Straight Talk: Splitting the Bill on Dates || STEVE HARVEY
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- Опубліковано 6 жов 2024
- Is it okay to split the bill on the first date? When is it okay to start? The Straight Talk panel addresses the topic!
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To be honest with you a lot of guys don’t want to be labeled “the FOOD GUY” the guy that’s gets called when she wants to eat
Well if ur not smart enough to vet a woman & realize when she wants u 4u then u need 2borrow some common sense 🤦♀️❗& besides its dating R u gonna b the guy crying in a corner bc u spent $60 on a date 🙈❗U win some u loose some it helps u gain experience! Or maybe she never hit u bk up bc u got ur foot in your mouth or have nothing to offer as no career no brain. It could be so many things🤦♀️❗
emmanuel dukes those guys need to make better choices in women. Not every woman is shady like that.
69Fabulosity didn’t say me my girl never had to pay.so calm down
@@edugen100 Im talking in general..but a,lot of guys think this way🤦♀️❗They DON'T get the concept of courting or even know what it means 🤦♀️❗They equate a date 2feeding the homeless 🙈❗🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️❗Young men need to be taught how to be gentleman & about chivalry❗
69Fabulosity you’re blaming and trying to shame the victim. What if I said “if you women are too stupid to go out on a date with a man you don’t know and you get raped, you deserve it?” Obviously she was a victim and so is a guy who is taken advantage of in any way.
We all know every girl in high school probably had Steve Harvey's name saved as "Free Food"
Facts
😭😭😭😭
It don’t matter tho caz he still winning, that’s the matter with you guys, y’all pay attention to the wrong stuff...
@@aveidasimms3649 ye money and success wont cloud his character nor shield him from criticism 🤣 no one gives AF bout that. We talking about what's being observed at hand. Which is that hes pandering and talking a whole lotta bs
@@aveidasimms3649 still winning? 3 marriages later......mmmmm? No thanks
Those women have lost their damn minds. This is a teachable moment for these women as well.
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Some women just have a different mindset and preference. Growing up my friends and I never let a man pay until the relationship is established because we didn’t want a man thinking we owed them anything for it
As they said, it's the perception of obligation that causes alot of women to just split everything and I'm okay with paying for myself I find it fair, especially if the date isn't going well or it's a casual date. But it's a nice gesture.
Perfect! @@jiminsmix3403
jiminsmix --- Even if he does pay for everything you still don’t owe him anything 😴 wow. Women these days are sooo desperate 😷 He only had ONE job 😂😂 & newsflash ladies... 50/50 can NEVER happen. Women will always end up doing more in the long run. Don’t get bamboozled 😂😴☕️💅🏽
This is why the first date will be coffee or tea. I’m not spending a whole bunch of money and don’t even know if I’m going to see you again. Second date is different!
Yup agree..no point in spending alot on a 1st date if your not seeing her for a second one.
Only a fool would take her to a big fancy restaurant to IMPRESS her.
Steve Harvey just gave the worst dating advice ever... I’d take redpill advice over this bs any day
Agreed
That's why you TALKKKK first... have conversations.... actually communicate and FEEL it out... the 1st OUTING can be a tea meet up dut tea is NOT a date
The women say they don’t mind splitting the bill & men still get criticized 😂 THE WOMEN SAID IT
It’s not blaming men. It’s teaching men how to operate successfully in life and relationships. The society is lost. And needs assistance.
😂😂😂
Listen a bit better… they said they pay because they don’t want men to think they owe them anything… Trust and believe “No woman” WANTS to pay the bill or go Dutch on a date. When that happens, that tells us “he can’t provide” point blank period.
@@luvelyjay No man wants to pay for a meal and get ghosted. That still happens. Dating is not about just women want. Also suddenly equality is not so interesting anymore when it comes to paying...why is that?
@@luvelyjayThat's fine as long as the woman knows her place and doesn't over step her role
*Steve Harvey knows his audience.*
He's pandering as always, which is smart but it kinda comes off as disingenuous at times cuz if you notice the shows where he does men & women surveys he's a little different..You can normally count on one maybe two hands the men in the audience..
He knows exactly what to say to please women. What do you expect from a player/cheater?
@@iammewhoelse9430 what's more fake, Steve pitiful excuse for a mustache or his lack of character?
@zadose No one asked you to wear makeup to the date, that's a choice.
Panders to those that ensure his money flows.
They all expect men to be gentlemen. No one talks about expecting women to be ladies
Kevin does... ALWAYS...
@@destinygodley He wasn't talking about Kevin.
Thought y’all wanted equality. You can’t just demand equality in one area and ignore it in another.
I guess the words gentleman and chivalry doesn’t exist in ur book
@aka geestar chivalry? A concept thats rooted from a time when a wife was considered to be owned by her husband? by her father?
@@TheMontamui Chivalry? When a knight fought another knight to win over the woman and do as he pleases with her? , like raping her and torturing her?
@@TheMontamui fuc no ain't no knights running around now and women make as much as men so fuc that y be a gentleman. Women used to go to school to learn to be a LADY which in turn sets them up for said gentlemen but these"women"nowadays got nothing but looks for a man
That’s you assuming that every woman is a feminist.
😀😀😀 "play on the playground you qualify to play on"......... WORDS!!!!👏👏👏👏
Edit: Wow!!!!! So many likes and those words aren't even mine!! Thanks for all the likes man....👍👍
ksteph 656 yikes
Absolutely
And that way of thinking is why soo many woman are single🤷🏾♂️. Money isn't everything, if he makes less money help build and mold him
@@mac1vzw72 Brainwashed by the government. This is why most of them are touching 30 and still single.
Correct is right! A man has to be a man. You guys are too entitled and MOST of yall entitled dudes have nothing to bring to the table. No substance! No foundation, no roots and expect a hard working young woman to build you guys up from scratch? The audacity! Bring something substancial to the table, atleast the napkins, fork, spoons, something.
Non but this entitled attitude.
Ladies, lets level up!
Steve was so pissed me almost started shaking.
He's so out-of-touch with the modern dating scene. These women want to be modern and independent, but expect men to be old-school and chivalrous. They want the equality of a man but the accountability of a child.
@@bruceleeroy8302 True. I’ll always offer to pay but I find women now are much more independent.
As he should 😂😂
2:10- "They can produce another human life."
Really Harvey and where do they get the sperm to do that?🤦
So women get special privileges cuz they can produce another human life? Great argument Steve 😂😂
Thank you
I was just saying the same thing !!!🤦♂️ cause yo if we don’t exist they don’t exist it’s a 50-50 thing here
He called growing a baby a “skillset” 😭
@@kraokingxyz1397 A baby takes nine months to be formed. Thus, a woman has to be pregnant during nine months to give life. A man will never ever do that. If a man wants to have descendants, he needs a woman. Nowdays, women do not even need a man to be pregnant, and thus produce another human life. 1) Because she can find a sperm donor. 2) Because she can use her own DNA, tansform her own DNA into sperm thanks to sciences. Men will never ever be able to get pregnant because they are not born with that capacity. So yes, if a man wants a family, he needs a woman. A woman does not need a man to have her own family
Imagine if a college graduate put on their resume that they graduated with a skillset that half of all people have. Then, they demanded that you hire them and pay them a good salary, but said they have freedoms so they don't have to do anything the employer tells them to do. That's what these women sound like.
You don't have to hire them or pay them a good salary but they can refuse not to work for you.
They are not demanding. They are saying "if you want me to work for you you need to hire me and pay me" and then you go "but half of the population can do the same work and will even accept a non paid internship" so she can say "then go find someone who accepts being an unpaid intern for your company."
Without what you call "freedoms" women would be nothing but slaves, having to perform according to their masters rules and thr master would still feel in the right for giving the slave "shelter and food".
@@Sarablueunicorn the women in this video are how women think in a nutshell and it's a huge problem. "If it's the first date he better offer to pay or there will not be a second date". Is exactly what's wrong with how women think. They've grown so accustomed to expect the guy to pay that they feel he's beneath them if he doesn't. Then they say the girl doesn't owe him sex for paying, but they make it sound like he owes it to them to pay just because he's a man and she's women
@@Sarablueunicorn I aways split the bill. Whether it's a first date or my girlfriend. It's fair and neither expects the other to pay. The reason some men expect sex after paying is because they paid for the whole bill,, whereas the women paid nothing. And they expect the man to pay just because he's the man just like they expect free drinks at bars. Neither is right
@@zackwoodd4606 she never said she’s owed anything, just that she has a preference. She isn’t owed being paid for, but she also doesn’t owe him a second date.
@@jord9733 most women's preference is they get paid for and act like the guy is out of line for not paying when they barely know eath other. Is that right?
“You were born to be a provider” preach!
For your kids and your wife, definitely. Not for some random girls.
Ewww. No
You were born to be in the kitchen
This is what happens when you have generations of men raised without their fathers....
Storm Monroe No, this is what happens after men get sick of women taking advantage of men.
Modern Women: If you can't change a tire on my car, don't even talk to me!
Modern Men: I can change a tire, but can you sew a button on my shirt?
Modern Women: MISOGYNIST! PIG! STEVE SAVE ME!
Think before you sleep 😂😂
Well Said.
@@starscream5055 I just came here after watching that video 😂. And as a girl, I agree. I'd like for my dates to be paid for and I have no problem staying home, cooking, cleaning, etc
@Sarah T Exactly! You're a grown adult! If you're unable to pay a phone bill after you got laid off, you're unable to handle money, period! Women crying for more than 50 years for equality...except when it comes to paying the bill! Grow the f up! You're a strong, independent and educated woman! And if you don't like to come over Netflix and chill...don't go, stay home. It's not that you enjoy Netflix and chill too, right? It's a chore for you! How dare he's not paying your bills in exchange for intercourse. This is not being a gold digger. This is...prostitution!
@Sarah T Isn't that telling enough?!? If you don't spend money...you don't get women. Well, I guess there is really no difference to plain prostitution. At least prostitues are honest about the price! And, who is the shallow gender again? Oh...and nice shaming tactic! Good Job!
The men Steve is talking about are about as rare as the women they should take out on those kind of dates
I agree men are maintainers, security, & providers for women but these Steve riding so hard for the women but he & nobody else speaks on the qualities one must possess to be in the position to be provided for.
totally agree
Khairi if you are approaching and asking women out on dates and you have no idea why or she doesn’t have the qualities that you seek then you need the spirit of discernment. Don’t worry. Il pray for you 😴☕️💅🏽
@@candykane5442 Thank you for praying for me really thoughtful of you. You obviously misinterpreted what I said, I mean that people like Steve Harvey who has a huge platform when it comes to modern day dating must speak on topics like what I mentioned earlier b/c it's not talked about at all. I've had my fair share of experiences in life & I believe I am blessed already with the spirit of discernment. It's hard to decipher what women truly want so men need pointers to dodge the deceitful woman.
Khairi Law -- It doesn’t matter. The question is what do YOU want? Most men just want sex. In fact the vast majority do. Most women do not operate that way so it’s women who need to do most of the weeding out but you don’t see them moaning about it 😴 If you approached her and are looking for something genuine then you’ve got to take that chance. Women do. Why are men all of a sudden scared to? That’s right. It’s because they don’t have genuine intention themselves. The player doesn’t want to get played. Too bad 😂😴😴
What qualities?? Are you saying a man should only be a MAN if he meets a woman with specific characteristics?
“He need to play in the playground, he qualified to play in!” Say that!!!
Keshia Lynch it’s funny because most women broke
@rima U spittin rn...
@@Jdnexx broke with high standards
@@rayburks7059 fax on fax
@@rayburks7059 ask a woman on a dating were she live 80 % oh I live with my family
I mean, I'm okay with paying on dates, BUT at the same time, y'all women need to learn what a budget is, y'all women need to learn how to NOT order everything on the damn menu. If I invite you out and you get $200+, $300+ worth of stuff, you need to toss in about twenty, thirty, forty dollars. That's only fair, in my opinion.
Choose the place carefully YOURSELF my brother. You know what’s on that menu beforehand so you won’t be surprised when that bill comes
I agree with you but she should pay half or 40%. It's not the 70s 90s era woman want equality only when it benefits you. So we don't have to open doors and help u in an out car. And also woman have good careers too some get paid more than men.
And facts if you paying that type of money you better you better be sure you taking her home. She will take advantage of you. That's why I go to cheap food restaurants. {Only on a real special occasion an exception}
Lord, if I die today, please let me reincarnate as Steve Harvey’s daughter. 🙏🏾
Or wife. Better still! 🙏🏽
Why, so you can leech all his wealth?
If God is little more careful, He will turn u into a pet dog which suits u and ur needs better
If you believe in God then you would know there is no reincarnation after death. There is only judgement day
@@LegendsNeverDie not really humans have a tendency to be brutal more towards animals
“He needs to play at a playground he’s qualified to play at” 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
*He and she* it goes both ways
My friend proposed to his then girlfriend and she said no. I think it affected him a little, but he ended up proposing to her again 5 years later and she said yes, he had a better job and made more money that's why I think she said yes. So the day of the wedding he left her at the alter, I laughed so freaking hard, she was crying it was so funny. She should have said yes the first time dumb bimbo.
It goes both ways. Broke women need not court men with money.
Rule of thumb for all men: On a first date you shouldn't choose an expensive place for a date. That way if it doesn't go well you didn't lose much👌🏾🤑
You've missed the whole point entirely.
@@Halonablack No mam..I'm just looking out for the men who don't mind paying for dates. Going out can get very expensive ,so why not have a mini date at a Starbucks or an ice cream store.
@@Halonablack so what was the point? Take her somewhere expensive?
Halona Black was right. You missed the point entirely. She probably didn’t have the patience to school you, so I will. 7 tips below.
1. Any man who “minds” paying for a date should not be dating grown women. Stay home and keep yourself company.
2. The point of Steve’s comment isn’t about not choosing an expensive restaurant. It is about not wasting women’s time. He said “play on the playground you’re qualified to play in.”
3. Women are busy. If you can’t afford to feed her on a date, don’t take her out at all. Women dress up, do their nails, hair, makeup etc. all to prepare for a date. It is an investment. Mini-dates are a waste of her time, and yours too. If you ask her for a morning date and she is hungry for breakfast, don’t take her to Starbucks for coffee? “Not expensive” doesn’t mean a stingy date.
4. Find out what the woman likes. Your comment is focused on the man “not losing” much and “looking out” for men. The point of a date is to do something you BOTH enjoy in the best environment to relax and get to know each other. Before any date, you should know what kind of food, drink or activity the woman enjoys. That way you can pick a place that she will like and that you can afford. You can even ask her if she feels more comfortable choosing a place (e.g. closer to her house or where she feels safe). The date isn’t all about the man and his wallet.
5. Go on less dates to save money. Be smarter and more discerning about choosing women. Many men think if one date doesn’t work out, they can just go find another woman and go on a date. Women are not wasting your money, you are wasting your own money + time.
6. If you’re looking for something long-term, be more judicious about which women you take out on dates. Don’t go out on a couple mini-dates per week. If the woman is classier than the establishment you’ve chosen, the risk is on you that she won’t respond to your call/text for a second date. If you find out during the date that you really like her, you’ve already made a first impression by the location you’ve chosen. You only get one first-impression.
7. It’s better to go out on three dates, with better quality matches that you spent $100 on for lunch/dinner, than 11 mini-dates with so-so matches that you spent the same $100 on for coffe/ice cream.
@@minimalassembly7893 yhhhyhhhhyhhh you don't know anything about dating from a males perspective so all thst typing was in vein.
Mr Harvey
I'm glad you made this point very clear and established a dating precedence for our young men. Alot of them need to be retrained in their thinking.
You need to give him today's information in order to deal with tomorrow reality and dating has changed a lot all this app online dating loose single woman, side chicks its ugly outhere so he has to manoeuvre around without paying for everyone he meets
Ever Morgan 👎🏾
But y’all claim y’all want “equality” no y’all want everything in y’all favor!
There will be those that disagree but there have been men in my life that set the precedence that men are to provide. There are those that need to step their game up.
Ever Morgan If a man doesn’t offer to pay then he wasn’t TAUGHT right. If a woman doesn’t offer to pay then she wasn’t TAUGHT right. It’s 21st century, men and woman are literally equally paid.
Steve is out of touch...When he was dating back in the 80's he was dealing with a totally different caliber of woman. He wasn't dealing with an entitled , "Queen Boss B!+(h." We dealing with a totally different mindset now a days Steve...And I'm not calling women the B word, I'm just using the word cause that's what women say.
Exactly!!
You do actually have a point here. That’s definitely a variable.
Harvey, men don't mind doing it but they want equality... ACROSS THE BOARD... Why they cherry picking?
Can you produce babies? That's when equality will happen
@@flowerbeauty6819 u missed the point of the statement...why are u cherry picking? When u say u want equality...equality goes across the board dear
@@dicacci6762 so why not produce babies and marry men? That's even more equality for you?? Why do you want to date / marry/ procreate with women? We are not equal, we are different. So if you don't like differences, why do u want women and not men?
@@flowerbeauty6819 I'm not the one asking for equality dear you are...
@@dicacci6762 where have I?? I repeat-We are not equal, we are different. At least biologically. So why why don't u have a relationship and babies with men since you have problems with the female gender?
I agree with Steve about the first date. I have no issue paying, but the way Steve says it and they way the women act entitled, it just rubs me the wrong way. I react negatively to it which makes me not want to put up with it. Like dued, you left your ex for the current women you have. That’s pretty messed up. Who are you to decide who a man is or not? Also my generation is not living in the 1950s. These women today can provide for themselves. I recently went on a date and I wanted to pay the whole thing, but the women wanted to pay her half, so guess what, I swiped my card and payed for the whole thing while she was not paying attention. Why? Because I wanted to court her. She didn’t come off as entitled as some of these people come off in the video and comment section. If you’re going to act like that though...pay your half and leave me alone. ✌️
Well said. Yes, I dislike it when women feel entitled to such. I'd definitely love to take care of a woman who is humble.
Perfect !
EXACTLY
Casandra Young I don’t give a rats ass about what you think lady. Move along then.
Ecactly its simple as that. Steve is just a womanizer he knows all the right words to say to please them.
So you still expect the traditional behaviour, yet on the other hand completely breaking down traditional relationships. Yes it's an honor to take a woman out, and ladies it's an honor to have a good man, and be loyal.
Exactly, the man is to provide, but a woman has to pick the right man to WILLINGLY stand behind. It's awful to use a man that you don't really have interest in for a free meal. They have hearts, don't stomp on them.
@@fakeidonthaveahandle wow a woman with empathy is great to see feels like its not many like that who are my age
Steve you need to start a dating class for young and older men! They need your guidance. Lolol lol lol lol lol lol lol Good looking out for the ladies. And women need to let go and let men be men!!!
@Gregory KEROR Davis Bro these women are zombies now days they lack common sense its scary.
@Gregory KEROR Davis Like the saying goes If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything.
I'm a woman and I would sponsor a hwole damn class of men if Steve does it
@@peacheskong2245 Ofc you would you're a sheep
@@billmwika7428 okay leader no one ever heard of... How many men and women have you inspired to be a better version of themselves? Like none. Goodbyyyyyeeeee
So let's add all of this up..Steve is telling women to go on dates (free of charge), keep their "cookie" in the cookie jar for 3 months AND expects the man to pay for everything including our personal bills??I'm not saying split everything but there should be an investment by both parties..Time is an investment I get that but, some women out here are running around getting free dates from guys they have no intention on being with, in other words wasting his time..How do "Independent women" feel about that,if it even bothers them??
Sid Falcon Facts 😂
facts bro
I think you know sooner than 3 months if this is the right woman for you. If you feel she isn't, let her go and save your money for the next woman. I agree that there are women out here doing what you said but you need to wise up as soon as possible and let those women go. When it's the right woman, I think a man would be happy to pay for her.
Sid Falcon That's the man's fault. Not the woman's fault.
All dates are 50/50 going into them. Either that woman is worth it for you or not. If she is, you take her out then maybe a 2nd date etc. At any point, if you feel she's not worth it any more, let her go.
Imagine taking dating advice from a dude who got divorced 2/3 times lol
Yeah but i mean he also got married 3 times so I think hes knows what he is talking about (not trying to defend his opinion on this matter)
@@revoxiqc728 what?? So if I built 3ships and they ask sank your take my advice when building it own??? That's idiocy
He said himself on an episode... I made a lot of mistakes and learnt from ghem, passing on the lessons... judge ppl not on their mistakes but whether they learnt from them
@@pimphandstrong6620 so you are telling me you can build better ships than me after i already have built 3 of them and you none ?? Thats idiocy
@Wesley Grey but your argument falls flat because Steve isn’t giving an advice on how to get married, but how a first date should go. You use Steve’s divorces as an argument to suggest that any advice he gives concerning dating is irrelevant . Your argument would hold substance if he gave an advice on marriage.
What does equality for all have to do with dating? This is why so many men no longer value chivalry. Some men are offended when women attempt to do this. I'm a southern lady and I will never understand why so many women want to do the things men enjoy doing. Don't these women know that men, at least the ones I know and grew up around take pleasure in any form of doting on a woman. Whether it's paying for lunch for a friend, or opening a door, giving his coat when she's cold. Chivalry is not dead. The weakest woman to me is a woman that tries to show up a man. Don't you think he already knows that you're capable of paying for a meal? Come on ladies this women's lib thing has gone so far off kelter as the old folks say, Let that man be the man, let him do all he wants and can do for you and you in turn do all you can do and be for him. It's a simple act of kindness why not allow him to do that? Ughhhhh
Amen!! Thank you! As a young woman raised traditionally with the values, etiquette and skills!, I completely agree with your statments and pray someday God will send this type of man/husband. Thank you for your wise words! 😊👏👏🙏
What advice would you have for man who keeps taking girls on dates just to pay for dinner just to never hear from them again?
Taking advice from a guy who’s been married 3 times 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Exactly why he got more experience tha you would ever get and more money
@@empressoliver3341 it aint experience if you failed 2 times lmao.
@@lebercoatlebercoat1522 lmaooo, that makes no sense. just bc he's failed twice doesn't invalidate his experiences and the lessons he's learned from them lol.
@@leahamanuel739 he still failed 2 times lol
@@Kafuixx lmao and?
Both should pay on the first date. That's called gender equality.
Ok now it’s time to think a little bit deeper...
@ymarrero23 that some Olympic level jumping to conclusions.why should men be obligated to pay? And you could say the same thing about women if they don’t pay on dates using your logic. If women don’t pay on dates then that means if a man is going through a tough time in his life then that woman won’t support him which means that the guy shouldn’t say that woman.
@ymarrero23 do you not believe in gender equality? Because you are essentially saying that women are not as capable as men because they require a man to provide for them since they are incapable of providing for themselves.
@ymarrero23 r u like broke 😂?
The one thing that I still love about my husband he would not take me out until he could afford to take me where I wanted to go! And after 10 years of marriage he still pays for the date.
Not the first date.
Maybe u should offer to pay
What do you do for him?
Maybe you should offer to pay.
Look op's post. She can't survive without her husband's money. How cute and pathetic.
Steve you’re stuck in the 1950’s
elsamso Steve is a beta idiot.
The only dudes who talk about betas and alphas are either incels or insecure
He has a point, but even women disagree. Reality is different. Of course you shouldn't waste time on a lazy low life boy, but you also shouldn't trade love for money. In order to have a good relationship you need to be with the right person for you regardless of the money they have at the moment.
@@TheWilDOn31 No, Steve does not have a valid point here, unless he's strictly talking about older men (age 40+), who do have more wealth then women in their age bracket. But women who are young outearn young men in many large cities, young women have higher rates of college education, and also outnumber men in medical school, law school, etc. If we are to accept that women are now overtaking men financially, it becomes difficult to justify men having to pay for every date in order to prove that he's "manly" (which is Steve's argument).
I wish I run into someone that have ways like Steve.
If he wasn't raised by feminists who think Steve's words are misogynistic
Me too
@Jupe367 you friendzoned him
Ain't he on his 3rd marriage? Okbye
😂😂😂🤣
As a woman, I don’t believe in paying on a date. First date or otherwise. It’s not about the money either because I’m more than able to pay.! It’s about allowing the man I’m out with to fulfill the function for which he was created.. the role of a provider. If you treat men as such, they will be such instead of these weak men that are now out there not handling their
business as they should. A real man is one who provides …
I'll pay if I invite a man out I'll pay. Me and my guy friend take turns and I don't mind. If he invites me he pays. And visa versa
Do you cook?
@@themore-you-know yes and a very good cook
“We were born to put women on a pedestal & treat her like a queen “.. this dude is a clown
In the same way a woman has tests or deal-breakers for men eg being more interested in getting physical before things have developed. A man has his own test. If a woman cannot show contentment during a Starbucks or a low cost date, get rid!
It demonstrates that she is more interested in your finances & what you can offer materially than getting to know you!
This whole provider thing Steve talks about should only apply to the woman you’ve chosen. If we’re getting to know each other, then my advice is you’d better eat before leaving home because a cappuccino is all you’re getting!
Who hurt you man, u sound bitter
True!Dating is different from being married...possible short term vs long term commitment.If a guy goes on 10 different dates ..thats 10 ten times he pays (by their logic) and not one woman pays.Its very possible none of these will be his wife and his money is gone with nothing to show.
@@incogneto2834 exactly that! Women now want wife privileges without wife responsibilities. They cry for tradition only when it benefits them, but they don’t have a traditional bone in their body!
@@aveidasimms3649 that statement adds nothing to the discourse. It’s a poor attempt at shaming and is totally irrelevant.
I’m not speaking from a position of hurt or pain, I’m speaking as someone who knows where the boundary lines fall. It may come as a surprise, but men are also setting standards. Modern women, better women-up!
Many women arent interested in the man as such,just what he can do for her...and its only about her.
Never been out with a lady before in my life and have her pay....I don't care if its first or 2nd or 5th. Just ain't in my DNA...I don't even care if you make a lotta dough than me
Men who listen to Steve Harvey for dating advice will fail. Period.
Steve's outfit is ON POINT!! from the tie to the shoes.... looking fly
Fatouma Yassin No.
I know this is old but it kills me how he asked three women about the topic, once they gave their answer this man just goes off on men. Just my thoughts.
"He need to play in the playground he qualified to play in"
STEVE HARVEY 🔥🔥🔥
i dont understand what the big deal is if she makes more money than the guy
an attractive man with a lot of options doesn't feel the need to spend money on girls if he doesn't want to, because he knows there's always more out there.
@Bridgee Bridge 👏👏👏
Tig K Then he's a bum. When a man likes a woman, he pays for everything as a way to impress her.
Yany3x Kkrenii then he must be a loser if he has to do something to impress her which is usually always the case. I go by how i feel in the moment and if I want to pay for someone. This applies for anyone, not just women. If I don’t want to pay for her, I won’t; I don’t date bums who don’t have their own money
Tig K Nope. He's obviously very successful and confident if he has the money to impress her. Only bums complain about money.
You sound super dusty. Maybe you should work on getting your money up because you clearly can’t afford to date.
That’s why I like older guys. They know better (most of them). 😋
There are some older men that feel women should pay... Age means nothing these days . Gotta look for maturity.
Older men don’t perform well in bed,so no thanks.
@@PublicSpeaking202 Lies. Older guys might cheat like the young ones but they are very experience and they know how to treat a lady.
@@claudiaclaudia8599 LOL 🤣!!
@@rikanejose2611 cheating is not treating a lady well. Look for maturity vs age.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 “he need to play on the playground he qualified for “ I CANNOT WITH THIS MAN
Average Guy: *mentions anything about a woman contributing to a relationship so that the relationship isn't one-sided or so that he isn't being taken advantage of*
Steve: WoMeN CaN CrEaTe HuMaNs
He was only talking about paying for the bill on a date though, not anything else regarding the relationship. That's why you're single and alone.
so meet a guy who approaches you and asks you out on a date that you are interested in. he pays for everything because your language shows you expect him to and yall leave. you dont hear from him for weeks and then accidentally run into each other. the date seemed fine but he never called you back or tried to stay in touch and you wondered why. you ask him and he then tells you that he felt no need in wasteing time on a woman who does not feel a need to invest in a man she is clearly also interested in. would that man be wrong in his response????????????
Christy Louis I’m single, but not alone. Being in a relationship isn’t always better than being single either. But go off I’m listening
Justin Wallace absolutely not
Joshua has a point here. And while Steve always talks about how women can create humans (And I do appreciate that a woman has that ability, being a woman myself), I must also acknowledge that the woman doesn't do it alone. She needs more than her eggs to produce a child. It's not like she magically does it herself. Sure, the guy doesn't give birth, but he does contribute his sperm. So, in a way, he helps to produce life as well. I feel like Mr. Harvey neglects to mention that little tidbit when he talks about how women can create humans.
What does able to have a kid had to do about splitting a check
nothing at all
He's just pandering to his small minded and entitled audience smh
Everything. Women can't go and earn when they re delivering a baby or raising one so men earn more as they have more time and energy in their lives to do so
@@flowerbeauty6819 who asked her to. If she can't afford it she should take a pill. Simple. Else don't feel entitled to get free food
😂😂😂😂
Most of us guys loose interest on a date that’s why
He pays the first date - just being a gentleman. But after a couple dates, I don’t see anything wrong with splitting the bill. Or if things are looking serious, why not treat the man sometimes instead of just splitting the bill? Don’t take away his role as the pursuer, but men like to be spoiled, too.
Agreed
Ebony Rivers Nope. They can get spoiled by their mothers.
Yany3x Kkrenii Trick and your can get feed by your father.
Chivalry died a long time ago, and women killed it. Excuse me, I mean Feminism killed it.
Yup, so true, and yes I'm a woman and I agree with your comment.
We need more men like Steve Harvey...
Tasha Hinds lol women are nuts , look who he picked as his wife a straight gold digger who dated two drug dealer brothers! No excuses, Steve is very hypocritical
@@jamesparker722 I feel like men who say women are nuts either brought it snow mother or they just didn't have a great motherly experience growing up. Weather he's been through three marriages or not he sees value in his wife I'm pretty sure she can find someone better than Steve Harvey that's all she cared about. I hope that whatever issues you have for women you work out with a therapist and I mean that wholeheartedly.
Tasha Hinds are you crazy?!! Better than Steve how?? She’s a gold digger and he makes 100 plus million a year how can she top that!? You realize how you sound? That was said out of emotion and not logic he settled! And I have a great mom and girl that’s actually how I easily know the difference
Tasha Hinds Steve settles he could’ve did way better than Majorie!!
kzaggin20 peep with this narcissistic women said in these comments , she says Majorie could’ve did better than Steve!! Lol he’s the 100 million dollar prize and he got left overs a woman who dated two drug dealer brothers and had kids by them 🤢shows how foolish and emotional women think this was the worse comment I saw on this , Steve made a bad choice in this lady so his advice is irrelevant
How the hell do you expect to be taken seriously when you obviously forgot your freaking socks?!!
If you ask someone out on a date then you pay.
Equality just isn’t a thing anymore I guess 😐
Of course all the old men agree because they come from a different time. Women used to be taught to be homemakers because the wage gap was so big that it made sense for women to stay at home. But the wage gap has gotten much smaller to the point where women should be able to cover their own dating expenses.
Here’s the truth that women don’t want to hear. It’s not actually paying for their own meal that bothers women. It’s the stigma of it all. Women perpetuate this stigma amongst each other that paying for your own meal somehow means that “you’re selling yourself short” or you let the man disrespect you. We’re in 2020 now. Anyone modern woman(women below the age of 40) that still thinks that there is a stigma with paying for her own meal is a narrow minded person who lacks the ability to individually analyze what’s righteous and what’s relevant to the times.
Mgtow philosophy is spreading among brothers !
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Especially on the first date, it really depends what were doing. If i am "taking you out on a date" im willing to pay, if you wanna pay for yourself it shows me you enjoyed your stay. If were "going to a restaurant" i wont be mad if i have to pay, but id be disappointed if you didnt at least offer to pay for yourself. Why? If youre expecting me to pay, youre putting yourself on a pedestal, basically saying i can be happy to even spend time with you. Funny enough, women with this attitude are the exact type of woman i dont want to spend any time with. Be a humble and open girl talking about what you love in life and who you are, offer to pay and you wont even have to bring money, because he will try to impress you.
Nothing wrong with putting yourself on a pedestal. If a girl offers to pay she is communicating she doesn't value herself and if you're attracted to that, well women with standards are trying to avoid you.
@@PsychoBatcave wtf kind of dumb logic is that? If a woman offers to split the bill that doesnt mean they are devaluing themselves it means that they realize that dating is a partnership. To be honest it’s the other way around if a women refuses to pay that means that they are essentially saying that they need a man to provide for them because they are incapable of providing for themselves
@@hawkeye0378 No woman that values herself is gonna accept a cheap man. This isn't even a discussion.
@@PsychoBatcave how is splitting the bill cheap? If anything if a woman allows the guy to pay for every date she is the one being cheap and not valuing herself
@@hawkeye0378 Lmao also a woman having a standard for how to approach her, just says she has standards. That's it. Nothing about her financial status. Literally this debate about who pays on a date is an American/North American thing. Where I'm from that's just what a man does, period. So for me it's so unappealing hearing any man trying to justify not being a man. It's basic courtship and the LEAST a man can do. If another woman doesn't totally wanna vomit from being denied basic courtship, it's her life, but I know most women feel the way I do.
Paying should never be an obligation honestly . In my past relationship I would do so much for my ex girlfriend because I felt like I had to instead of doing it because I genuinely appreciated her. Giving has to come from a good place not from force and that would typically happen if you and the girl maybe didn’t have a good date . I think if a guy truly likes a girl and the girl likes him too then he wouldn’t hesitate to pay .
Best answer yet 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
A dude in his 3rd marriage shouldn't be giving out relationship advice. Imo
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Come on Uncle Steve! Teach them! That’s why I like older men!
You give too much credit. It's not the age. It's the individual.
you just don't want to take your wallet out
*yawn*
Uum It isnt because of his age its how he was raised. The men in my family ( teenagers, young n mature) were all raised that way. So.. Just letting ya know so u won't be shocked if u date an older man that feels differently.
siyase731 Younger guys are the real gentlemen. Older guys are extremely manipulative. Yuck!
Steve is simply pandering to his audience because that's who pays his bills
"You were born to put a woman on a pedestal and treat her like a queen. That's your job as a man" Uhhhhh..... As a Christian, I have a problem with this. If you're a man who claims to be a Christian, the ONLY one you should be putting on a pedestal is God Himself. Not me, not any other woman, or anything else in your life. God should come first in everything, in every aspect of life. When you love God properly, He will teach you how to properly love a woman. But, please don't turn your relationship into idolatry - that's just wrong.
This is not about religion.
@@jmatthews5685 If you personally are not a "religious" person, then I would not expect you to understand where I'm coming from.
As a Christian I understand what premise you are coming from but I don’t believe that he meant it like that. I believe that it is more of treating someone with honor and respect, not idolatry.
@@healed2011 I do agree that treating someone with honor and respect, not idolatry, is a good thing. However, if you watch a lot of Steve Harvey, he does seem to promote this idea of idolatry towards women. According to Steve, "the woman is always right" and "a happy wife is a happy life." But, women are only human, just as a man is only human - idolize her, and you are sure to be disappointed.
Steve is THE Original *Gentleman*
I agree that a man should still pay on the first date. But after that its up to the individual couple. I mean times have changed. Women have the right to work now. So as a man I should still pay for everything and she keeps all her money......
@Adalina that doesn't make since. If we are bothering working why should only one person pay for everything. That's selfish. And we live in an era were 80 percent of relationship and marriages don't last so I going to let you leave with a bank account full of money. Get out of here.......
Eugene Hird I’m with you man. Save/invest your money. The world is a harsh place for a man who doesn’t have a financial foundation in place. If you’re going to date, take the initiative and choose the place. Pay for dinner no matter what but ask the questions that’ll let you know if she’s worth future investment
@@eugenehird257 It actually does make sense. You expect her to give u what u want forrrr what? Just because ?
@@user-zx5xw4yw2e same could be said for women and...
@@johnlshane9428 Exactly. ( but you still don't get it.. You will eventually) 😊
My wife and I are completely 50/50. Deal with it.
I will pray for your wife that she soon realizes she married a dusty and moves on to better
@@hurricanekat8 formed a whole opinion about me from one sentence huh? Enjoy your life random person.
@@terrelljenrette5122 Only feminine 50/50 men are okay with a woman bringing her half financially. A masculine man will NEVER be okay with his woman having to hustle when she is with him. A real man knows that a woman already brings her half by being present and gracing him with her feminity, nurturing, and blessing him with children. Real men don't even want their women to work because that is a negative reflection on themselves and substandard capabilities.
In about 10-20 years when you have advanced in your career and have more money, you're going to leave that 50/50 wife you care about so much now that she's helping you pay bills and find a younger woman who you really want. Anytime a woman contributes financially she's going to let everybody know and will NEVER respect you and submit to you. Facts.
@@hurricanekat8 Sooooooo true! Yes, girl! All facts; no lies detected! Traditional all the way- on both sides. Thank you, I couldn't have said it better myself 😊👏👏💯🙏
@@hurricanekat8 FACT!
These women aren't righteous bruh lmao. Everyone you pointed out is 45+ these females don't value our time or efforts as men lol. Steve really needs to get around some younger females... HONEST ones at least
U mean Steve need 2 wake 2 hell up times change just like technology he stuck way back in the olddd days
Exactly
@@stevenking1849 ~ Yeah, the GOOD old days!! You can learn a lot from the good old days!!!! Try it sometime.
Steven King
Steve knows he full of it. He’s just telling these women what they wanna hear so that they keep buying his books and watching his show.
She can take herself on a date.......simple as that!
What does a woman having a baby have to do with paying for a first date? Steve have money now so he can talk. When he was broke tho smh life is funny
I like how Steve thinks. Really like this guy
Please don't get upset with me for asking this, but what is wrong with taking advice from happily married people? Also whoever asks who out should pay honestly, it could just be coffee
Brittany Green Coffee isn’t a date for a woman. My eyeliner and lipstick are an electrical bill. Why waste that on $4.00 coffee that I buy everyday anyway?
Morgan J Why would a man spend an ass of money on a date just to find out that you two aren’t even going to workout???
If you actually like the girl u will with out a doubt no hesitation pay for the meal. Thats just how i see it💯
Yea she may not like you and decided before ya'll went out in the first place!
@@garygreen7104 ~ That's a chance you decide to take.
@@Gary-ld6ht
What? It's a chance that you may decide to take is what you mean? Men don't owe women a free meal.
@@garygreen7104 ~ Who owes who, what is not the issue. You have to decide whether or not you want to see her again, for how long, and act accordingly. If all you want is a one night stand, treat her like your servant. If you want a relationship, treat her like a queen.
@@Gary-ld6ht
When you go out on a date you don't know them. You decide how you'd like to treat them during the get to know you phase which the first day is a part of.
This dude is a fraud but hey, he has to play into his viewing audience
People are comparing apples to slabs of ribs... not even in the same food group... equality in the work place ie performing a task is very different than the complex dynamics of a relationship. In the work place the task to complete something is the same no matter what nationality or gender you are therefore should be compensated the same. In relationships especially romantic relationships things are a different. A couple can go 50/50 as far as working paying Bill's etc, but a man can never have a baby, nurse the baby, a man doesn't go through the physical changes as the woman, stretch Mark's etc so yes, not equal. The point is, some men need to stop acting like work place equality (ie equal pay for performing the same task) is the same as relationship dynamics. Equal pay is no excuse for you to be a dusty bum. You like what you see and you want to spend time with her then you should be ready to handle the bill. You want her time, company, and companionship. Step the eff up and be a gentleman and you'll attract a lady.
The only problem with that is just because you like what you see don’t mean that’s the one for you.
No the man pays but women also take advantage of this kind of integrity they really do but I was raised and always believed the man pays!!!
A woman who takes advantage of this high quality that a man has is a LOW class woman. A classy woman will accept what he gives, and show him appreciation, and never look down on that quality. Any woman who mocks that masculine quality of a man needs to be dumped immediately, and YES I am a woman. There's nothing hotter than a man who provides and protects his woman! That is the sexiest trait a man could have! Your parents raised you well!
@@DeliciaTrini100% agree! Couldn't have said it better myself!!!
@@bonny-rosenash8685 Thank you! :)
oh, so you were raised by feminist
@@DeliciaTrini I don't live in the west or in America however, all I know is that the women who want "Splitting the Bill" so why you blame men??!!
If I'm paying the bill that means I'm the provider if I'm the provider we are not equal in the relationship if we are not equal I run the relationship. Personally I want an equal relationship if she eat the same amount as me or more then we will split the bill if she is not having my kids we are splitting the bill not every woman is meant to be treated like a queen bc not every woman acts like they should.
Why don't you date a man then? That's even more equal
Women need to stop cherry picking. Its 50/50 now. End of story. Your time is not worth more than mine, and we don't live in the 1960s.
i will never understand why its SUCH a problem splitting the bill, no matter who invites who out, guess im lucky i found someone who splits every the bill
He changed my life
first dates all him once we are in a relationship we can talk about who pays "this time or that time" I don't mind offering to split, but don't actually make me pay , like 😕
Let me clarify myself to you confused people. This is about a first date not an entire relationship ok....???
1st- if you don’t have the money then you tell the women before hand ok....
2nd - this has nothing to do with the money per say, more about if he is a provider, this can be in other ways, but that’s the first clue.
3rd- A lot of guys I’ve dated tell me from jump “ i am paying” because they want to🤷🏾♀️ it’s the gentle man thing to do.
4th- that’s how my father and mother taught me. Mind you there gender roles were opposite most of my life, so this has more to do with the boy taking over, being a gentle man, taking initiative. This is not some scheme to get free food 🤦🏾♀️ I can pay for my own food, it’s the actions that count PERIOD.
Then don’t offer...if you don’t have the intention of paying, why offer? What kind of backwards logic is that?
Joshua Sullivan because it’s rude to not offer when you don’t know, so offer and if they let you pay, they don’t get a second date PERIOD.
@@jay_baby_lacy3911 do you know whats even more rude offering even when you dont want to pay, because it shows how dishonest you are
TiringBard93 and no offering is me just showing I can pay if I have to, and I’m being very honest, he’s just not getting a second date if I have to without good reason🤷🏾♀️ any man I want would be like no I got this. I won’t argue, just put my wallet down, 1st test PASSED. But if I pull out my wallet and he looking at me like yep get that I’m good ! Period.
TiringBard93 never been a issue before🤷🏾♀️ but thanks for your feed back.
We live in an era of female entitlement. Being a selfish woman child who expects everything and giving nothing is okay in this days. What a shame.
Not at all ! Women contribute just as much if not more in the relation. But not necessarily with money.
U betta preaaach Steve!! 🙌🙌🙌..This is the mindset of a MAN!! So many males (not men) nowadays really think that everything should be 50/50! Like, women go through waaay more than men, so dang right we deserve for men to pay more on dates, bills, etc. Of course we have a role to play as women, and I'm not saying a woman shouldn't pay EVER. But I definitely think men should pay much more! I can't stand when they say stuff like, "this is not the 1950s, this is 2019." 🙄..like, AND?? In the Bible, did it say "In 2019, both men AND women will be equal providers?" NO! So, I don't know why some men (actually some women too🤦🏽♀️) say that mess! It's basically just an excuse to not be a man! You're the provider! We weren't created equally, so we shouldn't have to pay equally!! 💅🏽💁🏽🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Paul Hogue ohhh boo hoo!! 😢😢😒..You're just another crybaby of a guy "cause he's always for women." You BOYS are always wanting to play the "tit for tat" game! And YES IT DOES say in the Bible that the men are the protectors and providers while women take care of home! Even if it didn't say it in the Bible, the fact still remains that women go through more than y'all do! So with that being said y'all should more than willing to pay more than women! Stop being such a cheap, sorry ass and grow tf up! 😒✋🏽🤷🏽♀️
Gamela Stone what works do you live in?? Men go through way more and always have smh delusional
Paul Hogue first of all, you didn't speak FACTS cause u said it doesn't say in the Bible that a man is the protector and the provider! Secondly, did I not say in my original comment, "Of course we as women have a role, and don't think a woman shouldn't pay EVER." So I already established that we have a part too! Again, u just sound like u want everything to be 100% even between a man and a woman, but it SHOULD'NT BE that way bc we as women go through more than y'all PERIOD! Y'all think just bc we're in 2019, everything should be 50/50, like hell no!! Y'all sorry assess just need to grow up! And u talkin bout some "having that mentality will make me be lonely with cats" 😒..that saying is so old and typical! Like, *yaaawn*✋🏽😒..I've literally had a man before to not only DO what I'm speaking of, but also AGREE with what I'm saying! I'm single now (by choice), but when I'm in the next relationship, he's GONNA do the same thing for me! God has my back on that, and there's nothing YOU or these other childish-minded boys can do about that! 🤣🤣..I swear, I would be ashamed to say that a woman paid for my dinner if I was a man! Like, if u can't even afford to take a woman out to dinner, then leave her be, and get ya money up! 🤦🏽♀️😒🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
James Page what "works"??🤔🤔..anyway no matter what u say..WOMEN GO THROUGH MORE THAN MEN!! Foh! 😒✋🏽
The first date should be 50/50 or a free date or something extremely cheap like Starbucks. So I can get to know you first. I need to make sure we are even compatible before I start wasting money and time on you. I also need to make sure that you aren’t looking for a free food Freddie. Yes I have had my name stored in a woman’s phone as “free food” I’ve gone on first dates just to never hear from her again. You women don’t know that us men have gone through that. There are women out here looking to finesse us. We not trying to be less of men. We are trying to not let a woman take advantage of our kindness.
Yass Uncle Steve!!!
I have no problem going dutch AFTER the first few dates, but if you ask me to split the bill on the first date I'm going to pay my portion but you will never see me again. I'm all for gender equality but I feel like somethings need to stay traditional. Man pays, opens the door, pulls out the chair, and then continue on the date.
Johnnese P Lol? Are we your date or your slave? Tf wake up ma’am
@@Lukether Why would you think opening up a door and pulling out a chair for a women is being their slave??? I'm confused and they say chivalry isn't dead...
Johnnese P Why would I pay for the first few dates I have payed money on too many dates just to never see them again.
Equality in rights isn’t an obstacle in men paying for most of the expenses. Being a women cost more money, it’s just a way to make it more fair
So funny they want man to act like gentleman yet they cannot act like a women ha women's and their clowns world
A real man will not let you pay
He sure wouldn't.
True but this throws 1 of 2 women’s only “equality” complaints out the window it shows women want everything in their favor
There is a generational divide here..Older women expect the man to pay because this is all they know and back in the day when women weren't making as much it was completely acceptable for the man to pay for everything..Now women make just as much if not more than men and women STILL expect us to pay for everything??Cat better be other worldly lol..
@@user-zx5xw4yw2e The origin of this way of thinking was from back when women weren't allowed to work and when dates happened the men HAD to pay..Some still adopt this paradigm which is cool but this doesn't usually lend to long term meaningful relationships today..I am married and I happened to marry a woman who is/was okay with chipping in every so often..Do I/Did I pay for dates?absolutely..But don't be fooled some women want to be wined & dined nowadays with nothing coming from it besides a bigger balance on the man's credit card..
@@sidfalcon7714 Ok sir.
ALWAYS go dutch on a first date! If a girl can't handle it, then she's a gold digger and leave her with the ENTIRE BILL!
💅 teach them Steve.
brooklynforever1990 I laughed out loud at your emoji.
As Steve said during this segment, women's best "skill set" is getting pregnant and giving birth...
And the feminists applauded...
I love Steve Harvey but I'm tired of his sexist view of men it's no mans job to treat a woman like a queen nor is it the right thing to do now if a man ask a woman out it's the proper thing to do to pay if you're interested in her but times are change women and men are both people a man isn't better than a woman nor is a woman better than a man
If we have to go over gender roles on the first date let's not even go on the date. Thank you for the introduction. But bye
Just curious what’s your role??
I never go out with out my own money
Tasha Bynum of course why wouldn’t you , but you know you don’t plan on using it lol , I pay for all dates as a man but once again what’s a women’s role on the date?
James Parker She don’t know that’s why she never answered.
I’m telling you folks. Stop being cheap!!!
That's not being cheap, it's protecting your hard earned money from advantageous leeches.
Rather pay for a bad ass prostitute i know I'm having fun
And this idiot will be taken to the cleaners! The women have your number fool.
@@flex8707 you finally get value for your $$.
@Moshe Dayan ????????
A first date should be cheap. Coffee or a walk on the boardwalk. So in that case the man should pay. The second date can be dinner and a movie can be split.
christine xtine I like how you think so after all that he knows that she was there for him and not just getting stuff from him.
I 100 percent agree with Steve
Of course lol. You're a female.
Divine Miss B so which is it, equality or traditional
Using this logic we would have to spend between $200-$300 per month on dates..$50-$75 per date if you have one a week..Over a years time including special occasions we will have spent close to $4000 or more and men are left with what exactly??It absolutely feels like its set to where to way of thinking benefits the woman..You want your independence but you want the man to pay for everything as well??🤔🤔
@@syinyjuan93 It Isn't because she's female. I know plenty, n I mean PLENTY of men that are MEN n agree with Steve. ( N there are plenty females that disagree).
Of course Steve you are a sellout only cateres to woman and throw guys under. That's why they canceling his show. And women say they want to get treated equally but only when it benefits you.
News flash STEVE!!! Women can’t produce a damn thing without that special sauce.
So wait I’m confused, as a younger man ( 22 ) is Steve saying every man should pay for every date from 1st date onward ? Or strictly just the first date ? I was raised to pay fully on the first date because it’s the gentleman thing to do . But from that point onward I’m honestly unsure how it goes .
I personally appreciate a man to pay every time (so sometimes things aren’t expensive or extravagant as it’s within his means and budget). However, I also have money if he can’t, but I expect him to generally be able to do it.
4SuGloria
Even when y’all are married and it’s your 30th date you still expect him to pay?
Poor husband. Must be yelled at for not being home money to you.
Very sad life if that’s how he lives. An ATM machine for you.
Why would you do this?
Don’t pay if it hits 3rd 4th date unless you really want to.
Just strike up a convo on your to the restaurant like, “so you know we are going out, today I have like this amount of money with me, can we split the bill?”
See what she says. If she gives you that mean look and starts saying “men are providers.” Sorry dear but there’s no way she’ll ever pay for anything.
Pays the first dates, and then she can pay small stuff like deserts or coffees. Don’t forget she has to spend quite a lot of money in waxing (for you), doing her nail etc etc etc
@@sweettagada22 what are you talking about? men have to take care of themselves for women too
Simple first date..no restaurant..no food...go somewhere you can both talk that's free of cost.Or just a cup of coffee.
I have no issue with the first date, but women should pay sometimes, what's the point in fighting for equality and getting jobs if men must always pay...steve you do you but that is not a rule
I agree with you
Jimmy Mac ~ Dating has nothing to do with any equality movement...it's about the man and the woman building a relationship
"He better offer to pay or there won't be a second date😀" Bye then TF LMAO! what am I paying for your time?
Steve is right!!! And you know what ladies? You might get real lucky, you might even wind up at some guys funeral that commited suicide over you because he loved you and payed for everything, just to find out you got bored with him and hooked up with someone else and he couldn't take the pressure. It's not like you owed him anything, so I guess he'd be lucky if you showed up.
You think that doesn't happen, right?
And guys, you better pay up, no if ands or buts. Women can give birth, and thus they can do absolutely no wrong, so pay that bread, it's not like you could possibly be taken advantage of. You better spend all that hard earned cash.
Keep up the good message Steve. Keep shaming young men.
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oh Steve got such a skyrocketing respect for women
Shumete Sam Then why does he keep cheating on his wives????