Sufi Malik on Relationships, Internet Hate, and Healing From It All

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  • @roxanavera1030
    @roxanavera1030 20 днів тому +13

    I wish I could hear more of Sufi's perspective throughout the whole podcast. They said a lot of quotable quotes, like " The real world happens when you are by yourself." This is so true and has too much wisdom to share.
    I am happy they are on the path to healing and are in a better place.

  • @iamsotiredofliving
    @iamsotiredofliving 21 день тому +32

    I know it's been said by multiple people, but let your guests speak. The mark of a good podcast host is one who contributes the right amount and asks insightful questions that make the guest comfortable and allows them to speak more than the host. A good example of this is the Diary of a CEO podcast, hence its immense success.
    I see your comment replies to folks where you respond with snark, and I understand feeling attacked and therefore being defensive. However, no matter how the feedback is coming across from faceless commenters, it is valuable feedback and being said for a reason. Take a step back, log off, watch the episode again with the feedback you've received and try to be objective. Otherwise, your platform will never flourish, because the hallmark of a truly successful entrepreneur is recognizing when there's a problem or room for improvement and seeing it as free business advice you can implement moving forward. And never respond to your customers (i.e. viewers) with snark. You instantly lose all credibility.
    Anyways, you can choose to take my comment as hate or valuable advice. Decision is yours!

  • @sk2222_2
    @sk2222_2 23 дні тому +63

    I wish the host would just let Sufi speak. Every question is 5 minutes long and when she tries to answer he interrupts with another 5 minute q 🙂

    • @CONVERSATIONSWITHCHAI
      @CONVERSATIONSWITHCHAI  23 дні тому

      Y’all are so funny. There’s a reason Sufi did this conversation with us.

    • @Shamili1801
      @Shamili1801 23 дні тому +19

      @@CONVERSATIONSWITHCHAI she did it because you are an acquaintance, not because of your podcasting skills clearly...

    • @CONVERSATIONSWITHCHAI
      @CONVERSATIONSWITHCHAI  23 дні тому

      @ she had her pick of people to do it with trust me. But y’all continue to let me know who’s doing what well, cause I really value your opinion!

    • @Lekshmidevi-z7v
      @Lekshmidevi-z7v 23 дні тому +28

      @@CONVERSATIONSWITHCHAI bro with all due respect,we watch this to hear sufi..but you keep interrupting all the time,u actually speak more than her sometimes..we watch it bcoz of her,not for anyone else..u should keep your questions short & clear and should try to listen more than speak as a host..

    • @FunnyGuy10009
      @FunnyGuy10009 19 днів тому

      @@CONVERSATIONSWITHCHAI you’re so fragile

  • @TheKayreen
    @TheKayreen 23 дні тому +27

    FOR GO SAKE, LET SUFI SPEAK BRO!!!!!!!!!

  • @云-m4y
    @云-m4y 23 дні тому +46

    Man the host is unbearable, if u wanna talk the entire time please film a podcast by yourself. He doesn’t let her complete her sentence and jumps in to add his thoughts instead. LET HER SPEAK!!! We wanna know her side not yours

  • @backyardgardeningwvinti441
    @backyardgardeningwvinti441 23 дні тому +30

    “Talk about that”…. She’s trying to!!

  • @NataliaBrizz
    @NataliaBrizz 23 дні тому +21

    It seems the interview went backwards. Sufi was unable to speak without being interrupted.

  • @PavaniBasavarajuAchillies8490
    @PavaniBasavarajuAchillies8490 23 дні тому +27

    It super annoying the host didn’t let sufi talk at all, what’s wrong with you? We wanted to hear her more!! You kept interrupting her making us miss her point of view on so many instances! Please put a timer , pause, and ask.

  • @IqraJaved-s6w
    @IqraJaved-s6w 15 днів тому +5

    bro on a very serious note please let the guest speak

  • @seasonalsounds7636
    @seasonalsounds7636 23 дні тому +31

    let sufi talk, feels like most of this interview was the host yapping

  • @123soso55
    @123soso55 21 день тому +14

    So is this Sufi interviewing you? You talked more than them

  • @ranishahnaz4016
    @ranishahnaz4016 15 днів тому +1

    Before this podcast I was wid Anjali, but after saw this I'm totally wid Sufi,what a personality man❤

  • @Sky-cq4br
    @Sky-cq4br 23 дні тому +21

    boy this man yaps a lot

  • @ranishahnaz4016
    @ranishahnaz4016 16 днів тому +7

    What's this podcast man!!!!let Sufi speak please 🙏

  • @Lekshmidevi-z7v
    @Lekshmidevi-z7v 23 дні тому +19

    Dude let her speak 🥲stop interrupting..

  • @Zafar0
    @Zafar0 18 днів тому +8

    Can this guy keep the Qs concise and allow her to talk? Ffs! So frustrating to watch this.

  • @SolarMar
    @SolarMar 21 день тому +10

    let her speak omg, your questions are longer than her answers

  • @rationalist1707
    @rationalist1707 17 днів тому +4

    The host is speaking on behalf of sufi bcz to course of podcast was pre decided. The independence and clarity is lost. And you did the same mistake again. Please do not controll the narrative and provide clarity for God's sake. We are not here to hate seriously. If yoh have already decided everything than no point of sharing anything on podcast.

  • @katana.kitsune
    @katana.kitsune 19 днів тому +6

    What was the point of this podcast?

  • @aditinerkar8376
    @aditinerkar8376 24 дні тому +24

    drinking game everytime he says "*sufi the person*"

  • @lifeiswonderfulbao9143
    @lifeiswonderfulbao9143 24 дні тому +36

    I don't understand. When you do bad things at least you acknowlege and talk about it instead of talking about the hate wave come after this. The hate wave came because you did something and not because anjali posted something. Because you didn't talk about your mistake and here you want to talk about "i am the victime too" and also because in this kind of situation you show respect about your past partner but you can't even prononce anjali's name, this show how disrespect and ungrateful you are and how you still hate anjali. Making an interview about it, with people having bias and saying "go Queen sufi" it's again a bad move you made. Anjali talks about how she is healing, you are critizing"the people and the internet" instead of talking about how you healed After this mistake, how you are going etc..here you are just "gossiping about people" as you just said in this interview. Yes i take time to write yes i have a life so stop saying "people have no life" just because we comment. You should hired a better communication's agent to help you to have a better futur on internet. Otherwise just stop being public, shut down all your media's accompte and rebecome incognito. Otherwise just hired better communication's choice. Read comment instead of deleting all. Face the true. I can't come to the bronx and talk to you straigh. I'm not a good person, i cheated and i'm in a open relationship. We don't pretend to be good people, we just comment to help you making better communication's choice. Even if you don't ask. We are not living our internet life's according to what you want us to do as a follower. No hate at all just saying what you don't see and we see from outsiders.

    • @Namita-v3p3n
      @Namita-v3p3n 24 дні тому

      EXACTLY! She's such a narcissist and an attention seeker. Like look at these two shameless humans trying to "humanise" the act of cheating. Queen Sufi can't trust people anymore because of her own bloody actions!

    • @shivongay
      @shivongay 23 дні тому +1

      brahh chill☠️☠️

    • @bhvnaaa
      @bhvnaaa 23 дні тому

      again get a life , touch grass, mind your own business, people have varied opinions, that doesn't mean what you believe is correct. also rather than asking someone to stop being public why don't you stop consuming ??

    • @lifeiswonderfulbao9143
      @lifeiswonderfulbao9143 23 дні тому +5

      ​@@bhvnaaa i'm not a genz i don't watch people making communication mistakes and not telling them. I consume the content and i'm not passif. She has not the outsider's point of view so AT least it's better and fair to tell how WE sée it from outside. We are not her Friends WE don't have the context so this IS how WE see her. Letting her know that she keep making herself having the vilain role is the least WE Can Do. Then she does What she wants but AT least she has all perspectives.

    • @джана-с2ю
      @джана-с2ю 21 день тому +2

      well done .I appreciate your thoughts

  • @ranishahnaz4016
    @ranishahnaz4016 15 днів тому +1

    What a fantastic answer
    The great Sufi
    Love you babe❤

  • @shab375
    @shab375 12 днів тому +3

    Sufi's 37 min nd his 1 hr Dude let her speak 😤

  • @musicsitaare4968
    @musicsitaare4968 23 дні тому +9

    Did sufi cheat on anjali? If yes,
    With whom and why

    • @roxanavera1030
      @roxanavera1030 20 днів тому

      That is none of our bussiness

    • @rationalist1707
      @rationalist1707 17 днів тому +3

      Yes she did
      It's is not disclosed whith whom and why. But now she is doing all of this drama to get sympathy.

  • @Saphire-yr4ee
    @Saphire-yr4ee 9 днів тому +2

    Bruhh it's sufi's podcast not yours, just let her speak! Jeez.

  • @himani_sahotra
    @himani_sahotra 23 дні тому +5

    Hey sufi firstly your identity is human being just forget about your religion and your personality, treat yourself first as a human being, accept yourself and forgive yourself. Actually you were evolve in your life at a very early age and it's not in our hands to control everything, you still even don't know yourself you still exploring yourself and it's not bad thing to do mistakes unintentionaly, people do change in growing age, people do change with time accept this fact for yourself aslo, do practice meditation to evolve more towards wisdom for next phase of life and accept your self as you are, Sufi❤ i pray for you more wisdom and more peace in your life 😇😌🙏 stay peaceful

  • @APSI-1423
    @APSI-1423 4 дні тому +1

    DUDE LET SUFI SPEAK😡😡 WE R NOT HERE TO LISTEN U, WE ARE HERE TO LISTEN TO SUFI😡😡

    • @CONVERSATIONSWITHCHAI
      @CONVERSATIONSWITHCHAI  4 дні тому

      Then go to a diff page where she speaks you clown. Who are you?

    • @APSI-1423
      @APSI-1423 4 дні тому +1

      @@CONVERSATIONSWITHCHAI u can even read everyone's comment no one said that they want to listen u, everyone said that they want to listen to SUFI, in podcast channel it should be an aura where the guest speaks out the most & not the host. U can refer to the THE RANVEER SHOW which is very popular in India where he host podcast & guest speaks the most & doesn't even interrupts in between... I was not commenting in bad way, it was just for your channel's good. I'm huge fan of SUFI & really wanted to listen her side of story that's why I came to see this page but u ruin the whole podcast by speaking more & interrupting her more that's why I got angry otherwise I didn't meant anything in wrong way DUDE!! Please call her again & let her speak & let her tell her side of story please. One who r commenting here including me are huge fans of SUFI & really love her so much

  • @namrataBa-f9r
    @namrataBa-f9r 17 днів тому +6

    DUDE he yapped the whole time

  • @swatatat
    @swatatat 23 дні тому +9

    Scrolled to the comments halfway through the video and what is wrong with people? You are letting her speak and doing such a brilliant job at handling such a sensitive topic. I keep getting surprised by how well you word things and pose the right questions and make sure Sufi feels safe to be there and be so incredibly vulnerable. Wonderful job!

  • @PreetP-u9l
    @PreetP-u9l 17 днів тому +4

    50:33 that is SO FUCKING TRUE!!!! Also, bhai let Sufi speak na?

  • @srobotee
    @srobotee 24 дні тому +4

    I'm rooting for you, Sufi. I hope you live the rest of your life in love and peace, far away from internet fame.

  • @priyankadhar562
    @priyankadhar562 22 дні тому

    So raw so real so good ♥️

  • @FunnyGuy10009
    @FunnyGuy10009 19 днів тому +6

    Been saying the dude sucks

  • @shanzay4563
    @shanzay4563 3 дні тому

    Subscribe only for Sufi❤

  • @MSquareVideos
    @MSquareVideos 23 дні тому +7

    shoaib malik

  • @raveenatitoria
    @raveenatitoria 23 дні тому +5

    Just love & more power to you Sufi

  • @sabeeraafzalsulehri2200
    @sabeeraafzalsulehri2200 23 дні тому +4

    Anjali was selfish but sufi made sure she respect her privcacy

    • @spooky0432
      @spooky0432 22 дні тому +12

      How was she selfish exactly? And the only person I see not go into details is anjali

    • @sundasmalik6803
      @sundasmalik6803 20 днів тому +1

      @@spooky0432you think this is details? LOL

    • @spooky0432
      @spooky0432 20 днів тому +5

      @sundasmalik6803 girl that pfp is a whole jumpscare first of all and secondly yes it is, she has never spoken this much about the relationship or painted herself out to be the victim like you have

    • @sundasmalik6803
      @sundasmalik6803 20 днів тому +2

      @ lmaoooo you’re so right pookie. take the you’re right award, have a good day

    • @spooky0432
      @spooky0432 20 днів тому +3

      @sundasmalik6803 thanks love appreciated 🥰. I also don't condone all the hate you got but if you really are sorry for your mistake, you would've not been shady to the person you hurt xx

  • @MSquareVideos
    @MSquareVideos 23 дні тому +1

    it get more courage to come at the screen in front of the world and take the accountability. more power to you @sufi

  • @simrandodiyar4965
    @simrandodiyar4965 24 дні тому +3

    Want more products with sufi
    Stay strong and healthy sufi 🫂