DID GRANDPA TOUCH YOU? | Steve Wilkos
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- Опубліковано 20 вер 2021
- Lisa was heartbroken when her granddaughter told her that her husband had inappropriately touched her. She needs the truth, or else she’s leaving him!
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I love that the mother still fought for her daughter even if she didn’t want to believe it. Props to the grandma for saying it’s over even though she loved her husband. Baby girl comes first always
YES!! The kids comes first!
This is a really sad story. I really hope the grandma sticks to her daughter, and doesn't go back to the monster.
Fs. I live in Joplin near Neosho, I see this dude he's gonna get his ass kicked. If he survives jail
I remember watching half of the episode and it says jimmy is serving 10 years
@@sholabolaji2975 yeah I’m quite glad he finally put the video up, full video ((:
He's about to be someone's whole cookie in prison. Smart brave little girl telling her truths!
He got ten years, based on an update.
@@autopreneur should have been 30 years.
He aint getting raped his getting killed that what happens to pedos in prison. Hes a dead man
@@bringyourbabytothebbq830 I'm all for prison justice. Sometimes I think the judge knows that inmates will serve a far better justice than they can.
@@bringyourbabytothebbq830 that man definitely got red lighted
1. Give your child proper names for their body parts. PeePee area, PooPoo area. Talk to them about good touch vs bad touch / good secret vs bad secret
2. When your child comes to you with an issue... make an appointment with a trained child abuse therapist.
3. Call the police!
4. Ban any future contact from that individual.
5. Do *Not* call a family meeting with the abuser and victim in the same room! This further trumatizes the child!
This needs more likes.
Also ask them when it happened and what happened
THANK YOU!!!!! It's really pathetic to have your children call their body-parts STUPID names. Thanks for being a rational human-being!!💖💖💖💖💖💖
@@nuggie_queen8724 *That would be part of the therapy sessions with the doctor.*
Asking too many questions, asking the wrong questions can come off as coaching. Also an hour in a toddlers mind is quite different compared to that of an adult.
I have seen abusers lawyers use parents leading questions of the child against them in court stating they were coaching the child to make false complaints.
I have seen kids become fearful because parents lose their cool and become visibly/emotionally angry when discussing the abuse. This can frighten a child into silence or a lie fearing they are "in trouble or hurting family" by telling.
disagree with therapist but good 5 things to do
“I don’t care I have to believe my daughter” 100/100 words. Mom is amazing
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The dad aint playing no games. Hes a runner hes a track star
HE WAS GONNA KILL HIS ASS. GRANDPA MIGHT NOT LIVE TO EVEN SEE JAIL!
Man slipped through the guards and went to beat his ass
👏🏾 as he should 👏🏾
Hats off to that security guard, picked homeboy up and glided across the stage. Diffusing situations 101
that was the most violent hold-back for a victim ive ever seen on the show. Man will kill him on sight if he ever sees him again.
This is exactly why it’s so important to teach children about their bodies and the correct terms to use.
she use the term her parents address her private area by being a young girl they say cookie she told the story very well my daughter has her own word for her private area as well being a little girl and as she grow she will understand more Smfh
How is this why its important to use the tx book name? No one was confused they all knew what the girl meant. Out of this whole Story that's all you've taken from this... weird.
@@telsclark , it's true
Agreed
@@telsclark I’m idk, maybe because she literally had trouble communicating that she was touched because they refer to her privates as “cookie” it’s weird and dangerous to call it those cutesy names
The dad wasn’t gonna let that slide at ALL..GO DAD!!❤
As a victim of CSA, I applaud the mother for fighting for her daughter even though she had a hard time grappling with the reality and weight of the situation.
The fact that the mother and father both had doubts about him actually doing this but believed their daughter over their own thoughts/feelings, shows that they are good parents 👏🏻
Dam right
💯💯💯 how it should be ion ever siding with anyone besides my child
Yes indeed. And no matter what you may think. You always have to believe what your kids and children are saying. And always put them first before anything else. So yeah God bless them both.
And prevented this little girl from going through years of trauma
yes, its good that she stepped in instead of her own feelings about him because if she didn't the abuse could have continued!
The update is that Jimmy was incarcerated for 10 years and has to register as a sex offender upon being released from prison. Sad that he would victimize Casey's daughter
🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
I taught my cousin coochie and that no other than mommy should ever touch her there when she can pee on her own. and her mom was upset about it but I feel if she knows that and where it’s at it’ll help her pee for one and keep her safe in case some tries something
Their gonna turn him out in their 😂💀
@@Ohsoazii he about to be somebodies cookie 😭
What does incarcerated mean
The grandma irritated me so badly, she had no concern for her grandchild. She was more worried about Jimmy.
True
and yet at the end she said it's over after hearing the truth so ?????????
As a SA survivor, I truly truly commend the mother for believing her daughter despite having a hard time believing that such person could do it because my mom did it for me. She didn't want to believe that the person, so close to our family with a very good image in our community, could do such thing... but she believed me and fought with me for years and just last week the guy was convicted and was sentenced to life in prison... Sending hugs to victims of SA. I really hope it gets better for you all.
As a 29 year old SA victim... It's not easier but I am getting through it I recently told my mother just this year on the 4th of July what my older sibling did to me when I was 7 maybe younger.... It's not easy but thank you for the hugs I kinda honestly felt it and hugs and prayers to everyone who suffers
sending prayers to both of you, this isnt an easy thing to go through and i hope you both heal safely ❤ and your mother is amazing for standing up for you
When he busted into the room while the little girl was telling her grandma what happened, they should have IMMEDIATELY removed her from the room. No victim should be made to tell their story *in front of their abuser.*
A 4 year old isn’t going to fully understand the idea of an abuser or being a victim, they might get that this is good or this is bad, and they are going to remember experiences and if somebody did something to them nobody else had done that will be significant enough for them to bring it up. So I don’t think it was a bad idea for them to do it because she is simple going to tell them what he did because she remembers what he did, puts him on the spot because he has to explain why this little girl is saying something she clearly remembers
@@nategreatgames78 bruh. You don't know what she will or will not remember. I remember my baptism when I was 3 months old FF'S. Yeah, I may be an exceptional case. But memories is not what I was talking about. Especially with babies and toddlers, the way we interact with them is crucial to their development, regardless of if they'll remember it or not. It's all about setting a positive environment for their growth and preventing any damage from occuring.
Making her repeat *again,* in front of THE PERSON WHO ABUSED HER mind you, is *unacceptable.*
Do you not remember what it was like to only understand about 25% of what serious things adults were talking about, and feeling scared of grown ups when they towered over you like giants would over Jack? Just because they don't understand, doesn't mean they don't feel the gravity of the situation.
They should have taken her out and called the police immediately. Not call a TV show. I get why they did it but that shook me. The fact that she was made to say it to the whole family, the grandmother gaslighting a 4 yo and no police were called for what must be days so they could go on TV. Just saying. Please don't crucify me for saying this.
@@julianaFinn I absolutely agree. It should've been their first course of action. A TV show shouldn't be the first thing you think about when you hear something like that.
@@soulgazer11 right??
She believed her daughter, and I love the guy how he just picked up dad and carried him to the other end of the stage.
I hope they take care of his nasty ass someday.
Yeah but those are trained big bouncers or former law enforcement guys and he is just a young average size. But he was gonna tear Jimmy a new hole if he got his hands on that sicko.
@@countroshculla I think even 1 is an active duty police officer. Best guys ever!!! Just like Steve 💜
Let the inmates deal with Jimmy at population
They like to give daily reminders and punishment to those guilty of destroying children
He Just Snatched Him Up Like His Son,
You can tell the security guard hated having to prevent the father from attacking the grandfather like that when he carried him across the stage!
NEVER take a young child to confront their abuser!! 😢
Putting a victim in front of their abuser to recount their abuse as well as in the presence of other family members is just something I cannot agree with.
It’s messed up but I think a lot of parents do things like this bc they aren’t trained in how to handle the situation in a way that doesn’t continuously traumatize the child. More people need to know about forensic interviews for this and to have a professional do it. It’s ignorance and lack of education a lot of time rather than malice or manipulation.
Honestly yeah
I agree. Though I think maybe her parents were just panicking and didnt think their actions through. Its honestly terrible that any of this happened. I dont blame the father trying to attack him immediately after hearing the results.
Yea it adds onto her trauma its not ok
I was thinking the same thing! That’s not right
“Are you a drunk?” *sweating alcohol through his swollen face and red eyes* “no I’m not”
He wasn't. He was hungover.
@@punchanella_0 no A Drunk as in an alcoholic. This guy clearly is from his appearance. He’s not drunk durning the show he just gets drunk so often it’s nearly in his bones
@@Meanie74 no argument here. I read it wrong.😄😆🤣
and this guy looks like a mean drunk, too. I am only in my 30's. But I am fast. Very fast. If he and I went one-on-one, the entire house would be torn up by the time it was over, lol.
@@MrMaddox57 only?
Disgusting how the grandmother didn’t believe her little granddaughter
I'm sure she did but I learned that some ppl will put up with anything then to be alone if Jimmy confessed at home she would have forgiven him and tried to talk the family into keeping it a secret but it's out in the open and she chose to save face she probably begged Jimmy for the truth before going on the show but liers has no regards for ppl who begs for the truth
Young children like her should ALWAYS come first. NO MATTER WHAT!😅😂.
the grandma immediately says “NO HE DIDN’T DO THAT TO YOU!” when her granddaughter tells her of the allegations. and WHYYYY do these parents insist on having small children confront their abuser in a room full of adults. i’m sick of hearing that. do you know how scared that kid must have been???!
Yep they pretty much handled it as poorly as possible
I agree with you 100%, it sickens me so much that a grandmother would side with her sexual predator husband over her own grandchild. Well, at least she seen the true side of him and left his sorry excuse of a man's ass in the end. Have to not forget to give credit to that pore little girls mom though for passing the lie detector test with flying colors, can be happy about that.
On a final note, I hope the family can get some sort of justice for what there daughter had to go through.
When she said “EyE dNt wAnna leAvE mUh hUzbAnd” it told me everything I needed to know. She was crying more bc she lost her man. I could be wrong tho🤷🏾♀️
@@dasiajb Yeah I peeped that too
That’s exactly what I was thinking. The little girl is brave for telling them what he did to her. Also no shit Jimmy is going to say that he didn’t do it.
i’m so proud of the little girl for being brave enough to tell her mom, and what a great mama for sticking by her baby . we need more mothers like her 🥺🥺
I hope you’re doing okay now!
I wish my mother reacted the same
Takes a lot of courage for a little girl to do that. Major props go out to her
I was ur 1k like
@@misha9304 I'm sorry, I hope you are better now
The dads reaction is one of the realest ones I've seen to this situation, every time I see this on the show I always think God it would take every one of them to keep me from killing the person.
you and me both it would take all those guys on stage
That poor daddy got yoked up! But he was still swinging. But I admire a father that will put his life on the line for his child.
Update: Jimmy was sentenced to 10 years in prison. When he gets out of jail, he would have to register as a sex offender for the next 25 years. There is an update video on the Steve Wilkos channel.
Why only 25 years? He needs to be on that registry for life
@@DosagePosage exactly
@@DosagePosage exactly what he did is disgusting
What a wonderful Christmas present 😏
@@DosagePosage well tbh he looks like in his late 50s so it will most likely be for the rest of his life when you take into account that he will be in his late 60s when he gets out, unless he lives to be in his 90s
The worst thing to do is to make the victim confront the abuser
Right! I’m not sure what the mom was thinking
I was sexually assaulted in a juvenile mental health center and I was made to hug my attacker.
Wel ... huging th atacker is 2 much but it is very important 2 a ... hav closure as far as th way th American justice system works so that they go 2 jail ... and b ... 2 4 th child 2 c His or Her atacker get there just deserts
I was thinking the exact same thing. If a kid says that the first thing to do is call the police. Not go right up to the predator and ask if he did it. Poor baby.
@@jeremypippin2001 right because obviously he's gonna say no and she was probably afraid that she would get in trouble by him because he told her not to tell anyone.
7:50 he gon' catch the ole stab-stuh-stab-stab-staaaaaaaaaab
STABSTABSTABSTABSTABSTABSTABSTAB
I love when Steve had said “hey, everyone says jimmys a great guy maybe he didn’t do it😂” with an sarcastic face
This is the exact reason why my kids know their body parts for exactly what they are
Damn right.
Exactly!, children are never too young to be taught the correct words, even if they can't pronounce them properly
Yeah really ... cookie, tutu and pocketbook should be outlawed immediately
Exactly!!! My kids know what their body parts are called so they can go to anybody and report any abuse without the second guessing on "what cookie". I'm glad this mom listened to her daughter. But please people, use proper terms for your kids body parts! If that girl said that to somebody at school, nobody would have batted an eye. Thankfully she told her mama though!
I commented pretty much the same thing. People shouldn't be "scared" (not sure it's the right word, but you get the idea) to teach their kids the correct terms for their own anatomy.
“I gave her a bath “ and nobody knew.. I knew he was lying . Lock his sick ass up 😭😭😭😭😭
Man's a nonce if he did it
He did
Props to the parents. They both are sound mind and good parents. Edit: just want to add kudos to the daughter in-law hugging her mom in law and holding her in their times of need.
let me get this straight. the kid says something to an adult and the first thing the adult does is MAKE THE KID CONFRONT THE ASSUMED VIOLATOR?
these adults never cease to disgust and surprise me
No, he stormed into the room while child, mother and grandmother were talking in private.
The look on Jimmy's face when the results were being said gave him away big time. He looked like he was awaiting a guilty verdict sentencing
Yeah he also looked like his mrs would have fought in his corner, make it ok because she loved him. dirtyolddrunkman
“I don’t wanna believe you did it” broke my heart because It’s hard to swallow the truth most times.. I’m so glad that child has her parents supporting her and putting an end to this.
I'm gonna go out on a limb and say the Jimmy got rather drunk that day from drinking too much at that family gathering party, offered to give his grandchild bath, and the alcohol in his system helped cause him to do things in a drunken state to her that were inappropriate and he either didn't realize what he was oing because of his drunken state of mind or had other issues he didn't bother addressing anybody until it was too late to reach out.
@@G.L.999 still not an excuse for what he did to the poor baby
Stfu drunk is no excuse. You gonna tell the little girl grandpa abused her cause he was Drunk? Oh yeah that makes it okay cause he was drunk ? Are you dumb ?
@bubble_kew
I don't know if he was or wasn't, but he didn't say that he was trying to defend him. 🤷♂️ I know a lot of times in general ways I tend to think further out like a "what if" even if it probably isn't "truly what happened". So...
Essentially a "hypothetical" situation is all I mean, nothing else.
It's so scary when everyone basically believed him to be a truly good guy and all had their doubts but thankfully the parents still took the daughter at her word and immediately told him to take a lie detector test. These people should be emulated for being good parents
i feel for that mom so hard. that little baby is going to be traumatized so darkly and severely for the rest of her life. its unfathomable.
The pure anger and betrayal when the dad was trying his hardest to get to him tore my heart apart 💔😢 I hope this little girls mind blocks these terrible memories somehow
Actually working through the memory of the sexual assault is better then blocking it.
@@buttholesyndrome___672 not always cause victims of this will never be the same again
That rage when fighting is only something of a protective parent.
The way they needed to pin him to the other side of the stage to stop him getting to that monster of a person is just ✨✨
The way they reacted was completely reasonable and it got me happy when the crowd was cheering for the parents to get him
@@shawnamillard3567 as someone who blocked it out and was still never the same. Blocking it out doesn't change that at some point she may remember or her body might and that could be worse than just knowing and working thru it
@@shawnamillard3567 the victims won't ever be the same with or without knowing
So what you're telling me, is that this little girl made an allegation that she was molested, and the first thing the family does is say no that didn't happen. Then they go and get the abuser, and bring him in the room and make the victim repeat the story to the abuser? This family does not need any more children in it
It happens A LOT on this show
I was really coming to the comments to see if anyone else was gonna comment on it. Like how stupid can you be to do something like that 🤦🏻♀️
First of all they didn’t get him. He busted into the room and which is a tell that he did do it. Then the little girl said what happened again.
She brought her child to the grandmas house so she could repeat what she had said, it sounded like she believed it
@@destinyrc6949 I think we understood what happened. But you obviously didn’t. The way they had her say the story in front of the molester was 100% wrong. How could you not know this ?
Very good mother, doesn’t want to believe it, but still put her daughter first. She’s raising her daughter to be a wonderful woman.
8:03 I like how Steve just stands there nonchalantly while it goes down🫣🤦♂️😂💀👉🚪
That young lady in the crowd literally said "get his ass!" At 8:00
What's funny is that I was saying the same thing too! "Get his ass dude. Fuck him up."
I noticed that to
Parents, teach your children the right word or better than “cookie”. Say privates or pee pee area. Something the jury can understand better for better convictions!
Exactly!!!!
Ok Karen
@@chupapimonanyo3607
What’s up with this Karen mess?
@@chupapimonanyo3607 ok pdo
Or just don’t use pet names that too
i loved how the moment they found out the grandfather lied both parents ran after him like crazy and how the dad was ready to fight him.
It annoys me when parents don't teach their kids to use the correct words. There is absolutely nothing inappropriate about using the words vagina, penis, testicles, breasts etc etc.
Yes I was thinking why on earth would you call a private part cookie???????
@@raizinboyz very strange to associate private parts with food...... Got to agree with you there.
My mom used to call it a “taki” and when those chips came out everytime my sister and I heard it it made us so uncomfortable. I’m now pregnant and my son will know correct terminology.. I never want him to feel that Uncomfortable.
Yea but most kids call it that plus she’s 4 :/
@@tast_1842 that’s the perfect age to teach them about the correct words and if they call it that their parents should correct them
As a survivor of sexual abuse myself, I applaud Casey and her daughter for her courage in exposing the evil that's known as a molester!
Yes!!! The truth! It make different paths but the truth will and always comes out!
Are you calling a 4 year old a liar?
You mean someone who believes in Santa Claus, no of course they only ever tell the truth.
Little Kids Never Lie About Shit Like That Let Alone Making Up Stories That Are On That Level.
You don't know little kids, that's for sure.
Donkey lover- I have 3 children (6,4,1) they have no idea about ANYTHING sexual at all. If they said something like that it’s either true or they were coached. They don’t just make up stories about sexual things
@@donkeyslayer4661 clearly you don't know kids either pendejo
@@donkeyslayer4661 You clearly don’t know little kids either. A 4 year old doesn’t have the brain capacity to make up such a lie and create a whole story about it, that’s ridiculous
Unfortunately some family members coach a child to say someone hurt them just to get revenge for something 😔
I love how EVERYBODY ran at him when he failed.
It’s a shame that security was there to stop the parents from beating his ass to death.
Putting a victim in front of their abuser…is traumatic.
Even if you don’t want to believe it-
Exactly
When they lashed out at him was so heartbreaking. This shouldn’t be done in front of a crowd.
This is a great example of why you shouldn’t use pet names for private parts no matter how young the child is.
was thinking the same thing! What a stupid thing to call your privates.
Exactly! So creepy
No kidding. “Cookie”? Seriously..?
My daughter is only 1 at the moment but she WILL BE TAUGHT the correct name for HER body part!
@@xzandriaminer9309 thank you.
Honestly it sounds worse when someone says “papa touched my cookie”
It just screams how innocent they are which makes it even worse
Me and my family just call it innapropriate part
If your a REAL Wilkos fan you would know this is old
I figured it was old
If “you’re” a real Wilkos fan, your isn’t correct- you’re is “you are” so that’s the correct word to use in this context . I hate to be THAT person but y’all are way too old not to know the differences between your & you’re 🤦🏽♀️
I knew right away this was an older episode. I remember seeing a different video about this one.
He looked familiar
@@gregjohnson7666 wait has the show ended or are the episodes just mixed up
Always always teach children the correct terms so it can’t be confused
Calling a child's private area a cookie is beyond moronic!
So glad he's serving time behind bars!!
He deserves to be in prison
You never bring the abuser around the kid and the grandma just said she told the girl no he never did witch by itself is coaching her
He clearly lied, nobody knew he gave her a bath. The defense's story will definitely about be about how he tried to give her a bath and then he "helped" clean her cookie.
He deserves to rot in jail
@@rileygshep7606 He Apsolutely deserves that and way more like castration for starters mabye some torture but im just saying is what the grandma was telling the poor child that no he did not, hope he's rotting in jail
I’m so thankful the little girl was strong enough to tell her mother what happened to her, it could have gotten worse for her.. thankful that she has a mother that listened to her and did what she needed to do, she saved her child.
Update: he admitted to doing it and will spend ten years in jail without possibility of parole and will have to register as a sex offender for 25 years afterwards. The child is happy and healthy and Casey is very happy with the justice her daughter got.
I feel so bad for the little girl, I'm actually crying. no one deserves to go through this type of abuse, especially as a child. it sickens me that people even remotely think about doing these things, let alone act on them. most parents wouldn't believe if their child were to make these accusations. I'm proud of these parents for at least making an effort to prove that he did it and believing their child.
1. please teach your children the biological terms
2. this fool says "that girl is like a love to me"
Yeah, when he said that all I could think was “yeah I bet she is”
CREEP
He also said after that “just like all my kids”
I love this episode bc I thinks it super important to show none of them believed he did it and then it was proven that he did. That’s very powerful and will hopefully make others more open to hearing a child truth even if they may be uncomfortable entertaining the idea
I’m so proud of the little girl and her parents! They didn’t want to believe he did this but they stayed by her side that’s how you do it
Dad was about to kill grandpa and I wouldn’t blame dad for that grandpa deserves it
-24 is the highest I've ever heard on this show
There was someone on the show who had -50.
@@AutoslaapExpress lol
@@AutoslaapExpress Wow!!!!! That's despicable
If I fail, I’m the devil person was -50
Dear I remember the guest had a Minus 50
I find it disgusting when people teach their children to call their privates by names like this.
This story makes me feel sorry for family 😔😔
I’m sorry but making that poor baby admit what was happening to her in front of her alleged abuser, is really messed up. Imagine how intimidating that would be for a young girl 🤦🏼♀️ So sad for this family
Stop calling your kids privates snack items… teach them the real word
I’ve heard that parents who are teachers or in the medical field are more likely to use the correct terms. I understand that some parents think not teaching them the correct words is being age appropriate but it really doesn’t benefit the child in the long run.
I know, that's so nasty.
@@woelkind now that I think of it it is
For real. Cookie?!
My father would use the term "Flower" for my sister and I. They last time he used that term we were 17 and 15 respectively...
It’s strange and disturbing that they taught the daughter to tell it a cookie.
He didn’t even say NOTHING BRO his life ended right there 😂😂😂😂😂
As soon as it came out the child wasn't coached, I was singing "Jimmy isn't going home, Jimmy isn't coming hoooooome, GET THE HELL OFF MY STAGE"
I love that her parents believed her. It must have been so painful for then especially the mother being brought up as him being her brother.
Props to the parents for not full on accusing with cops but also going out their way to find out if their daughter is ok
These parents are good parents. Even though that had doubts, they trusted in their daughter.
What a great mom for instantly taking care for her daughter. Especially since the daughters story never changed.
The granddad really looked like he was expecting it. He didn't even change his reaction for gods sake.
How do you believe someone else over your granddaughter.. I don't get it...
Please don't make a child recall their abuse to their perpetrator and other people 😭💔
“Is it a cookie that you eat or the other cookie?” THIS IS WHY you don’t give private parts nicknames to kids!!! “Grandpa touched my cookie” could absolutely be overlooked if it’s disclosed to a teacher or someone other than the person that taught them that nickname. Teach your kids the anatomical names for their private parts from birth.
I can't be the only one who thinks Jimmy and his wife look like siblings. Damn over 200 is the most likes I've ever gotten lol.
That explains a lot
@@shitneyb5562 It really would lol
Selfish narcissistic people seem to get with people that look like them a lot
I did too
They like Brother and Sister
Parents need to teach their children correct words for their bodies and teach them there is no shame or awkwardness around using the correct anatomical words for their bodies regardless of age. It’s only awkward if the parent makes it awkward and that could’ve delayed this child getting help had she told this cookie story to someone else like a teacher who wouldn’t know what she’s on about. Also if a detective or children’s forensic worker asks her to specify WHAT he did to her and with what part of his body they’ll have a hard time knowing exactly what she’s explaining if she said his cookie on her cookie and can’t specify anatomically so they can charge and convict him correctly they’ll need to know if what he did amounts to r*pe or assault/m*lestation
Very true!
Exactly
Yep
Yuppp agree
other than the fact that is SICK to call their private areas food related things like COOKIE- a DESSERT, a “SWEET TREAT.” it caters to SA abusers and is absolutely horrifying
Dude got over there fast as hell 😳🙌🏾👏🏾👌🏾🫢😧
If your child can talk, they can learn the correct verbiage of their private parts. Teach them good and bad touch. And stop confronting the alleged perpetrator with the victim child. If they tell you, believe them, report to law enforcement, and let them do a Forensic Interview. You are not trained to investigate.
This is why it is important to teach kids the proper words for their private parts and other areas. I remember an officer saying to me a little kid said dad had been playing with his golf set, kids wasnt rescued quicker because people assumed he ment an actual golf set
This is one of the reasons why parents should stop using words like "cookie" and use the correct biological terminology. There was so much confusion at the beginning when the little girl was saying he touched my cookie, when if she was taught the right words there wouldn't have been any confusion. Hope she's ok now.
Exactly and they wouldn't have needed to clarify what she meant
Exactly, I never understood why parents don’t use actual anatomical terms
The reaction to these parents Steve is emotional and heartbroken to know that your own relatives could do those evil things when your back is turned lack of integrity
He's not getting on the grandma enough. She was totally dismissive and put 100% of her trust in him instead of trusting her grand daughter. She should be ashamed of herself.
These videos break my heart. A young child’s life has been changed forever. That will always be in their subconscious effecting them for the rest of their life. It deeply saddens me and makes me cry. I’ve seen the effects of child s*xual assault. Child m*lestation is so sick.
@juceypimp exactly i was molested by my father when i was 8 years old, i m now 29 but it still affects my everyday life to this day.
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@@bubby260 I’m so sorry. I hope that you’ve found peace and healing.
I always love it when Steve reveals the truth and tells a proven liar/child molester to "GET THE HELL OFF MY STAGE!".
“i drank but I ain’t no drunk” i felt 💀
It’s always odd to me that a parent would say, “I don’t bath my child because I wouldn’t want someone to say I molested them”. Why would that even be a question as their parent?? Not saying dad did anything, but I’ve heard so many people say that. What is going on in your head that you think someone would question you giving your child a bath?
No matter what! Why would any parent teach their kids to call their privates a cookie! That is sick!!!
Glad someone agrees 🤢
Right!
I was looking 4 this comment! Yeah that was inappropriate in itself
Probably because her daddy likes her cookies, yeah this whole shit seems stupid
@saltycryptkeeper what was and why?
That little girl will always remember who believed her and who didn't
My daughter was molested by her father's cousin when she was around 4. They were watching a movie and he "tickled" her down there.. and he told her not to tell.
Her father and his whole family never believed her.
She is now 19 and says she has never forgotten how they reacted and treated her like she was lying.
Hearing the mom sob broke my heart, I hope he rots in prison. He should’ve gotten life in prison instead for doing that to a toddler. Sick man.
Just put your children first always. No matter what. Even if you’re wrong be wrong believing your kids
I literally sobbed when they found out. I don’t normally get emotional over videos of people I don’t know, but this was just heartbreaking
Rewatching this episode after some years I realize how twisted this family is. The grandma comes out yelling at her kids, she doesn't believe the granddaughter, none of them knew Jimmy was giving the little girl baths, they refer to private parts as cookie?
What the hell is going on??
Exactly… its just off
@@nat_jack I hope that kid is getting help
@@traxagenda3445 Same
I commend her mom because even though she did not want to believe he was doing that to her she stood up for her child .
why is their immediate reaction after a child said her grandfather molested her to go have the child confront him to only further deny and make the victim feel worse?
I wish my momma believed me 😔 even at 27 I watch this show, wishing Steve was my dad and could protect me from harm. It sickens me to know I will never get justice for whats been done to me.
Hopefully they're in a shallow grave.
well i might not know u but im just gonna give u a virtual hug and btw ur rlly strong
Im so sorry hun. I hate you had to go through that. 😞
You should be proud of yourself. Your a survivor and I respect you . I'm sorry you went through that x
Normally I think lie detector tests are a load of unreliable garbage but not in this case