I help my mother in the kitchen. I have always been even before lockdown. And what kind of father one would be who takes playing with kids or bathing or feeding them as a work! Come on, they are your children too.
SUPERB --- What's wrong if men indulge in house work? House is not a sole property of women. In fact, males are better cooks than females. Just see Haldiram, Aggarwala, Kavers, Bengali Sweets, et al. -- all have male cooks. A family becomes a blessing if husband and wife work together without any ego hassles. From cooking to shopping to washing to cleansing to taking care of seniors and children, all have to be done by males as well as females. Self-help is the best help and if a person is not able to take care of himself, then how would he help a hapless needy!!! A good and loving family is a 50:50 partnership boss.
This is Nothing New.............. Everyday route of bachelor boy with 4 roommates in unknown City's small rented Apartment............. Don't know when graduation will over............
jab yeh hi baat ki umeed gala hai ki jaati hai k ghar ke kaam mai haath btao tb unhe feminism ki yaad kyun aati hai..tab kyun 'equality' kaa sahi matlb smajh aata inko
My husband isn't doing housework. Not unless he wants to. Scratch that, he isn't doing it, period. He is only allowed to do the heavy stuff I can't. He is a super busy CEO that rescued me from my life as a struggling teacher, a struggling translator, a nanny without enough servile and/or conniving traits to work for people who hire nannies that are really language teachers and not qualified enough to be nannies. If you need your husband to do housework you must be going out to work and that's your mistake, or you married a man who can't support you and the kids if you stopped working, also a mistake. The problem in India isn't that men refuse house choirs it's that women are mimicking men and going out to work whilst having 2.5 kids, and working mothers are a recipe for an unhappy family. (It is simply easier to be a dad and work outside the home than to be a mum and work outside because our biology dictates that a mother does more of the nurturing of the kids, while the father is better at installing discipline and rough and tumble confidence in the kids.) As a woman, if you want to work or have a career don't have kids and if you want kids stay at home and raise your own kids. I also don't need a video and some people in an office to fight for my rights in my marriage, I am perfectly capable of negotiating with my own husband. I did not marry any of the men that had a tendency to deny me the right and ways to negotiate with them to our mutual satisfaction. Whether an arranged or a love marriage, and believe me there's nothing wrong with arranged marriages as long as you are doing it because you want it and not out of any kind of pressure, take the time to get to know this person and do not marry someone who is showing signs of being unwilling to negotiate with you till you are both happy with how you live. I don't need a campaign and activism to tell my husband how he should treat me, I tell him and he listens. Just like he tells me how to treat him and I take note of his needs and wishes and desires and demons. Mw own life got better one hundred per cent, on every level of analysis, since I met my husband. The man isn't oppressing me he is my king and saviour. This doesn't mean it was always easy or pleasant being together. Relationships are sometimes very hard work. All, even the healthiest relationships are like that, but in terms of the quality of my life it is trillion times better with him in my life and for him too since I've been in is life. We fell in love and chose each other and both undid ourselves to grow and change for the better so we can love each other in a healthy way. This was at times a very uncomfortable and sometimes painful process. We discovered we were both flawed and foolish creatures and accepting that and trying to stay together has we made us both better and more mature people. Do you really think this ridiculous video of men doing house choirs or cooking whilst their partners are lounging will change a selfish guy who refuses to help out his working mother wife? Do you think I care some woman chose to marry a selfish dude? Choose to be a working mum? These are her choices and she needs to take personal responsibility for those and change them if she regrets her choices. Feminism treats women as if we were toddlers, so we can't make any of our own choices and we are therefore not responsible for our life or personal choices. As if we need the state and some activist stranger to rescue us from our own personal responsibility and our own choices. This is not only wrong but also very dangerous. A friend of mine was assaulted in the most feminist country in the world, Sweden. She is also white. The criminally insane man who assaulted her is a black Muslim. The left-wing and feminist, identitarian white Europeans think being of colour and Muslim trumps being a white woman in victimhood, therefore nobody cared she got assaulted. Not the police, not the people in her circle, literally no one. It wasn't PC to discuss with her that a Muslim guy of Eritrean descent and very black looking assaulted her. To even talk about it was considered a form of racism and islamophobia. That's what decades of "democratic" socialism, left-wing indoctrination, feminism, identitarianism, and dogmatism of the state and the non-govermant activist did to the white Europeans in Sweden. (I am avoiding the R-word because yt will shadowban my comment but she wasn't assaulted she was R-word assaulted and he ended up stalking her and assaulting her more than once because she could not get any protection or help against him.) This happened in a country with a literal feminist government. Then a man she had just started dating and withdrew from when she got assaulted found out about it and beat the R-word-ist an inch of his death and then she was worried sick that wonderful man will go to prison for trying to punish and evil man that was abusing her to death. Her story isn't an exception but a rule in Sweden. Feminism is an insanely broken doctrine of female chauvinism and intersectional identitarian crap. You do not want India to go in the feminist direction. You don't believe me, google R-word statistics in Sweden, where they have a feminist government for decades now. You guys are also the poster children for privilege. Middle and upper-class youth sitting in an office making activist and/or funny videos earning a very decent living, so sooner or later the cultural marxists and far-left identitarians will turn on you. Take the red pill before you get cancelled by people you share ideological indoctrination with, AKA " your own side". At least start doing the research on the red pill side of things, and then when you get cancelled by far left-wing mob, it will be less painful. Watch some Jordan Peterson...Before he lost his mind! Watch some Dave Rubin. I would not take the time to write a comment this long if I didn't care...About India, its culture and people. I have strong and very loving ties to India myself. I also can see your guys heart is in the right place, I can tell by the pseudo-feminism video, but you still have huge blind spots when it comes to your own ideological possession. My wish for every person who is part of Blush is to become true critical thinkers instead of well-meaning but misguided ideologues you are now. Best of luck. Edit: BTW, how many of you grew up in households where you had servants? Yup, your mothers were super oppressed by the upkeep of the house and cooking, with all the help they got from lower-class servants they hired with the support and approval from your fathers. Do not get me wrong, as long as you can treat the help with respect and pay them well, nothing wrong with having servants, I am just making a point. Feminists and middle-class leftists always want to check someone else's privilege but never their own. Did you ever think about all the servants and blue-collar workers and women workers that served you up to now and how you treated them? Do you really think you earning more than they could dream to earn in their job by making activist and/or funny videos about your own political indoctrination will change or help the lives of lower-class women whose job prospects are to serve you? Maybe you just paid them more? Tip them when you suspect they are being underpaid. Maybe just smile and treat them with dignity, as your equals who happen to do the kind of job that entails them serving you but they don't have to also be servile to you. Do you really think working-class men are more privileged than middle and upper-class women? To think that is just crazy dissociated from reality. Baby steps people but start from your own selves and not the "Indian men" as a monolith, since Indian men, and men in general, aren't a monolith group.
Why should a woman choose between her career and children? I get that our biology limits us to some extent. We are the physically weaker sex. No question there. But it still doesn't mean women have to make this choice. My mother has two girls and a pretty successful career. She's a lawyer and earns at least 1.5x what my dad earns and he's a doctor. Yes, we have the privilege of being able to afford a maid who takes some weight off of my mother's shoulders. But my mom still wakes up at 6 to cook breakfast and lunch, still does all the shopping, the bills, everything you have to do to manage a home. My dad on the other hand does nothing. Just minds his own business. Gives a small portion of his salary to mom every month. That's it. But he will still come home in the evening after his stroll around the town, lean back in his chair and shout for tea. His shirts appear in his closet washed and ironed. His shoes are cleaned. That's male privilege in India. So yes we wanna get on that feminism bandwagon and change things so that women like my mom don't have to do it all alone. Will it hurt men to do their share of chores? That's all we want. It's not biology that prevents women from having careers. It's having to do all the unpaid work at home.
@@Priya-jn6mp It's better and psychologically healthier for everyone in the family if a woman is a stay at home mum. Children of stay at home mums do better in school and life and stay at home mums do better mental health-wise than working mums. This is according to research and not just something I made up. You don't have to do it, of course, choose between kids and a career but it would be a much better solution than a broken doctrine that makes no sense and is ruining the West. I'm not going to talk about your parents. I don't know enough about them to seriously judge anything about them. I will say that as long as middle and upper-class Indian women have more privilege than working-class Indian men, you cannot talk about male privilege. At best, you can talk about upper-class male privilege relative to upper-class women. But feminism doesn't account for women having any privilege over men, because it's a broken doctrine. If Indian men truly had the universal privilege over women, Indian women would be the ones doing cleaning the toilettes and working in coal mines. There is no universal male privilege in a country where a man can be wrongfully accused of Eve teasing and threatened and fired and his life ruined. I forget his name, but he is a Sikh man and it was some years ago. Again, I know Eve teasing is a problem but it won't be solved by ruining lives of innocent men and a screeching feminist calling any decent from her opinion sexual assault. Look, I understand India has its own problems much like any other country in the world, but to solve the problems between genders we need egalitarianism and not female chauvinism. If you don't like what you see in your parents' marriage, then marry someone willing to make a better union with you. Think about what it means to have children before you have them. Do loads of research. Look for a man who is equally or more successful than you are, as women marry across and up and men across and down -- this is evolutionary psychology that unlike feminism is an actual science. Before you go into activism mode to change all of Indian society first create a happy and healthy marriage and family for yourself. Use your parents as an example of what you don't want. I know you want to improve Indian society, I do too but the way to do that isn't by applying a militant female chauvinism doctrine that has failed to improve anything in the countries where it's long been applied and creates nothing but damage and division. Egalitarianism is the way to go and all feminism is doing is producing many women like those depicted in the video.
@@lo-fi-meditation1. stay at home parents do benefit children. I won't disagree. But it doesn't have to be specifically the mother. The father can stay home and care for the children just as well (except for the breastfeeding which is mostly manageable). Still this system comes with certain issues like the stay at home parent will lack a healthy social life and will feel trapped in the confines of the home. And the whole financial burden of the family falls on the other parent's shoulders. Children deserve the best. But not at the expense of their parents. 2.I don't understand your obsession with comparing men and women of different financial/social statuses. You're arguing like "the millionaire's wife is more privileged than the poor man hence feminism is unnecessary" (despite the possibility that the poor man might be enjoying more freedom than the rich woman). Does it not matter at all that men and woman of equal financial statuses largely enjoy different amounts of freedom? Nobody said all men are more privileged than all women irrespective of wealth. (Strawman) 3. I understand your thought process here. In an ideal situation we shouldn't be seeing gender/race whatever, we should seek equality of all individuals. Hence you prefer egalitarianism. Feminism puts too much focus on just women which is inequality. BUT, even in 2020 around the world women experience a disproportionately larger number of issues. There are issues that exclusively affect women like dowry, female infanticide, forced marriage, abortion. And feminism focuses on these issues. Egalitarianism doesn't.
@@Priya-jn6mp I wrote out a very long comment and then I pressed a wrong button and I lost it. I really cannot write one again. I wish you all the best. I'm not ignoring you I just cannot be bothered to write a very extensive analysis of feminism and feminist ideological possession twice. I'm sorry. Edit: I should have saved it while I was writing it or something, but I didn't. I hope you get a good man and have a happy life.
The most beautiful gift a woman can give to a man is , a son ... And most beautiful gift a man can give to the world, is a well behaved disciplined son..
@@avanthikaluv361 yes i know but it is old proverb....why the word "son" .. Is used here , bcoz there is some sort of reason behind it...u know better if u read full sentence... ... I got this from a blogger named Chad Howse ...He post articles about true manship ...how to be better man.......in modern world.....and many more...
@@seemanagbose mam aisa tb hoga na jb mere ghr ki ladies aisa soche .pr mere ghr toh hr cheez ka division hai ki ye ladko ka kaam hai aur ye ladkiyon ka mai chah kr bhi kch ni kr paati kch bolti hu toh mujhe hi daat kr chup kr dete hai
@@a.j6593 mere ghr par pehle aisa tha but my dad is so awesome ki jab unhone ne apni beti yaane mujhe struggle aur bhai ko aaram karte dekha toh pure rules hi change kar diye aur sabhi ko strict warning di ki agar koi mujhe khana, kapda ya safaai karne sikhayga toh vo bhai ko bhi Sikhana pade taaki future me jab uski shaadi ho toh meri bhabhi should live like a queen n I should live like a queen too with repect and honour with my future family.. And by doing that he said me one thing "beta, tujhe jisse khushi mile vo karna, bado k saamne jukna par apna respect and honour ko kabhi mat jhukne dena"
@@shruti4132 actually mere papa bhi hmesha yhi chahte hai ki mai respect aur dignity se rhu but at the same time he feels ki kuch kaam i mean ghr ke kaam seekhna mere liye bht zaroori hai lekin mere bhai ko zaroori nhi nd trust me thats the only thing that i hate about my father.l hate him for this.l always try ki mai unhe smjhau iss issue pr lekin vo apna vo typical mindset chnge hi ni krna chahte nd even my mother has the same kind of mindset.
@@a.j6593 I understand... I hope you n even I get a broad minded, loving, loyal n caring husband n in laws that they should respect us and shouldn't make a difference between their daughter and us... I seriously pray that they should give us the right to choose our clothes, work and for them our opinions should matter... And to tell you honestly That is the only thing that concerns me about my future like for me I think that I can handle a baby(to mould him/her into a very good person), I can handle my career, but the only thing I can't handle is family because for a family to be there efforts should be made from both side if a girl sacrifices too much for her family and is not happy then all her frustration goes into mistreating her child (like beating n abusing), fighting with her hubby n badmouthing her in-laws n for this reason you can't really blame the girl.. Whatever it may be but if a boy is reading this I just want to tell him that If you wanna be happy in your married life always keep your girl happy and a trick to make a women happy is that impress her even after 25 yrs of your marriage becoz lord krinshna said ki pyar me ladkiyo ko paya nahi jata, jeeta nahi jaata, usse apna nahi banaya jaata balki usk jaisa bana jaata h (par na usk jaise banne me khud ko mat kho dena kyuki agar vo ladki tumse bhi pyar karti hogi toh middle ground dundegi)...
kuch bhi? like seriously kash hamare aas pass bhi eisa non existant men hote ye video dekhne ki bad papa pe try kiye thei hum itna achcha result mila ki maan karta hai ki iss video ke mardo ko guiness book ki liye recommend karu
This is a work of fiction. Names, characters, businesses, places, events, locales, and incidents are either the products of the author's imagination or used in a fictitious manner. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental.
I help my mother in the kitchen. I have always been even before lockdown.
And what kind of father one would be who takes playing with kids or bathing or feeding them as a work! Come on, they are your children too.
Ur such a nice person bhaiya and I believe you will do that with your wife too...
May god fill you life with happiness and satisfaction...
When girls get husbands like you, it becomes possible for them to nurture their careers as well as family :)
Bro you rock 🙌👊
This society needs high quality men.........but they are rare...i want to be one of them....
give me do and donts in ur pov
Beautiful plot! Hats off! Team Blush is so innovative.🙌
I hope men are actually doing this
They r doing this ...not all but many
It seems u live in a real shitty place, full of patriarchy. Sad for u.
I will do this in my future and assert dominance
SUPERB --- What's wrong if men indulge in house work? House is not a sole property of women. In fact, males are better cooks than females. Just see Haldiram, Aggarwala, Kavers, Bengali Sweets, et al. -- all have male cooks. A family becomes a blessing if husband and wife work together without any ego hassles. From cooking to shopping to washing to cleansing to taking care of seniors and children, all have to be done by males as well as females. Self-help is the best help and if a person is not able to take care of himself, then how would he help a hapless needy!!! A good and loving family is a 50:50 partnership boss.
पानी भी खुद लेकर पिये वही बड़ी बात है , हाथ बटाने वाले कुछ बिरले ही होते हैं ,वरना तो काम करना तो दूर उल्टा बढ़ाते हैं ।
This is Nothing New.............. Everyday route of bachelor boy with 4 roommates in unknown City's small rented Apartment............. Don't know when graduation will over............
Nice Video and a 🌹lovely voice , Soniya👌
True in lockdown
Why do men need a lockdown do the the regular task?
Mard hath bataye ya na bataye but India gate ka chawal na khareedega video dekh k
Everyone is responsible for housework and childcare as the house and kids belong to both the parents not just one 🤷♀️
This is literally what every man needs!!! A little appreciation
Men at work@ short films only.
Amazing concept
Wow!!
Amazing 👏👏 loved it
Atleast someone acknowledged ❣️
Interesting...
😘😘😎
jab yeh hi baat ki umeed gala hai ki jaati hai k ghar ke kaam mai haath btao tb unhe feminism ki yaad kyun aati hai..tab kyun 'equality' kaa sahi matlb smajh aata inko
gals likhna tha sorry
Good
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My husband isn't doing housework. Not unless he wants to. Scratch that, he isn't doing it, period. He is only allowed to do the heavy stuff I can't. He is a super busy CEO that rescued me from my life as a struggling teacher, a struggling translator, a nanny without enough servile and/or conniving traits to work for people who hire nannies that are really language teachers and not qualified enough to be nannies.
If you need your husband to do housework you must be going out to work and that's your mistake, or you married a man who can't support you and the kids if you stopped working, also a mistake.
The problem in India isn't that men refuse house choirs it's that women are mimicking men and going out to work whilst having 2.5 kids, and working mothers are a recipe for an unhappy family. (It is simply easier to be a dad and work outside the home than to be a mum and work outside because our biology dictates that a mother does more of the nurturing of the kids, while the father is better at installing discipline and rough and tumble confidence in the kids.)
As a woman, if you want to work or have a career don't have kids and if you want kids stay at home and raise your own kids.
I also don't need a video and some people in an office to fight for my rights in my marriage, I am perfectly capable of negotiating with my own husband. I did not marry any of the men that had a tendency to deny me the right and ways to negotiate with them to our mutual satisfaction.
Whether an arranged or a love marriage, and believe me there's nothing wrong with arranged marriages as long as you are doing it because you want it and not out of any kind of pressure, take the time to get to know this person and do not marry someone who is showing signs of being unwilling to negotiate with you till you are both happy with how you live.
I don't need a campaign and activism to tell my husband how he should treat me, I tell him and he listens. Just like he tells me how to treat him and I take note of his needs and wishes and desires and demons.
Mw own life got better one hundred per cent, on every level of analysis, since I met my husband. The man isn't oppressing me he is my king and saviour.
This doesn't mean it was always easy or pleasant being together. Relationships are sometimes very hard work. All, even the healthiest relationships are like that, but in terms of the quality of my life it is trillion times better with him in my life and for him too since I've been in is life. We fell in love and chose each other and both undid ourselves to grow and change for the better so we can love each other in a healthy way. This was at times a very uncomfortable and sometimes painful process. We discovered we were both flawed and foolish creatures and accepting that and trying to stay together has we made us both better and more mature people.
Do you really think this ridiculous video of men doing house choirs or cooking whilst their partners are lounging will change a selfish guy who refuses to help out his working mother wife?
Do you think I care some woman chose to marry a selfish dude? Choose to be a working mum? These are her choices and she needs to take personal responsibility for those and change them if she regrets her choices. Feminism treats women as if we were toddlers, so we can't make any of our own choices and we are therefore not responsible for our life or personal choices. As if we need the state and some activist stranger to rescue us from our own personal responsibility and our own choices. This is not only wrong but also very dangerous.
A friend of mine was assaulted in the most feminist country in the world, Sweden. She is also white. The criminally insane man who assaulted her is a black Muslim. The left-wing and feminist, identitarian white Europeans think being of colour and Muslim trumps being a white woman in victimhood, therefore nobody cared she got assaulted. Not the police, not the people in her circle, literally no one. It wasn't PC to discuss with her that a Muslim guy of Eritrean descent and very black looking assaulted her. To even talk about it was considered a form of racism and islamophobia.
That's what decades of "democratic" socialism, left-wing indoctrination, feminism, identitarianism, and dogmatism of the state and the non-govermant activist did to the white Europeans in Sweden.
(I am avoiding the R-word because yt will shadowban my comment but she wasn't assaulted she was R-word assaulted and he ended up stalking her and assaulting her more than once because she could not get any protection or help against him.) This happened in a country with a literal feminist government.
Then a man she had just started dating and withdrew from when she got assaulted found out about it and beat the R-word-ist an inch of his death and then she was worried sick that wonderful man will go to prison for trying to punish and evil man that was abusing her to death.
Her story isn't an exception but a rule in Sweden.
Feminism is an insanely broken doctrine of female chauvinism and intersectional identitarian crap. You do not want India to go in the feminist direction. You don't believe me, google R-word statistics in Sweden, where they have a feminist government for decades now.
You guys are also the poster children for privilege. Middle and upper-class youth sitting in an office making activist and/or funny videos earning a very decent living, so sooner or later the cultural marxists and far-left identitarians will turn on you. Take the red pill before you get cancelled by people you share ideological indoctrination with, AKA " your own side". At least start doing the research on the red pill side of things, and then when you get cancelled by far left-wing mob, it will be less painful. Watch some Jordan Peterson...Before he lost his mind! Watch some Dave Rubin.
I would not take the time to write a comment this long if I didn't care...About India, its culture and people. I have strong and very loving ties to India myself. I also can see your guys heart is in the right place, I can tell by the pseudo-feminism video, but you still have huge blind spots when it comes to your own ideological possession. My wish for every person who is part of Blush is to become true critical thinkers instead of well-meaning but misguided ideologues you are now.
Best of luck.
Edit: BTW, how many of you grew up in households where you had servants? Yup, your mothers were super oppressed by the upkeep of the house and cooking, with all the help they got from lower-class servants they hired with the support and approval from your fathers.
Do not get me wrong, as long as you can treat the help with respect and pay them well, nothing wrong with having servants, I am just making a point. Feminists and middle-class leftists always want to check someone else's privilege but never their own.
Did you ever think about all the servants and blue-collar workers and women workers that served you up to now and how you treated them? Do you really think you earning more than they could dream to earn in their job by making activist and/or funny videos about your own political indoctrination will change or help the lives of lower-class women whose job prospects are to serve you? Maybe you just paid them more? Tip them when you suspect they are being underpaid. Maybe just smile and treat them with dignity, as your equals who happen to do the kind of job that entails them serving you but they don't have to also be servile to you.
Do you really think working-class men are more privileged than middle and upper-class women? To think that is just crazy dissociated from reality.
Baby steps people but start from your own selves and not the "Indian men" as a monolith, since Indian men, and men in general, aren't a monolith group.
Why should a woman choose between her career and children? I get that our biology limits us to some extent. We are the physically weaker sex. No question there. But it still doesn't mean women have to make this choice. My mother has two girls and a pretty successful career. She's a lawyer and earns at least 1.5x what my dad earns and he's a doctor. Yes, we have the privilege of being able to afford a maid who takes some weight off of my mother's shoulders. But my mom still wakes up at 6 to cook breakfast and lunch, still does all the shopping, the bills, everything you have to do to manage a home. My dad on the other hand does nothing. Just minds his own business. Gives a small portion of his salary to mom every month. That's it. But he will still come home in the evening after his stroll around the town, lean back in his chair and shout for tea. His shirts appear in his closet washed and ironed. His shoes are cleaned. That's male privilege in India. So yes we wanna get on that feminism bandwagon and change things so that women like my mom don't have to do it all alone. Will it hurt men to do their share of chores? That's all we want.
It's not biology that prevents women from having careers. It's having to do all the unpaid work at home.
@@Priya-jn6mp It's better and psychologically healthier for everyone in the family if a woman is a stay at home mum. Children of stay at home mums do better in school and life and stay at home mums do better mental health-wise than working mums. This is according to research and not just something I made up. You don't have to do it, of course, choose between kids and a career but it would be a much better solution than a broken doctrine that makes no sense and is ruining the West.
I'm not going to talk about your parents. I don't know enough about them to seriously judge anything about them. I will say that as long as middle and upper-class Indian women have more privilege than working-class Indian men, you cannot talk about male privilege. At best, you can talk about upper-class male privilege relative to upper-class women. But feminism doesn't account for women having any privilege over men, because it's a broken doctrine.
If Indian men truly had the universal privilege over women, Indian women would be the ones doing cleaning the toilettes and working in coal mines. There is no universal male privilege in a country where a man can be wrongfully accused of Eve teasing and threatened and fired and his life ruined. I forget his name, but he is a Sikh man and it was some years ago. Again, I know Eve teasing is a problem but it won't be solved by ruining lives of innocent men and a screeching feminist calling any decent from her opinion sexual assault.
Look, I understand India has its own problems much like any other country in the world, but to solve the problems between genders we need egalitarianism and not female chauvinism.
If you don't like what you see in your parents' marriage, then marry someone willing to make a better union with you. Think about what it means to have children before you have them. Do loads of research. Look for a man who is equally or more successful than you are, as women marry across and up and men across and down -- this is evolutionary psychology that unlike feminism is an actual science.
Before you go into activism mode to change all of Indian society first create a happy and healthy marriage and family for yourself. Use your parents as an example of what you don't want. I know you want to improve Indian society, I do too but the way to do that isn't by applying a militant female chauvinism doctrine that has failed to improve anything in the countries where it's long been applied and creates nothing but damage and division.
Egalitarianism is the way to go and all feminism is doing is producing many women like those depicted in the video.
@@lo-fi-meditation1. stay at home parents do benefit children. I won't disagree. But it doesn't have to be specifically the mother. The father can stay home and care for the children just as well (except for the breastfeeding which is mostly manageable). Still this system comes with certain issues like the stay at home parent will lack a healthy social life and will feel trapped in the confines of the home. And the whole financial burden of the family falls on the other parent's shoulders. Children deserve the best. But not at the expense of their parents.
2.I don't understand your obsession with comparing men and women of different financial/social statuses. You're arguing like "the millionaire's wife is more privileged than the poor man hence feminism is unnecessary" (despite the possibility that the poor man might be enjoying more freedom than the rich woman). Does it not matter at all that men and woman of equal financial statuses largely enjoy different amounts of freedom? Nobody said all men are more privileged than all women irrespective of wealth. (Strawman)
3. I understand your thought process here. In an ideal situation we shouldn't be seeing gender/race whatever, we should seek equality of all individuals. Hence you prefer egalitarianism. Feminism puts too much focus on just women which is inequality. BUT, even in 2020 around the world women experience a disproportionately larger number of issues. There are issues that exclusively affect women like dowry, female infanticide, forced marriage, abortion. And feminism focuses on these issues. Egalitarianism doesn't.
@@Priya-jn6mp I wrote out a very long comment and then I pressed a wrong button and I lost it. I really cannot write one again. I wish you all the best. I'm not ignoring you I just cannot be bothered to write a very extensive analysis of feminism and feminist ideological possession twice. I'm sorry.
Edit: I should have saved it while I was writing it or something, but I didn't. I hope you get a good man and have a happy life.
@@lo-fi-meditation I'd have loved to understand better though.
Cant believe it🤣 Bravo👏👏👍👍
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The most beautiful gift a woman can give to a man is , a son ...
And most beautiful gift a man can give to the world, is a well behaved disciplined son..
A child would be a better term😊
@@avanthikaluv361 yes i know but it is old proverb....why the word "son" .. Is used here , bcoz there is some sort of reason behind it...u know better if u read full sentence... ...
I got this from a blogger named Chad Howse ...He post articles about true manship ...how to be better man.......in modern world.....and many more...
Daughters are also good
Mere ghr pr toh aisa kch bhi ni hai
To dikhao ye video unko.
@@seemanagbose mam aisa tb hoga na jb mere ghr ki ladies aisa soche .pr mere ghr toh hr cheez ka division hai ki ye ladko ka kaam hai aur ye ladkiyon ka mai chah kr bhi kch ni kr paati kch bolti hu toh mujhe hi daat kr chup kr dete hai
@@a.j6593 mere ghr par pehle aisa tha but my dad is so awesome ki jab unhone ne apni beti yaane mujhe struggle aur bhai ko aaram karte dekha toh pure rules hi change kar diye aur sabhi ko strict warning di ki agar koi mujhe khana, kapda ya safaai karne sikhayga toh vo bhai ko bhi Sikhana pade taaki future me jab uski shaadi ho toh meri bhabhi should live like a queen n I should live like a queen too with repect and honour with my future family..
And by doing that he said me one thing "beta, tujhe jisse khushi mile vo karna, bado k saamne jukna par apna respect and honour ko kabhi mat jhukne dena"
@@shruti4132 actually mere papa bhi hmesha yhi chahte hai ki mai respect aur dignity se rhu but at the same time he feels ki kuch kaam i mean ghr ke kaam seekhna mere liye bht zaroori hai lekin mere bhai ko zaroori nhi nd trust me thats the only thing that i hate about my father.l hate him for this.l always try ki mai unhe smjhau iss issue pr lekin vo apna vo typical mindset chnge hi ni krna chahte nd even my mother has the same kind of mindset.
@@a.j6593 I understand... I hope you n even I get a broad minded, loving, loyal n caring husband n in laws that they should respect us and shouldn't make a difference between their daughter and us... I seriously pray that they should give us the right to choose our clothes, work and for them our opinions should matter... And to tell you honestly That is the only thing that concerns me about my future like for me I think that I can handle a baby(to mould him/her into a very good person), I can handle my career, but the only thing I can't handle is family because for a family to be there efforts should be made from both side if a girl sacrifices too much for her family and is not happy then all her frustration goes into mistreating her child (like beating n abusing), fighting with her hubby n badmouthing her in-laws n for this reason you can't really blame the girl.. Whatever it may be but if a boy is reading this I just want to tell him that If you wanna be happy in your married life always keep your girl happy and a trick to make a women happy is that impress her even after 25 yrs of your marriage becoz lord krinshna said ki pyar me ladkiyo ko paya nahi jata, jeeta nahi jaata, usse apna nahi banaya jaata balki usk jaisa bana jaata h (par na usk jaise banne me khud ko mat kho dena kyuki agar vo ladki tumse bhi pyar karti hogi toh middle ground dundegi)...
kuch bhi?
like seriously
kash hamare aas pass bhi eisa non existant men hote
ye video dekhne ki bad papa pe try kiye thei hum itna achcha result mila ki maan karta hai ki iss video ke mardo ko guiness book ki liye recommend karu
This is a work of fiction. Names, characters, businesses, places, events, locales, and incidents are either the products of the author's imagination or used in a fictitious manner. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental.
No not really... I m proud to say that I have tgat soo called imaginative 👪 family
@@shruti4132 its just for fun, we all should be that way.
@@shruti4132 Me too❤
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