The Holy Spirit will dig into every nook and cranny of your life - Reveal what is dysfunctional and reveal the causes for it and also give the insight and wisdom that continuously liberates us and gives us a victorius life IN Christ Jesus!!
Pastor, the fact that you talk a lot blesses me. I enjoy listening to all of what God has to say through you. Analytical thinkers like myself need to hear things in detail so we can ponder and digest. In order to digest it has to be broken down to small pieces. Thank you for being your true self God bless you, Shalom beloved
I hear many codependents who feel shamed by others because of who they are. We cannot feel shame for those who are ignorant. I know for me I had a narcissistic father and stepmother who I spent my summers with and I never was good enough. And then I had a controlling alcoholic stepfather and a depressed codependent mom who settled in relationships. My sister and I had to live with the dysfunction. I was always the caretaker and took care of my maternal grandmother, my mom, siblings and it’s what I’ve known. I ended up marrying and divorcing a narcissistic alcoholic who was verbally & emotionally abusive for 15 years. I stayed because I wanted to make things work & feel a sense of family connection to his family. It has taken lot of healing & prayer to realize what I’ve been through. I have been divorced 3 years now. I am an advocate for divorced moms & women getting out of narcissistic relationships. I am asking for prayers and strength to continue moving forward and prayers to meet a relationship healthy man of God who will unconditionally love and accept me and my daughters in to his life. 🙏🏻💕
Thank you and bless you so much Paula this is wat i need to hear and i was looking for a sermon on co dependancy please let me how i can email you. God bless and thank uyou so much
The best part about the message in this video is how all the dysfunction is based on mixed messages. That push/pull dynamic is what sets a person up in the future to understand what 'love' is. It's wrong, but that's all a person knows, so of course they're gonna model these patterns in adult life.
God maid you beautiful Paula...don't mess with you're lips any more...God maid u just the way he wanted too..we all r weak ...but he makes as strong right??? ..we r in judgement...right now I feel...books r open ..wedding is being planned...let s all prepare...in love (Christ)...
God spoils his kids ...gives them time to come into adult hood...he grew me dear one...later rapture soon....let the world know dear one...how's you're ex ...where did he go...just wondering ...love u Paula
This is a good story.paula .why don't you send me letters like this .and not god this .god that.ever line is god I don't like it when I thank of you in a way of love .need you want you .in friends with benefits.th
This video is full of waffle & misinformation. How can you make a video on co-dependency without mentioning narcissism? That's a red flag in itself. I feel I must make this criticism because this video is so unhelpful for people dealing with narcissism or co-dependency.
I think this is an introduction into understanding one's Behavior as a result of another person's Behavior. I think the codependent individual needs to identify their own unhealthy part in an unhealthy relationship. I do believe recognizing narcissism is extremely important. However, as a survivor of serious and very sick codependency, it would have been too much for me early on, with the level of powerful denial ruling my life, I think it would have been too overwhelming. Codependency is a very serious condition. Worst possible outcome, suicide. I came very close. It takes a lot of time to be able to convince someone in deep denial that there is even a problem. So, in my opinion, as a survivor, is that gentle and non-threatening is the best style of approach for someone who is trying to reason with someone who is dangerously codependent. I'm certainly no therapist, but I am a survivor and I would not have benefited from too much information too early. I would have retreated back to my shell. I'm only sharing this as it is my personal experience. God bless.
Wow, do people really need to be told this stuff? Cant you find something that isnt common sense to talk about? Sorry about whatever happened to your lips. Bee sting? Hope they get better soon.
The Holy Spirit will dig into every nook and cranny of your life - Reveal what is dysfunctional and reveal the causes for it and also give the insight and wisdom that continuously liberates us and gives us a victorius life IN Christ Jesus!!
Pastor, the fact that you talk a lot blesses me. I enjoy listening to all of what God has to say through you. Analytical thinkers like myself need to hear things in detail so we can ponder and digest. In order to digest it has to be broken down to small pieces. Thank you for being your true self God bless you, Shalom beloved
I hear many codependents who feel shamed by others because of who they are. We cannot feel shame for those who are ignorant.
I know for me I had a narcissistic father and stepmother who I spent my summers with and I never was good enough. And then I had a controlling alcoholic stepfather and a depressed codependent mom who settled in relationships. My sister and I had to live with the dysfunction. I was always the caretaker and took care of my maternal grandmother, my mom, siblings and it’s what I’ve known. I ended up marrying and divorcing a narcissistic alcoholic who was verbally & emotionally abusive for 15 years. I stayed because I wanted to make things work & feel a sense of family connection to his family. It has taken lot of healing & prayer to realize what I’ve been through. I have been divorced 3 years now. I am an advocate for divorced moms & women getting out of narcissistic relationships. I am asking for prayers and strength to continue moving forward and prayers to meet a relationship healthy man of God who will unconditionally love and accept me and my daughters in to his life. 🙏🏻💕
Thank you and bless you so much Paula this is wat i need to hear and i was looking for a sermon on co dependancy please let me how i can email you. God bless and thank uyou so much
I trust in the lord think in me srita Paula 🦷🦷🦷🦷 i need help me 🦷🦷🦷🦷🦷🦷
Thank you for being YOU Pastor Paula. I laughed and cried on this posting. I can relate to it VERY MUCH. THANK YOU SISTER IN CHRIST.
The best part about the message in this video is how all the dysfunction is based on mixed messages. That push/pull dynamic is what sets a person up in the future to understand what 'love' is. It's wrong, but that's all a person knows, so of course they're gonna model these patterns in adult life.
God bless thanks for the message !
This is a serious message and these things has to be Brocken a.s.a.p. God bless this women.
Very encouraging, your are definetly a friend and a true follower of Christ Jesus, thank you Paula, God Bless U and Yours 🙏
I love that you call it what it is... sin. You are a blessing, Thank you for sharing.
Thanks for this Paula
Nice! Thank you 😊
Srita Paula how can change my mind 🧠🧠 so many dissapointment i wish have only true Friends 🧒🧒🧒 abuses in My life 🦷🦷🦷🦷🦷
Lovely lady all relevant in life
Thank you lord for this fine lady !!! Pour your blessing and power upon her jesus thks!!!!
Excelent, pastor Paula
Thanks for commenting on my video and God bless you, Let have a private chart on Email paulawhiteministries99@gmail.com
Thanks!!!
Thank-You so much....
God maid you beautiful Paula...don't mess with you're lips any more...God maid u just the way he wanted too..we all r weak ...but he makes as strong right??? ..we r in judgement...right now I feel...books r open ..wedding is being planned...let s all prepare...in love (Christ)...
Te Riuscito a Convincere Tutti i Tuoi Amici Politici che Fino a ieri Era un No fermo Di non essere in America Io Grazie Profeta
Thank you.
Its ok father
Molto Grazie Maffiosa Paola Wuait vi voglio bene Che sei Riuscito A trovare la Strada giusta per Me Africa e Senza Dollari
Quale Scuola dovrei fare per te Lì Vado dai Miei Africani
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Noto che ti trovi Molto bene e Euforia Senz'altro che non Sai Come posso Sentire Avete Usato una Bella Iscriminazione su di Me Grazie a voi
Why did John the babtist do what he did????
Avete Giocato Molto bene con in tuoi Amici
Vedremo Per lo Meno di Parlare Americano e Supernatural
God spoils his kids ...gives them time to come into adult hood...he grew me dear one...later rapture soon....let the world know dear one...how's you're ex
...where did he go...just wondering ...love u Paula
Di Giocare su di me in Tutto Vedremo
Avete. Usato una Bella Discriminazione Su di Me Grazie a Voi Scaltri
Non parlo di Amici Dei miei Ma altri Scaltri di Persone Scaltre Come Te
This is a good story.paula .why don't you send me letters like this .and not god this .god that.ever line is god I don't like it when I thank of you in a way of love .need you want you .in friends with benefits.th
Ai rigirato Bene Anche i Democratici per Come sei stata Scaltra
This video is full of waffle & misinformation. How can you make a video on co-dependency without mentioning narcissism? That's a red flag in itself. I feel I must make this criticism because this video is so unhelpful for people dealing with narcissism or co-dependency.
I think this is an introduction into understanding one's Behavior as a result of another person's Behavior. I think the codependent individual needs to identify their own unhealthy part in an unhealthy relationship. I do believe recognizing narcissism is extremely important. However, as a survivor of serious and very sick codependency, it would have been too much for me early on, with the level of powerful denial ruling my life, I think it would have been too overwhelming. Codependency is a very serious condition. Worst possible outcome, suicide. I came very close. It takes a lot of time to be able to convince someone in deep denial that there is even a problem. So, in my opinion, as a survivor, is that gentle and non-threatening is the best style of approach for someone who is trying to reason with someone who is dangerously codependent. I'm certainly no therapist, but I am a survivor and I would not have benefited from too much information too early. I would have retreated back to my shell. I'm only sharing this as it is my personal experience. God bless.
Wow, do people really need to be told this stuff? Cant you find something that isnt common sense to talk about? Sorry about whatever happened to your lips. Bee sting? Hope they get better soon.
you guys don't even have respect for God? you just come online to show contempt to the things of God? Wow
lol lol Botox is great. Going to get a fix soon myself...maybe
This woman doesn't use Biblical Scripture to back what she says.. This is why God instructed women not to preach in the church..