I can really relate to the character of the protagonist in the film, this leaves me with a curious concern, what if there exists a couple with the same practical mindset .... Just a food for thought, you can make something on these lines, if you would or if you could .. 😈 Great work guys, big fan !
Individuality should hold importance throughout a person's life. Marriage is equivalent to partnership, companionship, friendship. Marriage doesn't mean you lose yourself by just being a 'husband'' or a 'wife'. Always be your OWN PERSON first !
@@AGamingCuberARATA hehe nice observation, but here the aim is to bring out the delicate unspoken but real weaknesses / strengths people have / get ... Look this as a piece of art than a scripted film, i m sure you will feel its essence this way ...
सच तो यह है कि वक्त अब बहुत आगे निकल चुका है और लिंगभेद जैसा कुछ भी नहीं है अब अगर कुछ है तो वह है तेज रफ्तार जिंदगी में एक दूसरे की भावनाओं को समझना सही और गलत की पहचान करना। पुरुषों को कभी भी घर परिवार का बहुत शौक नहीं रहा किसी महिला के संपर्क में आने पर ही वह पारिवारिक होना शुरू कर देते हैं महिलाओं के एक बात समझनी चाहिए कि हम सभी को अपने अपने हिस्से की आजादी बहुत पसंद है पुरुष हो या स्त्री सभी को खुश रहने का अधिकार है पर परिवार की जिम्मेदारी पुरुषों पर जरूरत से ज्यादा कर डाली जाएगी इसके परिणाम अलग-अलग तरह से सामने आएंगे।
@Reshu Bhattarai How does that even relate to what I said? Unless you're inherently implying that if I call out dual standards of the society, then I am against women and thus a patriarch? If so, then I pity you and your kind alike.
I was so passionate about writing. But my parents never supported me. But husband understood my talent of writing and helped me and supported me to grew up. Now I turned into a award winning writer and author too.
yupp man this was really deep even it strikes me the most in whole video don't count how much you contribute in a relationship just do it , counting doesn't matter ,what matters is whether it feels happy or not
ua-cam.com/video/BUFvYDY5omM/v-deo.html I have made short film on Mobile Addiction of children ... I hope u like it If like please subscribe channel and share link to other , so it's inspiration for me make more film which will definitely inspire and having valuable message for every one
The delivery girl is full of life... her effortless acting skills made the entire conversation smooth & her every sentence was seemed convincing. Great acting, script, writers, dialogues! Ye 1K dislike maarne wale woi 9 to 5 k boring job wale frustrated employees hai
@@sivaavis8061 I'm a good guy 😁 See the thing is, I do believe in 'difference of opinion' and maybe you got offended by my lines, you should take it as a fun. I didn't bash anybody.
I study in university, my wife works full-time so I can focus on my studies and be successful one day make life easier for both of us. TRUST and SUPPORT.
I somehow feel the delivery girl made up the story about her life just to make sure the wife understand the true meaning of a supportive partner. And this makes the story even more beautiful for me
My life is like the delivery girl and i am proud of it.. My husband runs a small shop but i work as an officer in a PSU... I agree with what the delivery girl felt.. We appreciate each other in every way, no matter what ... We both contribute something what a happy family needs.... Thankyou for such an amazing video !
Yss bro .... Ithink he/she out of mind ... He/she want in a short movie .....munni badnam devdas ....and today's generation Munna badnam....and cheap ...all of items...
I love it ...this reminds me of my own marriage where we had role reversal for good 03 long yrs..its time when people accepted this concept rather than putting up the burden of running the household only on the man. Nicely put
"And stop writing those articles on gender equality. It doesn't suit hypocrites." A lot of so called modern women need to hear this. And "he manages home" a lot of not so modern men need to understand this.
It's more important being a happy team together rather than trying to keep society happy with their old customs & beliefs. If you put money v/s relationships, it will surely be destroyed.
@Shrey Yadav it's wrong assumption the rules and regulations which kept by our society right 1 for example saying that love mankind serve mankind believ in mankind it helps us for our well being
It is also an old custom and tradition that women take charge of the house when needed. Responsibility of a wife to help his husband when he is in need of his wife. For example dasharada Maharaj father of Lord Shri Ram lost in Battlefield his wife name kaikeyi took the responsibility and smashed the enemies kaikeyi
I believe everyone has the right to choose to do two things- one for the stomach and one for the soul. And if enough confidence is there thing for the soul can always replace the thing for the stomach, quenching both at the same time with add-on happiness, love, joy, and respect for each other. Loved the idea of this video. Great work
When my father met an accident, my mother looked after the whole house for 7 years..till he was perfectly fine!! My mother used to take tuitions and used to teach in a school as well as used to do household chores. Me and my younger brother, both were too young to handle the odds those days. but we are now matured enough to support her!! She is truly an inspiration for me.😘❤ I love my mummaa from the bottom of my heart..❤❤❤❤
Really it happens many times, when we stuck in something, we get our answer by random things such as quotes, stories etc. as she got. BTW superb concept.. we should respect the dreams of everyone.
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In love with the delivery girl.. her child like innocence, simplicity reminds us how easy life is.. and how complex we are.. And that when she said "to bula lo".. that one sentence.. ❤️
Superb Delivery girl. Great job Blush team👏 I am a classic example where for the last 37 years my mother has been working as a teacher, she took tuitions and my father was the house husband😀 as in he cooked and managed the house, does a bit of Samaj seva..while my mother went out for work. In fact their routine still continues till date. They r independent, respect each other's choices and the most giving, loving and kind human beings I have known.
Sometimes the more educated you are, the more narrow minded you become. She needed a simple delivery girl to teach her abut retaining the sweetness in her relationship. Beautiful film really.
No..... Its not the truth...... Cnt blame the EDUCATION for one's narrow mind behavior. Behave is depends upon Nature Not on EDUCATION..... PLZ DONT SPREAD NEGATIVE THOUGHTS FOR GETTING EDUCATION....... Already many uneducated ppl feels the same u feel. N secondly film only shown class of ppl middle-class n higher class nothing abt education
@@Dancediva240 i read SOMETIMES but still no 1 can blame education for narrow mind behave. Its jst the matter of UNDERSTANDING. 1 couple have n another is missing it.
@@factscheck7024 my dear, that is why i said SOMETIMES. You understand? My goodness. Sometimes educated people think they know better about the world simply because they are more educated. I am not blaming education. In the end it boils down to good attitude like you said which educated people tend to lack....SOMETIMES!!!!!!!🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Thank you for your story. It is similar to ours. For 40 years, I worked to support my family but now I got sick, so my wife & daughters take care of me now. We look at each other & are now in love now than when we got married. At first, it was hard for me to accept not being able to work. I felt less of a man, but she has never complained. She said, "You took care of us. Now, we take care of you". Your story is beautiful & gentle. Thank you
Profound. am in love with acting of the Delivery Girl, the smile, the innocence, Wow; She delivered the message for the occasion, unknowingly, along with Food; and the wife so Natural, poised, asking the delivery girl to stay. Well thought out theme.
My mom worked a full time job for almost 17 years still counting, my dad had a full time job, both of them managed the house and took care of us three girls and our schooling, even after a long day of work my mom would always make sure there was a bountiful amount of food on table, my dad was even blessed with the opportunity of running his own press consulting business and still made time to cook for us. Both of my parents worked really hard and supported the three of us in every way they could. Today, I am practicing architecture, my younger sister is practicing as an engineer having her electronics and communication degree, my elder sister has her MBBS degree and is doing her MD in family medicine now. That's four professional degrees. If my mom and dad hadn't made those sacrifices we would never have gotten a chance to be qualified professionals in this society. Its not about whether mom stays at home or dad being at work, or who does what in a marriage, its really about sacrifice and doing everything you can to create a well knit family - spending time with your family, prioritizing family over career. That's what they did right. #humansofindia
wow.. "man of the house" doesn't necessarily have to be a man. I really liked how you have beautifully portrayed this in a 12 minutes short film. Much love.
husband is to be blamed for being cowardly and not thinking about wife's lifestlye needs ... there is no need to stay with such men ...did not expect this kind of stand from blush ..this is not empowering
@Pin Apple why he marry her if he can't take care of her ... men like you are problem in society ...that is why you are not revealing true identity or else tuje kabhi ladki nahi milegi
And its even more important to remember that "woman of the house" also not necessarily has to be a woman. Best way is to shove off gender roles or terms like "woman/ man of the house"
There are many girls in comment section who are saying this should be followed and this is right. They are talking how this is actually equality but hardly anyone of them wants equality real equality. They are the character of wife in short film who talks about clap for equality but further patriarchy.
A hundred precent agreed with you..these are the sae girls jo shaadi karte waqt ladke ki kamai zarur dekhengi and if their husband is not wrking and wants to pursue smthing like this they will be so irriated and would probably want divorce...this is what hypocrisy is
this lovely understanding between two people make life more easy, forget about society just think about that two person happiness with whom you decided to spend your life. Also respect each others likes and dislike and difference between both of u.
If you dream is in drawing or painting , everyone could relate it , as so so so many people say that's a not a dream and it's just a hobby and this situation is so relatable ...
I’ve watched many excellent Indian short films here on UA-cam during the pandemic. Your actors, writers, and directors deserve much respect and admiration. Up to now, I had only seen the classic films of the late great Raj Kapoor.
Such an amazing actress Vaibhavi Upadhyay (who plays Anchal here). Rest in Peace! Just realised she also played Jasmine in Sarabhai vs Sarbhai Season 2!
This is beautiful, patriarchy harms both men and women. This is my type of feminism, equality of both. I open the doors, i give up the seats, i pay, i drive with men on pavilion seat.
This is one of the most epic short film ever made really. I don't know shat happen after marriage because I am about to get married and rest time will showcase everything but yes why does it matter that a man has to work to put on the table otherwise he is nothing more than an impotent on the contrary a woman is born to kill her individuality and bound to take care of home even though sometimes she also can work by mutual understanding but if she earns and her partner runs the house then the society will be judgmental by spoiling Ink on their character, love, self-esteem just because there are following their passion by mutual understanding which is crime according to orthodox mentality of the society whose living in the 21st century.
Haha , A man doing household work will not spoil his individuality but if a women does it spoils her individually. This short film is taken for people like you who are those hypocrites talk about gender equality . If working in household is no less or no bad why can't modern day women do it .
After a long time I have watched a genuine short film..all about mentality and happiness..so don't be calculative..be positive... What an amazing short film.. it really changed my mind though....
Short movies are better than full movies and gives inspirational and motivational ideas without wasting time and these has scope beyond our thinking.... i love it❤
Loved the video & the concept. Main is the fear of failure into venturing and realizing ur dream. Also will take time for society to accept the subject else we will continue to strangle our dreams.
Its true at least in India we have too much soceity pressure on Men and women alike to take certain role only. I have friends who want to role of primary earner so their husbands can be home and follow passions like photography art or music. Its society who makes them feel guilty and not pursue the passions. Its a couple they can decide who take up which responsibilty. Others should not interfere
A woman would never think like that. What crap you are talking about!? Girls only want equality not the responsibility.. And that equality by the way is skewed distorted.
This short film is like an unending film going on in my house. I quit my job to do something of my own. I am making chocolates at home and put chocolate stall in IT companies. I am able to manage all the house hold expense, but people in my house are not happy. I am waiting for a delivery girl.
It all comes down to compatibility and understanding...and living our passion takes a whole lot of guts on behalf of the person and if there is support , then everything would be fine...
A wonderful message, we need to give space to each other and understand goals based on personal aptitude. 9 to 5 Jobs burn you in the long run where there is a hierarchy system. Time has come now for people to be more entrepreneurs.
@@daulatp8552 I meant if you have your own space in the space of marriage... Your own life and it is respected by your better half.... Nothing is as good as that... Your marriage life is worth it !
I am speechless I have no words to describe the creativity, imagination, Coordination, filled n implied in this video. All 3 acted so well. It just seemed real.
Thought provoking. Losing individuality... Indivi 'dual 'ity. I think the word explains it all. There is a him her and them in a marriage. So there's no question of losing one's individuality, it's more of sharing one's space. I agree not all sharing works and marriage s work. But I remember being told when I got married sometimes you will give 100 % sometimes he will. So don't calculate, but share anyways... Lovely actors. Very realistically portrayed.
Beautiful message. Really loved this film. I can't answer the question in a yes-or-no fashion. But yes I do believe that as time passes with marriage , you do get de-focused (if not blurred) into the background. And in the end , there's only one question that you need to ask yourself - is it worth it ? And the trouble is , the answer does lie somewhere between what's within you and what's around you...
How much importance should individuality hold after marriage?
I can really relate to the character of the protagonist in the film, this leaves me with a curious concern, what if there exists a couple with the same practical mindset ....
Just a food for thought, you can make something on these lines, if you would or if you could .. 😈
Great work guys, big fan !
Individuality should hold importance throughout a person's life. Marriage is equivalent to partnership, companionship, friendship. Marriage doesn't mean you lose yourself by just being a 'husband'' or a 'wife'. Always be your OWN PERSON first !
It's kind of impossible to maintain so good for delivery boy or girl ,next time u should focus on casting
@@AGamingCuberARATA hehe nice observation, but here the aim is to bring out the delicate unspoken but real weaknesses / strengths people have / get ...
Look this as a piece of art than a scripted film, i m sure you will feel its essence this way ...
as much as sugar or salt in water....... the solution must be perfect right?!
"And stop writing those articles on gender equality. It doesn't suit hypocrites." Damn true, a ton of people in this society need to hear that.
सच तो यह है कि वक्त अब बहुत आगे निकल चुका है और लिंगभेद जैसा कुछ भी नहीं है अब अगर कुछ है तो वह है तेज रफ्तार जिंदगी में एक दूसरे की भावनाओं को समझना सही और गलत की पहचान करना।
पुरुषों को कभी भी घर परिवार का बहुत शौक नहीं रहा किसी महिला के संपर्क में आने पर ही वह पारिवारिक होना शुरू कर देते हैं महिलाओं के एक बात समझनी चाहिए कि हम सभी को अपने अपने हिस्से की आजादी बहुत पसंद है पुरुष हो या स्त्री सभी को खुश रहने का अधिकार है पर परिवार की जिम्मेदारी पुरुषों पर जरूरत से ज्यादा कर डाली जाएगी इसके परिणाम अलग-अलग तरह से सामने आएंगे।
I trully agree
yes that is so true.
@Reshu Bhattarai wonderful reply👏👏
@Reshu Bhattarai How does that even relate to what I said? Unless you're inherently implying that if I call out dual standards of the society, then I am against women and thus a patriarch? If so, then I pity you and your kind alike.
I was so passionate about writing. But my parents never supported me. But husband understood my talent of writing and helped me and supported me to grew up. Now I turned into a award winning writer and author too.
WOW KEEP GOING
Which book i will read😍
@@fatemakhanpurwala1473 80+ anthologies
@@lifeissobeautiful3758 is it horror 😅 i m big phatu
@@fatemakhanpurwala1473 I don't write horror. I'm so scared of ghosts. I'm sweet hearted so I write about love etc
Loved it... at last she told "to bula lo", just one sentence but that was the easy solution....
Delivery girl was so sweet 🥰
Thank you 😊
Trueee
Yes, she is very Sweet & Innocent. & she said all the things right.
Trueee
yupp man this was really deep
even it strikes me the most in whole video
don't count how much you contribute in a relationship just do it , counting doesn't matter ,what matters is whether it feels happy or not
Delivery girls acting, her Chanchalness & smilies are so refreshing...
Chanchalness is not a word 🙁
@@gargipandaonefiveseventwot4961 grab the feeling man.
@@AbhishekSingh-xq4cu but what felling? 😂
what's mean chanchalness? 🙄
@@Sangsty thanks 😉
"To bula lo". Such a sweet and simple phrase to reconnect with ur loved ones..
Love from India...🇮🇳
this is the thing which eliminates ego and really built a relation ship
What does 'to bula lo'? (Sorry, I don't know Hindi.)
@@seenonyt2210it means to call up (the person on whom you are angry but love them too-in that context)
@@madhuramnargund5513 thanks a lot!
Np 😊@@seenonyt2210
A 12 minute clip had better acting than last 5-6 years of bollywood movies
And better message for the society than the cliched patriarchal movies
Pranil Kharde yes really
I think u haven't seen RANVEER SINGH'S acting...
@Vilas Fasage Sorry to say but , Varun don't know how to act and anushka have no expressions...
Hello dear friends
This what actually our generation wants
Real Content
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nah beere we wants bakchodi
RIP Vaibhavi Upadhyay :((( you will be missed. A fine actor.
She's so passionate talk about her job and so innocent (plus has a good husband). I wish I was her 😌
in this case she would have 70 husbands, you and the 69 who liked your comment
I wish i was ur .... Oo sorry her husband
Don't wish work for it.... Do a job.😁
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I have made short film on Mobile Addiction of children ... I hope u like it
If like please subscribe channel and share link to other , so it's inspiration for me make more film which will definitely inspire and having valuable message for every one
Dont wish just keep positive attitude like her bcoz every body gets wt they deserve
The delivery girl is full of life... her effortless acting skills made the entire conversation smooth & her every sentence was seemed convincing. Great acting, script, writers, dialogues!
Ye 1K dislike maarne wale woi 9 to 5 k boring job wale frustrated employees hai
Yes,she acted pretty real.
My opinion/suggestion, u could have avoided the second para. Ppl got different opinions. We shall respect everyone of them.
@@sivaavis8061 surprised to see your opinion/suggestion even you should have avoided second part of your comment, would have looked better 💟😁✌🏻
@@Chaitanya.Kamath bad guy😉, who'd never take a no for anything huh.
No offense
@@sivaavis8061 I'm a good guy 😁
See the thing is, I do believe in 'difference of opinion' and maybe you got offended by my lines, you should take it as a fun. I didn't bash anybody.
Natural acting....
I study in university, my wife works full-time so I can focus on my studies and be successful one day make life easier for both of us. TRUST and SUPPORT.
Same here
Fir jaldi hi tum bade atanki banoge.,🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@thehindu2261 kripya apni anpadta apne ghar pr dikhaaye
@@thehindu2261 Gu khale...
@@richu-21 Chodo na, The Hindu jaise chutiyo ka ilaj nahi hai duniya me
Is that ratna from”please find attached “
Yes
Yes she is
Yep
Yes
Yes I am here after seeing that series only 😅
I somehow feel the delivery girl made up the story about her life just to make sure the wife understand the true meaning of a supportive partner. And this makes the story even more beautiful for me
Then how her husband sent her the picture of kanda bhajiya
Pranay..yes that would have been a brilliant twist. Same thought came to my mind. Unfortunately, the director was not thinking that far ahead.
@@nom5205 everything cant be disclosed in 12 mins bhai
@@giovannigiorgio8205 any random message might have come and she shown this one to make the conversation and point more strong
That would have been great, I too had this same feeling
My life is like the delivery girl and i am proud of it.. My husband runs a small shop but i work as an officer in a PSU... I agree with what the delivery girl felt.. We appreciate each other in every way, no matter what ... We both contribute something what a happy family needs.... Thankyou for such an amazing video !
So beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
U r really amazing 🙏
Good to hear your story.
💛🙏
1.1k dislikes? Seriously?
What do you want in a short film, Chulbul panday?
😂😂😂😂😂
😂
Yss bro .... Ithink he/she out of mind ... He/she want in a short movie .....munni badnam devdas ....and today's generation Munna badnam....and cheap ...all of items...
😂😂😂
@@sudhirghosh_ 🤣🤣🤣
RIP Vaibhavi
This is such a beautiful film. Full of conversation and not once it felt entitlement.
I love it ...this reminds me of my own marriage where we had role reversal for good 03 long yrs..its time when people accepted this concept rather than putting up the burden of running the household only on the man.
Nicely put
You're truly an inspiration! Glad you loved it :)
🤗🤗🤗🤗 nice
There should be no such concept as role reversal itself.
@@PMcse true
True 👍
I must say...blush have always some unique and motivational topics...and also you represent it very beautifully 😊
This means a lot! Thank you!
@@BlushChannel I'm just wishing you All The Very Best and Keep Doing This 😊
Totally agree with you.
Also your last name is unique too .
Agree with you Dudhwala.
Loved it.
The way she said " to bula lo".
The message was off the page.
RAJA RAJ exactly. I feel like calling someone who is gone 💔
i shed a tear when the girl said "itne saal se driver ka kaam mann maarke mere liye hi kiya na"
"And stop writing those articles on gender equality. It doesn't suit hypocrites." A lot of so called modern women need to hear this. And "he manages home" a lot of not so modern men need to understand this.
Truee🙂
well said
Wow
When you women judge or value a man by his earning even for entering into a marriage for what reason do you expect him do household work primarily .
It's more important being a happy team together rather than trying to keep society happy with their old customs & beliefs. If you put money v/s relationships, it will surely be destroyed.
@Shrey Yadav it's wrong assumption the rules and regulations which kept by our society right 1 for example saying that love mankind serve mankind believ in mankind it helps us for our well being
It is also an old custom and tradition that women take charge of the house when needed. Responsibility of a wife to help his husband when he is in need of his wife. For example dasharada Maharaj father of Lord Shri Ram lost in Battlefield his wife name kaikeyi took the responsibility and smashed the enemies kaikeyi
@Auxilia, exactly. You are a wonderful soul.
@@nnab8004to hb!hnyjhry
Wow, This is such a beautiful movie, 2 tears in the name of "Delivery Girl"
same here
I believe everyone has the right to choose to do two things- one for the stomach and one for the soul. And if enough confidence is there thing for the soul can always replace the thing for the stomach, quenching both at the same time with add-on happiness, love, joy, and respect for each other. Loved the idea of this video. Great work
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When my father met an accident, my mother looked after the whole house for 7 years..till he was perfectly fine!! My mother used to take tuitions and used to teach in a school as well as used to do household chores. Me and my younger brother, both were too young to handle the odds those days. but we are now matured enough to support her!! She is truly an inspiration for me.😘❤ I love my mummaa from the bottom of my heart..❤❤❤❤
Wow.. Thanks for sharing
Stuti T 😘❤
Bonding of Love can not be measured by responsibilities... Love never get you tired of responsibilities..
Your story is emotional
That's a wonderful story. Your mother is a very strong woman.
Nandini Shah yaa..she is....I get inspiration from her. She inspires me to work hard to achieve my goal. By the way, thank you very much😘❤
Relationships are all about understanding and respecting each other’s differences 👍
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Really it happens many times, when we stuck in something, we get our answer by random things such as quotes, stories etc. as she got.
BTW superb concept.. we should respect the dreams of everyone.
True
What a good lesson this short film has taught me. Really admiring. I think in every moment of life we need a person who understands us and support us.
📖 In 2016, a computer engineer resigned his job started a website. It was really just a personal project, but, when the amount of customers made it necessary to upgrade to a business internet website, he had to turn the website to B2C company. He hired his first employee to handle all payment checks. The company is now known as HostGoi Technologies Pvt. Ltd. Thankfully, I am the CEO/Founder of this company.
😊 As I always say, the world is full of infinite possibilities and countless opportunities, but your life and career are finite, meaning you have limited time to find what you’re searching for and make your mark on the world. This is your time. It’s limited so don’t waste it. Find something you like to do and just do it. That’s how real entrepreneurs always start.
Good Congratulations 🎉 best of luck 👍
And u r free enough to watch video and comment it
@@surbhichhaya5929 Aisa bhi Kya?
CV bheeju kya?
What does this company do exactly?
In love with the delivery girl.. her child like innocence, simplicity reminds us how easy life is.. and how complex we are..
And that when she said "to bula lo".. that one sentence.. ❤️
shubham sharma your comment said exactly what I was thinking 👍
It really didn't feel like you were acting...I mean it was so very orginal, felt so real. ❣️♥️❣️
The guy is also toooo good yaaar.....he also deservesss a whole lot of appreciation.....welll done Tarun😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Superb Delivery girl. Great job Blush team👏 I am a classic example where for the last 37 years my mother has been working as a teacher, she took tuitions and my father was the house husband😀 as in he cooked and managed the house, does a bit of Samaj seva..while my mother went out for work. In fact their routine still continues till date. They r independent, respect each other's choices and the most giving, loving and kind human beings I have known.
SALUTE TO YOUR FATHER....AS WELL AS YOUR MOTHER TOO....such examples are true inspiration for society
M proud on my house father😘
Hello dear friends
And do you do "Srif ghar baith ke pet bhar ke thusna" ^o^
❤
Sometimes the more educated you are, the more narrow minded you become.
She needed a simple delivery girl to teach her abut retaining the sweetness in her relationship.
Beautiful film really.
No..... Its not the truth...... Cnt blame the EDUCATION for one's narrow mind behavior. Behave is depends upon Nature Not on EDUCATION..... PLZ DONT SPREAD NEGATIVE THOUGHTS FOR GETTING EDUCATION....... Already many uneducated ppl feels the same u feel. N secondly film only shown class of ppl middle-class n higher class nothing abt education
@@factscheck7024 I said SOMETIMES.
@@Dancediva240 i read SOMETIMES but still no 1 can blame education for narrow mind behave. Its jst the matter of UNDERSTANDING. 1 couple have n another is missing it.
@@factscheck7024 my dear, that is why i said SOMETIMES. You understand? My goodness. Sometimes educated people think they know better about the world simply because they are more educated. I am not blaming education. In the end it boils down to good attitude like you said which educated people tend to lack....SOMETIMES!!!!!!!🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
@@factscheck7024 yeah absolutely right
I wish every husband & wife ve this kind of understanding, life would ve far easier rather than hectic. So cute delivery girl.
Thank you for your story. It is similar to ours. For 40 years, I worked to support my family but now I got sick, so my wife & daughters take care of me now. We look at each other & are now in love now than when we got married. At first, it was hard for me to accept not being able to work. I felt less of a man, but she has never complained. She said, "You took care of us. Now, we take care of you".
Your story is beautiful & gentle. Thank you
Moral of story : understand feelings of everyone.
Profound. am in love with acting of the Delivery Girl, the smile, the innocence, Wow; She delivered the message for the occasion, unknowingly, along with Food; and the wife so Natural, poised, asking the delivery girl to stay. Well thought out theme.
This 12 minute story with millions minutes of profound meaning is gonna live in my heart forever. ❤️❤️
Amazing!! "To bula lo". Yes, it is that simple. People you love, just call them. They are a heart beat away. Stretch out your hands and heart.
My mom worked a full time job for almost 17 years still counting, my dad had a full time job, both of them managed the house and took care of us three girls and our schooling, even after a long day of work my mom would always make sure there was a bountiful amount of food on table, my dad was even blessed with the opportunity of running his own press consulting business and still made time to cook for us. Both of my parents worked really hard and supported the three of us in every way they could. Today, I am practicing architecture, my younger sister is practicing as an engineer having her electronics and communication degree, my elder sister has her MBBS degree and is doing her MD in family medicine now. That's four professional degrees. If my mom and dad hadn't made those sacrifices we would never have gotten a chance to be qualified professionals in this society. Its not about whether mom stays at home or dad being at work, or who does what in a marriage, its really about sacrifice and doing everything you can to create a well knit family - spending time with your family, prioritizing family over career. That's what they did right. #humansofindia
Really nice
Wow such a thoughtful comment. Awesome
amazing thought
Sweet family
You are lucky.
This movie makes sense. Hope people get the message.
Acting and direction was good. Actually everything about the film is perfect. Kudos to the team !
wow.. "man of the house" doesn't necessarily have to be a man.
I really liked how you have beautifully portrayed this in a 12 minutes short film.
Much love.
For women, it's women of the house.
Why there should be there a man of the house?
husband is to be blamed for being cowardly and not thinking about wife's lifestlye needs ... there is no need to stay with such men ...did not expect this kind of stand from blush ..this is not empowering
@Pin Apple why he marry her if he can't take care of her ... men like you are problem in society ...that is why you are not revealing true identity or else tuje kabhi ladki nahi milegi
And its even more important to remember that "woman of the house" also not necessarily has to be a woman.
Best way is to shove off gender roles or terms like "woman/ man of the house"
Her innocence can still anyone's heart💖
steal*
This short film needs to be seen. This breaks the so called social stigma of this damn society.☺️😊🥰
Superb cute story loved the delivery girl and so true why cant i be the man of the house
everything is beautiful in this movie and specially that delivery girl's acting she is fabulous👍👍❤
Thank you for your kind words 😊
Ki
It really melt my heart. Really don't know how many couple's have broken due to this .
There are many girls in comment section who are saying this should be followed and this is right. They are talking how this is actually equality but hardly anyone of them wants equality real equality. They are the character of wife in short film who talks about clap for equality but further patriarchy.
A hundred precent agreed with you..these are the sae girls jo shaadi karte waqt ladke ki kamai zarur dekhengi and if their husband is not wrking and wants to pursue smthing like this they will be so irriated and would probably want divorce...this is what hypocrisy is
how do you know? Like some girls do want equality..
They all are acting so well and natural. I must say.
I literally wanted the story to continue .. i wanted to see her husband become an artist and both of them prosper....
this lovely understanding between two people make life more easy, forget about society just think about that two person happiness with whom you decided to spend your life. Also respect each others likes and dislike and difference between both of u.
If you dream is in drawing or painting , everyone could relate it , as so so so many people say that's a not a dream and it's just a hobby and this situation is so relatable ...
I’ve watched many excellent Indian short films here on UA-cam during the pandemic. Your actors, writers, and directors deserve much respect and admiration. Up to now, I had only seen the classic films of the late great Raj Kapoor.
Good message, don’t let the society dictate your stand in life, set your family happiness as the benchmark. The effort or pain won’t go in vain 👍
We are two individuals complimenting each other not competing.
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Such an amazing actress Vaibhavi Upadhyay (who plays Anchal here). Rest in Peace! Just realised she also played Jasmine in Sarabhai vs Sarbhai Season 2!
This is beautiful, patriarchy harms both men and women.
This is my type of feminism, equality of both. I open the doors, i give up the seats, i pay, i drive with men on pavilion seat.
And get previlges and talk about equality , call it Feminism.
Blame Patriarchy for everything.
Acting level 100. Great job BLUSH team. I wish the society can learn the individuality of genders from this short film.
the word "to bula lo" has a deep meaning contained itself.... a good one
Wow delivery girl has fully of confident behavior and her smiles wow really so lovely 😊😊😊😊😊
beautiful plot♥️as always blush did its best but i don't know why i feel she made this story after hearing their part secretly
No her husband send her pic of onion bhaji
Cutest delivery girl nd her voice is too sweet... loved it 🥰🥰🥰🥰
This is one of the most epic short film ever made really. I don't know shat happen after marriage because I am about to get married and rest time will showcase everything but yes why does it matter that a man has to work to put on the table otherwise he is nothing more than an impotent on the contrary a woman is born to kill her individuality and bound to take care of home even though sometimes she also can work by mutual understanding but if she earns and her partner runs the house then the society will be judgmental by spoiling Ink on their character, love, self-esteem just because there are following their passion by mutual understanding which is crime according to orthodox mentality of the society whose living in the 21st century.
Haha ,
A man doing household work will not spoil his individuality but if a women does it spoils her individually.
This short film is taken for people like you who are those hypocrites talk about gender equality .
If working in household is no less or no bad why can't modern day women do it .
After a long time I have watched a genuine short film..all about mentality and happiness..so don't be calculative..be positive...
What an amazing short film.. it really changed my mind though....
best message for this generation if there is no love what we ll do with the money.
Rightly said 👍
Yeah, but if he was rich he can do anything.
That means
Money > love
Relationship is easy, we complicate it...awesome content team Blush. Love!
Agree Varsha 👍👍
Exactly..
Such a beautiful Short movie, this girl stole my heart with her lovely acting!!
The lady is so pretty, soft-spoken and just a pleasure to listen to!
Nice.. breaking stereotypes...👏👏👏
god bless this delivery girl star, fabulous acting with a sound message .
Yes . But it does vary to the extent and from family to family and relationship to relationship.
It was such a inspiring and more relevant msg as far as each and every individual are concerned especially in a strong relationship too....👍👍
Short movies are better than full movies and gives inspirational and motivational ideas without wasting time and these has scope beyond our thinking.... i love it❤
Loved the video & the concept. Main is the fear of failure into venturing and realizing ur dream. Also will take time for society to accept the subject else we will continue to strangle our dreams.
True!
Its true at least in India we have too much soceity pressure on Men and women alike to take certain role only. I have friends who want to role of primary earner so their husbands can be home and follow passions like photography art or music. Its society who makes them feel guilty and not pursue the passions. Its a couple they can decide who take up which responsibilty. Others should not interfere
A woman would never think like that. What crap you are talking about!? Girls only want equality not the responsibility.. And that equality by the way is skewed distorted.
Incredibly heart touching love for one another - a lesson taught and learned by many - I hope.
Who is here after watching please find attached.. Ratna❣️
Well me of course
Her Controll over Expression and Language is quite appreciating.
Same here 🤪
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Exactly..watched this for her..
This is by far the best short film I've ever seen ...
In such a simple way they delivered a very important lesson people need to know .
This short film is like an unending film going on in my house. I quit my job to do something of my own. I am making chocolates at home and put chocolate stall in IT companies. I am able to manage all the house hold expense, but people in my house are not happy. I am waiting for a delivery girl.
Dear Paul. Don't loose heart ..ur not Bron to make everyone happy...ur Bron as a Free soul...do ur best...
Aww you don't need one enjoy what you're doing👍
@@shivapriya8836 thanks
Couldn't watch the last few seconds of this at the first time.... My eyes got a layer of tears... Awesome creativity... Keep it up.
They say the magic word - "Sorry' ! It heals !
It all comes down to compatibility and understanding...and living our passion takes a whole lot of guts on behalf of the person and if there is support , then everything would be fine...
Such a finite story with infinite meaning!
Great story line. Natural acting. Overall excellent, keep it up.
A wonderful message, we need to give space to each other and understand goals based on personal aptitude. 9 to 5 Jobs burn you in the long run where there is a hierarchy system. Time has come now for people to be more entrepreneurs.
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It's totally depends on both of the mindset.... both have to contribute for themselves 🤗
It doesn't... If the individuality is respected then we call it successful marriage I guess... I loved this one.
I didn't get u
@@daulatp8552 I meant if you have your own space in the space of marriage... Your own life and it is respected by your better half.... Nothing is as good as that... Your marriage life is worth it !
@@radnyeehambarde4234 Yup..Seems to be right...Not married as yet but will he helpful in future while going ahead ...Agreed to your point
Not in a relationship yet but really helpful for future 😄😆
Mind blowing story.👌
Hey...! This MADAM our Ratna.....❤️❤️❤️I like her....😍❤️❤️
Delivery girl did not only bring pakoda but also solution to his quitting job
So Beautiful... Real feminism is here ,that equality and that breaking stereotypes❤❤❤❤
This is simply amazing . Realistic acting , wonderful story line, very professional.
I totally agree, we should always do that work which we enjoy with your whole heart.
Working against our wishes is like dieing every single day.
I am speechless
I have no words to describe the creativity, imagination, Coordination, filled n implied in this video.
All 3 acted so well. It just seemed real.
Awesome vide.
And motivated.
Is time par har relationship ko chalane k liye aise hi thinking chahiye.
Thank you ......
Mene aaj kuch accha sikha.
Wow
Just wow, a rollercoaster of emotions right there
Feminism,equality , shattering prejudices- all captured in one clip 👍👍👍
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I had tears whilst I watched this video. Such a beautiful message. Thank you for making a this video. Every thing about it was so beautiful
Wow... I was about to break down... And it's all up the individuals after marriage to allow the individuality
Thought provoking.
Losing individuality... Indivi 'dual 'ity. I think the word explains it all. There is a him her and them in a marriage. So there's no question of losing one's individuality, it's more of sharing one's space. I agree not all sharing works and marriage s work. But I remember being told when I got married sometimes you will give 100 % sometimes he will. So don't calculate, but share anyways...
Lovely actors. Very realistically portrayed.
Beautiful message. Really loved this film. I can't answer the question in a yes-or-no fashion. But yes I do believe that as time passes with marriage , you do get de-focused (if not blurred) into the background.
And in the end , there's only one question that you need to ask yourself - is it worth it ? And the trouble is , the answer does lie somewhere between what's within you and what's around you...