The Traits & Characteristics Of Beta Males

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 812

  • @hippykiller75
    @hippykiller75 7 років тому +123

    THERE'S NOTHING RACIST ABOUT LOVING YOUR OWN NATION. ...!!

    • @tumbox9204
      @tumbox9204 7 років тому +2

      Even ants know that, what is your point?

    • @killzone2FTw547
      @killzone2FTw547 7 років тому +3

      What about loving your own species & planet instead of reinforcing all this separation between skin pigment? Shits just childish if you ask me.. "Oh look my playroom is better than yours!!" Sick Dude.. like who really gives a fuck?

    • @PharaohLawLess1
      @PharaohLawLess1 7 років тому +1

      Fa real

    • @GhostCell47
      @GhostCell47 7 років тому +3

      In other words: Shut up and love the nation that has slaughtered, undermined, and disenfranchised black people. That's some fascinating logic there, buddy.

    • @jankygriffin4376
      @jankygriffin4376 5 років тому

      Ok

  • @reggiewhiteuncensored9825
    @reggiewhiteuncensored9825 7 років тому +55

    Well, I'm from 5th Ward and as long as I can remember, whites caught natural hell when they wondered in my community with that cocky mentality. but I must say i see too many instances of black men being punked by scrawny white boys. they know who to approach with that...

  • @DaMusicMane1
    @DaMusicMane1 7 років тому +112

    I like your content Phil but I respectfully disagree with some of your points.
    1) I know plenty if men who never knew their fathers grow up to be "alpha" males. They have a family and they make it a point to be in their child's life.
    2) We are not monolithic. Most people have traits of an leader and a nice person. Life is a gray area. Some men are quiet, some men are more aggressive. We need to stop putting people in a box.
    3)What's success? Money isn't everything. Being dominant and conquering people isn't the meaning of life. There is someone out there for everyone. I've seen plenty of nice guys with women and in happy relationships. To me there are holes in this logic.
    People don't let others put you in a box. Yes we can all improve areas in our lives, but don't stamp a label on yourself as a beta male or a alpha. Just be you.

    • @emmasandifer5976
      @emmasandifer5976 6 років тому +7

      DaMusicMane1 I respect your comment.

    • @lccanimations
      @lccanimations 6 років тому +3

      DaMusicMane1 so true

    • @a.fleming
      @a.fleming 6 років тому +10

      Love this comment. I genuinely like nice guys. I prefer someone I can talk to as another person. I dont want anyone thats a jerk...and both alpha males and beta males can be buttholes

    • @MO-ss5mj
      @MO-ss5mj 6 років тому +2

      I think Phil knows Alpha and beta are large areas and have a spectrum within itself

    • @mamuwaldevoudoupractitione3518
      @mamuwaldevoudoupractitione3518 6 років тому +3

      DaMusicMane1 5 Stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

  • @FLAman248
    @FLAman248 7 років тому +82

    I was raised by my mother and grandmother and I'm still an alpha

    • @Darkstalker212
      @Darkstalker212 7 років тому +17

      Big Amp With his logic..no. I was also raised by my mother and grandma. Live your life. The way you want to. Don't let other peoples ideas/opinions change you. If you doing the right thing in life and taking care of your own..regardless of race you're from..than you not a beta male.

    • @Darkstalker212
      @Darkstalker212 7 років тому +7

      His mindset is old fashioned..pro-black logic.

    • @brandonhall8369
      @brandonhall8369 7 років тому +2

      Darkstalker 212 Exactly! Whats weird is a few of these youtubers say they're Alphas yet quick to stick with "correlative biases" based on simple and conservative intelligence. In order to spare their own faults, fingers our being pointed outward, indicating a lack of "accountability" driven by WHAT??? EMOTIONS!
      I Grew up with "Both" my Parents yet still have trouble controlling mine. But through self-preservation looking inward and not just out helped me see through alot of bullsh#t including his and my own.

    • @brandonhall8369
      @brandonhall8369 7 років тому +8

      TRAITS
      Alpha = Foresight.
      Exceptional Communicator.
      Exceptional Director.
      Facilitator.
      Beta = Exceptional Editor.
      Great Listener.
      Director.
      Exceptional Operator.
      Omega = Hindsight.
      Exceptional Reader.
      Exceptional Intellect.
      Advisor.

    • @edwardgaines6561
      @edwardgaines6561 7 років тому +5

      So fatherlessness runs in your family then? Grandparents should NOT have to repeat their role as caregiver. They put their work in! So let them enjoy their golden years.

  • @abdurrahim4910
    @abdurrahim4910 7 років тому +31

    I've became a patron and I love you and your show brother!!!! I'm very happy I found out about you!!!!!! Peace to you BROTHER.

  • @timing9163
    @timing9163 7 років тому +29

    Alpha Male: "Marcus Garvey"...( "Leadership" for our people and family defines you as so..)

  • @p4rt_t1me_g0d
    @p4rt_t1me_g0d 7 років тому +137

    These descriptions of alphas and betas are completely wrong, anyone can have any combination of both and be considered either!
    Don't allow people to define who you are, just be real about your faults and strengths.
    If you are a lame, know that you're a lame, if you are a king, know that you're a king, if you fall somewhere in between, know that everybody has a place and you're probably the majority in this scenario.
    People are usually far more complex than a label, there are always exceptions to every rule!
    However, I observe that there are way more weak minded people than strong willed, allowing for themselves to be easily manipulated and controlled.
    In short, know your role, play your part.

    • @Darkstalker212
      @Darkstalker212 7 років тому +6

      JuanJose247 Real Talk..

    • @DaMusicMane1
      @DaMusicMane1 7 років тому +3

      JuanJose247 THANK YOU

    • @p4rt_t1me_g0d
      @p4rt_t1me_g0d 7 років тому +19

      I enjoy Phil's channel, I don't really have a personal opinion about the way someone else thinks, it's their right.
      I can respect someone for speaking their mind, I don't have to agree, I'm just as falable as the next person, who am I to state my opinion as fact!
      I really just appreciate the fact that people are discussing issues and thinking. Not name calling and insulting, but stating valid arguments.

    • @MackeyDeez
      @MackeyDeez 7 років тому +5

      JuanJose247 Phil, think he's slick I knew after 3 minutes he was taking shots at the anti black female fuckery community.

    • @KaliKali-hv9bt
      @KaliKali-hv9bt 7 років тому +1

      JuanJose247 what you say feels more true... peddle are way more diverse... people like too lable too.

  • @ledanique
    @ledanique 7 років тому +39

    woman are already emotional we dont need emotional man.

  • @terrencetobler1951
    @terrencetobler1951 7 років тому +21

    Stress is a ruthless silent killer! You are spot on about the beta male that exists these days. There are too many followers, and not enough leaders. Too many Indians, and not enough chiefs. I was always taught to be a leader, not a follower. The beta male has really broken out in the last few decades. Many brothers now dress, act/speak, even think feministically. I'll call this out as well, Advise Show TV, large reason why interracial dating has exploded in this country!

  • @darleneslaughter7179
    @darleneslaughter7179 7 років тому +14

    Phil your the only person that's worth listening too these days.

  • @lightningstriker1769
    @lightningstriker1769 7 років тому +4

    Excellent observations Phillip, on all points. It's a delicate balance between the alpha, beta and omega males. No matter what category a man finds himself in, learning proper coping skills is key to facing confrontation & disappointment in life.

  • @davismcmillian6790
    @davismcmillian6790 7 років тому +15

    honestly.we as a people need therapy.

  • @ahannah76
    @ahannah76 7 років тому +186

    I like that shirt

    • @amyloves6594
      @amyloves6594 7 років тому +6

      me too

    • @ms.woodard8714
      @ms.woodard8714 7 років тому +25

      Adonis Hannah buy it. he have them for sale

    • @jsublett8871
      @jsublett8871 7 років тому

      +Ms. Woodard where do I get the Africa shit at???

    • @shadowto542
      @shadowto542 7 років тому +1

      Jimmy sublet.. Shirt or " shit" ?? Lol

  • @tymanning3644
    @tymanning3644 7 років тому +19

    the Lox ft. Lil Kim. money, power, respect.

  • @sanjaybryant9220
    @sanjaybryant9220 7 років тому +12

    Lack of father figures + Lack of child's determination or even awareness to seal/heal the gap

  • @teesimone2018
    @teesimone2018 7 років тому +5

    - WHO ALL WATCHED THE WHOLE VIDEO?!?!! LOL 😂😂
    I KNOW I DID. forever supporting you man. :)

  • @rickyricardo2280
    @rickyricardo2280 6 років тому +10

    Why is this in a infinity war clip playlist

  • @justfresh179
    @justfresh179 6 років тому +7

    Hold up why is this in the Infinity War playlist 😂😂😂

  • @eveningstar4048
    @eveningstar4048 7 років тому +23

    I'm going to admit I'm 20 now, and I use to be a beta male. Phil made me a better man. I'm educated on what men should & shouldn't do now. I had no clue I had beta male traits. Though I'm still trying to make the full transition. I did have a father in my life, but he just wasn't the best example on what an alpha male should be. That did a lot of harm towards my development as a young man. So now I'm trying to pick up the pieces & make the best of my situation today.

  • @ozekeo8854
    @ozekeo8854 7 років тому +13

    peace to the advise show famly. y'all know the alphas are our warriors. the beta males are under development. the point that we all gotta get is that we as a community need to reach out and network with the warriors because without them we have betas fighting passive aggresively in which pales in comparison to actual aggression in which is required to wage a winning war. our legacy is under attack by outsiders who need our in house fighting in order to passively aggresss against our destiny to be the leaders the civilized the immortals the personification of our highest attributes. the superiors in human life the first people to actually show up in his story the only people to manifest in our authentic creative writings. good show stay enlightened and keep the content up to par. I really value your platform. thank you for the time and I will be supporting the unit of die movement let's all get on board

  • @atenanimism9336
    @atenanimism9336 7 років тому +25

    For those in the comment section placing the focus blaming on Men or Women. Y'all wrong and it shows the weakness within many Blacks to not take accountability. Also it is weak because y'all would rather argue than make plans to rid yourselves of the problems that are present.

    • @LIVEFRMNYC
      @LIVEFRMNYC 7 років тому +1

      THIS 100%. Most (if not all) of society's problems have multiple causes. You can't point the finger towards just one angle.

    • @GeteMachine
      @GeteMachine 7 років тому +2

      +LIVERMNYC You will be one one-angle regardless if you define your "alpha" premise on what bullshit women say, when most of the men who say things like this about "never blame women" is exactly what women tell them to say. Whats "alpha" about that?

    • @h-man591
      @h-man591 7 років тому

      +Dumadean Simpson - 👍👍

  • @ajrg91
    @ajrg91 6 років тому +2

    This message is hitting me hard where it hurts because I'm a beta male myself. My dad and sisters are always protective over me and I always do what everyone says. I do everyone favors and I just don't feel respected. I been bullied at school and I never fought back. This is all because I was raised as a good boy. My biggest problem is knowing when to say NO. I'm really sick and tired of this. But thanks to nofap and mgtow videos, I'm glad I'm coming to realization.

  • @lovechild2852
    @lovechild2852 7 років тому +3

    This is excellent ‼️🙌🏾 Thank You! So good to hear a M A N speak on this because when women talk about it they're "bashing" 😒🙄! Give Thanks 🙏🏾

  • @NeicyJ1990
    @NeicyJ1990 7 років тому +74

    Alpha Male - Loves To Talk To Women
    Beta Male - Talks To Men All The Time

    • @ripgeorgesmith9021
      @ripgeorgesmith9021 7 років тому +4

      Shaneice Jackson well damn lol case closed

    • @kikilicious99
      @kikilicious99 7 років тому +21

      Shaneice Jackson Beta males love to talk to women too. Many times they have more female friends than males and are trapped in the friend zone.

    • @NeicyJ1990
      @NeicyJ1990 7 років тому +7

      kikilicious99 Exactly Beta Males Are The Friendzone Type

    • @NeicyJ1990
      @NeicyJ1990 7 років тому +6

      Hogan- MGTOW Lol

    • @edwardgaines6561
      @edwardgaines6561 7 років тому +9

      Bullshit! The Beta Male is ALWAYS kissing some women's ass. Sucking up to them for some gash!

  • @barryb6685
    @barryb6685 7 років тому +5

    I've always been Omega and that suits me just fine.

  • @Observe..The...Truth...444
    @Observe..The...Truth...444 7 років тому +8

    The part that got my attention to me is that Men judge other men on how goofy they look with their facial features.... How feminine they are...... Their body language as well on how insecure they are........ which is one of the the problems that I have and are acknowledging it... because I know it needs to stop
    I Might not have had my father in my life........ But damn all you judgmental folks out there for basically degrading others who can still strive to become the man they know that they can become!!! and like it or not one day you might need My help whether I'm an Alpha male or not.......... so don't only depend on the ALPHA males out there that could still do you wrong in the end...... think about that......
    With that said all I can say is that I'm a work in progress....... to become the man I can be.

  • @irise3665
    @irise3665 7 років тому +4

    I am glad you spoke on this .

  • @yogurtnbanana
    @yogurtnbanana 7 років тому +76

    damn I'm a beta male😕😕😕

  • @WigSplitta18
    @WigSplitta18 7 років тому +4

    Hey phill, I dig your channel and I'm glad you brought up this conversion. Hopefully we'll have more guys questioning their own status as men than someone else's.

  • @KL16122
    @KL16122 6 років тому +7

    I don't remember this scene in Infinity War.

  • @ZimM804
    @ZimM804 7 років тому +9

    Hey Phil, y'all keep playing with that dude on the phone in the video thumbnail. He gonna whoop somebody ass one day.

    • @captpy2891
      @captpy2891 7 років тому +5

      Beats, Games, Life -ZimM804 Like that beta-simp who shot that harmless old man?

  • @candace27co
    @candace27co 7 років тому +9

    lmao the way phil look in the beginning....

  • @blacksoldier3509
    @blacksoldier3509 7 років тому +2

    I'm glad you're addressing this Phil

  • @QsRandomRantz
    @QsRandomRantz 7 років тому +40

    I am a beta male and and I accepte it.

    • @FamilyTravelDevotion
      @FamilyTravelDevotion 7 років тому +21

      Q RandomRantz you can still have a productive relationship just have to channel your energy properly

    • @kikilicious99
      @kikilicious99 7 років тому +5

      There's pros and cons to every status so be yourself.

    • @potatoesmashymash5836
      @potatoesmashymash5836 7 років тому

      Qs RandomRantz Same here. I've been raised by my mother and my 4 other sisters, I've been softened up and sissified when I was young.

    • @edwardgaines6561
      @edwardgaines6561 7 років тому +3

      So you accept what you CAN change? You can't fight grim death, but that doesn't mean you bow down to it either!

    • @sasthyme8857
      @sasthyme8857 6 років тому +3

      Qs RandomRantz ..... yes you're right you are a beta..... and and you should accepte it 🤦🏽‍♀️😂

  • @nicohicks
    @nicohicks 6 років тому +1

    You got it correct...Money, Power, Respect is the name of the song. The theme came from Scarface.

  • @Tubes78
    @Tubes78 7 років тому

    The lack of Alpha males forces the Beta males to take on a role they're not convertible with. The results are disastrous.

  • @ewc8848
    @ewc8848 Рік тому +2

    Why did you put SynQ in your video thumbnail? Maybe that this guy was a beta male on UA-cam back in the early 2000.

  • @annevaughn6345
    @annevaughn6345 5 років тому +3

    So so true it is very well needed to continue and have a strong man in the household

  • @KorinPP6
    @KorinPP6 7 років тому +1

    I couldn't have said so better myself!! Keep it up Phil! And love the shirt!!

  • @FBACERTIFIED
    @FBACERTIFIED 4 роки тому

    I don't know what kind of women be pretending they don't like an alpha man and they don't need an alpha man.

  • @juanbrito-nina2877
    @juanbrito-nina2877 7 років тому +3

    You're the truth Phil!
    Bless you.

  • @ethanjupiter9827
    @ethanjupiter9827 6 років тому +1

    Homosexuality has actually been scientifically proven to be determined before birth. Please do research before saying things.

  • @decemberdarling6058
    @decemberdarling6058 7 років тому +2

    This is nothing but the TRUTH. Thank you Phil!

  • @genniejefferson1892
    @genniejefferson1892 7 років тому +1

    I absolutely enjoyed that talk. Great inspiration

  • @GoblinGoodfella
    @GoblinGoodfella 7 років тому +2

    You have Alpha males, Beta Males and Omega Males! Omega Male is the last man standing and only the Strongest to survive "Longetivity".

  • @PsychicIsaacs
    @PsychicIsaacs 6 років тому +1

    I grew up in a Maori area of Rotorua, in New Zealand, and the men there were practically all Alphas, descended from a Warrior Tribe, and yet the Maori, as a People, have Honour (Mana) and Loving Respect (Aroha). I grew up thinking that Mana and Aroha were normal and when I see folks walking outside of this way, no matter what their race, I'm not inclined to see them as strong and honourable. You judge people by who they are.
    That's what it boils down to, and this is who I learned it from, the Maori of Rotorua, New Zealand.
    They came from Hawaii 500 years ago to New Zealand, and thousands of years before that, they came from Lybia. Maui was their ancestor and he was a famous ancient Lybian sea captain, and Rata was his navigator. The Maori brought their ways from Africa 1000s of years ago, before the Africans were enslaved, and have never ever been enslaved by other nations, (although they did enslave each other), so if you want to know what an un-enslaved African would look like, look at the Maori, including the Hawaiians, Tongans, Samoans, New Zealand Maori etc. Just look at The Rock, and you'll see what I mean! He is Samoan.

  • @AmbiQueen96
    @AmbiQueen96 4 роки тому +1

    He just described that UA-camr officer tatum. Straight beta male.

  • @hamobu
    @hamobu 7 років тому +4

    Seriously? Most 'nice' guys I know tend to do well in life. They become professionals. Arround age of 30, women start getting attracted to a guy who can get a mortgage and buy a house.

    • @edwardgaines6561
      @edwardgaines6561 7 років тому

      Yeah, but that line of thinking is self-serving and insincere. Why don't these women scoop up these future Joe-Pros when they are young and in college? Most successful guys don't want some used-up, old ho when it's convenient for her to date nice guys now. That's her fault for not seeing past their "corniness." Joe-Pro will just be well-placed to date 20 year olds.

    • @AD-tx4gh
      @AD-tx4gh 5 років тому

      @Edward Gaines true on both accounts and healthier.

  • @sadariswilson4923
    @sadariswilson4923 7 років тому +1

    light skinned vs dark skin women who you should like more. It's BONE not TONE.

  • @alicia7737
    @alicia7737 6 років тому +1

    This is such truth!

  • @mariyahisrael5508
    @mariyahisrael5508 6 років тому +1

    I caught a Judge Somebody? tv show and this Black woman told the judge that she left her old man in jail for a year longer than he had to be there because she found out that he had cheated on her. That hurt me to my heart. I was so ashamed for her.

  • @komiczar
    @komiczar 3 роки тому +1

    "Most leaders spend time trying to get others to think highly of them, when instead they should try to get their people to think more highly of themselves. It's wonderful when the people believe in their leader. It's more wonderful when the leader believes in their people! You can't hold a man down without staying down with him." ~ Booker T. Washington

  • @reggiewhiteuncensored9825
    @reggiewhiteuncensored9825 7 років тому +5

    Well I don't know.. I like my homies but in all honesty I'd rather be chilling with the ladies. there's a time for everything, work and play...

  • @SandyRed881
    @SandyRed881 6 років тому +1

    I don't need a man with no backbone period, he needs to not be a thug but not a punk, has to have drive.

  • @Averybfishing
    @Averybfishing 5 років тому

    I know this was a year ago but Phil is telling the truth. He was giving techincal definitions to these three types of males. Sure there are exceptions to everything but the basics of what he said was correctt. A lot of women want a man to be assertive. Assertiveness doesn't mean aggressiveness or even abusivness. They just want a man to have boundaries and self respect. You can be a quiet spirited man but still carry a sense of pride about yourself. Simply put, a women doesn't want a wimp as a partner.

  • @mszsqueakyboo6
    @mszsqueakyboo6 6 років тому

    My father thinks he's a alpha male but he's more of an omega male.

  • @LilAlex2112
    @LilAlex2112 7 років тому

    How does a beta turn into an alpha? You mentioned that a lot of betas shouldn't be at fault because they weren't taught how to be alphas and they were raised by women.

  • @JayEP86
    @JayEP86 7 років тому +2

    Good point. you got me thinking about that. Damn

  • @FamilyTravelDevotion
    @FamilyTravelDevotion 7 років тому +6

    Yes the foundation of this country has an ugly past.... very nasty

  • @bwy553
    @bwy553 7 років тому +6

    Do all men really have to be alphas, though? I mean, isn't it natural for some men to be betas or followers so that the alpha has his support and his army? Malcolm X was able to direct the men under him like that because they were all submissive to him.

    • @edwardgaines6561
      @edwardgaines6561 7 років тому +3

      I support your thinking. If there's a TOP, there's gotta be a BOTTOM. For rich people to exist, there must be poor people as well. Simple binaries really.

  • @DarkFortressPictures_Official
    @DarkFortressPictures_Official 6 років тому +1

    “You have to have a little bit of a butt-hole in you!” Phill, you’re awesome!

  • @thesoccerjunkie5433
    @thesoccerjunkie5433 5 років тому

    being a beta male has helped me make six figure a year at my job. corporate America doesn't like hiring alpha males.

    • @growden100
      @growden100 5 років тому

      Humm...very interesting.

  • @taekwondomaster4609
    @taekwondomaster4609 7 років тому +1

    This is great content. I learned a lot.

  • @ms.woodard8714
    @ms.woodard8714 7 років тому +7

    Good morning Phil

  • @sterlingbroadnax9477
    @sterlingbroadnax9477 7 років тому

    Those were great words of wisdom and I appreciate what you do brother. Thank you

  • @chickeNblood
    @chickeNblood 7 років тому +1

    Even a psychologist would disagree with your reaction to this.

  • @brittanyknight4413
    @brittanyknight4413 7 років тому

    BEST EVER EXPLAINED
    THIS IS EXPLAINED TO
    THE BEST EVER . I SEE WHY
    YOUR SHOW IS CALLED THE ADVISE SHOW.
    MEN PLEASE TAKE ADVISE.

  • @TravelWright22
    @TravelWright22 6 років тому

    What happens when u don't give a fuck but ppl wanna follow your mindset but you don't care for being a leader

  • @tonnicee4259
    @tonnicee4259 7 років тому +1

    I am not so sure being raised by a female only will create a beta male...my brother is an Alpha male. How did that happen? He grew up with his little sister (me) and my mom only.

  • @cloudsthebest
    @cloudsthebest 6 років тому +2

    Why is this in avengers infinity war clips playlist lmao

  • @trottersjr
    @trottersjr 7 років тому +1

    Brother I wish you and and some of the other brothers on UA-cam talking to black men were around 40 years ago. It would have saved me a lot of heartache and money especially dealing with these women. With today's social media there is no excuse for a brother being a simp and stupid. Keep up the good work because you're giving us some good wisdom.

  • @mikedok1
    @mikedok1 7 років тому +14

    That's why you should be the next president of the United States, Phil. You tell it like it is. I'm going to do my best to be more alpha and less beta. Much respect to you sir.

  • @eddieallen3626
    @eddieallen3626 7 років тому +2

    good video Phill

  • @richiexp2
    @richiexp2 7 років тому +1

    Great video learnt a lot!!

  • @pookiearnold3969
    @pookiearnold3969 7 років тому +3

    I raised my son on my own along with my daughter. His father was in his life but he taught my son how to beat on lady's and how to do drugs so as far as a man blaming a lady for how her kids turned out is a straight out lie. So now my son is strung out on drugs and in a gang. Is that my fault. Heeeccckkkk NOOOOOOO !!!

    • @pookiearnold3969
      @pookiearnold3969 7 років тому +2

      Fight back how. As far as to teaching him. I was a very hardworking mom working two jobs all my life to care for mines. I've never ever did drugs nor have I allowed any man to hit me.

    • @pookiearnold3969
      @pookiearnold3969 7 років тому +2

      is that a fact. Always blame us. Wow !!

    • @nasheemwhye5197
      @nasheemwhye5197 7 років тому +1

      Go back to your question you clearly asked is" if it's your fault that your son is strung on drugs and a gang member" you never asked if it's your sons fathers fault so I can only answer your question in a way that refurs to you, again you asked was it your fault which I clearly stated "it's not all your fault" as it takes two in any situation when it comes to a child not to mention your son if he's on drugs and a gang member then it's safe to assume he's grown and can make his own decisions, now unless your were raped then that's a different scenario but you weren't you chose you son's father which obviously wasn't the best choice for you in helping you raise​ your kids you have to take some responsibility in that and pass what you've learn as a single mother to younger black women so they hopefully won't wind up with the same issues that you have currently that's why I said it's important to plan your future i.e when to have kids, careers, homes, ECT ECT if not then this cycle never breaks then there will be just another sister miserable looking to point fingers at black men and wonder why most are going outside their race
      now how has that helped you out your not with your son's father and your son is still gang affiliated being upset and looking to point blame isn't going to change that situation sister.

    • @pookiearnold3969
      @pookiearnold3969 7 років тому

      Are you a better man than others. Are you the Alpha male that you should be ?

  • @AsianAmerican2007
    @AsianAmerican2007 6 років тому

    You never talked about pornography. Watching porn is watching an alphamale take a woman you want= automatic beta male. I work at a higschool and boys with cellphones are making them betas in droves!!!

  • @QueenT210
    @QueenT210 7 років тому +1

    👏👏👏 Thank you Phil!!!

  • @charlesrichardson4156
    @charlesrichardson4156 7 років тому +1

    the term,"hyper-masculinity"was used to refer to a particular type of black urban female that acts out aggressive & overly confrontational or thugged-out

  • @FBACERTIFIED
    @FBACERTIFIED 4 роки тому

    And God forbid if a black person get caught in a white man scandal and then when they try to redeem themselves we worse than the white supremacist towards them. We have no forgiveness for our own. But will come to the defense of white folk without thinking

  • @creolepie
    @creolepie 7 років тому +1

    I love in New Orleans more then half of our teen boys are gay.... no strong Men anywhere... it's madness I truly believe it's in real agenda

  • @YellowFuzzzz
    @YellowFuzzzz 4 роки тому

    Some black women need to let men who are alpha males be “the man” it’s ok. As long as he’s doing right by you, let him wear the pants in the relationship. Relationships are about respect, seeking to understand the other, compromise (to a point), loving yourself but allowing/trusting someone else to be in your life

  • @orlandosreality9215
    @orlandosreality9215 7 років тому +10

    There are some many things wrong with his beta, alfa, and omega theroy.

    • @vanguardprime4636
      @vanguardprime4636 7 років тому +3

      Orlando's Reality Yeah it really is. I'm not hating on phil but I'm not about to sit here and try to strategically place myself in one of theses three nifty little categories. I mean, there are times when I'm assertive, times when I prefer to avoid confrontation, and even times when I'm a little awkward, lol. I'm not a chump, but I'm also not foolish enough to walk around thinking I'm the coolest and toughest guy alive either. Besides, I usually just keep to myself outside of work anyway, since I'm not really all that social.

    • @orlandosreality9215
      @orlandosreality9215 7 років тому +1

      Tony Hailes I agree and to think only the stereotypical alfa guy is the only guy can show what he's made of and his potential and actually stand his ground and not bow down to others. This so ridiculous I don't have time to even explain half the things wrong with this video. Im sorry Phil I have agreed in some things with your videos but not this one.

    • @spazzyspanoodle
      @spazzyspanoodle 7 років тому +1

      Orlando's Reality wrd up

    • @edwardgaines6561
      @edwardgaines6561 7 років тому

      What's an Omega Male? Does it involve Dr.Wily?

    • @crownchakra2287
      @crownchakra2287 7 років тому

      Orlando's Reality ..what are you? not asking if u alpha or beta..just. whattf are? why u here?

  • @kadlacdixon-thedrawmylifep3293

    3:02 I thinks that’s the actual name of the song, I definitely was a hip hop head…

  • @davidbrown192
    @davidbrown192 7 років тому +74

    Phil I respect your platform and you as a man, even though I don't know you. With that being said, your fighting the wrong fight bro. How can you expect black ppl to rally against "white supremacy" when we have issues within ourselves?

    • @FamilyTravelDevotion
      @FamilyTravelDevotion 7 років тому +33

      David Brown whites have problems too but they stay on code or still support each other

    • @MrZBlackneffect
      @MrZBlackneffect 7 років тому +20

      No other group of people in human history has ever thought that "we have to get ourselves right before we go after anyone else."
      This idea is called Respectability politics and has not and will not ever work. It's an idea that comes from the oppressor and what it says is "If you people (Black people) just become perfect than you can talk about my oppression of you."

    • @cortezmiller1899
      @cortezmiller1899 7 років тому +13

      David Brown Oh my god did u watch the video? He said that we have issues in our community.

    • @PhdMusic03
      @PhdMusic03 7 років тому +1

      Great video

    • @KoKoTheSagittarius
      @KoKoTheSagittarius 7 років тому +5

      Every group has issues yet, when it comes to others they damn sure know how to stick together. You act like we're treated a certain way because of issues within our community. That's not the case.

  • @killzone2FTw547
    @killzone2FTw547 7 років тому +1

    Keep on launching these nukes Phil, people gotta hear it.

  • @ProphetGuardian
    @ProphetGuardian 6 років тому

    Alphas are the ones who have the willingness, strength, and knowledge to protect and support others within a group.

  • @user-zr2lg8tl9h
    @user-zr2lg8tl9h 6 років тому +1

    who is disliking this video? all the betas? These are truths!!

    • @thewolf14
      @thewolf14 5 років тому

      If we were attacked beta would pee and hide

  • @knowyourworth236
    @knowyourworth236 5 років тому +1

    Is that the same damn dude?!!! 😂😂😂😂 I'm weak! But seriously though, I am so glad my sons had a structure of a two parent home.

  • @stephenarias7695
    @stephenarias7695 5 років тому

    Oh Phil, you can be an alpha male and be gay...it’s not a choice we are born that way

  • @YellowFuzzzz
    @YellowFuzzzz 4 роки тому +1

    It’s also called Stockholm syndrome! Also check out Dr. Joy Degruy’s Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome

  • @brownandblack1978
    @brownandblack1978 7 років тому +1

    Great video alot of the young brothers need to see this kind of content instead of the BS that's on Utube.

  • @ladyados
    @ladyados 7 років тому +19

    Phil, please research Bayard Rustin. A gay black male, who was very influential in the civil rights movement.

    • @ColinsCity
      @ColinsCity 7 років тому +4

      That wouldn't fit with his homophobic agenda.

    • @lucindiagalloway8601
      @lucindiagalloway8601 7 років тому

      Proverbial ONE Lt them mess with my child or pet they will be buried.

  • @tobiaswalker7562
    @tobiaswalker7562 7 років тому +1

    Love the shirt Phil

  • @rainyfeathers9148
    @rainyfeathers9148 6 років тому +2

    I thought you said not to disrespect women but you say all this is because women raised them? This whole trip you're on here is not wright. You forgot yourself, I think you forgot your place.

  • @nycsongman9758
    @nycsongman9758 6 років тому +2

    Sad. You seem to show little understanding of women’s true, historical, “nature” / behavior. Why; you’re not simpin’ hard, are you?

  • @BasicHaddock4
    @BasicHaddock4 7 років тому +1

    the intro to this vid had me dead lol but nice work Mr. Phil

  • @FBACERTIFIED
    @FBACERTIFIED 4 роки тому

    And you know when you're in the presence of a beta male he's going to be the one filming why the cops beating up on a woman

  • @Lupo32
    @Lupo32 7 років тому

    Alpha male Beta male Delta male
    A delta male is a opportunist

  • @marioavaughn
    @marioavaughn 4 роки тому +1

    Tell that to Bill Cosby. Your narrative is skewed badly.