I love Victoria's aura! She is outspoken, opinionated, eloquent, and has a mind of her own. I really do hope she surrounds herself with people who will not try to silence her.
It is definitely her business. It's crazy that she said "it wasn't bad." I would be distraught if my husband named my daughter after the women she loved. This proof that he was STILL in love with that girl even though he was already married & had a new born. Because he couldn't have her, he named his daughter after her so that her existence is somehow present in the house.
@@lifftiferr678if the wife says it's not her business, that would be very weird,but for the daughter, she doesn't really grasp the whole picture of the situation, she's just acting her age
@anyebesarah6623 yeah I realized that too but I was just saying that's crazy. I should've worded it better. It's not her fault. She'll understand later
I'm so rooting for Victoria (Esther). It appears she has become so numb to the things she has to deal with. She's found a way to cope with her Dad, and she's shut the emotions out.
@@Erhurhuvictoria I totally get that feeling. It’s so frustrating when you finally gather the courage to share something personal, and it feels like it’s not being heard. It took real strength to open up, and I hope he understands that someday. Hang in there.❤🩹
@Erhurhuvictoria hi Victoria, I'm so sorry your dad wasn't listening. I can relate in terms of my mum. I'll try to voice out my feelings and she makes it seem like I'm being disrespectful and not honouring her. I think she's a little better now that I've graduated from uni Which gives me hope that things will be better as time goes on.
Semilore and her father’s relationship is truly beautiful. They say the test of a parent is if their adult children after their childhoods and growth come back and care enough to maintain that relationship. Clearly her father passed. She’s his daughter and he has always seen her, and he her father who she has always seen. It’s like looking at a unicorn, such a rare thing. That some people will never have.
She already seems very mature. Her father should listen and take this as a wakeup call. She will not talk to him once she's an adult if he keeps this up. Edit: if I said to my dad 10% of what she told him he would not sleep the next night and ask himself what he could change, what his mistakes were. That he can just be like "I'm her dad, she will always love me", no my dude, it should be the other way around. Do you tell her you love her every day? At least once a week? If your kid sees your presence in her live as just a burden you have failed as a father. I'm a very lacking person, I'm mid 20s and whenever I call my father he asks me "are you happy? That's the most important thing". And that's why my father is still my superhero. 2. Edit holy, he just admitted to his daughter her mom was just a replica? 😢 And he named her after his ex he couldn't marry? Throw the whole man in the trash. I hold she heals and can get some good therapy and I hope her mom leaves him and frees her of his presence in his live. He doesn't deserve to call himself father. Even when she calmly and reasonably expresses her wishes and reaches out and asks "how can we fix this?" He just dismisses her. She deserves so much better. 3. Edit: why would you blame the other woman girl? Your father would be the cheater. Don't blame the other woman. If my father cheated he would know the consequences. He knows.
I absolutely love the young woman who told her father "I dont like beeing around you anymore". Her father is trying to suffocate her in the name of "protecting" her. That prejudiced, controlling men will die alone. Its sad men dont learn. His daughter is a teenager, she should go out, she should have freedom since shell probably go away on her own in a couple of years anyway. And as a father you should respect your kids enough to listen to them and find solutions together, especially when the kids are already as old and beautifully mature as she is. My parents did tell me no, but they explained and discussed and found compromises and so I never resented it.
Victoria is very smart,observative & bold. She's equally emphathetic & has motherly instincts. She's gonna grow into such a beautiful & wise woman. Make sure you win & make the world your red carpet & walk on it majestically.
Lastly Victoria's Dad, I understand you and how hard it is but beyond money and giving your children the best, please listen, please be present, please create an environment where your children can feel safe with you
I can also see why it would be hard for him to since he himself didn’t have that environment. By no means am I supporting him but want to look at both angles to see where the solution can come from. He could start by humbling himself and learning from his peers.
hello everyone im victoria from cruise show...please support me and cruise this really helps alot i dodnt realise how much love i would get from u all ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Erhurhuvictoria Girrlll, you deserve all the love you are getting! You remind me of myself when I was younger, only that I was not bold enough to share my opinions like you are. You are a star! Keep on shining.✨️✨️✨️
This made me cry🥹🥹🥹🥹 Victoria needed to hear her dad say that “I am very very proud of you” the same way her dad needed to hear her say, “she sees him working very hard behind the scenes to give them the best” . Good job to the crew who picked these dads and daughters, absolutely warmed my heart. May God continue to bless all their relationships and use them as a paradigm for those who need one💛🙏🏾 Love my people, love my culture, love my dear Nigeria 🇳🇬
Mr Rasaq, you are a great father. We could feel the depth of your love even on the show. May you live long to see your daughter do great things and make you proud. Amen
Trauma is been passed down in african homes may God save us. Saying he was whipped and also he wants more improvement from his daughter this most people relate too. May God give us the grace to be better versions for our children.
Mr Rasaq and Mariam relationship has evolved over time and I love it. It didn’t seem to be like that in the beginning but I love how they’ve grown to understand each other ❤️❤️
@@Erhurhuvictoria you are really smart. Keep it up. The relationship you have with your dad will become stronger if you have conversations often. If there are things you want him to work on, tell him. Also, you can ask him for feedback on what he feels you can do better on. No one is perfect 👍.
@@whymillie how do you know? Been harsh to an oldman is a weak move and just been wicked. What will be the gain? The father might not be a perfect man but he is still a good and present father. As much as you see his bad side, you can also try to see his good side. You can't just assume they will show him pepper because that's just your own thought and not the daughter's.
I asked myself, which evil forces are these? You mean man? Is man the evil force. Bc as far as I know, the demons don’t discriminate, they take everyone.
When i read the title, i just paused. My dad passed back in 2021, and we didn't have the best relationship at all. I have so many moments where I play scenarios in my head of me him talking things out, coming to some common ground but my reality is that I'll never get that chance.....what I wouldn't give to get that opportunity. For all those out there who have lost parents before getting to mend your toxic or broken relationship, you are not alone and i hope your hearts heal❤️
Mr. Paul saying that the mother of his children is a replica/replacement is so terrifyingly wrong! I feel so bad for the woman. Also, I don't think it was necessary to tell Victoria that now, maybe when she is a bit older. I can't even imagine what she thinks of her parents' relationship now. African parents and building childhood trauma, 5&6.
Victoria...I wish I was this smart, bold and daring at your age and even at this my big age. We, the women folk, are proud of you. NEVER loose your fire my love.
Victoria and her dad made me so emotional. You can tell he went through a lot not being able to provide for the family and I loved that his daughter still appreciated the little he did. He's harder on his kids because he's hard on himself, hopefully he he learns to loosen up. Sending them love🤍.
Im gonna do this with my daughter and husband. The youngest girl in the cornrows...I love her honesty🥰 Her dad just cant see past himself to see what she's trying to convey. Yelling only does so much. She literally said it breaks her and she doesnt like to be in the same room as him. Her body language on the couch said so much. Her "I give up"...I hope this doesnt make her think all men should be like this.💔
Her Dad is giving of his best, and I believe this conversation will let him see he has done a good job so far. Her mother and him can be proud of their labor with this young Lady, she will be great. I believe her Dad will give her more grace as she continues to make him proud.
Hugs to Victoria, carrying the burden of doing the right to earn the love and attention of a parent can be huge. I pray they get support through that. She is such an amazing little girl, may her confidence not wane.
I only wondered what this conversation would be like between me and my dad😢😢😢😢, so many hurt, so many areas that need closure.. This is a very personal episode, big ups
@@karimaabubakar-ue2mp You can talk to him now, just know how to words together… we can ask questions the wrong way which can bring another misunderstanding
Dear Victoria, I can absolutely relate to everything you’ve shared in this video. What I will let you know from experience is that eventually, it will FADE OUT. I know currently it seems like a whole lot, but I promise you that with time, it lessens and eases out. Just hang in there❤❤
Mr John and Bolu his daughter and Mr Razaq and Mariam his daughter won my heart really good. I observed that constant words of affirmation will help Bolu a lot. Mr Razaq is my kind of man " I equally feel pressured to meet the needs of my loved ones. Feel pressured I mean I never want to be in a position where they need something and I am not able to meet up." I equally enjoyed the understanding Victoria and her Dad came to have at the end of the show. Their hug warmed my heart.
Im proud of all the fathers and the daughters. They all have a unique experience and it's lovely to see. No one is perfect and i see individuals trying to make it work somehow. So kudos to all of them!!!
Not proud 17:10 he must want his daughter to be lesbian. Don’t put hands on your daughter he could’ve slapped the men so the bad one will be scared to come around her .
Oh my gosh watching this brought tear in my eyes because I didn’t experience any fatherly love growing up even till date, Wished my dad was present in my life 😢
I guess the African nature in the brought about that, some of us had some sort of love expression but it was so mechanical, they never seem to express the love physically even though they love us. We have learned thru this platform to do better with our own children.
@@aaantwonnndoes it require certificate for someone to be an engineer? No be so china take start oh.. he got skill that certified him as an engineer..
I got emotional at the way they were genuinely pouring their hearts to each other😢 There's this unexplainable bond between a father and a daughter that is so unique honestly. I love my father so much and he has been through a lot to see that his family lacks nothing🙁My prayers for him is for him to live long to enjoy the fruits of his labor 🙏
Papa sems has really done a great job in building the type of relationship he has with his daughter. I also love Mariam and her father and ofcourse Victoria and Bolu’s. God bless them all for sharing.
Victoria dear. If you see this, just keep working on your emotional intelligence… I ABSOLUTELY LOVED the analogy of labeling his behaviors. My dad vs the nagging. And you are also deeply wise enough to acknowledge your part in triggering him as well. Cos despite it all, he’s a human too living through his own human experience.. this will make you more aware and intuitive and also more present… Keep arming yourself with knowledge and understanding… God’s got you girl!❤ 💪🏽
this tale on expectation folks tell isn’t the flex they think it is, listen to your kids! this is an excerpt from a piece i wrote about my childhood: ‘I wasn’t even allowed to be a kid, to grow at a pace every normal kid did. I did tons of adult stuffs. I couldn’t make mistakes. There was no room for emotions too. All of these because “I don’t want my kids to go through life the way I did”. And as motivating as that sounds, it was the most suffocating and trapping thing ever. For me. As a child.’
@@gerhardchang5315 I had a very present father in my life, he was and still is the best man I have ever met. Telling ur child that u want to marry someone else because u want male children sounds very annoying, because he can still give birth to girls. There is something he also said I married ur mum just because I wanted to get married, this particular info is not necessary. I was raised by very intentional parents especially my father, he was present and he respected and adored my mum.
beating isn’t equal to protection, it’s not even synonymous; it’s a violation of trust and safety, and this is why kids grow up to walk on eggshells around their folks. true protection comes from love, understanding, and open communication, not fear and pain. idk why african parents believe they have to cause pain and fear in their kids before they can believe that they’ve been able to pass their message across. im a 24 year old adult that’s clinically diagnosed with gad, and the bulk of the symptoms my gad display is me constantly being anxious and feeling unsafe. even when im emotionally and physically assured, my typical day is me going about my day with fear that something or someone is trying to hurt to me. my father was so hot tempered growing, and beating was the only way he knew how to create an outlet for such emotion.
So sorry about your experience, It was because of how they were brought up themselves. Good thing is that our generation is trying to be better our parents
@@yomide_naturals better can mean a lot of things. I myself being beaten like a slave to carry the family can attest to the fact, that young children being built to absorb the trauma of years and years of broken people, being expected to heal their African parents after facing horrific abuse from them is insane. The resentment and pain always goes somewhere. So it’s better placed with the people who put it on you. And after letting them go.
Victoria is so wise, sounds like she has been forced to grow up fast. Her father is difficult. Refuses to listen and expects her mother to do everything. Victoria has also figured out ways to communicate with her parents in the safest way without getting hit. Her life like many children of African parents is steeped in fear. How can an African parent expect their child to be open to saying what problems they have if the child fears getting hit or what comes next. Fear and trust cannot exist in the same place. Victoria was smart to choose this as a medium to talk to her father because it is a safe environment but she is taking a big risk as we don’t know what will happen when she goes home, brave young girl. It’s not that she is gen Z, or whatever generation, we all try to figure out ways to protect ourselves based on our childhood environments.
I love every scene and expressions from everyone in this video. I can relate with the situations of Maryam but a big Kudos to Victoria's Mum because the praises from her husband about how she is able to manage the home because her husband couldn't provide at the moment. May God bless her and i hope every woman here emulate her even despite not know her. I can relate with most stories and expression told here. I look forward to having such conversations with my sons and daugthers in the future. Thank you Cruise!
This episode is quite emotional. When Victoria and her dad hugged, I shed a tear. Here's a message to all the men out here reading this, I just y'all to know that life with you isn't easy at all especially companionship, family and all that sort. But despite the toughness and difficulty we all go through during the course of our relationship, I want y'all to know that Home is with you and no one else.❤❤
aww this video made me pick up the phone to call my dad (and we literally just spoke yesterday lool) to tell him i love and miss him. daddy’s girl 4eva 💗🥹
I have never cried for any podcast or show, this made me cry even at work. God bless all the fathers. This will bring me closer to my daughter even with the crazy distance.😢😢😢
I’m glad these daughters got to have this conversation with their fathers. I appreciate the honesty all around and hopefully they heal the parts of contention.
Her impulsive need to leave the room when he walks in is sooo relatable to me. It’s a side effect of rigid parenting by someone with a closed-minded view of raising kids. Honestly, I don't think "blood is thicker than water". Strong relationships matter more, whether they're built on fear and power dynamics, conformity to tradition, or genuine respect and love for each other.
Victoria love, you're a very expressive young lady, and it's a plus for you. But I'd like you to know that your dad really loves you, as you could tell at the end of the episode. He's been strict because that's the way he knows how to show love, especially in this crazy world of sexualising young girls. So, please don't build hatred for him. You may think you don't need him now, but in the future, you would wish things were different (talking from experience 😉)... Also, when he tells you something, learn to obey Daddy so it does not result in shouting, especially if he has told you several times before 😅 Daddy Victoria sir, the way you were raised those days is not the same now. Please learn to show more love and give grace to your kids. Being too strict will only push them away from you. Hope you both work on your relationship as time goes on 😊❤
As someone who was raised my a strict father, I really understand Victoria’s plight. Looking back now, I appreciate my father for the tough love though I don’t have the opportunity to show it cos he’s late now. I believe Victoria will get to the stage where she’d realize her father’s love for her and her siblings. Thank you for your comment.
Okay 👍 I love this ❤ I am a Victoria's fan... Like her words are dense ❤ Her dad loves her Semilore and her dad is cool watching them... They conversed like age mate ❤ Bolu and her dad are such calmed spirit people ❤ Mariam and her dad is lovely,,,,
Taking a deep breath before pressing playyyy
So real😂😭
same here, 🤣🤣🤣🤣 finally
You totally get it 😂😂😂
Same!😂😂😂❤
Because what is dt intro😢😂
“We are on a show, don’t worry when we get there.. we will cross it” that’s enough answer 😂 Victoria to her dad
Her response was so mature.
@@ghostDrSounded more like a threat
I have not even watch the show just the reply I bet she just replied just the same way her mom would it's a subtle threat
😅😅😅
That line brought me here from IG 😂
I love Victoria's aura! She is outspoken, opinionated, eloquent, and has a mind of her own. I really do hope she surrounds herself with people who will not try to silence her.
She's a very intelligent young lady and she has a heart. She is attentive.
tnx ...im a gen z,an urhobo girl 4 dat matter
Yes. Your last statement is so important.
Me too! She's very impressive.
@@Erhurhuvictoriayou speak so well please avoid using too much abbreviations especially the informal one so that you won't get used to it.
Victoria saying "That's between you and her, that's none of my business." was goated because it's truly not her business 🤣🤣🤣
It is definitely her business. It's crazy that she said "it wasn't bad." I would be distraught if my husband named my daughter after the women she loved. This proof that he was STILL in love with that girl even though he was already married & had a new born. Because he couldn't have her, he named his daughter after her so that her existence is somehow present in the house.
Actually it’s not her business and she shouldn’t concern herself with such petty info.
The situation is hurtful, but it’s her mom’s business.
It isn't her business if she says it isn't, you can't expect her to react how you'd react, allow people react how they want @@lifftiferr678
@@lifftiferr678if the wife says it's not her business, that would be very weird,but for the daughter, she doesn't really grasp the whole picture of the situation, she's just acting her age
@anyebesarah6623 yeah I realized that too but I was just saying that's crazy. I should've worded it better. It's not her fault. She'll understand later
Victoria and her Dad need an episode of their own 🤣🤣🤣
I'm so rooting for Victoria (Esther). It appears she has become so numb to the things she has to deal with. She's found a way to cope with her Dad, and she's shut the emotions out.
Absolutely love Victoria, her confidence, and the way she gets her thought process across. I wish her dad can get over himself and truly listen.
he can be like this sometimes
tnx for the love❤❤❤
@Erhurhuvictoria oh Victoria, is this you?
You're very confident. Don't change at all
Victoria is the star of this episode😅very funny girl... a typical genZ...fearless and blunt.
God bless her.
tnx❤❤
So true
I hope her dad took some of her complaints to heart and meets her halfway though.
She's so cute and funny.
Esther’s dad casually dropping this tea on an episode is crazyyyy😭😭😭
Like?!!!😭
This was supposed to go to the grave😭😭
😭😭😭😭
😂 casually
The father is a manipulator
Hi everyone 🤗 here’s mr razaq daughter mariam ☺️Thank y’all for your kind and sweet comments ❤️ @cruise thank you for this opportunity 🥰
Your dad is so cool!
Love you and your dad so much
Wish you all the best and may you continue to make him proud❤️
@@Springrolllll thank you🥹❤️
@@Franchemzy ameen thank you so much ❤️❤️
God bless you and your dad❤❤
i felt Victoria was on the brink of crying when speaking to her Dad about their relationship. must have taken a lot of courage to say that.
i felt so angry and sad dat he wasnt listening to me opening up as i am not a person to easily open up to people
@@Erhurhuvictoria I totally get that feeling. It’s so frustrating when you finally gather the courage to share something personal, and it feels like it’s not being heard. It took real strength to open up, and I hope he understands that someday. Hang in there.❤🩹
@Erhurhuvictoria hi Victoria, I'm so sorry your dad wasn't listening.
I can relate in terms of my mum. I'll try to voice out my feelings and she makes it seem like I'm being disrespectful and not honouring her.
I think she's a little better now that I've graduated from uni
Which gives me hope that things will be better as time goes on.
@@chidera2776 why do parents always "kinda" wait for their children to graduate from the uni before easing up? Well done Victoria 🎉
@@adebiyiadedapo2651because they don't want to accept that one is old enough, at the same time they want us to be married ASAP after uni
I love the relationship between Bolu and her dad.
Medical doctor and engineering? Man, that's a flex.
Yh it is
flex in 2024?
Me too. Their relationship seems really healthy.
@@dexterity_1st Yes cry
Yes I love it too❤
Semilore and her father’s relationship is truly beautiful.
They say the test of a parent is if their adult children after their childhoods and growth come back and care enough to maintain that relationship. Clearly her father passed.
She’s his daughter and he has always seen her, and he her father who she has always seen.
It’s like looking at a unicorn, such a rare thing. That some people will never have.
Thank you so very much! This is semilore btw❤
Mr Razaq made me cry. Sir your daughter will make you proud. You are a good Father. God bless you and keep you. Amen.
Amen
Ameen thank you so much 🥹❤️ I’m mr razaq daughter 😂
@@whymilliethank you 🥰
@@omolayomariam-o4y
God bless you and your dad❤
Papa sems and semilore relationship is so beautiful to see
its beautiful
Victoria is quite expressive and well-spoken, I love it.
She will grow.
She already seems very mature. Her father should listen and take this as a wakeup call. She will not talk to him once she's an adult if he keeps this up.
Edit: if I said to my dad 10% of what she told him he would not sleep the next night and ask himself what he could change, what his mistakes were. That he can just be like "I'm her dad, she will always love me", no my dude, it should be the other way around. Do you tell her you love her every day? At least once a week? If your kid sees your presence in her live as just a burden you have failed as a father. I'm a very lacking person, I'm mid 20s and whenever I call my father he asks me "are you happy? That's the most important thing". And that's why my father is still my superhero.
2. Edit holy, he just admitted to his daughter her mom was just a replica? 😢 And he named her after his ex he couldn't marry? Throw the whole man in the trash. I hold she heals and can get some good therapy and I hope her mom leaves him and frees her of his presence in his live. He doesn't deserve to call himself father. Even when she calmly and reasonably expresses her wishes and reaches out and asks "how can we fix this?" He just dismisses her. She deserves so much better.
3. Edit: why would you blame the other woman girl? Your father would be the cheater. Don't blame the other woman. If my father cheated he would know the consequences. He knows.
@@alinasmith5737thank you ❤
😢😢😢
I wanted to be in this episode but my Dad was sick...
Thank God he is fine now
Thank you Cruise for reaching out ❤
You're Welcome! We're glad he's well now 🤗
I absolutely love the young woman who told her father "I dont like beeing around you anymore". Her father is trying to suffocate her in the name of "protecting" her. That prejudiced, controlling men will die alone. Its sad men dont learn. His daughter is a teenager, she should go out, she should have freedom since shell probably go away on her own in a couple of years anyway. And as a father you should respect your kids enough to listen to them and find solutions together, especially when the kids are already as old and beautifully mature as she is. My parents did tell me no, but they explained and discussed and found compromises and so I never resented it.
Nicely put
Victoria is very smart,observative & bold.
She's equally emphathetic & has motherly instincts.
She's gonna grow into such a beautiful & wise woman.
Make sure you win & make the world your red carpet & walk on it majestically.
Lastly Victoria's Dad, I understand you and how hard it is but beyond money and giving your children the best, please listen, please be present, please create an environment where your children can feel safe with you
I can also see why it would be hard for him to since he himself didn’t have that environment. By no means am I supporting him but want to look at both angles to see where the solution can come from. He could start by humbling himself and learning from his peers.
Victoria is that girl, baby girl knows what she’s saying, the confidence ❤
Telling your child you named her after your ex before telling your wife is crazy business.
He don't name her after his ex , it's because she was born the same day as her..
@@agboolataiwo5955it's still crazy
@@agboolataiwo5955Now this is some bs
@@agboolataiwo5955which one is better and what difference does that make?
@@agboolataiwo5955🙄oh please
I love the relationship razak and his daughter have the most… theirs is pure love
Thank you 🥹❤️ I’m razaq’s daughter 🙂↔️
@@omolayomariam-o4y God bless you both
He is just like my dad fr !!
I love how Semilore calls her mum “Iya Sems”😂😂😂
I’m in love with how Victoria is expressive and funny and the same time 🤝💕
Like😂
hello everyone im victoria from cruise show...please support me and cruise
this really helps alot
i dodnt realise how much love i would get from u all
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@Erhurhuvictoria Girrlll, you deserve all the love you are getting! You remind me of myself when I was younger, only that I was not bold enough to share my opinions like you are. You are a star! Keep on shining.✨️✨️✨️
Very energetic, love you. Nice one
❤❤❤❤
Sending you virtual hugs. Keep being you and work on a better you
You are amazing
I don't know why the guy with the denim cap is my favourite. He really loves his daughter and it comes through even on camera. Kai
He sure does 🥹❤️ thank you so much !
Victoria is so outspoken and SHE IS THAT GIRL
She is really THAT GIRL
she’s soo intelligent
This made me cry🥹🥹🥹🥹
Victoria needed to hear her dad say that “I am very very proud of you” the same way her dad needed to hear her say, “she sees him working very hard behind the scenes to give them the best” . Good job to the crew who picked these dads and daughters, absolutely warmed my heart. May God continue to bless all their relationships and use them as a paradigm for those who need one💛🙏🏾
Love my people, love my culture, love my dear Nigeria 🇳🇬
Doctor's dad telling her to just be more like Christ, is so beautiful. ❤
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The Best!💯❣️❤️
Mr Rasaq, you are a great father. We could feel the depth of your love even on the show. May you live long to see your daughter do great things and make you proud. Amen
Ameen thank you so much 🥹❤️
Trauma is been passed down in african homes may God save us. Saying he was whipped and also he wants more improvement from his daughter this most people relate too. May God give us the grace to be better versions for our children.
Amen
Ameen
This… you saying trauma is being passed down in African homes. I can’t say this enough
Mr Rasaq and Mariam relationship has evolved over time and I love it. It didn’t seem to be like that in the beginning but I love how they’ve grown to understand each other ❤️❤️
Victorias mum is the hero… being a replacement and yet supporting a man that named his first daughter after the love of his life😂
kudos to my mommy
@@Erhurhuvictoria you are really smart. Keep it up. The relationship you have with your dad will become stronger if you have conversations often. If there are things you want him to work on, tell him. Also, you can ask him for feedback on what he feels you can do better on. No one is perfect 👍.
I beg your finest pardon... I never reach thereeeee
Let him get to elderly age. They will show him pepper😂😂
@@whymillie how do you know? Been harsh to an oldman is a weak move and just been wicked. What will be the gain? The father might not be a perfect man but he is still a good and present father.
As much as you see his bad side, you can also try to see his good side. You can't just assume they will show him pepper because that's just your own thought and not the daughter's.
the quote of the episode "the ladies are more target by the evil forces"😁
You can say that again 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
In essence, men are the evil forces. No be me talk am o.
I asked myself, which evil forces are these? You mean man? Is man the evil force.
Bc as far as I know, the demons don’t discriminate, they take everyone.
This is the best show on UA-cam. The cast and crew of the cruise. Thank you for bringing unscripted reality to the screen
It hasn’t been easy building this channel…. Thank you for recognizing our effort 😭😭😭🤗. This is motivation! ❤️
The best Nigerian channel by far
I’m always telling everyone I know to watch their videos
@jointhecruise you're the best channel so far 😢❤ I've never seen a reality show like this b4
When i read the title, i just paused. My dad passed back in 2021, and we didn't have the best relationship at all. I have so many moments where I play scenarios in my head of me him talking things out, coming to some common ground but my reality is that I'll never get that chance.....what I wouldn't give to get that opportunity. For all those out there who have lost parents before getting to mend your toxic or broken relationship, you are not alone and i hope your hearts heal❤️
May he rest in peace
Mr. Paul saying that the mother of his children is a replica/replacement is so terrifyingly wrong! I feel so bad for the woman. Also, I don't think it was necessary to tell Victoria that now, maybe when she is a bit older. I can't even imagine what she thinks of her parents' relationship now. African parents and building childhood trauma, 5&6.
S.I unit of family talks. Sorry o!
IT'S good thing he told her now than wait for her to imagine a perfect family that she will never get from her parents. That's bad thing
It certainly wasn't appropriate to say it online.
Right I’m not from this culture but it almost felt like he wanted to hurt her and her mom with that secret
Real!
Even just watching Victoria's Dad speak on UA-cam is already an experience i didnt want to have😭i cant imagine when she grows up and realises all this
Victoria...I wish I was this smart, bold and daring at your age and even at this my big age.
We, the women folk, are proud of you.
NEVER loose your fire my love.
Semilore and her Dad are so cute😭😂❤️
Literally
Victoria and her dad made me so emotional. You can tell he went through a lot not being able to provide for the family and I loved that his daughter still appreciated the little he did. He's harder on his kids because he's hard on himself, hopefully he he learns to loosen up. Sending them love🤍.
Mr Razaq is confident in his fatherly abilities and trainings 😅
😭😂God help Nigeria…If na USA cps for don carry am since😂
@@GennyminajFr 😂
Don’t mind him 😂 he beats the hell out of me 😭😂
Im gonna do this with my daughter and husband. The youngest girl in the cornrows...I love her honesty🥰 Her dad just cant see past himself to see what she's trying to convey. Yelling only does so much. She literally said it breaks her and she doesnt like to be in the same room as him. Her body language on the couch said so much. Her "I give up"...I hope this doesnt make her think all men should be like this.💔
It doesn"t seem like he's playing his role as a leader. If you're christian pray for him, if you haven't had a serious conversation then it's time.
Her Dad is giving of his best, and I believe this conversation will let him see he has done a good job so far. Her mother and him can be proud of their labor with this young Lady, she will be great. I believe her Dad will give her more grace as she continues to make him proud.
Hugs to Victoria, carrying the burden of doing the right to earn the love and attention of a parent can be huge.
I pray they get support through that.
She is such an amazing little girl, may her confidence not wane.
That Yoruba man with the.. i think red cap is a very sweet dad🥰
Victoria is so bold and interesting. She is super intelligent and eloquent. And that’s all I’m gonna say😂
“Her name is Esther …your name is Esther” Esther was shooked 😂😂😂
Esther started seeing stars ✨😂😂
I never reach there o. But wetin happen to Esther? 😂
@ hope you’ve reached there😂😂
Don’t let me spoil the fun for you
@@tofunmiaro 😂😂😂
The first daughter (Victoria) made me laugh, i needed this laugher 😂
I only wondered what this conversation would be like between me and my dad😢😢😢😢, so many hurt, so many areas that need closure.. This is a very personal episode, big ups
They are so personal that I can’t discuss them on a show like this,I just want the opportunity to be able to speak out my feelings
@@karimaabubakar-ue2mp You can talk to him now, just know how to words together… we can ask questions the wrong way which can bring another misunderstanding
Dear Victoria, I can absolutely relate to everything you’ve shared in this video. What I will let you know from experience is that eventually, it will FADE OUT.
I know currently it seems like a whole lot, but I promise you that with time, it lessens and eases out.
Just hang in there❤❤
I relate to Victoria so much she is only in year 10 and here he comes dumping things a child shouldn’t know onto her
Dear Victoria, just know that you are no longer going to Chioma's house😂😂
😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I wanted to say this too😂😂😂😂
Mr John and Bolu his daughter and Mr Razaq and Mariam his daughter won my heart really good.
I observed that constant words of affirmation will help Bolu a lot.
Mr Razaq is my kind of man " I equally feel pressured to meet the needs of my loved ones. Feel pressured I mean I never want to be in a position where they need something and I am not able to meet up."
I equally enjoyed the understanding Victoria and her Dad came to have at the end of the show. Their hug warmed my heart.
😂😂😂😂
Esther is very intelligent… she will make her parent proud🎉
Im proud of all the fathers and the daughters. They all have a unique experience and it's lovely to see. No one is perfect and i see individuals trying to make it work somehow. So kudos to all of them!!!
Not proud 17:10 he must want his daughter to be lesbian. Don’t put hands on your daughter he could’ve slapped the men so the bad one will be scared to come around her .
Oh my gosh watching this brought tear in my eyes because I didn’t experience any fatherly love growing up even till date, Wished my dad was present in my life 😢
I guess the African nature in the brought about that, some of us had some sort of love expression but it was so mechanical, they never seem to express the love physically even though they love us. We have learned thru this platform to do better with our own children.
And here is me regretting ever knowing my father 😑😑
@@ifeifesi So sorry about whatever negative experience life may have thrown to you through him.
Mr razaq god bless you sir! The least educated but the most sweetest ❤️
he said he was an engineer?😂
@@aaantwonnn please leave my guy alone 🤣🤣😂I love him
@@aaantwonnndoes it require certificate for someone to be an engineer? No be so china take start oh.. he got skill that certified him as an engineer..
@@oyigbo_hype_wahala I don't even understand you, I'm saying I thought he said he was an engineer so why's she saying he's the least educated
How is he the least educated, his just the least expressive
That little girl with her dad, made me emotional 😭😭😭 here comes the water worksss
I got emotional at the way they were genuinely pouring their hearts to each other😢 There's this unexplainable bond between a father and a daughter that is so unique honestly. I love my father so much and he has been through a lot to see that his family lacks nothing🙁My prayers for him is for him to live long to enjoy the fruits of his labor 🙏
Semilore’s relationship with her Dad; too beautiful ❤️
I love mariam and her daddy, they are both understanding
Thank you so much dunni❤️
Razaq must eat the fruit of his labor IJN
Amen
Such a sweet man. He deserves the best honestly.
Amen 🙏🏽 ❤😊
Ameen 🥹 thank you so much !
@@WavesOfLight4right 🥹 thank you❤️ he’s my dad
Papa sems has really done a great job in building the type of relationship he has with his daughter. I also love Mariam and her father and ofcourse Victoria and Bolu’s. God bless them all for sharing.
Despite all, Esther Dad really love his daughter, and the daughter also took after him. They are both bold and expressive ❤
Almost at the end of the video and I agree. They're so similar 😂
I felt like the father who made her kids do hard labour is such a wonderful man, so vulnerable and honest. I hope his kids make him proud
Yes He is so cool
Victoria dear. If you see this, just keep working on your emotional intelligence…
I ABSOLUTELY LOVED the analogy of labeling his behaviors. My dad vs the nagging.
And you are also deeply wise enough to acknowledge your part in triggering him as well. Cos despite it all, he’s a human too living through his own human experience.. this will make you more aware and intuitive and also more present…
Keep arming yourself with knowledge and understanding…
God’s got you girl!❤ 💪🏽
The young lady is quite expressive... Love it
I also think most of her answers has to do with the stage she's in
She is actually very smart.
@@AdugboChessexactly very smart
@@AdugboChessvery I love it
i am not answering according to d show
i was answering according to my emotions
@@Erhurhuvictoriathe comment didn’t mean according to the show, it meant according to the stage (age, level, etc) you’re currently
this tale on expectation folks tell isn’t the flex they think it is, listen to your kids!
this is an excerpt from a piece i wrote about my childhood:
‘I wasn’t even allowed to be a kid, to grow at a pace every normal kid did. I did tons of adult stuffs. I couldn’t make mistakes. There was no room for emotions too. All of these because “I don’t want my kids to go through life the way I did”.
And as motivating as that sounds, it was the most suffocating and trapping thing ever. For me. As a child.’
❤❤❤❤
Wow, just screen shotted this. Well said!!! 🎉❤
This episode is good for the small girl and the dad, you can tell they’ll heal after this. 🙏
That’s not true because he said so many stupid stuff
@@OnyenaguboAbigail na person papa na u dey talk about like that? I don't think you still have one
@@gerhardchang5315 I had a very present father in my life, he was and still is the best man I have ever met. Telling ur child that u want to marry someone else because u want male children sounds very annoying, because he can still give birth to girls. There is something he also said I married ur mum just because I wanted to get married, this particular info is not necessary. I was raised by very intentional parents especially my father, he was present and he respected and adored my mum.
@@gerhardchang5315 pls don’t forget children learn from their parents ways.
@@OnyenaguboAbigailYh he did but they might be some improvements…the second wife thing 💔
Semilore calls her mom Iya Sems. That’s cute 😂
Thought I was the only one that hit.😂😂 It's so weird to me.
that's what he calls his wife too 😅
I love their relationships. I don’t think I can stand n talk to my dad like this
Razaq is such a good father. I pray he reaps the fruit of his labour
This episode is the therapy I didn't know I needed. Every duo was so good 🥺
beating isn’t equal to protection, it’s not even synonymous; it’s a violation of trust and safety, and this is why kids grow up to walk on eggshells around their folks. true protection comes from love, understanding, and open communication, not fear and pain.
idk why african parents believe they have to cause pain and fear in their kids before they can believe that they’ve been able to pass their message across.
im a 24 year old adult that’s clinically diagnosed with gad, and the bulk of the symptoms my gad display is me constantly being anxious and feeling unsafe. even when im emotionally and physically assured, my typical day is me going about my day with fear that something or someone is trying to hurt to me.
my father was so hot tempered growing, and beating was the only way he knew how to create an outlet for such emotion.
Our slave owners whipped us and we passed it down to our children 😔
So sorry about your experience, It was because of how they were brought up themselves.
Good thing is that our generation is trying to be better our parents
This episode is quite emotional
@@yomide_naturals better can mean a lot of things. I myself being beaten like a slave to carry the family can attest to the fact, that young children being built to absorb the trauma of years and years of broken people, being expected to heal their African parents after facing horrific abuse from them is insane. The resentment and pain always goes somewhere. So it’s better placed with the people who put it on you. And after letting them go.
😂😂😂eiiii
I screamed, I wasn’t expecting that at all
What a way to start….
Carry inhaler before you click play oo
I’m traumatized on the little girl’s behalf 🤦♀️
I love Victoria, she’s super outspoken
I love Semilore's relationship with her Dad, it's very sweet. Having a gist partner in her dad is good
mr razaq really trusts his daughter, it's actually wholesome to see even if he's not the most expressive person.
Victoria is so wise, sounds like she has been forced to grow up fast. Her father is difficult. Refuses to listen and expects her mother to do everything. Victoria has also figured out ways to communicate with her parents in the safest way without getting hit.
Her life like many children of African parents is steeped in fear. How can an African parent expect their child to be open to saying what problems they have if the child fears getting hit or what comes next. Fear and trust cannot exist in the same place.
Victoria was smart to choose this as a medium to talk to her father because it is a safe environment but she is taking a big risk as we don’t know what will happen when she goes home, brave young girl.
It’s not that she is gen Z, or whatever generation, we all try to figure out ways to protect ourselves based on our childhood environments.
Bolu is just..
WOW!
First daughters and their moms😭😭
I need to see that.
Yes i agree 😂😂😂😂
First daughters and their Dad's too
Bruhhh 😂😂
Seconded
Disaster 😂😂😂 I wont attend 🤣
I love every scene and expressions from everyone in this video. I can relate with the situations of Maryam but a big Kudos to Victoria's Mum because the praises from her husband about how she is able to manage the home because her husband couldn't provide at the moment. May God bless her and i hope every woman here emulate her even despite not know her. I can relate with most stories and expression told here. I look forward to having such conversations with my sons and daugthers in the future. Thank you Cruise!
This episode is quite emotional. When Victoria and her dad hugged, I shed a tear. Here's a message to all the men out here reading this, I just y'all to know that life with you isn't easy at all especially companionship, family and all that sort. But despite the toughness and difficulty we all go through during the course of our relationship, I want y'all to know that Home is with you and no one else.❤❤
Victoria
Even though I don't know you, I'm proud of you
aww this video made me pick up the phone to call my dad (and we literally just spoke yesterday lool) to tell him i love and miss him. daddy’s girl 4eva 💗🥹
I have never cried for any podcast or show, this made me cry even at work. God bless all the fathers.
This will bring me closer to my daughter even with the crazy distance.😢😢😢
Omo...I laughed, I cringed, It got really emotional and I could feel the heart to heart..That girl Esther will definitely go places ❤
I’m glad these daughters got to have this conversation with their fathers. I appreciate the honesty all around and hopefully they heal the parts of contention.
That was deep from Victoria.
" I am proud to tell my classmates that my Dad cooks".
That's a girl who cherishes any effort the Dad makes.
OMG!!!! I love Esther’s energy. She’s very smart.
Calling men “the evil forces” is funny to me
😂😂😂😂 he really knows his gender.🤣🤣
Hope you had a good laugh
Lion in the streets can be evil.😂
Exactly
😂😂😂 I wasn’t surprised when he said he was a pastor later
my dad has changed alot after this show
alot of people should join this show oooo
its gonna help u get alot of understanding from ur loved one
Soo happy for you and your family
And you are very intelligent…all the best
It will only get better from here. I believe you will bring the best out in him.
I’m so glad to here this ❤️
I'm so glad to hear that man ❤
Good job ❤
Victoria is just too amazing...A kind of daughter every parent want.
Victoria father should listen to his daughter for god sake! 😮
Like 😢😢😢😢
Likeeee man stress the little girl
Her impulsive need to leave the room when he walks in is sooo relatable to me. It’s a side effect of rigid parenting by someone with a closed-minded view of raising kids. Honestly, I don't think "blood is thicker than water". Strong relationships matter more, whether they're built on fear and power dynamics, conformity to tradition, or genuine respect and love for each other.
I am trusting she gets good mentors in her life that keep her spirit alive.
I am trusting she gets good mentors in her life that keep her spirit alive.
Victoria love, you're a very expressive young lady, and it's a plus for you. But I'd like you to know that your dad really loves you, as you could tell at the end of the episode. He's been strict because that's the way he knows how to show love, especially in this crazy world of sexualising young girls. So, please don't build hatred for him. You may think you don't need him now, but in the future, you would wish things were different (talking from experience 😉)... Also, when he tells you something, learn to obey Daddy so it does not result in shouting, especially if he has told you several times before 😅
Daddy Victoria sir, the way you were raised those days is not the same now. Please learn to show more love and give grace to your kids. Being too strict will only push them away from you. Hope you both work on your relationship as time goes on 😊❤
As someone who was raised my a strict father, I really understand Victoria’s plight. Looking back now, I appreciate my father for the tough love though I don’t have the opportunity to show it cos he’s late now. I believe Victoria will get to the stage where she’d realize her father’s love for her and her siblings. Thank you for your comment.
@favouroibe4143 you're spot on bro. May your dad's soul rest in peace ❤️
This actually got me emotional, like, I literally teared up several times while watching. Kudos to the brains behind this.
Why did I find myself crying 😭. See daughter and father love!
Okay 👍 I love this ❤
I am a Victoria's fan... Like her words are dense ❤ Her dad loves her
Semilore and her dad is cool watching them... They conversed like age mate ❤
Bolu and her dad are such calmed spirit people ❤
Mariam and her dad is lovely,,,,
This was a good and insightful watch ✨
Btw Semilore and her dad?? Such a vibe😂
Iya Sems is so gangsta 😂❤❤❤
I love Semi and her dad's relationship
me too😭😭
Love Semilore and her dad relationship