This is the best love scene I have ever seen in my life. Nothing comes close to these tender, long awaited words and embraces. The actors are truly gifted. The music and cinematography. Everything. It's a masterpiece.
Having survived sexual abuse myself, I think his response to her telling her traumatic experience is the best response a survivor can receive: He validates her pain but does not pity her. Pity towards a survivor is like confirming that we are broken. Simply showing love instead of pity is telling the survivor that what happened did not change who we are. I wish every survivor have a Jang Hyun in their life.
This is what I needed from my mother during my rape at 13, instead of being blamed for it,... And a family member sexually abused me at 5 and she never believed it until that person confessed 3 years ago (I am 32 now) and still, she was letting that person come into our home... Saying I needed to forgive... I also hope people going through this can have someone like this character in their lives... I also hope you are healing every day and knowing it wasn't your fault, and you're not broken. I send you love and light.
Jang Hyun’s love for Gil Chae is so heart warming. He loves her unconditionally. Such a great actor. I sure hope this wonderful drama has a happy ending.
Janghyun raised the standard so high. I have watched many kdramas but his character is just different. Among all the scences, this one is my favourite. Writer-nim gave his all when he wrote JangHyun's character, he is like i will put all the imagination there is and alas he created a "perfect" one. Ofc, Namgoong gave justice to the role and so is Eunjin as Gilchae
Kdramas have come long way from toxic boyfriend tropes to real functional men. Jang Hyun, Yu Ji Hyuk (Marry my husband), and many more new good kdrama male leads are raising the standards.
@@poulomi__hari i haven't watched marry my husband yet( on my list), yes i agree, the childish character that were portrayed before seems to fade away nowadays (there are still some tho) most functional men's role as you call it are often seen in sageuk dramas(there are some that i have seen to be fair). Speaking of kdrama tropes i wish the childhood, first love trope will go away 😁
@@FiveN9ne you are so right abt this, like in every kdrama, wrist grabbing is there. I thought it was "romantic" when i first saw it but it is Super duper over used now it makes me cringe big time.
3:18 I bawled when he said this line. I was really engrossed in the movie, and remembering that all the people that Gil Chae worked hard to return to (her sister and father) that kept questioning whether she really haven’t been touch by any ‘barbarians’ plus the society that kept criticising and said that women should kill themselves if their chastity aren’t kept. when he said his line, i just couldnt held my tears, it felt like i too was consoled by Jang Hyun words. after all the criticisms , and finally someone that acknowledges her pain ❤❤❤❤
I especially love how subtle both actors are in this scene. Even before Gil-chae explicitly says what happened, Jang-hyun reads her eyes and tells her she can tell him but only if she wants to. 1:02 He already knows she went through some trauma but he’s trying to spare her from more so he leaves it up to her to decide whether to tell him or not. Both actors did a fantastic job!!! 👏👏👏I cried so much during this scene. Jang-Hyun is tender and loving. And Gil-chae conveys so much emotion with just her eyes. It’s all too beautiful.
thats so true! Jh is so considerate and understanding, unlike everyone whom keep asking her to clarify, he let her know he donot care, who she is, he only needs GC in his life !
Jang Hyun passes no judgement of Gil Chae's past. Instead, he brings warmth, comfort, and empathy. He professes his love for his beloved Gil Chae, which has been unshakeable from the first time they met. He wants only her and no one else. Gil Chae has succumbed to Jang Hyun affections no matter how she tries to push him away. This was a beautiful scene involving the lead characters.
His loved to Gil Chea can't compare to anything, 👍🥰this scene am looked many times the way he comfort to Gil Chea with warming way ❤❤if can find one like Jang hyun love is the best😊😊
This is my favorite episode , I've been watching this scene over and over again, and it always made me cry, if I was gil chae I would just like lee jaeng Yun to hug me and cry in his arms, ahn eun Jins acting here has taken me to this scene, and min namkoong has became a real dream husband Every wowan longed to have❤❤❤
Thank you Kocowa for the English translation. I don’t understand Korean but Namgoong Min’s acting has been the best I have seen so far. I’m so moved by his deep and unconditional love for Gil Chae. ❤
In this scene, Janghyun finally stopped making jokes, promises to stop leaving. Gilchae finally opens up to her situation and all. Can’t the drama just end here? It must not be a sad ending 😪😪😪.
This part really made me realize how much I had downplayed Gil Chae’s traumas. That must have been so hard specially since even her own father and sister do not cherish her past this stupid belief that the victims should kill themselves. I found myself wishing to hug her. How sad that somewhere out there someone might actually relate to her pain…
I cant watch it bcs i had same situation im still single as girl my bf got married recently after we break up within 3 months .we had 5 years of relation ship and the end 😢😢😢 i cant watch it bcs i can relate to that pain its make me so sad
THAT right there, is all a victim wants to hear. Nothing else. No "you should have done this to prevent yourself", "you should have fought back", "how did you deal with it", "I would have done so in your place".... Just validate our struggles. Understand, empathize and let us feel heard, thats all.
I felt the strength of love from him to her. Nothing is sexier than a man who can save you time after time, who will pick you regardless of what other thinks, when he sincerely loves you nothing can taint your image. And he kicks ass too....only in movies lol
Unlike her ex husband, Janghyun embrace her when she told him about the intruder. She was right for divorcing her husband that technically not so true to her after all. Hats off to these beautiful characters. I wish for a beautiful ending too. Just don’t tell me Gilchae gonna die because of Janghyun’s problematic issue with Qing & Joseon. We all know before he came back to Joseon, he made a promise with that annoying Princess Gakhwa to stay by her side (without knowing Gilchae already get divorced). That obsessive Princess not gonna take this thing lightly. Another war outbreak maybe?
He seems confident that he will end things with the princess. I believe it’ll be something like let me go or kill me now for I cannot be with you when my destiny is with Gil Chae.
Jang Hyun make me realised, I'm living on the wrong way ... Cuz I never saw a man like Him ... When he said "You are all I need" "You still don't know how I feel" "Then I should give you a hug for it must have been PAINFUL" ... Where can I find a man like him???
مسلسل رائع بكل المقاييس أحداثا وموسيقى وتمثيل ، لكن السيناريو فعلا عظيم ، كلامو يدخل القلب مباشرة ، ويشبع جميع انتظارات المشاهد ، اتمنى يستمر بنفس المستوى ❤
This masterpiece is so meaningful to me that I think that if I lost my memories like the male protagonist, its healing lines and meaningful scenes would still make me happy and waiting, I will never forget the drama called "My Dearest". Just like how the male protagonist forgets his lover's face but still remembers her simple wishes and fulfills and waits for a person named Gilchae with a laugh like the sound of flowers blooming. It's beautiful, beautiful forever. The year 2023 ends warmly and happily thanks to you, "My Dearest". This is a drama that contains many healing and humane messages. You must watch it once, and I believe you will hardly forget it. This is the top 1 Kdrama that I rewatched a thousand times.
How i cried watching this scene...I know there are alot of women who experienced being A.S and it hurts.I hope you all get to see this seen and know someone out there will love you for you and that you are important,special and loved
JH said to Ryang eum that he can die for him but he want to live for GC meaning before he met GC he dosen't care about life or death, GC is the reason why he lives , she is his life, that's how much he loves her. 😢
Haven't watched this show yet but this scene is so beautiful. Wow ! (Ps: I know I just spoiled myself the whole thing but stunning people in love always have the best of me😅😅)
The bible said that a man should treat their women just like they would themselves. They dont miss treat themselves, they love themselves and make sure their needs are meet, so they should treat the women the same. So he is practicing what it really means to love.
Él demostró que la ama sin importar nada y aunque le faltara un brazo o una pierna la amaria con la misma intensidad ❤ no como su esposo que a la primera la cambio por otra y la desprecio
The ultimate green flag is Jang Hyun; my man asked for her consent to kiss her; after she told him about Qing. Is it too much god to ask for this mythical man to become a reality and be loved by him? Anyways I am so in love with him.
Os dois se sacrificam tanto pelo amor deles, é tudo muito sofrido e difícil pra eles. Muitos obstáculos que eles ultrapassam. Espero que eles tenham o final que merecem, que fiquem juntos ❤ dói o coração ver tantos desencontros 😢
O final desta série não é ruim, mas este momento vale mais que o final. Melhor momento da série! O momento em que ela conta sobre o abuso sofrido e que ele a abraça, valida a dor dela e diz pra ela que isso não muda o que ela é e nem o quanto ela é importante pra ele. Nos dias atuais ainda existe o costume de culpar a própria vítima de abuso sexual pela violência sofrida. Toda pessoa que passou por essa experiência traumática merece esse tipo de acolhimento não é? Quem escreveu esse roteiro teve muita delicadeza ao escrever essa cena. Fiquei encantada com o momento!
Qué amor más hermoso... Existe, existió o existirá alguien que haya amado así incondicionalmente, sin importar nada ? Espero que tengan un final feliz, realmente es lo único que me consolaria... Definitivamente un drama hermoso con grandes actores, han transmitido la esencia del libreto de una manera extraordinaria.
"Aku akan memelukmu, pasti kamu sangat terluka. Kamu pasti merasa kesakitan.. Pasti sangat berat bagimu.. Sekarang sudah berakhir. Aku akan selalu ada di sampingmu..." Kata-kata yang membuat ku ikut menangis..
son mi pareja favorita por mucho amo sus actuaciones Jang Hyun, Gil Chae, el la ama tanto ahora no tiene obstáculo para amar han pasado por mucho Gil Chae, necesito un final feliz para ellos dos por favor!!😭❤en todos los episodios e llorado es un drama espectacular el mejor del año❤❤👑
is this kind of man even existed? he declined gold and riches and a royal status by marrying Emperor's most beloved daughter to live in simplicity with the divorced love of his life
How can someone love so hard? No matter how I think about it, I don't think a human like him would exist. At least not in this generation. Everyone would want to be loved by someone like him but at the same time could not give the kind of love that Jang Hyeon have. Jang Hyeon-ah, did you just f*ucked-up with my entire being now? Haha i think you triggered something in me. My mind is so messed up right now because of the principles of a human who does not even exist.
So is she really taken advantage of by the foreign intruder? And NO i won't talk about her chastity. what i want to talk about is; since there was no hint of such a thing happened most people thought she just stay silent about it because no one not even her own blood family "trust" her and instead made a fuss about it. Even when she tell JH i thought she said it just to see his reaction/make him go away cuz she kinda expected his reaction to be like everyone else.. just like when JH said he hurt his leg everyone thought it was a fun lie but he actually looks painful afterward
I think there were plenty of hints that something happened. The fact she was thrown in the room with all those men. She later is thrown back in the jail cell bc she bite the guy’s ear off? You have to think that she had to have been awfully close to the man for something like that to happen. And unlikely that in this period such an incident the would have just meant she fought off a bunch of men. The more realistic scenario is she would have been killed for fighting back. I don’t think she was trying to scare Jang Hyun off. She cares for him and wanted to be honest with him about what type of scrutiny he would endure if he was with her. Throughout this entire episode there were various scenes where townsfolk and other people judged her for what she endured. I’m certain that eventually wore her down. No matter how much she tried to hide her own grief and ignore her pain, she finally felt she could be honest with Jang Hyun and confide in him.
i think she really was. I mean, I know she ripped off that intruder ear, but before it happens she spent hours with him, so I believe it’s very unlikely that anything happened..
@@BerryTerry2014 i see.. that's a very interesting point.. the ear bite i thought happened when he tried to get close to her and therefore nothing happened yet (y'know like how she hurt herself just so she won't be presented to the Qing's Emperor or like what happened to Jongjong when Gujam saved her). And the way she tells him about it makes me think she does want to see if Janghyun would've had the same reaction like Gu Wonmu or her family, and she caught off guard by his answer it's clearly shown on her face the shock the relieve the pain all of it (damn Ahn Eunjin is really great actress to able to convey those emotions all at once), and that those word is what she needed & wanted to hear the most..
@@vanada116 I wondered if she had fought off the guy too…and my conclusion is she did fight but that doesn’t mean he didn’t have his way with her before tossing her back. (I see it almost like a horrible “let me get my money’s worth but also give me a partial refund because she bit my ear.” :/) I totally agree that she wanted to see how Jang-hyun would react because poor girl has so far been socially ostracized by everyone! IF he did reject her, it wouldn’t have been unexpected culturally. In this era women were expected to take their lives rather than bring shame upon their families. It’s why she leaves her family whom she loves so much (she doesn’t want to put them through that communal shame). I think the writers purposely kept things vague about what happened to keep us guessing but Gil-chae’s tears to me show she’s finally able to confront her trauma with Jang-hyun because it was *safe* for her to do so. In another comment I wrote how I love that he told her she didn’t need to tell him what happened in Qing (about the 1 min mark) but she can if she wants to. To me, he was letting her know she was in a safe space to be honest and not talk about it if it was too painful because he didn’t care either way. In a subtle way, he also let her know if she did talk, she did not need to put up the brave face she had shown everyone else. I DO, however, wish the writer had given us more glimpses into her inner monologue about this before this episode. But, I think that everything has been going so fast she probably didn’t even want to think about what happened herself. Who would? As to the details of what *exactly* happened with the barbarians…I think that’s irrelevant at this point because it all amounted to horrible trauma and I don’t think more details are needed to validate that. Plus, this is a broadcast drama in Korea so there are limits to what they can show/discuss.
When she was sold the second time, (after she was kicked out of the palace) she was thrown in a den of 4-5 men. She endured it for the whole night until she managed to smash her slaver in the head and she was thrown back again at the slave market. So they didn't show the graphic voilence but that one night must have been way more horrifying then we could imagine. And moreover, there were times when she let that creepy man grope her for a bribe. She endured a lot of traumas but kudos to her, she did not let anything break her. She had a very progressive mindset for her era which is why Jang Hyun was so attracted to her. Any other woman (for example her best friend) would have considered this as a taint but Gil Chae never saw it like that. She was assaulted several times but she knew it was not her fault.
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"Whatever you are, you are all I need" - these are the words every woman wants to hear from the man.
This is the best love scene I have ever seen in my life. Nothing comes close to these tender, long awaited words and embraces. The actors are truly gifted. The music and cinematography. Everything. It's a masterpiece.
Couldn't agree more❤
Having survived sexual abuse myself, I think his response to her telling her traumatic experience is the best response a survivor can receive: He validates her pain but does not pity her. Pity towards a survivor is like confirming that we are broken. Simply showing love instead of pity is telling the survivor that what happened did not change who we are. I wish every survivor have a Jang Hyun in their life.
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This is what I needed from my mother during my rape at 13, instead of being blamed for it,... And a family member sexually abused me at 5 and she never believed it until that person confessed 3 years ago (I am 32 now) and still, she was letting that person come into our home... Saying I needed to forgive... I also hope people going through this can have someone like this character in their lives... I also hope you are healing every day and knowing it wasn't your fault, and you're not broken. I send you love and light.
@@violettaazul 🙏♥️💯
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Wish she realized how much he felt and love . She’s a dimwit.
Jang Hyun’s love for Gil Chae is so heart warming. He loves her unconditionally. Such a great actor. I sure hope this wonderful drama has a happy ending.
Yes, I agggrreeee ❤
ما اعتقد النهايه سعيده بسبب الحلقه لاولى
Eso espero también ❤
Janghyun raised the standard so high. I have watched many kdramas but his character is just different. Among all the scences, this one is my favourite. Writer-nim gave his all when he wrote JangHyun's character, he is like i will put all the imagination there is and alas he created a "perfect" one. Ofc, Namgoong gave justice to the role and so is Eunjin as Gilchae
Kdramas have come long way from toxic boyfriend tropes to real functional men. Jang Hyun, Yu Ji Hyuk (Marry my husband), and many more new good kdrama male leads are raising the standards.
@@poulomi__hari i haven't watched marry my husband yet( on my list), yes i agree, the childish character that were portrayed before seems to fade away nowadays (there are still some tho) most functional men's role as you call it are often seen in sageuk dramas(there are some that i have seen to be fair).
Speaking of kdrama tropes i wish the childhood, first love trope will go away 😁
@@jaeden126 I personally dislike the wrist grab pull back. It's so overused and cliche, aggressively uncomfortable too.
@@FiveN9ne you are so right abt this, like in every kdrama, wrist grabbing is there. I thought it was "romantic" when i first saw it but it is Super duper over used now it makes me cringe big time.
Check out captivating ht e king I feel like the king matched this energy of love too.
3:18 I bawled when he said this line. I was really engrossed in the movie, and remembering that all the people that Gil Chae worked hard to return to (her sister and father) that kept questioning whether she really haven’t been touch by any ‘barbarians’ plus the society that kept criticising and said that women should kill themselves if their chastity aren’t kept. when he said his line, i just couldnt held my tears, it felt like i too was consoled by Jang Hyun words. after all the criticisms , and finally someone that acknowledges her pain ❤❤❤❤
I especially love how subtle both actors are in this scene. Even before Gil-chae explicitly says what happened, Jang-hyun reads her eyes and tells her she can tell him but only if she wants to. 1:02 He already knows she went through some trauma but he’s trying to spare her from more so he leaves it up to her to decide whether to tell him or not.
Both actors did a fantastic job!!! 👏👏👏I cried so much during this scene. Jang-Hyun is tender and loving. And Gil-chae conveys so much emotion with just her eyes. It’s all too beautiful.
thats so true! Jh is so considerate and understanding, unlike everyone whom keep asking her to clarify, he let her know he donot care, who she is, he only needs GC in his life !
Their acting skill just brilliant
Jang Hyun passes no judgement of Gil Chae's past. Instead, he brings warmth, comfort, and empathy. He professes his love for his beloved Gil Chae, which has been unshakeable from the first time they met. He wants only her and no one else. Gil Chae has succumbed to Jang Hyun affections no matter how she tries to push him away. This was a beautiful scene involving the lead characters.
His loved to Gil Chea can't compare to anything, 👍🥰this scene am looked many times the way he comfort to Gil Chea with warming way ❤❤if can find one like Jang hyun love is the best😊😊
Beautiful scene. Excellent eye contact. Watched it a few times. Beautiful dialogue. Loving this series ❤
It is a mature mans response...
How did Jung Hyun's character came in writer's mind?! Such a dedicated lover he is❤ 😢😢
Best scene of the whole entire series. ❤ I need a Jang Hyeon in my life 😅
This is my favorite episode , I've been watching this scene over and over again, and it always made me cry, if I was gil chae I would just like lee jaeng Yun to hug me and cry in his arms, ahn eun Jins acting here has taken me to this scene, and min namkoong has became a real dream husband Every wowan longed to have❤❤❤
Thank you Kocowa for the English translation. I don’t understand Korean but Namgoong Min’s acting has been the best I have seen so far. I’m so moved by his deep and unconditional love for Gil Chae. ❤
This is what you call a true man!!! His words brought her so much comfort and showed how much he loved her!! ❤❤❤😢😢❤❤
In this scene, Janghyun finally stopped making jokes, promises to stop leaving.
Gilchae finally opens up to her situation and all.
Can’t the drama just end here?
It must not be a sad ending 😪😪😪.
This part really made me realize how much I had downplayed Gil Chae’s traumas. That must have been so hard specially since even her own father and sister do not cherish her past this stupid belief that the victims should kill themselves. I found myself wishing to hug her. How sad that somewhere out there someone might actually relate to her pain…
pity all these women!
This comment of yours deserves an award. My Girl Gilchae went through a lot.😭😭😭
I cant watch it bcs i had same situation im still single as girl my bf got married recently after we break up within 3 months .we had 5 years of relation ship and the end 😢😢😢 i cant watch it bcs i can relate to that pain its make me so sad
@@kanchanasadareka3856😢😢😢
What a man! That's a real man! That's the kind of man all women dream and wish to have as theirs. He is everything!
this is the type of man 99% women in 2024 will cheat on .only men can relate
THAT right there, is all a victim wants to hear. Nothing else. No "you should have done this to prevent yourself", "you should have fought back", "how did you deal with it", "I would have done so in your place"....
Just validate our struggles. Understand, empathize and let us feel heard, thats all.
The way The painted on the moonlight come in right when he hugged her is wow! so powerful 🥹
Jang Hyun love her with her fault. One of the best scene ever. The script are very well written. Really love this drama.. they deserved an award.
But damn that hug is the most powerful hug ever
I have watched this scene many times and every time I watch it, I still cry. I love them both so much.
I felt the strength of love from him to her. Nothing is sexier than a man who can save you time after time, who will pick you regardless of what other thinks, when he sincerely loves you nothing can taint your image. And he kicks ass too....only in movies lol
Unlike her ex husband, Janghyun embrace her when she told him about the intruder. She was right for divorcing her husband that technically not so true to her after all. Hats off to these beautiful characters. I wish for a beautiful ending too. Just don’t tell me Gilchae gonna die because of Janghyun’s problematic issue with Qing & Joseon. We all know before he came back to Joseon, he made a promise with that annoying Princess Gakhwa to stay by her side (without knowing Gilchae already get divorced). That obsessive Princess not gonna take this thing lightly. Another war outbreak maybe?
the princess is very draining our JH GC love!
He seems confident that he will end things with the princess. I believe it’ll be something like let me go or kill me now for I cannot be with you when my destiny is with Gil Chae.
I am obsessed with this drama, this made me love historical drama
Namkoong Min + Ahn Eun Jin... 😭😭😭😍😍😍! Their performance... and this story.
I love this scene very much.. I love janghyun confess his unconditional love to gilchae. Even if gilchae get away from him.
Jang Hyun is the man all women wanted😂....caring and understandable 😢
Jang Hyun make me realised, I'm living on the wrong way ... Cuz I never saw a man like Him ... When he said "You are all I need" "You still don't know how I feel" "Then I should give you a hug for it must have been PAINFUL" ... Where can I find a man like him???
Jang Hyun was way ahead of his time. His love is so beautiful, Gil Chae had to be the luckiest woman.
مسلسل رائع بكل المقاييس أحداثا وموسيقى وتمثيل ، لكن السيناريو فعلا عظيم ، كلامو يدخل القلب مباشرة ، ويشبع جميع انتظارات المشاهد ، اتمنى يستمر بنفس المستوى ❤
It's taken 17 episodes to get here. Worth the wait.
I love the way he's so in love with her
This masterpiece is so meaningful to me that I think that if I lost my memories like the male protagonist, its healing lines and meaningful scenes would still make me happy and waiting, I will never forget the drama called "My Dearest".
Just like how the male protagonist forgets his lover's face but still remembers her simple wishes and fulfills and waits for a person named Gilchae with a laugh like the sound of flowers blooming.
It's beautiful, beautiful forever.
The year 2023 ends warmly and happily thanks to you, "My Dearest".
This is a drama that contains many healing and humane messages. You must watch it once, and I believe you will hardly forget it.
This is the top 1 Kdrama that I rewatched a thousand times.
I didn't watch any episodes after this, this was my happy ending.
Why? They got happy ending tho😊 They literally slept together after this scene(the beginning of epi 18)
Lee jang hyun, will imprint in my heart for a loooooonggggggggg time. Amagad.
After watching episode 19 I'm overwhelmed. Main cast played its role beautifully and I'm a fan. Fighting!! Cheers all the way from Hawaii 🫶
Ughhhhh this man!!!!! 😭 he deserved the best actors award 🔥
Best scene and script , i need JH in my life too.
I love that he ask her permission before kissing her.
How i cried watching this scene...I know there are alot of women who experienced being A.S and it hurts.I hope you all get to see this seen and know someone out there will love you for you and that you are important,special and loved
This Love declaration is the most beautiful one a woman can hear ❤
Jang Hyun es un hombre tan hermoso en todos los aspectos, el ama demasiado a Gil Chae, en verdad quiero que tengan un final feliz se lo merecen 😭💗
then i must hug you for it must have been painful, man what a beautiful and healing scene
JH said to Ryang eum that he can die for him but he want to live for GC meaning before he met GC he dosen't care about life or death, GC is the reason why he lives , she is his life, that's how much he loves her. 😢
So sweet so comforting, this is truly ❤
Let me tell u hes not a green flag… hes a green forest… where can i find a man like lee janghyun 😭😭😭
I Can’t EVEN… get enough of this Love Story!!! 💔❤️🩹♥️. An ABSOLUTE Korean Treasure!!! 🫶🌈💫
With Much Love… from Boston 🇺🇸
The best & beautiful love scene between the two ❤
I hope the 2 actors will be making the modern day drama together ❤️
My heart breaks for everything she represents ❤
One of thee best most romantic deepest scene EVER. Will always remember this❤
Haven't watched this show yet but this scene is so beautiful. Wow ! (Ps: I know I just spoiled myself the whole thing but stunning people in love always have the best of me😅😅)
Namkoong Min and Ahn Eun Jin: Super acting.
The bible said that a man should treat their women just like they would themselves. They dont miss treat themselves, they love themselves and make sure their needs are meet, so they should treat the women the same. So he is practicing what it really means to love.
I hope men will watch n learn to be romantic tender loving n kind like Jang hyun😊
in 2024 men who act like this will be cheated on 99% of the time (in the states tou ) idk about other countries
Él demostró que la ama sin importar nada y aunque le faltara un brazo o una pierna la amaria con la misma intensidad ❤ no como su esposo que a la primera la cambio por otra y la desprecio
He raised my standards for man so high 😊
This is probably one of the best kdrama scene ever
The ultimate green flag is Jang Hyun; my man asked for her consent to kiss her; after she told him about Qing. Is it too much god to ask for this mythical man to become a reality and be loved by him? Anyways I am so in love with him.
Yes, it's to much, just enjoy whatever u have right now. It's better than nothing 😂
This two finished me with emotions on this drama 😢😩
Such great acting from both of them ! Well deserved baeksang awards for an actor in series ! ❤ well deserved award for best series of 2023!
I rewatch this scene and i cry alot again if I watch this scene 100 time also i will cry 😢
Cried so hard during this scene
What a sensitive man is the writer that wrote this beautiful dialogo
Os dois se sacrificam tanto pelo amor deles, é tudo muito sofrido e difícil pra eles. Muitos obstáculos que eles ultrapassam. Espero que eles tenham o final que merecem, que fiquem juntos ❤ dói o coração ver tantos desencontros 😢
O final desta série não é ruim, mas este momento vale mais que o final. Melhor momento da série! O momento em que ela conta sobre o abuso sofrido e que ele a abraça, valida a dor dela e diz pra ela que isso não muda o que ela é e nem o quanto ela é importante pra ele. Nos dias atuais ainda existe o costume de culpar a própria vítima de abuso sexual pela violência sofrida. Toda pessoa que passou por essa experiência traumática merece esse tipo de acolhimento não é? Quem escreveu esse roteiro teve muita delicadeza ao escrever essa cena. Fiquei encantada com o momento!
I haven't watched this drama yet but only this scene made me cry, definitely adding to my watch list
Don't miss it. My Dearest is one of the best out of 500+ Kdramas I've seen in 12 yrs.
Watch this in slow-mo 0.75x the music and acting is perfect😥😭💔❤️😘💯
Qué amor más hermoso... Existe, existió o existirá alguien que haya amado así incondicionalmente, sin importar nada ? Espero que tengan un final feliz, realmente es lo único que me consolaria... Definitivamente un drama hermoso con grandes actores, han transmitido la esencia del libreto de una manera extraordinaria.
This man has an angel heart
"Aku akan memelukmu, pasti kamu sangat terluka. Kamu pasti merasa kesakitan.. Pasti sangat berat bagimu.. Sekarang sudah berakhir. Aku akan selalu ada di sampingmu..." Kata-kata yang membuat ku ikut menangis..
She will always be Mina to me. I loved her role on Hospital Playlist.
son mi pareja favorita por mucho amo sus actuaciones Jang Hyun, Gil Chae, el la ama tanto ahora no tiene obstáculo para amar han pasado por mucho Gil Chae, necesito un final feliz para ellos dos por favor!!😭❤en todos los episodios e llorado es un drama espectacular el mejor del año❤❤👑
Une des meilleures séries drama que j’ai vu ❤❤❤❤❤❤
best beautiful scene..
The moment i first saw you . I just knew that i had never once wanted someone else other than you😭
This is the best scene 💔😭💔
a whole new love at first sight ❤
❤❤❤ Älskar serien ,hoppas det blir ett lyckligt slut ❤
Oh, what a beautiful Hug ... and why they had to cut it here? 😊 ❤ 👍
The best Kdrama
Gimme man like jang hyun 😭
How will I get married now that I have raised my standards for marriage?
is this kind of man even existed? he declined gold and riches and a royal status by marrying Emperor's most beloved daughter to live in simplicity with the divorced love of his life
Công chúa đó chỉ coi anh ta như món đồ chơi thôi, làm sao có đám cưới được
Yes they do... only in a woman's fantasy
Most beautiful scene
How can someone love so hard? No matter how I think about it, I don't think a human like him would exist. At least not in this generation.
Everyone would want to be loved by someone like him but at the same time could not give the kind of love that Jang Hyeon have.
Jang Hyeon-ah, did you just f*ucked-up with my entire being now? Haha i think you triggered something in me. My mind is so messed up right now because of the principles of a human who does not even exist.
The best part for me..
Happy ending, please!!!😢😭
3 more episodes left. I hope, its happy ending.
Men written by women❤❤❤
Can i get someone who would love me like that?
ONLY 1 EP THIS WEEK :(
Current obsession....
ฉันว่าดนตรี เสียงเพลงก็มีส่วนสำคัญในการเดินเรื่องมาก เพลงเพราะมาก
Ce drama a l'air super dommage qu'il n'y ait pas de sous-titres en Français .
متى عرض الحلقه 19؟
Nov. 10 & 11 …
Sooo romantic 😗🥲😪😥😢😭😭😭
Non sembra anche a voi che ci siano pause troppo lunghe?
So is she really taken advantage of by the foreign intruder? And NO i won't talk about her chastity. what i want to talk about is; since there was no hint of such a thing happened most people thought she just stay silent about it because no one not even her own blood family "trust" her and instead made a fuss about it. Even when she tell JH i thought she said it just to see his reaction/make him go away cuz she kinda expected his reaction to be like everyone else.. just like when JH said he hurt his leg everyone thought it was a fun lie but he actually looks painful afterward
I think there were plenty of hints that something happened. The fact she was thrown in the room with all those men. She later is thrown back in the jail cell bc she bite the guy’s ear off? You have to think that she had to have been awfully close to the man for something like that to happen. And unlikely that in this period such an incident the would have just meant she fought off a bunch of men. The more realistic scenario is she would have been killed for fighting back. I don’t think she was trying to scare Jang Hyun off. She cares for him and wanted to be honest with him about what type of scrutiny he would endure if he was with her. Throughout this entire episode there were various scenes where townsfolk and other people judged her for what she endured. I’m certain that eventually wore her down. No matter how much she tried to hide her own grief and ignore her pain, she finally felt she could be honest with Jang Hyun and confide in him.
i think she really was. I mean, I know she ripped off that intruder ear, but before it happens she spent hours with him, so I believe it’s very unlikely that anything happened..
@@BerryTerry2014 i see.. that's a very interesting point.. the ear bite i thought happened when he tried to get close to her and therefore nothing happened yet (y'know like how she hurt herself just so she won't be presented to the Qing's Emperor or like what happened to Jongjong when Gujam saved her). And the way she tells him about it makes me think she does want to see if Janghyun would've had the same reaction like Gu Wonmu or her family, and she caught off guard by his answer it's clearly shown on her face the shock the relieve the pain all of it (damn Ahn Eunjin is really great actress to able to convey those emotions all at once), and that those word is what she needed & wanted to hear the most..
@@vanada116 I wondered if she had fought off the guy too…and my conclusion is she did fight but that doesn’t mean he didn’t have his way with her before tossing her back. (I see it almost like a horrible “let me get my money’s worth but also give me a partial refund because she bit my ear.” :/)
I totally agree that she wanted to see how Jang-hyun would react because poor girl has so far been socially ostracized by everyone! IF he did reject her, it wouldn’t have been unexpected culturally. In this era women were expected to take their lives rather than bring shame upon their families. It’s why she leaves her family whom she loves so much (she doesn’t want to put them through that communal shame).
I think the writers purposely kept things vague about what happened to keep us guessing but Gil-chae’s tears to me show she’s finally able to confront her trauma with Jang-hyun because it was *safe* for her to do so.
In another comment I wrote how I love that he told her she didn’t need to tell him what happened in Qing (about the 1 min mark) but she can if she wants to. To me, he was letting her know she was in a safe space to be honest and not talk about it if it was too painful because he didn’t care either way. In a subtle way, he also let her know if she did talk, she did not need to put up the brave face she had shown everyone else.
I DO, however, wish the writer had given us more glimpses into her inner monologue about this before this episode. But, I think that everything has been going so fast she probably didn’t even want to think about what happened herself. Who would?
As to the details of what *exactly* happened with the barbarians…I think that’s irrelevant at this point because it all amounted to horrible trauma and I don’t think more details are needed to validate that. Plus, this is a broadcast drama in Korea so there are limits to what they can show/discuss.
When she was sold the second time, (after she was kicked out of the palace) she was thrown in a den of 4-5 men. She endured it for the whole night until she managed to smash her slaver in the head and she was thrown back again at the slave market. So they didn't show the graphic voilence but that one night must have been way more horrifying then we could imagine. And moreover, there were times when she let that creepy man grope her for a bribe. She endured a lot of traumas but kudos to her, she did not let anything break her. She had a very progressive mindset for her era which is why Jang Hyun was so attracted to her. Any other woman (for example her best friend) would have considered this as a taint but Gil Chae never saw it like that. She was assaulted several times but she knew it was not her fault.
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