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  • @Shadeadder
    @Shadeadder 5 років тому +1336

    most people these days have never seen a healthy relationship in their life, that's why they're so shocked at the idea of willingly being selfless for someone else you love

    • @lioness3967
      @lioness3967 5 років тому +12

      The Kazoo Queen omg this is so true

    • @Ugottabekiddinme
      @Ugottabekiddinme 5 років тому +32

      My great grandmother was a widow, my grandparents never married and my parents are divorced. My children are the first to live in a "normal" two parent household. Yes you are so right.

    • @toqa002
      @toqa002 5 років тому +4

      big YES

    • @erikahunt5662
      @erikahunt5662 5 років тому +7

      The Kazoo Queen ya...they call us push over or worst; when we are just here trying to live the way Jesus Christ came to show us how to.

    • @irenelouborne8545
      @irenelouborne8545 4 роки тому +2

      True

  • @kiwigirlNZ
    @kiwigirlNZ 5 років тому +780

    I have NO idea why people would give you crap about doing sweet things for your husband. I swear some women are out there, waiting to attack, like a pack of hyenas. Taking care of your man, and being taken care of by your man, is the epitome of love between a loving couple.

    • @SupremeCrusader
      @SupremeCrusader 5 років тому +82

      It's because we live in a hyper-feminist world where the very idea of doing something nice for their husbands is offensive.

    • @isachan2252
      @isachan2252 5 років тому +35

      Yess!!! It's not even feminism, it's fake feminists out there that think being mean to your soul mate is the right thing to do to show that you are strong. Nowadays is bad to be nice yikes.

    • @Iman131096
      @Iman131096 5 років тому +16

      @@isachan2252 yess thanks for pointing that out. If your feminism is about belittling men and bashing on women who are trying to build happy successful marriages, it ain't feminism. They give feminists a bad name smh

    • @priusa8113
      @priusa8113 5 років тому +36

      The women who are against her ideas in taking care of a marriage are the very ones who are alone, bitter and jealous:(

    • @chanseerussell4421
      @chanseerussell4421 5 років тому +3

      kiwi girl lol a pack of hyenas. It’s so true

  • @NaturallyBrittany
    @NaturallyBrittany 5 років тому +649

    All the feels! 🙈💕 It’s so refreshing to hear a wife building her husband up and really appreciating him for who he is. I’ve loved both videos!

    • @b21.9
      @b21.9 5 років тому +3

      Hi Brittany!! I love watching sarah's videos as well as yours, both of you guys are so inspiring! Thank you so much❤️

    • @ryank2434
      @ryank2434 4 роки тому +1

      Yas queen

  • @CathFerook
    @CathFerook 4 роки тому +109

    Your husband is emotionally connected to you. That's half the battle most people don't realise

  • @abbieruth8373
    @abbieruth8373 5 років тому +574

    Everytime I have shared what I do for my husband, I have gotten attacked. People even said that if I have to do ANYTHING for him to make him happy that I should dump him amd take my kids elsewhere. Which is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. Its like this generation thinks that marriage is about the person doing everything for them and them never returning the favor. I dont understand it. I honestly feel sad for those people. They will never know the wonders of the depth of love two people can have who serve and love eachother.

    • @francoisea.1713
      @francoisea.1713 5 років тому +39

      Explains the hate and divorces in this world today. My grandparents were married over 50 years and in love. They did everything for eachother and the people complaining about them were all divorced or unhappy with their partner.

    • @RTCPhotoWork
      @RTCPhotoWork 5 років тому +26

      There are a lot of people who have dealt with only abusive people or who have only had generally bad/wrong for them relationships. When they hear an individual speak of serving their partner, it hits this nerve in them about all THEY did and how they "got nothing in return." It's more about projecting than simply the human want to be served. That is definitely in there too, but we miss that people with that reaction are hurting people with unresolved issues. People use their own lives as a filter for everything they see and hear. People tend to be one-track minds in that they assume they have been given the complete picture, so if a video talks from one side then the scenario described MUST BE one-sided.

    • @spookycat0001
      @spookycat0001 5 років тому +27

      It's that "happy wife, happy life" mentality. It's like we as wifes are not supposed to cater or do things for our husbands without others saying "wow he must be lazy" or "you deserve better" bullshit. It takes two to tango, it also takes two to make a marriage work. I like all the small things she mentions that her husband does for her. It makes me think, realize and appreciate what my husband does more for me, because sometimes realizing what our husbands do on a daily basis gets clouded when we as wifes are feeling stressed of overwhelmed... I'm like trying to think of a rhyme that goes with "happy marriage" or "happy spouses/partners" equals happy life haha 😂

    • @philipanderson7581
      @philipanderson7581 5 років тому +2

      Yea, greedy & evil people.

    • @spleen5527
      @spleen5527 5 років тому +6

      "People even said that if I have to do ANYTHING for him to make him happy that I should dump him amd take my kids elsewhere."
      This never happened.

  • @rebeccaringwood9115
    @rebeccaringwood9115 5 років тому +584

    I love how the hate never really seems to get to you, you always take a mature route when addressing it and let it just roll off your shoulders, which is so inspiring!! ❤️

    • @rebeccahann4803
      @rebeccahann4803 5 років тому +3

      Your husband sounds perfect! Good for you, I’m sure you deserve it.

    • @philipanderson7581
      @philipanderson7581 5 років тому +2

      that's the effect of being married while not hateful

    • @TheJinashura
      @TheJinashura 5 років тому

      Toxic feminazis can March their antisemitic pro infanticide loving far left drama TF on. Disgusting little freaks.

    • @TheJinashura
      @TheJinashura 5 років тому +1

      @CATHY B look, I hit a nerve lol

    • @TheJinashura
      @TheJinashura 5 років тому +1

      @CATHY B you... Can't... Offer a real argument... Or rebuttal... Your move ;)

  • @cici5408
    @cici5408 4 роки тому +155

    For those that can’t or don’t feel like watching the whole video:
    1. he sees practical need and helps
    2. he compliments and assures attraction towards wife
    3. he comforts wife
    4. he allows venting and listens
    5. he never embarrasses wife
    6. he is fun and joyful
    7. he is honest with wife
    8. he is self sacrificing
    9. he gives security
    10. he takes care of wife
    11. he loves in wife’s love language
    12. he is kind
    13. he is trustworthy
    14. he touches wife
    15. he never compares wife

    • @anonmous1284
      @anonmous1284 4 роки тому +10

      Caffeinated Coco oh i thought this would be a list of things he does around the house or chores wise

    • @takeoffyourblinkers
      @takeoffyourblinkers 4 роки тому +3

      @@anonmous1284
      Well done, you have a one dimensional mind.

    • @anonmous1284
      @anonmous1284 4 роки тому +1

      Take Off Your Blinkers well done u r an internet bully. Does that make ur day better ?? Telling people off ?? Does ur worthless life feel any more worthy after supposedly throwing a snarky remark at me u thought would be insulting ?? idiot

    • @takeoffyourblinkers
      @takeoffyourblinkers 4 роки тому +1

      @@anonmous1284
      It wasn't meant to be insulting, it was telling you a truth.
      Being a bully?
      More of a look into your very fragile psyche.
      We can certainly see what generational thinking you come from.
      The victim generation.
      Would you like a link to you tube kids, maybe that is more appropriate for you.

    • @anonmous1284
      @anonmous1284 4 роки тому

      Take Off Your Blinkers lol fragile? Victimized? U r the one who couldn’t take one comment ABOUT someone ELSE. Not even u. Looser

  • @lj9592
    @lj9592 3 роки тому +6

    The enemy hates marriage and he does everything to destroy it. Your love and example of a godly marriage influencing others is what he’s trying to stop. Don’t stop. Keep going keep inspiring yourself and other people! We need more women like you in this world! God bless you and yours! 🤗🙌 you’re a shining light in a dark world! Philippians 2:15. Thank you!

  • @kmw97
    @kmw97 5 років тому +827

    In all fairness...the video you are referring to was called "10 Things EVERY Wife NEEDS To Do For Their Husband". Not "10 Things I Do For My Husband" ....that might have been the reason for all the hate.

    • @rebeccabohle4765
      @rebeccabohle4765 5 років тому +59

      Maddie Senator exactly !! I can’t seem to understand how some women are seeking so much drama just because of a title ^.^ And focusing so much on every tiny little mistake like they have nothing else going on in their lives.
      Besides.. it was clearly good willing advice from sarah . 10 things every wife needs to do for their husband (in her opinion since she wants to give us good advice)

    • @cordulamayr
      @cordulamayr 5 років тому +20

      you righ she should had call it what she does not what everyone does because every relationship is diffrent

    • @alenasemkina1723
      @alenasemkina1723 5 років тому +8

      @@maddiesenator5491 yes 👏👏👏 finally someone!!!

    • @alenasemkina1723
      @alenasemkina1723 5 років тому +6

      @@rebeccabohle4765 yes! 👍👏

    • @hollyjustice9858
      @hollyjustice9858 5 років тому

      Yuuuuup

  • @spinnerchic5772
    @spinnerchic5772 5 років тому +51

    Been married for over 20 years. May the Lord continue to give you and your husband the grace and mercy to continue in, sharpen and grow in your relationship; not everyone is given this fortunate path.

  • @hannahstrayhorn862
    @hannahstrayhorn862 5 років тому +69

    I love this series. My husband is the same way! Good men do exist, ladies don’t settle. 😍

  • @jkacc9131
    @jkacc9131 5 років тому +37

    I had a marriage EXACTLY like this. Sadly, we are going through a big speed bump and need prayers. Never thought it would be us. 😥

    • @amicably150
      @amicably150 3 роки тому +2

      Did you work it through

    • @jkacc9131
      @jkacc9131 3 роки тому +35

      @@amicably150 wow, I forgot I wrote this comment. When I wrote this I was feeling very alone and depressed. I'm happy to say now that the answer is, YES! we are back to normal! Praise the Lord! With putting God first in our lifes our marriage is stronger and happier. ♥️

    • @amicably150
      @amicably150 3 роки тому +6

      @@jkacc9131 Happy for you🙏

    • @farahwork2552
      @farahwork2552 3 роки тому +5

      YASS! Im glad your feeling better hunny

    • @withelisa
      @withelisa 3 роки тому +7

      @@jkacc9131 this got me emotional, I'm so happy that your oneness was healed. Many years to you both. God is good!

  • @martajankiewicz881
    @martajankiewicz881 5 років тому +46

    I have to say that I have seen the previous “wife” video several times. I was in shock at first when I have seen it. Your message was so different from what I thought and done myself in my marriage. Your video was completely new perspective. I couldn’t help thinking: why have I not looked at things like that myself? Is that why I have not saved my family? Was I so lost? So I viewed it again and again and again...until finally it was clear. You had it spot on. So simple and so true...maybe next time I will not do certain mistakes. Thank you

  • @hjflorian
    @hjflorian 5 років тому +12

    Girl, you are wise beyond your years. Thank you for this inspiring series. I am only figuring all this stuff out now after 16 years of marriage. I spent the first 15 so selfishly and I am now focussed on loving my husband well. Love the Lord your God with all your heart,soul, mind, and strength and love your neighbor as yourself....it starts in your home first!! And the kiddos are watching how we treat each other..and that's how they learn!! Thankful for you and your channel.you are a blessing In my life :-)

  • @ashlynnbruner7318
    @ashlynnbruner7318 5 років тому +17

    I want you to know something. I found you through your minimalist videos, and when I found out you loved the Lord I knew I hit the jackpot! You're constantly sweet but down to earth and I don't want you to feel discouraged from the negativity. You continue to serve other people and love like you do, it's amazing!

  • @jessfrezz4764
    @jessfrezz4764 5 років тому +102

    I agree about the embarrassing the other spouse thing. That’s something that really saddens me when I see my friends or other kinda throw the other under the bus. My husband and I really try to extra encourage or lift up each other in public. We really aim for our marriage being a light to everyone to direct them to Christ and how Christ loves each other.
    Love this video girl 👏🏻💜

  • @mags7815
    @mags7815 5 років тому +125

    your Husband is so sweet and amazing I am so happy you have a such an amazing husband

  • @elenadolores5092
    @elenadolores5092 5 років тому +31

    I can tell by your face how perfect you guys are for each other . . . you look truly in love in a good way. I can tell you two are married goals!!

  • @whisperingbeauty
    @whisperingbeauty 5 років тому +15

    I can't believe some of the comments I've read on your other video. You are a beautiful soul! when I get married one day this is the type of wife I'd like to be. I'm a very old fashioned type of girl and like the thought of a 1950's house wife. I feel like I would have probably fit in more back than. People are so negative nowadays and its completely uncalled for!! I am very independent, I was raised by a single mom and was also was told by my dad not to have to rely on a man. My mom still tells me that to this day. I am no where near a feminist, by no means at all. I do have a mans job, I have a welding degree and am working on my second industrial degree, but would love to be a house wife and stay at home mom. Just because I would love that and I feel that would be my duty as a wife and mom. I love watching your videos! You show your true heart and you show your faith! and I respect that! You are so young but you have an old soul and thats a rear thing, and it something you should never lose!

  • @sadiyahnicole
    @sadiyahnicole 5 років тому +48

    I’m loving these wife talks! I can’t wait to be a mother and wife one day.

  • @jub8891
    @jub8891 5 років тому +42

    Hi Sarah. I first subscribed to your channel a while ago after struggling with acne and stumbling on one of your acne videos. I am a male. I couldnt help but facepalm the other day when I read people commenting on one of your recent videos that 'you shouldnt do anything for a man' and things of that ilk. their ignorance is mind blowing and completely ignores that perhaps mutual relationships between man and woman are the norm and not the exception. Anyway sorry for the small rant and thanks again for this video.

  • @amfgvideos2517
    @amfgvideos2517 5 років тому +512

    Our society is so toxic, many women automatically load their guns the second they hear a female could POSSIBLY be kind to a man let alone their husband. God forbid there are women mature enough to put their life-long partner before themselves for once. If a man says anything about a woman's clothing or makeup girls flip their tables. But woman can't resist complaining about guys hair or clothing or their weight but that's seen as perfectly fine.
    You just keep ignoring the hate :) Kindness has obviously gotten you further in life than bitterness. Never take advice from feminatzis when their anger only reflects how sad their lives are. They act like you're the slave when your happier, lovelier and healthier than any of them.

    • @cloveskiwis
      @cloveskiwis 5 років тому +29

      I liked your comment and am on the same page as you, but I feel hurt by the term "feminazi" you used, because I do believe that we should all be treated equal and have the same opportunities in life. Feminism is for everyone and it should never exclude kindness.

    • @cynthiakalynowski6244
      @cynthiakalynowski6244 5 років тому +24

      cloveskiwis I think you most the point... Feminatzis are women who are soooo far feminist they forget the true meaning of feminism, which is Equal rights between a man and a women. Not men overpowering women, not women overpowering men(aka Feminatzis)...

    • @amfgvideos2517
      @amfgvideos2517 5 років тому +17

      I'm sorry I wasn't talking about Feminism as a whole. "Feminatzi" was my way of just addressing the toxic ones in the community (and there are a ton more than their used to, they out-number you guys). Feminism isn't what it used to be and it makes me cringe even more when I see them trying to force people under a label. But I admire the sane ones sticking through it to make a legit difference and teach girls to stand up for themselves.
      *Edit:* anyways I wasn't trying to generalize all of you because know there are some hardworking feminists with a real cause like domestic abuse. but your getting drowned out by girls complaining about men holding doors open for them and tampons not being free.

    • @gemaadiaz
      @gemaadiaz 5 років тому +4

      Nicely said 👏🏼 completely agree with everything

    • @zacriana
      @zacriana 5 років тому +5

      cloveskiwis yeah it's okay to believe in equality if that's your things but feminists do have a bad rep and it's because of the "feminazis"..... Just like how Sarah explained, not all vegans are bad or negative but the insane parts of the community ruined it for her, "feminazis"are just too intense

  • @abigailccc
    @abigailccc 5 років тому +4

    Heck ya Sarah! I love this. Nowadays all you hear is about what husbands DONT do for their wives. I love that you are publicly praising your husband, and also teaching the rest of us to do so as well and to point out our husbands good qualities instead of only focusing on the things he might fall short on or our expectations of them. They are humans too who are imperfect just like us!

  • @misskingschild3670
    @misskingschild3670 4 роки тому +3

    Thank you for making me realize what a kind and loving man my fiancé is. I find it so hard not to focus on the negative things that I often forget to say thank you and cherish him for the things he does for me. I’ll do it right away and try to be the same for him. Thank you so much for being an example of a godly, sacrificial wife that loves marriage and doesn’t think of it like a burden all the time. May God bless you and your family!

  • @Reflectionofmedusa
    @Reflectionofmedusa 5 років тому +5

    I love that you don’t act like you’re better than others due to your religion. You actually EMBODY what it is to be Christian and set such a great example of how religion should help make you a better person. It absolutely shows in your spirit and the way you carry yourself. Keep setting a great example for others and most importantly for you babies❤️

  • @TheElenaNumb
    @TheElenaNumb 5 років тому +123

    Due to low morals nowadays, Normal becomes Extraordinary.

    • @wiktoriakusak3280
      @wiktoriakusak3280 4 роки тому +1

      Fatima Zahra Vlogs so sad...

    • @andreasracha8185
      @andreasracha8185 3 роки тому +3

      Facts and it really annoys me wheh she gets hate for doing stuff for her husband abd loving her husband and I'm sure she got a lot of hate on this video because it will have people saying well u don't do anything for your husband when she literally posted that video before this. This society is a joke where people do not respect each other anymore.

  • @carmendavidson8603
    @carmendavidson8603 5 років тому +6

    I love your channel and “Wife Talk” videos! I’m a young momma and wife! I’m 23 with an almost 2 year old! My husband and I can relate to you and your relationship with your husband so much! It’s blesses us! Thank you for being you!

  • @OMGARIANE
    @OMGARIANE 5 років тому +4

    Sarah, thanks so much for this video. I've been married for a short 9 months and to be honest I was a little apprehensive to watch this video because I was conscious of feeling disappointment or even jealous (🙊) that my husband isn't as 'good' as yours. But INSTEAD this video made me realise that I need to be so much more thankful for how wonderful my husband is, because praise the Lord he looks after me just like your Kieren does. Oh Lord Jesus, give me a more thankful heart to see all that you do in my life!

  • @paigenctv
    @paigenctv 5 років тому +152

    The hatred they have is the reason why divorce rates are incredibly, overwhelmingly HIGH and lower marriage rates. This generation is selfish. Godless.
    Marriage is work and we must do kind for one another ❤️❤️❤️

    • @katew3891
      @katew3891 5 років тому +3

      lol

    • @francoisea.1713
      @francoisea.1713 5 років тому +3

      Let the selfish ones have their divorces. They get what they deserve. God bless!

    • @bertmagert4582
      @bertmagert4582 5 років тому

      So very true.

    • @evagunther7784
      @evagunther7784 5 років тому +1

      I love my husband and agree with her totally, although I don't believe in God. So do I have to believe in God in order to don't be seen as selfish? I don't think so.

    • @infinity4evr
      @infinity4evr 5 років тому +3

      @@evagunther7784
      God is love. We're not.

  • @stephaniewilson7769
    @stephaniewilson7769 5 років тому +106

    I love this series! Looking forward to the next one. Everything you’ve said about what wives and husbands can do to keep their relationship healthy is beautiful and so correct in my opinion.

    • @beekeeper2036
      @beekeeper2036 5 років тому +2

      Stephanie Wilson I concur!

    • @beekeeper2036
      @beekeeper2036 5 років тому +1

      Ecclesia xx 🙂 Some people are addicted to being offended, or so it appears.

  • @linnie4912
    @linnie4912 5 років тому +12

    I love this, I loved your last video too! You are such an amazing role model for me in EVERYTHING! I have so much love and respect for you and your family Sarah. Thank you so much for all you do.

  • @leesharushing5849
    @leesharushing5849 5 років тому +10

    Thank you for striving to have a godly marriage. So rare these days ❤️

  • @nuranium
    @nuranium 5 років тому +9

    Absolutely LOVED this video!!! It sounds like you're talking about my husband...all the things you spoke about are all the things I Love about my husband. So sweet.

  • @lenek98
    @lenek98 5 років тому +13

    I think som of the reasons people reacted to the last video was the title. "10 tinges EVERY wife NEEDS to do for her husband" makes it come across way different than how the video really was intended. You made it clear in the video that it is what you do to your husband, but the title made people think differently. At least thats what I thought about it.
    Definitely a great video with a message many people could learn from! Maybe just an unlucky title on the first video :)

  • @CaileyElise
    @CaileyElise 5 років тому +14

    This should be a tag! Marriage should be spoken of highly but sadly in our culture it isn’t! This video definitely speaks highly of how beautiful marriage is. Representing the Gospel for the Glory of Christ! Great video Sarah☺️

  • @irenethompson4076
    @irenethompson4076 5 років тому +33

    Hi Sarah, there is no doubt in my mind that God has you here on social media for a reason. And as long as your husband and you have prayed about the type of content you put out here, you should feel comfortable, confident and secure in what topics you share with us your followers, fans, friends whatever the case may be. Keep doing what God is telling you to do and you can't go wrong. People's opinions matter. Understanding their replies are so difficult through a text/email. I believe that when you are trying to "help" someone with any topic, you will have your haters. But I feel that you are planting seeds, good positive seeds that at some point in those lives will take hold and grow!!!! You keep doing what your doing....your on God's side and that's all that matters!!!! ❤

  • @sookierory
    @sookierory 5 років тому +12

    My boyfriend does many of those things for me and I just love him so much, can't wait to live together and marry him :)

  • @jennyo82
    @jennyo82 5 років тому +4

    I LOVED this video and LOVED your last video about what wives should do for their husbands! People get offended over every tiny thing these days. You are RIGHT ON, with everything you've said ... this is what a healthy marriage looks like! It's a rare thing which is why people are probably shocked by it! ❤️ keep on keeping on beautiful!

  • @amythompson6331
    @amythompson6331 5 років тому +1

    Love this!!! My husband works a demanding job that taxes his time and is stressful to the point he has to turn off his emotions. He can read me like a book and was there for me during my full cancer treatment. He sat with me during my first chemo ( he couldn’t do all). He made time to see me ring the bell. My surgeries and care - oh wow! When he helps you with your drains you know you have a blessed man!
    Day to day stuff: He takes care of the cars and yard work and I take care of our pet clean up and house cleaning. He cooks and I do the dishes. Teamwork!

  • @buxxinha8465
    @buxxinha8465 5 років тому +4

    Thank you for this video Sarah, so inspiring. Im with my husband for 5 years and i really treat him like a prince and he treats me like a princesse too. Sorry girls but im the lucky one, God gave me the best husband ever ;D Big kiss from Portugal

  • @tatianafraserA
    @tatianafraserA 5 років тому +11

    my husband told me about the language of love and I think it's so helpful for couples to realize that maybe your spouse doesn't know every little thing you want but they have their own way of showing you how much they love you and with communication you can have a happy and long lasting marriage 💕

  • @minimalmiranda471
    @minimalmiranda471 5 років тому +4

    GIVE IT UP FO' THE HUSBANDS 🙌🙌
    My husband is very similar. He makes it a point to make sure I know that I am the center of his world. One of my most favorite things he does for me, is he alllllllways puts his pride aside, in order to resolve conflicts with me. Whether he is in the wrong or not. We've been together 10 years, and never had a fight for longer than an hour.

    • @alexandermontesinos2172
      @alexandermontesinos2172 5 років тому +1

      That sounds great! not trying to be offensive but try to leave your pride aside too. Your man shouldn't be expected to leave his pride because you like that trait of him. I'm sure that if you do leave your pride aside he will love you and want to serve you even more! Have a great night

  • @tearosegumaer3067
    @tearosegumaer3067 5 років тому +44

    Im so thank full that you are still makeing these, even if your geting attacked, as a Christian its really good to see you staning up for your faith. The Church body really needs to speek up. And your doing a grate job at your part!

  • @alyssamoses5055
    @alyssamoses5055 5 років тому +18

    I saw how much hate you got, but I really loved that video. I love these chit chats. And telling people about your love for eachother. Also I would super enjoy a wife talk series.

  • @naranjasacidas
    @naranjasacidas 5 років тому +2

    I absolutely love wife talks!!! Go on with this idea, it is blessing so many wifes out there!!!

  • @samanthawilliams239
    @samanthawilliams239 5 років тому +28

    When I watched your last wife talk video I read the title and thought: oh no this girl is gonna tell us we should be a slave to our husband and serve him and always obey him yada yada... And I was pleasantly suprised by your video. You gave me a lot of good information on how to help my marriage that is, quite frankly, not doing the greatest. So I dont know how anyone had a problem with it, because it Definately has helped me see that maybe I'm not being the wife I should be, and maybe that has a lot to do with why I didnt think he was being the husband he should be. I think both these videos were incredibly helpful. I feel like the stigma around marriages these days have women thinking their husbands arent good enough. We need to start focusing more on being the best spouse we can be instead of thinking "oh my husband isnt good enough, I deserve more". Of course everyone deserves a spouse who loves and respects them and helps in building and maintaining the family dynamic. I just see a lot of women sort of getting their noses in the air about it, me being one of them. I am Definately working on that.

    • @gl9367
      @gl9367 3 роки тому +2

      You seem to be going towards the right path. Good luck on your journey!

    • @andreasracha8185
      @andreasracha8185 3 роки тому

      Good luck Samantha you have this

    • @tiad.9142
      @tiad.9142 3 роки тому

      I agree. You basically read my mind and wrote it here! Praying that we’ll both be able to put what we’re learning here into practice to have happy healthy marriages 🤗

    • @marieavila7100
      @marieavila7100 3 роки тому +1

      I find that in me doing nice things out of love for him it makes it more difficult to get frustrated with the little annoyances. I think it could be worse every time I pick up socks or the multiple cups in our room. When I do this it makes me appreciate him more and then in turn he appreciates me doing these things. When it is a circle like that it is so wonderful being married. ❤️

  • @adventureswithlaine2510
    @adventureswithlaine2510 5 років тому +14

    I think it’s because you used the word serve, and others probably were thinking as in being a servant towards him. I enjoyed that video. I love being able to love and support my husband and making him feel that he is loved. Have a great week Sarah!

    • @vivaeuropa
      @vivaeuropa Рік тому

      Us Christian's are servants to our spouses so there's nothing wrong with her saying serve.

  • @passionatepapercraft
    @passionatepapercraft 5 років тому +22

    The people who 'hated' what you do for your husband are not likely to ever build a lasting marriage. Marriage is not about fairness but giving your all. Good on you for loving your husband the best that you can!

  • @candice22393
    @candice22393 5 років тому +2

    I subscribed to you because of that "unfair" video. I loved that video. I found you through minimalism, then realized you have kids too, then found out you're a Christian. I think it's amazing how open you are about your faith!

  • @HannahCohen
    @HannahCohen 5 років тому +2

    I love this! I'm a young and married Christian and this says it all! It's sad how many people are out there missing out on the beauty of marriage. Love this!

  • @crazyleaf257
    @crazyleaf257 2 роки тому +2

    I'm getting married in 2 weeks😳😳😳😳😳😮😮😮😮😃😃😃😃🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 I'm so going to follow you as I go into this huge new chapter!! I LOVED seeing keiran help you labor!!! "The Lord is with you, you're strong" I was looking for more videos with y'all together

  • @katarzynaturek71
    @katarzynaturek71 5 років тому +1

    Love this video! It is so inspiring to watch you talk about your husband, you can feel and see the love that you have towards him!

  • @wascallywabbit3372
    @wascallywabbit3372 4 роки тому +1

    Same on no filter. I love the way you two are and how you're willing tol improve yourself for the benefits of the two of you.

  • @KB-sg7tv
    @KB-sg7tv 5 років тому +12

    I LOVE HOW YOU GIVE CREDIT TO JESUS CHRIST!!!!! LOVE YOU GIRL!!!!! And it sounds like you have an excellent husband!

  • @fdd8747
    @fdd8747 5 років тому +4

    I'm really glad you made this video cause a lot of the comments on your previous video was really thinking that it was one-sided and I think because you do sometimes use words that people do find very old fashioned so I think a lot of people including myself really needed to know that it wasn't just you doing something for your husband and not him doing anything in return so thanks for clearing it up a bit

  • @Booksarebetterthanreallife
    @Booksarebetterthanreallife 5 років тому

    I love this so much, it makes me think of my own sweet husband and how well he takes care of me and loves me. Thanks for bringing truth and light and encouragement to the world!

  • @damarispickard8233
    @damarispickard8233 5 років тому +2

    Currently binge watching your videos. You are such a refreshing breath of air. Just feels good to hear from a youtuber who shares your same mindset.

  • @valeriaaa7907
    @valeriaaa7907 5 років тому +17

    Your husband is the person I want to be. Honestly, he is so inspiring. You deserve the absolute best❤️

  • @symkoko1776
    @symkoko1776 5 років тому +4

    Wow the hate really didn't touch her a single bit! Love that 😂
    Absolutely agree with you! Nothing better than having a good marriage ❤️

  • @alliegirl83
    @alliegirl83 5 років тому +1

    I love this! I'm 18 and remember as a child, frequently hearing women in the church speak poorly of their husbands. I even remember a woman telling me to cover my ears while she was talking! It is so wonderful to hear that you have respect and admiration for the way your husband cares for you. 😚

  • @kymvanderplas8252
    @kymvanderplas8252 5 років тому +2

    Love this! And it made me consider what my husband does for me - he does a lot of what you've just said in this video! Thanks for sharing.

  • @stylecauldron
    @stylecauldron 5 років тому +5

    I love this seethes, your hubby reminds me of mine. I’m recently engaged after almost 6 years so I’m so into these topics and love hearing about other people’s relationships and point of views

  • @sgracia78
    @sgracia78 5 років тому +2

    I loved the video. There is nothing wrong with you living the life that makes you happy. I was a single mother for years and was happy then. I am married now and am happy now. I believe being strong means that you can’t only do for yourself but that you are comfortable doing for your husband. You don’t have to justify what he does for you but I appreciate this as well. I enjoy doing things to serve my husband just as much as I enjoy the things he does for me. God bless you and your lovely family.

  • @lisatyrrell3961
    @lisatyrrell3961 5 років тому +3

    You're previous video was awesome! I've been married for 2.5 years but we've been together for almost 7 years. It was so spot on and I loved it. Really encouraging!

  • @teleiabigby3738
    @teleiabigby3738 5 років тому +2

    This video really spoke to me Sarah... I LOVE how you are a Godly and Christian young woman, a mom, and a wife and aren't afraid to say it! I love hearing your opinions on everything and listening to you talk. You are so wise and full of compassion and such a beautiful love for people. I'm dating my boyfriend right now and we've committed to waiting until marriage to be intimate so we can experience the full blessing of it. It's been hard, but watching videos like this makes me realize that all the waiting and the excitement and anticipation is going to be SO worth it!! You inspire me! I'm praying for your entire family. Love you beautiful!! Thank you for allowing yourself to be on the social media chopping block so you can impart wisdom into those that need it. You truly are a beautiful woman inside and out.

  • @DansonforJoy
    @DansonforJoy 5 років тому

    Loved this! Every single point you mentioned could be said for my husband, as well. So blessed. 💗

  • @ZAINABHAIDERRIZVI
    @ZAINABHAIDERRIZVI 5 років тому +5

    This is so nice!! I love how you both are so generous toward eachother and understand eachother and make an effort for eachother all the time. That is such a beautiful thing. I'm not married yet so I can't relate, but I do understand that that is such a beautiful virtue to have in a marriage. God bless you both. May you always be this happy and more and this loved by eachother and more. Lots of love ❤️

  • @nataliemiller2945
    @nataliemiller2945 5 років тому +4

    this video was so so cute and encouraging!! i am absolutely LIVING for this “wife talk” series! here’s a question for the q&a for the next one; did y’all save kissing for your wedding day? thank you so so much for being such a light, sarah, you are so inspiring to me and i just wanted to say thank you for doing so!🤩💚

  • @KDawnn
    @KDawnn 5 років тому +2

    I love these videos. It shows a good marriage. My husband and I serve each other HAPPILY! Keep videos like these coming!💗

  • @lalewilan
    @lalewilan 5 років тому +8

    you are young and attractive, it is easy for your husband to compliment you. the magic is to compliment and make each other feel attractive when you are old and out of shape.

    • @gytisdobrovolskis7355
      @gytisdobrovolskis7355 3 роки тому

      No need to lie either. No need to hurry to get out of shape, which often is accelerated by this exact thing. Love you the way you are - don't get worse though 🙈.

  • @DG-qb2gz
    @DG-qb2gz 5 років тому +14

    People don't get it... it's a two way street, so sweet, more couples videos please

  • @baileykestner3769
    @baileykestner3769 5 років тому +1

    These Wife Talk videos are my FAVORITE!!! I am getting married in about 8 months and I love love love hearing about your marriage and how you have a healthy, Jesus loving relationship even in the chaos.

  • @steviemoon7605
    @steviemoon7605 5 років тому +7

    I loved the last video in this series and this as well. You serve and take care of the people and things you’ve been blessed with. I’m not sure why people are offended by that- it’s inspiring to me :)

  • @felishiarae332
    @felishiarae332 5 років тому +1

    Yes, yes, yes! I love that this encouragement of your husband is made public. Makes me think of all the sweet, loving and helpful ways that my husband serves me and our son. Thanks for this! I’m excited for more ‘Wife Talk’ videos!

  • @feli6098
    @feli6098 5 років тому +6

    wow that was an amazing video! you just made me realise how selfish i am for not appreciate my boyfriend more. he does a lot of things your husband does for you too. and i just though it is "normal" like "he is just like this" but also i met him when i was 19 so i don't have much to compare him with. so thank you for that amazing video that helped me trying to be even better for my boyfriend because he is so amazing for me! lots of love from switzerland for you xxx

  • @jessicaellison7095
    @jessicaellison7095 5 років тому +1

    You are so wonderful and inspiring. I’m so glad you have such a loving husband. Not everyone is so lucky. And it’s great you know he is great and appreciate him.

  • @taylorbratt3612
    @taylorbratt3612 4 роки тому +2

    You're adorable! You and K remind me so much of my relationship with my husband so I love watching your videos! God knew who I needed in my life and provided that at 17 and it's amazing that we have gone through all the big life moments from high school grad to marriage and beyond. I am so happy I found your channel and look forward to what you have in store! Blessings to you and your family

  • @taylyngrace545
    @taylyngrace545 5 років тому +2

    Love this! This makes me want to grow and be better in my relationship too! Love hearing what Kieran does for you, makes me want to make a list if everything my love Keith does and just remind him, praise him, and thank him for everything! Love this honesty! Have a beautiful week Sarah!

  • @selicar9707
    @selicar9707 5 років тому +1

    I love the way you look when you talk about him aaaaaahhh!!! So beautiful. Your family is such a ray of light in this world

  • @HxneyViolet
    @HxneyViolet 5 років тому +1

    I never got the impression that Kieran was lazy from your last video! You gave so much wisdom and love. I'm not in a relationship but as a Christian woman I need to know what I can do for my future family and how to do it well. I felt like you broke it down really well and explained it.

  • @jessicahalter4091
    @jessicahalter4091 5 років тому +1

    I have just recently discovered your channel and I love it! I am quite a bit older than you and in a different stage in life but agree with so much of what you have to share about family and marriage! The way you describe yourself reminds me of myself! I have gone back and watched a lot of your older videos and thoroughly enjoy them! I find your videos on minimalism interesting and love seeing that young families still have these types of values!

  • @straight_a_student
    @straight_a_student 5 років тому +2

    Both of your videos about marriage are amazing. People who hated them are just living in a toxic or simply unhappy relationship, they don't understand how much you want to give for a relationship that gives you love and love means respect, confidence and consequently happiness. Poor babes. Wish you all the best xo

  • @christinamoyer4504
    @christinamoyer4504 5 років тому +189

    Can’t wait to be a wife😊

    • @francoisea.1713
      @francoisea.1713 5 років тому +34

      @Weirdo Julia Being a loving wife to a loving husband does not mean they don't do other things in life! Crazy ideas these days.

    • @qEnergize
      @qEnergize 5 років тому +12

      Francoise A. Funny enough... being a good wife/husband and mother/father to your children is one of the greatest accomplishments in life.

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 5 років тому +5

      @Weirdo Julia Dumbass feminazi detected

    • @limespider8
      @limespider8 5 років тому +2

      @@thelegacyofgaming2928 Misogynist who has no idea what feminism actually means detected. There is more to a woman's life than being a wife and a mother. If you pay attention to history and the world, you will understand that women have been, and are still, second class citizens all over the world. Violence, prejudice, double standards, unrealistic expectations and more-- all of this is well documented and deeply engrained in our society. There is nothing wrong with being a wife and loving your partner. Good for women who find happiness in their families. But for a long time, that was all women were allowed to do. Lots of people STILL don't get that. Your comment is ignorant and clueless. Step out of your gaming bubble.

    • @thelegacyofgaming2928
      @thelegacyofgaming2928 5 років тому +4

      @@limespider8 Your whole comment is irrelevant. If someone wants to just be a wife let them just be a wife. Stop trying to impart your own wishes onto them. Not every woman wants to follow the path of a feminist, some just want to live a simple life. It's not misogynist to support that. Just because men support a woman being a wife doesn't make them misogynist. This is not the 30's where women had no choice. Clearly your intelligence is lacking if you think my username represents my life, how do you think I ended up here if I only play games? Typical.

  • @gennydiehl111
    @gennydiehl111 5 років тому +201

    for me personally, I just didn't like the title of your last video saying "every wife """"needs"""" to do this" for her husband
    the actual video was great and a good time to watch, just the title was misleading
    love you sarah, and how you always address the viewers

    • @lexa1850
      @lexa1850 5 років тому +5

      Same!!

    • @isachan2252
      @isachan2252 5 років тому +6

      Well yeah, but i guess is just for the clickbait of the video. UA-cam algorithm seems to like the word "need/must"

    • @michelleivoryy
      @michelleivoryy 5 років тому +2

      I just posted a comment saying the EXACT SAME thing

    • @cryxbabeii
      @cryxbabeii 5 років тому +5

      i agree! i think the hate came from the title of the video. things we NEED to do for our husband. the content itself was fine

    • @christiannekyriazakou1190
      @christiannekyriazakou1190 5 років тому +3

      I really think she just didn't want it to seem as if she made a video about herself, an egoistic, boasting video.

  • @trmcrk655
    @trmcrk655 5 років тому +4

    Awww you should show him this video, Sarah!!! So sweet

  • @kristindavis4988
    @kristindavis4988 5 років тому +5

    I really needed to hear this, you always come at the right time 💜

  • @mrs.nogueira2017
    @mrs.nogueira2017 5 років тому +1

    I LOVE LOVE LOVE this! Please make it a series. You’re easily becoming one of my favorite youtubers! ❤️

  • @Rravyn
    @Rravyn 5 років тому +3

    I love the Wife Talk series AND I loved your last video on this topic!!!! Please don’t let people stop you from speaking your truth. I think you are so wise beyond your years. I’m 32 and I learn from all of your videos. I wish I was a better Christian. Sometimes I feel like a goat amongst the sheep and it scares me. Please pray for me and my family and keep making these videos. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @OrlinBojanov
    @OrlinBojanov 5 років тому +1

    You guys are such a treasure! You got tears welling up in my eyes.

  • @allysonekuehn1
    @allysonekuehn1 5 років тому +1

    I loved your first video and shared it with friends and my mother of all people. So many marriages fail and many can be blamed for partners not putting in the work but expecting all the good. These videos are spot on and give credit to the one place that doesn’t often receive it ... the Lord. Thank you for being fearless in your truth, you are appreciated!

  • @colevandais
    @colevandais 4 роки тому +4

    Wow this sounds like a fairy tale! Lovely to see such a happy relationship. Thanks for sharing

  • @Vanvanroo
    @Vanvanroo 5 років тому +3

    People who threw hate at you probably didn't understand the video. I think it was obvious that your love was mutual, and that you weren't the only one to serve him while he didn't do anything in return. I'm proud to see that you never let the hate go to your head and addresses things calmly and maturely, you're a real role model! :3

  • @m.saavedramena9533
    @m.saavedramena9533 5 років тому +1

    aww i found both videos so sweet and inspiring, thank you!

  • @romanahavranova6757
    @romanahavranova6757 5 років тому +1

    This is just amazing. You two are perfect for eachother. I love your family!

  • @gillianleigh9851
    @gillianleigh9851 5 років тому

    I love that you keep sharing your opinions on topics you care about despite when they get hate, you are an inspiration and a voice for change.

  • @rachaelgraziotto686
    @rachaelgraziotto686 5 років тому

    Love this video!!! I look forward to seeing more wife talks! Love the ability to begin to understand the workings of a marriage before I start my own !

  • @javiahschleibs4590
    @javiahschleibs4590 5 років тому +162

    I think people hear the word ‘serve’ and ignore the context and take it super literally

    • @DK-uc9zr
      @DK-uc9zr 5 років тому +7

      +Javiah Adams How does someone go about non-literally serving some some?

    • @sussannerandall85
      @sussannerandall85 5 років тому

      Lol yep

    • @RTCPhotoWork
      @RTCPhotoWork 5 років тому +7

      @@DK-uc9zr Consider the ways people generally use the word serve: A "server," a waiter/tress is someone in a job most people look down upon. A "servant," they equate with a butler or maid. Again, that's someone in a position people look down upon because they view it as someone at the complete beck and call of their employer. For some, history brings to mind indentured servants and slaves. Even when we thank military for their service, we think of work most of us don't want to do and work that can be incredibly dangerous. Those risks are a sacrifice most of us would rather not chance. You can see how, generally, these things aren't equated with desirable circumstances.

    • @NotANameist
      @NotANameist 5 років тому +4

      I don't even get why, honestly. Sometimes I'll be in a store, looking at some items and someone will come along and say, "has someone served you yet?" Surely husbands and wives can serve each other better than someone at a little shop can.

    • @Alexis_005
      @Alexis_005 4 роки тому +4

      Yeah Serving sounds a little submissive

  • @muzyka7148
    @muzyka7148 5 років тому +5

    It's so beautiful what you said. Hearing you I catch myself on this thought: my husband does so many things for ME but I've never truly see that and I even coudn't describe this things like you did! Something really important to think through and I thank you for that. Pozdrawiam z darem modlitwy.

  • @angelinanatalie1
    @angelinanatalie1 5 років тому +9

    I am so sorry to hear that a lot of people weren't fond of your last video, maybe It had to be their belief points. Personally, I love my husband and I love serving him and being the wife God called me to be. I loved that video, it encouraged me and is so great to see because not a lot of people feel that way. God bless you and your family!