivekagrawal4232 7 місяців тому +1

      I engaged different lawyers at different times.

    • @ghoshprannoy
      @ghoshprannoy 3 місяці тому

      Please guide how you got her arrested for false cases 😢

    • @vivekagrawal4232
      @vivekagrawal4232 2 місяці тому

      I filed criminal cases on her. She got arrested because she tried to avoid summons and then court warrants. I used RTi and other tools to help the police to not engage in unethical practices / casual approach.

    • @vivekagrawal4232
      @vivekagrawal4232 2 місяці тому

      A wife can file cases without the need of evidence. We need to convince the court by showing some evidence. We are at disadvantage but still we should try.

  • @AJ_ROB
    @AJ_ROB 3 роки тому +27

    So
    1.Wife is entitled to her rich fathers property and money and also husbands property, but no liabilities.
    2.Even if man is a pauper still should sell his kidney and other organs to maintain wife
    3. Even if she falsely accuses husband of cruelty with no proof, then the aggrieved husband needs to fight all his life just to prove his innocence and be held at ran some by wife /inlaws and lawyers
    Wow hail our Judicial system.,,😁

    • @oraclehub9600
      @oraclehub9600 3 роки тому

      No husband income is taken into consideration wifes assets are also taken into consideration

  • @anupampraj4935
    @anupampraj4935 3 роки тому +13

    Finally!! Someone addressed how shady the GB Nagar Court Complex is. :P

  • @anubhavguha6588
    @anubhavguha6588 3 роки тому +17

    Pehle toh education policy ma piche the ab pta chala law ma bhi bht piche h . I never knew there is such huge number of cases of false accusations and fake dowries. All this 😂 just makes me think is like keep generating evidence who knows what might help in future

    • @universeofopulence
      @universeofopulence 3 роки тому +1

      ... only thing that'll help you in the future is 'not getting married, at all.

  • @jaiho5914
    @jaiho5914 3 роки тому +15

    Sir,
    You are making us aware of the things which are very crucial even in day to day life. I have often heard my grandparents say that "Even the enemy should not have to face Hospital or Court".
    These two areas are where people are most vulnerable and they either don't get what they seek or get looted.
    Kudos to your efforts and thanks for sparing and investing your important time to make us aware of legal issues. 🙏

  • @TechEngine
    @TechEngine 3 роки тому +17

    alimony is like reverse dowry

  • @kushagragupta5910
    @kushagragupta5910 3 роки тому +14

    I have personally heard of so many cases where wife asked for lakhs of rupees in the lieu of not filing a criminal case u/s 498a ipc even though there was no matrimonial cruelty

  • @ABHUGGG
    @ABHUGGG 3 роки тому +14

    make him the president of 'पीड़ित पुरुष समाज एवम न्याय विभाग '

  • @Vrs1809
    @Vrs1809 Рік тому +7

    After hearing such facts in multiple videos of Amish sir & other respected lawyers, the marriage for a man who is Indian citizen, feels like signing your own possible death warrant along with monthly amount of maintenance which ultimately is just another form of extortion but in a legal way.

  • @tinkuroopa2754
    @tinkuroopa2754 Рік тому +5

    This is the reason why many men choose sharia law

  • @Leonimat23
    @Leonimat23 8 місяців тому +4

    Women get cash and prizes for ending the marriage rather than maintaining it and we wonder about the upsurge of divorces

  • @SharkFishSF
    @SharkFishSF 3 роки тому +20

    That's why MGTOW.

  • @priyankakarwar
    @priyankakarwar 3 роки тому +7

    The bad state of India laws for males. Thank you for your suggestions.

  • @shauru771
    @shauru771 3 роки тому +8

    It's one of the greatest service that you are doing with this platform and your knowledge. Thank you

  • @Amor_fati.Memento_Mori
    @Amor_fati.Memento_Mori 3 роки тому +11

    The fact that upon marriage, The care taking of a lady is transferred from Father to Husband is in itself horrendously stupid. A Women is not a Financial Asset that is to be placed upon A Man and he is not a Bank that looks after said asset for certain interest. What kind of a fucking relationship does this country have, I don't know.

    • @DataAnalyticsPro21
      @DataAnalyticsPro21 3 роки тому +3

      It's not just India but any western country too.

    • @Amor_fati.Memento_Mori
      @Amor_fati.Memento_Mori 3 роки тому

      @Rahul
      🤦 I never said anyone calls her a financial asset. I was clearly making a analogy of how the culture treats women (and men). I don't know why that was difficult for you to understand. If you had taken the time to actually study the horrendous effects of such practices than you wouldn't be worried about what names are being used, but rather the very actions of it, and the fact that you think this is a matter mere choice shows that you're ignorant and also that you're part of the problem.

    • @jamesmathew9501
      @jamesmathew9501 3 роки тому +2

      Men are treated like an ATM by women, lol.

    • @adityaprakash3555
      @adityaprakash3555 3 роки тому +5

      @Rahul well women are not obligate by the law to fulfill her gender role of taking care but men are forced to do so

    • @oraclehub9600
      @oraclehub9600 3 роки тому +2

      @@adityaprakash3555 no both are important if wife denies to take care of the house husband can file cruepty

  • @debasishmajumder745
    @debasishmajumder745 3 роки тому +13

    i don't think any woman would marry a lawyer now...

    • @kavishwarmokal124
      @kavishwarmokal124 3 роки тому +14

      It's your misconception, even lawyers, doctors, top level law enforcement officers (police dept.) are been dragged to their feet by these women fraternity by using these baised laws which favouring women.

    • @laughingbuddha9636
      @laughingbuddha9636 2 роки тому

      @@kavishwarmokal124 yes but matrimonial laws are worst in other cases u don't have to pay maintenance in matrimonial disputes u have to pay maintenance

  • @RajKishore-pc6gf
    @RajKishore-pc6gf 3 роки тому +16

    Mens life is easy saying girls 😄

  • @maheshchourasia4976
    @maheshchourasia4976 4 роки тому +4

    You are really a charismatic speaker exprssing your views very clearly entering into our heart's by your way of expressing your thoughts which you have made having put a lot of work while appearing many courts till the highest court of our land. Again thankful for guiding us by creating such useful vedio on maintenance matter. I am Mahesh Chourasia From Jabalpur Madhya Pradesh.

  • @shahryar1673
    @shahryar1673 4 роки тому +99

    Very redpill channel. Amazing

    • @manzarimam2615
      @manzarimam2615 3 роки тому +16

      So few people in India know about redpill

    • @salmanbehen4384
      @salmanbehen4384 3 роки тому +8

      @@manzarimam2615 Not true bro, a lot of people have seen matrix.

    • @manzarimam2615
      @manzarimam2615 3 роки тому +6

      @@sagar_m yes, but we don't have Indians posting on r/asktrp

    • @manzarimam2615
      @manzarimam2615 3 роки тому +2

      @@sagar_m r/trp has been put down

    • @manzarimam2615
      @manzarimam2615 3 роки тому

      @@sagar_m haha

  • @jituburman1527
    @jituburman1527 4 роки тому +7

    It seems, the courts are now not sticking to such marraige burden, especially for a failed marriage, to be borne by husband only for ever.. Courts are giving direction for maintenance for certain period of time , say one year, and asking the women to get into the earning sectors as per own capability , qualification...

  • @billyboiiss9192
    @billyboiiss9192 3 роки тому +12

    One who understands men ❤️

  • @ritiksahu5310
    @ritiksahu5310 3 роки тому +5

    now who disagree with this statement
    ' law on Marital rape will destabilise the institution of marriage
    note marital rape is a valid concern
    but the architecture of the Indian law-making process is sick

    • @jeyaramg2142
      @jeyaramg2142 2 роки тому +3

      Liable for misuse. May be couples, should have a legal paper signed before every time they indulge in sex ? Impractical

    • @ritiksahu5310
      @ritiksahu5310 2 роки тому

      @@jeyaramg2142 the direction where world is going.
      Yes:(

  • @gulshansharma2670
    @gulshansharma2670 3 роки тому +4

    😁 Starting of the video is very true and I feel the same every day as I m practicing in the same court..✌

  • @manjuchikteabhyasjatra2468
    @manjuchikteabhyasjatra2468 2 роки тому +4

    Sir you give a genuine information and in very simple way, it is very useful, law students like me, it will be definitely helpful in our career, your honest way of delivering knowledge will help many law practitioners, students, thank you

  • @NitinKatiyarCircle
    @NitinKatiyarCircle 3 роки тому +4

    Then they say give equal rights to women.
    If you are legally making wife dependent on husband and breaking all the ties with her father, then how equal children concept can be applied to girl and boy child?
    And if you are making gird dependent on husband then he has rights to take her life's decisions as well. You are taking her freedom by law.

  • @yausgdyuasgdyuagsdgu
    @yausgdyuasgdyuagsdgu 4 роки тому +8

    Yet another brilliant video by sir.👌👌

  • @Bigdaddy-bd5qd
    @Bigdaddy-bd5qd Рік тому +3

    I am a married guy.. watching this video after being threatened by wife.. i wish i could hv seen this before

    • @madtrainfan
      @madtrainfan 2 місяці тому

      Keep a microphone under your shirt record all the conversations.

  • @RaMeShBaBu-gf1wc
    @RaMeShBaBu-gf1wc 3 роки тому +5

    Bro instead of going to court, first wife will put case 498a and 18-24section domestic violence. Before that husband should know wife behaviour then he can kill her and surrendered to court. So court will give 7 years jail punishment. So finally what I am telling husband should aware of wife behaviour then do this. So there is no maintanance there is permanent alimony and should not go court if wife put case 498a domestic violence if she will put case then again case will be close atleast 4-6 years. Instead of that if you do this 7 years can come out from jail. There is no mental pressure physical pressure also.

    • @universeofopulence
      @universeofopulence 3 роки тому

      ...r you sure about 7yrs?

    • @RaMeShBaBu-gf1wc
      @RaMeShBaBu-gf1wc 3 роки тому

      @@universeofopulence how many years you expecting?

    • @universeofopulence
      @universeofopulence 3 роки тому +1

      @@RaMeShBaBu-gf1wc .... I'm not expecting any personally ...but there are many cases where the killer, murderer has be given 20yrs or even life term depending on what the prosecutor demands in addition to being labelled and their family being dishorned and ostracized..

    • @RaMeShBaBu-gf1wc
      @RaMeShBaBu-gf1wc 3 роки тому +1

      @@universeofopulence Maximum 14 years but after 14 years if there is no any relatives that person then will get problem. This is family issue will not take more than 10 years. We can show she is trying to kill me that's why I killed like that

    • @universeofopulence
      @universeofopulence 3 роки тому

      @@RaMeShBaBu-gf1wc ... hahahaha...ur far gone... yea, looks like u've chosen ur path ... I'll rather go abroad... best advice for youths- don't get married..

  • @drakshatgupta
    @drakshatgupta 3 роки тому +6

    If the wife is a highly qualified professional and was working prior to marriage and now wants to sit at home. Can this be used as well to reduce/deny maintenance.
    - martyr of marriage

  • @Nandu6321
    @Nandu6321 2 роки тому +3

    My wife is earning 77k in hand and asking for maintenance! I have a video evidence that she left the house with no reason ! Actually she has a bf of whom her parents didn’t accept cuz he was of diff caste ! But does court listen to me at all ? All I got is dates till now and she isn’t attending regularly !
    I lost hopes on Indian judiciary!

    • @theredstar6493
      @theredstar6493 Рік тому +1

      Any change in your situation man?
      Have you spent any amount till now in interim or other bs?

    • @Nandu6321
      @Nandu6321 Рік тому

      @@theredstar6493 - found out where she is working , there is a way where u can find out where they work! If you have their phone number & Aadhar or PAN Card , you can check with every reputed banks (if you have a banker he will help u with his other bankers data) . She was earning 1 lakh , but still my days were prolonging . Her lawyer was begging for a settlement , I gave 3lakhs cash and closed the shit all together. If court was in my city I would of fought but I have to travel from hyd to bnglor. So gave her the money moved on in life .

  • @prashanthb6521
    @prashanthb6521 3 роки тому +4

    You are doing a great service to men Amish, thanks a lot.

  • @mallarapudamodar9884
    @mallarapudamodar9884 2 роки тому +3

    Always god bless you sir your hard working for better future, our advocate community , heart fully thanking you sir

  • @yaswantjaiswal9925
    @yaswantjaiswal9925 Рік тому +2

    Moral of the story before marriage or adultery first go to the good lawyer to make strategy ,how to tackle future situation

  • @advocatevidushijain1806
    @advocatevidushijain1806 4 роки тому +15

    And what about giving ten thousand rupees to the wife, who is very well earning, in case the husband initiates divorce proceedings in terms of Kusum Sharma v Mahendra Kumar DHC judgment passed by hmj JR Midha.. is he liable to pay?

    • @AmishLegal
      @AmishLegal  4 роки тому +8

      Must pay unless you get it set aside

    • @kavishwarmokal124
      @kavishwarmokal124 3 роки тому +1

      This is the mockery of the justice system & judiciary which fail to apply thoughtful mind before delivering the verdict.

    • @akshitgupta7425
      @akshitgupta7425 3 роки тому +1

      To pay or not to pay depends largely on the facts and circumstances of each case.

  • @shrey628
    @shrey628 2 роки тому +6

    Being born as a man in this age & day is nothing short of curse

  • @masteryoda9044
    @masteryoda9044 3 роки тому +3

    Dowry is illegal but Alimony is illegal.

  • @thehindustanigamer2573
    @thehindustanigamer2573 4 роки тому +15

    wtf is wrong with our justice system??

  • @Apocalypse9696
    @Apocalypse9696 3 роки тому +8

    ok bois, remember that if you are looking to divorce your wife, or if the marriage is going bad, just find a playboy or a handsome stud and pay him to seduce your wide and then record her in the act. you are going to save a lot of money in the future. If they can play dirty, we can too.
    lets get 'em bois.

    • @universeofopulence
      @universeofopulence 3 роки тому +2

      ... what if she doesn't gets seduced

    • @Apocalypse9696
      @Apocalypse9696 3 роки тому +2

      @@universeofopulence we can always play even dirtier. There is always option 2. Send her on a one way trip. But only use this option if you really hate your wife and she is making your and your parents wife miserable. And there is a strong possibility that she is going to make cases against you

    • @universeofopulence
      @universeofopulence 3 роки тому

      @@Apocalypse9696 ... hahahaha...so ur willing to pay huge amounts of money to get rid of her ..😂😀

    • @hunnybunny8179
      @hunnybunny8179 Рік тому +2

      @@universeofopulence yeah...as far as the money does'nt goes in her pocket

  • @chilpeeps
    @chilpeeps 8 місяців тому +3

    Simple think don’t be a Yudhisthira and play a game that is already rigged

  • @BhaveshSinghBhanucsgo
    @BhaveshSinghBhanucsgo 3 роки тому +6

    Is there any contact marriage ? Like we will mention all these points on a kinda legal paper

    • @pritamsarkar8947
      @pritamsarkar8947 3 роки тому +9

      You are looking for prenuptial agreement aka "prenup".

    • @kavishwarmokal124
      @kavishwarmokal124 3 роки тому +2

      @@pritamsarkar8947 yes you are right! ... but these so called prenuptial agreement doesn't have any legal stands when cases of divorce go to court ... reason is Hindu marriage act don't have any such provisional clause in any sections.

    • @akshitgupta7425
      @akshitgupta7425 3 роки тому

      They are legal only in the State of Goa

    • @jamesmathew9501
      @jamesmathew9501 3 роки тому

      @@kavishwarmokal124 Pre nup is only valid in western countries.

    • @kavishwarmokal124
      @kavishwarmokal124 3 роки тому

      @@akshitgupta7425 that might be for the Roman catholic community there in Goa ... I think so 🤞🤞

  • @harrymaguireparker
    @harrymaguireparker Рік тому +3

    I'm just 18 year old, still the fear was enough to click on the video

  • @siddhartharay1835
    @siddhartharay1835 Рік тому +1

    Entire strategy have to be planned before marraige, that is all...treat marraige is contract....consult good lawyer...plan and retain proofs ( strategies) all cannot discussed here....just ask 1 question before marraige, how do I save myself in case wifes labels allegations of cruelty against me? Dont be carried away by lovey dovey...its all part of the game called Your Life

  • @KULDEEPSINGH-wd9yp
    @KULDEEPSINGH-wd9yp 3 роки тому +4

    💅 beauty of indian women westerners are unaware about

  • @dorothydorothy5046
    @dorothydorothy5046 Місяць тому

    Sir, Am a widower dude now having undergone court kacheri before. Wiser, older and single, now seek new beginnings very cautiously. My humble salutations to your sincere efforts in educating people.
    Feminist men and not women are largely the culprits for wrecking marriages. With their motive to earn cash or favours they lead women emotionally astray. Afar to a legal point of no return destroying families.
    Most women are emotionally driven and family attached except extreme cases. Given a choice before commencing legalities, they will mostly choose to sort through private family counselling. Mine was an extreme case but have observed aforesaid emotions in most women.
    Need of the hour is to make aware the women in these feminist men's lives of their double standard hypocrisy. Give them a dose of their own concoctions. Karma will take care of rest. Thank you once more 🙏

  • @Mr_Tesla_
    @Mr_Tesla_ Рік тому +2

    It’s a curse taking birth as a male in this country

  • @ctaproductions2272
    @ctaproductions2272 Рік тому +1

    Hi Sir, what happens if wife is staying with her parents and has left husband's home without reasonable justification, no divorce proceedings are started and applies for maintenance? Please advise

  • @drsteviejasengnsangma8739
    @drsteviejasengnsangma8739 2 роки тому +11

    Priceless advice to husbands
    but wife can hear it too and work out the strategy against it. Bottom line benefit for both husbands & wives😊

  • @biswalashis123
    @biswalashis123 Рік тому +3

    What about if she holds a B.TECH/MBA/MBBS degree and doesn't want to work and husband is working.

  • @jitendersingh6041
    @jitendersingh6041 3 роки тому

    Bhai sachi kisi ne toh km se km ladko ki bat krna chalu kiya... Ye fake feminism ne band baja rakhi h.. Truly praiseworthy. 🙏🙏

  • @rawhit007
    @rawhit007 Рік тому +1

    Wife leaving husband’s house. Husband wants her to come back. Wife does not want to come back but still husband has to pay someone money who totally disrespects him and his family. Strange laws.

  • @2007alakesh
    @2007alakesh Рік тому +1

    I asked a qutions to the counsellor of Family court is that why thete are no such laws to protect mans like womans laws....his reply was "you should try for election to became a member of the parliament and than you can raise this questions to the parliaments

  • @mangalsain12
    @mangalsain12 10 місяців тому +1

    How good is our legal system: The responsibility of the father is finished once the daughter is married but when getting a divorce even after the divorce its the husband's responsibility for her maintenance.. my indian law... someone should make all these laws video and play in our assembly...

  • @supersaiyangoku1495
    @supersaiyangoku1495 Рік тому +3

    Moral of the story don't get married

  • @24381498
    @24381498 Рік тому +2

    How these laws made so biased against men?

  • @waynedecunha
    @waynedecunha 3 роки тому

    Brave of u to say this. Considering the possible backlash of women u know personally

  • @unknown0x0x
    @unknown0x0x 9 місяців тому +2

    Whether it is husband's fault or wife's fault, in both cases the husband always screwed up

  • @kd-1-9942
    @kd-1-9942 Рік тому +1

    This changed now. Cannot avoid even if wife commits adultery.
    This video is 2 years old.
    Can only avoid if wife has a boyfriend from long and so boyfriend has to take care of her instead of husband.

    • @Yourmamaspapa
      @Yourmamaspapa Рік тому +2

      India desperately needs gender neutral laws

    • @kd-1-9942
      @kd-1-9942 Рік тому

      @@Yourmamaspapa I think same for guy too if guy is poor and wife needs to pay alimony. But you know rare case when wife earns more 😂.

  • @Hindustan-sb7ls
    @Hindustan-sb7ls 7 місяців тому +1

    Why there is no pre-nup's in India ? It will be a better solution

  • @itsmeagain0
    @itsmeagain0 2 роки тому +2

    Sir recently I read a judgement that occasional adultery is not a ground to deny maintenance. Any comment?

  • @rohitchowdhury4146
    @rohitchowdhury4146 11 місяців тому +1

    This man is doing a great job❤

  • @ZeeshanKhan-bo3eo
    @ZeeshanKhan-bo3eo 4 роки тому +6

    Sir the way you speak, I mean your speaking skill you explaning skill is just greate, Can you teach us on a video about speaking skill and also is it necessary to be a good speaker for being a good lawyer?
    Sir pls is topic pe ek video bana do plss sir🙏🙏🙏

  • @martianzz
    @martianzz 11 місяців тому +2

    How to prove adultery of husband make a video on that too

  • @rajeshdora582
    @rajeshdora582 3 роки тому +3

    Why should men pay their hard earned money to these wives ?

  • @maxpayne8741
    @maxpayne8741 Рік тому

    You are delivering justice better than (puppet) judges.

  • @amitkumarsharma9792
    @amitkumarsharma9792 4 роки тому +4

    Wife wants to elope with her paramour (someone she knew before her marriage with her current husband). She deserted her husband on her own will. Her husband is on post-operative heart medication for lifetime since childhood. The ongoing false & frivolous matrimonial litigation initiated by estranged wife has caused mental, emotional and physical agony and pain to husband and caused his health to deteriorate more which has rendered husband jobless or unable to maintain his job. Furthermore the ongoing global pandemic has caused businesses and other jobs to shutdown or downsize. So, in this scenario how's husband expected to pay maintenance to such a wife?

  • @surajthakur401
    @surajthakur401 20 днів тому

    Bhai you look like a tv series doctor
    Love you bro

  • @cinemakirukkan6622
    @cinemakirukkan6622 2 роки тому +1

    If a man proves, he is earning only 10,000 per month.. What the court will do in this case?

  • @chethanputhran3756
    @chethanputhran3756 3 роки тому +4

    Always think like a criminal to deal with criminals. I would set up such a situation where I would prove that she has committed adultery before should could even step on to the court. Always have a good lawyer friend and your yourself must be knowledgeable about the legalities to deal with bitches .

  • @neel28sarkar
    @neel28sarkar Рік тому +1

    I have a question here 4:30, suppose, in the end, the victim proves that his wife does have a source of income. Will the judge make the wife pay her ex-husband the amount she has received until the date of the proof, along with interest?

  • @ankitupadhyay646
    @ankitupadhyay646 Рік тому +2

    Stop getting married 😂😂

  • @LifeVenus
    @LifeVenus 3 роки тому +3

    Only gov. Can help by opening more earning opportunities for all family members. Just a thought

    • @Aryan-cr5gr
      @Aryan-cr5gr Рік тому +1

      U don't understand that's the root of the problem man

  • @amanmanaktala1666
    @amanmanaktala1666 9 місяців тому +1

    It's better not to get married

  • @nitinsharma520
    @nitinsharma520 Рік тому +1

    Sir pls guide , if wife is well qualified and leaves her job and claims that she is not working then can something be done. Regards

  • @Musica_Originals
    @Musica_Originals 9 місяців тому +1

    Know one thing that Good people exist, they are called Men.