I’m glad she is speaking up, many people are suffering from this abusive relationships. I believe everything she says. I’m glad she got out and can share her story. Look at Mel B she doesn’t even look the same person from years ago. You can tell she has been through it. Very thankful she is speaking out it’s healing for us all l. And who cares if she selling a book about it. She is an independent women. Go Mel B.
My mum went through it for years I remember listening to it and its awful living in fear and walking on egg shells. I applaud Mel for speaking out because the response to domestic abuse needs to change, the law courts and the police's attitude and how they treat victims is a major problem. The perpetrators still have more rights than those they abuse. It baffles me that if a child is being abused they can be removed from their parents yet DV abusers are given unsupervised access to their kids who they use as weapons against their ex partner. Mel's book is brilliant she is 100% honest about everything including her own mistakes and regrets. I hope she continues speaking out she is doing all victims of DV a service by showing the reality of it.
I wonder will Johnie Depp write a book about the abusive relationship he found him self in with Amber Heard and how the British judiciary as always did not believe it could happen to a man when the american courts and testimony proved she was totally coercive, abusing and a pathological liar but anyway you are right, I so glad people are finally speaking out about disgusting abusive parters because god knows you could tell Johnie had been through it too. He lost half a finger if I remember correctly when she fired a bottle at his head too right?
Great lady ..i never knew i was in a violent relationship till later ..i watched this happen for her whilst not recognising my own abuse..im now 4 years free
Sometimes being strong is a weakness. Because you see a red flag and you go "but I'm tough", and you get hurt once and you go "but he's hurting more than I am" and suddenly you're neck deep telling yourself you should be able to stomach this because you're tough and he's just going through a rough time.
God bless you Mel B i want to hug you so much. My mum was in a domestic abusive relationship with my Dad and i grew up in a life filled with fear and anxiety. I've forgiven him because he's a changed man now but its hard to forget and the mental emotional damage is done...
I can't stand the way the interviewers are asking her to be specific in reliving each incident "the curtains- the table where the kids couldn't eat". She's already written the book - must be awful for her to continue repeating herself....ugh!
TRAUMA BONDING .....What is a trauma bond? A trauma bond is a connection between an abusive person and the individual they abuse. It is reflective of an attachment created by repeating physical or emotional trauma with positive reinforcement. It can be hard to spot and even harder to break free from.13 Dec 2021
Mine gaslit my doctor so i couldn't get any help for 9 to 10 months even from DV agencies or other doctor's even verbally abused by one doctor get out of my office he. Screamed st i was covered in bruises
My daughter new boyfriend is keeping us away from her for 3 years and now moved. Give up the 4 kids. Coz the new boyfriend didn’t like them all. How can I get her some help. She’s not aloud to see anyone !!!😢😢
Call a domestic violence line ! And access information- from organisations that can help her , there are many organisations online - lm a Social Worker by the way !
Really didn't like how this interview was conducted. They kept interrupting her and insensitively bringing her back into her personal trauma. For Gods sake she's come out of something horrific and the interviewers are speaking and questioning her as though it's a fictional fairytale
She is lying if one listens to the other side then hears this she never was abused.I heard about her from a hotel chaimber maid in Henley and My home town where she lived.She owned the loose women minions.They let her have a platform when she paid off people, used her children as weapons and used photos nothing to do with the case.The partner was not charged once why is there a conversation about no proof, in fact her side of the story sounds disturbing.
I AM AFRAID TTHAT SHE WILL FILE A FALSE MENTAL HEALTH WARRANT AGAIN.. I HAVE MILD PTSD FROM MY EXPERIENCE. THE SCREAMING IS THE WORST THING TO HAPPEN TO ME.
MY SISTER FINISHED 1ST IN HER VILLE PLATTE HS.. IN COLLEGE SHE GRADUATED WITH AT LEAST A 3.8 GRADE POINT AVERAGE. SHE WAS ACCEPTED TO THE NUMBER ONE FINANCE SCHOOL IN THE COUNTRY. MY FAMILY IS WELL KNOWN IN OUR COMMUNITY. PEOPLE WILL COVER FOR HER EVEN MY COUSIN GRACE WHO WAS A FORMER CHICAGO PD INVESTIGATOR. LAST YEAR WHEN MY SISTER WOULD GRAB ME OUT OF BED WHICH REQUIRED 3 STEPS. I WAS AFRAID TO FALL AND HAVE A CONCUSSION HITTING THE STEPS.
When I was taken back to the police station I said there's no marks anyway I wanted to go for a cigarette and that's why pointed that out I wasn't aloud I was told they didn't know where he was in the station I later found out he'd been told if you want a cigarette have one now when he was in the yard he didn't know I'd been told I couldn't the two cops that dropped me home were completely silent they didn't even take me to my front door they dropped me a little bit further down the road to where I live
I find the presenters INSENSITIVE in the rapid questioning and especially the one that said- I was in an abusive relationship, I mean not as bad as you but.. wth
@@Naomi_thegirlGodmade first we both know she did not write it and spent no time on it. And the mentality is of someone tired of these people creating stories of so called abuse to sell stuff.
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This is my story 1000%. Still healling and learning to love myself again. ❤❤to all the women that go on this :" You can!"
I’m glad she is speaking up, many people are suffering from this abusive relationships. I believe everything she says. I’m glad she got out and can share her story. Look at Mel B she doesn’t even look the same person from years ago. You can tell she has been through it. Very thankful she is speaking out it’s healing for us all l. And who cares if she selling a book about it. She is an independent women. Go Mel B.
My mum went through it for years I remember listening to it and its awful living in fear and walking on egg shells. I applaud Mel for speaking out because the response to domestic abuse needs to change, the law courts and the police's attitude and how they treat victims is a major problem. The perpetrators still have more rights than those they abuse. It baffles me that if a child is being abused they can be removed from their parents yet DV abusers are given unsupervised access to their kids who they use as weapons against their ex partner. Mel's book is brilliant she is 100% honest about everything including her own mistakes and regrets. I hope she continues speaking out she is doing all victims of DV a service by showing the reality of it.
I wonder will Johnie Depp write a book about the abusive relationship he found him self in with Amber Heard and how the British judiciary as always did not believe it could happen to a man when the american courts and testimony proved she was totally coercive, abusing and a pathological liar but anyway you are right, I so glad people are finally speaking out about disgusting abusive parters because god knows you could tell Johnie had been through it too. He lost half a finger if I remember correctly when she fired a bottle at his head too right?
Describing step by step the relationship with a secondary psychopath or a malignant narcissist.
Is anybody else annoyed by how they interrupt before she can completely finish a thought.
YES!!!!
YES! I am
Yes, very unprofessional.
Probably to not let her get over whelmed
@@sandrahassard4926 YES
HER EX IS A SCUMBAG. HE SHOULD BE IN PRISON. HE HAS AN EXTENSIVE CRIME RECORD.
She let him gateway with it
It’s more common than most people think.
Nothing wrong wirh being single !!
Great lady ..i never knew i was in a violent relationship till later ..i watched this happen for her whilst not recognising my own abuse..im now 4 years free
The life of an independent woman living with a covert narcissist
Sometimes being strong is a weakness. Because you see a red flag and you go "but I'm tough", and you get hurt once and you go "but he's hurting more than I am" and suddenly you're neck deep telling yourself you should be able to stomach this because you're tough and he's just going through a rough time.
More than 10000 times agree with you!
God bless you Mel B i want to hug you so much.
My mum was in a domestic abusive relationship with my Dad and i grew up in a life filled with fear and anxiety. I've forgiven him because he's a changed man now but its hard to forget and the mental emotional damage is done...
God it's irritating the way these interviewers talk over Mel
I can't stand the way the interviewers are asking her to be specific in reliving each incident "the curtains- the table where the kids couldn't eat". She's already written the book - must be awful for her to continue repeating herself....ugh!
MOST PEOPLE WOULD NOT BELIEVE ME.
How awful for Carol to say " u let it happen " wtaf?
I have a lot of respect for this lady and I think she’s gorgeous still
TRAUMA BONDING .....What is a trauma bond? A trauma bond is a connection between an abusive person and the individual they abuse. It is reflective of an attachment created by repeating physical or emotional trauma with positive reinforcement. It can be hard to spot and even harder to break free from.13 Dec 2021
Trauma Bonding, your right, that’s the KEY dynamic at play here in all these abusive relationships.
I love u mel, you rock.
IT IS HER BOOK.
I HAVE BEEN EMOTIONALLY, PHYSICALLY AND FINANCIALLY ABUSED BY MY SISTER CHERYL .
PLEASE DON'T BLAME THE VICTIM.
Mine gaslit my doctor so i couldn't get any help for 9 to 10 months even from DV agencies or other doctor's even verbally abused by one doctor get out of my office he. Screamed st i was covered in bruises
CHERYL DAVIS IS MY ABUSER. SHE SAID THAT I ABUSED HER. WILL AN ABUSER ADMIT TO ABUSING SOMEONE.
Never, listen to Dr Armani master class on Narcissism.
I was a abuser but I went on a DV programe I'm now cured
I been here
My daughter new boyfriend is keeping us away from her for 3 years and now moved. Give up the 4 kids. Coz the new boyfriend didn’t like them all. How can I get her some help. She’s not aloud to see anyone !!!😢😢
Call a domestic violence line ! And access information- from organisations that can help her , there are many organisations online - lm a Social Worker by the way !
Hi. I really hope you manage to get her back home with her family, from my own personal experience I can relate. You're not alone. ❤
Really didn't like how this interview was conducted. They kept interrupting her and insensitively bringing her back into her personal trauma. For Gods sake she's come out of something horrific and the interviewers are speaking and questioning her as though it's a fictional fairytale
It’s witchcraft. The narcissist puts a spell on you to awaken you.
Why do I think panal thinks they know best ,they kept interrupting.
I feel very sorry for these women.
She is lying if one listens to the other side then hears this she never was abused.I heard about her from a hotel chaimber maid in Henley and My home town where she lived.She owned the loose women minions.They let her have a platform when she paid off people, used her children as weapons and used photos nothing to do with the case.The partner was not charged once why is there a conversation about no proof, in fact her side of the story sounds disturbing.
aww poor Mel b so shocking she was treated that way ax
I AM AFRAID TTHAT SHE WILL FILE A FALSE MENTAL HEALTH WARRANT AGAIN.. I HAVE MILD PTSD FROM MY EXPERIENCE. THE SCREAMING IS THE WORST THING TO HAPPEN TO ME.
MY SISTER FINISHED 1ST IN HER VILLE PLATTE HS.. IN COLLEGE SHE GRADUATED WITH AT LEAST A 3.8 GRADE POINT AVERAGE. SHE WAS ACCEPTED TO THE NUMBER ONE FINANCE SCHOOL IN THE COUNTRY. MY FAMILY IS WELL KNOWN IN OUR COMMUNITY. PEOPLE WILL COVER FOR HER EVEN MY COUSIN GRACE WHO WAS A FORMER CHICAGO PD INVESTIGATOR. LAST YEAR WHEN MY SISTER WOULD GRAB ME OUT OF BED WHICH REQUIRED 3 STEPS. I WAS AFRAID TO FALL AND HAVE A CONCUSSION HITTING THE STEPS.
MEL B HAS PTSD.
Why do people write memiors and never say the reason they wrote it was for the money?
They always say they did it because "it was cathartic" .
Wow
When I was taken back to the police station I said there's no marks anyway I wanted to go for a cigarette and that's why pointed that out I wasn't aloud I was told they didn't know where he was in the station I later found out he'd been told if you want a cigarette have one now when he was in the yard he didn't know I'd been told I couldn't the two cops that dropped me home were completely silent they didn't even take me to my front door they dropped me a little bit further down the road to where I live
Im a abuser i regret what i did 😢
MY SISTER CHERYL SAID ON THE FALSE HEALTH WARRANT THAT I WAS THE ABUSER.
I find the presenters INSENSITIVE in the rapid questioning and especially the one that said- I was in an abusive relationship, I mean not as bad as you but.. wth
And she isn’t a narcissist ?
No where near as bad as your relationship, this why people don’t tell their story
what?
JOHN JAMES IS CHEAP. YOU CAN'T AFFORD THE BOOK.
MEL B IS NOT TO BLAME FOR THE ABUSE. THE LADY ON THE SHOW WITH THE BAD HAIR IS WRONG.
Interview w/ short-hair seems like she could care less about her Guests story. That she’s more focus on expressing what’s on the timed agenda.
Is Mel B, A African American 👧🏿⁉️
She is British, and a Woman of Colour
I wonder why she doesnt make her very useful books free of charge
Why would someone who took time and pains to write something sell it for free? What kind of mentality is that?
@@Naomi_thegirlGodmade first we both know she did not write it and spent no time on it. And the mentality is of someone tired of these people creating stories of so called abuse to sell stuff.
Same reason why you don’t work for free.
@@JohnJames-vt5xkYour comment is pathetic
@@JohnJames-vt5xk she didnt lie tho