The Stay Inn: Inside the Motel for the Homeless and Ex-Prisoners of Australia

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  • @tahj_jam6036
    @tahj_jam6036 3 роки тому +356

    Didn’t realise there was a doco on this place. I could honestly write a book about all the stories/people I’ve met here. Its been 10 plus years but still live by the lessons I learnt here. I was only 8 and my mother wasn’t particularly the best role model but some of these people were. I can gladly say this place had a massive (positive) impact on my life. I hope that everyone that was placed here is going well and know that I think of you all often

    • @serenity2655
      @serenity2655 3 роки тому +13

      That was really sweet.

    • @tahj_jam6036
      @tahj_jam6036 3 роки тому +19

      @@serenity2655 I honestly couldn’t put into words how much this place/people mean to me

    • @Jennifer-hv2bc
      @Jennifer-hv2bc 3 роки тому +16

      I went through something similar to your place here in the US
      Sending you a big smile 🤗🤗🤗

    • @kristakirsch8748
      @kristakirsch8748 3 роки тому +26

      You should write the book. 🙂

    • @michaelspears7116
      @michaelspears7116 3 роки тому +18

      Maybe you should start a blog? I'd read it. Glad to hear your life took a good path.

  • @griefweed4254
    @griefweed4254 5 років тому +357

    The guy who runs the inn is such a good bloke true aussie right there generosity at its finest

    • @Rainbowgoth5
      @Rainbowgoth5 3 роки тому +1

      I agree

    • @michellee6812
      @michellee6812 3 роки тому +1

      Amazing 👏👏👏

    • @beverlykorte8581
      @beverlykorte8581 3 роки тому +1

      Agree ✌🏼

    • @jamison1323
      @jamison1323 3 роки тому +1

      He's not helping you can't feed the bears sorry only tough love works with drug addicts

    • @stacitowery4461
      @stacitowery4461 3 роки тому

      And his girlfriend is waaaay too high to catch it..

  • @jahrasta4079
    @jahrasta4079 5 років тому +198

    The owner is AWESOME

  • @chrisschneider7505
    @chrisschneider7505 5 років тому +422

    That owner is a true hero. These are the guys that ought to be named Australian of the Year.

  • @jessiimamii5113
    @jessiimamii5113 3 роки тому +558

    Tell me you're in the start of a toxic relationship without telling me:
    "How many blokes would stick around?"

    • @michaelspears7116
      @michaelspears7116 3 роки тому +38

      I just got to that part. What a scumbag...

    • @jessiimamii5113
      @jessiimamii5113 3 роки тому +64

      @@michaelspears7116 right?! Love bombing and trauma bonding at its finest.

    • @jonezzzyyy6192
      @jonezzzyyy6192 3 роки тому +19

      Dudes on speed for sure

    • @arniefunkel9341
      @arniefunkel9341 3 роки тому +12

      @@jonezzzyyy6192 like 90% of those people were lol

    • @cindybuchanan3937
      @cindybuchanan3937 3 роки тому +1

      @@jessiimamii5113 q+

  • @lionhearttt3540
    @lionhearttt3540 2 роки тому +31

    The guy who runs this place is such a beautiful kind soul, the world would be a better place with more people like him

  • @triggahappyyt5420
    @triggahappyyt5420 3 роки тому +93

    My mate stayed there with his toddler son while he was waiting for permanent housing, places like this are great for people who really need it.

  • @victoriaf8571
    @victoriaf8571 5 років тому +757

    The guy who kept saying how many blokes would stick around seems very manipulative.

    • @OscarmfRoth
      @OscarmfRoth 5 років тому +111

      //// that’s a whole form of mental abuse & dressing or training their prey. He’s garbage .

    • @Alee-om1cu
      @Alee-om1cu 5 років тому +120

      Omg yes!!!!hes TELLING her no one would,whilst making out he’s a fuckin great guy for doing it 🙄🙄🙄 sooo abusive and manipulating!!!

    • @unarmedblackguy
      @unarmedblackguy 5 років тому +83

      Yes! I just posted a comment about this. He's brainwashing her. It's really creepy and you can tell shes a bit off about it but still falling for it.

    • @OscarmfRoth
      @OscarmfRoth 5 років тому +46

      This is how not to love someone .

    • @Mizz.Person
      @Mizz.Person 5 років тому +60

      Shes in a very vulnerable spot. He didn't say he cared. He said nobody else would stay.......3 times.......:( Dink.

  • @SandiByrd
    @SandiByrd 3 роки тому +118

    The Manager of this hotel is the epitome of what a good, decent human being should be. No judgement - no preconceived notion about why they landed there....my heart broke though for Kath. I hope and pray that she got away from that guy and is starting to recover from whatever he put her through. Poor sweet woman :( She was trying so hard.

    • @staceyb3882
      @staceyb3882 2 роки тому

      It made me cry

    • @brendarigotti843
      @brendarigotti843 Рік тому +3

      Phil is seriously an 👼 angel. I hope wherever he is now, he's happy & well! Lovely guy.🌷

  • @francestyler5146
    @francestyler5146 3 роки тому +80

    This is my second time watching this and omg phil has one of the kindest hearts. Most people judge those with addictions as being useless but you can see phil views them for the humans they are. They're just broken people who need a little bit of kindness and guidance & its refreshing to see someone willing to give them a chance on a planet where the vast majority of those in society would judge them & disregard them. Bless him.

  • @jessiimamii5113
    @jessiimamii5113 3 роки тому +119

    Unfortunately I was waiting for Kats boyfriend to turn out abusive.
    She is the perfect DV victim because she has no boundaires.

  • @wendylavery8456
    @wendylavery8456 3 роки тому +136

    I did... I once came from a place just like this. In the USA. Now I'm 20 years clean from meth. Own my own home now. People need to understand that every person deserves some respect.

    • @TerminusEst1982
      @TerminusEst1982 3 роки тому +2

      and it's that virtue alone that junkies prey on; free respect.

    • @Antipodean33
      @Antipodean33 3 роки тому +6

      No, people deserve nothing, you must earn everything. Do you think people deserve respect just for being on earth? Respect is earned,

    • @autumnmorgan525
      @autumnmorgan525 3 роки тому +6

      @@Antipodean33 I don’t think that’s true I think people deserve to be safe, to have food , to have drinking water, Shelter, medicine, etc. Things that humans require to survive , they deserve it.

    • @jcre6663
      @jcre6663 3 роки тому +4

      Every person deserves human dignity which is a form of respect.

    • @TerminusEst1982
      @TerminusEst1982 3 роки тому

      @@jcre6663 No, no they don't. You'd respect rapists, pedos, people that harm the innocent. Which makes you a silent protagonist.

  • @aprilgarcia6119
    @aprilgarcia6119 3 роки тому +198

    The guy who kept repeating his mantra about ‘how many blokes would stick around to help a woman who’s got so much going on’ - is a piece of work. He is already tearing down her self worth. The woman is broken hearted and all this man can do is pat himself on the back for sticking around? There are people in this world who seek out others who they can easily manipulate. I’d say he is definitely one of those people

    • @SweetUniverse
      @SweetUniverse 3 роки тому +29

      He does it in such a subtle way. If she says, "wth does that mean?!!" He'll say, "I was just saying. I didn't mean anything about it. You've got to stop being so paranoid." And she'll believe that. He's found the perfect person to take advantage of.

    • @Hehawtyragu
      @Hehawtyragu 3 роки тому +14

      Instantly made me sick hearing him say that for the first time, I pray she is okay

    • @XXB4XX
      @XXB4XX 2 роки тому +1

      I came straight to the comments to see if someone else heard it. Even as a guy, I started physically cringing.
      What a wanker

    • @staceyb3882
      @staceyb3882 2 роки тому +7

      Made me sick hearing that

    • @robertmccann6573
      @robertmccann6573 Рік тому +5

      @@SweetUniverse gaslight 101

  • @CharlotteElla
    @CharlotteElla 5 років тому +217

    The guy that kept saying how not many men would stick around seemed very manipulative I feel sorry for the women being talked down to like that, when she already seems vulnerable hope she makes it out

    • @mamarobyn
      @mamarobyn 5 років тому +3

      Same....🙄

    • @ladyJustis
      @ladyJustis 5 років тому +10

      Yep total narcissist

    • @brandonstrickland8234
      @brandonstrickland8234 5 років тому +1

      And I was wondering if anyone else happen to notice😂

    • @ashleymalone1445
      @ashleymalone1445 5 років тому +1

      Brandon strickland you’d have to be blind and deaf not to.

    • @adstran7624
      @adstran7624 3 роки тому +3

      Charlotte she won't make it out... In fact her next boyfriend will be the same too

  • @Mizz.Person
    @Mizz.Person 5 років тому +77

    What a saint. The owner. The people who work there. Wow.

  • @damnnnabit4361
    @damnnnabit4361 5 років тому +689

    I watched this video till the end. How many blokes you know that would stick around that long?

    • @7star7storm7
      @7star7storm7 3 роки тому +76

      She reckons her dead brother sent me to her .. yeah that's what I reckon .. How many blokes would stick around for that long ... FK !! That POS had totally put that poor chik on a leash in a cage .. I'm about 20 mins in and that's enough sadness for me today ✌️

    • @floydlay9189
      @floydlay9189 3 роки тому +8

      gold!

    • @mikedubya9313
      @mikedubya9313 3 роки тому +40

      She lets me stay in her flat for free and shouts me drugs

    • @jaejaestace
      @jaejaestace 3 роки тому +9

      Fucking gold 😂

    • @reetasaliba6152
      @reetasaliba6152 3 роки тому +2

      Hahahahahaha

  • @Suzifully
    @Suzifully 5 років тому +57

    Bless the innkeeper and caretakers, and their work and patience with helping these people ❤️

  • @OZBarStories
    @OZBarStories 3 роки тому +44

    Owner was super kind and generous and most of the people took advantage by not paying or destroying the place!!!!

    • @combatduckie
      @combatduckie 3 роки тому +1

      that s why you should never be too nice n tolerant towards these type of people who have severe mental issues - they ll drag you down with them and make you lose your business/income and get you bankrupt....He should have taken in only 2 or 3 of such difficult guests if he absolutely wanted to be empathetic and reserve all the other rooms for regular guests and the hotel would probably still exist...He should have either run a shelter OR a hotel, you cannot combine both.

    • @Heckinwhatonearth
      @Heckinwhatonearth 2 роки тому +1

      @@combatduckie it still exists. To the joy of the neighbours. I used to drive by there when I liven in inner north all the time. Ambulance and police out of front maybe 8/10 times, fights the rest. It was entertaining at least lol

  • @carmensaify
    @carmensaify 5 років тому +58

    A really fascinating glimpse into other people's lives, and i appreciate the portrayal of people as complex human beings.

  • @zach_harrison
    @zach_harrison 3 роки тому +20

    Best Homeless Documentary Ive ever seen. This is exactly what is feels like to be without a HOME

  • @jessiimamii5113
    @jessiimamii5113 3 роки тому +44

    Can you imagine working here! You'd never be bored, that's for sure! The owner deserves a bloody medal!

    • @deadfred6102
      @deadfred6102 3 роки тому +1

      Owner and staff must miss working there sometimes.

  • @lillymarie1965
    @lillymarie1965 3 роки тому +203

    I really want to know if Kat is ok. I knew when the new boyfriend gave her 3 weeks to get a job on the first date he was bad news.

    • @surefire8568
      @surefire8568 3 роки тому +40

      He demanded she get a job so he could live off her. It was so obvious. I really hope she’s okay.

    • @Ssm19494
      @Ssm19494 3 роки тому +6

      Question is did he himself have a job and were you loving together and sharing expenses at the time lol

    • @kanatapaw
      @kanatapaw 3 роки тому +2

      its very worrying

    • @mariemccammon7486
      @mariemccammon7486 3 роки тому +14

      I thought exactly the same thing!
      Fancy telling someone on the first date 'I want you to get a job within 1 month' ( or even on the 100th date actually) It's obvious he's a waster looking for a vulnerable woman to freeload off of.

    • @Kim_gs1206
      @Kim_gs1206 3 роки тому +7

      I have a job, but if someone would say that to me I'd say there’s the door and now gtfo!

  • @fifilamoore1718
    @fifilamoore1718 3 роки тому +44

    Karen and Phil, what beautiful souls you are, bless you both your helping so many . ❤️☮️ fifi

  • @annasnow.
    @annasnow. 3 роки тому +23

    Wow the manager, really has a good heart, I mean he is in the right place helping the people that actually need to be helped!! With out a man like that, their life would just continue to get worse...you know? I hope these people realize how GOOD they have it there. MUCH RESPECT to that man ❤ he's helping more lives than he's aware of. So glad I watched this.

  • @misskimpegues
    @misskimpegues 5 років тому +77

    God bless people who care about and help others exspecilally the ones that take a risk on people who have nothing ... Thank you for sharing this video I hope you have a nice day filled with love peace an joy

  • @dizusa5
    @dizusa5 3 роки тому +38

    God bless people like them. How many times can someone get f****d over, and still put themselves out there to keep helping others. He’s a bigger man than I.

  • @mst2628
    @mst2628 3 роки тому +15

    We could all stand to have the empathy & show the amount of compassion that Phil does. If we did imagine how much better our world would be. ❤

  • @dftpnk2011
    @dftpnk2011 3 роки тому +84

    RIP The Stay Inn would be interesting to know what happened and why the place is now gone

    • @meghanhenry1241
      @meghanhenry1241 3 роки тому +6

      Wonder why, junkies don't pay rent, sad to see.

    • @CLROUGH
      @CLROUGH 3 роки тому +21

      @@meghanhenry1241 closed in 2019 due to damage and bad construction.

    • @CLROUGH
      @CLROUGH 3 роки тому +3

      And bad reviews

    • @amandala00
      @amandala00 3 роки тому +8

      Awe, that's really sad 😢

    • @msjkramey
      @msjkramey 3 роки тому +3

      Grow a damn heart. The road to addiction isn't a straight line and neither is the road to recovery.

  • @Level3Lifestyle
    @Level3Lifestyle 3 роки тому +26

    "She looked at me and i looked at her and, i dont know, we had this instant connection"...
    ...That would be the drugs mate

  • @danielboatner6060
    @danielboatner6060 3 роки тому +100

    When Cat said that her new boyfriend said she had 4 weeks to get a job, on their 1rst date, I knew right there and then she was getting herself into a abusive relationship!! What giy tells a girl on there first date u need to get a job in 4 weeks wtf??? Ihooe she's alive..

    • @rishyfishy8799
      @rishyfishy8799 3 роки тому +19

      Im guessing that he lured her into a brothel or something of that sort

    • @phoenixrobinson4804
      @phoenixrobinson4804 3 роки тому +11

      @@rishyfishy8799
      That was my first thought , seems like he got her back on drugs and put her on the streets or a brothel…so sad 😞

    • @joan7823
      @joan7823 3 роки тому +7

      I'm guessing he was grooming her for the night life?..
      I really hope she's ok...
      Great post..yep great guy running the place....

    • @joan7823
      @joan7823 3 роки тому +8

      @@rishyfishy8799 yep I agree..
      Alarm bell went off when she said that...

    • @phoenixrobinson4804
      @phoenixrobinson4804 3 роки тому +3

      @@joan7823
      The thing is Joan , she’s a survivor . I think she is ok, i think over all she knows how to get away from these assholes . Hopefully she will return to the Inn in a couple of years .

  • @jessiimamii5113
    @jessiimamii5113 3 роки тому +43

    If this was a reality show i would watch it all day.

  • @stephenslideways9690
    @stephenslideways9690 5 років тому +24

    I would like to thank everyone who helps, gives up there time and money to help these kids, I come from a very lucky family but live in the middle of punchbowl nsw. I see the problems that arise and it's so sad to see the kids trapped in a life like that

    • @EvaG26
      @EvaG26 3 роки тому

      They aren’t kids, they all look a lot older than 30 even considering how drugs can age ppl... otherwise I agree wholeheartedly

  • @johnnyVGtran
    @johnnyVGtran 3 роки тому +33

    The hotel owner is losing business and money in order to help the less fortunate .The govt should be at least helping him with extra funding to keep the place going and in good condition as he is helping the community

    • @8ofwands300
      @8ofwands300 3 роки тому +5

      My thoughts too! Why isn't he getting subsidized for this???😳. I'm sorry but these people are destructive and drive away paying customers.

    • @deadfred6102
      @deadfred6102 3 роки тому +1

      I was surprised. I thought the Government was kicking down for them. These people can't afford rent. Not where there at anyway.

  • @danicefrichitthavong
    @danicefrichitthavong 3 роки тому +59

    So sad that this place has closed permanently. The owner is an Earth angel - bless his soul and those that worked there.

    • @BobbieXxoo
      @BobbieXxoo 3 роки тому +3

      Oh.. that truly is heartbreaking

    • @waverleyc.412
      @waverleyc.412 3 роки тому +5

      Awww🥺..I just finished watching this video..What amazing, caring and compassionate staff they had there...

    • @michaelspears7116
      @michaelspears7116 3 роки тому +5

      That sucks. I Google'd the place and one of the first thing that came up was a news report about a guy getting shot there. That happened before this documentary was made, though. It was clearly a rough place but it'd be better than the streets. Hopefully the residents found stable accommodation.

    • @froggy9191
      @froggy9191 3 роки тому +1

      Oh didn't realise :( First the Gatwick, now this place.

  • @ashthrice6s
    @ashthrice6s 3 роки тому +31

    When the cop yelled "open the door champ" and the person yelled back "don't call me fking champ" and the cop was like "oh I forgot....champ" Lmfao

    • @zeerom8129
      @zeerom8129 3 роки тому +1

      Lmao whats with the champ thing? I just thought he was taking the piss 😂😂

    • @ashthrice6s
      @ashthrice6s 3 роки тому +7

      @@zeerom8129 calling someone champ is putting them on the "tamp", especially in prison it means you're calling someone a pedo. Its rhyming slang, tampering-champion, shortened to tamp-champ, tampering with kids.

    • @zeerom8129
      @zeerom8129 3 роки тому +1

      @@ashthrice6s Thanks, not sure why I wasn't clicking to this last night but old mate had known of it, dont fucken call me champ 🤣🤣

    • @zeerom8129
      @zeerom8129 3 роки тому +2

      @@ashthrice6s fr though, I hope that lady turned out okay, the one that left anx didn't come back. Kat I think it was

    • @ashthrice6s
      @ashthrice6s 3 роки тому +1

      @@zeerom8129 yeah that was sad. Seemed like she was happy and trying to do better at the start, before that guy come along, and from what they were saying it seemed like he was abusive.

  • @tyronemalone4158
    @tyronemalone4158 3 роки тому +31

    Stayed there quite a few times. Its gone now...... phil was a legend

    • @PamelasEngel
      @PamelasEngel 3 роки тому +7

      I hope your doing well :) That was an amazing thing Phil did for all those people! There needs to be more Phil’s in this world :)

    • @michaelspears7116
      @michaelspears7116 3 роки тому

      Hope life is going well for you.

    • @We_Are_All_Vultures
      @We_Are_All_Vultures 4 місяці тому

      That's a real shame.

  • @cryscee19
    @cryscee19 3 роки тому +7

    This was shot so beautifully. Thankyou

  • @viviennemarsden7048
    @viviennemarsden7048 3 роки тому +15

    Fairplay 2 the staff having to put up with the abuse and still have time for each one of them, I was homeless and I live in Dublin Ireland and I can tell you from experience that a place like that is badly needed for the families and other homeless people in Ireland....🙏🙏🙏God bless you.

  • @niavseven
    @niavseven 2 роки тому +3

    "Not a shame. A problem." This documentary is really powerful, thank you. It was great to see people like Phil actually trying to do something about the HUGE (and growing) problem of homelessness in Australia. Plenty of people talk about it, too few are willing to jump into the chaotic results of a problem and get their everything dirty and broken, and staying the course anyway.

  • @ladylaois8184
    @ladylaois8184 3 роки тому +13

    Such a real documentary! Great characters vulnerable real people. Loved this good and the bad it’s real. Thanks 🙏

  • @MrMikkyn
    @MrMikkyn 3 роки тому +15

    When I heard the staff there state that she was sexually abused I got a tear in my eye. I could totally relate to that, because that's what happened to me as well. Although, I was never homeless, I did consider being homeless because of it though. Luckily, I had a friend who let me stay with her as emergency accommodation. It was really nice watching this video, I could really relate to the stories being told, the lives of the people that were unfolding and the personalities living at the apartments. It was really inspiring to see how people were at a bad situation in their lives, but they still had hopes, dreams, desires and even goals to get better. I felt like I could really relate to it. Because sometimes its so easy to judge and be judged, but when you see the level someone is at, and that they are making genuine changes to their life, it is nice. When you can see that they are genuine people with struggles who are trying to make it by, and because they may have mental health or drug related difficulties - it really highlights the humanity of the people. This is a great documentary.

  • @brogandaugherty-kelly1062
    @brogandaugherty-kelly1062 5 років тому +40

    "a reality check they don't like to see" -that usually how it is man! I think its good your trying to help these people no one will!!

  • @TheCanadiangirl4
    @TheCanadiangirl4 3 роки тому +42

    We really need an update on this hotel. I'm pretty sure this is an upload and I want to know if there's any info about Kat.

    • @PamelasEngel
      @PamelasEngel 3 роки тому +28

      There was a fire and it’s closed down and I believe it’s being demolished. I would like an update on the people as well. I found out about this place from another video were urban explorers were exploring here because it was abandoned and that’s how I learned the details.

    • @Weber1987
      @Weber1987 3 роки тому +11

      It's permanently closed

    • @Nathan-dd2uy
      @Nathan-dd2uy 3 роки тому +8

      The block is up to sale and ready for redevelopment.

    • @primroseproblematic2059
      @primroseproblematic2059 3 роки тому +32

      Kat was 100% targeted by a pimp and trafficked I think. All the signs were there. Really sad.

    • @waverleyc.412
      @waverleyc.412 3 роки тому +4

      I wonder what happened to poor Kat?🤔

  • @rossdoyle7827
    @rossdoyle7827 3 роки тому +8

    Between the ages of 2-5 I lived in a service similar to this with my mother in Ireland and the people you meet breaks your heart because you see lost potential

  • @danesouthard3715
    @danesouthard3715 3 роки тому +4

    This should be a whole series, not just 1 episode.

    • @MrAytown
      @MrAytown 3 роки тому

      Struggle street?

  • @UA-oo8nj
    @UA-oo8nj 3 роки тому +4

    This motel needs it's own series.

  • @fredfletcher9966
    @fredfletcher9966 3 роки тому +17

    I enjoyed that but it was sad at times. What happened to Cat ? Did she return. The owner is not just working for a profit but is obviously a humanitarian, helping those who need a roof over their heads and being very flexible with the terms of the tenancy. There has to be a cut off point though or the place will not survive. That's the world we live in. It's amazing in the business of hospitality, that he was so hospitable. Good doco.

  • @ngairemartin8788
    @ngairemartin8788 3 роки тому +9

    Karen Phil Michael.
    I applaud and love what you are doing.
    I'm a 67 year old Nana and I would stay if ever in Coburg .
    Kudos and lots of love from Queensland oxo

  • @LivePNW
    @LivePNW 3 роки тому +6

    You guys should do a follow up video on this place. A great guy doing great things for people who really need the extra help. Blessings.

    • @tahj_jam6036
      @tahj_jam6036 3 роки тому +1

      It has unfortunately shut down and is for sale atm

  • @jackyblue67same10
    @jackyblue67same10 2 роки тому +1

    Please make more of these video's about this place I enjoy watching this 1 .

  • @amesbabom
    @amesbabom 3 роки тому +33

    Unfortunately it's now up for sale and will be developed into apartments. Feel sorry for the former residents.

  • @missystanley3673
    @missystanley3673 3 роки тому +1

    To the staff, U are all absolutely fkn amazing ppl!!! What ya's are doin is much needed & not as common as it should be anymore... As ya's know, we all have a story & my family & I have endured this ourselves, not for 10+ yrs now, it's also not the ritz or the hilton, but it's home to many who have needed a bed at times, So it really pulls on the heartstrings in a great way, to see what U are giving ppl, very noble & something that is rarely offered on that scale & the simple, narrow minded need to catch up with reality, this really is part of everyday life & society, whats become of us if we fail to have some human bloody compassion & respect enough to pass on to another human being some hope!!! Much respect, U guys are legends xo

  • @honeytesta2429
    @honeytesta2429 3 роки тому +27

    The sadness of the residents is overwhelming, knowing that not only society has turned their backs on them, but often their families have as well, the world needs to be more kind, and empathetic, instead of sitting in judgement.

    • @leroyjones7295
      @leroyjones7295 3 роки тому +1

      Your an idiot their choice to use drugs even destroying their accommodation paid for by tax payers

    • @stacitowery3475
      @stacitowery3475 3 роки тому +1

      @@leroyjones7295 so true, and I'm certain their families gave them many chances, only to be hurt and probably robbed.

    • @ArcticXun-936
      @ArcticXun-936 3 роки тому +3

      Leroy Jones - Triggered much?
      Calling others idiots for having empathy says a lot about you..

    • @msjkramey
      @msjkramey 3 роки тому +1

      It's hard living in a place like that but it also can make you feel less alone, knowing that there's someone right there who knows what you're going through. I lived in a sober house for almost a year myself because they tell you to change people and places to change habits, and they're right about that. Those places can really drain you though emotionally when you're already at your lowest (too many people with too much baggage all concentrated together, ya know?) I'm glad I did it though. It got me 18 months sober from alcohol. I've relapsed since COVID though. Working and routine keeps my head on straight, and quarentine and all the meetings shut down was just hard for a lot of us in recovery. Just do your research because some places are unfit for humans to live in, like holes in the roof and no heat but they still get grant money?? I recommend finding one started by a recovered addict with a decade or two of sober time and not some huge business that has dozens of locations; they usually really actually care. It's probably going to be a bit run down and there's gonna be some drama, but it really helps get your head back on straight

    • @mikehunt4607
      @mikehunt4607 3 роки тому +1

      @@ArcticXun-936 would you be saying that when an addict breaks in your house or tries to rob you?

  • @madir8259
    @madir8259 Рік тому +2

    I stayed here as a young, silly, cheap tourist. It was definitely an experience. I met a few interesting people and even made a friend. Im glad i was open minded, i still think about that memory today and the stay itself was actually nice and i had a lovely room. We really need more places like this.

  • @WillArtigues
    @WillArtigues 3 роки тому +6

    This is SO good

  • @techtiger217
    @techtiger217 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you to the people that work at that Motel

  • @eg8664
    @eg8664 3 роки тому +4

    The wall that woman painted was so beautiful!

  • @JacquelineGriggs-wv3oj
    @JacquelineGriggs-wv3oj 3 місяці тому

    Wow, hats off to you all for what you do at the stay inn It's so nice to see such compassion

  • @grahamnalepa4622
    @grahamnalepa4622 5 років тому +28

    I thought they said that place was super cheap? But, I heard the woman who works the front desk say the price was $80 a night. $80 a night for that dump?! WTF?!

    • @aaroncross5228
      @aaroncross5228 3 роки тому

      Yeah that's INSANE FRFRFR

    • @結晶月の
      @結晶月の 3 роки тому +4

      I think it was $80 a night for the white picket fence people who had no idea the place also ran as a sort of rehab shelter (the rent for the homeless/rehab shelter people would have been subsidised by the gov.)

    • @navigatormother7023
      @navigatormother7023 3 роки тому

      Yep... these "Angels " think they're going to clean up in this area with these people's disability benefits checks.

    • @deniseshephard3347
      @deniseshephard3347 3 роки тому +1

      Regardless of the price no one should dismantle the property like that

    • @EvaG26
      @EvaG26 3 роки тому

      She was talking ab arrears so my guess is he owed & has to pay some extra on top of the normal rate..l otherwise yeah thats crazy lol idk what prices are like in Australia but ik when I was homeless I never stayed in a place that was more than 50 a night & that’s just the standard rate aka no discount, plus I live in Canada so our prices are steep af compared to the states

  • @bakedslow2530
    @bakedslow2530 3 роки тому +1

    God bless Phil and his workers definitely need people like them helping the truly vulnerable Australians doing it tough we have all needed someone 💕

  • @aperfecte
    @aperfecte 5 років тому +14

    I remember watching this awhile back. Why was it re-uploaded?

    • @juliansalvucci85
      @juliansalvucci85 5 років тому +5

      It’s my my first time watching it, it they didn’t reupload I probably wouldn’t have

    • @mamarobyn
      @mamarobyn 5 років тому +3

      Same

    • @SuperMerchus
      @SuperMerchus 3 роки тому +1

      Why the fk not? Just because you’ve seen it!👎

  • @vlastaleistikow6934
    @vlastaleistikow6934 3 місяці тому

    I watch this over and over for years❤❤❤ such a beautiful help❤❤❤ God bless the owner and the lady❤❤❤

  • @danielglassmeyer1381
    @danielglassmeyer1381 3 роки тому +6

    Phil has a heroic amount of empathy to manage the tolerance involoved for what he's doing. Being in the US I couldn't stop thinking about how this wouldn't be possible due to city/state government, local police, gun ownership and citizen entitlement here. This is uniquly functional due to the laws, politics and sociology of their country.

    • @niavseven
      @niavseven 2 роки тому

      I feel so much sympathy for people living on the fringes in the US because of the gun factor. It’s terrifying to imagine.

  • @fredfletcher9966
    @fredfletcher9966 3 роки тому +1

    Phill and Karen..... You are such lovely people. Most people could not be bothered by these people. You see them as human beings who have had obstacles and made a few wrong decisions ( we all have, let's face it!) and you have given them a chance to have their own home without all the predujuce, of not being as "socially acceptable" as others.Theyre not bad, I know the place closed down but don't blame ALL of them. Some were worth it They will never forget you. Good work you did 💓🌺🌅💐

  • @marcstaley1526
    @marcstaley1526 3 роки тому +25

    Alot of independent low rate hotels and motels are being used to house the homeless. In the U.S.A. they are unofficially section 8 (public housing).

    • @michaelspears7116
      @michaelspears7116 3 роки тому +4

      Yep. If you swapped the accents around, this place could easily be one of the many places I stayed at in my younger years.

    • @deadfred6102
      @deadfred6102 3 роки тому +1

      Free housing. Section 8 you gotta pay and it's below market but not cheap.

  • @warbledurbler7905
    @warbledurbler7905 12 днів тому +1

    The guy playing the guitar played a tune that was very fitting to the trials of life for the unfortunate. I really hope Kat is ok. She has a lot to give, sadly, many give nothing positive and only take.

  • @thatsmeno8551
    @thatsmeno8551 5 років тому +9

    The owners of this places are good and grace from god.God bless thank y’all for helping theses people allsome

  • @leed9741
    @leed9741 3 роки тому +1

    That man's been taken advantage of so many times and he's still ridiculously nice and non judgemental. I want to be like that in life.

  • @ngatiharty1
    @ngatiharty1 3 роки тому +6

    The owners are awesome people.

  • @lukebaker1167
    @lukebaker1167 10 днів тому

    Much respect… I’m in that boat now and it’s hard. No denying that….. and worse it’s sad, people I miss. All gone now..

  • @gertytheman
    @gertytheman 5 років тому +35

    Look all I want to know is how many blokes would stick around.

    • @paulabrown6840
      @paulabrown6840 5 років тому

      NALA DOG I’m one hell of a bloke ! Lol🤪

    • @ladyJustis
      @ladyJustis 5 років тому +8

      What a narcissistic douche he was

    • @carmensaify
      @carmensaify 5 років тому

      😀

    • @lesnorton3968
      @lesnorton3968 5 років тому

      nah im gone

    • @brandonstrickland8234
      @brandonstrickland8234 5 років тому

      NALA DOG 😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭I'm dying here in the comments!!!😂😂😭😭😭

  • @staceyb3882
    @staceyb3882 2 роки тому +2

    Poor Kat that’s so sad! Karen seems so lovely I think they all trust her and look up to her

  • @cropo4043
    @cropo4043 3 роки тому +3

    I think what you’re doing is fantastic. I wish your business all the best and big ups for your patience in occasion trying circumstances.

  • @starandwho
    @starandwho 3 роки тому +1

    Phil’s an absolute angel

  • @mickgatz214
    @mickgatz214 3 роки тому +2

    Not so cheap!
    Another great doc from VICE. :)

  • @lukeadams8565
    @lukeadams8565 5 років тому +16

    Bless these people God may we come together break the taboos and help the lost souls it is our duty to help may God bless each and every human that is in a dark place may the love and light of God surround us in our times of darkness

    • @lisamendez7479
      @lisamendez7479 5 років тому

      Well said Luke!
      AMEN😊🙏 I would LOVE to work there and help were needed..being the hands and feet of Jesus! NOTHING better, we should all want to help! those in

  • @We_Are_All_Vultures
    @We_Are_All_Vultures 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you to the owner 🙏🏻

  • @navigatormother7023
    @navigatormother7023 3 роки тому +5

    There was a time where if an owner ran a cobbled together residential property like this the right way, signing the resis up with Centrepay, providing a minimum of board requirements, and utilising volunteers, they could call themselves a not for profit government/charitable/altruistic project, and if they kept the place running properly with the financial authorities the project owners made a tidy sum each fortnight without much outlay. No TV though- no air-conditioning, no luxuries of any sort whatsoever. They flipped the narrative on that and made the clients feel grateful for every minute they were allowed and allocated to stay there. No drawing on walls, room checks daily, punishments meted out for infringements. This fellow didn't register that he's basically running a large residential child care for very troubled, dependent, low functioning adult children. Plus he can't just leave it in the hands of his staff to cope with the behavioural stuff 24/7 if he is paying them and they are not trained mental health workers. It's just not fair on them. They get paid minimum wage I'd say, and there's no structure as to who is taking care of what. It's a recipe for stress, resentment and disaster should behavioural flare ups occur, which they inevitably will, as these poor people bless them , would all have been outpatients in Plenty Psychiatric hospital thirty years ago, or in and out of detox or prison.

  • @danozism
    @danozism Рік тому +1

    Thank God there are still some good people in the world. Otherwise, we'd be well and truly screwed! Thanks to the Stay Inn and VICE. RIP Stay Inn.

  • @madeleineea9551
    @madeleineea9551 3 роки тому +6

    The guy Jake, I see him around now. He doesnt look too good though, seems like he's gone downhill. Super interesting video I wish they'd make more like this!

  • @SweetUniverse
    @SweetUniverse 3 роки тому

    I could marathon this. These stories are very human. Stuff that touches your soul.

  • @nicksawyer5852
    @nicksawyer5852 3 роки тому +3

    The owner is a true hero.

  • @moesmoontv8270
    @moesmoontv8270 3 роки тому

    That’s so nice for Phil to do that for people ya know, not judging and still helpin people after they did what they did.

  • @everevelyn1094
    @everevelyn1094 3 роки тому +9

    How many blokes would stick around? You mean to emotionally support their girlfriends??? That’s a big part of a relationship. Does he really think he’s doing something special!?

  • @mthecat9250
    @mthecat9250 3 роки тому

    One of vices best work

  • @LonnieLawless
    @LonnieLawless 3 роки тому +4

    Can we get a follow up video about this place and people VICE?

    • @ifp748
      @ifp748 3 роки тому +1

      Doesn’t exist anymore

    • @LonnieLawless
      @LonnieLawless 3 роки тому

      @@ifp748 as in, the hotel or the follow up video G P?

    • @ifp748
      @ifp748 3 роки тому

      @@LonnieLawless the hotel no longer exists

  • @louisehuke6007
    @louisehuke6007 3 роки тому +2

    It's a sort of happy sad , place . Keep up the brilliant work 💖❤💙

  • @i_am_tinny_man_2267
    @i_am_tinny_man_2267 5 років тому +15

    Don’t do drugs

  • @missredumbrella
    @missredumbrella 3 роки тому

    The trouble with compassion is the tears block the view ....God Bless all you lovelies xxx

  • @mariekatherine5238
    @mariekatherine5238 3 роки тому +5

    I stayed in a similar place in the USA for six months. It was a step up from this as there were welfare families with kids staying there. Most everyone had at least one person employed, but still couldn’t afford regular housing. There was a wait list to get in the motel. I had the smallest room on the end corner of the top (4th) floor. I improved the place with my own linens, curtains, repaired the toilet, painted the walls, cleaned out the heater and got rid of the colony of roaches living behind it. But I didn’t bother replacing the TV which was regularly stolen. I got a used safe which I hid behind the water heater for a few valuables. The things I hated were the druggies nodding on the balcony, leaving needles and condoms around, and hearing swearing and loud music, oh, and when the prostitute used the room next door and I could hear everything. Management didn’t do nothing because that was how the rent got paid. I got myself earplugs and noise blocking earphones. Kid noise didn’t bug me. Kids need to run, play, laugh or cry. Strange coincidence, the owner had epilepsy and had to work around it. Running a motel was doable. I used to get off my rent for sweeping the balconies and collecting the trash that people just tossed out the door. Not my preferred place to live, but better than the streets, a shelter, or in a tent in the winter.

    • @AcidOllie
      @AcidOllie 3 роки тому +3

      Adults need to run, play, laugh and cry too you know! I have also stayed in places like this which are inhabited by transient beings that are somewhat broken due to my drug problems. We're not all bad. I'm always polite and respectful towards my neighbours and make very little noise. I was always grateful for the help I received and it is a shame that other people with similar issues take these things for granted and ruin it for the rest of us. As for the earplugs, they are an absolute necessity and made my life so much more peaceful!

  • @melanieking4357
    @melanieking4357 3 роки тому +1

    watched this in 20201, someone in the comment section said the hotel is no longer there. This is very sad. l am hoping maybe it got knocked down to build crisis accommodation appartments like PHil wanted so he could continue helping others. Kat if you are reading this l hope you are ok sweet soul. Thank you Phil and Karen for everything you did.

  • @kcbruinmo454
    @kcbruinmo454 3 роки тому +5

    The owner and the receptionist have the patience and prudence of saints!Can’t think of many people including myself that would be able to stick to their guns like that. should be given an award and tons of funding!

  • @zoew9369
    @zoew9369 3 роки тому

    This is the most beautiful documentary

    • @galegrazutis964
      @galegrazutis964 2 роки тому

      ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS! Especially when these lowlifes were destroying the place and doing drugs!!!

  • @Luna.3.3.3
    @Luna.3.3.3 3 роки тому +6

    "How many blokes would stick around.." 🙄 _ANYone_ who constantly says how 'good' they are, usually aren't. Good people will never tell you they are.

  • @samanthasmith5685
    @samanthasmith5685 15 днів тому

    What a caring bloke

  • @lunaluna6474
    @lunaluna6474 5 років тому +9

    reupload ? im not sure

  • @diewilde13
    @diewilde13 3 роки тому

    love and hugs phil!

  • @maticbukovac6966
    @maticbukovac6966 3 роки тому +8

    Maybe the guy asking how many other guys would stick around is mentioning it not to manipulate the poor woman but to emphasize his (main) selling point as he knows that he does not have many. When people get sad as a result of a family/health crisis "friends" are indeed often nowhere to be found...

  • @howey935
    @howey935 3 роки тому +2

    Kat has a heart of gold OK she’s a bit rough round the edges but I bet she makes a really good friend.

  • @dupeyou2474
    @dupeyou2474 5 років тому +14

    Karen the receptionist is gorgeous.

    • @willlaw1672
      @willlaw1672 4 роки тому

      Really you blind

    • @dupeyou2474
      @dupeyou2474 4 роки тому +1

      @@willlaw1672 Not blind, you're just a clown.

    • @thislifewelive5206
      @thislifewelive5206 3 роки тому +2

      She’s one tough cookie too

    • @dupeyou2474
      @dupeyou2474 3 роки тому +1

      @@thislifewelive5206 An all round package.