Big time Z P tell me about it But we are all different Could you imagine if we was all alphas would be killing each other left right and centre balance my friend balance
Like I get the point but also…sometimes people don’t like people because that person legitimately sucks lmao sometimes, you’re just an asshole, not succeeding hard enough for jealousy. Just stay rational is all lol and self aware
@Be A champion i dont give a fuck i do almost everthing i can alone and am happy est doing this its kinda scary how fkn stupid and fucked up the entire population has become and they think there so smart just because they have money wtf
Who cares what haters think, you are your own man. Life is a war you fight alone, stressful as it is, distracting yourself with what other people think about you is just a waste of time… because most of the time, they think something bad anyways. Please don’t make the mistake and care about these things, just be yourself
@@HeatherMcSwayde no ,I never care about my haters.i have a battle between just me, myself and I .I don't care what others think about me .I'm not here to a people pleaser.i have a purpose ful goals and I work hard for it .
@@rajdeepsidhu-nt3mj lol but you make a post about revenge. If you truly don't care about them then you shouldn't care about revenge, dude you're not getting it, you're posting for attention. 🤣
it doesnt take courage to ef up your body, it takes stupidity. and were not jealous, were incredulous that you would be soo effing moronic to do that to yourself. but by all means, dont listen to us
@@fredwright5954 Personally, I don't even judge people who are doing something stupid. If someone is doing something stupid, they are going to learn the hard way. If they never learn...that's not my problem.
He eats shit .. he quits like Everybody else he just has a different perspective and way of saying it . Ppl need other ppl to tell them what 2 do ! Its a fkd up world 🤌🏾
Jesus loves you and died on the cross for your sins and rose from the dead 3 days later. Get a relationship with God and Jesus and confess for your sins and Live for Christ and not the world and allow God and Jesus into your hearts. God and Jesus are trying to save you from going to hell. HELL IS NOT A JOKE. Jehovah and Jesus are all of our Gods and Lords and Saviors✝️✝️✝️✝️SPREAD THE WORD✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️
When you get ready to leave your comfort zone and make your dreams come true,just do it.Don't tell but a few close friends you TRUST,if any.Some people are DREAM-KILLERS. HATERS.When God gave Joseph those dreams,it was meant for him only,but Joseph was YOUNG,naive and couldn't read the room. LOL.He didn't know his brothers were jealous of him.The dream you have just go for it,make it happen,some people don't want you to have more than them.They're called-HATERS-for a reason.Learn from Joseph's mistake and keep your dreams to your-self and make them happen.
This guy has saved me. Mentally and physically. I've cut my anti depressants in half. I am unapologetic I don't bow down to people. I've even helped my diabetes by healthy eating. He has just given me food for my soul. It's hard a rough road but I hear his story and know as a 52 year old woman I can still do it 💯❤️❤️❤️
Good for you. If we had an honest media, the studies that came out last year about antidepressants would have been front page news. The entire "chemical imbalance" was absolute BS
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I'm a brain cancer warrior I've had to relearn how to walk 3 times in the past 7 years. 4 Drs ALL told me I had 3 years tops back in 2012 I got fed up and started to fire any Dr that gave me an expiration date I'm here and kicking ass ♥️ I love your channel
it looks at what everyone else is doing and it imitates emulates copies and mimics the most common behaviors it sees in the tribe around us no matter how insane or psychotic and evil they are
My new motto "Don't kill them with kindness,torture them with success."I worked my ass off for 7 years and I finally got my promotion and two raises! Now I'm the boss and all my friends who were once co workers are haters and sabotage my success. Thanks for the advice...cause I'm no longer going to be a people pleaser. I say go ahead and let the haters talk. It's only fuel for my success.
I am writiing this message to myself while in tears, i will be back to this video 1 year from now and this is a promise to myself i will be 1 year clean from weed, going to the gym and grinding my ass off like i never have before idgaf i will do anything necessary to make it happend THE CHANGE BEGINS RIGHT NOW
You need to put these creeps in check.like chess.they take a chunk out of you.you take a chunk out of them.the hard feelings they put on to you..yes,people can literally physically and mentally destroy other people.i been there every once awhile.we all got different minds and different levels tempers.some people can handle situations better than others.some are slow.but we all have to let time pass.and see what karma is in store for all of us.everybody offends every once in awhile!with intentions or not.
What I've taken from him over all the speeches he's given is that everyone is fucked up behind the scenes, it's just that some people hide it really well, so if someone is judging you because of your flaw or something fucked up about you, know that they have their deep rooted issues too, and know that maybe they are reflecting their anger at themself on you.
I was bullied at school, afraid of my own shadow, a nerd with thick lenses. Now, I have conquered my fears. I saw people die and I saw no difference between what those people have done and my own life, so I could be next in the morgue freezer for all I knew. That was when I changed.
Hey man. I went through the same experience. I was shy not talkative and pretty much a need. Just like you bro. But after my father passed away I completely changed to the best. I really stopped caring about what peopel said. Because nothing else mattered when my dad passed away.
@@karamobeid6532 Sometimes having nothing to lose can help you you make that change. I’m in recovery from addiction and that’s like what they call rock bottom. You have lost so much you have nothing left to lose but your life. You might as well try to save it.
@@karamobeid6532 I heard that people who don't listen to what others are trying to force or impose on them, are the ones who can actually SAVE lives... Well, I'm not really a good listener but I've saved at least 4 people from certain death/demise in the past. It's not something that I'm proud of, but hey SHIT like that just happens in life! I wonder if you'll agree with me on this?
At 18 I made the mistake of going through the path everyone else recommended instead of the one I wanted. At 26 I've decided to run back, do everything I wanted and go forward from here. It's my life and it's time I take control of my own destiny.
@@polpol1005 and if you think about it when you say f people you actually do care what they think. Otherwise you wouldn't say that and just ignore them. Maybe David means learn not let them define who you are. Just my humble opinion.
If I tell people beforehand what I’m planning to do, I’ll often meet negativity. I’m usually telling them because I was insecure and wanted their approval. The negativity affected me and I quickly became discouraged. Once I realized this I stopped telling people my plans. It’s none of their business especially if what I’m planning on doing is challenging. So I find a way to get done whatever it is I set my mind too. Then if I decide to share what I’m up to it’s more about what I worked at and finished. Not in a bragging way, just matter of fact. Those negative folks have nothing negative to say and if they do it doesn’t affect me because I already finished it. Just something I found that helps me not let negativity and negative people bring me down. Peace.
Tomd…thank you for putting into words that I was feeling. I’m a 75-year old woman and fat and flabby. I started a training program to get back into shape. I have a large family but I didn’t want to tell anyone what I’m doing. My feelings were very strong about that, but I didn’t know why. You explained it thank you.
There's a peace that comes when you can admit your wrongs, your failures and know that not only are you working on changing it and improving yourself and your situation but also it's when you truly do not care what others think because you know in your heart, you're doing your best, youre making those attempts, you are being true to yourself and no one can stop you and no one can hurt you with their negative opinions. And don't ever compare yourself to others- they weren't born in your skin, they weren't born with your genes, your brain, your personality, your family history, they ARENT YOU. The key is to strive to be better than you were yesterday. Make goals and meet those goals. It's not about others, it's about being the best YOU that YOU can be. That's it. And It all starts with a thought. You have the right to dream any dream you want. No one can stop you! Reach for the stars. Don't give up.
@@etilhcir4645 that's not called being selfish. That's called caring more about your well-being and happiness then to constantly worry about what this world will think of you. Its just flew over your head that's why you don't get it.
@@etilhcir4645 i guess. I'm saying you can still help out but not lose yourself and self esteem constantly worrying about what this world thinks about you. Is all I'm.saying dude.
Careful with that thought. Sometimes it’s true but other times people are actually trying to warn you you’re going in the wrong direction. Learning to discern which is which is an important skill.
@@jaimestewart8295 you just need to see another perspective on this, if you know that nobody cares about you, you can handle conversations and communication in an easier way, because we all know that the other person doesn't give a shit about us, so it's just about being interested on what they say, listening to them basically, and you'll see that they'll be very happy with you and you don't even need to say a thing just ask good questions
@@jaimestewart8295 Dealing with them when you literally know that they don't care about you is even more easier because you just need to agree with all their bullshit and they'll be talking for hours about themselves. The thing is, it's better to not give them attention, that's what will hurt them the most.
I swear this is what I needed to hear. These past few months been so rough mentally that I’ve grown distant from family and friends. Hearing this was God sent, THANK YOU! 🙏🏽
When humans give up on you remember there is only one that will never. You know who he is. Hes the only who should occupy space in your mind rent free.
I'm right there with you. I just remember how far I've come and how far I've got left to go. This guy has a point surround yourself with those that support you and bring you up. If you're gonna hate on me or put me down fuck off. I've got this
You got it. Don't let people control your thoughts. It all begins with your thoughts. Life's full of haters. F em. Don't speak, do. I feel the same way about my past. I have a past and I had to do things that I wasn't proud of but I own all that and I'll tell anyone all about it. I don't feel shame or wish to go back anymore. I'm not afraid for anyone to see who I truly am.
After I stopped thinking about what other people thought about me and I stopped carrying about people's feelings, I have became a more confident person and I speak for my self now and I have moved up from were I was to a better position at work. I started showing people I can handle things by my self and do things better than others. Ever since I made that change I live better. I wish I could've been like this in my school years. Everyone has flaws but some just like to think they are perfect and those are the same exact ones with the most issues.
I love it. Small, genuine circle of friends. Maintaining undeterred by the over-opinionated, trivial masses. Focus on personal accomplishments. Totally resonates with me.
I'm so glad I stumbled onto this. I'm 43 and have lived my whole life in fear of what others think. It has been a straight jacket against personal growth and in the last couple years I've really started to hate myself for it. Thank you for these words and your story. I needed it more then you know.
I hear ya man I've been at a dead end job where nobody gives a fuck about us and I guess my biggest fear is finding and failing a better opportunity. I'm working on it I do want to find a job where I feel like a person instead of a number
@Shaun Elmers I echo your sentiments and I am older than u by a year and a female. Do I regret? No and yes but I finally realized that not even your family has good wishes for u but as long as u were kind and not vindictive and conniving, then all is not lost. Be healthy and work hard and allow yourself those down days, to get it out of your system. Best wishes and follow your inner voice where the guidance of the Eternal Loving Divine lives.
Every time I’m down and when someone had caused me harm or said something negative, I get depressed . After watching this video , I come back to it all the time when someone cause me grief and it helps me pick myself up and move forward stronger than before.
Success depends on the actions or steps you take to achieve it. Building wealth involves developing good habits like regularly putting money away in intervals for solid investments. Financial management is a crucial topic that most tend to shy away from, and ends up haunting them in the near future.., I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life!!
Starting early is simply the best way of getting ahead to build wealth , investing remains a priority . I learnt from my last year's experience , I am able to build a suitable life beause I invested early ahead this time .
The rich Invest in alternative income streams that are independent of the government should be the top priority for everyone right now. especially given the global economic crisis we are currently experiencing. Stocks, gold, silver, and virtual currencies are still attractive investments at the moment...
I thought about investing in the financial market, I heard that people make millions if you know the tricks of the trade, but I lack good knowledge and a strategy to outperform the market and generate good yields. I have $160,000 but it's hard to bite the bullet and do it.
Having an investment advisor is the best way to go. Based on a direct encounter with a CFP named Betty Sue Blanchard I can say with certainty that their skills are excellent. She helped raise over $580,000 in 18 months from an initially stagnant portfolio of $150,000
Man have I been on a journey… I’ve always had social anxiety, but the pst 5 years it got so bad it was debilitating. Now that I’m coming out of it, this video and what it says makes more sense to me than it ever did before. To anyone struggling: one thing I’ve learned on my journey, and whatever journey you’re on, if you believe this ONE thing, you can accomplish ANYTHING… I CAN DO THIS Love y’all, stay strong, stay hard!
I’m 55 , female just torn down emotionally at a huge betrayal that left me feeling shattered into pieces. I ran across this video today after crying half hour. Much need to hear this today. Thank you ❤
61 yo, female here...I hope all is better ❤. This has come to make you stronger, and teach you. Embrace it all, when you come out on the other side reflect on it and how has it "better" you? Keep asking until you find that answer, then take a moment to feel that greatness.. .then move on.
9 months ago I switched departments in my company to learn new skills and become more valuable to them. At nearly 23 years of service my role was terminated yesterday due to a merger and my role being redundant. My wife is also unemployed. But we have self respect, self esteem and discipline to overcome this. Thank you David Goggins for shaping my mind and helping me believe in myself.
Very kind of you to ask @Michael_Nagato. I’m doing well and cannot complain. I found employment within another department (same company). Wife is still unemployed but completing an online course this week. We have health and family which are our priorities. I hope you and everyone watching this video are doing well.
And of course just 30 minutes ago I was asked to look for another job because ‘I’m not working out / fit for current role’. So I’ll begin a new job search now. This bites.
I struggled with caring about what people think about me for the longest time. I lied to so many people in my life. I listen to this every morning. Thank you David Goggins, because of you I can see a way out.
The only thing I lied to my friends and family saying I have a girlfriend since they all call me a loser being age 30 being single and ugly and a loser people giving me negative energy really hurt so much
@@adamjackson619screw then they are assholes you are not ugly, get new friends and family, live like you are the man, because you are. You will find a girl at the right time.
This just saved my life. I was literally fixing to end it. I didn't just need to hear this. I had to. Thank you David, you don't know just how much this means. I rediscovered purpose in my life.
Hope you be OK brother. Get out of that square box that you are entrapped in. Take a travel outside this country, especially to the islands or African countries. It will 100% change your life. You will find what life is about. If you need advice where to visit, I'm glad to give you all infos.
Adam, you hang in there, you got this. You really do matter. Don't listen to anyones negativity. Forgive yourself and love yourself. You're worth it. I'm here.
Thank you, every one of you. I can report that things have slightly improved. I went to a therapist and got some help. I maintain my exercise routine daily, it's not a huge routine, but it's early and I just started. I'm in a better place mentally, because of David. I've been watching his videos and follow him on Facebook now. He has a way of resonating with me, it's some of the same things other people have told me, but I don't know how to explain it, it just hits harder hearing it from him.
I couldn’t agree more wholeheartedly with this man. My motto has always been: Keep people at a distance and keep most people out of your life altogether to be happy, contented and successful. It’s always worked for me.
Yes that's what exactly what I do keep to my self less people in your life less hassles less stress, less people judging you, its the ultimate payback longterm to all those negative people over the years I'm loving every minute of it only my family matters these days
Once i stop caring, i became the bad guy. I have been called all kinds of things, i have got isolated , I have been blamed for things i didn't even do. I am still learning to not care , its not easy, God knows its not but i know it will get better, i hope, am still working on it. I am a really bad , evil, wicked, selfish person but i show up when they needed me to and they never showed up for me. I cheer for them all but they laughed in my face and treated me like trash, they never stood high cheering me on. I loved them all with my whole heart and it meant nothing, i was just a pay cheque, i was just an opportunity, or it was suppose to be that way. I asked for help and they used it to mock me and when things got good for me , they came asking for things from me. Am just ranting i know but its one of those days i feel really hurt and cant stop remembering how badly i have treated over and over by people i knew my whole life.
It has taken me way to long in life to realize how right not giving a shit about what people that you do not respect or love think about you. This is not easy to do but it is very important and will improve your life.
"Become who you always wanted to be, your own best self, and then tell people to go fuck themselves." I am going to save this. This is the best fucking quote I ve heard in this year and the one that has the most meaning. Thank you, mister Goggins!
Y'know what tho, that's fine. In fact I think it's pretty much human. If fear and anxiety over others' opinions of you are holding you back though - you need to find some courage and take some action.
I can never get enough of Goggins. I cannot believe he has haters. Goggins wants to put his story out there so anyone who wants to overcome thyself can.
One of the best videos I've ever seen and very true and to the point. So thankful there are people that talk the truth about life. Thanks for being truthful. Thanks mr David goggins and have a great weekend Sir.
goddamn! I've heard David Goggins speeches before but they never get old. Dude gives me chills with every motivational thing he says. I wake up every morning listening to him and others to start my day off knowing it's gonna make me a better person for myself
Jesper…117. O yeah I love that. killing them with kindness torture them with success! A priceless statement! I think you fly, and if so I know what! One aviator to another! Keep the tarmac active sport. JB. Surrey. UK.
I am on a journey, your message is my spark, the haters are my fuel, my efforts are the oxygen. If you don't know that's the fire triangle and I'm all out of cheeks.
The minute I wallow in self doubt, the flow of my music suffers. On stage, I have battled to ignore the negative voices as I force myself to calm down, relax and just play as well as possible. I enjoyed this, truly inspired to be the best "me" I can be. Thank you Mr. Goggins for a truly important message!
The answers are inward. Strength comes from within.... And it's a never ending fountain of satisfaction and happiness. Being content with yourself and what you love will bring so much happiness that no matter what others think you know inside you lies true beauty.
The more I stop caring about what people think, is the less friends I have in my circle but it wasn't a lost because they weren't my friends to begin with, I was living for them and I wasn't keeping it real with myself
Several years ago I did the same thing-LIVING for others-their validation,opinions,etc,etc,till one day someone SLASHED a tire on my car ( don't know who it was or why-I WAS PISSED !!! LOL. It was my WAKE-UP call and I stopped being a SIMP,got rid of my so-called friends,told people to stop mooching off me,no more helping people. I did a total PURGE !!! LOL. Like you said in your post-they weren't my friends to begin with.
This video touched my Heart. I had the same issues as him, always be bullied because i was short and weared glasses. Did a couple bodybuilding competitions when i was in my 20,s. People said that i was not good enough, so that,s why it all went wrong. I gained almost 90 pounds, on a 5' 5" structure. Man i was so lost, drank a lot of alcohol , ate the wrong sh!t, and let people to take control over me. In 2000 i met this wonderful woman, and she said almost the same what David said in this video. Now back on track ,and training almost everyday. I quitted drinking, became a vegan in 2013. Getting better in every way, now i,m planning to get back in competition again. This video helps a lot. Thanks David Goggings for your wise words. Greetings from Alex, from The Netherlands. By the way , my wife is still my biggest fan. :)
Man I’m going through the same shit too no you’re short king and I love you bro only 5’9 I was anorexic as a kid got bullied my Snapchat just got recently hacked my nudes got leaked Life‘s a bit messy right now the fuck the world is fine just gotta keep pushing Got a new job in progress is going good I’m a CNC programmer now just turned 20
Needed to hear this so much. I suffered from sever depression as a teenager. Blamed myself for other people's problems, was bullied, sufferered from unnecessary guilt and thought I deserved punishment. When people see my scars they judge me. Go for it if you want to - merry Christmas. I'm working out everyday and getting stronger. Each week I can do more and I will be able to do even more. Thank you for your inspiring words
This message was made for me. I have a hard life, mostly self induced. Always worried about what other people say and think. From this Pont forward I am going to do everything I can to lead by example. I will put my heavenly father first, one second, one minute, one hour, one day a time.
@@bama9836 great to hear man. Keep that shit up. I'm trying hard, but keep struggling with addiction and all that crap. I'm getting better every day though. Good luck to you. Seriously
@@johnherbert1431 , Put God first in EVERY THING YOU DO. One day at a time, I believe in you. Replace the addiction with motivation. Keep your head up. Good luck to you.
This hit home for me....one of my problems all through life....what people thought of me and their negative comments....not even behind my back but straight to my face. I would let these fools ruin my day or weekend with their words. The more people put you down just reflects on how they feel about themselves and their own insecurities. Let NO ONE have that power over you.
I just started watching David Goggins, and he is SO INSPIRING. I'm still in a battle of caring what other people think of me, but this is encouraging me to not. I am who I am and I never should have to apologize for being me. This is my favorite video of his. He is so right about people and life!
Positive vibes no matter what anybody thinks! People who judge, are afraid to see who they truly are!!!!! This was a good watch and thank you for this 🤘🏽
I’m crying watching this bc I’m just a few months I made one decision to go to the gym instead of drinking alcohol and I’ve lost 20 pounds my skin is clearing really good and my anxiety is good and I didn’t realize til I went to the gym lastnight and I seen a group of people laughing at me usually I would walk out the gym or go somewhere else but lastnight I kept pushing my reps. They won’t laugh for long they gonna be congratulating me by the end of the year thank you 🙏
Being a veteran who let PTSD get the best of me,this was meant for me to see. I have to, I need to get back into the the fight and stay fighting and I need to kick ass! I use to have that fuck it gene, my fire needs to be re-lit, and this is the spark. New sub here!
It doesn't matter what others say; it is WHO YOU ARE.....others can't give you self respect; that's why it's called SELF respect ! The only person you have to better than, is the person you are now....as Clint Eastwood says in Heartbreak Ridge.....Improvise...Adapt....OVERCOME !!!
Man oh man did I struggle with this for a LONG time....YEARS. Ever since I changed my frame of mind about this, not only has my stress been reduced, I have become much more respected and powerful in my job....specifically with how much I can influence others. Also, what he talks about I also experienced when I was in the Air Force. As soon as I started taking college classes on my off time I had darn near the entire shop I worked at making fun of me.....saying I'd never actually do anything with that and I certainly wouldn't take enough of them to get a degree. Man did that ever motivate the shit out of me. I ended up doing that for 4 years then got out of the military, finished up and eared my BSN from Michigan State University.
I was doing so well. Coming off my anti depressant getting myself eating healthy and getting stronger to deal with bullies. I miss my mum doesn't help today's been an awful day. Tears and feel awful. So disappointed I came off that pathway. I need to start again I know xxx
Don't worry what anyone thinks about you! Forget that! Be the best you can be. Be stronger than u! Fight yourself. Be the one to beat! Do not let them get to you!
This mindset is FREEDOM. Oh.. if I had known then as a kid and into my early adult hood, and especially during grad school when I allowed myself to be bullied by people who did not think I was smart enough to be there... I would have been able to save myself my own distress. This is what I need to hear now as my progress into my next phase of my life. Thank you for existing David Goggins... you showed up in my IG feed at the right time as I was doubting myself in big way. Perfect...timing.
It's also one of the benefits getting older, every day I care less about what people might think of me and it's a breath of fresh air. Just wished I would've realised this a lot sooner.
I said that to my employer of 12 yrs, I felt great. Two months later I’m Graduating college. Now, I pushing myself to get to my goal. Some other people say “it’s too much, take time, it’s a lot of hard work”.I’m ready to go, I’ve been held back due to a narcissist who didn’t want me to succeed. I don’t no one feel sorry for me, I have God who’s guiding me, I feel great. Thank you David. G
Marlena Tully. Hi. Have just today read your notes on Pushing to reach your goal and just had to send a reply to you. Dream Big Marlena, if you can dream it and conceive it and you have full passion for it, then you can make it become YOURS. People that doubt you or say NO you can’t do that, “Thats their word for themselves CANT.” THEY themselves NEVER WILL!! And they are just either plain Jealous that because they do not have the Strength Commitment Focus Passion and will sacrifice that you have Marlena. OR they DO NOT want to see you WIN as they are JELOUS. And Sadly for them they may never had or have a dream! F1 racing driver Lewis Hamilton. DREAMT and said he wanted to be The most successful racing driver EVER, HE IS. WOW massive success!!!!! I was badly injured in a car crash (not my fault, caused by a dam drunken driver) in Australia some time ago. I thought my life was over finished. A childhood dream, pilot in the airforce. One day had a Pleasure flight local airport. Gosh I ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT That day Booked my first Training flight. months later taught myself basic aerobatics. Achieved best pass of flight test GFT that examiner had ever had. “He said” Won Top trophy for Pilot Proficiency, “Gosh I didn’t expect that trophy”. A few years later became part owner of Aerobatic team. “Forgive me I am not boasting at all! “I just Dreamt” in quiet self achievement! I didn’t expect to win Trophies! Some said to me YOU CANT! Yes I can…I did! I only say this to encourage you Marlena, or anyone to help. Because I want YOU to Dream to succeed and WIN !!! YOU CAN. NEVER GIVE IN NEVER GIVE UP. Think about this! Why Do Eagles Fly ? Because They Think They Can. Dream Pray Commit…Go for it Marlena 😃. Wishing you whatever your dream is! Gods big happy blessings for you. Marlena!….Love Marlena A lot..More! JB. Surrey. UK.
@@johnbridges6867 good morning, Thank you for your reaching out across the globe and responding to my comment. I’m looking forward to my milestone to Graduate this weekend. Until I head into dead end, my boyfriend of 15yrs. (Narcissist), we have two kids together. he took it upon himself to book a trip to Vegas to visit friends, on the day of my big day. Then turns it around and says it’s my “Graduation present”. Spent three days arguing over I mentioning my graduation was coming up but all those time he didn’t knowledge me (numerous of time). On top of that, my son is suspended from school, so he decides to take him. How is that teaching your child, without any repercussions for his mistakes.definitely a poor mentor, no father skills, and no self worth (which he knows). Overall, he’s using my kids to hurt me, definitely knows I can’t go anywhere without them. Then threatens me that he’ll sell the house, I careless what he does, all I need is my kids. I’m pushed too far, I’m corralled, I refused to be in that position. My faith has kept me on my feet and continue to push forward. I put myself in this position and strength from the higher power. I was in an car accident in the past with a co-worker who picked me from to take me to work. I had no idea she had a few drinks before she pick me up. We got into an horrible accident. I was able to rehabilitate myself. If you can overcome anything, anyone can. I may be broken now, it’s only temporary, I’ll be fine. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, definitely appreciate your positive feedback. God bless you, sending your a virtual hug. You have a great day or night.
David is everything what I want to be but I’m not. I’m really successful in my line of work but there’s something this guy has what I don’t. Can’t even tell what but maybe it’s just the spirit. Waking up everyday and know where you going and what you’re living for. You can get as rich as you want but without that you’ll remain empty.
I met one of my Managers years ago. His name was also David Goggins! He was an older Caucasian man. He would give me good advice whenever we talked. He was such a smart man! Thank God for the David Goggins of the world! Wow 👍🏾
It was when my daughter was born. Life had beaten me down pretty badly for a long time at that point. All of a sudden there she was. They pulled her out of her mom and handed her right to me. She fit in the palm of my hand. Her eyes were so blue and I could already see and feel how much she loved me and trusted me and needed me, & needed me to be the man I was supposed to be. I knew right then and there that I had to change everything. Whatever fux I had left evaporated on the spot. I will never quit, I will never stop, and I Will never back down ever again.
This guy speaks truth! You have to be willing to be real with yourself to get anywhere in life. I have been learning stoicism lately and I see that if we don’t continuously push forward we will succumb to just fitting in with the crowd. One thing I believe is that along with torturing others with success you can continue to be kind. Ignore toxic situations or people that are walking their own path but never lose your kindness. Kindness allows for the goodness of life to shine through the darkness.
I needed this I'm dealing with a coworker that complains of me about everything. I told him I can't control what people say It's ridiculous but I don't care there alot of gossip in my workplace. Thanks for the motivation and also I'm thinking of a new job soon
This man helped get me through a nervous breakdown and three years of anxious depression recovering from it, i came out a thousand time's stronger thanks David and to others that made me see the world and myself in a different perspective, its not the ego its just learning to enjoy and see meaning in the suffering, Stay hard
💯Something I learned growing up. Take a minute to really LOOK at those people who talk about you, mistreat, envy, and jealous Now think to yourself do you CARE. That saying NEVER gets old. Turned my life COMPLETELY around 😂.
So true. My biggest downfall in life was listening to other people, and what they thought of me. The moment I stopped caring about what other people thought of me my life improved. Thanks David for the video.
My sister and I basically grew up the same but later on down the line we became completely different people, even though we grew up in the same scenes. But at some point I stopped caring what other people thought. And she still cares a great deal. I told her it's okay to care but it's not okay to seek validation that isn't your own. And that people that make it, usually aren't famous or great actors or amazing artists, but mentally they made, they won. To be, I guess, winning is truly only caring what you think. I've gained respect from people because I show I'm committed. Even though I've gained their respect, either way it still motivates me to be better. Whether they're supporters or haters, I committed for myself. I stopped caring, for myself. I stopped thinking I was the only one going through hardships. I became self-aware and wanted better for myself. I hope one day she sees this, because I truly believe life starts when you start living for yourself.
That’s what I needed to hear today. I’m in tears while listening to it. Sometimes we have no idea how strong we are. How good we are. We letting ourselves down by comparing ourselves to others. As for me,this has to stop because it’s so exhausting.
ONE OF BEST VIDEOS I'VE EVER SEEN. I LOT OF US NEED TO HEAR THIS I KNOW I DID. SOME PEOPLE WILL TRY TO BRING YOU DOWN. DO NOT LET THEM. I REPEAT DO NOT LET THEM. GO FOR YOUR DREAMS NO MATTER WHAT MY FRIENDS.
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Words like his made me come out two years ago. I just didn’t care anymore about people who maybe judging me. Life is too short to not be your true self and to not be happy!
“The more you don’t quit, the more self respect you gain.” So powerful and true
Most definitely!!
BUT HONESTLY TRULY THE ONLY ACCEPTANCE And VALADATION I NEED or ANYONE NEEDS IS FROM GOD And JESUS CHRIST That's The REAL
Big time Z P tell me about it
But we are all different Could you imagine if we was all alphas would be killing each other left right and centre balance my friend balance
Absofuckinglutely!!
“And the power was all mine”
"Embrace the fact that people don't like you. It means you're doing something right." 💪
You must do that by being yourself!😎
Like I get the point but also…sometimes people don’t like people because that person legitimately sucks lmao sometimes, you’re just an asshole, not succeeding hard enough for jealousy.
Just stay rational is all lol and self aware
Man i must be doing something write because everbody hates me ha ha
@Be A champion i dont give a fuck i do almost everthing i can alone and am happy est doing this its kinda scary how fkn stupid and fucked up the entire population has become and they think there so smart just because they have money wtf
Not necessarily. You could simply be an asshole of a human being. These quotes are too simplistic to take seriously.
"SUCCESS is the best REVENGE to kill your Haters."🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Who cares what haters think, you are your own man. Life is a war you fight alone, stressful as it is, distracting yourself with what other people think about you is just a waste of time… because most of the time, they think something bad anyways. Please don’t make the mistake and care about these things, just be yourself
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Wow you missed the point! Lol sounds like you still care what your haters think.
@@HeatherMcSwayde no ,I never care about my haters.i have a battle between just me, myself and I .I don't care what others think about me .I'm not here to a people pleaser.i have a purpose ful goals and I work hard for it .
@@rajdeepsidhu-nt3mj lol but you make a post about revenge. If you truly don't care about them then you shouldn't care about revenge, dude you're not getting it, you're posting for attention. 🤣
When people judge you...they are telling you they are jealous of you. They are jealous that you have the courage to do that and they don't
it doesnt take courage to ef up your body, it takes stupidity. and were not jealous, were incredulous that you would be soo effing moronic to do that to yourself. but by all means, dont listen to us
100 % right
@@fredwright5954 Personally, I don't even judge people who are doing something stupid. If someone is doing something stupid, they are going to learn the hard way. If they never learn...that's not my problem.
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Does this same logic apply to shaming fat asses? Lmao
“I don’t stop when I’m tired. I stop when I’m done” - David Goggins
Yeeeeeesssssss !!!!! 👀
He eats shit .. he quits like Everybody else he just has a different perspective and way of saying it . Ppl need other ppl to tell them what 2 do ! Its a fkd up world 🤌🏾
Jesus loves you and died on the cross for your sins and rose from the dead 3 days later. Get a relationship with God and Jesus and confess for your sins and Live for Christ and not the world and allow God and Jesus into your hearts. God and Jesus are trying to save you from going to hell.
HELL IS NOT A JOKE. Jehovah and Jesus are all of our Gods and Lords and Saviors✝️✝️✝️✝️SPREAD THE WORD✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️
Yea, moron.
Noo bro it is from Swami Vivekanandaa
"You dont need a uniform to have honor. You need to have pride in yourself" This quote took me to a higher level thank you.
A wise man once told me “It’s none of my business what people think or say about me”.. Works for me!!
When you get ready to leave your comfort zone and make your dreams come true,just do it.Don't tell but a few close friends you TRUST,if any.Some people are DREAM-KILLERS. HATERS.When God gave Joseph those dreams,it was meant for him only,but Joseph was YOUNG,naive and couldn't read the room. LOL.He didn't know his brothers were jealous of him.The dream you have just go for it,make it happen,some people don't want you to have more than them.They're called-HATERS-for a reason.Learn from Joseph's mistake and keep your dreams to your-self and make them happen.
@@powerbad696 Wiseman also told me “Stay Humble.. do good things for you first and then others without boasting or bragging..”
@@shawno9267 What in my thread did I boast or brag ???
@@powerbad696 nothing at all… stay positive ☮️💟
I totally agree with you..
This guy has saved me. Mentally and physically. I've cut my anti depressants in half. I am unapologetic I don't bow down to people. I've even helped my diabetes by healthy eating. He has just given me food for my soul. It's hard a rough road but I hear his story and know as a 52 year old woman I can still do it 💯❤️❤️❤️
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽👍👍👍👍👍👍
Good for you.
If we had an honest media, the studies that came out last year about antidepressants would have been front page news. The entire "chemical imbalance" was absolute BS
May God bless you
Stay hard
Your future needs you. Don't give up💪🙏🤩 ! #fyp #dontgiveup
Dave Goggins is beyond amazing. Success has no shortcuts, do this.
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Love this guy. This might be the best motivational video on the tube
I'm a brain cancer warrior I've had to relearn how to walk 3 times in the past 7 years. 4 Drs ALL told me I had 3 years tops back in 2012 I got fed up and started to fire any Dr that gave me an expiration date I'm here and kicking ass ♥️ I love your channel
Fck yeah
I hope you are doing well.
I firmly believe no doctor has the right to tell you how long you have.. They are not God.
Stay Healthy
@@wakranich3488 I was asking their professional opinions
@@wakranich3488 I'm getting better with every corrective Surgery thank you 😊
"Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation."
it looks at what everyone else is doing and it imitates emulates copies and mimics the most common behaviors it sees in the tribe around us no matter how insane or psychotic and evil they are
another persons thoughts...lol
@@fredwright5954 isn't it ironic?
Great quote, and very true.
and parrot repeat what they heard
Totally true. Others will steer you wrong every time.
Yep, shitty opinions are everywhere. Only listen to those who are more experienced than you.
"The more I didn't quit, the more self-respect I gained."
You're amazing. 🎉
My new motto "Don't kill them with kindness,torture them with success."I worked my ass off for 7 years and I finally got my promotion and two raises! Now I'm the boss and all my friends who were once co workers are haters and sabotage my success. Thanks for the advice...cause I'm no longer going to be a people pleaser. I say go ahead and let the haters talk. It's only fuel for my success.
GET IT!!!!!!
Right on give it to ‘em straight!!!!!!🤩
I am writiing this message to myself while in tears, i will be back to this video 1 year from now and this is a promise to myself i will be 1 year clean from weed, going to the gym and grinding my ass off like i never have before idgaf i will do anything necessary to make it happend THE CHANGE BEGINS RIGHT NOW
Good for you man...i just did 4 miles in the rain high on weed 😂😂
Other people's thoughts can actually destroy another person's mind...bottom line...think for yourself...thank you...♡
You need to put these creeps in check.like chess.they take a chunk out of you.you take a chunk out of them.the hard feelings they put on to you..yes,people can literally physically and mentally destroy other people.i been there every once awhile.we all got different minds and different levels tempers.some people can handle situations better than others.some are slow.but we all have to let time pass.and see what karma is in store for all of us.everybody offends every once in awhile!with intentions or not.
What I've taken from him over all the speeches he's given is that everyone is fucked up behind the scenes, it's just that some people hide it really well, so if someone is judging you because of your flaw or something fucked up about you, know that they have their deep rooted issues too, and know that maybe they are reflecting their anger at themself on you.
Yep, some people hide it really well, the then there's Brandon who proves every hour of every day he's fucked up!
Dont bend to other's opinions and just do you! 💪🏽💙
I was bullied at school, afraid of my own shadow, a nerd with thick lenses. Now, I have conquered my fears. I saw people die and I saw no difference between what those people have done and my own life, so I could be next in the morgue freezer for all I knew. That was when I changed.
Hey man. I went through the same experience. I was shy not talkative and pretty much a need. Just like you bro. But after my father passed away I completely changed to the best. I really stopped caring about what peopel said. Because nothing else mattered when my dad passed away.
@@karamobeid6532 Sometimes having nothing to lose can help you you make that change. I’m in recovery from addiction and that’s like what they call rock bottom. You have lost so much you have nothing left to lose but your life. You might as well try to save it.
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And now..... You're a policeman. 😁
@@karamobeid6532 I heard that people who don't listen to what others are trying to force or impose on them, are the ones who can actually SAVE lives... Well, I'm not really a good listener but I've saved at least 4 people from certain death/demise in the past. It's not something that I'm proud of, but hey SHIT like that just happens in life! I wonder if you'll agree with me on this?
At 18 I made the mistake of going through the path everyone else recommended instead of the one I wanted. At 26 I've decided to run back, do everything I wanted and go forward from here. It's my life and it's time I take control of my own destiny.
be careful though... you're at the peak now, don't think that you'll feel the same 10 years later
I used to think Goggins was crazy, he is extreme, absolutely, but he isn't wrong. This world needs savages, let's build more of them folks!
"Let the hate people have for you be your fuel" it works amazingly well for me and not running out of it ever. Hell yeah Goggins my brother!
if it's your fuel that means you still care what other thinks
@@polpol1005 I have family that can hate on me but you're right I do care what they think to an extent. And that's because I love them.
@@Oscar-rd3bm if it's your family then it's correct to love them I guess :)
@@polpol1005 and if you think about it when you say f people you actually do care what they think. Otherwise you wouldn't say that and just ignore them.
Maybe David means learn not let them define who you are. Just my humble opinion.
@@Oscar-rd3bm maybe! Good point
When a person suffers through the hands of other people ,nothing they say or due can harm you,ignore them,don't care.
If I tell people beforehand what I’m planning to do, I’ll often meet negativity. I’m usually telling them because I was insecure and wanted their approval. The negativity affected me and I quickly became discouraged.
Once I realized this I stopped telling people my plans. It’s none of their business especially if what I’m planning on doing is challenging. So I find a way to get done whatever it is I set my mind too. Then if I decide to share what I’m up to it’s more about what I worked at and finished. Not in a bragging way, just matter of fact. Those negative folks have nothing negative to say and if they do it doesn’t affect me because I already finished it. Just something I found that helps me not let negativity and negative people bring me down. Peace.
Tomd…thank you for putting into words that I was feeling. I’m a 75-year old woman and fat and flabby. I started a training program to get back into shape. I have a large family but I didn’t want to tell anyone what I’m doing. My feelings were very strong about that, but I didn’t know why. You explained it thank you.
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You’re welcome and best of luck
Me too
@@DCB938keep it up. Its not too late.
I’m naturally a big introvert but watching this helps me come to terms with it and makes me just wanna be myself
Improve yourself! Spend hours outside instead of spending hours inside
Confidence can be introverted and/or extroverted. Keep being the best version of who you are.
I love how he tells you to own who you are and be unapologetic!! Very powerful words 💪
There's a peace that comes when you can admit your wrongs, your failures and know that not only are you working on changing it and improving yourself and your situation but also it's when you truly do not care what others think because you know in your heart, you're doing your best, youre making those attempts, you are being true to yourself and no one can stop you and no one can hurt you with their negative opinions.
And don't ever compare yourself to others- they weren't born in your skin, they weren't born with your genes, your brain, your personality, your family history, they ARENT YOU. The key is to strive to be better than you were yesterday. Make goals and meet those goals. It's not about others, it's about being the best YOU that YOU can be. That's it. And It all starts with a thought. You have the right to dream any dream you want. No one can stop you! Reach for the stars. Don't give up.
Amen. 🙏🏻 Took the words right out of my mouth.
absolute peace yes.
Well said, i like the saying: Never judge a person until you have walked a mile in their shoes.
Well said …
@@stevetrivago Thank you 😊
I needed to hear this today. I’m working harder than I ever have in my life.
Good for you keep it up Stay hard !
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Keep it up king!✌🔥
Amen 🙏🏻 🙌🏻✌🏻😍♥️
Not hard enough if your wasting time on UA-cam
Nothing but facts in this video! The day you stop caring what other people think about you, you are truly free.
He's right in so many ways. Caring less about what other people think about yourself. Will bring nothing but peace into your life✊🏽💯
@@etilhcir4645 that's not called being selfish. That's called caring more about your well-being and happiness then to constantly worry about what this world will think of you. Its just flew over your head that's why you don't get it.
@@etilhcir4645 i guess. I'm saying you can still help out but not lose yourself and self esteem constantly worrying about what this world thinks about you. Is all I'm.saying dude.
@@etilhcir4645 this video didn't mean it in that way, he wasn't promoting that
@@etilhcir4645 you're not better than anybody saddis humble yourself,
One thing I learned from video games is that, if you encounter enemies, you're going the right way.
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Epic
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Careful with that thought. Sometimes it’s true but other times people are actually trying to warn you you’re going in the wrong direction. Learning to discern which is which is an important skill.
Hmpgr hihi hmuahahaha! "If you look right you cant see whats left"
This might be the best speech I have ever heard, Goggins is soo inspirational man
Everything he's said is true. Life is easier when you stop caring about what people think.
Yeah but you end up alone even with a house full of people.
@@jaimestewart8295 Only the strong survive
@@jaimestewart8295 you just need to see another perspective on this, if you know that nobody cares about you, you can handle conversations and communication in an easier way, because we all know that the other person doesn't give a shit about us, so it's just about being interested on what they say, listening to them basically, and you'll see that they'll be very happy with you and you don't even need to say a thing just ask good questions
@@LiMaky yeah 👌, not when you are dealing with a narcissistic or psychopath
@@jaimestewart8295 Dealing with them when you literally know that they don't care about you is even more easier because you just need to agree with all their bullshit and they'll be talking for hours about themselves. The thing is, it's better to not give them attention, that's what will hurt them the most.
I swear this is what I needed to hear. These past few months been so rough mentally that I’ve grown distant from family and friends. Hearing this was God sent, THANK YOU! 🙏🏽
When humans give up on you remember there is only one that will never. You know who he is. Hes the only who should occupy space in your mind rent free.
Amen 🙏🏽
I'm right there with you. I just remember how far I've come and how far I've got left to go. This guy has a point surround yourself with those that support you and bring you up. If you're gonna hate on me or put me down fuck off. I've got this
You got it. Don't let people control your thoughts. It all begins with your thoughts. Life's full of haters. F em. Don't speak, do. I feel the same way about my past. I have a past and I had to do things that I wasn't proud of but I own all that and I'll tell anyone all about it. I don't feel shame or wish to go back anymore. I'm not afraid for anyone to see who I truly am.
After I stopped thinking about what other people thought about me and I stopped carrying about people's feelings, I have became a more confident person and I speak for my self now and I have moved up from were I was to a better position at work. I started showing people I can handle things by my self and do things better than others. Ever since I made that change I live better. I wish I could've been like this in my school years. Everyone has flaws but some just like to think they are perfect and those are the same exact ones with the most issues.
I love it. Small, genuine circle of friends. Maintaining undeterred by the over-opinionated, trivial masses. Focus on personal accomplishments. Totally resonates with me.
I have spent my whole life worrying about what other people think of me. I’m 50, and it has really made life hard!
I'm so glad I stumbled onto this. I'm 43 and have lived my whole life in fear of what others think. It has been a straight jacket against personal growth and in the last couple years I've really started to hate myself for it. Thank you for these words and your story. I needed it more then you know.
Have Noooo F E A R BROTHER!
I hear ya man I've been at a dead end job where nobody gives a fuck about us and I guess my biggest fear is finding and failing a better opportunity. I'm working on it I do want to find a job where I feel like a person instead of a number
You got this!
@Shaun Elmers I echo your sentiments and I am older than u by a year and a female. Do I regret? No and yes but I finally realized that not even your family has good wishes for u but as long as u were kind and not vindictive and conniving, then all is not lost. Be healthy and work hard and allow yourself those down days, to get it out of your system. Best wishes and follow your inner voice where the guidance of the Eternal Loving Divine lives.
Every time I’m down and when someone had caused me harm or said something negative, I get depressed . After watching this video , I come back to it all the time when someone cause me grief and it helps me pick myself up and move forward stronger than before.
I don’t hate on American and Serbian girls at all ( 👍✌️ ) In fact, I wish we can have FUN with them,for their GUYS having FUN with our women/girls
Success depends on the actions or steps you take to achieve it. Building wealth involves developing good habits like regularly putting money away in intervals for solid investments. Financial management is a crucial topic that most tend to shy away from, and ends up haunting them in the near future.., I pray that anyone who reads this will be successful in life!!
Starting early is simply the best way of getting ahead to build wealth , investing remains a priority . I learnt from my last year's experience , I am able to build a suitable life beause I invested early ahead this time .
The rich Invest in alternative income streams that are independent of the government should be the top priority for everyone right now. especially given the global economic crisis we are currently experiencing. Stocks, gold, silver, and virtual currencies are still attractive investments at the moment...
I thought about investing in the financial market, I heard that people make millions if you know the tricks of the trade, but I lack good knowledge and a strategy to outperform the market and generate good yields. I have $160,000 but it's hard to bite the bullet and do it.
Having an investment advisor is the best way to go. Based on a direct encounter with a CFP named Betty Sue Blanchard I can say with certainty that their skills are excellent. She helped raise over $580,000 in 18 months from an initially stagnant portfolio of $150,000
Fantastic! can u share more details?
Don’t be afraid to be yourself stay motivated in life forget what everybody else thinks of You only live once so live it up
it's hard
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you have to just do it it will make u feel stronger in life.
Man have I been on a journey… I’ve always had social anxiety, but the pst 5 years it got so bad it was debilitating. Now that I’m coming out of it, this video and what it says makes more sense to me than it ever did before. To anyone struggling: one thing I’ve learned on my journey, and whatever journey you’re on, if you believe this ONE thing, you can accomplish ANYTHING…
I CAN DO THIS
Love y’all, stay strong, stay hard!
Been 2 days since your comment and I hope you are fighting your anxiety the best you can
God bless YOU and STAY HARD!!!!!!!!!!!!
u can beat anxiety man 👍
I never cared what people think about me. Perfectly said. PERIOD!!!!
I’m 55 , female just torn down emotionally at a huge betrayal that left me feeling shattered into pieces. I ran across this video today after crying half hour. Much need to hear this today.
Thank you ❤
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Best of Luck , happiness and much success!
Good thing and people are coming and enjoy your life.
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61 yo, female here...I hope all is better ❤. This has come to make you stronger, and teach you. Embrace it all, when you come out on the other side reflect on it and how has it "better" you? Keep asking until you find that answer, then take a moment to feel that greatness..
.then move on.
Giga women.
9 months ago I switched departments in my company to learn new skills and become more valuable to them. At nearly 23 years of service my role was terminated yesterday due to a merger and my role being redundant. My wife is also unemployed. But we have self respect, self esteem and discipline to overcome this. Thank you David Goggins for shaping my mind and helping me believe in myself.
Update? Stay hard
Very kind of you to ask
@Michael_Nagato. I’m doing well and cannot complain. I found employment within another department (same company). Wife is still unemployed but completing an online course this week. We have health and family which are our priorities. I hope you and everyone watching this video are doing well.
And of course just 30 minutes ago I was asked to look for another job because ‘I’m not working out / fit for current role’. So I’ll begin a new job search now. This bites.
@@flatcbsh7185power to you brother. Keep grinding and believing in yourself. It will turn around for you again. You can do it.
I struggled with caring about what people think about me for the longest time. I lied to so many people in my life. I listen to this every morning. Thank you David Goggins, because of you I can see a way out.
The only thing I lied to my friends and family saying I have a girlfriend since they all call me a loser being age 30 being single and ugly and a loser people giving me negative energy really hurt so much
It’s gonna work out for us.
@@adamjackson619damn
@@adamjackson619screw then they are assholes you are not ugly, get new friends and family, live like you are the man, because you are. You will find a girl at the right time.
@@wolfkingAD I cut contact with a lot of people now I feel like a loner but I always put myself out there
Honestly, this is as good as saying "stop having a survival instinct." Caring about what others think is as ingrained as that.
This just saved my life. I was literally fixing to end it. I didn't just need to hear this. I had to. Thank you David, you don't know just how much this means. I rediscovered purpose in my life.
Praying for you brother I been in your mindset before … just remember better days are coming it won’t rain forever 🤞🏽🕊
Hope you be OK brother. Get out of that square box that you are entrapped in. Take a travel outside this country, especially to the islands or African countries. It will 100% change your life. You will find what life is about.
If you need advice where to visit, I'm glad to give you all infos.
Me tooooo
Adam, you hang in there, you got this. You really do matter. Don't listen to anyones negativity.
Forgive yourself and love yourself. You're worth it. I'm here.
Thank you, every one of you. I can report that things have slightly improved. I went to a therapist and got some help. I maintain my exercise routine daily, it's not a huge routine, but it's early and I just started. I'm in a better place mentally, because of David. I've been watching his videos and follow him on Facebook now. He has a way of resonating with me, it's some of the same things other people have told me, but I don't know how to explain it, it just hits harder hearing it from him.
I couldn’t agree more wholeheartedly with this man. My motto has always been: Keep people at a distance and keep most people out of your life altogether to be happy, contented and successful. It’s always worked for me.
Yes that's what exactly what I do keep to my self less people in your life less hassles less stress, less people judging you, its the ultimate payback longterm to all those negative people over the years I'm loving every minute of it only my family matters these days
Once i stop caring, i became the bad guy. I have been called all kinds of things, i have got isolated , I have been blamed for things i didn't even do.
I am still learning to not care , its not easy, God knows its not but i know it will get better, i hope, am still working on it.
I am a really bad , evil, wicked, selfish person but i show up when they needed me to and they never showed up for me.
I cheer for them all but they laughed in my face and treated me like trash, they never stood high cheering me on.
I loved them all with my whole heart and it meant nothing, i was just a pay cheque, i was just an opportunity, or it was suppose to be that way.
I asked for help and they used it to mock me and when things got good for me , they came asking for things from me.
Am just ranting i know but its one of those days i feel really hurt and cant stop remembering how badly i have treated over and over by people i knew my whole life.
I hope you feel better and continue to grow and heal ❤
I feel the same way, by my Narcissistic/BPD family. Never give up.
It has taken me way to long in life to realize how right not giving a shit about what people that you do not respect or love think about you. This is not easy to do but it is very important and will improve your life.
Agreed
That definitely is the key.... the people that you don't love and care about. Good comment.
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Well said, and with all respect to you my friend! 👍
@john wood Ancient Celt Wise words indeed...
This man changed my life couldn't recommend his book enough. If everyone took at least 10% of his message the world would be a better place
it's about the violent language
I ordered his book two days ago. I received the book just today.
@Joe Calf how was?????!
@@twincorperated7725 what’s wrong w violent language?
"Become who you always wanted to be, your own best self, and then tell people to go fuck themselves." I am going to save this. This is the best fucking quote I ve heard in this year and the one that has the most meaning. Thank you, mister Goggins!
One of my biggest problems is I care to much with ppl think. I’m always in my head. I thought it was just me. Respect ✊🏿
Y'know what tho, that's fine. In fact I think it's pretty much human. If fear and anxiety over others' opinions of you are holding you back though - you need to find some courage and take some action.
LITERALLY this video was amazingg
I can never get enough of Goggins. I cannot believe he has haters. Goggins wants to put his story out there so anyone who wants to overcome thyself can.
RIGHT, It's about overcoming self-doubt and embracing One's true potential. The story is truly motivating.
I will never let someone degrade my soul by hating them for judging me
Learn how to Love Yourself… that’s when you don’t care what others think!!!
One of the best videos I've ever seen and very true and to the point. So thankful there are people that talk the truth about life. Thanks for being truthful. Thanks mr David goggins and have a great weekend Sir.
goddamn! I've heard David Goggins speeches before but they never get old. Dude gives me chills with every motivational thing he says. I wake up every morning listening to him and others to start my day off knowing it's gonna make me a better person for myself
love that saying instead of killing them with kindness torture them with f..cking success.
Amen!!!
Jesper…117.
O yeah I love that. killing them with kindness torture them with success!
A priceless statement!
I think you fly, and if so I know what!
One aviator to another!
Keep the tarmac active sport.
JB. Surrey. UK.
only one getting tortured is Goggins ... by himself ... it is a really bad case of masochism and y'all are using it to bolster your narcissism
I am on a journey, your message is my spark, the haters are my fuel, my efforts are the oxygen. If you don't know that's the fire triangle and I'm all out of cheeks.
The minute I wallow in self doubt, the flow of my music suffers. On stage, I have battled to ignore the negative voices as I force myself to calm down, relax and just play as well as possible. I enjoyed this, truly inspired to be the best "me" I can be. Thank you Mr. Goggins for a truly important message!
The answers are inward. Strength comes from within.... And it's a never ending fountain of satisfaction and happiness. Being content with yourself and what you love will bring so much happiness that no matter what others think you know inside you lies true beauty.
The more I stop caring about what people think, is the less friends I have in my circle but it wasn't a lost because they weren't my friends to begin with, I was living for them and I wasn't keeping it real with myself
Several years ago I did the same thing-LIVING for others-their validation,opinions,etc,etc,till one day someone SLASHED a tire on my car ( don't know who it was or why-I WAS PISSED !!! LOL. It was my WAKE-UP call and I stopped being a SIMP,got rid of my so-called friends,told people to stop mooching off me,no more helping people. I did a total PURGE !!! LOL. Like you said in your post-they weren't my friends to begin with.
This video touched my Heart. I had the same issues as him, always be bullied because i was short and weared glasses. Did a couple bodybuilding competitions when i was in my 20,s. People said that i was not good enough, so that,s why it all went wrong. I gained almost 90 pounds, on a 5' 5" structure. Man i was so lost, drank a lot of alcohol , ate the wrong sh!t, and let people to take control over me. In 2000 i met this wonderful woman, and she said almost the same what David said in this video. Now back on track ,and training almost everyday. I quitted drinking, became a vegan in 2013. Getting better in every way, now i,m planning to get back in competition again. This video helps a lot. Thanks David Goggings for your wise words. Greetings from Alex, from The Netherlands. By the way , my wife is still my biggest fan. :)
Man I’m going through the same shit too no you’re short king and I love you bro only 5’9
I was anorexic as a kid got bullied my Snapchat just got recently hacked my nudes got leaked Life‘s a bit messy right now the fuck the world is fine just gotta keep pushing
Got a new job in progress is going good I’m a CNC programmer now just turned 20
@@ezpzfirefly4616 you,re doing great! Keep up the good work.💪💪💪
Needed to hear this so much. I suffered from sever depression as a teenager. Blamed myself for other people's problems, was bullied, sufferered from unnecessary guilt and thought I deserved punishment. When people see my scars they judge me. Go for it if you want to - merry Christmas. I'm working out everyday and getting stronger. Each week I can do more and I will be able to do even more. Thank you for your inspiring words
This message was made for me. I have a hard life, mostly self induced. Always worried about what other people say and think. From this Pont forward I am going to do everything I can to lead by example. I will put my heavenly father first, one second, one minute, one hour, one day a time.
How are you doing? Still staying strong?
@John Herbert Yes, Sir. 1 day at a time.
@@bama9836 great to hear man. Keep that shit up. I'm trying hard, but keep struggling with addiction and all that crap. I'm getting better every day though. Good luck to you. Seriously
@@johnherbert1431 , Put God first in EVERY THING YOU DO. One day at a time, I believe in you. Replace the addiction with motivation. Keep your head up. Good luck to you.
@@bama9836 thank you friend
This hit home for me....one of my problems all through life....what people thought of me and their negative comments....not even behind my back but straight to my face. I would let these fools ruin my day or weekend with their words. The more people put you down just reflects on how they feel about themselves and their own insecurities. Let NO ONE have that power over you.
I just started watching David Goggins, and he is SO INSPIRING. I'm still in a battle of caring what other people think of me, but this is encouraging me to not. I am who I am and I never should have to apologize for being me. This is my favorite video of his. He is so right about people and life!
Positive vibes no matter what anybody thinks! People who judge, are afraid to see who they truly are!!!!! This was a good watch and thank you for this 🤘🏽
I’m crying watching this bc I’m just a few months I made one decision to go to the gym instead of drinking alcohol and I’ve lost 20 pounds my skin is clearing really good and my anxiety is good and I didn’t realize til I went to the gym lastnight and I seen a group of people laughing at me usually I would walk out the gym or go somewhere else but lastnight I kept pushing my reps. They won’t laugh for long they gonna be congratulating me by the end of the year thank you 🙏
HELL yeah, what's your progress now?
You are my inspiration the few who survived this shit hole world keep pushing on brother I'm here with you
Being a veteran who let PTSD get the best of me,this was meant for me to see. I have to, I need to get back into the the fight and stay fighting and I need to kick ass! I use to have that fuck it gene, my fire needs to be re-lit, and this is the spark. New sub here!
Bro keep your head up, sergeant first class i was in the 82nd Airborne, then 75th REGIMENT, 2nd RANGERS hooah. MOS 25c Radio operator and Intel.
@@omargarcia6130 Salut
It doesn't matter what others say; it is WHO YOU ARE.....others can't give you self respect; that's why it's called SELF respect ! The only person you have to better than, is the person you are now....as Clint Eastwood says in Heartbreak Ridge.....Improvise...Adapt....OVERCOME !!!
@@ITILII P That was a classic movie. Thanks for that
@@omargarcia6130 will do, thanks. A lot.
To be in a space where we become ok with ourselves, we can stop caring what anyone thinks
Thanks.. good advice. As an introverted person this has been my greatest challenge
Its easy to say stop caring what people think of you... but in reality you can't help it. Its a natural thing the crosses your mind most of the time..
@@heyhey7690 yeah only psychopaths don't care what any one thinks . it's not a good trait. This video is encouraging massive narcissism
How to get there
To not give a FUCK or a SHIT what others say about you! 😎
Man oh man did I struggle with this for a LONG time....YEARS. Ever since I changed my frame of mind about this, not only has my stress been reduced, I have become much more respected and powerful in my job....specifically with how much I can influence others.
Also, what he talks about I also experienced when I was in the Air Force. As soon as I started taking college classes on my off time I had darn near the entire shop I worked at making fun of me.....saying I'd never actually do anything with that and I certainly wouldn't take enough of them to get a degree. Man did that ever motivate the shit out of me. I ended up doing that for 4 years then got out of the military, finished up and eared my BSN from Michigan State University.
I was doing so well. Coming off my anti depressant getting myself eating healthy and getting stronger to deal with bullies. I miss my mum doesn't help today's been an awful day. Tears and feel awful. So disappointed I came off that pathway. I need to start again I know xxx
you got this!! i believe in you!! i love you and got this
Don't worry what anyone thinks about you! Forget that! Be the best you can be. Be stronger than u! Fight yourself. Be the one to beat! Do not let them get to you!
This mindset is FREEDOM. Oh.. if I had known then as a kid and into my early adult hood, and especially during grad school when I allowed myself to be bullied by people who did not think I was smart enough to be there... I would have been able to save myself my own distress. This is what I need to hear now as my progress into my next phase of my life. Thank you for existing David Goggins... you showed up in my IG feed at the right time as I was doubting myself in big way. Perfect...timing.
It's also one of the benefits getting older, every day I care less about what people might think of me and it's a breath of fresh air. Just wished I would've realised this a lot sooner.
I said that to my employer of 12 yrs, I felt great. Two months later I’m Graduating college. Now, I pushing myself to get to my goal. Some other people say “it’s too much, take time, it’s a lot of hard work”.I’m ready to go, I’ve been held back due to a narcissist who didn’t want me to succeed. I don’t no one feel sorry for me, I have God who’s guiding me, I feel great. Thank you David. G
Marlena Tully.
Hi. Have just today read your notes on Pushing to reach your goal and just had to send a reply to you.
Dream Big Marlena, if you can dream it and conceive it and you have full passion for it, then you can make it become YOURS.
People that doubt you or say NO you can’t do that, “Thats their word for themselves CANT.” THEY themselves NEVER WILL!! And they are just either plain Jealous that because they do not have the Strength Commitment Focus Passion and will sacrifice that you have Marlena. OR they DO NOT want to see you WIN as they are JELOUS. And Sadly for them they may never had or have a dream!
F1 racing driver Lewis Hamilton. DREAMT and said he wanted to be The most successful racing driver EVER, HE IS. WOW massive success!!!!!
I was badly injured in a car crash (not my fault, caused by a dam drunken driver) in Australia some time ago.
I thought my life was over finished.
A childhood dream, pilot in the airforce.
One day had a Pleasure flight local airport. Gosh I ABSOLUTELY LOVE IT
That day Booked my first Training flight. months later taught myself basic aerobatics.
Achieved best pass of flight test GFT
that examiner had ever had. “He said”
Won Top trophy for Pilot Proficiency,
“Gosh I didn’t expect that trophy”.
A few years later became part owner of
Aerobatic team. “Forgive me I am not boasting at all! “I just Dreamt” in quiet self achievement! I didn’t expect to win Trophies! Some said to me YOU CANT! Yes I can…I did!
I only say this to encourage you Marlena, or anyone to help. Because
I want YOU to Dream to succeed and WIN !!! YOU CAN.
NEVER GIVE IN NEVER GIVE UP.
Think about this!
Why Do Eagles Fly ?
Because They Think They Can.
Dream Pray Commit…Go for it
Marlena 😃.
Wishing you whatever your dream is!
Gods big happy blessings for you.
Marlena!….Love Marlena A lot..More!
JB. Surrey. UK.
@@johnbridges6867 good morning, Thank you for your reaching out across the globe and responding to my comment. I’m looking forward to my milestone to Graduate this weekend. Until I head into dead end, my boyfriend of 15yrs. (Narcissist), we have two kids together. he took it upon himself to book a trip to Vegas to visit friends, on the day of my big day. Then turns it around and says it’s my “Graduation present”. Spent three days arguing over I mentioning my graduation was coming up but all those time he didn’t knowledge me (numerous of time). On top of that, my son is suspended from school, so he decides to take him. How is that teaching your child, without any repercussions for his mistakes.definitely a poor mentor, no father skills, and no self worth (which he knows). Overall, he’s using my kids to hurt me, definitely knows I can’t go anywhere without them. Then threatens me that he’ll sell the house, I careless what he does, all I need is my kids. I’m pushed too far, I’m corralled, I refused to be in that position. My faith has kept me on my feet and continue to push forward. I put myself in this position and strength from the higher power.
I was in an car accident in the past with a co-worker who picked me from to take me to work. I had no idea she had a few drinks before she pick me up. We got into an horrible accident. I was able to rehabilitate myself. If you can overcome anything, anyone can. I may be broken now, it’s only temporary, I’ll be fine. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, definitely appreciate your positive feedback. God bless you, sending your a virtual hug. You have a great day or night.
David is everything what I want to be but I’m not. I’m really successful in my line of work but there’s something this guy has what I don’t. Can’t even tell what but maybe it’s just the spirit. Waking up everyday and know where you going and what you’re living for. You can get as rich as you want but without that you’ll remain empty.
I met one of my Managers years ago. His name was also David Goggins! He was an older Caucasian man. He would give me good advice whenever we talked. He was such a smart man! Thank God for the David Goggins of the world! Wow 👍🏾
I stopped at 0:15, you can't censor David Goggins.
This man is the truth
It was when my daughter was born. Life had beaten me down pretty badly for a long time at that point. All of a sudden there she was. They pulled her out of her mom and handed her right to me. She fit in the palm of my hand. Her eyes were so blue and I could already see and feel how much she loved me and trusted me and needed me, & needed me to be the man I was supposed to be. I knew right then and there that I had to change everything. Whatever fux I had left evaporated on the spot. I will never quit, I will never stop, and I Will never back down ever again.
This guy speaks truth! You have to be willing to be real with yourself to get anywhere in life. I have been learning stoicism lately and I see that if we don’t continuously push forward we will succumb to just fitting in with the crowd. One thing I believe is that along with torturing others with success you can continue to be kind. Ignore toxic situations or people that are walking their own path but never lose your kindness. Kindness allows for the goodness of life to shine through the darkness.
I've been in a bad place. I've listened to this video multiple times. But now, I heard it. Only I shackle my mind.
I needed this I'm dealing with a coworker that complains of me about everything. I told him I can't control what people say It's ridiculous but I don't care there alot of gossip in my workplace. Thanks for the motivation and also I'm thinking of a new job soon
Narcs are human garbage, that's how they behave.
This man helped get me through a nervous breakdown and three years of anxious depression recovering from it, i came out a thousand time's stronger thanks David and to others that made me see the world and myself in a different perspective, its not the ego its just learning to enjoy and see meaning in the suffering, Stay hard
💯Something I learned growing up. Take a minute to really LOOK at those people who talk about you, mistreat, envy, and jealous Now think to yourself do you CARE. That saying NEVER gets old. Turned my life COMPLETELY around
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Thank you David, the strength in hour voice gives me hope🕊
So true. My biggest downfall in life was listening to other people, and what they thought of me. The moment I stopped caring about what other people thought of me my life improved. Thanks David for the video.
My life changed the day I stopped caring about what people thought or said to me
My sister and I basically grew up the same but later on down the line we became completely different people, even though we grew up in the same scenes. But at some point I stopped caring what other people thought. And she still cares a great deal. I told her it's okay to care but it's not okay to seek validation that isn't your own. And that people that make it, usually aren't famous or great actors or amazing artists, but mentally they made, they won. To be, I guess, winning is truly only caring what you think. I've gained respect from people because I show I'm committed. Even though I've gained their respect, either way it still motivates me to be better. Whether they're supporters or haters, I committed for myself. I stopped caring, for myself. I stopped thinking I was the only one going through hardships. I became self-aware and wanted better for myself.
I hope one day she sees this, because I truly believe life starts when you start living for yourself.
"can't hurt me".. The best book my first self growth book❣️
That’s what I needed to hear today. I’m in tears while listening to it. Sometimes we have no idea how strong we are. How good we are. We letting ourselves down by comparing ourselves to others. As for me,this has to stop because it’s so exhausting.
ONE OF BEST VIDEOS I'VE EVER SEEN. I LOT OF US NEED TO HEAR THIS I KNOW I DID. SOME PEOPLE WILL TRY TO BRING YOU DOWN. DO NOT LET THEM. I REPEAT DO NOT LET THEM. GO FOR YOUR DREAMS NO MATTER WHAT MY FRIENDS.
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All the best to you!
Words like his made me come out two years ago. I just didn’t care anymore about people who maybe judging me. Life is too short to not be your true self and to not be happy!