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You Will Never Care What People Think Of You | David Goggins
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David Goggins is an American ultramarathon runner, ultra-distance cyclist, triathlete, motivational speaker, and author. He is a retired United States Navy SEAL and former United States Air Force Tactical Air Control Party member who served in the Iraq War. His self-help memoir, Can't Hurt Me, was released in 2018.
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"don't kill em with kindness, torture em with success"
Now, this is EPiC!
Absolutely 💯 % Frank Sinatra said something very close to that ! "The Best Revenge Anyone Could Get Is Success " So true ! Now can you imagine what feelings of jealousy , envy , hate & insecurities will wash over them when they see the self evidence of "You" The Very Embodiment Of Success" And always remember "Never cast your pearls to swine" !
Don’t nobody care about your success
..so at the end its all about success and money..? Just "be kind to eatch other works fine in life". After you realise that, you dont have to say f..ked up or Jacked up so many times that you start to look like clown.
@@opa6662 the end isn’t about success, it’s about others and what you gave, not how much you acquired. In the end you will leave with what you came with, absolutely nothing
“The more you don’t quit, the more self respect you gain.” So powerful and true
Most definitely!!
BUT HONESTLY TRULY THE ONLY ACCEPTANCE And VALADATION I NEED or ANYONE NEEDS IS FROM GOD And JESUS CHRIST That's The REAL
Big time Z P tell me about it
But we are all different Could you imagine if we was all alphas would be killing each other left right and centre balance my friend balance
Absofuckinglutely!!
“And the power was all mine”
"SUCCESS is the best REVENGE to kill your Haters."🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Who cares what haters think, you are your own man. Life is a war you fight alone, stressful as it is, distracting yourself with what other people think about you is just a waste of time… because most of the time, they think something bad anyways. Please don’t make the mistake and care about these things, just be yourself
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Wow you missed the point! Lol sounds like you still care what your haters think.
@@HeatherMcSwayde no ,I never care about my haters.i have a battle between just me, myself and I .I don't care what others think about me .I'm not here to a people pleaser.i have a purpose ful goals and I work hard for it .
@@rajdeepsidhu-nt3mj lol but you make a post about revenge. If you truly don't care about them then you shouldn't care about revenge, dude you're not getting it, you're posting for attention. 🤣
Dave Goggins is beyond amazing. Success has no shortcuts, do this.
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“I don’t stop when I’m tired. I stop when I’m done” - David Goggins
Yeeeeeesssssss !!!!! 👀
He eats shit .. he quits like Everybody else he just has a different perspective and way of saying it . Ppl need other ppl to tell them what 2 do ! Its a fkd up world 🤌🏾
Jesus loves you and died on the cross for your sins and rose from the dead 3 days later. Get a relationship with God and Jesus and confess for your sins and Live for Christ and not the world and allow God and Jesus into your hearts. God and Jesus are trying to save you from going to hell.
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Yea, moron.
Noo bro it is from Swami Vivekanandaa
When people judge you...they are telling you they are jealous of you. They are jealous that you have the courage to do that and they don't
I have to agree with you 100% there is alot of people who done that to me before In the past.
it doesnt take courage to ef up your body, it takes stupidity. and were not jealous, were incredulous that you would be soo effing moronic to do that to yourself. but by all means, dont listen to us
100 % right
@@fredwright5954 Personally, I don't even judge people who are doing something stupid. If someone is doing something stupid, they are going to learn the hard way. If they never learn...that's not my problem.
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"You dont need a uniform to have honor. You need to have pride in yourself" This quote took me to a higher level thank you.
"The more I didn't quit, the more self-respect I gained."
You're amazing. 🎉
"Embrace the fact that people don't like you. It means you're doing something right." 💪
You must do that by being yourself!😎
It means they hate you for something in you they can’t have or be.
Like I get the point but also…sometimes people don’t like people because that person legitimately sucks lmao sometimes, you’re just an asshole, not succeeding hard enough for jealousy.
Just stay rational is all lol and self aware
Man i must be doing something write because everbody hates me ha ha
@@Yoda-em5mt I can relate but who gives a fuck anyway.
"Most people are other people. Their thoughts are someone else's opinions, their lives a mimicry, their passions a quotation."
it looks at what everyone else is doing and it imitates emulates copies and mimics the most common behaviors it sees in the tribe around us no matter how insane or psychotic and evil they are
another persons thoughts...lol
@@fredwright5954 isn't it ironic?
Great quote, and very true.
and parrot repeat what they heard
Totally true. Others will steer you wrong every time.
Yep, shitty opinions are everywhere. Only listen to those who are more experienced than you.
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A wise man once told me “It’s none of my business what people think or say about me”.. Works for me!!
When you get ready to leave your comfort zone and make your dreams come true,just do it.Don't tell but a few close friends you TRUST,if any.Some people are DREAM-KILLERS. HATERS.When God gave Joseph those dreams,it was meant for him only,but Joseph was YOUNG,naive and couldn't read the room. LOL.He didn't know his brothers were jealous of him.The dream you have just go for it,make it happen,some people don't want you to have more than them.They're called-HATERS-for a reason.Learn from Joseph's mistake and keep your dreams to your-self and make them happen.
@@powerbad696 Wiseman also told me “Stay Humble.. do good things for you first and then others without boasting or bragging..”
@@shawno9267 What in my thread did I boast or brag ???
@@powerbad696 nothing at all… stay positive ☮️💟
I totally agree with you..
This guy has saved me. Mentally and physically. I've cut my anti depressants in half. I am unapologetic I don't bow down to people. I've even helped my diabetes by healthy eating. He has just given me food for my soul. It's hard a rough road but I hear his story and know as a 52 year old woman I can still do it 💯❤️❤️❤️
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽👍👍👍👍👍👍
Good for you.
If we had an honest media, the studies that came out last year about antidepressants would have been front page news. The entire "chemical imbalance" was absolute BS
May God bless you
Stay hard
Your future needs you. Don't give up💪🙏🤩 ! #fyp #dontgiveup
When a person suffers through the hands of other people ,nothing they say or due can harm you,ignore them,don't care.
You have no idea how much I needed this message at this point in my life. I am at a fork in the road. I am a 46-year-old OIF combat vet with PTSD. My wife asked me for a divorce late last year, and I have no more family except my 12 year old daughter whom I will no longer be able to see on a daily basis. In January, I was standing on a chair in my basement with an electrical cord wrapped around my neck. I am about to move into a van, finish writing a series of books, and pursue the dreams I thought I wasn't allowed to believe in. If it weren't for messages like this, I would've given up months ago. Thank you.
Update: 11/14/22 - First let me say "WOW" and "THANK YOU" to all of you who supported me and my post. I had no idea at the time that my comment would reach that many caring and like-minded people. At the risk of equating my self-worth to the "likes" and positive replies (because David says to be cautious of outside validation), I wanted to let you all know how I am doing.
The divorce went through and was settled with little hostility. My ex and I are doing the best we can to stay cordial for the sake of our beautiful daughter. Thanks to David Goggin's book (I finished it tonight), I am now hiking 10 miles a day with a 20lb backpack in northeast Missouri, no matter what the weather. I've lost 43 lbs. and still working toward a 160 lb. goal weight. I am no longer considering suicide as an answer to my pain. I have come to the profound yet simple conclusion that, if I am going to put my life in danger, it should at least be for something meaningful or that I want to do, like an extreme sport. I now embrace pain and suffering as a tool that sharpens me mentally and physically. Again, thank you to David for the attitude adjustment in this area. My #vanlife 2011 E-350 cargo van is coming along nicely. It's been tuned up, cleaned top to bottom, and ready for interior insulation, framing, and appliance install. I have a long list of places I plan to visit and new endeavors I want to try my hand at. I will be enrolling at a Christian University next fall in pursuit of a B.S. in psychology. Finally, while my first book "Cotton Coated Conspiracy" was published in 2021 (before my slide into divorce and depression), I am working on "Book Two" of the series at this very moment. In short, I'm looking forward to traveling across this great country of ours while working relentlessly towards my goals, failing at them, again, again, again, and again, and then succeeding. Thanks again to all of you for the love and to David Goggins for changing my messed up, victims mentality.
STAY HARD! 🙏💪💪💪💪💪💪!!!!!
I believe in you. I don't know you, I do not know your struggles, but I believe in you. Thank you for sharing. STAY HARD
@@kenroberts4190 Thank you, sir. That is very kind of you and means a lot.
Good luck with everything!
I’d love to read those books! 😊
Look into weed for warriors brother
Yippiebippie please don’t QUIT! Your daughter NEEDS YOU! This world NEEDS YOU!
One thing I learned from video games is that, if you encounter enemies, you're going the right way.
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Epic
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Careful with that thought. Sometimes it’s true but other times people are actually trying to warn you you’re going in the wrong direction. Learning to discern which is which is an important skill.
Hmpgr hihi hmuahahaha! "If you look right you cant see whats left"
Dont bend to other's opinions and just do you! 💪🏽💙
I used to think Goggins was crazy, he is extreme, absolutely, but he isn't wrong. This world needs savages, let's build more of them folks!
I'm a brain cancer warrior I've had to relearn how to walk 3 times in the past 7 years. 4 Drs ALL told me I had 3 years tops back in 2012 I got fed up and started to fire any Dr that gave me an expiration date I'm here and kicking ass ♥️ I love your channel
Fck yeah
I hope you are doing well.
I firmly believe no doctor has the right to tell you how long you have.. They are not God.
Stay Healthy
@@wakranich3488 I was asking their professional opinions
@@wakranich3488 I'm getting better with every corrective Surgery thank you 😊
Other people's thoughts can actually destroy another person's mind...bottom line...think for yourself...thank you...♡
You need to put these creeps in check.like chess.they take a chunk out of you.you take a chunk out of them.the hard feelings they put on to you..yes,people can literally physically and mentally destroy other people.i been there every once awhile.we all got different minds and different levels tempers.some people can handle situations better than others.some are slow.but we all have to let time pass.and see what karma is in store for all of us.everybody offends every once in awhile!with intentions or not.
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I thought about investing in the financial market, I heard that people make millions if you know the tricks of the trade, but I lack good knowledge and a strategy to outperform the market and generate good yields. I have $160,000 but it's hard to bite the bullet and do it.
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Fantastic! can u share more details?
I am writiing this message to myself while in tears, i will be back to this video 1 year from now and this is a promise to myself i will be 1 year clean from weed, going to the gym and grinding my ass off like i never have before idgaf i will do anything necessary to make it happend THE CHANGE BEGINS RIGHT NOW
Good for you man...i just did 4 miles in the rain high on weed 😂😂
My new motto "Don't kill them with kindness,torture them with success."I worked my ass off for 7 years and I finally got my promotion and two raises! Now I'm the boss and all my friends who were once co workers are haters and sabotage my success. Thanks for the advice...cause I'm no longer going to be a people pleaser. I say go ahead and let the haters talk. It's only fuel for my success.
GET IT!!!!!!
Right on give it to ‘em straight!!!!!!🤩
At 18 I made the mistake of going through the path everyone else recommended instead of the one I wanted. At 26 I've decided to run back, do everything I wanted and go forward from here. It's my life and it's time I take control of my own destiny.
be careful though... you're at the peak now, don't think that you'll feel the same 10 years later
Once i stop caring, i became the bad guy. I have been called all kinds of things, i have got isolated , I have been blamed for things i didn't even do.
I am still learning to not care , its not easy, God knows its not but i know it will get better, i hope, am still working on it.
I am a really bad , evil, wicked, selfish person but i show up when they needed me to and they never showed up for me.
I cheer for them all but they laughed in my face and treated me like trash, they never stood high cheering me on.
I loved them all with my whole heart and it meant nothing, i was just a pay cheque, i was just an opportunity, or it was suppose to be that way.
I asked for help and they used it to mock me and when things got good for me , they came asking for things from me.
Am just ranting i know but its one of those days i feel really hurt and cant stop remembering how badly i have treated over and over by people i knew my whole life.
I hope you feel better and continue to grow and heal ❤
I feel the same way, by my Narcissistic/BPD family. Never give up.
"Become who you always wanted to be, your own best self, and then tell people to go fuck themselves." I am going to save this. This is the best fucking quote I ve heard in this year and the one that has the most meaning. Thank you, mister Goggins!
I’m naturally a big introvert but watching this helps me come to terms with it and makes me just wanna be myself
Improve yourself! Spend hours outside instead of spending hours inside
Confidence can be introverted and/or extroverted. Keep being the best version of who you are.
love that saying instead of killing them with kindness torture them with f..cking success.
Amen!!!
Jesper…117.
O yeah I love that. killing them with kindness torture them with success!
A priceless statement!
I think you fly, and if so I know what!
One aviator to another!
Keep the tarmac active sport.
JB. Surrey. UK.
only one getting tortured is Goggins ... by himself ... it is a really bad case of masochism and y'all are using it to bolster your narcissism
My life changed the day I stopped caring about what people thought or said to me
I love how he tells you to own who you are and be unapologetic!! Very powerful words 💪
I was bullied at school, afraid of my own shadow, a nerd with thick lenses. Now, I have conquered my fears. I saw people die and I saw no difference between what those people have done and my own life, so I could be next in the morgue freezer for all I knew. That was when I changed.
Hey man. I went through the same experience. I was shy not talkative and pretty much a need. Just like you bro. But after my father passed away I completely changed to the best. I really stopped caring about what peopel said. Because nothing else mattered when my dad passed away.
@@karamobeid6532 Sometimes having nothing to lose can help you you make that change. I’m in recovery from addiction and that’s like what they call rock bottom. You have lost so much you have nothing left to lose but your life. You might as well try to save it.
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And now..... You're a policeman. 😁
@@karamobeid6532 I heard that people who don't listen to what others are trying to force or impose on them, are the ones who can actually SAVE lives... Well, I'm not really a good listener but I've saved at least 4 people from certain death/demise in the past. It's not something that I'm proud of, but hey SHIT like that just happens in life! I wonder if you'll agree with me on this?
I’m 55 , female just torn down emotionally at a huge betrayal that left me feeling shattered into pieces. I ran across this video today after crying half hour. Much need to hear this today.
Thank you ❤
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Best of Luck , happiness and much success!
Good thing and people are coming and enjoy your life.
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61 yo, female here...I hope all is better ❤. This has come to make you stronger, and teach you. Embrace it all, when you come out on the other side reflect on it and how has it "better" you? Keep asking until you find that answer, then take a moment to feel that greatness..
.then move on.
Giga women.
I will never let someone degrade my soul by hating them for judging me
💯Something I learned growing up. Take a minute to really LOOK at those people who talk about you, mistreat, envy, and jealous Now think to yourself do you CARE. That saying NEVER gets old. Turned my life COMPLETELY around
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I never cared what people think about me. Perfectly said. PERIOD!!!!
Learn how to Love Yourself… that’s when you don’t care what others think!!!
There's a peace that comes when you can admit your wrongs, your failures and know that not only are you working on changing it and improving yourself and your situation but also it's when you truly do not care what others think because you know in your heart, you're doing your best, youre making those attempts, you are being true to yourself and no one can stop you and no one can hurt you with their negative opinions.
And don't ever compare yourself to others- they weren't born in your skin, they weren't born with your genes, your brain, your personality, your family history, they ARENT YOU. The key is to strive to be better than you were yesterday. Make goals and meet those goals. It's not about others, it's about being the best YOU that YOU can be. That's it. And It all starts with a thought. You have the right to dream any dream you want. No one can stop you! Reach for the stars. Don't give up.
Amen. 🙏🏻 Took the words right out of my mouth.
absolute peace yes.
Well said, i like the saying: Never judge a person until you have walked a mile in their shoes.
Well said …
@@stevetrivago Thank you 😊
Honestly, this is as good as saying "stop having a survival instinct." Caring about what others think is as ingrained as that.
sometimes its hard but trying to live by this principle each and every day. 💪
I needed to hear this today. I’m working harder than I ever have in my life.
Good for you keep it up Stay hard !
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Keep it up king!✌🔥
Amen 🙏🏻 🙌🏻✌🏻😍♥️
Not hard enough if your wasting time on UA-cam
What I've taken from him over all the speeches he's given is that everyone is fucked up behind the scenes, it's just that some people hide it really well, so if someone is judging you because of your flaw or something fucked up about you, know that they have their deep rooted issues too, and know that maybe they are reflecting their anger at themself on you.
Yep, some people hide it really well, the then there's Brandon who proves every hour of every day he's fucked up!
Im learning self control through my faith in God. I was accused of something by my dear Father the other day. I prayed about it and took myself away from the situation. Today for the first time ever. He apologised to me. It was one of the most beautiful healing times of my life. For my Papa, i know it was hard. But such a blessing. ❤❤❤ Self control is a wonderful thing ❤️
Nothing but facts in this video! The day you stop caring what other people think about you, you are truly free.
It has taken me way to long in life to realize how right not giving a shit about what people that you do not respect or love think about you. This is not easy to do but it is very important and will improve your life.
Agreed
That definitely is the key.... the people that you don't love and care about. Good comment.
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Well said, and with all respect to you my friend! 👍
@john wood Ancient Celt Wise words indeed...
Everything he's said is true. Life is easier when you stop caring about what people think.
Yeah but you end up alone even with a house full of people.
@@jaimestewart8295 Only the strong survive
@@jaimestewart8295 you just need to see another perspective on this, if you know that nobody cares about you, you can handle conversations and communication in an easier way, because we all know that the other person doesn't give a shit about us, so it's just about being interested on what they say, listening to them basically, and you'll see that they'll be very happy with you and you don't even need to say a thing just ask good questions
@@LiMaky yeah 👌, not when you are dealing with a narcissistic or psychopath
@@jaimestewart8295 Dealing with them when you literally know that they don't care about you is even more easier because you just need to agree with all their bullshit and they'll be talking for hours about themselves. The thing is, it's better to not give them attention, that's what will hurt them the most.
I've been in a bad place. I've listened to this video multiple times. But now, I heard it. Only I shackle my mind.
"Let the hate people have for you be your fuel" it works amazingly well for me and not running out of it ever. Hell yeah Goggins my brother!
if it's your fuel that means you still care what other thinks
@@polpol1005 I have family that can hate on me but you're right I do care what they think to an extent. And that's because I love them.
@@Oscar-rd3bm if it's your family then it's correct to love them I guess :)
@@polpol1005 and if you think about it when you say f people you actually do care what they think. Otherwise you wouldn't say that and just ignore them.
Maybe David means learn not let them define who you are. Just my humble opinion.
@@Oscar-rd3bm maybe! Good point
If I tell people beforehand what I’m planning to do, I’ll often meet negativity. I’m usually telling them because I was insecure and wanted their approval. The negativity affected me and I quickly became discouraged.
Once I realized this I stopped telling people my plans. It’s none of their business especially if what I’m planning on doing is challenging. So I find a way to get done whatever it is I set my mind too. Then if I decide to share what I’m up to it’s more about what I worked at and finished. Not in a bragging way, just matter of fact. Those negative folks have nothing negative to say and if they do it doesn’t affect me because I already finished it. Just something I found that helps me not let negativity and negative people bring me down. Peace.
Tomd…thank you for putting into words that I was feeling. I’m a 75-year old woman and fat and flabby. I started a training program to get back into shape. I have a large family but I didn’t want to tell anyone what I’m doing. My feelings were very strong about that, but I didn’t know why. You explained it thank you.
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You’re welcome and best of luck
Me too
@@DCB938keep it up. Its not too late.
This might be the best speech I have ever heard, Goggins is soo inspirational man
You got it. Don't let people control your thoughts. It all begins with your thoughts. Life's full of haters. F em. Don't speak, do. I feel the same way about my past. I have a past and I had to do things that I wasn't proud of but I own all that and I'll tell anyone all about it. I don't feel shame or wish to go back anymore. I'm not afraid for anyone to see who I truly am.
The more I stop caring about what people think, is the less friends I have in my circle but it wasn't a lost because they weren't my friends to begin with, I was living for them and I wasn't keeping it real with myself
Several years ago I did the same thing-LIVING for others-their validation,opinions,etc,etc,till one day someone SLASHED a tire on my car ( don't know who it was or why-I WAS PISSED !!! LOL. It was my WAKE-UP call and I stopped being a SIMP,got rid of my so-called friends,told people to stop mooching off me,no more helping people. I did a total PURGE !!! LOL. Like you said in your post-they weren't my friends to begin with.
He's right in so many ways. Caring less about what other people think about yourself. Will bring nothing but peace into your life✊🏽💯
@@etilhcir4645 that's not called being selfish. That's called caring more about your well-being and happiness then to constantly worry about what this world will think of you. Its just flew over your head that's why you don't get it.
@@etilhcir4645 i guess. I'm saying you can still help out but not lose yourself and self esteem constantly worrying about what this world thinks about you. Is all I'm.saying dude.
@@etilhcir4645 this video didn't mean it in that way, he wasn't promoting that
@@etilhcir4645 you're not better than anybody saddis humble yourself,
I have spent my whole life worrying about what other people think of me. I’m 50, and it has really made life hard!
I am on a journey, your message is my spark, the haters are my fuel, my efforts are the oxygen. If you don't know that's the fire triangle and I'm all out of cheeks.
I swear this is what I needed to hear. These past few months been so rough mentally that I’ve grown distant from family and friends. Hearing this was God sent, THANK YOU! 🙏🏽
When humans give up on you remember there is only one that will never. You know who he is. Hes the only who should occupy space in your mind rent free.
Amen 🙏🏽
I hope it gets better
I'm right there with you. I just remember how far I've come and how far I've got left to go. This guy has a point surround yourself with those that support you and bring you up. If you're gonna hate on me or put me down fuck off. I've got this
One of my biggest problems is I care to much with ppl think. I’m always in my head. I thought it was just me. Respect ✊🏿
Y'know what tho, that's fine. In fact I think it's pretty much human. If fear and anxiety over others' opinions of you are holding you back though - you need to find some courage and take some action.
LITERALLY this video was amazingg
It is truly liberating when you hit that point of not caring what others think. The only opinions that matter are the ones I seek.
ONE OF BEST VIDEOS I'VE EVER SEEN. I LOT OF US NEED TO HEAR THIS I KNOW I DID. SOME PEOPLE WILL TRY TO BRING YOU DOWN. DO NOT LET THEM. I REPEAT DO NOT LET THEM. GO FOR YOUR DREAMS NO MATTER WHAT MY FRIENDS.
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Challenge yourself with some concepts about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would respect and admire.
We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own opinions so that others can benefit from them as well.
All the best to you!
To be in a space where we become ok with ourselves, we can stop caring what anyone thinks
Thanks.. good advice. As an introverted person this has been my greatest challenge
Its easy to say stop caring what people think of you... but in reality you can't help it. Its a natural thing the crosses your mind most of the time..
@@heyhey7690 yeah only psychopaths don't care what any one thinks . it's not a good trait. This video is encouraging massive narcissism
How to get there
To not give a FUCK or a SHIT what others say about you! 😎
After I stopped thinking about what other people thought about me and I stopped carrying about people's feelings, I have became a more confident person and I speak for my self now and I have moved up from were I was to a better position at work. I started showing people I can handle things by my self and do things better than others. Ever since I made that change I live better. I wish I could've been like this in my school years. Everyone has flaws but some just like to think they are perfect and those are the same exact ones with the most issues.
"Keep your circle small!" 💯🙌
This man is killing everyone's Goliath.
Don't worry what anyone thinks about you! Forget that! Be the best you can be. Be stronger than u! Fight yourself. Be the one to beat! Do not let them get to you!
Whoever is reading this, I pray that whatever you’re growing through gets better and whatever you’re battling with makes your situation better as you’re continuing to be a better person each day. I have faith that you’ll turn out great as your circumstances will change. Have a fantastic day! You got this! 🤗💪🏼❤
Hope the same for you. Need more people like you in this world! Thank you!💕👍☺️
Your comment made me cry. Thank you ❤
Thank you brother to you as well 👍🏽
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Magnum huhhhhh
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RIGHT, It's about overcoming self-doubt and embracing One's true potential. The story is truly motivating.
I don’t give a Dam what others think 🤔! You are in control of your own destiny ❤
This just saved my life. I was literally fixing to end it. I didn't just need to hear this. I had to. Thank you David, you don't know just how much this means. I rediscovered purpose in my life.
Praying for you brother I been in your mindset before … just remember better days are coming it won’t rain forever 🤞🏽🕊
Hope you be OK brother. Get out of that square box that you are entrapped in. Take a travel outside this country, especially to the islands or African countries. It will 100% change your life. You will find what life is about.
If you need advice where to visit, I'm glad to give you all infos.
Me tooooo
Adam, you hang in there, you got this. You really do matter. Don't listen to anyones negativity.
Forgive yourself and love yourself. You're worth it. I'm here.
Thank you, every one of you. I can report that things have slightly improved. I went to a therapist and got some help. I maintain my exercise routine daily, it's not a huge routine, but it's early and I just started. I'm in a better place mentally, because of David. I've been watching his videos and follow him on Facebook now. He has a way of resonating with me, it's some of the same things other people have told me, but I don't know how to explain it, it just hits harder hearing it from him.
I love it. Small, genuine circle of friends. Maintaining undeterred by the over-opinionated, trivial masses. Focus on personal accomplishments. Totally resonates with me.
I'm the same ' constantly telling people not to give a fuck about what they think of you ' unless it's somthing positive ' the age old saying ' if you have nothing good to say ' say nothing '
The support staff... that's why I try to be a friend to myself first.....I know I have to make myself feel better when my support staff dismissed how they make me feel.....when all I want to do ....is be supportive and uplifting.....it's free to inspire someone..... doesn't cost a thing....but when you tear someone down it can cost us irreparable damage
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Don’t be afraid to be yourself stay motivated in life forget what everybody else thinks of You only live once so live it up
it's hard
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you have to just do it it will make u feel stronger in life.
I'm so glad I stumbled onto this. I'm 43 and have lived my whole life in fear of what others think. It has been a straight jacket against personal growth and in the last couple years I've really started to hate myself for it. Thank you for these words and your story. I needed it more then you know.
Have Noooo F E A R BROTHER!
I hear ya man I've been at a dead end job where nobody gives a fuck about us and I guess my biggest fear is finding and failing a better opportunity. I'm working on it I do want to find a job where I feel like a person instead of a number
You got this!
@Shaun Elmers I echo your sentiments and I am older than u by a year and a female. Do I regret? No and yes but I finally realized that not even your family has good wishes for u but as long as u were kind and not vindictive and conniving, then all is not lost. Be healthy and work hard and allow yourself those down days, to get it out of your system. Best wishes and follow your inner voice where the guidance of the Eternal Loving Divine lives.
He's got a point!
Everything you said really hit home for me, I’ve been struggling with that mindset for a long time , I’ll be rewatching this on a regular basis for motivation ❤
I can never get enough of Goggins. I cannot believe he has haters. Goggins wants to put his story out there so anyone who wants to overcome thyself can.
This man changed my life couldn't recommend his book enough. If everyone took at least 10% of his message the world would be a better place
it's about the violent language
I ordered his book two days ago. I received the book just today.
@Joe Calf how was?????!
@@twincorperated7725 what’s wrong w violent language?
When Goggins decided to stop caring about what the world thinks, he became awesome, which made the world care about what HE thinks.
I love his ideas...Enough of people's drama ❤️
Every time I’m down and when someone had caused me harm or said something negative, I get depressed . After watching this video , I come back to it all the time when someone cause me grief and it helps me pick myself up and move forward stronger than before.
I don’t hate on American and Serbian girls at all ( 👍✌️ ) In fact, I wish we can have FUN with them,for their GUYS having FUN with our women/girls
No one can control you if you master your own mind. Master it now, right now. Stay hard. Love that. The man clearly knows how to live. He's no puppet.
Stay Strong 💪🏾
Keep pushing forward no matter what. You’re almost there ❤
I struggled with caring about what people think about me for the longest time. I lied to so many people in my life. I listen to this every morning. Thank you David Goggins, because of you I can see a way out.
The only thing I lied to my friends and family saying I have a girlfriend since they all call me a loser being age 30 being single and ugly and a loser people giving me negative energy really hurt so much
It’s gonna work out for us.
@@adamjackson619damn
@@adamjackson619screw then they are assholes you are not ugly, get new friends and family, live like you are the man, because you are. You will find a girl at the right time.
@@wolfkingAD I cut contact with a lot of people now I feel like a loner but I always put myself out there
I couldn’t agree more wholeheartedly with this man. My motto has always been: Keep people at a distance and keep most people out of your life altogether to be happy, contented and successful. It’s always worked for me.
Yes that's what exactly what I do keep to my self less people in your life less hassles less stress, less people judging you, its the ultimate payback longterm to all those negative people over the years I'm loving every minute of it only my family matters these days
Mega respect to DG. Just became an unconditional fan. THANK YOU
This world needs David Goggins.
Thanks Chief, you're the shipmate of all shipmates to look up to.
MA1(SW), USN(R)
Being a veteran who let PTSD get the best of me,this was meant for me to see. I have to, I need to get back into the the fight and stay fighting and I need to kick ass! I use to have that fuck it gene, my fire needs to be re-lit, and this is the spark. New sub here!
Bro keep your head up, sergeant first class i was in the 82nd Airborne, then 75th REGIMENT, 2nd RANGERS hooah. MOS 25c Radio operator and Intel.
@@omargarcia6130 Salut
It doesn't matter what others say; it is WHO YOU ARE.....others can't give you self respect; that's why it's called SELF respect ! The only person you have to better than, is the person you are now....as Clint Eastwood says in Heartbreak Ridge.....Improvise...Adapt....OVERCOME !!!
@@ITILII P That was a classic movie. Thanks for that
@@omargarcia6130 will do, thanks. A lot.
Man have I been on a journey… I’ve always had social anxiety, but the pst 5 years it got so bad it was debilitating. Now that I’m coming out of it, this video and what it says makes more sense to me than it ever did before. To anyone struggling: one thing I’ve learned on my journey, and whatever journey you’re on, if you believe this ONE thing, you can accomplish ANYTHING…
I CAN DO THIS
Love y’all, stay strong, stay hard!
Been 2 days since your comment and I hope you are fighting your anxiety the best you can
God bless YOU and STAY HARD!!!!!!!!!!!!
u can beat anxiety man 👍
I didn't realize how much I needed this today and moving forward, will be on repeat. Thank you!
I actually learned this very early in life, but somehow, on the way, I lost it. I didn't give a shit about what people thought. It didn't mean I was a complete jerk to everyone, I just didn't care if some random people liked me or not.
9 months ago I switched departments in my company to learn new skills and become more valuable to them. At nearly 23 years of service my role was terminated yesterday due to a merger and my role being redundant. My wife is also unemployed. But we have self respect, self esteem and discipline to overcome this. Thank you David Goggins for shaping my mind and helping me believe in myself.
Update? Stay hard
Very kind of you to ask
@Michael_Nagato. I’m doing well and cannot complain. I found employment within another department (same company). Wife is still unemployed but completing an online course this week. We have health and family which are our priorities. I hope you and everyone watching this video are doing well.
And of course just 30 minutes ago I was asked to look for another job because ‘I’m not working out / fit for current role’. So I’ll begin a new job search now. This bites.
@@flatcbsh7185power to you brother. Keep grinding and believing in yourself. It will turn around for you again. You can do it.
This video touched my Heart. I had the same issues as him, always be bullied because i was short and weared glasses. Did a couple bodybuilding competitions when i was in my 20,s. People said that i was not good enough, so that,s why it all went wrong. I gained almost 90 pounds, on a 5' 5" structure. Man i was so lost, drank a lot of alcohol , ate the wrong sh!t, and let people to take control over me. In 2000 i met this wonderful woman, and she said almost the same what David said in this video. Now back on track ,and training almost everyday. I quitted drinking, became a vegan in 2013. Getting better in every way, now i,m planning to get back in competition again. This video helps a lot. Thanks David Goggings for your wise words. Greetings from Alex, from The Netherlands. By the way , my wife is still my biggest fan. :)
Man I’m going through the same shit too no you’re short king and I love you bro only 5’9
I was anorexic as a kid got bullied my Snapchat just got recently hacked my nudes got leaked Life‘s a bit messy right now the fuck the world is fine just gotta keep pushing
Got a new job in progress is going good I’m a CNC programmer now just turned 20
@@ezpzfirefly4616 you,re doing great! Keep up the good work.💪💪💪
Awesome brother! Thanks I needed to hear this!
I don't care what people think about me as long as I follow the correct logical pathways to my own journey...my journey includes protecting the innocent.
Haters will hate and when you do better they’ll hate even more but in life is not about how many steps you can take but how you take them that will always make the difference.
It's hard to get over not caring what people think about you...having been in abusive relationship being told your nada..nothing..worthless...I would look for validation in friends or people that would be kind to me...its hard to get your self esteem back when someone has broken you down...but regardless of what I was feeling I always made sure I tried to go out of my way to appreciate and show the people in my life working their ass off to be better people the love....cause those are the people going somewhere..dont be jealous...follow them
I wish you a wonderful day! Greetings from Bulgaria!
goddamn! I've heard David Goggins speeches before but they never get old. Dude gives me chills with every motivational thing he says. I wake up every morning listening to him and others to start my day off knowing it's gonna make me a better person for myself
It's refreshing to hear a world view grounded in intellectual honesty and TRUTH! Stay hard 💪💪💪💪
I’m crying watching this bc I’m just a few months I made one decision to go to the gym instead of drinking alcohol and I’ve lost 20 pounds my skin is clearing really good and my anxiety is good and I didn’t realize til I went to the gym lastnight and I seen a group of people laughing at me usually I would walk out the gym or go somewhere else but lastnight I kept pushing my reps. They won’t laugh for long they gonna be congratulating me by the end of the year thank you 🙏
HELL yeah, what's your progress now?