Black Wife Effect Trend Shows How to Really "Glow Up" ...According to TikTok

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  • @monicacreator3168
    @monicacreator3168 6 місяців тому +127

    Love a trend that's uplifting us instead of making us look bad

    • @ElleJae-b9q
      @ElleJae-b9q 6 місяців тому +10

      This ❤

    • @reginawilliamson6622
      @reginawilliamson6622 6 місяців тому

      *WHAT?!?!? How Is Diluting Our Genetics Uplifting?!?!? PLEASE EXPLAIN THAT SIS!!!!* 🤔

  • @averieldeathrider8407
    @averieldeathrider8407 5 місяців тому +24

    I'm a German man engaged to a beautiful black woman & this's true. She's given me a happier, healthier life & we lift each other up. We're a power couple. She's my Queen & she treats me like a king.😎😎

  • @tracyjacksonjackson4221
    @tracyjacksonjackson4221 6 місяців тому +42

    The glow up is due to adding a little flavor to these guys. They look great!!!

  • @sweedy3333
    @sweedy3333 6 місяців тому +93

    I (a BW) am in a happy relationship with a Black man, but honey i am FASCINATED. I need more of these videos 😂. Yall doing the damn thang. And I love that yall arent trying to turn your partners into Black men but are simply improving the canvas thats already there 🤌🏽

    • @juststop761
      @juststop761 6 місяців тому +1

      Please stop lying, 1 you not married to a blk man just saying it. Second they pulling the look out they rear-end huh? So if you put these dudes up next to black men it wouldn't be the same look? Dude got corn rolls to the back but got nothing to do with black men lol

    • @allhailthegreatmother7342
      @allhailthegreatmother7342 6 місяців тому +7

      ❤❤❤

    • @EverythingisH8speech
      @EverythingisH8speech 6 місяців тому +3

      How about you? Focus on your current man. This is why y’all can’t keep a relationship now too worried about what everyone else has going on my brother needs an alert before you do something drastic.

    • @sweedy3333
      @sweedy3333 6 місяців тому +13

      @degrerickjenkins1617 what a tragic life...to not know what joy and happiness for self and others look like. I pray youre delivered from your strife and bitterness

  • @TheDaughtersOfSerenityTDOS
    @TheDaughtersOfSerenityTDOS 5 місяців тому +11

    🙏🏽🌷 As an American black woman, I love this trend because it shows American black women in a healthy and positive light. It's refreshing to see positive promotion and representation of American black women.

    • @younghandsome3447
      @younghandsome3447 2 місяці тому

      It’s not a TREND it’s a FETISHIZATION!🤡😂🤦🏻‍♂️

    • @Angeldaisy-ji6sp
      @Angeldaisy-ji6sp Місяць тому +2

      ​@@younghandsome3447if lying helps you feel better 😅

  • @cj2b2bs
    @cj2b2bs 6 місяців тому +42

    I love the black wife effect. Some black men are mad. But hell they don’t want us. Black women Live your happy life

  • @LadyAstarionAncunin
    @LadyAstarionAncunin 6 місяців тому +25

    I'm not seeing these channels post the best one, which is on the frilancy channel. She didn't just glow him up; she turned him into an editorial model right with her. They be looking fierce AF! Fashion is on 10. They won this whole "challenge."

  • @CelideeBudoromyi
    @CelideeBudoromyi 6 місяців тому +13

    Thanks black wives to represent us well ❤🎉🎉

  • @ChrisSh-k9d
    @ChrisSh-k9d 6 місяців тому +28

    Lmfao daaaaammmmn shawty said these Black women sendin they boyfriends to the barber shop not clipper cuts and happy cuts 🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️😂😂.

  • @khartoniapratt2792
    @khartoniapratt2792 6 місяців тому +25

    Sistahood,
    I'm very proud of us. Black Men crying 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @EverythingisH8speech
      @EverythingisH8speech 6 місяців тому

      Seems the only ones crying are the black women who actually thought that they could retain a white guy. They don’t want you you’re just another hole to poke.

    • @nalignmentwlifehealinglife
      @nalignmentwlifehealinglife 6 місяців тому +3

      😂😂😂😂😂 lol yup

    • @Gnashercide
      @Gnashercide 6 місяців тому

      ​@@nalignmentwlifehealinglife?

    • @Xnovality
      @Xnovality 5 місяців тому +7

      @@EverythingisH8speech so explain why marriages between BW and WM are the most successful.

  • @kamieyonce
    @kamieyonce 6 місяців тому +26

    A few are cringe but for the most part its pure fun, as long as Black women are being celebrated and loved-we elevate everything we touch and our loved ones are not exempt❤

  • @1922badone
    @1922badone 6 місяців тому +28

    Black Women really are magical

  • @Page57
    @Page57 6 місяців тому +24

    The cat meowed at the perfect time.😂

  • @MuseSunflower
    @MuseSunflower 6 місяців тому +20

    I understand what the last woman was saying. I don't want to see any woman being wanted for their labor and over functioning.
    However that's not the vibe I got from most the videos I've seen. I see a bunch of well watered and well loved women. So of course, they are sharing that overflow of love to their husband which is why he uplevels too. Then the more he grows, the more he can pour back into her
    It's a beautiful circuitry that should be the norm

  • @rhonda5056
    @rhonda5056 5 місяців тому +7

    White men who are in a relationship with a Black woman are generally confident and they have trust in the woman that they love. So, I am sure they want to look good for their women who is already looking good.

  • @donettahuggins2635
    @donettahuggins2635 6 місяців тому +13

    These men getting that SOUL food seasoning 👌🏾‼️

  • @JessicaA777
    @JessicaA777 6 місяців тому +48

    We Black women are the kingmakers. They started out as Princes then they got King' ed. Next topic.

    • @doshpits
      @doshpits 6 місяців тому +4

      yt men.. kings? ok lol

    • @CelideeBudoromyi
      @CelideeBudoromyi 6 місяців тому +3

      Amen..they got kinged

    • @Gnashercide
      @Gnashercide 6 місяців тому

      ​@@doshpitslmao

    • @Gnashercide
      @Gnashercide 6 місяців тому +1

      King what ? Kings ARE queens makers ....

    • @Xnovality
      @Xnovality 5 місяців тому +3

      @@doshpitsblk men.. kings? Ok lol

  • @Mrs.Roseonlinetutor
    @Mrs.Roseonlinetutor 6 місяців тому +12

    Glowing skin, Glowing auras, Big smiles, Styles 100% - and she said it’s just the barber…. 😑

  • @SparkleSunflower123
    @SparkleSunflower123 6 місяців тому +9

    Kitteh be like: "what about the black cat effect??" 🐈‍⬛️ 😂❤

  • @ainathiel
    @ainathiel 6 місяців тому +17

    Thanks for the video. I have seen it on YT shorts b/c I don't do TikTok. I don't see the problem. There was a whole franchise of Gay men dressing and styling Straight men. This shouldn't be an issue. I also know many Black women who do this for their partners, the partner's kids etc. When you love someone, when they look good you feel good.

  • @sheritownsend5359
    @sheritownsend5359 6 місяців тому +21

    I thought it was cute. Don't over think it. As far as the last person, negative people will look at something and see only the negative in it.

  • @brebri89
    @brebri89 6 місяців тому +20

    I LOVE this trend❤❤❤❤

  • @cherylsimpson6702
    @cherylsimpson6702 5 місяців тому +4

    Black women build up and enhance our men regardless of the man’s race. 😀

  • @isaumar-ve8hs
    @isaumar-ve8hs 6 місяців тому +7

    It about time we have some videos of black men showing a glow up of their black wives or girl friend's positive effect on their image or lives.

    • @michellewhitfield5667
      @michellewhitfield5667 5 місяців тому +1

      Do it. Personally, I've never seen a woman of any race look better after she got married, while the husband usually does experience a glow up. Marriage is a lot of work for most women.

  • @georgiabrown7452
    @georgiabrown7452 5 місяців тому +2

    Blessings from Canada-Black Queens keep it up -We were trained from Slavery days how to treat People

  • @MustardSkaven
    @MustardSkaven 6 місяців тому +17

    Why did they have to make it a negative thing in the latter half? Maybe it just happens to be the case that among black American women they do more to improve the look of their man.
    My girlfriend is Asian and the main way she improves me is in organisation and practical stuff around the house. Different women have different ways of helping their men improve.
    That doesn't mean my girl doesn't give me fashion tips or anything but she's not going to cause a full make over. She doesn't care about it like that.
    And logically every culture or group has their own thing they focus on more or specialise in.
    The "black woman effect" thing is supposed to be a positive thing, from what I gather. These women really improved their men. A shame some people want to turn it into a negative thing.

  • @sojubean6386
    @sojubean6386 6 місяців тому +7

    Naaa!! It’s TheLove and Good Food.. A Man that Finds A WIFE Finds a GOOD THING!!!

    • @michellewhitfield5667
      @michellewhitfield5667 5 місяців тому

      Have you noticed that the Bible has nothing similar to say to women about finding a husband? As currently practiced, marriage is made to benefit men.

    • @sojubean6386
      @sojubean6386 5 місяців тому

      @@michellewhitfield5667 Exactly!! Hebrews 13:5, Isaiah 54:5-8 ...... BlessUp

  • @kuldoxy5637
    @kuldoxy5637 5 місяців тому +3

    I really don't understand why some black women find it annoying that white women say they will like to have the black wife effect on their husbands or themselves. I'm Nigerian so forgive me if I don't understand why it's annoying cos I see it as a harmless joke, but anyway...

  • @justinlom
    @justinlom 5 місяців тому +3

    your so pretty

  • @shantidivination
    @shantidivination 6 місяців тому +7

    No, she said what she said. If they say it, we can say something about it 💁🏾‍♀️ Stop playing in our faces!

  • @temamarshall92
    @temamarshall92 5 місяців тому +3

    The first women, really did not say much of anything. It’s more than just sending these men to the barber. That’s all she got of this whole thing. Smh

  • @DeRocco21
    @DeRocco21 5 місяців тому +1

    i saw this and loved it, but someone always has to piss in other peoples cheerios

  • @lavonnealexander6936
    @lavonnealexander6936 6 місяців тому +4

    I thought this was cringe 😬 like the last black woman but you have remember all white women don’t like the same aesthetic. Maybe, they like this particular style. I still get a weird feeling.

  • @kingstonstreet3726
    @kingstonstreet3726 6 місяців тому +3

    It is just barber ,some are healthier,attires,etc

  • @rantsandfaves
    @rantsandfaves 6 місяців тому

    Sophie said IKTR!

  • @ramonamron5194
    @ramonamron5194 4 місяці тому

    WM gets really uplifted, which is great for them, cause they have to put in no effort. Just get them a BW who wants total control and they are home free. Good for the WM.

  • @Kevin.e.Turner
    @Kevin.e.Turner 6 місяців тому +1

    You know what's very interesting? How bw always tell themselves that they are "Race Loyal" but then use the word "Settling" as an insult, in the same breath. so, my question is, are black women really as race loyal as they tell themselves that they are or are they just settling for what they can get at that particular moment and time? (Dating on your level basically)An if you say both then you would have completely erroneously contradicted your own narrative about you having more options. So which is it?

    • @ThatsMeDoctorD
      @ThatsMeDoctorD 5 місяців тому +1

      If it’s merely about being “race loyal” whatever that means, many relationships may most certainly be superficial and possibly lack longevity at best. Genuine LOVE doesn’t have a color/race to it. I’m too old, intelligent, and focused to commit to anything or anyone that’s simply NOT for me! The ONLY person I consult about my relationship issues, especially marriage, is GOD. I was married to a Black man and, after 17 years and children together, we divorced. Was that solely on him? Nope, because sometimes you just know when someone is not right for you, but you can be more committed to people than they are to you. Being loyal to anything or anyone to your own detriment can cause insanity, especially where loyalty isn’t reciprocated! I could care less about it being someone of the same race! The Lord blessed me to marry again, and my husband is white…and loving, faithful, committed, a great husband and father, approachable, sociable, mentally and emotionally intelligent, and most importantly, he loves God! Thankfully, I don’t reside inside of a box that limits my ability to see and love people outside of the confines of race. It’s a really immature approach to relationships and life.

  • @michelledirelle
    @michelledirelle 5 місяців тому

    Why not just charge sth to level up some other marriage of a stranger?😂

  • @TURBOBEATZZZ
    @TURBOBEATZZZ 6 місяців тому +2

    7:30 Nothing says " I stiil need me a BM somehow" like this!Not seeing how making WM look like BM uplifts BW tho🤔.
    Now please don't get mad when Taylor Swift comes out with locs and or braids with a BBL and puffy lips. Take it as a compliment like we BM are doing😉.

    • @obsidianlane2101
      @obsidianlane2101 6 місяців тому

      Lmaoooooooo.. Kim K actually helped to elevate the bw, y’all love our features on clear women even if they are plastic and fake

    • @CantHaveMyPeace
      @CantHaveMyPeace 6 місяців тому

      Look like a black man where and why would they want a black man? Im sorry but most black men don’t have this aesthetic themselves so I don’t get it. With the polished look, did they make then non providers and protectors too?

    • @ITEEZ-
      @ITEEZ- 6 місяців тому +1

      Improving their sense of fashion is not making them look like bm. They still look like non blck men and act like one

    • @djholidaytv414
      @djholidaytv414 6 місяців тому

      As black men we gotta let these sisters go and tremendously FOCUS on us and US only. We not stupid and we see the psychological, physical and Eugenics warfare at play. If this is what these people want the so be it. We just gotta move in SILENCE and we'll be greater than great. If they say we dangerous fucc it and FUCC THEM!

  • @fixyaface-man496
    @fixyaface-man496 6 місяців тому +2

    🤨 will they be happy for the white wife effect tho?

    • @EverythingisH8speech
      @EverythingisH8speech 6 місяців тому

      Can’t wait to see their faces when that one hits the net

  • @fkcoleman9356
    @fkcoleman9356 6 місяців тому +1

    Black men Swagger getting stolen again and black women love to see us lose

    • @mosesdaxon9162
      @mosesdaxon9162 6 місяців тому +1

      Yes you right my black sister give my parking space to a so call white man to park in until I check him an her so yes she is a devil! To !

  • @ruminantmelanoid5444
    @ruminantmelanoid5444 6 місяців тому +1

    As a black man, I will say this and dip. There is a bag in swaggin' up white women's husbands. That is all.

    • @AnastasiaBeaverhousn
      @AnastasiaBeaverhousn 6 місяців тому +4

      Everything isn't about money! I wouldn't expect a Black male to get that! You all have been selling out the community since forever!🙄

    • @allhailthegreatmother7342
      @allhailthegreatmother7342 6 місяців тому +3

      "White women's husbands"?
      No. BLACK MEN are their husbands now. These are OURS 🤤

  • @Dr.GD4
    @Dr.GD4 6 місяців тому +4

    As a 28 year old black male Anesthesiologist, my current girlfriend is biracial (white/black). I say go where you’re appreciated. I have no problem with this trend just like the NFL white girlfriend thing.

    • @WordsofHarmony
      @WordsofHarmony 6 місяців тому +3

      Black men shouldn’t have an issue. Cause the numbers show that BM have the highest divorce rate across race. Black women and white men divorce rate is the lowest. Black NFL players should go to their white women, let them get the black husband effect

    • @readyornot27
      @readyornot27 6 місяців тому +10

      Trying to make this about you and who you’re dating, ironically hints that you do indeed have a problem with this trend. 😂

  • @cj2b2bs
    @cj2b2bs 6 місяців тому +1

    The last woman stop talking you don’t make any sense! Irrating!

  • @DMcGuire323
    @DMcGuire323 6 місяців тому +1

    What's the moral of the story? Bw upgrade foreign men? 😂😂

    • @AnastasiaBeaverhousn
      @AnastasiaBeaverhousn 6 місяців тому +3

      Foreign? You come here for what purpose?🙄

    • @djholidaytv414
      @djholidaytv414 6 місяців тому

      As black men we gotta let these sisters go and tremendously FOCUS on us and US only. We not stupid and we see the psychological, physical and Eugenics warfare at play. If this is what these people want the so be it. We just gotta move in SILENCE and we'll be greater than great. If they say we dangerous fucc it and FUCC THEM!

  • @metal_affairs
    @metal_affairs 6 місяців тому +2

    Why does it have to be racial?

  • @sunrae3971
    @sunrae3971 6 місяців тому

    Umericanz doing their racism. Not like any good partner brings out the best in the other.

  • @EverythingisH8speech
    @EverythingisH8speech 6 місяців тому

    Y’all can’t be this naïve. The moment they go back to Becky they instantly remember where they come from. They are playing y’all right in your face

    • @djholidaytv414
      @djholidaytv414 6 місяців тому

      As black men we gotta let these sisters go and tremendously FOCUS on us and US only. We not stupid and we see the psychological, physical and Eugenics warfare at play. If this is what these people want the so be it. We just gotta move in SILENCE and we'll be greater than great. If they say we dangerous fucc it and FUCC THEM!

  • @BD091959
    @BD091959 6 місяців тому +2

    Black women and Black men need to save their Black children!

    • @AnastasiaBeaverhousn
      @AnastasiaBeaverhousn 6 місяців тому +3

      Shut up 🙄

    • @allhailthegreatmother7342
      @allhailthegreatmother7342 6 місяців тому +13

      No.

    • @khartoniapratt2792
      @khartoniapratt2792 6 місяців тому

      Are you for real 🙄 ? Black are the ones making multiple Biracial children
      1. Becky - White Women 👩🏼‍❤️‍👨🏿
      2. Marie - Hispanic Women 👩🏽‍❤️‍👨🏿
      3. Kim Ling - Asian Women 👩🏻‍❤️‍👨🏿

    • @djholidaytv414
      @djholidaytv414 6 місяців тому

      As black men we will save our children. It's not black men having our babies asking for Pound Town. We gonna move in silence and get back on program.

  • @theobjectiveskeptic443
    @theobjectiveskeptic443 6 місяців тому

    This is weak as hell seems so desperate. We could call this husbands at home vs husband on date night

    • @djholidaytv414
      @djholidaytv414 6 місяців тому

      As black men we gotta let these sisters go and tremendously FOCUS on us and US only. We not stupid and we see the psychological, physical and Eugenics warfare at play. If this is what these people want the so be it. We just gotta move in SILENCE and we'll be greater than great. If they say we dangerous fucc it and FUCC THEM!

  • @marcasino3117
    @marcasino3117 6 місяців тому

    We know they aren't marrying these women, so what is really being promoted here?

    • @sheluvssmokedupeyes1
      @sheluvssmokedupeyes1 6 місяців тому +4

      Some of these couples are actually married. You know that right but good try though.

    • @sweedy3333
      @sweedy3333 6 місяців тому +34

      Do you know what wife means?

    • @TheBetterlife101
      @TheBetterlife101 6 місяців тому +23

      Clearly they were...

    • @Thisthatpinkvenom234
      @Thisthatpinkvenom234 6 місяців тому +28

      'wife' being the operative word here 😂

    • @EmpressLaniya
      @EmpressLaniya 6 місяців тому +20

      You just tryna be mad and your emotions are causing you to write in stupid. Comprehending what you see before typing in your feelings is important Sir😂😂😂😂😂

  • @AmyHiggin
    @AmyHiggin 6 місяців тому +2

    Travis Kelcly and Taylor Swift are both white. Travis Kelcly looks fine with his white girlfriend so this does not work for most white men. Most white men prefer white women. And this is called the real life effect.

    • @Shillery-n1i
      @Shillery-n1i 6 місяців тому +3

      Yup they sure do and that’s why BLK women need to date more than just wyte men lol

    • @AnastasiaBeaverhousn
      @AnastasiaBeaverhousn 6 місяців тому +1

      And he looked like that with the BLACK girlfriend!!🙄🤡

    • @AnastasiaBeaverhousn
      @AnastasiaBeaverhousn 6 місяців тому

      WTH does Travis have to do wtih this? What's your point? You don't even make sense!
      I found the triggered mad YT girl!!!!🙄🤡🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @empowered3206
      @empowered3206 5 місяців тому

      Soooooooo

    • @Angeldaisy-ji6sp
      @Angeldaisy-ji6sp Місяць тому +1

      just as much as most white women prefer white men. you're dismissed