Someone snitched. This is my response

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  • @MaxandOccy
    @MaxandOccy  10 місяців тому +1281

    Hi all! It's wayyy past my bedtime here so I won't stay long, just wanted to say thank you for your support and please remember to be kind. Despite the delivery being off, I truly believe there were no ill intentions and only safety in mind. And hey, now I have a ripper gate to be proud of! Much love, Max & Oc 💛

    • @jansmith3158
      @jansmith3158 10 місяців тому

      SHAME on the person that stuck their nose where they shouldn't have. Mind your own business. Government is NOT there to help citizens. Government is there to take your money aka taxes & take your liberties away (taking freedom away).
      GREAT JOB WITH THE GATE Max & Occy!!

    • @macca777
      @macca777 10 місяців тому +26

      You sure do Max. Nite night and sweet dreams mate.

    • @gerris8696
      @gerris8696 10 місяців тому +38

      You’re such a good person!! My guess is the previous owner filed the complaint.

    • @anneandrew3298
      @anneandrew3298 10 місяців тому +17

      Fantastic job!! Congratulations you are a legend

    • @Bea_Sowul
      @Bea_Sowul 10 місяців тому +37

      😂 ❤💪🐶 i preferd the door all black, a big huge for you 2

  • @michfra1551
    @michfra1551 10 місяців тому +639

    All black for the gate. Must say I am most impressed by your gracious response to the "concerned citizen". Exemplary conduct. Outstanding.

  • @pilgrimpeace7763
    @pilgrimpeace7763 10 місяців тому +1253

    Whoever complained is a tosser.
    You are a gentleman Max….I would not have been so polite in my response in the video.

    • @AJ0908AJ
      @AJ0908AJ 10 місяців тому +108

      Agreed! Whoever also made it MORE dangerous for Max since he’ll now have to use an unstable ladder! To whoever reported him- Get a life!

    • @Nighywolf1199
      @Nighywolf1199 10 місяців тому +19

      TOTALLY AGREE

    • @LittlesandRachael
      @LittlesandRachael 10 місяців тому +35

      Welp , he lives by what he says. I don’t know if my disposition would’ve been quite the same. What an inspiration to what the word, kindness entails. I’m over here, just trying not to be surly.

    • @carolyn19185
      @carolyn19185 10 місяців тому +25

      I would not have either. Max really is a kind hearted gentleman.

    • @divinewrath3142
      @divinewrath3142 10 місяців тому +16

      @@LittlesandRachael Same. Really trying to not be angry for him.

  • @tamara8908
    @tamara8908 10 місяців тому +977

    I can't believe a fixed ladder is thought be more dangerous than accessing your van roof with a portable ladder. Meanwhile the gate is a beauty. Nice work Max.

    • @lownagie125
      @lownagie125 10 місяців тому +27

      Ditto 🤯🤯🤯

    • @GoodwaysHomestead
      @GoodwaysHomestead 10 місяців тому +21

      Can you add a railing to make it meet code

    • @chrispomfret8592
      @chrispomfret8592 10 місяців тому +8

      Yeah councils don’t want kids climbing stuff. Which makes sense. Now if it was playground equipment. Hmm work around!

    • @lissaw4
      @lissaw4 10 місяців тому +39

      To be fair, it is. It is more dangerous to have a freestanding structure with a ladder to a second level and no railings. It's really not outrageous.
      Now, should someone have reported it? Probably not. He more than likely would have been fine. However, there are laws and regulations for a reason - a history that made them a necessity. History and other people's mistakes/tragedy have forced the rest of society to enforce common sense practices. If someone was seriously injured by something easily preventable, it would then fall on the rest of society to ensure: the person receives emergency services, medical care, possible lifelong support, have their basic needs met, have the legal system involved, etc.
      Honestly, Max has handled this a million times better than the majority of the audience. It's annoying, no one online should have reported him, and feels like a ridiculous thing to complain about, but he also understands that the code regulations aren't entirely outrageous.

    • @stayaway7859
      @stayaway7859 10 місяців тому +13

      Word you’re looking for is snitch. In America we handle snitches

  • @ShinyFeral
    @ShinyFeral 10 місяців тому +27

    Your end shot sums it all up perfectly: Be Kind. Always.
    Whomever "tattled" needs to worry about their own perfection in life. There were kinder ways to handle this, even if it was a genuine concern. (And as if a temporary ladder is safer than a built-in one!)

  • @Steena79
    @Steena79 10 місяців тому +365

    Jealousy comes in all forms! Sorry this happened! ❤

  • @danielledesnoyers9696
    @danielledesnoyers9696 10 місяців тому +343

    I love the gate! I'd either completely finish the char or put a cool design in that upper corner. Like this it just looks like you haven't finished yet.

    • @elenstar100
      @elenstar100 10 місяців тому +11

      Cool design in the corner could be black design on the gray?

    • @laurafeistner4681
      @laurafeistner4681 10 місяців тому +3

      Great work on the gate! It's beautiful, add a design on the grey part. Class it up even more!

    • @lorianderson2008
      @lorianderson2008 10 місяців тому +7

      Or maybe a nice wave since you like surfing? Blue & white would really POP against the grey & black.

    • @laurafeistner4681
      @laurafeistner4681 10 місяців тому +10

      Why not add a rail to the stairs? I don't want you to lose the enjoyment of the rooftop deck.
      So cowardly, the way the snitch handled this. They could have even just added a respectful comment here. Clearly spiteful. And absolutely ridiculous!

    • @avjohnson
      @avjohnson 10 місяців тому +8

      Agreed! It looks unfinished.

  • @heiditobin4341
    @heiditobin4341 10 місяців тому +72

    You are a kind, kind person. You took the 'high road' when someone complained. Outstanding citizen. Wow ~ I am impressed. 🙂

    • @TheObsesedAnimeFreaks
      @TheObsesedAnimeFreaks 9 місяців тому

      the "high road" would be to stand up for himself and not submit. but that's the difference between compliant tossers and people with true freedom.

  • @bethaniejify
    @bethaniejify 10 місяців тому +496

    I appreciate that you are even willing to continue to share anything online with the absolute terribleness of some folks. And the ironic part is ladders aren’t nearly as stable as what you built. 🤷‍♀️

    • @wakingtheworld
      @wakingtheworld 10 місяців тому +41

      Yeah, so you can't climb steps on your private property without a balustrade but it's okay to go up a (possibly rickety) ladder? I know someone without a rail on a staircase within his property. Is that not okay or does it depend where one lives. I think 'elf 'n' safety has gone bonkers. I my era, kids drove go-karts without brakes ffs!

    • @Suprachiasmatic
      @Suprachiasmatic 10 місяців тому +4

      @@wakingtheworldI’m sure building codes depend on where you live. I have a friend who was forced by the council to add a bannister and replace some steps on her porch.

    • @wakingtheworld
      @wakingtheworld 10 місяців тому +1

      @@Suprachiasmatic Yes, I guess.

    • @chantallennox1201
      @chantallennox1201 10 місяців тому +6

      Stairs weren’t the problem. No railings around the deck (roof) was the problem.

    • @Amanda-uc5jq
      @Amanda-uc5jq 10 місяців тому +3

      While I agree keep in mind UA-cam is how he makes money.

  • @delilah8476
    @delilah8476 10 місяців тому +374

    Wow.. can't believe someone wants to stop the creation of Occy's retirement property. Glad the guys who came out were cool about it.

    • @CherrieMcKenzie
      @CherrieMcKenzie 10 місяців тому +16

      I had to laugh, but it REALLY is true!! But good sense prevailed and Occy's retirement journey continues!! 🤣😂

  • @jfwyvill
    @jfwyvill 10 місяців тому +1852

    Do people not have anything better to do? You’re not even in a suburban area, who is it affecting?

  • @wildzenventures
    @wildzenventures 10 місяців тому +59

    Love your redirected energy to the gate! No sense in stressing over people you can’t control. You always handle stressful situations with grace and kindness 🥰 😅

  • @Gabbie8657
    @Gabbie8657 10 місяців тому +378

    Sorry you had to go through that. In New York State where I live the person making the complaint has to document their name (allowing their name to be accessed by the property owner). It stops people from getting involved where they shouldn't be.

    • @sikugord03
      @sikugord03 10 місяців тому +27

      This should be the case in most things. Unless it’s related to serious crime.

    • @lifeinthemudlane1846
      @lifeinthemudlane1846 10 місяців тому

      In Florida they have anonymous phone tip lines… just like middleages and witchcraft accusations

    • @lindab424
      @lindab424 10 місяців тому +22

      I am not sure how the council where Max lives work but I know where I live down the other end of the state the council requires contact details of the complainant but those details are not usually revealed to the person the complaint is about. This is to avoid retaliation in the case that there is bad blood between the two parties.

    • @terryrawley4219
      @terryrawley4219 10 місяців тому +11

      “Safety first”, lol 😂😂

    • @ssadvweld1
      @ssadvweld1 10 місяців тому +16

      I appreciate that most New Yorkers know how to mind their own business.

  • @beverlywinter7625
    @beverlywinter7625 10 місяців тому +354

    Whoever complained.....SHAME ON YOU.....Some people can't stand to see someone succeed and be happy.( Be kind always) Great job on the gate Max. I love to watch you and Occy. 🐾🐾❤❤

    • @le_th_
      @le_th_ 10 місяців тому +6

      While I agree with your principle, shaming people is just about the most toxic form of abuse a narcissist can use to try and manipulate the behavior of others. Healthy people do not use shame, period. That is the favorite manipulative tecnique of the disordered.
      Better yet, shame only works on other narcissists because most of us have inner self-worth and neither you or anyone else can affect that sense of self-worth because we know who we are and don't allow total strangers to try and tell us who we are or how we should behave.
      There are healthier ways to address people other than attempting to publicly shame and manipulate them.

    • @anastasiarn7781
      @anastasiarn7781 10 місяців тому +2

      All black 👍

    • @OldNewMama
      @OldNewMama 10 місяців тому +10

      Exactly it’s pure jealousy and I hope they see these comments

    • @somewhereintime7831
      @somewhereintime7831 10 місяців тому

      @@le_th_ What are the healthy ways? First, the person could have contacted him in a mannerly way, as is done in an HOA or neighborhood vs going straight to someone of authority. If there was a disagreement or failure to listen or inquire; then you seek outside help in reference to "codes". Narcissisms has nothing to do with this (look up the true definition)! This was a sneaky underhanded way and you know it, so don't apology for it! This is how neighbors act that are dogmatic, nosey, jealous, and bossy. That's why I always follow my CC&R's and get permits in USA as I almost had to pay thousands of dollars until I presented my certified county permits. And, yes I shamed them (as I had and was required to be told who it was) so much they literally creep past my house now. The inspectors said if they really cared they could have contacted me first vs contacting them ... Not to mention having a history of doing this ($500 fine given to them... YEAH!)

    • @SteveandLindaH
      @SteveandLindaH 10 місяців тому +33

      ​@@le_th_Wow!! Was it you?

  • @jt8142
    @jt8142 10 місяців тому +122

    ALL BLACK. It looks unfinished with the gray areas, imo. Great job! 👏

    • @sharonfoster943
      @sharonfoster943 10 місяців тому +5

      You killed it on the gate build, Max. Well done! I agree with @jt8142 on the color. All black or it looks like you walked away from the job without completing it. Cheers!

  • @rakeau
    @rakeau 10 місяців тому +27

    Pretty funny how a balustrade wouldn't make it any safer, and a ladder is even less safe again. Some people....
    Why not just .. have the "stairs" not be permanently affixed to the structure? It's a "ladder". Have it hook on and be easily removable.

    • @amberfrazier575
      @amberfrazier575 5 місяців тому

      I love this!

    • @neruneri
      @neruneri 4 місяці тому

      There is some reasoning to why the code is the way it is. It is genuinely the case that having a permanent fixture without any of the railings on top would be a hazard to children who might encounter it. You could argue that kids may never have access to it, but the code isn't written with exceptions like that in mind.
      The point in why a ladder is "more safe" is because it can stay far removed, leaving no access to the second floor of the deck at other times. No kid is going to climb it and fall off by accident.
      Does this strictly *need* to be considered in any and all situations? Possibly not. You can argue all day long about that. My point though is that the code has a reason for being the way it is, it's not *as* arbitrary as people are suggesting.

    • @rakeau
      @rakeau 4 місяці тому +2

      @@neruneri Sure but this just exemplifies how technicalities and the real world are often very much apart.
      But yeah I want to emphasize my idea more. Just convert the "stairs" he made into a detachable "ladder". And then just leave it there just the same. Exploit the technicalities.

    • @LHalford94
      @LHalford94 4 місяці тому

      Ooooo Great idea, I hope Max see's this!!

  • @rebeccaw-l
    @rebeccaw-l 10 місяців тому +135

    Finishing up the black will complete the look. Dog is such a a good helper 😀😂

    • @lindacondray7918
      @lindacondray7918 10 місяців тому +4

      I like the earlier suggested idea of doing some sort of design. Make a stencil out of something flame resistant and stencil a design on that last section. The gate is already fairly distinctive, so a design shouldn’t be too much more revealing. But NICE job on putting that up by yourself!

    • @jenniferl6553
      @jenniferl6553 10 місяців тому +1

      @@lindacondray7918 I wonder how difficult it would be to have Occy's face in there

    • @gregorypier808
      @gregorypier808 10 місяців тому

      Should be all black. Nice job!

  • @z9ski690
    @z9ski690 10 місяців тому +164

    Great gate. It’s amazing how you were able to complete it without anyone’s assistance. IMHO, I would go with the gate being all the same color, otherwise it appears to be unfinished. Again, great job. 👏

  • @shefru60
    @shefru60 10 місяців тому +142

    I suggest all black (burnt) on the gate. Your lush rain forest landscaping provides an ample “rustic” natural look. I love your work!

  • @Swissfairy
    @Swissfairy 10 місяців тому +19

    Your kindness and graceful way to reply to this “complaint” is so you - you’re such a gentleman. I still can’t believe how people can meld into smth like this … that staircase was so much safer than a portable one (im sure that the one who complained was just jealous that it was too beautiful and so well made that staircase to heaven 😅😅).
    And ….I love the gates! You nailed it! It looks so fancy now! Occy is so sweet, my heart melts seeing him not caring much about the gate but just being there by you taking a nap . Thank you for making my day so positive with your kindness and positive vibes.

  • @ronaliveshere7422
    @ronaliveshere7422 10 місяців тому +88

    Jealousy and envy is a real thing. You’re so positive to put it as nice as you did regarding that report. Respect to you.❤️❤️❤️

    • @le_th_
      @le_th_ 10 місяців тому

      It's a real thing for extremely disordered people who were broken by the very people who raised them. For those who are healthy, we enjoy seeing others accomplish their dreams, succed, and feel saddened when they have heartache.
      You are very accurate is saying that jealousy and envy is very real. I would simply add that it's real and near-constant for the irreparably broken.

    • @cchikkybabe
      @cchikkybabe 10 місяців тому

      @@le_th_spot on!

  • @crystalhealingme
    @crystalhealingme 10 місяців тому +107

    I loved that you took the complaint so gracefully Max it truly speaks of your character. Hopefully whoever made the complaint will learn a thing or two of being kind and considerate.

    • @ritatharp5238
      @ritatharp5238 10 місяців тому +3

      Exactly!

    • @alastairclarke
      @alastairclarke 10 місяців тому +1

      This was exactly my reaction. Well said.

    • @marlenecoltran6977
      @marlenecoltran6977 10 місяців тому

      Uhm dissociative narcissist... kind? Was that giant nipple kind to lee? No it wasn't and neither was he.

  • @annewendt8434
    @annewendt8434 10 місяців тому +90

    All black for sure :-) looks fantastic!!

  • @karatheriault6715
    @karatheriault6715 10 місяців тому +12

    AMAZING!!!! GREAT JOB!!!! ALL BLACK!!!
    Had a similar gate ...Super weighty. Put wheels on each side of the swing. Over time it will continue to pull and sag...Wheels babe!!! Wheels!

  • @dawnwheatcroft6964
    @dawnwheatcroft6964 10 місяців тому +68

    You handled that very gracefully.
    I’ll leave it at that. 🐾👍🏼

  • @ChloeDezz
    @ChloeDezz 10 місяців тому +128

    The fact that someone would go out of their way to find something harmless to complain about like that, says more about them than it does about you. Keep up the positive energy😊

    • @chammer932
      @chammer932 10 місяців тому +5

      Truth!

    • @tamo9520
      @tamo9520 10 місяців тому +3

      Isn't that the truth! The whole truth and nothing but the truth!

    • @Pterodactyl-kn3ve
      @Pterodactyl-kn3ve 10 місяців тому

      No the complainer did not have your best intention in mind. They are clowns. Fvckn fools.

    • @1981agroark
      @1981agroark 10 місяців тому

      Truth!

  • @thetinyshinylife
    @thetinyshinylife 10 місяців тому +121

    So sorry you had to go through this, Max, we had a similar situation with our property in Tasmania. It’s stressful and disheartening. We learnt that some people are just bored, jealous, and can’t mind their own business. Thankfully the best revenge is living a fabulous life - and you’re doing just that. Keep on keeping on, you got this. 🥳

    • @paulettemeath
      @paulettemeath 10 місяців тому +2

      Thankyou jealous was going to be my comment lol

  • @patriciacampbell53
    @patriciacampbell53 10 місяців тому +7

    Max you are such a gracious person, making something positive out of the negative is awesome. Black definitely

  • @topotone
    @topotone 10 місяців тому +60

    Nice copper pyramid post caps for that gate will keep them from rotting. Excellent project! Always great to see what you're up to. Also nice to see summer, whilst we're still in the grips of cold.

    • @Kiki-Kauai
      @Kiki-Kauai 10 місяців тому +7

      Copper caps are a great recommendation. Especially in his climate. Plus would look lovely as they tarnish.

    • @sshaw4429
      @sshaw4429 10 місяців тому +6

      Post caps with solar lights. 😎

    • @cchikkybabe
      @cchikkybabe 10 місяців тому

      @@sshaw4429even better! Solar lights would be perfect!

    • @tarotherbologycrystals3565
      @tarotherbologycrystals3565 10 місяців тому +1

      ​@@sshaw4429Great Idea!

  • @Amy_McFarland
    @Amy_McFarland 10 місяців тому +182

    And to the person that complained:
    Life is too short to play these kind of games. Max is a genuine guy and would loved to have a conversation about your concerns. I can guarantee he would have taken it seriously.
    Honestly, Max needed to know this for safety reasons in the future with guests coming over.
    My gut tells me that Max knows who it is and they took the coward way of going about this!
    May God bless you on your journey!

    • @Tom-em1oz
      @Tom-em1oz 10 місяців тому +4

      Laws are for everyone. The fact that he is a youtuber doesn't change anything. They all build no regards to code: it's cheap and dangerous

    • @Amy_McFarland
      @Amy_McFarland 10 місяців тому +23

      @@Tom-em1oz very telling, the right words smokes 'em out!

    • @tammarra3955
      @tammarra3955 10 місяців тому +20

      @@Tom-em1ozand doesn’t affect you in the least. Imagine that?

    • @lindasands1433
      @lindasands1433 10 місяців тому +9

      ​@@Tom-em1oz"they ALL...."
      Why are you watching this video when you don't even approve of people living off grid? I have an idea why, but I deleted it because I want to keep things peaceful for Max

    • @yvettepugin4035
      @yvettepugin4035 10 місяців тому +10

      It seems someone is envious of Max and what he has achieved with his land so far.
      The person may have tried being a content creator, or land owner without success (boo hoo for them).
      I like Max for his honest manner, love for Occy, and his respectful gratitude to his subscribers. He has a humble charm, and a beautiful smile no matter what he's experiencing.
      Jealousy and envy is the character of someone mean spirited and unable to concede that we're all different. The world would be a great place without people with this attitude. I hope they realise that a ladder is very dangerous and the fact that Max put so much effort into ensuring his deck was not only a structure of beauty but safe for his purposes. Talking to him about their concerns would have been far more appropriate.
      The internet troll - always ready to spread unhappiness, and drag others down into their gutter of spite. Fortunately Max is still flourishing no matter the attempt to derail his plans.

  • @MarlynaMitchell
    @MarlynaMitchell 10 місяців тому +94

    Ah Max, so sorry for your experience. I live in Phoenix, AZ in a tiny home. Someone, and I don’t think it was my neighbors either as I’ve been here over 2 years, made a complaint. In my neighborhood it’s legal, since 2013, as long as it’s not an Airbnb or similar. But the inspector came out and he wasn’t even sure. We had to do our homework to prove the legality, unnecessary time and effort but feelings of being safe was utmost. I’m a senior citizen, disabled, and almost invisible in my footprint. People forget “Always be kind”. Thanks Max for all you do.❤🙏

  • @zacnat12
    @zacnat12 10 місяців тому +37

    Thank you to the council for being reasonable😊

    • @npcfigureathletedawnirish691
      @npcfigureathletedawnirish691 6 місяців тому +1

      But he still had to uninstall it.

    • @neruneri
      @neruneri 4 місяці тому

      @@npcfigureathletedawnirish691 Because it still broke code. It is not the place of a random councilmember to waive allowances to break code willy-nilly. The reasonable thing to do is to request the change and not escalate anything beyond that. Which they did.

  • @Tashaknits
    @Tashaknits 10 місяців тому +28

    Love the gate! I prefer the all black gate for the contrast with the greenery and the posts.

  • @justinehughes3510
    @justinehughes3510 10 місяців тому +40

    WTF IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE! This makes me so mad and I’m so sorry that you have had to go through this Max, please know that you and Occy are very much loved and admired by many 🤗 Oh and to top it off you’re bloody talented working out and building everything on your own! Xx

  • @bafman
    @bafman 10 місяців тому +113

    Sadly, it doesn't seem to matter how remote we go, busybodies can stull find us.

  • @kristineolesen8577
    @kristineolesen8577 10 місяців тому +2

    You are so cool! It’s not always easy to “Be Kind. Always” when people are idiots but you are doing it and we all have to remember it too ❤ great video as always 🎉

  • @cherylbrunette2490
    @cherylbrunette2490 10 місяців тому +39

    I like the gate all black, it is a nice contrast with the stained posts. I love watching you build, you are so talented.

    • @Ktvida
      @Ktvida 10 місяців тому

      Same ❤

  • @brennz64
    @brennz64 10 місяців тому +110

    Hi Max. Great job man. Hey Im a chippie and have a couple of ideas that might help you out.
    1, have you thought about using a Ceiling pulldown ladder for your upper deck. Im Sure with some thought you could adapt one to be used in your situation.
    2, to make your New fantastic gates more secure...weld a big round washer to the top hinge pin so that the gates cant just be lifted up and off the hinges with a crowbar under the gate. A person with the knowhow could get those gates off the hinges in literally 5 minutes.
    To make them 100% secure those hinges are surposed to be installed...bottom one facing up and top one facing down. Thats a tuff job to do but they would be very secure...if you understand me.
    And dont worry about whoever wrang the council. Now you have a report with the council it will be so much easier to get help from them in the future 😊

    • @tonifoster1835
      @tonifoster1835 10 місяців тому +2

      Who would have told on you ? Gee why don’t people mind your own business ?

    • @brennz64
      @brennz64 10 місяців тому

      @@tonifoster1835 ??? Not sure what your meaning there sorry

    • @jaydegier3892
      @jaydegier3892 10 місяців тому +6

      A great reply, love the idea of the pull down ladder and also regarding the gates. That is how it should be with helpful advice, not complaints. Well done.

    • @tonifoster1835
      @tonifoster1835 10 місяців тому +2

      @@brennz64 I mean who would report Max to the council, not difficult to work that out is it? People should get a life and but out

    • @CazkiwiNZ
      @CazkiwiNZ 6 місяців тому

      The gates only stop random vehicles onto the property…. They’re not enclosed on the sides, you could just walk around them.
      My hubby is a glazier, he always says: “Glass only keeps honest people out”… meaning nefarious people will always find a way regardless.
      (They’re also just thin wood gates… a car/truck could just barrow them down without having to lift anything off. Normal people wouldn’t do that obviously… but if they’re bad people, they’ll do it any which way anyhow)

  • @songbird307
    @songbird307 10 місяців тому +21

    Great job on the fence Max! Your kind response regarding the complaint just goes to show that you practice what you preach, TO BE KIND!!!

  • @robbosadventures4067
    @robbosadventures4067 10 місяців тому +2

    All I can say is you handled it better than I would have
    Keep in there keep doing what you’re doing we’re all here for the both of you ❤

  • @nomorehate9176
    @nomorehate9176 10 місяців тому +29

    All black, Max, for sure. If the grey was a defined shape, it could work but not the way it is. That said, you did an INCREDIBLE job!!!

  • @gracemeneses9910
    @gracemeneses9910 10 місяців тому +61

    Jealousy is an evil thing. Extremely sad that some people can’t see someone else living their best life. A big hug from sunny Florida

    • @LUVNYLA
      @LUVNYLA 10 місяців тому +2

      Same here. I'm in Florida as well. I've been watching Max & Occy for a few years now, and love Max's genuine and kind approach to life.

  • @Bluebluepoodle
    @Bluebluepoodle 10 місяців тому +66

    What a shame we live in a world where jealousies drive so many people so that they feel they have to interfere in others lives. I feel sorry for them and what must be the emptiness of their own lives. Just keep doing what you’re doing - you have a good heart. 😊

    • @nevis1971
      @nevis1971 10 місяців тому +3

      It was dangerous as hell mate and an accident waiting to happen on a night after a few. Max will no doubt realise it once the initial disappointment. Imagine if his mum went up there and fell off?

    • @RockinDemJeanz
      @RockinDemJeanz 10 місяців тому +2

      Awful behaviour. Max needs to get cameras installed in case this idiot tries to come to the property (they have proven they have his address). I agree with you, someone put in a lot of effort, to literally INTERFERE in Max's life. That is not normal behaviour. To watch a stranger's video, and then feel inspired to stalk them (either online or in person) to locate their address. YIKES! Please everyone, enjoy Max's content - but mind your business.

    • @MariE-go7ol
      @MariE-go7ol 10 місяців тому +1

      They could of just emailed Max and he would of fixed it. He clearly didn’t know. Some people are such asses.

    • @keepingitreal618
      @keepingitreal618 10 місяців тому +2

      @@nevis1971no doubt your children sit in front of their computers, god help them if they ever climbed a tree.

    • @jerisimms8860
      @jerisimms8860 10 місяців тому

      @@RockinDemJeanz I agree.

  • @djesky1
    @djesky1 10 місяців тому +5

    Go all black on the gate. Leaving a that distinctive triangle on the side makes it easier to find you in google street view. If you don't want to be found, don't make it easy.

  • @Jasmine-hh3kt
    @Jasmine-hh3kt 10 місяців тому +29

    Great response Max to a frustrating situation.
    The gate looks fantastic, very boujee!
    I’d do it all black. If you do want to leave some grey timber, put a frame around a small section. Then perhaps ask a local blacksmith to craft a silhouette of a pademelon or fig tree out of metal to put in front of the grey timber, inside the frame to make a nice feature.

    • @gabsy6443
      @gabsy6443 10 місяців тому

      Imagine if it comes out that the busybody who reported the stairs has now an official complaint about the gate 😮. I have the feeling it was one of the members of this community

    • @kabukidreamboy
      @kabukidreamboy 10 місяців тому

      The gate looks great but probably unnecessary as it makes it slower and more difficult for you to get in and out as well as for visitors, deliveries etc.

  • @all4laughs2
    @all4laughs2 10 місяців тому +36

    All black. The little bit of gray just makes it look unfinished to me. Love, love, love the gate.

  • @cynsullivan6869
    @cynsullivan6869 10 місяців тому +23

    You keep cracking on.... Haters hate that's what they do... Haters hate happy people... So keep being happy..❤

  • @kathyc6698
    @kathyc6698 9 місяців тому +2

    Love the gate but also have really enjoyed your videography!!!!! Well done Max and Occy!

  • @chellele5816
    @chellele5816 10 місяців тому +16

    Love how you turned a confronting and disappointing situation into a positive outcome. You are such a kind soul. The gate looks fantastic and you can now rest easy. I would prefer it all one colour so it looks more finished. The black helps it blend better into the environment. Great job!

  • @stephaniemartin8301
    @stephaniemartin8301 10 місяців тому +81

    I sure hope whoever said something was a local counsel viewer themself and not a subscriber (that knows you have done everything possible to abide by the law) including spending the money on asbestos removal. So obviously you are doing things correctly! Come on people… be better. Keep up the good work friend! We love you 🤍 and I’m glad you did the gate.

  • @earthangel8730
    @earthangel8730 10 місяців тому +24

    To preserve those beautiful beefy hardwood posts slap some black Flexseal rubberized paint on the exposed tops of the posts. Another option is to attach black iron post caps which are very handsome too.
    I think the gates would look better and be better protected if they were completely charred.

  • @jessielynn8876
    @jessielynn8876 9 місяців тому +28

    As someone who works in a building department in the States--- it is almost always the neighbors. Also, idk about there, but our County will not take anonymous complaints.

  • @mothermedicinemusic
    @mothermedicinemusic 10 місяців тому +56

    Go Max, positive vibes, love the gate. You really do live by “Be Kind Always”. Hope others take note and follow the motto.

  • @Jared1469
    @Jared1469 10 місяців тому +26

    Gate looks awesome! I'd finish it off all black for the contiguous look. 🙂

  • @kathgold4188
    @kathgold4188 10 місяців тому +16

    Your positivity in a bad situation is why I love watching you. Keep on being you!

  • @Lexus_800
    @Lexus_800 10 місяців тому +1

    I'm sorry that this is the way I've found your channel but at the same time I'm glad that I did.
    You're so talented so please don't let people who have nothing better to do stop you from sharing your life with us. I'm definitely subscribing to see more and it may have a lot to do with your adorable pup ❤

  • @slowbrewsunday
    @slowbrewsunday 10 місяців тому +61

    I could understand them leaving a comment.....but actually taking the time to make a formal complaint?! Wow. I'm sorry that happened ❤

    • @keepingitreal618
      @keepingitreal618 10 місяців тому +2

      The fact that they couldn’t approach him directly says a lot about that person

    • @nuthouse2385
      @nuthouse2385 10 місяців тому +1

      Absolutely! And not just to make a complaint but also to put in the time and work to figure out his ADRESS for the complaint 😮 Whatever the intentions.. IT'S CREEPY!

  • @jangrady1061
    @jangrady1061 10 місяців тому +89

    Whoever reported you would probably NEVER step foot on your property but just had to stick their nose in business that had nothing to do with them!!! People amaze me every day. Love everything you have achieved and stay tough.

    • @keepingitreal618
      @keepingitreal618 10 місяців тому

      Should have had the decency to approach him and speak to him…..sickening.

  • @elainepearman2309
    @elainepearman2309 10 місяців тому +62

    You are being very polite indeed. Having a good relationship with your council is a great idea so that is another plus for you. My vote is for all black for the gate. The other thing I noticed but my experience with wood isn't much, should the top of the gate need some sort of sealant on it? The top part you cut back etc. I love the look of the gate and it is perfect for the setting anything smaller would have looked odd. Regarding the ladder for the raised part of the patio (near the RV) my brother built a wooden ladder like you have with hooks at the top and long enough to be easy to climb (like yours) and when he wanted to get on top of the structure he had, he would just hook the ladder over the top and it looked great and safe.He removed it after using as he didn't want the kids climbing. It has lasted 10 years so far. All the best and happy homesteading!!!! ❤

    • @lindasands1433
      @lindasands1433 10 місяців тому +2

      Great idea & gets around council BS

    • @tarotherbologycrystals3565
      @tarotherbologycrystals3565 10 місяців тому

      Excellent idea! I often see them used in tiny homes to access loft spaces.

  • @jocenelson7408
    @jocenelson7408 6 місяців тому +1

    CONGRATULATIONS!! The gate looks AWESOME! And to think you did it all by yourself ... GREAT JOB! As for the Gray, if it helps to differentiate that side of the gate when giving directions to your visitors (keep to the side of the fence that's all ◼ as gate swings open that way), the Gray is helpful. Otherwise, no purpose? Go ⬛.

  • @JB-kd5uv
    @JB-kd5uv 10 місяців тому +22

    Just have to say that, I have been watching you since early in the Max & Lee days. And you are still one of my most favourite follows. Thank you for your honesty, genuine-ness and your adoration of Occy and your land. Keep up the fabulous videos and beautiful work at your homestead! Absolute beauty!

  • @sellsformoola
    @sellsformoola 10 місяців тому +30

    The gates, beautiful. I would get some security cameras, so you can see from the house.

    • @millykay_kmw
      @millykay_kmw 10 місяців тому +2

      Or cell phone anywhere in the 🌎

  • @marlaward1588
    @marlaward1588 10 місяців тому +15

    I love the way you took a 'problem' and turned it into an 'opportunity' for growth and improvement. You are mastering the lessons of life and treating the rest of us to a tutorial - Bravo! Job well done!!!

  • @WillsWhereabouts
    @WillsWhereabouts 10 місяців тому

    Maaattee, loved this video and what you're doing to you very own tropical paradise! Very inspiring

  • @cheryltucker8680
    @cheryltucker8680 10 місяців тому +96

    You need to make it all black so it looks completely finished. Nice work. I am always amazed at how you rise to the occasion and tackle all these jobs.

  • @MadJenno
    @MadJenno 10 місяців тому +30

    Keep rolling with the punches Max. You’re doing amazing.
    I’m glad the council were able to help in a productive way and I admire your grace with handling the whole situation. Love to you and the Occster ❤
    PS- make that chunk of hardwood into a funky doorstop 😊

  • @8888riqui
    @8888riqui 10 місяців тому +23

    Sorry someone complained without talking to you first! I love your channel! You always are transparent and honest. You work so amazing by yourself on a job so intricate and large. CONGRATS! GREAT JOB❤

  • @lorrainekleingunther5632
    @lorrainekleingunther5632 10 місяців тому +34

    Shame, you poor man! So sorry to hear abouth a pathetic complaint.
    Really, have people nothing better to do? I have followed you happily and enjoy all the videos that you posted, and interesting and saw no wrong-doing in your handiwork. Glad you've spoken up! Kudos for you! Wouldn'tmind at all being a Mom to you! I'd be so proud of what you have achieved! Keep up the good work! Thank you for the lovely entertainment. I do enjoy everything you post! And your faithful companion is amazing! Until next time, take care.

  • @mappgirl
    @mappgirl 10 місяців тому +30

    Lovely gate, great work! Going forward I would suggest in your wet, rainy environment that you add a little more cement to create a slightly sloped 'skirting" around the base of each post so that rain water sheds away. I think as it is it will catch on top of the cement and seep down along posts into the base hole? Also, along the same lines, and it would be a nice touch too, to make, or buy a cap for the top of the posts also to shed the water so it doesn't soak into the grain from the top. Example: Nice solar self-charged lights are often the design of fence post top covers. Well done work!

  • @tullophile
    @tullophile 10 місяців тому +20

    We have large wooden barn doors that swing. I would respectfully suggest that you add substantial cross bracing to the side of the larger gate that faces the house. Xs or Zs to prevent sagging. Well done, Mate! Looking fabulous.

  • @kimorsel686
    @kimorsel686 10 місяців тому +1

    Outstanding mate... Leave the grey, I like it... Love everything about what you're doing 😊

  • @lisakurkimaki3028
    @lisakurkimaki3028 10 місяців тому +9

    I would definitely due the entire gate blackened… it looks rich, the grey corner looks like it was forgotten lol… my dad always said high fences makes for great neighbours

  • @carmenfernandez789
    @carmenfernandez789 10 місяців тому +51

    Who ever complained about your property, really have nothing better to do. Glad everything worked out well on your behalf. God bless you 🙏

  • @kathleenchild
    @kathleenchild 10 місяців тому +9

    Max, your kindness and gracefulness shows when dealing with this complaint. The person that made the complaint needs to be a better version of themselves. Definitely finishing blackening the rest of the gate would be the way to go IMO.

  • @cathyandgreg4239
    @cathyandgreg4239 10 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful job, love the gate. And what timing with the Jackery, I have been trying to deside my approach to a home back up power solution for critical loads and I was wanting to see more on this Jackery setup, thank you. And when it comes to the issue with complaints its unfortunate folks take the approach of not reaching out directly and opening up a conversation with you...maybe they would benefit from that as well. Oh well you met some nice people from the council.
    .

  • @TreasuredTrio
    @TreasuredTrio 10 місяців тому +37

    I am sooo sorry! So many folks need to stay in their own damn lane in life. I’m learning there are so many disgruntled folks and the only thing that makes them happy in life is to see others discontent.

  • @loriwood8086
    @loriwood8086 10 місяців тому +19

    Awesome job on the gate, Max. I think it would look great if the gray bit was also charred. Some nice caps on the posts to protect them from rain would really finish them off nicely. Well done!

  • @chellele5816
    @chellele5816 10 місяців тому +13

    Bloody dobbers, so un-Australian. I wouldn’t be surprised if you decided not to share your journey anymore. But, thank you for sharing the beautiful scenery and sounds of the sub- tropics. It is so calming and brings back lovely memories of childhood spent a little further north of where you are.

  • @lisakeatingyoga
    @lisakeatingyoga 10 місяців тому +6

    You are awesome Max! Im sorry someone caused trouble for you! You handeled it so so gracefully ❤❤ well done you! All the love n light from wet n cold Ireland 🤗🤗🤗🤗

    • @smiley9872
      @smiley9872 10 місяців тому +1

      Well, yesterday was a beautiful day in the midlands, but back to the rain today! Happy St. Patrick's Day to you! ☘

  • @andybaillie9939
    @andybaillie9939 10 місяців тому +73

    In a parallel universe 💖(AKA the kind & helpful Universe) ... A concerned citizen is worried about Max's safety. The person contacts Max via social media to offer suggestions and/or plans. A kind & helpful conversation between them begins. Perhaps if the person has some spare time on their hands, they may even offer to help Max rebuild the structure so that it is safer & meets code. Alas....😢
    Great news though, we got to see Occy and an awesome young guy 'havin' a go' with grace and humility. The gates are fantastic. Char it all. 💗👍

  • @GigisART
    @GigisART 10 місяців тому +83

    Max, what about building the stairs as a removable “ladder”? No rails necessary.

    • @Ukponmwan
      @Ukponmwan 10 місяців тому +12

      Yes, exactly my thoughts.

    • @jmk1962
      @jmk1962 10 місяців тому +8

      Great idea.

    • @madeloniris
      @madeloniris 10 місяців тому +13

      I think he said he needed it for support? That it’s partially structural as well

    • @sharylcrossley7921
      @sharylcrossley7921 10 місяців тому +4

      I was thinking this too. Or add a collapsible (fold down hand rail) to it can be stowed out of the way when not in use. I'm not familiar with AUS building codes though.

    • @GigisART
      @GigisART 10 місяців тому

      @@jmk1962 thanks. I have my moments. 😁

  • @ryanambrose7273
    @ryanambrose7273 10 місяців тому +16

    The sound of the rain on your land is almost magic. Soothing to a soul 🫶🏼

  • @ShellyBomb
    @ShellyBomb 10 місяців тому +1

    Hey Max: Nice, really NICE job on the gates - which are also motorized - 😮!!! 🌟🌟🌟

  • @rachelwarren9995
    @rachelwarren9995 10 місяців тому +13

    You are my favourite You Tuber because you are so loving and kind . This person was the opposite . Keep on trucking - you have a good heart and 100 % didn’t deserve this. There are a lot of us out here who think you rock !

  • @valentinavega8291
    @valentinavega8291 10 місяців тому +20

    As a Latina viewer, I really appreciate your subtle comment about walls and friendly neighbors. You’re a dope dude Max! ❤

  • @cherisong1
    @cherisong1 10 місяців тому +10

    Max you are always so kind and considered in your response (I’m sure off camera the air was blue though) and see things as a learning opportunity. I’m sure that would wipe the smile off the persons face when they realise they haven’t achieved what they set out to do. Jealousy is an ugly trait.
    Brilliant work on the gates. Where you summoned the strength for the big one is beyond me. I like the idea of something a little different in the design. Going with the Japanese theme can you do something based on kintsugi to highlight the joins between the black and grey? That way it will look more considered rather than unfinished.

  • @mauricecoelho3846
    @mauricecoelho3846 10 місяців тому

    Nice work Max on the gate …. I like it ! I prefer all black….. all you need now is a camera and a light installed outside your gate !

  • @susiesunbeam
    @susiesunbeam 10 місяців тому +15

    Max, I LOVE that you’re taking the situation in your stride and your attitude is admirable. You seem to have just got on with fixing, improving and learning from it.
    But it actually makes me sad and, frankly, a bit pissed off on your behalf that you’re having to deal with this. So creepy, weak, gutless and intrusive: to purposefully interfere in your life like this, to cause you problems (and likely scare you, let’s be honest, in the realisation that your security may be compromised, even if you’ve actively chosen to replace that feeling with action), and to not have the balls, or respect, to contact you directly first to discuss the situation. (If they’re resourceful and cunning enough to have traced your postal address, digging for your email address would’ve been a cinch.) Putting parts of your life online isn’t an invitation to mess with your life. Something seriously wrong with people who think that it is and that they have a right to.
    The gate rocks. I hope it gives you peace of mind and that the shock and stress of this trickles away swiftly. Hugs to Occy 💛

  • @monicack523
    @monicack523 10 місяців тому +20

    Incredible all that you do !! Small suggestion. How about planting something at each end of the gate, by the posts, small trees or something to give it an even greater feeling of privacy. So someone doesn't simply just walk around it so easily. It's actually beautiful with the different tones of wood. Appreciate you Max and Occy !!

  • @kellikennedy8415
    @kellikennedy8415 10 місяців тому +18

    Looks great. All black will look amazing. Also on the large piece you can add a wheel it will help stabilize it.

    • @tullophile
      @tullophile 10 місяців тому +2

      Adding a rolling wheel at the base of the large gate is a wonderful idea! Being in the rain forest, the wooden gate will naturally sag over time.

  • @jmg1619
    @jmg1619 10 місяців тому

    I think you are doing things great over your property. That gate looks pretty cool with that charred timber. “ all black “ my opinion.
    It’s very unfortunate that things like that happen but it gave you the power to create and being more careful.
    Keep it up!🌸🥰🌸🥰

  • @carolg.prevette5483
    @carolg.prevette5483 10 місяців тому +14

    Definitely all black- looks unfinished with the gray spot-great job! ❤❤❤❤

  • @pawprint8167
    @pawprint8167 10 місяців тому +8

    So sorry about the snitcher Max. People are jealous and you have done what they can't. I love your new privacy gate. Good job well done !!! All black would be elegant. Your piece of the rain forest is becoming a beautiful home.❤❤

  • @Miss.Libby.
    @Miss.Libby. 10 місяців тому +8

    You’re a very classy guy Max. Many people would be in an uproar over being dobbed in to the council. Instead, you approached it in a practical and pragmatic manner and turned it into a positive. Shows the depth of your character. Very classy indeed. On the colour of the gate, I’d prefer to see it 100% charred. The black looks great. To finish off those gorgeous posts, you could install a pair of solar lights to complement the gates and to light your way at night. I’m always delighted to watch your videos Max and to see that you and Occy are doing well. You seem more relaxed these days. It’s good to see. Take care. Cheers from the Sunshine Coast. 🌺🦋🌴

  • @angelamouland8012
    @angelamouland8012 4 місяці тому

    The gate is INCREDIBLE!!!! Well done, Max, amazing work!!!!

  • @jooncheez
    @jooncheez 10 місяців тому +29

    I appreciate how kind you are and that you were able to hold yourself back Max.
    In my mind the person who complained doesn't care about your safety at all. They'll have an empty life and thus use their time to ruin others.

    • @Alone-in-a-dessert
      @Alone-in-a-dessert 10 місяців тому +2

      I feel like they are a miserable person. Must not have any friends. How could they? They apparently don’t handle things in a grown up manner.

  • @a.wilkins4248
    @a.wilkins4248 10 місяців тому +16

    Max you're a good man! You handled that a lot better than I would! Remember what comes around goes around! Karma is all I got to say! Keep up the great work!

  • @katharinewooten4436
    @katharinewooten4436 10 місяців тому +17

    Super impressed you hung those gates alone! I have such a hard time doing horse gates, which are much lighter!

  • @rustywoodpecker8191
    @rustywoodpecker8191 10 місяців тому

    Love your work Max🇦🇺🤠👍....And as an Artist myself, I can’t help but only make a suggestion for you awesome black gate. To me, it’s a blank canvas and think it would look even more amazing by painting 🖼 on some of your native bright green plants with different coloured flowering on it. They would really stand out with the black background. It’s only a suggestion though Max. Can’t wait for your next video.🇦🇺🤠👍👍🌿🌱🌺🌹🌷

  • @marciashedeck6342
    @marciashedeck6342 10 місяців тому +16

    Just a sarcastic WOW to the complainer. The gate looks awesome just how you have it now! I worked as a Florist for over 30 years and always love the staghorn plants and have never seen them in the wild, Those were just beautiful!! We put banana peels at the base of them to feed them and keep them healthy. I love when you share your woods and surrounding nature. 😍