TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 - Introduction (My Commentary) 0:41 - TikTok (Dating for Years No Ring) 1:47 - Commentary 2:22 - TikTok (Waste of Time Long-Term Girlfriend) 3:17 - Commentary 3:42 - TikTok (9 Years No Ring) 3:51 - Commentary 4:12 - TikTok (Don't Let A Boyfriend Stop You From Finding Your Husband) 6:16 - Commentary 7:06 - TikTok (Engagement As Placeholder) 7:51 - Commentary 8:23 - TikTok (Shut Up Ring Explained) 11:06 - Commentary 12:05 - TikTok (The Shut Up Ring) 13:48 - TikTok (When Did I Realize I Was Given A 'Shut Up' Ring 16:03 - Commentary 16:53 - TikTok (Giving Boyfriend Ultimatum As Advice) 17:47 - Commentary 18:22 - TikTok (Shut Up Ring Joke Video) 18:33 - Outro
Someone I know had been with his gf for over 10 plus year. I ask him why wouldn't he married her.... he said he was not ready and not sure if she is the one. I finally realized because he was waiting for someone better looking to come along which never happened (no one wants him) He finally married her after 15 years of being together. This woman loves and does everything for this man.
Thank you for the suggestion! I will make sure that my next video has pictures or videos in place of the blank screen. And thank you for liking my video! I’m glad that you enjoyed it.
I wouldn't get married within a year, or even 2, of being with someone. Usually, the first 2 years is the "honeymoon" stage. It isn't until after then that you really see who you are with. Of course theres always exceptions, but from my experience and seeing others, under 2 years isn't usually a success. I do think clear expectations should be given as soon as you have them. My husband and i started seeing each other casually, and neither of us wanted anything seriously. After a few months, I noticed I wasn't tired of him. It got to a point (and it took a while) where I gave him my expectations of the direction I wanted the relationship to go (aka marriage), and if he didn't feel that way, then dont waste my time. We got engaged a little over 3 years since we had started seeing each other, and married by 5, and have been married for 5 years now. I think ultimatums can work, but I also think clear expectations are important.
I agree. I would also say at least 3+ years is a good amount of time to decide if you’re ready to marry the person. More experience with each other and you generally know each other better. Your last sentence is great in regards to ultimatums. As long as it’s not begging or forceful, it may not be as bad of an idea.
TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 - Introduction (My Commentary)
0:41 - TikTok (Dating for Years No Ring)
1:47 - Commentary
2:22 - TikTok (Waste of Time Long-Term Girlfriend)
3:17 - Commentary
3:42 - TikTok (9 Years No Ring)
3:51 - Commentary
4:12 - TikTok (Don't Let A Boyfriend Stop You From Finding Your Husband)
6:16 - Commentary
7:06 - TikTok (Engagement As Placeholder)
7:51 - Commentary
8:23 - TikTok (Shut Up Ring Explained)
11:06 - Commentary
12:05 - TikTok (The Shut Up Ring)
13:48 - TikTok (When Did I Realize I Was Given A 'Shut Up' Ring
16:03 - Commentary
16:53 - TikTok (Giving Boyfriend Ultimatum As Advice)
17:47 - Commentary
18:22 - TikTok (Shut Up Ring Joke Video)
18:33 - Outro
Someone I know had been with his gf for over 10 plus year. I ask him why wouldn't he married her.... he said he was not ready and not sure if she is the one. I finally realized because he was waiting for someone better looking to come along which never happened (no one wants him) He finally married her after 15 years of being together. This woman loves and does everything for this man.
nice vid but staring at a completely pink screen during commentary is kinda weird how about adding stock pics or idk subtitles something to stare at 😅
Thank you for the suggestion! I will make sure that my next video has pictures or videos in place of the blank screen. And thank you for liking my video! I’m glad that you enjoyed it.
I wouldn't get married within a year, or even 2, of being with someone. Usually, the first 2 years is the "honeymoon" stage. It isn't until after then that you really see who you are with. Of course theres always exceptions, but from my experience and seeing others, under 2 years isn't usually a success. I do think clear expectations should be given as soon as you have them. My husband and i started seeing each other casually, and neither of us wanted anything seriously. After a few months, I noticed I wasn't tired of him. It got to a point (and it took a while) where I gave him my expectations of the direction I wanted the relationship to go (aka marriage), and if he didn't feel that way, then dont waste my time. We got engaged a little over 3 years since we had started seeing each other, and married by 5, and have been married for 5 years now. I think ultimatums can work, but I also think clear expectations are important.
I agree. I would also say at least 3+ years is a good amount of time to decide if you’re ready to marry the person. More experience with each other and you generally know each other better. Your last sentence is great in regards to ultimatums. As long as it’s not begging or forceful, it may not be as bad of an idea.
Tiktok is a different world
It really is!