I absolutely agree. I havent found anyone that actually talks together about this topic without rosetinted glasses , or .."yeeess we both have been feeling the same way all along, like we were going through the exact same stuff" ..i always felt as if something was off with that... you guys are the embodiment of why i felt this way... bc its not true. Thank you so much for shining a light on the fact that there is a difference between the way both parties feel abt ot or Deal with it. Truth is so refreshing and clear.. this really helped. And yes.. its a cute romantic view to think the runner constantly misses you, but is just incapable of showing it... but its a cute View for the ego of the chaser.. because then we dont feel triggered by the fact that they actually dont 😅 ... but truth Sets free... and it clears the space for growth. Thank you!
She persude me, she was 14 I was 19, I avoided her for a year because of age, but I broke down & met her, don't know why I was going & not sure I was in control of car, we met & she ran to me & slammed me & put something g in my chest my entire life, we secretly dated but was getting scary for me, I had trouble in home life & made a decision to run, didn't want to, continuing repetitious dreams for 38 years of me looking for her, I finly reached out scared to death, she was in a marriage of convenience, after 2 years of tying up loose ends we are together & will marry finally in 2025, everyt time we hug my chest vibrates, she has spiritual gifts that most people don't understand, we've met with 5 other spiritual people that don't know each other & all say same thing, we've been together for centuries , that's when we learned about twin flames, too much to tell here, our story now contines.
I never chased him. I can feel his angry resentful energy feeling rejected. I expressed my feelings he ignored me and I disappeared from his life. He is extremely arrogant, I almost once a week receive phone calls from unknown numbers who don’t say anything. It’s like he desperately wants to trigger the chase which I refuse to do. I have a feeling I did the chasing past life and most of my karma in this life was because of me chasing him. I was really reluctant to talk to him but something push me to do so. Now I understand what it is and will live my life and hope I can find a soulmate who will love me and bring enjoy a peaceful life with me. I’m tired of him (and I barely talked to him in this life but know everything about this life) hopefully this pull will go away so I can heal and live my life
Energetically, you chased him. It doesn't have to be messaging, going to see him etc. If they feel you yearning for them, you are chasing. You've proved you're still chasing just by watching this video. If you really want to move on, you must do it Energetically - then your soul mate will come in.
I was the runner, she was 14 and I was 19, she pursued me for a year and I stayed away until I couldn’t, I knew there was something special about us and she has spiritual gifts and she knew we had history in other lives, Society made me run, but I didn’t want to. I felt I had to, 38 years of reoccurring dreams of me looking for her. It was torture. I missed her so much, now we reconnected two years ago and learned so much about twin flames, we will marry next year finally, we missed a lifetime together, but we will cherish what little time we had in 1985 and now through our silver years.
I’m a runner and the answers are just pure perfection. I am guilty of everything that has been said and even more. My ego is enormous, even though I still believe that I am in such a high state of my spiritual development. I have to laugh about myself badly!
This series was great. In regards to the question about leaving the relationship if it's detrimental: always. If a relationship is harmful do not stay regardless of the label
@@wearethesamenergy I was wondering if you could make a video about the timing of when did your DM got introduced to the whole TF concept and the journey both of you were on. In other words, when is the best time for me to explain my DM what he's been going through as well. We are currently in a separation process but are having some sort of communication. Thank you Alex! 🙏🦋🌹❤️
I know this just feeds the ego mind.. but thank you for all these answers... Most of course I already intuitively knew.. But being reminded to just leave the runner alone and why.. helps immensely.. Such a beautiful couple... My twin, in separation has expressed apologies, tears and thank yous.. towards me.. can I assume he is beginning to awaken to the fact that we are more then he thought??? and of course i am leaving him be.. he is not ready yet to face the journey head on.. thank you Huggs ♥
Wow 😮 this is what my twin did a lot of the same. She run but always came back and I just knew she would. She finally came to me after 6 months and told me in the 3D but then run again after she started tracking me and finding me in public. She ran again before she came back then told me she no longer wanted to run. You are right the love the runner has is unconditional and they show it everytime they see you and in the 5D. This was my case at least. The runner had their life changed overnight so it takes them time to process it and to realize how special it is even when it’s painful. I never chased because I felt that she needed space and reflect and she needed to realize on her own what this all was. I waited for her to tell me and I said nothing until she was ready. In the 3D she’s not 100% ready to talk about everything yet but we both know what this is now.
Hi, I’m late to the videos, they just came across my feed today. I just watched all three parts, and I feel I understand my twin better. I am a male chaser, my twin a female runner, but a few things he mentioned caught my attention, like when he mentioned feeling like the chaser was trying to control him, when he said that he was full of pride and needed to justify his actions, and when he mentioned being a workaholic wanting to be alone, those are EXACTLY the kind of behaviors she was showing, especially after the first separation. We are in our 3rd separation, but since it happened, it felt like something was very different about this one, from the time that it happened. And now, it has lasted longer than the others by far (2 years). What I struggle with as a chaser, is going day after day, not really thinking about her, although she still comes to mind at random times. But, I don’t hold on to any thoughts for too long, just really being in a flow state, and then bam, I get hit with these waves of really strong chaser energy, and here I am typing this comment as a result. I feel I am still making decent progress, and continuing to learn about calming down my mind, spirituality, and things of that nature. I really have these moments where I feel like nothing that ever has happened or will happen matters as much as this moment right now. I have everything I need to live comfortably one more night. I feel optimistic that I can continue staying present, and focusing on my own journey.
Thank you for your twin being so honest with his sharing. The last answer was pretty strong. Can he share his experience when he first met you? Did you both experienced the twin’s eye contact, where no one existed in that moment. Thank you again for the work that you both are doing.💜✨🙏
This series has been such a huge help for me at this stage of my TF journey!!! Thank you both for your cooperation and insights, it's been greatly appreciated!!!
Thank you so much for making these three videos! We, as the Fems, don't want to admit to needing to hear the other side of the stories, but let's face it, we are not getting this information from our counterpart, so getting it from someone who is far further ahead of us is very, very, very helpful. It really helps to assuage the doubts, and instead give confidence that it actually IS going to the place we think it is, regardless of the time to get there. Thank you dear Divine Masculine, for stepping forward for us all. Much, much appreciation to you.
I love this series. so happy to come across a couple who has gone through multiple separations. no matter how crazy I feel my case is like, you gave me hope that a good and silent separation from my runner might help him out. he is so immersed in 3D he called me egoic many times, projecting his state of mind. when you are called so and don't even bother to respond, you are usually aware that the case is completely reverse. all the best to all of us in our growth. thanks a billion
You are absolutely right. I say in my book "When a Twin points a finger, they're actually always pointing it at themself." All my best and highest vibrations to you on your TF journey!
Thank you for doing this! ❤ I wish for more twin flames hwo are in union to talk about it together! Just hearing this may help DF to focus more on them selves and to really know that this is happening without control. No chasing is needed, twin flames are like magnets and it happens when the fear is gone. ❤
Thank you 🙏🏽 I would share that my Twin Flame is truly honorable and spiritual. Our relationship inspires me to be my authentic Divine self. It was only with a karmic soul connection that I experienced a very hurtful, detrimental, destructive relationship. Thankfully, it prepared me for my true Twin. I personally don’t believe that true TF relationships are detrimental or abusive in any way, physically, mentally or spiritually.
I just discovered your channel (subbed) and have watched all 3 parts of the Q&A. I don't know if I missed this question or not, but I was curious to know HOW the "concept" of "twin flames" was brought up and discussed with your TF. My TF and I are a lot older and he has been happily married for decades. We knew each other briefly as young children and I re-encountered him 4+ years ago. I went through my Ego Death after about a year of obsession and I continue my spiritual journey today. We have been in touch infrequently (always by MY initiation) via email and a couple of Zoom calls, and I had the opportunity to see him last week. He lives over an hour away. We talked about Consciousness, manifestation, meditation, among other typical 3D topics :). He does have somewhat of a spiritual bent. It was a "friendly" encounter with me trying to contain my feverish attraction the entire time. Your Q&As were excellent and were somewhat helpful to me, except for the fact that we have, obviously, never been together and have never been through "stages". I have absolutely NO idea what, if anything, my TF feels towards me or whether he senses any extra-ordinary connection at all and this has been extremely difficult for me not to know anything for all these years. It's especially difficult for him, I'm sure, as he is happily married and is, therefore, likely in more denial than a single man might be. I would be content just to know if he feels *any* kind of special connection with me that cannot be explained. I didn't find anything about TF married couples in your Playlist. Have you addressed this topic, or could you? Many thanks!
Videos: "The Runner and the Concept of Twin Flames," "Why Twin Flames Show Up While You're Married," "Ego Degradation and the Soul Family," "Who is Your Soul Tribe?" and "Twin Flames as a Tool of Manipulation."
Got to your channel through Lunar Eclipse Tarot, and I am glad she recommended your channel! I think these video's with your runner are definitely a favourite of your channel so far as they give a different kind of ease of mind / insight / offer help that is difficult to find through chaser-perspective video's! The chaser video's are nice in the sense knowing we aren't going through this alone; and feel less lonely in how overwhelming this journey can feel. The runner side of things gives us some insight in, what I guess many of us are just so confused about and helps bring some kind of ego-ease~! Thanks so much for your videos!
My situation is different as me and my twin are both married. So, we never had a physical relationship of any kind. None. Yet, I (we) still have gone through a massive ego degradation and we are now in energetic union for over a year. How can that be? I am overwhelmed by his energy just as I am writing this. I feel like his presence is with me most of the day. I feel him, I smell him, I have conversations with him in my head, so I am having a relationship with him even though we have always been separated. We only “communicate” through social media lately and his posts always resonate with how I am (we are) feeling. How can I surrender when we have never had a relationship? The fact that we are so closely connected energetically has been causing me a lot of anxiety. I can’t help but feel responsible for my thoughts as I know - as I am the more spiritual one - I am leading our journey. Has anyone else had that problem? The other thing I am interested in is TF telepathy. Sometimes I vibrate so high, I am scared he can hear every single thought. How can I overcome this fear? And lastly, are you guys now together? Thank you for these videos!
This is so awesome! It’s rare that we hear what the DM feels and goes through. I’ve suspected a lot of this, but it’s nice to finally truly understand what’s going on with them so that we don’t feel crazy, like we’re making up shit in our head. It’s like I “know”, but my head convinces me I’m wrong at times. Tysm❤
These video series about the Runner help me a lot. Thank you! I'm currently in my second seperation and I would love to see more videos like these about the Runners perspective 😊
Thank you so much for answering my question 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 You guys are soooo good in articulating your thoughts and feelings in a simple yet sophisticated manner ! Your cores match so beautifully !
Lastly, & maybe you could do a video on this or at least your thought… but I believe TF’s should really monitor their tarot reading intake or leave them alone all together. I’m starting to realize that our journeys aren’t like the soulmate /karmic connections… When our twins run, we may in turn run too, but to tarot as a means of spying on our Twins (take it from me I know this all to well 😂)Tarot will read it as Death, Tower Moments, 7 of swords, 10 of swords, all swords 😂, this person is never coming back… move on to new love now, abort…Abort 😂 However, that energy is only temporary, not finite for us… & the sooner we realize that I think the better off we’ll be on this journey! Your thoughts?
Thank you so much for this series. I intuitively kinda already knew much of what was discussed. It did provide me with insight that for now I can love my Twin in the 5D while staying away in the 3D to work on our individual wounding. Union may never happen and I’m getting to a place, slowly, where I’m ok with that 🤷♀️.
@@wearethesamenergy Ha, yes. Still getting used to that concept, especially knowing that dude in the 3D. Love him to bits but jeez is that relationship challenging 😁 but yes, always achievable! 💜
Thank you so much. I watched a lot of videos but this made me feel seen. My guy told me he will love me from afar, but we can't be together. He was always pulling away so i had started to push even more and he probably felt trapped and too controlled and ran.. He keeps saying we just can't be together, it's impossible, marriage is in his family's hands, never his.. Etc... (i am 6 years older) But it feels too lame of an excuse.. But he's adamant.. I have been chasing. Not physically.. But i end up msging, saying i have realized my mistakes, my issues, i am healing this and that.. There's a sense that he will see.. But he never replies.. I feel more and more unheard.. It is as if he's truly decided wr are impossible and wants to be in pain but never try.. I feel helpless.. And i am someone who has fought tooth and nail all my life to control.. I feel helpless... All other videos give very clear cut ways of what runners do.. And only in your video i saw that runners can love and still give an excuse of it being impossible and run. I feel validated. This video was helpful. Thanks.
I love this comment because I can feel everything you're saying. May I suggest watching my video on reaching out to the Twin (on TF playlist), but also reading my book. I talk in depth about exactly what you said. I will also have a video on the Runner and Justifications later on in the year 🙏
You two are soooo cute! I can see the similarity in you, and I can sense the identical frequency you share. I am in my first long separation with my twin. The journey started two years ago. I have been healing from my traumas and ascending. He has a lot of internal work to do- had a very abusive childhood. He has a strong sex addiction. Almost every encounter he has is sexual. A lot of wounding to work through. Initially it was very hard to accept the state he is in. That is why the Separation happened. I am presently taking one day at a time, and working on myself in all areas of my life. Thank you for your guidance.
This has helped me so much. This man reminds me of my DM. Almost spot on. I know my DM is very rational and has had an ego boost throughout his lifetime. I’m very independent so he can have all the space he wants. He knows I’m independent and self driven so when he shows up on my social media that confirms he wanted to connect with my energy. I have no attachment as I let go of chasing years ago decades actually.
This was so, so good for my soul and growth. Thanks for keeping it real without sugarcoating. In the beginning of my journey I could only hear the sugarcoated stuff, and I think they did serve me back then. Before clicking on your trilogy, I heard clearly from my guides that I was now ready for this level of truth, and therefore growth. I love you all.
Thank you both so much for releasing this information. I use to worry that he would feel abandoned when I decided to take time to heal myself and grow as a person, but now I'm at peace with giving him his space.
I’m a runner and I object to some things said here. This journey is unique and different yet hold similarities to other stories. I really wish there were more videos on runners as I feel limited to the support that’s out here and reflective of my version of experience.
Thank you so much for this trilogy! Really insightful! The runner sounds like he is on a really high level of self-awareness. I am very curious, how big was the shift compared with the beginning of the journey and how long did it take to get to this point of macro-perspective for the runner? Thank you!! You are cool guys! ❤
Thank you Alexx! Thank you for sharing your abiltities, insights, experiences and your energy! I am greatful that I can use your insights and experiences for my own growth. Also greatful to see that that your experiences confirm my experiences on my journey. The Q&R runner helped me a lot. Now I can accept all situations. The more I accept the situation, the more I feel my twin. And I feel and see her a lot. I saw her also in the face of a good friend of my. While I was talking to my friend, her face changed into the face of my twin. It was a sweet experience. Greetings from Amsterdam Raguel XX
Thanks again Alexx! You mentioned to give some suggestions concerning the Q&A runner. For me personal, you have given me more than enough insights. I feel more and more at ease. On one hand deep knowing of trust in my own journey. With or without. On the other hand I feel little vibrations of discomfored. I have given myself homework, to see when and how this discomfort feeling appears. In that way may be the little vibrations will disappear. The only suggestion I want to share is as follows: I would really enjoy when you and your twin will be interviewed in a relax setting. Both at ease. The Q&A will be more about your journey. How you met, the proces itself and what this journey has brought to the both of you as an individual. Nothing serious, just easy going questions. Its just a suggestion. I enjoy your videos a lot. So keep up the nice energy✨
A few people have asked for us to do a video about our journey, but my Twin doesn't want to publicly share that information, so I have to respect it until he's ready 🙏
UA-cam, why can’t I DoubleLike or DoubleSubscribe. Fix it. ♥️♥️Appreciate your efforts! Thanks to you both for taking on this endeavor. Thanks for the perspective and space to reflect on things. Would like to see more! Truly liked when Alexx jumped in to add her two cents to one of the questions. Love that dynamic. Keep it up!! -The Universe
@@wearethesamenergy On my third watch through, I noticed all of you ‘restrained’ smirks and glances to your twin’s replies. 😂 You crack me up. Thanks for the lawlz. 😂 The acknowledgment is real… Wanted to control you… Thanks I needed that. After watching this a few times, I feel there is more to learn from this trilogy. I look forward to Wed AM and cannot wait to see the next video!!
Its so fascinating watching your twin talk and the way his mind is and like his energy level (the calm, articulate and rational etc) its like the similarity between him and my twin is uncanny. They don't look or sound the same, but... the energy is so similar. Lol, yours doesn't strike me as being bossy with control issues, though 😂😂😂 I say that about my twin with absolute love because being able to recognize those qualities in him made it possible for me to see those traits in myself. I actually think its one of those deeply endearing flaws because ... he's just the right amount imperfect so that he's just that much more beautiful 😍 But yeah, he's bossy. Mostly because I won't allow him to tell me what to do. Especially if he's non-communicative. I think its something like he talks too little because I talk too much and when he does say something its usually telling me what to do, like stop taking. 😂😂😂😂 And I talk too much because I also have control issues. If it wasn't so painful and confusing, it would be hilarious.
Great series! Van you please make video on what is better to do when tje runner is coming back, shiuld we always except them or should we tell them no because we are not healed and because sometimes the lesson might be dealing with “no”. In addition, will be happy to hear more on duality.
This showed up in my feed again so I watched it again. I’d like to say it’s more potent now than a year ago. Thanks for taking the time TF guy. I hope you are well.
I don’t know how you don’t have more views on this series. I can’t thank you enough for this series! My TF ran again in the most abrupt and meanest way possible (in my eyes for the last time b/c I was done… until watching this) Thank you for your transparency & detail. The hatred I was feeling for my twin since last he ran (last week) has all but dissipated watching this! Thank you both & Thank you Spirit for guiding me to these videos! 🙏🏾❤️🔥
This Q&A series has been brilliant. Very reassuring. The more I understand the runner perspective easier it feels and the more I will be able to focus on myself. Can you do more please? Thank you
I think your twin is someone your that close with that you feel what they feel ie the runner is an avoidant and the chaser is the anxious, in the separation the anxious turns secure while the runner keeps running 😅 the anxious realises this then stops chasing and waits for the runner to run back! And then and only then if the relationship can bond back, the love never dies but the anxious let’s go, am I right??
If the Chaser is ever "waiting" for the Runner to run back, that is not Union, that is simply chasing in energy. When we talk about anxious/avoidant attachment styles, we're using the Ego to label only what's occurring on the 3D and ignoring what's in the 5D
This is very interesting. Before I knew of TF, I labeled my DM as "fearful avoidant". I tested 70% secure and 30% FA myself. We were together four years.Now I see that was the ego talking. Understanding the truth of the journey finally makes sense of it.
I have to keep coming back and rewatching this Q&A series. It's so easy to get lost in ego, fear, and hurt, and lose sight of the connection. This happened to me recently, where I lashed out in a roundabout way. On the face of it, it appears to have been counterproductive, but you never know with this journey. I guess I must have faith that my runner is experiencing as yours did. I'd love to see more runner perspective, but this series is quite good and covers a lot of ground, so I'm unsure if it would be redundant or refreshing?
I have watched all three videos. It has been very helpful to hear from the DM. I know I should focus only on myself, but I always wondered what the other was going through.
I have revisited these three videos. I definitely would like to see more on the runner's perspective. My twin has recently started texting me.I focus mostly on myself, but like to learn about the other, also.
Thank you so very much for this! I really appreciate you taking the time to openly discuss the runner perspective. I suspected much of what was said but had a few ah ha moments, it was really informative so thanks again! All the best to you both 😊
Wow!!! Your twin is truly divine. What an excellent gift this whole process is. Thank you for sharing this - your answers to these questions put a lot into perspective. 🙏🩷
I've loved this series, thank you! Your "runner" echoed so many things that I've experienced with mine. I know we are meant to be together, and I know that there is no breaking this connection, but it's always lovely to hear confirmation of this (even if I don't really need it at the stage I am at).
I would like to know what in the 3D occurred for yall to break up each time. Like what was the verbal reasons why. Im curious for everyone. For instance, mine Tf kept saying “this isn’t working” because my abandonment wounds kept us apart and it was pretty negative. I wonder what each person’s reason was verbally. I could be more specific on mine, but I’m trying to be somewhat private on here.
Thank you! I can feel the twin flame energy between you guys ❤.. I would love to see more videos based on the runners perspective. I am wondering lately about how boundaries should happen. My DM did in fact reach out last weekend after our 5 week separation. He has issues w our age difference, I am 13 years older. He also says that we’re “different” whatever that means. After that period of separation he texted me and asked me to come over like nothing had happened, which he always has done. I told him that I couldn’t and maybe some other time, even though I was dying to see him. Should I just go over to his place without addressing the elephant in the room?? I cannot bear to continue not seeing him in the physical. I miss him so much.
That's very interesting that he's reaching out and then pulling away. I can't tell you what to do, for only you know your journey and what's best for you, but I ask this: if he's pretending nothing happened, has he really been doing the work?
I would to see this reversed and get your DF side of this. Thank you to both of you for sharing, this has allowed me to move into Union. Finally. Ebb and flo.
I just found these videos and I am so thankful for the runners point of view. This is priceless for me. I’d like to thank you both from the bottom of my heart for doing this as it’s like a lifeline to me at this point as I have stopped initiating contact. Do you have instagram btw?
Nobody has done it like this. I appreciate having this trilogy and definitely hope for more
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Agreed. So refreshing especially because it's so conversational and it doesn't feel like they're trying to sell something.
I absolutely agree.
I havent found anyone that actually talks together about this topic without rosetinted glasses , or .."yeeess we both have been feeling the same way all along, like we were going through the exact same stuff" ..i always felt as if something was off with that... you guys are the embodiment of why i felt this way... bc its not true.
Thank you so much for shining a light on the fact that there is a difference between the way both parties feel abt ot or Deal with it. Truth is so refreshing and clear.. this really helped. And yes.. its a cute romantic view to think the runner constantly misses you, but is just incapable of showing it... but its a cute View for the ego of the chaser.. because then we dont feel triggered by the fact that they actually dont 😅 ... but truth Sets free... and it clears the space for growth. Thank you!
Definitely want more runner perspective, even though I know that's my ego🤣
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She persude me, she was 14 I was 19, I avoided her for a year because of age, but I broke down & met her, don't know why I was going & not sure I was in control of car, we met & she ran to me & slammed me & put something g in my chest my entire life, we secretly dated but was getting scary for me, I had trouble in home life & made a decision to run, didn't want to, continuing repetitious dreams for 38 years of me looking for her, I finly reached out scared to death, she was in a marriage of convenience, after 2 years of tying up loose ends we are together & will marry finally in 2025, everyt time we hug my chest vibrates, she has spiritual gifts that most people don't understand, we've met with 5 other spiritual people that don't know each other & all say same thing, we've been together for centuries , that's when we learned about twin flames, too much to tell here, our story now contines.
I never chased him. I can feel his angry resentful energy feeling rejected. I expressed my feelings he ignored me and I disappeared from his life. He is extremely arrogant, I almost once a week receive phone calls from unknown numbers who don’t say anything. It’s like he desperately wants to trigger the chase which I refuse to do. I have a feeling I did the chasing past life and most of my karma in this life was because of me chasing him. I was really reluctant to talk to him but something push me to do so. Now I understand what it is and will live my life and hope I can find a soulmate who will love me and bring enjoy a peaceful life with me. I’m tired of him (and I barely talked to him in this life but know everything about this life) hopefully this pull will go away so I can heal and live my life
Energetically, you chased him. It doesn't have to be messaging, going to see him etc. If they feel you yearning for them, you are chasing. You've proved you're still chasing just by watching this video. If you really want to move on, you must do it Energetically - then your soul mate will come in.
I was the runner, she was 14 and I was 19, she pursued me for a year and I stayed away until I couldn’t, I knew there was something special about us and she has spiritual gifts and she knew we had history in other lives, Society made me run, but I didn’t want to. I felt I had to, 38 years of reoccurring dreams of me looking for her. It was torture. I missed her so much, now we reconnected two years ago and learned so much about twin flames, we will marry next year finally, we missed a lifetime together, but we will cherish what little time we had in 1985 and now through our silver years.
Yes to more videos from the runner perspective ❤
You guys are fucking amazing! This was 3 of my favorite videos of any TF channel. The runner was very well spoken. ❤️🙏
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I’m a runner and the answers are just pure perfection. I am guilty of everything that has been said and even more. My ego is enormous, even though I still believe that I am in such a high state of my spiritual development. I have to laugh about myself badly!
This series was great. In regards to the question about leaving the relationship if it's detrimental: always. If a relationship is harmful do not stay regardless of the label
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This was such an amazing Q/A series. Thank you both for sharing your knowledge and your experience, these were very much valuable lessions! 🙏😊❤️🌹
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@@wearethesamenergy I was wondering if you could make a video about the timing of when did your DM got introduced to the whole TF concept and the journey both of you were on. In other words, when is the best time for me to explain my DM what he's been going through as well.
We are currently in a separation process but are having some sort of communication.
Thank you Alex! 🙏🦋🌹❤️
This video is coming out in February. As you can see, I am insanely bombarded with requests, but I got you, girl!
I know this just feeds the ego mind.. but thank you for all these answers... Most of course I already intuitively knew.. But being reminded to just leave the runner alone and why.. helps immensely.. Such a beautiful couple... My twin, in separation has expressed apologies, tears and thank yous.. towards me.. can I assume he is beginning to awaken to the fact that we are more then he thought??? and of course i am leaving him be.. he is not ready yet to face the journey head on.. thank you Huggs ♥
It sounds like it, but of course you know your journey better than anyone 🙏🙏
Wow 😮 this is what my twin did a lot of the same. She run but always came back and I just knew she would. She finally came to me after 6 months and told me in the 3D but then run again after she started tracking me and finding me in public. She ran again before she came back then told me she no longer wanted to run. You are right the love the runner has is unconditional and they show it everytime they see you and in the 5D. This was my case at least. The runner had their life changed overnight so it takes them time to process it and to realize how special it is even when it’s painful. I never chased because I felt that she needed space and reflect and she needed to realize on her own what this all was. I waited for her to tell me and I said nothing until she was ready. In the 3D she’s not 100% ready to talk about everything yet but we both know what this is now.
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Hi, I’m late to the videos, they just came across my feed today. I just watched all three parts, and I feel I understand my twin better. I am a male chaser, my twin a female runner, but a few things he mentioned caught my attention, like when he mentioned feeling like the chaser was trying to control him, when he said that he was full of pride and needed to justify his actions, and when he mentioned being a workaholic wanting to be alone, those are EXACTLY the kind of behaviors she was showing, especially after the first separation. We are in our 3rd separation, but since it happened, it felt like something was very different about this one, from the time that it happened. And now, it has lasted longer than the others by far (2 years).
What I struggle with as a chaser, is going day after day, not really thinking about her, although she still comes to mind at random times. But, I don’t hold on to any thoughts for too long, just really being in a flow state, and then bam, I get hit with these waves of really strong chaser energy, and here I am typing this comment as a result. I feel I am still making decent progress, and continuing to learn about calming down my mind, spirituality, and things of that nature. I really have these moments where I feel like nothing that ever has happened or will happen matters as much as this moment right now. I have everything I need to live comfortably one more night. I feel optimistic that I can continue staying present, and focusing on my own journey.
Thank you for your twin being so honest with his sharing. The last answer was pretty strong. Can he share his experience when he first met you? Did you both experienced the twin’s eye contact, where no one existed in that moment. Thank you again for the work that you both are doing.💜✨🙏
Watch my video "Meeting Your Twin Flame" 🙂
You both have the same eyes 🫶
No, he has crazily blue eyes and mine are brown
@@wearethesamenergy I’m sorry I should have specified I meant same eye shapes!
What made the runner realize that the differences where to overcome.
This series has been such a huge help for me at this stage of my TF journey!!! Thank you both for your cooperation and insights, it's been greatly appreciated!!!
Thank you so much for making these three videos! We, as the Fems, don't want to admit to needing to hear the other side of the stories, but let's face it, we are not getting this information from our counterpart, so getting it from someone who is far further ahead of us is very, very, very helpful. It really helps to assuage the doubts, and instead give confidence that it actually IS going to the place we think it is, regardless of the time to get there.
Thank you dear Divine Masculine, for stepping forward for us all. Much, much appreciation to you.
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I love this series. so happy to come across a couple who has gone through multiple separations. no matter how crazy I feel my case is like, you gave me hope that a good and silent separation from my runner might help him out. he is so immersed in 3D he called me egoic many times, projecting his state of mind. when you are called so and don't even bother to respond, you are usually aware that the case is completely reverse.
all the best to all of us in our growth. thanks a billion
You are absolutely right. I say in my book "When a Twin points a finger, they're actually always pointing it at themself." All my best and highest vibrations to you on your TF journey!
Thank you for doing this! ❤
I wish for more twin flames hwo are in union to talk about it together!
Just hearing this may help DF to focus more on them selves and to really know that this is happening without control.
No chasing is needed, twin flames are like magnets and it happens when the fear is gone.
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Thank you 🙏🏽 I would share that my Twin Flame is truly honorable and spiritual. Our relationship inspires me to be my authentic Divine self. It was only with a karmic soul connection that I experienced a very hurtful, detrimental, destructive relationship. Thankfully, it prepared me for my true Twin. I personally don’t believe that true TF relationships are detrimental or abusive in any way, physically, mentally or spiritually.
I just discovered your channel (subbed) and have watched all 3 parts of the Q&A. I don't know if I missed this question or not, but I was curious to know HOW the "concept" of "twin flames" was brought up and discussed with your TF.
My TF and I are a lot older and he has been happily married for decades. We knew each other briefly as young children and I re-encountered him 4+ years ago. I went through my Ego Death after about a year of obsession and I continue my spiritual journey today. We have been in touch infrequently (always by MY initiation) via email and a couple of Zoom calls, and I had the opportunity to see him last week. He lives over an hour away. We talked about Consciousness, manifestation, meditation, among other typical 3D topics :). He does have somewhat of a spiritual bent. It was a "friendly" encounter with me trying to contain my feverish attraction the entire time.
Your Q&As were excellent and were somewhat helpful to me, except for the fact that we have, obviously, never been together and have never been through "stages". I have absolutely NO idea what, if anything, my TF feels towards me or whether he senses any extra-ordinary connection at all and this has been extremely difficult for me not to know anything for all these years. It's especially difficult for him, I'm sure, as he is happily married and is, therefore, likely in more denial than a single man might be. I would be content just to know if he feels *any* kind of special connection with me that cannot be explained. I didn't find anything about TF married couples in your Playlist. Have you addressed this topic, or could you? Many thanks!
Videos: "The Runner and the Concept of Twin Flames," "Why Twin Flames Show Up While You're Married," "Ego Degradation and the Soul Family," "Who is Your Soul Tribe?" and "Twin Flames as a Tool of Manipulation."
Got to your channel through Lunar Eclipse Tarot, and I am glad she recommended your channel! I think these video's with your runner are definitely a favourite of your channel so far as they give a different kind of ease of mind / insight / offer help that is difficult to find through chaser-perspective video's! The chaser video's are nice in the sense knowing we aren't going through this alone; and feel less lonely in how overwhelming this journey can feel. The runner side of things gives us some insight in, what I guess many of us are just so confused about and helps bring some kind of ego-ease~! Thanks so much for your videos!
Glad it resonated! 🙏
This is the most realistic twin flame video I have seen! She actually is showing him and everything. ✨
My situation is different as me and my twin are both married. So, we never had a physical relationship of any kind. None.
Yet, I (we) still have gone through a massive ego degradation and we are now in energetic union for over a year.
How can that be? I am overwhelmed by his energy just as I am writing this. I feel like his presence is with me most of the day. I feel him, I smell him, I have conversations with him in my head, so I am having a relationship with him even though we have always been separated. We only “communicate” through social media lately and his posts always resonate with how I am (we are) feeling.
How can I surrender when we have never had a relationship?
The fact that we are so closely connected energetically has been causing me a lot of anxiety. I can’t help but feel responsible for my thoughts as I know - as I am the more spiritual one - I am leading our journey. Has anyone else had that problem?
The other thing I am interested in is TF telepathy. Sometimes I vibrate so high, I am scared he can hear every single thought. How can I overcome this fear?
And lastly, are you guys now together?
Thank you for these videos!
Omg. Sounds so familiar. It's like my tf speaking!
This is so awesome! It’s rare that we hear what the DM feels and goes through. I’ve suspected a lot of this, but it’s nice to finally truly understand what’s going on with them so that we don’t feel crazy, like we’re making up shit in our head. It’s like I “know”, but my head convinces me I’m wrong at times. Tysm❤
The Ego likes to convince itself of all types of things 😕🙂🙏
Yes yes yes. These are great! More please ☺ Maybe more focused on the ego degradation process for both of you
These video series about the Runner help me a lot. Thank you! I'm currently in my second seperation and I would love to see more videos like these about the Runners perspective 😊
Thank you so much for answering my question 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 You guys are soooo good in articulating your thoughts and feelings in a simple yet sophisticated manner ! Your cores match so beautifully !
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Yes please make more videos from the runner’s perspective!
Lastly, & maybe you could do a video on this or at least your thought… but I believe TF’s should really monitor their tarot reading intake or leave them alone all together. I’m starting to realize that our journeys aren’t like the soulmate /karmic connections… When our twins run, we may in turn run too, but to tarot as a means of spying on our Twins (take it from me I know this all to well 😂)Tarot will read it as Death, Tower Moments, 7 of swords, 10 of swords, all swords 😂, this person is never coming back… move on to new love now, abort…Abort 😂 However, that energy is only temporary, not finite for us… & the sooner we realize that I think the better off we’ll be on this journey! Your thoughts?
I talk about this in "How to Stop Thinking About Your Twin Flame."
Thank you so much for this series. I intuitively kinda already knew much of what was discussed. It did provide me with insight that for now I can love my Twin in the 5D while staying away in the 3D to work on our individual wounding. Union may never happen and I’m getting to a place, slowly, where I’m ok with that 🤷♀️.
But Union is with the Self, not with the 3D manifested Twin, so Union is always achievable!
@@wearethesamenergy Ha, yes. Still getting used to that concept, especially knowing that dude in the 3D. Love him to bits but jeez is that relationship challenging 😁 but yes, always achievable! 💜
Thank you so much. I watched a lot of videos but this made me feel seen. My guy told me he will love me from afar, but we can't be together. He was always pulling away so i had started to push even more and he probably felt trapped and too controlled and ran.. He keeps saying we just can't be together, it's impossible, marriage is in his family's hands, never his.. Etc... (i am 6 years older)
But it feels too lame of an excuse.. But he's adamant.. I have been chasing. Not physically.. But i end up msging, saying i have realized my mistakes, my issues, i am healing this and that.. There's a sense that he will see.. But he never replies.. I feel more and more unheard.. It is as if he's truly decided wr are impossible and wants to be in pain but never try.. I feel helpless.. And i am someone who has fought tooth and nail all my life to control.. I feel helpless... All other videos give very clear cut ways of what runners do.. And only in your video i saw that runners can love and still give an excuse of it being impossible and run. I feel validated.
This video was helpful. Thanks.
I love this comment because I can feel everything you're saying. May I suggest watching my video on reaching out to the Twin (on TF playlist), but also reading my book. I talk in depth about exactly what you said. I will also have a video on the Runner and Justifications later on in the year 🙏
You two are soooo cute! I can see the similarity in you, and I can sense the identical frequency you share. I am in my first long separation with my twin. The journey started two years ago. I have been healing from my traumas and ascending. He has a lot of internal work to do- had a very abusive childhood. He has a strong sex addiction. Almost every encounter he has is sexual. A lot of wounding to work through. Initially it was very hard to accept the state he is in. That is why the Separation happened. I am presently taking one day at a time, and working on myself in all areas of my life. Thank you for your guidance.
This has helped me so much. This man reminds me of my DM. Almost spot on.
I know my DM is very rational and has had an ego boost throughout his lifetime.
I’m very independent so he can have all the space he wants.
He knows I’m independent and self driven so when he shows up on my social media that confirms he wanted to connect with my energy. I have no attachment as I let go of chasing years ago decades actually.
This was so, so good for my soul and growth. Thanks for keeping it real without sugarcoating. In the beginning of my journey I could only hear the sugarcoated stuff, and I think they did serve me back then. Before clicking on your trilogy, I heard clearly from my guides that I was now ready for this level of truth, and therefore growth. I love you all.
Love when that happens!
Thank You TF Guy. Your insights paint a picture I can wrap my 3D head around.
I know this took a lot of time and effort.
It is a big help.
So glad it helped in any way 🙏🙏
Thanks for this
Thank you! Felt the love of mye DM! Oh universe i love him. Please take care of him!
By the way, you’re look alike! Truly TF!❤
Thank you both so much for releasing this information. I use to worry that he would feel abandoned when I decided to take time to heal myself and grow as a person, but now I'm at peace with giving him his space.
Have you watched my video "The 3 Core Karmic Lessons?"
@@wearethesamenergy I'll check it out. Thank you for the recommendation .
I’m a runner and I object to some things said here. This journey is unique and different yet hold similarities to other stories.
I really wish there were more videos on runners as I feel limited to the support that’s out here and reflective of my version of experience.
Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you so much for this trilogy! Really insightful!
The runner sounds like he is on a really high level of self-awareness. I am very curious, how big was the shift compared with the beginning of the journey and how long did it take to get to this point of macro-perspective for the runner?
Thank you!! You are cool guys! ❤
It took him two years, but a faux linear timeline shouldn't have any bearing on your journey. And yes, it was a MASSIVE shift
Thank you Alexx! Thank you for sharing your abiltities, insights, experiences and your energy!
I am greatful that I can use your insights and experiences for my own growth. Also greatful to see that that your experiences confirm my experiences on my journey.
The Q&R runner helped me a lot. Now I can accept all situations. The more I accept the situation, the more I feel my twin.
And I feel and see her a lot.
I saw her also in the face of a good friend of my. While I was talking to my friend, her face changed into the face of my twin. It was a sweet experience.
Greetings from Amsterdam
Raguel XX
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Thanks again Alexx! You mentioned to give some suggestions concerning the Q&A runner. For me personal, you have given me more than enough insights. I feel more and more at ease. On one hand deep knowing of trust in my own journey. With or without. On the other hand I feel little vibrations of discomfored. I have given myself homework, to see when and how this discomfort feeling appears. In that way may be the little vibrations will disappear.
The only suggestion I want to share is as follows: I would really enjoy when you and your twin will be interviewed in a relax setting. Both at ease. The Q&A will be more about your journey. How you met, the proces itself and what this journey has brought to the both of you as an individual. Nothing serious, just easy going questions.
Its just a suggestion. I enjoy your videos a lot. So keep up the nice energy✨
A few people have asked for us to do a video about our journey, but my Twin doesn't want to publicly share that information, so I have to respect it until he's ready 🙏
UA-cam, why can’t I DoubleLike or DoubleSubscribe. Fix it.
♥️♥️Appreciate your efforts! Thanks to you both for taking on this endeavor. Thanks for the perspective and space to reflect on things.
Would like to see more! Truly liked when Alexx jumped in to add her two cents to one of the questions. Love that dynamic.
Keep it up!!
-The Universe
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@@wearethesamenergy On my third watch through, I noticed all of you ‘restrained’ smirks and glances to your twin’s replies.
😂 You crack me up. Thanks for the lawlz. 😂 The acknowledgment is real… Wanted to control you… Thanks I needed that.
After watching this a few times, I feel there is more to learn from this trilogy.
I look forward to Wed AM and cannot wait to see the next video!!
Really good if u could please have more videos from both perspectives in more detailed explanations thank you 🙏🌟🌟
We will be starting a Patreon first week of July and it will only be about Twin Flames!
Its so fascinating watching your twin talk and the way his mind is and like his energy level (the calm, articulate and rational etc) its like the similarity between him and my twin is uncanny.
They don't look or sound the same, but... the energy is so similar. Lol, yours doesn't strike me as being bossy with control issues, though 😂😂😂 I say that about my twin with absolute love because being able to recognize those qualities in him made it possible for me to see those traits in myself. I actually think its one of those deeply endearing flaws because ... he's just the right amount imperfect so that he's just that much more beautiful 😍
But yeah, he's bossy. Mostly because I won't allow him to tell me what to do. Especially if he's non-communicative. I think its something like he talks too little because I talk too much and when he does say something its usually telling me what to do, like stop taking. 😂😂😂😂 And I talk too much because I also have control issues.
If it wasn't so painful and confusing, it would be hilarious.
Great series!
Van you please make video on what is better to do when tje runner is coming back, shiuld we always except them or should we tell them no because we are not healed and because sometimes the lesson might be dealing with “no”.
In addition, will be happy to hear more on duality.
Another thing, can you please explain what do you mean by “you are the universe manifested in physical form” 🙏🏼❤
I speak about all of this in my book in depth. For a video regarding duality, you can watch "DF and DM Don't Exist"
This showed up in my feed again so I watched it again. I’d like to say it’s more potent now than a year ago. Thanks for taking the time TF guy. I hope you are well.
I don’t know how you don’t have more views on this series. I can’t thank you enough for this series! My TF ran again in the most abrupt and meanest way possible (in my eyes for the last time b/c I was done… until watching this) Thank you for your transparency & detail. The hatred I was feeling for my twin since last he ran (last week) has all but dissipated watching this! Thank you both & Thank you Spirit for guiding me to these videos! 🙏🏾❤️🔥
Glad they helped
Very interesting. Thank you. Beautiful couple. Live together forever.
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1:25 The One
2:30 Runners & Space
3:20 Self Expression
5:05 Fate or Fear
7:20 Contact
8:15 Forest Gump
8:44 You Matter
10:10 Summary
This Q&A series has been brilliant. Very reassuring. The more I understand the runner perspective easier it feels and the more I will be able to focus on myself. Can you do more please? Thank you
I think your twin is someone your that close with that you feel what they feel ie the runner is an avoidant and the chaser is the anxious, in the separation the anxious turns secure while the runner keeps running 😅 the anxious realises this then stops chasing and waits for the runner to run back! And then and only then if the relationship can bond back, the love never dies but the anxious let’s go, am I right??
If the Chaser is ever "waiting" for the Runner to run back, that is not Union, that is simply chasing in energy. When we talk about anxious/avoidant attachment styles, we're using the Ego to label only what's occurring on the 3D and ignoring what's in the 5D
This is very interesting. Before I knew of TF, I labeled my DM as "fearful avoidant". I tested 70% secure and 30% FA myself. We were together four years.Now I see that was the ego talking. Understanding the truth of the journey finally makes sense of it.
Great video, your magnetism for each other shines through the screen 💖
This is the stage we are at in our connection
I have to keep coming back and rewatching this Q&A series. It's so easy to get lost in ego, fear, and hurt, and lose sight of the connection. This happened to me recently, where I lashed out in a roundabout way. On the face of it, it appears to have been counterproductive, but you never know with this journey. I guess I must have faith that my runner is experiencing as yours did.
I'd love to see more runner perspective, but this series is quite good and covers a lot of ground, so I'm unsure if it would be redundant or refreshing?
I have watched all three videos. It has been very helpful to hear from the DM. I know I should focus only on myself, but I always wondered what the other was going through.
I have revisited these three videos. I definitely would like to see more on the runner's perspective. My twin has recently started texting me.I focus mostly on myself, but like to learn about the other, also.
Love you both! ❤ The power of your co-creation together is so powerful. Well done.
Great video ❤
Wow. Thank you so much for this! I never found a video where the runner is actually talking. This helps me so much and gives me hope! ❤
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I've revisited these incredibly helpful series. Much love and gratitude. You both are just adorable❤
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Thank you so very much for this! I really appreciate you taking the time to openly discuss the runner perspective. I suspected much of what was said but had a few ah ha moments, it was really informative so thanks again! All the best to you both 😊
Been waiting for this! Thanks a lot
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😮thank you so much this videos, is a confirmation I am in a twin flame journey much blessings to both of you
Wow!!! Your twin is truly divine. What an excellent gift this whole process is. Thank you for sharing this - your answers to these questions put a lot into perspective. 🙏🩷
I've loved this series, thank you! Your "runner" echoed so many things that I've experienced with mine. I know we are meant to be together, and I know that there is no breaking this connection, but it's always lovely to hear confirmation of this (even if I don't really need it at the stage I am at).
Thank you. You two have beautiful energy together. :):)
These have been so helpful!
Love the masculine perspective. Thank you for doing this! 💗🙏🏼
Both have similar facial features
Thank you both so much! ❤
Thank you
I am loving these videos. Thank you ❤
I would like to know what in the 3D occurred for yall to break up each time. Like what was the verbal reasons why. Im curious for everyone. For instance, mine Tf kept saying “this isn’t working” because my abandonment wounds kept us apart and it was pretty negative. I wonder what each person’s reason was verbally. I could be more specific on mine, but I’m trying to be somewhat private on here.
Thank you this series was comforting & refreshing! I could watch a ten part marathon! Lol.
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This is really great information
Please make more videos from the runners point of view
You can join our Patreon, and the entire thing is conversations with the Runner
I have joined Patreon .
Thank you! I can feel the twin flame energy between you guys ❤.. I would love to see more videos based on the runners perspective. I am wondering lately about how boundaries should happen. My DM did in fact reach out last weekend after our 5 week separation. He has issues w our age difference, I am 13 years older. He also says that we’re “different” whatever that means. After that period of separation he texted me and asked me to come over like nothing had happened, which he always has done. I told him that I couldn’t and maybe some other time, even though I was dying to see him. Should I just go over to his place without addressing the elephant in the room?? I cannot bear to continue not seeing him in the physical. I miss him so much.
That's very interesting that he's reaching out and then pulling away. I can't tell you what to do, for only you know your journey and what's best for you, but I ask this: if he's pretending nothing happened, has he really been doing the work?
That’s a great question… 🧐
🙏🏼 Sooo Beautiful!! Thankyou soo much!
More from the Masculine Twin whenever possible plz! 🙏🏼
Question 8; same, and a lot other stuff like you talking for me
I would to see this reversed and get your DF side of this. Thank you to both of you for sharing, this has allowed me to move into Union. Finally. Ebb and flo.
I'll be answering some of the questions in my TF Q&A Part III coming out in April
Thank you! ❤️🙏✨
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I know it’s a 3D perspective but you are such a beautiful couple ❤❤
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This is indeed beautiful 😢
Amazing videos!!! Really insightful and helpful!! 🙏🏽
So cweet so beautiful relationship you guys have 😅😊💕 ❤
Oh I like it .. Thankyou for the clarity
This was super enlightening. Thank you! 🙏🏻 🩷
Thank you for these videos.; Id love to hear more. So facinating. I also love that you two look a like and have a lot of the same body manurisms. 😊
We definitely have the same mannerisms! 😂
You are simply awesome. Much blessings ❤️
As are you! 🙏
thank you so much. this was really helpful ❤
Yes more on the runner
Thank you for sharing. Very helpful
Thank you for this.
God bless 🙏
Wow this really helped me, thank you .
These videos are great!! Thank you 🙏🤍
I just found these videos and I am so thankful for the runners point of view. This is priceless for me. I’d like to thank you both from the bottom of my heart for doing this as it’s like a lifeline to me at this point as I have stopped initiating contact.
Do you have instagram btw?
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This 3 videos are very useful thank you
I really appreciate this video by both of you, I learned a lot. Thank you
You're welcome, thank you for watching