How to Resolve ANY CONFLICT
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- Опубліковано 17 чер 2024
- Free yourself. Follow these steps and all outcomes will result in liberation.
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How to RESOLVE CONFLICT:
1. Know and Tell our Truth 100%
2. Love Everyone (including yourself)
3. Let Go (inside and outside, them and you)
TIPS:
- Be CLEAR and DIRECT in delivery
- Share your own thoughts + feelings (without assuming theirs) of their actions/non-actions
- Speak to the ROOT / CORE of the issue
- Gauge their awareness levels without being triggered
- Breathe, Be Present, Stay Conscious
- Practice Silence without Resentment
- Stay Calm, Honest, Grateful, and Succinct when Diffusing
- No Defensive nor Offensive energy
- Liberation is an INNER Process
- Intend their Freedom to Free yourself
- Set Firm Boundaries without Resentment/Attachment
- Boundaries can be set Silently
- Recognize your Efforts with Compassion
OUTCOME A: They also share their genuine thoughts/feelings, both openly hear/see each other, natural resolution will occur
OUTCOME B: They are triggered, but if both stay composed and open, at least more clarity will be gained to come closer to resolution
OUTCOME C: They are blocked. Be smart to free them and yourself. Know how to diffuse and let go FULLY for liberation
All 3 outcomes = liberation if the steps and tips are carried out with confidence and balance.
0:00 Introduction
1:13 Step 1
4:09 Step 2
7:20 Step 3
10:52 Conclusion
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My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on self and social interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share stories on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own energy to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.
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How to RESOLVE CONFLICT:
1. Know and Tell our Truth 100%
2. Love Everyone (including yourself)
3. Let Go (inside and outside, them and you)
TIPS:
- Be CLEAR and DIRECT in delivery
- Share your own thoughts + feelings (without assuming theirs) of their actions/non-actions
- Speak to the ROOT / CORE of the issue
- Gauge their awareness levels without being triggered
- Breathe, Be Present, Stay Conscious
- Practice Silence without Resentment
- Stay Calm, Honest, Grateful, and Succinct when Diffusing
- No Defensive nor Offensive energy
- Liberation is an INNER Process
- Intend their Freedom to Free yourself
- Set Firm Boundaries without Resentment/Attachment
- Boundaries can be set Silently
- Recognize your Efforts with Compassion
OUTCOME A: They also share their genuine thoughts/feelings, both openly hear/see each other, natural resolution will occur
OUTCOME B: They are triggered, but if both stay composed and open, at least more clarity will be gained to come closer to resolution
OUTCOME C: They are blocked. Be smart to free them and yourself. Know how to diffuse and let go FULLY for liberation
All 3 outcomes = liberation if the steps and tips are carried out with confidence and balance.
i live for this, i am very socially immature. these are saving me. thank you
Bbbut you're making strides to change by integrating this knowledge
Hallelujah
You admitting this shows you're growing beautifully...I'm happy for you ❤🎉
I can vow for this. If you dare to follow this with everyone in your life, you will be liberated and feel more empowered. You might lose some people over it, but you will build resilience and find new people that resonate with the version of you that holds itself to these ''standards''.
Lately I've been acting in too much love, people think they can abuse my kindness but boundaries have to get set.
These approaches are not intended to work with malignant narcissism, which will defy common sense.
Most people have all the thoughts and words to do this, but the hardest is to remove the cloud of emotion.
Another great video from you. Just a note on the final step: it's about accepting that sometimes, even if you don't get to fully express your thoughts or resolve a conflict completely, you need to let go. You've made your effort and taken part in the process. The resolution might not feel complete and you may have regrets, but internally, you've resolved the conflict from your side.
Wow....the algorithm does get it right sometimes! Love your content and THAT voice is sublime and also powerful...
It’s the best feeling to tell the truth always ❤
Ariel!!! Only my second video of yours I've watched, and you made me a subscriber. Been working through a conflict with a friend and comrade of 5 year and they got triggered as hell when I gave em this treatment. Thanks for reminding me I did it right, and with love and an eye toward healing for both of us.
Thanks, this is so important for me rn during Christmas holidays with my family. This is really tricky not to get triggered by family members atm. I am practicing this ❤
Girl, I do love your voice.
So full of confidence.
What a great birthday gift from the universe to me!!! 😌 Love your brain and I was so pumped to find you on here since following you on other socials.
Happy birthday 🎂♥️😘
I believe this is true, but it is truly hard😮💨
Not bad, I love this:) Although I feel I am a very social and grounded person I ended up finding your social interactions handbook and it perked my curiosity so I purchased it and just read the whole thing and this is how I found this video. It turns out I have some conflict to resolve with an old friend and this is exactly what I needed to see today.
I love how wide Ram Dass’s teachings has spread. He has helped me so much in my life; I’m glad he has made an influence in yours too. 😊
Thank you Ariel, I love your videos. Your whole presence and content is just what I need these days. I hope your channel blows up and gets to 1M in no time! ;)
ur actually so insightful. I'm currently in a PHP program and these techniques are really great and useful skills to learn !!
Very helpful. Sounding great too!
These videos are my saving grace. Thank you ❤
I mentioned to someone how I felt about a small situation & they became offensive. I said I was just bringing it to your attention that it bothered me & it’s fine but they haven’t spoken to me since lol.
Good for you and good riddance 👍🏻 keep them light in your mind but do you boo
This is so freaking good
I needed this so long ago thank you
Your videos are out here saving lives! Thank you for what you do, thank you for existing ❤
You have so much wisdom, you are my new favorite youtuber!
Maharajii ❤❤❤❤ and Ram Dass ❤❤❤❤ thank you 🙏🏽
You have no idea how much I needed this right now ❤❤❤❤
This video saved my existence..
You've a beautiful smile BTW!
Thank you. 🙏
You are super awesome.
You look stunning. ✨ thank you for the video 💕
Hello! Thank you for the video, excited to be here w/ you, cheers ✨️
I’m so excited you’re here! Welcome to the inner circle ⭕️😉
I love ram dass!!
I love your content so much
thank you
Im the triggered angry one. I have not responded to the person because i want to say something mean because they said mean things but claim they weren’t trying to be hurtful but I dont know if i believe it
You exude power, confidence, and self-love, and you’re so sexy! Thank you for sharing your wisdom nuggets with us ❤😊
Could you portray this technique with a role-play scenario?
I added example responses for each step, but more content on this subject coming in the future and I'll infuse more role-play examples :)
How do you not care about a bad outcome, e.g. if you have a really good day but one bad thing ruins it even if you’re trying to be optimistic you just keep fixating on it and can’t distract yourself from it?
I’ve noticed all my ‘bad things’ tend to be stemming from social interaction so that makes me want to avoid it more.
Can you give some examples of this in a workplace setting ? I have no idea how to not be sharp when coworkers make insensitive jokes or how to stand my ground.
“I don’t appreciate that.” Breathe, say it definitively while keeping how you feel on the inside grounded and calm.
Do you think it could stop the israel-gaza conflict?
If the decision makers followed this process, yes.
Comment for algorithm
if you read one time Quran for yourself is just shows you different reality of world which over 2 Billions around the globe read it daily. try it once
wow, are you real? you look like AI generated your look. wow