I had a stroke about 4 years ago and had to learn to walk and talk again. Thank the good Lord that I’m finally starting to feel like myself. Family was always important but as I approach my 60s family and after this past year dealing with this pandemic, family and friendships are even more important. Materialistic things are really not important. My goal this year is to donate half of my possessions to charity and let my things bless others. Thank you,Sandra,for being a blessing ❤️!
I am glad you are finally getting to feel like yourself after your stroke. Best of all I’m glad that you were still here to enjoy life and you friends and family. What a wonderful idea to get rid of material things that probably will make someone else very happy and enrich their lives. A good lesson for all of us.❤️
How appropriate that you are bringing this subject up at this time for me. After 5 1/2 years of taking care of my mother with dementia and a difficult complicated grieving process in my middle 70's I am now coming "out of the fog" and looking forward to seeing what the good lord has for me next. It's my turn now! I never thought I would look forward to being content again! Grateful for you my friend and thankful for this community and the lovely comments. You all have helped me immensely!
Good morning! We are stardust, we are golden, and we must get back to the garden! If all remember this, wouldn’t that solve our worlds many problems. Wonderful words of wisdom. Everyone have a blessed day. Thank you for the loving thoughts
Contentment is happyness to me. My Exhusband always crritized me for "only" being content, that this was not enough. Contentment to me has a lot to do with being thankful and mindful. Growing older, becoming wiser.....Kindness like you said, connection to people I love. Health and faith are a huge part of happiness to me. This Easter I send much love and peace to our community and to you Sandra❤
I have never felt more contented as I turn 80. This seems to make the type of people I want to meet attracted to me. It is a new and beautiful phase. I have nature in my life and I have taken up sewing which is challenging. I learned about Ken Burns and am watching all the amazing films he has made in chronological order. Also I am reading all Shirley MacLaine's books in chronological order. I hope I have a lot more time to enjoy this life. I have never felt closer to my children who do not live nearby, but I have a more deep communication. Your messages are always valuable.
I, too, love the documentaries Ken Burns has made. He is a wonderful filmmaker. Congratulations on entering your 80th decade. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. ❤️
Sandra thank you for your thoughts. I lost my husband of 50 years just months before lockdown, so it’s been difficult. But I can truly say I am content, grateful to still be alive after serious illness myself, thankful for family and friends. Thankful to have loved my husband since I was 15. I’ve taken over the garden since my husband passed and I’m surprised and delighted to be loving it, even on the cold days we have here in Scotland. I cook and bake and give it to neighbours, it gives me a purpose. And while still grieving I can say that God has been good and faithful to me. Thank you for sharing ❤️
Elizabeth I’m always sad to hear of one of my subscribers losing their loving husband. Knowing someone sent you were 15 is a lifetime of commitment to one another. I know your husband is looking down upon you as you tend his garden and the fact that you were finding so much joy in it is even better. I know the winters in Scotland can be very damp and cold, spring coming must be something you are looking forward to. The fact that you are living a life of purpose with gratitude is wonderful! Much love your way and thank you for being here❤️
Dear Sandra my darling 92 years young husband died six months ago. We were inseparable And now I must live another life... Find my self Thank you for being your loving self, Sandra Hug, Rhonda (66 yrs old) in Canada
Hi Rhonda, how wonderful your life must of been to elves yourself so lovingly towards your husband. I envy that experience. Wish you the joy and peace of the Lord. Blessings.
Good morning, Sandra: At this point in my life, I have concluded that love is everything. Not money or material possessions that come and go, but, a true and lasting love. Yes, family and self-identity are part of contentment...I admire cultures where the elders are revered. Of course, nowadays, this is often not the case. We do come into the world alone, and leave it alone; however, to have someone special with whom to share the aging journey is truly the greatest gift we can ever receive, IMHO. I knew contentment and happiness in my own life, but, that was many years ago. It does come from within, but, that is difficult when there is a void. Thank you for yet another wonderful topic and video. Many blessings to you and Arthur. Rosemarie 💖
Rosey, Everything you say is true. We have various stages in our lives and when something or someone leaves us there is an empty place in our hearts. ❤️
I felt like you were reading out of my journal. My favorite contentment is watching my 11 year old granddaughter developing into a kind and loving person which is sometimes not easy during these times
The most amazing people I ever saw were in the Fiji villages and in the Atlas villages in North Africa. I’ve never seen such happiness ever again! I’ve lived throughout the world. I wondered what do those two areas have in common! Two spots on opposite sides of the world. 1/ financial poverty 2/ a sense of awe for everyone and everything. 3/ generosity beyond comprehension. 4/ love of people. 5/ open hearts 6./ smiles all the time! 7/ sense of community that completely accepts them exactly as they are without a shadow of a doubt that they are loved, rich and safe! 8/ no electricity: live in homes built from earth. Have rituals. Wake up with the sun ☀️
We really need more people like you in this world 🌎 right now. You give us positive vibes, inspiration and makes me better person everyday.☺️ Thank you so much! Wish you, Authur and Sophie a wonderful weekend🥰
Hi Sandra, to me, happiness is fleeting but contentment is an inner peace that never fades. Faith, gratitude, Love of family, friends, hard work and serving others keep me content in my life. I have never traveled anywhere but I would imagine that even though we are all different, we are all the same. Thank you for this wonderful video! Much love, Sheila.
I used to travel ALL the time - to the point where I gave up my home for many years! Since being married we hardly travel at all and that is ok with me as I am content where ever I am. I think appreciating nature as well as counting our blessings and focusing on the positives is very impactful in our contentment. As always, interesting topic my friend. ♥ Elle
Elle, we all have different chapters in our lives that are right for the time. I can see now with your two beautiful homes that you would be content being with your husband in your wonderful environments. It’s good that you got your traveling in when you were young and single. My daughter-in-law did the same thing. Living in gratitude and appreciating where we are now does contribute to our contentment. For sure. Thank you for spending some time with me and love your way❤️
Marnie, rest and a good nights sleep is so important to our health. Practicing gratitude does make us more content. We have to work at it though. I know I do❤️
P.S. Sandra, I do feel blessed to have been a part of the generation about which Joni Mitchell sang. What a wonderful decade it was in which to be young..the 1960's!! 🙂 Rosemarie 💖
Good Morning Sandra, Odd to say but even though I am hubbe's full time caregiver filled with stress, I am content with my home and my surroundings and feel blessed. I can sit out on the lanai and listen to the rippling of water in the pool and the birds chirping in the preserve. And, the most important thing are my longstanding life time friendships, those friends that are always there for me through the ups and downs. Blessings, Diane
Dearest Sandra, I firstly would like to thank you for your valuable content that you share with the world. You are indeed a very wise beautiful soul and I love listening to what you have to say. Your core values resonate with many of your subscribers I am sure. This is why we enjoy your channel. You radiate a certain charm about you....enchanting and elegant. It is difficult to find these days. Nature to me is everything. Just being able to hear the birdsong, watch the ever changing seasons, the moon phases, the rainbow, the sunrise and set over the sea and mountains brings me such contentment. Of course human warmth as you say is key and good friends and family are equally first and foremost. Thank you for doing what you do and enlightening us with your presence. Much love from across the world. xxxxx
Thank you so much for your beautiful and kind comment. I enjoy reading every single. Nature is so important. Just being able to enjoy our surroundings brings a certain degree of contentment. I think you for all of your kind comments and I am so delighted to have you as a part of this community. I sincerely believe it is made up of some of the most sensitive and emotionally mature women from all over the world. Across the seas and beyond the mountains and lands that divide us, we are one. All good things your way.❤️
Stroke 2 years ago house burned a year ago. Made me realize that I don't need those material things I'm content with what i got. Learn to appreciate little things. a fun. Love your vlog.
I am from india that is bharat and i can say that we are very content people by nature. Although the years aspirations after colonialism led people to american/ corporate way of life as ameans of happiness...but now we are realising and cherishing our > 10,000 yr old culture. Youth is excited to know about our v deep roots and finding solace there...its like returning home❤
Love your list. As I grow older in my late seventies some of my long time friends are getting sicker and dying. Makes me sad but also glad that I am still here (and content).
I found contentment when I realized that happiness is not a constant in life - it has ebbs and flows. I think I am content because I feel I am deep inside of me, but I also know that I will always have things to work on - always!!!
I count my blessings. We’ve been married for forty years, all my children, grandchildren, in laws, who are in their 80’s and 93 year old mom live within 25 minutes of us. I live and walk in nature daily, garden, knit and have wonderful close friends, etc..It does take patience but it’s worth it.
Lynn, you are so very lucky to have your extended family so nearby. Today that is a rarity. You sound as though you have a wonderful nuclear and content life.❤️
I am so happy I come across your channel. It makes me teary eyed because I am now early 50 and I feel lost; seemed like being in a crossroad - but listening to your channel and hearing your soothing voice makes me connected to you. You are the source of WISDOM I much needed at this point in my life.
S: I don't know how I missed this post. I guess I was supposed to stumble upon it on a day when I needed a big kick in the pants. Your thoughts and observations were just the "gentle" reminder I needed. As always, so grateful for your time!
Hi Sandra! How are you today? You’re looking wonderful.....Sadly! I’m from a culture where family is not a huge deal for some, a brother or sister can pass you in the streets without even acknowledging you and feels no way about it, as for human warmth there’s not a lot of that either, there are 7 billion people in the world and yet soo many lonely people, making friends is not always easy because folks have so many conditions in place in order for them to accept you as a friend.....I’m an Introvert , I’m also an Empath, so I benefit from keeping my distance, I love all people, I help where and when I can, I’m content and I’m so so grateful for life💐🌸🌺🌹
Gutchie, Unfortunately you are correct about certain cultures. There are lonely people everywhere, in all cultures. It’s just that some feel more responsible for caring for their own. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. ❤️
We are star dust We are golden And we got to get ourselves Back to the garden! 😍😍😍 I'm 64, starting a new chapter! Planning and working in contentment! Thanks our beautiful Sandra! Much love and many blessings!
In the Spanish speaking cultures, the phrase, ‘estoy contenta’ (Iam content) is used often. I have incorporated this phrase into my English language because it clearly states my frame of mind. Presently our USA culture uses the phrase, ‘Iam good’. I translate that to, ‘Iam content’. Contentment is a peaceful place to be.
My garden has been my contentment for years, since I found gardening for nature then gardening for profit, and gardening for beauty and contentment. I can only garden part time in the north. And I garden gingerly since age has taken some of my strength and mobility. My faith and my husband keep me centered in life. But when I cannot garden, I am content to read about the world and communicate with others online.
Sally that sounds like a very contended and purposeful life. I hope you can keep doing what you love for many years ahead. I thank you for sharing your thoughts about contentment today❤️
It’s absolutely true that contented and happy are different, because happiness is a feeling in the moment and been contented is a satisfaction . I’m to have listened to you, Mrs. Sandra. You’re an amazing lady. Blessings always!🙏
You young lady make so many people's days. Not only do you inspire... But you cause us to aspire to what we could do and who we could be. Many blessings. ❤
Good morning 🌞 I know I need to work on bring content. I also know that no one else is responsible for that. I just need to make the change and do it. I have been stuck for awhile now, abd I don’t want to be anymore.
I'm seventy-four. My husband died decades ago. My children recently abandoned me. I had a bout with a grief that put me in bed with chronic pain and fatigue. I got up. I found a new living environment with subsidized housing for independent seniors. Doesn't sound very glamorous does it? Was I ever surprised to find out that I have a pretty and modern apartment with a stunning view, and big windows. I live with a community of seniors all having something in common. We have our fascinating stories. We have jokes to share. We all have faces and we are no longer invisible. There are many activities waiting for us when the covid crisis ends. There are outdoor activities that we can do right now. We live on the edge of a protected area called "Clear Chrystal Creek" and the creek runs right under my window, replete with river otter, ducks, and the Canada geese who have come to spend the winter here and have their gosslings. I saw a beaver about two weeks ago while on my daily walk. What I thought was going to be a prelude to death, turned out to be a reassuring and secure part of my life that I am becoming more and more attuned with. I think I have had to start my life all over again. It just might work. Sandra Hart, you are such a blessing to me. I've had a pretty nuts and bolts life and now I come to your youtube vlogs for advice on daily living, coping skills that work, and also glamour. You make life look and sound so glamorous, inside and out. I use your tips on makeup and clothing. But most of all I find support and encourgement here. Thank You so much for your work.
I am so happy to hear that you are in a community of like-minded people and that your apartment is so nice. Just when we think maybe the world is over for us a wonderful door opens and shows us a new way and a new life that makes it all worthwhile. The view from your window sounds absolutely amazing and being able to walk along in the water so refreshing. I am so happy for you and I hope that you will come back often and share your thoughts about our conversations. Have a wonderful weekend
I feel very content. It wasn't an easy life for me at times and when my husband left me with the children for another woman 14 years older than he was, I looked for a man to make my family. It took a while but I eventually realised I have my family without the need for any man! This gave me a lot of contentment! I am free to be me. Who knows maybe my soulmate is out there but he can come find me. I am quite fine just as I am lol! Great video Sandra as always! Tc much love KX
I have to tell you Kathleen that you have the right attitude. We have to be content with ourselves and embrace and love ourselves. That is the most important thing we can do for us and our children. We are whole and can survive and be happy with ‘us’. If our soulmates come along wonderful, but if not we can’t wait for life to pass us by. ❤️
Thankyou for the lovely video, interesting as always. I was never in lockdown being in Perth, the most isolated city in the world, there was no difference to our daily lives. Everything else is true, especially if you've lucky enough to have good relatives. My mother is still toxic in old age, it will be a release for everyone when she goes. I have lost touch with friends met while travelling in earlier life, no email or internet then. I would give anything to see them again. I also lost touch with an American boyfriend I met in Perth. Can only wonder how it might have turned out. Every friend makes a mark on our lives and is precious. I can't say I'm contented but will feel happy to travel to Singapore soon, to be in a happier place after so long with dealing with my mother and having travel restrictions. Dixie (Aus)
Sandra So glad to hear you speak about family ties and friendship. I have a very dear friend of mine who was born and raised in Pakistan. My life would not be the same without this person. One thing they have taught or shown me is the value those cultures put on family and yes taking care of their parents. They have very different ideas about family. One of their expressions is " Heaven is at your mother's feet" 😊
Oh my, Joni Mitchell, love her. I agree with you, Sandra. I cannot remember not feeling content. Enjoyed your video, mand your interesting photos. Blessings, and love..MaryEllen
Good morning Sandra. Such a nice way to wake up, reading and watching this video. It really made me think and I do realize how content I am. My three sons and I bought an old Victorian Farm house 5 and a half years ago. We all live here, and coudn't be more content. Yes, there is a lot to be done, and we say almost daily how blessed we are to have this place. We can (and do) have many animals......we do a small cat rescue as we have the wonderful barn for them. When we first moved here there were so many sick, hungry and pregnant cats..........now, there is only one we see who doesn't belong to our colony. ( Don't worry, we'll catch him) :-) We catch them, take them and have them spayed or neutered and get their shots. They were supposed to go off on their own, but it hasn't ecxactly worked that way. They love it here as we do! Anyway, although money is tight, the love of family, friends and fur friends, as well as the three acres for the deer and others in the back makes is so worth while! So, in my world, family, friends, and the ability to help these little fur babies make it all so wonderful. Thank you for this video. Have a wonderful day! xoxo
Sandie, you are describing paradise. Thank you for sharing the wonderful environment you and your sons have created for yourselves and all the wildlife around you. Thank you for taking care of the cats you have rescued. ❤️
Phfff! Yes, you will. New home, new lifestyle, new Church, new neighbors, new opportunities to volunteer in your new town/city, more parks/geography to explore... YOU CAN DO THIS. 👍
We have moved many times in 32 years of marriage. As overwhelming as it can seem... I always viewed it as a fresh start of sorts. You will meet new people and make friends. Each time we have moved, I have asked God to send me friends. He has never failed me.
Brenda, You will! Think of it as an exciting new chapter in your life. Keep yourself open and others will embrace you. Lots of great advice from our community here! ❤️
Great subject Sandra. I have found over my lifetime that I have been in and out of contentment. As life circumstances change, adjustments have to be made to make my life content. It is something that has to be continually worked on and sometimes it really is hard! Have a peaceful and contented day lovely lady.
Grace, what you have written is so true. We can go in and out of content and according to what’s happening around us. Sometimes it’s really hard work but no matter what the circumstances it is attainable sooner or later. Thank you for sharing that with us❤️
Wonderful topic. I was just teaching a class last night talking about how being open to connecting, engaging and sharing is crucial to not only feeling good but also life will respond back to you in a connected, engaging and sharing way. Covid has been detrimental to us as a human race. I lead spiritual journeys around the world and I’ve missed all the blessings and growth not being able to for a year now. I’m leaving this Friday to lead a small group spiritual journey in Sedona. I am looking forward to the connecting, engaging, sharing, healing and growth we will experience. It’s so important 🦋💜
How fantastic you are teaching a class about human engagement. It is extremely important to our contentment and also happiness. Thank you for sharing that. Have a great time on you trip to Sedona Friday. I would love to stowaway in your luggage!!❤️
Awesome message...not only in this video, but in ALL of your videos, you have given me so much food for thought...thank you so much for sharing your experiences and wisdom. Sending lots of love and big hugs!!!
Loved this video and was in my NJ garden in Monmouth county feeling connected with you!!! Thanks for all your wonderful thoughts have a wonderful day 🌷🌷🌷🌷
For me, I feel most content and happy when I think about and remember all that I have to be grateful for. When I forget to do this and I slip into the mindset of lack (I wish I had this, I wish I could do that, etc.) I begin to feel discontent. So it takes me recognizing that I’m having negative thoughts and I have to actively turn those thoughts towards gratitude 🙏🏽 💜🌻🌞 Then I feel happier and content again 😊
Thank you Sandra for talking about this. Contentment with happiness would be wonderful to live everyday. But even if we can’t we certainly can find both in the 5 ways you talked about. Your are the sweetest and smart lady, I’m glad I found your channel.
I agree! I’m so happy & thankful to have found Sandra on here. I found that I was quizzing myself, before you revealed your criteria for the traits of contentment! Today, you continue to exhibit the same connective qualities that you had on Romper Room! You are a healing balm on the heart. You are a “mom” to many that have lost theirs. You are the wise soul that continues to teach & connect with others. As a teacher, I too, felt that the connection with my students was so very important, and they likewise, responded! Many thanks, Sandra! ✨💜💐💜✨
Hello Sandra and thank you, will be sometime before contentment comes in our lives after our sons death in December, our family is small. My neighbor is a retired Navy chaplain and yesterday we chatted outside briefly I shared how I was reminding myself to be “happy,” contentment is not here for now but hope is, blessings dear friend. 💕🙏🏻
You look fantastic in this hair style!!My contentment is having a good life with my family and friends!!!Thank you for sharing!!Love to you and yours!!!Finia Moraiti from Greece.
Such beautiful thoughts thank you for sharing. I am both happy and content. I love working in my garden, trying new recipes and participating in volunteer activities, going to fairs, shows and festivals, being a fan at my grands soccer/softball/baseball games and exploring by myself or with friends. I have come to this point by trying to be the happiest woman in my town. It takes work everyday by turning down invitations to pity parties, editing negative people from my life, wearing better fitting and colorful clothing, paying attention to grooming and setting 3 goals each day for myself. I challenge you, Reader, to choose being a happy older woman over being a nasty, miserable older woman.!
Contentment number one for me is liking ùr self...i spent too many years as a child & than as a youngster disliking myself (painfully shy..too thin etc) but when we get into our 40's we start to come into our own (& start putting on a little weight!) & as our character is now more or less developed & let's say a shy gene has more or less disappeared I think that's when u start to REALLY like u'r self😊 The next is a hobby u really enjoy.. & look forward to getting back to each day.. As I'm a bit of a chilled person knitting & watching a good film (or listening to u'r good self!) Makes me feel content! But having u'r grown children's every mood & problem in u'r face at our age to my mind doesn't go hand in hand with being content!! I have 5 children of which 3 of them have my mother's closed book gene (not healthy at all to keep things bottled up I agree) so they don't tell me EVERYTHING so I only know about the good stuff!!😁 But 2 of my adlut children are an open book like myself so I know every depression & mess they've got themselves into & that's not good in terms of my mental state & contentment (which I strive on a daily basis to attain!) & one of these two lives just up the road from us so I'm actually witnessing the depression/mess full on & first hand!! The worry & anxiety on their behalf is deffinely interfering with my Contentment!! Of course I would never tell them this because I love them far too much & if I'm their sounding board than so be it! (I do give out good advise & am very wise it has to be said😊) & contentment is all the things u pointed out in this video..i enjoyed listening as I knitt away (the bed jacket is coming along nicely by the way!😁 -- watching from malta😎
Once her mother always the mother. Our children’s problems become our problems. No getting away from it. Thank you much for sharing your contentment or non-Contentment story. How wonderful that you knit! Excellent for relaxation.❤️
Margaret, thank you so much for being here. Please know that I am grateful that you are here and are enjoying being a part of this wonderful community we have here. Have a great weekend❤️
I was just asked that very question the other day, I think contentment will lead you to happiness. Forest bathing is one of my most cherished activities here in Montana. Love your sincerity in all your videos. Thank you very much.
Forest bathing sounds soooo relaxing! What a treat it must be. Thank you for sharing that experience with all of us who may never ever have the chance to enjoy forest bathing❤️
Thanks for your sage advice, I appreciate it esp today as I purge my house in preparation for a move to another country. So all your past videos have really given me confidence! And why do you look younger now than your older photos? I guess you follow your own advice 😉👍🏼💐
Thanks for the ‘younger’ compliment! You just made my morning! I wish!!! How exciting for your move to another country!! Best of luck and hope to hear from you again. ❤️
What a good chat Sandra, thank you and I loved your pictures. And thank you to those who've shared their thoughts, pain, loss and experiences. I see happiness as being dependant upon circumstances and contentment more about a deeper joy that comes from peace, hope and acceptance. Your points are so very valid. Through covid we can see clearly the lack of connection, brokenness in relationships due to distance and the need for family whether related by blood or not we are all part of the human race. I find my greatest peace outside listening to the stream flow and thanking my God. Whether watching birds or petting a fur baby we get some connection to the gift of creation. Yes the sense of identity and ability to work, give or do for someone sparks life. Music is a big part of the gifts we are given. I recall the lyrics you shared from Joni Mitchell, yes! I too miss travel as there are places I'd like to revisit just in my memories for now. I seek greater contentment a day at a time and grateful His grace is sufficient. Be blessed!
Thank you for your wonderful insightful and heartfelt comment. Traveling and getting to meet the actual people in their environment is so enlightening. Great memories, aren’t they?❤️
Sandra being in lock down actually was good for me ,it gave me a chance to just Be I am very content finally.I’m great full for everything just taking a walk and being helpful to anyone who needs me 😊
Sometimes we have to slow down to realize what’s important in our lives. I’m so happy that you were able to find contentment during the Covid lockdown.❤️
Hello Sandra. Been a bit busy and missed a chat or two. Dropping in to day hello and thank you for this very lovely, insightful video chat. Enjoy the rest of your week you, Arthur and family. 🎶 🌅 🎶 🐦 💕
Oh thank you Clara for spending some time with me today. I know. Most of us have a life but I appreciate when you can stop bye and let me know you’re here❤️
🙋🏻♀️I’m so behind in watching all my favorite UA-cam videos ! By a Divine intervention, we were blessed with a Morkie puppy last weekend . In three years we lost three of our beloved Yorkies & our sweet Maltese. We still have one tiny girl , who’s 15 , blind and the love of our life , but this little guy came not our life and took us completely off guard ! What a joy he is ! Having said all that , he’s also slot of work !🥱so when he woke up before the sun rose , I put on your latest video which was lovely , and must have fallen back to sleep after , I woke up to the sound of your sweet voice narrating Behind the Magic Mirror , so I felt compelled to quickly Jot this down . It’s the third time I’ve listened to your story , of courage , joy and sadness . I feel so blessed that our paths have crossed and that I get to call you my “ friend “ Always sending my ❤️ JoAnn. ❤️💐🌹🌻🌼🌸🌺🥀❤️
JoAnn, I can’t blame you at all! How adorable your new little Morkie puppy must be. I absolutely love puppies. Our dogs are both 13 now and I can remember how adorable and cuddly they were when they were little puppies. A lot of work, though, with house training and everything, but the love that they give is so worth it. Congratulations and thank you for lettting me know what is going on in your life!!! ❤️ I am also glad to have you back exclamation😊❤️
Sandra - this is beautiful truth! I, too, have been blessed to travel to many countries and I totally agree - thank You for putting these thoughts out here for us! I am content! I am happy almost all The time!
Sandra - I watch 5 different youtube posts - yours is the only one that gives me something to ponder during the week. I find myself taking notes and practicing the insights that you give. You are making us aware - curious - beautiful (in body, mind and spirit), content and grateful for the precious gift of life. God bless you!
Susan, can’t tell you how much your comment has meant to me. My channel really is all about trying to get us to embrace who we are and try to lead a purposeful life, not fearing aging and embracing the natural process of becoming wiser and enjoying these days of freedom.❤️
Thank you for your words of wisdom. I will reflect on the word contentment and it's role in my life because of you! Watching you is like taking that deep breath of air at home after all day of mask wearing at the hospital where I work. Life has been so harried and stressful for past year, it just zoomed by with so chaos but taking a moment to reflect on your words is a healing balm for my tired soul. Thank you Sandra and bless you and Arthur.❤️🌹🙏
Claudia, Kudos to you for your sacrifices and helping others in the hospital. We all have the most respect for you, especially at this time. Thank you for being a part of this community and know that we are all here to help one another. Prayers and blessings your way❤️
Thank you, darling lady, for taking the time to express your heart and for sharing the music in your soul to us. I appreciate your words of wisdom, your laughter, your glistening eyes when tears surface, and I am encouraged by your style, beauty and energy. I recently celebrated my 60th year in January 2022, searched for inspiration via ‘net, found your program, listened to your spirit, and I am forever encouraged with zest! My kindest regards to you and your family.
A couple of years ago my brother introduced me to yoga and earthing, which I enjoy. I was working in corp. America and running around in life and work. Now I reach out to my family/friends sending them a happy hello or a wellness check text. Thanks for this video, appreciate you!~Elizabeth
Thanks for sharing. As I’ve traveled I found a simple smile is universally understood in all languages. I’m 68 and am content but not happy as I’ve been waiting for 7 months for a house to sell. Frequently I think and reflect on the passage that teaches to be content where you are. Opportunities for helping others are around us in so many small and large ways.
Thankyou so much Sandra for another wonderful video. I'm 38 & my parents moved abroad when I was 23 (I stayed in the UK). Although I am married, I don't have any close female friends & as I get older, I miss having my Mum close by, for the advice on things that you never really think about when you are younger. Your videos have helped me in so many ways - whether it be for company or for helping me navigate through life 💜 x
I really appreciate your comment. I think we are all here to help one another. If some of my conversations can’t help you, then my purpose is being fulfilled. Thank you so much❤️
Lovely video!! I think a sign of true contentment is when one can be happy and content despite negative circumstances. I find it quite hard. To have that wonderful inner peace no matter what........
Wise people, and it is not me, say that you start working on your positive energy when there is no crisis in your life. It takes time to create rutine when you take care of your mind, body, and spirit. But when the next crisis comes, and they do come, you will be stronger. On the surface, there will be a storm, but deep inside, you will feel calmness. ❤
Beulah, Contentment does take work especially when there’s a lot of negative things going on around us. But there is always a rainbow or a few little things in our lives that we can focus on that are positive and gives us a sense of contentment. Just waking up every morning and being here for me is a big part of my contentment❤️
Beautiful talk Sandra. I still have a few things to work on. Friendships are difficult when you live in a place where you are only semi fluent in a language. Just usually me and my husband in Switzerland. People seem to think I am strange, imagine that!
Janet. I would truly be lost living in the country where I didn’t understand the language. Period. I admire you four Trying. I think when Margaret Manning went to Switzerland she also did not speak the language. And at the present time I don’t think she is fluent. As time goes by you’ll get better at it.LOL! You. Strange?😊😊❤️
Thank you dear and beautiful and brillant Sandra!! Thank you for the travel packing videos also!! Thank you!! Fabulous!! Magnificent!!!Thank you for all your hard work and your fantastic and wonderful videos!!!!!!! Hugs !!
Hi Sandra l am vrey happy to woch your videos day after work l open your programs l am 53 old bout l am proud of my self and my daughters l have one son and we enjoyed live with them my husband too he is vrey caind. We love you alot ❤️. Hope to see u soon at oman well come.
I had a stroke about 4 years ago and had to learn to walk and talk again. Thank the good Lord that I’m finally starting to feel like myself. Family was always important but as I approach my 60s family and after this past year dealing with this pandemic, family and friendships are even more important. Materialistic things are really not important. My goal this year is to donate half of my possessions to charity and let my things bless others. Thank you,Sandra,for being a blessing ❤️!
I am glad you are finally getting to feel like yourself after your stroke. Best of all I’m glad that you were still here to enjoy life and you friends and family. What a wonderful idea to get rid of material things that probably will make someone else very happy and enrich their lives. A good lesson for all of us.❤️
@@lifewithsandrahart Thank you❤️
i know that feeling when u need to learn all over again,u will do it again hope this text find u well,the lord will bless u
@@barbaranagawapamela7474 Thanks❤️! God bless you,too
How appropriate that you are bringing this subject up at this time for me. After 5 1/2 years of taking care of my mother with dementia and a difficult complicated grieving process in my middle 70's I am now coming "out of the fog" and looking forward to seeing what the good lord has for me next. It's my turn now! I never thought I would look forward to being content again! Grateful for you my friend and thankful for this community and the lovely comments. You all have helped me immensely!
You can begin again Annie, with Gods strength. 🙏🏻
Thank you for posting this. 🙏🏻 Very inspiring. God bless you.
God bless you Annie!
God has a great plan for you, Annie! Wishing you adventures and joy as you take your turn!
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Good morning! We are stardust, we are golden, and we must get back to the garden! If all remember this, wouldn’t that solve our worlds many problems. Wonderful words of wisdom. Everyone have a blessed day. Thank you for the loving thoughts
So much for being here today I am watching. Joni Mitchell was so smart when she wrote those lyrics how appropriate they are especially today❤️
addisons rules for contentment -- something to do -- something to love -- and something to look forward to
All true!! Thank you. ❤️
Contentment is happyness to me. My Exhusband always crritized me for "only" being content, that this was not enough. Contentment to me has a lot to do with being thankful and mindful. Growing older, becoming wiser.....Kindness like you said, connection to people I love. Health and faith are a huge part of happiness to me. This Easter I send much love and peace to our community and to you Sandra❤
I have never felt more contented as I turn 80. This seems to make the type of people I want to meet attracted to me. It is a new and beautiful phase. I have nature in my life and I have taken up sewing which is challenging. I learned about Ken Burns and am watching all the amazing films he has made in chronological order. Also I am reading all Shirley MacLaine's books in chronological order. I hope I have a lot more time to enjoy this life. I have never felt closer to my children who do not live nearby, but I have a more deep communication. Your messages are always valuable.
Keep enjoying it and may the route to the fountain of youth be made crystal clear to you and may you enter in. Blessings.
I, too, love the documentaries Ken Burns has made. He is a wonderful filmmaker. Congratulations on entering your 80th decade. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us. ❤️
I believe happiness is far easier for those of us who Trust in God.
We all need a higher power and listen and trust our own inner voices. ❤️
AMEN TO THAT!!!
Just listening to you speak is so thought provoking and also you a calming demeanor.
Thank you!❤️
Sandra thank you for your thoughts. I lost my husband of 50 years just months before lockdown, so it’s been difficult. But I can truly say I am content, grateful to still be alive after serious illness myself, thankful for family and friends. Thankful to have loved my husband since I was 15. I’ve taken over the garden since my husband passed and I’m surprised and delighted to be loving it, even on the cold days we have here in Scotland. I cook and bake and give it to neighbours, it gives me a purpose. And while still grieving I can say that God has been good and faithful to me. Thank you for sharing ❤️
Thank you for this. 🙏🏻
Elizabeth I’m always sad to hear of one of my subscribers losing their loving husband. Knowing someone sent you were 15 is a lifetime of commitment to one another. I know your husband is looking down upon you as you tend his garden and the fact that you were finding so much joy in it is even better. I know the winters in Scotland can be very damp and cold, spring coming must be something you are looking forward to. The fact that you are living a life of purpose with gratitude is wonderful! Much love your way and thank you for being here❤️
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Dear Sandra
my darling 92 years young husband died six months ago.
We were inseparable
And now I must live another life... Find my self
Thank you for being your loving self, Sandra
Hug, Rhonda (66 yrs old) in Canada
I'm very sorry for your loss.❤😇
Hi Rhonda, how wonderful your life must of been to elves yourself so lovingly towards your husband. I envy that experience. Wish you the joy and peace of the Lord. Blessings.
Blessings to you Rhonda, I know your pain and pray you find strength in God in these difficult early days of grief x
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I am so sorry for your loss. God bless you Dear!
Good morning, Sandra: At this point in my life, I have concluded that love is everything. Not money or material possessions that come and go, but, a true and lasting love. Yes, family and self-identity are part of contentment...I admire cultures where the elders are revered. Of course, nowadays, this is often not the case. We do come into the world alone, and leave it alone; however, to have someone special with whom to share the aging journey is truly the greatest gift we can ever receive, IMHO. I knew contentment and happiness in my own life, but, that was many years ago. It does come from within, but, that is difficult when there is a void. Thank you for yet another wonderful topic and video. Many blessings to you and Arthur.
Rosemarie 💖
Rosey, Everything you say is true. We have various stages in our lives and when something or someone leaves us there is an empty place in our hearts. ❤️
I felt like you were reading out of my journal. My favorite contentment is watching my 11 year old granddaughter developing into a kind and loving person which is sometimes not easy during these times
Nothing could be more beautiful. ❤️
The most amazing people I ever saw were in the Fiji villages and in the Atlas villages in North Africa. I’ve never seen such happiness ever again! I’ve lived throughout the world. I wondered what do those two areas have in common! Two spots on opposite sides of the world. 1/ financial poverty 2/ a sense of awe for everyone and everything. 3/ generosity beyond comprehension. 4/ love of people. 5/ open hearts 6./ smiles all the time! 7/ sense of community that completely accepts them exactly as they are without a shadow of a doubt that they are loved, rich and safe! 8/ no electricity: live in homes built from earth. Have rituals. Wake up with the sun ☀️
Wonderful lists and comparison. Something for all of us to think about. Thank you very much for sharing your thoughts and contentment with us❤️
We really need more people like you in this world 🌎 right now. You give us positive vibes, inspiration and makes me better person everyday.☺️
Thank you so much!
Wish you, Authur and Sophie a wonderful weekend🥰
Thank you and I wish you a wonderful week ahead❤️
@@lifewithsandrahart 😀🙏
Hi Sandra, to me, happiness is fleeting but contentment is an inner peace that never fades. Faith, gratitude, Love of family, friends, hard work and serving others keep me content in my life. I have never traveled anywhere but I would imagine that even though we are all different, we are all the same. Thank you for this wonderful video! Much love, Sheila.
Amen, sweetheart! ⚘🙏⚘
DITTO SHEILA :)
So beautifully said, Shelia! ❤️
I used to travel ALL the time - to the point where I gave up my home for many years! Since being married we hardly travel at all and that is ok with me as I am content where ever I am. I think appreciating nature as well as counting our blessings and focusing on the positives is very impactful in our contentment. As always, interesting topic my friend. ♥ Elle
Elle, we all have different chapters in our lives that are right for the time. I can see now with your two beautiful homes that you would be content being with your husband in your wonderful environments. It’s good that you got your traveling in when you were young and single. My daughter-in-law did the same thing. Living in gratitude and appreciating where we are now does contribute to our contentment. For sure. Thank you for spending some time with me and love your way❤️
I’ve learned to practice gratitude, which makes me more content. I’m most content when I can get adequate rest 😃
Marnie, rest and a good nights sleep is so important to our health. Practicing gratitude does make us more content. We have to work at it though. I know I do❤️
P.S. Sandra, I do feel blessed to have been a part of the generation about which Joni Mitchell sang. What a wonderful decade it was in which to be young..the 1960's!! 🙂
Rosemarie 💖
yessssss....
So true. The music was in my life but the carefree life passed me by. I was on Romper Room in ‘1969 with 3 children! ❤️
Oh yes!!!
Good Morning Sandra, Odd to say but even though I am hubbe's full time caregiver filled with stress, I am content with my home and my surroundings and feel blessed. I can sit out on the lanai and listen to the rippling of water in the pool and the birds chirping in the preserve. And, the most important thing are my longstanding life time friendships, those friends that are always there for me through the ups and downs. Blessings, Diane
Diane, Life gives us hiccups, doesn’t it? But it also gives us wonderful things in our life to make it all worthwhile.❤️
Dearest Sandra,
I firstly would like to thank you for your valuable content that you share with the world. You are indeed a very wise beautiful soul and I love listening to what you have to say. Your core values resonate with many of your subscribers I am sure. This is why we enjoy your channel. You radiate a certain charm about you....enchanting and elegant. It is difficult to find these days. Nature to me is everything. Just being able to hear the birdsong, watch the ever changing seasons,
the moon phases, the rainbow, the sunrise and set over the sea and mountains brings me such contentment. Of course human warmth as you say is key and good friends and family are equally first and foremost. Thank you for doing what you do and enlightening us with your presence. Much love from across the world. xxxxx
The World is not flat: across.
It is round... around the World, lol.
Many blessings... ⚘🕯⚘
Thank you so much for your beautiful and kind comment. I enjoy reading every single. Nature is so important. Just being able to enjoy our surroundings brings a certain degree of contentment. I think you for all of your kind comments and I am so delighted to have you as a part of this community. I sincerely believe it is made up of some of the most sensitive and emotionally mature women from all over the world. Across the seas and beyond the mountains and lands that divide us, we are one. All good things your way.❤️
Stroke 2 years ago house burned a year ago. Made me realize that I don't need those material things I'm content with what i got. Learn to appreciate little things. a fun. Love your vlog.
It does put things into perspective, doesn’t it?!
I am from india that is bharat and i can say that we are very content people by nature. Although the years aspirations after colonialism led people to american/ corporate way of life as ameans of happiness...but now we are realising and cherishing our > 10,000 yr old culture. Youth is excited to know about our v deep roots and finding solace there...its like returning home❤
Love your list. As I grow older in my late seventies some of my long time friends are getting sicker and dying. Makes me sad but also glad that I am still here (and content).
Aging is a privilege. I always live in gratitude with that thought in mind❤️
I found contentment when I realized that happiness is not a constant in life - it has ebbs and flows. I think I am content because I feel I am deep inside of me, but I also know that I will always have things to work on - always!!!
Always!! Life is not static. Thank you for sharing those thoughts❤️
I count my blessings. We’ve been married for forty years, all my children, grandchildren, in laws, who are in their 80’s and 93 year old mom live within 25 minutes of us. I live and walk in nature daily, garden, knit and have wonderful close friends, etc..It does take patience but it’s worth it.
Lynn, you are so very lucky to have your extended family so nearby. Today that is a rarity. You sound as though you have a wonderful nuclear and content life.❤️
I am so happy I come across your channel. It makes me teary eyed because I am now early 50 and I feel lost; seemed like being in a crossroad - but listening to your channel and hearing your soothing voice makes me connected to you. You are the source of WISDOM I much needed at this point in my life.
S: I don't know how I missed this post. I guess I was supposed to stumble upon it on a day when I needed a big kick in the pants. Your thoughts and observations were just the "gentle" reminder I needed. As always, so grateful for your time!
I'm so glad that I found you!!! You look so young! I thought that you are in your 60 s.
I really appreciate you saying that. Thank you very much. I am really touched❤️
Hi Sandra! How are you today? You’re looking wonderful.....Sadly! I’m from a culture where family is not a huge deal for some, a brother or sister can pass you in the streets without even acknowledging you and feels no way about it, as for human warmth there’s not a lot of that either, there are 7 billion people in the world and yet soo many lonely people, making friends is not always easy because folks have so many conditions in place in order for them to accept you as a friend.....I’m an Introvert , I’m also an Empath, so I benefit from keeping my distance, I love all people, I help where and when I can, I’m content and I’m so so grateful for life💐🌸🌺🌹
Gutchie, Unfortunately you are correct about certain cultures. There are lonely people everywhere, in all cultures. It’s just that some feel more responsible for caring for their own. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. ❤️
We are star dust
We are golden
And we got to get ourselves
Back to the garden! 😍😍😍
I'm 64, starting a new chapter! Planning and working in contentment! Thanks our beautiful Sandra! Much love and many blessings!
In the Spanish speaking cultures, the phrase, ‘estoy contenta’ (Iam content) is used often.
I have incorporated this phrase into my English language because it clearly states my frame of mind.
Presently our USA culture uses the phrase, ‘Iam good’.
I translate that to, ‘Iam content’.
Contentment is a peaceful place to be.
Truly I say. Truly being content is wonderful. ❤️
My garden has been my contentment for years, since I found gardening for nature then gardening for profit, and gardening for beauty and contentment. I can only garden part time in the north. And I garden gingerly since age has taken some of my strength and mobility. My faith and my husband keep me centered in life. But when I cannot garden, I am content to read about the world and communicate with others online.
Sally that sounds like a very contended and purposeful life. I hope you can keep doing what you love for many years ahead. I thank you for sharing your thoughts about contentment today❤️
I agree with you Sandra.in these hard times without family and friends a small talk with a stranger can brighten our life.hugs for you and Arthur.xxx
Albertina, It really helps, doesn’t it! ❤️
It’s absolutely true that contented and happy are different, because happiness is a feeling in the moment and been contented is a satisfaction . I’m to have listened to you, Mrs. Sandra. You’re an amazing lady. Blessings always!🙏
Very much Gladys. Blessings right back your way❤️
Beautifully said Sandra! Thank you for sharing! ❤️
Thank you. ❤️
You young lady make so many people's days. Not only do you inspire... But you cause us to aspire to what we could do and who we could be. Many blessings. ❤
Work in progress here . I never felt better . 61 years old and lots of help from UA-cam nice influencers like you ... 🙏🙏☘️☘️🌺🌺
Helia, that is such good news. Keep up the good work on you❤️
Content is be satisfied with what you hâve. Learn to accept life as it is no matter poor or rich you are. Love
Wonderful thoughts
My heart bursts with joy listening to your experiences and watching your glowing face.
Thank yo so much. I appreciate your being here.,❤️
Thank you so much.❤️
Good morning 🌞 I know I need to work on bring content. I also know that no one else is responsible for that. I just need to make the change and do it. I have been stuck for awhile now, abd I don’t want to be anymore.
I need to do the same, watching things like this makes me realize I need to change things.
Jesus is the way, the truth and the life.
Simply, where there is a will, there is a way. You will find it. Get unstuck by not looking back, but forward.❤️
I'm seventy-four. My husband died decades ago. My children recently abandoned me. I had a bout with a grief that put me in bed with chronic pain and fatigue. I got up. I found a new living environment with subsidized housing for independent seniors. Doesn't sound very glamorous does it?
Was I ever surprised to find out that I have a pretty and modern apartment with a stunning view, and big windows. I live with a community of seniors all having something in common. We have our fascinating stories. We have jokes to share. We all have faces and we are no longer invisible. There are many activities waiting for us when the covid crisis ends. There are outdoor activities that we can do right now. We live on the edge of a protected area called "Clear Chrystal Creek" and the creek runs right under my window, replete with river otter, ducks, and the Canada geese who have come to spend the winter here and have their gosslings. I saw a beaver about two weeks ago while on my daily walk.
What I thought was going to be a prelude to death, turned out to be a reassuring and secure part of my life that I am becoming more and more attuned with. I think I have had to start my life all over again. It just might work.
Sandra Hart, you are such a blessing to me. I've had a pretty nuts and bolts life and now I come to your youtube vlogs for advice on daily living, coping skills that work, and also glamour. You make life look and sound so glamorous, inside and out. I use your tips on makeup and clothing. But most of all I find support and encourgement here. Thank You so much for your work.
I am so happy to hear that you are in a community of like-minded people and that your apartment is so nice. Just when we think maybe the world is over for us a wonderful door opens and shows us a new way and a new life that makes it all worthwhile. The view from your window sounds absolutely amazing and being able to walk along in the water so refreshing. I am so happy for you and I hope that you will come back often and share your thoughts about our conversations. Have a wonderful weekend
I feel very content. It wasn't an easy life for me at times and when my husband left me with the children for another woman 14 years older than he was, I looked for a man to make my family. It took a while but I eventually realised I have my family without the need for any man! This gave me a lot of contentment! I am free to be me. Who knows maybe my soulmate is out there but he can come find me. I am quite fine just as I am lol! Great video Sandra as always! Tc much love KX
I have to tell you Kathleen that you have the right attitude. We have to be content with ourselves and embrace and love ourselves. That is the most important thing we can do for us and our children. We are whole and can survive and be happy with ‘us’. If our soulmates come along wonderful, but if not we can’t wait for life to pass us by. ❤️
Thankyou for the lovely video, interesting as always. I was never in lockdown being in Perth, the most isolated city in the world, there was no difference to our daily lives. Everything else is true, especially if you've lucky enough to have good relatives. My mother is still toxic in old age, it will be a release for everyone when she goes. I have lost touch with friends met while travelling in earlier life, no email or internet then. I would give anything to see them again. I also lost touch with an American boyfriend I met in Perth. Can only wonder how it might have turned out. Every friend makes a mark on our lives and is precious. I can't say I'm contented but will feel happy to travel to Singapore soon, to be in a happier place after so long with dealing with my mother and having travel restrictions. Dixie (Aus)
I have been to Perth several times. Lucky you weren’t locked down.
Sandra
So glad to hear you speak about family ties and friendship. I have a very dear friend of mine who was born and raised in Pakistan. My life would not be the same without this person. One thing they have taught or shown me is the value those cultures put on family and yes taking care of their parents. They have very different ideas about family. One of their expressions is " Heaven is at your mother's feet" 😊
Pamela, thank you so much for sharing that wonderful quote with us. I’m going to have to share that with my children.❤️
Recently I have tried hard to be happy with what I have. It's all in the mind. We can talk to ourselves . We can change our thoughts. .
We do have control of our mind and do we have the power to change our thoughts to either positivity or negativity. I choose positivity❤️
Oh my, Joni Mitchell, love her. I agree with you, Sandra. I cannot remember not feeling content. Enjoyed your video, mand your interesting photos. Blessings, and love..MaryEllen
MaryEllen, I put a UA-cam link below the video to a Joni Mitchell version of Woodstock!! I was on RR then, so missed all the fun!!!❤️
@@lifewithsandrahart Watched Joni's video this morning and enjoyed it so much! Forgot to mention I saw you on GMA. You looked beautiful, my friend
Godliness’s with contentment is great gain🙏🏽💕
Another great video !!!!! I'm finally content at this point in my life it took 56 years to get here haha thank you 💖
Sometimes it takes a while to really find that sweet spot of contentment. I’m so happy you found it❤️
Good morning Sandra. Such a nice way to wake up, reading and watching this video. It really made me think and I do realize how content I am. My three sons and I bought an old Victorian Farm house 5 and a half years ago. We all live here, and coudn't be more content. Yes, there is a lot to be done, and we say almost daily how blessed we are to have this place. We can (and do) have many animals......we do a small cat rescue as we have the wonderful barn for them. When we first moved here there were so many sick, hungry and pregnant cats..........now, there is only one we see who doesn't belong to our colony. ( Don't worry, we'll catch him) :-) We catch them, take them and have them spayed or neutered and get their shots. They were supposed to go off on their own, but it hasn't ecxactly worked that way. They love it here as we do! Anyway, although money is tight, the love of family, friends and fur friends, as well as the three acres for the deer and others in the back makes is so worth while! So, in my world, family, friends, and the ability to help these little fur babies make it all so wonderful. Thank you for this video. Have a wonderful day! xoxo
Sandie, you are describing paradise. Thank you for sharing the wonderful environment you and your sons have created for yourselves and all the wildlife around you. Thank you for taking care of the cats you have rescued. ❤️
We think diferent..
We spend diferent..
We love diferent..
That's what makes this world go around🥰🌍🌞💐
You gave me what I needed to hear today. Moving and
downsizing I am afraid I won’t make new friends.
be a friend and you will make a friend. injoy the adventure :)connie
You’ll be ok. The unknown can be scary but surely you are following your heart and things will unfold perfectly 🦋💜
Phfff! Yes, you will.
New home, new lifestyle, new Church, new neighbors, new opportunities to volunteer in your new town/city, more parks/geography to explore...
YOU CAN DO THIS. 👍
We have moved many times in 32 years of marriage. As overwhelming as it can seem... I always viewed it as a fresh start of sorts. You will meet new people and make friends. Each time we have moved, I have asked God to send me friends. He has never failed me.
Brenda, You will! Think of it as an exciting new chapter in your life. Keep yourself open and others will embrace you. Lots of great advice from our community here! ❤️
Great subject Sandra. I have found over my lifetime that I have been in and out of contentment. As life circumstances change, adjustments have to be made to make my life content. It is something that has to be continually worked on and sometimes it really is hard! Have a peaceful and contented day lovely lady.
Grace, what you have written is so true. We can go in and out of content and according to what’s happening around us. Sometimes it’s really hard work but no matter what the circumstances it is attainable sooner or later. Thank you for sharing that with us❤️
Wonderful topic. I was just teaching a class last night talking about how being open to connecting, engaging and sharing is crucial to not only feeling good but also life will respond back to you in a connected, engaging and sharing way. Covid has been detrimental to us as a human race. I lead spiritual journeys around the world and I’ve missed all the blessings and growth not being able to for a year now. I’m leaving this Friday to lead a small group spiritual journey in Sedona. I am looking forward to the connecting, engaging, sharing, healing and growth we will experience. It’s so important 🦋💜
How fantastic you are teaching a class about human engagement. It is extremely important to our contentment and also happiness. Thank you for sharing that. Have a great time on you trip to Sedona Friday. I would love to stowaway in your luggage!!❤️
@@lifewithsandrahart it would be great to have you along 🥰🦋💜
Awesome message...not only in this video, but in ALL of your videos, you have given me so much food for thought...thank you so much for sharing your experiences and wisdom. Sending lots of love and big hugs!!!
Thank you for always being here!❤️
Lovely video about contentment. Thank you for reminding me about what brings contentment. I shall follow your advice. You are a national treasure. Xx
Loved this video and was in my NJ garden in Monmouth county feeling connected with you!!! Thanks for all your wonderful thoughts have a wonderful day 🌷🌷🌷🌷
Oh, how I miss my Monmouth County shoreline and my gardens there! I truly left a piece of my heart behind when I left for good in 2016! ❤️
For me, I feel most content and happy when I think about and remember all that I have to be grateful for. When I forget to do this and I slip into the mindset of lack (I wish I had this, I wish I could do that, etc.) I begin to feel discontent. So it takes me recognizing that I’m having negative thoughts and I have to actively turn those thoughts towards gratitude 🙏🏽 💜🌻🌞 Then I feel happier and content again 😊
Thank you Sandra for talking about this. Contentment with happiness would be wonderful to live everyday. But even if we can’t we certainly can find both in the 5 ways you talked about. Your are the sweetest and smart lady, I’m glad I found your channel.
Linda, I can’t tell you how happy I am that you found me, too. I really appreciated your comment today - thank you😊❤️
I agree! I’m so happy & thankful to have found Sandra on here. I found that I was quizzing myself, before you revealed your criteria for the traits of contentment! Today, you continue to exhibit the same connective qualities that you had on Romper Room! You are a healing balm on the heart. You are a “mom” to many that have lost theirs. You are the wise soul that continues to teach & connect with others. As a teacher, I too, felt that the connection with my students was so very important, and they likewise, responded! Many thanks, Sandra! ✨💜💐💜✨
This is such a powerful and much needed presentation. I certainly have benefited and I pray others do too.
Thank you, Sandra, from my heart!!
Hello Sandra and thank you, will be sometime before contentment comes in our lives after our sons death in December, our family is small. My neighbor is a retired Navy chaplain and yesterday we chatted outside briefly I shared how I was reminding myself to be “happy,” contentment is not here for now but hope is, blessings dear friend. 💕🙏🏻
Latresa, It will come. It will come. The healing process can be a long one. My thoughts are with you and comfort send your way. Love you. ❤️
@@lifewithsandrahart appreciate you sweet friend, was having lunch and saw your heartfelt comment❣️🙏🏻
You look fantastic in this hair style!!My contentment is having a good life with my family and friends!!!Thank you for sharing!!Love to you and yours!!!Finia Moraiti from Greece.
Thank you very much. I appreciate your sharing your life in Greece. ❤️
Such beautiful thoughts thank you for sharing. I am both happy and content. I love working in my garden, trying new recipes and participating in volunteer activities, going to fairs, shows and festivals, being a fan at my grands soccer/softball/baseball games and exploring by myself or with friends. I have come to this point by trying to be the happiest woman in my town. It takes work everyday by turning down invitations to pity parties, editing negative people from my life, wearing better fitting and colorful clothing, paying attention to grooming and setting 3 goals each day for myself. I challenge you, Reader, to choose being a happy older woman over being a nasty, miserable older woman.!
Ima, Great comment and thoughtful goals! Thank you.❤️
Contentment number one for me is liking ùr self...i spent too many years as a child & than as a youngster disliking myself (painfully shy..too thin etc) but when we get into our 40's we start to come into our own (& start putting on a little weight!) & as our character is now more or less developed & let's say a shy gene has more or less disappeared I think that's when u start to REALLY like u'r self😊 The next is a hobby u really enjoy.. & look forward to getting back to each day.. As I'm a bit of a chilled person knitting & watching a good film (or listening to u'r good self!) Makes me feel content! But having u'r grown children's every mood & problem in u'r face at our age to my mind doesn't go hand in hand with being content!! I have 5 children of which 3 of them have my mother's closed book gene (not healthy at all to keep things bottled up I agree) so they don't tell me EVERYTHING so I only know about the good stuff!!😁 But 2 of my adlut children are an open book like myself so I know every depression & mess they've got themselves into & that's not good in terms of my mental state & contentment (which I strive on a daily basis to attain!) & one of these two lives just up the road from us so I'm actually witnessing the depression/mess full on & first hand!! The worry & anxiety on their behalf is deffinely interfering with my Contentment!! Of course I would never tell them this because I love them far too much & if I'm their sounding board than so be it! (I do give out good advise & am very wise it has to be said😊) & contentment is all the things u pointed out in this video..i enjoyed listening as I knitt away (the bed jacket is coming along nicely by the way!😁 -- watching from malta😎
Once her mother always the mother. Our children’s problems become our problems. No getting away from it. Thank you much for sharing your contentment or non-Contentment story. How wonderful that you knit! Excellent for relaxation.❤️
Contentment number one for me , is love for God and love for others.Putting Him first, makes all the difference! Great points, Sandra.
I’m so grateful that I met you 😀🇨🇦 Your experience of life is so precious thank you for sharing this with all of us 🙏
Margaret, thank you so much for being here. Please know that I am grateful that you are here and are enjoying being a part of this wonderful community we have here. Have a great weekend❤️
I was just asked that very question the other day, I think contentment will lead you to happiness. Forest bathing is one of my most cherished activities here in Montana. Love your sincerity in all your videos. Thank you very much.
Forest bathing sounds great.
Forest bathing sounds soooo relaxing! What a treat it must be. Thank you for sharing that experience with all of us who may never ever have the chance to enjoy forest bathing❤️
You said it very well.Contentment is a state of the mind,we learn and try to bring ourselves to that state.Thank you.
Thanks for watching this one today Justina
Thank you Sandra...wonderful video todayxxx...lovelyxxx❤
Thanks for your sage advice, I appreciate it esp today as I purge my house in preparation for a move to another country. So all your past videos have really given me confidence! And why do you look younger now than your older photos? I guess you follow your own advice 😉👍🏼💐
Thanks for the ‘younger’ compliment! You just made my morning! I wish!!! How exciting for your move to another country!! Best of luck and hope to hear from you again. ❤️
What a good chat Sandra, thank you and I loved your pictures. And thank you to those who've shared their thoughts, pain, loss and experiences.
I see happiness as being dependant upon circumstances and contentment more about a deeper joy that comes from peace, hope and acceptance.
Your points are so very valid. Through covid we can see clearly the lack of connection, brokenness in relationships due to distance and the need for family whether related by blood or not we are all part of the human race. I find my greatest peace outside listening to the stream flow and thanking my God. Whether watching birds or petting a fur baby we get some connection to the gift of creation. Yes the sense of identity and ability to work, give or do for someone sparks life.
Music is a big part of the gifts we are given. I recall the lyrics you shared from Joni Mitchell, yes! I too miss travel as there are places I'd like to revisit just in my memories for now.
I seek greater contentment a day at a time and grateful His grace is sufficient. Be blessed!
Thank you for your wonderful insightful and heartfelt comment. Traveling and getting to meet the actual people in their environment is so enlightening. Great memories, aren’t they?❤️
Your warm personality calms me. It's so pleasant to listen to your voice.
I wish you all the best. ❤️
The best to you, as well.❤️
Sandra being in lock down actually was good for me ,it gave me a chance to just Be I am very content finally.I’m great full for everything just taking a walk and being helpful to anyone who needs me 😊
Sometimes we have to slow down to realize what’s important in our lives. I’m so happy that you were able to find contentment during the Covid lockdown.❤️
You yourself are the embodiment of contentment. You are beautiful. Lovely video.
Thank you ever so much
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I adored this video!
I am a mother of 5.
You seemed to have hit the mail on the head!
Thank You❤
My dear Sandra, I could watch your videos all day long...Again you have touched the roots of happiness so perfectly, thank you my friend xxxxx 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Thank you so much Bella. Have a wonderful weekend❤️
Hello Sandra. Been a bit busy and missed a chat or two. Dropping in to day hello and thank you for this very lovely, insightful video chat. Enjoy the rest of your week you, Arthur and family. 🎶 🌅 🎶 🐦 💕
Oh thank you Clara for spending some time with me today. I know. Most of us have a life but I appreciate when you can stop bye and let me know you’re here❤️
🙋🏻♀️I’m so behind in watching all my favorite UA-cam videos ! By a Divine intervention, we were blessed with a Morkie puppy last weekend . In three years we lost three of our beloved Yorkies & our sweet Maltese. We still have one tiny girl , who’s 15 , blind and the love of our life , but this little guy came not our life and took us completely off guard ! What a joy he is ! Having said all that , he’s also slot of work !🥱so when he woke up before the sun rose , I put on your latest video which was lovely , and must have fallen back to sleep after , I woke up to the sound of your sweet voice narrating Behind the Magic Mirror , so I felt compelled to quickly
Jot this down . It’s the third time I’ve listened to your story , of courage , joy and sadness .
I feel so blessed that our paths have crossed and that I get to call you my “ friend “
Always sending my ❤️ JoAnn. ❤️💐🌹🌻🌼🌸🌺🥀❤️
JoAnn, I can’t blame you at all! How adorable your new little Morkie puppy must be. I absolutely love puppies. Our dogs are both 13 now and I can remember how adorable and cuddly they were when they were little puppies. A lot of work, though, with house training and everything, but the love that they give is so worth it. Congratulations and thank you for lettting me know what is going on in your life!!! ❤️ I am also glad to have you back exclamation😊❤️
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Sandra - this is beautiful truth! I, too, have been blessed to travel to many countries and I totally agree - thank
You for putting these thoughts out here for us! I am content! I am happy almost all
The time!
Great to hear, Nova! Thanks for sharing your thoughts. ❤️
Lovely talk, Sandra. I wish they would teach this to the young children in school, especially our young men. They really need this, we all do!
Maria, I really have to agree with you. Thank you for mentioning that❤️
Sweet lady! Thank you!! Here is how I found contentment - "Happy are those whose sins are forgiven" Psalm 32 v 1
Rachel, so true. Thank you so much for sharing that proverb with us❤️
You are such a special person... that is all that i can say.... Bless you..
Sandra - I watch 5 different youtube posts - yours is the only one that gives me something to ponder during the week. I find myself taking notes and practicing the insights that you give. You are making us aware - curious - beautiful (in body, mind and spirit), content and grateful for the precious gift of life. God bless you!
Susan, can’t tell you how much your comment has meant to me. My channel really is all about trying to get us to embrace who we are and try to lead a purposeful life, not fearing aging and embracing the natural process of becoming wiser and enjoying these days of freedom.❤️
Loved her...loved the song...still do. Your words are so full of hope and joy. Blessings 🌷💐🌹
Joni Mitchell has always been one of my favorites. I put a link to the song with her singing it below this video❤️
My favorite song from the 60s. Still applies today. ✌🕊💐🌸🌻🌹🌺🌼🥀
True!❤️
Thank you for your words of wisdom. I will reflect on the word contentment and it's role in my life because of you! Watching you is like taking that deep breath of air at home after all day of mask wearing at the hospital where I work. Life has been so harried and stressful for past year, it just zoomed by with so chaos but taking a moment to reflect on your words is a healing balm for my tired soul. Thank you Sandra and bless you and Arthur.❤️🌹🙏
Amazing comment !
Loved 😀👏🤗
Claudia, Kudos to you for your sacrifices and helping others in the hospital. We all have the most respect for you, especially at this time. Thank you for being a part of this community and know that we are all here to help one another. Prayers and blessings your way❤️
Sandra, thank you!💞🍀
Thank you!❤️
What a wonderful, timely video! You presented these truths so well and I appreciate your cross-cultural experience. Thank you 🙏
Thank you,❤️ Carol
Thank You , such a great topic . So agree with all you mentioned Sandra . Contentment feels wonderful xxx
Whenever I’m able to reach that mindset. It is absolutely calming to my soul❤️
Please make videos on your experiences. I love listening to your wisdom 💜
That’s a beautiful journey Sandra. You make me content and I need to get outside and work in my flower garden.
Deborah, Yes! Wonderful way to be content.❤️
Thank you, darling lady, for taking the time to express your heart and for sharing the music in your soul to us. I appreciate your words of wisdom, your laughter, your glistening eyes when tears surface, and I am encouraged by your style, beauty and energy. I recently celebrated my 60th year in January 2022, searched for inspiration via ‘net, found your program, listened to your spirit, and I am forever encouraged with zest! My kindest regards to you and your family.
Thank you Debbie for your kindness. I’m so happy you are here!
Happy Mother’s Day a little early!! God bless you and your family!!!!!
Thank you Ann. You’re the first to wish me a Happy Mother’s Day!! ❤️
A couple of years ago my brother introduced me to yoga and earthing, which I enjoy. I was working in corp. America and running around in life and work. Now I reach out to my family/friends sending them a happy hello or a wellness check text. Thanks for this video, appreciate you!~Elizabeth
Thanks for sharing. As I’ve traveled I found a simple smile is universally understood in all languages. I’m 68 and am content but not happy as I’ve been waiting for 7 months for a house to sell. Frequently I think and reflect on the passage that teaches to be content where you are. Opportunities for helping others are around us in so many small and large ways.
Peggy, thank you so much for sharing your thoughts today about contentment and life!
Thankyou so much Sandra for another wonderful video. I'm 38 & my parents moved abroad when I was 23 (I stayed in the UK). Although I am married, I don't have any close female friends & as I get older, I miss having my Mum close by, for the advice on things that you never really think about when you are younger. Your videos have helped me in so many ways - whether it be for company or for helping me navigate through life 💜 x
I really appreciate your comment. I think we are all here to help one another. If some of my conversations can’t help you, then my purpose is being fulfilled. Thank you so much❤️
What a beautiful vídeo, Sandra, such a Spiritual Lesson, thank you 🙌🙏💜
Thank you for being here. ❤️
Lovely video!! I think a sign of true contentment is when one can be happy and content despite negative circumstances.
I find it quite hard.
To have that wonderful inner peace no matter what........
Wise people, and it is not me, say that you start working on your positive energy when there is no crisis in your life. It takes time to create rutine when you take care of your mind, body, and spirit. But when the next crisis comes, and they do come, you will be stronger. On the surface, there will be a storm, but deep inside, you will feel calmness.
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Beulah, Contentment does take work especially when there’s a lot of negative things going on around us. But there is always a rainbow or a few little things in our lives that we can focus on that are positive and gives us a sense of contentment. Just waking up every morning and being here for me is a big part of my contentment❤️
@@Teffi_Club thank you that rings true xx
Beautiful talk Sandra. I still have a few things to work on. Friendships are difficult when you live in a place where you are only semi fluent in a language. Just usually me and my husband in Switzerland. People seem to think I am strange, imagine that!
Janet. I would truly be lost living in the country where I didn’t understand the language. Period. I admire you four Trying. I think when Margaret Manning went to Switzerland she also did not speak the language. And at the present time I don’t think she is fluent. As time goes by you’ll get better at it.LOL! You. Strange?😊😊❤️
Thank you Sandra, I love you, and I appreciate you.🙏
Thank you and I appreciate you, too.❤️
Thank you dear and beautiful and brillant Sandra!! Thank you for the travel packing videos also!! Thank you!! Fabulous!! Magnificent!!!Thank you for all your hard work and your fantastic and wonderful videos!!!!!!! Hugs !!
Ann, A great big thank you and hugs right back❤️
Hi Sandra l am vrey happy to woch your videos day after work l open your programs l am 53 old bout l am proud of my self and my daughters l have one son and we enjoyed live with them my husband too he is vrey caind. We love you alot ❤️. Hope to see u soon at oman well come.