I have feelings of inadequacy all the time, with people with my self, with love. It's horrible to feel like you are not good enough for people, and it's worst to feel that you will never be. But we all go through that.
For me it is kinda hard to even look T people in the eye for long periods it’s like they are looking into my soul and I start to panic is that weird anything I can do any advice you can give?
I had been in this sate for many years and still go through it some times today also but one thing I realized is once you start to accept yourself the way you are, this feeling starts to go away very slowly. we don't know how to handle this so just face the situation. Don't think what others are thinking about you, because you cannot satisfy everyone / cannot be better than everyone around you. This is my personal experience :)
@@amnesia998 same. There isn't no generalization based on what you have experienced. People have different callings and they respond to that accordingly.
I seek contentment in my heart. I won’t try anymore to make everything perfect for everyone else. I need to tend to my own needs, desires, & pain. I need something more than this never ending insignificance.
Sadhaguru your this series Youth and Truth gave me two pictures ... 1) our order generation done so much good thing and youth ignoring this........ 2) Youth is such a dilemma because want to get all things according to self only not even try to understand the facts ..........and confused in what to do what to not..... But Sadhaguru 🙏 now I can say your work will definitely makes the big differences.... Thank You sadhaguru to take this step for us...
The universe is confined to a series of things that revolve around things bigger than it; we are no different - orient yourself around something bigger than you.
We all are inadequate in someway or the other and will always be... instead of fighting with it, learn to accept it and work on it if you want to (totally your choice).. if you keep feeling inadequate, you would always try to prove yourself to others and will be in constant misery. Change your focus to humility from validation and you will be instantly happier than the rest of the world!
In other words, may your dreams be so grand and beautiful that they run the risk of not even being fulfilled within your own lifetime - and whilst you are working towards it, may you be secure enough in yourself and love yourself enough to be blissful in spite of the fact that you may never see your dreams come to fruition. That's true self esteem. Needing so little that you can work toward a goal of which you can't even see the finish line.
I sometimes don't get what you you guys get out of this guy. He basically just told you guys that you will not ever be enough and just be blissed out about it. I guess ignorance is bliss' While my father has told me that I am enough simply because I AM. Though this world will instill limiting beliefs/lies into you in all kinds of way so I think this can be apart of the problem when we deify people on this earth' but I say if you feel good and secure with this truth than so be it but this is coming from the guy who doesn't believe in the phenomenon of selflove and says we only love others smh when self love/compassion is something that's used in psychology to help combat most people's negative self talk which is literally self hate. Anyway to each his own and remember to go inside yourself...peace
உலக மக்கள் அனைவரும் அன்பு ,அமைதி , ஆரோக்கியம்மாக வாழவைக்க உங்கலால் முடியும் .இதை மக்கள் ளிடம் சேர்க்க ஒட்டு மொத்த உலக அரசியல் தலைவர்கள் மற்றும் ஓட்டு மொத்த உள்ளுர் அரசியல் தலைவர்கள் மற்றும் மதவேறுபாடு இல்லாமல் மனிதன் என்ற உணர்வோடு உலக மக்கள் அனைவரும் உன்மையாக 100 சதவிகிதம் முயற்சித்தால் ஒரே நொடியே போதும்மே உங்கள்ளுக்கு குருவே .
My God. The World still has not learned from Kyabje’s teachings about Success and Failure. Celebrities. Politicians. Millionaires. Anthony Bourdain. Robin Williams. Kate Spade. 🙏
Es que te tiene que arder el corazón sí o sí. (No puedo pensar otra cosa pq lo comprendo que es lo más probable por las circunstancias... Así que disfrútalo 😘) ¿Sabes? Esta mañana me he despertado y lo primero que he pensado es con "a ver qué me saldrías" que seguramente ya no sabrías qué comentar... No me equivoqué y te quiero. Esto debería más que bastar.
Supongo que todo está supeditado al nivel de consciencia de uno mismo. ¿Dime que no la hemos ampliado y ampliado y ampliado... a nivel mundial? Y sí: Tú mucho más que yo 😘
it is so obvious that those young people did not like that answer!! 😝 but, as one blissful loser to another, thank you for sharing the message, sadhguru! ☺️
As sadhguru says, it ok to be failure if u had a great vision. But atleast had achieved 15% of his goals. So just image how much he thought of achieving. For a common dream of fulfilling his goals of buying house where in real he face the failure of making the ends meet . Is in it . Spoils whole life meaning less.
I hate my face. At least my eyes. They look sunken and my eyelids are droopy. They feel dry and tired all the time. How come I can’t change my own body? Then I will never know anything about universe if I can’t even control my own body
Then meditate. To know that you are enough you must reach the knowing that you are god itself. Nothing else will make you enough. Not even fame because famous people are committing suicide
I have feelings of inadequacy all the time, with people with my self, with love. It's horrible to feel like you are not good enough for people, and it's worst to feel that you will never be. But we all go through that.
That's why I have 2 dogs. To them, I am perfect, and all I ask is to be the person they think I am :-)
Blanca Rosas You've just described exactly how I have felt all my life... It is really painful living in a state of anxiety
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For me it is kinda hard to even look T people in the eye for long periods it’s like they are looking into my soul and I start to panic is that weird anything I can do any advice you can give?
I had been in this sate for many years and still go through it some times today also but one thing I realized is once you start to accept yourself the way you are, this feeling starts to go away very slowly. we don't know how to handle this so just face the situation. Don't think what others are thinking about you, because you cannot satisfy everyone / cannot be better than everyone around you. This is my personal experience :)
The idea that we need someone or something to complete ourselves is a myth. We're complete just by ourselves !
What if we don't feel that way?
@@PratikSingh-r1h Look up information on what are called Mahavakyas "Aham Brahmasvi" and "Tat Tvam Asi". Remind yourself of the Mahavakyas constantly.
Maybe you are. Alone, I will not be able to push through. My time is counting down.
@@amnesia998 same. There isn't no generalization based on what you have experienced. People have different callings and they respond to that accordingly.
But we aren’t strong without
blissed out failure and not a misurable success. . . . . 👏👏👏👏
its all about perception and acceptance.
The highest place you can be in this life is to be independant of other peoples opnion about you.💗
Oh yeah!
Good
Well said!!
So true. There is so much freedom there!
Woww..... Golden words
Every time i heard him giving his speech, a smile came to my face. The way he describes everything in a very simple words, he makes life at ease.
Failure is a great vision if u can see the truth. Some people look like they succeed but they failed to see the truth (miserable success)
My sis says to me , " are you just ganna sit there ?" I said "Yes , yes I am. LoL blissed out failure. Not a miserable success.
3:25 seems so simple but that mindset alone is so life changing to those who feel inadequate in life.
I seek contentment in my heart. I won’t try anymore to make everything perfect for everyone else. I need to tend to my own needs, desires, & pain. I need something more than this never ending insignificance.
" success means u stop " ~ Sadhguru 🙏😭 thank u Sadhguru love u man lol thats freakin beautiful.. greet death as an old fren..
Was feeling pretty down. Thanks for this
Inspiring man... thankyou for your work sadghuru !!
Sadhaguru your this series Youth and Truth gave me two pictures ...
1) our order generation done so much good thing and youth ignoring this........
2) Youth is such a dilemma because want to get all things according to self only not even try to understand the facts ..........and confused in what to do what to not.....
But
Sadhaguru 🙏 now I can say your work will definitely makes the big differences.... Thank You sadhaguru to take this step for us...
@Yogi adityanath news older he meant I'm sure
The universe is confined to a series of things that revolve around things bigger than it; we are no different - orient yourself around something bigger than you.
We all are inadequate in someway or the other and will always be... instead of fighting with it, learn to accept it and work on it if you want to (totally your choice).. if you keep feeling inadequate, you would always try to prove yourself to others and will be in constant misery. Change your focus to humility from validation and you will be instantly happier than the rest of the world!
My inferiority complex is I believe a woman can do much better than me.When I get rejected it reinforces my belief.
No one can be everything, everyone is always something and important. Ignorance is causes of all conflicts.
You make the complex feel achievable!
Thank you for all your confirmation!! I'm so glad I found Sadhguru.. I truly resonate..
Love You Sadhguru
I Truly Appreciate The Way You
Elaborate Inadequacy
Lots of Clarity
Lots of Love and Gratitude
To You
Great question ! !
Never thought of looking at shame from that angle!
Thanks for sharing this video!
In other words, may your dreams be so grand and beautiful that they run the risk of not even being fulfilled within your own lifetime - and whilst you are working towards it, may you be secure enough in yourself and love yourself enough to be blissful in spite of the fact that you may never see your dreams come to fruition. That's true self esteem. Needing so little that you can work toward a goal of which you can't even see the finish line.
I admire & respect this man so much. Immense wisdom
The questionnaire girl is so cute..😁
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No one is really good enuff, Great vision
Sadhguru
That helped. Thank you
Please do a youth and truth at some medical colleges also
Everyone just need to have a perfect mentore in life
Be a blissful failure, not a miserable success.🌿🐘🎯🌛🌴
Thanks Sadhguru. 24 October 2022.🍁🎯🎁🤠👍💖🐧🌼
We are never really good enough but a lot of people are still much better off than others
..... Really your explanation or judgement is peerless...🙏🙏🙏... generally common people like myself you are tremendous source of divine feelings 🙏💕💞
Very meaningful topic! Thanks a lot for sharing! Namo namaha!
My life every question come here to end when I search perception of sadhguru.
so good to listen you Sir
Slowly we are realising that we gotta do what we love the most and keep off attachments . And my days are numbered 'Death' Make the most out of it.
just love it !! Thank you !!!
I sometimes don't get what you you guys get out of this guy. He basically just told you guys that you will not ever be enough and just be blissed out about it. I guess ignorance is bliss' While my father has told me that I am enough simply because I AM. Though this world will instill limiting beliefs/lies into you in all kinds of way so I think this can be apart of the problem when we deify people on this earth' but I say if you feel good and secure with this truth than so be it but this is coming from the guy who doesn't believe in the phenomenon of selflove and says we only love others smh when self love/compassion is something that's used in psychology to help combat most people's negative self talk which is literally self hate. Anyway to each his own and remember to go inside yourself...peace
It's soo good what you said sadguru ji🙏☺
Thank you!
உலக மக்கள் அனைவரும் அன்பு ,அமைதி , ஆரோக்கியம்மாக வாழவைக்க உங்கலால் முடியும் .இதை மக்கள் ளிடம் சேர்க்க ஒட்டு மொத்த உலக அரசியல் தலைவர்கள் மற்றும் ஓட்டு மொத்த உள்ளுர் அரசியல் தலைவர்கள் மற்றும் மதவேறுபாடு இல்லாமல் மனிதன் என்ற உணர்வோடு உலக மக்கள் அனைவரும் உன்மையாக 100 சதவிகிதம் முயற்சித்தால் ஒரே நொடியே போதும்மே உங்கள்ளுக்கு குருவே .
plan is great ,work is hard, time is short ,mind has pain
Here trying to find peace after a brain injury this past year.
Namaste🤗 thank you again sadhguru fore your wise words💞
May I die as a blissed our failure. Bless me sadhguru 🙏🙌
Sadhguru I love you so much!!!
How to achieve this blissful state?
My God. The World still has not learned from Kyabje’s teachings about Success and Failure. Celebrities. Politicians. Millionaires. Anthony Bourdain. Robin Williams. Kate Spade. 🙏
Thank you sadhguru...❤❤❤
Youth is like a mist, you can not hold.
Blissful failure is better than miserable success
What if you want to succeed? Should you desire to succeed? Can you believe you can and will succeed?
Wonderful Guru ji
Thank you.
isn't it? isn't it so? yes or no? :))
I love when he Says that ❤
Es que te tiene que arder el corazón sí o sí.
(No puedo pensar otra cosa pq lo comprendo que es lo más probable por las circunstancias... Así que disfrútalo 😘)
¿Sabes? Esta mañana me he despertado y lo primero que he pensado es con "a ver qué me saldrías" que seguramente ya no sabrías qué comentar...
No me equivoqué y te quiero. Esto debería más que bastar.
Supongo que todo está supeditado al nivel de consciencia de uno mismo.
¿Dime que no la hemos ampliado y ampliado y ampliado... a nivel mundial?
Y sí: Tú mucho más que yo 😘
but what about the disappointment that xomes along the failure of a person, having great vision?
comes*
Only if Youth can think rationally now, we can do wonders.
Awesome.
Yes indeed
No words. Seems out of world.
नमन है।
Hare Krishna Hare Ram/ Jay gita maata
it is so obvious that those young people did not like that answer!! 😝
but, as one blissful loser to another, thank you for sharing the message, sadhguru! ☺️
I actually got this one 😅
There is so much pain in these words.
🙏🏼☺️☺️💚
As sadhguru says, it ok to be failure if u had a great vision. But atleast had achieved 15% of his goals. So just image how much he thought of achieving.
For a common dream of fulfilling his goals of buying house where in real he face the failure of making the ends meet .
Is in it . Spoils whole life meaning less.
I don't have that problem
0:30 3:02
what can you tell me about shared dreams
U got iim,u r achiever
What about other human
It is funny cause without people believing in "i made it" he would not have a theatre to talk to :D however i like his approach to a certain degree
Sit here for 8 hrs, ever notice how time goes. No Sadhguru, life goes
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🙏❤
0:04 windows sound lol
🌼🙏🏼
So true
I hate my face. At least my eyes. They look sunken and my eyelids are droopy. They feel dry and tired all the time. How come I can’t change my own body? Then I will never know anything about universe if I can’t even control my own body
Some days they are swollen and look much better but other days they feel so dry, drained and dead
Be happy u are healthy. People are out there with no hands legs and have chronic illnesses. Be grateful for what you got.
Well I was below average.
blissed out failure 😊😅
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First
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Mr guru, i see every human on this planet have a question for you . Except me . So .... ask me anything please ty.
Ehy they are bear feet
when my child become failure at school I will blame you !
Lol
i just want to be enough for someone
pepe le frog mangamoon I just want to be enough for myself
Then meditate. To know that you are enough you must reach the knowing that you are god itself. Nothing else will make you enough. Not even fame because famous people are committing suicide
be enough for yourself. it’s the closest to the best you can come
3-idiots movie shooting took place in this stage for chatur speech i guess ..
If only he had a way to get bhuta siddhi...
Second
modi ji is truely blissful
Ok thanks.
Blissed out failure all the way hahaha
🥰👍😂
This man is too much for me yoh
Constipated way of life😂
The narcissist sad guru and his smoke screen words that only trap and confuse and only convince the inarticulate
Why this cloud comes up on the top of my search about this issue instead of proper advice from professional people