😩💔I'M A SIDE CHICK AND MY MAN WENT BACK TO HIS WIFE 💃🏿👀 | PART 1. | FDV
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#sidechick #marriage #relationships #betrayal
He certainly is a DAWG!!! If a man tells me he is married, no matter what he says afterward that, I'm not listening because he is off limits! He can tell me all the stories he want that he is separated or leaving her etc it doesn't matter - he is MARRIED! If he will do that to his wife he will do it to the next woman. Cut him loose and get on with your life. Let him know that you know your worth and he most certainly does not deserve you my precious sister.
Period.
I second that..
Unless the divorce is finalised it is too risky. They can reconcile at anytime
I was raised to NEVER do to another woman what you don't want done to you. If you knew he was married you shouldn't have gotten involved.
Indeed…that’s that old school wisdom…👍🏾
Oh but the letter started with her saying they were separated
@@canesugar911 Separated is NOT divorce. It’s a time couples use for reflection.
Bottom line, my sisters: If he is any kind of married, STAY AWAY!!! Just...don't do it. Don't do it to yourself, don't do it to the wife, don't do it to his kids, to your kids...just, don't. He is not a man of honor if he could carry himself up to you knowing full and well he is committed elsewhere. He is dishonorable to himself, to his wife, and grossly disrespectful to YOU. Also, sis, consider what is says about you, that you would knowingly consort with such a man...once you know...it might be hard but run, sis, runnnnnnnnnnn!!! Future you will thank you...❤❤❤❤
Say that again my darling 🥰
Many go back when they realize child support payments. The inability to afford a divorce was a red flag.
Fumi, I don't think we could ever get tired of seeing you in this color; you look magnificent! The cliffhanger Fumi, the cliffhanger, how could you do that to us ?🤣😂🤣
Tell me about it. I saw that it was 16 minutes long. The video but yet still I let myself get so much into the story and now I am acting all surprised by this cliff hanger. Smh
Yes Fabulous!
Yes, the green look stunning on Fumi!
🤣😂😅😂 Funny already. He was not yours bc he was STILL married. Next time wait wait for the Divorce and healing🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Not really funny. Be careful what you laugh at….She was definitely foolish, but mature women don’t laugh at other women.
NOOOOO... Not another cliff hanger.... OMG!
BTW: You look lovely in green or any other color you wear. Love the earrings.
Yes , love the whole outfit, but the earrings said look at me, beautiful.
Downloading this to watch at bedtime toniiiiight.... I need a good eye roll and giggle from this gorgeous woman.
I already eye rolled her a mile away
I love how you just declare that this lady will meet a good man who will marry her, give her kids etc and you have no idea how huge that is to hear because I feel like a lot of women navigate dating with a lack mentality thinking this is as good as it gets never realising they are worth so much more. Thanks for the video aunty. P.S what are your 12 rules?
Thank you Fumi for addressing this. I don't understand women who thinks a married man will leave their wives for them. We must stand tall against this situation with a married man!!!
People always say this, but there are many married men who left their wives for another woman. I'm totally against it, but it happens and I think these women think it will happen for them too. The question is, why do women want a man who left his wife for you. You want to build your blessing on the misery of another woman?
😂😂😂😂😂I’m happy she got her heart broken. What made you think you could get a married man? You’re a home breaker sis. No matter how you explain it to be you had a hand in it. He was never your man. So far as there’s no divorce cert he’s OFF LIMITS!! it’s different when you don’t know but you did! It’s a life lesson, take it and learn from it. You’ll heal. I’m glad your heart got broken, now you have a lesson to keep. Have a blessed day!
Married = off Limits. Nothing else to be said I’m done
You are the Queen of a good cliffhanger :-). Can’t wait for Part 2!
WAS SHE REALLY IN LOVE WITH THIS GUY? A LOT OF PEOPLE MISTAKE LOVE FOR SOMETHING ELSE!!!!! GOD WILL NEVER SEND YOU SOMEONE ELSE'S HUSBAND OR WIFE!!! UNFORTUNATELY HE DOES NOT OWE HER ANYTHING.......JUST LIKE SHE OWES HIM NOTHING.......PLEASE MOVE ON! LESSON LEARNED......TAKE THIS LESSON AND TURN IT AROUND TO SOMETHING POSITIVE!!!!!!!
Ever considered having a podcast?You are such a good storyteller?
Sis knew the answer before she hit the SEND button. GIRL! God freed you up to meet your true match. Consider yourself lucky.
Yes, In Nigeria our mothers day was also last Sunday. Happy belated mother's day celebration to every mother.
As for the man, he is not man enough ( my opinion though ) and it's quite unfortunate that many women are going through same, He donot love the girl, he only used her to console himself for the time he was separated from his wife. Forgetting him and moving forward is the way for her.
And yes, he is a chicken.....
Thank you mummy fumi first time commenting here
You are loved so dearly.
Fumi you are delightfully glowing this morning love the green and the beat 💓. Fabulousity is on point.
That poor young lady believed he meant her good. Neither never ever did intend in staying with these women.
Each and every woman needs a good male friend, brother, or father in their lives to talk to about men. One that will not lead you wrong when it comes to men. Then we need to listen. Men know men and how they think. We as women we don't know men inner workings. Trust, it will be beneficial.
Not excusing him AT ALL, but he did it that way in order to avoid the showdown. Some side-chicks can not/will not accept a man's decision, no matter what. There will be the begging, threatening, blackmailing, promising etc etc...when hes already made up his mind to leave. So, let him. Life lesson here is to never get involved with someone else messy husband.
That look is giving me serious spring vibes😍 gorgeous
Noooo! Not a cliff hanger aunty Fumi! lol 😅😅Lovely episode. Please upload an episode of your 12 rules. I need to bookmark it and reference it regularly. Your Sister2sister episodes are the best. I love them all.
Being named Melissa and wondering if I'm the girlfriend Fumi is talking about 🤔😂😂
I had to pause the video to give a big shout out to Fumi for handling her response to this female so well. I would have lost it with my response. I am so tired of women who gets hurt by these married men, then still want to force their way back after they have learned the truth, that’s if they hadn’t known the truth in the first place. What goes around comes around. What you sow is what you will reap. I am sure that while that man was with you, his wife was having sleeping nights and stressful days. If I were the wife I would not even take him back. Some men are merciless.
Fuma I must say I love how you speak about these topics. You are honest and no nonsense. But you do it with compassion and understanding. You don't bash the woman but you give her the advise that she needs to hear.
Stop the nonsense, you choose to be the side chick from beginning, not the main coarse, knowing that he is a married man, so he treated you that way. Have higher standards, you settled for a married man, how crazy is that, move on, no explanation needed!! 💦💦💦🇨🇦
You look fabulous as usual. Your perfect choice of colours is highlighting your complexion & perfect skin tone! As always, you give on point guidance. Arian sister you have found your calling and radiate sincerity, empathy and all the qualities that makes you authentic. I love the history that highlights the guidance or insights you provide. I hope younger sister get the messages and strive to live their best lives valuing themselves and knowing their worth. Thanks for making time in your hectic schedule for these vlogs. Light & love to you and your family from Jamaica.
Whew Chile...Storytime had me clutchin my pearls...😳😳😳just when it gets good...meanwhile, you look AMAZING!!! 💃💚💚💚💚
I hardly comment on anything but I legit binge watched all the sister to sister episodes and the story times. I love your energy. You are an inspiration, thank you❤🇿🇦
Fumi? You are beautiful. Love your channel. I appreciate your empathy and advice. This happened to me too about two months ago. Just wanting the woman who wrote in to know that she is not alone. I am still healing and grieving. My guy went back after 14 months. I was lied to, manipulated and then ghosted for what I decided would be the last time. He left no explanation and mailed me my door key👀.. I thought we were fine. Thanks so much Fumi!
IT'S ABSOLUTELY OBVIOUS U DIDN'T WATCH THE WHOLE VIDEO.
@@FumiDesaluVold 😂
Fumi look like a doll.
Sorry lady he had never left the wife. Sorry to say but the husbands rarely ever leave their wives for the side, that’s a pipe dream. They will sell you a bill of good and string you along.
Little do you want to believe , some do and get sent back.🤣🤣
You’re truly blessed with a wealth of wisdom!
I love love the colors your wearing and the earrings are everything. The side chick takes a lot of losses. It’s not worth it. 🤷🏾♀️😳
Oh no a cliffhanger!!! Love the spring look Fumi, it’s everything ❤️ 🌸 🌺 💐 love 💗 💕
Don't date a man who is separated. Wait until the divorce is finalized. The pull is too strong. I'm skeptical about that!
Adding, ALWAYS ladies relationships with married men is only about sex. NOTHING more no matter what you think and or feel.
I love you so much Fumi. Ladies do not plan and build with a married man until those papers are signed.
Very true my darling 💯
"Melisa, guys say a lot of things" ........am taking this with me
Auntie fumi I really really loved your makeup outfit and everything 😍😍💕 you look GORGEOUS 😍
The only way they actually leave is if they have no choice 😃 Every grown ass woman knows that. 😏
What a cliff hanger Auntie Fumi😊. I can't wait to hear the ending. Even though I am suspecting that he might be.....,
My Sister 2 Sister hoodies got delivered today! In time for a whole new juicy S2S episode! Overjoyed. Love you Fums 😘😘xxxx
I missed sister to sister so much 😩😩
That green is gorgeous on you!! Your beautiful rich skin tone and that green ..... 🔥 🔥 🔥 🔥
Always looking fierce and fabulous Fumi😘💙🌹
I miss sister to sister…I have my popcorn and moscato ready.
The guys never loved her, he only wanted her pudenda!😄.
I can’t with the cliffhanger!!😱😱🤣🤣
I love the woman strutting in the intro.
We as women must understand that men will tell you want they think you want to hear. He was married, meaning he was never hers. I 🙏🏾 for her because she loves him. She’s in love to a man that belongs to someone else. He left but she stills wants him. #healing
Louder 🎤🎤🎤
Dear Dear Fumi, once again you got me with your story telling. I hadn't looked at the title and began to lean into the computer screen to hear what happened, when you and your friend arrived at her ex-boyfriends' house. You elegantly twisted in your chair and said 'I'll see you tomorrow, my darlings'. I can't wait! Thank you again for the message.
Fumi!!. How could you leave us hanging like this. lol
Lol omg the Cliffhanger is on Point.
The things people go through in life hang in there and take your time to mourn most probably you've learnt enough lesson and dearest you need to move on with your head high all of our love darling and also mama we love the beat 😘😘😘😘😘
I am LOVING those earrings *(your whole look is gorgeous)
Was the ending for me damn 😂😂🤣😂🤣😂😂
I love you mz fumi you make me so happy with your beautiful self and your lovely smile. God bless you and your family stay safe.
Ooooohhh...the suspense! Fumi, you are very wicked!🤣
Lmao oh my lord Auntie Fumi you had me cracking up in the beginning when you said “You see you confused me” 😂😂 I was reading along and was like “Wait what?”
A man can remarry- his ex (she gets tired of him) remarries but he still wants HER. We need to be so careful he's not still emotionally attached to his EX.
If he cheats on his wife, even if he had stayed, and what a cowardly way to leave, two years later he would have been doing the same to the side chick.
Hey Fumi! Would you ever do a tv show review? Like on the new netflix series young, rich and African. Would love to hear your thoughts ❤️
We as a women...we must no how to avoid married men please 😫🙏🙏💓 to avoid had i known at last
Can we get a tutorial on the makeup look. You are. Stunning
Love the makeup on you. Great spring vibes
Guess what more presents for me! That part LOL
Aunty Fumi steady milking all the Mother’s Days in all calendars😂🤣🤣
ugh the cliffhanger !!!!
I love the way you started your answer, purely, with love…my black sisters, take notes!
You were wrong for ending like that 😀😀😀😀😂😂 I can’t wait for part 2
Fumi you are glowing as well as putting topics of import on blast!
I'm at work, I'll be back ladies! Can't wait to hear this one.
Your earrings and outfit are fabulous as always.
Not the cliffhanger!!!
Oooh the cliffhanger
He has NO money for a divorce?? That means he cannot be with anyone else. Unbelievable, the audacity.
No I am sorry I can’t empathize to this sister. You are contributing for the other sister pain. You are playing with a man that you know is married and I garantee you that the wife doesn’t know you. Side chick… please let your sister deal with that painful marriage. Go find yours let that married man go.
Love, love, love your take on Mother's Day! We should ALL celebrate ALL the "Mother's Days"! *Blessed Be and Stay Well!*
Hi Aunty Fumi I just came across your UA-cam a week ago and watched your sister to sister episode and I thought why not ask my own question. Can you do an episode on: When your family decide to cut ties with you because you are dating a guy from a country they don’t like. My own situation is I am in a relationship with a Nigerian guy and my family do not like him because Nigerians are known to do Fraud and cheating. He doesn’t do any of that they don’t even want to meet him and his family but I still chose love now they blocked me and don’t want anything to do with me
Fumiiiiiiiii those EARRINGS!!!! They're screaming my nameeeee!!
I love your laugh and personality. I crack up when you do :)
The way you ended Part 1 of the story , was better than a suspenseful Netflix series!!
Excellent video. The cliff hanger!!! 🙃 My guess is that Melissa’s man and his wife had a new born baby!!! Can’t wait for episode 2
Iam now so curious. Can't wait for part 2 !
Aunty Funmi, on line Aunty to sure, Gbas!Gbos! I hail you, I appreciate you.
So glad to hear Adrienne is recovering well from Chicken Pox.
Can you inform me what learning program which Adrienne was spelling on a post 4 to 6 weeks ago. I want a better program for my grandchild. So glad Sister to Sister is back!
I love this look, outfit and everything! Looking gorg xxxx
Fumi, when I tell you those cliffhangers of yours get me every time! XD
I bet the "wife" was really another man
My thoughts too
😂😂😂
Sister dearest I always speak freely what I feel like letting others know but the rarest and hardest to find nowadays is HONESTY. I loved unconditionally for twenty two years and the lies was just too much . He refused to leave and since my love is exactly love we still share the home but I took myself away and is still celibate and stop counting the years lol. Honestly the home is much peaceful now and very civil. I call it weaning off from the penis 😂😂😂 and honey I am at my best because I love myself better. This Goddess me is divine and as soon as I am ready I know my true divine mate will come for I am now the one on men most wanted list 😍where I can choose and refuse. As for the time been, am just holding it down. After the Almighty, moi, meself, and I lol Love you sis and love to hubby and son. Bless-Ed love 💕
Ooooooh boy smh...the scenarios are running through my head. Can't wait till tomorrow.
Looking beautiful as always Fumi - loving the Spring vibes 🌼🌼🌼🌻🌻🌻🌸🌸🌸
The cliffhanger had me screaming Omg Aunty Fumi 😂😂 can’t wait for part two and the 12 rules
But how you gonna end the video on a cliffhanger like that, though???? 🤣🤣🤣
I love those earrings! 🥰🥰🥰
I love that DO NOT
Ahh you left us hanging my God. Love the look Auntiz powerful..
Ooooooohhhh fumiii u look beautiful asf 😍😍😍😍🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Fumi, I’m sitting on the edge of my seat, can’t wait till tomorrow.
Auntie Fumi!!!!!
What?!?
You had me on the edge of my seat with that story. 😳
Okay, okay. I'll see you tomorrow.😊
I ❤ your opening!
And the green top/dress highlights your skin beautifully.
FUNMI, always dazzling us with beautifully awesome colours... damn, black beauty 😍 🖤
Ohhhh Fumi, I went to go get something to drink, and you did me like that! LMAO Okay, I'll be patient and wait for tomorrow!!