Sufi Malik on Relationships, Internet Hate, and Healing From It All

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  • @roxanavera1030
    @roxanavera1030 2 місяці тому +21

    I wish I could hear more of Sufi's perspective throughout the whole podcast. They said a lot of quotable quotes, like " The real world happens when you are by yourself." This is so true and has too much wisdom to share.
    I am happy they are on the path to healing and are in a better place.

  • @iamsotiredofliving
    @iamsotiredofliving 2 місяці тому +43

    I know it's been said by multiple people, but let your guests speak. The mark of a good podcast host is one who contributes the right amount and asks insightful questions that make the guest comfortable and allows them to speak more than the host. A good example of this is the Diary of a CEO podcast, hence its immense success.
    I see your comment replies to folks where you respond with snark, and I understand feeling attacked and therefore being defensive. However, no matter how the feedback is coming across from faceless commenters, it is valuable feedback and being said for a reason. Take a step back, log off, watch the episode again with the feedback you've received and try to be objective. Otherwise, your platform will never flourish, because the hallmark of a truly successful entrepreneur is recognizing when there's a problem or room for improvement and seeing it as free business advice you can implement moving forward. And never respond to your customers (i.e. viewers) with snark. You instantly lose all credibility.
    Anyways, you can choose to take my comment as hate or valuable advice. Decision is yours!

  • @sk2222_2
    @sk2222_2 2 місяці тому +74

    I wish the host would just let Sufi speak. Every question is 5 minutes long and when she tries to answer he interrupts with another 5 minute q 🙂

    • @CONVERSATIONSWITHCHAI
      @CONVERSATIONSWITHCHAI  2 місяці тому +1

      Y’all are so funny. There’s a reason Sufi did this conversation with us.

    • @Shamili1801
      @Shamili1801 2 місяці тому +22

      @@CONVERSATIONSWITHCHAI she did it because you are an acquaintance, not because of your podcasting skills clearly...

    • @CONVERSATIONSWITHCHAI
      @CONVERSATIONSWITHCHAI  2 місяці тому

      @ she had her pick of people to do it with trust me. But y’all continue to let me know who’s doing what well, cause I really value your opinion!

    • @Lekshmidevi-z7v
      @Lekshmidevi-z7v 2 місяці тому +31

      @@CONVERSATIONSWITHCHAI bro with all due respect,we watch this to hear sufi..but you keep interrupting all the time,u actually speak more than her sometimes..we watch it bcoz of her,not for anyone else..u should keep your questions short & clear and should try to listen more than speak as a host..

    • @FunnyGuy10009
      @FunnyGuy10009 2 місяці тому

      @@CONVERSATIONSWITHCHAI you’re so fragile

  • @TheKayreen
    @TheKayreen 2 місяці тому +36

    FOR GO SAKE, LET SUFI SPEAK BRO!!!!!!!!!

  • @云-m4y
    @云-m4y 2 місяці тому +55

    Man the host is unbearable, if u wanna talk the entire time please film a podcast by yourself. He doesn’t let her complete her sentence and jumps in to add his thoughts instead. LET HER SPEAK!!! We wanna know her side not yours

  • @backyardgardeningwvinti441
    @backyardgardeningwvinti441 2 місяці тому +37

    “Talk about that”…. She’s trying to!!

  • @IqraJaved-s6w
    @IqraJaved-s6w 2 місяці тому +14

    bro on a very serious note please let the guest speak

  • @divrodricks2525
    @divrodricks2525 8 днів тому +1

    just because it wasnt a long lasting relationship doesnt mean what they had wasnt a successful relationship that had a lot of love, care and efforts in it. The duration of a relationship doesnt define its success- the relationship existing, in itself is a success, for however long it did, it was beautiful and should be worth celebrating. i understand how being a viral couple can affect someones life, but for what its worth- i still believe their love was really powerful, rebellious, and i will remember both of them for the love they shared, the joy and giggle we felt through the screen for them and will hold space for both of them as they heal- they didnt deserve this much scrutiny and eyes on their personal life. sending hugs to sufi from india- navigating all that pressure must have been hard \(^_^)/

  • @NataliaBrizz
    @NataliaBrizz 2 місяці тому +22

    It seems the interview went backwards. Sufi was unable to speak without being interrupted.

  • @Sky-cq4br
    @Sky-cq4br 2 місяці тому +25

    boy this man yaps a lot

  • @seasonalsounds7636
    @seasonalsounds7636 2 місяці тому +34

    let sufi talk, feels like most of this interview was the host yapping

  • @PavaniBasavarajuAchillies8490
    @PavaniBasavarajuAchillies8490 2 місяці тому +29

    It super annoying the host didn’t let sufi talk at all, what’s wrong with you? We wanted to hear her more!! You kept interrupting her making us miss her point of view on so many instances! Please put a timer , pause, and ask.

  • @123soso55
    @123soso55 2 місяці тому +17

    So is this Sufi interviewing you? You talked more than them

  • @aditinerkar8376
    @aditinerkar8376 2 місяці тому +28

    drinking game everytime he says "*sufi the person*"

  • @LoniD26
    @LoniD26 Місяць тому +3

    I don’t think he’s talking over them, I think from a friendship point of view he knows exactly how they’re trying to articulate something so he’s just guiding them through the harder parts that they can’t really get through without making said situation bigger than already need be. Notice they keep pausing for a while and he just jumps in to help get the thoughts out because he knows what’s going on. It’s a thin line and you have to be very careful with what you’re saying or it’s just going to open up a bigger can of worms. In his sense, since he’s not directly the one going through it, I think it’s easier for him to understand and help guide them through this since he’s the podcaster here and knows what that line is.

  • @lifeiswonderfulbao9143
    @lifeiswonderfulbao9143 2 місяці тому +45

    I don't understand. When you do bad things at least you acknowlege and talk about it instead of talking about the hate wave come after this. The hate wave came because you did something and not because anjali posted something. Because you didn't talk about your mistake and here you want to talk about "i am the victime too" and also because in this kind of situation you show respect about your past partner but you can't even prononce anjali's name, this show how disrespect and ungrateful you are and how you still hate anjali. Making an interview about it, with people having bias and saying "go Queen sufi" it's again a bad move you made. Anjali talks about how she is healing, you are critizing"the people and the internet" instead of talking about how you healed After this mistake, how you are going etc..here you are just "gossiping about people" as you just said in this interview. Yes i take time to write yes i have a life so stop saying "people have no life" just because we comment. You should hired a better communication's agent to help you to have a better futur on internet. Otherwise just stop being public, shut down all your media's accompte and rebecome incognito. Otherwise just hired better communication's choice. Read comment instead of deleting all. Face the true. I can't come to the bronx and talk to you straigh. I'm not a good person, i cheated and i'm in a open relationship. We don't pretend to be good people, we just comment to help you making better communication's choice. Even if you don't ask. We are not living our internet life's according to what you want us to do as a follower. No hate at all just saying what you don't see and we see from outsiders.

    • @Namita-v3p3n
      @Namita-v3p3n 2 місяці тому

      EXACTLY! She's such a narcissist and an attention seeker. Like look at these two shameless humans trying to "humanise" the act of cheating. Queen Sufi can't trust people anymore because of her own bloody actions!

    • @shivongay
      @shivongay 2 місяці тому +2

      brahh chill☠️☠️

    • @bhvnaaa
      @bhvnaaa 2 місяці тому

      again get a life , touch grass, mind your own business, people have varied opinions, that doesn't mean what you believe is correct. also rather than asking someone to stop being public why don't you stop consuming ??

    • @lifeiswonderfulbao9143
      @lifeiswonderfulbao9143 2 місяці тому +6

      ​@@bhvnaaa i'm not a genz i don't watch people making communication mistakes and not telling them. I consume the content and i'm not passif. She has not the outsider's point of view so AT least it's better and fair to tell how WE sée it from outside. We are not her Friends WE don't have the context so this IS how WE see her. Letting her know that she keep making herself having the vilain role is the least WE Can Do. Then she does What she wants but AT least she has all perspectives.

    • @джана-с2ю
      @джана-с2ю 2 місяці тому +2

      well done .I appreciate your thoughts

  • @ranishahnaz4016
    @ranishahnaz4016 2 місяці тому +3

    Before this podcast I was wid Anjali, but after saw this I'm totally wid Sufi,what a personality man❤

  • @katana.kitsune
    @katana.kitsune 2 місяці тому +7

    What was the point of this podcast?

  • @ranishahnaz4016
    @ranishahnaz4016 2 місяці тому +8

    What's this podcast man!!!!let Sufi speak please 🙏

  • @Lekshmidevi-z7v
    @Lekshmidevi-z7v 2 місяці тому +20

    Dude let her speak 🥲stop interrupting..

  • @rationalist1707
    @rationalist1707 2 місяці тому +5

    The host is speaking on behalf of sufi bcz to course of podcast was pre decided. The independence and clarity is lost. And you did the same mistake again. Please do not controll the narrative and provide clarity for God's sake. We are not here to hate seriously. If yoh have already decided everything than no point of sharing anything on podcast.

  • @SolarMar
    @SolarMar 2 місяці тому +11

    let her speak omg, your questions are longer than her answers

  • @Zafar0
    @Zafar0 2 місяці тому +8

    Can this guy keep the Qs concise and allow her to talk? Ffs! So frustrating to watch this.

  • @PreetP-u9l
    @PreetP-u9l 2 місяці тому +6

    50:33 that is SO FUCKING TRUE!!!! Also, bhai let Sufi speak na?

  • @Saphire-yr4ee
    @Saphire-yr4ee 2 місяці тому +4

    Bruhh it's sufi's podcast not yours, just let her speak! Jeez.

  • @musicsitaare4968
    @musicsitaare4968 2 місяці тому +10

    Did sufi cheat on anjali? If yes,
    With whom and why

    • @roxanavera1030
      @roxanavera1030 2 місяці тому

      That is none of our bussiness

    • @rationalist1707
      @rationalist1707 2 місяці тому +9

      Yes she did
      It's is not disclosed whith whom and why. But now she is doing all of this drama to get sympathy.

  • @APSI-1423
    @APSI-1423 2 місяці тому +6

    DUDE LET SUFI SPEAK😡😡 WE R NOT HERE TO LISTEN U, WE ARE HERE TO LISTEN TO SUFI😡😡

    • @CONVERSATIONSWITHCHAI
      @CONVERSATIONSWITHCHAI  2 місяці тому

      Then go to a diff page where she speaks you clown. Who are you?

    • @APSI-1423
      @APSI-1423 2 місяці тому +5

      @@CONVERSATIONSWITHCHAI u can even read everyone's comment no one said that they want to listen u, everyone said that they want to listen to SUFI, in podcast channel it should be an aura where the guest speaks out the most & not the host. U can refer to the THE RANVEER SHOW which is very popular in India where he host podcast & guest speaks the most & doesn't even interrupts in between... I was not commenting in bad way, it was just for your channel's good. I'm huge fan of SUFI & really wanted to listen her side of story that's why I came to see this page but u ruin the whole podcast by speaking more & interrupting her more that's why I got angry otherwise I didn't meant anything in wrong way DUDE!! Please call her again & let her speak & let her tell her side of story please. One who r commenting here including me are huge fans of SUFI & really love her so much

  • @ranishahnaz4016
    @ranishahnaz4016 2 місяці тому +2

    What a fantastic answer
    The great Sufi
    Love you babe❤

  • @shab375
    @shab375 2 місяці тому +5

    Sufi's 37 min nd his 1 hr Dude let her speak 😤

  • @breezyrelaxclub4126
    @breezyrelaxclub4126 Місяць тому

    1:15:00 where she speaks the vulnerability ❤
    Where all goes wrong

  • @MSquareVideos
    @MSquareVideos 2 місяці тому +9

    shoaib malik

    • @spooky0432
      @spooky0432 2 місяці тому +1

      😂

    • @MSquareVideos
      @MSquareVideos 2 місяці тому

      @@spooky0432 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @rationalist1707
      @rationalist1707 2 місяці тому

      Cheater cheater....... Both cheated on our indian queens

  • @srobotee
    @srobotee 2 місяці тому +5

    I'm rooting for you, Sufi. I hope you live the rest of your life in love and peace, far away from internet fame.

  • @swatatat
    @swatatat 2 місяці тому +12

    Scrolled to the comments halfway through the video and what is wrong with people? You are letting her speak and doing such a brilliant job at handling such a sensitive topic. I keep getting surprised by how well you word things and pose the right questions and make sure Sufi feels safe to be there and be so incredibly vulnerable. Wonderful job!

  • @namrataBa-f9r
    @namrataBa-f9r 2 місяці тому +6

    DUDE he yapped the whole time

  • @priyankadhar562
    @priyankadhar562 2 місяці тому +1

    So raw so real so good ♥️

  • @FunnyGuy10009
    @FunnyGuy10009 2 місяці тому +6

    Been saying the dude sucks

  • @codingiscreativity
    @codingiscreativity 2 дні тому

    Whose interview is this ? 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @himani_sahotra
    @himani_sahotra 2 місяці тому +6

    Hey sufi firstly your identity is human being just forget about your religion and your personality, treat yourself first as a human being, accept yourself and forgive yourself. Actually you were evolve in your life at a very early age and it's not in our hands to control everything, you still even don't know yourself you still exploring yourself and it's not bad thing to do mistakes unintentionaly, people do change in growing age, people do change with time accept this fact for yourself aslo, do practice meditation to evolve more towards wisdom for next phase of life and accept your self as you are, Sufi❤ i pray for you more wisdom and more peace in your life 😇😌🙏 stay peaceful

  • @breezyrelaxclub4126
    @breezyrelaxclub4126 Місяць тому

    57:50 her voice cracked 💔

  • @lawyerpanda1856
    @lawyerpanda1856 22 дні тому

    Hmmmm dont know why this thing came on my UA-cam account but just wanted to say on this why would you Sufi cheat on Anjali like that 😅 how can be someone better or hot than Anjali 😆😆 how can somwone go up from her? I dont like cheaters cause cheating never happens exactly and no explanation can ever justify cheating but the thing is I get Anjali's overblown reaction cause a) she always identified as a Bisexual always and was always concerned about treating Sufi as some fling or always thought ppl might take Anjali's love for Sufi as some Anjali's way of ignoring/hating men but it was not Anjali was/is just bi who is/was in love with Sufi (but i guess Sufi herself couldnt digest this fact or got egoistic about) but cheating will never be a solution. Only low lives cheat when talking to your person is always an option.

  • @raveenatitoria
    @raveenatitoria 2 місяці тому +5

    Just love & more power to you Sufi

  • @shanzay4563
    @shanzay4563 Місяць тому

    Subscribe only for Sufi❤

  • @gmoneyy420
    @gmoneyy420 21 день тому

    Not everyone should be a host. This man has no interviewer skills

  • @sabeeraafzalsulehri2200
    @sabeeraafzalsulehri2200 2 місяці тому +6

    Anjali was selfish but sufi made sure she respect her privcacy

    • @spooky0432
      @spooky0432 2 місяці тому +15

      How was she selfish exactly? And the only person I see not go into details is anjali

    • @sundasmalik6803
      @sundasmalik6803 2 місяці тому +1

      @@spooky0432you think this is details? LOL

    • @spooky0432
      @spooky0432 2 місяці тому +5

      @sundasmalik6803 girl that pfp is a whole jumpscare first of all and secondly yes it is, she has never spoken this much about the relationship or painted herself out to be the victim like you have

    • @sundasmalik6803
      @sundasmalik6803 2 місяці тому +2

      @ lmaoooo you’re so right pookie. take the you’re right award, have a good day

    • @spooky0432
      @spooky0432 2 місяці тому +3

      @sundasmalik6803 thanks love appreciated 🥰. I also don't condone all the hate you got but if you really are sorry for your mistake, you would've not been shady to the person you hurt xx

  • @MSquareVideos
    @MSquareVideos 2 місяці тому +2

    it get more courage to come at the screen in front of the world and take the accountability. more power to you @sufi

  • @simrandodiyar4965
    @simrandodiyar4965 2 місяці тому +4

    Want more products with sufi
    Stay strong and healthy sufi 🫂