Block (few days / weeks) - unblock (few days / weeks) No communication? -> block (few days / weeks) - unblock (few days / weeks) This is very unhealthy More than likely the person has a personality disorder. - starts with ADHD? - BPD? - NPD?
Stupid. I personally walked away from a narcissist and i had to block her because it is too painful to see things that might hurt me. I still love her but being with her could kill me so its less painful to not see her
💯 true. And this is why I stayed too long in unsuccessful relationships, because I didn’t realize you can have a relationship and get angry at one another without blocking until I met someone who was solution oriented. I’ll never settle again.
It isn't so simple. Sometimes it's done so they don't hurt you by letting you see they moved on. Sometimes it's done so they don't see your page cuz it hurts. You can't just blanket it like that because every situation is different.
When u block them or they block u, it’s time to move on. The relationship has ended and even if they unblock u, you will resent them for blocking u in the first place. If they block u, unblock u, block u again, this is just mind games. Just move on
OMG you’re so right .. He never gets back into my life he’ll no…He hasn’t reached out but if he’s waiting for that to happen.. Literally waiting until the end of time it’s been 2 months & counting..That loser is out and needs to stay there…outta my life
He just makes a “new character” whenever I ignore one. Catfishing me is what he has done to me since before we even started dating. I ignored that big red flag. I even tried to twist it in my head as sweet. I no longer trust people online. Even after I meet them in person. He likes the damage he caused.
Bro every relationship fights in this world there hasn’t been 1 relationship where no one hasn’t gotten mad or has gotten frustrated at there significant other . Lol
Lol I do this but it’s not for attention It’s because I’m scared. That’s it. I don’t play games. I’m just scared. I hate that I do it. Because my feelings don’t change. I always love them. I just get scared. I wish I could heal asap becauee it’s ruining my life. Don’t judge people But maybe most people are assholes. It means something is making me uncomfortable but I don’t know how to fix it, and I love the person. Kinda like upper management can’t agree
People block all the time it means nothing don't take it seriously its just a social media platform. Besides its there device they can block anyone they don't feel like talking to at the moment. Take a break and unblock you back. Its happens all the time. I've done it too. Sometimes people need a break from all this social media junk and idle talking. People take things way too personal in US.
As someone who did this, I did it so it’s a mutual 2-way unfollow. But this is correct he was taking days and then weeks to message me back. It’s clear we are not a match. Thank you 👍🏼
@@highaltitude787 when I was with my ex girlfriend at the time she block me then she unblocked me then she ask me to be her friend I was like sure bc I just gave up I didn’t care anymore then I told my self I might as well find someone else since she not Coming back. Then I started to date someone news then here she comes with my best friend lol kinda saw that coming. I don’t think she like him bc she see me with other girl .
What's the point if after 17 yrs in a relationship and 1 year of being apart and he's in a new relationship? I say move on and be happy! There's no need to do all of that. He cheated and I walked away. Just take the the L.
I blocked my ex because it hurt me too much to see him living life without me in it. Might unblock him one day when I’m over the idea or fantasy of getting back together. I had a few chances to get back with him, but I wasn’t ready because I couldn’t trust him.
She blocked me and it’s been two years no contact when I’ve done nothing but been the type of man she deserved yet silence move on kings. Move the fuck on. Trust me…
I’ve only blocked one man. And it was because I needed space and he kept watching my stories and it hurt Everytime he did. Then I unblocked him because I wanted to have a conversation but it turned into an argument instead of us holding ourselves accountable. We blocked eachother 😢
I dont get it. I have a hard time with block and unblock folks to this degree. I cant go forth and back. I hope that person can make up their mind and heals.
@African.Diaspora.InLondonUK Thanks... But i am not the one that blocked on and off... So they need to make up their mind... And sorry, but I cant do 30 days/1year challenges. Not cuz the idea of yours is bad or something...🙏 It just seems silly in our case cuz if it is a relationship, we have to learn to talk about problems. Not run away from them.... Da situation seems unnecessary complicated but maybe there is sth i dont see.... Anyway, appreciate you replied 👍
Mine too. Kept doing it until she left me no choice but to block her completely. I wasn't gonna keep playing games with her if she wanted to keep playing. I told her to either leave or change. She chose neither, so I chose for her and ended that shit
Well I blocked him because I couldn't stand another a lie, then because I don't want him to be a part of my life I unblocked him, I don't want him in my block list either. So it has nothing to do with noticing or whatever personally.
How does this work when they are in a relationship? He entered one pretty quickly after our break up (2months) and after a while since i kept calling/texting i was blocked then recently i was unblocked but he’s still in a relationship what does it mean?
@@Kopite19877 Dont know if your answer was regarding what i wrote or not since i dont see my profile tagged but i can answer it anyways :P yeah we are togheter now again and constantly trying to better the relationship and ourselves, we are going for relationship counseling soon, it was a rough start but we still love each other and are willing to put the effort but it wasnt easy to reach here as you see what i wrote before it was a confusing period i had to go through which was painful but i hope its getting stronger, we finally met up and started talking in february so its been 7 months now
idk if hes a narcissit, but he blocked me cuz i jus wanted to talk about the relationship during the breakup he blocked me but recently unblocked me, and he even asked my best friend about me like two weeks ago and if i still wanted him
My ex did that . She broke up wt me and blocked when I wanted closure about what happened then she was in a relationship a month later . 8 months later , she unblocks me on instagram . And they’re not together anymore . This was last week btw. I didn’t block her but I deactivated instagram instead . She won’t be able to search me up or anything , leave her confused . Plus i don’t wanna see her . One photo brought back all the memories instantly yet I tried to pretend she never existed for the past 8 months
I blocked her, unblocked her, then I blocked her again because she ghosted me after I asked her to meet the first time. She came back 2 months after ghosting me, and we spoke with each other and made plans to meet then she ghosted again. So now she is Blocked!!! Hope she gets the message that I'm not interested in playing stupid games!
Ok Mr. Answer man, what about when spirit blocked a man for his bad behavior? He says un block me. I don't know how because I didn't do it. I don't argue with angels. I did ask God to choose for me because I have no good father to pick for me. We never met or dated, he is a Muslim. No dates.
My husband blocked me recently and does it when he gets mad or to prove a point… I guess… but we were working on things so he is staying with family during this time and got mad at me for not responding within the time frame he wanted me to AFTER he has been ignoring my messages when I wasn’t blocked for hours at a time and does it on purpose to hurt|upset me… 😢 he uses this tactic a lot of times as a threat bc he knows I hate being blocked :( so naturally when ignored it makes ya feel the need to send more texts, then I guess it’s bugs him now but he knows how nits making me feel but still doing it and knows how it feels and he hates when someone does to him… what should I do? Any advice?
I blocked her and she blocked me too.When I unblocked her she also unblocked me. I asked her why she blocked and she said because I blocked her first. What could it mean? She not my girlfriend though but proposed to her and she tells me she's not ready
Guys my girlfriend friend block me for no reason she said she was sick and something happened she blocked me all of a sudden idk why I never said anything wrong so I don't know why
A guy friend of mine would block and unblock me for years lol idk why? We are just friends or so I thought ? And then blocked me again when he saw me walk into the auto parts with my neighbor helping me with my car. I left it on it like it is though lol not bothered but I am curious.
Hey guys Jason ethier The guy play as Jay station he my boyfriend he my dream I dream about in real life dream come true I didn't believe in dream come true but h knows the true fax i have proof he knows the true fax
As someone who did this, I did it so it’s a mutual 2-way unfollow. But this is correct he was taking days and then weeks to message me back. It’s clear we are not a match. Thank you 👍🏼
Block (few days / weeks)
- unblock (few days / weeks)
No communication?
-> block (few days / weeks)
- unblock (few days / weeks)
This is very unhealthy
More than likely the person has a personality disorder.
- starts with ADHD?
- BPD?
- NPD?
Sounds like common sense….
ANYone who starts playing games like this…. It ends right there.
Only a narcissist play these kind of stupid games. Just walkaway. Very well said.
Stupid. I personally walked away from a narcissist and i had to block her because it is too painful to see things that might hurt me. I still love her but being with her could kill me so its less painful to not see her
All women are narcissists?
@@cactu5jack 😂😂😂😂
No not just a Narc, emotialky damaged peopke do it as well normally its reactionary...
@@baldersn4474that's correct.
💯 true. And this is why I stayed too long in unsuccessful relationships, because I didn’t realize you can have a relationship and get angry at one another without blocking until I met someone who was solution oriented. I’ll never settle again.
Do they want you to notice? Or do they want to control?
Control
I had to block my ex because I kept feeling hurt and disrespected. I did it for me, to help myself detach. Not to hurt him.
My ex unblock me on fb 2 month ago. Why? I don't know. I block him back, because he is toxic.
@Statler & Waldorf right I heard only very few people are real narcissist. Everyone just wants to call their ex one when they are not
It isn't so simple. Sometimes it's done so they don't hurt you by letting you see they moved on. Sometimes it's done so they don't see your page cuz it hurts. You can't just blanket it like that because every situation is different.
Right
Very true .... The person you block has forced you to behave badly
Wise words.
Facts
Nah… The blocker is Power Playing.
No the blocker is short tempered
Shit I did that today 😢🥺
When u block them or they block u, it’s time to move on. The relationship has ended and even if they unblock u, you will resent them for blocking u in the first place. If they block u, unblock u, block u again, this is just mind games. Just move on
People block all of the time... it's social media. Social media doesn't mean anything.
Yess it does girl,
OMG you’re so right .. He never gets back into my life he’ll no…He hasn’t reached out but if he’s waiting for that to happen.. Literally waiting until the end of time it’s been 2 months & counting..That loser is out and needs to stay there…outta my life
He just makes a “new character” whenever I ignore one. Catfishing me is what he has done to me since before we even started dating. I ignored that big red flag. I even tried to twist it in my head as sweet. I no longer trust people online. Even after I meet them in person. He likes the damage he caused.
i think many many times before i block a person because if the time comes that i will block you it means that i will not come back
Bro every relationship fights in this world there hasn’t been 1 relationship where no one hasn’t gotten mad or has gotten frustrated at there significant other . Lol
True! It hurts when ppl block us for silly reasons... it's like shutting the door on our face...we can't reach out to them...I feel so helpless..
Lol I do this but it’s not for attention
It’s because I’m scared. That’s it. I don’t play games. I’m just scared.
I hate that I do it. Because my feelings don’t change. I always love them.
I just get scared. I wish I could heal asap becauee it’s ruining my life.
Don’t judge people
But maybe most people are assholes.
It means something is making me uncomfortable but I don’t know how to fix it, and I love the person.
Kinda like upper management can’t agree
I had to block the man i was involved with he was just too toxic for me. I unblocked him to give him another chance and he hasnt changed
Block meant no unblock
Bye
People block all the time it means nothing don't take it seriously its just a social media platform. Besides its there device they can block anyone they don't feel like talking to at the moment. Take a break and unblock you back. Its happens all the time. I've done it too. Sometimes people need a break from all this social media junk and idle talking. People take things way too personal in US.
As someone who did this, I did it so it’s a mutual 2-way unfollow. But this is correct he was taking days and then weeks to message me back. It’s clear we are not a match. Thank you 👍🏼
She blocks you SHE LOVES YOU she HURT but SHE don’t WANT YOU TO GIVE UP SHE’ll COME BACK
Yep that just happened too me last week
@@calebburton7371what happened?
@@highaltitude787 when I was with my ex girlfriend at the time she block me then she unblocked me then she ask me to be her friend I was like sure bc I just gave up I didn’t care anymore then I told my self I might as well find someone else since she not Coming back. Then I started to date someone news then here she comes with my best friend lol kinda saw that coming. I don’t think she like him bc she see me with other girl .
I agree. The one who block either because of love and surviving the live. Kind of rewarding.
they aren't worth your time if they do this
Maybe it’s because you’re a side piece and u don’t want the main to see😂
Wdym?
Four, five, six months sounds like a long time and still keep the ex's interest.
What's the point if after 17 yrs in a relationship and 1 year of being apart and he's in a new relationship? I say move on and be happy! There's no need to do all of that. He cheated and I walked away. Just take the the L.
I blocked my ex because it hurt me too much to see him living life without me in it. Might unblock him one day when I’m over the idea or fantasy of getting back together. I had a few chances to get back with him, but I wasn’t ready because I couldn’t trust him.
She blocked me and it’s been two years no contact when I’ve done nothing but been the type of man she deserved yet silence move on kings. Move the fuck on. Trust me…
I’ve only blocked one man. And it was because I needed space and he kept watching my stories and it hurt Everytime he did. Then I unblocked him because I wanted to have a conversation but it turned into an argument instead of us holding ourselves accountable. We blocked eachother 😢
Why did it hurt when he kept watching your stories?
@@freecityzen1384 because I told him I needed space from him. And he wasn’t respecting that.
I dont get it. I have a hard time with block and unblock folks to this degree. I cant go forth and back. I hope that person can make up their mind and heals.
@African.Diaspora.InLondonUK Thanks... But i am not the one that blocked on and off... So they need to make up their mind... And sorry, but I cant do 30 days/1year challenges. Not cuz the idea of yours is bad or something...🙏
It just seems silly in our case cuz if it is a relationship, we have to learn to talk about problems. Not run away from them.... Da situation seems unnecessary complicated but maybe there is sth i dont see....
Anyway, appreciate you replied 👍
Thé I my way to heal is face to faccz Taline g or at least calling each other
One of my exes does this a lot she can never make up her mind 😂
😂😂
Mine too. Kept doing it until she left me no choice but to block her completely. I wasn't gonna keep playing games with her if she wanted to keep playing. I told her to either leave or change. She chose neither, so I chose for her and ended that shit
Well I blocked him because I couldn't stand another a lie, then because I don't want him to be a part of my life I unblocked him, I don't want him in my block list either. So it has nothing to do with noticing or whatever personally.
Well, it makes you feel disposable and like you never mattered.. they just got bored and wandered back.
You'll never matter to them
How does this work when they are in a relationship? He entered one pretty quickly after our break up (2months) and after a while since i kept calling/texting i was blocked then recently i was unblocked but he’s still in a relationship what does it mean?
It’s a rebound it won’t last
@@treysalmon640 i guess we’ll see he has started watching my stories on my opne insta page now -.-
Exact thing happened to me , did they ever reach out?
@@Kopite19877 Dont know if your answer was regarding what i wrote or not since i dont see my profile tagged but i can answer it anyways :P yeah we are togheter now again and constantly trying to better the relationship and ourselves, we are going for relationship counseling soon, it was a rough start but we still love each other and are willing to put the effort but it wasnt easy to reach here as you see what i wrote before it was a confusing period i had to go through which was painful but i hope its getting stronger, we finally met up and started talking in february so its been 7 months now
True, just blocked her, for my sake not to play games. Time to move on.
idk if hes a narcissit, but he blocked me cuz i jus wanted to talk about the relationship during the breakup he blocked me but recently unblocked me, and he even asked my best friend about me like two weeks ago and if i still wanted him
My ex did that . She broke up wt me and blocked when I wanted closure about what happened then she was in a relationship a month later . 8 months later , she unblocks me on instagram . And they’re not together anymore . This was last week btw. I didn’t block her but I deactivated instagram instead . She won’t be able to search me up or anything , leave her confused . Plus i don’t wanna see her . One photo brought back all the memories instantly yet I tried to pretend she never existed for the past 8 months
I blocked her, unblocked her, then I blocked her again because she ghosted me after I asked her to meet the first time.
She came back 2 months after ghosting me, and we spoke with each other and made plans to meet then she ghosted again. So now she is Blocked!!!
Hope she gets the message that I'm not interested in playing stupid games!
Ok Mr. Answer man, what about when spirit blocked a man for his bad behavior? He says un block me. I don't know how because I didn't do it. I don't argue with angels. I did ask God to choose for me because I have no good father to pick for me. We never met or dated, he is a Muslim. No dates.
If it's so they notice, they would have already Checked though
My husband blocked me recently and does it when he gets mad or to prove a point… I guess… but we were working on things so he is staying with family during this time and got mad at me for not responding within the time frame he wanted me to AFTER he has been ignoring my messages when I wasn’t blocked for hours at a time and does it on purpose to hurt|upset me… 😢 he uses this tactic a lot of times as a threat bc he knows I hate being blocked :( so naturally when ignored it makes ya feel the need to send more texts, then I guess it’s bugs him now but he knows how nits making me feel but still doing it and knows how it feels and he hates when someone does to him… what should I do? Any advice?
What kind of boy did you marry? That’s not an alpha behavior. Tell him to become a strong man and stop being a weak boy then walk away
@@highaltitude787 i honestly don’t know at this point. I am just as confused as you are right now!
Funniest thing I never heard. At least yiy are husband and wife😊
Good advice
If you block somebody in real Roblox can they still join your back?😅
Facts tho !!!
I beg to differ.
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Thats what happened to me my ex blocked me the same day we break up
I blocked her and she blocked
me too.When I unblocked her she also unblocked me. I asked her why she blocked and she said because I blocked her first. What could it mean?
She not my girlfriend though but proposed to her and she tells me she's not ready
A lot of info with no closure?
Guys my girlfriend friend block me for no reason she said she was sick and something happened she blocked me all of a sudden idk why I never said anything wrong so I don't know why
A guy friend of mine would block and unblock me for years lol idk why? We are just friends or so I thought ? And then blocked me again when he saw me walk into the auto parts with my neighbor helping me with my car. I left it on it like it is though lol not bothered but I am curious.
Because he has feelings for you and he hurt when can’t be with you other than friends
He blocked me once and never unblocked me.
Okay sure
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Ugh my sister does this to me she plays so many games
Ayo
What if their Mom made them do it? 😥
R😂😂😂
Take that LOSS😊😅
My partner blocked then tomorrow unblock
Hey guys Jason ethier The guy play as Jay station he my boyfriend he my dream I dream about in real life dream come true I didn't believe in dream come true but h knows the true fax i have proof he knows the true fax
I don’t care lol
Good advice.
As someone who did this, I did it so it’s a mutual 2-way unfollow. But this is correct he was taking days and then weeks to message me back. It’s clear we are not a match. Thank you 👍🏼