People are angry because they rather see black women degraded and dragged. The reality is we set trends, ideas, invent. But we dont get credit or notoriety until another race comes along and do the same thing. Now sit back and watch how women as a whole will now want to put more effort into their men.
The entire world is crumbling before our eye's and all the black women focus is on making everything about them! I look forward to seeing all mixed women in the next 10 years
Exactly, the only people who are taking issue with the black wife effect are black men who swore that black women weren't good enough to be wives in the first place. Yet this trend shows them being loving, supportive wives who improve the looks and confidence of the men they marry.
I love this trend! It’s time we Black Women owned our unique power and be proud about it! We are resilient, awesome, and lovingly strong when we’re at our best. ❤
Right. Look what's happening to these blk dudes at the hands of Spanish women and white women now. They are taking their money, suing and destroying them!! 😅😂 Keep taking bringing them down girls. LoL
I live in Los Angeles and let me tell you there are so many black women dating out and looking good. From the beach, to the mall, to the night life black women are rocking it. I see so many black women with non-black men (not just white guys) doing it right.🧔🏻♂👩🏽🦱🥰😘
...and somehow this a *win* for the black race as a whole that more blacks choose not to date each other and are successful at it? I don't get what you're trying to say.
I remember David bowie. Guy went looking like something out of a ugly English horror book to GQ magazine ready. Thanks to his black wife. ⚫️. The black magic is real.
Against you basically grooming white men to be more black centric now if a white man had a white husband effect and made black women look more Eurocentric y’all would be crying and upset it’s looks pathetic honestly
Let's be real. The only "people" having an issue with this are BM. They are trying to say that BW don't do this for BM, which isn't true. BW and non-black men don't have the same relationship dynamic, so things turn out better for these couplings.
No they aren’t as a black woman y’all are making us look desperate y’all are grooming them to be a wanna be black man I just seen so many white man on a podcast say how low and ugly and black women are y’all hate being a mammy for black men but not an issue for them Harriet rolling in her grave
Of course not. They do not give us an opportunity to…. In fact, BM discard BW but BM sure a jealous to see how other men treat BW! They hate that others value us. When men value BW, they reap so many benefits! BM don’t want BW yet are invested in our every romantic move with other races of men🤦🏽♀️
Initially, yes, because his family has racist tendencies. Then, they realized he was much better off spiritually, mentally, physically, and financially because he is genuinely happy.
If you had a problem with how he dressed before why date him? U enjoy being controlling and making him feel he ain’t good enough and needs to change for you
@@jameliakingstom1190I think you missed the point of the Black wife effect. No one is forcing anyone to do anything, they change because they are happy and want to. If he's the meat and I'm the seasoning, I'm not forcing him to do anything he doesn't want to. 😂😂😂
Not just about the looks. Black women have been groomed to empower, speak like into, motivate and push our men. Whomever we marry, this is what we’ll do. My husband has come up with me in turn he takes care of me and I multiply what he brings in.
I find that many black women have more genuine confidence and that's a trait that leads to integrity because they're not easily swayed by people who might try to lead them away from their paths and goals. Guys who act immature and dress like a sloppy teenager do so because they have dated women who let them get away with that. They're worried that if they say anything about his style or how he's acting then they'd lose him. A truly confident and strong woman would let him walk. If he's truly willing to grow up and be a man, he'd do the hard work to raise up to her level.
It’s the power of women. We bring favor to our husbands and that’s on Bible & then add the resilience, culture, swag, and etc. from black women and wahla ❤️
Please give Dr. Angela Jones a break! She's a beautiful woman with a beautiful heart! She did a wonderful job telling this story! And for people who cannot handled this subject matter, then they need to do some serious soul searching!
I wish that she would emphasize that it's not about how someone dresses per say, but that Black women are good women and we really have that Black Girl Blessing that can make any man great that wants to make us great. She was right to make the Michelle Obama connection but this is true.
Exactly. It's also racist to assume black women come into a white man's life and are all "sassy, finger-snapping firecrackers who bring spice to the lame, dorky square white dude." It's just as bad as the Queer Eye for the Straight Guy TV show, where flamboyant gays come in and *magically help* improve some hetero man's life, wardrobe but still remain the minority and the outsider... and the hetero men GIVE NOTHING BACK IN RETURN.
I love my sistas! We're saying HELL NO to the disrespect from blackmen. Your music, online content and who you're flaunting infront of us is some bullshyt. Black Girl Magic we just got the sauce.
You can love a 'white man' and not demonize black men in the process. There are white men who want nothing to do with black women and can even cause physical harm... thinking of the Breonna Taylor situation or when a white police officer threw a black bikini-clad girl to the ground in McKinney, TX in 2015. Wasn't any "black girl magic" in that moment. Same with Sandra Bland's treatment after a traffic stop, etc........
Who funded these rappers? Who is constantly online telling us how low iq we are? You don't think they're smart enough to brainwash us too? Dont be naive... i don't agree with the treatment but y'all need to take accountability that the more skin you show the less valuable you become as a whole. I see black women everyday old and young showing whorish behavior and black men telling them that behavior is lame. I also see black women make excuses for thugs saying "he's fine he didn't do it" letting their daughters twerk. Do you not think that has an affect on your image as a whole? When I see a recent graduate from college I'm like "cool" then in the same video she's got a face full of make up, 9inch nails, and weave on top of shaking that ass because she's is excited... all this on the internet. I agree black men need to cut the drugs and alcohol out but don't think these other guys are truly understanding of who you are. Don't think they'll accept that behavior from you either. Men are men right? Might want to ask "Becky" about her experiences and why they're not into their own men right now.
When I met my white husband, he did not look like the college professor he actually was. So I would take him shopping or get his more professional and appropriate clothes.
Y'all don't want the nerdy black men or the gamer guys. Just the white men. That's lame. I've seen so many good guys get passed up for thugs now y'all want the enemy. It is what it is. We wouldn't be in this country had it not been for their ancestors. I guess y'all forgot about stay woke and the trail of tears. Black Wall Street. Ok then...
Exactly!! This is the Black Mammy effect come full circle! History always repeats itself! Taking care of , nursing and dressing up Massas sons ! 👀👎🏾SMH -Sade Robinson tried the black Mammy effect also. ☠️👀
@@Roccofandefinitely not the ones like u on here talking about “out of welock babies “ when your KIND are the ones creating those homes and not making those women wives
Trend??? I’m so happy that we Black Women are finally being appreciated and the love she deserves. Not only are the men glowing but look at the Black Women. They are beaming, radiant. Simply they are glowing ❤
@@nrsimmons178Black women are just painting a large target on there backs, for everyone to dislike Black women. White woman will come for black women. In due time
Forget the 'effect'. I only care for relationships if there is genuine love, the man provides, the woman does her part and the couple truly puts God in the center of the union.
I can attest to this happening 30 + years ago when my Italian husband, and I (Black Indian) met and we married.😊 we are coming up on 33 years of marriage in June 2024…To God be the glory…❤
This is true and I am a black man married to a black woman. If they want to bring attention to the interracial relationships fine. Some black men have trashed black women so much that it sometimes takes outsiders to bring attention to what has been true and not appreciated.
Is the opposite true also? The divide between BM/BW has been widened by social and news media. It's profitable or else it wouldn't be talked about so much.
@@ramonamron5194 Could be true, after the 2nd or 3rd marriage you should have learned something. However, a few of these couples have been together for years. I don't believe it's simply because they wives are Black, any woman who is open to loving, honoring and respecting their husbands can pour greatness into their husbands and vice-versa.
I’m so happy for this trend. Whoever started it deserves an award. We black women are often the recipients of online bullying so its nice for others to see we are humans and we have and bring value wherever we are. 💗
@@corypalmer5495Yeah, happy with our peaceful lives and glad we're not married to murdering cheaters like her..."allegedly." #ThoughtYouAte #JayZIsNext
@@PrincessYonna1 Oh please y’all don’t need anyone to teach you about being single mothers you do great all by yourself. Now what blk women did teach you would be most of the hair, beauty, swag, dancing, and styling trends that are popular today.
This happened to my man, but it had nothing to do with me. I loved him before, but after we got together he got better hair cuts, started working out, changed his clothes. I'm not mad at it 😆
They missing the point it’s not just the look of dressing up it is about how well the man treat her, about providing, protecting and loving her. And him showing this love for this woman by doing his part…soft life. So she can be feminine.😊
There is no such thing as conditional femininity just like there is no such thing as conditional masculinity. You're either feminine or you're not. If you're turning it on and off, then you're not feminine and are just acting based on conditions. It's sad that westernized blk women are like that. Sad.
No it’s not they love caping for white folks plain and simple. Most sisters with brothers we already have the style swag and whatever else is needed. It’s definitely the mammy effect 🤦🏾
The funny thing about this culture, when Black men are propped above other groups of men in various ways, including supposedly having more swag, or being cooler for his black culture, etc, nobody complains about that. But say the same thing about Black women being cool and stylish, then there's complaining
@@djlivvy46 Why wouldn’t they? What’s wrong with her? Tell her to stop being a victim, give the man that is on her level that she wants, what he wants, so that he will choose her.
I agree that The 'BLACK WIFE EFFECT' is a great thing. We just had a great discussion with Kolter Bouchard on my channel about interracial relationships and The Black wife effect trend.
Beautiful but it’s a shame how much our own men and women would rather disrespect each other than build each other up. Something as simple as seeing a beautiful couples glow up. ❤
All women tend to improve their men. Women generally have a better understanding of how to dress, groom, and present themselves. When they get involved with a man they make generally positive changes with him.
Speaking as a man, that's the most ridiculous thing I've read in a long, long while. But denying black women their rare moments in the sun always gets you those WS upvotes.
Black women affect on America !!! Lets talk about this!! The country stay appropriating and not crediting us for our swag and greatness! Inventions, fashion, music, mannerism, words, dance, singing, our history!
BW has been doing this for BM except some BM level up and never commit to secure relationship or step out on BW. There's even a movie scene about it with Bobby Brown in A Thin Line Between Love And Hate. The WM in the Black Wife Effect actually MARRIED and seems to appreciate their partners. Stark differences.
😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣. You’re a Black dude telling women to “marry before they carry”, yet you’re apart of a race of “men” who are known and have always been know for creating more single mothers and bastard kids than any other male group ! The most subjugated, the least educated, the most homeless, and the most incarcerated males on the planet are NOT qualified to tell anybody $h!t ! SHUT UP and go buy yourself a clue Dayquan ! ✌🏾
@@User78813What is great is everyone has free will to look how they feel and love who they want. They don't have to choose someone that puts them down. Learn love and practice kindness.
@@stars-are-us But that's not showing confidence in what you were born with. Black women weren't really straightening their hair until they needed a job around these people's grand mothers. What happened to stay woke?
Show me Jewish people marrying Palestinians at large numbers and think about it they have only went through oppression from 1948 not centuries of oppression and enslavement. If y’all got so much magic why don’t we have reparations or an end to global exploitation. The reality is that BW have become products of a sick society and have assimilated to being under an evil hegemonic empire.
Back home in Africa, mothers tell young women "your husband is your first child", so you have to mother him in a certain way and it becomes natural, spontaneous as if anchored in us. Just as we are told "you have to suffer to be beautiful", because you have to wear braids, so naturally the black woman is flirtatious and attaches great importance to her external appearance "you don't leave the house without wash yourself, brush your teeth, uncombed hair etc", naturally you will impact your partner "if he shines, I shine". Watch how Meghan transformed Prince Harry into a stylish, respectable man and a better version of himself. same for Barac obama etc...
since the trend got popular and promoted on TikTok the United States government considers it some sort of chinese propaganda to destroy the country (and by destroying they mean the country becoming less white)
@@Angeldaisy-ji6sp ok Mr simp , copying loneliness by defending these harlots and people in the comments section. I understand that you are triggered of what I said, and I know deep down what I said is true. Another brainwashed black man supporting Black femcel that are hypocrites. Another brainwashed beta soft cuck man , who’s into black woman that disrespect him. Or maybe you’re woman , If so my bad couldn’t tell from profile pic.
It is synergy, when love is given and received. It also depends on the women who desire nice things and a man open to suggestions. My mom dressed my father and her children and taught us how to behave in public. What we looked like and acted like was a direct reflection of our parents, they took it seriously. The narrative about Black people never seems to include our own social codes.
I agree that Black women enhance their man's lifestyle. Steve Harvey always states that it was his wife, Marjorie, who changed his style of dressing for the better. Look at him, now! Nothing but SWAG!
Yeah man, Americans have been deeply infantilized since the Baby Boomer gen. All we seem to care about is entertainment (movies, shows, music, podcasts, sports), politics, dating/mating politics, whatever restaurant we dined in or want to dine in, traveling and making money.
News networks are so late to internet trends I don’t know why they bother. This trends already evolved from it being a family trend to married couple’s trend to an interracial married couple’s trend in the last few weeks. With the trend becoming viral the more it changed. It’s positive imagery for black women regardless but I preferred it as a family trend showing appreciation for cultural practices and individual value of black wives in their communities.
Let me find out black women are choosing Brad’s that show up on first dates with vomit on their sweaters already, mom’s spaghetti and then swagging them out. Don’t forget to drive him back to his basement apartment and put money on his bus pass before you leave….early.
Why don’t you Black dudes continue focusing on getting your passports instead of worrying about what’s happening to Black women. Ya’ll spend too much time focusing on the wrong $h!t ! Go find your non Black queen and leave a lot of Black women alone ! ✌🏾
At last, a positive take on it without the negative nonsense.
They removed the comments including mines 🙄
Good
@@TootsieRoadLoL
There's always gonna be a negative aspect to it
Good. I'm glad black women are getting recognized positively! They deserve some good energy from media/society
People are angry because they rather see black women degraded and dragged. The reality is we set trends, ideas, invent. But we dont get credit or notoriety until another race comes along and do the same thing.
Now sit back and watch how women as a whole will now want to put more effort into their men.
The entire world is crumbling before our eye's and all the black women focus is on making everything about them! I look forward to seeing all mixed women in the next 10 years
Thissss✨✨🫶🏾🫶🏾🤣
Exactly, the only people who are taking issue with the black wife effect are black men who swore that black women weren't good enough to be wives in the first place. Yet this trend shows them being loving, supportive wives who improve the looks and confidence of the men they marry.
@@janedo-re-mi2738 they are so miserable 🤣🤣
@@janedo-re-mi2738Blk men do not care about this laughably corny sht🤣🤣🤣
Sis, step away from the ledge, smh.
Black women are amazing ❤
Everything black women touches turns to gold!
What’s that out-of-wedlock birthrate?
@@Roccofan You salty asf, seek help. 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@Roccofaneverything blk men touch turns into broken homes???
@Roccofan When BW date WM they becomes wives 💍 When BW date BM they become babymamas. That should answer your question.
I love this trend! It’s time we Black Women owned our unique power and be proud about it! We are resilient, awesome, and lovingly strong when we’re at our best. ❤
Sellout
Right. Look what's happening to these blk dudes at the hands of Spanish women and white women now. They are taking their money, suing and destroying them!! 😅😂
Keep taking bringing them down girls. LoL
I live in Los Angeles and let me tell you there are so many black women dating out and looking good. From the beach, to the mall, to the night life black women are rocking it. I see so many black women with non-black men (not just white guys) doing it right.🧔🏻♂👩🏽🦱🥰😘
It's beautiful to see
I seeing more of this too. Especially on the cruise I took last October!
...and somehow this a *win* for the black race as a whole that more blacks choose not to date each other and are successful at it? I don't get what you're trying to say.
In NYC too!
Do you see the world news? People are tired of European colonism that funds these companies these guys work for to take you out. Do you care?
Black women are extremely resourceful.
I remember David bowie. Guy went looking like something out of a ugly English horror book to GQ magazine ready. Thanks to his black wife. ⚫️. The black magic is real.
Iman 🩷
The immaculate Iman ❤
Yess💯
black magic......?💀 dont associate that with us. its black girl magic
@@aprilswrld222lmao
My best friend is a black woman and she makes sure I come correct and always know the assignment thanks to her
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
So, how many licks does it take?
🫶🏽❤️💯
She's a great friend
You have yourself something if you are connected to a sista 😘
black latina married to an italian american man, he already had a sense of style, i just helped him get better at dancing salsa, LOL
Italians are the 2.0 version of wm! 😂😂
Black latina?? 🥱 You're not Black you just want the recognition!! 🤡
But sis...you upgraded him...that's the point. Shine on!
Beautiful Black Women 🌿🌺🌿🌺
Only "Modern BM" and "Pick Me BW" are against it ‼️
Both are h8ers of BW. I now just block those negative Nancy BW from my soc media feed. Not my tribe of BW!
Against you basically grooming white men to be more black centric now if a white man had a white husband effect and made black women look more Eurocentric y’all would be crying and upset it’s looks pathetic honestly
It’s not something ALL women do. 😂Black women’s magic is unmatched.
That part!😂
Unmatched indeed. But we've all got some kinda magic.
All women definitely do this. But we have taken the art to another level.
What’s that out-of-wedlock birthrate?
@@Roccofan Wrong article buddy
Let's be real. The only "people" having an issue with this are BM. They are trying to say that BW don't do this for BM, which isn't true. BW and non-black men don't have the same relationship dynamic, so things turn out better for these couplings.
True!!
No they aren’t as a black woman y’all are making us look desperate y’all are grooming them to be a wanna be black man I just seen so many white man on a podcast say how low and ugly and black women are y’all hate being a mammy for black men but not an issue for them Harriet rolling in her grave
Of course not. They do not give us an opportunity to…. In fact, BM discard BW but BM sure a jealous to see how other men treat BW! They hate that others value us. When men value BW, they reap so many benefits!
BM don’t want BW yet are invested in our every romantic move with other races of men🤦🏽♀️
They forget how Ciara glowd up Russell Wilson.
@@avaphynx raising another man's child is not glowed up, it simptastic!
This is the most positive news I’ve seen in many months. Thank you for reporting this ❤❤❤❤
This is not positive. You need to go touch grass.
Lol as black women we do that naturally. We need you looking and feeling your best.
My mother taught me that. I needed my wife for much deeper things.
@@Roccofanwow! Too bad your wife can handle various tasks, ideas,etc.
Glad you are enjoying your one thing at a time wife
@@breeminor498 AS long as your white husband is happy, that's all that matters.
@@RoccofanDang are you on every comment? You're miserable.. 😂 Your audio is not matching the video.
@@RockyIsMe Like a good neighbor…….what does your comment mean?
Definitely our melanin magic
It was the white husband that started it all. They wanted to show how magical/loving their black wife has been to them. It their confidence for me.
What’s that out-of-wedlock birthrate?
@@Roccofan why do you keep posting this! Women don't become pregnant by themselves! 🥱
@@Roccofan you’re a disgusting racist, copying the same comment over and over.
@@RoccofanThat’s the black man effect! A baby mother in poverty is the magic that black men bring to the table 😂😂
Yesssss! I'm black and my husband is white and I have well seasoned him. He loves leaving the house very well dressed and quite dapper.
Did he receive any blowback from his friends and family with ur changes??
Initially, yes, because his family has racist tendencies. Then, they realized he was much better off spiritually, mentally, physically, and financially because he is genuinely happy.
If you had a problem with how he dressed before why date him? U enjoy being controlling and making him feel he ain’t good enough and needs to change for you
@@jameliakingstom1190I think you missed the point of the Black wife effect. No one is forcing anyone to do anything, they change because they are happy and want to. If he's the meat and I'm the seasoning, I'm not forcing him to do anything he doesn't want to. 😂😂😂
I love hearing good news about black women.
Not just about the looks. Black women have been groomed to empower, speak like into, motivate and push our men. Whomever we marry, this is what we’ll do. My husband has come up with me in turn he takes care of me and I multiply what he brings in.
I find that many black women have more genuine confidence and that's a trait that leads to integrity because they're not easily swayed by people who might try to lead them away from their paths and goals.
Guys who act immature and dress like a sloppy teenager do so because they have dated women who let them get away with that. They're worried that if they say anything about his style or how he's acting then they'd lose him.
A truly confident and strong woman would let him walk. If he's truly willing to grow up and be a man, he'd do the hard work to raise up to her level.
❤
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
It’s the power of women. We bring favor to our husbands and that’s on Bible & then add the resilience, culture, swag, and etc. from black women and wahla ❤️
And thoes bw are grooming white men to be more black centric had it been white husbands making their black women look more Europeans it be a problem
Please give Dr. Angela Jones a break! She's a beautiful woman with a beautiful heart! She did a wonderful job telling this story! And for people who cannot handled this subject matter, then they need to do some serious soul searching!
It’s not just about the clothes! It’s an overall upgrading 🌟
Well ,Dr Angela is a Very likeable person.She did this interview excellently .Very light feeling,fun and comfortable.Kudos Dr Angela.
And she's also quite a beautiful woman!!!!
I wish that she would emphasize that it's not about how someone dresses per say, but that Black women are good women and we really have that Black Girl Blessing that can make any man great that wants to make us great. She was right to make the Michelle Obama connection but this is true.
Exactly. It's also racist to assume black women come into a white man's life and are all "sassy, finger-snapping firecrackers who bring spice to the lame, dorky square white dude." It's just as bad as the Queer Eye for the Straight Guy TV show, where flamboyant gays come in and *magically help* improve some hetero man's life, wardrobe but still remain the minority and the outsider... and the hetero men GIVE NOTHING BACK IN RETURN.
You feel the foolishness and superficiality as well, don’t you?
Lol this trend is soo true. I can always spot a yt dude that dates blxxc women 😅
I love how it’s the husbands who started this trend ❤
I love my sistas! We're saying HELL NO to the disrespect from blackmen. Your music, online content and who you're flaunting infront of us is some bullshyt. Black Girl Magic we just got the sauce.
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Yessss!
You can love a 'white man' and not demonize black men in the process. There are white men who want nothing to do with black women and can even cause physical harm... thinking of the Breonna Taylor situation or when a white police officer threw a black bikini-clad girl to the ground in McKinney, TX in 2015. Wasn't any "black girl magic" in that moment. Same with Sandra Bland's treatment after a traffic stop, etc........
Who funded these rappers? Who is constantly online telling us how low iq we are? You don't think they're smart enough to brainwash us too? Dont be naive... i don't agree with the treatment but y'all need to take accountability that the more skin you show the less valuable you become as a whole. I see black women everyday old and young showing whorish behavior and black men telling them that behavior is lame. I also see black women make excuses for thugs saying "he's fine he didn't do it" letting their daughters twerk. Do you not think that has an affect on your image as a whole? When I see a recent graduate from college I'm like "cool" then in the same video she's got a face full of make up, 9inch nails, and weave on top of shaking that ass because she's is excited... all this on the internet. I agree black men need to cut the drugs and alcohol out but don't think these other guys are truly understanding of who you are. Don't think they'll accept that behavior from you either. Men are men right? Might want to ask "Becky" about her experiences and why they're not into their own men right now.
Exactly ❤❤❤❤
When I met my white husband, he did not look like the college professor he actually was. So I would take him shopping or get his more professional and appropriate clothes.
What? No Curbans on Curbans? LOL.
You didn't get a man who was ALREADY completed?
Black women do not listen to these angry men😂 go where you wanted and well treated😊
Y'all don't want the nerdy black men or the gamer guys. Just the white men. That's lame. I've seen so many good guys get passed up for thugs now y'all want the enemy. It is what it is. We wouldn't be in this country had it not been for their ancestors. I guess y'all forgot about stay woke and the trail of tears. Black Wall Street. Ok then...
Yes, in the arms of good black men, as you always have and always will.
Exactly!! This is the Black Mammy effect come full circle!
History always repeats itself!
Taking care of , nursing and dressing up Massas sons ! 👀👎🏾SMH
-Sade Robinson tried the black Mammy effect also. ☠️👀
@@Roccofandefinitely not the ones like u on here talking about “out of welock babies “ when your KIND are the ones creating those homes and not making those women wives
Trend??? I’m so happy that we Black Women are finally being appreciated and the love she deserves. Not only are the men glowing but look at the Black Women. They are beaming, radiant. Simply they are glowing ❤
If you got a black wife, you got an infinity stone!
If only there were more of them. 😢
😂😂😂
@@RoccofanAs the video shows, white men are happily taking care of that, especially since it was them that started the trend. 🥰
@@nrsimmons178Black women are just painting a large target on there backs, for everyone to dislike Black women. White woman will come for black women. In due time
So good to know black women finally found there protection now 😅
Forget the 'effect'. I only care for relationships if there is genuine love, the man provides, the woman does her part and the couple truly puts God in the center of the union.
This effect is already about more than just the clothes.
@@djlivvy46 What else is it about?
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White men provide anyway!
Black women sprinkle their magic on everyone and everything period!
I can attest to this happening 30 + years ago when my Italian husband, and I (Black Indian) met and we married.😊 we are coming up on 33 years of marriage in June 2024…To God be the glory…❤
Loved it, very light hearted❤
This is true and I am a black man married to a black woman. If they want to bring attention to the interracial relationships fine. Some black men have trashed black women so much that it sometimes takes outsiders to bring attention to what has been true and not appreciated.
Is the opposite true also? The divide between BM/BW has been widened by social and news media. It's profitable or else it wouldn't be talked about so much.
@@6time686 Facts
The bonnet had me weak 😂😂 I'm married to a blk man and I had to sprinkle some seasoning salt on him 😂
Oooook!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
So funny that black women got their men wearing bonnets 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's not the appearance that makes it, these men look loved.
The way they embrace their Black wives is like she is their lifeline.
That is probably after the WM has been married a few times as well. They don't speak of that aspect.
@@ramonamron5194 Could be true, after the 2nd or 3rd marriage you should have learned something. However, a few of these couples have been together for years.
I don't believe it's simply because they wives are Black, any woman who is open to loving, honoring and respecting their husbands can pour greatness into their husbands and vice-versa.
They keep focusing on the external looks but black women give men confidence with style.
I’m so happy for this trend. Whoever started it deserves an award. We black women are often the recipients of online bullying so its nice for others to see we are humans and we have and bring value wherever we are. 💗
This is so cool how the husbands did this- cool gift
Done made it to the news 😊😊
Yeeeessss! 🤗😉
I really like this for black women
Black girl magic!! ❤❤❤❤
I don't even like Beyoncé like that but she didn't come out with the song: Upgrade U for no reason....
We also upgrade other ethnicities and races of women
The only difference is y'all aren't Beyonce lol.
@@corypalmer5495Yeah, happy with our peaceful lives and glad we're not married to murdering cheaters like her..."allegedly." #ThoughtYouAte #JayZIsNext
@@citizencoy4393 single mom hood, what else
@@PrincessYonna1 Oh please y’all don’t need anyone to teach you about being single mothers you do great all by yourself. Now what blk women did teach you would be most of the hair, beauty, swag, dancing, and styling trends that are popular today.
We add the sauce ✨
I love this, I've done this for my husband and I didn't even know it was a trend. Before he'd wear the same shirt for 3 days, not no more. 😎
Dr. Jones is so cute and positive!
This coupling last Forever their commitment is deeper !! We are magic !
Thats that Black Girl Magic Baby! ✨️ 👸🏿
A lot of women DON’T do that. Stop it. We all know what the husband in the suburban vanilla white couple looks like.
🤣🤣🤣💀
This happened to my man, but it had nothing to do with me. I loved him before, but after we got together he got better hair cuts, started working out, changed his clothes. I'm not mad at it 😆
And vise versa-my man taught me how to ski! And guess what, I love it!!!
It's not just the way they dress . Don't down play black women's skills.
This is hilarious. I need to tell my husband to post an updated photo, lol.
Love to see this!❤️
FTR, their husbands started the trend…
That's my favorite part; just a pure, sweet trend with love and appreciation from their husbands! 🥰
They missing the point it’s not just the look of dressing up it is about how well the man treat her, about providing, protecting and loving her. And him showing this love for this woman by doing his part…soft life. So she can be feminine.😊
There is no such thing as conditional femininity just like there is no such thing as conditional masculinity. You're either feminine or you're not. If you're turning it on and off, then you're not feminine and are just acting based on conditions. It's sad that westernized blk women are like that. Sad.
No it’s not they love caping for white folks plain and simple. Most sisters with brothers we already have the style swag and whatever else is needed. It’s definitely the mammy effect 🤦🏾
Plus, the husbands started the trend in appreciation of their wives, which makes it wholesome and adorable. 🥰
@@nrsimmons178 you are correct ma’am
I agree!!!!
Not the host trying to “all lives matter” the black wife effect. SMH
The funny thing about this culture, when Black men are propped above other groups of men in various ways, including supposedly having more swag, or being cooler for his black culture, etc, nobody complains about that. But say the same thing about Black women being cool and stylish, then there's complaining
So... Where is MY Ice cream Vanilla or Asian Purasian King? 😢
you dont like black men?
@@lotusjumpingspider8761- a better question would be do black men like her?
They are with the women of their race, not wifing up women that just want them because they are not black.
@@djlivvy46 Why wouldn’t they? What’s wrong with her? Tell her to stop being a victim, give the man that is on her level that she wants, what he wants, so that he will choose her.
@@djlivvy46 Black men that marry, marry black women 86% of the time.
I agree that The 'BLACK WIFE EFFECT' is a great thing. We just had a great discussion with Kolter Bouchard on my channel about interracial relationships and The Black wife effect trend.
Beautiful but it’s a shame how much our own men and women would rather disrespect each other than build each other up. Something as simple as seeing a beautiful couples glow up. ❤
Exactly! This is fine but I’m team black love forever! 🖤
That’s life. Get over it. 🤷🏽♀️
@@girlboss2427comments like this are going to have black men back in chains. Is that OK with you?
Nope. Every man in my circle has been married for a couple of decades. Not one ounce of disrespect.
@@Roccofan and that should be the norm love to hear it
Can we cease saying interracial?! There is only one race: Human. Peace!
There are actually 3, possibly 4
Delusion!
BS KUMBAYA GARBAGE!!
Say it again!
@@UA-camUzername Clarify.
There's only 1 rule for interracial dating: don't.
Like Prince Harry and Meghan
Is Meghan black?
@@sharmut2075- according to blk men, yes she is.
She's not African-American, she's caucasian due to her father being caucasian.
@@sharmut2075She has a Black mother and a White father
Meghan Markle is not a Black woman. She’s bi racial. There’s a difference !
All women tend to improve their men. Women generally have a better understanding of how to dress, groom, and present themselves. When they get involved with a man they make generally positive changes with him.
Yep. It’s the gf effect or the wife effect. It isn’t just a BW thing.
@beigenegress2979 Jealousy is an ugly thing to inhabit.
Speaking as a man, that's the most ridiculous thing I've read in a long, long while.
But denying black women their rare moments in the sun always gets you those WS upvotes.
@@vanessacs538 I hope you weren’t interpreting my comment as “jealousy.” If so, what am I allegedly “jealous” of?
@beigenegress2979 He does. Just give BW their props for once
Baby every time we will season it up 😂😂😂😂
Bm traded their gold again
Gold? You mean trash?
@@user-qy6tu9ip9v This comment tells us all we need to know which is why more BW are moving accordingly...thank you
@@jmjenkins97 You guys have been saying this for a decade now. Please swirl yourself down the toilet asap.
@@jmjenkins97bro you’re a femcel, literally you’re trash. White men already did it to sharika shoal
@@jmjenkins97got 'em 😂
❤ Love this topic, its beautiful.
We give them that Shea butter to grow out those beards!!
Black women affect on America !!! Lets talk about this!! The country stay appropriating and not crediting us for our swag and greatness! Inventions, fashion, music, mannerism, words, dance, singing, our history!
🥱
BW has been doing this for BM except some BM level up and never commit to secure relationship or step out on BW. There's even a movie scene about it with Bobby Brown in A Thin Line Between Love And Hate. The WM in the Black Wife Effect actually MARRIED and seems to appreciate their partners. Stark differences.
I don’t care about any of this, just marry before you carry so that your children can have better choices of husbands and wives.
😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣. You’re a Black dude telling women to “marry before they carry”, yet you’re apart of a race of “men” who are known and have always been know for creating more single mothers and bastard kids than any other male group ! The most subjugated, the least educated, the most homeless, and the most incarcerated males on the planet are NOT qualified to tell anybody $h!t ! SHUT UP and go buy yourself a clue Dayquan ! ✌🏾
And when we say “Black wife effect” we mean Black American women.
None of these women are black American
@@chitownzfinesthustlayeah they are lol, including my friends & some of my aunties. but nice cope though
Black women / All people are beautiful. Maaaamie don't want to be gaslit, cheated on, lied to, and beaten.
Even with make up and weave on? Where's the self love?
@@User78813What is great is everyone has free will to look how they feel and love who they want. They don't have to choose someone that puts them down. Learn love and practice kindness.
@@stars-are-us But that's not showing confidence in what you were born with. Black women weren't really straightening their hair until they needed a job around these people's grand mothers. What happened to stay woke?
PREACH
@@User78813and what do the kardashians and iggy Axelias wear?
This is so cute. I love it 😀 ❤.
We’re going get our flowers 💐 one way or the other and this refutes the narrative that we are not wifey material 💁🏾♀️👸🏾 ✨🫶🏾
I dont believe its race based in any relationship, I believe its just the person.
We bring the Black Girl Magic wherever we go.
ALL women AIM to upgrade their mates, but we have a record of excelling when with receptive partners.
He stays profiting on blk women issues, huh?
Black girl magic 🤝🏽🤝🏽🤝🏽💃🏾💃🏾
Black girl Tragic is more like it ! 🤡🛏️🔧👀
@@33markissWe are proud bedwenches. 💃 💃 💃 Better than being a babymama to a thugg.
Awesome! Black women rule
We do that to Black Foreigners too.
Literally Sheba from Django lol
Show me Jewish people marrying Palestinians at large numbers and think about it they have only went through oppression from 1948 not centuries of oppression and enslavement. If y’all got so much magic why don’t we have reparations or an end to global exploitation. The reality is that BW have become products of a sick society and have assimilated to being under an evil hegemonic empire.
They don’t see that though. 🤣🤣🤣
I love this day and time in society, everyone is waking tf up ❤
Weirdo what?
Back home in Africa, mothers tell young women "your husband is your first child", so you have to mother him in a certain way and it becomes natural, spontaneous as if anchored in us. Just as we are told "you have to suffer to be beautiful", because you have to wear braids, so naturally the black woman is flirtatious and attaches great importance to her external appearance "you don't leave the house without wash yourself, brush your teeth, uncombed hair etc", naturally you will impact your partner "if he shines, I shine". Watch how Meghan transformed Prince Harry into a stylish, respectable man and a better version of himself. same for Barac obama etc...
Why is this on the news😂😂😂😂😂
since the trend got popular and promoted on TikTok the United States government considers it some sort of chinese propaganda to destroy the country (and by destroying they mean the country becoming less white)
Ww going to try to copy cat, but its more than just dressing. We give them a inner swag
Copy ??, the hate of WW and black man is crazy , you copying them and us
@@strikermi9ewwww nobody's copying ya'll lol. but nice cope though 😂😂😂
@@Angeldaisy-ji6sp ok Mr simp , copying loneliness by defending these harlots and people in the comments section.
I understand that you are triggered of what I said, and I know deep down what I said is true.
Another brainwashed black man supporting Black femcel that are hypocrites.
Another brainwashed beta soft cuck man , who’s into black woman that disrespect him.
Or maybe you’re woman , If so my bad couldn’t tell from profile pic.
@@Angeldaisy-ji6sp
Wow, my comment got deleted what a surprise (not this comment d******)
It is synergy, when love is given and received. It also depends on the women who desire nice things and a man open to suggestions. My mom dressed my father and her children and taught us how to behave in public. What we looked like and acted like was a direct reflection of our parents, they took it seriously. The narrative about Black people never seems to include our own social codes.
I agree that Black women enhance their man's lifestyle. Steve Harvey always states that it was his wife, Marjorie, who changed his style of dressing for the better. Look at him, now! Nothing but SWAG!
Is this the only thing Americans can focus on??? 🤣😆😂🤯
Yeah man, Americans have been deeply infantilized since the Baby Boomer gen. All we seem to care about is entertainment (movies, shows, music, podcasts, sports), politics, dating/mating politics, whatever restaurant we dined in or want to dine in, traveling and making money.
News networks are so late to internet trends I don’t know why they bother. This trends already evolved from it being a family trend to married couple’s trend to an interracial married couple’s trend in the last few weeks. With the trend becoming viral the more it changed. It’s positive imagery for black women regardless but I preferred it as a family trend showing appreciation for cultural practices and individual value of black wives in their communities.
Semantics.
In what way?@@djlivvy46
In what way? The content and the people that were participating changed as the trend/hashtag gained popularity.@@djlivvy46
Better is relative and subjective.
I don’t understand this at all why is this a thing?!
Because it is. Go cry
I get it….like the Beyoncé song “Baby, let me upgrade ya!”- I love ❤️ it!🎶🎵💯
Let me find out black women are choosing Brad’s that show up on first dates with vomit on their sweaters already, mom’s spaghetti and then swagging them out. Don’t forget to drive him back to his basement apartment and put money on his bus pass before you leave….early.
Why don’t you Black dudes continue focusing on getting your passports instead of worrying about what’s happening to Black women. Ya’ll spend too much time focusing on the wrong $h!t ! Go find your non Black queen and leave a lot of Black women alone ! ✌🏾
“He who finds a wife finds a good thing…” but some men be playing 😂😂😂
Join us next week about Japanese women wanting to have babies with black men.
& turning into single mothers in japan 😂😂😂