20-Something Wives: Spilling the Tea on Marriage, Our Brutal Honesty, Intimacy, Gender Roles

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  • @ponmileboluwade8275
    @ponmileboluwade8275 3 місяці тому +138

    Uzoma’s intelligence is so attractive 😍😍

  • @kayziahsamuel4210
    @kayziahsamuel4210 3 місяці тому +105

    We definitely need a part 2, with an update on how everyone is doing now. What has changed, what’s the same, new challenges,etc.

    • @marciasofia3184
      @marciasofia3184 3 місяці тому +8

      An update now? This was posted 5 days ago 😭😂
      Maybe an update in a year

    • @kayziahsamuel4210
      @kayziahsamuel4210 3 місяці тому

      @@marciasofia3184 a few months update since this video was filmed a few months ago.

    • @vickieogb1262
      @vickieogb1262 3 місяці тому +4

      @@kayziahsamuel4210this video was posted 2weeks ago, I believe your comment would have been appropriate after 1yr+.

    • @praisemurewa6417
      @praisemurewa6417 17 днів тому

      True!

  • @abbas_jewel
    @abbas_jewel 3 місяці тому +28

    Tofunmi is truly a girly girl😍
    She's so cute; the way she talks, her mannerisms and her looks. A baby girl.

  • @kharnastone-df7mq
    @kharnastone-df7mq 2 місяці тому +19

    I'm not married, not in a relationship or even talking to anyone 😄. Why did I listen to the end tho 😂

  • @WENYA.D
    @WENYA.D 3 місяці тому +60

    I love how all three of this women are so gorgeous and so intelligent and so Christ filled 😍😍😍😍😍 beautiful to see and yes part 2 pleaseeeeee

  • @GraceLi-z5k
    @GraceLi-z5k 3 місяці тому +87

    Why do i even watch videos like this ,i dont even have a bf right now 😅

    • @ayomidejohnson2679
      @ayomidejohnson2679 3 місяці тому +15

      We are learning for the future 😂

    • @GraceLi-z5k
      @GraceLi-z5k 3 місяці тому

      @@ayomidejohnson2679 yeah totally ,but i hope to have a bf soon 💛🫣

    • @karenogunlowo6546
      @karenogunlowo6546 3 місяці тому +5

      You read my mind😂😂😂

    • @digitalStarr_
      @digitalStarr_ 3 місяці тому +3

      It's not bad naw atleast you are learning

    • @daisymarilyn9091
      @daisymarilyn9091 2 місяці тому

      I fell here also 😂😂😂

  • @nuellasnuggets
    @nuellasnuggets 3 місяці тому +29

    From someone who lived with people my whole life until May 2024, living in your apartment alone is overrated. You’d get bored quickly if you haven’t learned to spend time with yourself, have hobbies, and a community, and have developed a relationship with the Holy Spirit.

    • @igbogirl533
      @igbogirl533 3 місяці тому +10

      I've lived alone for a year or two but it was never boring. I guess because I'm an introvert/extrovert staying alone is not a big deal. I prefer to stay alone even

    • @abugyansa
      @abugyansa 2 місяці тому +8

      You think it’s overrated because you have lived with people all your life.
      I have lived alone for 4 years now and I enjoy every bit of it. Probably because I’m an introvert and don’t always want unnecessary drama. However, I love to have genuine people around me.

    • @chiomaesther6218
      @chiomaesther6218 2 місяці тому +1

      I love staying alone. Even when I'm dating I want to go back to my house

  • @OrjiEberechukwu-w8p
    @OrjiEberechukwu-w8p 3 місяці тому +27

    Yes please there should be a part 5 as well. There is so much I don’t know since my 6year of marriage I just learnt from you angels. Please continue. Oyin you are really a woman of many nations but you do not know. Please continue the good work. More grace

  • @nemiedmund-tamnabo596
    @nemiedmund-tamnabo596 3 місяці тому +44

    Love love love this! Don’t know if your husbands are on it but can we have a mens perspective on this as well

  • @omoyemisule5947
    @omoyemisule5947 3 місяці тому +24

    lol I love living alone, no one is bothering me, I do my things on my term. Now I worry about struggling when I have to live with a MAN after living alone for 6 years.

    • @titooyegun6683
      @titooyegun6683 3 місяці тому +2

      You may not struggle that much if you are both are on par on environmental hygiene and interior design. Your time management skill will be put to test tho but i absolutely enjoyed living alone before I got married. Living alone reveals a lot about one’s self and your level of discipline and if you truly have standards and integrity. I still have my me time away from friends and hubby.

  • @faridabilla839
    @faridabilla839 3 місяці тому +8

    Very insightful conversation girls…Part 2 pls..I was waiting for the intimacy transition part, coming from a celibate/abstinence pov..😊

  • @racheloshaksmusic
    @racheloshaksmusic 3 місяці тому +11

    Love it! They seem happy and like their embracing their new role as a wife with so much grace.❤ I’m happy God gave them good husbands. I’d love to hear more from the ladies that have been married at least a year too, if you know any of them!

  • @Wizzemma
    @Wizzemma 3 місяці тому +5

    Part 2 Please. I'm Glad I Came Across Your Channel. May God Use To Reach Many More People For His Glory And May Your Channel Grow Globally. Much Love, Congrats On Having Your Baby And Do Stay Blessed Always.

  • @oluwatosinoyedele4631
    @oluwatosinoyedele4631 3 місяці тому +2

    May the wisdom of God in you guys life keep growing, this is full of insight. We want part 2 please.

  • @temitopeayanbajo883
    @temitopeayanbajo883 3 місяці тому +11

    Ouuuu
    Food is servedddd!!!
    Y'all look so pretty

  • @ShammahEmmanuelU
    @ShammahEmmanuelU 3 місяці тому +19

    THANK YOU GIRLS OR SPOILING US WITH THREE VIDEOS TODAY MUAH

  • @EwuzieJennifer
    @EwuzieJennifer 2 місяці тому +2

    Part 2, please and if possible, can we also get the mens perspective on all the topics discussed?? Cos I'd have loved to send this to my fiancé but there are some things here that I think are just for us girls.
    ❤❤

  • @ChocoSoby
    @ChocoSoby 3 місяці тому +2

    Part 2 really needed❤ this is a topic that should constantly thrive out there because we women need to understand a lot about men and how to handle our homes as the helpmate NOT HOUSE MAID.

  • @Amayah_Jirai
    @Amayah_Jirai 3 місяці тому +2

    Part 2 please, this was so enlightening I enjoyed every bit of it ❤❤

  • @joyceappiah-kubi2282
    @joyceappiah-kubi2282 3 місяці тому +1

    Yes part 2 please, so timely and you ladies are fab!

  • @OrjiEberechukwu-w8p
    @OrjiEberechukwu-w8p 3 місяці тому +2

    You girls are the best. May God continue to grant you all the grace to continue this beautiful things you do, there are so much I learn from u guys. God bless you n ur families. Amen

  • @damilolafavour2282
    @damilolafavour2282 3 місяці тому +1

    PART 2 PLEASE
    This was too good, I learnt alot. Thank youuuu❤

  • @margaret.etukudo
    @margaret.etukudo Місяць тому

    This was really good. God bless you ladies!🫶🏽

  • @Essyspeaks
    @Essyspeaks 3 місяці тому +1

    Yes it needs a part 2. Loved the conversations

  • @t3j3r3
    @t3j3r3 3 місяці тому +2

    this was so good! we definitely need a part 2! 🔥❤️

  • @imagodei26
    @imagodei26 3 місяці тому +1

    This has to be one of my favourite videos so far!❤

  • @kilsigberekpee
    @kilsigberekpee 3 місяці тому +2

    I love how you guys look out for each other ❤

  • @omoyemisule5947
    @omoyemisule5947 3 місяці тому +5

    The spreadsheet thing is so my Boyfriend .sometimes i wonder how i will cope when married. I see why it’s important cause he is so financially stable for that reason but I love retail therapy and it’s scary sometimes 😂

  • @Imisioluwa.a
    @Imisioluwa.a 3 місяці тому +1

    I need a PART 2 PLEASE!!!🥺❤️❤️❤️I Loved this session so much!!!❤

  • @kayziahsamuel4210
    @kayziahsamuel4210 3 місяці тому +1

    I love this video! Dropping gems❤ I so agree that people and culture try to put pressures and expectations on you, that’s not in the Bible. So glad you guys talked about it. Such a great vid🥰🙏🏾

  • @TheKingdomCreatives
    @TheKingdomCreatives 2 місяці тому

    Whao.....❤❤❤❤❤ this. Never wanted it to end. Part 2 pls

  • @abigailadekunle2429
    @abigailadekunle2429 Місяць тому

    Well-done Beautiful women❤
    I was transform with the knowledge and wisdom from you guys.
    This video has change alot about my view on marriage+submission.
    God bless you guys!
    Part 2 please 🙏🏿
    The lady in cornrows hairstyle is full of wisdom.

  • @missdebsss
    @missdebsss 3 місяці тому

    What a great video! I love this! Defo need a part 2😍

  • @fioscorner_
    @fioscorner_ 3 місяці тому

    Loved loved loved this 💕👏🏾 thank you all so much, this was so refreshing to listen to and had so many precious gems

  • @victory__chy1
    @victory__chy1 3 місяці тому +2

    The long awaited videoooo!!!!!

  • @tiisetsotsita
    @tiisetsotsita 3 місяці тому

    PART 2 PLEASE!!! loved this video so muchhhh

  • @adejuwonfolakeseun1924
    @adejuwonfolakeseun1924 2 місяці тому

    Part s please,
    Weldone girls..this is an eye opener.
    I love y'all🥰

  • @utibembong5630
    @utibembong5630 3 місяці тому

    Love when you guys do videos like this, always insightful & and delight🥰, PART 2 pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee🥹🤲🏻

  • @stephanienwosu5693
    @stephanienwosu5693 3 місяці тому

    New wife! Loooved this perspective, very refreshing & relatable!

  • @debbiechisanga126
    @debbiechisanga126 3 місяці тому

    This was so good I thoroughly enjoyed and was so blessed would certainly love to see a part two of this❤❤❤❤

  • @ladymawutor
    @ladymawutor 3 місяці тому

    I loved this video ,thank you all so much for sharing your experience with us.
    God bless you🙏
    And yesss Part 2 Please🎉

  • @evelynenemuo
    @evelynenemuo 3 місяці тому +3

    ok baby girl, let's talk about that hair..i Loveeeee it. who is your vendor, please? plus i think you are a good host and a great conversationist. how you kept it going and all that.

  • @Ebunoluwa-mm1oy
    @Ebunoluwa-mm1oy 3 місяці тому

    Really looking forward to the part 2. Keep up the good work loved every bit of part 1❤

  • @preciouselele5540
    @preciouselele5540 3 місяці тому +1

    Such a sweet video, learned a lot from your experiences 😊❤️

  • @Derinbepo
    @Derinbepo 3 місяці тому +2

    First you guys look so good 💕very wholesome video & yes for a part 2 🫶🏾

  • @olayinkasunmola1599
    @olayinkasunmola1599 3 місяці тому +1

    Loved this 💘💘 yess to a part 2!

  • @ArowoloPraise
    @ArowoloPraise 3 місяці тому +1

    Definitely need a part 2

  • @odogbilitreasure4828
    @odogbilitreasure4828 3 місяці тому +2

    When we see you guys we know we are in for a treat🥹❤️Three videos in a day🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻 we live itttt

  • @uzordominic01
    @uzordominic01 3 місяці тому +8

    Please, we await part 2 😊😊😊😊. This is very inciting

  • @ceera_o
    @ceera_o 3 місяці тому +2

    Very enlightening, as a new wife i concur 💯

  • @Living_With_Imma
    @Living_With_Imma 3 місяці тому

    I love this so much❤ it was so insightful 😊 God bless you three🙏🏼❤ And yessss I await a part 2 😊😊😊😊🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @owenikponmwosa7315
    @owenikponmwosa7315 3 місяці тому +2

    Looking forward to a part 2 please 🥹❤️

  • @Salvation123..
    @Salvation123.. 3 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for sharing ladies...Am lookimg forward to getting married soon ❤..

  • @orevaa8665
    @orevaa8665 3 місяці тому +1

    Watching this was incredibly wholesome!

  • @ponmileboluwade8275
    @ponmileboluwade8275 3 місяці тому +1

    Food is served!!
    Content I loveeee🥰🥰

  • @InimfonEtuk1.-_
    @InimfonEtuk1.-_ 3 місяці тому

    I'm anticipating part 2 ,I learnt from and enjoyed this video

  • @CHIDOMINICA
    @CHIDOMINICA 3 місяці тому

    Wow this was soo wholesome to listen to… I pray you guys find the lost files.. and yes pls we need a part 2❤

  • @favourihuomaokeh398
    @favourihuomaokeh398 3 місяці тому +2

    Yes i want a part 2 i enjoyed watching ❤❤

  • @imaabasienoch2552
    @imaabasienoch2552 2 місяці тому

    Wisdom displayed!! 🔥👏🏽

  • @Thegirlnamedmadlion
    @Thegirlnamedmadlion 3 місяці тому

    I loved this so much!! Yes please! Can we have a part 2?!

  • @dominiqueziela1561
    @dominiqueziela1561 3 місяці тому

    Will be waiting on part 2 🤗❤️

  • @Eunice_Karisai
    @Eunice_Karisai Місяць тому

    This is beautiful to watch

  • @SuppleChicTV
    @SuppleChicTV 3 місяці тому

    This will be great as a yearly series

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 3 місяці тому

    Awnnn beautiful conversations 😊🎉❤ thank you for sharing 😊

  • @tamaramcsanda5053
    @tamaramcsanda5053 3 місяці тому

    I think this is one of my favourite videos of you

  • @Organizedhuman
    @Organizedhuman 3 місяці тому

    This is podcast worthy 👏🎉🎉
    Love you guys

  • @ruthinaibrahim4712
    @ruthinaibrahim4712 3 місяці тому +1

    So informative 😊 part 2 please

  • @QlaudiaGodwin
    @QlaudiaGodwin 2 місяці тому +2

    5 years married here, and I am still struggling to get used to my new parish 😢

  • @dolapoadesina8492
    @dolapoadesina8492 3 місяці тому

    We need a Part 2!!!❤️❤️

  • @nemiedmund-tamnabo596
    @nemiedmund-tamnabo596 3 місяці тому

    Oh and part 2 would be amazing 🤩

  • @EbbyMercy_
    @EbbyMercy_ 3 місяці тому

    Amazing conversations! Thanks for sharing 💜

  • @ifeoluwaposimiodunubi3767
    @ifeoluwaposimiodunubi3767 3 місяці тому

    Enjoyed the video! Part 2 Please.🙈

  • @oluwasikemiakinbiyi8102
    @oluwasikemiakinbiyi8102 3 місяці тому

    Love loved ittt👏🏾 part 2 please

  • @anadelemouafo9708
    @anadelemouafo9708 3 місяці тому

    Lovely video ❤ waiting for part 2

  • @mpumelelo526
    @mpumelelo526 3 місяці тому +1

    Yes please do a part 2 😀♥️🔥

  • @elaineariolu1140
    @elaineariolu1140 3 місяці тому

    these are such good questionsss

  • @peaceoni2634
    @peaceoni2634 3 місяці тому

    Totally loved watching this ❤

  • @RaeyStar
    @RaeyStar 3 місяці тому

    Yes part 2 please !

  • @UCHECHI.
    @UCHECHI. 3 місяці тому

    Learned so much from this. thank you.

  • @monelantonifor
    @monelantonifor 2 місяці тому

    Yes please do part 2. How can the clip get lost when they were spitting gems😢

  • @Deborah.T
    @Deborah.T 3 місяці тому +1

    PART 2 PLEASEEEE🥳🥳🥳

  • @Bibzthebarb
    @Bibzthebarb 3 місяці тому

    My favs cane back stronger with a bang ❤

  • @iamlaurena
    @iamlaurena 3 місяці тому

    This was too good!

  • @preciouspaul4724
    @preciouspaul4724 3 місяці тому +1

    Pls we need part 2😂😂

  • @chawazahmanai4857
    @chawazahmanai4857 2 місяці тому

    Yes please
    A part 2

  • @rosechakama2531
    @rosechakama2531 3 місяці тому

    Not married but this was lovely to watch ❤️

  • @abimbolavo
    @abimbolavo 3 місяці тому

    Like before watching alwayss❤

  • @ukeme_abasi
    @ukeme_abasi 3 місяці тому

    Hi, I'm new here. Please I look forward to a part two.

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 2 місяці тому

    Love the honesty 😂

  • @toyazara
    @toyazara 3 місяці тому

    so so good guys! ❤

  • @imagodei26
    @imagodei26 3 місяці тому

    Uzoma is so wise! ❤❤

  • @ibukun.adebisi
    @ibukun.adebisi 3 місяці тому

    PART 2 PLEASE ❤

  • @otiegedee
    @otiegedee 3 місяці тому +1

    I really enjoyed this video

  • @Fallon_rogerz
    @Fallon_rogerz 3 місяці тому +3

    Can you make a video on how to build a solid community?

  • @Bibzthebarb
    @Bibzthebarb 3 місяці тому +5

    Key point submit to your husband 🧏🏽‍♀️

  • @titomvictory4700
    @titomvictory4700 3 місяці тому

    Thank you so much for this video

  • @Adaezeblexx
    @Adaezeblexx 3 місяці тому

    Uzoma is so wise 🙌

  • @vanessayoung2235
    @vanessayoung2235 3 місяці тому

    PART TWO PLEASEEEEE

  • @ritaetchu3592
    @ritaetchu3592 3 місяці тому +2

    I lived alone and loved it.

  • @abimboladorcas97
    @abimboladorcas97 3 місяці тому

    PART TWO PLEASE