The Shrinkage Is REAL| 4C Hair Flat Iron+ Length Check
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- Опубліковано 22 сер 2024
- Hey Everyone I wanted to style Syd's 4C hair in a silk press. I also wanted to do a natural hair length check and a trim. Usually that would be a easy hairstyle but being that she is only 4 and HATES getting her hair done period point blank!! It wasn't easy. Syd has a TWA naturally and I LOVE it so I won't be doing blow out tutorials on her hair for a very long time. So I finished her hair with an adorable kid style which was two corn rows!! Thanks for watching, please Subscribe to my channel and Sydney's channel also.
Products Used.
Tresseme Curl Hydration Shampoo
Design Essentials Peppermint and Aloe Shampoo
Design Essentials Rosemary & Mint Conditioner
Design Essentials Silk Elements
Design Essentials Herbal Complex 4
Kera Kare Twist and Loc cream
FHI Elite Flat Iron
Babyliss Blow Dryer
Sydney's UA-cam channel
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she should be a poster girl for what real 4c hair looks like (and yes, I'm throwing shade at some of these UA-camrs lol).
she has such a gorgeous texture 😍🙌🏾👌🏾
Thank you, yasss!!🙌🏾🙌🏾
doreeneb exactly ! These fake 4c girl. Just trying to get views. I’m 4c and love to see REAL 4c. Gorgeous head of hair baby girl !
doreeneb 4c hair looks different on everyone
How that texture is gorgeous? U 4c hair people are kidding yourselves! It's like a curse! That girl has gorgeous face but let's keep it real the hair is a mess I can only imagine how hard life would be with such texture
@@basmajalloul967 it's your opinion but that's really mean , you can't say stuff like that if you know that you can't change it. Everyone's hair is beautiful in its own way
I want everyone to know this was my first time applying this type of heat to my daughter’s hair. Normally she wears two strand twist or protective styles. My daughter has 4c hair and she is tender headed. No I’m not burning her, no I’m not being rough, no I’m not damaging her hair. If you go on my channel you will see how much I’ve grown her hair in the past year. I know how to handle my daughter and her natural hair. Thx for watching!!!😘😘😘😘😘😘
Supa Natural you did a great job her hair is really pretty
Horrible
Jamir Glover shut up
You did a wonderful, beautiful job on her hair. Don’t let the haters get to you :)
I had my older close as a sister curl my hair all the time when I was that young. I got burnt a few times and lived. Lol. But you did an excellent job with the care you took.
Good for you
The joys of being a little black girl. I DREADED wash and press days. Hair was long and extremely thick (thanks Blue Magic). This little girl has it easy. We endured the pressing comb with that yellow grease in a hot kitchen with no TV and a heavy handed auntie. Oh, the torture!! But when it was over my back bangs, side pony tail, and front bangs were on point. Damn I miss the 80's
Dixie Peach on a hot comb in the 1950's would catch fire on the stove. That was a warning to put the comb in a special pot holder!!!
There was no such thing as a detangler cream back in the day. My mother would towel dry my hair, while I sat between her legs, AND THEN, just take the comb and go through it!! Oh, the combs my hair broke!! Sometimes she would just give up and send me around the corner to the beauty parlor. Then she got a rubber comb! 😂
No, I wasn't scarred for life and my beautiful healthy hair is still here after ALL those straightens AND ALL those many years!
I do remember them days❤Especially if we had Children’s Day at Church,Easter and Christmas me and my sister already knew it was time to feel the heat on our necks or foreheads.I remember my mom burned me and then she used to say “ oh that is the heat.” Them hot combs used to do miracles lol!
This video is so relatable! So many other UA-camrs will show kids sitting there, smiling, happy lol. Styling 4C har is a real struggle, especially for young children. She has a very similar texture to my oldest daughter's hair. Thank you for posting this.
I used to get popped for moving. Thank God i do my own hair now 😂😂😂
Girl, yes we did! I learned to do my hair by myself at an early age because of that 😂😂😂
Supa Natural 😂😂😂
Lmao...you aint never LIED about getting POPPED when you move when getting hair done 😢😭🙅..
can you imagine 4c type hair being comb...shit hell im 38yrs and still squinch when i comb my 4c natural hair....ive learnt how to do my hair at the age 13 braiding with extensions and by the age of 16 I was taking cosmetology classes in high school back in 96
@@patiencecustombling914 lol, I literally dread wash days. I wish I could find a natural hair stylist who is gentle with handling and care.
Same it's the black nature 😂
Hold the base of her hair when you comb or its just pulling her scalp causing her pain and it can cause breakage. Same reason why the paddle brush is a no for her. Try the comb attachment and hold her hair, start at the ends and work your way up the hair
She has thick long beautiful hair! I understand the struggle Girl! Girl you should get on the 2 strand twist train! My daughter just turned 5 and she screams and cries when I would do her hair! I felt bad. For the past 6 months I have been doing 2 strand twists in her hair. I redo them every 1-1 1/2 cause I don't want them to loc. I think it is a good substitute instead of locs because it's not permanent. I braid down about 4 times and 2 strand twist the rest of the way and she actually sits for it while watching tv. Have u a spray bottle ready and it helps part. I am currently redoing hers now for the weekend I may put up a video today or tomorrow it has been 6 months. Her edges have grown back! All I do is daily spray her hair with water (if it's not cold outside), moisturize, and add an oil, put on a head band and go! Sorry for the long post but I had to share! Lol
Thx girl, I’m already in that 2 strand twist train 😂😂😂 I took some out before I styled her hair like this. Yes they are my go to style!! Thx so much tho!
Supa Natural Aw ok ok so you know you know lol. I do my daughter's small so it takes me the whole wknd sometimes cause I do half one day half the next and I do not re-part. She has had these same parts since May and it is November! 😆. Having to only do her hair once a month is all worth it cause man the struggle! Lol
Try putting some conditioner, oil, and water in a bottle then spray her hair instead of water. I use it for my niece and she loves it BC it makes her hair softer, I add a cream after I spray. She has 4c too
My daughter do the same thing she just turn 4
Mzladrj Hi! when do you wash it? You mentioned it's been 6 months.
She just needs lots and lots of moisture and tender love and care and gentle hands! ❤ Beautiful child
I don’t have kids or 4C hair but I LOVE LOVE LOVE the real ness in this video. You seem so loving and considerate to your daughter esp looking to how her hair will turn out in the future and the results are so realistic ESP for a little precious baby like her. You’re doing amazing! She still looked precious and darling sooooo keep it up!
Thank so much for your kind words! Bless you!💜💜
I don't understand why most people on here is judging her for doing her daughters hair?? Like at least her daughter not running around tore up and looking bad. Yall need to shut up if you dont like the video just leave... Simple 💁
bree anna because this is unnecessarily causing pain for her daughter. The poor girl was crying and at point in this video did it look like it was worth it. Coulda done those braids on her natural hair.
Jennie true. But its her daughter soooo ... Bye
Jennie if you watched the video the sole purpose of her straightening her hair is so she can later trim it. So how is that unnecessary?
Jennie that's her child so it's up to her
Jennie you are not her mother so you can leave or watch and keep comments like that to yourself
Ooh that took me back to the hot comb and burnt ear tips days 😔 her coils are so beautiful!
Yes they are, thx for watching!!
I remember I got burn so bad that everytime I use to get my hair straighten I would get so nervous that I just get a tingle feeling and sometimes jump to. I'm natural now but havent had my hair done like this in almost 2 years but I plan on it but just nervous because I don't won't heat damage and I still get that tingle feeling when you straighten my hair.😣
Aw, poor baby. She IS super tender- headed! Cute style at the end!☺
Thank you, yes super.
Is it because of the brush because i never used a white person // wig brush but that’s probably not the case because im tender headed too and ya but my hair 4a but my hair is always dry
EmrldTeddy007 aw poor baby she 15 s
You know when someone flinches at the comb going in to separate that they are next level tender headed.
OMG! Thank you , thank you, thank you!!!!!! It's the first time that I see someone who has my daughter's hair. I go through this same process but when I see others who seem to have it so easy, I get convinced I'm doing it wrong. (i'm a silky-haired mom!) . It was really helpful to see that other children go through what my daughter goes through. She's now 12, and it's still a nightmare. Like your daughter, she prefers to keep it fro and free. Of course! but then, it's a HUGE job to wash and detangle. I would love to see how you wash and condition her hair. It's a 2-day weekend job for us. And that's not counting the protective style afterwards! Thank you so much for your video. A gift.
You have a beautiful, very pretty little girl and you're a good parent, I love listening to how you talks, so plain and simple!
LOVE HER BEAUTIFUL HAIR
Thanks 😘😘
Monquie Patt me 2
She's beautiful n just cute
Supa Natural shes about to blame white girls for her daughter wanting soft straight hair isteadr of her own natural beautiful hair
Attiscastuner
My, I would love to do that hair in my time of working in the shop. The pleasure it use to give me for Easter doing the children hair. Hey mom how about a towel around the shoulder?
I wanted to make make an entire separate comment just to say this. This is true 4c hair.!!! Its everything.
Wow you're really taken very good care of the little Princes 's hair, her hair is so naturally healthy, thick and long. Her hair has really grown a whole lots, I love how you does her hair! She's a sweet little girl! Thank you for sharing!
Girl your daughter and her hair are perfect all these ppl saying you were rough cause she was crying must not know the struggles of a tender headed child or one that just hates having their hair done my daughter cries as soon as she sees a brush doesn't matter how gentle you are ahe throws a fit lol so I know the struggle girl
megan mercer THANK YOU, THEY HAVE NO IDEA!!!
Why don't you detangle the hair with a comb first? I usually do not use brushes, but when I do, especially if the hair is not detangled my scalp hurts so I get the kid.
wow I'm just so amazed at how u take the time to keep your daughter's hair healthy and growing. kudos to u 🤗🤗🤗
Thx, I try to keep her hair healthy!
Omg my daughter hair is the same I'm going to try to flat iron if she let me 😂😂😂 girl the struggle is real
Prayers up!! 😂
Supa Natural girl yes I need al of it because she don't like combs either
This is the exact texture of my daughters hair too... Aaaaaaand she was tender headed 😵😵 the crazy thing is she's 20 and I'm still doing her hair 😩
Selendria Muganogo lol
IT'SJAZZYJAE i have the same hair
I hate when people say black girls hair doesn't grow or can't be long because they aren't educated about how our hair works or don't understand what shrinkage is
She is the most adorable child ever!! Her hair is gorgeous!
A much easier way to blow dry her hair is the tension method. You should really look it up. It will save her unnecessary pain, and you time and energy. Also, when detangling, grab her hair in a smaller section firmly at the very root, like right on the scalp, with one hand and then detangle with a detangling brush from the ends up. That takes the tension and pain off of her scalp completely. No shade. I mastered detangling with my niece's hair.
I did/do all of those methods. Thx!!
I had the same problem. To avoid the headache and pain I ended up loc’ing my hair and then eventually cut it. I don’t have the patience to do my hair. Bless my mom for all the years and hours she spent on my 4c hair.
Omg, her hair is so beautiful! I love our hair! 😍😍😍😍😍😍
On Amazon I saw several blow dryers called “ brush straighteners” which are basically blow dryers with detangling brushes .. They seem like a great option especially for tender headed or just our natural hair in general.
Omg thank you daughter for being a champ for us to learn!!❤️
This reminds me of my daughter when she was this age. A tenderhead little girl is such a challenge. No matter you do it’s guaranteed that tears will fall. Thanks for the video.
Would all you people that are commenting negative just know it's her daughter she wanted to try something new and no need for getting on to her like that
I go through the same. My daughter hates everything about combing, straightening her hair but she loves the end results. The struggle is real. Big up Mums.
Omg Bless you when I say is mother’s have the patience of a saint!! I’m a mother of 3 girls and when I say a dealing with a tender headed child is a task I feel your pain!!! Beautiful little girl!!
You're such an awesome mom ! I see that you normally do twist and it's nothing wrong with trying something new and maintaining the health of YOUR child hair . Besides you've gotten her this far I'm sure you know what you're doing to her even further . Keep going !
My daughter is 9 years old with the exact 4C hair shrinkage, tender headedness and all. It took me years to find the right natural products for her hair. I did find good products along with some essential oils & Shea butter. Tried blow drying & flat ironing twice & it changed her hair pattern then broke her hair off. So stopped that & continued to find good methods for detangling & moisturizing. Then she acquired Alopecia. SMH. So now I worry about growing her bald spots back with vitamins, essential oils & protective styles. All this to say as a mom you do the best you can with what you’re blessed with & you did a great job w/ your daughters feelings in mind. Applause to you.
I know its a bit late but I noticed she has tender scalp so the best solution which I use on my niece is to comb out the hair when you put in the conditioner, put it into four sections with your fingers not a comb before combing out, comb out and then raise each section accordingly and put back into a coil as you raise out the product it will reduce the knots when combing out. Add some moisturizer or any light product and then dry each section separately while stretching with a soft brush not a paddle bush as this pulls on her roots causing pain. Also use a wide tooth comb to comb through her hair others cause pain and damage to her hair. Hope if she is still natural that this helps. Once a week it keeps the hair from getting really knotted and difficult to comb.
Beautiful baby and beautiful braids. She is just precious with that flower headband.
I used to go to empire and it's like this with all kids , they swear it hurts but they just don't wanna deal with you in them head .... she's not hurting her
There°
It most def hurts cuz I'm tender headed too it's pretty painful
U don't understand when my mum used to do my hair it use too hurt people have different ways to do there child's hair maybe your mum didn't hurt your hair
MalaysiaMarie she's tender headed and how you know how they feeling your not them so shut up
You’re right it doesn’t hurt! Lol kids just wanna play and sleep
I love her hair! You did a fantastic job on her hair and it shows by the length and shininess! She is so cute!!!
Black girl struggles running away from yo mom when you knew it was time to get dat hair done 😭
Wow her hair is long. I wish I had hair like her . Your daughter is so beautiful and her hair. I know when she grows up everybody gonna be jealous.Her hair is literally in the middle of her back I will give this a 100/100.
This is real 4c hair!!! My 5 year old has the exact hair type. I'm so lucky to run across this video to learn how to manage it a little better
Feel your pain!!! 8yr old same kinda hair..every week I be ready for that straightening kit!! Lol 😂 still haven’t used it yet though
Just a doll. Beautiful little girl.
You know we mother's got to make it work baby girl is beautiful thanks for #Keepssupportingsmallchannel like mind God bless
Currently looking at videos to better detangle & manage my 2 yo daughter’s hair & ran across your video that was so relatable. Just want to say I’m proud of your strength & totally understand what you went through cause I am currently going through it. It’s definitely a learning process. I’m no hair stylist or professional but I do what I can for the sake of us both . Thanks for the video & the authenticity!
When she was holding her ear when the flat iron was close (to her ear) I was just saying to myself "omg that's exactly what I do😂😂"
That was her first time and I had to teach her about holding her ear. She held her ear even when I was on top of head 😂😂 Thx for watching!!
I felt every tug of the brush! I salute your patience. I have 4A-4C hair and I give up 25% into straightening my hair every time!
My reaction when I saw her natural hair
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"Oh my God"
😍😍😍😍😍😍
She’s so cute love her hair
Issy D Thank you 🤗
My 8 year old has this hair and I flat iron it every now and then! This is really pretty
Your daughter is the cutest little thing. Then end result was beautiful. But I felt her pain. As a little child, I remember those tortuous days getting my 4C hair done. My younger sisters had "good hair" as the old folks would say. But mine was "nappy" hair and I had to sit and bear getting my hair straighten with a hot comb every 2 weeks. it. "She's tender headed," people would say when I would cry when my mother, my aunts or a beautician would do my hair.I am glad there are many styles for our natural hair now. I am 67 years old, but I remember those days quite well. I wear my hair natural and if I want to change my "look" I will wear a wig.
Hi I have a serious question. How did you figure out your daughter has 4c hair? The reason I ask is because my daughter is natural and is almost 2 years old and I'm trying to figure out her hair type. If you could respond back I would greatly appreciate it. Great video by the way very informative
Awee she so pretty....All that pretty hair
Elizabeth Tucker Thank you!
Beautiful healthy thick hair.
CRS S Thank you!!🙌🏾🙌🏾
My grandmother put me up on stay soft fro by carson. My daughter has 4c hair & this product has changed our lives. Her hair is very manageable & moisturized. I use it during styling & moisture in between days when her hair is braided
Her hair is amazing 🤩
I have 4c hair and I'm extremely tenderheaded I felt her jumping in my soul😂
SUCH A CUTIE!!!!!!
Omg!! Thats my daughter too...shes 13. Girl still cant get her hair done without the drama. I end wanting to cry after were done lol. #momduty
Yes!! All Drama over here. It’s an emotional roller coaster. Lol
Shaquana Andrews that's what happens to my child she cries
She's crying because it hurts. Little kids scalps are more tender. The heat is too much for them. I wouldn't call that drama.
That's me and my daughter! taught I was a bad mom... wandering if I really was too harsh. But I know i'm not... at the end I feel soo bad. 😢
Tender head or drama princess? What about both?!?
This is my type of hair, finally!
Tamsan Davids 🤗🤗🤗🤗
You are so right about, not quick and easy. I know I started my wash day at 8 pm. I was not done until 3am. What's real is my wash day. I never noticed the time before. Next time I am going to watch the time. Because that was crazy😨😨
Octavia Hallett Yes, very time consuming!
Wow, her hair is so thick . . .And it will keep getting thicker.
I know this is old but any new moms with a kid with 4c the comb attachment is ur friend start from bottom to top pre comb section n pass the blow
The thickness of her hair 😍😍😍
So adorable!!!💖💜
Your daughter is very tender headed cuz my 4 year old loves getting her hair done
OMG!!!! SHE is extremely cute when she held her ear.
I finally found the way to detangle my daughters hair doing the original cherry lola treatment, then cowashing and it was so easy to brush!
She is the cutest little girl, reminds me so much of my niece ❤
That little girl is me! I don’t want it touched AT ALL! Lol
My daughters hair is just like this I'm so grateful for this video
People need to Calm down and let this lady do what she wants. No one elses place to judge
Finally a little girl hair just like my daughter's!!! Yay
Sidney you are growing so fast and your mommy help make your hair grow healthy and beautiful like u. love u lots!!!
She’s soo beautiful 😻😻
She's adorable!😍 and her hair looks nice , shiny and healthy!💜
eve jordan Thanks so much !!❤️❤️
8:34 😆 i remember that when i was younger my mom always told me to do this 😂
And so that's why many mother's chose perms for their daughter's hair...BUT, MOM you're doing a GREAT job, hang in there...this too shall pass, hopefully with the tears...she's so cute...
Nicole Notice Thank you!❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much your video helped me a lot with my daughter's hair!!💯❤️❤️
My daughter is nine. I blew out her 4c hair for the first time.....it came almost to her butt.....but began shrinking back almost immediately. The amoint of shrinkage is amazing. I don't want to use a flat iron, but she really wants it straight. I am terrified to mess up her hair though. She's been wearing 2 strand twists for about 5 years and has been complaining about the same style
She's super tender headed and cries and screams so twists are what she'll have to stick with until she can sit still and not act crazy everytime I detangle her hair.
I understand how she feels I have a Mexican father and a white mother and I am the only one in my family that got my dad's curly hair and my mom was always at a loss when it came to my hair, my dad was the only one who could brush my hair without making me cry. A little tip, aloe vera gel mixed with lemon juice is a good detangler, heat protectant, and it can also strengthen the scalp so it won't be so tender. If you use the aloe vera gel that has lidocaine in it then it can very mildly numb her scalp as well.
She has the cutest curls! X
Awe, your baby is so pretty. I remember those days. Great job and the end results look so good on her.
Too adorable. ❤❤
She did great 👏👏 And u did awesome job on hair. I have 4C too. When I was little my mom on "hair day" we made cookies or fun craft projects together after.
Great idea!!
Super adorbs
I learned at school that head massages are supposed to help with tenderness. Maybe a hot oil treatment with a head massage. She is *STUNNING* by the way. 😍😍
what temperature was the flat iron set on?
Exactly like my hair, my daughter has the "UA-cam", natural hair flat iron. It's hard to straighten but looks very unbelievably beautiful in it's natural state with product.
Try the dyson hair dryer for the blow dry. Shampoo and then condition with Tresemme moisture rich conditioner. Now the hair is clean add natural oil mix olive shea coconut and avocado oils. Section hair into three chuncks. When you blow dry use the fork or pick attachment. Add a little heat spray to protect the hair. On a warm setting gently pass the pick threw the ends of the hair. Remember your not trying to straighten the hair your just softening it. Your not drying it just taking some of it of water off the hair. Always work in big sections, three sections or four is fine. Finger detangle the worse bits and use a wide tooth comb. Also a small bristle brush to tidy up the edges. You can always use some of the Tresemme moisture rich conditioner as a leave in. Just add a little on the ends of the hair.
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It's amazing how much hair shrinks. I use to straighten my niece's hair. She's mixed and omg... It took HOURS to actually do her hair.
Thank you!! You have to definitely have an open schedule for 4c hair.
T monstrueuse avec ta fille, violente, tu devrais avoir honte, de la maltraiter devant le public comme ça 😢
My hair shrinks so damn much, you have to actually climb on top of my head to look for it! The shrinkage is soooooooo wrong!
I have been natural for 20 years- used to get my hair washed steam and pressed every two weeks. My hair is mixed on one side with a loose curl and typical 4c on the other side (come more like a 4Z)! I could not handle my hair and my hairdresser is amazing but although my hair is long (just beneath shoulders), it fell out really badly with both my pregnancies (was bra strap length before I got pregnant), but despite being kept in good condition, has never grown back. I stopped pressing now, because I want to see how the growth stays without the heat in my hair and can no longer take the pain i feel when it is being blow dried straight but man, I am not handling the shrinkage at all!
Awww. This was a cute mommy daughter video. Good job!!!
Coitada dessa criança, ela tá chorando, que sofrimento.
Verdade 😔🤔
@@ducilenefagundes3124 oi amiga tudo bem ?
I feel your pain my daughter has 4c hair and it was hard finding products that work. Now that she is 16 it's more of a challenge!! But she knows she has beautiful thick hair. Thank you for sharing 😄
@Supa Natural hello 👋
My daughter has the same type of hair as your daughter. What I do to detangle my daughter's hair before I shampoo and conditioner it is I combine eggs, honey, olive oil & sometimes add mayonnaise. Then apply the mixture to her hair. Place plastic cap on her head & leave mixture on for 20-30 minutes or however long you feel. Then you rinse out with cool water. Following shampoo and conditioner wash. Part hair in 4sections. Then I mix together Jamaican Castor oil & Argan oil conditioner (grease) to her hair & scalp. Then comb from ends to roots of hair then blow dry each section and style. My daughter loves the egg treatment because it makes her hair manageable to comb & style plus she has a tender head. Just a lil pointer from mom to mom😀💖 thanks for sharing because I never knew the type of hair my daughter has until I ran across your video. So now I know my daughter have 4c hair.
This style is beautiful!
She's so cure and patient
When I was little I used to cry every time my mom did my hair lol but I was always happy after
You have a new sub!!!
I love the Cantu leave in conditioner. That helps me blow dry my hair. Me and her have the same texture :)
She is so cute with her little golden face! 💗
did you just flat iron her hair just to braid it -_-
The tv show if loving you is wrong
Defeated the purpose.
I think she flat ironed her hair for a length check and a trim as well sis
Did you just come in her comments just to judge her for what she’s doing to her daughters hair? 🤔