How to stop REPEATING yourself, ORGANIZE your thoughts, and speak TO THE POINT

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    Do you feel it’s hard to stay organized, get to the point and stay concise when speaking? You’re not alone! In fact, I decided to make this video because of comments and questions I’ve been getting on exactly this topic.
    In this video, I'll share tips and strategies for how to stay concise and improve your communication in English.
    Chapters:
    0:00 Intro
    1:10 No one is born a good speaker
    2:30 Limiting thoughts
    3:34 Organize your thoughts
    4:55 The main point
    5:53 Use shorter sentences
    6:40 Don’t overexplain
    7:50 Speaking is a skill
    8:45 Confidence
    9:25 Speaking tips
    10:40 Join The InFluency Community
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 57

  • @michelgolabaigne595
    @michelgolabaigne595 Рік тому +3

    Dear Hadar and the team,
    English is not a reason why I watch your videos... I learn so much on the side...
    It's great you speak a language, which I understand more or less...:)
    You're right...! speaking well is like doing sports, training is holy...
    We couldn't give anything more to your speech..., if only I could follow your advice, I would be great :)
    Thank You !

  • @romanvelez090869
    @romanvelez090869 Рік тому +1

    Hello, I'm from Mexico, in my opinion is very difficult organize ideas very fast, but you can get confidence practise differents topics every day

  • @manufalcon3064
    @manufalcon3064 Рік тому +1

    It's so useful this video right now! I have joined to the Speaking Challenge, and for sure, I'm gonna put these tips into practice tomorrow 😉

  • @renatarosa2809
    @renatarosa2809 Рік тому

    I found this channel there a few days, I'm from Brazil and you are increble. I'm using your videos for studying, thank you
    ❤❤

  • @user-ig4fh8cf1j
    @user-ig4fh8cf1j Рік тому +2

    Dear Harder, you always motivates me whenever I feel down in this learning journey. You have that skill to always remind me not to take things too seriously and focus on the main purpose. You always share us those precious positive mindset and keeps us to stay on the right track. Thank you Harder and her team for all of your sincere and effective advices.

  • @paulamaged3610
    @paulamaged3610 6 місяців тому

    I am grateful for your support in me breaking my limiting beliefs. The point about over explaining really spoke to me. I always felt this problem of never being sure when someone has understood me. I am going to give it my best shot, and maybe take time to listen to make sure the person understood correctly. Many thanks, Paula!

  • @lianetvicetkindelan4352
    @lianetvicetkindelan4352 Рік тому +1

    Hello Hadar, I AM from Cuba and I recently found your UA-cam channel and wow your voice is awesome and intelligible. I was really awe by the way that it encouraged me to Practice the English skills, Speaking and listening for and foremost because I think that these are the most interactive ways to learn the language and You are reading and writing at the same time while You are recognizing the way the language is spoken. This video is amazing and realistic. Thank You very much for sharing this valuable lessons

  • @fitandfluent
    @fitandfluent Рік тому +1

    I do exactly what you said Hadar about organizing thoughts.😊 And I use this tip before I start recording my videos for the speaking challenge!😉💪

  • @marinmq
    @marinmq Рік тому

    Thanks so much Haddar. Great video.

  • @stefane2153
    @stefane2153 Рік тому

    Hello Hadar! Thanks for this amazing video, I'll try to put them into practice next time I speak with someone in English. :)

  • @ripanmazumder4896
    @ripanmazumder4896 Рік тому

    Hadar Mam,it’s really fruitful & handy for anybody’s English Journey. I really appreciate it.

  • @arturorueda2576
    @arturorueda2576 Рік тому

    Your advices are important to speak well, thanks

  • @kenzoucha5427
    @kenzoucha5427 Рік тому +1

    I can't thank you enough for this video. It's so useful ❤ I've been looking for it several times but I couldn't until you released it. Thanks a million dear.

  • @alexandreneves3441
    @alexandreneves3441 Рік тому

    Thank you Hadar for the helpful tip

  • @swiftismymum4544
    @swiftismymum4544 Рік тому

    I'm really glad you discussed sth like this

  • @ayhamshekha1358
    @ayhamshekha1358 5 місяців тому

    The discourse 🥰

  • @mantreshsingh
    @mantreshsingh Рік тому

    Thanks Hadar, for this video, but pls make a video on how to sequence your stories or topics in a chronological way, also how to tell stories using Tense shifting if I were to speak on a particular topic - it's a bit critical thing..... Thanks once again for this video 😊

  • @KaymonStorino
    @KaymonStorino Рік тому

    I love watch your videos Hadar ❤ the way of you speak from Brazil

  • @pierrefarias6772
    @pierrefarias6772 Рік тому

    Hi Hadar
    Thank you for your tips in this video.
    I will put your tips in practice, specially in my videos in challenge speaking.
    See you.
    Bye.

  • @Otto-sd8ps
    @Otto-sd8ps Рік тому

    Super locution teacher , My respects from Guatemala .

  • @Looorenns
    @Looorenns Рік тому

    Very very good! Thank you.

  • @DianaCoffman-ln5qk
    @DianaCoffman-ln5qk 14 днів тому

    Amazing video! ❤

  • @Coolgirl1309
    @Coolgirl1309 Рік тому +6

    This is the video I was waiting for! Thank you Haddar! 🙏

  • @EliasLourenco1
    @EliasLourenco1 11 місяців тому

    Hello from Brazil, thanks for this great content

  • @onnie1036
    @onnie1036 Рік тому

    This is good Haddad, thank you

  • @buikhanh9946
    @buikhanh9946 11 місяців тому

    I love listening your voice

  • @myloveisyou2933
    @myloveisyou2933 Рік тому

    Useful video ❤

  • @user-bq2jy9uy5c
    @user-bq2jy9uy5c Рік тому

    You're Amazing,i'll join the group soon

  • @desquithdanielleirie5402
    @desquithdanielleirie5402 Рік тому

    Waouh ! I thought about this question just now😮

  • @Emily-ke9xb
    @Emily-ke9xb Рік тому

    Hi!! Thank you ❤

  • @dnnguyentrongduc
    @dnnguyentrongduc Рік тому

    great tips and experiences

  • @thabitsheikhalarap9281
    @thabitsheikhalarap9281 10 місяців тому

    Thank you hadar 🎉

  • @arturovenegasmaya889
    @arturovenegasmaya889 Рік тому

    Hi. Hadar this is Arturo Venegas.'. from México. Nice to see you.

  • @EasyEnglishwithAnjali
    @EasyEnglishwithAnjali Рік тому

    @Accent's Way English with Hadar Thanks a lot for this video

  • @Upscgirl1487
    @Upscgirl1487 Рік тому

    Thanks ❤

  • @CielitaAlmarines
    @CielitaAlmarines Рік тому

    Thank you

  • @Sormanification
    @Sormanification Рік тому

    Hadar, who was your favorite actor when you used to practice shadowing? I do get very strong Carrie Bradshaw vibes whenever I listen to you for some reason

  • @juliocesarcarantongarcia3554
    @juliocesarcarantongarcia3554 Рік тому +4

    Hello, tell me honestly how long it took you to master the language completely, what could have cost you the most to master it, that there were shortcomings in you to achieve the goal of this language? Thanks a lot. Best regards 🌎

  • @SauloFerreiraDF
    @SauloFerreiraDF Рік тому

    Hi, Haddar! I'm Brazilian, and I love the way you speak and you teach English. It's always a pleasure to hear you!
    I'd like to receive an email from you with your activities in the internet.
    Sincerely,
    Saulo A. Ferreira.

  • @rivaanthony2170
    @rivaanthony2170 Рік тому

    Great❤

  • @user-pb3oy8ej7x
    @user-pb3oy8ej7x 11 місяців тому +1

    I would like to stop 🛑 reapeating myself all together alright y’all!!!

  • @ghaniouarab5932
    @ghaniouarab5932 Рік тому

    Nice speaker

  • @Upscgirl1487
    @Upscgirl1487 Рік тому

    Wow today I am second watcher 😊

  • @drollette08
    @drollette08 Рік тому

    I have the same issue but, In my case, English is not my first language

  • @tchernobalde8106
    @tchernobalde8106 Рік тому

    THANS

  • @ronaldejesus7118
    @ronaldejesus7118 Рік тому

    Exellents

  • @saadramadhanmuhi8069
    @saadramadhanmuhi8069 Рік тому

    Thank you so much_ Teacher "Hadar"_ SAAD RAMADHAN MUHI 😊

  • @Cupc4ke4ngel
    @Cupc4ke4ngel Рік тому

    Lovely Hadar . You have a havenly hair , You look very beautiful , please do not cut it take care of it . Thank for the classes❤

  • @myloveisyou2933
    @myloveisyou2933 Рік тому

    Who wants to practice English speaking with me?

  • @jakeObryan283
    @jakeObryan283 Рік тому +1

    I respect and admire you, but i didn´t like the way how you argue the defense of marina, using low-lifes points to attack or argument fallacies instead of well-supported intelligent arguments, you are better than it, i am not an english learner but i am here as your follower cuz i really admire you . :)

    • @hadar.shemesh
      @hadar.shemesh  Рік тому

      Hey! I think you need to understand my bigger point - bigger than trying to defend Marina. You know I always talk about mindset, confidence and how important it is to not strive for perfection. These videos validate people’s worst fears around being shamed for their mistakes. They could teach the same lessons without making it seem like there’s the ultimate ‘accurate English’ and the rest is wrong. That’s not how English works, actually. It’s dangerous.
      I know many creators who have stopped sharing videos , after this thing started. So what have we done with that? Is it worth it?

    • @jakeObryan283
      @jakeObryan283 Рік тому +1

      @@hadar.shemesh point taken, I'm with you regarding confidence and the other positive stuff, but maybe you didn't share these things the right way and we understood the wrong way, people who are learning English need this confidence this mindset and nobody must humble them because of it, but starting a UA-cam channel where you assure teaching English like a native speaker (and you don't do it ) instead of saying, you started a UA-cam channel because you are a learner who is trying to improve your own English by practicing on UA-cam is different, you won't lose followers, people generally get the person more than product, keep in mind your audience the people who trust you, they deserve reliable information, learning a new language is not an easy task it takes a lot of time an effort you know it, if you learn it wrong from the get-go is quite difficult to change it later, if you are at an important meeting like a Cambridge test for example you can't say "you must approved my mistakes cuz everyone makes mistakes", that might work in everyday life, but it doesn't work in all cases, then they need (your followers) the best information.
      You are not like marina, you share several things is true but you have real intentions to help people, marina only looks for money (she is really good at it) she doesn't care about people, (it would take time to explain it how i realized it) YOU ARE A MUCH BETTER PERSON.
      Attacking on Kevin due to (he is a North American white male guy) who is afraid of a successfully entrepreneur woman,it sounded kinda "f3m1n4zi" and I Know you are not, indeed it was liza (a Russian foreign business woman) who showed Marina's real colors.
      Ok, they might look for free fame, they looked for controversy, i agree, it wasn't the right way to do it.
      I've got lotsa things in my mind but i think is enough, i might be wrong it's just my point of view. Bless you 🙏