Things I'm No Longer Doing as a Plant Keeper

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  • @HarliG
    @HarliG  20 днів тому +35

    Sorry for the blurry second half of the video. I didn’t notice during filming 🥲 & this was already my 2nd time recording this one 😂

    • @Laneythekid
      @Laneythekid 16 днів тому +1

      I didn't even notice bc your'e literally the best

    • @torquess454
      @torquess454 15 днів тому

      Didn’t notice lol

    • @mjhawley5848
      @mjhawley5848 13 днів тому

      This is a really important video! I feel the same way. Quality over quantity. Grow intentionally, reuse when applicable and grow that dang thing to the best of its capability. Keep it simple. Don’t feel bad about throwing out every little prop or a plant that no longer makes you happy! It’s just a vegetable in the end… you wouldn’t feel bad about throwing away an old potato or piece of broccoli, would you?! It’s a plant. It’s supposed to make you happy and relaxed. Find what you like and use what works… I pretty much only use dawn dish soap and water for pests and infestations, and we’re thriving over here 💚

  • @MikeyDonna
    @MikeyDonna 19 днів тому +211

    I am 81 and have always had a few plants but never nurtured them just watered when wilted. 3 years ago I decided to get a few plants and really care for them. I created a “Plant Log” in a little notebook, gave each plant its own page with chart for when I watered and fertilized, where each was located and notes about growth, or repotting or problems. I don’t have any hard to grow plants, only easy care. If a plant has problems I toss it. No hesitation or regrets. I put a big X on that page and move on. I only have the amount of plants that can be part of my decor. At this time I have 30 and that is the perfect amount. I only have one small prop rooting in water for my daughter. It’s interesting to go back through my log and see the many X’s and read the problems they gave me. Donna

    • @taylorsmith8460
      @taylorsmith8460 19 днів тому +15

      Omg I love you Donna ❤ you sound like a wonderful lady

    • @brooke5258
      @brooke5258 19 днів тому +9

      I will also quickly toss in the bin if it's not working out lol. This is supposed to be fun and relaxing.

    • @HarliG
      @HarliG  19 днів тому +21

      Ohhh Donna, I love the notebook idea! Plus then you always have that reminder of what didn’t work out so maybe it’s easier to not give those plants a second go 😁

    • @rowanlouise4040
      @rowanlouise4040 18 днів тому +8

      This is how i want to grow old. Love you donna! ❤

    • @bethlovesthings
      @bethlovesthings 18 днів тому +7

      Donna what a fabulous idea, much love to you!

  • @kakaiyu
    @kakaiyu 13 днів тому +25

    I went through a depression in late 2021 and had a collection of over 300 plants but about 85% of them died from the neglect during that time since I was really low. But the ones that survived have proved themselves to be really hardy and I love them today. I've very slowly added some plants to my collection since then. I don't think I'll let myself get more than 100 plants again no matter how much space I have for them. I enjoy having time for my other hobbies!

    • @netteloveszebras
      @netteloveszebras 8 днів тому +2

      This. I'm at the 70ish capacity, and I've been doing not so well recently and it's affecting my plants. Definitely might need to cull the herd a little 😬

    • @mamabear4576
      @mamabear4576 4 дні тому +2

      I also have depression and something that having plants has done for me is that they tell me when I'm starting to get way off track. I only purchase plants that show rapid signs of obvious neglect. When I'm droopy, so are my leaves. This motivates me to get up and care for them. This little bit of activity tends to boost my mood just enough to force me out of my cave.
      Just some thoughts.
      Sending good vibes your way friend. ((Hugs))❤

  • @rosie_._youtube
    @rosie_._youtube 20 днів тому +78

    I appreciate the honesty in any hobby that started in love and went through an arc of self-discovery

  • @__JillSt.Clair__
    @__JillSt.Clair__ 20 днів тому +57

    I didn't expect this video to be so heartwarming. I'm so happy for you! I started watching your videos before you had the boys, and lived in your last house. You had SO MANY plants. I'm glad you've found a balance that makes you happy. And quit doubting us watching your videos. After all these years I claim you as a friend and would listen to you talk about paint drying. 🤣

    • @HarliG
      @HarliG  20 днів тому +5

      Haha I appreciate that thank you ❤

  • @FullyRooted_PlantBoutique
    @FullyRooted_PlantBoutique 19 днів тому +41

    @HarliG I cannot stress ENOUGH how IMPORTANT this content is! I love the fact you are being so brutally honest and it’s something we need more of. Maybe this resonates so well because I’m in the exact same place in my plant journey. We should stop normalizing being “addicted” to plants and going broke over them. It’s not healthy or sustainable and I just love the fact of your boldness to share such an important message that goes against popular opinion! You go sis!❤️❤️❤️🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🎉🎉🎉

  • @valeriemckitrick3232
    @valeriemckitrick3232 19 днів тому +35

    i couldn't agree more! i was well over 200 plants and always looking for more. i started dreading plant chores;needless to say, my collection suffered. now i have a manageable 50ish and we're all much happier! thanks for a great video. and remember, just because you can, doesn't mean you should. that goes for everything, not just plants! 😊

    • @brooke5258
      @brooke5258 19 днів тому +3

      I'll likely never have more than 10. I want ones that are manageable and fun for me.

    • @cjsmomom
      @cjsmomom 14 днів тому +1

      Lesson learned: less is more.

    • @cjsmomom
      @cjsmomom 14 днів тому +2

      Oh and there IS a such thing as too many plants. 😅

  • @taylorboo2212
    @taylorboo2212 19 днів тому +23

    You're so real for talking about the connection between mental health struggles and hoarding plants. I'm glad you're doing better these days Harli! You're an inspiration

  • @angela86753
    @angela86753 20 днів тому +39

    This was such a good video. It's like you were speaking to my soul saying, Girl, you do NOT need anymore plants. And I don't 🤣

  • @empressm6
    @empressm6 14 днів тому +9

    So I became interested in plants after watching you, Nick, Planterina and a few others during the pandemic. I honestly wondered how you all kept up with all of them. Anyway I had a baby and stopped watching plant content until maybe March of this year. Ive returned to find that most plant collectors are downsizing. Glad you found ⚖️

  • @RMCs
    @RMCs 18 днів тому +16

    FINALLY!! A plant person who is REAL! This is my first time seeing your channel after searching relentlessly for weeks for real and informative plant content. Thank you!!!

  • @sabinawilliams7580
    @sabinawilliams7580 13 днів тому +4

    Thx for this. I think every plant grower on social media should be honest about the difficulty of growing indoor plants. It’s one things to grow them out of a passion for the process and beauty and it’s another thing to just want plants around your house for the greenery. Most of us want no hassle greenery around the house. Too many other things going on in our lives.

  • @Ateip6
    @Ateip6 11 днів тому +5

    I went to UA-cam to distract myself from the urge to buy more pots and plants I realistically have no space for, and stumbled on your video in my recommendations. Just what I needed to see tonight, haha! Subscribed, I like your vibe 👍

  • @zingara76
    @zingara76 20 днів тому +24

    The main thing I changed was to give each of my plants their own space to shine.
    Currently I’m working mostly on styling each plant with the right pots, and also buying the correct nutrients.

    • @justacoginthefkery
      @justacoginthefkery 13 днів тому +3

      Lol my repotting tends to look like a planty fashion show. "Oooof yeah that is sooo not your color" 😂

  • @user-xr6cb4xh1n
    @user-xr6cb4xh1n 17 днів тому +3

    Not only are you informative and entertaining, but most importantly RELATABLE! ❤️

  • @mael2039
    @mael2039 9 днів тому +4

    I feel like now that my plant collection is starting to be pretty substantial, I constantly have issues with plants. There's always a couple that aren't thriving and I have to remind myself that I'm not a failure at taking care of plants, it's bound to happen that not all are thriving when you have almost 100 plants

  • @jillbirdy2777
    @jillbirdy2777 19 днів тому +8

    Harli, I have gone from 348 to 256 plants this year. You and I are often on the same page. I always enjoy your content. Thanks for staying with it!

  • @plattitude
    @plattitude 19 днів тому +11

    Beginner plant parent here and I’m so glad I found this channel. I’m never going to be a plantfluencer with hundreds of healthy plants in my perfect home, so finding people who really give an aura of realness about their plant hobbies is so valuable to me. Thank you!

  • @DarlaJMcG
    @DarlaJMcG 17 днів тому +6

    My motto (for my plant collection) has always been "thrive or die!"
    My husband got really sick a few years ago and told me recently that he just kept hearing "thrive or die!" in his head and got a little worried. Poor baby! He's thriving, thank God! 😂

  • @dhazell
    @dhazell 19 днів тому +8

    I really loved when you asked the plant if it likes you. That little monologue was really entertaining.

  • @Orangesky3818
    @Orangesky3818 8 днів тому +3

    Harly this is such a great video and I am so happy for you! I am an og- watched your content since the beginning but I will admit I did feel the stress and overwhelm the past couple years. I am SO happy UA-cam brought me back to your content so I could see the growth and evolution. I really agree with so many of these points.... and as such am really not in the plant community like I used to be because the overconsumption was crazy and it became hard to take care of.
    I got married last year and planned a big wedding and as part of it I wanted cut flowers as part of my wedding so I was outside gardening a lot. Probably like 20-30% of my collection died, which was sad but also necessary. And frankly the ones that survived are a lot more hardy than they were before. There is such a thing as excess and it's really necessary to take a good hard look within to realize what's bringing joy and what just isn't. I'm so proud of you for making these necessary changes and so glad that you're spreading this message to the rest of the plant community 🪴

  • @MrSonoru
    @MrSonoru 14 днів тому +2

    I started my plant journey about a year ago and I have amassed quite the collection in such a short amount of time. I will admit that this was mostly me filling a void. I'm at a point now where I want to throw away over half of the plants I got because it's getting a bit much to manage. I have also learned what kind of plants I want to keep growing. I'm working on selling the plants I don't want anymore and buying things for the plants I decide to keep such as decorative pots and more grow lights

  • @marcelagarnica7076
    @marcelagarnica7076 18 днів тому +4

    Super helpful for those of us feeling overwhelmed and trying to get a game plan together to get it in check! 😊

  • @soniacosgrove
    @soniacosgrove 19 днів тому +7

    This speaks to me on each point you made! A cautionary story that made me acknowledge where I was heading -Overwhelm. My spider sense was saying I need to focus on what I have (I want allll of the Hoyas 🙄) I only have so much space and lighting. I need to work with what I have and be grateful.

  • @carolescalle791
    @carolescalle791 19 днів тому +6

    Thank you, Harli. This is what I needed, a great video ❤. I'm 68 years old, and I have been following you for years ❤❤. I'm at a place where I need to let go of some plants 🪴, I just don't have the space, time, and energy. Some people don't realize that. Thank you again 💓

    • @cjsmomom
      @cjsmomom 14 днів тому +1

      I'm 68 and did this over the winter also. 😊

  • @michellecastro2475
    @michellecastro2475 2 дні тому +1

    You bring it into perspective and I always question if I need another plant. But yes questions to ask myself when considering to buy another. Love the video and makes it easier when I get overwhelmed with how they are and how I struggle.

  • @Petra-ms3ku
    @Petra-ms3ku 17 днів тому +6

    I call it refining my collection. I’m a hoe for variegation and hybrids, so I made room for what I really want to grow. I posted on Facebook that I was having a giveaway, and I had a crowd.

  • @larab5214
    @larab5214 4 дні тому +2

    Ive been into tropicals for 30 years (even went to school for horticulture), used to manage a greenhouse, worked as a route sales rep for tropical plants (before internet) and I can tell you its totally normal to have ebs and flow for the hobby. In the 90's I was huge into propagating. Then when I had my first child in 2000, if a plant propagated too easily (mother on thousands, for example) I couldnt get rid of it fast enough. It was a burden. After moving several times and another baby, I was down from probably about 100 houseplants to 2 or 3. Then I got into orchids (which were always too expensive to even think about in my 20's and 30's) because the internet made them afforable and available. When Covid happened and the plant boom happened, I was like a kid in the candy store!! Expensive things became cheap, new varieties unavailable before, new cultivars! I havent worked in the tropical industry for about 25 years, but with so much available, I watched my plants go from about 10 foliage tropicals plus about 25 or 30 orchids (so about 35 total) balloon to about 225-ish in total. I do worry about the "rare" collector and what that does to natural populations (and wonder where some of those rare over seas orders were collected) and honestly, I find the "plant haul" mentality a little nauseating at times... But I am in love with tropicals, i love caring for them and watching them grow, and am devastated when they get too large for my house... But its a healthy hobby and Im so glad you found your current balance. (And as your kids get older, you may find your balance shifts again one way or the other... That is what is nice-- it can adjust to your lifestyle)

  • @Lemons19902010
    @Lemons19902010 День тому +1

    This was a great video. I've recently down-sized from 70 plants to about 45 plants. I definitely get what you mean about finding time for more hobbies. This is my favorite video on your channel!

  • @victoriaespy4446
    @victoriaespy4446 7 днів тому +1

    Thank you so much for this!! I wondered if I was the only person feeling this. I have 2 year old twins and have missed out on so much with them due to my obsession with my plants. For the last several months, I've been learning to let go and focus on the things that really matter to me, which alleviates a little stress and brings back the peace and fun I once had with this hobby. Thank you for sharing your real and brutally honest truth . I needed to hear this today. Much love ❤

  • @staywildmoonchild2318
    @staywildmoonchild2318 19 днів тому +5

    Am a new plant parent & new subscriber. Cannot express how much i genuinely appreciate this video & your content in general. Thank you!!!

  • @jeanneorr7838
    @jeanneorr7838 20 днів тому +10

    I will be 80 this year and I started with plants when I was 20 , I know long time , right now I live in a high rise and have a bel any I have about 40 , plants and get the stink eye from my girl but its what make me happy love it 😍😍😍😍😍😍

    • @jackiewhitney5031
      @jackiewhitney5031 19 днів тому +2

      I get it. I'm elderly and these plants are like children which means it gives us a sense of purpose ...a reason to get up in the morning and be loving and caring to them. You aren't as lonely with them :))

  • @kathrynrodriguez1887
    @kathrynrodriguez1887 6 днів тому +1

    I’m 33 and I just recently moved this was an awakening moment about my plant addiction. This is an addiction not a hobby. Hobbies are liberating and this felt like a job…keeping up with so many plants and now i’m down to my prize plants ❤ doing a lot better!

  • @Bluenalgene
    @Bluenalgene 17 днів тому +3

    I really respect your viewpoint and being able to realize what’s really going on with these quick dopamine releases that are being sold to us at every click on the internet!! It’s really more rewarding to focus on what I already have and make it the best it can be. Totally here for all this!!

  • @normadodson128
    @normadodson128 10 днів тому +2

    I'm happy you found a balance in your life with plants. I started my plant journey in January 2019, and I got crazy purchasing plants, and then a lot of changes have happened in my life since then. I'm finding my balance in my life rn with my plants. I enjoy them more than before(stressed). Keep up the plant content. Your plant videos are always informative and interesting to watch, and I love watching them. 🤗👍🪴💚

  • @sbbushwacker773
    @sbbushwacker773 19 днів тому +4

    This video is so good. I was feeling so overwhelmed and felt that I needed everything that plant people advertised. Thanks for this Harley.

  • @TheLeafyGeek
    @TheLeafyGeek 5 днів тому +1

    It definitely took me some time to find the balance I needed with my collection, FOR SURE! I still don’t say no to myself if I encounter a plant that I love and want to try in my collection, but my biggest behavior change is that I am not actively shopping the online plant suppliers regularly like I used to. I have been doing some home improvement and redesigning my space a bit, which helped me establish my limits with plants and learn how to recognize (for me) how much is too much. I learned that I like having plants incorporated into my home environment design, not plants making up the ENTIRETY of my home environment design. It took a long time for me to shift my mindset and find the balance I was comfortable with. And my house doesn’t feel any less devoid of plants! 😂

  • @fionatube0
    @fionatube0 9 днів тому +1

    I had a cut back in my collection because of moves. The only positive things to come from it. The plants I have now are happy! Grow lights are a must in the winter here in Ohio

  • @elizabethgreco-nieves
    @elizabethgreco-nieves 20 днів тому +4

    I loved this vlog Harley🫶. I’ve been watching you for years but I dont comment. I’m so happy that you are striking the right balance between you and your plant journey. It’s ok to change and evolve that’s life. I will always continue to watch your content. And I always watch your mom Stef, she’s the sweetest.

  • @ashiedear_
    @ashiedear_ 15 днів тому +1

    Great video! I got up to abut 80 plants in a 1 bedroom apartment and am currently trying to cull the collection. It can be very challenging to get over the guilt of getting rid of some plants. Great reminder to check in and evaluate if they truly spark joy! 😊

  • @AnthuriumQueen
    @AnthuriumQueen 16 днів тому +1

    I’m trying to reduce my collection too, and I’m feeling SO MUCH BETTER!!! Less stress all the way! Love your videos ❤❤❤

  • @brookejohnsonsoprano
    @brookejohnsonsoprano 4 дні тому

    I had almost 80 plants in college and honestly became obsessed with them.
    I totally get where you’re coming from. I moved a lot, a lot of plants died and I became tired of plant maintenance. I also realized I would buy plants if they were “popular” without thinking if I actually wanted it.
    My smaller collection of about 20 plants is getting more attention now and my love of plants feels so refreshed.

  • @HitsFromThePast
    @HitsFromThePast 12 днів тому +1

    HELLO Harli G. I started watching your channel during covid till now. you kept me sane when everything was getting stressful. i watched your channel to destress. thank you.

  • @ConnieP92
    @ConnieP92 15 днів тому +1

    Such a refreshing video Harli, thank you for verbalising what a lot of us are probably wanting to hear! I certainly have gleaned a lot from this and can definitely say that I have been feeling it too. Why did i get sucked into all the gimmicky stuff??? Now mine are just sitting, unused, collecting dust 😔 I guess I can gift them to friends who want them and will use them. I think today you have been the voice of reason for a lot if us. Thank you! 🙏🏼👏🏼🫶

  • @traceykusser368
    @traceykusser368 19 днів тому +2

    The hardest part of having hundreds of plants is watering them all. I’ve invested in self-watering pots and as plants need repotting, I switch them over. I still put them in pretty cover pots, baskets, or crocks; etc. Winter is hard on my plants so I wait until spring to decide if I’m sticking with the tried and true or try something new. Great video! ❤️🪴

  • @Ravenelvenlady
    @Ravenelvenlady 8 днів тому

    It's amazing how a couple of little times help put things in perspective! I'm so glad you were able to put balance back into your life and make time and space for other interests. This video us right on time and helpful for me, since I am on a similar journey vis-a-vis my plants. Thanks so much! 💖🤗🌿🌱💖💕😄

  • @marjxowisno
    @marjxowisno 11 днів тому +3

    10:34 I can relate to this! I am so glad that I’m not the only one who doesn’t like my plants touching each other cause ended up overlooking my smaller plants lol

  • @halilenz4901
    @halilenz4901 13 днів тому +1

    So glad I came across this video. I'm looking at my collection and feeling like I'm in a good spot. The last thing I want to do is make my new hobby a headache and overwhelm myself. I have 16ish plants right now, which is a lot considering a year ago I only had 2. I find myself constantly troubleshooting and considering new products. This can become an expensive hobby so quickly! I'm gonna just do my thing with the plants I have the rest of the year and see where I end up. Thank you, definitely gonna follow ❤

  • @agathan.944
    @agathan.944 19 днів тому +3

    Two years ago we found our dream house. And my husband made this historical speech :
    - You can have as many plants as you wish. But the house WILL NEVER LOOK LIKE a) jungle, b)nursery, c)floral shop. It has to look elegant and cohesive.
    We have a big collection since 1997.
    In 2023 I spent my hobby-budget on plant stands and pottery.
    In 2024 I am thinking about to get a second fish tank. My plants were happy with Liqui-dirt for several years and then changed their taste to Espoma or water from my aquarium.
    About buying new plants? Sometimes. If some respectful collector will pronounce a plant "unstable" or "impossible to grow as a house plant", I like to have a challenge.
    I got rid of a grow tent about 6 years ago. Now I have many plants in individual terrariums aka oversized glass vases. Best places to buy those are Ross, Home Goods and At home.
    Best wishes to you and your family.

  • @sezhendo6791
    @sezhendo6791 19 днів тому +1

    Oh I love this so much. I’ve also come to learn a lot of this - the hard way. I’m trying to reduce my collection a bit too now. Really focusing on the plants that make me really happy 😊 thank you for sharing this. Especially the over consumption part 🙌🏼

  • @dollycaldwell4938
    @dollycaldwell4938 13 днів тому +1

    so glad to hear this....its so easy to get involved with the buy, buy, buy process

  • @kellyglastetter5071
    @kellyglastetter5071 12 днів тому +2

    Thank you for this video. Very much needed. Sometimes we just have to say i have reached my limit. I love plants but i dont have the space or time for as many as i would like to have. Maybe one day.

  • @theplantprodigy2010
    @theplantprodigy2010 17 днів тому +1

    Me and my plant collection are definitely growing up from a few years ago. Originally, I would buy anything and everything. Now, I’m focusing more of Nepenthes and other carnivorous plants. I also wanted to have an indoor jungle, but now I feel as though a houseplant jungle is way too overwhelming. I still have a long way to go, but hopefully I can become better both with my plants and with my money eventually.

  • @jasminevillagordon4220
    @jasminevillagordon4220 16 днів тому +1

    I love this video! I was definitely heading this direction with my collection, but you've outlined exactly what I should be doing! Thanks! Keep these videos coming!

  • @katiewilliams9273
    @katiewilliams9273 19 днів тому +1

    Omg its like your reading my mind!! I need to do this asap im over my head now that i went back to work i cant keep up. I loved it when i had the time but now its to much and not enough time. I just need to find people to sell them to, or even just give them away. I love them but its just to much. Thank you for sharing, i love watching yours and your moms videos. I have been here since the beginning and i feel like your all family.

  • @pamelakern2849
    @pamelakern2849 12 днів тому +1

    I have learned so much from your amazing channel!! Great content!! A wonderful personality. Thankyou Harli 🙏 😊

  • @x43_breeze69
    @x43_breeze69 18 днів тому +1

    I have been steady at the number of plants I have since I moved I haven't really gotten any more and they're all as healthy as can be none of them look scraggly or dead and it's just the right amount to keep up with I'm in love!

  • @myconfusedmerriment
    @myconfusedmerriment 16 днів тому +1

    I’ve gone through a cycle with many of my hobbies, not just plants, where I go through an intense intro phase. Where I get kind of obsessed and buy too much just because I’m excited and I want to try everything. But over time, I started to figure out what plants I really enjoy keeping and that frantic energy wears off.
    I definitely went through a phase where I wanted to propagate EVERYTHING. Again, I just wanted to TRY all the things…now I’ve sorta got that out of my system and I only prop when I really want something.

  • @minkyungkim2905
    @minkyungkim2905 20 днів тому +2

    I appreciated this video so much!! Thank you for being transparent and honest with us, i think i needed to hear that you’re making these changes as well😅 Keep it up! Your videos bring me joy:)

  • @danabryant7147
    @danabryant7147 17 днів тому +1

    I loved this video! I can definitely relate. Thanks for being so honest and real! I love your perspective and wisdom! 🪴❤️

  • @slem8431
    @slem8431 20 днів тому +2

    Literally so happy to see a video from you!
    I love the no longer going to constantly be buying. I’m on that journey as well! I’ve been keeping plants for 3 years now and I know what plants I love and which ones I don’t. I love that I can go to a plant shop and appreciate a plant but not have to bring it home. Or stop myself and say “do I really want this or do I just want that dopamine hit I’m gonna get if I purchase this”😅 anyway, you’re amazing. Love all your videos, you are my favorite UA-camr! Also something fun, we got more baby chicks yesterday and I’m excited to try growing them sprouts like you do!! Thank you for putting out videos. I am a mom of 3 young kids and it’s refreshing to see someone in the same boat as me with all the kids, all the plants, all the chickens 😅

  • @suwayhamblaylock7357
    @suwayhamblaylock7357 18 днів тому +1

    Dudeee! I’ve realized that I’ve needed to downsize my collection after spending what seems like every waking moment (well-aside from taking care of my kids and the house) just doing PLANTYYY things- likeee I can’t catch up 😐 I’m at the point now where I’m trying to figure out which plants I really care about because all these pests and leaf spot issues are about to be the death of me! I am no longer “saving” plants. Over the last year and a half I’ve been familiarizing myself with all the “Planty problems- and for the *most * part- TRYYY to avoid what I don’t want to deal with while still propagating. Lately… it’s just been one thing after another- LITERALLY! Fungus gnats, Spider mites, leaf spot, mealy bugs, and now powdery mildew/mold 🤦🏻‍♀️ I swear! Once I get something under control- it’s on to the next. I appreciate you and all your content! FORREALLL! It’s helped me a ton! Thank you!

  • @lesamonroe208
    @lesamonroe208 19 днів тому +1

    I would enjoy seeing more of your life the chickens the kids your adventures thanks for the video😊

  • @nic.nic.
    @nic.nic. 19 днів тому +2

    I hear you 100%. I downsized my collection from 200 plants to about 100. Mainly selling off my rare/uncommon plants. I took a year and half break from buying houseplants and focused on my outdoor yard planting. I basically had a blank canvas in my yard, so it’s been fun learning about outdoor plant varieties.

  • @natalieramsdell3031
    @natalieramsdell3031 18 днів тому +2

    💯 to all of this, but I’m struggling to let go of plants to reduce the collection because I feel attached and responsible for their wellbeing.

  • @brittanyb1rd
    @brittanyb1rd 8 днів тому

    This was a really great vid Harli! It resonated alot. I hit “hoarder stage” 2022 after more than a decade in the hobby, the panoramic really sent it into overdrive with the FOMO as the hobby exploded on social media. My husband and I moved to mexico for a year and a half so i had to sell off my entire collection and boy was it butter sweet. Now that were back and staying with my i laws while we find a place, ive gotten 2 former plants of mine back from a friend and i had to chop em up and reroot them. Its been really satisfying to watch them regrow and its had my thinking about how im wanting to approach my plant hobby this go around. Ive decided to only buy fully established plants and no cuttings, cos cuttings were my downfall last time. Im also only shopping from my wishlist, no more “oh i dont have that one!”. Essentially, my goal this time is to be more intentional with what i purchase and only buying plants i absolutely love. Well see how 2024 goes lol

  • @lordpurchase9189
    @lordpurchase9189 9 днів тому +1

    I gave up on the whole indoor jungle thing because my house lacks light and the more plants I got the more lights I needed to put up then as the plants grow they start to block out the lights which means getting more lights then things generally start to look too busy and chaotic rather than creating something nice to look at.

  • @Rhaphidophile
    @Rhaphidophile 16 днів тому +1

    Omg i remember those thtousands of propagations. you had a video uploaded with those propagation boxes XD definitely was fun for me too but once they grow up, you'd have no space, or they remain small and delicate for so long which means you eventually lose interest.. but yeah, everybody grows out of that crazy plant-person stage and eventually take a slower approach after a while.

  • @haciers9358
    @haciers9358 19 днів тому +1

    Some very important points you made hali. Im so glad that you have reached this point in your plant journey. It’s so refreshing to hear.

  • @regi985
    @regi985 17 днів тому

    love your videos Harli.
    This video is really inspiring to me right now.
    I have about 120 plants. I plan on adding one or maybe two plant shelf's (maybe a shelf and a cabinet) in my upstairs living room, I really hope I can resist the urge to stuff it full of plants, but have them spaced out a little bit. right now all my plants are quite pushed together, so even with a big additional shelf I can probably fill it up nicely without buying anything new, but give the plants some room to breath and grow.

  • @canineencounter4987
    @canineencounter4987 20 днів тому +5

    I need to do it too. You have motivated me to say goodbye to my doubles, triples of the same plant.

    • @maryperry5910
      @maryperry5910 20 днів тому +1

      I've been potting doubles together. That helps a lot!

    • @maryperry5910
      @maryperry5910 20 днів тому +1

      Also if a plant is looking very sad I don't panic... let it go! It'll be okay I will survive.

    • @cjsmomom
      @cjsmomom 14 днів тому +2

      I joined a local plant group and we have plant swaps. It's a great way to part with those excess or tempermental plants.

    • @cjsmomom
      @cjsmomom 14 днів тому

      Absolutely a win/win.​@@maryperry5910

  • @krazykris4957
    @krazykris4957 19 днів тому +1

    What’s crazy is this sounds EXACTLY like where I’m at without the years of realization. I am starting to have a few doubts about my consumption, not really product wise but plant wise.
    Maybe this will save me some heartache! Appreciate the honesty 💖

  • @marybethreuland7897
    @marybethreuland7897 19 днів тому +1

    I also am focusing on my plant collection, I have not bought a plant so far this year & don’t plan on it. Mainly because I don’t have space.

  • @_pipsissewa
    @_pipsissewa 15 днів тому

    I really really appreciated this video! Learning what types of plants I get along with, letting go of ones that are stressing me out, not adding as much to my collection are all things I’m trying to do too! Maybe next step is not relying so much on natural light 😅

  • @haylee6626
    @haylee6626 15 днів тому +1

    Man, i used to watch you so much a few years ago! I kinda stopped watching youtube for awhile lol. This is my first video of your's that I've seen since, and wow, I relate to so much of this. Such a good video, I really needed to hear it all!

  • @joannaolson309
    @joannaolson309 7 днів тому

    🌺 great advice! Thank you! This house may not feel so guilty because I am at the same point as you are with my plants.

  • @thealevinson9628
    @thealevinson9628 20 днів тому +1

    Really quality content, thanks for sharing and being so transparent about your plant journey! I've been very inspired by you recently to keep my collection more minimal and have my supplies more organized so I don't forget about anything I already own and I know where everything is at when I need it

  • @lpati2770
    @lpati2770 16 днів тому +2

    This is the most honest video ever. I love it!

  • @tammytran4920
    @tammytran4920 9 днів тому +1

    This was exactly the vid I needed at exactly the right time. Thanks so much for making it! ❤

  • @lorifenner4048
    @lorifenner4048 18 днів тому +1

    I needed to hear this. I’ve been in a plant funk. I definitely need to get rid of clutter plants and start focusing on the ones that I really love. Thanks for the encouragement.
    We care what you have to say .😘

  • @AlysiaTribeca
    @AlysiaTribeca 19 днів тому +1

    I'm currently trying to downsize my collection too but I keep running into the problem that I have so many plants that I want to keep because I want to see them big and mature and they're not there yet so I keep them till they grow more. I was also so shocked by how easy Anthurium actually were for me so I'm focusing more on those because they have a huge impact in my space with every new leaf but it's only a single plant

  • @tesfm2000
    @tesfm2000 20 годин тому

    Excellent video!! Thank you so much for sharing this!
    You sound just like my daughter (Light and Mind on here), but in plant form! 😂
    Yes, I got so much out of of this video!! So, so helpful!! ❤

  • @momEo3
    @momEo3 14 днів тому +1

    Yes! I've did this process twice. Once in my old home and now. The release is very therapeutic. I happy for you!. I've been following you since the beginning and you're one of thw very few that I actually continue to follow ❤💚💯

  • @adriac21
    @adriac21 19 днів тому

    Love ur hobby interest I have a lot of hobbies and I understand about being aware of not over doing it. I have to watch myself too by buying too much plants. I just started the plant hobby about 1 mth and it’s so rewarding.

  • @ayrandrobinson1697
    @ayrandrobinson1697 19 днів тому +1

    I feel the same about buying plants. I’m happy with what I have and enjoying taking care of them more.

  • @CherylannTurner-pr5bl
    @CherylannTurner-pr5bl 19 днів тому

    Wow Harli! Amen to every single point you made. I’m to the same place with my plant journey, thank you!

  • @elvandylis867
    @elvandylis867 20 днів тому +1

    A beautiful revelatory video Harli!!! Congratulations!!!🤩🌿💚💚💚

  • @db-333
    @db-333 4 дні тому +1

    well said! this is for all collectors of things! especially crystals.

  • @Sconnie13
    @Sconnie13 13 днів тому

    I spent one year buying plants from a nursery. But now I peruse the discount rack at a box store, a free plant stand/swap, and I’m part of a monthly plant subscription. So I still get plants, but I’ve scaled back on the cost. I’ll still look at a nursery, but it better be a really awesome plant before I’ll buy it.
    As for props - I’m part of a plant swap so I’ll give them away. And the props are mostly spiders and aloes - cutting back the pups is healthy for them. 💚

  • @estherh3841
    @estherh3841 19 днів тому +1

    Your content is definitely entertaining and informative 🤍 Thank you for honestly sharing about your journey and growth with plants, I relate to all of what you shared so much!

  • @Katie-my2nk
    @Katie-my2nk 18 днів тому

    😮hi Harlig, I do understand what you are talking about. I sometimes find I don't have enough time for all my plants. I like your channel. Feel free to talk whatever you would like. I've been a viewer for a long time. Kathleen

  • @Suadade1983
    @Suadade1983 19 днів тому

    I look forward to your videos! Just finished 12hr shift at a hospital and it made me so happy to find a new one from you this morning. 🤗 Thank you!

  • @emplantzlove388
    @emplantzlove388 20 днів тому +1

    I’ve been through a lot of this myself, thanks for sharing so I know I’m not alone. I am not a content creator but the “social “ collecting is definitely a thing 😂

  • @bethadamik8014
    @bethadamik8014 19 днів тому +1

    I am addicted to Hoyas!! But have learned that All the other plants were holding back my ability with the Hoya so I have downsized the other stuff and now only buy Hoya and only Hoya I don’t have. I currently have over 125 different types of Hoya and they are thriving with good care now. Currently have 20 different species blooming!!

  • @tee7230
    @tee7230 16 годин тому

    Thanks for this video! I totally agree, I hate shorts!!! And i am enjoying the 50 so plants I have and not wanting wanting wanting, except maybe a Thai Constellation LOL. Very enjoyable video.

  • @user-ks3sq6hj6j
    @user-ks3sq6hj6j 2 дні тому

    I LOVE the no more buying plants. I’m there💚 I have a GORGEOUS Jungle Paradise 💚💚💚❤️❤️💚❤️and I LOVE that in a buy more to make u happy world you are promoting not buying. Go girl🎉🤙🌺🌻💚

  • @--Paws--
    @--Paws-- 15 днів тому

    Ever since house mice killed my ~200 orchids, I have just kept the remaining plants that made it through. I had known even then my constant purchase will be my own collection's downfall and the mice nipped a great lot of them to perish. They didn't eat the orchids but did chew any plant in general.
    I haven't purchased much plants over the years, I just trimmed the same plants of those that survived and repotted them. Over the years I have repurpose plastic containers as plant pots also.

  • @dianahartley-kim7109
    @dianahartley-kim7109 18 днів тому

    Thank you for this video. I had to scale back my collection to live the life I wanted. Congrats on getting back to running. I also run and balancing running training and plant care become a thing, as I lost remote work and headed back to the office. Great video!

  • @lindaschneidewind8164
    @lindaschneidewind8164 19 днів тому

    Great video Harli! I have done a lot of the same. When I first started into plant collecting I was just buying plants to buy plants & build my collection. Now I'm figuring out what types I truly like & don't like & focusing more on those that bring me joy. I've noticed you have seemed so much happier. Good for you Harli. I'll be here watching whatever you put out. I've been enjoying your Mom's daily vlog as well.

  • @BuckWezr
    @BuckWezr 8 днів тому

    At one point I had nearly 800 different tillandsias & orchids ... IN the house! Lol.